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Speaker 1: Second date update, We got an email from a woman

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Speaker 1: who says people in her area aren't really using Bumble

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Speaker 1: or Tinder anymore. Use it not even my favorite app, Clinger,

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Speaker 1: where personal space is just myth.

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Speaker 2: At least everybody on the app are you imagine you

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Speaker 2: hear knock at your door, immediately find your fellow codependent Clinger.

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Speaker 1: But she says she's found a more unique way to

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Speaker 1: meet guys. And we've heard of these types of movements

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Speaker 1: before where people are like trying to move away from

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Speaker 1: the apps in favor of other methods. So let's talk

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Speaker 1: to her and find out what she did. Her name

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Speaker 1: is Mandy. Mandy, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Hey guys, Hey, you sound cute and fun and like

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Speaker 3: you did something fun to meet some guys.

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Speaker 1: She said, Hey, how did you get that from? Hey?

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Speaker 4: You did it?

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Speaker 1: You sound perfect for Clinger Brooks. So tell us about

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Speaker 1: this guy that you met and how you met him.

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Speaker 1: What's your strategy now?

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Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, So I'm loving not being on dating apps.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's really been a game changer for you, Huh.

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Speaker 5: It really has. And there was this TikTok movement going

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Speaker 5: around and I want to say it started in Spain

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Speaker 5: and it's where singles meet up at a grocery store.

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Speaker 5: So like you'll you'll have a store and you'll have

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Speaker 5: a time, and they usually see a huge turnout, like

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Speaker 5: sixty to seventy people take part in it at store.

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Speaker 4: It like, how do you find when the meet up?

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Speaker 1: I feel like, let's see you guys at checkstands, Like I'd.

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Speaker 4: Be the person not invited to the grocery store for some.

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Speaker 1: Reason already there. Yeah, what's going on?

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Speaker 5: So it is a movement on TikTok, so like people

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Speaker 5: will just kind of post the store name and time,

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Speaker 5: and they'll get reposted and reposted, and then people just

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Speaker 5: I seem like.

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Speaker 6: Not exactly this, but like I've seen people go on

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Speaker 6: and they'll be like, I think this bar would be

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Speaker 6: fun for singles.

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Speaker 4: Go this Friday night and it's like a popular barn.

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Speaker 3: And go viral, and we're doing grocery stores, and so

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Speaker 3: you can just say, yeah, exactly makes sense.

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Speaker 2: Like if you're going to do it, you share it.

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Speaker 3: If you watch any video where it says hot singles

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Speaker 3: might be here, I feel like you're into it.

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Speaker 1: I see a lot of those websites and so a

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Speaker 1: bunch of people go to the grocery store hoping to

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Speaker 1: meet someone.

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Speaker 4: Right, we can go to the meat section because.

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Speaker 1: I'm thirsty. Mandy, tell us how it works. What happens

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Speaker 1: once you're in the store.

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Speaker 5: Then here's where it gets a little lake saucy. So

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Speaker 5: you go and you get a pineapple. Okay, it's okay,

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Speaker 5: it's not like that.

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Speaker 4: Why is it that fruit?

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Speaker 5: You know? I wondered the same thing, like you couldn't

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Speaker 5: have chosen a different fruits? But whatever, Okay, upside down

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Speaker 5: which I know, run like rampant with that other Are.

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Speaker 4: You sure you're going to the right.

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Speaker 7: Here?

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Speaker 1: Shut up? I'm loving this idea more and more going true.

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Speaker 5: Then you put it upside down your cart, and then

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Speaker 5: you go over to where the wine is and you

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Speaker 5: grab a bottle of wine, a little bowl.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you got an upside down pineapple and some wine.

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Speaker 5: Yes, And you check out who's around you see if

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Speaker 5: they have the same items in theirs. And if you

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Speaker 5: see somebody who kind of tickles your fancy so speak,

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Speaker 5: give them a light bump with your cart.

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Speaker 4: Over we're bumping carts.

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Speaker 2: I will say this this could be subtle because even

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Speaker 2: if you don't see someone at first, you could just

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Speaker 2: wander around.

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Speaker 4: Looks like do you have to wander in? Every question? Though?

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Speaker 4: If you bump someone, do they bump you back?

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Speaker 8: Like?

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Speaker 4: Do you run away with carts?

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Speaker 5: If they're not interested, they could you know, just oh sorry,

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Speaker 5: excuse me and walk away.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So bumping carts is the equivalent of swiping basically exactly. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So who did you bump? Upside down pineapple wine?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 4: We're all following who was it?

