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Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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Speaker 1: talked about what's up, Welcome to a new episode, and

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Speaker 1: we talked back, it's your girl, a J It's Tam Bam.

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Speaker 1: I love y'all. Hey, like I'm starting to love y'all. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: I'm hard on the whole. I had somebody my DM

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Speaker 1: was like tell me that. It made me then feel

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Speaker 1: so good to hear me say that I loved him.

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Speaker 1: Every week I was like, I love you, and then

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Speaker 1: I said it to her. I like, bitch, because I

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Speaker 1: do love you. If nobody ever told Tam Bam loves you?

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Speaker 1: What's up you'll? How was your weekend? My weekend was

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Speaker 1: letty in the city. I got slow down because coronavirus

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Speaker 1: is real, but I feel like I just got over it.

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Speaker 1: So I got like a little like a little a

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Speaker 1: thirty forty five days safety net, you know, where I

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Speaker 1: just don't go crazy. And then I would go back

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Speaker 1: into my safe space. But I just see even out

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Speaker 1: there with no masks. I this this really happened. No,

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Speaker 1: I had on a mask sometimes. I went on this

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Speaker 1: dinner day on Friday night, and I put on this

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Speaker 1: dress that I got from this little Blue Teak in

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Speaker 1: Charlotte called Timeless Sheet. Shout out to Timeless Sheet. Both well, bitch,

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Speaker 1: when I tell you I killed that little dress this weekend. Like,

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Speaker 1: we walked in the restaurant and it was like a

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Speaker 1: group I guess it was a birthday party, was men

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Speaker 1: and women. And when I walked past the table, the

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Speaker 1: table fell silent. Bitch. I was like, yeah, I know,

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Speaker 1: and you know, because it's one thing when somebody think

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Speaker 1: they're a bad bage, right to the bad bage actually

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Speaker 1: walks in. It's like cricket, crickets, crickets. So the man

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Speaker 1: who took me to dinner, his chest was pumped out

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Speaker 1: all far like he had. It's just like, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: beat y'all wit niggle, And this is exactly why we

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Speaker 1: make men look better. Now. Everybody wanted him trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out why there him because them holds at the

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Speaker 1: table behind us. He's like, one of them is burning

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Speaker 1: a hole in my head. She's trying to make eye

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Speaker 1: contact with me. I was like, well, you're looking over there.

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Speaker 1: You didn't be focused on the beach in front of you,

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Speaker 1: because I feel like you wouldn't even notice that ship

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Speaker 1: if you weren't looking at that table over there. I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I didn't say focused on the bitch in front of you.

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Speaker 1: I said, well, did you focus song me? He's stupid?

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Speaker 1: You start thinking. To goodness, I'm about to ask no

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Speaker 1: grown ass man to focus on you. Ain't. Somebody is

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Speaker 1: to that table that fell solid eating meat? Catch your

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Speaker 1: nigger by its toe? That was it? What else happened

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Speaker 1: this weekend? Nothing else did? And do ship as per usual?

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Speaker 1: Work out? Yeah, you're using the gym. I see you

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Speaker 1: in the gym all weekend. That a little bit of shopping,

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Speaker 1: That's about it. I did, man. I try to get

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Speaker 1: in get it in both days this weekend, just as

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Speaker 1: you don't never want to have no fun no more?

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Speaker 1: Who are you? Justice? And like? Who me? Like? It

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Speaker 1: ain't just me? No the bitches listening to the show. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about you. I do be want to have fun,

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Speaker 1: but I'm trying to do something that's just all And

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Speaker 1: I have a small time window. Did you need a

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Speaker 1: million dollars by January one? That's really what the funk

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Speaker 1: I need? Man? And plus like you in Charlotte that

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Speaker 1: ship to dude, I'm not in Charlotte right now. So

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Speaker 1: with the suck down here. I'm in Charleston, and it's

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Speaker 1: like did you. I mean, there's a lot of nice

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Speaker 1: places to go. It's a nice a lot of nice restaurants,

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Speaker 1: like eating. That's about it. I'm gonna go out to

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Speaker 1: a nice restaurant. But as far as hanging out, it's

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Speaker 1: just like no place for like grown and sexy black adults.

