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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeart

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Speaker 1: Radio and the Black Effect Network Talk.

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Speaker 2: You're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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Speaker 1: Well, what's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for

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Speaker 1: a new episode of We Talked Back, a show dedicated

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Speaker 1: to your dreamers and chasers. This is your co host,

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Speaker 1: A J. Holiday. What's up, Big Tim BM.

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Speaker 2: Hey, y'all. I fucking love y'all. I'm so sick of

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Speaker 2: being disabled. I really am, you know what. Shout out

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Speaker 2: to all the people who are handling disabilities and taking

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Speaker 2: it in stride. I love y'all. Y'all are resilient, and

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Speaker 2: I'm so proud of y'all because I'm suffering right now.

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing a good job at it. I'm getting fatter.

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Speaker 2: I'm getting fatter, an excuse now to be fat. I'm

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Speaker 2: all fat and sassy.

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Speaker 1: You ain't fat, y'all pleasantly plump. Okay, all right, you'll

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Speaker 1: get it off.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to get this second chin removed this month.

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Speaker 2: I don't care. I'm just gonna go do it. I

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Speaker 2: ain't paying no rent money. I'm just gonna go ahead

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Speaker 2: and get this double chance. So when y'all see the

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Speaker 2: next recording, and y'all see me bandaged, jump about the face.

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Speaker 2: Don't ask no questions.

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Speaker 1: I got a new chin and maya motherfucking business.

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Speaker 2: How was your weekend?

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Speaker 1: Girl? I literally did not leave the house on Saturday,

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Speaker 1: had all intentions to do do so, but I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I finished the last couple episodes of Hands Made Tale

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Speaker 1: about to come out, right, Yeah, they're working on it now.

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Speaker 1: Apparently they started recording. They started filming this month September,

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Speaker 1: so I guess sometime next year we can expect the

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Speaker 1: season six. But I can't wait, bitch. I just knew

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Speaker 1: that motherfucker Serena was gonna be in the back of

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Speaker 1: that plane wait for me, in the back of that

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Speaker 1: train for June when June they finally was trying to

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Speaker 1: escape out of Canada. It is just it's a bit much, man.

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Speaker 2: I'm not watching it. I watched Reasonable Doubt. That's my

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Speaker 2: ship right now.

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Speaker 1: So I've been hearing about that. So I can I

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Speaker 1: learn something from that shoulder?

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Speaker 2: No, not really.

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Speaker 1: See I'll be like a shit that got like low

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Speaker 1: hidden like this. This made me feel like this in

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Speaker 1: real life. Shit, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Like me. I feel like if you feel like you

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Speaker 2: can learn from Handsmaid's tales, then you probably can learn

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Speaker 2: from reasonable doubts.

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Speaker 1: How though, are they alike?

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Speaker 2: No, they're not alike. But I don't see what you're

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Speaker 2: learning from handsmaid stale.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Hey, look man, I'm out of the business of

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Speaker 1: debating people's perspective.

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Speaker 2: There's no debate. That's what I'm just saying. Just try

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Speaker 2: the show and see if you like it.

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Speaker 1: Is watching that and something else? Tell me, Lie, I've

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Speaker 1: even watching it. Yeah, it's is that I've been hearing

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Speaker 1: about telling me lies and reasonable doubt.

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Speaker 2: I oh, yeah, reasonable doubt is good. And then I

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Speaker 2: watched the Baylor in Colorado game over the weekend. That's

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Speaker 2: how you know a bitchally fucked up. I'm mean here

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Speaker 2: watching football, but that shit was actually no. I wasn't

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Speaker 2: bet and I was just it was on, and then

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Speaker 2: it actually started getting good to me, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: this is actually entertaining.

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Speaker 1: Who knew, y'all. It's September twenty third, twenty twenty four,

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Speaker 1: and my prediction is that the Baltimore Ravens will be

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Speaker 1: going to the Super Bowl. I may, I know, it

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Speaker 1: may not look like it right now for you know,

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Speaker 1: Ravens fans or people who aren't fans. I'm not necessarily

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Speaker 1: a fan, but I had a premonition that they will

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Speaker 1: be going to the super Bowl this year, so I

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Speaker 1: might go ahead and put a couple hundred dollars on that.

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Speaker 1: I feel very strongly about it for some reason.

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Speaker 2: Well, I guess we're gonna see y'all mark this date

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Speaker 2: until aj she's psychic or she was completely dead wrong.

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Speaker 1: Psychic got delusions line. And so Saturday, oh that was

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Speaker 1: Saturday nothing. And then Sunday I did go off to

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Speaker 1: dinner at least a very very nice I don't even

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Speaker 1: know if it's a new restaurant in Charleston. It's called

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Speaker 1: a Select. I was pleasantly surprised. It was so good,

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Speaker 1: like I always be pumping up my city. We got

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Speaker 2: And it was date night. No.

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Speaker 1: I actually hung out with my homegirl and one of

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Speaker 1: her friends, one of her guy friends. I just met

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Speaker 2: We got on the grill Sunday and my mama's well,

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Speaker 2: I didn't get on shit. I just sat on the

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Speaker 1: But we had off the grill. You ad off the grill.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I ate off the grill and that was it.

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Speaker 2: I can't do it. I can't wait for this. I

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Speaker 2: don't even know if I'm going to Homecoming no more,

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Speaker 2: because I'm looking at the math of the doctor. The

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Speaker 2: doctor said four more weeks on this, on this scooter

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Speaker 2: and the crutch. So I'm coming this October one, twenty six,

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Speaker 2: So we'll see.

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Speaker 1: That's a month from now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the seventeenth, I'll be able to walk on the boot,

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Speaker 2: but I still have them on the boot. Who aren't

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Speaker 2: trying to walk on a boot in the Homecoming? Girl?

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Speaker 1: You that press right?

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Speaker 2: So we'll see what happened. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: We'll see how I feel by then, please don't okay

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Speaker 1: there with.

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Speaker 2: One of my homeboys, he was like always, you know,

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Speaker 2: my little cousin loved your show, and I send me

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Speaker 2: the link so I can listen to some episodes. So

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Speaker 2: I sent him the link and he was like, I

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Speaker 2: was like, what do you think? And he was like,

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Speaker 2: I don't think that's what I was like, No, tell me, really,

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Speaker 2: what do you think? He was like, I just felt

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Speaker 2: like I was listening to my mama and my auntie conversation.

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Speaker 2: Like I picked up the phone and I was just

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Speaker 2: listening there.

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Speaker 1: Now, so we saw like Mama's and aunties. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's on brand.

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Speaker 2: Note. I was about writing to me, let's get innocence,

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Speaker 2: Didy Diddy, Diddy Diddy? Did he do it?

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Speaker 1: Did he not? Shah?

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Speaker 2: He did that?

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Speaker 1: Sit So last week we reported, not reported because we

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Speaker 1: ate reporters. Okay, so last week we talked about did

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Speaker 1: he prior to the actual charges coming out? So now

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Speaker 1: charges of racketeering, conspiracy, and sex trafficking. He did plead

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Speaker 1: custom until his federal trial in New York. So now

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Speaker 1: he's since been moved to Nork, New Jersey Prison, federal prison.

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Speaker 1: Did he has been trying to forfeit everything he fucking

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Speaker 1: owns to get a bail and they have denied him

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Speaker 1: now bond twice. He tried to put up his well,

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Speaker 1: he actually put up his house, his mom's house, offered

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Speaker 1: to turn in his passport, also kids passports, and the

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Speaker 1: judge an in't budget. Now, I feel like everybody deserves

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Speaker 1: to have bond, you know what I'm saying, Like, even

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Speaker 1: though we know they gonna give you a crazy as

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Speaker 1: bot just because they don't want you to get out,

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Speaker 1: but because he has the means to get out, They're like, no,

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Speaker 1: But we know other men in the similar situation have

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Speaker 1: been given bond in the past so they can prepare,

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Speaker 1: get their affairs together and shit like that. This is Diddy.

