1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: Well up in the city. I'll be okay, I feel 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: good about him. Well, you did say that last year. Okay, 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: what do I wanna say? You only say it's gonna 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:12,239 Speaker 1: be terrible. I don't know what to do. I'm I'm 5 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: trying to be positive. In twenty twenty five, Fread's show 6 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: is on. It's The Friend Show. Good Morning, Tuesday, March eighteenth. 7 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: Let's get to stay or go? Next a couple of 8 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: minutes away, we'll debate some relationship drama. A little group 9 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: therapy is coming up thanks to Wake It Up with 10 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: Us Bright and Early on the radio, the iHeart app 11 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: Live and Anytime Search for a freend show on to 12 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: Man Fun, Biggest Stories of the day, Heavy, If you 13 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: would you mean a favorite? If you've eaten a Carls Junior, 14 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: would you call now? Three five? I'm just I did. 15 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: If you've eaten a Carls Junior, if you've eaten at 16 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 1: Long John Silver's, Hey, how often are you there? Not 17 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 1: often at all? 18 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 2: Now? 19 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 1: Not often? 20 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 3: Now? 21 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: What changed for you? Every couple of years? You know, 22 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: you get to a desperate spot because I'm sure it's delicious. 23 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: I'm not knocked it at all. I just there are 24 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 1: certain fast food restaurants. I drive by and I think, who, 25 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't believe I know anyone who's 26 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: eating there. Hardy's is another one, Hardy's Carls Junior. I 27 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: believe they're related, aren't they An't they can see somehow? Thanksgiving? 28 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: That isn't like one big restaurant, now, you know? And 29 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:20,119 Speaker 1: then Long John Silvers is another one. Have you ever 30 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: been to Long John Silvers? 31 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 4: No? 32 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:23,479 Speaker 1: I don't even know, Like, is there are those? 33 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 5: Where are they nowhere? 34 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: But like a fast food fish restaurant? Yeah, umpy cook 35 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: fish fast. I get Bellahmine in here. Carls Junior is 36 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: my favorite fast food ever. Okay? Is she just saying 37 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: that to get on the air. We're about to find out? 38 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 6: No? 39 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: I thought that was a West Coast thing. No, Carls Jr. 40 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: Well maybe that's why there's Hardy's. Carls. I think they're 41 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: the same. But maybe there's like you know some But. 42 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 7: Even when I'm out there, like, yeah, I've never seen one. 43 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: I never saw anyone. 44 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 4: You did? 45 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 8: Yeah, I see it there, not as much as Bellahmine. Okay, Carls. 46 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: And she didn't tell I've had it. I love we've 47 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: been talking about Carl un for five minutes and you're 48 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: just now like, oh, yeah, I've been there. We call 49 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: we want to call out was eating And it turns 50 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: out a person who's five feet away from me, I 51 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: could have offered something on this topic inside the How 52 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 1: did you eat? Okay, it's a cheeseburger. Cheeseburger, belaham, Yes, 53 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:26,079 Speaker 1: are you just be honest? You actually you actually think 54 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: that Carls Junior is the best during the pandemic. I 55 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: think I went to Carls Junior every day, really, and 56 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 1: what is one eating Carls Junior Another day? Two in 57 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 1: the morning, I'd get a little creaming. Well there was 58 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: nothing to do, okay, but what what did you eat there? 59 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 1: It's a I think it's a double Famous Star and 60 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 1: I get a. 61 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 7: Lettuce wrap and a side of prise with their their sauce. 62 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: That comes on the Famous Star. What is that? 63 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 9: So? 64 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 7: I know you guys are missing out. 65 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: I thought I think Carls Junior is a West Coast 66 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 1: thing though, Yeah, and then Hardy's here and it's not 67 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: the same. Oh, I like, will die on that hill? 68 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: Someone said they used to manage a you know, Okay, 69 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 1: now you got to go back and then you got 70 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,079 Speaker 1: to call this person. I want to talk to the 71 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: person who texted us. He says that they managed a 72 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 1: Taco Bell Long John Silver's combination. You want to talk 73 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: about two wild extremes cross contamination, right, Burrito Supreme and 74 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 1: A and A. Okay, we used to call someone about this. 75 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 7: This this should not be This. 76 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 5: Is an emergency forties. I'm so serious. They're poor plumbing. 77 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I mean I thought that, like the 78 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: Pizza Hut KFC, what is it like Duncan or is 79 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: it or what is it? Pizza Hudd and KFC and 80 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: thirty one flavors. Maybe they put them all together, one 81 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: of them. They were like four things in one. 82 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 5: I could see the Pizza Hudd and chicken like that 83 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 5: to me makes sense. Yeah, but fish and tacos don't 84 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 5: make sense. 85 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: No that no, no, And I realized they're not necessarily 86 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 1: like that. I get that it's just like an efficiency 87 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: where they're probably owned by the same company, so they're 88 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: just in the same space. But I mean, no, there's 89 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: no part of me that walks in there. And I'm like, man, 90 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:16,279 Speaker 1: this is the best of both worlds land and sea. 91 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: Get me a fried fish sandwich. And U and a 92 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 1: crunch Trap Supreme and then we got a meal on 93 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: our hands and then I'm gonna go to work. That's 94 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 1: to work. 95 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,239 Speaker 10: I actually feel ill just talking about the Long John 96 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 10: Silvers that I have been to. 97 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 1: It was a Long John Silvers and an A and 98 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: w oh okay, so you know there's another one you 99 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 1: don't hear enough about. Hey Dan, good morning guys, Hey man, 100 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: welcome to the show. So you managed man, you want 101 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 1: a legend. You managed Long John Silver's Taco Bell. It 102 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: was the same location. 103 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 11: Yeah, so it's part of Young Rands, Long Gun Silver's 104 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 11: Tackle Bell, Pizza Hut, and I forget what the. 105 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:55,840 Speaker 2: Other one was. 106 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 1: Were they all or was it just the two? No, 107 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 1: it's just fit too. Sometimes older like them, and sometimes 108 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: it's oh it. 109 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:07,840 Speaker 11: Was atrocious green Giant Fryars oil was you'd have to 110 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 11: change it almost every other week. Was water based. 111 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 1: Now, now, Dan, what was the craziest combination of food 112 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: that you Because surely people did walk in there and go, 113 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: oh my god, this is great. You know I can 114 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: get that, and that we did. People go and get like, 115 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, Taco Supreme and then walk over and 116 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: get them a nice hush puppy or something like what. 117 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 11: Yeah, they would do French fries hushpuppies. So it was 118 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 11: weird combinations tacos, it was wild. But what we would 119 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 11: do with employees, we would do chili cheese fries. 120 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: Okay, well because because tacomel. 121 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 11: Cheese from Taco Bell. Yeah, the French fries from Walk 122 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 11: On Silvers and chili from Taco Bell as well. When 123 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 11: they had it, they don't have anymore. 124 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not mad at that. That doesn't sound terrible, 125 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 1: all right, all right? And then now will you eat 126 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: any of those places anywhere? I'm not knocking any of it, 127 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 1: but you worked there? Will you eat any of those 128 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 1: places now that you work there? Are you kind of 129 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: done with it? 130 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 11: No, I'm done with it once you because you get 131 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:05,839 Speaker 11: free food while you work there, so eat it almost 132 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 11: every day. You get tired of it. 133 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: Just too much? Okay, damn, this was enlightening. Thank you. 134 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: I really appreciate it. One of my favorite parts of 135 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 1: hosting this show is that we just we got a 136 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 1: little bit of everything out there. I mean, there's almost 137 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 1: nothing that we probably couldn't channel into some expert on 138 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 1: or that we have in the room. Well, yeah, yeah, 139 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: we were you planning on contributing in all, Pauline Nerd. Honestly, 140 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: I forgot that I had it. I honestly don't remember 141 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: that experience. It must have not been that good. Well, 142 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 1: it's like I manage a lung, John silver SARTs. That's right. 143 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 1: That one time there was a tuckle bell. Next it 144 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 1: was connected. Where was I? Oh my god, that was 145 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 1: a dark time. Caitlin's Entertainment Report. It's next the French 146 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 1: Showy's on. I think your mom younger than my mom, 147 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: but I think she's beginning to transition into that time 148 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: of her life where the craps begin to be fewer 149 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: and fewer. Oh no, but no, no, no, no, it'll 150 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: get worse. 151 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 12: I saw that with Nana. But yeah, no, she's she's 152 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 12: doesn't care. 153 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: I know she's in her late forties. You know, I'm 154 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: being kind, but she looks like she did her late 155 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: It looks like she's in her early forties, actually her sixties. 156 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: Is she really your mom experienced? I joke about this. 157 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: I joke. I've joke with you for the entire time 158 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: I've known you. She's so pretty about how hot your 159 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: mom is. But she's a very attractive woman. But no, okay, 160 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: well then she's a little bit behind my mom. But 161 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: it's getting really and I love my momm you know this, 162 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 1: My mom is like, there's no there's no convincing my 163 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: mom in her mid sixties that what she's saying won't 164 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 1: be accepted the way she intends it, and or that 165 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: like you're not supposed to say that. Yeah, you know, 166 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 1: she doesn't care, no, and she just thinks that I'm 167 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: over sensitive, which I probably am because I have to 168 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 1: do this every day where if you if you say 169 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 1: the slightest thing wrong, then you have a real problem 170 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: on our hands, where people dissect every other word you 171 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: say and then determine what it meant and then tell 172 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: you what you meant. So I guess I am a 173 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 1: little sensitive to it. But there's something that seems to 174 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: happen to people when they cross the sixty barrier, where 175 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: I think they just they just think they've earned the 176 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 1: right to do, you know, just do whatever. Life's more 177 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: than halfway over, so like I'll just say what I want. 178 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 4: I don't care. 179 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 1: And I think it's this generation too, because like the 180 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 1: way that we grew up is very different from the 181 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: way that people are growing up now and the way 182 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 1: they grew up is extremely different. Goodness, my mom's a boomer. 183 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:35,239 Speaker 1: I like remind her every day, you're a boomer. Well, 184 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: my mom, my parents, luckily, my whole family, thank god, 185 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: doesn't subscribe to a lot of that stuff from the 186 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: you know, fifties and sixties and before, you know, the 187 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: stuff that they were exposed to when they were growing up. 188 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: They've adapted. My mom is one of the most inclusive 189 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 1: allies of all. She doesn't care about much of anything, 190 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: but like, she also doesn't care about much of anything. 191 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: So because of that, you're supposed to know that when 192 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: you look at her, you're supposed to know she's a 193 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: great human being who's an ally and an advocate. And 194 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:01,439 Speaker 1: then she can say whatever she wants after that, not 195 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 1: like hateful, but you know what I mean, Like she 196 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 1: could say anything. Like she loves to compliment people on 197 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 1: their appearance. She's complimenting them. I think it's a very 198 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: nice thing. But she's gonna find the wrong person one 199 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 1: time and say something and they're gonna get in their 200 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 1: face about it, and she's only being kind. Yeah, you 201 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 1: don't have the same issue you do. 202 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,199 Speaker 10: Yeah, Ezra mom, like, I just think that what I'm 203 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 10: saying has I know my intent, right, however you take it, 204 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 10: that's the you problem, but my intent. 205 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: No, see, And I love that because I used to 206 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:34,839 Speaker 1: feel the same way. Like I used to feel the 207 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 1: exact same way. We're saying, Well, I know what I meant, 208 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 1: I know where my heart is, I know where I'm 209 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:42,439 Speaker 1: coming from. But I've gotten past the part where then 210 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: I don't think that you have to care. I've accepted 211 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 1: that like people I don't know, I've accepted it. No 212 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: matter what your intent is, people are going to take 213 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 1: it how they're going to take it now to a 214 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: certain extent. That's not my fault, right, But I can 215 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: also just avoid certain things. You know what I mean? No, No, 216 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 1: what do you mean? It seems like okay, jameson. 