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Speaker 5: That is how I'm the Mark Mark?

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Speaker 8: Right?

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Speaker 4: And then how do you how do you turn that

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Speaker 4: into a date?

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Speaker 5: Well, once we bumped, then we exchanged information. We actually

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Speaker 5: got together and we went to a wine bar and

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Speaker 5: it was it was really nice, like we just.

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Speaker 9: Got to sit down and really talk, and there wasn't

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Speaker 9: all that anxiety that you would normally feel because you've

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Speaker 9: already seen them, so you're not worried that they're lying

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Speaker 9: on their dating apps.

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Speaker 5: See that?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okayproved you know nothing about anxiety tends to go

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Speaker 2: down after you bump carts with What did you like

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Speaker 2: about Mark when you were hanging.

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Speaker 1: Out with him?

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Speaker 5: You know, I just I liked that he's really funny

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Speaker 5: and he's a he's an animal lover and which yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 5: and I mean he's just he seemed very genuine.

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Speaker 3: So did you get the vibe that you guys were

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Speaker 3: going to do this again, You're going to see each other.

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, And that's the weirdest thing, Like he walked

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Speaker 5: me home you know we can't and then gone done

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Speaker 5: and then done now you said, And then he was gone.

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Speaker 1: He ran away after the kids.

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Speaker 2: He was like, oh my god, I have wine breath

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Speaker 2: and then he runs away.

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Speaker 7: Maybe he had to go get another Pineapple's interesting.

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Speaker 3: So have you called him or texted him or are

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Speaker 3: you waiting for him?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 5: I did. I called him and I texted and I've

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Speaker 5: got nothing.

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Speaker 1: Have you been back to the grocery store to see

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Speaker 1: if he's still?

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Speaker 7: Like, well, I haven't seen a name or time come

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Speaker 7: up for another one, Like I had been doing this

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Speaker 7: for a little while and this, but he was my

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Speaker 7: first thump.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, you never forget your first upside down pineapp.

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Speaker 1: So how long has it been since you and Mark

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Speaker 1: went on that date.

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Speaker 5: It's been about two weeks.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a while.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, long enough that he should have reached out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Okay, Well, let's call him in find out what

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Speaker 1: he has to say. We're gonna come back and do

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Speaker 1: your second date update you got I put in my

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Speaker 1: Instacart order already, so we'll be back and do it

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Speaker 1: right after this hold on second date update. I am

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Speaker 1: never going to shop for groceries the same ever again

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Speaker 1: after this call with Mandy.

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Speaker 3: You and meeboled, I am going to be just eyeballing

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Speaker 3: eagle eye who who's in here?

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Speaker 1: Because Mandy told us about a strange new dating ritual

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Speaker 1: that apparently started with singles in Spain and now it's

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Speaker 1: come over to the US where people will show up

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Speaker 1: at a grocery store like a lot of people. They

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Speaker 1: take all the pineapples, put them in carts upside down,

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Speaker 1: and meet in the wine section, then start bumping each other,

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Speaker 1: just show interest and wink. Definitely not a swinger, even

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Speaker 1: though it sounds like it to literally every person on

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Speaker 1: the planet, except for our listener Mandy, because she ended

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Speaker 1: up meeting a guy named Mark.

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Speaker 4: There and she only been out with Mark.

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Speaker 1: Yes, instead of everybody with pineapple, just with Mark. They

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Speaker 1: went out, had a really good time and this was

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Speaker 1: her first grocery store bump, sesshon, But we never asked,

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Speaker 1: what about Mark, Mandy, did you discuss that has he

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Speaker 1: bumped before?

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Speaker 5: He said he had? Okay, she and a girl had

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Speaker 5: gone out a few times after they had a bump. Second,

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Speaker 5: it's crazy.

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Speaker 4: How successful this is people.

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Speaker 2: What's it like when it's busy and it just sounds

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Speaker 2: like a hundred shopping cars crashing in the corner store.

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Speaker 3: Even more fascinating is how confused the produce man must.

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Speaker 5: Be, like.

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Speaker 3: Pineapples and now they don't want but they're back, and there's.

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Speaker 1: Clearly a lot of questions that we have and'sie answer.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The only person that can is the tropical fruit stud

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Speaker 1: that we're about to call here. Hopefully we'll squeeze some

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Speaker 1: answers out of him.

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Speaker 4: Can we call Jaqa?

