1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: About six to seven months ago, we did a segment 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: called Forgive and Forget, Oh, Yeah, which I'm sure a 3 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: lot of you forgot about. I actually forgave about it. 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 2: You know you've forgotten forgot about it? 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, we forgive you for that. Anyway, you'll hear the 6 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: story coming up. And the interesting thing is, now over 7 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:21,159 Speaker 1: half a year later, they've both reached out to us 8 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 1: saying they have a very important update. 9 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 3: Yay. I love it when people reach back out, Yes, 10 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 3: and they keep it's awesome. 11 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: Apparently things have changed from the last time they were 12 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:32,880 Speaker 1: on the show, and they wanted all of us and 13 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:35,599 Speaker 1: all of our listeners to know what's been going on 14 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: in their lives. You're gonna hear it in a first 15 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: ever Forgive and Forget update. What's coming up next? Welcome 16 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: back to Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. And today 17 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: we're trying a new segment on our show, something we've 18 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: never done before, called Forgive and Forget. 19 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 2: Oh. 20 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: It's kind of based on Brooke and myself because I 21 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: love to forgive you. Brook habitually forgets it usually at 22 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: least one, if not both, of the listeners' names, as 23 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 1: soon as they come onto the part. 24 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 2: I can't see their faces. Maybe that's the issue. You 25 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 2: see everyone in our building their name, but I know yours. 26 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: In all seriousness, we've come across some emails from listeners 27 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: people who've had run ins with their family or friends 28 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: and they don't know how to mend fences with them 29 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 1: properly where they would like to do it, they just 30 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: can't figure out how. So in the first part, yeah, 31 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: I mean these are metaphorical. Yeah, But in the first 32 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: part here we're gonna learn about the situation, and then 33 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: in the second part we'll see if we can help 34 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: and get the other person to forgive them or see 35 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: if they just want to forget about it and move on. 36 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 4: Okay, so we're talking to the person who's seeking forgiveness 37 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 4: right now. 38 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: Who is that. I'm gonna to say it really, really 39 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: loudly so that brook remembers it. Please Eric, say it 40 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: out loud three times, Brooks in mind Eric, Eric, Eric, Eric, 41 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. 42 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,799 Speaker 3: Hey, thank you, thank you guys for having me Eric, a. 43 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:22,239 Speaker 2: Name I'll never forget, famous last words. 44 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: Tell us about the situation that you're dealing with. 45 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 3: So, uh, my friend Alyssa. Guys, who I'm calling about 46 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 3: we've been friends for like the last eight years. Okay, 47 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 3: we turned off his work buddies. 48 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 2: Okay, you're co workers first, yep. 49 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,800 Speaker 3: Co workers, you know, never anything like romantic. We've just 50 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 3: been friends. But I got a different job about a 51 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 3: year or so ago, but we stayed friends. Like I'm 52 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 3: still local. We meet up at happy hours and stuff 53 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 3: faster work and. 54 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 5: I don't know, I just I really love her, like I. 55 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 3: Love being around her. I love who she is the person, 56 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 3: like I just really got I've missed having her around. 57 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: Do you use the L word with each other in 58 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: like a friendly way? 59 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 2: Oh? 60 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean we've known each other for a long time, 61 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 3: and like we've seen each other through some really tough stuff. 62 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: That's oh, I think that's great. I didn't even use 63 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: the L word with my own family. 64 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 4: I use it with every good friend I have. Yeah, 65 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 4: I don't leave a phone call or anything. 66 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 2: I use it with you. I love you, Jeff. 67 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 1: This doesn't mean anything if you. 68 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 2: Tell it does It's such a beautiful I love it, Jeff, 69 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 2: I love you. 70 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 3: Microphone in front of me. 71 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 2: Doesn't have enough of this. I love it. I love it. 72 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 2: So what what's the problem? 73 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 3: So I guess people started talking around our like friend 74 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 3: group that I had read some stuff about her latest boyfriend, 75 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 3: the guy that she had been dating. 76 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:43,839 Speaker 2: Oh no, did you? 77 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 3: I mean, look, I didn't love the dude. I mean 78 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 3: I didn't think he was a great guy. 79 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 5: Oh god. 80 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 3: And I'm probably I probably did say some things, okay, 81 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 3: but like, I don't know. 82 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 5: I just I don't think I thought it was that huge. 83 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 3: Of a deal. I just think that by the people 84 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 3: I was around kind of shared that opinion, and and 85 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 3: so I didn't feel bad saying it. And I guess 86 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 3: I don't know why I didn't think he was going 87 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 3: to get back to her. 88 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, can we ask what types of things you 89 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: were secretly saying? Like what was the vibe of the 90 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: judgment against her boyfriend? 