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Speaker 2: Y'all know what's y'all don't know y'all baby.

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Speaker 1: At all at all, So.

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Speaker 3: Don't given them.

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Speaker 4: Black the milicon buf Bush.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, listening to show.

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Speaker 3: I want to joy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Joy, You want to do that?

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Speaker 3: You gotta turn.

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Speaker 1: You have to turn the mouth turn.

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Speaker 2: You probably got to turn the mouth out of the

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Speaker 5: Look me, come.

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Speaker 2: Come on, you think.

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Speaker 1: Uhhah, I sure will.

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Speaker 6: Good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, Come on

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Speaker 6: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a

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Speaker 6: radio show. Hell Man back in business too, Man, Man,

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Speaker 6: How good is God? I mean, really, if you think

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Speaker 6: about it in spite of all that's going down in

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Speaker 6: your life. First of all, it could be worse. But secondly,

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Speaker 6: sometimes you have to remember. And I've just had to

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Speaker 6: have this conversation with myself this morning. That's how I'm

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Speaker 6: fresh on this one right here. When a challenge faces you,

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Speaker 6: are you going through a difficult moment, or you didn't

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Speaker 6: hit a bump in the road in the middle of that,

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Speaker 6: if you could manage to be grateful, it would take

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Speaker 6: you a long way. Gratitude is a powerful resource. If

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Speaker 6: you can be grateful in the middle of it. Gratitude

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Speaker 6: is a powerful resource when it's dim for you. And

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Speaker 6: then got a little bumpy on the road, and he

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Speaker 6: ran into some obstacles, and you done ran up into

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Speaker 6: some detailed signs, and your journey ain't smooth as it

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Speaker 6: was last week or last year. You gotta be grateful

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Speaker 6: for the things that are going right and that have

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Speaker 6: to get right?

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Speaker 2: Man? Can I share that with you? Man? Is that

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Speaker 2: a tough one to learn? It is for me.

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Speaker 6: It has been one of my toughest challenges is to

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Speaker 6: learn how to be grateful because it's a powerful resource,

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Speaker 6: but how to be grateful in moments of despair when

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Speaker 6: it ain't going right. See here's a mistake I would make.

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Speaker 6: See when something go wrong, I want to focus on

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Speaker 6: But even then the focus ain't always in to fix it.

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Speaker 6: The focus becomes, Man, this is bad, man, I can't

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Speaker 6: believe this is happening. Why this keep going down? That

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Speaker 6: doesn't fix anything? You know, mealing over it, going over

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Speaker 6: what's wrong, explaining it, sharing it with your friends, you know,

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Speaker 6: making it sound worse than it is. Tell the story

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Speaker 6: for pity from other people. All of that right there,

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Speaker 6: has nothing to do with the fix. Sometimes you're just

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Speaker 6: mulling over it. You're just making it worse. You're just

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Speaker 6: You're putting it out there in your spirit. Now, all

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Speaker 6: it's because you've been having some bad thoughts. So what

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Speaker 6: I've had to learn how to do, and what I'm

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Speaker 6: that then cropped up. I was going kind of smooth

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Speaker 6: Can I not still be grateful for all the things

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Speaker 6: that attitude. Come on, man, God is a good god.

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Speaker 6: It's a lot to be grateful for. So while I'm

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Speaker 2: Now. Do I have to fix this bump in the row?

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Speaker 6: Are There's some things I'm going to have to do

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Speaker 6: to straighten it out, of course it is. But Steve

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Speaker 6: it for you know, old people. I heard old people

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Speaker 6: they say, if you're gonna pray about it, don't worry

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Speaker 6: pray about it. That's an amazing thing. And prayer just

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Speaker 6: happens to be my weapon of choice. Now, it ain't

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Speaker 6: always been that way. I want you to understand that

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Speaker 6: my first weapon of choice was you do it to me,

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Speaker 6: I do it to you. You called me out, I

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Speaker 6: out for you, Steve?

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Speaker 2: Not so good?

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Speaker 6: Because you know what, I spent a lot of time

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Speaker 6: a better life than the one you got. All you

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Speaker 6: You know, it's not my business to make sure you

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Speaker 6: for that your real mission and purpose is to have

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Speaker 6: much as you can for your family. But legally, see,

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Speaker 6: those of us are sitting up here trying to come

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Speaker 6: sitting in prison today how they wish they hadn't done that,

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Speaker 2: I knew not to go down there. Something told me

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Speaker 6: If I could change things, I would. But they sitting

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Speaker 6: throw away people, nah, man, Because everybody make mistakes, and

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Speaker 6: God is in a forgiving business. And some of us

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Speaker 6: I don't care what you've done. God can forgive anything

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Speaker 6: So that's a full time job. So what I had

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Speaker 6: prayers as my weapon of choice now is that now

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Speaker 6: prayer helps me that I don't have to fight back. Now,

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Speaker 6: if I get cornered, I'm gonna fight you. I ain't

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Speaker 6: weapon of choice is prayer now. So when it happens

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Speaker 6: the thing about prayer man is Prayer changes things.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it does. Now read about it and try it.

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Speaker 2: That's the deal.

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Speaker 6: Okay, come on, prayer is a wonderful weapon. Show ladies

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Speaker 6: and gentlemen, let me have your divided attention.

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Speaker 2: Please.

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Speaker 6: This at the beginning of a new day. This is

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Speaker 6: the start of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Let us

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Speaker 6: begin three two one?

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 3: Charlie?

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Speaker 7: Hey?

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Steve?

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Speaker 1: Col what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Steve Hey?

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Speaker 5: Cruise Junio?

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Speaker 2: They don't.

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Speaker 8: Going on the porch?

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Speaker 5: Doggie done.

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Speaker 1: Like you're on the porch and we're passing by, and.

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Speaker 6: Drive up third, drive a third boy. Oh you act

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Speaker 6: look cute there, girl. I don't want a holiday. And again, Bobby,

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Speaker 6: if you take holding down, I love it. If you

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Speaker 6: think you know, I think I'll go down stoke.

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Speaker 2: Give me a watermelon.

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Speaker 1: That's what you got to say.

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Speaker 2: Let me when you all got to tell you the watermelon?

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Speaker 2: When you thump a watermelon, what you're listening for? No,

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Speaker 2: I don't think bottlemelon. Well, I know how to pick watermelons.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I thought you're supposed to thump No dog, what you're

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Speaker 2: gonna tell you about the thumb.

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Speaker 6: This is how you pick a sweet watermelon. What is

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Speaker 6: stem comes out the bottom? Boy, it has its stem

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Speaker 6: on it or what it still used to be. If

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Speaker 6: you see a lot of you know those veins, Yeah,

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Speaker 6: a little veins on the outside.

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Speaker 2: That's sugar content. So that means it's a sweet that's right,

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Speaker 2: that's right. Now.

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Speaker 6: You can pick a sweet one that don't have it

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Speaker 6: because like them, dark green eas don't oftentimes show a

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Speaker 6: lot of veins. But when you pick them light green

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Speaker 6: with them long ones, huh yeah, you said, huh, got

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Speaker 6: that right now? When it got a lot of brown

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Speaker 6: veins coming around off that stalk, that stem, that sugar content, Oh.

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Speaker 2: Boy, now they got they thump them down south. I

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Speaker 2: didn't well, you know, you don't. You don't know how

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Speaker 2: to do that because you don't buy nothing of them.

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Speaker 6: You don't grow them. If you grow watermelons, you could thump.

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Speaker 6: But you don't know what you're even look at?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: Okay, when the thought what you're looking for?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm listening. So now you just thumping?

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Speaker 2: You didn't take this ragged ass watermelon right onto.

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Speaker 1: The house, and are we are we doing seeds or seedless?

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Speaker 1: Because I like seeds.

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Speaker 6: No, see, there's no watermelon that don't have seeds in

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Speaker 6: all watermelon got seed.

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Speaker 1: But but yeah, but you know they have seedless watermelons.

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Speaker 2: That's genetic, you modified.

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Speaker 6: That ain't the real real watermelons have seeds. Oh that's

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Speaker 1: Okay, the seeds, I want the seeds. Yeah, okay, just a.

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Speaker 6: Little country ness on how to pick a watermelon because

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Speaker 2: Your death? Watermelon time come on.

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Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour. It's

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Speaker 1: the Nephew, and run that brenk back right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening morning show, all right, and it's time now

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Speaker 7: What you got for us, nep Well, let me see

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Speaker 7: if I can see how stupid I can get this morning, Shirley.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna try to get I'm gonna try to multiply

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Speaker 7: that thing by five this time.

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Speaker 2: Let me see it.

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Speaker 7: I'm at the valet all right, All minds clear, dog,

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Speaker 7: if you would, let's go problem at the valet.

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Speaker 8: Hello, Hey, hold on, no, hey, tell me?

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Speaker 9: How's it going?

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Speaker 8: Hey man? What's going on? You're doing all right?

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Speaker 10: I'm doing good, doing good?

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Speaker 9: What's up?

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Speaker 8: Hey? Listen? I need you to do something for me.

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Speaker 11: Do you need your your car hetails?

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Speaker 3: This?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, no, not this week. Listen.

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Speaker 8: I got something I want you to do for me.

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Speaker 8: I'm doing a prank phone call, and I want you

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Speaker 8: to call this guy and tell him you're the valet downstairs,

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Speaker 8: ask him for his ticket number, and tell him, hey,

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Speaker 8: we got a little bit of an issue. But my

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Speaker 6: To do it?

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Speaker 2: You're the valet guy.

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Speaker 8: That's all you gotta do, all right?

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Speaker 3: What is the Mexican guy?

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Speaker 11: Gotta be at the valet guy? And you get to

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Speaker 8: Just like this, I'm finna click over Nick the call.

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Speaker 8: All I want you to do is just tell him

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Speaker 8: you near the valet guy. Will you do that for me?

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Speaker 8: All right? Man, I got you all right? All right,

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Speaker 8: all right? Hang on height Hello? Hello?

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Speaker 10: Is this mister Franklin?

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Speaker 8: Yes?

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Speaker 9: Can I ask this calling?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 9: Yes, I'm I'm.

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Speaker 11: Orlando with ballet.

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Speaker 10: Did you park a lectus with us about thirty minutes ago?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 10: What's what's going on?

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Speaker 9: What's just about?

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Speaker 10: I'm just gonna need your ticket number real quick. There's

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Speaker 10: I could have my manager just call you back five

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Speaker 10: three four six. But why do you Why do you

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Speaker 10: need my ticket number? Is there something wrong with my car?

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Speaker 10: If something happened, my manager will call you back and

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Speaker 10: he'll give you all the details. Oh okay, so so

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Speaker 10: something did happen to my car? Once I give my

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Speaker 10: he'll tell you everything. Okay, Well, can you have him

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Speaker 10: give me a call as soon as possible because I

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Speaker 10: would like to know what happened to my car if

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Speaker 10: something happens. This is I don't I don't really understand

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Speaker 10: what's going on here. I'm sorry I have to go,

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Speaker 10: but you can't tell me anything else before you leave.

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Speaker 10: I mean, there's no details that you can give me

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Speaker 10: a bout anything with my car.

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Speaker 8: Like I said, my manager won't handle it.

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Speaker 9: I think get going.

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Speaker 8: Perfect, Orlando. That's perfect, all right, I got it from here, bro.

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Speaker 8: I appreciate.

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Speaker 9: Let's call him back.

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Speaker 10: Hello.

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Speaker 8: Hello, Is this is this mister Franklin? Yeah?

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Speaker 10: This is he can ask his crawling.

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Speaker 8: This is cluff Man. I'm the manager here down at

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Speaker 8: the valet.

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Speaker 10: Oh great, thank you. I've been waiting to hear it

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Speaker 10: from you.