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Speaker 1: What's his name? Okay? Pineapple Mark? We'll just call him

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Speaker 1: Mark until we get more from him. But let's just

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Speaker 1: dial and see if he picks up first. Here we go, Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Mark?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey, Mark? I'm not sure if you're ready for this,

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Speaker 1: but you are on a radio show right now. We're

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Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Ye boy, have

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Speaker 1: we been dying to talk to you?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, seriously, so many questions.

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. I didn't

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Speaker 1: mean to like scare. You're a whole show, bro, Yes.

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Speaker 8: Four of us.

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Speaker 4: We have a radio show and we do a podcast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm jeff and have you heard everybody else?

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Speaker 4: So I'd like to tell.

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Speaker 1: So we want to ask you a little bit if

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Speaker 1: it's okay about your dating life, because we heard that

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Speaker 1: you met a woman the other day at the grocery

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Speaker 1: store named Mandy.

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Speaker 8: Oh she told you about that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're going to.

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Speaker 2: Be embarrassed, bro, we think it's really interesting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: She told us all about like the TikTok trend of

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Speaker 3: going to the grocery store at the same time, like

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Speaker 3: a call goes out to hot singles and everybody shows

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Speaker 3: up and puts pineapples in their cars.

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Speaker 8: You like, bump their cardival. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Apparently you bumped with Mandy and she liked it.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I have. I have a couple of friends that

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Speaker 8: they're doing this trend and they told me you should,

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Speaker 8: uh see what it's about. Yeah. A couple of times

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Speaker 8: I met Mandy and I don't know, I thought she

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Speaker 8: was cool.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's good.

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Speaker 4: That's a good start.

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Speaker 1: Cool enough to take out on an actual date to

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Speaker 1: a wine bar.

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Speaker 8: We heard we went out. It's just uh, towards the

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Speaker 8: end of the date, like a weird thing happened. I

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Speaker 8: know she told you guys about it.

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Speaker 4: Weirder than the grocery store things.

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Speaker 1: We kiss.

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Speaker 7: You're supposed to.

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Speaker 4: Was it not a good kiss?

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Speaker 8: I walked her home and we kissed and it was

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Speaker 8: really great. But I take her to her door and

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Speaker 8: she reaches into her purse and pulls out an envelope.

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Speaker 1: Okay, is this Hogwarts letter?

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Speaker 8: I'm walking away thinking that this is a thank you

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Speaker 8: for the night kind of letter. So I get to

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Speaker 8: my car and I open this letter and it says

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Speaker 8: thank you for this lovely date, and then under it

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Speaker 8: it says, here is my pre and post date expenses.

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Speaker 2: Huh wait, it's an invoice.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, to what with the makeup? There was the petticue

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Speaker 4: She needed her toes painted to go to a wine bar.

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Speaker 8: Okay, like I thought, I didn't know that this was

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Speaker 4: That's insane.

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Speaker 8: Her Venmo was on there. There was a Venmo barcode handle.

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Speaker 5: Maybe you don't like more than someone where it actually went.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's why would.

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Speaker 3: You would you, especially because didn't you pay for the

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Well, I paid for everything. I thought, okay, I'll treat

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Speaker 1: You did not pay for everything, okay, or maybe he

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Speaker 4: So come on, what is she having to buy new

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Speaker 7: Please?

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Speaker 5: Everything does run out at the same time.

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Speaker 1: Don't get me started on a lot of theoreticals. We

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Speaker 1: is Mandy, who is on the other listening to this

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Speaker 1: call right now, Mark and wanting to talk to you.

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Speaker 8: Mark.

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Speaker 4: Oh girl, indeed, I.

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Speaker 5: Didn't realize that was what bothered you.

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Speaker 1: So you admit that you invoiced him for everything before

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Speaker 5: Well, I went out, I got my makeup done, and

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Speaker 5: I got my hair done, I got a new outfit,

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Speaker 5: I got cheese.

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Speaker 4: You shouldn't put that much for a man to say.

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Speaker 8: But I didn't ask you to do any of that,

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Speaker 8: and I had no idea that there was a bill

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Speaker 5: You were insistent that you wanted to go out and

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Speaker 5: that you wanted to pay.

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Speaker 8: I wanted to, but to give me the receipts. It

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Speaker 8: was just it was impersonal. I didn't feel right about it.

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Speaker 8: a cute envelope with a note instead I had a receipt.

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Speaker 8: What are you doing?

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Speaker 1: I mean a letter does kind of make it more

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Speaker 4: Does it?

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Speaker 1: She took the time to write it.

