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Speaker 1: It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 2: You ever look back at a moment in your life

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Speaker 2: and think, oh, I wish that went different?

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Speaker 3: Are you thinking about it? I think about the day

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Speaker 3: I said my first contract here.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking of the time when I asked Mallory

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Speaker 2: to the high school dance who and she completely blew

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Speaker 2: me off in front of the entire student body. How

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Speaker 2: am I supposed to know that a mature, seventy year

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Speaker 2: old divorced librarian would actually have stay in?

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Speaker 4: There?

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Speaker 2: Are anyway I'm holding that we can help our listener

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Speaker 2: today not make the same horrible mistake that I did.

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Speaker 5: I still have regrets about it.

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Speaker 6: You can't walk into a library.

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Speaker 5: Now, No, but let's talk to her. Her name is Jennifer. Jennifer,

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Speaker 5: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi everybody, Hi.

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Speaker 2: And for your email said you got yourself into an

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Speaker 2: awkward situation with your boyfriend recently.

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Speaker 5: What's his name?

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Speaker 4: His name's Cody. We's been we've been dating for a

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Speaker 4: little over a year now. He's he's really great.

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Speaker 6: Oh that's cute.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we've been talking about moving in together once my

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Speaker 4: lease is up in a few months.

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Speaker 6: Okay, so this is like, you're in this for the

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Speaker 6: long haul.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, things, things has been great. A couple of weeks ago,

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Speaker 4: I got off to work at the end of the

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Speaker 4: day and Cody texted me that he was nearby and

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Speaker 4: asked if I wanted to grab dinner with him at

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Speaker 4: a restaurant there.

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Speaker 6: Okay, this all sounds great and normal.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, just high, kind of a rough day at work.

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Speaker 4: It was just, you know, well, that's good timing.

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Speaker 5: You're having a bad day, let me take you out.

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Speaker 5: That sounds like a great thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. It really cheered me up. So I go to

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Speaker 4: meet in there, and halfway into the meal, he gets

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Speaker 4: down on one knee and proposes to me.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I got.

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Speaker 3: It's like you were not expecting that at all the

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Speaker 3: way you tell this story.

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Speaker 4: I was caught completely off guard. I was like, still

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Speaker 4: in my work clothes. I had no idea this was coming.

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Speaker 1: She was in work clothes.

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Speaker 6: I mean, her nails probably weren't done, like she didn't know.

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Speaker 4: I just froze, like I totally froze. And then I

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Speaker 4: apologized and was like, oh, I'm sorry, this is just

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Speaker 4: so unexpected. Oh I just I made it so awkward.

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Speaker 6: Wait that was the first thing you said after.

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Speaker 4: That was the first thing I said. So I'm still frozen,

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Speaker 4: and people are staring at us, like people eating at

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Speaker 4: the restaurant. All the servers at the restaurant have like

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Speaker 4: literally stopped working and they're like waiting to see what happens.

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Speaker 4: It's just so painful. And so he kind of stands

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Speaker 4: up and like says to me, like, hey, can we

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Speaker 7: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because in his mind he's just expecting yes, Oh

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Speaker 2: my god, of course, and the entire restaurant erupts into applause.

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Speaker 5: He's more mature than me.

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Speaker 7: I would have just started crying and like, I hate

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Speaker 7: you ran out of the restaurant.

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Speaker 5: Well, she didn't say no. She did say no. Expected

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Speaker 5: like you're supposed to no yes.

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Speaker 1: Or no no.

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Speaker 6: Why why do you think you didn't just say yes?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. Maybe I got embarrassed. Okay, this isn't

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Speaker 4: something that we've ever talked about. We've never talked about rings.

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Speaker 4: I've never told him like, hey, you should ask my

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Speaker 4: sister if you're gonna do that.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that sounds.

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Speaker 5: Like it's supposed to be.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: So at this point, he's standing up in the restaurant,

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Speaker 3: You're still frozen.

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Speaker 4: And then what happens He asked changes like can we

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Speaker 4: go outside, like we can just talk to two of us,

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Speaker 4: and like I apologized again and was like, look, I

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Speaker 4: just was expecting this to maybe happen, like after we moved.

