Speaker 1: Freaking Jebels. Second d Update. I just have one question
Speaker 1: for the guy who's on the phone for a second
Speaker 1: date update today. Nicholas, how are you? I'm well, how
Speaker 1: are you? Guys? My question to you is, why aren't
Speaker 1: you dating somebody at your own age? Why are you
Speaker 1: dating senior citizens? Oh? No, what are you talking about? Well,
Speaker 1: from your email, it says that you took your date
Speaker 1: out on a tour of a chocolate factory. I figured
Speaker 1: that's somewhere where you'd take like someone in their early
Speaker 1: eighties or a four year old. So I figured I
Speaker 1: was assuming you're not dating like young children, I hope,
Speaker 1: And so I was guessing that you're dating somebody who's
Speaker 1: you know, getting on in years. Is that true? No?
Speaker 1: So your date was your age? Yeah? I know. You know,
Speaker 1: we did a chocolate tour at CEO when I was
Speaker 1: dating my husband, and look how it turned out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it turned out the only people I know that still
Speaker 1: actually read a newspaper. In other words, you're not dating
Speaker 1: ninety year olds, are you? Nicholas? No, No, I'm not
Speaker 1: all right. Well, tell us a little bit about the
Speaker 1: girl that you want us to call today. We already
Speaker 1: know that you took her on a tour of a
Speaker 1: chocolate factory. It was that fun. We had a great time.
Speaker 1: We met when we were volunteering at a charity event.
Speaker 1: Oh that's cool. Yeah, And you know I don't do
Speaker 1: it all the time, but with the holidays coming up,
Speaker 1: I thought it was a nice thing to do. That
Speaker 1: was volunteering at our senior citizen Yeah, yeah, charity event,
Speaker 1: get cleaning up bed pans. You know, so you guys
Speaker 1: met at a charity event. Did you ask her out
Speaker 1: the same day that you met her? Or yeah? I did.
Speaker 1: You know, She's really energetic and she made the event
Speaker 1: a lot more fun, so I thought, well, I'd like
Speaker 1: to kind of more time with thirst. I just asked
Speaker 1: her and she said yeah, okay. So you asked her
Speaker 1: out and you guys went to the chocolate factory. What
Speaker 1: was your main selling point there? Well, before we win,
Speaker 1: I read that chocolate was an approdisiact, So it was
Speaker 1: not that I was going to get in fresh or anything.
Speaker 1: But you didn't actually tell her that, did you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Please know, what do you think? Yeah? What do you
Speaker 1: I got a great date. We're gonna go to the
Speaker 1: chocolate factory because I heard chocolate makes people horny. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we want to go there. Yeah, that's a great pickup line. Okay,
Speaker 1: So so you kept the afrodisiac part to yourself, but
Speaker 1: she seemed to enjoy yourself at the chocolate factory. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I would be like, saw the process and at the
Speaker 1: end they let you tamplow the chocolate spitter there, and
Speaker 1: it seemed like she was having a great time, and
Speaker 1: I could see us hanging out more. Okay, And then
Speaker 1: when we walked out of to her car when we
Speaker 1: were leaving, I made a pretty bold move. And that
Speaker 1: might be why she's not calling me back. What did
Speaker 1: you do? Did the tour excite you like you thought
Speaker 1: it would have, you actually not showing her excited. No.
Speaker 1: When we were walking out, I grabbed her hand, I
Speaker 1: spun her around and kissed her and she seemed shocked
Speaker 1: by that. But I said, I have a rule that
Speaker 1: I always kissed on the first date, but only if
Speaker 1: the girl's worth it, and you're worth it. Nice line, lame,
Speaker 1: you know, and it makes you sound like you kiss
Speaker 1: every girl on the first date but only if she's
Speaker 1: worth it. I don't. I really don't. To me. It
Speaker 1: sounds the opposite that you don't kiss every girl on
Speaker 1: the first date. I guess you know what your line
Speaker 1: would have worked on me, my target audience. Hey, well,
Speaker 1: maybe you're dating the wrong kind of people. So you
Speaker 1: spun her around, you kissed her, and you gave her
Speaker 1: that line. And did she react in a positive way
Speaker 1: or did she seem annoyed by that? Well? I asked
Speaker 1: her if we can hang out again, and she said, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm really excited by it. What kind of kiss was this?
Speaker 1: Was this like a pet type of kiss? Or was
Speaker 1: this full on like last in a couple of seconds.
Speaker 1: It was a big romantic kiss. It was like a
Speaker 1: movie kiss. I wanted her remember it so I can
Speaker 1: get a second date out of it. Okay, and she
Speaker 1: agreed to hang out again. How long has it been
Speaker 1: since you heard from her? Then, Well, I've texted her
Speaker 1: and I emailed her of it. It's been three days.
Speaker 1: You said, you may think that you maybe went too
Speaker 1: far with a kiss. Did she act like flustered, you know, giggly?