217 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 5: One way conversation, like I'm gonna say what I think 218 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 5: I like is right, and I don't really care how 219 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:08,959 Speaker 5: you take it, But I'm. 220 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: Okay, is right? But have you Jason, Jason, have you 221 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 1: ever have you ever said something to someone that you 222 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: meant entirely as a kind benign thing and because of 223 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 1: the tone of your voice or because of the I 224 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 1: don't know, inflection or the pace at which you said it, 225 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 1: or the timing of which you said it. Someone took 226 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: it entirely wrong, and you're like, how did you take that? 227 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:34,719 Speaker 1: Like that? I think that's what she's talking about. That's 228 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, Like what and Calein and I 229 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 1: have had probably like fifty hours of conversation about this, 230 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:43,719 Speaker 1: But I have the hardest time with people who go, well, 231 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: that made me feel like like when you said good 232 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 1: morning that way, that made me feel like you said 233 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 1: you're a terrible human being and that you should never 234 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:53,959 Speaker 1: have gotten out of bed and don't leave your house anymore. 235 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 1: And I'm going, wait, would what? 236 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 12: But they said why, like you want them to do 237 00:10:58,080 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 12: that and not point the finger at you and go, 238 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 12: you were at a hole when you said good more. 239 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: That is what you're saying. No, but like that's exactly 240 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: what you're saying. 241 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:06,839 Speaker 7: What you're saying, that's how it felt to me. You're 242 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 7: not saying you did it on purpose. 243 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, but like that means but to Jason's point, therapist, 244 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 1: that means that I can I can then interpret anything 245 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 1: you say any way that I choose, and then somehow 246 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: you're responsible for that. 247 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 12: But you're not deciding to feel a certain way, And 248 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 12: I think that's what you. 249 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 1: Have a hard time with. 250 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 12: You're very pragmatic, like you don't your feelings don't rule 251 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,719 Speaker 12: you at all, but some people are very you know. 252 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 1: I don't know that's entirely I know what you mean. 253 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:31,680 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's just how I drew. But 254 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: my thing is that if I mean something kindly and 255 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 1: it's not, there's nothing controversial about what I said, or 256 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: there really is to. 257 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 12: Say controversial, Like it's all in the eye of like 258 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 12: everyone runs something through their own filter. 259 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 1: We all do it. 260 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:46,439 Speaker 7: So I can say hi, and five people could think 261 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 7: it's different. 262 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, But I don't get to blow up at you 263 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: for saying hi because I didn't like the way you 264 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: say it, and people do, and people take that as 265 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: well because I interpreted it that way interpreted because that's 266 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: how I took it. That's how I get to feel 267 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: and I get to own my feelings. And so that's 268 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 1: a you problem, and it's not because like you know, 269 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 1: you catch I need to be aware you catch me 270 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 1: on the wrong day at the wrong time. I need 271 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 1: to be aware that I'm going to be set off 272 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: by a lot of things. That people don't mean that's 273 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: on me though, right like I got it, I got it, 274 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 1: manifest or this is too early for big words. But 275 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 1: I'm the one who has to figure that out, not you. 276 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 1: It's definitely I think it's a two way street. 277 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 5: But I think as I've gotten older, I have realized 278 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 5: that if I say something that rubs someone the wrong 279 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 5: way or hurts them or make it no matter what 280 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 5: it is, I have to take ownership of that and 281 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 5: I have to mend the relationship. 282 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:37,439 Speaker 1: I can't just be. 283 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 5: Like, oh, well, you took it the wrong way, so 284 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 5: not my problem, and we just like keep on moving. 285 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:42,959 Speaker 1: Not that I like hurt you. I don't know. I 286 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 1: love you for this, but you're letting people. You're allowing people, Jason, 287 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,839 Speaker 1: to then just put stuff on you. That's not if 288 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: you say something kind or you say something benign and 289 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: somehow they're upset with you for it, they're projecting onto 290 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: you whatever's going on within them. If you say you 291 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 1: should only get credit for the bad stuff, you say 292 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 1: that's bad and I mean bad. 293 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 7: Isn't there a middle ground between what you both are saying? 294 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 5: Like I think, no, I mean it's not like if 295 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 5: I say if someone says hi to me or I 296 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 5: say hi to someone. 297 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 1: And that is the extreme. It's like completely off the road. 298 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: You're also a person that carries a lot of other 299 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:16,839 Speaker 1: people's stuff around. Oh I know this about you, and 300 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 1: like that's that's something you do to yourself. That's unfair 301 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: because if you're genuine and coming full circle here, if 302 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: you're genuine and you're kind and you mean well and 303 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: someone else takes it poorly and I'm not talking about 304 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: like anything that's gray area. I'm talking about if you 305 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: mean well and you're saying well and someone doesn't like that, 306 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: then I think it's kind of on them. And it 307 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:38,719 Speaker 1: comes back to what my mom is. None of this 308 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: is like bad or controversial or hurt fooling. She just doesn't. 309 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 1: She'll just say anything, and. 310 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:46,559 Speaker 8: It's just like you know, yeah, I'm heading that way 311 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 8: because I've been carrying bearing that cross for too long. 312 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 1: Of like taking people's feelings walking around with them. Oh 313 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 1: did I say this nice enough? 314 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 3: Oh? 315 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:55,319 Speaker 8: I gave attitude that I wasn't even attitude. It was 316 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 8: just me replying that's how I talk. And now I'm 317 00:13:57,559 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 8: like the bad guy. At this point, I just got 318 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:01,199 Speaker 8: to let go otherwise. 319 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, because you can't fix everybody else's and 320 00:14:03,559 --> 00:14:06,439 Speaker 1: you can't take on everybody else's stuff either. Zero one hundred. 321 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 5: I think it is, like said, there's someone usually somewhere 322 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 5: in the middle ground, like I, you know, I don't 323 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,319 Speaker 5: want to go around just saying whatever I want and 324 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:15,200 Speaker 5: hurting people all the time, Like I don't want to 325 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 5: do that, So it's got. 326 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 1: To be a middle area. It's a two way street. 327 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: Isn't there a differentiation between hurtfull stuff and then stuff 328 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: that people might take wrong but you didn't. There's no's 329 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 1: on the beholder. 330 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 5: I might not think I'm saying something that's going to 331 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 5: offend Kiki, but if I say it, then like I 332 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 5: want to mend that because I may have had good intent, 333 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 5: but if it rubbed you the wrong way, like I 334 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 5: don't want you to then change how you're looking at 335 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 5: me because of what I said to you with a 336 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 5: different like reason of saying it. 337 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying? Like that's and I 338 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: guess my argument is some of that would be on me. 339 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 1: A lot of that would be on me. Like if 340 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: I know you to be a good person, I know 341 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 1: you to have good intent. I know that you would 342 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 1: never I don't actually think you would say it thing 343 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 1: to hurt me intentionally. I know that. So for some 344 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 1: reason you said something that was just whatever, and it 345 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 1: hurt me. I need I need to run that through 346 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 1: my filter before I put that on you. And I 347 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 1: think that's the step that a lot of people are missing, 348 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 1: because most people would rather than it just be somebody 349 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 1: else's fault, Like everything they're feeling is somebody else's fault, 350 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 1: as opposed to like looking in the mirror and going like, hey, 351 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: maybe I need to work on me a little bit, 352 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 1: or maybe maybe my little radar is off today, you know, 353 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 1: cause again, like I've come in here before where I know, 354 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 1: like I'm not in a good mood, and so I 355 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 1: got to try and force myself to remember you know that, 356 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: like the stuff is going to come at me today 357 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: that you don't mean that that I might not like, 358 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 1: and that's on me. I can't stand butt you for that, right, 359 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 1: especially what ten years of therapy has done for me. 360 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 5: Theist say self awareness is a spectrum. Everyone's at a 361 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 5: different Self awareness doesn't exist. 362 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: Self awareness is at a premium, and I will pay 363 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: for that up charge for anyone It's the Fread Show 364 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: Coude morning thanks to waking up with us waiting by 365 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: the phone. Why did somebody get ghosted? That's coming up. 366 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 13: Calin's entertainment report is on The Fread Show. 367 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 12: Music awards went down from La last night, hosted by 368 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 12: l Cool Jay, the Chairman of the Tortured Coet's Department 369 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 12: aka Miss Taylor Allison Swift absolutely cleaned up. She took 370 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 12: home all six of her fan voted awards, including Tour 371 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 12: of the Century for of course, the Eras Tour. 372 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 1: Last night was actually the two. 373 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 12: Year anniversary of the very first show of the tour 374 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 12: in Arizona. My best friend was there and she had 375 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 12: no idea what she was in for. She didn't know 376 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 12: it was three and a half hours, so she held 377 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 12: her peat the entire time, which is my favorite story 378 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 12: from the tour. Taylor thanked her entire crew as well 379 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 12: as the fans, and said the Era's Tour was the 380 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 12: hardest and most gratifying thing she's ever done. Some other 381 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 12: moments of my like some other favorite moments of mine, 382 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 12: I can speak, I swear Ashanti surprising her man Nelly 383 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 12: to give him the Landmark Award, which was the cutest 384 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 12: thing ever, Tory Kelly having the absolute guts to cover 385 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 12: a Mariah Carey song in front of Mariah Carey. Actually 386 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 12: one of my favorite songs always be My Baby. Before 387 00:16:56,800 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 12: Mariah accepted the Icon Award, Lady Gaga was also honored 388 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:04,919 Speaker 12: with the Innovator Award at telling fans to quote break 389 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 12: the mold, which she certainly has over the years. 390 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 7: Of course, she is unlike any other artists. 391 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,719 Speaker 12: I feel like lots more on the iHeartRadio Music Awards 392 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 12: next hour, including a possible reputation Taylor's version announcement, which 393 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:22,479 Speaker 12: is crazy. Those US astronauts Sunny and Butch have finally 394 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:25,480 Speaker 12: departed from the ISS. They left early this morning to 395 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 12: begin their long awaited trip back home after spending more 396 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 12: than nine months stuck in space. There aboard SpaceX is 397 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 12: dragon capsule called Freedom, which is set to re enter 398 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 12: Earth Tuesday with the Florida landing. 399 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 7: Oh so today, I know a day. 400 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 12: It is set for around six pm, So I guess 401 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 12: we have them back tonight. The stranded pair were originally 402 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 12: supposed to be in space for wait is it. 403 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 1: Ladies in the studio? Does it take? 404 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 7: How long does it take to get back from Earth? 405 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 12: Is it today because my article says tuesday. 406 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, this is a great question. 407 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 12: Hold on, I'm googling this live on the air because 408 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:03,920 Speaker 12: I want to be right. But why would it say 409 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 12: tuesday if it was today? Hold on, let me see. 410 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 12: I want to get it right. Yeah, want to be 411 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 12: no longer way to journey back home. It says atmosphere Tuesday, 412 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 12: so I guess it's today. Oh wow, I hope they're 413 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 12: today before dinner time, I hope. 414 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:22,879 Speaker 6: I know. 415 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 12: Yeah, hopefully they'll have supper. I need to figure out 416 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:27,880 Speaker 12: what their first meal is going to be. I would 417 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,920 Speaker 12: love to know that. But Texas, if I'm wrong, because 418 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 12: it says Tuesday and Tuesday is today, and I don't 419 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 12: know why the article written today would say that. 420 00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:35,879 Speaker 1: But there you go. 421 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 12: They were originally supposed to only be in space for 422 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 12: ten days last summer, do you guys remember this? And 423 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 12: they're traveling home with a fellow American astronaut as well 424 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 12: as a Russian astronaut as they finished their tour on 425 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 12: the Crew nine mission. They've been stuck since last June, 426 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 12: when that Boeing Starliner capsule suffered leaks and mechanical issues, 427 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 12: forcing NASA to return the craft without anyone on board. 428 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 1: But it wasn't Boeing's fault. I'm sure of that. 429 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:02,439 Speaker 12: And I don't know if anyone has seen this, but 430 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 12: Tracy Morgan had to be wheelchair out of MSG during 431 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:08,440 Speaker 12: the Knicks game last night after he threw up all 432 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 12: over the floor while sitting court side during the third 433 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 12: quarter of the game. They had to take a ten 434 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:15,680 Speaker 12: minute pause so they could clean the puke off the hardwood. 