WEBVTT - Pod Meets Twirl'd: Married at First Sight 2004 & 2005

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Pod Meets Twirl, a podcast that began with

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<v Speaker 1>Dancing with the Stars, wandered through pastles, survived beaches, and

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<v Speaker 1>spent an entire season debating the social hierarchy of cocktail parties,

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<v Speaker 1>and along the way, Will and I riffed on what

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<v Speaker 1>I thought was an entirely hypothetical observation, maybe arranged marriage

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<v Speaker 1>isn't the worst idea. Well, apparently our producers are listening.

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<v Speaker 1>So now we're watching Married at First Sight season twenty,

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<v Speaker 1>a show where complete strangers meet at the altar, say

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<v Speaker 1>I do, and only then begin the awkward process of

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<v Speaker 1>discovering whether they have anything whatsoever in common. We are Wilfordell,

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<v Speaker 1>who loves love and believes marriage should be about the marriage,

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<v Speaker 1>not the wedding, and Right or Strong, who loves love

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<v Speaker 1>and made one observation about arranged marriage and is now

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<v Speaker 1>being forced to defend it for an entire television season.

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<v Speaker 1>Join us as experts, therapists, family members, and complete strangers

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<v Speaker 1>all attempt the oldest social experiment in human history with confessionals.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Pod Mats Twirled, All or Nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>So many penguins, so many penguins. I feeling great. I

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<v Speaker 2>love this show idea I love.

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<v Speaker 1>I find it educational, I find it interesting. I like people,

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<v Speaker 1>even the people I don't like, I kind of like.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep. So, oh, we're going to talk about that this week.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, man, we're going to talk about that this week.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a new favorite couple.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, you love Marissa Adam.

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<v Speaker 2>Marissa Adam is so great? Your team vocal Fry? That

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<v Speaker 2>will Bro Bro are you team vocal Fried?

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<v Speaker 1>He's the best today he is now officially the best because.

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<v Speaker 2>He found his partner.

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<v Speaker 1>I did. Oh, So that's the That's how you do

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<v Speaker 1>arrange merriage. You just just you just don't be that bright,

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<v Speaker 1>don't have many expectations of life, don't read.

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<v Speaker 2>Like jet Ski, and then you want to find somebody

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<v Speaker 2>who's like, hey, how hot are we? How hot are we?

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<v Speaker 2>They're awesome together. I love him so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Even the man, doctor Jonathan jet Ski, who created the

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<v Speaker 3>jet ski, does not love jet skiing as much as

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<v Speaker 3>Adam loves jet Ski. It is phenomenal to watch this

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<v Speaker 3>man's obsession with something as as ridiculous as.

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<v Speaker 1>Give him a good stake, a hot wife and the

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<v Speaker 1>jet skis in his element socks and go down the waters.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, It's like, is original.

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<v Speaker 3>His first baby bottle was in a beer cooozy, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's awesome. This guy's the best. All Right, Adam's are

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<v Speaker 2>new favorite?

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<v Speaker 4>All Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Episode four because with Cameron and Michelle, she's saying, I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't scared all night sleeping with my husband to be

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like that was just the tiniest accomplishment, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't scared.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't call my sleeping there with a knife like

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<v Speaker 2>this just right away? Who is what's going on? It's

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<v Speaker 2>like the Misery House, like you do.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Rissa and Adam, uh, they they're discussing that they are.

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<v Speaker 2>She says, you're a good cuddle and he's been training

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<v Speaker 2>for this. He's training for this, he's training.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that She takes a piss out of and says,

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<v Speaker 1>so you've been training with your guy friends.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's like, yeah, oh guys, they're perfect together. They're

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<v Speaker 2>perfect together. I know. He asked her what the ideal

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<v Speaker 2>day is. She says napping.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, okay, these two are gonna're gonna go the distance.

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<v Speaker 3>He doesn't want to nap so because he's he's always

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<v Speaker 3>gotta be going. So when she's napping, for a couple hours.

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<v Speaker 3>He'll be ripping the jet ski.

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<v Speaker 2>Ripping the jet skinn work. It's gonna work, Sean and Nikki.

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<v Speaker 1>In the morning, he brings her coffee, compliments her, and

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<v Speaker 1>he says the thing that I think we are all feeling,

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<v Speaker 1>especially her, that he needs to back up, and.

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<v Speaker 2>They start laughing. But she's not attracted doing physically. Damn this,

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<v Speaker 2>watching the two of them together, watching this relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Is so hurt because I really like both of them.

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<v Speaker 2>I do too. I do too.

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<v Speaker 3>They're not right together though it sucks many just he's

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<v Speaker 3>a little a little too.

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<v Speaker 2>Psychobabbel relationship buzzword for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she says it later that you're interviewing me, and

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<v Speaker 1>he is.

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<v Speaker 2>He is, it's like you all need to relax a little.

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<v Speaker 1>But I like him, still thinking maybe maybe there's some

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<v Speaker 1>possible because around because they turn around these shows.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that's the story, right you and I.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, if I think about the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>there's an eighteen percent success rate on the show, and.

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<v Speaker 2>That's percent from last season, then no, I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>there's started. No. I don't either. I just don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if you can get She seems to have the ick, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's not something you can get over.

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<v Speaker 2>Nope, you can get over being bored.

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<v Speaker 1>You can get over being like like not knowing somebody

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<v Speaker 1>and wanting to know more or needing to know more.

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<v Speaker 1>But in this case, she seems genuinely.

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<v Speaker 2>Repulsed by him. I agree with you, Hunter.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's like, I just don't know, you know, if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't like this, like the sound of somebody chewing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's never going away. No, that's never going away. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I agree, And I kind of switched because at first

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I don't think she's gonna give him

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<v Speaker 3>a chance. I don't think and he's gonna try, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna love him so much. And halfway through I

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<v Speaker 3>got a little bit of the eck with him where

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, Okay, man, it's a little much.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point, I was like, I'm still but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get into it later.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like he just he just can't back off the

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<v Speaker 1>sex thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Know that.

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<v Speaker 2>And there.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's also again like the there does come off

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<v Speaker 3>like a constant psychobabble, like I hear you and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>present in our and I want to make sure your foundation.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like dude, just be just be normal, just be normal.

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<v Speaker 1>Like.

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<v Speaker 2>So, yeah, it's it's been, it's rough, but it's still

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<v Speaker 2>loving my Felipa and Tory. I'm so into this show

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<v Speaker 2>by the way.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, got to Courtney and Nick in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>He takes his clothes off in the night, which didn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem like to bother her. But uh, she's not quote

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<v Speaker 1>souper lovely, touchy feely.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm curious in your life. Do you like a lovey,

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<v Speaker 3>touchy feely kind of partner?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, me to not in bed at night? No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no interestingly at night?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't touch me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like I don't want to be hot. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be like you know some people like wrapt

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<v Speaker 1>around each other. No, I want you to be in

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<v Speaker 1>the same bed, but as far away from me.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree. I agree with you A yeah, what I

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<v Speaker 2>mean like sitting around like a hug, a kiss on

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<v Speaker 2>the neck, a slap on the ass when you're walking

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<v Speaker 2>by in the kitchen, you know, I like. I like

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<v Speaker 2>the physical affection I think is important too. Yeah. Maddy

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<v Speaker 2>just wrote AHD thank you, yes yeh and OTP and

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<v Speaker 2>occasional o tph Yeah, that's what makes an uber ride

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<v Speaker 2>an uber ride. Everybody knows that.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I can see how that's hard when one

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<v Speaker 3>person wants to be touched and caressed and the.

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<v Speaker 2>Other person's like, I'm not into that. That would be

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<v Speaker 2>that would be a difficult combination. I can see that. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>Felipe A and Torre seemed to be equally cuddly. Same

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<v Speaker 1>thing as I said last episode, the way that they're

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<v Speaker 1>lying back together.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I thought about that after you said it and

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<v Speaker 2>you see it.

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<v Speaker 1>They're just so comfortable. It's like and they both do

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<v Speaker 1>it without like they're just and yep, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>this is Yeah, so they're already like curled up together.

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<v Speaker 2>They're still still about the cameras. Still, my money's on

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<v Speaker 2>those two pretty cool Belgium Lee and Mecca.

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<v Speaker 1>They talk about how he feels like he's kicking it

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<v Speaker 1>with his best friend. She does too, She wants to

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<v Speaker 1>wear matching outfits. Already, let's see where this goes.

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<v Speaker 3>They look great together, I know, I mean, they do

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<v Speaker 3>look like they were cast to be together.

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<v Speaker 2>They're stunning together. Yeah. And then Devin and Caitlin.

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<v Speaker 1>This has been quite a journey this couple because at

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<v Speaker 1>this point in this episode, I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have put money this.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the best couple. That's what I thought too.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember you were like, this is my couple and right

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<v Speaker 2>here and they're both very touchy.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they didn't expect to hook up last night,

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<v Speaker 1>so meaning they probably did. And then watching them eat,

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<v Speaker 1>they eat the same, Yeah, like they I don't know, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>but then she comments on his chewing later and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like what, yeah, oh, but watching them right now.

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<v Speaker 3>They Yeah, something's going on with with her. I know,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what it is, but something's going on

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<v Speaker 3>with her. Do you think is do you think that's

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<v Speaker 3>what it is?

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<v Speaker 2>Dude?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's her dad, Like we saw her dad.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's just the way her dad treated her

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<v Speaker 1>the way. I think something weird and like it's too bad,

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<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, because they're they have chemistry. These two are.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of perfect for each other.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like, what does she want somebody who like

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<v Speaker 1>shows her affection and then treats her like crap.

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<v Speaker 2>Because that's what her dad probably did.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So the all about him that this was Caitlin

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<v Speaker 3>more than anybody else on this show, to me, was

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<v Speaker 3>a completely different person. After she got married than she

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<v Speaker 3>was before she got married completely, and I would.

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<v Speaker 1>Say within the course of the honeymoon, right within the gates.

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<v Speaker 1>So at this point in the story, in this point

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<v Speaker 1>of the episode, she I was like, dude, they're having

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<v Speaker 1>the best time. We're gonna have such a fun vacation.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it just got progressed.

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<v Speaker 2>She seems like a completely different person than the person

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<v Speaker 2>she was.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, we get a montage of everybody packing, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we see Shawn and Nicky as the first couple

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<v Speaker 1>to arrive at this U Mexican resort, which was giving

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<v Speaker 1>me white Lotus vibes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>And Shawn and Nicky I noticed that they this is

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<v Speaker 1>where they started like we're going on vacation.

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<v Speaker 2>Like they kept going high. Everything's going, We're happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Such a sorry guys, don't you're you're trying to a

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<v Speaker 1>like exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, They're all like, we're.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna taking naps and having drinks, and Sean says, taking

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<v Speaker 1>our clothes off, Sean, you just said I just said

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<v Speaker 1>you were gonna go, and then it's like appropriately taking

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<v Speaker 1>our clothes off.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, okay, and baby, he is he's that guy

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<v Speaker 2>who's just like, yeah, come on, we're.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to brunch and boobies. Nobody was talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>What he was talking about? You do it, dude.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And then the oral sex, Yeah, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>You're making this awful for her, Like, truly, just knock

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<v Speaker 2>it off.

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<v Speaker 3>Let her take take the lead in that stuff. Just

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<v Speaker 3>let her take the lead in that stuff. It's obviously

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<v Speaker 3>what's going to have to happen. Is it all going

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<v Speaker 3>to be at her pace.

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<v Speaker 2>Just let her take the lead with that stuff. Meanwhile,

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<v Speaker 2>Courtney and Nick, he can't open a bottle, buff ass.

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<v Speaker 2>Courtney could do it easily.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like snap the thing and then like bit the

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<v Speaker 3>glass bottle in half and like it was like holy shit,

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<v Speaker 3>yeah great.

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<v Speaker 1>Then he tries to make a drink with this shaker

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<v Speaker 1>just he's like, look at this form and immediately screws

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<v Speaker 1>it up.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing by the way.

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<v Speaker 3>So, yeah, we talked about how this guy has been

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<v Speaker 3>on like five or six reality shows. Yeah, you know

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<v Speaker 3>this is he has very little personality coming through for

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<v Speaker 3>somebody who's been on five or six reality shows.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, and so I'm kind of going, what has he

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<v Speaker 2>been on those other reality shows?

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder has he been like the sort of straight

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<v Speaker 1>man while like crazier people have been around him.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I was surprised. Yeah did you.

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<v Speaker 3>See that, he commented on post. So yeah, but it's

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<v Speaker 3>one of those things where it was like, usually, if

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<v Speaker 3>you want to be a reality show guy, you've got

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<v Speaker 3>this big, bubbly kind of personality.

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<v Speaker 2>And there's times.

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<v Speaker 3>Where there and they maybe they again, it's a reality show,

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<v Speaker 3>which means none of it's real, so maybe they just

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<v Speaker 3>took a couple awkward moments where they weren't having a

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<v Speaker 3>conversation then cut it in to make it look like

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<v Speaker 3>they couldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Have a conversation. But he doesn't seem to be very engaging.

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<v Speaker 2>She's definitely wanted a little more entertainment, yes, and she

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<v Speaker 2>wants fun and she's like push me in the pool, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>throw a pie. I saw. It's still optimistic. I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 2>because I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's just uncomfortable, Like I think he's little too,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you know, coming into this show in particular, he's

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<v Speaker 1>thinks he has to be a sort of leading man energy,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what I mean? Because he talks later

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<v Speaker 1>about how the fact that he was like a he's

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<v Speaker 1>a scientist, right, or he's somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>Went tot Yeah, he was the one he went to mit.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So he talks about how he had like more of

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<v Speaker 1>an entertainer sort of Jim Carrey vibe among his friends,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's not.

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<v Speaker 2>What's coming through, right. So but I think maybe it's there,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, he just hasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not comfortable for whatever reason, which maybe is because

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<v Speaker 1>of the couple, not the cameras.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's the thing is, you would think he would

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<v Speaker 3>be the most comfortable. The reality show is second hat.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, I don't I don't even need to deal

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<v Speaker 3>with the reality show. I just need to deal with

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<v Speaker 3>this because I'm so used to reality show that it's

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<v Speaker 3>just about the relationship, and.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't seem like that at all. And she's still

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<v Speaker 2>arguably my favorite of all of them, Like I really

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<v Speaker 2>like Courtney, and so it seems like she wants She's like,

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<v Speaker 2>just let's have some fun, let's do something, and it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't seem to be there. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Felipe and Tori are eating outside, kissing deeply and.

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<v Speaker 2>Love this interesting scene.

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<v Speaker 1>He brings up religion, which it seemed like something that

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<v Speaker 1>they would all talked about her should we talk about

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<v Speaker 1>and it's interesting that hasn't come up on this entire

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<v Speaker 1>season so far. And she says that she is Christian

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<v Speaker 1>and that she prays and has a relationship with God.

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<v Speaker 1>And he says he grew up Catholic and then kind

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<v Speaker 1>of drops the bombshell, which I was not expecting. I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't this is an atheist. I didn't see this coming.

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<v Speaker 1>This is so interesting because I would have just assumed,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he has this like sort of traditional Brazilian

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<v Speaker 1>family and he was raised Catholic, that that's part of

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<v Speaker 1>the community, and with the sense of like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't gathering, I don't know, I just would have assumed.

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<v Speaker 2>That he is the religious guy. So this is super.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting and it's fascinating that the wedding or the matchmakers

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<v Speaker 1>didn't kind of account for this or plan for this.

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<v Speaker 1>So she asked him how does he feel about kids

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<v Speaker 1>being baptized and he says, this great life, that's just

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<v Speaker 1>a baby going into water.

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<v Speaker 2>Would say, just a baby going into water.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, you know, but he also seems like he's

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<v Speaker 1>open to it for her, well, yeah, he's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, you know, and so I was impressed

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<v Speaker 1>also with how the rest of this two next two

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<v Speaker 1>episodes played out.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't seem like this this is going to be

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<v Speaker 2>a stumbling block.

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<v Speaker 3>But it also seems I think it bodes well that

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<v Speaker 3>they're having these conversations. It seems like they're having the

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<v Speaker 3>real conversations you need to have early in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like if you're if you find out eight months

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<v Speaker 3>from now that one of you wants four kids and

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<v Speaker 3>one of you wants none, that's a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>So having these kind of what's your religion? How do

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<v Speaker 2>you want to raise?