Speaker 1: What was her attitude afterwards? But she was just giggree
Speaker 1: She was blushing a little bit. But it didn't seem
Speaker 1: you know, they didn't seem not normal. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: she didn't like it. She wouldn't have told you that
Speaker 1: you guys would be going out again. She probably would
Speaker 1: have called the cops on you right then and there,
Speaker 1: harassing her. So she obviously wasn't that thrown off by
Speaker 1: your kiss. What do you think it is? Then? Why
Speaker 1: do you think she doesn't want to call you back?
Speaker 1: Maybe she didn't like to chocolates. I don't know. She
Speaker 1: doesn't any known chocolate allergy that you're aware of, right,
Speaker 1: I mean, that's the only thing I can think of.
Speaker 1: She's been in the hospital for a week's train. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call her, get her
Speaker 1: on the phone, and get your second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: awesome thing. All right? And by the way, I'm still
Speaker 1: head over heels about that line. Use it all you want.
Speaker 1: I want you to use it on me, Nick, if
Speaker 1: the second day doesn't work out for you, all right,
Speaker 1: hang on looking jubil in the morning. Se All right, Nick,
Speaker 1: here we go. You're ready to call Rachel and see
Speaker 1: why she isn't getting back to you. Yeah, I am.
Speaker 1: You know what I was thinking about it, And your
Speaker 1: whole dating experience proves to me that you just cannot
Speaker 1: please any woman out there. Okay, either you don't kiss
Speaker 1: him on a first date and they think that you're
Speaker 1: a puss, right, or you do kiss him on a
Speaker 1: first date and they think that you're too forward. That's
Speaker 1: why Nick, I don't even think we should do the
Speaker 1: second date. I think you need to start dating dudes
Speaker 1: and me and you need to go out. Hey, that
Speaker 1: line that he had on her, really it worked with me. Man,
Speaker 1: What do you think Let's just blow this whole second
Speaker 1: date thing off and you and I go out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not feeling it. Man, all right, Well now I'm
Speaker 1: led down. If you're just tuning in for the second date.
Speaker 1: Up date, Nick wants us to call that girl named Rachel.
Speaker 1: They went to a chocolate factory, had a tour, enjoyed
Speaker 1: themselves at the end of the date. Though, what he
Speaker 1: thinks might have gone wrong is he grabbed her while
Speaker 1: they were walking in the car, just turned her around
Speaker 1: and kissed her and used his little patented line on her.
Speaker 1: What's that line again, Nick? I have a rule that
Speaker 1: I always kiss on the first date, but only if
Speaker 1: she's worth it, But only if she's worth it, And
Speaker 1: then you do the shooter hands at her you're worth it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just want to put I don't do that. Put
Speaker 1: that one out there. Okay, no, shoot, answer you just
Speaker 1: say it. Hey, he's texted her a couple of times,
Speaker 1: hasn't heard anything back. All right, man, I'm gonna doll
Speaker 1: the phone her right now. See if we can get
Speaker 1: her on the phone and find out if that's what
Speaker 1: you did wrong. Okay, thank you, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Rachel please? Yeah? This is hey Rachel.
Speaker 1: How are you. This is Jewil from brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the morning. How you doing? M fine? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm good? Thank you for asking. I'm calling because you
Speaker 1: recently went out on a date with a listener of
Speaker 1: ours and he liked you a lot, but you haven't
Speaker 1: been returning any of his text messages or phone calls.
Speaker 1: So he emailed and asked if we could call you
Speaker 1: and find out if something went wrong on your date. Okay.
Speaker 1: His name is Nicholas. Yeah, I know Nicholas. You know Nicholas. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: we talked to Nick about your date. He told us
Speaker 1: that you went to the chocolate factory and all that
Speaker 1: good stuff, and he also says that he's been trying
Speaker 1: to get a hold of you, but you're not responding
Speaker 1: to anything. Is there a reason? Why are you just busy? Listen,
Speaker 1: I'm at work and I want to be really nice
Speaker 1: about this, so let me just say this. Nicholas seems
Speaker 1: like a really, really nice guy. And actually the chocolate
Speaker 1: factory was a really lovely thing to do. But also
Speaker 1: about the time that we were there, he just kept
Speaker 1: saying stuff like, oh, my ex wife would never do this,
Speaker 1: and she would never enjoy it the way you've enjoyed
Speaker 1: it today, and that thing. And I he talked about
Speaker 1: his ex wife the whole time. No, no, no, yeah,
Speaker 1: pretty much like every every other thing that we did,
Speaker 1: he was like, oh, she would never have tried this.
Speaker 1: You're so much Rachel, I know you're at work. Thank
Speaker 1: you very much for you know, yeah, talking to listen.
Speaker 1: He's not a bad guy. I just it was kind
Speaker 1: of weird and creepy that he kept bringing her up.
