WEBVTT - 9021 Over To You 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:13.680 With Jenny Garth and Tori Spelling Happy to hear happy, 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:20.640 It's can you believe it? Two? Three? Yes? How how 0:00:20.800 --> 0:00:23.480 was it for everyone? I want to know? Yeah, let 0:00:23.560 --> 0:00:29.000 us know. Let us know. My mom turned eighty. Oh me, me, 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:34.560 Memester turned eighty on New Year's Day. So very very 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:37.080 grateful that to be ringing in the new year with 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:40.720 my mom and she's doing well and she's so so 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:44.280 happy because all of my daughters were here to celebrate 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:49.360 her and her daughters. It was really special. I love 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:52.640 it and we love you guys. So we have a 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:57.360 special episode today. That's right. It is called nine O 0:00:57.480 --> 0:01:02.120 two one over to you episode. Yes, it's all on 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:05.880 the fans' literally handing it over to the fans to 0:01:05.959 --> 0:01:10.319 call in and guide us through this one without hesitation. 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:13.000 Let's do it. Let's call. Let's get into caller number one. 0:01:13.440 --> 0:01:19.039 Are you there a caller? Hello, labies Hi, how are 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:23.680 you welcome? Megan? Right? Megan? Right? Where are you right now? 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:26.840 Where are we talking to you? I am in my 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:30.360 Dallas office. I work for a marketing firm here in Dallas, 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:33.679 and we are actually moving offices. So everything's kind of 0:01:33.720 --> 0:01:36.560 scattered and stacked because we literally are moving out next week. 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:39.919 So where I am right now, I'm packing up, packing 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:44.240 up the office. Wow, that sounds fun. Yeah. What should 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:46.200 we do with nine, O two and O MG in 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:49.560 the new year? Um? What would you like to see 0:01:49.600 --> 0:01:53.280 from the podcast? I think, I well, I love her 0:01:53.320 --> 0:01:56.040 as it is, but if I if my career, I 0:01:56.080 --> 0:01:58.240 think one of my Christmas wish, I'd love to see 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:01.120 some of the bigger name asked members come on as 0:02:01.160 --> 0:02:05.040 guests and kind of talk about us two Okay, Okay, 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:10.000 it's because it's really it's so it's it's such an 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:12.560 iconic show and and and and I've ben in my 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:14.880 adult years, I've I've rewatched it. I want to say 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:18.600 one or two times, um, just because I think I 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:21.200 was pregnant around aternity leave. I can't remember the last 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:23.639 time I did that, but it had come on I'm 0:02:23.680 --> 0:02:27.680 like pop or soap net so one of those networks, 0:02:28.160 --> 0:02:30.799 and I got sucked in again and I started dvring 0:02:30.880 --> 0:02:32.600 and and even my husband was like Thistle Show like 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:34.239 two years old, and I'm like, guess that it's so 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:38.160 good still um um, But but I think it's fun 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:39.920 to kind of go back, and it's it's fun to 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:43.239 hear your perspective from from from so many different parts 0:02:43.240 --> 0:02:45.880 of it, from making it and or being or seeing 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:48.600 the characters again for after so many years. But I'd 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:51.160 love to know, um, you know, get some perspective from 0:02:51.280 --> 0:02:53.200 from some of those other past members. I think would 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:56.680 be super fun. Well we'll put it out there. You 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:58.440 put it out there, We'll put it out there and 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:01.560 it will happen. I feel it. Okay, Yes, that would 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:05.800 be great. How do you feel about Jen likes organization 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:10.520 and she likes an order, So Amy and I are 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:12.200 kind of all over the place and we're just like 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:17.520 you get excited, like can we go? Do you like 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:22.920 it in order or just like passion statements? I'm the 0:03:22.960 --> 0:03:26.359 witness here. Sorry, No, that's okay. I like I think 0:03:26.400 --> 0:03:29.200 I like it more in an orderly in order we 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:32.520 passion I think with a with a few passion statements. 