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Speaker 8: In together, you know.

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Speaker 4: And then he was like, Okay, well can I try again?

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Speaker 4: And then he like got down on one meet. No,

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Speaker 4: it was just weird. There was someone's dogs like pooping

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Speaker 6: Girl god, So he just failed.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and so I just kind of like I got

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Speaker 4: just like talk about this plate Like I don't know,

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Speaker 4: it just got It's just been so awkward. That was

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Speaker 4: two weeks ago, and like I want to fix it.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what to do. I need help. Like

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Speaker 4: he did something in a very vulnerable public way, and

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Speaker 4: I'm hoping going on the radio or talking to you

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Speaker 4: guys like maybe I keep grand just sure my way.

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Speaker 3: I gotta say, though, you should not feel guilty at all,

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Speaker 3: Like you know, as much as this guy sounds like

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Speaker 3: a hopeless romantic, like dude, you guys hadn't talked about it,

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Speaker 3: he's doing it in public. He's putting you under a

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Speaker 3: crazy amount of pressure.

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Speaker 1: But ring did you.

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Speaker 3: Get a look?

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's just like it's not very fair to you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: But the thing is, though, I really do want to

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Speaker 4: marry him, Like I did give him every signal that, like,

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Speaker 4: if he word to propose, I would say yes, even

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Speaker 4: though we didn't talk about it.

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Speaker 2: You know, So you really feel that way, Jennifer. You

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Speaker 2: feel like you actually do want to marry this guy

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Speaker 2: and you're not. You don't just feel guilty because he

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Speaker 2: proposed and you want to make him feel better.

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Speaker 4: No, I really want to marry him. I just was

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Speaker 4: like this awkward, Weirdoh I just ruined it and I

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Speaker 4: really want to fix it.

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Speaker 3: Have you told him like, hey, I really do want

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Speaker 3: to marry you. That was just bad timing.

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Speaker 4: Because we haven't been hanging out in person, Like they

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Speaker 4: don't know how to say that over text, Like I

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Speaker 4: feel like that's not enough.

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Speaker 2: And now every time you see a dog on the

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Speaker 5: You right back to that moment too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh you're supposed to say no.

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 2: Well, man, so it sounds like we're going to be

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Speaker 2: calling your your boyfriend.

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Speaker 6: Here he almost said, fiance, I say yes.

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Speaker 2: Yet it's not quite there, but we're going to try

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Speaker 2: and help smooth things over with him and let him

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Speaker 2: know that you do really want to marry him.

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Speaker 5: What okay this is I'm just making.

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Speaker 3: Sure this is a big, grand, romantic gesture, which obviously

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Speaker 3: he likes a lot.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, play a song, we'll come back.

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Speaker 2: We'll give you a little bit of advice, and un

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Speaker 2: less you call your boyfriend when we do your awkward

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Speaker 2: Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 1: Next, it's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 2: Gotta say, I never thought we'd hear a more awkward

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Speaker 2: marriage proposal than what happened to Brook.

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Speaker 5: And she got asked the big question in a swamp.

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Speaker 6: Oh, it was actually the high desert opposite.

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Speaker 2: Okay, out the romantic high desert next to the pile

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Speaker 2: of dead grass and tree.

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Speaker 5: Limbs and the vacant lot in the wilderness. But one

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Speaker 5: of our listeners, Brook just beats you.

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Speaker 2: She got proposed to in a restaurant and she wasn't

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Speaker 2: prepared for it, so she told her guy, Wow, sorry,

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Speaker 2: this is just unexpected, and then he.

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Speaker 5: Took her outside and proposed to her again.

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Speaker 3: Well, all she could coasturre it on was a dog

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Speaker 5: So she couldn't say yes to it.

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Speaker 2: But now it's been two weeks and she wants to

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Speaker 2: let her boyfriend Cody know, I do really want to

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Speaker 5: I just handled it wrong.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and hopefully we have some good advice before she

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Speaker 5: Brooke, what do you think you know?