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Speaker 1: It's always gonna be like mixed with just file. You

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Speaker 1: should create a place, but I could you make good food. No,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna get shut down because don't speak, don't shoot

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Speaker 1: your ship up and Charleston dog, niggas will shoot somebody

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Speaker 1: gonna die in your spot, dog, it could be a

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Speaker 1: nice gonna die. I'm not and I'm gonna be on

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Speaker 1: there like I'm gonna be out there like Olivia Pope

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Speaker 1: dragging a nigger body up my club because you can't

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Speaker 1: die in here, nigga, you gotta die in the park

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Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, No, don't open up, don't open the lounge,

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Speaker 1: don't do that. That's whack. It's so many nice places, man,

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Speaker 1: but it's like the music gonna be whacked. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: So I think I'm gonna go see Candy Man tonight.

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of like, let me tell you all story

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Speaker 1: about my childhood. So I've been like afraid of Candy

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Speaker 1: Man my entire life, and I have a traumatic story.

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Speaker 1: All right. I was a little girl my family, we

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Speaker 1: and eat Chinese food, and the movie of the night

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Speaker 1: was Candy Man. And my mom asked me, she was like,

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Speaker 1: are you sure you want to watch this? You can

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Speaker 1: go upstairs and watch something else, because this is really scary, baby,

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I want to watch it. So

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Speaker 1: I ate my little Chinese food, went to bed. It

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Speaker 1: was like it was really late. The house is pitch

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Speaker 1: a boxer, like my grandma would send stuff down from

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Speaker 1: was a box in my room. I took the box.

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Speaker 1: I took all the ship the contents out of the box,

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Speaker 1: and I ship in the box, y'all. I do it

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Speaker 1: in the box of my man room because I was

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Speaker 1: so scared of canny man in the bathroom. It's my

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Speaker 1: player was to take the box out as soon as

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Speaker 1: the sun come up. I was gonna put it in

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Speaker 1: the trash cat outside. But what happened was I went

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Speaker 1: Tell what the fuck is that? Belly? Are why like that?

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Speaker 1: Get yours up? She beat the ship out of me

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Speaker 1: for do doing in the box in my room. I

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Speaker 1: was so scared, dog man. Look man, black Mama's getting

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Speaker 1: my fucking nerves, like trying to understand what happened. Like

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Speaker 1: if you're look, if your kid ain't never shoot in

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Speaker 1: a box before, I'm gonna need to understand what the

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Speaker 1: not to just beat the kid's ass. I'm gonna be like, yo,

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Speaker 1: why did you do this? Why did you do this?

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Speaker 1: My mama let me know that that was that? Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's all she did. It's like if I knew my

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Speaker 1: baby was that terrified dog to ship in the box

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Speaker 1: in the room like I would really be sad for

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Speaker 1: beating her ass about that. The fuck that's trauma, yo,

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Speaker 1: what the heirs? So yeah, I'm gonna try to release

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Speaker 1: oh my god. I hope you did. I hope you do.

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Speaker 1: And then that's gonna be my closure. Remember I saw

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Speaker 1: him dick in the box. Yo, y'all, don't tell nobody.

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Speaker 1: I told y'all that this is between us, telling everybody

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Speaker 1: Cando May came to make came to May. Let me

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Speaker 1: stop for this motherfucker periance closet. Yes, I do record

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Speaker 1: in a closet. My sister's big though. One of my sisters,

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Speaker 1: she works at SLED with the South Carolina the Law

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Speaker 1: Enforcement Division, right, and she said she tried Candy being

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Speaker 1: up there in the bathroom, up there like that and

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Speaker 1: again coming to the police station. Wait a minute, break,

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Speaker 1: but she did, Candy Man in the bathroom. That is

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Speaker 1: not coming there. She thought you was slick. I'm not

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Speaker 1: send Candy Man up its te like she's trying to

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Speaker 1: get her co workers slade, Like, why is she can

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Speaker 1: juring that man up at work? Candy Man ain't crazy,

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Speaker 1: He's not gonna sick and go to hell. Candy Man

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Speaker 1: locked up in South Carolina? Hey, like the rest of

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Speaker 1: every nigger will come to this, bitch, you're gonna get

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Speaker 1: locked up, funker, no ball, like you're never gonna make

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Speaker 1: it back with Oh good, that's funny, Yo, what the hell?