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<v Speaker 1>These two episodes kept like slamming into my face. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god. Right, they don't know if what it's

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<v Speaker 1>like to live with each other. No, like that's so intense.

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<v Speaker 2>No, oh my god, you have three cats. I'm horribly

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<v Speaker 2>allergic to cats. I mean, like, you never know the

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<v Speaker 2>stuff that it's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 1>They talk about their dogs later, Yes, wait right, they

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<v Speaker 1>have to like get along with each other's dogs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's so crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>But I feel like they're the ones that are like,

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<v Speaker 3>let's let's talk about these things now, right.

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<v Speaker 1>And they move right into the fact that she was

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<v Speaker 1>cheated on and he admits to cheating before when he

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<v Speaker 1>made out with a girl and forgot about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>She asks if it will be difficult to be and

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<v Speaker 1>he says, I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 2>Weird answer. No.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing about Felipe that I'm learning. He's very precise.

0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:10.840
<v Speaker 1>I think he's actually smarter than he comes across.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what I mean, Like he's a smart guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I don't like he There was something about

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<v Speaker 1>him in the first couple episodes he was kind of like.

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<v Speaker 2>The goofy, you know, funny funny. But I think he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually he's like he he won't say I'm definitely gonna,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, be able to be like it's because she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't ask him, are you going to be monogamous? She

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<v Speaker 1>asked him, do you think it's going to be difficult?

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<v Speaker 1>And he's being honest, like he's being you know, nuanced

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<v Speaker 1>about it. I guess he's saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, weird question, is hard to be nuanced about though,

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<v Speaker 2>when you're with your new wife. Yeah, but is it

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be hard to be monogamous? No? Do size matter? No,

0:15:46.040 --> 0:15:48.440
<v Speaker 2>it's just he answers things right away.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I would be honest about this because I think

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<v Speaker 1>the point of marriage is that monogamy is difficult.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there's truth in that. I don't think it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's not easy to be monogamous. If it's easy

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<v Speaker 1>to be monogamous, it's not an accomplishment.

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<v Speaker 2>Find it incredibly easy. It is not.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on the whole point, the whole point of getting

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<v Speaker 1>married is that it's not easy to be monogamal.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh see, I disagree entirely.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the point of being married is you found

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<v Speaker 3>the person you want to be monogamous with forever, and

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<v Speaker 3>all that other ridiculous dating, having to sleep with other people,

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<v Speaker 3>taking your clothes off for the first time in front

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<v Speaker 3>of them, which makes you nervous, all.

0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:22.760
<v Speaker 1>That that's gone, that's sleepy, that's actually activating it. But

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<v Speaker 1>the idea that you might like somebody else or be

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to somebody else, and that you're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>feel attraction or feel interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>Finding an attraction to somebody else doesn't mean you're not

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<v Speaker 3>being monogamous.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the idea that But it's a difficulty. Oh see, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there's nothing difficult in that for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, there just is I've never had, never, once

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<v Speaker 3>had a moment when I've been with another girl, when

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<v Speaker 3>I'm in a committed relationship where I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>what am I going to do?

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<v Speaker 2>Am I maybe going to cheat? My maye? Never once

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<v Speaker 2>has that ever happened.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's interesting because to me, the whole point is

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<v Speaker 1>that monogamy is slightly like a challenge because that's why

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<v Speaker 1>it's an accomplishment. Yeah, because you stay together, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>like great.

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<v Speaker 2>In spite of wanting to be with other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, just yes, because naturally monogamy is not like natural,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think like I think naturally you want to

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<v Speaker 1>sleep with a.

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<v Speaker 2>Bunch of different people in your life.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's you know what's interesting is it might

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<v Speaker 3>have something to do with my anxiety where it's literally

0:17:15.000 --> 0:17:19.879
<v Speaker 3>like the idea that all that's gone is hugely relaxing

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<v Speaker 3>to me.

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<v Speaker 2>So to me, monogamy is I.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually agree like the idea of dating and like, ugh,

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<v Speaker 1>it seems exhausting and miserable. Also, the idea of cheating

0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:33.440
<v Speaker 1>seems well, the idea of like having to manage more

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<v Speaker 1>than one person's schedule and keep it a secret is

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<v Speaker 1>a not so no, like in reality, like I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>tempted whatsoever in that sense, but in the sense of, like,

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<v Speaker 1>am I.

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<v Speaker 2>Attracted to other people? Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>Is the idea of sleeping with a like a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of different people interesting?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, of course. Yeah. See that's never been my way.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've never I can It's it's I get anxious

0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:58.280
<v Speaker 3>with that shit. So it's like, oh my god, thank

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<v Speaker 3>god I found my person. I don't have to deal

0:18:00.119 --> 0:18:03.000
<v Speaker 3>with any of that shit anymore. So attracted to my wife,

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<v Speaker 3>all this stuff I want to do with quote unquote

0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:06.560
<v Speaker 3>with other people, I just get to do with you,

0:18:06.800 --> 0:18:08.360
<v Speaker 3>and I don't have to worry about that anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. Yeah, I absolutely love that.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we get Marissa and Adam on the beach. Yes,

0:18:29.080 --> 0:18:31.560
<v Speaker 1>she's ever modeled, but you know, it is just a

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<v Speaker 1>way for him to get come on, you, come on.

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<v Speaker 2>That, and she just goes.

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<v Speaker 1>You give Apercrombie vibes. They get their iced coffee, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm glad, she says. The drinking thing, the not

0:18:43.480 --> 0:18:45.520
<v Speaker 1>drinking thing, isn't bothering her, which is so great.

0:18:46.000 --> 0:18:48.360
<v Speaker 2>He talks about being able to toss her around.

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<v Speaker 3>Take a sip of this, sirr alcohol and this the

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<v Speaker 3>super chuckles.

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<v Speaker 2>They're perfect for each other.

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<v Speaker 1>They should just get off the show at this point, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>like we're done. Show them walking off into the sunset.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, sponsored by jet Ski.

0:19:02.840 --> 0:19:06.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maybe maybe it's the honeymoon period, thought.

0:19:07.160 --> 0:19:10.320
<v Speaker 2>He they instantly he went for being Are you kidding

0:19:10.359 --> 0:19:13.159
<v Speaker 2>me with this? Douche too? I can't wait till Adams

0:19:13.200 --> 0:19:16.480
<v Speaker 2>comes back on screen again. I love him. So all right,

0:19:16.600 --> 0:19:20.879
<v Speaker 2>Michelle and Cameron are on the couch. He wants to

0:19:20.920 --> 0:19:24.440
<v Speaker 2>be able to talk about struggles, and so she gets

0:19:24.480 --> 0:19:27.800
<v Speaker 2>emotional and talks about her fibroids issue and she had

0:19:27.800 --> 0:19:28.760
<v Speaker 2>her surgery at twenty six.

0:19:28.960 --> 0:19:32.240
<v Speaker 1>She's gonna need surgery again. It's gonna mean that they

0:19:32.320 --> 0:19:35.800
<v Speaker 1>have to plan and ahead for the kids because she

0:19:35.840 --> 0:19:39.040
<v Speaker 1>has to wait like time after Yeah, she has a surgery.

0:19:39.880 --> 0:19:43.120
<v Speaker 1>She's accepted that it would be okay to adopt, and

0:19:43.320 --> 0:19:45.000
<v Speaker 1>luckily his sister is adopted.

0:19:45.080 --> 0:19:48.160
<v Speaker 2>So it seems like a good call man, great call, matchmakers.

0:19:48.400 --> 0:19:49.879
<v Speaker 3>Right when you said that again, and I think we

0:19:49.960 --> 0:19:53.080
<v Speaker 3>knew that before, but when right when when it happened again,

0:19:53.160 --> 0:19:54.399
<v Speaker 3>it was like, oh, that's right.

0:19:54.440 --> 0:19:57.159
<v Speaker 2>All the people to you know that adoption might be

0:19:57.160 --> 0:19:58.879
<v Speaker 2>a chap. No, yeah, he seems open to it.

0:19:58.960 --> 0:20:02.080
<v Speaker 1>Great, Mecca and bel Jolie having drinks at the bar.

0:20:03.200 --> 0:20:06.240
<v Speaker 1>She checks in to see how they're doing, both feeling well.

0:20:06.680 --> 0:20:07.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm worried he's too young.

0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:11.439
<v Speaker 3>I know, emotionally it just seems like he might be

0:20:11.480 --> 0:20:15.399
<v Speaker 3>a little young for marriage, Like are they gonna I

0:20:15.400 --> 0:20:17.359
<v Speaker 3>could see them literally, I know this sounds crazy.

0:20:17.560 --> 0:20:18.600
<v Speaker 2>I could see them being like.

0:20:18.640 --> 0:20:21.440
<v Speaker 3>We've decided not to stay married, but we're gonna keep dating,

0:20:21.920 --> 0:20:23.320
<v Speaker 3>Like I could see that happening.

0:20:23.680 --> 0:20:25.639
<v Speaker 2>I just he seems a little young for me.

0:20:25.720 --> 0:20:27.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well they I just felt like in this scene

0:20:27.600 --> 0:20:30.160
<v Speaker 1>they over talked how great they're doing, like you know.

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<v Speaker 2>How to like meeting people. Just he was so such

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<v Speaker 2>a good time. Yeah, such a good time.

0:20:33.480 --> 0:20:36.520
<v Speaker 1>We're so we're having something, and then they're so excited

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<v Speaker 1>to get to meet other people, which also I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you guys already a little like there's one of

0:20:41.240 --> 0:20:41.880
<v Speaker 1>you already?

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder for it, Yeah, I wonder. Caitlin and Devin

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<v Speaker 2>have dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>He brings up her dad, says your dad seems like

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<v Speaker 1>a funny guy, which I thought is the understatement of

0:20:50.520 --> 0:20:56.520
<v Speaker 1>the Jeff and she says her parents repaired well after

0:20:56.560 --> 0:20:59.680
<v Speaker 1>Andy fighting, which I I liked, and I thought it

0:20:59.720 --> 0:21:02.320
<v Speaker 1>was a good sentiment, but doesn't seem to play out

0:21:02.680 --> 0:21:05.560
<v Speaker 1>in their story. Later on, Nicki and Sean in a

0:21:05.560 --> 0:21:10.080
<v Speaker 1>little bungalow, he is complimenting her body, she is not

0:21:10.160 --> 0:21:13.359
<v Speaker 1>saying the same. He says he's happy with his dad bod,

0:21:13.680 --> 0:21:15.800
<v Speaker 1>strips off his shirt, and she says to the camera

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<v Speaker 1>and a confessional that she never saw herself with the

0:21:19.000 --> 0:21:22.800
<v Speaker 1>guy with the dad bod, especially without the dad she did.

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<v Speaker 3>She did say, though, which is which is nice that

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<v Speaker 3>she did start by saying she loves his confidence. Yes,

0:21:27.640 --> 0:21:31.439
<v Speaker 3>because it's somebody like me who's always been super uh

0:21:31.880 --> 0:21:33.679
<v Speaker 3>kind of not disgusted, it's not the right word, but

0:21:33.760 --> 0:21:36.280
<v Speaker 3>turned off by my own body. I never feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm in shape, and I never want to take my

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<v Speaker 3>shirt off.

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<v Speaker 2>I envy men like that that are like, what.

0:21:41.320 --> 0:21:43.840
<v Speaker 3>Do I care I'm taking my shirt off and feeling

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<v Speaker 3>the sun on my chest.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, And this is the thing I like Sean

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<v Speaker 2>a lot. Me too, Me too. I'm always like, dude,

0:21:50.320 --> 0:21:50.800
<v Speaker 2>you're great.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, he just doesn't have those like that's and

0:21:53.960 --> 0:21:56.040
<v Speaker 1>that's why the part of me is still optimistic, because

0:21:56.040 --> 0:21:57.680
<v Speaker 1>he really just doesn't seem to.

0:21:59.320 --> 0:22:01.119
<v Speaker 2>It's it's a little like spectromy do.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I mean?

0:22:01.880 --> 0:22:03.520
<v Speaker 1>The way he is, and I think it's one of

0:22:03.520 --> 0:22:05.760
<v Speaker 1>those things maybe he could just learn, like maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>maybe learn the skills.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you said it right though. I think once

0:22:10.000 --> 0:22:13.720
<v Speaker 3>especially a woman has the ick. I think getting over

0:22:13.760 --> 0:22:16.040
<v Speaker 3>that is a very very very tough thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah.

0:22:17.240 --> 0:22:19.360
<v Speaker 1>He compliments her looks and she says she saw this

0:22:19.600 --> 0:22:23.720
<v Speaker 1>gorgeous audience. When she highlights, he is like, the way

0:22:23.760 --> 0:22:27.520
<v Speaker 1>you said gorgeous, I think she's not there yet.

0:22:27.840 --> 0:22:28.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>He asks her about her growth, and this is one

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<v Speaker 1>of his first like sort of therapy psychobabble questions. When

0:22:38.119 --> 0:22:41.639
<v Speaker 1>she tries to answer, he like kind of says, but

0:22:41.680 --> 0:22:43.320
<v Speaker 1>that I asked you about your growth and it's very

0:22:43.359 --> 0:22:46.400
<v Speaker 1>precise and like yes, she says, she feels like she's

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<v Speaker 1>being interviewed and that the way an academic thing.

0:22:49.680 --> 0:22:52.560
<v Speaker 2>Says things to her like yeah, you you didn't actually

0:22:52.600 --> 0:22:54.680
<v Speaker 2>answer the question. What I said was, I'm like, wait,

0:22:54.800 --> 0:22:55.800
<v Speaker 2>are you? Is she on trial?

0:22:55.840 --> 0:22:56.320
<v Speaker 1>At this point?

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<v Speaker 2>Is to just chill, yeah, chill. Yeah, it's weird, and

0:23:00.240 --> 0:23:02.200
<v Speaker 2>he does. He keeps trying to hit the buzzwords that

0:23:02.240 --> 0:23:05.439
<v Speaker 2>you hear on Instagram all the time. Of like, you know,

0:23:05.520 --> 0:23:07.520
<v Speaker 2>this is what I'm supposed to be talking about. I

0:23:07.560 --> 0:23:10.399
<v Speaker 2>hear you. I've processed, but it's like, oh, god, just

0:23:10.440 --> 0:23:14.200
<v Speaker 2>have a conversation. I've taken the time to process. Yes, yeah,

0:23:14.240 --> 0:23:15.600
<v Speaker 2>it's too much. It's too much.

0:23:15.800 --> 0:23:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Then we get some phone footage of all the couples

0:23:18.000 --> 0:23:20.320
<v Speaker 1>hanging out. I guess they're just constantly filming themselves in

0:23:20.320 --> 0:23:21.720
<v Speaker 1>case something comes.

0:23:21.440 --> 0:23:22.080
<v Speaker 4>Out of it. Yeah.

0:23:22.240 --> 0:23:23.960
<v Speaker 2>I think it's kind of like, hey, when we're not here,

0:23:24.520 --> 0:23:26.600
<v Speaker 2>you have to do a I'm guessing contractual, you have

0:23:26.640 --> 0:23:28.440
<v Speaker 2>to do a fifteen minute blah.

0:23:28.280 --> 0:23:30.080
<v Speaker 1>Blah blah, every kind of And then we get Courtney

0:23:30.119 --> 0:23:32.320
<v Speaker 1>and Nick on the beach, awkwardly not sure what to

0:23:32.359 --> 0:23:33.200
<v Speaker 1>do with themselves.

0:23:34.440 --> 0:23:37.359
<v Speaker 2>God, Nick, we could play basketball. Do you want to

0:23:37.359 --> 0:23:39.080
<v Speaker 2>swim out there? To the fact I'm not swimming?

0:23:39.359 --> 0:23:43.760
<v Speaker 3>Okay, how about just sitting here talking, throw sand at

0:23:43.760 --> 0:23:46.480
<v Speaker 3>each other, make a castle, just have a conversation.

0:23:46.600 --> 0:23:47.600
<v Speaker 2>It's so awkward.

0:23:47.840 --> 0:23:50.480
<v Speaker 1>Then we get a fake out of Felipe and Tory.

0:23:51.040 --> 0:23:54.080
<v Speaker 2>Are they having sex? Nope, they're just moaning because they're

0:23:54.200 --> 0:23:56.240
<v Speaker 2>eating a lot. Yeah.

