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Speaker 1: Erica, Good morning, how you doing?

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Speaker 2: Good morning are how are you guys?

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Speaker 3: Erica, Welcome to the show Starego. So you're calling about

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Speaker 3: your boyfriend Hobby, not to be confused with Javier, ma'am,

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Speaker 3: who is palling his husband. I don't think that's your boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a different guy.

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Speaker 1: Speak of now or forever holds your place.

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Speaker 3: But what's going on with this this guy Hovey, who's

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Speaker 3: your boyfriend who's not palling his husband?

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Speaker 4: Yes, so I need your advice. Like I've been dating Hobby.

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Speaker 4: It's almost been a year to actually be a year

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Speaker 4: this Friday, and my best friend Cynthia like had gotten

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Speaker 4: really close to Hobby. Like they're close to the point

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Speaker 4: where you know, like they call each other bro and sis,

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Speaker 4: and like she'll like put him in a headlock and

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Speaker 4: like they'll Joe go round and like I just don't

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Speaker 4: know because the other day, like we were all at

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Speaker 4: the pool and stuff, and like Hobby goes to like

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Speaker 4: pick Cynthia up and jump in the pool with her,

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Speaker 4: and I'm just.

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Speaker 2: Like, why are you holding her like that? Like it's

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Speaker 2: it's a little like putting my intentnas up.

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Speaker 1: He gave her CPO that she didn't need.

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Speaker 3: She wasn't finishing movie, she wasn't in peril, but he

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Speaker 3: was doing chess co bread.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry, Eric, I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: They're rough housing in the pool and it's okay. So

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Speaker 3: you're like, all right, and so they're having a good time.

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Speaker 3: They seem very close to one another, Like what other

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Speaker 3: kind of stuff they're doing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like they just like joke all day and just

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Speaker 2: like little insiders that I didn't even know that they

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Speaker 2: had with each other kind of thing, Like it's just

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Speaker 2: a little too close for comfort.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's all right. So you're watching, So you meet

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Speaker 3: this guy and you guys get into a relationships. He

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Speaker 3: then becomes close with your friend after that. Yeah, so

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Speaker 3: they didn't know each other before. It wasn't like they

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Speaker 3: introduced you or something.

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Speaker 2: Oh like I introduced Simse to him.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So now they're closed and they're rough housing in

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Speaker 3: the pool, which in.

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Speaker 1: Itself sounds headlocks and stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: We're to say, all right, so look, I mean, and

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Speaker 3: you have concern about this, like you're starting to think,

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Speaker 3: well that they seem a little too close.

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, and then also like I got a d

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Speaker 2: m on ig the other day where it was from

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Speaker 2: a random page and they were just kind of like,

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Speaker 2: that's not your friend.

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Speaker 3: So you got a message from like an egg it's

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Speaker 3: like like an insider.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you got a message him a.

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Speaker 3: Fake profile saying like you should watch out because that

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Speaker 3: that to me is that to me is extremely suss

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Speaker 3: Like that's that sounds like somebody who is in the

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Speaker 3: no trying to tell you something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like I didn't. It wasn't a real page, so

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Speaker 2: I just don't know who it was. But I'm just

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Speaker 2: like I don't know about this guy, like you know, it's.

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Speaker 4: It's almost a year and I'm just like questioning her

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Speaker 4: question to check your.

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Speaker 1: Girl, right.

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Speaker 5: So I was just about to say, I do. One

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Speaker 5: of my friend's husbands is more of a touchy guy.

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Speaker 5: I do think it's really situational, but she doesn't care.

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Speaker 5: I don't care, and I know nothing whatever happen. It's

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Speaker 5: more him like he's touchy with me in a not

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Speaker 5: like a sexual way. So and he's completely innocent. So

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Speaker 5: I do think there's situation. I'm trying to think of.

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Speaker 3: A situation where I've ever like grabbed any of my

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Speaker 3: friend's wives or girlfriend and like throwing them in the

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Speaker 3: pool or so I don't think.

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Speaker 5: Stands together like and she thinks it's funny, like she'll

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Speaker 5: take videos and he'll like spin me around.

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Speaker 1: But we're not like making out.

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Speaker 3: And I'm not one of these people that just automatically

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Speaker 3: assumes that everybody who like is close with somebody else

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Speaker 3: that male female, that's baby, there must be something nefarious

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Speaker 3: going on. But I will say, like this is this

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Speaker 3: is really comfortable. And now there's a random DM some

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Speaker 3: of a fake profile is telling you that you should

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Speaker 3: watch out Like that seems to me like that's somebody

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Speaker 3: in your life or or his life or someone that

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Speaker 3: sounds to make somebody in the know trying to warn

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Speaker 3: you about something, because what are the odds of that?

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 2: And it's like me and her have been friends like

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Speaker 2: since high school days, so I don't want to believe

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Speaker 2: that she would, you know, like be shady behind my

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Speaker 1: But she likes with all your boyfriends.

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Speaker 2: No, that's the thing. She like, we I've had since

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Speaker 2: like yeah, like sleepover days, you know, And it's just

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Speaker 2: like I don't understand what's going on.

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Speaker 3: Has he made any suggestion of like the three of

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Speaker 3: you or anything any weird stuff like that. Like No,

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Speaker 3: an only reason I say that is not I'm not

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Speaker 3: trying to be like salacious. I'm saying, has he expressed

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Speaker 3: any form of interest in her that goes outside the

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Speaker 3: bounds of friendship?

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Speaker 1: In whatever form?

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Speaker 7: I mean?

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Speaker 2: The only thing, like I can remember is we were

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Speaker 2: all over at my house for like a game night,

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Speaker 2: and I told her to kind of like leave, you know,

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Speaker 2: like she was kind of like overstaying her welcome when

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Speaker 2: it was just us.

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Speaker 1: Girl she was hoping to bed friend. Yeah, oh no,

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Speaker 1: it's giving like this is a blacker Why this is happening?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this does not seem good to right and the

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Speaker 3: random stranger dmaking.

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Speaker 1: Really, it's like, what are the odds? Jersey Shore. Someone

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Speaker 1: wrote a lett the first night I own Erica. I

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Speaker 1: don't like this. This gives me the ick.

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Speaker 3: But let me take some phone calls on this and

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Speaker 3: we'll see what anybody, Because we're joking about a lot

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Speaker 3: of different stuff here, but this does seem, as somebody

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Speaker 3: said on the text, that all jokes aside, this is

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Speaker 3: sus for sure, no kidding eighty A dirty boy.

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Speaker 1: Man, it's my hobby.

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Speaker 8: If my husband ever grabbed one of you guys and

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Speaker 8: straddled you and read.

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Speaker 1: The wor he did that one time. Straddle had run

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Speaker 1: into the pool one time.

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Speaker 3: Last time we were at the pool together all of us,

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Speaker 3: and he strattled me. I thought that was weird. But

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Speaker 3: I don't want to settle. And I was like, whoa,

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Speaker 3: what's going on? And then you wanted me to come

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Speaker 3: down to the basement alone with the bobble hands like

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Speaker 3: this is let me, let me take some phocals on this,

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Speaker 3: have the radio on im. I just does not just

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Speaker 3: seems bad. Thank you, Eric, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Like I think you Yeah, I feel that.

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Speaker 8: When okay, I think that when a man has interest

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Speaker 8: in something else or someone else, I should say, I

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Speaker 8: think that there's like certain actions that are that are

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Speaker 8: then happening, you know what I mean. I think like Rufio,

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Speaker 8: you and I are friends, but I don't ever see you.

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Speaker 1: Like trying to like push me into a pool and

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Speaker 1: like me hanging out. That's exactly something rufe I would do.

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Speaker 1: We don't do.

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Speaker 8: Like like I don't know like this sexual no not.

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Speaker 1: So like that's what I don't know. He's trying to

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Speaker 1: change the cabbage in your bra for you was weird.

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Speaker 1: He's hungry.

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Speaker 8: No, I I just feel like typically, like you know,

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Speaker 8: like I don't know. When men do certain things, I

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Speaker 8: feel like a lot of it can be for a reason.

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Speaker 1: That's That's all I'm gonna say.

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Speaker 3: And especially no, when men do certain things, it can

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Speaker 3: be for a reason.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he's interested more about this.

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Speaker 8: I think it's more flirty in certain situations, like if

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Speaker 8: someone's husband. I think that's the keyword, right, someone's husband,

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Speaker 8: someone's person.

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Speaker 3: I would say unsolicited high level of comfort touching is

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Speaker 3: concerning to me, Like I don't know, and.

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Speaker 1: I hate to be this guy because I'm I'm not the.

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Speaker 3: Guy who's out there like everything's cheating and and I

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Speaker 3: don't believe that everyone's you know whatever. But like you're right,

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Speaker 3: I think there's certain things where it just it displays

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Speaker 3: a level of comfort that you have to ask, why

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Speaker 3: are you so damn comfortable?

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Speaker 1: Good point, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: Roughhousing as adults is also weird, Like I'm not like

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Speaker 5: getting in like a new gi as you said, No

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Speaker 5: one's calling me sis. Yeah, my guy friends like they'll

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Speaker 5: hug me when they see me, but they're not throwing

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Speaker 5: me anywhere?

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Speaker 1: How do you say? Your name? Is it Malise? I'm Malise?

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Speaker 1: Good morning? How you doing? What do you stay or go?

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Speaker 3: This woman is saying that her boyfriend and her and

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Speaker 3: her female best friend seem awfully close. And then there's

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Speaker 3: just a strange twist in all this, which is a

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Speaker 3: random DM from a source unknown saying, hey, watch out,

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Speaker 3: so someone whow where that's coming from?

