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Speaker 1: West, it's left Service. I'm Angela Ye, I'm GP Maguire,

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Speaker 1: I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm Laura Mura and Kiddy. Hey girls,

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Speaker 1: hay House. That is like, first of all, one of

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Speaker 1: our favorite shows to watch that I think all of

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Speaker 1: us are quite familiar with. You just we've definitely been

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Speaker 1: watching all six seasons. I had an episode since the

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Speaker 1: Very Bad. I was just real excited for another black

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Speaker 1: ye same, yes, because I watched Atlanta. Yeah, of course, yes,

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Speaker 1: Like I was just so ready for another all black

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Speaker 1: ensemble cast to come because think about it. In New York,

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Speaker 1: they finally got their third child twenty years in and

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Speaker 1: then they're gonna blame her, say she messed it up

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Speaker 1: for the show. They just can't get right and they

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Speaker 1: were so mad about everything. Yeah, she couldn't. Everything was

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Speaker 1: a problem every Housband to Beverly Hills too, right thence

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Speaker 1: So yeah, shout out to Garcel. What if they're through

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Speaker 1: a white person on Potomac, It'd have to be the

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Speaker 1: right white person because she might get eight for lunch.

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Speaker 1: She'd have to be the one. It's hard to cast

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Speaker 1: our show, Like, I think we're one of the hardest

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Speaker 1: to cast just because being like in a political town,

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Speaker 1: a lot of people are very much like, I don't

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Speaker 1: want you my business. They're also a lot of men

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Speaker 1: who have like dirt and stuff going on in closets

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Speaker 1: and things, and they don't want their housewives to be

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Speaker 1: we've seen that happen on this. I always tell people, like,

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Speaker 1: if you're gonna be on these shows, be prepared for

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Speaker 1: all of your ship to come to the like at

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Speaker 1: some point. It might not be season one. People don't

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Speaker 1: like it. They don't like it too when you question

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Speaker 1: things are stuck about their relationship. But you have to

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Speaker 1: be prepared for that, like that's you come on these shows.

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Speaker 1: Andy Cohen will tell you if you say I don't

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Speaker 1: want to talk about that, well, you are on a

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Speaker 1: reality show about your life. Okay, sir. I can still

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Speaker 1: keep some things to myself, but you really you can't.

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Speaker 1: You can't. Okay. With that being said, what do you

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Speaker 1: think about Wendy being upset my girl? I love my

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Speaker 1: girl when I feel like they came at her unfairly,

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Speaker 1: but I also think that she I told someone that

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Speaker 1: I feel like she thought that Giselle was her friend,

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Speaker 1: and that was her mistake. Gizelle is no one's friend

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Speaker 1: but her own. Well, Gizelle also knows that she can

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Speaker 1: be shady. She's very shady, so she could be your friend.

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Speaker 1: That's her thing. She thinks everybody but Robbing she can.

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Speaker 1: She's loyal to Robbin, yes, but she's also about the

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Speaker 1: show and she will do whatever and she'll come for

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Speaker 1: whomever if she thinks that it's going to make the

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Speaker 1: show do well. But it works, and which I respect.

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Speaker 1: Someone once said to me, you have to respect your villains,

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Speaker 1: and I respect her for that. Are you a villain?

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Speaker 1: Do you think I am? I the villain? Well, let's

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Speaker 1: talk about me. Let's talk about because we were discussing

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Speaker 1: this Cane Canda coming real quick. Well, don't don't leave

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Speaker 1: me alone. I'm I'm kind and sweet until you mess

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Speaker 1: with me. Leave me alone. That's that's it. But you

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Speaker 1: know that's part of the show, like yep, yep. And

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Speaker 1: Chris gets mad at me because he always says, you

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Speaker 1: don't realize that you're being used for moments because in

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Speaker 1: the moment, I think that's a sad thing. Like I'm

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Speaker 1: authentic to who I am no matter what. So if

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Speaker 1: is happening for a show, that this is happening for TV.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking you're coming for me. So I'm responding in

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Speaker 1: kind with all the fire of myself. That's something about

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Speaker 1: we respect everybody to be as authentic a nobody, nobody, Yes,

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Speaker 1: just stand up. But yeah, because for me, I feel

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Speaker 1: like sometimes I'm really cautious about what I say because

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Speaker 1: you know, or do you ever regret like, Okay, maybe

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't have you haven't think it went too far

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Speaker 1: with some of your responses. Um no, because you know

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Speaker 1: I own that I am emotional and I speak from

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Speaker 1: do I think that sometimes I could say less? Probably? Probably?