0:23:56.359 --> 0:23:58.879
<v Speaker 1>Then they pick up on their sort of cheating conversation

0:23:59.040 --> 0:24:03.119
<v Speaker 1>because she wants someone who was loyal, and she tells

0:24:03.160 --> 0:24:07.439
<v Speaker 1>this pretty entertaining story of being cheated on, how she

0:24:07.520 --> 0:24:12.160
<v Speaker 1>got a message from the side chick o moved.

0:24:11.960 --> 0:24:14.960
<v Speaker 2>Out while her boyfriend was away, and.

0:24:14.840 --> 0:24:20.399
<v Speaker 3>Then she and the side girl like, man, yeah, but

0:24:20.440 --> 0:24:21.160
<v Speaker 3>that's gotta hurt.

0:24:21.160 --> 0:24:24.240
<v Speaker 1>Man Like, that's that's gotta make you so so And

0:24:24.280 --> 0:24:26.080
<v Speaker 1>that's so different than what I mean. I would say

0:24:26.080 --> 0:24:28.320
<v Speaker 1>that's different than what Felipe is talking about when he cheated,

0:24:28.359 --> 0:24:31.679
<v Speaker 1>Like it sounds like he had one night thing, you know,

0:24:31.800 --> 0:24:35.439
<v Speaker 1>like he's he made out with somebody, probably under the

0:24:35.480 --> 0:24:39.920
<v Speaker 1>influence of alcohol or whatever. But in her story, it

0:24:40.119 --> 0:24:42.720
<v Speaker 1>was like an ongoing thing with him. That's horrible.

0:24:42.760 --> 0:24:45.040
<v Speaker 3>How do you I mean, it can ruin devastate you

0:24:45.040 --> 0:24:47.760
<v Speaker 3>on so many levels, just like, Okay, you've destroyed my trust.

0:24:48.280 --> 0:24:51.160
<v Speaker 3>I can't believe anything and you can't says to me anymore. Yeah,

0:24:51.200 --> 0:24:52.520
<v Speaker 3>that's that's really dangerous.

0:24:52.560 --> 0:24:55.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I hope Felipe is sensitive to that. I think

0:24:55.080 --> 0:24:56.840
<v Speaker 2>he will be. Yeah.

0:24:56.880 --> 0:25:00.680
<v Speaker 1>Beljiuli and Mecca are on a boat talking about outfits,

0:25:00.720 --> 0:25:04.040
<v Speaker 1>which are matching greens. She brings up.

0:25:04.000 --> 0:25:07.000
<v Speaker 2>Their friendship and she says this thing she wants.

0:25:07.040 --> 0:25:10.879
<v Speaker 1>She's wondering if their friendship is outweighing their romance, but

0:25:11.480 --> 0:25:16.920
<v Speaker 1>he thinks it's natural. She likes a man to lead

0:25:17.920 --> 0:25:19.440
<v Speaker 1>and not keep checking.

0:25:19.880 --> 0:25:22.440
<v Speaker 2>It's such a it's such a dance dude, I know.

0:25:23.160 --> 0:25:25.960
<v Speaker 2>And he's not making the moves. Basically, it seems like.

0:25:25.920 --> 0:25:28.400
<v Speaker 1>He has not you know, and she's ready. She's ready

0:25:28.440 --> 0:25:32.000
<v Speaker 1>for some kissing and some touching and something physical super interesting.

0:25:32.840 --> 0:25:33.359
<v Speaker 2>But I don't know.

0:25:33.440 --> 0:25:35.159
<v Speaker 1>At this point, I was also just like, is it

0:25:35.240 --> 0:25:38.239
<v Speaker 1>the cameras? Like is he nervous about the cameras being there?

0:25:38.240 --> 0:25:40.520
<v Speaker 1>Because that would kind of be weird too, sure, Like

0:25:40.840 --> 0:25:43.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I would be super ready to like.

0:25:43.760 --> 0:25:45.080
<v Speaker 2>How many times you kissed on camera?

0:25:45.240 --> 0:25:47.359
<v Speaker 1>But with my wife, Like if I if a camera

0:25:48.320 --> 0:25:51.000
<v Speaker 1>my wife around, I probably i'd hold her hand, right,

0:25:51.160 --> 0:25:53.280
<v Speaker 1>But I don't think I'd be macking on my wife

0:25:53.280 --> 0:25:55.639
<v Speaker 1>on camera. Like I don't like doing PDAs, Like we

0:25:55.720 --> 0:25:58.320
<v Speaker 1>do it when we're alone, like you have a private

0:25:58.359 --> 0:26:00.320
<v Speaker 1>moment like on the way, you know, we pass each

0:26:00.320 --> 0:26:02.399
<v Speaker 1>other or something, or at a party. We don't do

0:26:02.440 --> 0:26:04.800
<v Speaker 1>it at like a table at a party, you know.

0:26:05.119 --> 0:26:07.320
<v Speaker 1>I feel like if a Gramera crew were following us

0:26:07.320 --> 0:26:09.919
<v Speaker 1>around capturing our normal life, even if we were like

0:26:09.920 --> 0:26:10.359
<v Speaker 1>on a boat.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be making up with my wife

0:26:11.840 --> 0:26:13.800
<v Speaker 2>on Hey, I kind of agree with you.

0:26:13.880 --> 0:26:16.520
<v Speaker 3>I also think he's right, though, and and or she's right,

0:26:17.400 --> 0:26:19.880
<v Speaker 3>if especially right at the beginning. If you're not careful,

0:26:19.920 --> 0:26:22.360
<v Speaker 3>you get you can friend each other so fast.

0:26:22.280 --> 0:26:24.399
<v Speaker 1>It seems like it's happening. I mean, because what he

0:26:24.720 --> 0:26:27.840
<v Speaker 1>when he says later, I know, yeah, uh, Cordy and

0:26:27.920 --> 0:26:31.359
<v Speaker 1>Nick at poolside and chairs awkward talk.

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<v Speaker 2>Nick, come on, buddy, then something, pull out trivial pursuit

0:26:36.320 --> 0:26:38.399
<v Speaker 2>cards and something. Do you want to go to the pool?

0:26:38.720 --> 0:26:39.639
<v Speaker 2>So get a drink?

0:26:40.160 --> 0:26:44.000
<v Speaker 1>And then she says to her camera or confessional, I

0:26:44.040 --> 0:26:46.840
<v Speaker 1>am bored. I'm bold, says that she wants to get

0:26:46.840 --> 0:26:50.760
<v Speaker 1>pushed in the pool anything playing at this point. Just

0:26:50.840 --> 0:26:53.600
<v Speaker 1>have some drinks, which they do. It's just maybe gonna help.

0:26:54.440 --> 0:26:56.360
<v Speaker 1>And this is where he talks about how his artistic,

0:26:56.480 --> 0:26:59.600
<v Speaker 1>artsy side came out via reality shows, which I'm like, really,

0:27:00.280 --> 0:27:03.400
<v Speaker 1>you're an entertaining guy and not right reality shows. Yeah,

0:27:03.600 --> 0:27:04.879
<v Speaker 1>something's really missing for her.

0:27:05.200 --> 0:27:07.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah you forget the guy went to MI I t

0:27:07.240 --> 0:27:10.040
<v Speaker 3>so he probably has an engineering analytical kind of mind

0:27:10.680 --> 0:27:12.760
<v Speaker 3>which might not lend it, which is why you think

0:27:12.800 --> 0:27:14.879
<v Speaker 3>the balance of being on a reality show would open

0:27:14.960 --> 0:27:18.040
<v Speaker 3>him up to being far more goofy and get.

0:27:18.119 --> 0:27:20.600
<v Speaker 2>But he's it's really I mean, this was this was

0:27:20.680 --> 0:27:21.160
<v Speaker 2>kind of rough.

0:27:21.359 --> 0:27:23.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's fallen asleep during his interview.

0:27:25.480 --> 0:27:29.200
<v Speaker 2>Are you okay? But he thinks everything is gonna going great.

0:27:29.960 --> 0:27:32.320
<v Speaker 3>It's like he was bitten by a mosquito and got

0:27:32.359 --> 0:27:33.600
<v Speaker 3>something where he's just like.

0:27:33.640 --> 0:27:36.360
<v Speaker 2>Dozing in the chair and everything, and it's like, come on,

0:27:36.880 --> 0:27:38.960
<v Speaker 2>all right. Then we get Caitlin and Devon jumping into

0:27:38.960 --> 0:27:42.399
<v Speaker 2>a swimming hole. This place looked awesome, amazing. They have

0:27:42.520 --> 0:27:43.520
<v Speaker 2>fruit and champagne.

0:27:43.640 --> 0:27:46.880
<v Speaker 1>I'd still have match about their past relationships. He's she's

0:27:46.920 --> 0:27:49.600
<v Speaker 1>been in two four year relationships. He's been only in

0:27:50.440 --> 0:27:53.640
<v Speaker 1>year year and a half relationship. He travels a lot,

0:27:53.720 --> 0:27:56.679
<v Speaker 1>he's not good with long distance. And then she introduces

0:27:56.720 --> 0:28:00.000
<v Speaker 1>a recurring theme, which is this black cat golden retree.

0:28:01.160 --> 0:28:03.119
<v Speaker 2>I hadn't really heard this, but I hadn't either. I

0:28:03.160 --> 0:28:04.120
<v Speaker 2>kind of know what she's talking.

0:28:03.920 --> 0:28:07.520
<v Speaker 1>About, This idea that there's the person who, like a cat,

0:28:07.600 --> 0:28:10.760
<v Speaker 1>is more reserved, wants like, wants to come to you

0:28:10.800 --> 0:28:12.520
<v Speaker 1>on their own terms. You got to earn it a

0:28:12.520 --> 0:28:14.080
<v Speaker 1>little bit, Yeah, you got to earn it a little bit,

0:28:14.119 --> 0:28:17.320
<v Speaker 1>and then the Golden Retriever which just loves you, Golden

0:28:17.359 --> 0:28:20.400
<v Speaker 1>Retriever of Boy Meets World, which we discovered, yea, Eric,

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:22.919
<v Speaker 1>the character of Eric was very much the Golden Retriever.

0:28:22.760 --> 0:28:25.320
<v Speaker 2>Asce is this always giving love, always supportive.

0:28:25.560 --> 0:28:28.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I am definitely more of a Golden Retriever.

0:28:28.560 --> 0:28:29.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh me too, one hundred percent.

0:28:30.320 --> 0:28:33.040
<v Speaker 1>I am one hundred percent the Golden Retriever in my relationship.

0:28:33.080 --> 0:28:35.919
<v Speaker 2>I am a thousand percent the same way to my detriment.

0:28:36.040 --> 0:28:38.680
<v Speaker 3>Sometimes yes, with other people, because I'm one of those

0:28:38.680 --> 0:28:42.200
<v Speaker 3>people you could you could extrapolate it out even farther

0:28:42.320 --> 0:28:45.200
<v Speaker 3>where it's There are some people where when you meet

0:28:45.200 --> 0:28:49.680
<v Speaker 3>somebody new, they have to earn your trust. And then

0:28:49.720 --> 0:28:51.640
<v Speaker 3>there's people like me where I trust you right from

0:28:51.640 --> 0:28:53.480
<v Speaker 3>the start until you do something to where I can't

0:28:53.480 --> 0:28:56.320
<v Speaker 3>trust you anymore. And so I don't know which one's

0:28:56.320 --> 0:28:58.280
<v Speaker 3>more healthy, But that's just how I am. I'm definitely

0:28:58.280 --> 0:28:58.960
<v Speaker 3>the Golden Retriever.

0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:02.880
<v Speaker 1>Well, she she says that she's dated a lot of assholes,

0:29:03.440 --> 0:29:08.160
<v Speaker 1>and knowing where this storyline starts to go, I would say,

0:29:08.600 --> 0:29:12.400
<v Speaker 1>looking back on this scene now she is, I would

0:29:12.400 --> 0:29:15.320
<v Speaker 1>say she's kind of she's used to assholes who treats

0:29:15.360 --> 0:29:18.280
<v Speaker 1>her poorly. Yes, And I think it's a pattern probably

0:29:18.320 --> 0:29:21.480
<v Speaker 1>started by her dad, right, which is like I love you, honey, baby,

0:29:21.520 --> 0:29:23.680
<v Speaker 1>but then probably treated her horribly or didn't talk to

0:29:23.720 --> 0:29:28.200
<v Speaker 1>her for whatever. So she's used to that treatment. For men,

0:29:28.320 --> 0:29:31.000
<v Speaker 1>she thinks that that is what the way she should

0:29:31.040 --> 0:29:33.560
<v Speaker 1>be treated, like yeah, that they have like intense moments

0:29:33.560 --> 0:29:36.600
<v Speaker 1>of like fun and awesomeness and then she is like

0:29:36.880 --> 0:29:39.720
<v Speaker 1>dismissed and not you know, shown affection.

0:29:39.960 --> 0:29:41.800
<v Speaker 2>Why do you think that is? It seems like people

0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:43.560
<v Speaker 2>just have patterns, you know, right, But it seems to

0:29:43.560 --> 0:29:44.800
<v Speaker 2>be more with women than men.

0:29:44.840 --> 0:29:46.840
<v Speaker 3>And I'm obviously not trying to generalize, but you seem

0:29:46.840 --> 0:29:49.720
<v Speaker 3>to find a lot of women that they they you know,

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:51.760
<v Speaker 3>they always talk about the nice guy finishes last, like

0:29:51.800 --> 0:29:54.840
<v Speaker 3>they kind of want the asshole and then they're like, oh,

0:29:54.880 --> 0:29:56.760
<v Speaker 3>the asshole that I'm with is such an asshole, and

0:29:56.760 --> 0:29:59.320
<v Speaker 3>it's like, well, yeah, you wanted an asshole, and you

0:29:59.360 --> 0:30:02.000
<v Speaker 3>seem to find a lot which is strange.

0:30:02.120 --> 0:30:05.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I definitely like I have always been more

0:30:05.880 --> 0:30:09.200
<v Speaker 1>attracted to like I think I would fall prey to

0:30:09.400 --> 0:30:12.080
<v Speaker 1>negging very you know, the whole negging thing right where

0:30:12.080 --> 0:30:14.480
<v Speaker 1>somebody says something negative and then like and that's like

0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:15.920
<v Speaker 1>the whole pickup artist's way to.

0:30:16.000 --> 0:30:17.360
<v Speaker 2>Like you're supposed to like do.

0:30:17.920 --> 0:30:20.080
<v Speaker 1>But I do think that like for me, like if

0:30:20.080 --> 0:30:23.480
<v Speaker 1>somebody is like sort of teasing me or making fun

0:30:23.520 --> 0:30:26.040
<v Speaker 1>of me or like, I'm way more likely to be like,

0:30:26.080 --> 0:30:27.080
<v Speaker 1>well that's interesting.

0:30:27.320 --> 0:30:29.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean if they're doing it in a fun way, but.

0:30:30.120 --> 0:30:32.560
<v Speaker 1>Or just any I just know my pattern like I

0:30:32.560 --> 0:30:35.040
<v Speaker 1>had never like when I dated, I had the word

0:30:35.080 --> 0:30:38.000
<v Speaker 1>negging was not something in this. But when I heard that,

0:30:38.040 --> 0:30:40.920
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, I definitely fell for that.

0:30:41.400 --> 0:30:44.400
<v Speaker 2>So I mean, is it a challenge, Yes, it's the challenge.

0:30:44.600 --> 0:30:45.360
<v Speaker 2>It's the challenge.

0:30:45.400 --> 0:30:47.880
<v Speaker 1>It's like, oh, yeah, you're you're too cool for me,

0:30:48.480 --> 0:30:50.320
<v Speaker 1>like you're cool for me, or you're like, I'm not

0:30:50.560 --> 0:30:52.760
<v Speaker 1>like in your league. Now I'm gonna have to make

0:30:52.800 --> 0:30:53.600
<v Speaker 1>it into your league.

0:30:53.640 --> 0:30:55.000
<v Speaker 2>Like I definitely.

0:30:54.600 --> 0:30:56.920
<v Speaker 1>Fall prey to that. I'm older and smart enough now

0:30:56.920 --> 0:30:58.840
<v Speaker 1>that I don't think I would. But when I was younger,

0:30:58.920 --> 0:31:00.720
<v Speaker 1>I definitely When I looked back back on like when

0:31:00.760 --> 0:31:03.560
<v Speaker 1>I heard that term and I looked back on past relationships,

0:31:03.560 --> 0:31:05.080
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, oh, yeah, I totally do you.