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Speaker 8: Oh my god, thirty minutes ago you you pulled in

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Speaker 8: with a they're telling me a silver or light? Great lexus, Yeah,

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Speaker 8: that's that's Yeah, that's my car.

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Speaker 10: What what's going on with my car here?

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Speaker 8: Okay? And what's your number? Is it? Five? Three four six? Yeah?

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Speaker 10: That's that's my number.

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Speaker 11: I mean I already went through this with the other guy.

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Speaker 10: Can you just tell me what the hell is going

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Speaker 10: on with my car?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 8: Are you able to come downstairs right now? No? I can't.

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Speaker 8: I valate over there.

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Speaker 11: I'm at I'm at a lunch with a client somewhere else.

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Speaker 10: I'm not there right now.

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Speaker 11: Why do I need to come down right now?

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Speaker 2: He just what is happening?

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Speaker 8: Okay? So here's the deal, sir. We have a we

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Speaker 8: have a one of the valet workers here has gotten

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Speaker 8: that and he left, he quit the job, and he's

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Speaker 8: he's gone, he's left the premise. The problem we're having

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Speaker 8: right now is we don't see.

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Speaker 3: Your car, you know, and you don't see it. What

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Speaker 3: do you what? I'm sorry?

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Speaker 8: What? Well, I'm okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 11: Ho wow, all right, so my car is gone?

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Speaker 9: My car is gone?

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Speaker 3: Is that what you told me?

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Speaker 8: Right now?

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Speaker 10: Somebody's company and work my car?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 8: Well, wow, we're looking on every floor and we're trying

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Speaker 8: to figure out if it got parked somewhere else. But

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Speaker 8: he's gone and we're we're that's why we called to

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Speaker 8: get your number.

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Speaker 11: Car somewhere else.

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Speaker 12: Man, what the do you mean?

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Speaker 2: Do I have a car or not?

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Speaker 3: And my car is so with how.

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Speaker 8: Many fours do you have? How long to say?

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Speaker 11: I just bought that car that is a brand new car.

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Speaker 8: And now it's just man, are.

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Speaker 3: You kidding me?

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Speaker 8: Right now? Well, hold on, hold on, I understand, I understand.

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Speaker 8: Let me ask you something.

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Speaker 2: Is there a way? Is there a way?

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Speaker 8: Maybe you can come by tomorrow and we can try

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Speaker 8: to work. Come now and just see if you know.

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Speaker 11: No, there is no way I'm coming by tomorrow for

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Speaker 11: a call us.

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Speaker 8: This is today.

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Speaker 11: First of all, we need to get the police involved

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Speaker 11: in this. The police right now, mister Frank.

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Speaker 8: We don't want to get the police involved in this week.

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Speaker 2: Who is?

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Speaker 11: Because I damn sure whether to get the police involved.

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Speaker 8: So who is? I'm just saying, listen, I don't want

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Speaker 8: to lose my job because we lost the car. If

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Speaker 8: you just give me some time to find the car,

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Speaker 8: That's all I want you to do, is give me

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Speaker 8: some time. Let me go by this guy's house where

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Speaker 8: he lives and see.

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Speaker 3: If the car is there.

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Speaker 11: You should already be in a car driving. Don't be

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Speaker 11: as to this man's house talking to me right now. Hey,

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Speaker 11: the fact that you're not there.

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Speaker 8: It's not practice. I call it the police.

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Speaker 11: I'm sewing the building on I'm sewing the manager. I'm

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Speaker 11: sure who made the valet box, I'm sure what everybody affiliated.

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Speaker 8: With your business.

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Speaker 9: You didn't see me right now?

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Speaker 8: Okay, but it's a park listen, Why are you?

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Speaker 2: Why are you?

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Speaker 8: Why are you gonna sit with me? I didn't do nothing,

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Speaker 8: I didn't.

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Speaker 2: Take the car.

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Speaker 11: Okay, what are you responsible for this parking lot? Are

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Speaker 11: you a manager what's your occupy them.

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Speaker 8: Sir, I knew the manager. I'm the manager here, and

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Speaker 8: Orlando called you earlier, okay, and we're trying to find

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Speaker 8: out where the car is.

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Speaker 3: We are I really feel like it.

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Speaker 11: You don't even want the police involved. Man, you're not

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Speaker 11: trying to punch you trying to come yet.

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Speaker 8: It's right now.

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Speaker 10: I'm mad at Orlando, I'm mad at you, I'm mad

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Speaker 10: at your company.

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Speaker 11: I'm mad at the man who put the damn asphalt

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Speaker 11: down in the parking lot. I'm mad at everybody right now.

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Speaker 8: Okay, Cliff, okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: We con down, Okay, but let me ask you this here.

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Speaker 3: Are you are you?

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Speaker 8: Are you mad at are you manage your wife?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: No, not a wife? But what didn't steal my damn.

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Speaker 8: Car Ain't your wife name Carrie?

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Speaker 11: How the hell you know my wife's name?

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Speaker 8: You know how I know your wife's name because your

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Speaker 8: wife got me to call you. This is nephew Tommy

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Speaker 8: from the Steve Harvey More. Damn frankly, you just got

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Speaker 8: plank bybybody. Damn blows.

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Speaker 9: Oh boy, we're going to marriage counsel.

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Speaker 2: This is.

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Speaker 8: Y'all.

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Speaker 10: Have you have this? Boy?

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Speaker 8: She said, he just bought this car. He loves this

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Speaker 8: car outside shitting in it when he ain't going nowhere.

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Speaker 8: I can't believe anyone.

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Speaker 10: It's always it's always the closest people.

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Speaker 9: It's all.

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Speaker 3: I tell you.

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Speaker 8: What I tell you.

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Speaker 11: Who is not getting to ride this car for a

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Speaker 11: long time?

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Speaker 8: What hey, man, I mean is what is the baddest

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Speaker 8: that I'm talking about? The baddest radio show in the land.

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Speaker 10: It's the Steve Harvey Morton Show.

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Speaker 1: Baby coming up next to is ask the CLO our

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Speaker 1: chief love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening, she would Stave Harvey Morning Show, It is

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Speaker 1: time to ask the CLO chief Love Officer Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: in the building. This one is from May in Culver City, California.

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Speaker 1: It says, in regards to your life Strawberry letter with

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Speaker 1: the cheating Man, I have a similar situation. I had

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Speaker 1: an affair on my husband and the first time I cheated,

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Speaker 1: I got pregnant. I couldn't let my husband raise another

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Speaker 1: man's child without knowing it, so I had a DNA

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Speaker 1: test and confessed. My husband chose to stay in the

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Speaker 1: marriage and raise the child as his own, but whenever

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Speaker 1: the spirit hits him, he calls me names and makes

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Speaker 1: my life miserable. In this case, is divorce a better

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Speaker 1: choice or are his actions justified?

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Speaker 2: Whoa ummano?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 2: Let me do like women should all do.

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Speaker 6: If there was shoe was on the other foot and

451
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Speaker 6: your husband went outside the marriage and had another baby,

452
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 6: and you decided to stay, would you not call him

453
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:13,680
Speaker 6: a bunch of names whenever the spirit hit How about

454
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:17,720
Speaker 6: every birthday? That's all the Christmas money? When that child

455
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 6: support going out the door. I think it's a heck

456
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 6: of a man to stay and raise it as his own.

457
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 6: And and then he spared you the shame of it.

458
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,040
Speaker 6: But I mean, well, you're gonna throw it in the face.

459
00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 6: See the thing about saying I'm sorry is it? That

460
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 6: don't fix it? He may eventually stop doing it. But

461
00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 6: if you can't take it, then you want to get

462
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 6: a divorce.

463
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 2: That's on you. But what did do that?

464
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 6: They gave you the baby at in the first but

465
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:53,439
Speaker 6: where he at, she didn't Well I don't see him

466
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:57,879
Speaker 6: raising his hand volunteer. And I ain't saying stay and

467
00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,400
Speaker 6: take any form of abuse. That's not what I say,

468
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 6: because that's not right at any level, you know, but

469
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:08,400
Speaker 6: he gonna he's gonna throw it up in your face

470
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,439
Speaker 6: every night, and and I don't know how that works.

471
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 6: He's I'm not really sure I could do that, So

472
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 6: I don't think I'm the perfect person.

473
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think once you do it, you gotta gotta

474
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:19,920
Speaker 5: gotta accept it.

475
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 7: But you can't keep throwing it back out if you

476
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 7: decide you're going I sound real good, right, I mean

477
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 7: that sounds good exactly.

478
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 1: But right if you're gonna say you're gonna accept the

479
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 1: baby and raise him as your own. But but so

480
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 1: much of the time, I don't know. I don't know

481
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 1: if I could take that. That's tough because you're only human.

482
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 1: So it's gonna be some moments. Yeah, absolutely, absolutely, all right,

483
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 1: We're moving on Joseph and the Bronx CLO says, my

484
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 1: boss and I have the same birthday, so we went

485
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Speaker 1: out two weeks ago after work and celebrated. She's got

486
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 1: a husband that's very jealous hearted, so she told him

487
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 1: we were where she was going and invited him to

488
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Speaker 1: join us. We invited other coworkers, but they didn't show up.

489
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 1: My boss's husband was waiting for us as we walked

490
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Speaker 1: out of the restaurant. He got in my face and

491
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 1: said he'd beat my if I ever tried anything with

492
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: his wife. I was ticked off and wanted to fight him,

493
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 1: But I need my job. How do I settle this?

494
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 6: Come on, clo, Well, I mean, bruh, you can't go

495
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 6: out with the man's wife no more, period.

496
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 2: I don't give a damn. Y'all got same birthday his boss.

497
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 2: I don't care.

498
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 6: She got a husband. She invited him, he didn't go.

499
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 6: He probably walked up to the door, saw y'all sitting

500
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 6: over there by yourself, and decided not to go in

501
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 6: because he gonna handle it outside.

502
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 2: So now it wasn't nobody. So now he'd have told

503
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 2: you what you want me to do?

504
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 6: Hey, look, apologize, send a man a letter, Tell him

505
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 6: you didn't mean no harm. It won't happen again, and

506
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,920
Speaker 6: it won't happen and again. She can't fire you for

507
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 6: this now, homie. Oh, I done took the class. She

508
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 6: cannot fire you for this. Hr Yeah, because according to

509
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 6: the class I took, she has created a hostile work

510
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 6: environment for you. You felt obligated to go because it

511
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 6: was your boss had you go to celebrate the birthday.

512
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 6: You didn't want to say no because you didn't want

513
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,680
Speaker 6: to affect your job. Now you feel like it's a

514
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 6: hostile environment because her damn.

515
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 2: Husband all to be your faith and that's in the class.

516
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 2: That's in the class.

517
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just took it, So how should he settle it?

518
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 6: Then, Steve, and I'm telling you, sir, as an active bystander,

519
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 6: which is what I'm.

520
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 1: Being, just apologize.

521
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 6: I would apologize to the man and get it on

522
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 6: record that I had to apologize.

523
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 1: To him because he's not his boss, all right, and

524
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 1: he can't fight back because his wife is his boss.

525
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, right there. Yeah, he starts

526
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:15,959
Speaker 2: swaying a hand in your business.

527
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: Boy, okayre you go, all right, that's better. Sophia Sofia

528
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 1: in Dallas.

529
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 2: H offices are usually never in parking lots.

530
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 1: Sophia in Dallas says, I'm forty two years old and

531
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 1: I'm dating a man that's eleven years younger than I am.

532
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 1: We're both financially secure, and we both got nice houses.

533
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,160
Speaker 1: After a year of dating, I finally met his mom

534
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: when she came to visit him. His mom asked my age,

535
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 1: and I thought he had told her that I was older.