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Speaker 1: Man look my stuff and me to get this. That

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Speaker 1: was funny. Yeah, I want to see Candy Man. I

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Speaker 1: used to like watch I like, for whatever reason do

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Speaker 1: I like scary movies. I just like to feel scared

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Speaker 1: like that and it's weird. But I like, I used

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Speaker 1: to have like bad dreams, like something what happened? But

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Speaker 1: a funk. I'd be in't here talking to ghosts and

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Speaker 1: there I'll be watching the Conjuring and here by myself,

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Speaker 1: just watching it like it don't scare me. Yeah, Oh,

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Speaker 1: what's the other one? Not the Conjuring, it's another one.

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Speaker 1: City and city is bit and Cities. That ship is Wicked.

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Speaker 1: That's one of the ones I watched by myself. I

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Speaker 1: can't watch that one by myself. The first one I

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Speaker 1: but that the very first one. The city is one.

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Speaker 1: That ship is Wicked. The Exorcism of Emily Rose. I

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Speaker 1: watched that movie, and then I tried to reenact Emily Rose,

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Speaker 1: like when she was all possessed on the floor. That

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Speaker 1: was hilarious. We was in a drunken high. I say

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Speaker 1: that was like twisted our body up and make it

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Speaker 1: all weird sounds there like beach get off the floor. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because you you know, when you're drinking and smooking, you

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Speaker 1: who your body open? Oh? She don't say much like that.

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Speaker 1: I was at a clubhouse. Supernay are saying like, how

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Speaker 1: how would one hijack human body? Like how would a

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Speaker 1: spirit or something like? That's how nigga, When you know

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Speaker 1: in your right mind, people commit commit people commit murders

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Speaker 1: then you end up in sucking jail and county like

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Speaker 1: what the fund did? I do you think they'd be possessed? Yes?

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Speaker 1: I do think so, I think so? Yeah, you got well,

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Speaker 1: I'm covered in the blood of Jesus. Okay, looking around,

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Speaker 1: m If your head I started spinning on that, God,

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Speaker 1: damn well, I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 1: right now. Sam, I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna stab you first. I'm not about to wit. If

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Speaker 1: my head starts may you're gonna stab me, bitch, go

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Speaker 1: call up, call the pastor don't kill me. Damn Like, man,

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Speaker 1: if that should start happened in real life, like what

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Speaker 1: else wanna do? Well, I'm not about to risk you

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Speaker 1: getting out the house. It's me. It is me. Hold on,

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Speaker 1: what do I start coming to do the show like this?

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Speaker 1: Go ahead say you're opening line. No bid, you're about

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Speaker 1: to be like Shore, You'll off the list. Hey, this

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Speaker 1: is we talk back, This is a J eight and

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Speaker 1: this is I hate you Yo, you're joking. Oh man,

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Speaker 1: but you know what I was about to say, like

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Speaker 1: this would be the Wicked Ship. Listen, we didn't even

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Speaker 1: went into what the funk we really want to talk

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Speaker 1: about the day. But anyway, this sho is funny. Funny

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Speaker 1: is telling me listen, what is you know? People be

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Speaker 1: like maybe the people just don't say because they just

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Speaker 1: know somebody's not gonna believe them. But what if those

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Speaker 1: like one off situations with somebody who's never committed a crime,

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Speaker 1: like and then they murder somebody right in their house

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Speaker 1: or whoever they kill somebody, But really what happened is

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Speaker 1: that my fucking head was spinning around and I had

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Speaker 1: because I'm just going in the next situation, like I

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Speaker 1: But we also know as a woman, you always gotta

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Speaker 1: because we live like listen, I know, like why are

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Speaker 1: I'll be available. That's why I'll try so hard enough

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Speaker 1: You gotta be able today, I know, but men like that,

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Speaker 1: But that's just that's the way to love goes. Like, oh,

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Speaker 1: that ship for I don't believe. Yeah, all these characteristics

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Speaker 1: well mine that we ever done in your nato chopping

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Speaker 1: But yes, I'm pulling Nigga's needle charts. And the dude

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Speaker 1: But do you know it? Said? Did you ain't interesting? Um?

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Speaker 1: before that in my life, and both of them niggas

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Speaker 1: Then the other one broke up with me because he

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Speaker 1: I have to have uh you know, And that's something

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Speaker 1: I know that I gotta work on in my next relationship.

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Speaker 1: talking to a man all crazy. I don't want to

421
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 1: do that. But that's why I feel like I got

422
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:47,880
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna be scanning, gonna pop me in the mouth.