435 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 12: And yes, there's photos and video which I wish I 436 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 12: hadn't seen. But in a video captured by a fan, 437 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:23,479 Speaker 12: he is seen getting wheelchaired out of the arena trying 438 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,159 Speaker 12: to stop a nosebleed with a towel. That's all I 439 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 12: know right now. Excuse me right now. But I hope 440 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:31,119 Speaker 12: he was just drunk, and I hope it's not something 441 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:34,000 Speaker 12: more serious. So we're thinking of you, Tracy. That's crazy. 442 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 12: And the photos save yourself. Do not look at them 443 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 12: if you're eating breakfast. 444 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:38,119 Speaker 1: By the way, if you. 445 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 12: Miss any part of our show, The Fread Show, you 446 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 12: can search The Frend Show on demand on the free 447 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:44,680 Speaker 12: new an approved iHeartRadio app. 448 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: It's a Fred Show. Good morning, thanks for having us 449 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 1: on the radio, on the iHeart app live and anytime 450 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:51,640 Speaker 1: search for The Fred Show on demand. Jason Braddy tried 451 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 1: to kill your partner last night? Is that my understanding? Yeah, yeah, 452 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:56,920 Speaker 1: it was a couple of nights ago. 453 00:19:57,080 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 5: But yeah, I decided to I am cooking more, and 454 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 5: so I decided to make a debut and new dish. 455 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:09,119 Speaker 1: Where are you getting these dishes that you're debuting magazines? 456 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: No lazymeals dot com? Oh okay, my skill is very low. 457 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,840 Speaker 5: Okay, so I go for the easiest of the easy, 458 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 5: and so this one was very easy. I will make 459 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 5: anything into a castle role. Okay, just put anything into 460 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:23,920 Speaker 5: a baking dish there on the ovens, but's on top, 461 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 5: and like we're good, right, Well I made this. I 462 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 5: made this castle role. And I could just tell like 463 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,640 Speaker 5: caflly there. I was like, I don't know, like this 464 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 5: isn't We were having the same issue when you were 465 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 5: at a bachi. Fred was looking at me like this 466 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 5: ain't seasoned and over. 467 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 1: Like that, excuse me, excuse me. When I was the 468 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 1: chef at Benny Hannah a few weeks ago, all right, 469 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: and you guys hate the food. I hate the food. 470 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: Later and the food tasted fine. Yeah, it was great. 471 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:57,359 Speaker 1: You need sauce, you need salt, dim soy sauce, and 472 00:20:57,359 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: problem solved sauce for what it was right after. 473 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 10: But in the process I was like, wow, he's getting 474 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 10: like he's close to the finish line and I ain't 475 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 10: seen that salt shake yet. 476 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:11,159 Speaker 1: The chicken white, you know what? It was good? I 477 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 1: dare you? How dare you? Did all of you feel fine? Afterwards? Yeah? 478 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:17,680 Speaker 1: All of you? 479 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:22,120 Speaker 14: I was hammered. But on the way home, okay, great, 480 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 14: you ate it in the car leftover? 481 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:29,399 Speaker 1: No, I didn't with your hands on. I guess it 482 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:33,160 Speaker 1: wasn't spice directly. Then she was craving my, Benny, Hannah, right, 483 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 1: crave your meat, craved my Okay. So anyway, you were 484 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:42,120 Speaker 1: making what what were the contents of said cast? 485 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 4: Okay? So it was. 486 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 5: Ground beef, egg, noodles, peas where it's some other vegetable 487 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 5: that was green. It so hamburger helper with vegetables basically 488 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 5: with cheese on top. 489 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 1: Oh my god, everything This sounds actually horrible. But anyway, 490 00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 1: so you you decided that it was ad idea. Yeah, 491 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 1: so I made it. I was like, ok, I can 492 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 1: do this. 493 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:07,119 Speaker 5: You just mix it all together and put in a 494 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:09,680 Speaker 5: dish like hell yeah, right, So I say, get out 495 00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 5: of the oven, and so like I'm like filling up 496 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:15,919 Speaker 5: my water cup and he walks in. Mike walks in 497 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 5: and he just stops like in front of it and 498 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 5: is just staring at it, like not like getting a plate, 499 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,719 Speaker 5: not getting just staring at it. But he doesn't want 500 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 5: to say anying because I like have my you know, 501 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 5: sort of back to him. So I'm like, you know, 502 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 5: looking through my peripheral and I'm like I'm looking at 503 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 5: my peripheral. 504 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 1: And so I see him just standing there. 505 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 5: So then he like takes the littlest scoop and puts 506 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 5: on his plate and he's just standing there in the 507 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 5: kitchen eating it. Normally we make our plate, we go 508 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 5: sit down and eat. He's just like sitting there like 509 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 5: sampling it, saying nothing, saying nothing. 510 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 1: And I knew it was bad. 511 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,119 Speaker 5: So I made a plate and I'm starting to eat it. 512 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 5: And it was the most silent dinner and neither of 513 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:56,400 Speaker 5: us said anything to each other. And then two days 514 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 5: later he was like, that was prison fit, which you 515 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 5: just gave me literal prison food. 516 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: Wow, he accused you of giving him prison food. 517 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, how did you wait two days to say that? 518 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,440 Speaker 5: Like I brought it up. I made some comment about cooking, 519 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,160 Speaker 5: and he was like, he's like, never made what you make? 520 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,880 Speaker 5: You know again two days ago? Because that was awful 521 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 5: giving me prison food? 522 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 4: Wow? 523 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 1: How ungrateful? And it was time he cooked something for you. 524 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 1: Oh never. I don't even think he knows how to 525 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 1: turn the other on. I think if somebody cooks something 526 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,639 Speaker 1: for you, you you have to you eat it and 527 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 1: you don't say a thing. 528 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:27,919 Speaker 3: What? 529 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 12: Oh okay, I thought you're gonna say you have to 530 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 12: cook something for them. I was gonna say, don't you 531 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 12: start that? Well, I think that's a nice thing to do, 532 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 12: because your boyfriend, you're no. Tell me the theory. There 533 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 12: are cookers and then there are personality hires that stand 534 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 12: there with the cooker, the chef, if you will and 535 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 12: entertain them. 536 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 7: They have a glass of wine, They tell jokes. 537 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:52,439 Speaker 1: Can I grab you anything? I say you personality higher? 538 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 6: Yeah? 539 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 1: In the kitchen. 540 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:54,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 541 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:56,679 Speaker 12: So I thought you were about to say some crazy 542 00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:00,680 Speaker 12: stuff like we got to each be cooking you know. 543 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: No, I'm sure you. I'm sure you do your part. 544 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 1: Personality higher. No, but you know, if you if someone 545 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,159 Speaker 1: makes a meal for you, you have to eat it, 546 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,680 Speaker 1: and then you have to just be quiet about it. Yes, Now, 547 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:18,880 Speaker 1: if if someone asks me and like like my mom, 548 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: my mom is a she's a very very good like 549 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:25,159 Speaker 1: home chef, and she's taken courses and you've done all 550 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 1: this stuff. My dad's not. My dad is no dumby 551 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: in retirement. He has sent her to like various schools, 552 00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 1: like for a week at a time or whatever because 553 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,960 Speaker 1: she wants to do this. She wants to travel and 554 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 1: how to cook like food. So he'll be like, go 555 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 1: and then she comes home and she's, you know, making 556 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:43,160 Speaker 1: the food for him. He's not an idiot, and she's 557 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 1: really really good. But like she'll make something and then 558 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 1: she'll ask for feedback, and I know in that case 559 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 1: she wants to know really what I thought, because she 560 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,000 Speaker 1: is like actually concerned with you know, I don't know 561 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 1: she made it for other people, so I try and 562 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 1: be honest ish like, but she never made me anything really, 563 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 1: But the point is there's so much cooking for me. 564 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,400 Speaker 1: I eat it and I'd say thank you, and that's 565 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 1: the end of it, like I'm not coming back later. 566 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 1: And by the way, that was terrible. The only problem 567 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 1: is if he thought you thought it was good, then 568 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,399 Speaker 1: it's happening again, like that will be on the rotation 569 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: of lazy dishes, and. 570 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,640 Speaker 5: The rotation is small, so like we're, you know, every 571 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 5: two weeks eating the same thing. So I'm sure he 572 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 5: was probably like, we're not adding this into He could 573 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 5: have been. 574 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 1: Better, though, he could have been like, you know, hey, 575 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,439 Speaker 1: I like that these things. I didn't particularly care for 576 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 1: that one though. That's how you do that. And you 577 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 1: don't say you just fed me prison food. Oh, just 578 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 1: like my orange chicken. Ooh, that was so bad. Don't 579 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 1: ever try to make your own orange chicken. That was 580 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 1: a bad night too. That to me sounds like something 581 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:40,959 Speaker 1: that I would just run down the street and pick up. 582 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,199 Speaker 1: You know, there are certain foods I'm just you know, 583 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 1: I'm not making orange chicken. I'm not. I don't I'm 584 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:47,680 Speaker 1: not doing that worth it. 585 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 6: You know. 586 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 1: I have another theory while we're talking about food, and 587 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,439 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people would agree. But no 588 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:56,400 Speaker 1: one ever cooks for me ever, really, because I either 589 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 1: order it or make it myself. It's just me at 590 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,920 Speaker 1: the house. And I was at my friend Bruce's house 591 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 1: over the weekend and this guy cooks everything like bist 592 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 1: like like it's it's ten o'clock at night, and there 593 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:10,439 Speaker 1: may or may not have well, let's just say everyone 594 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:12,719 Speaker 1: was a little hungry on Friday night at ten o'clock. 595 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 1: I can see maybe he's rhymes with munchies. And and 596 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 1: he says to me, do you want cookies? And I 597 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 1: was like, do I want chocolate chip cookie? Like okay, sure, 598 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 1: And in my mind it's you know, slicing bake. No, 599 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 1: no glass bowl comes out, flour measuring cups, melted butter, 600 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 1: chocolate chips. Oh yeah, No, we did a whole thing. 601 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,639 Speaker 1: The mixer. I mean, I was handed like one of 602 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 1: the little things that the little blender things. You know. 603 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:43,440 Speaker 1: It's maybe that may have been something he wanted to watch. 604 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, but it doesn't matter at the point. 605 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 1: But where I'm going with this is he cooked all 606 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,119 Speaker 1: weekend and I was eating food cooking. He made me 607 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 1: a sandwich. Sandwich is made by other people for you 608 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 1: taste better than the ones you make yourself. That is 609 00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:01,040 Speaker 1: a that is a proven fat even theory. It's a fact. 610 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,119 Speaker 1: Sandwiches somebody else makes for you taste better than the 611 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 1: ones you can make yourself. Why I don't know. Oh yeah, 612 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 1: and I mean at home because obviously you go to 613 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:15,040 Speaker 1: like you know, Subway or Jimmy John's or whatever, Jersey Mics, 614 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:16,400 Speaker 1: and then they make it for you. It tastes good, 615 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,679 Speaker 1: but I get the house. Someone gives you a sandwich 616 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,600 Speaker 1: that may taste better than any other kind of Sandwich's 617 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,360 Speaker 1: so true. Yeah, that you should tell him next time 618 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 1: you make something that he doesn't like, be like, well, 619 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 1: there's lunch meat in the fridge. That's what my mom 620 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,199 Speaker 1: used to say. I didn't like dinner, Like, well, then 621 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 1: there's bread and lunch meat. You should tell them just 622 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 1: like your mom. 623 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:41,640 Speaker 5: Okay, pick me up. 624 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, never mind. I actually don't do that. I'm not 625 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:46,640 Speaker 1: equipped for that. You can't live with me. That show 626 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 1: is on. It's Stay or Go Diego is here Diago? 627 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:57,640 Speaker 1: Good morning Diego. So it's group therapy and you get 628 00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,760 Speaker 1: what you pay for, which in this case it's free. 629 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 1: So just keep that in mind before you make any 630 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,119 Speaker 1: like life altering decisions. But what's going on with this 631 00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 1: is your girlfriend we're talking about today. Yeah, that's right. 632 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 1: So what's going on? 633 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,239 Speaker 15: Well, me and my girlfriend have been together for like 634 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:17,160 Speaker 15: two years and honestly, I've been contemplating proposing. 635 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:22,159 Speaker 1: Okay, wow, is there you want to do that? So 636 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 1: you want to do that? Is that the whole? Is 637 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:24,920 Speaker 1: that the whole? 638 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:25,120 Speaker 4: Call? 639 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 1: Well no, I say, I say, you know, you can 640 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: live a very nice life without somebody else. But no, 641 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,200 Speaker 1: that's not that's not the dilemma, right, you're thinking about proposing. 642 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 1: I'm very happy for you that you found someone. Yes, Okay, 643 00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 1: well yeah, but the thing. 644 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 15: Is, I'm Mexican and my parents they don't really speak English, 645 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 15: and my older sisters don't really speak English either. 646 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 11: So I was having a conversation. 