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Speaker 1: Why did he can't get a bond? Did he a

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Speaker 1: real terrorist?

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Speaker 2: For real? It looks like it seems it's a lot

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Speaker 2: of people who have come out against him, you know,

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Speaker 2: like they're coming out of the woodworks. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So. Damon Williams, the US Attorney for the Southern District

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Speaker 1: of New York who brought the indictment, was vague when

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Speaker 1: asked whether Didy or others would face more charges. Now

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Speaker 1: I know. I think they also put like some drug

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Speaker 1: charges on him too, Narcotics, the illicit drugs that he supports.

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Speaker 1: He had at these allegedly had at these uh freak

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Speaker 1: offs for him and guests. Apparently some of these guests

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Speaker 1: must have been there against their free will. It says

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Speaker 1: multiple witnesses who have worked with Combs have been meeting

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Speaker 1: CNN at least one male sex worker is expected to

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Speaker 1: of days, according to the source, who added, the witnesses

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Speaker 1: allegations go beyond the details in this week's indictment, So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna be hearing some more shit, Okay. Apparently he

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Speaker 1: got like fifty victims and witnesses, over fifty victims and

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Speaker 1: witnesses in this.

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Speaker 2: Case, fifty victims and witnesses in trouble. Yeah, he's very

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Speaker 2: much in trouble.

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Speaker 1: He's in trouble. And on top of that, son, they're

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Speaker 1: saying Kim not.

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Speaker 2: So.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all know Sloan Bella off YouTube

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Speaker 1: she's a psychic. So before all this should even happened

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Speaker 1: last year, I want to say, like maybe around like

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Speaker 1: January last year, February she put out an initial video.

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Speaker 1: She's been doing this for years, but she didn't get

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Speaker 1: like piped up until last year. When did he actually

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Speaker 1: the when Cassie actually put her civil suit out there?

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Speaker 1: Like that. When that became public, that's when people got

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Speaker 1: onto Sloan Bella. But she had predicted this months prior.

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Speaker 1: She really did all of this everything. Even this year,

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Speaker 1: she put out a video like round February she said,

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Speaker 1: by Easter, some more shit was gonna be happening with Diddy,

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Speaker 1: and it's gonna be other men that go down with him.

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Speaker 1: They raided his house in April. She said, Easter is

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be like an Easter egg hunt type shit.

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Speaker 1: This is how she was saying it on her show,

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Speaker 1: because I've been locked in since last year, like who

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Speaker 1: the fuck this is right up my alley. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's predicted all of the things. You know, maybe she's

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Speaker 1: an agent, I don't know, and maybe she could be

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Speaker 1: the real thing, and she gets information from the cosmos.

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Speaker 1: Who knows, right, but Diddy asses in fucking trouble. But

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Speaker 1: one thing Sloan Bella did say is how she was

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Speaker 1: getting this information from Kim Peter from the other side.

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Speaker 1: So she's like, Kim ain't fucking around with Diddy. She's

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Speaker 1: gonna get his ass from the other side. She couldn't

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Speaker 1: work from the other side. So on Friday, September twentieth,

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Speaker 1: Daily Mail reported that a sixty page book called Kim's

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Speaker 1: Lost Words was recently published were quietly published on September

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Speaker 1: sixth by Los Angeles based publisher Chris Todd and written

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Speaker 1: by Jamal T. Millwood. The unauthorized book, which is currently

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Speaker 1: for sale on Amazon, is allegedly comprised of Porter's diary

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Speaker 1: entries kept during her time with Puff and reportedly the

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Speaker 1: details instances of shocking abuse she experienced at the Disgrace

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Speaker 1: Mogul's hand. We don't know if it's true or not.

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Speaker 1: There's been people like I'll be sure, and then Camp

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Speaker 1: Porter's best friend who's come out and said, like this

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Speaker 1: is some bullshit. She never wrote a memoir. That's never happened,

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Speaker 1: But Sloan Bella says she did give a cell phone

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Speaker 1: with some stuff to some people. Somebody does have something

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Speaker 1: she was keeping tabs.

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Speaker 2: All in all, I feel really really bad for those girls.

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Speaker 2: I feel so bad for those girls. I know they

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Speaker 2: are embarrassed and shamed, humiliated. You never know what those

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Speaker 1: could pick up the phone and call her. They not

434
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 1: talk about geography.

435
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 2: Okay, not talking about geography.

436
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 1: But that's just not where we are right now. So yeah,

437
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 1: they are not in the same city and they are

438
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 1: not on speaking terms, is what I'm hearing or what

439
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,640
Speaker 1: I'm reading. However, she did give Tamara a shout out

440
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 1: on social media the day the promo was released. Girl Girl,

441
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 1: call your sister.

442
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a cry for love from her, you know.

443
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 2: I mean, that's her twin sister. They came out to

444
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,680
Speaker 2: pussy the same time, like they should be locked in

445
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,120
Speaker 2: more than anybody else, you know, But you don't.

446
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,679
Speaker 1: Never you never know what goes on between people, right

447
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: and for you to get on like you had a

448
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 1: show coming out, right And if this is how this is,

449
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,959
Speaker 1: this is not how you get back with somebody you love.

450
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying by telling the work, because

451
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 1: nobody knew that they weren't good until now.

452
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 2: But maybe this might help them be good.

453
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 1: I think for me, if somebody, let's say, for instance,

454
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,439
Speaker 1: we're not speaking about because of some shit that you

455
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,680
Speaker 1: possibly did right the other person possibly didn't. We're not speaking.

456
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 1: That is not how to get back with me, you know,

457
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 1: by publicly telling people that we got a problem, because

458
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 1: obviously I've never spoken on whatever problem we have publicly,

459
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,679
Speaker 1: and especially if you somebody like my sister, call me,

460
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: because if we're not in the same space while you

461
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 1: do this thing now, it leads people to speculate. I

462
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,679
Speaker 1: just don't like speculation. I like to get ahead of

463
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: things and maybe put the put the right stuff out

464
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 1: there the first time, because what.

465
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 2: Let's not It seemed very heartfelt, It didn't seem like manipulative,

466
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 2: and it definitely brought people to the show. Maybe America

467
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 2: come on there and it'll be a check for her too, because.

468
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:03,639
Speaker 1: She working but we don't know if she's working off

469
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: because it used to be on on the real which

470
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 1: ended what two years ago?

471
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 2: Now, Oh that I thought that was the one that

472
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 2: was married.

473
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,439
Speaker 1: To everybody could be confused about who's who? Know, the

474
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 1: one was married to? The white guy? Is who was

475
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:20,160
Speaker 1: on the reel? That's that's Tamara, Yeah, and Tia Mawy

476
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 1: her husband was just in that what's the movie divorce

477
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 1: in black divorcing Black? So he working? Do you think

478
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,360
Speaker 1: that's possibly why they divorced.

479
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:32,639
Speaker 2: Because he was unemployed? Yeah, well, finances is the number

480
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 2: one reason why marriage is dis all it's not infidelity,

481
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 2: is money.

482
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:41,160
Speaker 1: So I just feel like, if he's not beating your

483
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 1: ass or.

484
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 2: We don't know, because he was very, very believable.

485
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: This man ain't beaten. I heard he was very nice.

486
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,640
Speaker 1: I heard he was a very nice guy. But hey,

487
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 1: you don't know how somebody is if not haven't been

488
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 1: married to him for twenty years or however long they

489
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 1: had been together.

490
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 2: But the who ain't nice in the beginning?