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Speaker 5: Indeed, you know, it's one of those things. I didn't

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Speaker 3: Have you had other men actually fork up the cash

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Speaker 3: for these invoices? Because my guess is this isn't your

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I've got before, and I've never had any

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Speaker 1: Really, maybe in the Pineapple community the standards for paying

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Speaker 4: I had to admit, though.

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Speaker 2: If I went on a date with a girl and

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Speaker 2: and she builed me fifty bucks, I'd be like.

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Speaker 1: Okay, oh no, financially afford it.

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Speaker 6: I can take care of I don't think she's thinking

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Speaker 6: about that when she I just like, these are expenses

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Speaker 6: about just being an adult that you just have to incur, like,

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Speaker 6: this is just life expenses that you got to take

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Speaker 5: Do you don't you feel that we're getting a little

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Speaker 5: screwed over by the amount of money we have to pay.

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Speaker 1: It's like kind of a shared thing. You both put

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Speaker 1: way that maybe going forward you could see not doing

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Speaker 1: the thing, if.

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Speaker 5: It's going to make you feel more comfortable. If we

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Speaker 5: got again, you know, we can go Dutch.

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Speaker 1: Dutch on the date or on the pre date expenses

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Speaker 1: on all the expenses.

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Speaker 4: I don't even understand what that means.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it means she pays for half, and he pays

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Speaker 1: for half. What he pays for one foot, she pays

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Speaker 4: I got it. Bet you paid for your own crap?

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Speaker 2: Like would the bill comes?

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Speaker 1: No, Oh, that's not how modern pineapple dating works, Brooke,

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Speaker 1: get up with the times market. Sounds like she's trying

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Speaker 1: to be reasonable with you, offering a pretty significant discount

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Speaker 2: This is like when you tell a company you're going

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Speaker 2: to cancel and they give you that last offer exactly.

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Speaker 8: Trial.

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Speaker 3: Is it too late to go Dutch on the first

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Speaker 4: About the second.

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Speaker 1: You know, we're not in charge of the entire financial landscape.

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Speaker 1: We're in charge of is paying for the date that

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Speaker 1: you go on, because we will offer to fund it

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Speaker 1: for you. Mark, if you'll see Mandy one more time.

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Speaker 8: If you're willing to talk about splitting things down the

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Speaker 8: then I don't see a reason not to.

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Speaker 4: No reason. Yes, Yes, spreadsheets Excel. You need to keep

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Speaker 4: your seats. Mark. Okay, if you get a haircut.

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Speaker 3: You gotta remember see how many pumps the foundation she's

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Speaker 1: This is some sexy talk that we're having on the

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Speaker 1: show right now. But Mark here, is that a yes

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Speaker 1: from you?

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Speaker 8: That's a yes from.

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Speaker 1: That do not see that coming. But congratulations, Mandy, you

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Speaker 1: got yourself another date.

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Speaker 5: Well, thank you guys very much. And Mark, once you

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Speaker 5: then Moony the half for the first date, we can

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Speaker 5: schedule a second date.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Maddy, I thought you were a nuts but now

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking I want you to do my financial.

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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Remember when we first started this call and Mandy said hey,

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Speaker 1: and Brooke goes, Oh my god, you sound like so

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Speaker 1: much fun.

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Speaker 2: I bet you are the funnest person every making money.

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Speaker 1: Did not sound very fun by the end of the call,

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Speaker 3: God, It's like sometimes I'm too negative and then I

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Speaker 3: trying to be positive and it bites me in the bun.

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Speaker 1: The wrongs.

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Speaker 4: I always changed the wrong always. I'm gonna tell you,

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Speaker 4: if there's two lanes of traffic, I will always get it.

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Speaker 1: It's not your fault, Brooke. It sounded like she got

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Speaker 1: caught by the end pretty big time.

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Speaker 4: She got another date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like, what, whatever everyone else is doing,

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Speaker 1: they're doing it wrong. She probably should have told us

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Speaker 2: But you know, sometimes I know, I'm like, why didn't

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Speaker 2: you say that and you know, to them all, or

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Speaker 2: why didn't you realize that's the issue. Yeah, maybe that

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Speaker 2: many guys pay it without talking.

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Speaker 4: My god, I can't even imagine.

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Speaker 3: I do kind of want to follow her on Venmo

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Speaker 3: to see how often it lights up, though, you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean, I could make.

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Speaker 2: A living off of this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But if you want to get help with your

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Speaker 1: dating Life. Please don't invoice us. We will not pay.

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Speaker 1: We will call the person though who's not calling you back.

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Speaker 1: Go check out all of our second dates wherever you

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Speaker 1: get your podcasts at Brook and

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Speaker 4: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning