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Speaker 1: Who's this numb birthday line? It's Lex, It's leg Alex.

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Speaker 1: What's show zodiac sign?

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Speaker 2: Leo? Leo?

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Speaker 3: And it's today your birthday?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: And how old are you on this dart?

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Speaker 2: Sax? Got a sax?

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Speaker 3: Go?

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Speaker 2: Lex?

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Speaker 3: Is your birthday? Go?

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Speaker 2: Lex?

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Speaker 3: Is your birthday?

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Speaker 2: Lex?

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Speaker 3: Where are you from?

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Speaker 4: Here?

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Speaker 2: From?

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Speaker 4: You?

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Speaker 3: Got some short song? It's covered.

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Speaker 5: What's up?

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Speaker 3: Y'all's your girl? Lex? P? Any Sugarl dray in the

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Speaker 3: call and you.

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Speaker 5: Are tuned in to another episode of poor Mind.

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Speaker 3: Brad drunk mind speaks soberthdays. We ain't got no gifts today.

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Speaker 5: He ain't got no guests today. And guess what, it's

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Speaker 5: my birthday.

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Speaker 3: It's snow birthday. It's It's day.

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Speaker 5: It's Leo season, guys, and we have reached the pinnacle

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Speaker 5: of Leoism. It's me it is I are you.

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Speaker 3: You're the pinnacle.

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Speaker 5: I am the Leo. When you talk about Leo's, people

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Speaker 5: always bring up Robert de Niro.

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Speaker 3: Isn't Barack Obama and Leo too?

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Speaker 5: I think Barack Obama they talk, they always say Robert

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Speaker 5: de Niro, Barack Obama and Lex p That's it.

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Speaker 3: That's fair, don't you and Robert De Niro have the

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Speaker 3: same birth.

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Speaker 5: Robert de Niro is celebrating with me today. We all sided,

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Speaker 5: Big Rob. I'll see you in a minute.

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Speaker 3: Oh where y'all going?

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Speaker 5: I don't know, he ain't.

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Speaker 3: What if it's anybody else's fame, he's born on your birthday?

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Speaker 3: It probably is.

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Speaker 5: I feel like August seventeenth, I was born on the Thursday.

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Speaker 5: That's how you know I'm old, because that's how I say.

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Speaker 5: You don't say day anymore. You say d Monday, Tuesday, No,

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Speaker 5: it's Tuesday. That's how you have to say Chuesday.

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Speaker 1: I feel like people say that when they get Oh, well,

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Speaker 1: old people say that because they've been saying it wrong.

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Speaker 3: But old people say a lot of stuff wrong.

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Speaker 5: Well, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I'm at that back then, you know they didn't have

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Speaker 1: as much access to books and stuff.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm saying it because I'm thirty six, and who

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Speaker 5: put all these goddamn candles on this cake?

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Speaker 3: You're part of the three six my field.

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Speaker 5: Now, ever since I can't remember, I've been popping my collar,

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Speaker 5: popping my collar, popping, popping my collar.

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Speaker 3: Ever since I can't remember, I've been working these and

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Speaker 3: putting that money in my hands.

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Speaker 1: They used to step to that when I was in

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Speaker 1: high school. That's the madamoiselle's and the gents.

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Speaker 5: I'm a madam moselle today.

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Speaker 3: You are a mademoiselle today. You like you stepping right off.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: I love a house of c B two.

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Speaker 3: Dress me too, CBB having Q stuff?

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Speaker 5: Oh, I said CB two. That's because I've been on

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Speaker 5: the line.

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Speaker 3: What is c s mee? B two is the furniture store.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Oh, I'm about to say they got a

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Speaker 1: house of c B two.

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Speaker 5: I said, see, because I was mixing it up. C

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Speaker 5: B two is the furniture store. I've been doing so

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Speaker 5: much house dropping yat right? But so yes, it is

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Speaker 5: my birthday. I am thirty six. I'm just so grateful.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I'm in such an amazing chapter in

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Speaker 5: my life. Like everything just else, No one else is

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Speaker 5: just me and big rab.

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Speaker 3: I think so. I mean Joiner Lucas.

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Speaker 2: Okay, he's a good rapper.

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Speaker 3: Yeah he's got some chew, but that's it.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Jordan Lucas, Happy birthday, the big joy, oh little Bee. Oh,

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Speaker 5: I named my dog. I named my dog after him.

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Speaker 3: Was born up. I never knew that I named my dog.

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Speaker 5: Well, my dog's name was Bartholomew, but I for sure

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Speaker 5: I used to call him a little b R.

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Speaker 3: I p the little b when Davy Crockey Davy Crockett.

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Speaker 5: Now, who's Davy Crockett.

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Speaker 3: He's a war hero. Okay, what do we say?

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Speaker 1: I think maybe the Civil could be wrong. Don't quote me, guy,

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Speaker 1: Davy Crockett.

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Speaker 3: I've heard that name before.

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Speaker 1: Nah, that ain't the Civil because Davy Crockett was old. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he died in eighteen thirty six.

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Speaker 3: It might've been one of the world wars. He was

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Speaker 3: born in seventeen eighty six.

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Speaker 1: I was right behind August seventeenth, seventeen eighty six.

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Speaker 5: And I was right behind him August seventeen, seventeen eighty nine.

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Speaker 3: That's right. You was born in nineteen eighty nine. Oh

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Speaker 3: the Alamo.

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Speaker 5: The Alamo.

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Speaker 2: That's quite wild from the block.

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Speaker 1: He died fighting at the Alamo. Oh, my goodness, old

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Speaker 1: I was wrong. Not the Civil War.

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Speaker 5: See, I'm old enough, so I gotta said, goodness gracious,

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Speaker 5: great balls of fire.

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Speaker 3: Now you don't have to you actually don't have to

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Speaker 3: say that.

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Speaker 5: I do know because I'm like like I'm old, don't

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Speaker 5: have to on jooes d. That's how I got a phone.

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Speaker 1: No, no, old people, they say Chuesday cheese d Yeah, Wednesday?

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Speaker 5: Maybe Whennesday is nuts? Nobody says when this day? They

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Speaker 5: do say Whennesday. That's how it's spelled when.

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Speaker 3: Day.

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Speaker 5: But I've never heard somebody say when when?

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Speaker 3: When this day?

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Speaker 5: You ain't around My aunt shout out to mommy Lane.

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Speaker 5: I love her to death, but she'd be saying, wet silk.

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Speaker 5: Remember that that store wet seal, will with wet seal.

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Speaker 5: She used to say what silk? She say Walmarks? She

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Speaker 5: said Walmarks instead of Walmart. Said, well, you know you

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Speaker 5: got they got that at Walmarks? And she said, my realness,

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Speaker 5: she don't call me that you got that a Walmart?

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Speaker 3: Why does she say Walmart?

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Speaker 5: She says, it's not an X, it's a KS, not Walmarts.

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Speaker 3: I think K is an X sound the same.

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Speaker 5: They sound the same, but they're they're not the same.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, first and foremost, it ain't Walmarts either way,

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Speaker 1: but it ain't Z more X is more like a

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Speaker 1: z xylophone.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, is this is no okay?

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Speaker 1: I feel like if they found sit you would just

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Speaker 1: be you were just over there saying anything any goddamn.

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Speaker 5: Okay, what's your favorite birthday song? Like the Stevie Wonder version,

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Speaker 5: if I got that's a birthday song?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but my favorite is the Alga original Wonder version.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, happy birthday?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I want I feel like if it ain't broke,

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Speaker 3: why fixie?

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Speaker 1: Like that was good enough for like twenty years, but

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Speaker 1: breakout too.

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Speaker 3: It's your birth birthday. It's your birthday, baby, it's your birthday.

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Speaker 3: And who was gonna love you on your birthday?

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Speaker 5: That wasn't alright? But that's to me.

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Speaker 3: I don't oh go girl, it's your birthday.

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Speaker 5: You I beat his ass?

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Speaker 3: You love him?

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Speaker 5: That's what I you love morey, Okay, this is we're

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Speaker 5: not doing. It's my birthday. You have to be nice to.

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Speaker 3: Me because song? What's your favorite birthday? Said?

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Speaker 5: I know, so it's not a birthday song. Oh he

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Speaker 5: did say it's somebody's birthday.

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Speaker 3: He did say this.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 3: I got caught up by right y the Shanham pain.

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Speaker 3: So nice one thing I'm.

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Speaker 2: Gonna put on my Okay, okay, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, all right, we get it, damn ty look at you. Okay.

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Speaker 5: So what's the best birthday song? I think they said

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Speaker 5: Stevie Wonder.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good song, man, that's the original oug

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Speaker 1: that inspired all of the remains.

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Speaker 3: Everybody made a I'm not gonna lie. Remember it's show birthday.

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Speaker 3: So I know you want to ride SI more easy? Yes,

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Speaker 3: we straight up on my he eighth this could but

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Speaker 3: I know you want to. I have a crush on him.

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 5: I used to have a cruestion on him.

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Speaker 3: That Chicago too. Yeah, he's from the shore. Yeah, shout

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Speaker 3: out to Jeremiah.

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Speaker 5: What ose birthday song is it?

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Speaker 1: M We have one on our radio and it would

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Speaker 1: be like, who's his song? No birthday line, it's Lex,

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Speaker 1: it's leg Alex. What shows zodiac sign Leo Leo? And

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Speaker 1: it's today your birthday?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Yes?

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Speaker 3: And how old are you on this day?

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Speaker 2: That sex a sax go Lex?

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Speaker 3: Is your birthday?

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Speaker 2: Go Lex?

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Speaker 3: B Where are you from? He's from? I hope you

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Speaker 3: got some short songs. It's covered. Remember when people used.

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Speaker 1: To carry shorts and they remember you used to have

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Speaker 1: to carry shorts in your bake page.

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Speaker 5: No, no, y'all never used to.

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Speaker 3: Be cause what.

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Speaker 5: No, man, Maybe I was.

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Speaker 1: A little fast y'all never used to leave y'all house.

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Speaker 1: Y'all never used to leave y'all house at one outfitting

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Speaker 1: then when y'a would get to the party or like

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Speaker 1: the skating rink, put on something else.

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Speaker 5: No, because I would leave out the house of what

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Speaker 5: I had on. My mom wasn't like and I didn't

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Speaker 5: try to do too much.

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Speaker 1: My mama wasn't strict either, But what I used to

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Speaker 1: be trying to wear, I used to have to change.

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Speaker 3: Did you used to have that ass out? No?

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Speaker 1: I didn't used to have my ass out, but it

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Speaker 1: definitely used to be stuff that my parents would not

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Speaker 3: Like it used to be like lowcud or I would

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Speaker 3: have a fast little girl.

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Speaker 5: You know they like to call them pass Not.

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Speaker 3: Really because I wouldn't do anything.

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Speaker 1: I just used to like to dress a little Gucci,

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Speaker 1: But I wouldn't really about their life.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, not like a lot of my friends and

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Speaker 5: stuff like not to put my friends on blasts, but

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Speaker 5: a lot of my friends they were like doing stuff

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Speaker 5: in middle school, like seventh eighth grade.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I held out. You wasn't getting finger popped?

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Speaker 5: No, no, nothing, nothing not till I yes, Like when

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Speaker 5: I became like a sophomore. That that was when I

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Speaker 5: started like doing.

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Speaker 3: In twelfth grade.

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Speaker 5: A sophomore.

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Speaker 3: Tenth grade, yeah, a sophomore. Yeah, that's when you started

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Speaker 3: getting Yeah you can touch that little koochie. No, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I was like six. No, I was like, hey, that's molestation. Six.

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Speaker 5: I don't know you was outside when I'm training with you.

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Speaker 5: Used to have that bike. It used to be on

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Speaker 5: that bike on that training reels, riding in your neighbor's house.

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Speaker 3: No, I didn't used to go to my I didn't

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Speaker 3: fool with my neighbors.

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Speaker 5: Season of gratitude, knowing my worth, valuing myself, loving myself,

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Speaker 3: It's good. Yeah, life is. You're a grown woman.

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Speaker 3: Ain't no turning back.

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Speaker 5: I ain't no turning I'll be forty in four years.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I'm in the right space. My birthdays

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Speaker 5: Used to be sad, Yeah, because I felt like I

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Speaker 5: And now I'm learning, like everything is happens on your clock.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I've been such like I've been. That's

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Speaker 5: I used to always be like, well, she acting like this,

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Speaker 3: And sometimes it is the people around you, but more

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Speaker 1: It's majority of the time you and the decisions that

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Speaker 5: I used to push people away who would hold that

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Speaker 3: And I'll be like, oh, god, girl.

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Speaker 5: And you know what I'm saying. But now I'm like,

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Speaker 5: Show Tell me how I'm supposed to show up as

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: If I said I love you anything else, No, watch

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't drop.

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Speaker 3: If I don't have kids. Once I have kids, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I still don't have kids, I'm probably gonna not

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Speaker 5: Damn you you don't think you don't be in that limp.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm gonna be moving around like if I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like you got enough money for a nanny.

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Speaker 5: I can't do it.

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Speaker 1: That's how I'm gonna feel about all my rich friends.

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Speaker 1: Why are you calling me? Asking me the babies? I

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Speaker 1: don't get that you have money mood calling it he

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to go where you where you're about to go.

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Speaker 2: I want to go to.

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Speaker 3: In the house with the kids.

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Speaker 1: I feel you, I feel you right, You're right, But

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I mean I feel like, you know, we

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Speaker 3: I feel like, you know.

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Speaker 5: Sierra blessed the couch with her wifey material pants.

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Speaker 3: It's coming, it's coming.

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Speaker 5: I'm marinating it, and she said, right here, I believe it.

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Speaker 3: I am wife.

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Speaker 5: All right, let's get on to these topics, shall I

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Speaker 5: love a little I know and the blue cheese field

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Speaker 5: thank you, Ty, because I love a good Martine.

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Speaker 3: Let me taste, Let me taste.

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Speaker 1: It's the first time we've done like. This is a

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Speaker 3: I love ar you.

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Speaker 5: Know, I love it, and I love cheese now me too.

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Speaker 5: I love out feed of blue. But you know me,

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Speaker 5: Hoby Jack Kobe No, Kobe Jack is my.

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Speaker 5: No, that's what I mean.

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Speaker 3: Toby Jack pepper Jack. They brothers, Kobe Jack and pepper Jack.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they brothers, one spicy or one not.

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Speaker 5: a little twine. So you know, when I make those

447
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Speaker 5: jerk patty burgers, I put pepper Jack on them. That's

448
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Speaker 5: set that motherfucker off. Okay, man, you want you bite it?

449
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Speaker 5: You know what you say?

450
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Speaker 3: Okay?

451
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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know what I was thinking,

452
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Speaker 1: but waguan was not what I was about to second.

453
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Speaker 3: But this is a very, very very g It's so good.

454
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Speaker 3: What are we drinking?

455
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Speaker 5: Yeah, we're going it early because Chatty today already up

456
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Speaker 5: here you.

457
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Speaker 1: Dressed up for my birthday with the Queen's birthday yeah, yes,

458
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Speaker 1: so you know I have to do something. I did

459
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,359
Speaker 1: it for Dre, I gotta do it for you too again. Okay,

460
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Speaker 1: a special tribute to you today. So we're gonna call

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Speaker 1: this one the Lextra Dirty.

462
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Speaker 2: I love that.

463
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Speaker 3: See Lextra dirty.

464
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Speaker 1: Two exes, double LEXI give it to So this cocktail

465
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Speaker 1: is giving, rich, refined, and a little reckless.

466
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Speaker 3: Just like Lex.

467
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Speaker 1: We kept it classic with vodka, a splash of vermouth,

468
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:52,400
Speaker 1: and made it dirty, extra dirty, because why be subtle

469
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Speaker 1: when you're the star topped with blue cheese stuffed olives

470
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Speaker 1: because she's not here.

471
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Speaker 3: For basic garnishes or basic energy.

472
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Speaker 1: Here's to the one who turns every room into a moment,

473
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Speaker 1: every sip into a story, and every birthday.

474
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Speaker 3: Into a whole damn production. Okay, cheers to you, X.

475
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Speaker 1: May your life always be full of flavor, laughter, and

476
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Speaker 1: just the right amount of drama.

477
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Speaker 5: Thank you, Cheer, cheer.

478
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Speaker 3: A damn good drink. This is a damn good martini.

479
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Speaker 5: Good cheers, cheers, Thank you so much. I love this,

480
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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, cause y'all know, like I will drink

481
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Speaker 5: a sweet drink.

482
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Speaker 3: But I love.

483
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I love a savory like when Pudgy came on

484
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Speaker 5: here and said a chip chaser.

485
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Speaker 3: I wasn't mad at it. I like the deal. You

486
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Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. Deal. You know Pudgy was on

487
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Speaker 3: or something. He shout out to Big pudd And I

488
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,359
Speaker 3: just feel like it's so grown and refined.

489
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Speaker 1: When people go to the bar and they're like, can

490
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Speaker 1: I get a dirty Martini?

491
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Speaker 3: Extra dirty, extra dirty? We about to start saying no,

492
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Speaker 3: I gotta laugh like this.