423
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 1: I gotta have uh Alpha, not even scared that they're

424
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: gonna pop me in the mouth, but just someone I

425
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 1: respect so much that I wouldn't even try them like that, Like, oh,

426
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,640
Speaker 1: that's just a reason to you know what I'm saying.

427
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: It's not like you're even looking for a reason to

428
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: try him. It's just like there's never a reason for

429
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 1: me to try him or him to try me. It's

430
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 1: just smooth sailing. Relationships are not always going to be like,

431
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 1: you know, you don't have some fucking problems, but she

432
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be stupid to where y'all just gotta be

433
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: right at each other's next. That relationship was toxic for

434
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 1: so many different reasons. So and that was my only

435
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: two boyfriends in life, and never since then, I'd be like, man,

436
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 1: funck a boyfriend. But I've had four. I've been at

437
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 1: four relationships my whole life, and I feel like, wait, mante,

438
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 1: wait a minute, let me not lie. Hold on, I've

439
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 1: had some situation ships, yeah, four, and then you know,

440
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 1: like I probably had like one situation ship, but um,

441
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, you're you gotta be especially

442
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: like That's why I always want to talk to women

443
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:59,120
Speaker 1: in the twenties man, because man, the people you let

444
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 1: have access to you, they're gonna mold you like they're

445
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 1: going to They're gonna be like the reason how why

446
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: you end up where you are. Either they're gonna be

447
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 1: like good or they're gonna be a distraction, right, don't

448
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 1: you know what? I'm changing places with me, miss selling.

449
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 1: So you gotta be careful man, who you give your

450
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,159
Speaker 1: energy to. Man, especially in your twenties, like you're supposed

451
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: to be looking for your mate in your twenties. Man,

452
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: But have the real live discernment. God damn man. I

453
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 1: wish I could rewind, but I don't have no regrets.

454
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:38,719
Speaker 1: Sit up in the jail. I sit up in that jail. Hey,

455
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 1: nigga's gonna be calling up here saying you told Tasha

456
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 1: to be You're damn right there and told j told

457
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: that it's a big brown reset button on the top

458
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: of the nigga. Don't listen to a j And if

459
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 1: you got a bay hair, you canna really see it, right, No, AJ,

460
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: this is bad advice. You're gonna get somebody asked beat

461
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 1: this week. This is good bad advice, right, And look,

462
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: we'll be right back. Then let's pay some more fucking

463
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 1: bills because we always got all these bills. Goddamn, it's

464
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 1: like twelve bills at this point. But we'll be back,

465
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 1: all right, So y'all be back. Let's hop a two

466
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: hour dumb bitch Uh advice story segment dumb bitch stories,

467
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: because we've all been a dumb bitch at least. What's

468
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 1: a twice that's week? I don't know, man, So this

469
00:29:56,440 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 1: dumb bitch story apparently from what I'm reading, this person

470
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 1: maybe in prison right now, and it's a woman. So, um,

471
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 1: I guess she gotta sell you in there. She listening

472
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 1: and we talked back. We appreciate you, prison bay, it says. Okay.

473
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 1: So my sister introduced me to one of her guy friends.

474
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 1: Mind you, I just got out of a horrible relationship,

475
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: so my mind was still lost. We started texting back

476
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 1: and forth getting to know each other. He has a

477
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 1: he owns a beauty supply store and also sells drugs.

478
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: She says. Um, let me resay that he owns a

479
00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:38,959
Speaker 1: beauty supply store and it's a street pharmacist, which I

480
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 1: didn't mind because most of the guys I date are

481
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: in the street ship, are into street ship. So he

482
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: took me out of town and for my birthday we

483
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 1: went to a five star hotel. He bought me all

484
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: type of designer shoes and clothes, took me to the

485
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: best clubs in town. We had a great time and

486
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: the sex was great. After we got back from my

487
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 1: birthday trip, he asked me if I could start making

488
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 1: trips for him. You know what that means. I agreed

489
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 1: because I was broke coming out of my last relationship,

490
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: and I had two kids to feed. So I take

491
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: a trip, you know from I'm not gonna put these

492
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: city names in there. So I took a trip from

493
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: point A to point B, making two hundred and fifty

494
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: dollars a trip. How you driving for nigga for to hell? No, See,

495
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: that's why y'all asked jail right now? You wasn't smart

496
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: funness that nigga point when she when she accepted that

497
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: two fifty, that nigga probably was like so fuck yeah.