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Speaker 1: However it is I'm always home. If you come to

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Speaker 1: can handle it. Like he'll be like Candice, come in. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: trying to calm you down, and he was like, all

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Speaker 1: nothing that. He was like, I think about it. That's progress.

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Speaker 1: Think about it. Listen to the ancient African proverb I

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Speaker 1: said what I said. I said what I said, and

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Speaker 1: I like, I stand by point nine. But there's that

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Speaker 1: point because you gotta leave room like birth cont room,

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Speaker 1: conte room for error. And that's what we Speaking of

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Speaker 1: birth control, let's talk about condoms because you and your

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Speaker 1: husband still use condoms. We do, yes, And I get

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Speaker 1: a lot of flak for this. Have you ever had

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Speaker 1: a slip up moment? Have you ever had a moment

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Speaker 1: you like that kind of baby it's all the time. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: we're not all like I try to be, but it's

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Speaker 1: you know, inevitably you're gonna have moments. Can I put

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Speaker 1: the tip in? He'll just put it in and then

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Speaker 1: it's like get out of it, like squeezing after three pumps, Yes,

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Speaker 1: not doing it to teams know. It's there's you can't

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Speaker 1: compare condom to no condom. There's no comparison. But people

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Speaker 1: are always like, don't you get upset? Like isn't the

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Speaker 1: burning rubber smell too much? And it is. That's the

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Speaker 1: one thing about condoms, And I'm like, like, this is

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Speaker 1: our You don't want to taste that? Yeah, you can't.

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Speaker 1: gets off like while you're putting the condom on, because

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Speaker 1: and then it's like he's he's a pro. Now have them.

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Speaker 1: know of because Chris. Chris is a Magnum man. He

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Speaker 1: And it almost feels like it's nothing on there. You

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Speaker 1: gotta be like Oka of Walmart, because my mother would

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Speaker 1: comfort everything. Do everything you say. Video that was from

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Speaker 1: video have been some months. Yes. So she was just

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Speaker 1: So why would that's love? That's you drove back, drove

423
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 1: back for you drove back and liked it was the video. Okay,

424
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 1: that's how I drove back, he said, Ever Chris cheated. No,

425
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 1: if I didn't know I, if I thought that he

426
00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:00,200
Speaker 1: had the propensity to cheat, I would not have married him.

427
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:03,399
Speaker 1: So in the past, what have your relationships been like

428
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,720
Speaker 1: before you got married. I'm like a serial monogamous. I

429
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 1: was always in a relationship. I dated the same guy

430
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 1: all through high school. We had a little break where

431
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 1: I dated like two other guys, but I was the

432
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 1: same guy for the most part. And then in college

433
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:20,679
Speaker 1: I dated like the same two guys. And then when

434
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 1: I graduated, I dated the same guy and then we

435
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: broke up. He was I thought it was to be

436
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 1: my husband, and we broke up. And I did this

437
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 1: whole I did the whole phase I never had and

438
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 1: I was just like boom boom, boom boom, let's do it.

439
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,399
Speaker 1: Let's bust it up for everybody safely. But I was,

440
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: I was doing a little bit of a busting open

441
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 1: and I met this one. Got the funk boy that

442
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 1: I write about on my album is I'm talking about

443
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:49,359
Speaker 1: his ass. He was. Chris asn't like when I talk

444
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 1: about this because I say he was the best text

445
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:53,440
Speaker 1: of my life at the time. He was. It was

446
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,200
Speaker 1: he was. But the ones that really know how to

447
00:24:56,400 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: like are always garbage, right, That's how it's like, because

448
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 1: you have all this practice. So yeah, like that's how

449
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: I feel too when you're really good at badest because

450
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: you're really experienced. Yes, but we also kind of that

451
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 1: and I mean it was experience. It was a guilty

452
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 1: pleasure because I like, it's like you you suck. He

453
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't mean to be his side check because he lied

454
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:24,119
Speaker 1: and said that he wasn't with the mother of his

455
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 1: children and that she had moved out of the house

456
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 1: and he was home with his two kids. But then

457
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 1: he would come to my house at like two am,

458
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: and I'm like home with the kids. They're like, they're

459
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: like eight and five. You're a liar, But it just

460
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: I didn't. I was like, no, situation ship is about him.

