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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us on air

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Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest, partly Sonny and Warmer Eyes in the

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Speaker 1: mid seventies, eighty Inland into the eighties and nineties tomorrow

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Speaker 1: than nineties. Upon Thanksgiving, I'm used to it now. So

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving Snee, I mean, you're back and have so many

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Speaker 1: questions for you. It's gonna be chaotic. Why do you

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Speaker 1: say that your family keeps getting bigger and bigger and bigger. Oh,

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Speaker 1: what's the thing. It's just a baby, it's really you know.

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Speaker 1: But how many generally do you have for Thanksgiving? Um? Thirty?

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Speaker 1: Like if we if we host we're not hosting this year. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so that takes Yes, that definitely helps. So we're but

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Speaker 1: we were Yes, it's thirty to thirty five people. I mean,

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Speaker 1: if you remember, I come from a family of no people,

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Speaker 1: you know, so that's crazy to me to think about.

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Speaker 1: I didn't think if I found all my friends and

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Speaker 1: invited them, I could get up to thirty. No, you could, Yes,

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Speaker 1: you could, Okay, Well, I mean are we included well,

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Speaker 1: obviously you have plans. Are we included in your in

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Speaker 1: your friend count? Because then you could of course it

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Speaker 1: would be nice it would be fun to do it.

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Speaker 1: Although thirty plus us and at tubbs that's our that's

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Speaker 1: too many. That's too many if you were hosting. I mean,

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Speaker 1: our team alone is like twenty something with Tony. What

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Speaker 1: are you doing? So you are in this new amazing

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Speaker 1: relationship and the relationship expert on the show. Now, what

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Speaker 1: are you and Robbie doing for Thanksgiving? Um? So I

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Speaker 1: usually do small things giving too, with like my nucleus

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Speaker 1: and my parents. Um, but now immediate isn't called like nucleus. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but now they're so my sister is going to her

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Speaker 1: So it's just gonna be my parents. I think my

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Speaker 1: parents are going to come and join Robbie's family. May

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Speaker 1: have they done that before? No? Oh, okay, is most

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Speaker 1: worried about Well, No, I'm not worried about it. We

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Speaker 1: haven't like officially told I haven't officially told my parents yet.

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Speaker 1: They think it's just going to be the three of us.

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Speaker 1: But I was like, why wouldn't we just all be together?

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Speaker 1: Paging Robin's brothers, paging Robin's brothers. We have a big moment,

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Speaker 1: the families getting together. Wow. Yeah, that's when it happened

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Speaker 1: for us. The more of the merrier. Now, I definitely

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Speaker 1: want to beat your Thanksgivings. I want to say that,

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Speaker 1: Uh and Patty, what are you guys doing for Thanksgiving? Well,

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Speaker 1: I think we're just going to Michael's cousin's house in

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Speaker 1: uh in Chino. We do that every year. She has

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Speaker 1: a beautiful home up in the I always say it's

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Speaker 1: a forest house because it's just trees the entire house.

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Speaker 1: It's a log cabin. It looks it looks like a log.

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Speaker 1: It's not a cabin, but it's this modern, beautiful home

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Speaker 1: like up in the Hill and Chino, like it is

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Speaker 1: just surrounded by huge trees. And they called it the

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Speaker 1: forest House. So I'm gonna be friends Giving and then

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Speaker 1: Christmas we do with the whole family. Now that we've

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Speaker 1: got a little niece and my sister so cute, She's like, please,

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Speaker 1: if we're going to Nashville, She's like, please bring Georgia,

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Speaker 1: Like Flora just wants to see your dog. And I

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Speaker 1: keep saying, well, more time my Lonnie spends with Georgia.