91 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 3: I don't know. I just he seemed kind of lazy 92 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 3: to me, like he always either not working or like 93 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 3: between jobs, and I kind of felt like maybe he 94 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 3: was taking advantage of her, and there's always something weird 95 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 3: going on with him. 96 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 4: Are they still dating? Is Alyssa and that guy still dating? 97 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 3: I don't even know. I have no idea. I haven't 98 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 3: heard from her in like a month. 99 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 2: Probably well she contact, Yeah, dang, No, I. 100 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 3: Mean it was devastating, and like I tried to reach 101 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 3: out to her a few times, tried to explain, but 102 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 3: I got nothing back. I mean, yeah, she's she totally 103 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 3: cut me off. 104 00:04:55,960 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 2: I mean that feels like an overreaction. Why you react that, 105 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 2: that's a good point. 106 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,040 Speaker 1: We should tell her that, Brook, and we'll get her 107 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: on the phone. Goes, well, your emotions are all over 108 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: the place moment. What's her name, by the way, Brook, 109 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 1: That good job, Eric. We're off to a medium start 110 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: right now. And you know how forgive and forget works. 111 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. 112 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 2: Are we just gonna forget about it and not do 113 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 2: the second segment? 114 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: We literally forget? This is how it's gonna work. It's 115 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 1: kind of like a second date, but for friends. Okay, 116 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 1: we're gonna call Alissa and we'll run the conversation. We'll 117 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: find out her side of the story and then bring 118 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: him on the phone halfway through and let them talk 119 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: about it. Awfully, if she doesn't hang up as soon 120 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 1: as she finds out what's going on. But we're okay, good, 121 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: I do Okay, I'm glad we got she forgets. It's 122 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 1: really all right. We're gonna do this fun segment and 123 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: try to mend some fences with Forgive and Forget. 124 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 4: Right after this, we are right in the middle of 125 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 4: a Forgive and Forget update. Oh my god, we're gonna 126 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 4: hear from these two friends and see what's happened since 127 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 4: this call. 128 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 2: Right after part two. 129 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and we're in 130 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 1: the middle of a new segment that we're doing called 131 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 1: Forgive and Forget onlike a second date where we try 132 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: to re spark a romantic flame between people. In this 133 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 1: we try to get friends or family members back together 134 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: and on good terms after going through a weird situation. 135 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 2: You are healing the planet, you guys. It feels good. 136 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 1: Okay, Let's not like sing our own praises before we 137 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: actually help anyone. 138 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 2: We're spreading love, We're spreading forgiveness. This is the good stuff, 139 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 2: jeff You can. 140 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: Celebrate that, but we haven't actually accomplished anything. All we 141 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: know is that, Derek, I think coffee is just kicking it. 142 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: I think so. What we know though, is our listener, 143 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,359 Speaker 1: Eric has been out of touch with his good friend 144 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 1: Alyssa for the last month or so because Alyssa found 145 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 1: out out he had been talking mess behind her back 146 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: about her new lazy, no job boyfriend. 147 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 2: I have never heard that said that way before. 148 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: It's how the young people speak today. But if you 149 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 1: got to catch that, that's how the future young people, 150 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: the babies are talking this way. You'll learn soon. But 151 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: Eric has tried to apologize to Alyssa in multiple ways, 152 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: and her response was to cut him out. Dang, that 153 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: is not even response. So he's sad he misses her 154 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: and wants our help to get back into her good graces. 155 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: We're hoping that she chooses to forgive him today. 156 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, and you know, Eric, we didn't ask what is 157 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 4: her personality like? 158 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 2: Like, is she fiery? Is she a pretty calm, gentle person? 159 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: Yeah? Some her entire personality up in one word for us. 160 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 3: That's a good question. I mean, honestly, I was so 161 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 3: surprised by the way she cut me off because that's 162 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 3: really not like her, Okay. I mean I've seen to 163 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 3: get worked up about stuff, but never at me, and 164 00:07:58,600 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 3: never about something like that. 165 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 2: Okay, so it's pretty out of the blue. 166 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 4: I mean, even though you did something kind of crappy 167 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 4: as a friend, I mean, it wasn't enough to all right. 168 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 1: Guy, It wasn't malicious, So hopefully we can get her 169 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: to understand that. Let's give her a call and try 170 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 1: to get her to forgive you. Yeah, we forget, Well, 171 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: we're aiming for forgive. We need, we want to forgive. 172 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 1: Forget if the worst case. 173 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 2: On the tagline give a move forward. 174 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: I'mn dollar right now here we go. Hello, Hey, we're 175 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 1: looking for Alyssa. 176 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 6: H This is she. 177 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 1: Hey, Alissa. We are a radio show called Brooke and 178 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, sorry to call you out 179 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: of the blue like this, but we're doing a segment 180 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 1: where we're gonna try to help mend some fences between 181 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: people who've hit a speed bump in their friendship. 182 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 6: Well, I don't know why you called me. 183 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: Well, it's because one of your friends reached out to us. 184 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: His name is Eric. 185 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 6: Oh my god, are you serious? 186 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 1: Yeah? 187 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 4: I mean he feels terrible, Melissa, and he just misses 188 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 4: you as a friend. 189 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 6: I'm sure he is. 190 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: He sent us a really really nice email about it, 191 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: saying how much he loves you and how hard this 192 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:21,839 Speaker 1: has been. I'm not going to say that he cries 193 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 1: himself to sleep every night into a tub of Ben 194 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 1: and Jerry's because he didn't say that, but that was 195 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 1: the mental image I had in my head. 196 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 2: I bet he's a fan of fish food personally, so 197 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 2: it makes sense. 198 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:33,719 Speaker 1: So I don't want to make you feel guilty about it, 199 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 1: but you should know Eric is not taking this very well. 200 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 3: Well. 201 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:40,680 Speaker 6: I mean, I don't care that he's not taking this well. 202 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:42,319 Speaker 6: I mean he hurt my feelings. 203 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it sounds like he was just venting 204 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 4: at a happy hour. I mean, not to like minimize it, 205 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 4: but are you saying like you've never talked crap about 206 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 4: one of the women that he's dated. 207 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 6: I've told him to his face, I've never shot it 208 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 6: behind his back. 209 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: But just think about how much our co host Alexis 210 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 1: vents at her happ hours about how much she doesn't 211 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 1: like her girlfriend's boyfriends. 212 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 2: I would have one talking to me. 213 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:09,559 Speaker 1: Ever, you would be making a hundred phone calls trying 214 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: to fetch all of her relationships all the time. I 215 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: don't think he was trying to be malicious with what 216 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: he said. He's just looking out for you. 217 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 6: At the end of the day, he should still come 218 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:20,679 Speaker 6: and talk to me about it. 219 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, what if he talk to you about it 220 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 1: right now? Because he is on the other line at 221 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 1: this moment wanting to say things to you. I already 222 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: said about it. 223 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, fence men, I think it's messes anyway, ERICI there. 224 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, talk to you. 225 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm here. 226 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:43,079 Speaker 6: I hil. 227 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, I. 228 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,559 Speaker 6: Really don't want to talk to you, Eric, because I'm 229 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 6: still upset. 230 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 3: I am genuinely really sorry that I did that. I mean, 231 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:56,320 Speaker 3: I honestly, if I had known that it was going 232 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 3: to hurt you like this, I never would have. 233 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 6: Been should have known you, should have known friends for 234 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:01,359 Speaker 6: eight years. 235 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, And I feel really bad and you 236 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 3: were one hundred percent right, And I just I miss, Yeah, 237 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 3: I know, I am. I just I want to have 238 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 3: you back in my life again, and I want to 239 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 3: just know what I can do to earn your trust back. 240 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 2: That is a good apology. That is a great good apology. 241 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: And can I just say in his defense, I don't know. 242 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 1: I know people think they want to hear their friends 243 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 1: tell them the bad things about their relationships. I don't 244 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 1: think in practice that is a very good idea. Now, 245 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 1: you don't want your friends all coming up to you 246 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: being like, hey, by the way, we all think your 247 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: boyfriend sucks. And that's why I think it came from 248 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 1: a good place. Trying not to say it directly to you. 249 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 1: He was trying to support you from a distance. 250 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 6: I didn't feel supportive. 251 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, there's still a kind way to like 252 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 7: tell me that maybe you don't really like my boyfriend. 253 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: Okay, so go ahead, Eric, kindly tell her that you 254 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: don't like her boyfriend. That's what she wants. 255 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 3: Fine. I think he was lazy. I worried about him 256 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 3: not having a job or a clean job. 257 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 6: He has multiple jobs. But like, at the end of 258 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 6: the day, I love this guy. Yeah, and that's what 259 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 6: you should care about if you're my friend. 260 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I you know what I mean, I do, 261 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 3: I do. And like I said, I should have just 262 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 3: told you in person that I was worried about you, 263 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 3: and I didn't, and that was a mistake that I made. 264 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 2: I mean, do you see what he's saying. Do you 265 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 2: think that he's lazy at all? 266 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 6: No? I don't think that he's lazy. 267 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 7: I mean he he is a smart, intelligent guy. 268 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 6: Then he's working towards bigger things, okay, and he's not 269 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 6: a nine to five. 270 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: I mean, another reason Eric can't go over and apologize. 