491
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,439
Speaker 1: Right? Gotcha bitch? And then all of a sudden the

492
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:08,880
Speaker 1: real nigga show up. But TiO was saying, how hard

493
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 1: it is like now, like trying to like date and

494
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 1: stuff like that. I have to like it, Like post divorce, girl,

495
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: what your thought was outside? You ain't listening to these

496
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: single bitches like it's nothing out here. The pickings are

497
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 1: as slim women.

498
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 2: Okay, maybe they can reconcile though hopefully there's.

499
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 1: Poop in the dating pool. Okay, it's hard, so you

500
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: should have tried to kept your man a little like

501
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: a little harder man.

502
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 2: It's hard out here, but maybe sometimes it takes separating

503
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,160
Speaker 2: to see what you got. He might not be having

504
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 2: it easy out here with women either. You know, you

505
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:43,880
Speaker 2: never know.

506
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:44,880
Speaker 1: I don't know.

507
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 2: Oh you said that looked like you had some inscts.

508
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 1: These niggas be having a way man, no matter what age.

509
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:57,160
Speaker 1: I think women sometimes be tripping about how many options

510
00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: we really have, like good options. Right, Yeah, you got

511
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: some men who definitely gonna drop some dick on you,

512
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 1: But how many of them gonna actually keep you is

513
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: the question. And I think women sometimes be delusional about

514
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: how many men gonna actually wipe them up. It's not

515
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 1: a lot. And men, men be having a way with

516
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:22,479
Speaker 1: multiple great women. You're playing with everybody. Speaking of wifing

517
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: up and marrying child, David Banner, fifty year old, asked

518
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 1: talk about he ready for a marriage and children now.

519
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 1: He said, I'm tired. I want to find my wife,

520
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: have some kids. We chase all these esoteric goals and

521
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 1: sometimes we look back and we left the things that

522
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: really matter. The shorty say artists said, Oh, I hate

523
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: when they add quotes in there. Anyway, he said, I

524
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 1: looked up one day, I had all of them. I

525
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 1: had the music accolades, the film accolades, not the one,

526
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: not all the ones that I want, but a lot

527
00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: of them. I had accomplished my goals and chased my

528
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: goal so long that when I looked up, I saw

529
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: that I had ran off and left everything else Banner

530
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 1: was wanted Banner has. Banner has wanted to get married

531
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 1: for some time, because in twenty seventeen, he released the

532
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: song Marry Me. The artist told Exell Nicole he wants

533
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: to be the marriage type. He said, I just want

534
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: to be the man that most black women want to marry.

535
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 1: I want to be a Black man that stands strong.

536
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 1: He said. I'm not perfect, but I want to be

537
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 1: the man women want to marry and that kids want

538
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: to be, want to be their father. I want to

539
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: be that man. When I die, I want people to

540
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: say that that's a strong African man. I am proud

541
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 1: that he's a part of my culture.

542
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 2: But I mean, fifty sounds old to be, you know,

543
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 2: feeling that way, But ultimately it's not for him because.

544
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 1: He's a man.

545
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, because he's a man, you know. And who said

546
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 2: he was looking for a fifty year old bitch? Right?

547
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 2: Getting a thirty year old woman, you know.

548
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: And I hope he get a fine ass twenty five

549
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: year with that fucking rad snapper, run his ass ragged,

550
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 1: my girl.

551
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 2: We're like Banner seems like a good guy like I

552
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 2: don't see him as a bad guy like who.

553
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 1: I never heard nothing crazy about him. I've always been

554
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 1: in love with David Banner. Always that nigga has always

555
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 1: sex symbol to me. I got to say, yeah, it's

556
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: too late now, nigga, it's too late. A bunch of

557
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 1: people wanted you people, and I had to move on

558
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: with They lost year. He gonna have to get him

559
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: a little young whoopa snapper and hopefully you know, she

560
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: don't hopefully she don't do him dirty. Hopefully hopefully she

561
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 1: don't break his heart. I hadn't heard no bad things

562
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 1: about David Banner and dating. I don't know anybody who's

563
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:59,479
Speaker 1: dealt with him, So I don't know how he How

564
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 1: do you? How do you make it this long?

565
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 2: Like? Who is? Who?

566
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 1: Has he ever been attached to? Like woman? Like a woman?

567
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 1: Do you know anybody he's ever dated?

568
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 2: No? I can't think of a soul. I can't think

569
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 2: of anybody.

570
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: So David Banner, so he ain't been out here fucking

571
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 1: so you're not early with somebody and somebody and I

572
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: fell in love.

573
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 2: He was very quiet about it.

574
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody that I've been in love somewhere and you

575
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: let that woman go? What happened with that? I want

576
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: to talk to David Banner. Let's see, we could try

577
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 1: to get him on the show so you can have

578
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: a deeper discussion about the psychology of a fifty year

579
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: old nigga. Because they got a lot to say about

580
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 1: women just being thirty with no children and her husband.

581
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: You know, they got a lot to say about us.

582
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 1: But it's like, Okay, you a man fifty, because you

583
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: can get a younger woman, but something has to automatically

584
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: be wrong with a woman because she didn't have those

585
00:31:54,360 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 1: things by a certain time. Double standards. Double standards. Hate

586
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 1: double standards.

587
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: Me too, But I mean men can be sixty and

588
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 2: be like, I'm ready, and what can we say? You know,

589
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 2: because he can get him a little nice, little forty

590
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 2: thirty five year old forty year olds something to make kids?

591
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 2: How old it al pacino? And he just had a

592
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 2: baby something like that, eighty something years old with a

593
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 2: younger woman, So more power to him. I say all

594
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 2: men should wait until they ready. Don't get involved with

595
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: someone and making single mothers out of women and doing

596
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 2: all the things when you're not ready. If it take

597
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 2: you till sixty, wait till sixty, because I'm sure some

598
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 2: of the women that you ran through and leaving the

599
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 2: trails of tears behind you would be grateful if you

600
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 2: had just waited and didn't play in their face.

601
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: And keep your heart healthy, make sure you're running. David

602
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: Banner looked like he got a nice strong back. I

603
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: don't see ed in his future anytime soon. More power

604
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 1: to your David Banner.

605
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 2: Yep, all right. I saw a video over the weekend

606
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 2: that made me want to have this conversation. Tammy Rowman

607
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 2: was discussing password sharing and location sharing, and I wanted

608
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 2: to talk with AJ and you guys about what it

609
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 2: looks like in your relationships and what it should look

610
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 2: like in your relationship with password sharing and location squear sharing.

611
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 2: We'll be right back with that conversation, all.

612
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: Right, y'all, And we're back, okay, and absolutely fucking not

613
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 1: to kick the conversation off, No you can't have my

614
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: goddamn password, and no I'm not sharing my location. There's that.

615
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 2: I don't for me. If you want it, you can

616
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 2: have it, but I feel like there's a bigger issue

617
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 2: at hand if you want it, and we need to

618
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 2: discover what that is. But you can have it until

619
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 2: you feel comfortable, you know, to give me my password

620
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 2: back where I can have that privacy, because it's like

621
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 2: you're looking into my diary, you know. That's how it

622
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 2: feels when you want to have access to my phone

623
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 2: in that way, is like you want access to my diary,

624
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,439
Speaker 2: because I mean, there are private things in your phone

625
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 2: that isn't for everybody, that's just for you, you know. So,

626
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 2: and in location sharing, the only real the way I

627
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 2: would feel like I would want my man to have

628
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 2: my location. It's for my safety, you know. If I'm

629
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 2: going out of town or if I'm going like on

630
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 2: a long distance drive or something like that, then I

631
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 2: can share my location with you. But otherwise it just

632
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 2: seems like control. All those things feel like control to me.