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Speaker 1: The sooner you gonna have to get a dog. So

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Speaker 1: Mica here, okay, Mica, good morning, how you doing good

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Speaker 1: at yourself? Good morning? All right, So you were calling

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Speaker 1: it about something we were talking with Tanya about. Yes,

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Speaker 1: she was actually talking about her fertility, going through fertility,

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Speaker 1: and I just wanted to, you know, share my experience

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Speaker 1: because I currently am going through you know, fertility treatment

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Speaker 1: and tell us what's happening. Well, um, I just did

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Speaker 1: it's something that it's heartbreaking when you're like, you're not

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Speaker 1: able to conceive naturally. So you know, I just wanted

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Speaker 1: to wish her all the you know, the well wishes

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Speaker 1: understand how she feels, and we're all into the we're

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Speaker 1: all in this together. We're all women. And just Sysney

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Speaker 1: was not here during this conversation, but just to bring

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Speaker 1: everybody up to speeding case they missed it. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm not like planning for a baby right now or anything,

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Speaker 1: but I think you know, once you turn thirty, everybody

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Speaker 1: says you should freeze your eggs, and so it's kind

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Speaker 1: of sick of everybody telling me to freeze my eggs

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Speaker 1: see what's going on. Uh. There, I agreed. I agreed.

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Speaker 1: past that age of you know, thirty five, everything changes,

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Speaker 1: and I totally agree. I'm not thirty five. I'm thirty four,

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Speaker 1: but you know I'm having pretty issues to this day.

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Speaker 1: So well, listen. It is something that Tanya was telling

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Speaker 1: syste but now she's got three beautiful kids, and I think, well, Mike,

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Speaker 1: what is next for you? Um, hopefully with this first

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Speaker 1: and then it's not. The doctors refirmed me over to IBS,

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Speaker 1: which is expensive. Well sending you all the positive vibes

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Speaker 1: you got this. Try not to stress about it, go

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Speaker 1: appreciate it. Well you do take care of Mike. Thank

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Speaker 1: you very much for being comfortable enough to call us

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Speaker 1: and talk about yeah, you're welcome and thank you guys,

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Speaker 1: got it, you take good care, Bye bye, youtu bye bye. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's I mean, it's it's it's taking one day to time.

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Speaker 1: I guess it's the best advice, but it's got to

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Speaker 1: be frustrating. Yeah, I know people that struggle through it,

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Speaker 1: and I count my blessings every day that you know.

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Speaker 1: But just to give a little bit of light to

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Speaker 1: the situation, I'm thirty seven years old and I had

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Speaker 1: gone or you know. So it's like, so, don't let

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Speaker 1: Let me get your morning hacks. Sleeping on planes can

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Speaker 1: be a real challenge. We saw this week that flights

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Speaker 1: deal with that trade table, which I haven't known to

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Speaker 1: you ever done that move on the trade table? So

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Speaker 1: TikToker at Hello Kristen found a solution. She tried neck pillows,

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Speaker 1: hated all of them, so she bought a neck brace. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like an injury neck brace. It was seven dollars at

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Speaker 1: I could see that working though, right, just like it

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Speaker 1: that totally. So you go today's quote post it at

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Speaker 1: kissing Them dot com, Keyward, Ryan, don't just move on

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Speaker 1: version of you that gave people power over you. On

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Speaker 1: air with Ryan Secrets. Let's get to the headlines. So

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Speaker 1: Paul Rudd has been crowned as sexiest man Alive by

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Speaker 1: People magazine. We of course know him from his starring

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Speaker 1: receiving the honor, not us. He has a great choice. Congratulations,

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Speaker 1: Paul Rudd. Congress has created a new requirement for automakers

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Speaker 1: escalating road fatalities. Under the legislation, which Joe Biden is

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Speaker 1: Portions of the Sequoya National Park will reopen tomorrow after

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Speaker 1: and comes on Veterans Day, the last fee free day

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Speaker 1: of the year for National park sites around the nation.

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Speaker 1: At Ashley is here to morning. Actually, how you doing good?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing well? Thank you? So you're calling

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Speaker 1: about being friends with your baby daddy's ex girlfriends. Yes,

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Speaker 1: all right, give us some detail. Okay, So they have

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Speaker 1: they're splitting up. And even though the split up is mutual,

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Speaker 1: my ex is pretty upset about it, Like he still

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Speaker 1: you want so you don't want to rock that boat? Right?

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Speaker 1: he doesn't care if she staves in his life or not,

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Speaker 1: Like we've talked about that. UM. But he also has

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Speaker 1: And here's my thinking on it. You just said that

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Speaker 1: That's more important to me, if I'm you, than being

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Speaker 1: know if, like if he will want to continue that

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Speaker 1: and you want to continue that for everybody's benefit. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: post on Instagram. More it's it's more valuable for you

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Speaker 1: and your son to have a good relationship with his father, totally, right,

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Speaker 1: And they like he has a good relationship with his

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Speaker 1: father and he has a good relationship with me. He

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Speaker 1: now and that we are on a better level now.