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Speaker 7: If I ever got the hate girl message, it's to go.

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Speaker 2: Yep, oh, the hate girl message. No one must receive that.

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Speaker 2: I'm married, And if my husband was doing that.

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Speaker 7: While we were dating, I would.

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Speaker 6: Have been gone a long time ago.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean number one for me.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't necessarily love what's going on with out the DM.

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Speaker 3: The DM almost confirms the suspicion in some ways, because

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Speaker 3: who would take the time to do that unless they

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Speaker 3: need something, you know.

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Speaker 2: And it's a whole touching like it's they're so comfortable

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Speaker 2: doing that in front of you there.

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Speaker 7: I think they're doing.

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Speaker 3: Something yeah, because you know, not to use like reverse

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Speaker 3: psychology or whatever, but hey, look, you know, hey, we

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Speaker 3: do this right in front of you, like nothing to

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Speaker 3: see here. It's like, no, there's probably more to see

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Speaker 3: here maybe, but and again I hate to be the

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Speaker 3: paranoid guy, but like I don't like this whatsoever.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for calling. Have a great day.

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Speaker 2: Think you too.

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Speaker 1: I think Holly might be a dirty boy.

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Speaker 3: Man. Hey Titus, I love that name. How are you doing, Titus,

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Speaker 3: I'm doing awesome.

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Speaker 1: How are you? Good morning, Titus?

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Speaker 3: Good morning man. Thanks for being part of the thirteen.

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Speaker 1: What say you?

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Speaker 9: I'm saying that if you don't set a boundary, h

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Speaker 9: then there's everything limitless and it's going to to get worse.

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Speaker 7: Oh so, if you don't set a boundary that this

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Speaker 7: is unacceptable.

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Speaker 6: All this love w if he touchy feely?

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Speaker 3: No, yes, someone just texted something similar, saying, hey, they're

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Speaker 3: testing their limits to see how far they can go

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Speaker 3: right in front of you, right, which.

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Speaker 9: Is gonna be worse if you don't set a boundary.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, I think guys one.

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Speaker 9: Hundred miles people can pull around and full around, but

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Speaker 9: I mean they're they're doing it right in front of

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Speaker 9: you like that. Now you got to set a boundary

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Speaker 9: this and this is the only guy who already can't

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Speaker 9: be friends.

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Speaker 3: Well now I don't know about that, but but I

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Speaker 3: in this particular case, this sounds more than friendly. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: thank you, Titus, have a good day.

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Speaker 3: I don't agree with that, but I will say, uh,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's also different with like friends, you like guy

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Speaker 5: is a boundary if it's your.

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Speaker 1: Friend's man as opposed to like your own guy friend.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: And I think it's fair for her to say, hey, look,

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Speaker 3: I'm glad you guys are tight, but like it, I

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Speaker 3: really it's kind of embarrassing to me, you know what

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Speaker 3: would be fair for her to say that. I agree, Hey, Justin,

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Speaker 3: how you doing? Stay or go?

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Speaker 6: Oh, good morning, guys, I say go. From personal experience,

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Speaker 6: it never happens to me, You've never done it. But

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Justin, have a good day, have a

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Speaker 1: good big ice. Yeah. I don't know, Hey Dylan, how

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Speaker 7: Hey, how you doing?

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Speaker 1: Friend dealing man, there go.

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Speaker 7: Oh man, you know, I'm pretty sure that she should

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Speaker 7: I know that as man, we get called out for

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Speaker 7: almost guarantee you that he knows what he's doing. Guarantee

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 3: This is a bad deal too, because she stands to

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Speaker 3: together in fect This is a real well no, no,

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Speaker 3: you're right, but it doesn't make any less painful to

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Speaker 3: figure it out that way. Yeah, you're right. It's always

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Speaker 3: then you know, that's a double that's double your morning twice. Now,

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Speaker 3: thank you, Dylan, have a good day, man, glad you called.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for listening. Hey, Samantha, Yes, hi, there go.

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Speaker 10: I'm saying go, but maybe there should be a discussion.

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Speaker 10: Has she even told them that she's uncomfortable. That's one

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Speaker 7: For no reason.

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Speaker 3: But well, then see how gasolit they you know, how

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Speaker 3: It's not so, then I think that might be a tell.

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Speaker 10: Reaction was tell them everything, you know, like I mean,

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Speaker 10: if he's apologizing that she feels this way and validating

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Speaker 10: her feelings and things change going forward, maybe that's different.

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Speaker 10: But they do sound a little dirty doing that kind

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's it's this doesn't look good. Thank you, Samantha,

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Speaker 3: have a good day.

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Speaker 10: Thanks.

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Speaker 2: I love you that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love you too. Glad you called.