647 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 15: With my girlfriend, the one I'm thinking about proposing to, and. 648 00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 1: Not the other girlfriend, right, yeah, as opposed to the others. Yeah, 649 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 1: I can see how this is a dilemma already. You're 650 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:05,720 Speaker 1: talking to your girlfriend about this. 651 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 15: Well, I was encouraging her to learn Spanish so she 652 00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 15: can like communicate with my family and you know when 653 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 15: we take trips to Mexico in the future that I'm 654 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 15: thinking of, you know, that she would be able to 655 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,240 Speaker 15: to talk to my you know, my mom and and 656 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 15: and all of that. But she said no, like she 657 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,320 Speaker 15: wasn't even open to it at all, Like she didn't 658 00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 15: say oh, uh maybe or or yeah, I could you know, 659 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 15: learn a little bit, like she was just like, no, 660 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 15: she doesn't have time to learn another language, and you know, 661 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 15: just saying that my family should be you know, able 662 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 15: to learn English as well, like you know, I've learned English. 663 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 1: So so that's her solution. Her thing is, I I 664 00:29:55,080 --> 00:30:01,160 Speaker 1: realized I'm potentially marrying into a family uh who speaks 665 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 1: another language primarily. And her official position is I have 666 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 1: no interest in ever understanding anything they're saying about because 667 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,720 Speaker 1: I honestly, selfishly I think I would want to learn 668 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 1: whatever language as best as I could so I could realize, no, 669 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 1: if you were talking about me, yes, number one, I 670 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,360 Speaker 1: want to know if I'm sitting at the table, you know, 671 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 1: and y'all saying like this dude is a chump, and 672 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 1: I don't know why you're marrying him, and look, he 673 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 1: doesn't even speak our language. And then then what I 674 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 1: would love to be able to do in my fantasy 675 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 1: is go row rare country, oh you know, and then 676 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 1: and then tell them what I think. But look at 677 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 1: this Jason Brown. I mean he's been on Dua Liipa 678 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 1: now for what a year? Yeah, well more than that 679 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 1: I started in twenty twenty. Okay, so four five years five? 680 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 1: Have you ever broken your streak? 681 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:48,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, there's some freezes, like if I'm too inebriated one night, 682 00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 5: but that's okay, it doesn't Again, you've learned. 683 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 1: A lot, like you're really really good. Yeah, it wouldn't 684 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,959 Speaker 1: be that hard for this woman to learn some I mean, 685 00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:00,000 Speaker 1: I think it would be endearing if she'd learn some stuff. 686 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think you're asking her to be fluent, 687 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 1: are you? 688 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:03,680 Speaker 6: No? 689 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 15: I mean, and and yeah, that's that's how I feel. 690 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,480 Speaker 15: I mean, honestly, I was turned off by her response, 691 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 15: and that's when I started questioning things. 692 00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:14,560 Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm asking too much here just 693 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 1: learning something not. 694 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 8: At all, of course, And my like, for example, my 695 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,640 Speaker 8: stepdad did not speak any Polish and my mom is Polish. 696 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,479 Speaker 8: My grandma doesn't say anything in English besides hello. So 697 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 8: when when she came here, I mean, hello Grandma saying hello, 698 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 8: so like it's the cutest thing ever. But like when 699 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 8: she was here, when should come visit, and you know, 700 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 8: they would have to like eat at the table together 701 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,959 Speaker 8: like he would try, and I think that was like 702 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 8: he didn't do well. 703 00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 1: But he tried, was the point? Yes, right, And that 704 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 1: probably went a long way to this woman who is like, wow, 705 00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 1: this dude cares enough exactly try and you know, figure 706 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:50,600 Speaker 1: something out. 707 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:53,080 Speaker 8: Plus, like, if you guys have kids, I'm curious, diego, 708 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 8: are you guys going to teach them Spanish or do 709 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,320 Speaker 8: you want to? I'm assuming yes, But what do you 710 00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 8: guys want to do? 711 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 1: Oh? Absolutely? 712 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,959 Speaker 15: I mean we haven't talked about kids really to be honest, 713 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 15: but I obviously would want any children, yeah, to be 714 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 15: able to speak both languages. 715 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,239 Speaker 1: Here, I would think, and that would look good not 716 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 1: only to your family the effort at least, but then 717 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:20,000 Speaker 1: also the buy in on your culture and your upbringing 718 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,240 Speaker 1: and your family for the kids that you guys might 719 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 1: have at some point, because you know, again, what if 720 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,520 Speaker 1: they're looking at mom and Mom's like I don't know 721 00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:30,200 Speaker 1: what they're saying and I don't care, well, then what 722 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 1: is their incentive to learn? You know, if Mom's at 723 00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:36,720 Speaker 1: least trying, I just I feel like she, I feel 724 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:38,240 Speaker 1: like this is something that's not that hard to say. 725 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,760 Speaker 1: I'll try, right, you know, Like, again, no one's asking 726 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 1: you to be a Spanish professor in a year or something. 727 00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 1: You know, no one's asking you to like go work 728 00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 1: at Telemundo, deliver the news every night or whatever to 729 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,719 Speaker 1: to you know, native Spanish speakers like, I don't know, 730 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:54,720 Speaker 1: dieg let me take some phone calls on this, and 731 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 1: I would love to know what people have to say 732 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 1: if they've been through this before. But I don't know what. 733 00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,560 Speaker 1: I'm just going around the room here, I gotta say, 734 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,120 Speaker 1: do we all agree? Like I think it's kind of 735 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:03,280 Speaker 1: messed up? I think so. 736 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 8: And another thing too, is like not only the great 737 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 8: is it effort, but like I feel like there's no 738 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,440 Speaker 8: there's nothing bat will come out of this for learning 739 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 8: another language. 740 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:13,280 Speaker 1: Relli's trying to And like the only thing I would 741 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 1: say on. 742 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 8: The flip side is maybe because I suffer with this 743 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,160 Speaker 8: in my Spanish is like I'm shy, I'm gonna say 744 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,200 Speaker 8: words wrong, right, So if I conversate with you and 745 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 8: you know you're obviously flu when you're saying this, I 746 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,520 Speaker 8: might feel a little silly because I'm like, oh, I 747 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,760 Speaker 8: can't say that word correctly. It comes off like you know, 748 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 8: I don't have the accent. But you know what I 749 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 8: learned from my mom My mom did to speak English. 750 00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,840 Speaker 8: Coming to this country, and guess what, every day she 751 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 8: still gets up and tries, you know, and she speaks 752 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 8: obviously way better English today than thirty years ago, but 753 00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 8: you know, she still says words wrong. 754 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 1: That's okay. You are Polish in Mexico, correct, And I mean, 755 00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:46,640 Speaker 1: and I don't want to tell you a story, but 756 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 1: I would say that the Polish aspect of your life 757 00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:53,400 Speaker 1: was more embraced simply because that was the presence, right, 758 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,239 Speaker 1: because your mom was around, so I only grew up 759 00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 1: with my mother, right, So then, so that was sort 760 00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:00,480 Speaker 1: of the emphasis, right, was the Polish learning Polish average, 761 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 1: And then you decided to sort of like explore the 762 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 1: other part of this on your own, and then you 763 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,560 Speaker 1: wind up marrying into his in a Hispanic family. So 764 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,400 Speaker 1: now it's like, and I know that you have some 765 00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,759 Speaker 1: insecurity about this too, don't you, like, Cause it's like, well, 766 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:15,319 Speaker 1: this is part of me, but I don't really know 767 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,319 Speaker 1: anything about it and I'm trying to learn, but yet 768 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,040 Speaker 1: these people this is like what they know. And so yeah, 769 00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:21,520 Speaker 1: and so you kind of I'm sure you feel like 770 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 1: a little left out. 771 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:23,920 Speaker 8: Yeah, well, thank you for acknowledging that, because that is 772 00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 8: like a huge thing for me. Personally as as a 773 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:28,399 Speaker 8: mixed person. But also I know a lot of even 774 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 8: Mexican Americans go through that. Who you know, we're born 775 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,359 Speaker 8: here who don't speak Spanish because they weren't taught there, 776 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 8: whatever reason that might be, right, your parents didn't want 777 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,240 Speaker 8: to teach you, and they had their reasons. 778 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:38,440 Speaker 1: So I can't blame a lot of people. 779 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:40,879 Speaker 8: But a lot of times it's like your own community too, 780 00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 8: coming after you, right, it's like, oh, you're a Nosamo kid. 781 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,360 Speaker 8: It's like, yeah, I am, because I wasn't taught that 782 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:47,040 Speaker 8: by a parent. Like that's something that was out of 783 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 8: my control. So as an adult, you know, what is 784 00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 8: in my control is picking up Dualipa like Jason, yeah, and. 785 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 1: Learning you know. 786 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 8: And I was always surrounded by Spanish speakers in high school. 787 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 8: My high school was ninety percent Hispanic speaking, you know, 788 00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,200 Speaker 8: her Spanish speaking, so Hispanic you know, students. So I 789 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:01,480 Speaker 8: was able to like kind of pick that up a 790 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,279 Speaker 8: little bit too. So like that, I know I'm lucky for, 791 00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,239 Speaker 8: but I still struggle with it. 792 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:08,239 Speaker 1: I want to be the odd person out either. I mean, 793 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,360 Speaker 1: let's just okay, so let's say this woman Diego doesn't 794 00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,360 Speaker 1: care about your culture, he doesn't care about your language, 795 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:18,600 Speaker 1: doesn't care about your family or or ingratiating herself with them. 796 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:20,640 Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to be sitting in the room having 797 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 1: no idea what my kids and everybody else talking about. 798 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:26,279 Speaker 1: I don't know. So even if it's selfish, I guess 799 00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,880 Speaker 1: I would make the effort so that I wasn't shunned. 800 00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 1: But let me take some calls Diego, I have the 801 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:35,120 Speaker 1: radio on a good luck thanks for calling. Dump her. Yeah, 802 00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:37,840 Speaker 1: I think she's I don't like it. It seems very selfish. 803 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:39,759 Speaker 1: I mean again, you're not asking her. It's not like 804 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:42,120 Speaker 1: you're saying I need you to go. I need you 805 00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,799 Speaker 1: to be fluent. I need you to know past participle 806 00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 1: and I need you to be I need you to 807 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:50,640 Speaker 1: know all the irregulars the AI. Yeah. Cause again, I 808 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 1: took Spanish for twelve years, and I can tell with 809 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,719 Speaker 1: a little bit of if I go to Mexico, you know, 810 00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 1: and I sort of hear it a little bit. I 811 00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 1: can tell you what's happening right now. Okay, I can 812 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,799 Speaker 1: tell you what's happening right now. Do not ask me 813 00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 1: what happened yesterday. Yeah, don't ask me what's going to 814 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,360 Speaker 1: happen tomorrow. We don't do that to happen, that's what 815 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:07,680 Speaker 1: you're doing. 816 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:08,279 Speaker 3: I don't know. 817 00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:10,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what used to happen. 818 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,480 Speaker 1: What I know is what's right in front of me. 819 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 1: Do you're not no in I pass out, don't ask 820 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:24,319 Speaker 1: me that. Hello bridges at bridget, how you doing it. 821 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:24,719 Speaker 3: Is for JA? 822 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:25,280 Speaker 1: Good morning? 823 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:25,879 Speaker 16: How are you guys? 824 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 13: Let you go? 825 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,399 Speaker 1: Thanks for calling and thank you so Diego just called. 826 00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,960 Speaker 1: If you just tuning in. And he's thinking about marrying 827 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:36,279 Speaker 1: this woman but his whole family speaks Spanish primarily, and 828 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,200 Speaker 1: he's like, hey, would you would you learn some words 829 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 1: so maybe you can, I don't know, make them feel comfortable, 830 00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:42,920 Speaker 1: make them feel like you care kind of thing. And 831 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 1: she said, no, I won't do it. What do you think? 832 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think it's time to go. 833 00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,680 Speaker 16: When somebody shows you who they are and the effort 834 00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,440 Speaker 16: they're willing to put in or not put in, believe 835 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:54,280 Speaker 16: them the first time. 836 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. I've seen videos on TikTok of like men 837 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:04,240 Speaker 1: or women learn entire speeches in another language to recite, 838 00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:06,560 Speaker 1: Like they'll take a year worth of classes to learn 839 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:09,719 Speaker 1: how to give their wedding speech at the wedding in 840 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,880 Speaker 1: the native language. And even though it's not good or 841 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:14,879 Speaker 1: they stumble all over it or they're nervous or whatever. 842 00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:17,160 Speaker 1: It's like I've seen, you know, the people who it's 843 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:18,960 Speaker 1: affecting are the people who it's being done for. Like 844 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,799 Speaker 1: they they're so emotional because like this dude cared enough 845 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,200 Speaker 1: to go take Russian, you know what I'm saying, like 846 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 1: or something really difficult to be able to do this 847 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,799 Speaker 1: for me on this day. I think it really goes 848 00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:29,680 Speaker 1: along the way or. 849 00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,919 Speaker 16: To show that you care about somebody's family. Yes, he's 850 00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 16: not asking for much, he's asking just to try. Like 851 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 16: you said, he's not asking for Telemundo level speaking, no, 852 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:39,960 Speaker 16: asking for trying. 853 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: I agree. Thank you, Richie, have a great day. Thanks 854 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:42,400 Speaker 1: for listening. 