536
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 1: She started calling me a sugar mama and pointed out

537
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,640
Speaker 1: that she's only twelve years older than me. He didn't

538
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,400
Speaker 1: defend me and said, it's not that big of a deal.

539
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: Am I overthinking it?

540
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 2: Well, he didn't defend you. You're twelve years younger than.

541
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 1: His mama, eleven years older than him, eleven years older

542
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 1: than her. So what are you saying? Colo?

543
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 6: Got sugar mama rode on it. But if y'all in

544
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 6: a good place, and y'all got a good relationship, whose businesses?

545
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 2: It really ain't his mama's business. Y'all been all been

546
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:23,920
Speaker 2: at this for a year.

547
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: But that's the thing. He didn't speak up. He didn't

548
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: say anything to his mom when she started calling her names.

549
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 2: Well, sugar mama, kind of sweet, don't you do? Sugar?

550
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: Oh stop? You know, way better than that, no shade

551
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 1: with sugar mama.

552
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 2: Better than black ass cougar. Now come on, come on, all.

553
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 1: Right, well, thank you, Colo, you're listening morning show and

554
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: it's time for comedy Roulette.

555
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 13: Take it away, Jay, take plus subject, put them on

556
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 13: a wheel, spun the wheel wets that we do to thing?

557
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 8: All right?

558
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,360
Speaker 14: Here we go here, go to subjects.

559
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 1: Things you say to talk your way out of a

560
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 1: butt whipping, your favorite lunchtime meal at school. Stuff you

561
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:16,440
Speaker 1: say to yourself when you're trying to lose weight. I've

562
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:22,239
Speaker 1: said some things, okay, number four, things you say when

563
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: you're lost.

564
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 13: All right, Bunny, Yeah, funny, I like you, Jay, let's go,

565
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 13: let's go.

566
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 14: Way be talking to myself.

567
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 1: What are the things you say to talk your way

568
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: out of a butt whipping?

569
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 13: Okay, I want to hear. Yeah, let's go, Jack, I

570
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 13: go first first. The classic, the very classic. This is

571
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 13: the classic. I ain't gonna do it no more.

572
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: Yes, come on, Junior.

573
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 4: Okay, here's when I use the lat It wasn't just me,

574
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 4: all of us was doing it.

575
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 8: Yeah, Sitch.

576
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 2: Truth be told, Mama, Truth be told.

577
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 8: Dad.

578
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 2: And the one broke the dog on plate, the one

579
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 2: it ain't had nothing to do with me. He told me,

580
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 2: don't say nothing to you. You got a double But

581
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 2: I was not ever even in there. I want.

582
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 7: This.

583
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 13: The one will get you a real bad but whoop.

584
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 13: If you beat me, I'm gonna tell grandma.

585
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 2: Oh, all right, Things.

586
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: You say to talk your way out of a butt whooping, Junior,

587
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: and go Mama.

588
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 2: I don't.

589
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 14: I don't really want to tell this right now, but

590
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 14: I feel a crisis starting.

591
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 1: He said it worked.

592
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 3: She wasn't terrible at.

593
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 14: The hospital, just as healthy.

594
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 2: Oh God, I don't want to beat the barrel of

595
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 2: ann news.

596
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 8: I don't.

597
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 2: But to car already had it then on it. It

598
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 2: did nothing to do with it.

599
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 4: The thing you say to talk you away out of

600
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 4: the would you want me to beat you?

601
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: Playing those guilt strings?

602
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 8: Mama, Mama?

603
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 2: Would you want me to beat you? All right?

604
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 1: Thing you say to talk your way out of the

605
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: butt whipping? Come on, Jay, please don't beat me.

606
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 13: The lad there you beat me. I had real bad nightmare.

607
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 14: You're gonna have some.

608
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 4: More things you say to keep them getting the bootmark.

609
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 4: Huh Mama, daddy having an affair.

610
00:30:55,640 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 7: You didn't gotta start start right, Mama, look me in

611
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 7: my eyes before you wood men, just tell.

612
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 2: Me what would Jesus jump? What would Jesus?

613
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 5: We're Christians, Mama, We Christian.

614
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 8: Christian.

615
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 2: I thought you all loved me.

616
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 13: Nothing actors. It's okay. I know you don't beat me,

617
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 13: but before you beat me, could I just have a hood?

618
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

619
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 1: Things you said talk your way out of the whipping.

620
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: These are some good ones. Boy.

621
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 14: Wait wait, wait, wait? You you said if I made

622
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 14: all you leave me alone?

623
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 2: You made you made all? You feel like if you

624
00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 2: did good at school, you would your wool.

625
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 7: That didn't work, So, mama, what that's about. It's really

626
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 7: about them telling me I'm really not your son.

627
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 1: That's myla belt.

628
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 4: Things you say to talk your way out of the

629
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 4: front within.

630
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 2: Tell your butter. Let's pray first, that's right there, call

631
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 2: that's right.

632
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 8: Oh.

633
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 13: I think you just mad because daddy lost his job

634
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 13: and you're taking it out on me.

635
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 2: That's another one to get your head.

636
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 1: Your Indian.

637
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 4: Things you say, keeping getting the butt with Wait mama,

638
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 4: wait minute, what about your off writers?

639
00:32:58,160 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 3: Know?

640
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: All right, Tommy, come on to talk your way out

641
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 1: of the butt.

642
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 2: Hold you do this right now, Mom, I got a

643
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 2: baby on the way.

644
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 14: You wayn I gotta baby.

645
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 1: You say to talk your way out of the butt

646
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: whipping close it out?

647
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 2: Steve, have we not learned anything from slavery?

648
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 1: All right, We'll be back with more of the Steve

649
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening. Harvey Morning Show

650
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 1: Time Now for a rounded, Would you rather all right, guys,

651
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 1: here we go, would you rather work four day weeks

652
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:10,760
Speaker 1: or work two months on and one month off. Hey, Amy,

653
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 1: think about that?

654
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:18,359
Speaker 6: Oh no, I want two months own, one month off?

655
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, yeah, hell yeah.

656
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 2: Work week, I've been in four day weeks. I better

657
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 2: do that. That one month off, I'm gonna forget. I'm working.

658
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:36,759
Speaker 2: I got it. Two months own, one month off like that? Yeah,

659
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 2: all day? Because you went in Vegas for thirty days?

660
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 2: All right?

661
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 1: Would you rather have another ten years with your partner

662
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 1: or one night stand with your celebrity crush? Hey, oh,

663
00:34:59,000 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 1: lot of sight?

664
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 2: Just a I don't understand.

665
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 1: Would you rather have another ten years with your partner?

666
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: Or would you rather have a one night stand with

667
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:10,720
Speaker 1: your celebrity crush?

668
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 2: Or you don't get your partner?

669
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 3: No more?

670
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 2: Both of them?

671
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:18,720
Speaker 1: Yeah you cannot.

672
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 2: I'm taking the what the hell I want? I'm gone

673
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 2: take a hell.

674
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,320
Speaker 1: Why are you down? Upset about it?

675
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 5: Gone over here where I've been? Just tell Helen once again?

676
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 2: Now you know the real.

677
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 6: Shaka for you when you discover Helly don't want you?

678
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,360
Speaker 6: I sure wish I could arrange.

679
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:51,720
Speaker 2: That she don't want. She don't want the one night stand?

680
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 7: Right?

681
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 2: All the ten years be.

682
00:35:59,600 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 8: All right?

683
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 1: Would you rather be in jail for five years or

684
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 1: being a coma for a decade, jail for five or

685
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 1: a coma for ten.

686
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 2: No, I'm gonna do this jail. I'll take jail really,

687
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,919
Speaker 2: hell yeah, you take that get I'm gonna take that coma.

688
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 6: Give me some rest, Koma when you come out that ConA.

689
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 6: You and I can't tell you how poor yo.

690
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 2: As I don't like people. Just come in here and

691
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 2: visit me when I'm in the hospital. You're getting now

692
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 2: you know what you're gonna wait? You know what You're

693
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 2: gonna look like? A beard? How long will this beard be?

694
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 10: Oh?

695
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 2: My god?

696
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 5: No, you would rather go to jail, jail for I

697
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:45,479
Speaker 5: can't do that jail.

698
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 6: There'll be in a coma for ten. I'm laying up here.

699
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 6: That ain't I done missed everything.

700
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 5: I'm hilarious in jail.

701
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 2: Dog, I'll give me some dog I get some groups

702
00:36:58,080 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 2: together in prisoning.

703
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 1: All right, that's today's round of would you rather you're

704
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 1: listening Morning show? Just say it's the nephew with side.

705
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 8: This is what it is.

706
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,240
Speaker 6: Hey, Just come on, man, I'm gonna ask the questions

707
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 6: that side pieces will ask, and I'm gonna let Tommy respond.

708
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 6: So Tommy if your side. Peace asks you, when can

709
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 6: I call you?

710
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 1: You can't.

711
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 3: You can't.

712
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:39,839
Speaker 2: If I don't call you, we don't talk.

713
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 8: That's all.

714
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 2: You don't. You don't call me.

715
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 5: I do call it.

716
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 2: Okay. Can I ask you?

717
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 6: Here's a note? When can I text you? Same answer after?

718
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 7: If I don't text you, we don't text you. Way

719
00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 7: I start everything?

720
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 1: Yes, when we hang up, when we hang up the phone.

721
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 7: Okay, let me tell you something when we when we

722
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,320
Speaker 7: hang up the phone, if you forgot to say something

723
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 7: and you got to wait till I call you back.

724
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 2: Okay. Here's the next question. Can we spend the night together? Yeah,

725
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:22,399
Speaker 2: of course, of course, but my night in at six

726
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 2: forty five. I gotta get my hands. I can't. It's

727
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 2: for five my night.

728
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 7: We can lay up on each other from three few years,

729
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 7: but come six forty five, I got to go.

730
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 3: This is PM.

731
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 1: I am PM.

732
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 7: Yes, we get We're gonna watch the six o'clock news together, right,

733
00:38:58,920 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 7: I'm gone.

734
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 2: Wow, All right. Here's the next question. Can you give

735
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 2: her a nickname?

736
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:06,879
Speaker 6: Yeah?

737
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 2: Baby, same thing I called my wife. Man.

738
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 6: What I want to do, what I ain't ben to

739
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 6: do is say nothing wrong. Everybody, baby, everybody babs. Okay,

740
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 6: let me ask you a question. Will you buy a

741
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 6: gift for your side piece like cologue?

742
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:27,800
Speaker 7: Yes, yes, cologne, and now you can get that, but

743
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 7: it's gonna be the same damn cologne my wife. Well,

744
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:34,839
Speaker 7: why I'm not gonna come home smelling like no other

745
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,439
Speaker 7: woman gonna smell my wife?

746
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 2: Smile? You're gonna smell like her? Okay, okay, here's enough.

747
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 2: Can she introduce you to her? Free?

748
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:47,479
Speaker 7: Hell?

749
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 2: No, they don't need now exist?

750
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 1: What?

751
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 9: What? What?

752
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:54,320
Speaker 2: Why is we wild? I'm meeting them people. I'm not

753
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 2: finna do nothing with them people.

754
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 13: Why did you talk about me.

755
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 2: Bringing me up?

756
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 7: The people shouldn't even know I existed at all. You

757
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 7: shouldn't be over that running your mind about me to nobody. Okay, okay,

758
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 7: tell me he go next?

759
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 2: You can she meet your friends? Okay, now that's a

760
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 2: good question. That's a good question.

761
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 7: Yes you can, but only on side peace night. You

762
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:29,280
Speaker 7: canna you're gonna meet some mos. What you ain't gonna

763
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 7: do is be meeting them in the white night.