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:35.400 Um thrown in is kind of like that's just the 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:38.360 way that my mind works too, um, and that that's 0:03:38.440 --> 0:03:40.520 that's the way I operated my average. So I think 0:03:40.560 --> 0:03:42.440 I prefer it that way and I love it, and 0:03:42.480 --> 0:03:45.600 I like how Jenny is like, okay, well let's go 0:03:45.600 --> 0:03:47.480 back to this because we were jumping in too far. 0:03:47.560 --> 0:03:49.280 And let's just back it up. And I'm like, yes, 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:50.800 let's back it up, because there's a lot of thing 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:53.080 you know, so so I think my mind kind of 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:55.640 looks like that too. That's just one. That's one girl's opinion. 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:58.760 Everyone's different. They love to jump right to the meat 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:03.320 of the episode, right to the middle. Excited. When I 0:04:03.360 --> 0:04:06.880 think about really iconic couples of you know, the two thousands, 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:09.480 you kind of think of Carrie and Big and and 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:12.600 and um Ross and Rachel and and the third one, Mom, 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:16.120 this is Donna and David. But for some reason, Kelly 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:18.960 and Dylan or Brenda and Dylan don't really pop onto 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:21.720 my list. And I'm wondering, do you ever think about 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:24.039 do you ever think about, like what would who? What 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:26.080 are some other couples that might compare to the three 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:29.680 that I just that I just listened of that time frame. 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:32.479 But I don't think Kelly and Dylan or Brenda and Dylan, 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:37.320 we're a couple long enough to resonate as a couple, 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:42.000 like there was always breakups and all the things that 0:04:42.000 --> 0:04:44.240 went and then they all went their different ways, all 0:04:44.240 --> 0:04:47.919 the characters in their different ways. Um, but I feel 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:51.880 like you're asking us you know, what's that Brandon Kelly? 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:54.880 I think Brandon and Kelly. Yeah, see in my mind though, 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:59.479 so I'm interrupting my mind. I thought of Brenda and 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:03.719 Dylan as like such an iconic couple, and then watching 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:06.200 it back now, all these years later, I'm like, wow, 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:09.279 they were together such a short time, but it back 0:05:09.360 --> 0:05:11.920 then it just felt like huge because they blew up 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:14.840 so much. I guess, yeah, so times so timing that 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:17.400 that that that's a good answer. But even though I 0:05:17.440 --> 0:05:20.440 hope but other shows you mean, but yeah, well my 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:22.479 question was twofold. It was that, And then you know 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:25.200 who in your mind, who are some of the other 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:27.479 kind of iconic characters that kind of are at that 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:30.200 Carrie and Big Ross and Rachel Donn at David level? 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:32.600 Can any can you? Can you think of any? I know, 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:36.800 it's it's sort of the first thing that came to 0:05:36.920 --> 0:05:40.520 my mind was from Cheers with Sam and uh what's 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:46.280 her name? Dan? Diane? H good one? Okay, okay, uh, 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:53.000 I got nothing okay. And then another one of my 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:57.040 super big, big burning questions when Kathleen Robertson, is that 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:58.560 did I say your last same right? Was? Is it 0:05:58.640 --> 0:06:03.320 Robinson Player's character when she went the show, none of 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:06.640 the other characters kind of like addressed it in the storyline. 