0:31:05.040 --> 0:31:07.120
<v Speaker 3>Realize the vast majority of the girls that you were

0:31:07.160 --> 0:31:09.840
<v Speaker 3>doing that with were probably going, I can't believe right

0:31:09.920 --> 0:31:11.760
<v Speaker 3>or strong from boy me to old is interested in me.

0:31:12.760 --> 0:31:15.680
<v Speaker 2>Like you were the get no. Yes.

0:31:15.960 --> 0:31:17.680
<v Speaker 1>Well, that's why I was always going for older women

0:31:17.720 --> 0:31:19.520
<v Speaker 1>who didn't know what Boy Meets World was.

0:31:19.640 --> 0:31:21.720
<v Speaker 2>Because they would be like, who the hell are you?

0:31:21.720 --> 0:31:24.320
<v Speaker 1>You think you're the you're you're hot shit? And I

0:31:24.360 --> 0:31:26.640
<v Speaker 1>was like eighteen dating twenty five year old me too,

0:31:26.680 --> 0:31:27.400
<v Speaker 1>because I was like.

0:31:27.560 --> 0:31:31.120
<v Speaker 2>Yes, but I thought we were the prize in our heads.

0:31:31.160 --> 0:31:32.640
<v Speaker 2>We were never I think I.

0:31:32.640 --> 0:31:35.040
<v Speaker 1>Put myself in situations where I wasn't because I think

0:31:35.040 --> 0:31:36.200
<v Speaker 1>it would have been too like.

0:31:36.120 --> 0:31:37.040
<v Speaker 2>I think that was.

0:31:37.120 --> 0:31:37.320
<v Speaker 4>You know.

0:31:37.360 --> 0:31:40.280
<v Speaker 1>That's my pattern back then is that I would go

0:31:40.360 --> 0:31:43.520
<v Speaker 1>for women that didn't probably treat me very well or

0:31:44.200 --> 0:31:47.560
<v Speaker 1>have much respect for me because I was so like

0:31:47.640 --> 0:31:50.160
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want a fan. To be honest, I of

0:31:50.200 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 1>course I was. I wanted to get away from somebody

0:31:53.200 --> 0:31:56.160
<v Speaker 1>who just wanted me because I was on television. I

0:31:56.200 --> 0:31:58.320
<v Speaker 1>would so I took it to an extreme, you know,

0:31:58.400 --> 0:32:00.680
<v Speaker 1>so I would literally try and find people who had

0:32:00.720 --> 0:32:01.600
<v Speaker 1>never heard of Boy.

0:32:01.400 --> 0:32:04.160
<v Speaker 2>Meets World, and so that usually meant older women, you know,

0:32:04.240 --> 0:32:05.840
<v Speaker 2>and that would be like the biggest bonus.

0:32:05.840 --> 0:32:11.400
<v Speaker 1>In fact, my first girlfriend in college you may remember Sarah. Yeah,

0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:15.400
<v Speaker 1>we dated for a while and she lied to me

0:32:15.920 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 1>for the first month of our relationship. She pretended that

0:32:19.160 --> 0:32:21.160
<v Speaker 1>she had never heard of boy Meets World, and that

0:32:21.280 --> 0:32:22.680
<v Speaker 1>is part of the reason that I fell into a

0:32:22.720 --> 0:32:23.400
<v Speaker 1>relationship with her.

0:32:23.400 --> 0:32:25.520
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, and then how did how did she finally

0:32:25.520 --> 0:32:25.840
<v Speaker 2>tell you?

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:29.080
<v Speaker 1>Like, oh no, I she broke down crying, like, you know,

0:32:29.160 --> 0:32:31.320
<v Speaker 1>three weeks or a month into our relationship and was like,

0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:34.360
<v Speaker 1>I am so sorry. I feel so horrible because this

0:32:34.480 --> 0:32:36.960
<v Speaker 1>is getting pretty serious. But I kind of knew that

0:32:37.080 --> 0:32:39.240
<v Speaker 1>you would, you know, be turned off by the fact

0:32:39.240 --> 0:32:41.600
<v Speaker 1>that I had seen Boybet's World or knew who you were.

0:32:41.640 --> 0:32:43.680
<v Speaker 1>So I pretended to not know who you were when

0:32:43.720 --> 0:32:44.320
<v Speaker 1>we first met.

0:32:44.360 --> 0:32:46.640
<v Speaker 2>Wow, and I forgave her. I was like, yeah, then

0:32:46.720 --> 0:32:48.360
<v Speaker 2>she showed you your a TGIF tattoo.

0:32:53.280 --> 0:32:55.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean, in part, it's like I was, you know,

0:32:55.960 --> 0:32:57.719
<v Speaker 1>I was part of the problem too, because like I

0:32:57.800 --> 0:33:00.640
<v Speaker 1>was artificially putting up a bear where I was like,

0:33:00.680 --> 0:33:03.160
<v Speaker 1>if you've seen boring Me's world, we're doing to recognize me,

0:33:03.320 --> 0:33:06.280
<v Speaker 1>you couldn't possibly be a real relationship, which is bullshit, like,

0:33:06.280 --> 0:33:08.040
<v Speaker 1>of course, obviously somebody, you know whatever.

0:33:08.120 --> 0:33:10.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I always went for older women because it

0:33:10.280 --> 0:33:13.200
<v Speaker 3>meant that I was more mature if they liked totally, like,

0:33:13.240 --> 0:33:15.320
<v Speaker 3>that's what it means. I'm an adultate, I'm you know,

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:18.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm seventeen, she's twenty eight. That means I'm really like

0:33:18.400 --> 0:33:20.640
<v Speaker 3>twenty eight. It's like, that's what it was. Like, Okay,

0:33:20.680 --> 0:33:22.560
<v Speaker 3>that's really actually just creepy when you look back at it.

0:33:22.600 --> 0:33:23.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, totally.

0:33:37.560 --> 0:33:37.880
<v Speaker 2>All right.

0:33:37.960 --> 0:33:41.360
<v Speaker 1>Nikki and Sean on the Beach talk about how their

0:33:41.480 --> 0:33:43.720
<v Speaker 1>video diary went sideways the night before.

0:33:44.160 --> 0:33:44.600
<v Speaker 2>That's all.

0:33:44.880 --> 0:33:47.440
<v Speaker 3>So the pattern you keep seeing with them is they're like, yeah,

0:33:47.440 --> 0:33:48.360
<v Speaker 3>we're going to the airport.

0:33:48.440 --> 0:33:51.800
<v Speaker 2>So we had a serious problem at the airport. That's

0:33:51.800 --> 0:33:54.240
<v Speaker 2>what they keep telling you. We're going for drinks. We

0:33:54.320 --> 0:33:56.760
<v Speaker 2>ended up having a terrible night at drinks. It's like, uh, so,

0:33:57.120 --> 0:33:57.880
<v Speaker 2>it seems that.

0:33:57.880 --> 0:34:01.120
<v Speaker 1>She decided that they're gonna go through the entire on

0:34:01.320 --> 0:34:07.760
<v Speaker 1>camera experiment before having sex, and she decided this without

0:34:08.000 --> 0:34:11.799
<v Speaker 1>really him one hundred percent agreed, although it sounds like he.

0:34:11.800 --> 0:34:14.239
<v Speaker 2>Kind of did. So it's one of these things.

0:34:14.280 --> 0:34:16.360
<v Speaker 1>It seems like what Shawn's really upset about is that

0:34:16.360 --> 0:34:19.600
<v Speaker 1>they're not gonna have sex, and he can't be upset

0:34:19.600 --> 0:34:20.560
<v Speaker 1>about that, so.

0:34:20.440 --> 0:34:22.759
<v Speaker 2>He's keeps being upset about I'm just upset about the

0:34:22.840 --> 0:34:24.560
<v Speaker 2>way you say, you know. It's one of those things.

0:34:24.719 --> 0:34:26.399
<v Speaker 2>It's like, no, no, I'm not mad that we're not having

0:34:26.400 --> 0:34:27.200
<v Speaker 2>sex for five weeks.

0:34:27.520 --> 0:34:30.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm mad about the way you did it without consult

0:34:30.400 --> 0:34:32.759
<v Speaker 1>made that decision without me being on board.

0:34:32.840 --> 0:34:34.480
<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, but it does sound a little

0:34:34.480 --> 0:34:37.240
<v Speaker 3>bit like she was like, I've decided we're not having sex,

0:34:37.280 --> 0:34:39.319
<v Speaker 3>and then turned to the cameras like we've decided to

0:34:39.360 --> 0:34:40.040
<v Speaker 3>not have sex.

0:34:40.120 --> 0:34:42.680
<v Speaker 2>And he's like, well, I didn't decide to not have sex.

0:34:42.640 --> 0:34:45.680
<v Speaker 1>But they did have a conversation about it, right, and yeah,

0:34:45.719 --> 0:34:49.239
<v Speaker 1>and I know, but yeah, I don't know. Man, he's

0:34:49.239 --> 0:34:51.640
<v Speaker 1>making it about how they communicate, which I'm not sure

0:34:51.640 --> 0:34:53.040
<v Speaker 1>if it's really about how they communicate.

0:34:53.080 --> 0:34:53.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:34:53.680 --> 0:34:56.840
<v Speaker 3>She wants to get Yeah, she absolutely wants to get

0:34:56.880 --> 0:35:01.279
<v Speaker 3>through this entire experiment without ever being naked with this guy,

0:35:01.600 --> 0:35:03.200
<v Speaker 3>and then and then they're not gonna be together at

0:35:03.200 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 3>the end, and she can be like I never even

0:35:04.600 --> 0:35:05.160
<v Speaker 3>slept with them.

0:35:05.280 --> 0:35:08.439
<v Speaker 2>That's what that's I'm that's what she wants at least.

0:35:08.440 --> 0:35:10.840
<v Speaker 1>Now, can they get out of it before the show

0:35:10.920 --> 0:35:11.200
<v Speaker 1>is over?

0:35:11.840 --> 0:35:13.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think they can. I think you can go.

0:35:13.719 --> 0:35:16.880
<v Speaker 3>I think it's happened before. Dude, there's been some random

0:35:16.920 --> 0:35:18.600
<v Speaker 3>shit that's happened on the show. I remember one of

0:35:18.600 --> 0:35:20.960
<v Speaker 3>the seasons. Seriously, I forget which season it was. This

0:35:21.040 --> 0:35:26.400
<v Speaker 3>is the truth. They got married and they go to

0:35:26.520 --> 0:35:30.239
<v Speaker 3>the airport for the honeymoon, and the woman he just

0:35:30.320 --> 0:35:32.839
<v Speaker 3>married was pulled aside by security and arrested. She had

0:35:32.840 --> 0:35:36.080
<v Speaker 3>a warrant for her rest and couldn't leave the country,

0:35:36.680 --> 0:35:39.040
<v Speaker 3>and so they put him in off Well, no, they

0:35:39.040 --> 0:35:41.320
<v Speaker 3>put him in a hotel room and with the cameras.

0:35:41.320 --> 0:35:44.440
<v Speaker 3>The producer came up and they're like, we vetted, we

0:35:44.520 --> 0:35:47.600
<v Speaker 3>didn't know any of this happened. If you want to

0:35:47.640 --> 0:35:51.279
<v Speaker 3>bail now, you can bail now. We completely understand what's

0:35:51.320 --> 0:35:53.440
<v Speaker 3>going on. And then they interviewed her and she's like,

0:35:53.480 --> 0:35:55.960
<v Speaker 3>it was a misunderstanding. My ex boyfriend said I was

0:35:55.960 --> 0:35:58.000
<v Speaker 3>stalking him, So there was like some warrant I thought

0:35:58.040 --> 0:36:00.400
<v Speaker 3>I took care of. And they ended up continue on

0:36:00.440 --> 0:36:02.400
<v Speaker 3>the show, but they wouldn't let her leave the country

0:36:02.480 --> 0:36:04.719
<v Speaker 3>at first, so that like the first night with his

0:36:04.800 --> 0:36:07.600
<v Speaker 3>wife they're like, oh, she was arrested. So, I mean,

0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:10.480
<v Speaker 3>there's crazy stuff that has happened on this show.

0:36:10.320 --> 0:36:13.839
<v Speaker 1>Because it's a crazy show. This crazy dream I kept

0:36:13.880 --> 0:36:16.959
<v Speaker 1>thinking about. This episode really hit me because I feel

0:36:16.960 --> 0:36:19.759
<v Speaker 1>like in the first couple, first three episodes, I don't know,

0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:22.400
<v Speaker 1>there's something about the marriage. It almost seems like a

0:36:22.480 --> 0:36:24.680
<v Speaker 1>dated show, you know what I mean, Like it's like, oh,

0:36:24.760 --> 0:36:27.560
<v Speaker 1>maybe they're gonna work. But now where the rubber meets

0:36:27.560 --> 0:36:30.000
<v Speaker 1>the road, you're like, these people are like, you're marriage.

0:36:30.160 --> 0:36:32.839
<v Speaker 1>That's so weird, and like, let those expectations of what

0:36:32.880 --> 0:36:36.000
<v Speaker 1>a marriage is when you've never been married before, yes's

0:36:36.080 --> 0:36:38.879
<v Speaker 1>super interesting. That's what That's what we're seeing play out

0:36:38.960 --> 0:36:41.439
<v Speaker 1>right now, is how their expectations of what it means

0:36:41.440 --> 0:36:44.160
<v Speaker 1>to be married, yes, like what that actually means to them,

0:36:44.200 --> 0:36:47.759
<v Speaker 1>Like in Shawn's case, to have sex. Yes, So he's

0:36:47.800 --> 0:36:51.680
<v Speaker 1>sort of like I expected to get married to have

0:36:51.719 --> 0:36:55.600
<v Speaker 1>a guaranteed right to have sex all the time. That's

0:36:55.880 --> 0:36:57.640
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Like I think he seriously

0:36:57.719 --> 0:37:00.400
<v Speaker 1>thought that. It was like I'm getting a life partner.

0:37:00.400 --> 0:37:01.400
<v Speaker 1>He's gonna be able.

0:37:01.239 --> 0:37:04.920
<v Speaker 2>To sixty nine with me? Whenever I would sean, dude,

0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:07.920
<v Speaker 2>you're still doing a reality show. Yeah, that you know.

0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:10.680
<v Speaker 2>But he's like, but well that's the commitment. Oh god,

0:37:11.239 --> 0:37:12.040
<v Speaker 2>oh my god.

0:37:12.360 --> 0:37:14.640
<v Speaker 1>All right, Caitlen and Devin are going to bed and

0:37:14.680 --> 0:37:16.640
<v Speaker 1>she says she's gonna set the alarm to wake up and.

0:37:16.719 --> 0:37:20.319
<v Speaker 2>The am set up, set up, set up. He says,

0:37:20.360 --> 0:37:24.360
<v Speaker 2>wake me up before you go go because I'm not

0:37:24.400 --> 0:37:27.560
<v Speaker 2>planning on going. So he wakes up and I guess

0:37:27.600 --> 0:37:29.919
<v Speaker 2>doesn't wake him up. Nope, leaves for the gym.

0:37:29.960 --> 0:37:31.880
<v Speaker 1>So then he wakes up and she went without him,

0:37:31.920 --> 0:37:34.120
<v Speaker 1>and he's upset that she didn't communicate him. That's fair,

0:37:34.200 --> 0:37:34.720
<v Speaker 1>that's fair.

0:37:35.040 --> 0:37:37.440
<v Speaker 2>Fair. It seems like like we literally have footage of

0:37:37.480 --> 0:37:39.760
<v Speaker 2>her saying she would wake him up. Fair.

0:37:40.080 --> 0:37:42.000
<v Speaker 1>It does seem like she kind of ran away from him.

0:37:42.080 --> 0:37:46.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and again, all you need to do is just

0:37:46.160 --> 0:37:48.800
<v Speaker 3>be like I need him alone time, and my alone time.

0:37:48.680 --> 0:37:49.320
<v Speaker 2>Is the gym.

0:37:49.680 --> 0:37:52.640
<v Speaker 3>Yep son, I'm gonna wake up, I'm gonna go an

0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:53.279
<v Speaker 3>hour before you.

0:37:53.280 --> 0:37:54.480
<v Speaker 2>We'll high five on the way out.

0:37:54.520 --> 0:37:56.759
<v Speaker 3>And I think he would have, like any other dude,

0:37:56.760 --> 0:37:59.080
<v Speaker 3>would have been like, no worries, Like that's fine, right,

0:37:59.480 --> 0:38:01.759
<v Speaker 3>I totally understand that I'm an athlete. There's times I

0:38:01.800 --> 0:38:03.520
<v Speaker 3>need to put on my headphones, and I need to

0:38:03.800 --> 0:38:04.960
<v Speaker 3>talk about how he was.

0:38:04.920 --> 0:38:07.440
<v Speaker 1>In long distance relationships because he was always traveling, so

0:38:07.480 --> 0:38:09.920
<v Speaker 1>he's clearly used to being separated or not he used

0:38:09.960 --> 0:38:10.040
<v Speaker 1>to it.

0:38:10.760 --> 0:38:13.000
<v Speaker 2>He says he didn't love it, but it.

0:38:12.960 --> 0:38:15.400
<v Speaker 1>Seems like as long as you can communicate about the

0:38:15.440 --> 0:38:16.040
<v Speaker 1>actual like.

0:38:16.400 --> 0:38:18.400
<v Speaker 3>What are your needs, what are your wants and your needs?

0:38:18.680 --> 0:38:21.719
<v Speaker 3>But telling me one thing and then just not doing

0:38:21.760 --> 0:38:23.640
<v Speaker 3>it and then telling the camera I need to be

0:38:23.680 --> 0:38:27.319
<v Speaker 3>by myself not okay, So yeah, weird, all right?

0:38:27.360 --> 0:38:29.279
<v Speaker 1>And then we see people getting ready to go meet

0:38:29.360 --> 0:38:31.640
<v Speaker 1>up each other as a as a big group.

0:38:31.800 --> 0:38:33.760
<v Speaker 2>The whole group is going to gather at.

0:38:33.600 --> 0:38:36.879
<v Speaker 1>The pool, So this is really weird to think about,

0:38:36.960 --> 0:38:39.359
<v Speaker 1>like how these people already know each other that within

0:38:39.480 --> 0:38:41.480
<v Speaker 1>genders they know each other right, but they haven't met

0:38:41.520 --> 0:38:43.920
<v Speaker 1>each other's partner, so this must be a fun is

0:38:43.960 --> 0:38:48.480
<v Speaker 1>a cool experience, and Felipe is super happy. He's just

0:38:48.520 --> 0:38:51.480
<v Speaker 1>in his element with all these people around. And Adam

0:38:51.520 --> 0:38:53.759
<v Speaker 1>immediately says the Tory and Felipe are a good match,

0:38:53.800 --> 0:38:58.200
<v Speaker 1>which is I think accurate. Sean says that this is

0:38:58.239 --> 0:39:01.440
<v Speaker 1>a that it's a good match for Felipe because this

0:39:01.560 --> 0:39:04.440
<v Speaker 1>is the longest I've seen Felipe be quiet.

0:39:04.480 --> 0:39:04.959
<v Speaker 2>It's great.

0:39:05.000 --> 0:39:07.799
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's also though, the thing that's interesting, and you

0:39:07.880 --> 0:39:10.239
<v Speaker 3>notice this and every season of the show, this is

0:39:10.320 --> 0:39:15.239
<v Speaker 3>also the first opportunity for couples to equate themselves to

0:39:15.280 --> 0:39:18.319
<v Speaker 3>where they are to where the other couples are. This

0:39:18.400 --> 0:39:21.600
<v Speaker 3>is so it's like it's like, oh, okay, they're already

0:39:21.600 --> 0:39:24.000
<v Speaker 3>having sex. Oh, look they're touching each other a lot.

0:39:24.040 --> 0:39:26.920
<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, they're laughing really easily. I don't have that

0:39:26.960 --> 0:39:27.880
<v Speaker 3>in my relationship.

0:39:28.000 --> 0:39:30.239
<v Speaker 2>So you are you're judging it against all the other

0:39:30.280 --> 0:39:31.200
<v Speaker 2>people that are around.

0:39:31.440 --> 0:39:35.200
<v Speaker 1>Well, right here, Felippe and Courtney already have more banter

0:39:35.280 --> 0:39:37.920
<v Speaker 1>in chemistry than she does with Nick, and it's painful

0:39:37.920 --> 0:39:38.320
<v Speaker 1>to watch.

0:39:38.400 --> 0:39:41.160
<v Speaker 2>She likes I think she likes Felipe.

0:39:41.239 --> 0:39:44.200
<v Speaker 1>There's an immediate spark there, and it's just because he's

0:39:44.239 --> 0:39:46.480
<v Speaker 1>socially engaging, he's entertaining.

0:39:46.120 --> 0:39:48.720
<v Speaker 2>He's funny. She's like, he walks in and he owns

0:39:48.719 --> 0:39:51.040
<v Speaker 2>the room. That's what I gotta say.

0:39:51.120 --> 0:39:54.520
<v Speaker 1>Like, I don't blame Nick entirely, and to a certain extent,

0:39:54.960 --> 0:39:59.319
<v Speaker 1>if you remember Courtney's Matchmaker conversations, she thought of it

0:39:59.360 --> 0:40:01.839
<v Speaker 1>a little bit much like a resume I think because

0:40:01.840 --> 0:40:04.959
<v Speaker 1>remember she was the one that was like politically they have.

0:40:04.880 --> 0:40:07.800
<v Speaker 2>To be this, you know, she like she went the

0:40:07.880 --> 0:40:10.279
<v Speaker 2>checklist and she was like, I want an athlete, but

0:40:10.360 --> 0:40:11.720
<v Speaker 2>not a bodybuilder.

0:40:12.000 --> 0:40:12.160
<v Speaker 4>You know.

0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:14.279
<v Speaker 1>I feel like she and I think maybe she should

0:40:14.320 --> 0:40:17.360
<v Speaker 1>have been a little more like, hey, personality is important,

0:40:17.560 --> 0:40:19.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, because because what she got was like a

0:40:19.920 --> 0:40:23.680
<v Speaker 1>good dude, like he's the resume, he's the package. Yeah,

0:40:24.280 --> 0:40:27.319
<v Speaker 1>clearly smart and yeah, like based on what she said,

0:40:27.320 --> 0:40:29.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't think Felipe would have been on her list,

0:40:29.440 --> 0:40:30.960
<v Speaker 1>do you know what I mean? Right, because he wouldn't

0:40:30.960 --> 0:40:33.400
<v Speaker 1>have been an athlete, he wouldn't have maybe been attractive

0:40:33.520 --> 0:40:36.080
<v Speaker 1>enough for her, he warns a restaurant. He cares more

0:40:36.080 --> 0:40:39.279
<v Speaker 1>about socializing than he does his job or like you know,

0:40:39.360 --> 0:40:43.000
<v Speaker 1>and and yet it seems like immediately she has more

0:40:43.000 --> 0:40:45.359
<v Speaker 1>of a so you know, this is a little on her,

0:40:45.480 --> 0:40:48.560
<v Speaker 1>like so she presented what she wanted. I can see

0:40:48.560 --> 0:40:51.200
<v Speaker 1>that Felipe says he has the least faith in Nick

0:40:51.239 --> 0:40:54.400
<v Speaker 1>and coordinate because it seems like it Nick is not

0:40:54.520 --> 0:40:57.320
<v Speaker 1>here for love, which is exactly to your point about.

0:40:57.640 --> 0:41:00.560
<v Speaker 2>You said that, Yeah, but he's also again that's what

0:41:00.600 --> 0:41:02.880
<v Speaker 2>that's what kind of changed my mind is because he

0:41:02.920 --> 0:41:04.839
<v Speaker 2>also doesn't seem to be here for the reality show

0:41:04.840 --> 0:41:07.719
<v Speaker 2>because he's not speaking on camera at all. I mean

0:41:07.760 --> 0:41:10.799
<v Speaker 2>it's like he's falling asleep during his interviews, so like,

0:41:10.880 --> 0:41:14.440
<v Speaker 2>what is he doing? The girls chat, they go right

0:41:14.480 --> 0:41:15.120
<v Speaker 2>to the sex.

0:41:15.760 --> 0:41:21.319
<v Speaker 1>Uh, everyone sort of updates that, you know, nothing's happened yet.

0:41:21.480 --> 0:41:26.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm cuddling, but Marissa says, okay, skip and everyone squeals

0:41:26.400 --> 0:41:26.960
<v Speaker 1>and cheers.

0:41:27.040 --> 0:41:30.680
<v Speaker 2>Is because Adam trained for this. He trained, Adam got

0:41:30.680 --> 0:41:31.839
<v Speaker 2>the job done. He did.

0:41:31.880 --> 0:41:35.239
<v Speaker 1>He's just as beautiful, emotional and heartfelt. That is as

0:41:35.280 --> 0:41:37.879
<v Speaker 1>his rendition of fair lease. You know, can we play

0:41:37.880 --> 0:41:40.040
<v Speaker 1>back the rendition of fair lease was let's let's just

0:41:40.040 --> 0:41:42.160
<v Speaker 1>do it all, fourteen minutes of it, you know, because

0:41:42.160 --> 0:41:45.560
<v Speaker 1>it was so memorable and authentic. You know, one more,

0:41:45.840 --> 0:41:48.120
<v Speaker 1>it was heartfeld, right, you remember his fairlies.

0:41:48.360 --> 0:41:50.400
<v Speaker 3>You know that he finished having sex with her and

0:41:50.400 --> 0:41:51.400
<v Speaker 3>then he went, I'm gonna do one more.

0:41:51.400 --> 0:41:53.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do one more. I'm just give me a minute, bit,

0:41:53.800 --> 0:41:56.240
<v Speaker 2>just give me a minute. And I could do that again,

0:41:56.640 --> 0:41:57.560
<v Speaker 2>put my sogs on.

0:41:58.719 --> 0:42:01.040
<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's how women want to sex, right with someone

0:42:01.080 --> 0:42:03.319
<v Speaker 1>who's gritting his teeth and just performing his job.

0:42:03.520 --> 0:42:06.960
<v Speaker 2>Hell. Yes, it's passionate because I says it. I say

0:42:07.000 --> 0:42:08.640
<v Speaker 2>it is. That's why he's the guy. He's looking in

0:42:08.680 --> 0:42:11.600
<v Speaker 2>the mirror while he does it. Yeah, sexy, what's that?

0:42:11.760 --> 0:42:15.000
<v Speaker 2>That's a Christian bale from American psycho. He's like making

0:42:15.040 --> 0:42:19.000
<v Speaker 2>the making, the flexing. Their seems like ursus. She loves it,

0:42:19.400 --> 0:42:22.080
<v Speaker 2>she loves it. I mean, I'm in on this couple.

0:42:22.239 --> 0:42:23.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm in on this couple.

0:42:23.200 --> 0:42:25.480
<v Speaker 1>Adam says he won't kiss and tell with the guys,

0:42:25.480 --> 0:42:28.200
<v Speaker 1>which is his humble brag way to say, I to

0:42:28.320 --> 0:42:33.680
<v Speaker 1>my wife, I win, mother, I did I did it,

0:42:34.040 --> 0:42:35.520
<v Speaker 1>did it, got the job done.

0:42:35.520 --> 0:42:37.719
<v Speaker 2>Exactly sixteen minutes as per plan.

0:42:39.520 --> 0:42:42.839
<v Speaker 3>Two minute break, two minute break, did a little uh

0:42:42.920 --> 0:42:47.160
<v Speaker 3>round dration in round three, round three in the morning.

0:42:47.520 --> 0:42:50.200
<v Speaker 2>We hit it every time, jet ski, jet ski, and

0:42:50.280 --> 0:42:54.479
<v Speaker 2>we did it again. Got an h jam with jet ski.

0:42:55.160 --> 0:43:00.520
<v Speaker 2>Mission accomplished. Felipe asks if there have been any points

0:43:00.520 --> 0:43:00.960
<v Speaker 2>of friction.

0:43:01.680 --> 0:43:05.400
<v Speaker 1>Devin says that Caitlin is very independent and he doesn't

0:43:05.440 --> 0:43:09.560
<v Speaker 1>feel like he wants to be overbearing. Felipe says, it's

0:43:09.600 --> 0:43:12.040
<v Speaker 1>a marathon, not a sprint, and I thought this was

0:43:12.360 --> 0:43:17.520
<v Speaker 1>very good advice. Yep, I hope that trust, trust the process.

0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:17.799
<v Speaker 4>Trust.

0:43:18.440 --> 0:43:20.240
<v Speaker 2>You just said that this would be the thing, Trust

0:43:20.280 --> 0:43:20.800
<v Speaker 2>the process.

0:43:21.640 --> 0:43:25.040
<v Speaker 1>Meanwhile, Caitlyn talks about wanting more space, needs her own time.

0:43:25.600 --> 0:43:28.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is not going so well. These people are

0:43:28.320 --> 0:43:30.920
<v Speaker 2>not meant to be. Really, these people are not meant

0:43:30.960 --> 0:43:34.759
<v Speaker 2>to be. She's not, and I'm gonna very rarely ever

0:43:34.800 --> 0:43:37.600
<v Speaker 2>do this. This is on her. She's a different person

0:43:37.640 --> 0:43:40.000
<v Speaker 2>than they got married. I think she can break her pattern.

0:43:40.120 --> 0:43:42.200
<v Speaker 1>I think she can break her like if her pattern

0:43:42.280 --> 0:43:47.000
<v Speaker 1>is I've dated horrible men who have been unemotional and

0:43:47.480 --> 0:43:50.440
<v Speaker 1>I you know, they treat me like crap, and I'm

0:43:50.480 --> 0:43:53.160
<v Speaker 1>addicted to that to a certain extent. Maybe she can

0:43:53.200 --> 0:43:55.400
<v Speaker 1>break that addiction and be like, actually, this is a

0:43:55.440 --> 0:43:56.120
<v Speaker 1>stable guy.

0:43:56.360 --> 0:43:58.000
<v Speaker 2>And if he can, if.

0:43:57.880 --> 0:44:00.000
<v Speaker 1>He can learn to like cool off a little bit,

0:44:00.120 --> 0:44:02.840
<v Speaker 1>and she can communicate when she needs her time. I

0:44:02.880 --> 0:44:04.920
<v Speaker 1>don't know, man, I'm hoping. I'm hoping because I like

0:44:05.000 --> 0:44:07.480
<v Speaker 1>them together. I like them, you know, I was kind

0:44:07.520 --> 0:44:08.279
<v Speaker 1>of rooting for him.

0:44:08.320 --> 0:44:09.840
<v Speaker 2>Well see all right.

0:44:10.000 --> 0:44:13.520
<v Speaker 1>Sean recaps the diary cam fail. He says, like, we

0:44:13.560 --> 0:44:17.000
<v Speaker 1>already had a real real argument. Nicki at her table

0:44:17.040 --> 0:44:20.759
<v Speaker 1>talks about how they had this argument, but he did

0:44:20.760 --> 0:44:24.120
<v Speaker 1>come back the next day, she says, having learned and

0:44:24.280 --> 0:44:27.360
<v Speaker 1>he's taught her how to meditate, got her meditating, he

0:44:27.400 --> 0:44:28.480
<v Speaker 1>brings her coffee.

0:44:28.840 --> 0:44:29.440
<v Speaker 4>So I don't know.

0:44:29.560 --> 0:44:31.719
<v Speaker 1>Man Like, if he really did do that, which we

0:44:31.760 --> 0:44:33.520
<v Speaker 1>didn't see, you.

0:44:33.440 --> 0:44:36.880
<v Speaker 2>Know, I think he might win her over. I think

0:44:37.040 --> 0:44:40.040
<v Speaker 2>emotionally they could maybe make it work. I don't think

0:44:40.040 --> 0:44:42.680
<v Speaker 2>she'll ever be attracted to him physically. I just don't

0:44:42.680 --> 0:44:43.200
<v Speaker 2>think she will.

0:44:43.800 --> 0:44:48.320
<v Speaker 1>Well, Courtney's really because they haven't slept together and haven't kissed.

0:44:50.160 --> 0:44:55.040
<v Speaker 1>She says she's not into him, which I'm not sure

0:44:55.200 --> 0:44:59.959
<v Speaker 1>anyone else is really saying directly. So yeah, Nick talks

0:45:00.040 --> 0:45:02.360
<v Speaker 1>to the camera and says that Adam, Adam and Marissa

0:45:02.560 --> 0:45:06.440
<v Speaker 1>physically all over each other, and he feels like he

0:45:06.560 --> 0:45:08.320
<v Speaker 1>and Courtney are vibing emotionally.

0:45:08.440 --> 0:45:10.799
<v Speaker 2>So this dude has no clue, That's what I'm saying.

0:45:10.840 --> 0:45:12.000
<v Speaker 2>He's not reading the room.

0:45:12.200 --> 0:45:15.480
<v Speaker 3>No, they're on a different just different planets when it

0:45:15.520 --> 0:45:15.960
<v Speaker 3>comes to this.

0:45:16.120 --> 0:45:19.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Courtney and Caitlin connect, these two sort of

0:45:19.840 --> 0:45:24.319
<v Speaker 1>you know, both one alone time. Yeah, and then Nick

0:45:24.520 --> 0:45:28.080
<v Speaker 1>slithers in they immediately get awkward. So yeah, Earlier in

0:45:28.160 --> 0:45:31.040
<v Speaker 1>this episode, he says, I'm gonna go slither away to

0:45:31.120 --> 0:45:34.160
<v Speaker 1>my wife, I would never use the word slither. And

0:45:34.239 --> 0:45:36.880
<v Speaker 1>this is just one of those weird questions. If you

0:45:36.880 --> 0:45:39.880
<v Speaker 1>were describing your own physical movements, would you say slither?

0:45:40.040 --> 0:45:42.920
<v Speaker 2>I slithered over to no. No.

0:45:43.360 --> 0:45:46.040
<v Speaker 3>Also, though, I've got to say, Courtney, if you're listening

0:45:46.960 --> 0:45:49.960
<v Speaker 3>less suicide references, please less I'm gonna shoot myself in

0:45:50.000 --> 0:45:52.560
<v Speaker 3>the heads. She did it like three times and it's like,

0:45:52.640 --> 0:45:55.520
<v Speaker 3>oh yes, and it's like, Okay, we get it. You're

0:45:55.560 --> 0:45:57.600
<v Speaker 3>not enjoying yourself. You don't need to mimic the fact

0:45:57.600 --> 0:45:59.719
<v Speaker 3>that you're going to kill yourself because you're with this dude.

0:45:59.719 --> 0:46:16.719
<v Speaker 2>For Ai, It's like, come on, yeah, and let's move

0:46:16.760 --> 0:46:18.799
<v Speaker 2>on to episode five.

0:46:20.120 --> 0:46:23.000
<v Speaker 1>So Many Penguins again, Met a Penguins.

0:46:23.440 --> 0:46:25.520
<v Speaker 2>Devin and Kalyn come back to the room.

0:46:26.040 --> 0:46:27.800
<v Speaker 1>He brings up the gym issues.

0:46:27.840 --> 0:46:31.359
<v Speaker 2>She wants space recharge time. He seems to perspect it.

0:46:31.520 --> 0:46:35.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so seems like he needs to say that it's

0:46:35.719 --> 0:46:38.239
<v Speaker 1>more about communicating, you know what I mean, Like, yeah,

0:46:38.280 --> 0:46:40.319
<v Speaker 1>he's not he's not he's not able to I mean,

0:46:40.600 --> 0:46:42.399
<v Speaker 1>and hopefully this will come up when they go into

0:46:42.440 --> 0:46:45.480
<v Speaker 1>their like next phase, which yeah, working with the matchmakers, right,

0:46:45.560 --> 0:46:46.359
<v Speaker 1>So yeah.

0:46:46.160 --> 0:46:48.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just being like, dude, I'm I'm okay with all that.

0:46:48.560 --> 0:46:50.799
<v Speaker 2>You just gotta let me know. Yeah, like you're not

0:46:50.800 --> 0:46:52.520
<v Speaker 2>gonna get shipped for me, go to your thing, but

0:46:52.600 --> 0:46:54.400
<v Speaker 2>just please let me know that that's what you're gonna do.

0:46:54.880 --> 0:46:57.520
<v Speaker 2>Nicki and Sean. She's trying on a dress. She's afraid

0:46:57.560 --> 0:46:58.680
<v Speaker 2>of boob's gonna pop out.

0:46:58.800 --> 0:47:01.200
<v Speaker 1>He wants a pooped up I watch your move to

0:47:01.239 --> 0:47:02.640
<v Speaker 1>pop out, Sean.

0:47:03.200 --> 0:47:06.200
<v Speaker 2>Sean, Buddy cool budie Sean.

0:47:06.560 --> 0:47:11.080
<v Speaker 1>Michelle and Cameron just got back from a Mayan ceremony

0:47:11.120 --> 0:47:13.040
<v Speaker 1>where they kissed on the lips.

0:47:13.320 --> 0:47:16.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry to do this just aesthetically you with the

0:47:16.800 --> 0:47:18.920
<v Speaker 2>height thing, it's just too much. No, the two of

0:47:18.960 --> 0:47:22.720
<v Speaker 2>them don't look as good together as the other couples.

0:47:22.760 --> 0:47:24.799
<v Speaker 2>It just it looks off. I don't know what it is.

0:47:24.840 --> 0:47:29.239
<v Speaker 2>It just looks off. They look wonky together. I don't know.

0:47:29.440 --> 0:47:33.319
<v Speaker 2>They just when Adam and Marissa under a tree, Okay, yes,

0:47:33.480 --> 0:47:36.200
<v Speaker 2>s I I should say J E T S K

0:47:36.440 --> 0:47:39.319
<v Speaker 2>I N J. He runs, She runs his hand on

0:47:39.360 --> 0:47:43.120
<v Speaker 2>his leg. Kiss. Yeah, yeah, no, Barb, I feel that

0:47:43.120 --> 0:47:45.799
<v Speaker 2>that's an extra muscle most people don't have. That's an

0:47:46.200 --> 0:47:48.840
<v Speaker 2>that's an atom muscle. I've got an extra one trained

0:47:48.880 --> 0:47:53.279
<v Speaker 2>for this. That's my second Adam's Apple down. It's a

0:47:53.440 --> 0:47:56.600
<v Speaker 2>jet ski apiece. So I'm so Adam. I got two

0:47:56.719 --> 0:48:00.279
<v Speaker 2>Adams Apple. I got three, one on each leg. I

0:48:00.280 --> 0:48:02.440
<v Speaker 2>have an extra caf because of the jet skis.

0:48:03.000 --> 0:48:06.120
<v Speaker 1>Nicki and Sean sit down for dinner and he begins

0:48:06.160 --> 0:48:10.799
<v Speaker 1>to interview her about friendship bro So, she was with

0:48:11.000 --> 0:48:14.000
<v Speaker 1>her seventeen year old boyfriend for ten years. She says

0:48:14.040 --> 0:48:16.719
<v Speaker 1>she outgrew him at year five. She had bigger dreams

0:48:17.760 --> 0:48:21.399
<v Speaker 1>and her boyfriend wanted a simple woman. And I thought

0:48:21.400 --> 0:48:24.279
<v Speaker 1>this explained a lot, you know, like oh, and then

0:48:24.400 --> 0:48:27.719
<v Speaker 1>Sean says that when things get difficult, women avoid him.

0:48:28.520 --> 0:48:31.400
<v Speaker 1>He has never experienced a love where someone is caring

0:48:31.480 --> 0:48:33.880
<v Speaker 1>or providing for him.

0:48:34.040 --> 0:48:35.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure he's found it.

0:48:35.520 --> 0:48:38.920
<v Speaker 3>Did you find any of what Nicky said about outgrowing

0:48:38.920 --> 0:48:41.480
<v Speaker 3>her boyfriend at year five? And did you find any

0:48:41.480 --> 0:48:43.880
<v Speaker 3>of that a little bit red flaggy? I just wonder

0:48:43.920 --> 0:48:47.640
<v Speaker 3>if ever a relationship gets comfortable with her where it's like, hey,

0:48:47.640 --> 0:48:50.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm good at my job. I enjoy my job, but

0:48:50.200 --> 0:48:52.440
<v Speaker 3>I also like the comfortability of our relationship. If it's

0:48:52.520 --> 0:48:54.440
<v Speaker 3>going to to her be like, well, now you're not

0:48:54.480 --> 0:48:57.600
<v Speaker 3>trying like you always need to be going forward.

0:48:58.000 --> 0:49:01.040
<v Speaker 1>No, Actually, I think the red flag was that she

0:49:01.160 --> 0:49:03.600
<v Speaker 1>stayed with him for so long. Well, because she says

0:49:03.640 --> 0:49:06.120
<v Speaker 1>a year five she had already outgrown.

0:49:05.760 --> 0:49:07.200
<v Speaker 2>Him of a ten year relationship.

0:49:07.239 --> 0:49:10.080
<v Speaker 1>Because like you know, my wife has a very similar

0:49:10.360 --> 0:49:15.239
<v Speaker 1>past story where she was like, very happily in a

0:49:15.280 --> 0:49:18.279
<v Speaker 1>long term relationship pretty early on in her life and

0:49:18.440 --> 0:49:20.440
<v Speaker 1>just reached the point where she was like, I this

0:49:20.520 --> 0:49:24.720
<v Speaker 1>is this person wants a life that is very simple,

0:49:24.920 --> 0:49:28.279
<v Speaker 1>and I want to be an actor. I'm to be ambitious.

0:49:28.320 --> 0:49:31.120
<v Speaker 1>I have big art dreams, and I want to take

0:49:31.160 --> 0:49:34.200
<v Speaker 1>on the world. And so she took the brave step

0:49:34.280 --> 0:49:36.839
<v Speaker 1>of walking, you know, moving out of a long term

0:49:36.880 --> 0:49:40.080
<v Speaker 1>relationship at the age of twenty two, and like, that

0:49:40.239 --> 0:49:43.040
<v Speaker 1>is to me, the what what nick? You should have

0:49:43.080 --> 0:49:44.719
<v Speaker 1>done that too, Yeah, that's what I mean. Yeah, but

0:49:44.760 --> 0:49:46.640
<v Speaker 1>I get that, you know, I don't think it's a

0:49:46.680 --> 0:49:50.880
<v Speaker 1>red flag that you found yourself, you know, realizing that

0:49:50.920 --> 0:49:54.480
<v Speaker 1>you outgrew the person you're with. I think that's actually way, like,

0:49:54.600 --> 0:49:56.080
<v Speaker 1>that's pretty healthy. I think it's good.

0:49:56.280 --> 0:49:58.560
<v Speaker 3>I think if it happens once, it's really healthy. If

0:49:58.600 --> 0:50:00.960
<v Speaker 3>it's happens over the part and then you've got it,

0:50:00.960 --> 0:50:01.719
<v Speaker 3>then it's part.

0:50:01.800 --> 0:50:03.200
<v Speaker 2>But I'm not saying that's happened to her. I'm just

0:50:03.400 --> 0:50:03.839
<v Speaker 2>I was wondering.

0:50:03.920 --> 0:50:06.520
<v Speaker 3>It struck me a little, like, Okay, I wonder if

0:50:06.600 --> 0:50:08.239
<v Speaker 3>that's the only time it happened, or.

0:50:08.200 --> 0:50:10.520
<v Speaker 2>It's just no one will ever be good enough for you.

0:50:11.520 --> 0:50:12.880
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, it's interesting.

0:50:13.600 --> 0:50:17.240
<v Speaker 1>Michelle and Cameron are sitting down for lunch discussing Cavia,

0:50:18.239 --> 0:50:19.880
<v Speaker 1>and then they bring up and this is one of

0:50:19.880 --> 0:50:21.920
<v Speaker 1>those moments where was like, where there he doesn't live

0:50:21.960 --> 0:50:24.600
<v Speaker 1>in Seattle. It's like, yeah, God, so we have the

0:50:24.640 --> 0:50:29.080
<v Speaker 1>logistics factor of getting married. Yeah, so he's in Portland

0:50:29.160 --> 0:50:32.359
<v Speaker 1>until March. He's coaching basketball. He asks her if she's

0:50:32.400 --> 0:50:33.880
<v Speaker 1>open to living in different places.

0:50:34.680 --> 0:50:37.200
<v Speaker 2>She likes Seattle. She doesn't seem to be up.

0:50:37.239 --> 0:50:39.440
<v Speaker 3>Also, a coaching job, you go where the job is,

0:50:39.440 --> 0:50:41.560
<v Speaker 3>and you're in Seattle this week, and then next month

0:50:41.600 --> 0:50:43.680
<v Speaker 3>you're in Indiana and that's where you live now for

0:50:43.680 --> 0:50:44.360
<v Speaker 3>three years.

0:50:44.680 --> 0:50:47.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she says, raising a family, she wants to be

0:50:47.320 --> 0:50:49.719
<v Speaker 1>near her parents. But I mean this is where I

0:50:49.760 --> 0:50:51.960
<v Speaker 1>was like, Portland's actually only three hours from Seattle.

0:50:52.280 --> 0:50:53.160
<v Speaker 2>They're really close.

0:50:53.239 --> 0:50:55.719
<v Speaker 1>So I don't know, man, Like, for me, this is

0:50:55.880 --> 0:50:58.879
<v Speaker 1>like kind of a crazy conversation because like in La,

0:50:59.520 --> 0:51:01.880
<v Speaker 1>everyone I know had to move away from their parents

0:51:02.040 --> 0:51:04.680
<v Speaker 1>to you know, to La, and they all have kids

0:51:04.800 --> 0:51:07.479
<v Speaker 1>without grandparents nearby, right, So I don't know, but maybe

0:51:07.480 --> 0:51:09.360
<v Speaker 1>that's just an La things Like I felt like she

0:51:09.480 --> 0:51:11.040
<v Speaker 1>they were making kind of a big deal out of

0:51:11.080 --> 0:51:13.239
<v Speaker 1>like you three hours from your parents, Like that's yeah,

0:51:13.280 --> 0:51:15.359
<v Speaker 1>still having that's still pretty damn close to your parents.

0:51:15.360 --> 0:51:16.960
<v Speaker 2>I guess it also depends on how you're raised. I mean,

0:51:17.000 --> 0:51:19.080
<v Speaker 2>she's Vietnamese, and I don't know much about the Vietnam much.

0:51:19.120 --> 0:51:21.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't know anything about the Vietnamese community, but I

0:51:21.120 --> 0:51:23.640
<v Speaker 2>imagine if it's anything like other Asian communities, then you're

0:51:23.760 --> 0:51:27.200
<v Speaker 2>very close to multi generational families totally that are with

0:51:27.280 --> 0:51:29.200
<v Speaker 2>each other and helping to raise children.

0:51:29.239 --> 0:51:31.960
<v Speaker 1>And no, I think if you can do it, definitely,

0:51:32.040 --> 0:51:33.560
<v Speaker 1>But three hours is not that fun.

0:51:33.640 --> 0:51:34.919
<v Speaker 2>Yeah you can pull that off.

0:51:34.920 --> 0:51:37.839
<v Speaker 3>I'm more worried about just his job because again, it's

0:51:37.840 --> 0:51:40.480
<v Speaker 3>like it's usually oh, hey Portland just fired you. Hey

0:51:40.480 --> 0:51:42.640
<v Speaker 3>I just got a job in Syracuse. It's like that's

0:51:42.719 --> 0:51:44.920
<v Speaker 3>you're all over the place when you're doing something like this.

0:51:45.280 --> 0:51:48.000
<v Speaker 1>Well, then they move into this you know, fribrory fibroid

0:51:48.080 --> 0:51:51.160
<v Speaker 1>surgery conversation again and she says, this is where she says,

0:51:51.280 --> 0:51:53.400
<v Speaker 1>we have to plan a year out, like I have

0:51:53.440 --> 0:51:54.879
<v Speaker 1>to have surgery and then has to be another year

0:51:54.880 --> 0:51:56.160
<v Speaker 1>before we could even have kids.

0:51:56.600 --> 0:51:57.520
<v Speaker 2>And then this.

0:51:57.600 --> 0:52:01.319
<v Speaker 1>Interesting thing happens where he says, so you have to

0:52:01.400 --> 0:52:04.239
<v Speaker 1>you have to plan ahead, and I was like, oh,

0:52:04.239 --> 0:52:06.879
<v Speaker 1>it's a you not we interesting Oh I didn't notice

0:52:06.920 --> 0:52:11.560
<v Speaker 1>that he's still thinking in terms of like I and

0:52:11.760 --> 0:52:13.960
<v Speaker 1>you will have to plan it. He's not like, Okay,

0:52:14.040 --> 0:52:15.719
<v Speaker 1>so we will have to plan ahead and we want

0:52:15.760 --> 0:52:16.360
<v Speaker 1>to have kids.

0:52:16.480 --> 0:52:18.600
<v Speaker 2>I was like, dude, that sucks.

0:52:18.719 --> 0:52:20.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah he said it, like yeah, and it's not it's

0:52:20.800 --> 0:52:23.040
<v Speaker 1>his fault. I mean, this is obviously it's an unconscious thing.

0:52:23.080 --> 0:52:25.399
<v Speaker 1>But it was definitely a moment that I noticed. I'm like, oh,

0:52:25.480 --> 0:52:28.359
<v Speaker 1>you are not You're not one hundred percent on board yet,

0:52:28.480 --> 0:52:30.319
<v Speaker 1>because if you were one hundred percent on board, you'd

0:52:30.320 --> 0:52:32.399
<v Speaker 1>say we we will have to plan a year out,

0:52:32.440 --> 0:52:35.600
<v Speaker 1>Like that's what you say when you've married somebody, and yeah, you.

0:52:35.600 --> 0:52:37.520
<v Speaker 3>Got twenty bucks on you right now and you have

0:52:37.560 --> 0:52:40.960
<v Speaker 3>to yay or nay. Cameron and Michelle nay.

0:52:41.560 --> 0:52:44.480
<v Speaker 2>I think so too, just knowing that. Yeah, I think

0:52:44.480 --> 0:52:48.240
<v Speaker 2>so too. Yeah, everyone meets at the pool. Uh Felipe

0:52:48.360 --> 0:52:50.640
<v Speaker 2>talks about being ugly.

0:52:50.880 --> 0:52:54.880
<v Speaker 1>Nick says he was nerdy growing up, and then we

0:52:54.920 --> 0:52:56.799
<v Speaker 1>get Adam swim sucks man.

0:52:58.080 --> 0:53:01.920
<v Speaker 2>His confidence is remarkable. Did he give the reason that

0:53:02.000 --> 0:53:04.600
<v Speaker 2>I think he gave? Did I rewind it twice?

0:53:04.640 --> 0:53:07.440
<v Speaker 3>And hear that you never know when somebody's gonna throw

0:53:07.480 --> 0:53:10.239
<v Speaker 3>you a football or something, so you want to have traction.

0:53:10.040 --> 0:53:13.680
<v Speaker 2>Not slit. Yeah, he wants traction for what for? Just

0:53:13.719 --> 0:53:16.320
<v Speaker 2>in case a flag football game brings.

0:53:16.280 --> 0:53:18.640
<v Speaker 1>You never know what a random jet ski might be

0:53:18.640 --> 0:53:20.680
<v Speaker 1>going down, and you got to you gotta get that

0:53:20.680 --> 0:53:22.879
<v Speaker 1>that leap to jump onto the jete.

0:53:23.320 --> 0:53:24.360
<v Speaker 2>It's so strange.

0:53:25.880 --> 0:53:29.960
<v Speaker 1>Why cotton socks Like there are socks smart wool socks

0:53:30.000 --> 0:53:33.000
<v Speaker 1>are made for water, like that's the idea behind them.

0:53:33.160 --> 0:53:35.680
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, because if they get wet, they don't get cold.

0:53:35.960 --> 0:53:38.600
<v Speaker 1>So there's like literally a whole branch a type of

0:53:38.640 --> 0:53:41.239
<v Speaker 1>sock that is like basically an aqua sock, like that's

0:53:41.239 --> 0:53:47.040
<v Speaker 1>what it's made for. Or booties dude like everywhere like yeah,

0:53:47.040 --> 0:53:49.200
<v Speaker 1>that's but why just regular.

0:53:49.880 --> 0:53:53.280
<v Speaker 2>It's so dorky, so strange. But his confidence is admirable.

0:53:53.560 --> 0:53:57.560
<v Speaker 2>I love it, Caitlin, Courtney's still craving alone time. They

0:53:57.600 --> 0:54:01.799
<v Speaker 2>talk about that. Courtney especially just dying to not have

0:54:01.840 --> 0:54:02.680
<v Speaker 2>one on one time.

0:54:02.760 --> 0:54:04.640
<v Speaker 1>If she wants to be around everybody else.

0:54:04.760 --> 0:54:07.520
<v Speaker 2>God, she'll kill herself if she has to do that. Yeah.

0:54:07.560 --> 0:54:09.719
<v Speaker 1>And then in the pool, Nick says to Mecca, I

0:54:09.760 --> 0:54:12.439
<v Speaker 1>wish she'd just come over and talk to me at

0:54:12.480 --> 0:54:13.400
<v Speaker 1>any point.

0:54:14.280 --> 0:54:17.200
<v Speaker 2>No, I don't. Nick needs the course correct to not

0:54:17.239 --> 0:54:18.000
<v Speaker 2>get friend zoned.

0:54:18.160 --> 0:54:22.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Mecca says his biggest problem with him right now

0:54:23.040 --> 0:54:25.760
<v Speaker 1>is that he doesn't want to look like I'm thirsty.

0:54:26.120 --> 0:54:27.880
<v Speaker 1>He's scared he's going to mess things up, but he

0:54:27.880 --> 0:54:29.120
<v Speaker 1>hasn't done anything.

0:54:29.440 --> 0:54:32.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a dance man. It's a delicate balance. I

0:54:32.080 --> 0:54:34.759
<v Speaker 2>get that. Am I pushing too far? Is it not enough?

0:54:34.880 --> 0:54:35.080
<v Speaker 2>I mean?

0:54:35.160 --> 0:54:35.319
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:54:35.560 --> 0:54:38.920
<v Speaker 1>Contribution to the conversation thosand dollars cash if anyone beats

0:54:38.920 --> 0:54:50.040
<v Speaker 1>me at pickle ball. Yes, Courtney tells everyone she just wishes.

0:54:50.320 --> 0:54:53.440
<v Speaker 1>She wants to say to Nick, you're boring, And she

0:54:53.480 --> 0:54:55.880
<v Speaker 1>points to Felipe as someone who can work her rooms.

0:54:56.160 --> 0:54:58.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's got a thing for think she does. I

0:54:58.640 --> 0:54:59.960
<v Speaker 2>think she's got a thing for Felipe.

0:55:00.920 --> 0:55:03.280
<v Speaker 1>And then we get some very on the nose lyrics

0:55:04.440 --> 0:55:06.719
<v Speaker 1>why don't you put your lips on mine? I don't

0:55:06.760 --> 0:55:09.000
<v Speaker 1>want to kiss, I just want a piece of your mind.

0:55:09.640 --> 0:55:10.640
<v Speaker 2>This was this episode?

0:55:10.760 --> 0:55:16.120
<v Speaker 1>Really the lyrics? This, I mean, this is the dumbing

0:55:16.120 --> 0:55:20.880
<v Speaker 1>down of America. Right, Editors on shows, listen, please stop

0:55:20.920 --> 0:55:22.399
<v Speaker 1>googling song lyrics to fit the.

0:55:22.280 --> 0:55:24.720
<v Speaker 2>Theme of the scene, which they do. You can do better,

0:55:24.960 --> 0:55:25.440
<v Speaker 2>find like.

0:55:25.400 --> 0:55:28.399
<v Speaker 1>A counterpoint, find it like a subtle chorus, or a

0:55:28.400 --> 0:55:30.480
<v Speaker 1>song that relates to the theme in some sort of

0:55:30.680 --> 0:55:33.240
<v Speaker 1>like intersection, not like a perfect reflection.

0:55:33.360 --> 0:55:35.880
<v Speaker 2>I just think this is just sitting by the pool

0:55:35.920 --> 0:55:40.160
<v Speaker 2>with the sock song. Exactly if you made the ratchels

0:55:41.239 --> 0:55:44.120
<v Speaker 2>did you want to get married? Your friend?

0:55:44.280 --> 0:55:47.040
<v Speaker 3>Zoned and sprucer of reality.

0:55:47.080 --> 0:55:48.879
<v Speaker 2>I believe you could do better, do better, do better,

0:55:48.960 --> 0:55:49.480
<v Speaker 2>do better?

0:55:49.719 --> 0:55:50.040
<v Speaker 4>All right?

0:55:50.160 --> 0:55:53.799
<v Speaker 1>Then we get Nick Courtney on a boat trying to

0:55:53.960 --> 0:55:58.279
<v Speaker 1>have fun conversation would you rather? He says, he choose

0:55:58.320 --> 0:56:02.040
<v Speaker 1>bad breath forever over it's not always coming out of

0:56:02.120 --> 0:56:04.319
<v Speaker 1>his I mean, both of these choices are awful.

0:56:04.000 --> 0:56:05.760
<v Speaker 2>But that's why it's such an important question.

0:56:05.920 --> 0:56:09.120
<v Speaker 1>I know, but she just doesn't like his answer, so

0:56:09.719 --> 0:56:12.879
<v Speaker 1>I had it taken snot really.

0:56:12.920 --> 0:56:17.800
<v Speaker 2>Over over bad breath all the time. Such a tough question.

0:56:18.120 --> 0:56:20.319
<v Speaker 1>But bad breath you can deal with. You could just

0:56:20.400 --> 0:56:22.000
<v Speaker 1>like always have a mint.

0:56:22.200 --> 0:56:23.959
<v Speaker 3>But no, I think that's the point is you're saying,

0:56:24.000 --> 0:56:26.399
<v Speaker 3>even the mints don't work, like you always have bad

0:56:26.440 --> 0:56:28.439
<v Speaker 3>breath or you always have a running nose.

0:56:28.520 --> 0:56:31.400
<v Speaker 2>That's it. I don't want to think about either one exactly.

0:56:31.440 --> 0:56:33.720
<v Speaker 2>These are why these are questions based for marriage.

0:56:33.800 --> 0:56:36.840
<v Speaker 1>Rider all right, Well, they do have a good conversation

0:56:36.920 --> 0:56:42.560
<v Speaker 1>here about wanting to be goofy and she talk a

0:56:42.600 --> 0:56:46.480
<v Speaker 1>little more playfully, and I think this is a good conversation.

0:56:46.560 --> 0:56:49.440
<v Speaker 1>She starts to tear up. He puts his hand on

0:56:49.480 --> 0:56:53.520
<v Speaker 1>her leg, but then she immediately like pulls back, you know,

0:56:53.560 --> 0:56:55.839
<v Speaker 1>and it's like sorry, sorry, which I found interesting because

0:56:55.840 --> 0:56:58.000
<v Speaker 1>she's talking about wanting to be more emotional and playful

0:56:58.040 --> 0:56:58.520
<v Speaker 1>and like.

0:56:58.440 --> 0:57:00.239
<v Speaker 2>And she's like there it is ten seconds. I'm good,

0:57:00.400 --> 0:57:02.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm good. She's like very proud for control.

0:57:02.960 --> 0:57:04.920
<v Speaker 1>And this is the thing, this is her contradictory thing

0:57:05.000 --> 0:57:07.160
<v Speaker 1>is like I think she presents she wants to be

0:57:07.280 --> 0:57:10.960
<v Speaker 1>the person who who doesn't need emotional regulate or emotional

0:57:11.040 --> 0:57:13.160
<v Speaker 1>like supporter, but she actually does.

0:57:13.400 --> 0:57:15.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like h and he.

0:57:15.760 --> 0:57:18.880
<v Speaker 1>To his credit, he says, hold on, let's go back

0:57:18.880 --> 0:57:21.720
<v Speaker 1>to what you were saying, which about being playful and

0:57:21.760 --> 0:57:22.680
<v Speaker 1>like that was cool.

0:57:22.720 --> 0:57:25.680
<v Speaker 2>So I don't know, but it's not looking great. I

0:57:25.720 --> 0:57:31.960
<v Speaker 2>don't think so. Michelle and Nick opening champagne. She's a

0:57:32.160 --> 0:57:35.200
<v Speaker 2>speech offian about how close they've been getting. He says

0:57:35.320 --> 0:57:37.560
<v Speaker 2>change is hard for him. This whole thing is very

0:57:37.640 --> 0:57:42.400
<v Speaker 2>uncomfortable for me. He's afraid he's going to be trapped,

0:57:43.160 --> 0:57:46.280
<v Speaker 2>and she asks, if you're so scared a commitment, then

0:57:46.360 --> 0:57:50.200
<v Speaker 2>why did you do a show called marriage First Sight.

0:57:51.000 --> 0:57:53.320
<v Speaker 2>That's a very good question, fair question.

0:57:53.360 --> 0:57:57.240
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and then he describes their situation accurately, but I

0:57:57.280 --> 0:58:03.120
<v Speaker 1>would say pretty robotically, you know, hot tub um and

0:58:03.160 --> 0:58:03.960
<v Speaker 1>she says.

0:58:03.720 --> 0:58:07.920
<v Speaker 2>He is a spiritual leader for them, which Sean immediately

0:58:08.000 --> 0:58:12.320
<v Speaker 2>pivots to sex. Yes. Yeah.

0:58:12.440 --> 0:58:14.440
<v Speaker 1>He asked what you need or what you want from me?

0:58:15.840 --> 0:58:19.560
<v Speaker 1>But she has nothing, So then she asks him, are

0:58:19.600 --> 0:58:22.120
<v Speaker 1>there is there anything you want from me? And he

0:58:22.200 --> 0:58:23.320
<v Speaker 1>proceeds to list.

0:58:23.440 --> 0:58:25.560
<v Speaker 2>Physical things he wants touch and her.

0:58:25.600 --> 0:58:29.520
<v Speaker 1>She kisses scratchy, scratchy, touchy, touchy, winky winky fundle balls,

0:58:29.680 --> 0:58:30.520
<v Speaker 1>no big deal.

0:58:30.680 --> 0:58:33.040
<v Speaker 2>Sixty nine, just rub my head and maybe rim.

0:58:32.920 --> 0:58:35.640
<v Speaker 1>Me, these are things every man wants from his wife,

0:58:35.920 --> 0:58:39.960
<v Speaker 1>but she very recently says no, she wants all that

0:58:40.000 --> 0:58:40.960
<v Speaker 1>to happen naturally.

0:58:41.200 --> 0:58:42.760
<v Speaker 2>She met him six days.

0:58:42.560 --> 0:58:45.720
<v Speaker 1>Ago and yes, and he responds, oh my gosh, he's

0:58:45.760 --> 0:58:48.800
<v Speaker 1>suddenly realizing she's not sexually attracted to him.

0:58:49.280 --> 0:58:50.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I.

0:58:50.640 --> 0:58:53.800
<v Speaker 3>Oh it just he's not another one not reading the

0:58:53.880 --> 0:58:55.960
<v Speaker 3>room at all? How many times do you need to

0:58:55.960 --> 0:58:59.720
<v Speaker 3>throw out sexual things that are not landing before you

0:58:59.800 --> 0:59:02.680
<v Speaker 3>re this is not you're the knock knock jokes aren't working,

0:59:02.680 --> 0:59:06.040
<v Speaker 3>bro pivot and so it's yeah, somebody does not know

0:59:06.080 --> 0:59:07.200
<v Speaker 3>how to read an audience at all.

0:59:07.440 --> 0:59:10.040
<v Speaker 1>She says, you know, she respects and likes him, and

0:59:10.080 --> 0:59:12.160
<v Speaker 1>he like says, I don't want you to kiss me

0:59:12.200 --> 0:59:15.480
<v Speaker 1>because you like me and respect me fair, which is fair,

0:59:15.560 --> 0:59:18.880
<v Speaker 1>but also like you what so then what a pity kiss?

0:59:18.880 --> 0:59:21.400
<v Speaker 2>Like what are you saying? You like, I don't want this?

0:59:21.480 --> 0:59:24.240
<v Speaker 2>It's like, yeah, but you know that's what she got

0:59:24.520 --> 0:59:25.360
<v Speaker 2>if you get anything.

0:59:25.520 --> 0:59:41.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, right, all right quick.

0:59:41.280 --> 0:59:43.880
<v Speaker 1>Felipe and Torri going horseback ride and looks like they're

0:59:43.880 --> 0:59:44.680
<v Speaker 1>having a good time.

0:59:44.840 --> 0:59:45.320
<v Speaker 2>These two.

0:59:46.600 --> 0:59:49.680
<v Speaker 1>Adam and mursay, are you going to work on your

0:59:49.680 --> 0:59:51.640
<v Speaker 1>lower back?

0:59:52.120 --> 0:59:55.280
<v Speaker 2>Working? My traps, and my psis Devin and Kayla having

0:59:55.360 --> 0:59:59.680
<v Speaker 2>dance lessons and this dance thing. You know, this this

0:59:59.760 --> 1:00:01.600
<v Speaker 2>was how that's a good time, right, he says he

1:00:01.640 --> 1:00:05.920
<v Speaker 2>feels flirty, scrunchy nose vibes and like, you know, this.

1:00:05.960 --> 1:00:09.080
<v Speaker 1>Is where I realized that the whole show is like

1:00:09.280 --> 1:00:11.720
<v Speaker 1>they didn't get a chance to court one another, right,

1:00:11.920 --> 1:00:14.120
<v Speaker 1>And I do think Devin and Caitlin would have had

1:00:14.120 --> 1:00:16.439
<v Speaker 1>a better shot if they had courted one another, because

1:00:16.480 --> 1:00:18.840
<v Speaker 1>you would have been able to like spend time together

1:00:18.880 --> 1:00:21.280
<v Speaker 1>and then not spend time together, like gotten those breaks

1:00:21.720 --> 1:00:24.360
<v Speaker 1>and she's kind of craving, and I think they would

1:00:24.400 --> 1:00:30.000
<v Speaker 1>have built their sort of affection schedule over time mutually,

1:00:30.080 --> 1:00:30.200
<v Speaker 1>do you.

1:00:30.200 --> 1:00:30.520
<v Speaker 4>Know what I mean?

1:00:30.520 --> 1:00:31.800
<v Speaker 2>Because that's something you build mutually.

1:00:31.880 --> 1:00:34.080
<v Speaker 1>You realize like, oh, this person needs a little space,

1:00:34.240 --> 1:00:37.560
<v Speaker 1>this person needs a little kiss or whatever. So they

1:00:37.560 --> 1:00:41.520
<v Speaker 1>had to like skip ahead, and that's really hard, you know,

1:00:41.640 --> 1:00:45.800
<v Speaker 1>because what does marriage mean? For Devin, it means constant

1:00:45.880 --> 1:00:48.800
<v Speaker 1>love and attention, always in it with together, And for

1:00:48.880 --> 1:00:51.120
<v Speaker 1>Courty it means some awesome, flirty good times that are

1:00:51.120 --> 1:00:54.600
<v Speaker 1>intense and then some space apart. And they're like they

1:00:54.680 --> 1:00:58.680
<v Speaker 1>both got married with their expectation, like before the courting.

1:00:58.400 --> 1:00:59.880
<v Speaker 2>Bar Ah such a weird show.

1:01:00.160 --> 1:01:02.240
<v Speaker 3>See it's such a weak show because the way I

1:01:02.280 --> 1:01:04.120
<v Speaker 3>and I could be wrong, but it sounds a little

1:01:04.120 --> 1:01:08.000
<v Speaker 3>bit like you're saying Caitlyn is like I want this too,

1:01:08.040 --> 1:01:09.880
<v Speaker 3>but I also want some time apart. Where it read

1:01:09.920 --> 1:01:13.080
<v Speaker 3>to me like Caitlyn came off one way and then

1:01:13.160 --> 1:01:14.919
<v Speaker 3>she'll be happy, go lucky, and then you turn around

1:01:14.960 --> 1:01:16.800
<v Speaker 3>and look back and then she's out of the room

1:01:16.880 --> 1:01:18.960
<v Speaker 3>or she's got she's it's like, whoa, what what the

1:01:19.000 --> 1:01:21.280
<v Speaker 3>hell just happened? Like that's how it reads to me

1:01:21.320 --> 1:01:23.080
<v Speaker 3>with her, and it could just be editing. It could

1:01:23.120 --> 1:01:25.000
<v Speaker 3>be not like that at all. But the way you

1:01:25.160 --> 1:01:27.520
<v Speaker 3>said it sounds way more reasonable than I think she's

1:01:27.520 --> 1:01:30.280
<v Speaker 3>coming off on the show where it seems it doesn't

1:01:30.320 --> 1:01:32.320
<v Speaker 3>seem to me like it's coming off as a reasonable thing.

1:01:32.720 --> 1:01:35.600
<v Speaker 3>It comes off like it's like, wow, you seem instantly

1:01:35.640 --> 1:01:37.720
<v Speaker 3>closed off and now you want It's like, I.

1:01:37.640 --> 1:01:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Think that that's her emotional pattern, do you know what

1:01:39.560 --> 1:01:41.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean? Like I feel sorry for her too. I've

1:01:41.920 --> 1:01:45.360
<v Speaker 1>seen her dad. You feel like she's she's learned a

1:01:45.400 --> 1:01:48.760
<v Speaker 1>really bad pattern about male affection. And I think you know,

1:01:48.840 --> 1:01:50.800
<v Speaker 1>she said it. She's been in horrible relationships. Yeah, I

1:01:50.880 --> 1:01:53.640
<v Speaker 1>think we're seeing that pattern. Like what happens when you

1:01:53.680 --> 1:01:56.680
<v Speaker 1>live in that pattern is that you protect yourself by

1:01:56.800 --> 1:01:58.640
<v Speaker 1>pulling away from the person who's showing you a lot

1:01:58.640 --> 1:02:02.000
<v Speaker 1>of affection because you're terrified that any minute he's going

1:02:02.040 --> 1:02:04.200
<v Speaker 1>to turn around a start being an asshole, start yelling

1:02:04.240 --> 1:02:07.920
<v Speaker 1>at you, maybe being abusive, you know what might one

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<v Speaker 1>might say, like which I think potentially her ex boyfriends

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe her dad were.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think if he becomes more of an asshole,

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<v Speaker 3>she'll be more attracted.

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<v Speaker 2>To him, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And that sucks, and it sucks to his credit, he's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to just keep you know. But and so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really I'm hoping that the matchmakers can maybe sort of

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<v Speaker 1>point some of this out. Yeah, they can try and

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<v Speaker 1>break each of their patterns, you know, emotionally, or just

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<v Speaker 1>fit their pattern together. Like this is where I was like, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>if they had just gone on fifty dates, they probably

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<v Speaker 1>would have figured out this stuff about each other and

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<v Speaker 1>just yeah, yeah, all right, Felipe and Torri. He got

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<v Speaker 1>her flowers and they start talking about who's messy. He

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<v Speaker 1>says he's a five out of ten. This is, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the reality of moving in together. He talks about how

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<v Speaker 1>he plays video games like a fifteen year old boy,

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<v Speaker 1>and she seems fine.

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<v Speaker 2>She says she's gonna be an online shopper.

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<v Speaker 1>But this scene was interesting to me because I did

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<v Speaker 1>start to think that she's kind of taking a role,

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<v Speaker 1>like she's pulling back her a little bit. Oh you think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>not to run away from him, but kind of protecting herself.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like she's lessening herself to match his energy.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that make sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, She's maybe a surely thing to do, like if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to stay in a marriage. But I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>little concerned because, like you know, she was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>very religious.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's like I'm an atheist.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like okay, and so how many other ways is

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<v Speaker 1>she just sort of saying, Okay, I'm gonna be a

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<v Speaker 1>little less who I am, Yeah, to match you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting, like because he's a big personality he is.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think one of the most the healthiest things

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<v Speaker 3>I heard in all the episodes was him saying, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>making sure I'm not love bombing her. Yeah, Like I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to be that guy. Who's like I love you,

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<v Speaker 3>I love you, love you right away, like I'm doing

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<v Speaker 3>my damn this not to make that happen, which I

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<v Speaker 3>think is you know, it's that's that's love bombing is

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<v Speaker 3>a relatively new term, but it's obviously been around forever,

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<v Speaker 3>and so the idea that somebody's cognizant of that where

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<v Speaker 3>it's like I don't want to do this is again

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<v Speaker 3>a delicate balance.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're right.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't get to grow over over time and over

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<v Speaker 3>with dates. It's instantly married and jumping right into it.

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<v Speaker 3>And then it's the honeymoon, and then you're judging your

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<v Speaker 3>honeymoon by what other.

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<v Speaker 2>People do on their honeymoons.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's like you've known her a day, so that's

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<v Speaker 3>not the same as a regular honeymoon.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's there's so much shit that goes on.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, then we get a very painful scene with Belgiulia

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<v Speaker 1>and Mecca in robes in bed, they talk about their

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<v Speaker 1>attraction levels.

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<v Speaker 2>This came out of nowhere, and I thought at first

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<v Speaker 2>he was joking, but then I don't think he was.

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<v Speaker 1>They say that he says she's attracted to him at

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and fifty percent and he's at eighty percent,

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<v Speaker 1>which then he readjusts to a sixty eighty ratio.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, oh man.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a little brutal and kind of out of nowhere.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt really sorry for her me too, Like there

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<v Speaker 1>are a really great couple, and.

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<v Speaker 2>They're both beautiful people. That's what I'm saying. They're stunning.

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<v Speaker 2>They're stunning people.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of like, what what, But you know, attractions, attraction,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's it's one of those things like he might

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<v Speaker 1>have he probably would have looked at a headshot of her,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's undeniably beautiful. I mean, all are on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the reality of attraction is when you're in

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<v Speaker 1>that you know that chemistry, like who knows what you

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<v Speaker 1>end up loving?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. But there's also something to it.

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<v Speaker 3>It was it's not just a conversation about how attracted

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<v Speaker 3>I am to you. It's a conversation more about you're

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<v Speaker 3>more attracted to me than I'm attracted to you. So

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<v Speaker 3>it's not even like it's it's a double whammy on

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<v Speaker 3>you because I'm not as attracted to you are, but

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<v Speaker 3>you're I can also tell you're really attracted to me,

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<v Speaker 3>So it's that double kind of like, ooh, you kind

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<v Speaker 3>of in a way insulted me twice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a weird thing that he's saying, Yes, it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like he's really kind of sabotaging.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and it came out of nowhere.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want to under like just say like it's

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<v Speaker 1>so cool that you're really into me, because it's like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you're right, because he's faulting her for being

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<v Speaker 1>too into him, yes, which is like that's not something

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<v Speaker 1>she should be at fault for. No, like, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>she's just she's into and like obviously he likes himself.

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<v Speaker 1>He thinks he's attractive. He's trying to be attractive the

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<v Speaker 1>way he dresses and cares about his hair and looks,

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<v Speaker 1>so like the fact that she's attractive should totally be Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, that should be wholly positive. Yes, And if

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<v Speaker 1>he has anything to say, it should be I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>a little slower on my attraction level right now and

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<v Speaker 1>I need like a little more space.

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<v Speaker 3>You're obviously gorgeous and this is growing, but not Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you like me a lot more than I like you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, oh, that's that's weird.

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<v Speaker 4>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>We get Adam going down the slide and socks and

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<v Speaker 1>Devin going down the slide, and he says he's craving

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<v Speaker 1>with Adam and Marissa have which the jet skis Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, probably love. Oh that's what you mean? Okay? Marissa

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<v Speaker 2>and Adam at dinner cheers jet skin, love cheers to

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<v Speaker 2>jet skiing, then love. She checks his his drink for alcohol.

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<v Speaker 2>They eat some steak bab with his hands, he picks

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<v Speaker 2>it up.

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<v Speaker 4>Ye.

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<v Speaker 3>This, it's so comically ridiculous that he is becoming my favorite.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Adam says that if he were to send

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<v Speaker 1>a couple home, it'd be Devin, which I thought was

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<v Speaker 1>a little sad, but I don't know, he's not miss

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<v Speaker 1>completely misreading the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he thinks they're cooked. Actually, is that what you

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<v Speaker 2>would do? Is that what you do if you had

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<v Speaker 2>send home? If you had to send one couplee with you?

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<v Speaker 1>I think they're just not going to NICKI and Sean,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I would actually Nick, I'm still hoping for Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Nick and Courtney or yeah probably next.

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<v Speaker 2>And Sean couldn't agree more. And then let's talk about

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<v Speaker 2>what what what? What would be hot for me to

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<v Speaker 2>wear in the kitchen. It's so great.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that he is if we had to fight,

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<v Speaker 1>what would it be about? And she says that you

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<v Speaker 1>might like your jet ski more than me and he says, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like fair someone having a kid. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, no, dude, You're ki is not a child,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a jet ski. And then I love that he

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<v Speaker 1>says one of my ex I said, bro too much?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, yes you do. And he's like no, It's like,

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<v Speaker 2>did you stop. She's like, no, good's part of my vocabulary.

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<v Speaker 2>Bro dumped it. I dumped that. I dumped her, pushed

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<v Speaker 2>her right off to jet Ski.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro all right, Courtney and Nick, she wants to find

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<v Speaker 1>a sushi spot. She asks him about the Paramount Theater

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<v Speaker 1>and he gives a what does he say? Rb F face.

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<v Speaker 2>Which I had to google. Oh you didn't even I

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<v Speaker 2>knew this one, resting us face yep.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, you're yeah, And you know he explains that he's

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<v Speaker 1>always does that.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this what he talks about the fact that he's

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<v Speaker 2>going to see Avril Levine and she was amazing. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a whole nother conversation we'll have later. Really you

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<v Speaker 2>don't like al fine, I think ave Levine's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>I have no problem with av Levine, but the idea

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<v Speaker 3>of this thirty one year old man, like dude.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I was at the Avolagem. She was incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that a little weird to me. I like avel Levine.

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<v Speaker 2>She's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we go out on lyrics. I feel it happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel it happening? Then we get to a

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<v Speaker 1>commercial break and come back with the lyrics. I would

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<v Speaker 1>take so many leaps of faith, like run away to

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<v Speaker 1>an exotic place to you, while run away to an

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<v Speaker 1>exotic place with you, while we see shots of an

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<v Speaker 1>exotic place where characters have taken a leap of faith.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Michelle and Cameron bring out some laundry and they start

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<v Speaker 1>talking about little things that might annoy each other, and

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<v Speaker 1>she says shaving, clean up your hair, take out the trash,

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<v Speaker 1>fair fair and then they talk about this dog thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually liked that. He was like, what's your dog voice?

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<v Speaker 1>This is a cool question, yeah, because it's very true,

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<v Speaker 1>like everyone has the dog boys and he really drive

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<v Speaker 1>you crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like if you hear some people's dog voice, like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh I give.

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<v Speaker 1>You the ck.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought this was funny and gave me a little

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<v Speaker 1>more hope for these two.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope so too, maybe maybe maybe get over the difference.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Devin and Kaylyn and she talks to the camera,

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<v Speaker 1>talks about being afraid that she's not gonna be able

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<v Speaker 1>to give him what he wants. He feels rejected, and

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<v Speaker 1>we get the lyrics. Maybe one day I'll get what

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<v Speaker 1>I want instead of what I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Needing because Caitlin doesn't touch me enough enough. And that's

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<v Speaker 2>I've ever done this show my Well, we've of course

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<v Speaker 2>reached what an arrangement? What an arrangement? Mona mona angela angela?

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<v Speaker 2>What an arrangement?

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<v Speaker 3>Where of course we talk about some of the most

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<v Speaker 3>famous arranged marriages throughout history, and today we were talking

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<v Speaker 3>about it, and I apologize for all the pronunciation that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to be butchering today, but we're talking about

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<v Speaker 3>the Shah Jahan and Mumtaz Mahal, the arrange within the

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<v Speaker 3>moough Hall Royal family. Shah Jahan's devotion and love for

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<v Speaker 3>Mutaz became a legendary love story. They were married in

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<v Speaker 3>sixteen twelve and became absolutely inseparable companions. Her death in

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<v Speaker 3>sixteen thirty one inspired the construction of the taj mahal

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<v Speaker 3>Oh Yeah, which she made for her because she was

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<v Speaker 3>the love of his life.

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<v Speaker 2>So I thought that it was an arranged marriage. It

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<v Speaker 2>was an arranged marriage. There you go. It can work.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe the end of this season. There's a jet scheme,

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<v Speaker 2>Hall j y, it's for you. Be built it with

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<v Speaker 2>my muscles.

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<v Speaker 1>You've been listening to Pop meets Twirled. The vows have

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<v Speaker 1>been spoken, the experts have weighed in and are completely offhand.

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<v Speaker 1>Conversation has now.

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<v Speaker 2>Become a season long commitment. We'll see you next time.

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<v Speaker 2>Trap you're smoking