764
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 5: That's not.

765
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 2: It ain't till night you side peace night? You know

766
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:39,240
Speaker 2: other side pieces?

767
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 6: Okay, yady, just gotta be comming.

768
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 2: Can she have a picture of you. You just got

769
00:40:54,560 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 2: to have one. You go on my Facebook Greenshall got

770
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 2: a picture of me and my family crowd?

771
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 8: Did that?

772
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 2: Cracked that down? Where you got only me? Now you got.

773
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:14,400
Speaker 1: Profile?

774
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 2: Okay, tell me ask you this.

775
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 6: If she says I love you, do you love me?

776
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 6: What's your ass? Did I'm not finna say to him

777
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 6: a bunch of diddle?

778
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 2: Did all that? Did over? But I'm not finna see

779
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 2: here and had an ill word? Come on, you know.

780
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 1: You're stupid. Did you're listening Morning show? Coming up at

781
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 1: the top of the hour, right about four minutes after

782
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: it's my strawberry letter for today, subject I taught this

783
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: young man everything he knows. Okay, right now, m uh,

784
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:07,799
Speaker 1: the nephew is in the building with today's prank phone

785
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:09,280
Speaker 1: call what you got for his nest?

786
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 7: So I got to drop y'all down. One of the

787
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 7: classics here, uh in the name of the prank is sweat.

788
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:20,840
Speaker 7: That's what it's got. Let's call cat dog, let's sweat

789
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 7: it up.

790
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 3: Let's go Hello, I'm trying to reach manny. Is this Manny? Nah?

791
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:26,240
Speaker 8: This ain't manny?

792
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 9: Man this sweat? Who's this man?

793
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 3: Hey? This is right?

794
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 12: He ain't.

795
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 3: Man, Wow, this what okay? Hey, uh, mister Keith. We

796
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 3: got we got people down here. You're supposed to be

797
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,360
Speaker 3: here at the record store, man, right here in Harlem,

798
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,840
Speaker 3: and we got people wrapped around the building. You're supposed

799
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:42,879
Speaker 3: to be here sign in these cities, man, But it's

800
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 3: been over hour. These people have been standing there waiting

801
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 3: on y'all. Yeah.

802
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 9: Man, I don't know nothing about no record store and

803
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 9: and number two, I don't know nothing about doing no signing.

804
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 3: Man.

805
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 9: Who set this up?

806
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:53,319
Speaker 10: Man?

807
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 9: I don't know.

808
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 3: I mean the name I was given was Manny? Who

809
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:57,320
Speaker 3: was who was? Manny?

810
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,359
Speaker 9: Man is my road manager? But he don't set things up.

811
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 8: Man.

812
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 9: He's a road manager. He's not my manager. He just

813
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 9: handled my stuff on the road. But I was never

814
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,399
Speaker 9: told I was supposed to be nowhere to do anything, man.

815
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 9: I mean, normally, was somebody tell me me and them

816
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 9: have an understanding that I book what I'm supposed to do.

817
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 9: So I don't know nothing.

818
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 3: About this, my brother, Okay, Well, you know we got

819
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 3: to get this taken care of. We got people wrapped

820
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,399
Speaker 3: around the building. We got a table here laid out,

821
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 3: we got pins and everything for you to sign these CDs. Man,

822
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 3: we got one hundred people outside the store.

823
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:30,759
Speaker 9: My brother, nobody told me about no no signings or

824
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 9: no nothing.

825
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:31,799
Speaker 8: Man.

826
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 9: I mean I don't know nothing about no signing for real.

827
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 3: Okay, Well are you hearing what I'm saying to you? Man?

828
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 3: We got people outside the building waiting for you to

829
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 3: arrive to sign some CDs. Now what I'm I supposed

830
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 3: to tell these people?

831
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 9: I don't know what you're supposed to tell them, man,

832
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:48,319
Speaker 9: I mean, you know, And it's kind of like you're

833
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 9: raising your voice. Dude, I don't.

834
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 3: I don't.

835
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:51,880
Speaker 9: First of all, I don't even know who you are

836
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 9: calling me like this. I told you, man, I just

837
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 9: said nothing up.

838
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 8: Man.

839
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 9: And you know, I mean I don't even know who

840
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 9: gave you my number.

841
00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying for I mean, I I

842
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:02,760
Speaker 3: don't have all this information was on the fax machine.

843
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 3: I got this as a contact number. Man, he is

844
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 3: the person I'm supposed to be talking to. And missus

845
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 3: Sweat was supposed to arrive here at twelve noon. Now

846
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 3: here it is. It's one fifteen, one twenty man, and

847
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 3: you ain't here, and we got people wrapped around the building.

848
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 3: We've been advertising this for the last two weeks. I

849
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 3: mean the album dropped me that.

850
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 9: I don't think you. I mean no disrespect to you,

851
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 9: but I don't think you hear me. Man, I don't

852
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 9: know nothing about a sign. And if I knew about

853
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 9: a sign and or knew I had a sign and

854
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 9: says it, I wouldn't have the people sitting around or

855
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 9: standing around like that.

856
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 2: That's not what I do.

857
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:37,400
Speaker 9: But no one informed me that nothing like this was

858
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 9: going down today.

859
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, So okay, But look man,

860
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 3: but now that you realize people are here waiting, what

861
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 3: are you gonna do? What I'm supposed to tell them?

862
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 9: Man, there's nowhere in the well I can get down

863
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 9: there and do a signing at this time, late time,

864
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:50,719
Speaker 9: right now.

865
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 3: Man, I mean, you need to get so big of that.

866
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:55,880
Speaker 3: You need you need to try to try to get

867
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 3: yourself down you know.

868
00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:00,320
Speaker 9: Or First of all, I mean, you know you just

869
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 9: say y'all, I think you just called me I'm a

870
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 9: name my son. Man, What did you just say to me? Mann?

871
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:04,320
Speaker 8: No?

872
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 3: No, no, I'm saying, I'm saying you need to try

873
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 3: and come on down and sign sign these CDs for

874
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:11,359
Speaker 3: these people. Man, these people are here. They wait their line.

875
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 3: They've been waiting over an hour on you. Now this

876
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 3: this is not gonna go good. This is day dude.

877
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 3: We got your we got your CD almost on every

878
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 3: shelf that.

879
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 9: I'm feeling you and I understand now, I understand what

880
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 9: you're saying to me, but there's no way I can

881
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 9: get down there. Man, we do you just gonna have

882
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 9: to reschedule this. So we're gonna have to reschedule this.

883
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 9: I apologize for the you know, misunderstanding, but bottom line

884
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 9: is I knew nothing about it.

885
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 3: Hold on, Hold on a second, hold on, mister, and

886
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 3: this is missus sweat. He's saying he don't know anything

887
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 3: about being here. I'm telling him we got people all

888
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 3: wrapped all around the building. He don't care.

889
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 9: Yo, Yo, dude, I just say I didn't hear.

890
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 3: I said.

891
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 9: There's nothing I could do.

892
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 8: I just say it.

893
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 3: Not just say that.

894
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 9: Man, don't put words in my mouth, my brother, What

895
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 9: do you want me to be? All you gotta do

896
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 9: is reschedule it for another time, man, that's what you do.

897
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 3: Hold on, man, I'm talking to my boss. I'm trying

898
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 3: to figure out and if we got people fin to

899
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 3: get mad man, because you're not here. I'm okay. Whoever

900
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 3: many man he needs his man he does.

901
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 9: I don't say we don't know nothing about that.

902
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 8: Man.

903
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:10,399
Speaker 3: I ain't got nothing to do with that. Man.

904
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 9: All I know is that nobody told me about that.

905
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 9: Is you know, our call and he and I as

906
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 9: we said, because I don't do things unless I know

907
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:18,279
Speaker 9: where it's coming from.

908
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 3: I ain't no way you can get your you can

909
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 3: get yourself down.

910
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 9: All you keep further off.

911
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 3: Man, You don't talk to me like I'm your child.

912
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 8: Man.

913
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 9: You know you keep saying there's no way I can

914
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:29,359
Speaker 9: get my You know you're back up on what you're saying.

915
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 3: Dudey man, Man, we having a problem. This is supposed

916
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 3: to be one of the biggest days of our record store.

917
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 3: We got your CD on every shelf, and you you're

918
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 3: just so calm and collect like it's not a problem

919
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 3: with you.

920
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 9: What I'm supposed to do. Man, when I need know

921
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 9: nothing about it, I understand it's a problem. It's a

922
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 9: problem because it makes me look like I'm a no show.

923
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,840
Speaker 9: But dude, I'm telling you again, I knew nothing about this.

924
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 2: Man.

925
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on, I want to say, take all

926
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 3: his damn CDs off. The shelf, every lads going off

927
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:54,359
Speaker 3: the yo.

928
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 9: Yo, I don't know what you're talking about. Man, You

929
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 9: losing your darn mind right now. Man, I'm not trying

930
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 9: to disrespect you, dude, but you're really losing your mind.

931
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:01,400
Speaker 3: Man.

932
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:03,359
Speaker 9: Now you're doing something you ain't got no business though, Man,

933
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 9: I staid, reschedule the situation.

934
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,800
Speaker 3: Man, you know tomorrow the day only rescheduling when the

935
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 3: album drops today.

936
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 9: Okay, well, so there's nothing I could do about this, dude, nothing.

937
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 3: Who's the way? Way? Sounds like you're raising your voice?

938
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 9: O my boys, man, because you now you disrespect me.

939
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 9: You don't call my phone going off like like like

940
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 9: I'm somebody's child, like I'm your child, dude, and you

941
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:23,240
Speaker 9: don't talk.

942
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 8: To me like that.

943
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:25,839
Speaker 3: Man, call on. So you can't stop what you're doing

944
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:27,839
Speaker 3: and bring your butt down here to the record store.

945
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 3: Can't stop what I'm doing.

946
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 9: No, no, no, no, I can't stop what I'm doing.

947
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 3: Man, what you're doing right now, that's so important.

948
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,320
Speaker 12: You can't come man, It ain't none of your business

949
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 12: what I'm doing right now. Dude, I'm saying, I know

950
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 12: I knew nothing about this, man, So I'm not gonna

951
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 12: keep going back and forth with you, like like like,

952
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 12: I gotta explain to you why I can't. I gotta

953
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 12: start what I'm doing to come down there. I knew

954
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 12: nothing about it. It's not my fault, dude. You need

955
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 12: to take this up with somebody who scheduled this because

956
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 12: I didn't schedule it.

957
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 3: That's a right and a wrong way to look right

958
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 3: and the wrong way to do somebody, mister Sweat, O, Man,

959
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,840
Speaker 3: come on now, you sang my songs. Man, Come on, man, Okay,

960
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 3: no doubt. So I'm just gonna go out here and

961
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 3: tell everybody in the line, mister Sweat don't want to

962
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 3: come okay, and I'm taking all of damn cs off

963
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 3: the shelf because you don't want to stand up and

964
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 3: be the celebrity that you're supposed to be.

965
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 9: Man, Okay, now you know what, man, You do what

966
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:18,800
Speaker 9: you gotta do. Man, at this point, you do what

967
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:19,360
Speaker 9: you gotta do.

968
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 10: Man.

969
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 9: But Yo, who am I talking to you anyways?

970
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 3: En Man? Raheen Raien, I work here at the store.

971
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:27,880
Speaker 9: Okay, Well I'll see you Rahen.

972
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:29,400
Speaker 3: You go ahead and do what you get me to do,

973
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 3: and I'll come and see you do what what what

974
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 3: what you mean you're gonna see me. What that means

975
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 3: I see you.

976
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 9: I'll see you. I'll see you.