461
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 1: All the interludes are about yes, did you get about

462
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: your system? It's gone? No. He so when we first,

463
00:25:56,720 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 1: like when I cut it off, he would call me

464
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 1: from his he worked for, like the federal governments. He

465
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 1: would call me from like random numbers and just want

466
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 1: to talk. And I would be like, sir, yo, I

467
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 1: think they were married. I still don't know this day,

468
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 1: but I think they were married. Your wife is at

469
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 1: home with your children. Go stop being garbage like go away.

470
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 1: But no, I haven't heard from him. I'm sure than

471
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 1: he have called you and said what's going on with you?

472
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 1: Have told how? Yes, I'm saying it like a yes, yes,

473
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 1: oh he was doing what where he was? How? Are? Yes? Everything?

474
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: And I might help her get away? Listen all of

475
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 1: that something Yes, that's Barbara, Yes, and I'm sure yes,

476
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 1: I'm Barbara. That's me. Yes, that is hilarious. All right,

477
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: now let me ask you about this Benefits. Yes, So

478
00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:01,640
Speaker 1: that song benefits is basically about a situation. Guys want

479
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 1: to be with you and have other benefits of a

480
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: relationship without being in one. How long do you think

481
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 1: you could stay with somebody like that like I was

482
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 1: with the that guy for almost four years, and I

483
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: thought that I could make it. I thought I could

484
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: fix him and change him as we do. And I

485
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 1: eventually had to just say I had to just walk out.

486
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 1: And when he did not come after me that time,

487
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 1: and he was sitting there crying but he didn't come

488
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: after me, I was like, Okay, this is it. But

489
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 1: he wanted to, you know, have me and have me

490
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: on his arm and have me go places with him

491
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 1: and have me be you know, all the bad bittery

492
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: that's happening here, but not be fully into our relationship

493
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: and committed to me and give me what I needed

494
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 1: in the relationship. And it like that's more frustrating, I

495
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:56,159
Speaker 1: feel like than the fun boy stuff because it's like

496
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 1: I feel like I almost have you and it feels right,

497
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 1: but then it's like you're it's a mind fun because

498
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 1: you're really not and you get the little signs like

499
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: throughout the relationship, but you know, eleven years with the

500
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 1: with the boy if you think it's happening, but it's not,

501
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 1: and like that's the mind ful Well, what are some

502
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: things that you hold back on if you're not in

503
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 1: a full relationship, you're just dating someone because I feel

504
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: like if I'm dating you, I kind of do treat

505
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 1: you the same as I would if we were in

506
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: a relationship. We're not having no sex, really, no, I

507
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: don't know if I want you to be my man

508
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 1: if we haven't go on. No, I have to trust

509
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 1: that you are here and like in it, or think

510
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: that I can trust that before we're getting visible because

511
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: I'm not. I know, like one of my best friends

512
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 1: is like, I gotta have I need to be having sex.

513
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: I'm not that way, Like I don't need to be

514
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 1: having all this sex. You never had a guy, but

515
00:28:54,760 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: I had sex with him. Yes, he would come. He

516
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: would come over to the house and like two in

517
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: the morning, and and then he would leave. He would

518
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 1: just do that and leave. Yes, that's a gift and

519
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: the curse though, because thanks for the you know, mouth

520
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: and lip service. But after that I got to sleep leave.

