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Speaker 2: Just go now.

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Speaker 1: Don't talk to me during football because I'm a very

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Speaker 1: very boring, bossy bitch. But right now I like this.

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Speaker 1: Do it off. See what happens off season? Airy, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Aaron's on fucking fire right now. Calm Down with Erin

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Speaker 2: and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. This is juicy

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Speaker 2: Juicy Couture Juicy? How many Juicy coutur outfits did you have?

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Speaker 2: Welcome everybody to the Calm Down pre game post super

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Speaker 2: Bowl so we are.

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Speaker 1: I had a green one. It was very grouch and

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Speaker 1: I wore that shit everywhere. Yeah, I'm weird. I think

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Speaker 1: that was the only one I could get my hands on. WHOA.

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Speaker 2: I always wanted a pink one, and then I finally

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Speaker 2: found one at Lomans. Do you remember Lomans? It was

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Speaker 2: like the disc Lomans was the discount store, but for

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Speaker 1: It'd be like you're century twenty one in New York.

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Speaker 2: I remember you thought I would have found Willy Wonka

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Speaker 2: juicy gutur set at Loman's. I was like one hundred dollars. Oh,

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Speaker 2: it's so expensive, but I have to have.

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Speaker 1: It, so welcome.

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Speaker 2: Pregame question owns Okay, anonymous ex stalling to sign divorce papers.

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Speaker 2: Stop me. If you've heard this before and now he's

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Speaker 2: girlfriend is pregnant. WHOA what would you do? Omg okay,

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Speaker 2: well my lawyer. My lawyer is gonna call me after

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Speaker 2: this episode airs if I say too much? If you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean, So why don't you take this

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Speaker 2: one and I'll fill it the links I thought.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a felony. No, I would call the cops.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to deal with this. This is

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Speaker 1: no bueno. I would call Dom from the Philadelphia Eagles.

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Speaker 1: That's what I would do. He's a fixer.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing. Will there be a Pope sit down? We

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Speaker 2: got we got a new sheriff in town.

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Speaker 1: We got Dom.

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Speaker 2: Look, sister, I paid a pretty penny for a divorce lawyer,

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Speaker 2: and I would pay it twice. And what do they

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Speaker 2: say three times on Sunday? Whatever the expression is, let

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Speaker 2: somebody else handle this because this is so not something

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Speaker 2: you want to get involved with. Just get that signature

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Speaker 2: and run run, run woof and keep us posted, please

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Speaker 2: and please.

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Speaker 1: Right back, yes and be careful. Okay, hyvo. How long

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Speaker 1: does re entry take? We talk a lot about this

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Speaker 1: in our big show that's already going to be out.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and I worry for my husband for

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Speaker 1: this because I typically say, when I do a vacation

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Speaker 2: God? The next anonymous question is going to say wife

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Speaker 2: Knock it off. They're busy. I need to also lower

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Speaker 2: can't start to Steve. The reason we're laughing is because

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Speaker 2: So am I anonymous. I have a hard time making

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Speaker 2: By the way, did I send you we Crispy Sweating?

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Speaker 2: You just go fucking deal with this. Okay, deal with

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Speaker 2: She's making pop tarts during all of that, and we

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna help. I'm gonna help our new friend out here. Anonymous. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I don't have children, this just in but I think

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Speaker 1: It's so true. I'm like such a loner. I'ms a loner.

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Speaker 2: No, that's fine, everything's fine. Mary Linda eleven o two,

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Speaker 2: Oh I know, I know Miller Lindall did I? I said,

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Speaker 2: it was probably from a couple of weeks ago. Steve

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Speaker 2: re Entry, get in here, Steve. I didn't know that

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Speaker 2: Oh you're already upstairs. You're just making noise and Steve

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Speaker 2: The flight attendant story. Oh, so from a couple of

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Speaker 2: What's happening?

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Speaker 1: What happened? Okay, so the flight attendant.

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Speaker 2: No one loves flight attendants more than Aaron and I.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how many yesterday, Oh my god, especially Tammy.