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Speaker 1: Then tap into that, tap into that. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much, Actually, good luck than all right

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Speaker 1: by again, I want to disclaim our advice because we

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Speaker 1: do so much more things. I could be spending time

424
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: with my kids, like it's just you name it. I

425
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 1: felt guilty about it, so I cut it in half.

426
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:17,679
Speaker 1: I set a time for forty five minutes a day,

427
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 1: and do would you like do people spend more? In

428
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 1: general and average? What do you guys spend? I don't know,

429
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: I mean look every time, well, no, I scroll it

430
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 1: and there's exciting and exciting exciting. Oh, then I get

431
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,359
Speaker 1: so that if someone else is doing so much, it's

432
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 1: exciting when you get a life from Ryan Seacrest Because

433
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 1: it's like, oh my god, he's never on Instagram. And

434
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:43,120
Speaker 1: then I don't really count. I don't count the likes.

435
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 1: You don't even read the comments that much because the

436
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:46,879
Speaker 1: comments generally when I post something, my thing is going

437
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:49,640
Speaker 1: to be a trappy trap. It's like, why are you posting?

438
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 1: You know it's true what they say. It's like a rush.

439
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 1: People are addicted to it because you do get this

440
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 1: weird rush of seeing what people said or if they

441
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 1: liked your picture, and so that's why you go back

442
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 1: to it. Yeah, I mean, I think, Tony, don't you

443
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 1: just look for the fire signs? Isn't that what we

444
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: really look for, is the fire emojis. I just if

445
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,400
Speaker 1: I see those, I'm like, oh, well, there's my mom again.

446
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: So so here's how breakdowns. Interesting study just came out.

447
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: The average person spends about six and a half hours

448
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 1: on a device. It's namely a hundred days over the

449
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 1: course of a year. Yeah, a hundred days or of

450
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: course of a year, um. And now a lot of

451
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: it's being done simultaneously with other things while you're streaming.

452
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 1: I mean, are you don't even how you watch the

453
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: show and you look down and you're like, oh my God,

454
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 1: I just missed a crucial part of the show. You

455
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 1: have to rewind like fifteen minutes. So we did do

456
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 1: a quick check on all your phones. Don't ask me

457
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:44,360
Speaker 1: how we did it, but I guess the company can.

458
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 1: So last year, just to go back, total screen time

459
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,360
Speaker 1: sis me three hours, fourteen minutes, So you were up.

460
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 1: I mean that's a lot. Still, Yeah, I'm tony. Days,

461
00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,680
Speaker 1: Patty actually were the most. You're on your the most,

462
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 1: which is surprising to me. I would think you'd be

463
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: on maybe not the most. I think I would think

464
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 1: tiny the most. But what I know? And I was

465
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 1: on for just over an hour, just under two. So

466
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: where are we at now? Have we changed? I don't

467
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 1: know how to find how do we find it? Either?

468
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 1: And I have no qualms about it? You know what?

469
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 1: I find really great stuff on my phone. I love

470
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: looking at my phone. Yeah, we don't make us. Don't

471
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 1: shame us for not wanting to check our phone all

472
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 1: the time. Wow, you see what has happened, Patty? She

473
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: has become the expert and devices and love. Yeah. I

474
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 1: learned how to make sushi from TikTok last night, Like

475
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 1: who doesn't want to learn that? I learned how to

476
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 1: make my almond. Learn to make sushi? Did you learn

477
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 1: how to make sushi? Because it's all about the rice?

478
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 1: Did you learn how to make the rice correctly? Well,

479
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 1: it's a it's like a sushi bowl that you just

480
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 1: put the rice and you put the salmon you like,

481
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: squish it up with the sauce, and you can make

482
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 1: it at home. That's not sushi. That's not sushi, right, Okay, Well,

483
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 1: don't come in here like you are loving being on

484
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:03,440
Speaker 1: whatever you're on. I sushi like the chefs in Gyro. Yeah,

485
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 1: Giro loves sushi. I learned so much on my phone.