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:08.960 It was like, Okay, she's on the beach with Steve 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:11.040 and they're saying they're goodbyes, and then she walks off 0:06:11.160 --> 0:06:13.919 and no one talks about it again. I know, we 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:16.520 haven't gotten there, and we haven't gotten there yet. Wait 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:19.279 a second, I don't know what's happening. I know, and 0:06:19.320 --> 0:06:22.000 so I tho, but I know, I know. But okay, 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:24.919 so it's not like what well that happened all the 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:28.040 time on our show. Things would disappear and then not 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:31.240 be talked about again. Yeah, maybe, but I felt like that, 0:06:31.360 --> 0:06:33.760 And even when I watched it back, I remember thinking 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:36.280 that as my young self, being like, why didn't her 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:39.280 roommates just even when they went to the graduation party 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:41.920 and I know it's skipping so far ahead and Jinea 0:06:41.960 --> 0:06:44.480 I don't remember, but it was like, why didn't they say, oh, 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:46.920 like Claire's left so sad or our roommate just moved out. 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:48.640 I don't know. It was just like never to be talking. 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:52.440 I just thought it was at all, well, we definitely 0:06:52.480 --> 0:06:55.200 want Kathleen, we want Kathleen on the show, and she 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:58.080 was gonna come on the beach episode Beach House episode, 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.800 but she was in Jamaica with her family, so we'll 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:03.560 have to ask her how that went down because we 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:07.200 don't remember. I know, I feel like it's out of sight, 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:11.160 out of mind. Isn't that the expression? They really took 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:14.320 that to the next level on our show all the time, yea, 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:18.040 But there was so much story to tell that they 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:20.200 had to move on. I guess yeah. And then my 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:26.720 last one was um and Antonia Tony Machette's character, Rebecca. 0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:31.160 I wondered if there was any um what what were 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:33.080 your feelings toward her when you were when you were 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:35.040 filming and things, because you you guys talk a lot 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:41.200 about how even though it's it's, you know, fictional versus reality, 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:43.440 but there was you guys were young, and there was 0:07:43.560 --> 0:07:46.000 a little bit of like wordlines sometimes even when you 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:49.360 weren't filming, about feelings towards other cast members, And so 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:52.080 I wondered, what was your what were the feelings towards her? 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:55.840 Because her character alternately stole the heart of doing so 0:07:55.880 --> 0:07:59.400 I wondered what was what was the feelings to herd 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:01.800 on towards you know, during filming an onset and when 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:03.240 she came on to the show. I always kind of 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:07.960 wondered about that. Rebecca was really sweet. She was very 0:08:09.280 --> 0:08:12.000 easy to get along with, you know. Yeah, I just 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:14.880 remember us. I mean you could speak differently because obviously 0:08:15.000 --> 0:08:18.280 Kelly and Dylon, but I just Rebecca Gayard was so 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:24.000 like we became instant friends, and she was friends with everybody. Um. Yeah, 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:27.040 when I thought, if I'm being honest though, like I 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:33.360 would say, from Kelly slash Jenny's perspective, I probably did 0:08:33.440 --> 0:08:38.320 experience feelings of jealousy or like, don't you know, totally 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:42.840 normal and I didn't really like it that that happened, 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:46.400 But it happened with Kelly too, So yeah, I can't 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:50.080 you know, you can't can't be like both ways, right right? 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:54.320 And I and from a viewer, I thought that for 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:57.880 her and for the best match of any of them, 0:08:58.040 --> 0:09:02.120 and that he I was horrified when when when she 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:04.320 went off the show and the way she died, and 0:09:05.080 --> 0:09:07.760 I remember feeling just like, oh my god, I was 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:10.880 so sad the way that that happened. Um, And I said, 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:13.280 but I always kind of wondered about, you know, what 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:15.760 were the feelings toward her during and things like that. 