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Speaker 3: He is down, This man is at his ego is

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Speaker 3: at the lowest point it's probably ever been, and he

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Speaker 3: just needs some good ego stroking. You need to tell

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Speaker 3: him why you love him. You need to just lay

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Speaker 3: it on thick, building up, build him back up.

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Speaker 9: Man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can do that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Yeah, I've never tried a compliment on him before.

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Speaker 5: We'll see how that goes. I know, Hose, what do

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Speaker 5: you think?

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Speaker 7: I think we can all agree, especially you, that that

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Speaker 7: was a cringey moment, super cringey. I guarantee you he

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Speaker 7: has replayed that a million times over.

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Speaker 1: And over in his head.

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Speaker 7: So my suggestion is, no matter what you do, don't

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Speaker 7: go from there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Wow, that's what I really that's legit. Okay, yeah?

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Speaker 8: Does that?

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Speaker 5: Do you feel like that helps you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I think that helped Okay, I've never heard anybody say

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Speaker 2: that we've helped them before.

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Speaker 5: I'm shocked and I don't know to sell.

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Speaker 6: I mean, how did this go wrong?

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Speaker 9: Though?

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Speaker 3: Like he loves you, he wants to marry you. You

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Speaker 3: guys just weren't communicating correctly. You're going to let him

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Speaker 3: to be fantastic.

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Speaker 5: It's all you're breaking up with you.

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Speaker 2: As long as no dogs walk by, then I think

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Speaker 2: we'll be good. So I'm going to dial his number

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Speaker 2: right now. We'll back away and let you do your thing.

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Speaker 4: Okay, thank you guys so much. I'm going to take

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Speaker 4: your advice. I'm going to start with the compliment to

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Speaker 4: kind of get things done.

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Speaker 5: All right, good luck, We'll be here ready to jump

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Speaker 5: in when you need us. Here we go.

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Speaker 8: Hello, Hi, honey, Oh hi babe, how are you? I

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Speaker 8: didn't recognize the number.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm okay. It's so good to hear your voice.

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Speaker 4: It's so nice to hear your voice.

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Speaker 8: Yeah you too, how are you?

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Speaker 4: I'm okay?

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Speaker 2: My day off?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, relaxing. I was actually looking at two pictures of

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Speaker 4: us from when we first met, and I was just thinking,

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Speaker 4: how you're even more handsome than you were when when

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Speaker 4: we met. I would say, you're like minimum twenty percent

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Speaker 4: more handsome, Like your stock's going up.

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Speaker 8: Well, hold the phone because I just moved Okay, so

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Speaker 8: I'm moving furnish around it, and I moved that dresser

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Speaker 8: bedside table, so now there's one on your side too.

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Speaker 8: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, you have no idea. Oh my god,

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Speaker 4: how many times I've kicked over that water glass on

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Speaker 4: the ground.

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Speaker 8: Thank you? All right, never again.

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Speaker 4: Well, now I won't wake you up in the middle

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Speaker 4: of the night.

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Speaker 8: Thank you. You can though.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm calling because I I just wanted to say

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Speaker 4: I didn't embarrass you. It's and I didn't react that

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Speaker 8: It hasn't worry about it.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't expecting it like I had like my work

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Speaker 8: I just like weren't like, no, I know, it's all

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Speaker 9: It was all on me.

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Speaker 8: I did not have like there's no rush, it's plenty

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Speaker 8: of time. I totally surprised you. We hadn't talked about

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Speaker 8: it before. So I just feel bad about that. So

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Speaker 8: don't even worry about it.

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Speaker 4: But but you know that I that I do want

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Speaker 4: to marry you, right like.

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Speaker 8: Oh okay, well, I mean yes, yes, yes, but then

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Speaker 8: also no, you know, like it was yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 8: until then I asked you to very I mean.

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Speaker 4: And I know, but it was just I'm not just

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Speaker 4: saying that though, like like I guess what I'm trying

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Speaker 4: to say is is I I'm want you to ask

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Speaker 8: Oh okay, Well that's different because I wasn't planning to

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Speaker 4: I just wasn't ready in the moment. I just knew it,

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Speaker 4: but not because I wasn't sure about you. Yep, okay,

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Speaker 4: will you give me another chance?

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Speaker 8: Yes, But here's the deal. If all right, if you

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Speaker 8: other way. We got to reverse it. What hell many

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Speaker 8: chance you're gonna.

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Speaker 5: Have to ask me.

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Speaker 8: Kidding right, No, no, No, that's it. I've been doing

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Speaker 8: it already, and you know I've been thinking about it.

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Speaker 8: It's only fair that if it's going to happen now

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Speaker 8: after after that, you got to ask me this time.

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Speaker 4: You really want me to propose to you? Yep, Okay,

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Speaker 4: I guess, I guess that's fair.

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Speaker 8: All right?

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Speaker 4: Will you marry me?

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Speaker 8: I need to think about it.

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Speaker 1: What what?

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Speaker 5: Hey, Cody, you're on the radio right now with Brook

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Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 6: It's a surprise proposal.

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Speaker 5: We didn't even know.

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Speaker 8: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: Not?

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Speaker 4: Sorry, sorry, Cody. I just I was trying to do

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Speaker 4: something public and romantic like you did, get out of

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Speaker 4: my comfort zone.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 8: Wait wait, wait wait, I'm a little confused. So so

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's something that we do occasionally called an awkward

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Speaker 2: Tuesday phone call. We were trying to help Jennifer because

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, which I gotta.

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Speaker 3: Say, good for you because we got to listen to

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Speaker 3: your conversation for owning.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you you handled it really well, Cody.

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Speaker 5: That was awesome, well until the.

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Speaker 9: End to be honest with you, I handled it well

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Speaker 9: today after having some time to process. Yeah, bro, I

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, I can understand.

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Speaker 6: It's okay.

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Speaker 2: She told us about how the proposal went down at

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying, I understand why you feel a little

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Speaker 8: Did you tell you about the doggy dookie?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, it is about it, Jennifer.

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Speaker 6: Why did you just propose to him?

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Speaker 4: Because I loved him and he asked him to and

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Speaker 4: I want to marry him, Like I want to marry.

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Speaker 7: Because I know you're not used to this, but you know,

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Speaker 7: you got to go get a ring for him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, may have to ask.

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Speaker 4: For a hand, not even not you just don't do

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Speaker 4: it over the phone.

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Speaker 5: Well, I don't know if he is twenty percent more handsome.

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Speaker 4: Than you was a day ago, so she couldn't resist,

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Speaker 4: Like haven't you guys been together.

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Speaker 6: Like a year?

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Speaker 9: But also also I was just kidding when I said

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Speaker 9: I don't know, I have to think about it.

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Speaker 8: I thought we were just joking on the phone.

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Speaker 3: Ice Okay, okay, Wow, can we redo, are we going

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Speaker 3: to actually do it?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Do we want to try it again? I don't know.

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Speaker 5: That doesn't feel very It's like I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: You don't I mean, don't want me to ask you?

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Speaker 9: No, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 8: I want to ask you.

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Speaker 9: I want to ask you. I want to do it up.

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Speaker 8: I want to do it up right.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, we'll let you do it right now if

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Speaker 8: No offense to the radio people of the world, but

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Speaker 8: I think I could come up with something a little

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Speaker 8: more romantic than that.

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Speaker 2: We have a bed of music that we can play.

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Speaker 5: We can play whatever music you want. Yeah, random, let's

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Speaker 5: pick something. Yeah, you're not going to get that anywhere else.

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Speaker 9: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 8: I appreciate it. But now I'm gonna have to do

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Speaker 8: something that somehow that tops the previous thing that I did.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I think. I don't think you have to work

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Speaker 6: hard for that code. Just do it in private, okay.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, do it in front of that new bedside table.

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Speaker 5: Just bedside tables.

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Speaker 6: Make Joni pretty high.

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Speaker 1: Water.

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Speaker 9: I'm just trying to take care of my baby.

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Speaker 8: That's all.

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Speaker 3: Make it okay? When you do finally propose Will you

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Speaker 3: do us one thing and send us a picture or

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Speaker 3: video if you get them.

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Speaker 5: I want a picture of the bedside table looking Jeffrey

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Speaker 5: in the morning.