977
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 3: That's what it means. I'll see you, okay, because because

978
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 3: the bottom line is, man, Tommy said you was gonna

979
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 3: come here, the one said you was gonna come sign

980
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 3: Tommy who now you raheen?

981
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 9: Tommy? Who the who the hell is the Tommy.

982
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 3: Tommy Man nephew Tommy from the Steel Harby Morning Show sweat,

983
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:52,479
Speaker 3: I got your.

984
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 6: Man.

985
00:48:54,360 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 9: You know what, man, y'all tripping boy?

986
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 6: For real?

987
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 9: You you don't even understand what you just get me?

988
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 3: Makes me.

989
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:10,759
Speaker 9: You're crazy boys, I mean you.

990
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 3: Know what I'm saying. Y'all don't have anything that didn't me.

991
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 3: And that's what I knew the album was dropping. Man,

992
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:21,399
Speaker 3: I said, I'm getting them to day. Yeah, I'm good man,

993
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 3: I'm good man. Boy, you crazy boy, man, Let me

994
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 3: get off this tall man. Y'all do what boy? You

995
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 3: don't even understand? I swear man, I had to get

996
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 3: you dog, look at it. You know, I know you

997
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 3: got your show, but you got to tell me what

998
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:38,760
Speaker 3: is the baddest radio show in the morning, The Steve

999
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:40,919
Speaker 3: Harvey Morny Show. Man, Get off my phone.

1000
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 9: Nephew time.

1001
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:50,279
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?

1002
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 2: Did you know that I ain't look like that.

1003
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 1: I'll play with everybody.

1004
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 14: I used to work for Keith with an F K

1005
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 14: K e h k E I f L Keith.

1006
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:11,319
Speaker 2: Oh you can do k E E L real Keith.

1007
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 1: That was funny, funny king pranks.

1008
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 5: Happy but lated birthday to our boy Keith Swift Cave.

1009
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:20,400
Speaker 2: Oh we gotta go.

1010
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 8: Yes.

1011
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 1: Coming up next, it's the Strawberry Letter. Subjects I talked

1012
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 1: this young man everything he knows. We'll get into it

1013
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning Show. Time now

1014
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice and

1015
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 1: relationships on I hear you Steve on dating, work, sex,

1016
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,919
Speaker 1: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve

1017
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 1: Harvey FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We

1018
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air, just

1019
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 1: like we're gonna read this one right here, right.

1020
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 2: Now for you. J that's for you, fu love and

1021
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 2: hold on tight. We got it for you here. It

1022
00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 2: is the Strawberry Letter.

1023
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: Thank you. Subject I taught this young man everything he knows.

1024
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I have a confession to make, and

1025
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:09,719
Speaker 1: I know I can count on Steve to give it

1026
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 1: to me straight. I am a divorced female and I

1027
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 1: work as a corporate trainer. I'm forty nine years old

1028
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:20,479
Speaker 1: and I have one daughter and a granddaughter. Last fall,

1029
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,320
Speaker 1: I was called to train staff at an insurance agency.

1030
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: One of the male trainees got my attention and asked

1031
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: me for a business card. Before I left, he left

1032
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:33,800
Speaker 1: a message on my office phone and invited me to

1033
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 1: dinner the next night. I knew he was a bit

1034
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:39,319
Speaker 1: younger than I am, but I was flattered and went

1035
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 1: on a date with him. We have so much in

1036
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 1: common it's hard to believe he's only twenty five. After

1037
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 1: that date, we've been inseparable, and I've had a hard

1038
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 1: time hiding him from my daughter and my family. I've

1039
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 1: taken him on several business trips with me, and he

1040
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 1: looks great in all of the suits and nice shoes

1041
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 1: i've him. I've taught him etiquette and how to appreciate

1042
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 1: the finer things. We took a cooking class and he

1043
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 1: knows how to hand roll sushi for me. I showed

1044
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,560
Speaker 1: him the art of making love to a real woman,

1045
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:17,360
Speaker 1: and he mastered it. He's basically the perfect man for me,

1046
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 1: but the age difference will be a problem in the

1047
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: long run. I know my family and friends will judge

1048
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 1: me because he's two years younger than my daughter. He

1049
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 1: wants to get married so we can live together, and

1050
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 1: he wants me to meet his mother and grandmother. You

1051
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:34,839
Speaker 1: know this isn't going to go over well with them.

1052
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: Men have always met and married younger women, but it's

1053
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 1: not as accepted when women do it. I would hope

1054
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 1: that I'm everything this man needs and he won't want

1055
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: a younger woman someday. Can this work? Or have I

1056
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 1: wasted all of my training on the wrong man? Okay,

1057
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 1: so do you have a training thing going on here?

1058
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 1: Sounds like sounds like you're a sugar mama because you're

1059
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 1: buying him so much stuff. Okay, you know you have

1060
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 1: a lot to be concerned about in this relationship. You're

1061
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: a mother and a granddaughter and this guy is just

1062
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: two years younger than your daughter. I mean, we talk

1063
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: about this a lot on the show The Double Standard.

1064
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 1: There are things that women can do that men can't

1065
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 1: or don't or won't do, and there are things that

1066
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 1: men can do that women can't or don't do you

1067
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:31,800
Speaker 1: said it in a letter. Men have always met and

1068
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 1: married younger, but it's not as accepted when women do it.

1069
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 1: And mainly that's because women have a biological clock inside

1070
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,360
Speaker 1: of them where we have to do things like have

1071
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: children at a certain age. And the facts are that

1072
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: you are twice this young man's age, which means you

1073
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:53,880
Speaker 1: have way more life experience than him. You came in

1074
00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 1: as the trainer. He's a trainee, which means you have

1075
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 1: way more experience than him. You're buying him suits as

1076
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:04,840
Speaker 1: I mentioned, and shoes and stuff. You also have to

1077
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 1: think that you know he might want kids of his own,

1078
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 1: and that's where you have to think about your biological

1079
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 1: clock and the time you know he might want kids

1080
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 1: at some point as far as the love goes, of course,

1081
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 1: we all know the heart wants what it wants. It

1082
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: doesn't care about age or race, or religion or anything

1083
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 1: like that. But you, as the older, more experienced person,

1084
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 1: you have to let your thinking get involved here in

1085
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 1: your head. You have to think about these things. If

1086
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,600
Speaker 1: he wants kids in the future and what the future

1087
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:39,760
Speaker 1: might hold. Yeah, he will probably look at younger women.

1088
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:44,360
Speaker 1: You guys, you're twice his age. Okay, I don't know

1089
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 1: if you'll be able to live with that or not

1090
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 1: as you get older. I mean, I'm sure you're beautiful

1091
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 1: right now. I'm sure you are, but you know you

1092
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 1: got to think about that, that twenty five year old

1093
00:54:54,640 --> 00:55:00,800
Speaker 1: age difference. I don't think that's going to work. And

1094
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: if you can live with all of that stuff, then

1095
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 1: go for it. I don't think you should. I wouldn't

1096
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 1: do it. This has nothing to do with your your

1097
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:11,279
Speaker 1: what your family or your friends say, or anything like that.

1098
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:13,880
Speaker 1: It's not their business. This is a decision that you

1099
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:16,440
Speaker 1: have to make, and I think, as the adult in

1100
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:21,320
Speaker 1: this situation, you know don't. I wouldn't do it.

1101
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:27,080
Speaker 2: I'll put it like that, Steve, you already know. You

1102
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 2: already know.

1103
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 6: So you want Steve to give it to your trade

1104
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:30,919
Speaker 6: because you know you're gonna give it to your trade.

1105
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:34,839
Speaker 6: Charley gave it to you, Chrey gave it to you, Bud.

1106
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 6: Since you want to hear from Steve, here we go.

1107
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 6: I'm gonna point out some things Shirley pointed out, and

1108
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 6: point out some stuff Shirley didn't point out. You're a

1109
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 6: corporate trainer. You're forty nine years old. You have one

1110
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 6: daughter and a granddaughter forty nine. Let's just round it off.

1111
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:53,759
Speaker 6: Say you're fifty. Women don't like to round it off up,

1112
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 6: so let me just go and get to it. Because

1113
00:55:56,600 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 6: your boss to be fifty. Any damn way, I'd have

1114
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 6: had a birthday by the time we read. Just let

1115
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:06,439
Speaker 6: on the air anyway, So let's just say you're fifty. Wow,

1116
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 6: Now let's go. You got a daughter that's twenty seven,

1117
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 6: and you got a granddaughter.

1118
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:16,360
Speaker 1: You train people.

1119
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 6: That's your calling in life. You train people. So you

1120
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 6: go to this agency, you training some people. Dude, got

1121
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:29,280
Speaker 6: your attention to ask for a card, left the message

1122
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 6: invited you to dinner next night.

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00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 2: You know, I knew he was a big younger than

1124
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 2: I am, but I.

1125
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 6: Was flatted because you bought you divorced. You've been singaphore

1126
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:42,560
Speaker 6: while you're bought you. Figure, Hey, you've been on this session.

1127
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 6: Let me going out to dinner with him. We have

1128
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 6: so much in common. What the hell you got in

1129
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 6: common with a boy that's twenty five years the young

1130
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 6: man who's twenty five years younger than you. What y'all

1131
00:56:56,600 --> 00:57:00,840
Speaker 6: both like to eat? You don't play video games, you

1132
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:04,840
Speaker 6: ain't into sport. He liked black dresses. You had on

1133
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:05,840
Speaker 6: the black dress.

1134
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 2: That ain't nothing in common.

1135
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:12,719
Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, Hang on, all right, we'll be back

1136
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 1: with part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty

1137
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Title of today's letter, I

1138
00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: taught the young man everything he knows. We'll get back

1139
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:27,520
Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

1140
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

1141
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 1: I taught the young man everything he knows.

1142
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:37,360
Speaker 6: Well, you will teach you a trainer. You're forty nine

1143
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 6: years old. You go out on this insurance thing to

1144
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 6: train a group of people. Young dude catches eye. I

1145
00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:44,400
Speaker 6: ask you for a business card, invites you to dinner.

1146
00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 6: You flat it because he said your age.

1147
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 2: You go out with him.

1148
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 6: He's much younger than you. But you sit there and

1149
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 6: all of a sudden, y'all got everything in common. No,

1150
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 6: you don't know, you don't, and I'll prove it to

1151
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 6: you in the letter. Lady, you have so much of coming,

1152
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 6: like the same music, and y'all don't go to the

1153
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 6: same places. Y'all ain't had the same life in y'all

1154
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 6: ain't had the same life experiences. You can make children,

1155
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 6: he can't. You got kids, he don't. He played video games,

1156
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 6: you don't. He got a family, He ain't got no family.

1157
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 6: You do what y'all got in coming? And I sure

1158
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 6: would like to know what it is y'all got in coming?

1159
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:30,920
Speaker 6: Or what did you sit there and fabricate in your

1160
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:33,560
Speaker 6: mind that made it so good? Well, let me tell

1161
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:36,920
Speaker 6: you what what after that date? We've been inseparable so

1162
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:39,800
Speaker 6: much for in coming. I've had a hard time hiding

1163
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 6: him from my daughter and my family.

1164
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:43,240
Speaker 2: Listen to me. I've taken him on.

1165
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 6: Several business trips with me, and he looks great in

1166
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 6: all of the suits and nice shoes I bought him.

1167
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 2: You know why, because he was wearing snickers and T shirts.

1168
00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 6: You had to buy him them shoes and them suits

1169
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 6: cause you couldn't make his.

1170
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 2: T shirt wearing ass no. Well with you, I thought

1171
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 2: y'all had a lot in common. He don't know how

1172
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 2: to dress.