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:18.120 Just because there is. It is part of you guys 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:19.800 have talked about in the past. So I wanted to 0:09:19.880 --> 0:09:23.840 ask that I remember. I don't. I don't remember their 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:27.200 storyline now, but I'll be so excited to watch it back. 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:31.840 But um, what season is that even? I think, I 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:35.440 want to say five or six? I want to say six. 0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:38.800 I don't. I don't remember exactly this season. Um, I 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:41.680 want to say like five or six. I remember filming 0:09:41.960 --> 0:09:45.160 a scene on a bluff, like a wedding scene. Is 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:49.240 that right to that's their wedding? Okay, I can see 0:09:49.280 --> 0:09:52.679 that in my it was really cold, it would be, 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:55.320 but I remember thinking, this is so beautiful. I wish 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:59.520 that was Kelly. I wish that was my character sad. 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:03.440 But also what we're talking about seasons, I wanted to 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.319 to ask, where when did you guys think that the 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:08.840 show was in its prime? For me, it was like 0:10:08.880 --> 0:10:11.520 around that time, around seasons five and six, when Jamie 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:13.360 Walters was on the show. There was just so many 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:16.080 good things happening and so many of the storylines. I 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:18.199 wondered when you guys thought the show was like and 0:10:18.320 --> 0:10:21.880 it's true prime. Oh my gosh, that's impossible for me 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:25.480 to answer because I don't remember, like I haven't seen 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:27.840 them yet, so I once I watched it all back, 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:31.880 I'll be able to really answer that better. But for now, 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:34.560 I'm gonna just say season one because it was just 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:37.520 so fun to get to know everybody and and see 0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:40.560 them all and learn about them. Yeah. I definitely always 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:43.400 say the college years, just because I remember so much 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:47.360 fondness of those scenes and so far. You know, we're 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:50.840 rewatching season four and I'm like, m was I wrong? 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:54.160 But I think you're right. It's one season five hits 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:57.880 that I really got excited about stuff. I can't wait 0:10:58.240 --> 0:11:01.320 something to look forward to. Agan, Thank you so much 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:04.680 for helping us with our nine O two Over to 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:21.600 You episode. Happy to Okay, care, okay, okay, okay, Now 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:26.960 we go to call her number two. Tanya is our 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:31.400 next yes on the nine O two one over to You? Okay, 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:36.439 I just like saying it. I'm gonna you say it. Well, Hi, 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:42.120 how are you our glasses on? Are you you can 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:45.839 keep them on? It's just okay? Thank you? Where are 0:11:45.880 --> 0:11:48.800 you Tanya? Right now? Where in the world are you? Okay? 0:11:48.960 --> 0:11:53.080 I live in Newport Beach, California. I'm in Orange County. 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:57.720 So not too far phone you guys. No, and um, yeah, 0:11:57.920 --> 0:12:03.280 I have two kids and and yeah, I'm just I'm 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.400 at home. My in laws are going to pick up 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:09.360 my kids from school at three o'clock. And Harry, I know, 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:11.880 be a part of our podcast. Thank you for being 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:16.920 here today. Thank you. This is our over to you episode. 