271 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 1: He's always there. 272 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:40,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh man, that's hard. 273 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 5: Eric. 274 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: So Aless, the name of this segment is forgive or forget, 275 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 1: So we're at a point right now where we're just 276 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 1: going to ask can you forgive? 277 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 3: Eric? 278 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: He was very heartfelt in his apology. 279 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:52,599 Speaker 4: It was a good apology list, So you got to 280 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 4: give him that. I mean, he understands what he did wrong. 281 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:57,200 Speaker 4: He loves you as a friend, and this is an 282 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 4: important relationship. Month is like years and close friends for 283 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 4: a decade. 284 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 1: Don't let this new guy get in between you. 285 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:10,439 Speaker 6: What do you say, Alyssa, I guess I can forgive you. 286 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 1: It's rainbows and sunshine, DeMar, don't wear heroes, Eric. 287 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 5: I mean that I'm I'm honestly, like legitimately relieved, and 288 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 5: I'm again, I'm really sorry, and I'm really happy that 289 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 5: I can earn your trust back a healthy way to. 290 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: Talk to fix. 291 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 2: And you know, her boyfriend may like be the next 292 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 2: Bill Gates or. 293 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 4: Something, and he'll totally prove you wrong, Eric, and you're 294 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 4: gonna be the one looking like an idiot in the edge. 295 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, that seems like a totally likely thing. That's definitely gonna. 296 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 3: Honestly, I would love that I would love if that happens. 297 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 1: Yea, he loves your boyfriend. 298 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:52,600 Speaker 2: You guys are cute. 299 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 6: Eric. I do love and miss you too, and I 300 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 6: look forward to going out for a drink soon. 301 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 1: There we go, Eric, Now let's confess all the things 302 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:06,239 Speaker 1: that you don't like about her mom. 303 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 2: I'm just kidding, Jeffrey in the morning. 304 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 1: We've done updates on closure calls and second dates before, 305 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: but this is our first update on a forgive and 306 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 1: forget call. Alyssa and Eric are back. Welcome back to 307 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: the show. You two. 308 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 6: Hi, thank you for having me again. 309 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 4: They're both talking. I thought for sure we'd get him 310 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 4: on and things were bad again. Refuses to say it's forgotten. 311 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, so what's new and your guys is friendship? Why 312 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 1: did you email for an update? 313 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 7: Well, first of all, I mean I kind of want 314 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 7: to thank you guys. It was a difficult call that 315 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 7: we did. Because of you guys, we. 316 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 6: Were able to mend our friendship and I don't think 317 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 6: we would have been able to have that tough conversation. 318 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 1: Oh was right group right now, You're not generous enough, 319 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: But thank you for that. 320 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, well, I mean after that call, you know, 321 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 4: life went on my boyfriend. 322 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 7: He didn't know about the caller that had aired or 323 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 7: anything like that. 324 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 6: And then a. 325 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 7: Couple months later, my birthday happened and Eric. 326 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 6: Got me flowers through my birthday, which was very sweet 327 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 6: and kind. 328 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, but my boyfriend didn't get me anything for my birthday. 329 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 1: Our boyfriend's required to do that for their girlfriend or something. 330 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 2: Did Eric's friendship cards say, I told you so? 331 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 6: No, did you. 332 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 2: Dump the boyfriend after you forgot your birthday? 333 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 5: No? 334 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 6: I didn't dump him after that. But a couple months 335 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 6: later it. 336 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 7: Was our anniversary and Eric wished me a happy anniversary, 337 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 7: and my boyfriend forgot. 338 00:15:57,040 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 4: Starting to trust, here's in your life who really cares 339 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 4: about you, and there's one who obviously doesn't. 340 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 1: Okay, so six anniversaries later, yeah you forgot? 341 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 2: Was that the straw? 342 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 3: Yeah? 343 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 6: No, that was the That was the final straw. 344 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, So I didn't like hearing about my boyfriend's laziness, 345 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 7: but I do admit to Eric that he was right. 346 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, er right now. 347 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 3: No, I'm not going to do that, but I mean listen, 348 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 3: like I just I've got your back. I'm going to 349 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 3: keep doing that. 350 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: Oh wow, this sweet healthy friendship's making me sick. Okay, 351 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: I'm glad. 352 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 3: I know. 353 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 1: It's really happy. We're very very happy for you guys. 354 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 1: Thank you for the update. Okay, thanks, Yeah, I have 355 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 1: a good one. Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 356 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.