Speaker 1: I had an ex girlfriend like that, and one time
Speaker 1: we were at the drive through at Taco Bell and
Speaker 1: she's like this, Taco Bell reminds me of Greg And
Speaker 1: I was like, what why? So I understand exactly how
Speaker 1: annoying that could be especially on a first date. Rachel, Okay,
Speaker 1: so when I talked to him again, you want me
Speaker 1: to let him know that, hey, maybe don't talk about
Speaker 1: your ex wife so much on a first date. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then here's the other thing. And again, super nice guy.
Speaker 1: But I got home like he dropped me off. It
Speaker 1: was very sweet, and within like minutes there was an
Speaker 1: email at this he stept me saying, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I had such a wonderful time, which is fine, but
Speaker 1: then he started to list like all these gift of
Speaker 1: things that he had already looked up that he wanted
Speaker 1: us to try and do together. So he was already
Speaker 1: planning the second date, He planned out the next six
Speaker 1: months and just went totally overboard with what he sent
Speaker 1: me in the email. So he talked about his ex
Speaker 1: wife the whole time, and then he was a little
Speaker 1: too fast. I'm just like, hey man, we can do
Speaker 1: this and this and this and this, all things that
Speaker 1: my ex wife didn't want to do. We can do
Speaker 1: all that. That's what That's what he was likely. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and again I don't want him to feel like I'm
Speaker 1: trying to slight him or snub him. I just think
Speaker 1: that he needs still pull it back a little bit,
Speaker 1: not seemed quite so eager. He turned me off, Rachel.
Speaker 1: I just don't want to go out with him again.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Rachel, appreciate you being honest with us. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and thank you for being honest with him too, because
Speaker 1: he's actually on the other line and heard everything that
Speaker 1: you just said. Are you serious? Yeah, he is serious.
Speaker 1: Yes I am. Hi, Rachel, Hi, we were talking about
Speaker 1: my ex wife that pop. Yeah, you really were. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I didn't realize I was, But honestly everything she wouldn't
Speaker 1: have done any of that, and I thought it was
Speaker 1: so great. No, Nicolas, Okay, I understand what you're saying,
Speaker 1: but kind of by doing that, you're talking about her again.
Speaker 1: Maybe just explain to Rachel that you cannot talk about
Speaker 1: her in the future if Rachel wanted to give you
Speaker 1: another shot. Exactly. Yeah, No, I look, you're really really sweet.
Speaker 1: I just think maybe you need to talk to someone
Speaker 1: about whatever feelings you haven't resolved over your ox life.
Speaker 1: Just it can't be with me though, Nicholas. Is the
Speaker 1: divorce recent? Is that why you're still so stuck on it?
Speaker 1: It was like fourteen months ago. I'm not stuck on it. Okay,
Speaker 1: it completely first day and you just brought it up
Speaker 1: a second ago. I feel like, Nicolas, maybe you're not
Speaker 1: ready to be dating. It's okay. I kind of agree
Speaker 1: with them, Nicholas. I think that maybe you need to
Speaker 1: like pick some more time to get over this. Because
Speaker 1: anyone who talks about their x y s run an
Speaker 1: entire date and then sends an email to someone saying
Speaker 1: like there's three thousand things I want to do with
Speaker 1: you in the next two weeks, that is just kind
Speaker 1: of a bit much. Really, And I'm sorry you guys.
Speaker 1: I'm trying so hard not to be mean because he's
Speaker 1: a nice guy. I just really I don't want to
Speaker 1: go out with him again. Yeah, just stop saying you
Speaker 1: don't want to go out with me again, because I've
Speaker 1: hurt like four times. I see, Nicholas, it's not really
Speaker 1: fun to hear about something over and over and over again. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I don't think I was going over and over
Speaker 1: and over again. I don't recall that. And I didn't
Speaker 1: email you three thousand things. I email do three things
Speaker 1: with ten possible other things to do with those three
Speaker 1: things didn't work out. You're very organized, Nicholas. I'll give
Speaker 1: you that. I mean, I think that part's kind of sweet.
Speaker 1: Can't you say he was just excited about seeing you again?
Speaker 1: In No, I just think it was a little bit
Speaker 1: too much, and I just I don't want to go
Speaker 1: out with you again. Sorry. I know, Rachel you've already
Speaker 1: answered my question, but I have to ask it anyway.
Speaker 1: Would you go out with Nicholas again? We will pay
Speaker 1: for a second try in a different language. I just
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure. Nick. Yeah, I think we've already
Speaker 1: covered the baches. We're all pretty sure that she doesn't
Speaker 1: want to go out. I haven't heard it from her
Speaker 1: yet or have I not been paying attention to So
Speaker 1: no date and Rachel right, Nope, at least at least
Speaker 1: it wasn't the kiss they did. You know, Jubil wants
Speaker 1: to go on a dinner. Yeah, yeah, Jubil, you're free tomorrow.
Speaker 1: Send him thirty day possibilities and don't think about it.
Speaker 1: Broken Jubil in the morning.