855 00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:43,239 Speaker 6: Thank you you too. 856 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:44,759 Speaker 1: Appreciate you. That's a good point. 857 00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 8: And also to like someone kind of texted this in 858 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,799 Speaker 8: and I thought it was a valid point. It's like, yeah, 859 00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 8: like the language is a part of your culture, but 860 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 8: like there's more to that, like if they do have 861 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:54,680 Speaker 8: kids or whatever, right, and like she's going to be 862 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,360 Speaker 8: around like the family like like that that's the culture 863 00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 8: is a lifestyle, you know what I mean. So like 864 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:01,760 Speaker 8: the fo oh, the music, all of that all ties 865 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:03,520 Speaker 8: into the language. So I think it's all important if 866 00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,000 Speaker 8: you're gonna marry to that family to embrace. 867 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 1: All of it. My tech Well, and we know people, 868 00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:12,920 Speaker 1: well Bellahamine didn't become she didn't she didn't become Jewish 869 00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:14,919 Speaker 1: for her husband, but it was a part of him, 870 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:18,719 Speaker 1: and she did it for herself and for him, you know. 871 00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:20,480 Speaker 1: But like I know people who have gone all the 872 00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,799 Speaker 1: way they've they've become Jewish, they've become you know, Christians, 873 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,879 Speaker 1: are born again or whatever it is because they knew 874 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:28,680 Speaker 1: how important that was to their partner. And he's not 875 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,080 Speaker 1: asking for that. He's asking you to, like get on 876 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 1: YouTube and learn a couple of words. Hey, Angel, how 877 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:39,359 Speaker 1: you doing. Good morning, Thanks for Colin. What do you think, Well, 878 00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 1: I think, you. 879 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:42,719 Speaker 17: Know, as a Mexican, he needs to he needs to 880 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:46,360 Speaker 17: let her go. I mean, he's not asking too much. 881 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:50,880 Speaker 17: It's just kind of making a little effort and just said, 882 00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:53,840 Speaker 17: you know, she's not gonna make a speech, do a 883 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,640 Speaker 17: speech or something like that. It just kind of how 884 00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:59,839 Speaker 17: something to stay with his family, and she's not willing 885 00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:04,360 Speaker 17: to like that is you know, she's dating him in 886 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:09,000 Speaker 17: the first place she knows, I mean, she knows she's 887 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:12,160 Speaker 17: getting into so she is she needs to let her go. 888 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,040 Speaker 1: I'm serious, and the whole like they should learn English stuff. 889 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:26,080 Speaker 17: It's like, and I bet she's beating all the Mexican food, right. 890 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:23,279 Speaker 12: She. 891 00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:27,759 Speaker 1: Likes some of it and I don't like the other 892 00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 1: parts of it. That's not how this works. I think 893 00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 1: it's it's for me. It's not even the fact that 894 00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,759 Speaker 1: she didn't come to this conclusion on her own. It's 895 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 1: the hard no, which uh, which I think Toy is 896 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:40,600 Speaker 1: about to talk about to thank you so much for 897 00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:45,719 Speaker 1: Colin have a great day. That's about as far as 898 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:50,759 Speaker 1: I can go with that. Tory, Hello, Tory, We're on 899 00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:53,239 Speaker 1: the same page here, Like why the hard no is 900 00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:56,319 Speaker 1: so fast? Like not even let me think about that? 901 00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:58,040 Speaker 16: Right? 902 00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:01,280 Speaker 18: And I teach in the primary a school where people 903 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,760 Speaker 18: primarily speak Spanish, and I'm not fluent, and I feel 904 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,960 Speaker 18: so uncomfortable where I'm trying. 905 00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:07,520 Speaker 8: To learn Spanish. 906 00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:09,319 Speaker 18: So at least I have like an idea and I 907 00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:12,000 Speaker 18: can try. And so it's so bizarre that you would 908 00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,799 Speaker 18: just be in a family where you would have no 909 00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,439 Speaker 18: idea how to communicate with them. 910 00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I still think it's asking for much. Thank you, Tory. 911 00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,480 Speaker 1: Have a great day, you too, glad you call. Thank 912 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:26,120 Speaker 1: you for listening. Miguel, good morning, good morning. 913 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:26,640 Speaker 3: How are you guys. 914 00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:28,279 Speaker 1: I love your show. Hey man, thank you so much, 915 00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:28,880 Speaker 1: you say. 916 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:28,840 Speaker 4: Go. 917 00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,200 Speaker 9: Yeah, so, I mean I'm in the same style of 918 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,880 Speaker 9: the relationship. I'm Mexican and my wife is white. You know, 919 00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,000 Speaker 9: when we started dating and she came ound the family, 920 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,239 Speaker 9: they do speak English, but you know, a lot of 921 00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,759 Speaker 9: the conversation does go to Spanish. She tried to pick 922 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,640 Speaker 9: it up. She's doing to do a linga to uh, 923 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,279 Speaker 9: to try to learn just with. 924 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:48,719 Speaker 13: Thout even me. 925 00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:50,799 Speaker 9: Askedy, it's the effort that you want to put in 926 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:51,560 Speaker 9: the relationship. 927 00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:52,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, hard. 928 00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:53,360 Speaker 4: No, I don't want to. 929 00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:55,600 Speaker 9: Put any effort into it and just doesn't want to 930 00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:56,279 Speaker 9: be a part of it. 931 00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:56,759 Speaker 13: Yeah. 932 00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:58,640 Speaker 1: I don't think it's that hard. Thank you, Miguel. Have 933 00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,960 Speaker 1: a great day and good for her. Yes, yeah, take care. Hey, 934 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 1: Liz Hi Lives good morning, Hi, good morning. Hey, so 935 00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,600 Speaker 1: you've been this has happened to you like this story? 936 00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:09,279 Speaker 1: Is somebody that he resonates with you? 937 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:15,439 Speaker 3: Yes, I dated someone for a couple of years. He 938 00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 3: did not want to. 939 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:20,360 Speaker 19: Learn any Spanish. At all, and it just became too 940 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:24,560 Speaker 19: too hard. It strained our relationship my parents. 941 00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:25,680 Speaker 3: I'm Mexican, my. 942 00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:31,359 Speaker 19: Parents speak Spanish as a first language, and he every 943 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,360 Speaker 19: time he would come over to the house, he would 944 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,840 Speaker 19: have me translate what my parents were seeing. 945 00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,799 Speaker 1: And it's like, you can't learn anything, like you can't 946 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:43,400 Speaker 1: greet them, or I don't know, learn basic sense like 947 00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:44,920 Speaker 1: not you're not willing to do anything. 948 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,880 Speaker 3: Yep, he just didn't want to learn. So I'm like, 949 00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:50,399 Speaker 3: you know what, this is not going to work. You're 950 00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,120 Speaker 3: not putting an effort. You're showing me you do not care. 951 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with you. Thank you, Liz, have a 952 00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,400 Speaker 1: good day you too. Okay, now this is going to 953 00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:01,280 Speaker 1: be fun. One more Anna, Hi Anna, cry good morning. 954 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:04,200 Speaker 6: An I'm calling a radio show. 955 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:10,160 Speaker 1: Well, oh my gosh, aim higher call a better one. No, 956 00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:12,640 Speaker 1: so you know you know Polish because of somebody? 957 00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,799 Speaker 6: Well no, well let me okay, let me elaborate. So 958 00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,640 Speaker 6: mine black, and of course my son is too, but 959 00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:24,439 Speaker 6: my son his partner is Polish. And so I have 960 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:28,640 Speaker 6: a black and Polish grandson. You, I mean, very young, 961 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:32,680 Speaker 6: but my son and I are making the effort to 962 00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:37,480 Speaker 6: learn Polish on behalf of my grandson, because that's awesome 963 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:43,040 Speaker 6: side of the family. His other grandmother only speaks Polish. 964 00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:48,359 Speaker 6: You cannot understand a word of her English, though we 965 00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:53,400 Speaker 6: want to be able to all communicate. She's watching his 966 00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:58,360 Speaker 6: other grandmother is watching Chesame Street to try to learn English. 967 00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 1: See this is how it should be. It's just so sweet. 968 00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:04,400 Speaker 1: She's trying. You're trying, and again no one's asking you 969 00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:05,840 Speaker 1: to be fluent. Say something to her and. 970 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:10,800 Speaker 8: Let's see about I mean, I'm trying a complete blank 971 00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:11,319 Speaker 8: right now. 972 00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:15,080 Speaker 1: No, Leanna, you know you're you're a bop jaw. You 973 00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,920 Speaker 1: know that right, You're a grandma. You're about jest. Yeah, 974 00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:19,799 Speaker 1: don't call her that he. 975 00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,800 Speaker 6: Wants him to call her, but yes, and and he 976 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:25,040 Speaker 6: can of course call me that too. But I just 977 00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,879 Speaker 6: think that that is I mean, you guys have said 978 00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 6: it already. It's very selfish and self tenator of her 979 00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:35,400 Speaker 6: not to be willing to share that with him and 980 00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:38,640 Speaker 6: his family, and of course what an impact I would 981 00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,040 Speaker 6: have on their kids. So I just you know, my 982 00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:43,280 Speaker 6: grandson just came to mind when I heard you guys 983 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:44,040 Speaker 6: talking about this. 984 00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,399 Speaker 1: Well, Anna, I commend you and thank you for calling 985 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:49,680 Speaker 1: you call any time, Okay, We'll do all right, have 986 00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:51,919 Speaker 1: a good day. It's the Fresh Show. Coude morning. Thanks 987 00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 1: for waking up with us waiting by the phone. Why 988 00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:55,960 Speaker 1: did somebody get ghosted? That's coming up. 989 00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,919 Speaker 13: Caitlin's entertainment report. He's on the Fresh Show. 990 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:03,600 Speaker 12: The Universal Music Group issued its first official court response 991 00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,640 Speaker 12: to Drake suiting the label for defamation as it relates 992 00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:08,920 Speaker 12: to Kendrick Lamar's not like Us Now. 993 00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:10,799 Speaker 1: The lawyers filed a. 994 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:15,120 Speaker 12: Motion to dismiss his lawsuit, calling Drake's allegations meritless and 995 00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:18,680 Speaker 12: tressing that public embarrassment is the real reason he chose 996 00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:21,279 Speaker 12: to sue. They wrote, and this is legal speak, but 997 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,239 Speaker 12: he's getting bodied once again. Plaintiff, one of the most 998 00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:27,560 Speaker 12: successful recording artists of all time, lost a rap battle 999 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:31,520 Speaker 12: that he provoked and in which he willingly participated. Instead 1000 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,640 Speaker 12: of accepting the loss, like the unbothered rap artist he 1001 00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:37,640 Speaker 12: often claims to be, he has sued his own record 1002 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:41,600 Speaker 12: label in a misguided attempt to solve his own wounds. 1003 00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:42,080 Speaker 3: Now. 1004 00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,480 Speaker 12: UMG went on to argue that Drake issued his own 1005 00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:48,839 Speaker 12: incendiary statements toward Kendrick during the battle AKA he threw 1006 00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,799 Speaker 12: shade at Kendrick as well, including accusations that he is 1007 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:55,879 Speaker 12: physically abusive to his partner, that his business partner may 1008 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:57,520 Speaker 12: be the father of one of his children. 1009 00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:59,040 Speaker 1: So Drake was dishing it. 1010 00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:05,920 Speaker 12: However, Drake hyperbolic insults and vitriolic allegations legal speak, very fancy, 1011 00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:09,920 Speaker 12: simply did not engage the public like Kendricks did. Basically, 1012 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:13,400 Speaker 12: Drake got bodied once again, this time in fancy legal 1013 00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:14,600 Speaker 12: talk by his own label. 1014 00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:17,400 Speaker 1: So Drake said this one, oh man, just take. 1015 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:21,160 Speaker 12: The l Yesterday, a judge blocked the release of police 1016 00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:24,160 Speaker 12: images of Gene Hackman and his wife Betsy, who were 1017 00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:26,440 Speaker 12: found dead in their home in Santa Fe, New Mexico. 1018 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,919 Speaker 12: The temporary restraining order also prevents the release of their 1019 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:31,080 Speaker 12: autopsy reports. 1020 00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:31,680 Speaker 1: The families. 1021 00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:35,480 Speaker 12: A state representative requested the order, saying, excuse me that 1022 00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:38,920 Speaker 12: Gene and Betsy wanted to preserve their privacy during their 1023 00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 12: lifetimes and they were very private, and that photos of 1024 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,600 Speaker 12: their dead bodies should not be exploited for entertainment value. 1025 00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:47,399 Speaker 12: The medical examiner did say that Betsy died of an 1026 00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:52,279 Speaker 12: infection transmitted through rodent feces sometime around February eleventh. Jean, 1027 00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,839 Speaker 12: who had severe Alzheimer's died about a week later of 1028 00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:56,799 Speaker 12: heart disease, so he. 1029 00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:59,000 Speaker 1: Was living in there with his wife and didn't even know. 1030 00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,399 Speaker 12: It's so try there's not going to be a hearing 1031 00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:04,239 Speaker 12: on March thirty first to see if it's going to 1032 00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 12: be more permanent to prevent the disclosure of those images 1033 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:08,680 Speaker 12: and those reports. 1034 00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:09,839 Speaker 1: So we'll see what happens there. 1035 00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:14,239 Speaker 12: And lastly, and happier news, Mariah Carey had Anderson Pack 1036 00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:18,000 Speaker 12: with her at our iHeartRadio Music Awards last night, hosted 1037 00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:20,120 Speaker 12: by Ell Cool Jay, where she was honored with the 1038 00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:22,680 Speaker 12: Icon Award. He even helped her up on stage, which 1039 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:25,120 Speaker 12: was very cute. Now, they have been working on new music, 1040 00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:28,360 Speaker 12: but they've been keeping those dating rumors alive for months, 1041 00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:30,719 Speaker 12: so I think it's a little more than that. Elsewhere 1042 00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 12: in the show, Taylor Swift was the big winner with 1043 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:36,320 Speaker 12: nine total awards, including all six of her fan voted awards, 1044 00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,560 Speaker 12: one of which she actually won with her man Travis 1045 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,759 Speaker 12: Kelce for his surprise appearance on stage at the Arastour 1046 00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:42,080 Speaker 12: and his. 1047 00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:42,960 Speaker 1: Little top hat. 1048 00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 12: Last night was actually the two year anniversary of the 1049 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:49,320 Speaker 12: very first Erastour show, and while Taylor wasn't there in person, 1050 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:52,080 Speaker 12: she spoke to fans in a video message, which was 1051 00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:55,839 Speaker 12: introduced by Major Swifty Nikki Glacier. She saw her on 1052 00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:57,799 Speaker 12: the Aristore a million times. I think she spent like 1053 00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:01,520 Speaker 12: thousands of dollars on tickets. Well played never before seen 1054 00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:04,160 Speaker 12: footage from that very first night in Arizona. 