633
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: Neither one of us have been married yet. Okay, as

634
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,439
Speaker 1: until you're married, you're single. I'm living with a whole

635
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,839
Speaker 1: man and I'm still single as far as the thing goes, right,

636
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 1: if I get married or when I get married, I

637
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 1: probably would share my location with my significant other. I

638
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,399
Speaker 1: don't have a problem with that. And actually the man

639
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: who I was engaged to, he was very adamant about

640
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 1: trying to get me to share my location with him.

641
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 1: But I knew you had a whole lot of shit

642
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 1: going on that you didn't think I knew about. So

643
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 1: you wanted me, you were in particular wanted in particular

644
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:19,320
Speaker 1: wanting me to share my location and you not share

645
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: yours is a problem that is control, absolutely, you know.

646
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 1: So it's what they're trying to do with this information.

647
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 1: And then it's also like if there was never any

648
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: like insecurity issues leading up to you asking for these things,

649
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: then maybe I would consider it. But based on like

650
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 1: the things that I've already transpired in a relationship, dishonesty, lying,

651
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,320
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Nigga, it was never honest

652
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,879
Speaker 1: with me, Like bitches was literally knocking on the door,

653
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:50,280
Speaker 1: scratching cars, all types of shit. Now I'm the one

654
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: you need my location. You got a lot of shit

655
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:55,359
Speaker 1: going on, my boy, I.

656
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 2: Can't trust you because I've been so untrustworthy.

657
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: Yes That's what I'm hearing. Yeah, And actually that nigga

658
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,959
Speaker 1: was logged into my social media for a whole year,

659
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 1: and I didn't know. We weren't even together.

660
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 2: Damn, that's crazy.

661
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: It wasn't until I let him have access to me.

662
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 1: Like we went out of town for my birthday and

663
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but that was like our last

664
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: engagement for real, and he said some shit to me

665
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 1: that I knew. I don't use Facebook like that. I

666
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 1: haven't used Facebook for really years, but I did message

667
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,840
Speaker 1: a nigga on Facebook that I was looking for, and

668
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: I knew I could find him on Facebook. He knew

669
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 1: about me messaging this person. He asked me about this

670
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 1: person in particular. I'm like, that's the only person I

671
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 1: messaged on Facebook. I haven't like really logged into Facebook

672
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: since twenty twelve at that point, so that I had

673
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: to go look at my cell phone and like, you know,

674
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:48,840
Speaker 1: you can go into settings and see where you're logged

675
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: in at. He was logged into my social media, all

676
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 1: of my social media's Instagram and Facebook on another cell

677
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: phone of his for a year. That is a major

678
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 1: invasion of privacy.

679
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 2: And you're looking at whoever you're talking to for years.

680
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 1: Though he was bringing up conversations that I had with

681
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: people before I even knew he existed. That's dangerous.

682
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's scary.

683
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 1: So this is why now, because of previous situations with people,

684
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: why I I'm very leary when somebody wants my location

685
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: or when somebody wants access to my to my personal effects,

686
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 1: because I don't really fuck with people about these things.

687
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 1: You know, Like I like to, everybody's in an individual.

688
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: Even though we're in a union, we're in a relationship,

689
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 1: you're still an individual. There are going to be some

690
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 1: things you don't want me to see just because I

691
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: might not understand because it's not for me to see.

692
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 2: Right that part, I agree.

693
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 1: So now you're going through my text messages or going

694
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 1: through my Instagram from years and years ago, and you're

695
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,799
Speaker 1: reading it with your eyes and mind and it's just

696
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: not for you to see. So you might make something

697
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:06,359
Speaker 1: out of nothing because you actually looking for some shit.

698
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 1: I'm not in to hurt my own feelings. I know

699
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 1: there's a lot of women that are, but I'm not

700
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:14,359
Speaker 1: into hurting my own feelings. So I'm never like going

701
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 1: into a Nigga cell phone for real. But I'll tell

702
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: y'all when I have I go on your cell phone.

703
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 1: When I'm ready to leave your ass, I go, wok,

704
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 1: I will go looking for a reason to leave you.

705
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: Not because I don't have a reason already, right, because

706
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 1: I obviously got to this point because of things happening

707
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 1: within the relationship. Right, But maybe you were good these

708
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: last two weeks. But I'm still like, I can't get

709
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 1: past what happened you know already in this relationship. I'm

710
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,760
Speaker 1: ready to leave. I might just go look for some shit,

711
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 1: to start some shit so I can get the fuck

712
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: up out of there.

713
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 2: But why though, why not just be like, Hey, I

714
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,799
Speaker 2: don't want to do this anymore. I'm over there relationship,

715
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 2: I'm no longer happy in it, and I'm gonna leave.

716
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 1: Well, I won't tell them that I went in they phone.

717
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:11,280
Speaker 1: It'll just give me the internal motivation to leave again.

718
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 1: Do you see what I'm saying. I'm still I still

719
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 1: never let people know I've been in they shit. It

720
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 1: wasn't until last year me and this niggamen separated for

721
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: I don't know how long. It wasn't until last year

722
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 1: that I actually told him, Nigga, I seen such and

723
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: such and such on your phone, But I never said

724
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:31,840
Speaker 1: anything because I chose to be happy every day. I

725
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 1: knew a lot of things, but I chose to be

726
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: happy because I didn't want to start friction in my relationship.

727
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: But a lot of people can't hold a piece like

728
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 1: I can.

729
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm not doing that.

730
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: Yeah I did.

731
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 2: That's why I don't go in phones because once I

732
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 2: see it, it ain't no peace. There's no more peace,

733
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 2: you know. So I just mind my business and if

734
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 2: it's meant for me to find it, it'll confine me.

735
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 2: That's how I feel.

736
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 1: About exactly, literally a bit message you on Instagram, popping

737
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 1: up at the house, whatever it is. Because what was

738
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: people doing? It's another part of this conversation. I want

739
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 1: to get into what were people doing prior to cell

740
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,879
Speaker 1: phones and all that shit to get caught?

741
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 2: You didn't, I say, I want to go back to

742
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:11,879
Speaker 2: the time when you didn't have access to each other

743
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 2: in this way. I was like, I want to go

744
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 2: back to when dating you wouldn't talk until you got

745
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 2: home from work. And she's like, you wasn't old enough

746
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 2: to be dating back then, and I was like, I

747
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:22,359
Speaker 2: still want to go.

748
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 1: Back that shit. Last week, I still want to go

749
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 1: back how were people getting caught cheating, because I guess

750
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 1: that's what it really balls down to, partly, right, part

751
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,359
Speaker 1: of it could be the person's insecurity. And I did

752
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:40,959
Speaker 1: pull up like a couple of articles so we could talk,

753
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 1: you know, talk about you know, why you may consider

754
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 1: why you shouldn't give the passwords because it's subjective to

755
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 1: the person's relationship, right, I mean not be for everybody.

756
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 1: It's definitely not for gem Andi. Me, Okay, I need

757
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 1: my independence. I don't like to feel smothered. I don't

758
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 1: like to feel like I don't have a choice in

759
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:02,240
Speaker 1: any situation.

760
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, me either. I I got a lot of old.

761
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 1: Like, oh porn in my phone, your own porn that

762
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 1: you made.

763
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 2: No like you know how guys were sending news and

764
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 2: stuff like that. I still have one, and I just

765
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 2: feel like, well, do I need to delete them when

766
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 2: I get a man or can they just stay in

767
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 2: the folder somewhere?

768
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: You probably should delete him because he fucked around and

769
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: getting that phone. And see Dick, Dick, Dick, Dick, Dick.

770
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,959
Speaker 2: It ain't that much. Dick seems like it's like I'm

771
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:34,720
Speaker 2: just like a perv.

772
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,799
Speaker 1: And I know, hold on, whose show was me on?

773
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: And I have put Dick in my search, and it

774
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:40,320
Speaker 1: was like a lot of Dick.

775
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 2: Like a lot of Carlos.

776
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 1: It was a lot of conversations about Dix. It was

777
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: Dix like because when you get a new like I

778
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 1: just got this cell phone two weeks ago, like you

779
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 1: still transferring all that data from years and years and

780
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:56,320
Speaker 1: years of having phones.

781
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:58,840
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. So do I need to like

782
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:04,320
Speaker 2: delete all of that stuff a separate folder just because

783
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,720
Speaker 2: it's part of the history, the story of my life.

784
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 1: You should probably delete it or get this app called

785
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 1: the Vault and.

786
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 2: Hide it somebody in your eye.

787
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 1: And hide it.

788
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 2: Okay.

789
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 1: So this, uh, this is talking about passwords. This is

790
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:25,439
Speaker 1: from PCMag dot com Sharing passwords with a partner, True

791
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 1: Love or Big Mistake. As the title of this article,

792
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,479
Speaker 1: it says, here's why eighty one percent of Americans share

793
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: passwords with their partner and what happens after a breakup.

794
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 2: Wait, eighty one percent of Americans are sharing passwords.

795
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 1: That's what listen. So I had to go deep. I

796
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,720
Speaker 1: read this first, and then I was like, wait, y'all

797
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,359
Speaker 1: talk about Netflix passwords, And then we talked about cell

798
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: phone codes and share Instagram passwords. We talk about like

799
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 1: sharing apps and ships, so I ain't got to be

800
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 1: paid for.

801
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:59,359
Speaker 2: That. I had longed into my HBO, max longed into

802
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 2: my Mexican over a nigga house so we could watch

803
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 2: Game of Throws. And then we had a fight, and

804
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 2: then I when I went home, well at home, I wasn't.

805
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 2: We didn't fight at his house, but we had an argument.

806
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 2: And then at home I made sure I changed my

807
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 2: password on purpose because I knew he was watching me

808
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 2: watch it with another bitch on my He was like,

809
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 2: did you change your Hbo password? And I was like,

810
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:27,360
Speaker 2: what imagine? Imagine you at home at your house and.

811
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:32,320
Speaker 1: Your husband. I gave somebody else your your passwords to

812
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,919
Speaker 1: one of your accounts and she don't put her name

813
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 1: in the shit.

814
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 2: Oh she made a profile, Yes, aside bitch made a profile.

815
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 1: A side bitch made a profile. What what's your next step?

816
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know because and then you

817
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: name it, uh both of ours or something like that.

818
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 2: Oh mine's too.

819
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:06,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's real life story. They happen to

820
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 1: me now, not me because I beat a nigga up.

821
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 1: I'm just be honest with y'all. I do be beating

822
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 1: niggas up, not for real, but I might smack you.

823
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 1: I might smack you in your fucking beard. I might

824
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:21,760
Speaker 1: because why you're letting.

825
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 2: This girl play? You wanted your woman to see that.

826
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 1: Exactly, and so why is she so comfortable to play

827
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 1: with me like that? See, let's go back to the

828
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 1: times when they didn't have all these things, right, bitch,

829
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:34,359
Speaker 1: you can't get at your wife that easy. But yeah,

830
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 1: that happened to a friend of mine.

831
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 2: That's next level, next.

832
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 1: Level of disrespect. Okay, So it says. It starts with

833
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: a simple question, Hey, what's the Nextflix password? So that's

834
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 1: the first step, right, And just like that, you've joined

835
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: the eighty one percent of Americans who say they've shared

836
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 1: passwords with passwords with a partner. So they're starting with

837
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 1: like simple shit like that Netflix. Okay, So I share

838
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 1: accounts with multiple people, not just my partner, so it says,

839
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 1: according to a new survey of two thousand men and

840
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:13,720
Speaker 1: women by Express VPN. This is a slightly higher number

841
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 1: than was found by a similar survey conducted in twenty

842
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: twenty one. As passive sharing is becoming more commonplace, particularly

843
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: among millennials. In gen z, it says Willingness to share

844
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:31,760
Speaker 1: passwords and other types of personal data, including location, varies

845
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 1: by country. Express VPN conducted the survey with respondents from France, US,

846
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:41,840
Speaker 1: Germany and UK. Willingness to fork over private information was

847
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: highest in France and US, with more skeptical Germans and

848
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: Brits holding out a bit more so eighty two percent

849
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:53,800
Speaker 1: of French, eighty one percent Americans, seventy six of Germans

850
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 1: seventy one percent of Brits. Among Americans who have not

851
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: shared passwords with their partners, the top reasons given are

852
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: they they use the same password for different accounts, so

853
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 1: that that's one of my things. I do use it.

854
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 1: Even when I go and change all my passwords, I'm

855
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:09,799
Speaker 1: usually changing them all to the same shit. So now

856
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: if I give you the password for one thing, and

857
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 1: I think that's how my ex got into my social

858
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 1: media because like he had the password for Netflix, it

859
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:25,399
Speaker 1: says a desire to keep certain information private in case

860
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: of a breakup it's eighteen percent. It says fear of

861
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: tempting their significant other to check on them, twelve percent,

862
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: fear their privacy will no longer be protected ten percent,

863
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: and not wanting their significant significant other to see what

864
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 1: they're up to. Seven percent only seven that that's what

865
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's people don't be honest when they do

866
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 1: these things, because I feel like one hundred percent the

867
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: reason why I'm not sharing is because it's not none

868
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: of your damn business. How about that? It's just my

869
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: private thing. Can I have one thing private?

870
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 2: It's my diary. You don't need to see what I'm searching.

871
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 2: You don't need to see what me and my friends

872
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 2: are talking about. You don't need to see my photos,

873
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:10,839
Speaker 2: you don't need to see none of that. It's none

874
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 2: of your business. It's a trust issue, absolutely, So I

875
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:16,720
Speaker 2: don't have no desire to go through a nigga phone

876
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 2: like zero.

877
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 1: Zero Yeah, Like I'm not into Why are you gonna

878
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 1: fuck your Monday up?

879
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:23,280
Speaker 2: Yeah?

880
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: Like everything was good like yesterday we have it, had

881
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: a great day, and then today you're just gonna go

882
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: look at my phone.

883
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 2: Like and try to ruin the day. Like, why are

884
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:34,839
Speaker 2: you doing that?

885
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: You're selfish? Yeah, shit should not die, It says most

886
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: American couples were willing to share passwords before marriage. The

887
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 1: final third, thirty five percent, waited until after. Among all

888
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 1: couple surveyed, streaming service passwords are the most commonly shared,

889
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 1: followed by banking pins. Huh, that escalated quickly, it says,

890
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,760
Speaker 1: And then it says social media passwords are the least

891
00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 1: likely to be shared. So niggas is cheating on uh Snapchat?

892
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Snapchat is definitely for like looking at shit

893
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 2: you ain't got no business, or talking to people you

894
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 2: don't have no business because it deletes automatically.

895
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 1: Yep, it says. Digging into the reasons that couples exchange

896
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:24,439
Speaker 1: this information, a survey found that cost saving top the list. Okay,

897
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 1: so that's like sharing apps forty four percent. But it

898
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 1: also but it's also about more than that. Survey responding

899
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 1: said they hope the sharing would improve transparency, trust, and loyalty,

900
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 1: bringing the pair closer. A small fraction twelve percent said

901
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 1: they did it as a means of preventing jealousy. So

902
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:49,479
Speaker 1: you just offer up your shit because you don't want

903
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 1: your partner to be jealous. That's an internal issue that

904
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 1: they got to deal with. So you really not this.

905
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 1: If this person is insecure, giving them your password and

906
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: your location is not going to make them even any

907
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 1: more secure. It may even cause him to be more manic,

908
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like constantly checking it, constantly

909
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 1: trying to see where you at, calling to see, like

910
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 1: facetiming you to see your surroundings. Like you gotta know

911
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 1: your personnel. You got to know the type of person

912
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 1: you're dealing with before you just offer up that type.

913
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:27,959
Speaker 2: Of yeah, I'll share, Like I kind of would want

914
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 2: my man to want my location. I mean where am

915
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 2: I at? That?

916
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. If I'm married here, like I

917
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 1: need you to know where I'm at?

918
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, like where am I at? That? He's not that

919
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:41,720
Speaker 2: I don't want him to know. I can't think of nowhere.

920
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 2: I could be that you.

921
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 1: On some other dick. That's what would be in that

922
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 1: person's mind, if they were somebody that's already insecure, you know,

923
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: like we had an episode or somebody said, you know,

924
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 1: you got your first bad bitch, Like some niggas don't

925
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:57,360
Speaker 1: know how to handle that. So now you like stalking,

926
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:00,799
Speaker 1: You stalking because you don't don't even know how to

927
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 1: deal with this person you thought you wanted.

928
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 2: But even if I wanted to be on some other dick,

929
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 2: I would still make it a location where you would

930
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 2: be comfortable with me being.

931
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 1: At your homegirl house.

932
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, like it would. There's ways around it, you know,

933
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 2: Like so I mean, it's just it's pointless. So I

934
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,880
Speaker 2: would let me just say because and I don't want

935
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 2: my future man to be listening to this and like

936
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 2: that bitch is sneaky and could not. I wouldn't be

937
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 2: on no other dick period, Yeah, especially married, Like what

938
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 2: were we doing?

939
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 1: So I feel like when people if you have to

940
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 1: go to that extent of needing passwords and would you

941
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:46,839
Speaker 1: let somebody answer your cell phone? You okay with that,

942
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 1: like when you get married and stuff like that. Yeah,

943
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:54,839
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not answering my man's cell phone's not.

944
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 2: If he's if he'd be like baby, answer that.

945
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: If he tell me to. But I'm not just picking

946
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 1: up his phone answering. And then I don't like homegirls

947
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:04,960
Speaker 1: who have me on speaker phone with a nigga in

948
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,320
Speaker 1: the car, like I didn't even know that your dude

949
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: was right here. Like I understand, like some couples they

950
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: do everything together, they share everything. They don't need to

951
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 1: share my personal shit.

952
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:20,800
Speaker 2: You just got to be prepared and understand that your business,

953
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 2: your your friend is there's a huge chance then she's

954
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 2: telling her nigga your business.

955
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:32,400
Speaker 1: You have to different between telling and then I'm telling

956
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:34,479
Speaker 1: because I don't know you got me on speakerphone because

957
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: you and your nigga just that close, Like I'm not

958
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: close with your man though, right, why does he know?

959
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 1: Why is he chiming in on?

960
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 2: No, he should keep his mouth fucking right.

961
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:48,320
Speaker 1: That has happened to me, Like, why is he chiming

962
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: in on this thing I'm telling my my best friend.

963
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, that's a problem because shut your little

964
00:51:54,680 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 2: bitch as un nobody was talking to you. But I

965
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 2: always I always feel like my best friends are my

966
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:09,160
Speaker 2: friend's man know my business, anything that I've shared with her,

967
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 2: there's a huge chance. We me.

968
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 1: This is the chance, and I I it's some funny

969
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 1: shit that we can laugh about. Yeah, I probably repeated it.

970
00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 1: But if it's like some personal shit, no for what

971
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 1: and then you're gonna have your boyfriend looking at your

972
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 1: friend crazy.

973
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:29,560
Speaker 2: Right, But there's you know that women use their men

974
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 2: like they dieing, like they lay in the bed like,

975
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 2: oh let me tell you talking, Yeah, let me tell

976
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 2: you what Tammy told me today, you know, and it

977
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:41,399
Speaker 2: don't even be like malicious is just talking about shit

978
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:44,959
Speaker 2: that's in their life and that happens. That happens more

979
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:49,879
Speaker 2: than you realize. A nigga will know all about your BV, like, wow,

980
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 2: your husband know I got BV. You know, ever everything

981
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 2: because women just talk to they men, you know, So

982
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:00,839
Speaker 2: don't tell even if it's your best frien. Don't tell

983
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:02,719
Speaker 2: her shit that you don't want her husband to know.

984
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 2: If it's something that you would be up. You wouldn't

985
00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:08,239
Speaker 2: be okay with her husband knowing. Don't tell her.

986
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:09,239
Speaker 1: Hmm.

987
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:12,239
Speaker 2: I know that's terrible, but it's the truth.

988
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:16,360
Speaker 1: You know. I the friends where I have to say, look,

989
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: don't repeat this. If I got to do that too much,

990
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 1: because I know you be repeating shit. I'm probably stop

991
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 1: telling you things. Yeah, you know, I probably. I don't

992
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: feel comfortable telling you stuffing more because it's almost guaranteed.

993
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 1: And some people didn't like they like you said, they

994
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:32,279
Speaker 1: don't do it with their intent. They just talk too

995
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 1: fucking much, you know what I'm saying, just in general

996
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:36,840
Speaker 1: conversation and passing. They'd be done said some shit they

997
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:39,799
Speaker 1: don't got no business saying. Somebody just said some shit

998
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: around me recently, and I'm like, I'm pretty sure that's

999
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 1: some shit they was not supposed to repeat. Like I

1000
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:47,439
Speaker 1: can point. I can actually, like just from somebody talking,

1001
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:49,640
Speaker 1: I can determine, like that's some shit you ain't supposed

1002
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 1: to tell nobody. Somebody told you that and told you

1003
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 1: not to tell nobody. And now I know you just

1004
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 1: met me today.

1005
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 2: Oh that next level now youtual, But you don't know them,

1006
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:05,760
Speaker 2: so it don't matter. That's the thing in six degrees

1007
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:06,360
Speaker 2: of separation.

1008
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 1: I don't know them today, right, So you know what

1009
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 1: I wanted to add to this conversation, So can you

1010
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:13,839
Speaker 1: tell me something like what are some ways like people

1011
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:17,719
Speaker 1: got caught cheating before the cell phones and shit that

1012
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:18,440
Speaker 1: you could think of.

1013
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 2: At the juke joint they pulled up on them because

1014
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, like before before cell phones and all

1015
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 2: this social media and things like that, there was really

1016
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 2: it was really hard. You just had to be in

1017
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 2: the right place at the right time, or somebody had

1018
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,719
Speaker 2: to see them, you know. I came up.

1019
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 1: I came up with a couple of things. So the

1020
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:43,359
Speaker 1: very first one was this is the oldest one. It's

1021
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:47,279
Speaker 1: just women's intuition. Bitchua god by her fucking sleep, like

1022
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:53,240
Speaker 1: this nigga cheat, She just know all of a sudden,

1023
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,080
Speaker 1: I had a dream last night. You just wake up

1024
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 1: and hit your fucking kid's daddy. I had a dream

1025
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 1: last night you was with Rebecca from down the street.

1026
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 1: Phone numbers in the pocket.

1027
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 2: But you don't. I don't know. I ain't never had

1028
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:10,319
Speaker 2: no intuition like it was Rebecca and then it was

1029
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 2: that's next level. That's psychic, ain't it. Yeah, And I've

1030
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 2: had I've had intuition, but it be based on behavior,

1031
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,240
Speaker 2: like you're moving different.

1032
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, because what men don't realize is that they are

1033
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:29,360
Speaker 1: very predictable, right, and women we do like consistency in

1034
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:32,839
Speaker 1: the minute that you deviate outside of those that thing

1035
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: we on your ass. Last week, I just finally went

1036
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 1: and got my bicycle child form my mama house. So

1037
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:43,480
Speaker 1: I bought a portable air pump from this old man

1038
00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:45,759
Speaker 1: I found somebody on Facebook marketplace selling them. Like it

1039
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 1: looks like like a portable charger, so you can put it.

1040
00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:50,399
Speaker 1: I can put it in my book bag, charge my bike,

1041
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 1: I mean, pump my air up. So I meet him

1042
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 1: at Zaxby's. I just sat there and talked to this

1043
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 1: old white man for a thirty minutes, child like he

1044
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 1: was my granddaddy or somebody we so much. So to

1045
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:04,400
Speaker 1: where he's talking about how his second wife, who was

1046
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: a Gemini, divorced him. He said, I used to He said,

1047
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 1: I used to own a Firestone and it was this

1048
00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 1: young girl who came up there one day. She came up,

1049
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 1: she put her ring her ring to the window and

1050
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: basically she was trying to pawn her ring to get

1051
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 1: new tires and brakes from Firestone. And he said, that's

1052
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:27,200
Speaker 1: how it all started. He said, I used to go

1053
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 1: home between six thirty and six forty five every single day,

1054
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 1: never missed it. He said, I was late one day,

1055
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 1: then I was late the second day. He said. After

1056
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 1: the second time he was late, his wife got a

1057
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:45,920
Speaker 1: private investigator on him after two times. So that was

1058
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:49,600
Speaker 1: another way. Private investigators is what people had to do before.

1059
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 1: They could just go on your cell phone and see

1060
00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 1: what you was up to.

1061
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 2: Right, it's too easy now, niggas had it easy back then,

1062
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 2: y'all could do what y'all wanted. Yes, I had a

1063
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,960
Speaker 2: friend catch her nigga cheating because he was driving her

1064
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 2: Tesla and she had the Tesla app on her phone

1065
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:11,880
Speaker 2: and she saw an address. Something just told her intuition. Look,

1066
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 2: let me look at where he at today tonight. And

1067
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 2: she looked at it and saw an address that was

1068
00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 2: two houses down from the address of the bitch he

1069
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 2: had been cheating on her with prior. And she I

1070
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 2: don't know how she knew the girl's address from before,

1071
00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:31,880
Speaker 2: but you know, we'll find a way. So in the

1072
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 2: phone you two houses down from there. M M, no,

1073
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 2: you cheating again, nigga, And now I got to kill you.

1074
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:46,439
Speaker 1: Calling your spouse somebody else's name.

1075
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that'll happen.

1076
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 1: That's how bitch niggas is getting caught. That's how bitches

1077
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 1: get caught too, right, Uh, playing on the phone, calling

1078
00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 1: twice and hanging up the phone, ring twice and hang up.

1079
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 1: This is a house phone. Yeah, this is before cell phones,

1080
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 1: This is before pages. So somebody calling and hanging up

1081
00:58:08,560 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 1: that is your husband's side, bitch. Right now, he got

1082
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:15,080
Speaker 1: to leave a house fifteen minutes later.

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00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 2: And make a call on a payphone down the street,

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00:58:19,040 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 2: right the other woman simply pulling up to the house,

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00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 2: and that a five year old. Today. What I'm go'a

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00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 2: do with two more kids? What I'm gonna do with.

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00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 1: Cause my next one was babies you know, you you

1088
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 1: were able to hide a whole family before cell phones,

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00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: before pagers, before social media. You could hide a whole

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00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 1: family and nobody knew until your funeral. That ain't working

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Speaker 1: like that, No.

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Speaker 2: I've seen that. I've seen that happen where a man

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00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:53,240
Speaker 2: was on his deathbed and his family was uh surrounding him,

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00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:56,440
Speaker 2: showering with him love as he's about the transition, and

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00:58:56,520 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 2: a eighteen year old boy walks in and said, this

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00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 2: is my father, and everybody in the family is like,

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00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 2: what shame? Yes, he had a whole and then and

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00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 2: he's been a good father too. You wouldn't even know

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00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 2: bad father. He was a very prison father. Ain't that crazy?

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Speaker 1: How you present?

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00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:25,120
Speaker 2: I guess he was moving and shaking thone. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That's all I got though. Those are the ways she

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00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 1: was getting caught without having the cell phones back.

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00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:35,800
Speaker 2: In the day. Now your car now a nigga car.

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00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:39,360
Speaker 1: Catch him up period. One of my older cousins, I

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00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 1: think I said this before, is she She would say that,

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00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 1: You know, her and her husband had a rule and

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00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:48,439
Speaker 1: this was this was before the technology. No one can

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00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 1: tell them that the other one is cheating. You'd have

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00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:54,640
Speaker 1: to tap him on the shoulder, like, you got to

1111
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 1: literally physically catch the catch your spouse cheating. So that's

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Speaker 1: what the rule was between her and her husband and

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00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 1: girl day, her husband tapped her on the shoulder while

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01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:08,040
Speaker 1: she was out with another man, caught her eyes dead like,

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Speaker 1: so it gotta be an organic catch.

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Speaker 2: Listen. I respect that, but I don't know if it

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Speaker 2: be a tap on the shoulder or elbow to a y'all, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, punch him in the beard right like, and get

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Speaker 1: your some fucking cushion playing around with these damn cellphones

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Speaker 1: and snapchat.

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Speaker 2: You gotta be like, because are you? Are you a

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Speaker 2: person who wouldn't allow your man to have female friends?

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Speaker 1: No, absolutely not. I'm the person who point out fat

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01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:42,800
Speaker 1: asses in the street like, I'm not on nobody like that.

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Speaker 1: If you can really bag them, you can have them,

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01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: because you don't. He obviously don't like.

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Speaker 2: Me, right and not the way he should.

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01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:53,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, he obviously don't like me. I don't really trip

1129
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 1: on a lot of things anymore. I just I'm in

1130
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 1: a different space nowadays. I never really tripped. I feel

1131
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: like I've always enabled people to do shady shit because

1132
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:04,200
Speaker 1: I was never on your ass like that. You know

1133
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:06,000
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I just go with the floor whatever

1134
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,880
Speaker 1: you tell me until I see otherwise. I'm not looking

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01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 1: for shit. So somebody literally gonna have to message me

1136
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:13,760
Speaker 1: on Instagram, which has happened. Somebody gonna literally have to

1137
01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 1: pull up which has happened. I'm not looking for shit.

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01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 2: One of my one of my cousins, she had a

1139
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:25,320
Speaker 2: very platonic relationship with a male ever since college. They

1140
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:27,640
Speaker 2: were like besties. They were like the best of friends.

1141
01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 2: And then once he got with his wife now his wife,

1142
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:36,040
Speaker 2: but she was his girlfriend at the time, she made

1143
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 2: him stop being her friend. And I just thought that

1144
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 2: would that suck, because like their relationship was not anything

1145
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 2: inappropriate ever, But she made him cut that shit off

1146
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 2: and he chose, I mean, he chose the woman he

1147
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:52,960
Speaker 2: ended up burying, and then they weren't friends anymore. Do

1148
01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 2: you feel like that's okay?

1149
01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:04,200
Speaker 1: No? And yes, because I can understand when men say

1150
01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:09,520
Speaker 1: that women can't have male friends, Because because call any

1151
01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:12,080
Speaker 1: one of your male friends, the niggas that you call

1152
01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: homie brother, call them right now asking them if they

1153
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 1: want to fuck, and see what they say.

1154
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:19,200
Speaker 2: I could call Terry.

1155
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:21,120
Speaker 1: Right now and be like I want to so could

1156
01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:23,960
Speaker 1: I could? So could I. So it just depends on

1157
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 1: the friends. But I'm saying the majority of your friends,

1158
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 1: the majority of your guy friends are the people you

1159
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 1: call bro brother. This is how men think, This is

1160
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 1: how this is why men are uncomfortable with their women

1161
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:40,120
Speaker 1: having guy friends. Women, right, we believe we can have

1162
01:02:40,160 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 1: guy friends, Like I got guy friends, and it may

1163
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 1: be one of my guy friends is somebody who I've

1164
01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 1: actually been with many many years ago. And it's like,

1165
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 1: ill now on both ends, you know what I'm saying,

1166
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 1: Like that's we really were supposed to just be friends

1167
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 1: one time and that shit wasn't it? And we friends, right,

1168
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 1: but my man would not become with him being my friend.

1169
01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I was like a guy was like,

1170
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 2: what you need male friends for when you got me,

1171
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 2: because these people have been friends long before you came,

1172
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 2: and they might be friends long after you go, you.

1173
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: Know, right, Yeah, we should be able to have opposite

1174
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: sex friends, absolutely, but men don't think it's possible for

1175
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:24,680
Speaker 1: women to have friends. And that's really because they have issues.

1176
01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:26,760
Speaker 2: And that's why you need to stay on my phone

1177
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 2: because I'm gonna tell you I ain't friends with them, No, more.

1178
01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:30,160
Speaker 2: But that's still my homeboy, right.

1179
01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:32,040
Speaker 1: And see now when I got a lie to you

1180
01:03:32,080 --> 01:03:36,520
Speaker 1: about my friend, we can't be together. Yeah, yeah, my

1181
01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 1: ex wanted me to get rid of everybody who ever

1182
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:44,440
Speaker 1: knew me. Okay, he really wanted to consume me in

1183
01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:44,880
Speaker 1: that way.

1184
01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 2: Listen, you could literally write a you know that my

1185
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:52,920
Speaker 2: my the worst ex, My worst ex. That show on Netflix,

1186
01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:56,480
Speaker 2: have you seen it? It's about people who went had

1187
01:03:56,600 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 2: relationships with people and they were like terrible. A lot

1188
01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:02,000
Speaker 2: of these people try to kill him, but you literally

1189
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 2: could have an episode on there, not murder, but just

1190
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 2: from all the mental abuse that you experience.

1191
01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:10,280
Speaker 1: And then I don't feel like it was mental abuse

1192
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:13,320
Speaker 1: because I'm not a person that can be abused. So

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01:04:13,400 --> 01:04:16,160
Speaker 1: it was really a battle for him to impose that thing.

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01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:19,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That's why we would fucking

1195
01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 1: argue all the damn time, because I'm not somebody that's

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01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:24,760
Speaker 1: easily controlled. But I give a lot of grace. So

1197
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:27,680
Speaker 1: when I get tired enough, I'm aa just cold turkeyo ass.

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01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna never ever have access to me in

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01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:30,360
Speaker 1: that way ever. Again.

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01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 2: Nah, some of that shit was abuse, friend, But I

1201
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 2: guess I don't.

1202
01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:39,000
Speaker 1: Have a I don't have a victim mentality. It's just

1203
01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:42,919
Speaker 1: I was dealing with somebody who was having problems. That's

1204
01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:45,920
Speaker 1: how I feel for real. But in his mind, I

1205
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 1: could have caused those problems, you know what I'm saying,

1206
01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:51,000
Speaker 1: Like I could have been a terrorist to him. That

1207
01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 1: could be the story he's telling about me.

1208
01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, you could be the villain in his story.

1209
01:04:57,800 --> 01:04:59,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. And I'm at that point in my life where

1210
01:04:59,800 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 1: I'm okay being a villain for sure. And I just

1211
01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:09,479
Speaker 1: look at a girl. More power to your girl.

1212
01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 2: You next, I'm a hit of Netflix, so you can so.

1213
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:16,720
Speaker 1: Me and one of my homegirls that's gonna put together

1214
01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:22,560
Speaker 1: a book based on our worst relationships, like a little

1215
01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:23,760
Speaker 1: tell all right quick?

1216
01:05:24,360 --> 01:05:28,240
Speaker 2: Yeah you literally can't because I done heard some stories.

1217
01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 1: Resa Tisa, don't got shipped on this story. Okay, she

1218
01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 1: got a whole TV show coming out now, Resa Tisa, I.

1219
01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:39,080
Speaker 2: Know I'm excited to see you because I can't watch

1220
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 2: the TikTok series. I couldn't. I couldn't be bothered.

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01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 1: I watched that whole ship. I watched that whole ship

1222
01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 1: because I'm nosy. Yeah, but y'all listen if you want

1223
01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 1: to share your passwords and your location with your significant other.

1224
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 1: More power to you. There's no I ain't doing that

1225
01:05:57,600 --> 01:06:00,240
Speaker 1: ship over here. Don't don't. Don't ask me about nothing.

1226
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna treat you like a child. Don't ask me

1227
01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 1: for nothing. Else.

1228
01:06:03,760 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 2: I will share. But it just depends on the context

1229
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 2: in which the reasons why you need it, you know,

1230
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:10,200
Speaker 2: why you feel like you want it, and.

1231
01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:12,600
Speaker 1: How you ask for it. It just it just can't

1232
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:15,080
Speaker 1: feel like you're trying to control me. So you're gonna

1233
01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,680
Speaker 1: have to finesse me out these passwords and location.

1234
01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:21,440
Speaker 2: The location. I'm okay with that because.

1235
01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 1: I like I'm okay with the location.

1236
01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:26,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like feeling like my man don't play without me,

1237
01:06:26,960 --> 01:06:28,880
Speaker 2: And if y'all do something, he already know where the

1238
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:33,440
Speaker 2: fuck I'm at, you know, But the password is next level.

1239
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 2: I don't know. I would have got got caught doing

1240
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:38,680
Speaker 2: something terrible for me to give you my password.

1241
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:44,480
Speaker 1: But even then, like you might as well leave, Yeah,

1242
01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:46,960
Speaker 1: you might as well leave when you get to that point.

1243
01:06:47,480 --> 01:06:48,840
Speaker 1: My trust is already gone.

1244
01:06:49,720 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 2: Listen. I can't even see myself doing the next man

1245
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:53,920
Speaker 2: I get I'm just gonna be so good because I've

1246
01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 2: been out here by myself for so long, I would

1247
01:06:55,640 --> 01:07:04,560
Speaker 2: not want to fuck it up in any way. I think, yeah.

1248
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:04,480
Speaker 1: You full of shit.

1249
01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:06,560
Speaker 2: Yep.

1250
01:07:07,600 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 1: Anyway, you got a last last for the people.

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01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 2: That was it. That's all I got.

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01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 1: All right, y'all listen If you enjoyed this episode, y'all

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01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 1: tune in every Thursday on the Black Effect. iHeartRadio app.

1254
01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:22,280
Speaker 1: But where you get your podcasts at? Remember to subscribe

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01:07:22,440 --> 01:07:26,800
Speaker 1: and download. We talk back, okay, make surey'all do y'all.

1256
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:29,560
Speaker 1: Y'all know when we're dropping episodes and we beefing up

1257
01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:31,479
Speaker 1: on the YouTube content as well.

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01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:36,680
Speaker 2: Down y'all's official taim ma'am on Instagram. Y'all give me

1259
01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:42,080
Speaker 2: a follow, I'll follow back sometimes if y'all got good content. Look,

1260
01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 2: I'm saying that, like I got good content, I don't

1261
01:07:44,280 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 2: post it enough. I can't. I can't. I try to

1262
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:48,680
Speaker 2: be better. I try to do better, but it's hard

1263
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:51,000
Speaker 2: beating a slave to the content. Well, I love y'all

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01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:53,560
Speaker 2: despite everything. Remember speak now.

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01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:57,240
Speaker 1: And hold one goddamn passwords.

1266
01:07:56,960 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 2: Holy your password as hard as long as you can.

1267
01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:03,760
Speaker 1: Don't give it to them, hold them and don't be

1268
01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:08,080
Speaker 1: stressing that nigga out for his shit either, bye. For

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01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:13,480
Speaker 1: more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

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