486
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 1: All right, How do you find out what our current

487
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: phone averages? Just search screen time and then it takes

488
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:20,119
Speaker 1: you right there where like your settings? Him, Hey, I

489
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 1: don't help screen time? All right, I'm down. I'm up

490
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 1: four hours and forty seven minutes for me, and what

491
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: I'm five hours and forty nine minutes. How did you

492
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 1: get yours? Yeah, two hours and thirty three minutes. Oht down,

493
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm at one hour thirty minutes. So what's up? We

494
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 1: have been talking about? You know, limited screen time is

495
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 1: a good thing because it can't take you out of moment.

496
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 1: But I will say that when I'm on TikTok, I

497
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 1: laugh more than I feel fomo. Yes, yeah, like other

498
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 1: places make me fomo and I look at things that

499
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 1: you know, make me feel bad about me, But on

500
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 1: this one, I laugh and go Wow, people that I

501
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: don't know are so much funnier than everybody I do know. Yeah,

502
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 1: you're just entertained, you know. I mean you make such

503
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 1: a good point because on TikTok, nobody's showing off their

504
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 1: vacations or not travel like the goofiness. Yeah, and that's

505
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: I like that better for me. Yeah, and my own

506
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 1: self esteem anyway. Um, But something really remarkable, and this

507
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 1: has been in the news, but City you've got some

508
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: details on this story. Uh, that helped save a life

509
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: and I think could be saving others exactly. I mean.

510
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: It was a missing sixteen year old girl from North

511
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 1: Carolina and she is home safe now after investigators said

512
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 1: a trick that she learned on TikTok may have helped

513
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: lead to her dramatic rescues. So it's basically a hand

514
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: gesture and she did this while she was in a vehicle.

515
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 1: The person that called nine one one recognized the hand

516
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: gesture and knew that it was a call for domestic violence.

517
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: And so did you know you known that hand signal before?

518
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 1: Because I did not, but I was. I was so

519
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 1: happy to see it, to learn it, to know that

520
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: that existed. Was is it this? Yeah? You thought you

521
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: basically put your palm out, your thumb in and then

522
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,719
Speaker 1: put your four fingers down a fist. Yeah. And how

523
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 1: universal was that before? Or did TikTokers know about that?

524
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 1: To be honest, I had not, But I don't spend

525
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: much time on TikTok, so who knows. But I just

526
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: think it's incredible that there's videos like this now that

527
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: can teach young children, kids and teens and anybody else

528
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 1: really for that matter, something that can save your life.

529
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 1: That's incredible. But you know, the key to it is

530
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: the subtlety to it, and did everybody doesn't know it?

531
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: In a way? That's the thing I was thinking about,

532
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: is that, like, the more it's universal to the wrong people,

533
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: the trick here it becomes, because it's if it's known

534
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: to the right people who may need to you use it,

535
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 1: but not to the people who are the bad people,

536
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 1: then that's good. But at some point if everybody knows it,

537
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: then that something else has got to be created. True, true,

538
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 1: I mean, but it is so subtle that it could

539
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: be done if you are abducted or something and they

540
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: don't realize that you're doing it. But in this case,

541
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: they were able to stop the vehicle arresting for a

542
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 1: traffic stop or something like that, and they were ready

543
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 1: at the ramp to get them the person. So you know,

544
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: you look at what a great thing that is and

545
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: and continue to be four people five quoh one seven

546
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: at Kiss FM. Let's see we get Chase. Hello, Chase,

547
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Chase? Hey Ryan, I'm good. How

548
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 1: are you super good? Chase? Thank you for listening to us.

549
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: So give it to me, Chase in Glenda, I'll go ahead. Okay.

550
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: So I need some help. So I'm moving in with

551
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: my boyfriend and and because of that, we're trying to

552
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 1: save some money. So we just saw that instead of

553
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: doing normal Christmas presents, we were going to spend our

554
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 1: money on something we could do together, right, and so

555
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: my idea of that would be going on like a

556
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 1: trip with him and spending some time. And his idea

557
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: was to buy an Antendo switch, which doesn't sound as

558
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,080
Speaker 1: exciting to me. Um and I guess that's kind of

559
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 1: what we had decided on, and so he had ordered it,

560
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: But now that it's coming down to it, I really

561
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: think I would much rather spend my time hanging out

562
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 1: with him somewhere. And so I don't know, can I

563
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: take it back? Do you think? I think if this

564
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: is to return it? So, I mean, do you think

565
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 1: a vacation is such a better who are you talking to? Yes?

566
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: I mean Nintendo Switch is great, but experiential moments with

567
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 1: your significant other so much more valuable. And if you

568
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: want to go somewhere probably I've been able to go

569
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 1: for a long time. That's just gonna be so much

570
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 1: better for your relationship. I think I'm exactly advocate for

571
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 1: experience investing. Mm hmm, I think so too. But think

572
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: about all the time that you could have with the switch.

573
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 1: You guys can make dinner together and play the Switch

574
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: together like that's for like two years. So I feel

575
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 1: like you've got to get out. I don't know how

576
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 1: to convince him how to do it exactly. If you

577
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: can and you feel comfortable and it is safe, this

578
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: is time to get out this time. Yeah, yeah, I

579
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: think And Chase, you're only doing it for the benefit

580
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: of the relationship. It's not like you're doing it because

581
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 1: you want to go off and do something else exactly.

582
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 1: If anything, I'm too competitive and I will get upset

583
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 1: with him because I'll beat me at Mario part right.

584
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: We'll also competition is healthy? You a point in a relationship,

585
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 1: Be careful to a point, to a point, all right, Chase, Well,

586
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: thank you for calling? Good like Merry Christmas? Alright? By

587
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 1: what's so nice to say Merry Christmas? Oh? Are you kidding?

588
00:32:55,080 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 1: We've been playing like nothing Christmas? Just a couple of

589
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: like this. I played maybe once where you were going? Now?

590
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 1: You played this name well back for so long? At all?

591
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: I mean, it's all happening so fast? No, we also,

592
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: I think where your way? We talked about is it

593
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 1: too early to start playing Mariah and others? And the

594
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 1: answer was no, we want Christmas to start as fast

595
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 1: as it can this year. Yes, So let's grab Hi.

596
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: What's your name? Yeah Eddie? Well, yeah, Eddie, it's Ryan.

597
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 1: How are you nice to meet you? Hi? Good? How

598
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 1: are you super good? What's going down? How can we

599
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: help you? So? I was just calling because I was

600
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 1: listening to you and Tanya kind of go back and

601
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: forest about the time change and you saying it wasn't

602
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 1: like a big deal, and Thanya is like, it actually

603
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 1: is because you're kind of waking up like an hour

604
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 1: later or is it earlier. I was a little confused

605
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: on it, but I was wondering how RICHA is going

606
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: about it. I have to say thank you for asking.

607
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 1: Why tell me is your dog suffering? He's not suffering,

608
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 1: I am, because he's waking me up earlier then I

609
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 1: should be, because he's still on the same old time,

610
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:18,319
Speaker 1: because your dog doesn't know how to read the clock,

611
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 1: so the dog body is on the daylight body time. Um.

612
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 1: It is fascinating that we go through this every year

613
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: twice and we still can never calculate what the differences

614
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 1: in one hour, like one hour, so it's actually is

615
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,879
Speaker 1: it later or earlier? We back, you gain an hour

616
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 1: so it's later, yes, yes, but it's earlier but it

617
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: feels later. Yeah. No, it's actually later. You're waking up

618
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: later even though the time is earlier. Yeah. Yeah, so

619
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,839
Speaker 1: let's call it. Let's let's call it nine o'clock. Right,

620
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: So this used to be ten o'clock later. But for

621
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 1: people that we know that because we're adults. But like

622
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:02,919
Speaker 1: for my children, they don't realize that there's daylight saving,

623
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 1: so they are still getting up. They get they were

624
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,880
Speaker 1: in our bed at three four am this morning, but

625
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:09,879
Speaker 1: we don't know that and we're adults. That's my point.

626
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 1: That's the reason we're having this debate. It's confusing. UM,

627
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: I will tell you Georgia never does this, and I

628
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 1: don't know, maybe it was the time change, but she

629
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,319
Speaker 1: she made a mess on the carpet and she never

630
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 1: ever does that. She's so proper. She made a mess

631
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 1: in the carpet and I can't figure out was that

632
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: like a time change issue? Is she is she trying

633
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 1: to protest something. She didn't go out on time when

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Speaker 1: she was supposed to because she was used to her

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Speaker 1: under schedule right right right, So there, so the pets

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Speaker 1: are yeah, the pets are not left out on this. Um.