493
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Speaker 1: You don't like the theme of the episode being you

494
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Speaker 1: don't have to, but I do?

495
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Speaker 3: You know, yes, I do.

496
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Speaker 1: I feel like you already laugh like that though you

497
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Speaker 1: are pretty did oh.

498
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Speaker 5: I had the odd.

499
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Speaker 3: At the end, the high is new. That's new. See

500
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Speaker 3: that come with that thirty I like. I like that.

501
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 3: That's a little wrestle at the end, nobody is expecting.

502
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Speaker 4: You see y'all ship eat and shout out to.

503
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Speaker 5: My family at Taylor Port, Like, honestly, I'm not gonna

504
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 5: lie to y'all.

505
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Speaker 3: Working with Taylor Report is the bomb. It's not only fun.

506
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Speaker 3: I said the bomb. I'm old. Oh that was on accident,

507
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Speaker 3: But I didn't feel saying the bomb. It was the bomb.

508
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Speaker 3: Diggity dot com talk come out.

509
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Speaker 5: No, but honestly like Taylor Port. It's been so much

510
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Speaker 5: fun working with them. And I actually drink Tailor Port,

511
00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 5: so it's great.

512
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Speaker 3: But they sent me, okay, and it's beautiful. It's a beautiful,

513
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 3: beautiful cake.

514
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Speaker 5: I don't know what kind it is. We gonna take

515
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Speaker 5: a bit at the end though.

516
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:09,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're gonna have to get a little piece.

517
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Speaker 5: Of that, a little piece of that. But shout out

518
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Speaker 5: to Tailor Port. I love y'all so much. Working with

519
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 5: y'all has been so much fun.

520
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Speaker 3: Y'all. Make sure if y'all watch this episode.

521
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Speaker 5: Pour you up some Taylor Port and have a good

522
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Speaker 5: birthday episode with your girl.

523
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Speaker 3: Okay, period, bring at that first topic.

524
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Speaker 1: Okay, So for topic number one, I wanted to talk

525
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Speaker 1: about why we have been taught that a lady never

526
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Speaker 1: kills her age.

527
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Speaker 3: I feel like for.

528
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Speaker 1: Centuries, women have been told you don't tell people your age.

529
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Speaker 1: That's something that you keep private, that's that you keep

530
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Speaker 1: to yourself. It is a secret because you know, traditionally

531
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Speaker 1: age is tied to desirability. Oh yeah, age is tired too.

532
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Speaker 1: I mean it's tied to desirability. So a lot of

533
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Speaker 1: women feel like, you know, as they get older, they're

534
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Speaker 1: not as desirable, especially if you're single. You know what

535
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Speaker 1: I mean, I think, I mean, I think in general,

536
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Speaker 1: but I think it's harder on the women who get

537
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Speaker 1: older and they're still single versus the women who get

538
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Speaker 1: older in priority in relationships. And you know, desirability is

539
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Speaker 1: tied to how young you are a lot of the time.

540
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Speaker 1: So I think, you know, at least that's the way

541
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Speaker 1: I look at it. That's probably why a lot of

542
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Speaker 1: women don't like telling.

543
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Speaker 3: People how old they are.

544
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Speaker 1: But I feel like when women get older, they be

545
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Speaker 1: getting seasoned, they get season I also feel like the

546
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Speaker 1: reason that way of thinking is outdated because that was

547
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Speaker 1: tied to fertility as well.

548
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 5: They used to define you as being a good woman

549
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Speaker 5: if you could bear children.

550
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Speaker 3: I think men still define women in.

551
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Speaker 5: That way, right, And so what it's what's so crazy

552
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 5: is like there's so many factors and things that goes

553
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Speaker 5: on in a woman's body. Like we are more than

554
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 5: just our over reason what we can create. We're human beings.

555
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:55,360
Speaker 5: So I think as time has progressed and went on,

556
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Speaker 5: I think women have become In twenty twenty five, I

557
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Speaker 5: feel like women are more comfortable telling their one thing

558
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Speaker 5: about me I've always been comfortable telling my age, and

559
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,160
Speaker 5: it's so crazy because when I see women my age

560
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 5: are a little even women younger than me lying about

561
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Speaker 5: their age, I think it's so crazy. I feel like

562
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Speaker 5: the older I get, the better I get, and me

563
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 5: being single or in a relationship doesn't define who I am.

564
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Speaker 5: And if a man doesn't want to be with me

565
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Speaker 5: because of my age, that's fine. That's just not the

566
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Speaker 5: man for me, you know what I'm saying. So I

567
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Speaker 5: just feel like I'm gonna be desired by the person

568
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Speaker 5: because I just need one. I don't need to be

569
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Speaker 5: desired by a whole bunch of people. I don't care

570
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Speaker 5: to be desired by a whole bunch of people. I

571
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Speaker 5: just need one man to desire me. And I'm cool

572
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Speaker 5: with that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So, I just think it's crazy that women feel the

575
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Speaker 5: need to hide their age. I've always embraced getting older,

576
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Speaker 5: and I think that's just because the women in my life, though,

577
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 5: like I see how they age and how their lives

578
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 5: are and how their lives are going. I'm like, you

579
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Speaker 5: know what, hell that looks good? You make forty look good,

580
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 5: you make fifty look good, you make sixty look good,

581
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,919
Speaker 5: and it's like it's a blessing to get older.

582
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Speaker 3: It is, you know what I'm saying.

583
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 5: So I just think that that thinking of lying about

584
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Speaker 5: your age or feeling like you're too old. And I

585
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 5: use this as an example because I do love her,

586
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Speaker 5: Tabitha Tabitha Brown. Yes, she came on the scene later

587
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 5: in her later years in life and has an amazing career.

588
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Speaker 5: Now you know what I'm saying, And it's just like

589
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 5: it just shows you life don't stop. I mean, so

590
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Speaker 5: did Oprah exactly?

591
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Speaker 1: Oprah didn't really like I think the Oprah Show came

592
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Speaker 1: out when Oprah was already in her thirties.

593
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Speaker 5: Yeah, like late thirties, I think.

594
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Speaker 1: Yeah, So, I mean I agree, I definitely feel like

595
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: and it's so many women who are in their forties

596
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Speaker 1: and their fifties who say, like life only gets better

597
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: and better as you age, Yes, sause you become more mature.

598
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 3: And you just start to like not give a fuck.

599
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 1: Like for me, that's one of the beautiful things about aging,

600
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Speaker 1: my opinion, is like the older that you get, literally

601
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: each year that passed by, the list of a fuck

602
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,479
Speaker 1: I give what people be thinking and what people have

603
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: to say, and the more confident I am and who

604
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:12,399
Speaker 1: I am as a person and what I have to

605
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 1: offer the world. Like I feel like I have a

606
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 1: voice and it needs to be heard, and I don't

607
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:23,159
Speaker 1: feel shy about speaking certain opinions, are saying certain things

608
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 1: or worrying about if it's gonna rub people the wrong way.

609
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: Like I just don't give a fuck, Like this is me,

610
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: take it or leave it. You could leave it, that's

611
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,439
Speaker 1: fine too, but this is who I am. And I

612
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: just think it's like that's something beautiful that comes along

613
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: with age as you get older that I think every

614
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Speaker 1: woman who has made it to their thirties, forties, fifties

615
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Speaker 1: can attest to, Like I think in your twenties it's

616
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Speaker 1: a lot of in your teen years.

617
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Speaker 3: In your twenties, it's.

618
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Speaker 1: A lot of uncertainty, And I think in your thirties

619
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Speaker 1: it's still a little bit of uncertainty because a lot

620
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Speaker 1: of women say, like you think that you haven't figured

621
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Speaker 1: out or you think that it gets better when you

622
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Speaker 1: hit thirty, but and when you can hit forty, you

623
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Speaker 1: really have a lot of clear Yeah, So I definitely

624
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 1: think in your thirties it's still a little bit of

625
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: uncertainty too, But it's like things just start to become

626
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 1: a little more clear.

627
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 5: And I'm glad that you said that that confidence, the

628
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 5: confidence I have now is nowhere near how I was

629
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Speaker 5: at twenty five, like the woman I am now, Like

630
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Speaker 5: if I was twenty five and I could see like

631
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Speaker 5: I had something to show me turning thirty six.

632
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Speaker 3: I'll be like, oh my god, who is that?

633
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 5: Yes, bitch, And it's just like the confidence that I

634
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 5: have now, Like I know who I am, I know

635
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 5: what I bring to my friendships, to my family. Like

636
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 5: I just I really love myself. I really really do,

637
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 5: and it took me a long time to get here,

638
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. So I just think with

639
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Speaker 5: a likes better how you feel, tap.

640
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Speaker 3: I love getting older.

641
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel like the way I adapt, the

642
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 1: more confident I becoming myself where I'm at, not stressing

643
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: about time and where I'm at in my career or

644
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 1: anything like that.

645
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 3: Like it's all unfolding.

646
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Speaker 1: Like you said before, we talk about alignment a lot,

647
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: Like I feel like those things are just now beginning

648
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: a lot for me.

649
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 3: So I love it. I embrace it. I love the

650
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 3: gray hairs.

651
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I got a lot, y'all do, but I

652
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 1: want like a streak for real, yeah, or full hair.

653
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 5: I love to see a silver fox. Oh yeah, I

654
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 5: love the silver fix get dark skin one too.

655
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Speaker 3: I always wonder when I start getting gray hair if

656
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna like dye I haven't had. I haven't got

657
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Speaker 3: one yet. I feel when you die your hair.

658
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Speaker 5: I feel like when you die your hair, though it

659
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 5: makes it look it makes you look older, actually gray hair,

660
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 5: because you can tell you're trying to cover it up,

661
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 5: like when God, because men do that especially.

662
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Speaker 3: You know what's crazy though, I think quite.

663
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Speaker 5: As it's kept, men have just as much problems with

664
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Speaker 5: aging as women do. They make it seem like women

665
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Speaker 5: struggle with aging men very much do. I when I

666
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Speaker 5: had made a love lex p clip and I was

667
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 5: talking about how I wish this guy, I wish his

668
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 5: hair line will receive because you know how men feel

669
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 5: about their hair because he did something so dirty, the

670
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 5: person I was talking about, so it's like I want

671
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 5: his hairline to receive. And it was a guy that

672
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 5: came in the comments and he was like, I can

673
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 5: just tell by the type of person you are to

674
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 5: make some fun of somebody who can't help it, and

675
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 5: going in on and I went to his page.

676
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 3: And he was bald. He struck a nerve. That's not

677
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 3: a nerve.

678
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 5: But the thing is, I'm not talking about you. But

679
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 5: the thing is men with the balding that means you're older.

680
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 5: That's technically you know, But now we know it's genetics.

681
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 5: You can't help it. It has nothing to do with

682
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 5: your age. It's all about genetics. But baby, when you

683
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 5: talk about men and their hairlines, baby, they will It

684
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 5: gets real nasty in the field with men and their hairlines.

685
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 2: Baby.

686
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: But the crazy thing about men where I think, you know,

687
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 1: it's like this double standard. It's like when men get older,

688
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: people tend to like feel like they get more distinguished,

689
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: whereas women it's like, oh, you all, old beach.

690
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 5: I've been called the old few. I said something about

691
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 5: you all. I said something about one of them streamers.

692
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 5: They're like, who is this old bitch?

693
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 3: Oh?

694
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 5: Because I said ddg's name wrong. Remember when Queen Naja

695
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 5: came on here and I said DGG or something, I said,

696
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 5: I know who the boys, I know who he is.

697
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 5: There was like this old bitch. I said, hey, respect

698
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 5: your elders. See, that's what the young kids don't do.

699
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 5: They don't respect their elders.

700
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 3: No more.

701
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 5: I'm an elder, respect me.

702
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like they don't consider us elders when they

703
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: comes to respect because.

704
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 3: My ass fact, that's why the air suspect.

705
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 1: I mean, we had elders with fat asses back when

706
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 1: I was.

707
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 5: They didn't look like this though, they moms with they

708
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 5: fat ass.

709
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 3: No, they did. Thirty year olds in moos.

710
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 5: No, I'm not gonna lie. When I was younger, I

711
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 5: never saw thirty year olds that looked like this.

712
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 3: I didn't. I don't know.

713
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 5: I was an Orange though, yeah, because I feel like

714
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 5: in my family, like they was fine. Like I had

715
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 5: Lindcy and cousins.

716
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 3: It was fine. Soh I used to look up to it.

717
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 3: And I used to be like, oh, I can't wait

718
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 3: till I get grown. I hope I look like her.

719
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, my mom my aunt were like it. Yeah, but

720
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 5: like around sorry y'all in Orange.

721
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 3: I know y'all feelna be, But like.

722
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 5: My mom my aunt, like all their friends, like their

723
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 5: little group of friends, like they were fine and stuff,

724
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 5: but it wasn't common.

725
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I yeah, it was like my friends moms and

726
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 1: stuff too. Like I had friends who they moms and

727
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: they aunties and they big sisters and stuff was fine.

728
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 5: Like I don't know, I remember I told you this.

729
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 3: I've been seeing five. It's just for a lot time.

730
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 5: See not me, I didn't And honestly, like I said,

731
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 5: out of all my friends parents, remember I told you

732
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 5: the story about Buffy Burley, that lady, the lady Buffy

733
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 5: Burley was fine, but she was white.

734
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 3: Yes, that's what I'm saying. But we're talking about black women.

735
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 5: Well I'm just saying women in general. But I would

736
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 5: just say either way white or black, it wasn't common

737
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 5: like seeing like Buffy was like she he was like,

738
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 5: oh my god. She was like Pam Anderson in a

739
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 5: Orange Texas to give you an example, Like you know

740
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. But it wasn't a common thing. So

741
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 5: I guess now when people be like, oh my god,

742
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 5: Like we were out the other ninth when I said my.

743
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 3: Age, the people that we were with were like, oh

744
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 3: my god.

745
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, everybody say that all the time.

746
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 1: We tell them how oh we are, which I get it.

747
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 5: I don't I look thirty five, I get it. I

748
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:27,479
Speaker 5: mean thirty six.

749
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 3: I feel like.

750
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 1: Because this generation of thirty something year old, this is

751
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 1: what thirty people.

752
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 3: This is what people in their thirties look like.

753
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,800
Speaker 1: I think people have this perception though, that when you

754
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: hit thirty, you don't look youthful anymore, because of what

755
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: we saw growing up. But you got to think about it.

756
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:48,720
Speaker 1: Back in the seventies and stuff, they was looking old.

757
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 3: They was.

758
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 1: They was thirty five and thirty six and thirty four

759
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: and thirty one, twenty nine, and they was looking old.

760
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 1: They were ably fifty. The way they used to dress, boy,

761
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 1: they used to the hair everything. So I think that

762
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,439
Speaker 1: because of that, because that's what we've seen in generations

763
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:10,919
Speaker 1: prior to us, people have this perception that, oh, when

764
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 1: you hit thirty, when you hit thirty four, you hit

765
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 1: thirty six, you're gonna look a certain way. But no,

766
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 1: we millennials we a whole different generation. I feel like

767
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 1: we still dress like youthfully. We still do our makeup

768
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 1: very youthful. We were our hair. I don't know, I

769
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 1: just I can't explain it, but I feel like that

770
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 1: those older generations they used to look old for they age.

771
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: I can really say it, like even and this is

772
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 1: no shade because I feel like my dad and my

773
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 1: mom were beautiful and very attractive when they were in

774
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: their thirties. But when I look back at pictures of

775
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: them when they was in a thirties, they looked like

776
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 1: they was in a fifties the way they used to dress.

777
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: Even when you look at movies, like when you think

778
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 1: about the Ray Charles movie, the Muhammad Ali movie, they

779
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: looked old as hell, but they was only like twenty

780
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,959
Speaker 1: five twenty six. But look at how looked in the movie,

781
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 1: you would have thought they was in their forties. Because

782
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: back in the day, that's just how they used to dress.

783
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 1: And that's how they used to.

784
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 5: Because what's his name that passed away at a young age,

785
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:12,240
Speaker 5: Sam Cook, he was very young when he passed.

786
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 3: He was born by the rib.

787
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 2: I was born by the rival.

788
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 3: In a little tense.

789
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, y'all was I was trying to

790
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: respect him and the original.

791
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 2: Verse, all right, it's my birth.

792
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: The original version he said, I was born by the

793
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 1: river in a little tin.

794
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 5: But I thought he was much older when he had

795
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:38,320
Speaker 5: passed away.

796
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: Whenever people tell us that we don't look thirty four

797
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: in thirty six, I giddy.

798
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 3: I do.

799
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,360
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be funny, but I do giddy

800
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 1: because Also there are some counterparts that I Shae put

801
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:52,760
Speaker 1: that ship up.

802
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 3: Shae is flashing pictures behind the camera.

803
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 1: But there are some counter parts that I went to

804
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: school with these people. No, these these people, and they

805
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 1: don't be looking thirty four.

806
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 3: Wow, they be looking by forty four. Life been. But

807
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 3: I think it's also because we take care of ourselves too.

808
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, And That's what I was gonna say too, So, like,

809
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 1: how do you feel about people who how do you

810
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 1: feel like, how do you feel about people who bash

811
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 1: women who like do preventative things for like anti agent,

812
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:28,280
Speaker 1: Like when people are like, oh, you say you okay

813
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: with getting older, or you say you love getting older,

814
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 1: but you get in botos and you get feelers, or

815
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 1: you go get facials and you doing using salmon DNA

816
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 1: and all of this love to like reverse the anti

817
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 1: aging process. How do you feel about that? Because some

818
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,320
Speaker 1: people feel like you're just supposed to. If you truly

819
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 1: love getting older and that's something that you're okay with,

820
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 1: you should just let like nature run its course and

821
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: let yourself just naturally get older and age gracefully.

822
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 5: I am aging gracefully, but I'm aging. How I want

823
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:03,879
Speaker 5: to aid you age? How you want to age. I personally,

824
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 5: Am I gonna have wrinkles one day? Absolutely by, But

825
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 5: I'm a hold off pH on it. Am I gonna

826
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,280
Speaker 5: get a little softer on the side and my booty

827
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:17,839
Speaker 5: gonna say? Yes, absolutely, that's a part of my age.

828
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 3: Worker.

829
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 5: But what I'm saying, that's a part of aging. Things

830
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,839
Speaker 5: tend to go south. I'm not mad at it, but

831
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:25,879
Speaker 5: I'm gonna hold off on it. Cause when I talk

832
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 5: about aging, and I love it, I'm talking about my wisdom.

833
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 5: I'm talking about the inside. But physically, I don't think

834
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,280
Speaker 5: there's nothing wrong with preventive care.

835
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 3: Now.

836
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna be going to like the drastic measures

837
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 5: of like if I'm sixty five, I'm not gonna be

838
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 5: here trying to look twenty five. I just want to

839
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 5: be a polished sixty five year old right now. Everything

840
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,839
Speaker 5: I do, I want to be a polished thirty six

841
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 5: year old. I'm not a thirty six year old woman

842
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 5: trying to look twenty one.

843
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 1: How do you feel about a lot of these older

844
00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: women that are like in their six things seventies that

845
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 1: are doing these drastic facelifts.

846
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 5: I think that's okay.

847
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: They look amazing, I said, I mean, I need to

848
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:09,879
Speaker 1: keep blowing up because I.

849
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 5: Need to get a little discount because they be like

850
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 5: a hundred K, they said. The one that Chris Janner

851
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 5: got was like one hundred. It was three hundred, three hundred.

852
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 5: Now I looked up the Ponytail Man. He does like

853
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 5: the Ponytail face list in New York. I looked up

854
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,799
Speaker 5: his prices and I said, let me start saving right now. Yeah,

855
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,760
Speaker 5: he was like one hundred and fifty K, but Chris

856
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 5: was three hundred.

857
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 3: So you would do a facelift when you get older. Yeah,

858
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be mad at it.

859
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 5: I mean, I think the thing is this, if I

860
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 5: don't do it, I'm gonna get talked about. But if

861
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 5: I do do it, I'm gonna get talked about. And

862
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,359
Speaker 5: I personally want to do it, so I might as

863
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 5: wenna do what I want to do.

864
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 1: But do you feel like is it something that it's

865
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 1: like you feel like you would have got it regardless,

866
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 1: or do you feel like it's the pressures of being

867
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: in the spotlight.

868
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 3: I would have done a regardless.

869
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 5: I've always been a very vain girl from a tiny

870
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 5: tot I had. My mom was a vein woman. My

871
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 5: dining room growing up in my house, it was a

872
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 5: beautiful dining room, long table, twelve chairs. The whole wall

873
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:12,760
Speaker 5: was mirrors.

874
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 3: Do that make you vein?

875
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 5: My mom had if you look at me, If every

876
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 5: time you pass by mirror you look at it.

877
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 3: They say that's a characteristic of.

878
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 5: Being vain, like if you walk by a window and

879
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 5: you look at yourself. But being vein is not like that.

880
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 5: It's not a bad thing to me. It's like always

881
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:32,879
Speaker 5: if it's a mirror, what would I not like? My

882
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 5: mother was a very va and my sister growing up

883
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,720
Speaker 5: and she's still like that, was very much a dalled

884
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 5: up girl. I grew up around doll and even though

885
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:50,359
Speaker 5: I'm a doll now, but like I was very much

886
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 5: a tomboy growing up. But I think as I get older,

887
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 5: I learned the way you present yourself. It doesn't matter

888
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:04,320
Speaker 5: if you work at Walm Sophora, a CEO at a company.

889
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 3: The way you.

890
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 5: Present yourself is everything. It doesn't matter what kind of

891
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 5: job you have. If you are cleaned up nice, and

892
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 5: I'm not saying you gotta be in one hundred thousand

893
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 5: dollars outfit, It's about how you present yourself, clean and

894
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 5: well kept. My first job. One of my first jobs

895
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 5: I had was working at a bridal store in Orange, Sexis.

896
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 5: It was called Suki's and that was one of the requirements.

897
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 3: It was like hockey with Akuchi.

898
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 5: I think a man bought her that that store too.

899
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 5: Let me not say, because I think Sukis is still open. No,

900
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 5: but she was a very respectable woman. Her name was Suki.

901
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 3: Yes, it's Suki Suky.

902
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 2: But it was a.

903
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 5: Beautiful bridal store. And I say that because that was

904
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 5: one of her requirements. Like we had to dress up

905
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 5: very clean cut, because if she's like if a bride

906
00:41:56,680 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 5: comes in here, I'm not buying from somebody who who

907
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 5: was like slouched over, hair not combed, face not done,

908
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 5: and I'm not looking polished because if you don't present

909
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 5: yourself as well looking well, how are you gonna sell

910
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 5: me something on the most important day of my life.

911
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 5: So I think looking good is just a part of life.

912
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:18,720
Speaker 3: I agree.

913
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 1: I have no stranger to a little tox myself. I

914
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:23,840
Speaker 1: actually had an appointment last week.

915
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 5: I was saying that looks a little you know, you

916
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 5: got that boatok, shine, But it's a good.

917
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 1: But I think that I also just have like very

918
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: I have like a very weily t zone.

919
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 3: But but honestly not really. I don't know. I just

920
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 3: think my forehead got this shine.

921
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 5: But but that Bowtok shine. You everybody know about the

922
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 5: Bowtok shan. Y'all literally get on TikTok and type bowtox shine.

923
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 3: But it looked good, girl, it looked good. I just

924
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 3: said it, Thank you girl. Last week.

925
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, she said she used something I can't remember what

926
00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 1: it's called. Is not actually it's not actually botox cause

927
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,240
Speaker 1: you know both hoks, the actual brand.

928
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 3: It takes like two weeks to kick in. I like, God,

929
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:09,919
Speaker 3: something new. This took like four days. I just got

930
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:10,319
Speaker 3: it last.

931
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 5: I'm finna call you headling because me and my girl

932
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 5: went viral. Y'all s picking up because we never talked

933
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 5: about that.

934
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 3: Yeah did we?

935
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 5: We know, because we were supposed to, but we forgot

936
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 5: to bring it up. But you know, I had a

937
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 5: TikTok that went viral a few months ago and I

938
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 5: was talking about everything that I've done to my face

939
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 5: and it was like, literally the comments were like fifty

940
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 5: to fifty. Some people were like, oh my god, she

941
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 5: looks awful, and the other half was like, oh my god,

942
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:35,840
Speaker 5: you look so good. But also my lashes were different.

943
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 5: It was like a lot of you know, but I

944
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 5: just felt like, yes, I have gotten facial balancing and

945
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 5: I absolutely love it.

946
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:45,360
Speaker 1: But my thing is with them weak ass halls and

947
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 1: comments where they was piecing me the fuck off. It's

948
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: because y'all is not gonna act like my girl ain't

949
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: being tea, Like we're not gonna act like the face

950
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 1: Card ain't being fired.

951
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 3: Face Card was never declining.

952
00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 5: It was so fun.

953
00:43:58,080 --> 00:43:58,880
Speaker 3: The videos is.

954
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: There you can literally go to like poor and that's

955
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: the thing about poor minds where nobody can ever clock

956
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 1: either one of our tea because you literally can go

957
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 1: back to videos from twenty seventeen yea twenty eighteen before.

958
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 3: Either one of us had anything.

959
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like y'all not gonna sit here and

960
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 1: act like licks wouldn't always.

961
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 5: That was funny because when I sent you, I said, oh,

962
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 5: this before even when viral I sent it to you,

963
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 5: I was like, bitch, date this is gonna go viral.

964
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 3: Yeah you did there.

965
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 5: You was like, but face being to you did.

966
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 1: Say it, because like, what the fucking hole say? If

967
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 1: this is if this is the before, right, what can

968
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: you really say? Like you didn't need anything done. It

969
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,320
Speaker 1: was something that you wanted to do to make yourself

970
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 1: feel better. And I just want to touch on it too,

971
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 1: like people be acting like it's something wrong with people

972
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 1: wanting to do things that is gonna make them feel

973
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:48,800
Speaker 1: better about themselves.

974
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 3: Especially if you can afford it and you have the means.

975
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 3: The problem be a lot of people don't even be

976
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 3: having the.

977
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 1: Means to do it, and that's where they always be

978
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 1: saying something or always have something negatives to say, baby,

979
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 1: because you wish you could do yeah, but you can't,

980
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 1: and also if you did. I think too, a lot

981
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 1: of people don't want to get stuff done. And I

982
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 1: say this all the time too, because I think a

983
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: lot of people have this idea of like, well, I

984
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:12,800
Speaker 1: just want to be able to say I'm natural.

985
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, you naturally look at all?

986
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 5: Okay, right off?

987
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 4: What not?

988
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 3: You naturally look a food?

989
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 1: You naturally looking all this FuG You naturally look forty two.

990
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,280
Speaker 1: I gonna care because I be sick of people always

991
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 1: trying to come for us and other women. Yeah not

992
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:37,799
Speaker 1: just us, but other women who decide to like get

993
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:41,400
Speaker 1: botox or get facial balancing like you got, or like

994
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: in the past I've gotten lip feelers before.

995
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 3: Like, if people want to do that, let people do

996
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 3: what they want to do. Women who want to get surgery,

997
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,439
Speaker 3: if you want to be natural, that's great. I don't

998
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:52,760
Speaker 3: see anything wrong with being natural.

999
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: If that's what you want to do, cool, But don't

1000
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 1: bash other people for what they want to do. And

1001
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:00,720
Speaker 1: some of y'all be basking and oh, I'm natural, I'm natural.

1002
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: You look natural respectfully.

1003
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,359
Speaker 5: Now see but would but I know I do.

1004
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 3: Nobody was questioning if you was not. And that's what

1005
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:09,359
Speaker 3: I'm saying.

1006
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 5: That's the thing, like y'all, y'all be trying to make

1007
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 5: an announcement.

1008
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 2: It's like we know, we know.

1009
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 5: A little bit, we know a little bit, But like

1010
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 5: I said, I feel like I don't ever come for people.

1011
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 3: That's the thing.

1012
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:25,319
Speaker 5: I have always been very straightforward, honest about everything that

1013
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 5: I've gotten done to my body. So if I'm making

1014
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 5: a video to educate the women who do want to

1015
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 5: get it, if you don't want to get it, that's fine,

1016
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 5: But why are you commenting? This is for the people

1017
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 5: who want to get it and they want some education

1018
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 5: and they're doing their research on it.

1019
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 3: But we've talked about this before.

1020
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 1: On the show, because I feel like you have always

1021
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: been very honest, but like at one point I never

1022
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:46,359
Speaker 1: was like dishonest, Like I would never say I never

1023
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:49,439
Speaker 1: had anything done. I just wouldn't talk about what I've done.

1024
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: And that's why though, because I feel like, you damned

1025
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 1: if you do, damned if you don't. If you tell

1026
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 1: people that, they still gonna try to attack you like

1027
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 1: they be doing with you. And then if you don't

1028
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 1: say nothing, then people have all of these accusations and allegations.

1029
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 1: It's like, for so long I never talked about the

1030
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 1: fact that I had got light both and stuff on

1031
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 1: the show, and then eventually I started talking about it,

1032
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: and then like you still get back les, you know

1033
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 1: what I mean, people are still gonna say something like

1034
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: you can't please everybody.

1035
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 3: So I just be feeling like, to each his own.

1036
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:20,959
Speaker 3: If you want to tell people, tell them.

1037
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: If you don't, you don't cause you also don't owe

1038
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 1: people to tell them.

1039
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, you don't own anything. But like I said, I

1040
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 5: know like when I was a young person on the internet,

1041
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 5: I used to look at certain women and they would

1042
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:32,720
Speaker 5: be the lying Yeah I was weird.

1043
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:33,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's.

1044
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,799
Speaker 5: Like I was trying to achieve something that wasn't attainable

1045
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:38,720
Speaker 5: being a young, impersonable girl.

1046
00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1047
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,320
Speaker 5: So me knowing the responsibility of my platform and having

1048
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 5: people who look at me and look up to me,

1049
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 5: they're like, oh lex your body tea, well, how baby,

1050
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 5: I lay it on the table twice. I got these

1051
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 5: tities done twice, So I've done this and like, you

1052
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, Like, yes, I do be you know,

1053
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 5: working out, and I do eat healthy for the most part,

1054
00:47:57,160 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 5: but there's things that have gone on that are not natural.

1055
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:05,319
Speaker 5: So I feel like my testimony is always for the

1056
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,319
Speaker 5: people who want to get things done. So I can

1057
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 5: tell you what to avoid, what to do, what not

1058
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 5: to do, and.

1059
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 3: I can help you.

1060
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:12,879
Speaker 5: But it's not for y'all to come and be like, oh,

1061
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 5: she looks so much better before, because again, if they

1062
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 5: were trying to clock our tea and go viral, they

1063
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 5: would have just gone back to an old video and

1064
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 5: had something to say.

1065
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,800
Speaker 1: And it's live at me. If you can screenshoty do

1066
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 1: whatever you wm.

1067
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 5: But I feel like I was beautiful then I'm beautiful

1068
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:29,839
Speaker 5: now and I'm having a ball.

1069
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, please go, you need to call up doctor orion. Hmmm.

1070
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 5: I might need to call him myself. I know where

1071
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 5: his office at.

1072
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 1: Now A call out girl, Helen and shrink coffe. Yeah,

1073
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 1: shout out to hell and Atlanta, Georgia.

1074
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:43,359
Speaker 5: And I said that in the video that I made

1075
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:47,440
Speaker 5: that went viral. Y'all go to an injector though, that

1076
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 5: doesn't overdo it. When I tell you, I see Helen

1077
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:52,399
Speaker 5: maybe twice a year.

1078
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 3: Damn bitch, fucking that all of us. I got some

1079
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 3: more too, thank you.

1080
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 5: But I will say Helen does not overdo it. She

1081
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 5: doesn't overinject. A lot of injectors, they don't stop. You

1082
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,440
Speaker 5: asked for this amount and they'll give it to you.

1083
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 5: Helen doesn't do that. I the last time I went

1084
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:14,839
Speaker 5: to Helen was right before Tribal Queens premiere and I said,

1085
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 5: what do your thing? And she was like, okay, you

1086
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 5: need this? I said, what about my lips? She said, Girl,

1087
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 5: your lips are good. She was like, you're good. We

1088
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 5: don't need to do that. She was like, maybe a

1089
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 5: little bit right here, but that's.

1090
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 3: All I'm doing.

1091
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:26,720
Speaker 5: I was like you sure.

1092
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,879
Speaker 3: I was like, I don't need girl, Helen. Don't play that.

1093
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 5: If anybody goes to Helen, you'll be like you look refreshed.

1094
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,799
Speaker 5: Every time I go to Helen, people be like, I

1095
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:38,800
Speaker 5: don't know what it.

1096
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:39,879
Speaker 2: Is, what did you do?

1097
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 3: What you did?

1098
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: But I think too the key is going to somebody

1099
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:43,799
Speaker 1: who also looks good.

1100
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 3: Yeah exactly, because Helen.

1101
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: Face t Yeah, Helen Face looked good and she shows

1102
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:50,920
Speaker 1: her before and after its autust all the time. So

1103
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: I think that that's like a main key factor as will.

1104
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 1: But I mean, I don't know. I just always say,

1105
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 1: do what you want to do. Don't let nobody make

1106
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 1: you feel bad about anything. I think some people do

1107
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 1: be taking it overboard with the work that they be

1108
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: getting done to they face and to their bodies and stuff.

1109
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 1: But I don't feel like me and you are in

1110
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 1: that category because to be honest, we haven't did. But

1111
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:12,800
Speaker 1: you know what's funny to me, people be trying to

1112
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,480
Speaker 1: say that about my lips, but I haven't had lip

1113
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 1: fillers since twenty twenty one.

1114
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 5: I think the thing is that we've learned obviously, like

1115
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 5: when you get filled juicy, Well, I think the thing

1116
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 5: is that we've learned, like once you.