498
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: So um, that shows the value. I'm just telling you. Anyway,

499
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 1: let me continue. Can we just say how far it

500
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 1: was point A to b um ten minutes? No, point

501
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: A too B was roughly I'll say an hour and

502
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: a half, two hours. I'll say about let's say three hours.

503
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: I'll say three hours, three hours for two hundred fifty dollars.

504
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 1: There you gonna just work for uber. It might be

505
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: two hours. I'll just say two hours. So yeah, two

506
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: hundred dollars to two hours and then that's four hours around.

507
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: So we could have made more doing uber or live

508
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 1: exactly all right, So she does, she does mention, she said,

509
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: which was not great money, but I needed it. So

510
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 1: one day, one of the customers died in an apartment

511
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 1: where he stored his stuff. He called me to come

512
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,719
Speaker 1: down and clean out the apartment before he calls the cops.

513
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 1: I drove three hours there, leaving my kids, so it

514
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: is a three hour trip there. He goes, I drive

515
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: three hours there leaving my kids with my mom to do. So,

516
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: so I get down there to clean out the apartment

517
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: and put the stuff in my car. It's a dead

518
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 1: body in there. No, I don't she put drugs in

519
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: her car, but the person whose dad is in the house. Yes, yes,

520
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: Once we got godun cleaning an apartment, I call the

521
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 1: cops once he was gone because he didn't want the

522
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 1: cops to know he was there and ordered the body.

523
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: So she's she's saying that he instructed her to clean

524
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 1: the apartment out he left, and once she cleaned apartment

525
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 1: out and then call the cops to report the body,

526
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: and she and she does so, and that's what she is. Listen,

527
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: let me finished they came and took the report gave

528
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 1: I gave him the name. I gave them my name

529
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 1: and number. So I went to his house. Once the

530
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 1: police did their job. Forgot to tell y'all he was married,

531
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 1: She said, I told him. I um, I told him.

532
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 1: I told the police exactly what he wanted me to say,

533
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 1: and we had sex right before I left. So they

534
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 1: funk with your dead body in there. Girl, you ain't listening.

535
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: So apparently it is all mixed up how she's writing this.

536
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: So apparently once she left, she she she did what

537
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: he told her to do. She cleaned the apartment and

538
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: I'll put the stuff in her car, called the police

539
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 1: once he left, and then he then she now drive

540
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 1: drives back to where they're farming. Now she's at his house. Yeah,

541
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 1: so they have sex and then she leaves, she said.

542
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 1: So as I'm driving home, like, I got pulled over

543
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 1: with all his drugs in my trunk. The police found

544
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 1: eight ounces of crack, five zips it's five zip blocked

545
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 1: bags of pills, and three pounds of marijuana. So they

546
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 1: locked me up because I refused to tell them where

547
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 1: I got the drugs from. So I had to sit

548
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,799
Speaker 1: in jail until I saw the judge to find out

549
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 1: what my charges would be. Come to find out, the

550
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:24,840
Speaker 1: lady that died in the apartment overdose on some of

551
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 1: the crack that was laced with finting on. You know

552
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 1: that ramping right now? I know it was. It was

553
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: a crack they found in my trunk. So my bill

554
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 1: was at the two million dollars. While I was in

555
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: jail waiting for trial, I found out I was pregnant

556
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:44,359
Speaker 1: with his baby. Damn, Um, I had. I had my

557
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 1: family put their house up to help me get out

558
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 1: of jail and get a lawyer. Once my family came

559
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 1: up with three hundred thousand dollars, I was released. Once

560
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 1: I got released, I was trying to make contact with him.

561
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: He blocked my number. I tried calling his mom. She

562
00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: blocked my number. I went to the store and they

563
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:04,959
Speaker 1: wouldn't me in. So once my lawyer got the paperwork, Um,

564
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 1: it turns out he was the one that called the

565
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 1: cops on me and had them pulled me over. To

566
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 1: put an end to the story. I'm in jail right

567
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 1: now during twenty five years for being a Ride or

568
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: Die girl love dumb bitch of the year. Damn, this

569
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 1: is a sad story. That's horrible. Actually, that's a horrible story.