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:22.600 So we're handing it over to you podcast. Oh my goodness, 0:12:23.080 --> 0:12:27.160 good luck. It's all on me. Okay, okay. Well. Um. 0:12:27.280 --> 0:12:30.319 The very first episode of Beverly Hills nanna to know 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:36.040 that I saw was UM season one, episode eighteen. I 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:38.800 only know this because I looked it up. UM. It 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:46.400 aired on um Marche synopsis. It's only a test, it 0:12:47.080 --> 0:12:50.840 was called, and it was the one where Brenda does 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:54.320 a self breast exam and she finds a lump. It 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:57.479 was the first episode I'd ever seen, and it prompted 0:12:57.520 --> 0:13:00.320 me to do the same. I had never done a 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:04.640 self breast exam before, and um, I think it was 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:07.440 the very first time that made me spring into action 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:11.960 without parental prompting. And so I did the same. And 0:13:12.040 --> 0:13:15.640 I actually did to find a lump. So threw my 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:19.240 whole house into this tizzy, and my mother made an 0:13:19.280 --> 0:13:21.320 appointment with the doctor. I saw the doctor the next 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:27.880 day and everything was fine. But I mean, apart from 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:31.800 seeing a show with kids my age that looked like me, 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:33.920 that we're going through the same types of things I 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:37.040 was going through. I was nineteen at the time. Um, 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:40.120 and then to have this, you know, this, this action 0:13:40.200 --> 0:13:42.480 that I took on my own accord because of something 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:45.640 I saw on TV was just I mean, that's invaluable. 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:47.640 And I know I wasn't the only one. I know 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:50.719 that you guys have had many storylines where you've done 0:13:50.760 --> 0:13:53.560 that for other people. So for that, I thank you. 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:57.720 I am lucky that it was nothing, But yeah, I 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:01.240 distinctively remember that, you know, that moment when I saw 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:03.920 that show, and well, we do hear that a lot. 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:06.760 But it's it's interesting when you break it down like that, 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:11.040 because watching this show back then was such a different 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:14.720 experience for teenagers than they had ever had before that. 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:18.560 You're right. It was seeing characters that they could really 0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:22.360 relate to and seeing them go through real life things, 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:25.560 and that was what I think made such an impact 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:28.840 on our audience. And now why still to this day 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:32.600 there are fans of the show that are you carved 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:35.320 out a place we carved out a place together, you know, 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:39.640 exactly exactly. Yeah, I know, I'm I know, I'm not 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:42.760 the only one that experienced something like that. And then 0:14:42.800 --> 0:14:45.080 the other thing we're sharing that with us that it 0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:47.280 is nice to know, like all these years later, that 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:49.600 it did have such an effect on people and really 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:52.160 help people get through because it is it's like we're 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:56.280 in way different decade now, obviously, but it's still like 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:59.720 teens and young people and humans in general, we go 0:14:59.800 --> 0:15:03.760 through the same issues. Yeah, there's nothing that compares to 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:06.400 that me too factor, you know, like, oh she does 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:09.160 that as well, or they they're going through that. I 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:11.760 totally relate. You know. It's like hearing a a song 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:14.400 that's really meaningful, or reading something in a book that 0:15:14.640 --> 0:15:17.080 just like wow, I never could have put that into 0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:19.680 words or you know, quite like that. And so there's 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:22.880 someone out there that it gets me, you know. Um, 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:25.840 So that was really meaningful to me, and I mean 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:28.760 I was hooked from from day one. It's like, wow, 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:32.040 I had that experience. And then my sister at the time, 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:35.000 who would have loved to have been here, leah, Um, 