1173
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 6: You taught him to, Yo letter, I talked to this

1174
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:14,280
Speaker 6: young man everything he knows. He ain't know nothing. You

1175
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 6: taught him everything. He didn't know nothing. You taught him everything,

1176
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 6: and you got a lot in common. What he didn't

1177
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 6: know how to hand roll sushi when you met him.

1178
00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 6: Now you got him hand rolling sushi. Let me tell

1179
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:32,240
Speaker 6: you something. I went in the sushi restaurant in Atlanta

1180
00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 6: one night. And this is years ago, years ago, Kings

1181
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 6: of comedy, years and it was two black guys behind

1182
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 6: the counter at the sushi place. I turned around, walked

1183
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 6: right out the two black dudle say, Steve, come on here, man,

1184
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 6: the sushi good? I said, y'all know good? Hell, well,

1185
00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 6: y'all don't know nothing about cutting no damn sushi.

1186
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 2: That is not our job. If you back fish, I

1187
00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 2: sit down. But you slicing raw fish?

1188
01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 8: Boy?

1189
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 6: Stop, Now, you'd have got him to hand roll sushi

1190
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 6: for you. I showed him the art of making love

1191
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 6: to a real woman, and he mastered it. He okay,

1192
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 6: you can say he mastered it. He didne got better

1193
01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:19,400
Speaker 6: at it. You can't get worse at sex.

1194
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 2: You can just get better at it. So he's teachable.

1195
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 6: He's basically the perfect man for me, except you can't

1196
01:00:30,040 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 6: take him around your daughter, your family, or your friends.

1197
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 6: But the age difference will be a problem in the

1198
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:40,520
Speaker 6: long run. Nah, it's a problem. Now, why are you

1199
01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 6: talking about this problem?

1200
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 2: In the long run? You can't take him nowhere. He

1201
01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:44,400
Speaker 2: don't know nothing.

1202
01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:46,840
Speaker 6: You done taught him everything. It's a problem now. I

1203
01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:49,320
Speaker 6: know my family and friends gonna judge me because he's

1204
01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:51,320
Speaker 6: two years younger than my daughter.

1205
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 2: It's a problem now. Not in the long run.

1206
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 6: This problem ain't gonna get better. You gonna get older,

1207
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 6: and the gap it's gonna be more obvious. He wants

1208
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:05,800
Speaker 6: me to meet his mother and grandmother. Let me tell

1209
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 6: you something. They gonna eat your ass alive. You go

1210
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 6: in there with this boy's mama and grandmama. He don't

1211
01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:16,120
Speaker 6: even he's so stupid. You didn't teach you what was

1212
01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:18,880
Speaker 6: gonna happen when he walked your old ass in there

1213
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 6: with his mama and grandmama.

1214
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:23,480
Speaker 1: Did you who's gonna be worse though? See the mom

1215
01:01:23,640 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: or the grandmother?

1216
01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 2: The grandmama gonna come. Oh, so you one of my friends.

1217
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:40,560
Speaker 2: I saw you down at the hall.

1218
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 6: Didn't you look like the girl to work at the

1219
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:47,880
Speaker 6: tavern I go to see. It's gonna get bath. They're

1220
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 6: gonna eat you.

1221
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 2: They gonna eat you a lot. You you walk your

1222
01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 2: old ass in there with this daughter that's two years

1223
01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 2: older than this boy. They already know what you.

1224
01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:01,440
Speaker 6: Did they already and know you that you done whipped it,

1225
01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 6: because see this boy, he's whipped and they know you

1226
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:08,280
Speaker 6: to put it on him like he never had it before.

1227
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:12,880
Speaker 2: And now you he want to marry you. Has he

1228
01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 2: lost his rabbit ass mine?

1229
01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 8: Yeah?

1230
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:20,760
Speaker 6: Boy, you you'd have whipped him this bad that he

1231
01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:24,040
Speaker 6: wants to marry you, and you gonna go in there

1232
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:27,640
Speaker 6: and face his mother and grond I hope you do well.

1233
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:30,040
Speaker 6: She said, you finish find it. I don't give a damn.

1234
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 6: You know this ain't gonna go overwhelmed with them. Okay,

1235
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:36,919
Speaker 6: So you once again see when you said in this letter,

1236
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:38,919
Speaker 6: this is gonna be a problem in the long run.

1237
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 6: I keep telling you it's a problem now. You hiding

1238
01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:45,880
Speaker 6: him from your friends. You got him here from your daughter.

1239
01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 6: He's two years younger than your daughter. You got a granddaughter.

1240
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 6: You take him everywhere, and you done taught him everything

1241
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:52,680
Speaker 6: because it's as stupid.

1242
01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:53,520
Speaker 2: He ain't know nothing.

1243
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 6: You men have always met married younger women, but it's

1244
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 6: not as accepted when women do it. I would hope

1245
01:02:59,880 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 6: that I'm everything this man needs and he won't want

1246
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:05,959
Speaker 6: a young woman someday what his mom?

1247
01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 2: Who the hell don't want a young woman.

1248
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:09,200
Speaker 8: So what.

1249
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:14,439
Speaker 2: What you all this stuff you have taught him to master?

1250
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 2: You don't think he won't want to show this to nobody?

1251
01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:20,200
Speaker 1: There you go, all right, thank you, Steve, will thank

1252
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:22,560
Speaker 1: you Steve. We'll leave it right there. Post your comments

1253
01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 1: on today's Strawberry letter at Steve Harvey.

1254
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:27,400
Speaker 2: F n crazy. She know this ain't gonna work.

1255
01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:30,640
Speaker 1: She knows on Instagram and Facebook and coming up.

1256
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 2: But I do want you to go meet his mom

1257
01:03:32,720 --> 01:03:33,280
Speaker 2: and grandmama.

1258
01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 1: Please turned out. Ye you're listening hard Morning show. All right,

1259
01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:44,480
Speaker 1: does marriage make you a better person? That is the

1260
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 1: question on the table right now.

1261
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:50,600
Speaker 14: No, hey, hey, get test.

1262
01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:57,520
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing newly on this show. A new study from

1263
01:03:57,600 --> 01:04:01,840
Speaker 1: Tilburg University in the Netherlands suggests that marriage can make

1264
01:04:01,920 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 1: you a better person. Specifically, getting hitched makes you more

1265
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:11,120
Speaker 1: forgiving and more likely to exercise self control. All right,

1266
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 1: that's what it says.

1267
01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:13,000
Speaker 2: Who I study.

1268
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 1: This is a new study. They studied married married people,

1269
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 1: people that.

1270
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 2: Are in come by my house and study.

1271
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 1: From the Netherlands. It suggests that marriage can make you

1272
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: a better person. Specifically, getting hitched makes you more forgiving.

1273
01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:33,439
Speaker 1: It makes you more forgiving tom marriages and it makes

1274
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:37,920
Speaker 1: you more likely to exercise self control. If you married

1275
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:42,320
Speaker 1: to the wrong nothing, Tommy, No, that what are the

1276
01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 1: one they got over here?

1277
01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 6: Thank you, you married a wrong person. It will not

1278
01:04:49,560 --> 01:04:52,600
Speaker 6: make you a better persion. It makes you better at

1279
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 6: doing certain things. Like what a lot more crack cheater

1280
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 6: you ask? You real craft can learn somethings.

1281
01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:11,640
Speaker 5: What you learn like not how to go home?

1282
01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:19,760
Speaker 6: You learned about spots. You'll know about a lot of restaurants.

1283
01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:25,640
Speaker 6: You have a lot of little cobby holes when seeing restaurants.

1284
01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:28,440
Speaker 6: You know how to walk in places and spot cameras.

1285
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 6: You learned a lot the back way. Yeah, you know

1286
01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 6: you use your phone different. When I was out there,

1287
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:42,760
Speaker 6: wasn't no phone cameras, wasn't no GPS, wasn't none of that.

1288
01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 2: When you're out there, Yeah, and I was out there

1289
01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 2: see all this. Now, I already know I'm good because

1290
01:05:48,880 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 2: where I'm gonna go.

1291
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:58,720
Speaker 6: Eye how to keep my head home, not figure GPS

1292
01:05:58,880 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 6: off your phone.

1293
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 2: You got to turn that on as soon as your leader. Hey, dog,

1294
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 2: if you're famous, you can't do nothing. You just can't

1295
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 2: do nothing. Just go home.

1296
01:06:07,840 --> 01:06:10,360
Speaker 6: Yes, if you're famous and you're not happy, just get

1297
01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:12,520
Speaker 6: yourself a divorced man because you gonna get seen.

1298
01:06:12,880 --> 01:06:16,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it will be at your Yeah.

1299
01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:17,240
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1300
01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:21,640
Speaker 1: Did you did you want to say that aloud? Or

1301
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:23,520
Speaker 1: did you want to keep that to yourself?

1302
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:26,480
Speaker 5: He said, just go.

1303
01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:32,040
Speaker 2: Miserable meetings? You talk to another miserable heads.

1304
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 1: Why didn't he get married?

1305
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:38,840
Speaker 2: I didn't. Y'all ain't tell me everything.

1306
01:06:41,680 --> 01:06:48,479
Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back. You're listening, Morning show. Here's

1307
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:50,480
Speaker 1: a question. A guy asked his friend to email the

1308
01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:54,200
Speaker 1: morning show to get your opinion. Steve Uh, My wife

1309
01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:56,680
Speaker 1: went out of town this past weekend, and it was

1310
01:06:56,760 --> 01:06:59,880
Speaker 1: a good thing because on Saturday, a young guy, me

1311
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:03,640
Speaker 1: around twenty years old, rang my doorbell. He asked me

1312
01:07:03,760 --> 01:07:06,400
Speaker 1: my name, asked if I once lived in Memphis, and

1313
01:07:06,600 --> 01:07:08,920
Speaker 1: asked me if I knew a woman whose name I

1314
01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:14,360
Speaker 1: won't mention. When those checked out, he then put out

1315
01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:17,160
Speaker 1: his hand and told me he was my son. I

1316
01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:20,160
Speaker 1: lived in Tennessee two decades ago, and I dated the

1317
01:07:20,240 --> 01:07:23,280
Speaker 1: woman for a little while. So the math checks out,

1318
01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 1: and this was right before my wife and I got married.

1319
01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:28,800
Speaker 1: But the kid's mom didn't tell me any of this.

1320
01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:31,760
Speaker 1: I invited the young man in and we talked more

1321
01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:35,600
Speaker 1: about it. He's trying to put his life together. It

1322
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:38,120
Speaker 1: was a cool conversation and we both agreed to get

1323
01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:41,600
Speaker 1: a DNA test to confirm or deny the possibility that

1324
01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:45,880
Speaker 1: he is my son. And yes, he favors me either way.

1325
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Speaker 1: How do I break this Maury Povich you are or

1326
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:53,360
Speaker 1: you are not the father situation? To my wife? Do

1327
01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 1: I tell her everything about the visit, the DNA test,

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01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:58,400
Speaker 1: or wait for the results and then tell her I

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01:07:58,520 --> 01:07:59,000
Speaker 1: have a son?

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01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 2: Yeah? I would, I would.

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01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:05,760
Speaker 6: I would take the DNA test and then when it

1332
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:09,280
Speaker 6: comes back positive that that's your son, then you got

1333
01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:12,919
Speaker 6: to tell your wife exactly how it happened. This guy

1334
01:08:13,040 --> 01:08:13,880
Speaker 6: came to my house.

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Speaker 1: Oh hell no, oh, hell, I say, don't tell her

1336
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:21,679
Speaker 1: about the visit first.

1337
01:08:24,000 --> 01:08:26,680
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, no, it's easy. No.

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01:08:27,040 --> 01:08:28,880
Speaker 13: No, you did on the weekend.

1339
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:29,799
Speaker 1: What happened this weekend?

1340
01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:30,160
Speaker 10: What'd you do?

1341
01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:37,080
Speaker 2: Nothing there? I'll watch it to you myself. Yeah, I

1342
01:08:37,479 --> 01:08:37,960
Speaker 2: promise you.

1343
01:08:38,040 --> 01:08:40,800
Speaker 6: I'm not mentioned. So he came over you. How come

1344
01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:43,960
Speaker 6: you didn't tell me this right there? Baby, listen, I

1345
01:08:44,040 --> 01:08:46,200
Speaker 6: didn't know whether this young man was telling the truth

1346
01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:49,599
Speaker 6: or not. I do remember this woman over twenty years ago.

1347
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:52,800
Speaker 6: It was before we got married. I do remember this.

1348
01:08:53,400 --> 01:08:55,640
Speaker 6: But if it wasn't no DNA, it ain't no need

1349
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 6: of him talking to me about this. I find out

1350
01:08:58,360 --> 01:08:58,880
Speaker 6: it's truth.

1351
01:08:59,120 --> 01:09:03,280
Speaker 1: I have a son, So you know, twenty years means

1352
01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 1: nothing to her because this happened right before the wedding.

1353
01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:09,639
Speaker 1: He was born before the wed Yeah, but I'm just saying,

1354
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:11,439
Speaker 1: you do realize that, well at.

1355
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:15,080
Speaker 6: Nine months, nine months, you know all as long long

1356
01:09:15,280 --> 01:09:19,160
Speaker 6: is he born before this weddy we got we got something.

1357
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:20,280
Speaker 8: So you.

1358
01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:24,719
Speaker 1: Knew about this woman while you were walking down while

1359
01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:26,320
Speaker 1: we were walking down the aisle.

1360
01:09:26,760 --> 01:09:31,760
Speaker 6: I had I had known of this woman before we

1361
01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:34,320
Speaker 6: got married, but after I found out we were serious,

1362
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:38,960
Speaker 6: I broke it off. I was younger back ton, I

1363
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:42,000
Speaker 6: was younger back then. You'll be able to get past

1364
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:45,160
Speaker 6: this twenty year thing. And there see no, no, no,

1365
01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:48,080
Speaker 6: listen to me, No no, no, it's not gonna be easy.

1366
01:09:48,200 --> 01:09:51,439
Speaker 6: But see you out of the child support stage. You know,

1367
01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:54,200
Speaker 6: ain't no money got to come out the house. You

1368
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:57,519
Speaker 6: know it's easier to you know this is my son.

1369
01:09:57,640 --> 01:09:58,320
Speaker 2: I didn't know it.

1370
01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 6: Then you got to do the right thing as a

1371
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:03,760
Speaker 6: man because he trying to put his life together. So

1372
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:07,120
Speaker 6: you got to help this your son at this point,

1373
01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:10,400
Speaker 6: I don't think this is going. This is not gonna

1374
01:10:10,479 --> 01:10:14,000
Speaker 6: lou cause him his marriage. It's gonna create a whole

1375
01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:18,240
Speaker 6: lot of questions. He gonna get tapped a lot in

1376
01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:19,160
Speaker 6: the middle of the night.

1377
01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:23,639
Speaker 2: Excuse me, yes, he is. Let me. Let me ask

1378
01:10:23,680 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 2: you something.

1379
01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:29,599
Speaker 6: So when we went to Kane, Ko, because you were

1380
01:10:29,640 --> 01:10:31,400
Speaker 6: seeing her way wait man, wait wait wait.

1381
01:10:31,840 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 2: But you was in Memphis.

1382
01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:37,880
Speaker 1: In ninety.

1383
01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:43,160
Speaker 6: Yes that wait wait wait wait, hold on, hold on waitmen.

1384
01:10:43,320 --> 01:10:46,519
Speaker 6: In two thousand, though, we we went to see my

1385
01:10:46,720 --> 01:10:53,720
Speaker 6: mama in Texas. Black women can do math. Wait wait

1386
01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:55,840
Speaker 6: wait wait wait minute wait wait minute, wait, manue hold on.

1387
01:10:56,600 --> 01:11:03,200
Speaker 6: So when you was driving, yes to see me in Dallas, which.

1388
01:11:03,040 --> 01:11:08,599
Speaker 2: Way you go? Because that's fardy, fardy fardy.

1389
01:11:08,680 --> 01:11:11,400
Speaker 6: Once you come down Nashville, you hit fardy and then

1390
01:11:11,439 --> 01:11:13,719
Speaker 6: you come across the Augasas to get on thirty.

1391
01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:17,679
Speaker 2: You must have stopped. You want to see this happen

1392
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:21,960
Speaker 2: right for you? Baby birthday.

1393
01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 1: More up today's trending stories of the Steve Harvey Morning

1394
01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:28,479
Speaker 1: Show coming up at twenty minutes after the hour. Right

1395
01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:35,320
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve,

1396
01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:39,719
Speaker 1: mister green drink himself, mister elevate you. How's it going

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1399
01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:42,720
Speaker 2: The product is going good.

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01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:45,640
Speaker 6: I want to thank everybody out there for all of

1401
01:11:45,760 --> 01:11:47,760
Speaker 6: your support for the elevate You.

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01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:49,280
Speaker 2: Launch at Walmart.

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01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:54,720
Speaker 6: Because of this Elevate You products got sold out rather

1404
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1405
01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:59,040
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1407
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Speaker 6: very very effective by using them all the time. Because

1414
01:12:23,680 --> 01:12:27,800
Speaker 6: better health should be available for everybody. So check out

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01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:31,720
Speaker 6: a Walmart near you or go to Walmart dot com.

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01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:36,080
Speaker 6: Just go to walmartneck Walmart dot com to make sure

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01:12:36,160 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 6: you get your greens and your gummies. So it is

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01:12:39,720 --> 01:12:42,360
Speaker 6: back in business. We sold out so quick at Walmart

1419
01:12:42,960 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 6: they were just gone and now they're back Walmart dot com.

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01:12:46,680 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 6: This product is the hottest new product on the market

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01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:51,720
Speaker 6: for your health. And I want everybody to get healthy man,

1422
01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:54,599
Speaker 6: especially in my generation, and now younger people are getting

1423
01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:55,240
Speaker 6: hip to it too.

1424
01:12:55,840 --> 01:12:58,280
Speaker 2: My daughter is using my daughter.

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01:12:59,040 --> 01:13:02,519
Speaker 1: All right, right, well, congratulations, go to Elevated dot Com.

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01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:03,280
Speaker 2: Thank you, Steve.

1427
01:13:03,360 --> 01:13:06,080
Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we

1428
01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:08,519
Speaker 1: will play a round of would you rather? Right after

1429
01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:14,519
Speaker 1: this you're listening morning show time now for a round

1430
01:13:14,600 --> 01:13:17,320
Speaker 1: of would you rather? All right, guys, here we go.

1431
01:13:17,439 --> 01:13:20,880
Speaker 1: Would you rather work four day weeks or work two

1432
01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 1: months on and one month off?

1433
01:13:23,720 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 13: Hey, Andy, think about that?

1434
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:31,439
Speaker 6: Oh no, oh no, I want two months own, one

1435
01:13:31,560 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 6: month off? Yeah yeah, hell yeah, work week. I've been

1436
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:38,559
Speaker 6: in the four day weeks.

1437
01:13:38,600 --> 01:13:41,040
Speaker 2: I better do that. That one month off, I'm gonna forget.

1438
01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:48,719
Speaker 2: I'm working. I got it. Two months own, one month

1439
01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:50,160
Speaker 2: off like that?

1440
01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:54,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, all because you went to Vegas for thirty days?

1441
01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:02,519
Speaker 2: All right?

1442
01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:05,559
Speaker 1: Would you rather have another ten years with your partner

1443
01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:09,439
Speaker 1: or one night stand with your celebrity crush?

1444
01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:10,080
Speaker 9: Hey?

1445
01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:18,679
Speaker 14: Oh live sid just okay, I don't understand.

1446
01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 1: Would you rather have another ten years with your partner?

1447
01:14:22,640 --> 01:14:24,720
Speaker 1: Or would you rather have one night stand with your

1448
01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:25,639
Speaker 1: celebrity crush?

1449
01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:28,639
Speaker 2: Or you don't get your partner?

1450
01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:29,040
Speaker 6: No more?

1451
01:14:31,479 --> 01:14:32,040
Speaker 2: Both of them?

1452
01:14:32,280 --> 01:14:33,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you cannot.

1453
01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:42,599
Speaker 2: I'm taking the I'm gone take all.

1454
01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:43,719
Speaker 5: You said?

1455
01:14:43,840 --> 01:14:45,680
Speaker 1: Why do you sound upset about it?

1456
01:14:46,600 --> 01:14:52,920
Speaker 5: Gone over here where I've been to Helen once again.

1457
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:58,280
Speaker 6: Now you know the real Shaka for you when you

1458
01:14:58,479 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 6: discover helly don't want sho I showed wish I could arrange.

1459
01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 2: That she don't want.

1460
01:15:06,120 --> 01:15:09,760
Speaker 14: She don't want the one nice stand right all.

1461
01:15:09,320 --> 01:15:10,120
Speaker 2: The ten years?

1462
01:15:15,640 --> 01:15:16,000
Speaker 8: All right?

1463
01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:20,320
Speaker 1: Would you rather be in jail for five years or

1464
01:15:20,400 --> 01:15:25,200
Speaker 1: be in a coma for a decade? Jail for five

1465
01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:26,479
Speaker 1: or a coma for ten?

1466
01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:31,320
Speaker 2: No, I'm going to do this jail really, hell yeah,

1467
01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:32,479
Speaker 2: wet that cam get it.

1468
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:38,719
Speaker 6: I'm gonna take that coma. Give me some rest, Cooma

1469
01:15:38,840 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 6: when you come out that come. I can't tell you

1470
01:15:41,200 --> 01:15:42,040
Speaker 6: how poy.

1471
01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:44,439
Speaker 1: Like people.

1472
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 2: Just come here and visit me when I'm in the hospital.

1473
01:15:47,600 --> 01:15:49,360
Speaker 2: You don't now you know what you're gonna wait? You

1474
01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:53,559
Speaker 2: know what You're gonna look like? A beard?

1475
01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:54,960
Speaker 1: How long will this beard be?

1476
01:15:55,560 --> 01:15:56,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god?

1477
01:15:58,680 --> 01:15:59,960
Speaker 14: You would rather go to jail?

1478
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:00,680
Speaker 1: Help?

1479
01:16:01,439 --> 01:16:03,840
Speaker 6: Okay, do that jail. There'll be in a cab for

1480
01:16:04,040 --> 01:16:08,639
Speaker 6: ten they're laying up here to Hey, I done missed everything.

1481
01:16:10,880 --> 01:16:12,120
Speaker 5: I'm hilarious in jail.

1482
01:16:12,720 --> 01:16:15,439
Speaker 2: Dog, I'll give me some dog, I'll get some groups

1483
01:16:15,479 --> 01:16:16,720
Speaker 2: together in prison.

1484
01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:17,880
Speaker 8: And what.

1485
01:16:22,720 --> 01:16:24,280
Speaker 7: You all right?

1486
01:16:24,479 --> 01:16:28,040
Speaker 1: That's today's round of would you rather? Coming up forty

1487
01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:30,360
Speaker 1: nine minutes after the hour. It's our last break up

1488
01:16:30,400 --> 01:16:32,439
Speaker 1: the day, and we'll have some closing remarks from the

1489
01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:34,880
Speaker 1: one and em least stee you Harvey. Right after this

1490
01:16:35,600 --> 01:16:41,639
Speaker 1: you're listening Morning show, Steve, We're ready for your closing remarks.