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Speaker 1: What kind of dog do you have? I have a

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Speaker 1: chocolate lab. We on the same dog. Really, his name

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Speaker 1: is Remington, like in Remington as in Remingtons steel yep

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Speaker 1: is in Pierce Brosdon mm hmm okay you your family? Um,

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Speaker 1: all right, well, thank you ADDI for calling in, and

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Speaker 1: you take care of your chuckle lab Okay, wait, I

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Speaker 1: have one more thing. Um So, a long time ago,

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Speaker 1: when Ellen was still on the show, I had a

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Speaker 1: call to tell you something good and it was about

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Speaker 1: me and my boyfriend, and you and Ellen were like, oh,

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Speaker 1: high school, see hearts never last blah blah blah. But

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Speaker 1: I just want you know that we're still together and

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Speaker 1: still surviving and doing good. I mean, you're the exception

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Speaker 1: to the rule. Fine, wow, why don't you call? How

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Speaker 1: many years? How many years ago? Was that? How many

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Speaker 1: years ago? Honestly I was still in college, so maybe

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Speaker 1: like five years ago. Alright, Well, every five years, give

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Speaker 1: us an update, check back in. I will, I will.

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Speaker 1: Maybe next girl, I'll be engaged. Well I hope so,

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Speaker 1: but be careful because a lot of marriages and in divorce,

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Speaker 1: so just take your time. Here you go again. I'm

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Speaker 1: very happy, so I'm gonna rush to get wet tease.

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Speaker 1: But congratulations, yay, thank you for calling you. Take care

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Speaker 1: bye bye. I can't imagine that advice is consistent. It's

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Speaker 1: so consistent. You literally what you say every time. He's

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Speaker 1: not wrong. There are exceptions. It's very dangerous. It's a

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Speaker 1: high risk equation. I think that's what we're trying to

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Speaker 1: say on air on air with Ryan's Secrets, Ryan Seacrest

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Speaker 1: with you, let's do try to report next? Okay, to

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Speaker 1: post or not to post? That is the question? To

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Speaker 1: post one a little detail? To post? What on Instagram?

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Speaker 1: Like ever? Okay' out of time? Now here's on air

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Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest. What when we last left you? Before

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Speaker 1: the lyrics came in there? The tease for the trending report,

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Speaker 1: which is now was to post or not to post?

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Speaker 1: I think ciss and now we're trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: like post whatever where pictures of your dog like provocative

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Speaker 1: pictures don't get it, So maybe that would be a

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Speaker 1: little more layer. I never know when you're gonna hit

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Speaker 1: the buttons. I try to make my button the songs

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Speaker 1: that the singer start at the same time every time.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how long I have, and so I

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Speaker 1: try to make my teasers as short as you can't

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Speaker 1: Rod Ricos song, you can't feel it when she's about

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Speaker 1: to start singing, you don't feel it. We don't feel it.

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Speaker 1: We play these songs. Jim arm clock in my head,

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Speaker 1: but it's called a. It's a. I don't know it's

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Speaker 1: you don't got it. That to the list of things

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Speaker 1: that don't got here. Let's try one ready, all right,

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Speaker 1: fun teasing and try and stop before they'll starts singing.

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Speaker 1: To post or not to post? That is the question

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Speaker 1: to post? What to post on Instagram? I'll tell you why?

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Speaker 1: Sis you try one here? Sisne try on? Alright, so

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Speaker 1: here's here's someone for sissany John clean up? All the

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Speaker 1: message to the same tis just to keep consistency. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but let me find a different song so it's not

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Speaker 1: so obvious. Okay, go ahead, So what's coming on the

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Speaker 1: training report? All right? To post or not to post?

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Speaker 1: That is the question when it comes to Instagram. Now

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Speaker 1: you got some time to film, I will. I'll fill

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Speaker 1: you in coming up and kiss see there you go.

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Speaker 1: She still has it's you know, I'm not trained in radio.

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Speaker 1: We didn't go to trade radio school. I mean to

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Speaker 1: you go to You didn't go to engineering school. So

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Speaker 1: we're all the same shame saying, right, what so your

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Speaker 1: question is post or not post your pictures of your baby? No? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so let me explain. I feel like, have you ever

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Speaker 1: wanted to post something on Instagram but not posted it

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Speaker 1: because you're scared? Of what people are going to say

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Speaker 1: or think. Okay, so I bring okay, bring this up

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Speaker 1: because Hillary Duff is not like that. So she actually

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Speaker 1: posted something that she knew was going to be controversial

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Speaker 1: on her Instagram and she basically kind of said. She

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Speaker 1: posted a picture of her seven month old daughter, um

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Speaker 1: she had pierced her ears, and she posted a pick

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Speaker 1: of her daughter with the earrings and said, yes, I

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Speaker 1: pierced her ears today. Can't wait for the Internet to

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Speaker 1: call me a child abuser again, let's go. And so

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Speaker 1: I love a I love that Hillary Duff knows people

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Speaker 1: are going to give her nasty messages about it, but

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Speaker 1: she doesn't care. She just does what she does. So

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Speaker 1: it's another reason why I love Queen Hillary Duff. And

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Speaker 1: then b I also don't understand why people have such

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Speaker 1: a problem with piercing a baby's ears, Like I wish

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Speaker 1: my parents pierced mayors when I was a kid, because

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Speaker 1: when I did it as an adult, it hurt and

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Speaker 1: then you'd like cleaning, like you can't sleep well. So

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Speaker 1: what is the Let me ask a parent, what is

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Speaker 1: the issue with piercings at a young age because they

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Speaker 1: don't have their say And yeah, it's just it's just

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Speaker 1: up to the parents, and I think every family can

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Speaker 1: choose a different path. But it's basically some people might

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Speaker 1: argue that you should wait until the child decides that

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Speaker 1: they want to pierce their ears, and so I don't know.

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Speaker 1: For me. In my family, all of us had our

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Speaker 1: ears pierced at three months old, and I'm just waiting

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Speaker 1: for the weeks to go by it to pierce Tovey's

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Speaker 1: ears because I pierced days is at three months. Sorry

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Speaker 1: to give you a solution, but what about buying those

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Speaker 1: cuffs that don't pier so you put on the choking

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Speaker 1: hazards they grab it, grab it alright, bad idea? What

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Speaker 1: about a magna I chose to do I chose to

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Speaker 1: do that at this age because they're so little. They're

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Speaker 1: actually not they don't grab their ears or anything, and

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Speaker 1: you can clean it. You have to clean it for

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Speaker 1: forty days or six weeks or something, but what's every day? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I would not do it. I would have those

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Speaker 1: other ideas, but those are bad. But I would not

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Speaker 1: do the piercing until my child knew what it was

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Speaker 1: and asked for it. So why do it early? What's

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Speaker 1: the point so that they don't have to feel the

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Speaker 1: pain later in life. It's it's cute, cute, yea but yeah,

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Speaker 1: but see, but you're doing it for you, not for them.

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Speaker 1: With the yeah. So if you're you know, future wife

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Speaker 1: wants to pierce your future baby girl's ears, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: say no. Okay, Now from a baby to a marriage,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like keep on track here,

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Speaker 1: things can happen. Yeah, true right, Okay, your future baby mama, Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she wants to pierce the baby's there's at three months old,

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Speaker 1: and you are opposed. I don't think it's the best idea.

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Speaker 1: I think it's worth a conversation. I'd rather the baby

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Speaker 1: know what time. I'd like the baby to have to

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Speaker 1: say when they're not a baby. How wouldn't even have

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Speaker 1: asked Michael. I would have just taken the baby to

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Speaker 1: get pierced. I don't even think I asked Michael. And

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Speaker 1: I think I told you here's the reason why marriage

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Speaker 1: is not for me. On air with Ryan Seacrest, that's hit.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's not it for kiss it's it for us.

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Speaker 1: This morning, Uh, Sisney will take you for an extra

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Speaker 1: hour of fun into Gabby days into the rest of

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Speaker 1: the day. Disney Land tickets tomorrow, every hour starting another

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Speaker 1: Ryan's Rosy get ready for that, have a great Wednesday,

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Speaker 1: take good care of someway. Thanks for listening so on

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Speaker 1: Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe it and

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Speaker 1: we'll talk to you again tomorrow