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:37.440 she was seven, so she wasn't able to watch it 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:40.920 at the time. My parents were living overseas. My sister 0:15:40.960 --> 0:15:43.760 and my parents were living overseas, and so I would 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:48.760 record six or eight episodes, and you know, because back then, 0:15:49.040 --> 0:15:51.720 we had to wait a week until the next episode 0:15:51.720 --> 0:15:54.320 came on. So I would record six or eight UM 0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:56.200 episodes at a time and send them to her on 0:15:56.240 --> 0:15:59.880 a VHS tape. And I swear we started the ben 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:03.480 Jing trend before it was a thing, because she would get, 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:06.920 you know, a VCR tape and she'd sit there and 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:11.360 watch episode after episode after episode after every So that's 0:16:11.360 --> 0:16:15.480 how she got up. I remember doing that. I remember 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:18.800 that clunky VHS tape and you had to hit in, 0:16:19.120 --> 0:16:24.040 you had to push record, like it seems so archaic now, yeah, 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:29.680 that's what we used to do. Yeah, and the most binger. Yeah, yeah, 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:34.400 it was great because I mean I recorded I recorded Dynasty, 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:39.200 I recorded not Landing, all the spelling, you know, franchise. Um, 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:42.400 I think I recorded Dallas, but definitely nine O two 0:16:42.440 --> 0:16:45.800 one out. And she loved it. Oh my gosh. So 0:16:46.080 --> 0:16:48.880 that was she was only seven then, well she was 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:52.000 seven when I saw the first episode, and then it 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:55.400 was a few years later when she was probably like yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:16:55.520 --> 0:17:00.880 middle school, high school, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, it was. 0:17:00.960 --> 0:17:03.040 It was a few years later when I started doing 0:17:03.080 --> 0:17:06.160 that for her, so, um, yeah, so she's a big 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:09.240 band too. And then she remember when she bought the 0:17:09.240 --> 0:17:14.520 the ten year um the d d yes and she 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:18.160 still has it. Yeah, and so we would remember that episodes. 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:19.600 Let's watch it, you know, we have to find it, 0:17:19.640 --> 0:17:22.840 and we'd watch those. So that was fun. Later on, Yeah, 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:27.160 makes tapes, you guys, Oh my gosh, yes, I know. 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:30.560 So we grew up in the best time ever. I feel. 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:33.320 I feel like playlists just aren't the same, Like because 0:17:33.359 --> 0:17:35.880 you had them, you have to decorate them and give 0:17:35.960 --> 0:17:40.320 them to someone, not just be like, yeah, here's my 0:17:40.359 --> 0:17:44.440 here's my Spotify list. Yeah, I know, right, I agree. 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:48.199 I agree. Well, we're so grateful to meet you and 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:50.479 get to talk to you and hear your stories. Thank you. 0:17:50.600 --> 0:17:54.360 Oh you're awesome. Thank you. Well I don't I did 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:58.359 over you anytime, Tanya, A little crop, did a little crap, 0:17:58.400 --> 0:18:01.040 I did a little crep um. So I just have 0:18:01.080 --> 0:18:03.159 a couple of questions. You know, it's so hard. I 0:18:03.240 --> 0:18:06.880 know you guys have been asked everything under the sun. Um, 0:18:06.920 --> 0:18:09.040 but a couple of things, I mean kind of I 0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:11.320 guess going back to some things that you've talked to 0:18:11.440 --> 0:18:16.560 on the podcast. Um, you know, especially like Kelly's character 0:18:16.760 --> 0:18:21.080 between rape and disorder and eating disorder, excuse me, and 0:18:21.160 --> 0:18:25.120 almost getting sucked into a cult, and abuse and physical 0:18:25.520 --> 0:18:28.080 you know, physical abuse and all these different things that 0:18:28.240 --> 0:18:31.640 you as an actor went through, and of course tore 0:18:31.760 --> 0:18:35.640 your character had some very similar things that they put 0:18:35.680 --> 0:18:39.000 you through. I feel like that really messes with your 0:18:39.040 --> 0:18:42.560 psyche and future relationships. And I was just wondering what 0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:46.760 your advice would be two young actors on how to 0:18:46.920 --> 0:18:50.560 sort of deal with that. Like, you're a professional, you're 0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:53.239 an actor. You're getting into those scenarios and dealing with 0:18:53.280 --> 0:18:55.360 those things, but at the end of the day, when 0:18:55.400 --> 0:18:58.639 you go home, it's it's really you. How you know, 0:18:58.680 --> 0:19:02.640 what would you tell young today about how did how 0:19:02.640 --> 0:19:07.679 to deal with that? Um, you're right, it does have 0:19:07.760 --> 0:19:14.159 a pretty profound impact on your growth, your emotional growth. Um. 0:19:14.600 --> 0:19:17.400 Why do you think most actors this are a little google? 