1117
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:25,720
Speaker 3: Get feelers, they're that forever.

1118
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 5: They don't dissolve like we originally thought, like sometimes your

1119
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 5: body will what's it called tabolize them? But as further

1120
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,839
Speaker 5: research is going on, feelers like wherever you get them done,

1121
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 5: Like when I got feelers right here and all this stuff,

1122
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 5: it ain't going away ever, you molltabolize it a little bit,

1123
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:44,840
Speaker 5: but they're still But I think with your lips, you

1124
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:45,839
Speaker 5: had juicy.

1125
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 3: Lips before and nobody believes it.

1126
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 5: Right, you had juicy lips before, so when you got

1127
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 5: your lips done, it just made them a little you know,

1128
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 5: But now everything is just so like again, you've always

1129
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 5: been a beautiful girl, but now you're just more polished.

1130
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:03,399
Speaker 5: They cannot believe a woman is real. They can't take

1131
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 5: they can't they can't take all They're like, this is

1132
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:09,240
Speaker 5: not allegations.

1133
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 3: Be getting crazy, Yeah, you know job allegations. I'd be like,

1134
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:19,359
Speaker 3: when did I have again? Sometimes when did I have time?

1135
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:23,279
Speaker 3: We recorded for Minds for seven years. People just can't take.

1136
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 3: That's all it is.

1137
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:27,359
Speaker 5: They can't take whether anything that you've touched or not,

1138
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:29,879
Speaker 5: it doesn't matter. I look the fuck good, and that's

1139
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 5: what you need to just say. Just say I look

1140
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:35,439
Speaker 5: good me, you know what I'm saying. Like when people

1141
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 5: are looking at you to pick everything, they just say

1142
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 5: I look good. Like that's easier to just say, hey, you.

1143
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 3: Know what, you look good and I'm gonna send you

1144
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 3: healing no so you can get a little talk, a

1145
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:50,919
Speaker 3: little look.

1146
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,720
Speaker 1: That's really all I get though these days, is botox.

1147
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 1: To be honest, I be gotten anything else.

1148
00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, I do my this is my second facial balance

1149
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 5: saying I got my first facial balancing. I think what

1150
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 5: was it, year twenty twenty two. And but I will say,

1151
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 5: with feelers on the face, people be going like every

1152
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 5: six months to do that, and I think that's insane.

1153
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 5: Now I will say, I think that's a little crazy.

1154
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 3: It is I do this.

1155
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 5: I took a two and a half year, three year

1156
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 5: break in between, because you don't want to overdo it.

1157
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 5: I don't even go because they say for botox you're

1158
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 5: supposed to go every three months. I don't even do that.

1159
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 5: I think if you space it out and you go

1160
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 5: to a good injector, you'll have great results.

1161
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:33,959
Speaker 3: And I think my results look great.

1162
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 1: I'll be getting tired of talking about our lukes because

1163
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 1: what Nikki said in that video, she says to even

1164
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 1: mention my.

1165
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 5: Loops because that's and that's another woman. Because y'all be

1166
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:47,360
Speaker 5: trying to be funny. Nicki minar minaj f.

1167
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 3: That's that all.

1168
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:55,240
Speaker 5: Old ladies, nickierd old.

1169
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:59,760
Speaker 1: Ladies be pronouncing everything wrong. Who is Nicki minard face card?

1170
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 1: You don't decline has always been sick? Always shout out Tord, shout.

1171
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:08,480
Speaker 3: Out to Nikki Nikki. All right, let's get on to

1172
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 3: topic too, topic two. What we got?

1173
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 1: Okay, So topic number two, we're gonna play a game

1174
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 1: called truth or trash. So you're gonna say whether you've

1175
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,960
Speaker 1: done these things or not because it's your birthday. If

1176
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:22,400
Speaker 1: it's the truth, if it's yes, you're gonna say truth.

1177
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 1: If it's a no, you're gonna say trash.

1178
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:26,320
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, cool.

1179
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 3: So let's get into number one.

1180
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 1: I have used my birthday as an excuse to text

1181
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:33,840
Speaker 1: someone I had no business missing.

1182
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:38,399
Speaker 5: Trash. It's my birthday, You're supposed to text me on

1183
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:39,320
Speaker 5: my birthday.

1184
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 3: I would never be like.

1185
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 5: Street, But what do you say, though, Oh, it's my birthday?

1186
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 4: No?

1187
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:52,280
Speaker 1: So like I guess for me, I'm more so thinking

1188
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 1: along the lines of I've had people DM me on

1189
00:53:56,280 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 1: my birthday and be like, oh, hey, happy birthday, and

1190
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 1: then I text them.

1191
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 5: And was like, hey, but they hit you first, so

1192
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 5: that's not the same as this.

1193
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 3: But they dms me.

1194
00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: I text them when I feel like when you text somebody,

1195
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 1: I'm little more personal than a d M.

1196
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 3: But they opened the door. They opened the door. I'm

1197
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 3: talking about you, me texting somebody off.

1198
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:23,760
Speaker 5: You texting somebody on your birthday is so desperate and Thursday,

1199
00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:27,959
Speaker 5: that's fair. I'm just the text to them, like, damn,

1200
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 5: it's my birthday.

1201
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 3: You ain't gonna stay happy birthday.

1202
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:31,919
Speaker 5: I know you host be doing that.

1203
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 1: That's a little corny, Yeah, not corny, But I have

1204
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,879
Speaker 1: definitely had people like message me on my birthday and

1205
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 1: you were like and then I text them and be like, hey, I.

1206
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 5: Can only imagine what my phone is gonna do on

1207
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 5: my birthday, just because like on one of the clips

1208
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:48,920
Speaker 5: with Sierra, I was talking about like that I'm single

1209
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 5: now and people already been saying stuff and in my being,

1210
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:54,960
Speaker 5: it's just been weird.

1211
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 3: And you've been having the same number since nineteen.

1212
00:54:57,239 --> 00:55:01,319
Speaker 1: Seventy three, so that you're definitely you're definitely going to

1213
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 1: be miss g because everybody still got.

1214
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 5: Your number, I know.

1215
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:05,959
Speaker 3: But what if that man misses you?

1216
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 5: Which man?

1217
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 3: You right, I should have been more specified.

1218
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 5: How can you get specific without getting too specific?

1219
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 3: To let me in?

1220
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:18,839
Speaker 5: No, I'll beat your ass for that. Actually, I'm trying

1221
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 5: to have a good birthday, and that's what you're gonna

1222
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 5: do on my on my birthday. Is my birthday, On

1223
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 5: my birthday, with my birthday, that's what you're gonna do

1224
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:26,400
Speaker 5: on my birthday.

1225
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 3: You ran into him, like a few times I have not.

1226
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 5: I have owned my mother. I have not seen him

1227
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:37,839
Speaker 5: since we broken up. You saw him, Shay saw him,

1228
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,759
Speaker 5: and I did not even know. I did not notice him.

1229
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:44,759
Speaker 5: But you know what, this is a theory. I don't

1230
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 5: know what it's called. I saw this on y'all know

1231
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 5: I love TikTok. They said, when somebody comes in your

1232
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:53,359
Speaker 5: life and you learn your lesson or you learn whatever

1233
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 5: you're supposed to learn from that person. And y'all separate ways,

1234
00:55:57,600 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 5: whether it's a friend, family member, romantic, you don't run

1235
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 5: in ever. See the fact that said he was standing

1236
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 5: right behind the cameras. I swear to god, I did

1237
00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:09,839
Speaker 5: not see that man.

1238
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,440
Speaker 1: That did be sad though, because I'd be like, dang,

1239
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:16,319
Speaker 1: have I not learned my listen with none of these

1240
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 1: niggas bro, I they ain't running into people that I.

1241
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 3: Oh, No, I don't. I don't. I don't either, I don't,

1242
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 3: I do not.

1243
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:29,360
Speaker 5: I have not seen that man since twenty eighteen nineteen.

1244
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 3: Thank you, so never.

1245
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:32,799
Speaker 1: But it do be quiet for them though, like it

1246
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 1: don't matter. So I take that bag. I don't know

1247
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: why I'll be running into them, but I'm never tempted

1248
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 1: to like talk to people that I used to talk.

1249
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 5: The only reason I seen the other the other man,

1250
00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 5: is because he came up here trying to come on

1251
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 5: lost shot.

1252
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:48,319
Speaker 3: He was up here and you had this thing out

1253
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 3: that day.

1254
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 5: Couldn't resist that.

1255
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 3: Said as soon as you walked up in here that

1256
00:56:55,600 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 3: I'll fit on. Said, hey, you didn't have to lift

1257
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:06,840
Speaker 3: it up, it was out. You was cutting up. I said,

1258
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:07,800
Speaker 3: she got that ass.

1259
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 5: Oh but anyway, so you know, so that's trash. Yeah,

1260
00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 5: I've gosted a man the day after he gave me

1261
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 5: a birthday gift.

1262
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:21,880
Speaker 3: Truth, I've definitely done that before. Truth, you've gone that time.

1263
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 1: I've had a man look a whole trip and I

1264
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:26,440
Speaker 1: was like, this is gonna work by.

1265
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 3: I had a blast. Oh a birthday trip. That's a

1266
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 3: big one. Gotta dash what about you.

1267
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 1: Come on now, I was going, come on now, you

1268
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: already know the goddamn into today. Shut up, ibby ghost

1269
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:43,920
Speaker 1: niggas just because it ain't even gotta.

1270
00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 3: Be today before my birthday.

1271
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I've definitely done that before too, definitely, okay, okay.

1272
00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 1: I expect everyone to drop what they're doing because he's

1273
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:53,479
Speaker 1: my day.

1274
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 3: Trash, trash, yeah, trash. I don't like.

1275
00:57:57,160 --> 00:57:58,360
Speaker 5: If you got something to do, if you can pull

1276
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 5: up on me, let's have a good time. If not, hey, man,

1277
00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:02,960
Speaker 5: I don't give a fuck. I know you love me. Yeah,

1278
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 5: you got life going on, man, I agree and I

1279
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 5: and let me say this too, stop making it y'all's

1280
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 5: birthday months. I'm going out what you want. I'm going

1281
00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:13,520
Speaker 5: out with you once. If you're a friend, if you're

1282
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:16,440
Speaker 5: my best friend, I'll give you a weekend or a

1283
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 5: week or a trip. But if you're my associate or

1284
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:23,120
Speaker 5: you're my friend, invite me the one thing one night.

1285
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 5: Like it's different.

1286
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 4: If it's you, dang, yeah, dang, mama.

1287
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 3: Yeah that's all you get.

1288
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 5: Don't invite me. If we're associates, don't invite me. Monday,

1289
00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 5: we're doing this, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, and then the next week.

1290
00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:42,000
Speaker 1: No, babe, but that's a little oh d this is

1291
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 1: that's for you. I feel like you're talking to the

1292
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 1: young folks. Yeah, women that are thirty and up. We

1293
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 1: is not doing that. We're not paying Monday, are Wednesday, Thursday?

1294
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 5: Yes they are, no way, yes they are. They absolutely

1295
00:58:56,920 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 5: are telling the stories. Oh yeah, my friend didn't show up.

1296
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 5: They'd be getting mad because if the friend do show up,

1297
00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:05,600
Speaker 5: she more dressed up than her and it'd be so

1298
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 5: many stories.

1299
00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:09,040
Speaker 2: But you need to get a stylist, not that shit on.

1300
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 5: Well, I just feel like this this is your birtha

1301
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 5: Oh my god.

1302
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:18,160
Speaker 1: I feel like that's like the worst type of friends

1303
00:59:18,240 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 1: ever to have a friend who like when you go places,

1304
00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, you dressed better than me, or oh,

1305
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 1: you didn't tell me that she was gonna wear that,

1306
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,080
Speaker 1: or you didn't tell me you was gonna wear heels.

1307
00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:30,919
Speaker 3: You didn't tell me you was gonna dress up. Bitch,

1308
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 3: I'm doing me. You should do you even on your birthday.

1309
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:38,200
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck with nobody around me got

1310
00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 1: on their birthday because it's my I mean on my birthday,

1311
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 1: because it's my birthday. You could wear whatever you like,

1312
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:47,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know what you could wear whatever you like,

1313
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:49,520
Speaker 1: I don't know when you're having dress clothes for my birthday.

1314
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 1: Like I get maybe if you want to wear a

1315
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:54,080
Speaker 1: certain color and then you want everybody else to wear

1316
00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:57,720
Speaker 1: a different color. But really trying to like tell people

1317
00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 1: exactly what they can wear and how they should dress.

1318
01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:03,360
Speaker 1: I just think it's so weird, and it's very much

1319
01:00:03,440 --> 01:00:06,439
Speaker 1: giving you insecure because you don't want somebody to show

1320
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,800
Speaker 1: up looking better than you. But if you the type

1321
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 1: of woman who you not even comparing yourself to your

1322
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 1: friends in the first place, You're never gonna feel like

1323
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 1: other people look better than you anyways, because everybody have

1324
01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 1: their own unique beauty and own unique style.

1325
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,760
Speaker 3: Who cares you shus be weird? But you're that muse

1326
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 3: beauty girl. But I'm just don't you think that's weird?

1327
01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 3: Be like weird? She came to my birthday dressed better

1328
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 3: than me, Why haven't. I'm not gonna lie to you.

1329
01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 5: I've never had a birthday dinner or birthday outing where

1330
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 5: I was like, like when we all went to Miami

1331
01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:41,360
Speaker 5: that whole week, we just had a ball. I didn't

1332
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:44,560
Speaker 5: tell nobody what to wear. We all looked good and

1333
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:47,560
Speaker 5: we all just had fun. Like I just think I

1334
01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:50,760
Speaker 5: agree with you there, Like I don't know. I just

1335
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 5: think that's one weird But like I said, I also think,

1336
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 5: like if I can't show up for your birthday or

1337
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:58,720
Speaker 5: if I got something going on, it's gonna be like

1338
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 5: a good reason why I'm not there. But I'm not

1339
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 5: getting mad at somebody if they don't show up for

1340
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:08,080
Speaker 5: my birthday. I'm not me the only person. I'm like

1341
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:09,959
Speaker 5: if I do a birthday dinner, only people I'm getting

1342
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 5: mad at. Is like if you don't come. If I'm

1343
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 5: doing a birthday dinner and you don't come, you're in trouble.

1344
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:17,240
Speaker 5: Why am I If you don't come to my birthday dinner,

1345
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:21,360
Speaker 5: you're in trouble. He'lla's in trouble. What is trouble Beeling's

1346
01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:23,880
Speaker 5: in trouble and Lauren's in trouble. I'll give my sister

1347
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:25,240
Speaker 5: a pass and she got kids.

1348
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be mad at you. Well, I don't. I

1349
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 3: cannot not show up.

1350
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:34,480
Speaker 1: I mean we live in the same either way, I

1351
01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:35,920
Speaker 1: will still go to wherever.

1352
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, your birthday, Like you don't have a choice.

1353
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come, but I'm just like that when it

1354
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 1: come to my friends, I'm gonna show up for your birthday.

1355
01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:43,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna show up.

1356
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 5: I think, like me, if your birthday this year was

1357
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 5: like so hectic, it was so much going on, I

1358
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 5: kept saying, just hey, what you want to do, I'm

1359
01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 5: pulling up.

1360
01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 3: Do it. I'll stayed all late that night too. You did.

1361
01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:57,440
Speaker 3: I was very proud of you. I didn't go home early.

1362
01:01:57,800 --> 01:01:58,960
Speaker 3: I did not go home early.

1363
01:01:59,080 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 2: You didn't.

1364
01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 3: You had I was ready to go, I was, but

1365
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 3: I out. But I still have fun though. I had

1366
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 3: a good time. I had a ball. Okay, let's do one.

1367
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:09,920
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so hold on, wait? What was he?

1368
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 5: I expect everyone to drop what they're doing because it's my.

1369
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:13,800
Speaker 3: That's trash to me.

1370
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 1: I've never been in if you can come, cool, if

1371
01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 1: you can't cool, But if it, if it becomes an

1372
01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:22,960
Speaker 1: habitual thing, I will say, like, if it happens year

1373
01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 1: after year after year, you can't come.

1374
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:29,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, we ain't really friends for real, you don't really

1375
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 3: with me. But one year that's fine.

1376
01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm just not. I feel like my birthdays is

1377
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 5: more so about what I want to do. Like my

1378
01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:40,880
Speaker 5: birthday this year, I might just kind of like do something.

1379
01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 3: At the house.

1380
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,760
Speaker 5: Chill, if my table, if my chairs get in time,

1381
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,520
Speaker 5: I'm gonna have like my close girlfriend's over and we're

1382
01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 5: gonna have like a girl yo, that's it. I'm gonna

1383
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 5: have kiki, we do karaoke.

1384
01:02:52,840 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm gonna bring my robe.

1385
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:57,000
Speaker 5: I'll let you about to say your roles.

1386
01:02:57,120 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, leave it at home, leave that.

1387
01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 3: I'm spending the night, you know, have me a little

1388
01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 3: palate ready. Actually I'm a sleeping the bed.