570
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 1: It is doing that reminds me of that movie Broken

571
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 1: Down Palace. You ever seen that? M hmm. These girls

572
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 1: were on a trip abroad and they met some guys

573
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:43,839
Speaker 1: and um, they were like getting drunk and having sex

574
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 1: and just being young. And these men set them up

575
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: with drugs on the on the flight, put drugs in

576
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: their bag to make them like a decoy for the

577
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 1: big load that was leaving. And they went to prison

578
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,959
Speaker 1: in Thailand and had to do time in Thailand like years.

579
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 1: And is that a real stories based on the real story,

580
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 1: it's called Broken Down Palace? Wow? Yeah? Man, young women

581
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,799
Speaker 1: man yea. And then she has two children she left

582
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:12,879
Speaker 1: out here, like you gotta be real careful when dealing

583
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 1: with people. He knew he had a dumb bitch at

584
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 1: two fifty dollars. I'm gonna just I'm gonna just say

585
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 1: that first, once you accepted that to actually do trips

586
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 1: and ship like, he spiced you up, took you out

587
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: of town, brought you some nice ship and then immediately

588
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: trying to put you to work. Don't be giving these

589
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 1: niggas y'all home addresses, because you know what that means.

590
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 1: If somebody said what they want to sense the ship

591
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 1: to your address, you don't do that because postal will

592
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 1: show up to your ship. Damn st five years du

593
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 1: all for caring about the because that's all she did

594
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,879
Speaker 1: was care about him. She was accepted. Did she care

595
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 1: about him or was she trying to get money for

596
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 1: her children? She cared too, though you will you and

597
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:55,760
Speaker 1: they're married, cleaning up drugs, taking up drugs and calling

598
00:36:55,760 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 1: the police. And a nigger could never I never who

599
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: do what? You couldn't even call me on the phone.

600
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 1: But no ship like that, I would hang up and block.

601
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: I would change my number right there. Don't call me

602
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:11,800
Speaker 1: about no ship like that? Are you stupid? I don't know, Listen,

603
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 1: I ain't never been down as bitch like that. I've

604
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:18,719
Speaker 1: been in some real nigga ship, but I put myself in,

605
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 1: but not like it's not gonna be some ship. Yeah,

606
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 1: that's that's kind of wicked man. Man. I remember and

607
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: colleged me and this nigga was smoking Swede in his

608
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 1: car and camping security got behind us and I was like, nigga,

609
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 1: pull over so I can get out, and he said,

610
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 1: what you mean like this is not barding and Clyde, bitch,

611
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:37,839
Speaker 1: let me out this motherfucker car. Are you stupid girl?

612
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 1: You're already caught at that point. Were you gonna get

613
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 1: out of run? Oh? No? He let me out. He

614
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: drove fast. They wasn't right behind us, and I was like,

615
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 1: pull over and let me out. Did he get locked?

616
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 1: And I don't know what happened today. Hey, look for

617
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 1: the record that he've been listening. We are not no

618
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: ing that ship now. I ain't telling you can count

619
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: on that. I ain't go open my mouth. I ain't

620
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:08,320
Speaker 1: telling ship. If somebody coming like they're gonna have to

621
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 1: do their job, I ain't gonna be able to tell

622
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 1: ship because you can't tell. Don't tell me ship. So

623
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: if they ask you anything, when I say, I don't know,

624
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 1: that's the truth, right, Yo, boy, you got to be

625
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 1: more careful. Man. I feel so sad. That is so sad.

626
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 1: Like I want to write her. I want to write her.

627
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 1: I want to see her care package, but then she

628
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 1: might asks some money. People just get care packages. You

629
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 1: can buy. You can put stuff on the canteen, like

630
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: I think you can send. I don't know. I would

631
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Speaker 1: assume she's in federal prison. There's no way she's in

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Speaker 1: the state printed prison. You know, state prison. You can

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Speaker 1: like send them like canteen packages through this website or whatever,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know about federal prison. You probably just

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Speaker 1: have to send him some money. But they may have

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00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 1: the same canteen type system where you could send them

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00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:03,799
Speaker 1: like candy bars, Like they'll package the stuff up and

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Speaker 1: ship it, but you have to the ship is inflated

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Speaker 1: to so much like the candy bar might cost five dollars. Damn. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you're getting the box of bullshit that you probably would

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Speaker 1: pay fifteen dollars for at the grocery store. You're paying

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Speaker 1: fifty or sixty dollars for to send it to them

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Speaker 1: in prison. Damn. The prison system is real wicked like prison.