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Speaker 2: They are not waitresses in the sky. I get it. Okay. However, however,

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Speaker 2: She wanders back. She's now collecting the cups from the

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Speaker 2: and she was like, big sigh, What do you want?

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Speaker 2: I said, well, I'd like a glass of red wine.

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Speaker 2: And then I say to my seat mate, maybe he

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Speaker 2: would like something. What would you like, sir, I'll just

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Speaker 2: She comes back, stands there, gives me the cup, and

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Speaker 2: first of all, now I'm going to drink this thing

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Speaker 2: in fucking thirty seconds. I went like this, She her

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Speaker 1: Good time.

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Speaker 2: By the way, don't tempt me. Yeah, you don't have

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Speaker 2: to challenge me to chug anything. And now, out of spite,

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Speaker 2: you don't even have to move, sweetheart, let me just

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Speaker 2: chug this for you. I went, goo goo goo? Is

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Speaker 2: that Taylor?

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Speaker 1: I swift on the.

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Speaker 2: Four sea handed it back to her and I said, there,

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Speaker 2: that should save you some time.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: It's rude. It's rude behavior. And I will applaud, applaud

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Speaker 2: all the efforts of any service person. As a former

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Speaker 2: You forgot roe four So now chug it up and

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Speaker 2: move it on, sister. I mean, and it was not

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Speaker 1: I love concierge, Key, I love American. That's where I am.

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Speaker 1: I get you. I'm just pledging my allegiance. I know no,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, you got four minutes. I'll make this

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Speaker 2: That should save you. Sometimes. I'm sorry it was rude.

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Speaker 2: Oh shit, I forgot that. We're just that we're doing

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Speaker 2: free games. Pre game's over, okay, Anonymous?

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Speaker 1: Am I crazy to get on a nine hour flight

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Speaker 1: about three times? Well, just make sure on that nine

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Speaker 2: Oh well, if it's on the airline we were not

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Speaker 1: I don't know I'm in a mood right now, fucking

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Speaker 2: Just go now.

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Speaker 1: Don't talk to me during football because I'm a very

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Speaker 1: very boring, bossy bitch. But right now I like this.

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Speaker 1: Do it off. See what happens off? Airy? Yeah, trashy,

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Speaker 2: Aaron's on fucking fire right now. I seriously sure. I

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Speaker 2: love when you say that. It's such a dismissive thing

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Speaker 2: what would you like to eat? Sure? Just say sure

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Speaker 2: But this is my problem. This is where I end up.

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Speaker 2: You know you have to pay alimony. I'm just out

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Speaker 2: here going sure. Sure, Sure, I would say this if

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Speaker 2: you are. I'm with Aaron. You only live once. Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because I'm at the point in my life where I'm

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Speaker 2: He can pay for the flight, because I don't need

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Speaker 1: No, that's a good point. I'm proud of you for

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Speaker 2: I am right. I'm done with that. So make him

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Speaker 1: Seventy five chicken fingers on Sunday and it wasn't enough.

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Speaker 1: And this is a long anonymous I recently got married,

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Speaker 2: with you, we've talked about this. I have been in

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Speaker 2: I've been in a lot of different places. Okay, where's Waldo.

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Speaker 2: really like this guy. She's protecting the guy. She's going

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Speaker 2: Because I've said this before and I'll say it again.

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Speaker 2: I would have stayed in a very bad relationship so

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Speaker 2: much longer if Aaron didn't give me an ultimatum was

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Speaker 2: she's like, I can't be friends with you if you're

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Speaker 2: And if she goes that way with him, sorry, then

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Speaker 2: it's what it is. But you don't need to be

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Speaker 2: This is what Aaron and I we have a model

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Speaker 2: You shouldn't have to work so hard at friendships. So

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Speaker 2: keep us posted on this, But remember that she it's

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Speaker 1: She's gonna come around. She's just in a really bad

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Speaker 2: And keep us posting. Guys, we've got a downtime. You know,

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