1389
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 5: I said I have rooms, now, No, I have Look,

1390
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:21,200
Speaker 5: I have a.

1391
01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 3: Home with rooms exactly spacious. Hone okay, one more, one more.

1392
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:30,160
Speaker 5: I've canceled plans last minute just because I wasn't feeling

1393
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 5: my birthday enough.

1394
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:35,320
Speaker 3: Option me. Addition, if that was the.

1395
01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 5: End of your last, oh, cut that all out.

1396
01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:41,640
Speaker 3: Okay.

1397
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:44,840
Speaker 5: I've canceled my plans last minute just because I wasn't

1398
01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:45,919
Speaker 5: feeling my birthday enough.

1399
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 3: That Martine to dirty. It's lecture.

1400
01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:56,600
Speaker 1: It's a lecture, as fucked. Yes, that's me. I did

1401
01:03:56,720 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: that this year. Yes, I will can't so birthday plans.

1402
01:04:01,280 --> 01:04:04,160
Speaker 1: I'm not feeling me because I just feel like I

1403
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:06,920
Speaker 1: don't like going around other people with like bad energy.

1404
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:10,680
Speaker 1: So I would rather just night, you know, like I

1405
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 1: don't want to have a birthday dinner just because I

1406
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, it's my birthday, I have to do it.

1407
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:16,200
Speaker 1: But I know I'm not in the mood, and I

1408
01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:18,280
Speaker 1: know my energy and my vibe gonna be off. I

1409
01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:20,240
Speaker 1: would rather just not even hang with my friends because

1410
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 1: I just don't even want to put y'all in that space.

1411
01:04:22,920 --> 01:04:24,960
Speaker 5: But we ended up having a good time for your birthday.

1412
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:26,040
Speaker 3: But we went later.

1413
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 5: We went like a week later, but we brought your

1414
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 5: birthday in on Travel Queens.

1415
01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 3: But that was the next day.

1416
01:04:32,360 --> 01:04:35,160
Speaker 5: I know, but I'm just saying like it was still wonderful.

1417
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:40,280
Speaker 5: I feel like that week things transpired. But Travel Queens

1418
01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:42,960
Speaker 5: and the night and the night that we went out

1419
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:46,120
Speaker 5: that we traded the night of, we still had an

1420
01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:46,800
Speaker 5: amazing time.

1421
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:47,760
Speaker 3: No, yeah, we did.

1422
01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:51,480
Speaker 5: The Greek restaurant was beautiful, your dress looked good. Dinner

1423
01:04:51,600 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 5: was fantastic. Like we went out to I can't remember

1424
01:04:56,640 --> 01:04:58,080
Speaker 5: the name of that club, but we went out afterwards

1425
01:04:58,120 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 5: and we.

1426
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 3: Had we had a ball. We went to Sweet Yes,

1427
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:02,880
Speaker 3: we had a ball. Like it ended up being a

1428
01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:04,400
Speaker 3: good birthday. No, we did.

1429
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:07,880
Speaker 1: I feel like the only reason I canceled my birthday,

1430
01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 1: to be honest, this year was because I had ordered

1431
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 1: this corset.

1432
01:05:11,480 --> 01:05:12,880
Speaker 3: Which was so beautiful.

1433
01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:16,320
Speaker 1: It was like this beautiful corset and it was really expensive,

1434
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:20,080
Speaker 1: and it ended up getting lost in the mill. Well, no,

1435
01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:21,920
Speaker 1: it didn't get lost in the mill. It got delivered

1436
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 1: to my building and they had a photo like uploaded

1437
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 1: on the UPS website and everything, but it was not

1438
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:30,919
Speaker 1: in the mail room. And I'm like, what the fuck

1439
01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 1: did somebody steal my package? And I searched through that

1440
01:05:34,520 --> 01:05:36,200
Speaker 1: mail room all day and I was like, if I

1441
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:39,120
Speaker 1: don't find this by six o'clock, I'm canceling my dinner

1442
01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 1: because I didn't have nothing to wear. So that's why

1443
01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:44,840
Speaker 1: I ended up canceling it. And then it eventually, like

1444
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 1: three four weeks later, crazy enough, ended up showing up.

1445
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 3: Somebody definitely had it.

1446
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:52,320
Speaker 1: I think somebody took it and then they decided to

1447
01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:54,800
Speaker 1: like just because it showed up and then it was

1448
01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 1: in the band they just right. I feel like somebody

1449
01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:00,960
Speaker 1: took it and then they were they probably couldn't feed

1450
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 1: it waste when small enough, but no for real, so yeah, like,

1451
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:11,440
Speaker 1: but yeah, I did cancel it, but I think it.

1452
01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:13,040
Speaker 5: Was okay, because we still ended up having a good

1453
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 5: time last year. So now it's time to get into

1454
01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:24,640
Speaker 5: the bed out about about we'd be having a ball.

1455
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:25,920
Speaker 5: You know what, I'm not gonna lie to you. Can

1456
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:26,760
Speaker 5: I tell you a secret?

1457
01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:32,919
Speaker 3: Is it a secret? Yes? I'm fucking I mean, I'm

1458
01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:35,960
Speaker 3: like popcorn, I need a ball. Looked like she was

1459
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 3: about to throw up.

1460
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 5: You hate all of us, shame all of us.

1461
01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:43,240
Speaker 3: Don't stink. I will say this.

1462
01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:46,880
Speaker 5: I understand why people like the solo episodes because we

1463
01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 5: do be having a ball.

1464
01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 3: We be cutting up, cheers, jells.

1465
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 2: Atlant.

1466
01:06:55,560 --> 01:07:01,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, remember that video from because rubbing? Never mind,

1467
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:02,160
Speaker 3: just relax.

1468
01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 5: Okay, So for the bad topic today, as women, does

1469
01:07:06,760 --> 01:07:10,720
Speaker 5: your sex drive really increase the older you get.

1470
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:12,360
Speaker 3: It's been proven that women in their.

1471
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:16,640
Speaker 5: Thirties and forties generally have the highest sex drive among

1472
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:20,840
Speaker 5: all age group. Okay, many people joke and they say

1473
01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:22,600
Speaker 5: it's like they're in heat.

1474
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 3: Is that how we feel.

1475
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:26,840
Speaker 5: As women in our thirties or do y'all feel like it's.

1476
01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:28,400
Speaker 3: Just like whatever, not being horny?

1477
01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 5: It's a tiny todd since you used to take that

1478
01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:34,040
Speaker 5: tricycle to your.

1479
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:35,960
Speaker 1: Neighbor's house, I was not horny when I was on

1480
01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:38,080
Speaker 1: a tricycle. Be she was gonna stop playing with me

1481
01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:39,120
Speaker 1: in my adolescents.

1482
01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:41,520
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm not true.

1483
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:45,760
Speaker 3: I'm not the truth. I was not horny as a

1484
01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:47,200
Speaker 3: child like the saw.

1485
01:07:48,000 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 5: No, I wasn't in that little sawting but was biting

1486
01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:53,280
Speaker 5: your lips.

1487
01:07:53,320 --> 01:07:55,920
Speaker 1: I didn't start getting horned until I was probably like fourteen.

1488
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:59,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm at thirteen. So you've been horny

1489
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:00,000
Speaker 3: from thirteen.

1490
01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:04,880
Speaker 5: So now I'm thirty four, twenty one years.

1491
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 3: It's been a long twenty one because you are horning.

1492
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:09,760
Speaker 5: Okay, what how how long you been horning?

1493
01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 3: I was a freaky little girl too. If you humping

1494
01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:17,920
Speaker 3: some dials. My dad walked in the room one day.

1495
01:08:17,920 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 5: I was like, what are you doing?

1496
01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 3: I put my cappage shut down. Y'all know the big

1497
01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:27,600
Speaker 3: I said, give me my tend ben I want the

1498
01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:29,000
Speaker 3: big one.

1499
01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 1: Not but for real, don't have y'all speaking of though.

1500
01:08:33,840 --> 01:08:36,440
Speaker 1: Have your parents ever caught you doing anything freaky?

1501
01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:37,080
Speaker 3: You know what?

1502
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:37,479
Speaker 2: No?

1503
01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:39,680
Speaker 5: I never got caught, but I didn't do a lot.

1504
01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 5: I didn't get really freaky though, until I moved to

1505
01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 5: the city.

1506
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:45,320
Speaker 3: Tell your mama, never walk in you're doing something.

1507
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:48,040
Speaker 5: You was I was catching my mom and my sister.

1508
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 5: I walked in on my sister having sex. I caught

1509
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:56,000
Speaker 5: my mom having sex. Yes, yes, r ip and he

1510
01:08:56,120 --> 01:08:56,840
Speaker 5: was riding that dick.

1511
01:08:56,920 --> 01:09:05,640
Speaker 3: I said, Oh, I said, I was scarred. I was

1512
01:09:05,760 --> 01:09:06,360
Speaker 3: so mad.

1513
01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:08,639
Speaker 1: No, I need it too, though. You caught your mam

1514
01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 1: r ipizza my daddy. Yes, one time. I just that's

1515
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:15,600
Speaker 1: but it's so funny because your parents will always tell you,

1516
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:18,280
Speaker 1: or at least my parents will tell me, knock before

1517
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:18,879
Speaker 1: you come.

1518
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 2: In the door.

1519
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:21,120
Speaker 5: Yes, she did always say that, and I did.

1520
01:09:21,240 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 1: My parents would always say, they make sure you knock

1521
01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:24,479
Speaker 1: before you come.

1522
01:09:24,360 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 3: In the door. And one day, I don't know, I

1523
01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:28,120
Speaker 3: just I guess I just had a sense of urgency.

1524
01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:30,320
Speaker 1: But whatever it is, I want to eat. So I

1525
01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:31,920
Speaker 1: just opened the door and it was.

1526
01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:32,720
Speaker 3: In there doing it.

1527
01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 5: Oh my god, and I oh my god, dog, I

1528
01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:40,439
Speaker 5: wanted to rip my eyeballs. I walked in on my

1529
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:42,719
Speaker 5: sister having sex one time. My sister may beat my ass.

1530
01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:44,360
Speaker 5: I walked it on my because me and my sister

1531
01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 5: we had conjoining rooms, so it was her room in

1532
01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:49,640
Speaker 5: the middle we had our shared bathroom, and then on

1533
01:09:49,680 --> 01:09:51,960
Speaker 5: the other side it was mine. And then we had

1534
01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:55,920
Speaker 5: sliding doors, so it was like my room, the sliding door,

1535
01:09:56,040 --> 01:09:58,240
Speaker 5: you're in the bathroom, another sliding.

1536
01:09:57,840 --> 01:09:58,880
Speaker 3: Door, you're in her room.

1537
01:09:59,560 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 5: And I knew her boyfriend was in there, so I

1538
01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:06,519
Speaker 5: slid that door open. I creeped in the bathroom.

1539
01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 3: I was like, what are they doing in there?

1540
01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:13,679
Speaker 5: If she was on top of him riding that dick?

1541
01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:18,880
Speaker 5: Running running the family, I said, oh, do you know?

1542
01:10:19,000 --> 01:10:21,760
Speaker 5: I took off running. What's my friend Hillary's house? You

1543
01:10:21,920 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 5: ran out the house, ran out the house. I ran

1544
01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:27,479
Speaker 5: to my friend's house. I was mortified. Ran out the

1545
01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:30,240
Speaker 5: house is so leo because you could have really just.

1546
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:34,400
Speaker 3: Down the streets and somebody else.

1547
01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:36,760
Speaker 5: It was that scene from What's Love Got to doing

1548
01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:38,440
Speaker 5: it when she was running across.

1549
01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:41,479
Speaker 3: She was running across the street.

1550
01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:45,800
Speaker 5: That was me because I can't believe. I could not

1551
01:10:45,920 --> 01:10:51,320
Speaker 5: believe my sister. I was like, how dare you? It

1552
01:10:51,360 --> 01:10:53,719
Speaker 5: was so scar scarred my mama.

1553
01:10:53,800 --> 01:10:56,240
Speaker 1: I never got caught doing nothing sexual, but one time

1554
01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 1: my mama came in a room where I was twerking

1555
01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:00,000
Speaker 1: but naked.

1556
01:11:02,080 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 3: Wait, and I was like to.

1557
01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 1: Shaves naked because I had just got the shower.

1558
01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 3: I had just got the shower and I was probably

1559
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,960
Speaker 3: send a pretty wreaky blue sauce and you was naked

1560
01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 3: to working.

1561
01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:22,560
Speaker 2: She was like, God, what are you doing? Put the

1562
01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:23,600
Speaker 2: fucking clothes on.

1563
01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 3: But Mama, don't cussin. She was like, put some freaking

1564
01:11:26,240 --> 01:11:30,040
Speaker 3: clothes on. I'm so weak, bro, because.

1565
01:11:29,880 --> 01:11:31,120
Speaker 2: What do you be doing.

1566
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:39,759
Speaker 3: I got new shoes. I'm serious, like I was working,

1567
01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:42,960
Speaker 3: and she told my daddy Abody, like, I need to

1568
01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 3: have a talk.

1569
01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:46,560
Speaker 5: They should have had that talk when they taught you

1570
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 5: how to ride that bike.

1571
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:50,040
Speaker 3: It was too late for that girl. Let me alone.

1572
01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:51,800
Speaker 3: But no, yees.

1573
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:54,160
Speaker 1: So I never got caught doing nothing sexual, but I

1574
01:11:54,280 --> 01:11:56,559
Speaker 1: did get caught doing it. And I almost got caught,

1575
01:11:56,720 --> 01:12:01,160
Speaker 1: like watching Busy Young cut a few times, but my

1576
01:12:01,320 --> 01:12:02,479
Speaker 1: fingers was too swives.

1577
01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 3: I had Disney channels moving on the back.

1578
01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:09,160
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, y'all. Never got caught doing anything sexual, but

1579
01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:11,040
Speaker 5: I do. I feel like it's chubby. I told Shade

1580
01:12:11,040 --> 01:12:12,800
Speaker 5: at the other day, she's talking, No they not, I said, yes,

1581
01:12:12,880 --> 01:12:13,360
Speaker 5: they always.

1582
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:14,120
Speaker 3: You have fingers.

1583
01:12:14,160 --> 01:12:15,800
Speaker 5: You always talk about your fingers. I think they look

1584
01:12:15,840 --> 01:12:17,000
Speaker 5: good like little sausages.

1585
01:12:17,640 --> 01:12:18,559
Speaker 3: But I think the older I.

1586
01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:20,800
Speaker 5: Get, I get like I used to kind of feel

1587
01:12:20,880 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 5: like you're not you're a lady. You know you're not

1588
01:12:24,640 --> 01:12:28,320
Speaker 5: supposed to. But honestly, like my next relationship, I think

1589
01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:30,599
Speaker 5: I didn't have a problem with that my last relationship,

1590
01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:31,280
Speaker 5: Like we.

1591
01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 3: Used to be fucking.

1592
01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:36,479
Speaker 5: I always say this though, like any girl who dates

1593
01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:39,640
Speaker 5: a man after me, like, please don't look, I.

1594
01:12:39,880 --> 01:12:43,679
Speaker 3: Was fucking the shit out that nigga. Hey he got fucked, same,

1595
01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:46,360
Speaker 3: he got fucked a lot. Okay.

1596
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:48,880
Speaker 5: I just I enjoy sex, But I don't think there's

1597
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:50,680
Speaker 5: nothing wrong with that. I think people try to be

1598
01:12:50,840 --> 01:12:53,280
Speaker 5: like and I think sex is healthy. I don't think

1599
01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:55,120
Speaker 5: you need to use sex in a way as like

1600
01:12:57,680 --> 01:13:00,680
Speaker 5: punishing somebody like oh we're not talking or you're not

1601
01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:02,160
Speaker 5: doing what I want you to do, so I'm gonna

1602
01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 5: hide sex from you. I'm not gonna give you sex

1603
01:13:04,240 --> 01:13:06,719
Speaker 5: or I don't think sex should be used as a weapon.

1604
01:13:06,800 --> 01:13:09,479
Speaker 3: I think sex should be enjoyed. I think you sho

1605
01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:09,760
Speaker 3: do that.

1606
01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:12,720
Speaker 1: It's stupid as hell anyway, Yeah, because one thing about me.

1607
01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:14,400
Speaker 1: I don't care how mad I am.

1608
01:13:14,479 --> 01:13:18,679
Speaker 3: You're gonna get this Kuchie to real. I'm just because

1609
01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:21,680
Speaker 3: it's not about you. It's not about you.

1610
01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:27,000
Speaker 1: Yes, I think that's so stupid when women do that,

1611
01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:30,120
Speaker 1: and plus like men they don't be needing much.

1612
01:13:30,560 --> 01:13:31,280
Speaker 3: They don't.

1613
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:34,320
Speaker 1: They really don't too bound you gonna weaponize the one

1614
01:13:34,400 --> 01:13:36,400
Speaker 1: thing that they need, you're a dummy.

1615
01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:36,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1616
01:13:37,439 --> 01:13:39,760
Speaker 5: I don't weaponize sex. I don't weaponize and it's not

1617
01:13:39,880 --> 01:13:41,240
Speaker 5: gonna get me in to act, right.

1618
01:13:41,280 --> 01:13:43,519
Speaker 1: I think when women realize that too, like, Okay, you're

1619
01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:46,040
Speaker 1: not gonna give him no kouchie, he might go get

1620
01:13:46,040 --> 01:13:47,200
Speaker 1: staring from somebody's mind.

1621
01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:48,679
Speaker 5: He gonna do that anyway.

1622
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:50,839
Speaker 3: No, I'm not gonna say he gonna do that anyway.

1623
01:13:56,600 --> 01:14:02,320
Speaker 3: He said, yeah, correct. See see I'm telling.

1624
01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:03,760
Speaker 5: You y'all the thing.

1625
01:14:03,920 --> 01:14:06,320
Speaker 1: Yes, it's like you gonna take away that thing and

1626
01:14:06,439 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 1: you think you really doing something, you're not doing nothing.

1627
01:14:08,840 --> 01:14:11,000
Speaker 1: If anything, he probably just gonna end up going get

1628
01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:13,040
Speaker 1: it from somebody else, especially if he'd be in months

1629
01:14:13,120 --> 01:14:16,360
Speaker 1: and months and months of you haulding out like czy,

1630
01:14:16,640 --> 01:14:19,040
Speaker 1: you're not really you didn't really eat that the way

1631
01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:19,800
Speaker 1: you thought you did.

1632
01:14:19,880 --> 01:14:24,280
Speaker 3: And me personally I be horny. Yeah I do. I

1633
01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:26,160
Speaker 3: think sex is fun, sexy is being enjoyed.

1634
01:14:27,120 --> 01:14:31,160
Speaker 5: But I do enjoy sex with somebody I'm emotionally connected to.

1635
01:14:32,240 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 5: Like when I was younger, I used to be like,

1636
01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:37,400
Speaker 5: oh yeah, let's just you know, we cool, we fucking whatever.

1637
01:14:38,000 --> 01:14:41,240
Speaker 5: Now it has to be some kind of like I

1638
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:43,080
Speaker 5: have to have feelings for you to have sex with you.

1639
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:46,360
Speaker 3: I can't, like I've been feeling that way. Yeah, like

1640
01:14:46,479 --> 01:14:47,120
Speaker 3: I can't.

1641
01:14:47,280 --> 01:14:49,680
Speaker 5: Like in my twenties, it was just like, hey, turn up,

1642
01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:52,120
Speaker 5: were in college, were a little tipsy. But now I

1643
01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:54,479
Speaker 5: don't care how drunk I am. Y'all was fucking the

1644
01:14:54,560 --> 01:15:00,599
Speaker 5: Trevis Porter. Yeah okay, now, yeah it was one down.

1645
01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:03,560
Speaker 5: But now it's like if there's no emotional connection. So

1646
01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:05,680
Speaker 5: that's why I say I do enjoy sex more as

1647
01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:08,519
Speaker 5: I get older, because it's like an emotional.

1648
01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:16,160
Speaker 3: Thing and it'd beautiful. It'd be like, oh, thank god there,

1649
01:15:16,280 --> 01:15:24,200
Speaker 3: why should you rubbing on me? This woman's what? This

1650
01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 3: woman's craig?

1651
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 4: Are you.

1652
01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:41,880
Speaker 2: Man?

1653
01:15:42,160 --> 01:15:45,000
Speaker 1: We don't Okay, let's move on. Oh that was funny.

1654
01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:47,400
Speaker 1: But now I do feel like I don't feel like

1655
01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:54,519
Speaker 1: your sex drive increase. I think you've either been horny. Yeah,

1656
01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:57,519
Speaker 1: I'm not want menopause. Here they say that you have

1657
01:15:57,680 --> 01:15:59,240
Speaker 1: like a decline, but I feel like none of us

1658
01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 1: can speak today, right because we haven't. Nah, you probably

1659
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:07,959
Speaker 1: got another te You probably got another ten to fifteen

1660
01:16:08,080 --> 01:16:11,160
Speaker 1: years before you hit minopause, because some women don't be

1661
01:16:11,240 --> 01:16:13,599
Speaker 1: hitting menopause today fifties. That's why you gotta be careful

1662
01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:16,160
Speaker 1: because you can still get pregnant even you know, when

1663
01:16:16,160 --> 01:16:20,360
Speaker 1: you do perimenopause where you only have a cycle like

1664
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:23,840
Speaker 1: three times a year, you still gotta be careful if

1665
01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:25,840
Speaker 1: you still getting your cycle three times a year, because

1666
01:16:25,840 --> 01:16:26,439
Speaker 1: you can still.

1667
01:16:26,360 --> 01:16:27,560
Speaker 5: You don't have mad I would be if I was

1668
01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:30,439
Speaker 5: like forty seven and I got pregnant on accident. Now

1669
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:32,920
Speaker 5: I'm at the clinic with these young holes scoot over.

1670
01:16:33,120 --> 01:16:37,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, you wouldn't have a baby. I didn't have it.

1671
01:16:37,479 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 3: Now I makes you think I'm gonna have.

1672
01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:39,519
Speaker 2: A thing you didn't.

1673
01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:43,680
Speaker 3: I don't know what's worse. I don't know what's worse though, like.

1674
01:16:45,240 --> 01:16:48,120
Speaker 1: Having like risky, taking the risk of having a baby

1675
01:16:48,280 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 1: older or getting an abortion old. I feel like they're

1676
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:55,400
Speaker 1: both like very risky when you hit a certain age,

1677
01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:59,200
Speaker 1: I think it's riskier to maybe have the baby.

1678
01:16:59,560 --> 01:16:59,840
Speaker 3: You think.

1679
01:17:00,280 --> 01:17:00,640
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1680
01:17:00,880 --> 01:17:02,880
Speaker 3: I'm not a doctor, yeah, so let me not even

1681
01:17:02,880 --> 01:17:03,160
Speaker 3: say that.

1682
01:17:03,640 --> 01:17:05,320
Speaker 1: But you wouldn't have it if you got like by

1683
01:17:05,400 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 1: your husband, Like I don't know if it's my husband.

1684
01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:09,400
Speaker 5: It would depend on what we both want to do

1685
01:17:09,479 --> 01:17:11,840
Speaker 5: and where we're at in life. But honestly, I feel

1686
01:17:11,880 --> 01:17:14,920
Speaker 5: like at forty seven, that's not gonna be even an issue.

1687
01:17:15,920 --> 01:17:17,519
Speaker 5: That's not gonna be an issue because either I'm done

1688
01:17:17,560 --> 01:17:19,479
Speaker 5: having kids and my tubes are tied and he's fit,

1689
01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:21,920
Speaker 5: Oh you gonna get your tubes hot when you absolutely

1690
01:17:22,280 --> 01:17:25,320
Speaker 5: absolutely so, there's not gonna be any room for none

1691
01:17:25,360 --> 01:17:25,519
Speaker 5: of that.

1692
01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:27,439
Speaker 3: No, I'm not doing that. I think I would do

1693
01:17:27,520 --> 01:17:29,200
Speaker 3: that too. I'm not gonna lie like I wonld got

1694
01:17:29,240 --> 01:17:31,680
Speaker 3: her two sided after me. Did she get it to

1695
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:33,680
Speaker 3: where it was reversible? Because you know I used to

1696
01:17:33,720 --> 01:17:36,599
Speaker 3: burn them? Yeah, she got hers burned to a Chris

1697
01:17:37,439 --> 01:17:39,320
Speaker 3: Barma CoA Crutchy.

1698
01:17:39,840 --> 01:17:41,640
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would get minds burned. I

1699
01:17:41,640 --> 01:17:44,360
Speaker 1: probably would just get them tied. But I do think

1700
01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:44,920
Speaker 1: I would do this.

1701
01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:47,479
Speaker 3: Literally like a shoe. But to be honest, I'm lying.

1702
01:17:47,600 --> 01:17:51,679
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna ask my husband, like, we're done having kids,

1703
01:17:51,800 --> 01:17:54,599
Speaker 1: can you go get if it's ex to me, it's

1704
01:17:54,640 --> 01:17:55,639
Speaker 1: way less and basive.

1705
01:17:55,760 --> 01:17:58,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and it's reversible. I don't care if somebody

1706
01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:01,240
Speaker 3: gonna get it, then somebody go get something chopped up

1707
01:18:02,200 --> 01:18:04,840
Speaker 3: not slapped up. Yeah, I agree, with you on that one.

1708
01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:07,479
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01:18:15,920 --> 01:18:18,600
Speaker 1: getting lip gloss, and then I also have on the

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1715
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1721
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1723
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Speaker 5: we having a ball. We having a mother fucking time.

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Speaker 5: So this song is actually something that came out last

1738
01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:39,880
Speaker 5: year and it was on my playlist and I was like, damn,

1739
01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:41,800
Speaker 5: I forgot about this song. So it's a song called

1740
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Speaker 5: Solo by Terrace Martin, Elena Pinderhugh and y'all know this

1741
01:19:47,960 --> 01:19:50,320
Speaker 5: is my favorite Aaron Ray I love me some, Aaron

1742
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Speaker 5: Ray Chat love him down. So it was a song

1743
01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:54,400
Speaker 5: that came out last year. It's called Solo. It's on

1744
01:19:54,600 --> 01:19:56,479
Speaker 5: one of my playlists, and it's such a good song.

1745
01:19:56,760 --> 01:19:57,559
Speaker 3: It's just about like.

1746
01:19:57,600 --> 01:20:02,559
Speaker 5: Embracing being solo and embracing being single and by yourself.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: Do you remember that song that Jason Jason Rulo, He

1749
01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:10,519
Speaker 5: had a song called solo. I'm running solo, I'm running solo,

1750
01:20:10,960 --> 01:20:13,200
Speaker 5: I'm running solo, I'm running solo.

1751
01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:18,680
Speaker 3: So she loves Jason Derulo. She do you do the way?

1752
01:20:18,720 --> 01:20:24,360
Speaker 3: She was out of the I don't want to fight,

1753
01:20:24,400 --> 01:20:31,280
Speaker 3: don't want to you look like young lex Young BBQ.

1754
01:20:31,400 --> 01:20:37,680
Speaker 3: That's her name, saying you like young bb Q. Is

1755
01:20:37,720 --> 01:20:39,440
Speaker 3: it Young BBQ or Young Barbecue?

1756
01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:44,679
Speaker 1: I think it's young Barbecue, young beautiful black Crean. Okay,

1757
01:20:44,720 --> 01:20:46,480
Speaker 1: well it's not barbecue.

1758
01:20:46,120 --> 01:20:48,320
Speaker 3: Not barbecue. So yeah, that's my bop of the week.

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01:20:48,360 --> 01:20:51,200
Speaker 5: It's called solo by Terra s Martin beg Ray and

1760
01:20:51,360 --> 01:20:54,640
Speaker 5: Elena I hope I'm saying her name right, Elena pinder Hugh.

1761
01:20:55,080 --> 01:20:57,680
Speaker 5: It was on my you know list from last year,

1762
01:20:58,040 --> 01:20:59,040
Speaker 5: so yeah, shout out to them.

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01:20:59,120 --> 01:21:02,080
Speaker 3: That was about what you got. Tyler got a new

1764
01:21:02,120 --> 01:21:05,840
Speaker 3: song called WWP. I love Tyler. I like Tyler's who

1765
01:21:06,080 --> 01:21:08,640
Speaker 3: that bliss was. Do you feel like Tyla is the

1766
01:21:08,720 --> 01:21:09,280
Speaker 3: new Rihanna?

1767
01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:13,680
Speaker 5: I think that Tyler is Tyler because I think that

1768
01:21:13,840 --> 01:21:17,160
Speaker 5: she makes amazing music. But to compare her to Rihanna,

1769
01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:21,720
Speaker 5: Rihanna was a breakthrough artist and did something that a

1770
01:21:21,800 --> 01:21:24,360
Speaker 5: lot of people hadn't done before, you know, that crossover.

1771
01:21:24,560 --> 01:21:27,960
Speaker 5: Like we we had a few island hits that we like,

1772
01:21:28,240 --> 01:21:33,520
Speaker 5: but Rihanna made like that Caribbean style music, very very mainstream.

1773
01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:38,280
Speaker 5: So I think that Tyler is a great artist, but

1774
01:21:38,520 --> 01:21:40,880
Speaker 5: she's not doing anything like groundbreaking y'all say, But she

1775
01:21:41,000 --> 01:21:43,800
Speaker 5: makes amazing music she did. I think what Rihanna did

1776
01:21:43,920 --> 01:21:46,479
Speaker 5: was groundbreaking and it was different to be the first

1777
01:21:46,920 --> 01:21:48,719
Speaker 5: to do a lot of things. Rihanna was the first

1778
01:21:48,800 --> 01:21:51,280
Speaker 5: to do a lot of things. I think Rihanna opened

1779
01:21:51,320 --> 01:21:53,840
Speaker 5: the door for Tyler's if that makes sense.

1780
01:21:54,000 --> 01:21:55,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, controversial question though.

1781
01:21:55,720 --> 01:21:58,080
Speaker 1: Do you think at this point, though, anybody in the

1782
01:21:58,160 --> 01:22:00,240
Speaker 1: music industry can be the first to do any things?

1783
01:22:00,320 --> 01:22:00,519
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1784
01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:05,840
Speaker 5: Because Beyonce was the first, like black artists to have

1785
01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:10,160
Speaker 5: an out, you know, a country to you know what

1786
01:22:10,240 --> 01:22:10,599
Speaker 5: I mean.

1787
01:22:12,240 --> 01:22:12,439
Speaker 4: Like a.

1788
01:22:15,280 --> 01:22:21,439
Speaker 7: Yeah, oh yeah by the Ladies. Yeah, okay that you

1789
01:22:21,800 --> 01:22:26,000
Speaker 7: love It sounded like I couldn't.

1790
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:28,040
Speaker 5: Get it out, But yes, I do feel like, you know,

1791
01:22:28,200 --> 01:22:31,120
Speaker 5: Beyonce is still doing a lot of firsts, you know,

1792
01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:35,559
Speaker 5: but it's still happening though. That's what I'm saying. It's

1793
01:22:35,560 --> 01:22:38,240
Speaker 5: a lot of things that haven't been done before, they're

1794
01:22:38,320 --> 01:22:40,880
Speaker 5: still being done. It's fair, you know, like we're gonna

1795
01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:43,960
Speaker 5: be the first podcasters that do a lot of things.

1796
01:22:44,120 --> 01:22:49,080
Speaker 5: We are, because it's crazy to say. It's so many

1797
01:22:49,160 --> 01:22:51,960
Speaker 5: things that black people have not been acknowledged for and

1798
01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:55,479
Speaker 5: awarded for that we're going to do. And I'm not

1799
01:22:55,560 --> 01:22:58,559
Speaker 5: saying we just mean you, I mean, everybody in this space.

1800
01:22:58,640 --> 01:23:02,040
Speaker 5: It's a lot that needs to be done. So yeah, yeah,

1801
01:23:02,080 --> 01:23:04,120
Speaker 5: it's a lot of things that can still be You're

1802
01:23:04,200 --> 01:23:06,439
Speaker 5: gonna be the first, you know what I'm saying.

1803
01:23:06,520 --> 01:23:11,519
Speaker 3: So yeah, it's fair. Yeah, so yeah Tyler, WWP, I

1804
01:23:11,600 --> 01:23:13,400
Speaker 3: love this. I like I like taller.

1805
01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:15,320
Speaker 5: I like a little taller though, And what I said

1806
01:23:15,439 --> 01:23:17,439
Speaker 5: was no discredit her. I think she's an amazing artist

1807
01:23:17,479 --> 01:23:19,280
Speaker 5: and I think she's doing exactly what she's supposed to do.

1808
01:23:19,880 --> 01:23:23,000
Speaker 5: She performs, She don't do too many interviews, she don't

1809
01:23:23,040 --> 01:23:25,200
Speaker 5: talk too much. See a lot of problems with these

1810
01:23:25,240 --> 01:23:25,759
Speaker 5: new artists.

1811
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:26,720
Speaker 3: They talk too much.

1812
01:23:27,360 --> 01:23:29,240
Speaker 5: Y'all want to go get on streams and try to

1813
01:23:29,280 --> 01:23:30,960
Speaker 5: do with these t You are not a streamer. You

1814
01:23:31,000 --> 01:23:33,920
Speaker 5: are an artist, Beyonce. Do you want to be like

1815
01:23:33,960 --> 01:23:34,360
Speaker 5: a Beyonce?

1816
01:23:34,600 --> 01:23:36,639
Speaker 3: Don't talk to a then push to start with such

1817
01:23:36,680 --> 01:23:37,160
Speaker 3: a good song.

1818
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:43,680
Speaker 1: But to be fair, back in Beyonce's Tyler days, like

1819
01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:46,760
Speaker 1: when she was that age, she was talking. I mean,

1820
01:23:46,760 --> 01:23:49,799
Speaker 1: I feel like it's part of artists development. Like Beyonce

1821
01:23:50,000 --> 01:23:52,080
Speaker 1: is at a point now where like she's on the

1822
01:23:52,120 --> 01:23:54,479
Speaker 1: whole nother level. She don't have to talk to nobody.

1823
01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:56,760
Speaker 1: You don't have to promote, right, she don't have to

1824
01:23:56,800 --> 01:23:58,920
Speaker 1: promote her tour. She doesn't have to do anything. People

1825
01:23:58,920 --> 01:24:00,639
Speaker 1: are gonna buy the tikis. Like, as soon as people

1826
01:24:00,640 --> 01:24:03,560
Speaker 1: see Beyonce, it's touring. As soon as people see Beyonce's

1827
01:24:03,560 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 1: coming out with an album, a single, whatever, we're.

1828
01:24:05,920 --> 01:24:06,800
Speaker 3: Gonna go listen to it.

1829
01:24:07,200 --> 01:24:09,360
Speaker 1: She come out with films, We're gonna go watch them,

1830
01:24:09,520 --> 01:24:12,240
Speaker 1: because she's on that level of stardom now. But at

1831
01:24:12,280 --> 01:24:14,400
Speaker 1: one point, she did used to do interviews.

1832
01:24:14,479 --> 01:24:17,479
Speaker 3: She did used to go and talk to people.

1833
01:24:17,560 --> 01:24:19,880
Speaker 1: She did used to do like shows like TRL or

1834
01:24:19,920 --> 01:24:21,960
Speaker 1: One on six in part she used to do all.

1835
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:22,960
Speaker 3: Of this stuff back in the day.

1836
01:24:23,160 --> 01:24:26,160
Speaker 5: Well, I say that, I guess because you can talk

1837
01:24:26,240 --> 01:24:28,080
Speaker 5: to us, but talk to us about your music and

1838
01:24:28,160 --> 01:24:30,599
Speaker 5: what you got going on. I don't need your opinion

1839
01:24:30,680 --> 01:24:32,880
Speaker 5: on if you think couples should split rent or not.

1840
01:24:33,080 --> 01:24:35,439
Speaker 1: But I think it's hard for people to find that balance,

1841
01:24:35,560 --> 01:24:38,320
Speaker 1: like artists or whatever, to find that balance because everything

1842
01:24:38,720 --> 01:24:43,240
Speaker 1: is so social media based these days, and a lot

1843
01:24:43,280 --> 01:24:45,120
Speaker 1: of the time when you go on people's shows, they're

1844
01:24:45,160 --> 01:24:48,040
Speaker 1: going to ask you those questions, whereas back in the day,

1845
01:24:48,080 --> 01:24:50,120
Speaker 1: I feel like it was more focused on the music

1846
01:24:50,240 --> 01:24:50,799
Speaker 1: and the talent.

1847
01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:53,479
Speaker 5: You know who needs to come on the show. Beyonce,

1848
01:24:54,240 --> 01:24:57,240
Speaker 5: that too, but Missy Elliott. We need to get Missy

1849
01:24:57,360 --> 01:24:57,720
Speaker 5: on the show.

1850
01:24:57,800 --> 01:25:00,639
Speaker 3: I think so too. And I know actually what song

1851
01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:02,759
Speaker 3: I'm going to sing it on film?

1852
01:25:02,880 --> 01:25:05,599
Speaker 5: And now, no, I wasn't thinking that I have sang

1853
01:25:05,680 --> 01:25:07,439
Speaker 5: that song many a day. I was thinking that song

1854
01:25:07,600 --> 01:25:17,600
Speaker 5: take Away, the Golden Song and nine going on. And

1855
01:25:17,800 --> 01:25:19,799
Speaker 5: we need to have Genie Wine on the show.

1856
01:25:21,360 --> 01:25:26,559
Speaker 1: Because he having a time in his cons I love genial.

1857
01:25:27,280 --> 01:25:29,479
Speaker 5: Genuine is doing what he's supposed to do. He still

1858
01:25:29,520 --> 01:25:34,920
Speaker 5: got his money and he's still having a ball. Same Ogi.

1859
01:25:37,320 --> 01:25:40,120
Speaker 3: And he be doing these Remember when he was like

1860
01:25:40,720 --> 01:25:48,479
Speaker 3: same og, Remember when he was like big mood.

1861
01:25:52,280 --> 01:25:54,840
Speaker 5: Shut out to Gene. We gonna have one on the show, Yes,

1862
01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:57,360
Speaker 5: come on to show. All right, now, we're going into

1863
01:25:57,439 --> 01:25:59,320
Speaker 5: our favorite segment of the week. It's to pour your

1864
01:25:59,360 --> 01:26:01,320
Speaker 5: heart outset. If you want your question to answer on

1865
01:26:01,320 --> 01:26:03,280
Speaker 5: the show, make sure you email us at ask poor

1866
01:26:03,360 --> 01:26:05,719
Speaker 5: Minds at gmail dot com. If you're a patrenon memory,

1867
01:26:05,760 --> 01:26:07,400
Speaker 5: sure you put that in the headline. You get to

1868
01:26:07,439 --> 01:26:11,639
Speaker 5: skip the line up period. Okay, so yeah, let's read

1869
01:26:11,920 --> 01:26:17,080
Speaker 5: the poorer heart or segment. I got so many text messages. Okay,

1870
01:26:17,240 --> 01:26:22,280
Speaker 5: I got it, go ahead, Wait is it me? It's

1871
01:26:22,320 --> 01:26:24,519
Speaker 5: two of them, Okay, I'll read the first one. High

1872
01:26:24,560 --> 01:26:26,920
Speaker 5: lexp Andrena Cole. I love you guys show. I listen

1873
01:26:27,000 --> 01:26:29,000
Speaker 5: to you guys at work all the time. So my

1874
01:26:29,080 --> 01:26:30,760
Speaker 5: boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and

1875
01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:34,560
Speaker 5: some change. He's a great guy, likes dates, flowers, the

1876
01:26:34,680 --> 01:26:37,400
Speaker 5: whole nine. But we are in two separate places in life,

1877
01:26:37,479 --> 01:26:39,920
Speaker 5: and it just makes me overthink like, is now the

1878
01:26:40,040 --> 01:26:42,479
Speaker 5: time to be together or should we just wait? I

1879
01:26:42,640 --> 01:26:44,800
Speaker 5: have my degree and working in my field, but he

1880
01:26:44,920 --> 01:26:47,680
Speaker 5: is working a decent job that he doesn't really like

1881
01:26:47,800 --> 01:26:50,000
Speaker 5: and just now starting to get his associate in the

1882
01:26:50,040 --> 01:26:53,000
Speaker 5: field he likes. I have my own place. He still

1883
01:26:53,080 --> 01:26:54,800
Speaker 5: loves at home just because it's cheaper.

1884
01:26:55,120 --> 01:26:57,280
Speaker 3: Am I tripping? Or should I just mine my business

1885
01:26:57,360 --> 01:26:59,519
Speaker 3: and let it go? Damn?

1886
01:26:59,520 --> 01:27:01,639
Speaker 5: I wish you to say how old she was because

1887
01:27:01,680 --> 01:27:04,800
Speaker 5: that makes a big difference too. Yeah, But I also

1888
01:27:05,000 --> 01:27:05,519
Speaker 5: just feel.

1889
01:27:05,360 --> 01:27:07,080
Speaker 1: Like if you feel like y'all are in different places

1890
01:27:07,120 --> 01:27:08,640
Speaker 1: in life and you're trying to focus on what you

1891
01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:12,400
Speaker 1: have going on, and he definitely need to focus on

1892
01:27:12,479 --> 01:27:17,120
Speaker 1: what he have going on. Respectfully because he still living home.

1893
01:27:17,240 --> 01:27:18,920
Speaker 1: He do need to focus on what he have going on.

1894
01:27:19,520 --> 01:27:23,800
Speaker 1: So I just feel like, just it's not no bad blood.

1895
01:27:23,880 --> 01:27:26,000
Speaker 1: Y'all can still keep in touch, y'all can still be cool.

1896
01:27:26,040 --> 01:27:27,960
Speaker 1: But I wouldn't just put all my eggs in that

1897
01:27:28,080 --> 01:27:28,880
Speaker 1: one basket.

1898
01:27:30,120 --> 01:27:30,800
Speaker 3: That's my advice.

1899
01:27:30,920 --> 01:27:33,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, I agree, I think that you should. I think

1900
01:27:33,200 --> 01:27:35,439
Speaker 5: a lot of times women, especially Black women, we feel

1901
01:27:35,439 --> 01:27:37,960
Speaker 5: like we gotta hold people down and stay down and

1902
01:27:38,080 --> 01:27:39,880
Speaker 5: do all this stuff. And I'm not saying don't do that,

1903
01:27:39,960 --> 01:27:42,640
Speaker 5: but I'm saying it's okay to put yourself first and

1904
01:27:42,720 --> 01:27:44,040
Speaker 5: be selfish sometimes.

1905
01:27:43,760 --> 01:27:44,719
Speaker 3: What makes you happy.

1906
01:27:45,080 --> 01:27:47,559
Speaker 5: If being with you truly makes you happy and that's

1907
01:27:47,600 --> 01:27:48,880
Speaker 5: where you want to see and you want to stick

1908
01:27:48,880 --> 01:27:51,320
Speaker 5: it out, do that. But if you're truly unhappy and

1909
01:27:51,400 --> 01:27:53,680
Speaker 5: you feel like y'all are not aligning, it's okay to

1910
01:27:53,760 --> 01:27:55,960
Speaker 5: let people go and let them go on their own journey.

1911
01:27:56,200 --> 01:27:58,240
Speaker 5: If y'all are meant to be together, y'all will come back.

1912
01:27:58,360 --> 01:28:00,960
Speaker 5: Let him go on his journey and you go on yours.

1913
01:28:01,080 --> 01:28:04,080
Speaker 5: Everything happens for a reason. Don't force anything, you know

1914
01:28:04,120 --> 01:28:06,320
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. Good luck, queen?

1915
01:28:06,760 --> 01:28:10,479
Speaker 1: Yes, all right, hey, bookies, First, off love y'all down,

1916
01:28:10,600 --> 01:28:13,000
Speaker 1: found y'all last year and it really changed my life

1917
01:28:13,439 --> 01:28:13,880
Speaker 1: so quick.

1918
01:28:13,880 --> 01:28:16,840
Speaker 3: A little backstory. I got a homegirl of five plus years.

1919
01:28:17,160 --> 01:28:19,960
Speaker 1: We got close around twenty eighteen because we were both

1920
01:28:20,000 --> 01:28:23,280
Speaker 1: talking to these dudes who were friends. Mine ended up

1921
01:28:23,320 --> 01:28:27,080
Speaker 1: being my baby daddy. Yes, we're still together. Lately, me

1922
01:28:27,160 --> 01:28:29,679
Speaker 1: and her don't talk like we used to because every

1923
01:28:29,720 --> 01:28:32,280
Speaker 1: time I been she always says stuff like, hey, move

1924
01:28:32,320 --> 01:28:34,680
Speaker 1: on from him, you could do better, or take a

1925
01:28:34,760 --> 01:28:37,360
Speaker 1: trip with me. Girl, I got a son, a house,

1926
01:28:37,439 --> 01:28:41,000
Speaker 1: a car, and I'm in school. Relaxed then about work.

1927
01:28:41,200 --> 01:28:43,760
Speaker 1: She does nails, which I fully support. But when I

1928
01:28:43,880 --> 01:28:45,559
Speaker 1: told her I'm going to school to be a nurse,

1929
01:28:45,880 --> 01:28:48,760
Speaker 1: she said, I'm distancing myself because I want to work

1930
01:28:48,800 --> 01:28:51,760
Speaker 1: for white people instead of being an entrepreneur. Am I

1931
01:28:51,880 --> 01:28:54,040
Speaker 1: wrong for falling back because it feels like I can't

1932
01:28:54,080 --> 01:28:55,560
Speaker 1: talk to her without her judge.

1933
01:28:55,320 --> 01:28:55,760
Speaker 3: In my life.

1934
01:28:56,000 --> 01:28:58,200
Speaker 5: You are not wrong for falling back. Not everybody wants

1935
01:28:58,200 --> 01:28:59,800
Speaker 5: to be an entrepreneur. And if we ain't got no

1936
01:28:59,840 --> 01:29:04,200
Speaker 5: no who gonna do the CPRRA who gonna do the CPR?

1937
01:29:04,400 --> 01:29:05,280
Speaker 3: And the blood word.

1938
01:29:06,240 --> 01:29:09,720
Speaker 5: I just feel like when people this is okay, I

1939
01:29:09,760 --> 01:29:13,479
Speaker 5: have a perfect example. When you are doing something great

1940
01:29:13,479 --> 01:29:15,400
Speaker 5: in your life that you love and that you're happy about,

1941
01:29:15,439 --> 01:29:18,120
Speaker 5: watch how the people closest to you react.

1942
01:29:18,880 --> 01:29:19,360
Speaker 3: Mm hm.

1943
01:29:20,160 --> 01:29:21,920
Speaker 5: Because a person who truly loves you and is happy

1944
01:29:21,960 --> 01:29:23,960
Speaker 5: for you, they're gonna be like, I am so proud

1945
01:29:24,000 --> 01:29:26,840
Speaker 5: of you because this is something that you wanted, versus being.

1946
01:29:26,800 --> 01:29:28,160
Speaker 2: Like, well.

1947
01:29:29,479 --> 01:29:30,120
Speaker 3: Is this are you?

1948
01:29:32,800 --> 01:29:32,840
Speaker 4: No?

1949
01:29:33,760 --> 01:29:35,960
Speaker 3: If you are happy about, you know, going to.

1950
01:29:36,040 --> 01:29:38,200
Speaker 5: Nursing school, being a nurse and doing that working in

1951
01:29:38,240 --> 01:29:42,080
Speaker 5: the medical field, it should be met with nothing but

1952
01:29:42,400 --> 01:29:47,639
Speaker 5: praises and love. Because being an entrepreneur is not easy

1953
01:29:48,720 --> 01:29:52,240
Speaker 5: and it's not for everybody. I don't know why people

1954
01:29:52,280 --> 01:29:55,120
Speaker 5: think being an entrepreneur is like this magical world where.

1955
01:29:55,080 --> 01:29:56,600
Speaker 3: You just wake up and you're a millionaire.

1956
01:29:58,120 --> 01:30:00,880
Speaker 5: Y'all know anybody can get an LLC for than fifty dollars, right,

1957
01:30:01,800 --> 01:30:04,439
Speaker 5: People be talking about as I'm a CEO of this

1958
01:30:04,840 --> 01:30:06,960
Speaker 5: and that business is making three dollars a year.

1959
01:30:08,680 --> 01:30:10,719
Speaker 3: Everybody, do we having CEO in a bio?

1960
01:30:11,120 --> 01:30:13,760
Speaker 5: You literally, once you sign up for an LLC, you're

1961
01:30:13,840 --> 01:30:17,840
Speaker 5: technically a CEO, a CEO of a business that's pulling

1962
01:30:17,880 --> 01:30:21,640
Speaker 5: in no revenue. So I think that people need to

1963
01:30:21,760 --> 01:30:24,559
Speaker 5: stop judging their friends and support them. So no, you're

1964
01:30:24,600 --> 01:30:26,880
Speaker 5: not wrong for falling back, because if every time I

1965
01:30:27,000 --> 01:30:31,120
Speaker 5: tell you good news, it's met with negativity because you're

1966
01:30:31,120 --> 01:30:34,760
Speaker 5: talking about she's a nailtach. Neil text make money if

1967
01:30:34,800 --> 01:30:38,360
Speaker 5: you have a high end client tele that are paying.

1968
01:30:39,000 --> 01:30:41,280
Speaker 5: But if you're just like and I'm not being shady,

1969
01:30:41,320 --> 01:30:42,000
Speaker 5: but like, if you're just like.

1970
01:30:42,080 --> 01:30:44,240
Speaker 3: You know, a nel tech, I do be being shady.

1971
01:30:44,320 --> 01:30:47,960
Speaker 5: Sometimes you not know multi millionaire either cause let me

1972
01:30:48,000 --> 01:30:48,559
Speaker 5: tell you something.

1973
01:30:48,640 --> 01:30:49,519
Speaker 3: I know nurses.

1974
01:30:49,680 --> 01:30:52,439
Speaker 5: I know way more nurses that are making more money

1975
01:30:52,479 --> 01:30:56,040
Speaker 5: than nil texts if I'm being real, So you think

1976
01:30:56,120 --> 01:30:58,599
Speaker 5: that you got bragging rights just because you work for yourself.

1977
01:31:00,000 --> 01:31:02,479
Speaker 5: People love to throw out that independent ship. Sometimes being

1978
01:31:02,560 --> 01:31:04,120
Speaker 5: independent it's not what you think it is.

1979
01:31:04,800 --> 01:31:07,800
Speaker 1: It's hard, and I just think you should do what's

1980
01:31:07,840 --> 01:31:10,720
Speaker 1: bes for you. Everybody doesn't have ambition to be a

1981
01:31:11,080 --> 01:31:14,120
Speaker 1: business owner. Some people don't mind working for people, and

1982
01:31:14,200 --> 01:31:18,280
Speaker 1: there's plenty of people who work for large corporations and

1983
01:31:18,400 --> 01:31:23,120
Speaker 1: work for the hospitals. People that are nurse practitioners are

1984
01:31:23,280 --> 01:31:25,880
Speaker 1: ins and they make a lot of money, especially as

1985
01:31:25,880 --> 01:31:29,040
Speaker 1: they continue to climb the latter and continue their education.

1986
01:31:29,360 --> 01:31:31,680
Speaker 1: Like the options are living at least with that too,

1987
01:31:31,720 --> 01:31:34,360
Speaker 1: because eventually, even if she did want to step out

1988
01:31:35,000 --> 01:31:37,960
Speaker 1: and become an entrepreneur, you can start your own travel

1989
01:31:38,160 --> 01:31:40,759
Speaker 1: nurse company, you can start your own.

1990
01:31:42,120 --> 01:31:42,919
Speaker 3: Home healthcare.

1991
01:31:43,120 --> 01:31:44,920
Speaker 1: Like, it's so many different things that you could do

1992
01:31:45,560 --> 01:31:48,080
Speaker 1: as a nurse if you did want to tap into

1993
01:31:48,160 --> 01:31:53,040
Speaker 1: the entrepreneurial roles. So, you know, people gotta stop being

1994
01:31:53,080 --> 01:31:55,479
Speaker 1: closed minded. But either way, that'll come with time if

1995
01:31:55,520 --> 01:31:56,560
Speaker 1: that's something that you want to do.

1996
01:31:56,760 --> 01:31:59,000
Speaker 5: Period, girl, you doing the right thing, and congratulations to

1997
01:31:59,040 --> 01:31:59,920
Speaker 5: you and enjoy your job.

1998
01:32:00,000 --> 01:32:02,640
Speaker 3: I've been enjoy your life. Fuck that, huh? Until I

1999
01:32:02,760 --> 01:32:07,080
Speaker 3: need a feel on my big jail. I don't all

2000
01:32:07,200 --> 01:32:14,320
Speaker 3: right what else we got? Honestly, I know, y'all. Birthday, Yeah,

2001
01:32:14,400 --> 01:32:15,840
Speaker 3: let's do it. Let's take a shot for my birthday.

2002
01:32:17,560 --> 01:32:18,120
Speaker 5: Why you make that?

2003
01:32:18,240 --> 01:32:21,240
Speaker 3: Why are you offer it to men? Say? Yeah?

2004
01:32:21,520 --> 01:32:24,559
Speaker 5: But I know y'all in the comments telling me happy birthday,

2005
01:32:24,760 --> 01:32:26,640
Speaker 5: Thank y'all so much. This means a lot to me.

2006
01:32:26,800 --> 01:32:29,560
Speaker 5: So I know y'all are gonna be in the comments like,

2007
01:32:29,720 --> 01:32:32,000
Speaker 5: let's what you want birthday? What you want for your birthday?

2008
01:32:32,000 --> 01:32:33,280
Speaker 5: This is what I want for my birthday. I want

2009
01:32:33,400 --> 01:32:35,920
Speaker 5: y'all to go subscribe to love lex P. That's all

2010
01:32:35,960 --> 01:32:37,519
Speaker 5: I want. I don't care if you don't even watch,

2011
01:32:37,520 --> 01:32:39,519
Speaker 5: Just go subscribe so we can get them subscribers up.

2012
01:32:39,920 --> 01:32:43,400
Speaker 5: I go live every Thursday. I stream, so even if

2013
01:32:43,400 --> 01:32:45,240
Speaker 5: you don't want to watch the show, I stream every

2014
01:32:45,320 --> 01:32:50,679
Speaker 5: Thursday at seven pm h YouTube dot Com, Backslash Love LEXP.

2015
01:32:50,880 --> 01:32:53,080
Speaker 5: All I want for my birthday is a little subscribe.

2016
01:32:53,880 --> 01:32:56,200
Speaker 5: Go subscribe on all my channels for my birthday, lex

2017
01:32:56,240 --> 01:33:00,479
Speaker 5: P zero five on Snapchat, lex be on Facebook, all stuff.

2018
01:33:00,800 --> 01:33:04,160
Speaker 5: I'm so blessed. I would not literally be here without

2019
01:33:04,200 --> 01:33:07,320
Speaker 5: you guys, the poor crew. Thank you for supporting us.

2020
01:33:07,479 --> 01:33:09,240
Speaker 5: This journey has been crazy.

2021
01:33:10,000 --> 01:33:10,240
Speaker 3: Damn.

2022
01:33:10,280 --> 01:33:11,800
Speaker 5: I can't believe we've been doing this shit for that.

2023
01:33:12,240 --> 01:33:14,040
Speaker 5: It's so crazy that we're like the OG's in this

2024
01:33:14,160 --> 01:33:17,040
Speaker 5: game now technically kind of, and the fact that I

2025
01:33:17,120 --> 01:33:20,200
Speaker 5: still feel like we're just getting started. I just feel

2026
01:33:20,240 --> 01:33:23,879
Speaker 5: like this at thirty six, is the most blessed birthday

2027
01:33:23,920 --> 01:33:26,560
Speaker 5: I've had in a very long time. Like this is

2028
01:33:26,640 --> 01:33:29,200
Speaker 5: probably the happiest I've been on a birthday in a

2029
01:33:29,360 --> 01:33:32,439
Speaker 5: long time. Really, I had a great birthday in Miami.

2030
01:33:32,840 --> 01:33:34,320
Speaker 5: What did we do last year for my birthday?

2031
01:33:35,560 --> 01:33:37,200
Speaker 3: It was kind of light? Oh no, I went to

2032
01:33:37,240 --> 01:33:38,920
Speaker 3: New York for my birthday. Yeah I wasna.

2033
01:33:39,720 --> 01:33:42,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, I had a good birthday last year, but this

2034
01:33:42,600 --> 01:33:47,040
Speaker 5: year just hits different. I feel like my friendships are

2035
01:33:47,120 --> 01:33:51,000
Speaker 5: all doing so well. My sister's doing well, my nephews

2036
01:33:51,040 --> 01:33:56,320
Speaker 5: are healthy. Business is going great. We've been making some mulai.

2037
01:34:00,000 --> 01:34:02,880
Speaker 5: I have to change the name of the show Mone Babe,

2038
01:34:03,479 --> 01:34:09,120
Speaker 5: Mine and Bab, but honestly possible without the poor crew.

2039
01:34:09,280 --> 01:34:16,280
Speaker 5: Like seriously, I'm just saying, I really fuck with y'all.

2040
01:34:16,520 --> 01:34:18,840
Speaker 3: Like I talk about this on LOVELEXP a lot.

2041
01:34:18,960 --> 01:34:20,840
Speaker 5: Like sometimes I be feeling like damn, a lot of

2042
01:34:20,880 --> 01:34:23,400
Speaker 5: people don't be understanding me. But it feels so good

2043
01:34:23,479 --> 01:34:26,120
Speaker 5: to be in a lane and be doing something where

2044
01:34:26,240 --> 01:34:29,240
Speaker 5: I found my people that understand me, that get me.

2045
01:34:29,320 --> 01:34:32,439
Speaker 5: So at thirty six years old, I feel comfortable in

2046
01:34:32,520 --> 01:34:34,840
Speaker 5: my skin. I feel good about myself. I feel good

2047
01:34:34,840 --> 01:34:38,280
Speaker 5: about who I am, and I know like I know

2048
01:34:38,400 --> 01:34:41,400
Speaker 5: my purpose in life now. I know my purpose in

2049
01:34:41,439 --> 01:34:43,600
Speaker 5: life at thirty six, I know what I'm here to do.

2050
01:34:43,880 --> 01:34:46,439
Speaker 1: You gotta keep in mind, though, the people that are

2051
01:34:46,600 --> 01:34:49,680
Speaker 1: meant to be your people, it's gonna get you with it,

2052
01:34:49,800 --> 01:34:50,799
Speaker 1: gravitates towards.

2053
01:34:50,600 --> 01:34:53,680
Speaker 3: It, and they here they all in this room and

2054
01:34:53,760 --> 01:34:54,880
Speaker 3: shout out to all of y'all.

2055
01:34:55,360 --> 01:35:01,280
Speaker 5: Ta awall, Craig, Kyla, Shay my knee, see pool, uh

2056
01:35:01,640 --> 01:35:03,479
Speaker 5: D d love D not here, but shout out to

2057
01:35:03,560 --> 01:35:07,120
Speaker 5: d GP GP two. You know what I'm saying, everybody,

2058
01:35:07,160 --> 01:35:12,920
Speaker 5: everybody seriously that has made poor minds like poor minds

2059
01:35:13,040 --> 01:35:15,040
Speaker 5: changed my life at at thirty six years old, I

2060
01:35:15,120 --> 01:35:17,479
Speaker 5: can truly say without poor minds, I don't know where

2061
01:35:17,560 --> 01:35:20,320
Speaker 5: I would be. But I found my people, and I

2062
01:35:20,400 --> 01:35:22,479
Speaker 5: found my space, and I'm happy to be here and

2063
01:35:22,640 --> 01:35:25,160
Speaker 5: my and my bitch.

2064
01:35:26,400 --> 01:35:31,120
Speaker 3: We just I was gonna say, dang, I ain't get playing.

2065
01:35:31,240 --> 01:35:32,719
Speaker 3: I'm laying. I'm laying, I'm winning.

2066
01:35:32,960 --> 01:35:37,840
Speaker 5: But no, seriously, like wait, we're doing our big one

2067
01:35:38,600 --> 01:35:41,600
Speaker 5: and I love you like we I love you. You

2068
01:35:41,680 --> 01:35:42,360
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying.

2069
01:35:42,640 --> 01:35:47,360
Speaker 3: If we locked in, ain't no switching up. Hoden cheer, Yeah,

2070
01:35:50,479 --> 01:35:55,240
Speaker 3: shout out to uh PAS. I think of who song

2071
01:35:55,360 --> 01:35:56,120
Speaker 3: he was and.

2072
01:35:56,160 --> 01:35:57,120
Speaker 5: We'll see y'all next week.

2073
01:36:00,560 --> 01:36:04,960
Speaker 2: Hello, Yeah, I don't we like that?

2074
01:36:10,600 --> 01:36:17,080
Speaker 4: Okay, just like Hollow Birth, Now the camera were gonna

2075
01:36:17,160 --> 01:36:34,639
Speaker 4: say lungs, see birds everybody giving everybody. Shay said, I'm

2076
01:36:34,640 --> 01:36:38,760
Speaker 4: not getting no camera. Okay, that's Okay, it's okay, okay.

2077
01:36:39,120 --> 01:36:42,920
Speaker 3: Let me keep myself right. Oh, I know exactly what

2078
01:36:43,000 --> 01:36:45,760
Speaker 3: I'm wishing for you. I can make two wishes. Yeah,

2079
01:36:45,800 --> 01:36:47,120
Speaker 3: but just keep it to yourself. I know that's what

2080
01:36:47,160 --> 01:37:04,479
Speaker 3: I'm saying. I can make two wishes, right, Okay, thank you.

2081
01:37:05,320 --> 01:37:08,759
Speaker 3: Happy birthday from Taylor Port and from Port.

2082
01:37:14,920 --> 01:37:15,240
Speaker 4: First.

2083
01:37:16,680 --> 01:37:21,360
Speaker 5: This song is dedicated to a younger met high school me.

2084
01:37:22,360 --> 01:37:26,080
Speaker 5: To be proud of the thirty six year old woman

2085
01:37:27,880 --> 01:37:29,760
Speaker 5: become get damn it.

2086
01:37:31,120 --> 01:37:33,400
Speaker 3: You know this is from a young queen.

2087
01:37:34,840 --> 01:37:36,320
Speaker 5: Sung me to sleep all the time.

2088
01:37:36,479 --> 01:37:38,680
Speaker 3: Hit that ship crab, Let me take my shoes off

2089
01:37:39,920 --> 01:37:40,799
Speaker 3: you ready, dray.

2090
01:37:42,520 --> 01:37:42,720
Speaker 7: Hey.

2091
01:37:43,720 --> 01:37:45,599
Speaker 5: On a Monday, I'm.

2092
01:37:45,520 --> 01:37:47,520
Speaker 3: Waiting to Tuesday.

2093
01:37:47,920 --> 01:37:52,479
Speaker 5: I am petty, and by Wednesday I can sleep.

2094
01:37:53,600 --> 01:37:53,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2095
01:37:54,720 --> 01:37:57,760
Speaker 1: Then the phone rings and I hear you, and the

2096
01:37:57,960 --> 01:38:03,240
Speaker 1: darkness is a clear youw because you've come to rescue me.

2097
01:38:06,360 --> 01:38:07,720
Speaker 4: Foe with you.

2098
01:38:07,960 --> 01:38:13,360
Speaker 3: I fault so bad I can hardly catch my breath.

2099
01:38:13,680 --> 01:38:15,160
Speaker 2: I hope bless.

2100
01:38:17,439 --> 01:38:22,920
Speaker 8: Oh, it seems like I can finally rest my head

2101
01:38:23,080 --> 01:38:24,360
Speaker 8: on something real.

2102
01:38:25,280 --> 01:38:27,280
Speaker 2: I like the way it feels.

2103
01:38:28,400 --> 01:38:35,480
Speaker 8: Oh, if you know me better than I ever know myself.

2104
01:38:36,320 --> 01:38:38,360
Speaker 3: I love how you can tell.

2105
01:38:38,840 --> 01:38:45,800
Speaker 6: Of the picture pieces pucires of me of the push Girls,

2106
01:38:46,160 --> 01:38:48,760
Speaker 6: Breece Chirl, Pieces of Me?

2107
01:38:49,920 --> 01:38:55,160
Speaker 3: Are you moody? Messy? I can restless and say less.

2108
01:38:55,640 --> 01:39:02,960
Speaker 3: You never seem to get when I'm angry. You live

2109
01:39:03,160 --> 01:39:07,120
Speaker 3: saying make me happy. It's your mission and you won't

2110
01:39:07,280 --> 01:39:11,400
Speaker 3: stop until I'm give me to They're not ready to

2111
01:39:11,400 --> 01:39:15,400
Speaker 3: give it to him. Fall Sometimes I fall so bad

2112
01:39:17,479 --> 01:39:19,639
Speaker 3: when I hit that bottom crash.

2113
01:39:19,880 --> 01:39:20,679
Speaker 2: You're all lies.

2114
01:39:25,960 --> 01:39:30,599
Speaker 8: It's like talking finlyris my head on something real.

2115
01:39:31,520 --> 01:39:37,960
Speaker 2: I like the way that feels. And if you know

2116
01:39:38,240 --> 01:39:39,760
Speaker 2: me ptausn't I.

2117
01:39:40,000 --> 01:39:41,640
Speaker 3: Ever know myself?

2118
01:39:42,520 --> 01:39:47,480
Speaker 6: I like how you can tell on the pieces pieces,

2119
01:39:48,400 --> 01:39:53,280
Speaker 6: pieces of me on the pieces piece, do you.

2120
01:39:53,560 --> 01:39:59,720
Speaker 3: Know everything I'm about to say? And my dad be

2121
01:40:00,640 --> 01:40:04,840
Speaker 3: And if it's reading on my face, I hope he

2122
01:40:05,120 --> 01:40:07,799
Speaker 3: never goes away.

2123
01:40:09,760 --> 01:40:14,959
Speaker 2: You I am waiting.

2124
01:40:15,439 --> 01:40:17,799
Speaker 3: If I tusday, I am fading.

2125
01:40:18,360 --> 01:40:28,200
Speaker 2: If you're so I can breathe. It's like I can.

2126
01:40:28,240 --> 01:40:31,280
Speaker 3: Finally wrist my head on something real.

2127
01:40:32,200 --> 01:40:38,640
Speaker 8: I like the way that feels, just if you know

2128
01:40:38,960 --> 01:40:42,280
Speaker 8: me better than I ever knew myself.

2129
01:40:43,160 --> 01:40:49,599
Speaker 2: I love how you can sell on the present, thought

2130
01:40:49,680 --> 01:40:50,719
Speaker 2: you can turn.

2131
01:40:54,280 --> 01:40:59,400
Speaker 6: I love how you can tell on the pieces, pieces

2132
01:41:00,160 --> 01:41:01,240
Speaker 6: pieces of me.

2133
01:41:02,360 --> 01:41:07,000
Speaker 4: Other piece girls, A piece girl pieces of me.

2134
01:41:09,640 --> 01:41:15,479
Speaker 3: It's too dark. It's too dark. Yeah, oh that was good.

2135
01:41:17,800 --> 01:41:21,360
Speaker 3: You can't try, we can, all right. We'll see y'all

2136
01:41:21,400 --> 01:41:23,360
Speaker 3: next week. Happy birthday,