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00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: Know the person is in prison too, And now you

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Speaker 1: also punishing a family. You're trying to get as much

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Speaker 1: money extorting their family to take care of them, because

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00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 1: what can that person do from jail. They can make

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Speaker 1: the couple of dollars a month or whatever working in

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00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:43,720
Speaker 1: pay for nothing slaves exactly. They'd be in their pretty

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00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 1: mother license plates and doing all kinds of different ships,

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Speaker 1: working cleaning the streets, working for the city. A lot

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Speaker 1: of things are made for damn near free man. That's

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Speaker 1: why we got to make some changes in the black community. Man.

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Speaker 1: That ships it's um, it's just like a helpless feeling.

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Speaker 1: It's just a real helpless feeling. Man. You'd be trying

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Speaker 1: to tell ladies, don't be moving, no dope for these niggas,

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Speaker 1: especially if you're not getting paid, and be smart, because

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Speaker 1: that is not getting paid. No, be smart. Hey, look

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Speaker 1: I need a percentage. I'm the one taking all the

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Speaker 1: fucking ridge exactly. He called the police on her, fucked her,

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Speaker 1: then called the police on her so she could go

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Speaker 1: to prison for his drugs because because he knew he

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Speaker 1: couldn't sell them drugs. No more could he have because

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Speaker 1: it's a death on that fitting all lace drugs, right,

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Speaker 1: there's the body on it, yep. So that if she

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Speaker 1: gotta be doing federal time, because then that that escalates

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Speaker 1: your charges if if if a murder happens, um and

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Speaker 1: the commission of a crime like whatever the crime is

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Speaker 1: that ship man, a little scale that they got for

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Speaker 1: federal time. Man, that ship is crazy. That ship is

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Speaker 1: helled crazy. Man. That's sad. We'll stay strong to us.

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Speaker 1: We love you over here. We talked back, keep tuning in,

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Speaker 1: and we have no advice. We don't have advice for

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00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 1: you because you're already in there. We have advice for

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Speaker 1: women that's just not or women who out here doing

676
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 1: that type of ship because they need money. Be real

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00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 1: smart man. If you're gonna do that ship, smart and

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Speaker 1: make them pay out worth your don't do that ship

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Speaker 1: because if you're in prison, be having hell of bitches.

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Speaker 1: Men in prison be having a lot of women. I

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Speaker 1: know I went to prison. Women don't be having nobody.

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Speaker 1: I went to jail to see this nigga that I

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Speaker 1: thought was my nigga one time, and you had to

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Speaker 1: sign in, and I've seen that other bitch name on

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Speaker 1: the signing book from earlier. I like, ain't that about

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Speaker 1: a bit? I would? I would punish his ass. You

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Speaker 1: can never get me back on the phone. How are

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Speaker 1: you gonna have this bitch come to here? He used

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Speaker 1: to send me checks from the jail. They used to

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Speaker 1: look like inco text chicks. Thank you baby yo uh.

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Speaker 1: And look that's how the funk we got for y'all.

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Speaker 1: Of That story was stressful. That story stressed me out,

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Speaker 1: and why I feel hot The funk is after cot

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00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: because that ship, that story, man, that's that's a sad story.

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Speaker 1: That could be a movie. Girl, I'm not gonna say

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Speaker 1: that could have been me. But boy, you are really gone.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't some ship a few years ago, tam, you know,

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Speaker 1: but not that type of ship that right there. Listen,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I would have been trying to get

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Speaker 1: money together to get the fuck once I had made

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Speaker 1: that three all fune No, I was definitely out the country.

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Speaker 1: I would have tried to get up out of here.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry you got nick, but from your mom America,

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Speaker 1: not South America. But we're gonna check your mama house.

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Speaker 1: How oh yeah, well they've better still pay that ball.

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Speaker 1: But like, I'll send your money from Cuba. But when

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Speaker 1: I tell you I was gonna catch a Greyhound bus

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Speaker 1: to Miami beachum, I had to swim that ninety miles

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Speaker 1: from Miami to Cuba. I was out of there. I

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Speaker 1: can see that lazy we're floating in the water down that.

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Speaker 1: But y'all turned to Mermaid and you talk about twenty

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Speaker 1: five years what excuse me? I can't do it? All right, y'all, listen,

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