1491
01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:45,320
Speaker 6: I'm so happy, hight everybody my closing remarks today. This

1492
01:16:45,520 --> 01:16:50,439
Speaker 6: is what I've chosen to do. I have variations of

1493
01:16:50,560 --> 01:16:54,120
Speaker 6: this when I'm talking as a speaker and things like that,

1494
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:56,240
Speaker 6: but I'm I'm gonna.

1495
01:16:56,080 --> 01:16:57,639
Speaker 2: Go a different way with you today.

1496
01:16:59,160 --> 01:16:59,280
Speaker 3: Uh.

1497
01:16:59,520 --> 01:17:00,599
Speaker 2: There's a saying.

1498
01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:07,160
Speaker 6: That if you're the smartest person in your group, then

1499
01:17:07,360 --> 01:17:11,920
Speaker 6: you need a new group. I want you, I want

1500
01:17:11,960 --> 01:17:13,880
Speaker 6: you all to just think about that for a minute.

1501
01:17:14,280 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 6: If you're the smartest person in your group, you need

1502
01:17:18,320 --> 01:17:18,960
Speaker 6: a new group.

1503
01:17:20,160 --> 01:17:20,360
Speaker 2: Now.

1504
01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:25,439
Speaker 6: I've been very, very guilty of this, not saying that

1505
01:17:25,720 --> 01:17:29,559
Speaker 6: I was smarter than everybody else, but I had been

1506
01:17:29,640 --> 01:17:33,280
Speaker 6: exposed more than a certain group of people I had

1507
01:17:33,320 --> 01:17:37,000
Speaker 6: employed and had hanging around me. I had been exposed

1508
01:17:37,040 --> 01:17:40,599
Speaker 6: to more things. I naturally was making more because they

1509
01:17:40,640 --> 01:17:50,320
Speaker 6: were mostly employees. I wanted more, uh and because of

1510
01:17:50,360 --> 01:17:52,680
Speaker 6: the fact that I had more and more was required

1511
01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:59,120
Speaker 6: of me, I just had bigger dreams. I outdreamed everybody

1512
01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:03,080
Speaker 6: in my group, and it just gotten to a point.

1513
01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:05,160
Speaker 6: And I'm saying this because I want you all to

1514
01:18:05,240 --> 01:18:08,720
Speaker 6: put everything into perspective. As I'm talking to you, just

1515
01:18:08,800 --> 01:18:12,880
Speaker 6: imagine at your place in your life that if you're

1516
01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:16,800
Speaker 6: the one that's constantly coming up with the ideas, you're

1517
01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:19,640
Speaker 6: the one constantly coming up with the solution. You're the

1518
01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:23,559
Speaker 6: one everybody turns to for guidance. You're the person always

1519
01:18:23,640 --> 01:18:27,360
Speaker 6: picking up the tab. You're the person that's the.

1520
01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:29,840
Speaker 2: Only one who's dreaming really big.

1521
01:18:30,920 --> 01:18:34,080
Speaker 6: You're the one that's pulling the wagon, and you happen

1522
01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:36,400
Speaker 6: to be carrying everybody.

1523
01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:36,400
Speaker 2: That's on it.

1524
01:18:38,560 --> 01:18:41,640
Speaker 6: Ain't none of your associates getting off the wagon to

1525
01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:44,519
Speaker 6: help you pull it, push it, guide it, or nothing.

1526
01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:48,439
Speaker 6: They just own the wagon and you're doing all the pulling.

1527
01:18:49,960 --> 01:18:54,120
Speaker 6: You need a new group. You need a new group.

1528
01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:55,240
Speaker 2: Now.

1529
01:18:55,320 --> 01:18:58,320
Speaker 6: The problem with acquiring this new group is going to

1530
01:18:58,360 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 6: be that the fact is inevitable you have to get

1531
01:19:02,960 --> 01:19:04,000
Speaker 6: rid of the old group.

1532
01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:05,719
Speaker 2: And it's hard.

1533
01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:10,679
Speaker 6: It's hard cutting people loose because for the most part,

1534
01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:14,960
Speaker 6: you're just a nice person because you start beating yourself

1535
01:19:15,080 --> 01:19:16,880
Speaker 6: up with stuff that has nothing to do with you.

1536
01:19:18,360 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 2: Well, if I let them go, what they gonna do?

1537
01:19:23,160 --> 01:19:23,320
Speaker 8: Man?

1538
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:26,080
Speaker 6: How his family gonna eat? How her family gonna survive,

1539
01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:31,000
Speaker 6: How they gonna if I let them go?

1540
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:31,760
Speaker 2: Man?

1541
01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:35,559
Speaker 6: How they gonna feel about me? What will they say

1542
01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:40,120
Speaker 6: about me? What will the other group members think about me?

1543
01:19:43,120 --> 01:19:46,439
Speaker 6: But you know something, mad, that's not your job. And

1544
01:19:46,560 --> 01:19:48,800
Speaker 6: I'm not trying to sound cold to callous, but it's

1545
01:19:49,000 --> 01:19:53,320
Speaker 6: just not your job. They are responsible for themselves.

1546
01:19:54,280 --> 01:19:54,760
Speaker 2: But through this.

1547
01:19:56,320 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 6: Meaningless emotion called guilt, they will make you feel guilt

1548
01:20:00,680 --> 01:20:04,720
Speaker 6: about letting them go and making them stop riding up

1549
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:08,920
Speaker 6: the heel and your wagon for free. And they use guilt,

1550
01:20:09,080 --> 01:20:11,880
Speaker 6: which is the most meaningless emotion, and they give it

1551
01:20:11,960 --> 01:20:12,960
Speaker 6: to you all the time.

1552
01:20:13,400 --> 01:20:15,840
Speaker 2: Y'all, do yourself a favor. Stop doing that.

1553
01:20:16,520 --> 01:20:21,679
Speaker 6: Stop carrying people who should be walking themselves. Stop pulling

1554
01:20:21,720 --> 01:20:24,000
Speaker 6: people up the heel and your wagon when they need

1555
01:20:24,080 --> 01:20:26,080
Speaker 6: to get their own wagon to pull.

1556
01:20:26,880 --> 01:20:33,280
Speaker 2: Stop, do yourself a favor, get yourself a new group.

1557
01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:37,000
Speaker 6: They will be fine because let me ask you a question.

1558
01:20:37,479 --> 01:20:39,320
Speaker 6: This is something my father used to say to me

1559
01:20:39,439 --> 01:20:43,920
Speaker 6: all the time, what would you do if you didn't

1560
01:20:44,000 --> 01:20:47,640
Speaker 6: know me? And I used to never understand when my

1561
01:20:47,760 --> 01:20:50,360
Speaker 6: father said it that until I got older, but I

1562
01:20:50,439 --> 01:20:52,639
Speaker 6: hear him saying it to me all the time. People

1563
01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:54,560
Speaker 6: come to you and ask you for money because I

1564
01:20:54,720 --> 01:20:57,639
Speaker 6: know you got it because you're doing better than them. Well,

1565
01:20:57,680 --> 01:21:00,400
Speaker 6: you work harder than them, so quite naturally you should

1566
01:21:00,439 --> 01:21:02,880
Speaker 6: be doing better them. Now they come to you and

1567
01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:03,679
Speaker 6: ladies guilt.

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01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:04,200
Speaker 7: Man, you.

1569
01:21:05,720 --> 01:21:08,800
Speaker 6: Done came up and all us, over all of us,

1570
01:21:08,920 --> 01:21:11,840
Speaker 6: and left us back. He now, we so proud of you.

1571
01:21:12,240 --> 01:21:12,960
Speaker 2: Let me hold.

1572
01:21:14,960 --> 01:21:16,880
Speaker 6: My father used to say, if you didn't know me,

1573
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:19,640
Speaker 6: what would you do? So I started incorporating that in

1574
01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:22,519
Speaker 6: my life. If you didn't have my number, who would

1575
01:21:22,560 --> 01:21:27,320
Speaker 6: you call? I cannot be everybody's emergency. If you are

1576
01:21:27,479 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 6: everybody's emergency phone call, you need a new group. They

1577
01:21:32,600 --> 01:21:35,439
Speaker 6: gonna bring you down. Man, I'm telling you, they're going

1578
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:38,120
Speaker 6: to bring you down. And when you go down, guess

1579
01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:41,599
Speaker 6: what they gonna get another emergency number. They not gonna

1580
01:21:41,640 --> 01:21:44,760
Speaker 6: be there for you. All these people that use you

1581
01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:47,160
Speaker 6: as they emergency, do you have the ability to use

1582
01:21:47,240 --> 01:21:48,360
Speaker 6: them as your emergency?

1583
01:21:48,680 --> 01:21:52,920
Speaker 2: I think not. It's time to look at getting a

1584
01:21:53,080 --> 01:21:55,040
Speaker 2: new group. Now.

1585
01:21:55,640 --> 01:21:59,800
Speaker 6: You can sever the ties with these people now, or

1586
01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:04,240
Speaker 6: you can wait until a major event occurs. That's gonna

1587
01:22:04,280 --> 01:22:06,679
Speaker 6: cause you have to break it off, and it's gonna

1588
01:22:06,680 --> 01:22:09,320
Speaker 6: be a lot more painful and a lot more costly,

1589
01:22:10,960 --> 01:22:14,080
Speaker 6: you know. But Bishop Jake said one time, sometimes you

1590
01:22:14,200 --> 01:22:17,120
Speaker 6: have to let people go so they can be freed

1591
01:22:17,240 --> 01:22:20,519
Speaker 6: up to go be who they're supposed to be, because

1592
01:22:20,600 --> 01:22:24,000
Speaker 6: some people just hanging on casts. It's comfortable because you've

1593
01:22:24,120 --> 01:22:27,520
Speaker 6: made it comfortable for people. And I'm talking to everybody

1594
01:22:27,760 --> 01:22:31,680
Speaker 6: out there. This ain't for me or people who have employees.

1595
01:22:32,080 --> 01:22:34,240
Speaker 6: This is for people who have people in their lives

1596
01:22:34,320 --> 01:22:36,040
Speaker 6: that's constantly pulling on you.

1597
01:22:36,240 --> 01:22:36,400
Speaker 1: Man.

1598
01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:40,559
Speaker 6: For twenty dollars here, forty dollars here, one hundred over here?

1599
01:22:40,960 --> 01:22:43,920
Speaker 6: My light bell went off. They cut this off. They

1600
01:22:44,080 --> 01:22:48,080
Speaker 6: calling me, I'm behind on my TAXI my income tax check.

1601
01:22:48,160 --> 01:22:48,680
Speaker 2: Ain't hear you?

1602
01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:50,080
Speaker 5: Man? Oh man?

1603
01:22:50,200 --> 01:22:50,599
Speaker 2: Oh man?

1604
01:22:50,960 --> 01:22:54,400
Speaker 6: How many times do you get that? Stop being everybody's

1605
01:22:54,479 --> 01:22:57,880
Speaker 6: emergency phone call? Because if they didn't know you, what

1606
01:22:58,000 --> 01:23:01,640
Speaker 6: would they do? My father used to say, when they

1607
01:23:01,720 --> 01:23:03,840
Speaker 6: don't know you, what would they do? They need to

1608
01:23:03,880 --> 01:23:07,200
Speaker 6: get home and get to doing it. You can't save

1609
01:23:07,400 --> 01:23:11,879
Speaker 6: everybody because they'll bring you down. If you're the smartest

1610
01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:14,400
Speaker 6: person in your group, you need a new group.

1611
01:23:14,920 --> 01:23:18,720
Speaker 2: Y'all have a great day. Okay, I'm gonna have a

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01:23:18,760 --> 01:23:19,559
Speaker 2: good weekend too.

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