1055 00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,279 Speaker 1: But the only thing that I could focus. 1056 00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,000 Speaker 12: On was the fact that Taylor was wearing a snake 1057 00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 12: necklace in her acceptance video, signaling to me that reputation 1058 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:14,840 Speaker 12: Taylor's version is on the way. But I've been clowning 1059 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,160 Speaker 12: and I've been wrong before. But fingers crossed, why would 1060 00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:19,759 Speaker 12: you wear that if not for that reason. By the way, 1061 00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:22,399 Speaker 12: if you miss any part of our show, The Friend Show, 1062 00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,600 Speaker 12: just searts the Fread Show on demand and catch up 1063 00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 12: on every single thing on the free iHeart radio app. 1064 00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:29,759 Speaker 1: It's the freend Show. Good morning, Thanks for having us 1065 00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,160 Speaker 1: on the radio. On the iHeart app live and anytime 1066 00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:34,360 Speaker 1: search for The Fred Show on demand. Kalen has walky 1067 00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:38,000 Speaker 1: talkies in her home. She lives in a one bedroom apartment. 1068 00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,279 Speaker 1: I have not been there. I've just I'm familiar with 1069 00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,919 Speaker 1: the way you've described it. You and your boyfriend live 1070 00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,840 Speaker 1: in a one bedroom apartment and he bought you walkie 1071 00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 1: talkies for Christmas. Yeah, because because you go to bed 1072 00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 1: earlier than he does. Yes, and God forbid, you'd have 1073 00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:55,399 Speaker 1: to stop talking to each other at some point, even 1074 00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:57,040 Speaker 1: though you're in bed, and the purpose of being in 1075 00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:59,440 Speaker 1: bed would be to sleep. Yeah, Well, things come up, 1076 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 1: so then you walkie talkie. So he'll be on the 1077 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,120 Speaker 1: couch in the living room. Yeah, and then you're in 1078 00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,480 Speaker 1: the bed and then you walkie talkie. 1079 00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:07,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1080 00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,520 Speaker 12: And it has been the best investment that we have 1081 00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,080 Speaker 12: ever made. Okay, first of all, so here's another example. 1082 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:12,799 Speaker 1: On Wyan Street. 1083 00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:15,120 Speaker 12: So he wakes up earlier than me on the weekends 1084 00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,200 Speaker 12: because you know, especially Saturday Friday. 1085 00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:18,840 Speaker 7: I don't know if you guys are dead like I am, 1086 00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:20,080 Speaker 7: but I'm just dead to the. 1087 00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:22,000 Speaker 12: World, and so I sleep in a little bit later 1088 00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 12: because I'm catching up on all the sleep from the week. 1089 00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:26,359 Speaker 7: So this Saturday morning, I woke up. 1090 00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:28,359 Speaker 12: He was not in bed, and I didn't know where 1091 00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 12: he was, but he placed the walkie talkie next to 1092 00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:34,399 Speaker 12: my head turned on. So I just walkie talkie and said, 1093 00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:35,399 Speaker 12: what are you doing out there? 1094 00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:37,360 Speaker 1: And then he told me, because you know, you wake up, 1095 00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:37,960 Speaker 1: you don't want. 1096 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:39,520 Speaker 12: To get up yet you want to figure out, Oh, 1097 00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:40,720 Speaker 12: can you bring me some coffee? 1098 00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,840 Speaker 1: Yes? I can, God forbid you, like just say hello, 1099 00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:47,759 Speaker 1: pardon me. I mean you're acting like you live in 1100 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:49,880 Speaker 1: the taj mahll or something like that. You need that 1101 00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:52,840 Speaker 1: you need, you know, this sort of communication. 1102 00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:55,000 Speaker 20: I do and listen when I go to bed early, 1103 00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:58,480 Speaker 20: like I can't sleep, so like any me getting up 1104 00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:00,960 Speaker 20: and seeing the light or the tea or anything like 1105 00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:03,719 Speaker 20: it messes with my sleep, Like I have, I need 1106 00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:06,520 Speaker 20: like four hours to really you know, wind down. 1107 00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,160 Speaker 1: But a speaker with a battery in it next to 1108 00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:12,000 Speaker 1: your head that someone can yell into you into your 1109 00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:14,600 Speaker 1: ear anytime. That's you need that though I was thinking 1110 00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:15,239 Speaker 1: that I do. 1111 00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:17,560 Speaker 7: And also if I yell, our dog freaks out. She 1112 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,839 Speaker 7: doesn't like that. So me just like, can you bring 1113 00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:20,520 Speaker 7: me some water? 1114 00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:20,840 Speaker 4: You know? 1115 00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:22,400 Speaker 1: Like is this to startle you? 1116 00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:22,680 Speaker 4: Though? 1117 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:23,319 Speaker 21: No? 1118 00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:26,840 Speaker 1: Like is it like like the chirp remember the chirp phones? 1119 00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 4: Is it chirping? No? 1120 00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:29,200 Speaker 7: It is not an Excel chirp phone. 1121 00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:32,120 Speaker 12: It literally just goes like like it doesn't there's no 1122 00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:32,920 Speaker 12: beeping or anything. 1123 00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:37,200 Speaker 1: It's very nice. I just you know, I think sometimes 1124 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,440 Speaker 1: I go into a different room where there aren't people 1125 00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:41,960 Speaker 1: so that I don't have to interact with them, right, 1126 00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:45,840 Speaker 1: I don't necessarily get another layer of ways to communicate 1127 00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:46,080 Speaker 1: with me. 1128 00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:47,520 Speaker 7: Well, we're not having full dialogues. 1129 00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:51,880 Speaker 1: It's just can you basically, can you bring me something? Gay? 1130 00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:52,319 Speaker 1: I like that. 1131 00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:54,640 Speaker 7: No, I want to know, like what he's doing out there. 1132 00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:57,680 Speaker 1: I just okay. 1133 00:49:57,800 --> 00:49:59,080 Speaker 7: I's been a game changer. 1134 00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:00,120 Speaker 1: I'm not even joking. 1135 00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:01,799 Speaker 7: It's been the best decision we've ever made. 1136 00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:05,879 Speaker 1: I'm telling I like it. I just no, No, it's 1137 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:07,759 Speaker 1: just no. It's as an over me, Doug, And I'm 1138 00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,120 Speaker 1: glad it works for you, guys. It's wonderful. But like 1139 00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:12,040 Speaker 1: the whole purpose of me being like, hey, why don't 1140 00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:13,360 Speaker 1: you hang out in the living room for a while 1141 00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:16,560 Speaker 1: or you're going to bed? Okay, cool, then all hang 1142 00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:19,919 Speaker 1: out here for a little while. It's okay. Switch to do. Yeah, 1143 00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:21,920 Speaker 1: well it sounds like it with the walkie talkie. It's 1144 00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,279 Speaker 1: where's my coffee? What's the score? What are you doing 1145 00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,360 Speaker 1: for me? What are you cooking for me? What have 1146 00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:27,880 Speaker 1: you done for me yet today? 1147 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:28,239 Speaker 4: No? 1148 00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,320 Speaker 1: But I think I just think sometimes it's like, okay, 1149 00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:33,439 Speaker 1: not to talk all the time. He's an other person. Yeah, 1150 00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:34,640 Speaker 1: it's from time to time. 1151 00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:35,800 Speaker 7: It's not a lot of talking. 1152 00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:37,319 Speaker 12: But again, like he won't come into the bedroom when 1153 00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:38,879 Speaker 12: I'm sleeping because he doesn't want to wake me up. 1154 00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:42,240 Speaker 7: So if I tell him, you know, hey, is your boyfriend? 1155 00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:42,480 Speaker 3: Uh? 1156 00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:43,960 Speaker 1: Big tim? Is he this thoughtful? 1157 00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:44,560 Speaker 4: No? 1158 00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:46,640 Speaker 10: And I saw like, hey, Well the other day, I'm like, 1159 00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:49,760 Speaker 10: I like this walkie talkie idea because this man ignores 1160 00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:50,560 Speaker 10: text messages. 1161 00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:52,280 Speaker 1: He's like, I didn't see your. 1162 00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:54,719 Speaker 10: Text, bro, you saw my text and you heard me 1163 00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:56,080 Speaker 10: call your name three times. 1164 00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:58,640 Speaker 1: So I like this walky talky idea. We need like 1165 00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,600 Speaker 1: a they think like a one I did walk it 1166 00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:03,480 Speaker 1: talkie like where I do the talking and you the 1167 00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:05,560 Speaker 1: listening happens with it. You can't you can't come back 1168 00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:06,240 Speaker 1: to me with anything. 1169 00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:08,200 Speaker 12: That's like our text line when we black people like 1170 00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:10,120 Speaker 12: they can text us, so we just can't reply. 1171 00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:12,319 Speaker 1: Yes, so we have a text, right, we have a 1172 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:14,040 Speaker 1: thing and we can look at you can text the 1173 00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:16,560 Speaker 1: number and we can like look at what you're texting obviously, 1174 00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:19,279 Speaker 1: and so if if you like are really terrible to us, 1175 00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:22,080 Speaker 1: and some people are really terrible to us and we 1176 00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:24,680 Speaker 1: block you, all that does is mean that we can't 1177 00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:26,640 Speaker 1: talk to you. But you could still say terrible things 1178 00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,760 Speaker 1: to us. It's a great blocking mechanism. It works perfectly. 1179 00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,359 Speaker 12: It's like we're tied down and they're just sell us 1180 00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:33,520 Speaker 12: and we can't do it exactly. 1181 00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:36,080 Speaker 1: It's like we just meted ourselves basically and allowed you 1182 00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:38,600 Speaker 1: to just say what you want one side. Oh, it's wonderful. 1183 00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:39,440 Speaker 1: We played ourselves. 1184 00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:39,680 Speaker 4: Wow. 1185 00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:42,239 Speaker 1: Okay, so game changer, guys, we've learned it to start 1186 00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:44,320 Speaker 1: the show, to start the week. Game changer in a 1187 00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:48,600 Speaker 1: relationship is to always be in two way communication. Never 1188 00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,759 Speaker 1: not be Okay, now, see Jason, you're not in your 1189 00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:54,880 Speaker 1: head the same way. Like sometimes the silence is exactly 1190 00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,600 Speaker 1: what I'm looking for. Yeah, I mean. 1191 00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:58,920 Speaker 5: We're always in the same room no matter what, Like 1192 00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:01,480 Speaker 5: Mike and I are always It's like it's like what 1193 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,520 Speaker 5: we're following each other around, Like we're gonna go sit 1194 00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:05,719 Speaker 5: in the den. We're like sitting watching TV and then 1195 00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:07,680 Speaker 5: he gets up. I'm like, oh, is it time for bed? 1196 00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:08,960 Speaker 5: And he's like yeah, I was like all right. So 1197 00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:12,239 Speaker 5: we get up and we're like, oh no. However, like 1198 00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:15,560 Speaker 5: I'll go to text him something and it'll literally be 1199 00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:18,440 Speaker 5: like five days since we've texted, Like we don't like 1200 00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:21,040 Speaker 5: talk like that, like back and forth, like I don't 1201 00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:23,240 Speaker 5: know what it is like we all day without talking, 1202 00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:25,239 Speaker 5: like literally, I'll be here all day and I will. 1203 00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,960 Speaker 12: You guys never sleep separate, like sometimes my boyfriend will 1204 00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:29,759 Speaker 12: fall asleep on the couch and I'll be in the 1205 00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:30,480 Speaker 12: bed or something. 1206 00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:32,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, we can't. I can maybe sleep with that. Maybe 1207 00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:35,320 Speaker 1: you guys could just sleep then maybe maybe the don't distance. 1208 00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,120 Speaker 7: We're not in constant communicing. 1209 00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:44,359 Speaker 1: Ship sounds like it. And Hobby would never go for this, No, no, no, 1210 00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:48,439 Speaker 1: he would break as a firefighter. That's for saving people's lives. 1211 00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:54,279 Speaker 1: Can I just want some coffee? Yes, exactly, you know what. 1212 00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:55,960 Speaker 1: I think. The batteries will be out of it all 1213 00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:57,880 Speaker 1: the time. I don't know what happened to the batteries, honey, 1214 00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,439 Speaker 1: I have no idea the caddie to batter he's again, 1215 00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:01,200 Speaker 1: we don't have again. 1216 00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:01,719 Speaker 6: I don't know. 1217 00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:07,440 Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. You've ever been left waiting 1218 00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:11,680 Speaker 1: by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Heddy, Welcome to 1219 00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:14,480 Speaker 1: the show. Good morning today. How's it going great? Everything 1220 00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:16,279 Speaker 1: is good. Thank you for asking. We're all in a 1221 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:18,799 Speaker 1: great mood, happy to be here. What's going on? With 1222 00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:21,560 Speaker 1: this woman Anya. We need to know how you guys met, 1223 00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:24,839 Speaker 1: about any dates that you've been on, any conversations you've had, 1224 00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:26,160 Speaker 1: and then what's going on now? 1225 00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:29,920 Speaker 22: Yeah, well we met on Hinge and we I mean 1226 00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:32,120 Speaker 22: we headed off right away. Really, she gave me her 1227 00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:33,880 Speaker 22: number before I even have to ask. She was like, 1228 00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:35,880 Speaker 22: you know, we were super into it. It was a kind of. 1229 00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,840 Speaker 1: Quick click, which definitely signed, by the way, because you 1230 00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:41,399 Speaker 1: could keep the messaging going forever, and it's an easy 1231 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:43,160 Speaker 1: way for someone to just kind of disappear and goes. 1232 00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:46,040 Speaker 1: But once they have once somebody gives you her number 1233 00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,520 Speaker 1: or his number. Now we're talking like, you know, this 1234 00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:49,640 Speaker 1: is real communication. 1235 00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:50,520 Speaker 11: Yeah, that's what I. 1236 00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:52,040 Speaker 22: Talked too, because you know, I've been there where you 1237 00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:53,640 Speaker 22: can just kind of talk forever on the app and 1238 00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:55,400 Speaker 22: then at this stage away but now we switched the 1239 00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:56,279 Speaker 22: text thing pretty quick. 1240 00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,200 Speaker 1: They could have a burner phone a bad idea. Yeah, 1241 00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,640 Speaker 1: actually a dating app burner phone, you know where like 1242 00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,080 Speaker 1: you just give them that number and it's not your 1243 00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:07,560 Speaker 1: real actual number. But then when you carry around two 1244 00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:10,040 Speaker 1: phones everywhere that I think people might be skeptical. That's 1245 00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:12,040 Speaker 1: a sidebar. So you got her number? 1246 00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:15,279 Speaker 22: Actually, maybe maybe that's what happened, because I haven't heard 1247 00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:17,520 Speaker 22: from her, so maybe she did have a burner phone. 1248 00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:20,280 Speaker 22: Now listen, we it seemed to be going great. We're texting, 1249 00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:24,480 Speaker 22: we exchanged socials, Instagram and stuff, and then finally we 1250 00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:27,080 Speaker 22: did make a plan to go on a date. The 1251 00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:30,400 Speaker 22: date comes and nothing, So we planned a couple of 1252 00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:33,200 Speaker 22: days in advance, and on Friday night, she just didn't 1253 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,279 Speaker 22: respond to any text. She was just completely silent. So 1254 00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:37,440 Speaker 22: the date never happened. 1255 00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:40,879 Speaker 11: And I have no idea why she just she. 1256 00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:43,759 Speaker 22: Just ghosted me. Now, was sheeling super bombs? She never, 1257 00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:44,360 Speaker 22: I don't know. 1258 00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:45,920 Speaker 2: She didn't give me a chance at all, just just 1259 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:49,200 Speaker 2: stopped talking. And I'm like, maybe maybe she met someone 1260 00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:51,520 Speaker 2: else or something, but really she could have just told 1261 00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:53,320 Speaker 2: me that, and she just she just gave me nothing. 1262 00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:55,040 Speaker 2: And I have no idea what happened. 1263 00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:57,239 Speaker 1: Okay, so you kind of had loose plans, but you know, 1264 00:54:57,280 --> 00:54:58,799 Speaker 1: the idea was that you would be going out on 1265 00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:01,239 Speaker 1: this on this Friday night, and then it just comes 1266 00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:03,520 Speaker 1: and goes and you reached out like you attempted to 1267 00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:04,800 Speaker 1: kind of circle back, but nothing. 1268 00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:06,759 Speaker 22: Yeah, I was like, how seven work for you? Do 1269 00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:08,879 Speaker 22: you want to go here? Nothing, I said free text, 1270 00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:10,320 Speaker 22: and I was like, all right, I don't want to 1271 00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:11,160 Speaker 22: look crazy. 1272 00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:14,360 Speaker 1: But something's up. Let's call Anya. You'll be on the phone. 1273 00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:16,080 Speaker 1: We'll see if we can get her on the phone. 1274 00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:18,359 Speaker 1: We'll ask some questions. Don't say anything right at first, 1275 00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:19,880 Speaker 1: but at some point you're welcome to jump in on 1276 00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:21,879 Speaker 1: the call and hopefully we can figure out what's going 1277 00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:24,080 Speaker 1: on and set you guys up on another date that 1278 00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:26,480 Speaker 1: we pay for. Okay, all right, sounds good, Thanks so much. 1279 00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:28,480 Speaker 1: You got I'm gonna play one song and then we'll 1280 00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:30,239 Speaker 1: come back and do it. All right, Let's see what 1281 00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,319 Speaker 1: happens next. Part two of Waiting by the Phone after 1282 00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,880 Speaker 1: this song on the Fread show, Good morning, It's the 1283 00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:38,520 Speaker 1: Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone Eddie. Hey, 1284 00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,040 Speaker 1: how's it going? Hey, welcome back? Still going great. I 1285 00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:43,240 Speaker 1: still feel like that's still in a good mood. Everyone's 1286 00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:44,279 Speaker 1: still happy to be Yah. 1287 00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:46,759 Speaker 22: I go to IM just always asking people how they are. 1288 00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:49,840 Speaker 1: No, get Hey, we're good. We're good. Let's call Anya 1289 00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:53,040 Speaker 1: and figure out what's going on. You guys, you met 1290 00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:55,840 Speaker 1: on a dating app on Hinge. Your message and you 1291 00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:59,200 Speaker 1: started texting. You had loose plans, plans come and go, 1292 00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:01,640 Speaker 1: and now she ghosting and you want to know why? 1293 00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:02,280 Speaker 22: Yeah? 1294 00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:02,680 Speaker 1: Something. 1295 00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:04,040 Speaker 22: I just I have no idea what happened. 1296 00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:05,560 Speaker 1: We're gonna call her right now. Good luck? 1297 00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:06,839 Speaker 22: Thanks? 1298 00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:12,000 Speaker 21: Hello? 1299 00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:13,680 Speaker 1: Hi is this Anya? 1300 00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:15,480 Speaker 6: Yes? 1301 00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,319 Speaker 1: Hey, good morning Fred. Yeah, Fred from the Fred Show. 1302 00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,000 Speaker 1: The whole crew is here. I know this is kind 1303 00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:22,480 Speaker 1: of weird. Thank you for picking up a number that 1304 00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:25,480 Speaker 1: you don't know. But we're calling on behalf of a guy. Now, 1305 00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:26,880 Speaker 1: first I have to ask you if it's okay if 1306 00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:28,080 Speaker 1: we talk on the air. Can we talk on the 1307 00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:33,200 Speaker 1: air for a second. Sure? Here, it's kind of ridiculous, 1308 00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:34,640 Speaker 1: I know, but thank you so much. We're calling on 1309 00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:36,680 Speaker 1: behalf of a dude who reached out to us. His 1310 00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:39,200 Speaker 1: name is Eddie. You met him on a hinge. I 1311 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:41,840 Speaker 1: guess you texted a little bit, maybe had some plans 1312 00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:43,760 Speaker 1: and it never happened with Eddie. 1313 00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:48,760 Speaker 21: Oh wow, okay, yeah, uh huh, so that's true. 1314 00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:50,480 Speaker 1: So you know what I'm talking about? 1315 00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:52,000 Speaker 21: I do, Yeah, I do? 1316 00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:54,080 Speaker 1: All right, Well, what happened because he reached out to 1317 00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:55,960 Speaker 1: us and described what he thought was like a good 1318 00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:59,239 Speaker 1: progression that you matched, and then chatted and texted, and 1319 00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:02,440 Speaker 1: then you had some plans and apparently when he kind 1320 00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:04,440 Speaker 1: of tried to follow through on those plans, you disappeared 1321 00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,080 Speaker 1: and and he hasn't heard from you since. So why 1322 00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:06,719 Speaker 1: why is that? 1323 00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:14,840 Speaker 21: Okay, sure, I'll get into it. Okay. So everything seems enormal, 1324 00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:20,280 Speaker 21: uh for a while. But at one point while we 1325 00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:25,960 Speaker 21: were you know, flirting, the like exchange instant handle. 1326 00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,120 Speaker 23: And I thinks just. 1327 00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:30,200 Speaker 21: Got weird after that? 1328 00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:31,640 Speaker 1: Why did they get weird? 1329 00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:37,760 Speaker 21: Started sending me like a lot a lot, a lot 1330 00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:42,080 Speaker 21: a lot of memes, which I like memes. That's not 1331 00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:45,400 Speaker 21: the weird part. It was just like it was the 1332 00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:46,560 Speaker 21: content of them. 1333 00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:49,960 Speaker 1: Okay, So he's started supporting you in like in the 1334 00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:52,680 Speaker 1: d MS weird memes? What what did they say? 1335 00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:56,080 Speaker 21: Uh? Of course, yeah, hold on, I think I have 1336 00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:57,040 Speaker 21: let me just pull it. 1337 00:57:57,840 --> 00:57:59,600 Speaker 1: You can pull them up for us. Oh this is 1338 00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:01,080 Speaker 1: wonder see. 1339 00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:02,480 Speaker 21: Yeah, we've got some receipts. 1340 00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:06,120 Speaker 17: Uh. So okay, so some of them. 1341 00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:11,320 Speaker 21: Are about like true love, oh homemade, and I was like, okay, dude, 1342 00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:15,160 Speaker 21: that's cute, but that's way too soon. Yeah, way too soon. 1343 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:22,160 Speaker 21: And he was got into sending me the really sexual means. 1344 00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:24,800 Speaker 21: And it's not that I'm even prude like I you know, 1345 00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:27,040 Speaker 21: I obviously would like that to be a part of 1346 00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:28,400 Speaker 21: my intimate relationship. 1347 00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:30,200 Speaker 7: But these were really weird ones. 1348 00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:32,600 Speaker 1: And yeah, can you give us an example of one 1349 00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:35,880 Speaker 1: of the sexual ones please, I just I have to know, okay. 1350 00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:41,680 Speaker 21: So okay, Oh, here's one, so me when the airport 1351 00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:45,120 Speaker 21: security finds the metal butt plug in my ass? 1352 00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:46,840 Speaker 1: Wait, wait, give us something? Do you have any more? 1353 00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:48,760 Speaker 13: So? 1354 00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:51,640 Speaker 21: Yeah, okay, So here's here's an Oh, here's a good one. 1355 00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:51,920 Speaker 1: Okay. 1356 00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:57,040 Speaker 21: So it's a girl like a cartoon woman, and she's 1357 00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:57,960 Speaker 21: texting and. 1358 00:58:57,920 --> 00:58:59,480 Speaker 1: It's just why do you. 1359 00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:03,120 Speaker 21: Bring me to the beach every day? And then in 1360 00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:07,880 Speaker 21: a thought bubble above the boy cartoon, it says, desperately 1361 00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:12,520 Speaker 21: trying to get stung by a jellyfish, soci'll on me. 1362 00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:17,720 Speaker 1: True love, soulmates, and let me bring Eddie. And I 1363 00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:18,960 Speaker 1: forgot to mention that Eddie is here. 1364 00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:19,240 Speaker 3: Eddie. 1365 00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:20,920 Speaker 1: I mean, don't you think that some of this content 1366 00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:23,520 Speaker 1: would be a little better suited for someone who knew 1367 00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:25,800 Speaker 1: you a little better and got your sense of humor? 1368 00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:27,200 Speaker 1: I mean, she's never met you. 1369 00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:29,800 Speaker 22: I mean not really funny funny. 1370 00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:35,000 Speaker 1: I feel like they're funny really I love Okay, So 1371 00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:37,960 Speaker 1: I mean you're all laughing, right, but we're also not 1372 00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:39,760 Speaker 1: trying to go out with you or like interested in 1373 00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:41,600 Speaker 1: being in a relationship with you. And I guess if 1374 00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:45,000 Speaker 1: you're this comfortable with jokes like that and we've never met, 1375 00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:47,120 Speaker 1: then I mean, what, I don't know, you know, it's 1376 00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:48,480 Speaker 1: like people they don't get it means. 1377 00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:51,800 Speaker 22: I'm open minded, I'm I'm you know, it's hard to 1378 00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:53,320 Speaker 22: offend me. It's I think it's a good thing. 1379 00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:55,160 Speaker 1: Well, and in fairness, I'm kind of with you on 1380 00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:58,520 Speaker 1: that in some regard, because you know, if if if 1381 00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:01,520 Speaker 1: that's your sense of humor and somebody can't handle it, 1382 01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:03,760 Speaker 1: then it's probably better that you know, you don't hang 1383 01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:07,080 Speaker 1: out anyway. However, sometimes it takes it, you know, a 1384 01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:09,880 Speaker 1: few days to get to know someone develop interest in 1385 01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:12,400 Speaker 1: them to then determine that okay, they got kind of 1386 01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:14,160 Speaker 1: a raunchy sense of him where I can deal with that. 1387 01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,439 Speaker 1: She doesn't even know you, she has no context, but. 1388 01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:17,680 Speaker 22: Like, why beat her on the bush? 1389 01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:18,160 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 1390 01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:19,360 Speaker 22: Just show her who I am right away. 1391 01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:21,200 Speaker 1: But it does come off kind of pervy too, which 1392 01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:23,160 Speaker 1: is the risk you take. And I assume Anya, that 1393 01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:25,000 Speaker 1: was sort of your angle, was this dude's a weirdo? 1394 01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:27,880 Speaker 21: Yeah, to say the lead not charmed. Yeah. 1395 01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:31,400 Speaker 1: Look, he's saying that it's just his sense of humor 1396 01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:33,640 Speaker 1: and he thought he was being funny. Maybe he can 1397 01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:34,800 Speaker 1: tone it back a little bit. 1398 01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:37,040 Speaker 22: Oh no, no, I would never tone it back. 1399 01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:39,400 Speaker 1: Would you consider actually meeting him once and seeing if 1400 01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:40,920 Speaker 1: maybe you know he's for you in person? 1401 01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 21: I don't think so. 1402 01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:43,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1403 01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:45,840 Speaker 1: All right, well that's a shame. So we don't have 1404 01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:47,760 Speaker 1: a love match here, Eddie. I'm sorry it's not going 1405 01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:48,360 Speaker 1: to work out. 1406 01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:52,200 Speaker 22: I'll find someone who gets my sense of humor. 1407 01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:54,600 Speaker 1: Okay, well maybe so. And I hope that for you 1408 01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:56,320 Speaker 1: and Anya, thank you for your time. Best to luck 1409 01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:58,880 Speaker 1: to you as well. No, I think it's the Fred Show, 1410 01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:01,400 Speaker 1: so you're on a new what you call it, woo 1411 01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:06,400 Speaker 1: woo journey? Yeah, and I just we've discussed crystals before. 1412 01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:10,080 Speaker 1: Of course you have to charge your crystals, which you've 1413 01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:12,080 Speaker 1: maybe heard on this show the clip a number of 1414 01:01:12,080 --> 01:01:14,160 Speaker 1: times now, which is something I learned. I didn't know 1415 01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:17,040 Speaker 1: it was like USB or if it was, you know, 1416 01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:19,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what kind of is it? The new 1417 01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,440 Speaker 1: apple cord? The old kind of apple cord? Did you 1418 01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:23,480 Speaker 1: charge you this week? It was a full moon? Well, 1419 01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:25,160 Speaker 1: I didn't know what charge you you. I tried sticking 1420 01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:26,800 Speaker 1: all the different ones in there and I wentn't So 1421 01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:28,520 Speaker 1: only on a full moon. I can only charge it 1422 01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:30,280 Speaker 1: in a full moon. Yes, you have to partial moon 1423 01:01:30,320 --> 01:01:32,280 Speaker 1: won't do it. No, you have to leave your crystals. 1424 01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:35,520 Speaker 1: Those LEAs have been dead forever. Now, that's why it 1425 01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:38,000 Speaker 1: don't work. And what is the latest step on your 1426 01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:38,880 Speaker 1: woo woo journey? 1427 01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:41,200 Speaker 12: So I'm always on a new one. This time it's 1428 01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:43,760 Speaker 12: you know how you've heard of grounding. I'm sure where 1429 01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:45,480 Speaker 12: you take your bare feet and you put them on 1430 01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:47,840 Speaker 12: the earth for at least a half hour, and there's 1431 01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:52,080 Speaker 12: benefits because the charges in the earth charge your body. 1432 01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:54,720 Speaker 12: It kind of neutralizes it with all the electricity were around. 1433 01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:56,440 Speaker 7: Well, I have purchased. 1434 01:01:56,320 --> 01:02:00,479 Speaker 12: Grounding sheets, okay, and they plug into kiki just bear 1435 01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:01,640 Speaker 12: with me here, bear. 1436 01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:04,800 Speaker 7: They plug into the grounding plug in your plug. 1437 01:02:04,840 --> 01:02:05,160 Speaker 1: You know how. 1438 01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:07,880 Speaker 12: There's like the regular plugs, and then there's the other 1439 01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:10,960 Speaker 12: thing you can stick it into picture an outlet and 1440 01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:13,360 Speaker 12: they connect to the earth. So while I sleep, I 1441 01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:15,280 Speaker 12: will now be grounding and I'm going to be a 1442 01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:16,720 Speaker 12: whole new beach. 1443 01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:18,760 Speaker 1: I don't know why shell crow is the first thing 1444 01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:22,560 Speaker 1: that came to mind to play. I don't know why 1445 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:25,560 Speaker 1: Cherl Crow. For some reason, I was like, yeah, I 1446 01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:28,160 Speaker 1: bet she she's talking about grounding sheets. I'm like, you know, 1447 01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:41,240 Speaker 1: I know just what to play here, Cheryl Crowd. No, no, no, 1448 01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:46,480 Speaker 1: we're not, we're not. I don't know why you you're 1449 01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:49,760 Speaker 1: talking about grounding sheets? I bet she grounds? What are 1450 01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:51,080 Speaker 1: they made of? These things? 1451 01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:54,200 Speaker 12: So they have so they're just designed to connect to 1452 01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:57,640 Speaker 12: the earth via the grounding outlet in your plug. 1453 01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:02,680 Speaker 1: So you physically them in. You ground them in the wall, not. 1454 01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:06,080 Speaker 7: Into the electrical but the grounding part of your pug. 1455 01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:09,080 Speaker 1: Which is like the little bottom part, and it's plugging 1456 01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:12,880 Speaker 1: our sheets into the Wallah. I don't know about this, Okay, 1457 01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:17,640 Speaker 1: I think this is how the wildfire started. I'm worried. 1458 01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:20,640 Speaker 1: I'm serious. I'm not joking around. I'm serious about this. 1459 01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:23,040 Speaker 1: People all the time. How can this be a good 1460 01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:24,920 Speaker 1: idea to plug your sheets into. 1461 01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:29,080 Speaker 8: The wall, because they're not like using electricity, that's like 1462 01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:33,920 Speaker 8: a heat of blanket. No, those are dangerous yet they are, 1463 01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:35,920 Speaker 8: my firefighter husband threw right away. 1464 01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:38,800 Speaker 1: So yeah, see there you go. But you can figuring 1465 01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:41,160 Speaker 1: ground stuff in other ways. I don't think you have to. 1466 01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:43,520 Speaker 1: You can attach it to metal. You don't have to 1467 01:03:43,520 --> 01:03:44,880 Speaker 1: plug in the wall to ground it. 1468 01:03:45,000 --> 01:03:47,560 Speaker 12: Well, where I live it's negative for right now, and 1469 01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:49,480 Speaker 12: so I can't take my bare tootsies and put them 1470 01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:50,040 Speaker 12: on the earth. 1471 01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:55,760 Speaker 1: No, well, no, grounding doesn't have to physically mean I 1472 01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:57,200 Speaker 1: think I don't know. I thought there was another way 1473 01:03:57,200 --> 01:03:59,080 Speaker 1: to do. I don't like plugging blankets into the wall. 1474 01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:00,080 Speaker 1: You can't worried about it. 1475 01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:01,960 Speaker 7: Okay, Well, people use mats all the time. 1476 01:04:01,960 --> 01:04:04,280 Speaker 1: I'm sure you know someone who does. I'm I'm sure 1477 01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:06,680 Speaker 1: I do. Yeah. When they Grounding come. 1478 01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:12,760 Speaker 10: Out, you describe it sounds like standing up, Well, do you. 1479 01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:15,480 Speaker 1: Stand up on the earth on the earth. 1480 01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:17,400 Speaker 12: Yes, when you say it's like when you tell me 1481 01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:19,120 Speaker 12: to go outside and touch grass, it's the same thing. 1482 01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:20,560 Speaker 1: Okay, that's where that came from. 1483 01:04:20,720 --> 01:04:23,160 Speaker 14: Yes, you need to be a party, Like like, what 1484 01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:25,560 Speaker 14: did that album Drop, Round and Drop? 1485 01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:28,400 Speaker 12: I would say it's being popular did in the last 1486 01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:30,000 Speaker 12: like fifteen years? 1487 01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:33,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think some of Usher's best work. I thought 1488 01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:35,080 Speaker 1: it was the Grounding album. A lot of people don't 1489 01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:35,720 Speaker 1: talk about it. 1490 01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:36,680 Speaker 7: When I'm different. 1491 01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:40,120 Speaker 1: For the better guys are going to all get mass 1492 01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:42,520 Speaker 1: We're all going to go to target and yet and 1493 01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:44,240 Speaker 1: get sheets and stick them in the wall. 1494 01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:48,320 Speaker 12: Listen, at this point, I will try anything, okay, because 1495 01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:51,120 Speaker 12: I'm going through it, brother, So I'm gonna ground every night. 1496 01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:54,200 Speaker 4: We had a. 1497 01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:56,919 Speaker 1: Sleeping Matt Mike tried to It didn't do nothing for him. 1498 01:04:56,960 --> 01:04:59,479 Speaker 1: He's miserable old. 1499 01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:03,080 Speaker 5: He tried it, he was like thinking that was gonna 1500 01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:05,160 Speaker 5: like I don't know what he thought or what Amazon. 1501 01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:07,200 Speaker 1: So those aren't sheets? How you put this on the 1502 01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:09,200 Speaker 1: bottom of the bed then you sleep on top of it? 1503 01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:09,480 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1504 01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:11,200 Speaker 1: Into the wall too. 1505 01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:14,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, I was just on the worst would go right 1506 01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:18,400 Speaker 5: into the wall. Yeah, maybe it's gonna warm like something. 1507 01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:20,600 Speaker 5: But it did nothing. It just plugged into the wall. 1508 01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:23,360 Speaker 5: But I saw no change. And then he returned. 1509 01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:25,360 Speaker 1: How often did he use it? For a couple of. 1510 01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:27,280 Speaker 5: Weeks, like straight, So I don't know how fast it 1511 01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:28,480 Speaker 5: is supposed to take. But I was like, I don't 1512 01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:29,640 Speaker 5: know what targeted ad got. 1513 01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:31,080 Speaker 1: You or what I told you? 1514 01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:34,080 Speaker 7: What he going to the little fair meetings like I am. 1515 01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:38,160 Speaker 1: I want to We're going to find out on some 1516 01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:40,760 Speaker 1: dateline episode or something. This is all just a scam 1517 01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:43,640 Speaker 1: that some dude named Chad came up with this and 1518 01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:46,439 Speaker 1: got rich and that's all a bunch of bs. Plug 1519 01:05:46,520 --> 01:05:48,840 Speaker 1: my blanket into the water. I'm sorry, I have to 1520 01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:50,120 Speaker 1: play a song and get a minute. 1521 01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:52,040 Speaker 7: You plug your phone into the wall and sleep right 1522 01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:52,640 Speaker 7: next to it. 1523 01:05:53,760 --> 01:06:01,959 Speaker 1: Well, the phone requires electricity to operate, right sheets, I'm worried, Okay, 1524 01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:07,040 Speaker 1: I'm worn. Think of you sometimes and I think about 1525 01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:07,600 Speaker 1: as you. 1526 01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:14,440 Speaker 4: They nice not you. He ways be second heel can 1527 01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:19,440 Speaker 4: make you happy? Now. Sometimes I don't think combodies you. 1528 01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:22,080 Speaker 4: They nice you. 1529 01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:28,560 Speaker 23: He ways be second heel can make you happy he now? 1530 01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:34,000 Speaker 1: Usually I put then so we never think about you 1531 01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:34,440 Speaker 1: and me. 1532 01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:38,960 Speaker 23: But I see are affections clearly in Hollywood. 1533 01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:40,680 Speaker 1: They are on the screen. 1534 01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:42,720 Speaker 13: You just need a better hide than this. 1535 01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:45,880 Speaker 4: You need from there I can have again. 1536 01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:49,240 Speaker 1: They got across. 1537 01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:53,560 Speaker 4: The room, it's gone out and hands calm. But sometimes 1538 01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:57,720 Speaker 4: and I think, ambys you. They nice of the pill you. 1539 01:06:58,800 --> 01:07:03,800 Speaker 4: He ways can be yell can't make you happy? Now 1540 01:07:04,360 --> 01:07:05,560 Speaker 4: you can't fight it. 1541 01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:10,680 Speaker 5: You can't breathe you say something so open, but no, 1542 01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:11,720 Speaker 5: I gotta legend. 1543 01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:16,959 Speaker 4: Might you be better off if someone you I don't 1544 01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:17,400 Speaker 4: want to be. 1545 01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:21,640 Speaker 23: I know it has me too. 1546 01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:26,920 Speaker 1: You look so broken when you cry, and then I 1547 01:07:27,120 --> 01:07:28,000 Speaker 1: say goodbye. 1548 01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:31,600 Speaker 4: So times I'd like to go back to you. They 1549 01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:36,479 Speaker 4: nice into true he was a can be yell. 1550 01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:40,280 Speaker 23: He can't make you happy. 1551 01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:44,160 Speaker 4: Sometimes I'd like to go back to you. Today dies in. 1552 01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:50,760 Speaker 23: The true he wastes can be Yu can't make you happy. 1553 01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:56,520 Speaker 18: Now, I just want your dreaming, want asleep and smile. 1554 01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:59,440 Speaker 1: So come to the ball. I just waste that I 1555 01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:03,720 Speaker 1: can be give you that. Then that's perfectly inside. 1556 01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:05,080 Speaker 4: Sometimes that I. 1557 01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:08,840 Speaker 1: Can compodies you the nice middle. 1558 01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:21,280 Speaker 4: He ways been freakingly, hes been freakingly sometimes accompanies you 1559 01:08:21,920 --> 01:08:26,600 Speaker 4: they nice true he ways been freaking. 1560 01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:29,240 Speaker 23: Can make you happy. 1561 01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:37,519 Speaker 4: Sometimes of combodies you lay nice people true he waves 1562 01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:38,880 Speaker 4: in freaking out? 1563 01:08:39,760 --> 01:09:02,960 Speaker 23: Can you make you happy? 1564 01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:09,280 Speaker 13: Camwon's Entertainment Report, and he's on The Fred Show. 1565 01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:11,879 Speaker 7: Our I Heart Radio. 1566 01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:14,519 Speaker 12: Music Awards went down from LA last night, hosted by 1567 01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:17,360 Speaker 12: ellll Cool Day, to celebrate the music and artists you 1568 01:09:17,520 --> 01:09:21,719 Speaker 12: loved all year. Bed Boon, Billie Eilish, Golrilla, Kenny Chesney 1569 01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:22,800 Speaker 12: and more performed. 1570 01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:23,760 Speaker 7: Mariah Carey was. 1571 01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:27,280 Speaker 12: Honored with the Icon Award and also got an incredible 1572 01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:31,479 Speaker 12: musical tribute by Tori Kelly and our iHeartRadio R and 1573 01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:34,160 Speaker 12: B Song of the year winner Money Long Lady Gagat 1574 01:09:34,320 --> 01:09:37,439 Speaker 12: to call the Innovator Award for her creative visions that 1575 01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:41,680 Speaker 12: have transformed music and culture forever. We celebrated iHeartRadio's A 1576 01:09:41,800 --> 01:09:44,559 Speaker 12: Tour of the Century, honoring, of course, the Eras Tour, 1577 01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:48,040 Speaker 12: with an exclusive performance from the opening night of her 1578 01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:51,880 Speaker 12: historic Eras tour, I Mean My Gosh, two years ago. 1579 01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:54,880 Speaker 12: Last night, that was the anniversary where it all started. 1580 01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:58,799 Speaker 12: Gracie Abrams took home the first ever Breakthrough Artist Award, 1581 01:09:58,920 --> 01:09:59,639 Speaker 12: very well deserved. 1582 01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:01,080 Speaker 1: She did a live. 1583 01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:03,680 Speaker 12: Performance of that So True, which is just all I'm 1584 01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:07,040 Speaker 12: listening to right now. Nelly was surprised by his boo Ashanti, 1585 01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:09,800 Speaker 12: who presented him with the Landmark Award and did a 1586 01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:11,240 Speaker 12: medley of his biggest hits. 1587 01:10:11,240 --> 01:10:12,000 Speaker 1: It was amazing. 1588 01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:15,200 Speaker 12: In other music news, Miley Cyrus has been teasing her 1589 01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:19,400 Speaker 12: next musical Era Something Beautiful, with new visuals popping up 1590 01:10:19,400 --> 01:10:21,519 Speaker 12: on our website and social media, as well as on 1591 01:10:21,600 --> 01:10:25,000 Speaker 12: posters around the country. Miley has not dropped an album 1592 01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:28,280 Speaker 12: since twenty twenty three's Endless Summer Vacation, So I'm very 1593 01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:31,000 Speaker 12: excited for some new Miley music. And with that voice 1594 01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:33,479 Speaker 12: and that talent, I don't know which direction she's gonna go. 1595 01:10:33,560 --> 01:10:35,200 Speaker 1: She can go any which way she wants. 1596 01:10:35,240 --> 01:10:37,200 Speaker 7: I mean, her godmother is Miss Dolly Parton. 1597 01:10:38,520 --> 01:10:42,720 Speaker 12: Lastly, those US astronauts Sunny and Butch have finally departed 1598 01:10:42,760 --> 01:10:46,040 Speaker 12: from the ISS. They left early today to begin their 1599 01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:48,120 Speaker 12: long away to trip back home after spending more than 1600 01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:52,839 Speaker 12: nine months stuck in space. They're aboard SpaceX's Dragon capsule 1601 01:10:52,920 --> 01:10:55,919 Speaker 12: called Freedom, which is set to re enter Earth today 1602 01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:58,960 Speaker 12: with a Florida landing step for like six PM. 1603 01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:01,559 Speaker 7: Just before that, right in time for dinner. 1604 01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:03,960 Speaker 12: The strained pair were originally supposed to be in space 1605 01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:07,880 Speaker 12: for only ten days last summer, and they're traveling home 1606 01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:11,640 Speaker 12: with a fellow American astronaut as well as an astronaut 1607 01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:14,719 Speaker 12: from Russia as they finished their tour on the Crew 1608 01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:17,759 Speaker 12: nine mission. I think they need some sort of metal 1609 01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:20,120 Speaker 12: of Freedom or something, but they've been stuck since last 1610 01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:24,479 Speaker 12: June when they're Boeing Starliner capsules suffered leaks and mechanical issues, 1611 01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:28,439 Speaker 12: forcing NASA to return the craft without anyone on board. 1612 01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:31,120 Speaker 12: So they are coming home right as we speak, which 1613 01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:32,880 Speaker 12: is very exciting news. 1614 01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:34,639 Speaker 1: By the way, if you missed any. 1615 01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:36,960 Speaker 12: Part of our show, The Fred Show, just search The 1616 01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:39,240 Speaker 12: Fred Show on demand on our free new and improved 1617 01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:41,719 Speaker 12: iHeartRadio app, and please set us as a pre. 1618 01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:45,120 Speaker 1: Set what the Fread Show is on? Yeah, Fread's fun. 1619 01:11:45,200 --> 01:11:47,120 Speaker 4: Fact, Fred's fun. 1620 01:11:53,160 --> 01:11:58,280 Speaker 1: So much, learn so much? Guys? Did you know? And 1621 01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:02,840 Speaker 1: I didn't know this? There was almost a dwarf of 1622 01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:08,439 Speaker 1: the Seven Dwarfs variety named Burpie, Oh wow, Burpy, which 1623 01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:13,040 Speaker 1: is me, you know, after Taco bell, after a number 1624 01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:15,560 Speaker 1: of different fast foods. Actually, but snow white and the 1625 01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:17,639 Speaker 1: Seven Dwarfs as we know it came from a German 1626 01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:20,000 Speaker 1: fairy tale. It's been around for centuries. The dwarfs were 1627 01:12:20,040 --> 01:12:22,240 Speaker 1: always an important part of the story, but they didn't 1628 01:12:22,240 --> 01:12:28,719 Speaker 1: have individual names, and then Walt Disney came along. Happy, Grumpy, Sleepy, Sneezy, bashful, 1629 01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:32,080 Speaker 1: Dope and Doc weren't the only names that writers considered. 1630 01:12:32,080 --> 01:12:39,599 Speaker 1: According to The Guardian, we could have had dwarfs named Jumpy, Burpie, Puffy, Stuffy, Lazy, 1631 01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:44,280 Speaker 1: wheezy and deafy Oh wow nice. 1632 01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:46,479 Speaker 12: My friends and I were the sexy version of them 1633 01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:47,719 Speaker 12: on Halloween one year. 1634 01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:50,960 Speaker 1: Which one were you, Burbie? I think I was like, 1635 01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:54,600 Speaker 1: isn't bashful one? Yes? Yeah, I think you were a 1636 01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:58,160 Speaker 1: sexy yes we did. Yes we needed a group costume. 1637 01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:01,800 Speaker 1: I'm not proud of it, moron. I'm a sexy, bashful 1638 01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:02,400 Speaker 1: of the Dwarf. 1639 01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:08,320 Speaker 15: Okay, okay, more Fred Show next right here,