0:19:19.520 --> 0:19:23.159 It's true. Um, but I would have to say my 0:19:23.240 --> 0:19:30.000 advice would be two, really invest in yourself, like get 0:19:30.080 --> 0:19:34.760 to know who you really are as a person, getting 0:19:34.760 --> 0:19:39.120 therapy and really really really get to know yourself, so 0:19:39.160 --> 0:19:43.119 that then playing all these other things it can be 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:45.240 a job for you and you can turn it off 0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:48.160 and go back to that person that you love so much, 0:19:48.200 --> 0:19:51.960 your best friend, yourself, and and have that safety of 0:19:52.680 --> 0:19:58.760 you know, real life versus non reality. That is good 0:19:58.800 --> 0:20:01.639 advice because think about it, like thirty years ago when 0:20:01.720 --> 0:20:05.600 we were doing this, nobody was telling us talked about 0:20:06.320 --> 0:20:10.160 mental health and you know, like just everything, like everyone's 0:20:10.200 --> 0:20:13.719 so aware now how to really be your own advocate 0:20:13.880 --> 0:20:17.480 that you can. And back then, I feel like I 0:20:17.480 --> 0:20:19.920 don't know about you, Jim, but like I don't need 0:20:20.119 --> 0:20:22.960 if I'm thinking about, like wow, all the like storylines 0:20:23.000 --> 0:20:25.119 that we did have to deal with. I feel like 0:20:25.160 --> 0:20:26.840 we just went home and just pushed it down and 0:20:26.880 --> 0:20:29.320 like okay, go on, go back to Mark the next day, 0:20:29.400 --> 0:20:31.879 go home be you know, you would go home and 0:20:32.240 --> 0:20:35.600 to your boyfriend, a girlfriend or spouse at the time 0:20:35.680 --> 0:20:39.320 and still so young, and you would be altered, like 0:20:39.800 --> 0:20:44.160 you had had a really traumatic experience and they would 0:20:44.200 --> 0:20:46.399 be like how is his work? And what's for dinner? 0:20:46.600 --> 0:20:49.760 Like you couldn't relate to the person at home at 0:20:49.760 --> 0:20:52.119 all because we lived in such a bubble of this 0:20:52.240 --> 0:20:57.920 experience that we were going through. Yeah, yeah, interesting. The 0:20:58.119 --> 0:21:03.080 question that you, um, this is this is uh, this 0:21:03.160 --> 0:21:05.560 is a question for my sister. She wanted to know 0:21:06.320 --> 0:21:08.840 what were your favorite ways to promote the show. You 0:21:08.880 --> 0:21:14.080 guys did the mall tours, you did in person promotion, 0:21:14.440 --> 0:21:18.520 maybe you were, um interviewed for magazines. What was your 0:21:18.520 --> 0:21:21.480 favorite and why? And was it more comfortable being on 0:21:21.520 --> 0:21:25.719 your own or with fellow cast mates. You. First of all, 0:21:25.760 --> 0:21:29.399 you're the winner of over to you because you've asked 0:21:29.400 --> 0:21:33.760 two questions that we've never heard before. Really, Oh my gosh, 0:21:34.000 --> 0:21:38.080 we are loving you. Yeah, okay, never leave us. Okay. 0:21:38.119 --> 0:21:40.879 Favorite way to promote the show, um, they would send 0:21:41.240 --> 0:21:43.120 I remember you didn't get to do this store because 0:21:43.119 --> 0:21:49.040 you didn't travel, but they would send us on touring appearances. 0:21:49.840 --> 0:21:53.600 I did one in Israel with a few other cast mates, 0:21:54.280 --> 0:21:56.600 and that was amazing because we got to have this 0:21:56.680 --> 0:22:00.000 incredible experience and get to know all these amazing fans 0:22:00.000 --> 0:22:02.439 from another country. Um. And then I did one on 0:22:02.520 --> 0:22:06.800 my own in Japan, which was one of the most 0:22:06.800 --> 0:22:10.720 memorable trips of my life, and um, it was incredible. 0:22:10.800 --> 0:22:15.199 So it was always fun to do it with a 0:22:15.240 --> 0:22:17.639 fellow cast made but at the same time when we 0:22:17.720 --> 0:22:19.880 when you got a chance to go and do something 0:22:19.920 --> 0:22:23.800 on your own, there was a whole another layer of like, oh, 0:22:23.840 --> 0:22:26.240 this is what this is me, this is you know, 0:22:26.280 --> 0:22:28.600 you got to think by yourself a little bit differently 0:22:28.640 --> 0:22:34.919 from just the cast part um with Jen's referring to 0:22:35.840 --> 0:22:38.920 so I would hear about like, oh, the cast members 0:22:38.920 --> 0:22:41.439 are all traveling, you know, to Europe, Israel, and like 0:22:41.520 --> 0:22:45.080 I was never invited, and I was so embarrassed. I 0:22:45.080 --> 0:22:48.000 was like, in my head, I was like, gosh, Donna 0:22:48.080 --> 0:22:51.119 must be the most most unpopular character on the show. 0:22:51.600 --> 0:22:54.520 And I was so terribly embarrassed to even bring it 0:22:54.640 --> 0:22:57.359 up that I never brought it up. And then years 0:22:57.440 --> 0:23:01.320 later when I said something, everyone was like, oh, yeah, 0:23:01.440 --> 0:23:05.560 your dad. My dad didn't fly. He was terrified of 0:23:05.560 --> 0:23:08.520 travel and didn't want me traveling anywhere, so he would 0:23:08.560 --> 0:23:11.480 tell them, don't ever invite Tory to any of these trips. 0:23:12.320 --> 0:23:15.040 But it's like it messed with me because I didn't 0:23:15.040 --> 0:23:18.320 know that until like twenty years later when people are like, oh, yeah, 0:23:18.440 --> 0:23:20.439 your dad never allowed you to do those and I 0:23:20.520 --> 0:23:22.239