521
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 1: Like she was saying, I feel the same way, like

522
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: I love sex. I enjoy It's one of my favorite

523
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 1: things like life, but I don't need to have it

524
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: all the time. I feel the same way. It's not

525
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 1: so necessarily like I'm not gonna die. I mean, I

526
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: don't have sex with every guy at date. But if

527
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: we're dating and I'm attracted to you with that, you

528
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 1: know already in my head, I'm preparing myself like you're

529
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: gonna go do for me? But I date when I

530
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: like somebody, we gotta get it right, work quick, because

531
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to like you too much. And then

532
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: it's like you gotta Then you're like, it's not feel

533
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 1: like you can learn. You can learn. Yeah, you can

534
00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 1: learn to get with it, and yeah, I I think

535
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: now the equipment has to be right. That's what I'm

536
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: going that's the foundation. Yes, you gotta have like if

537
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 1: if if the pain is not doing what it needs

538
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: to do, and there are ways to figure that out

539
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: without having sex, Like you can kind of like when

540
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: you're cuddling, you can you know, you can feel around

541
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 1: and figure it out. That's what with Chris, I did

542
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: that because we we cuddled on the couch for like

543
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 1: two weeks or more before he got to come upstairs

544
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: and like sleep in the bed with me, and I

545
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 1: would like lay there and like purposely like smo and

546
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 1: see what would happen and what if what if it's like, yeah,

547
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: the package is right, but the motion ain't. That has

548
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: been a thing but you can't be believe if it's love,

549
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 1: you can teach them if it's enough. But it can't

550
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: be too big, definitely, But it can't be can't be yes.

551
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 1: It can't be a pink too big. I've had an

552
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 1: uncircumcised pinky, but that one, how did you handle that?

553
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 1: I can't. If I didn't feel, yes, you could feel it.

554
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: I don't like the turtleneck that you gotta go. Yeah,

555
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 1: but I had never seen one, so I didn't really

556
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 1: know what I was looking at until later. I'm sorry.

557
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: I just had never talked to heads up. No. I

558
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: was a West Indian. I'm telling myself, they don't A

559
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: lot of them don't get and um, I had an

560
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 1: older like sugardaddy guy was uncircumcised and like he didn't

561
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: tell me. But again he was like older and from

562
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: another country, right. But I had like a young black

563
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: Southern guy and he was inside but he told me

564
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 1: and he was like you get their heads up and

565
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 1: it was very clean. That's the only thing. Like, I'm sorry, baby,

566
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 1: but I gotta pull it back first and look it.

567
00:31:54,600 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: Yeah you go. I hate that word. Yeah, if you're

568
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 1: the dark and you'll annoy you, ah, balance attacker. It's

569
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 1: like a turtle or something and it comes in and

570
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: out or something like that. Strange. Yeah, listen, it's not

571
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: your What are you gonna do? If you didn't get

572
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: circumcised as a baby, you could get circumcised. He didn't

573
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 1: know Marian get circumcised. Remember, Yeah, yeah, I remember that

574
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 1: too much. You should ask him. Didn't hurt Marian? Now

575
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 1: what about this? Another thing about you is that you

576
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 1: won't have sex if your mom is in the house. No. Still,

577
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 1: y'all a big old house girl. What your husband? We did?

578
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: We did do it in the basement last time, I

579
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: think over Thanksgiving? Okay, good? And it was Chris was like,

580
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: I got the condom is in my eyes right here

581
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:58,719
Speaker 1: in the office. I was like, okay, okay, let's hurry up.

582
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 1: And it was like it was exhilarating because it's like, yeah,

583
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 1: but it's it's just I guess. In my in our

584
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 1: town home, the walls were thinner, everything was closer together,

585
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 1: and I was just like, oh my god. And it

586
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 1: was also kind of respecting, like being from the South,

587
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, Chris wasn't even allowed to stay with

588
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 1: me in our house or in my house before he

589
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 1: moved in until we were engaged. Like my parents would

590
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: come visit and I'd make him go back to his house,

591
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 1: right I could see because yeah, yeah, because it was

592
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 1: just my mother. What do you what do you say doing?

593
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god? And I just make noise but you

594
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: don't say you know how sometimes you don't like that.

595
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 1: They like, talk to me, baby, talk to me, don't

596
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 1: be quiet, so he can't make noise, but you can.

597
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 1: You can make noise, but don't. Don't. You'll call him daddy,

598
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 1: No try it name. I don't. I just know. It's

599
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: just like I don't say your name, but she's just

600
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 1: making noise noises. Some I've like if I'm really if

601
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: I'm drunk and I'm really into it, I might say

602
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 1: you should yes, like brown penis. I can't do your

603
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 1: daddy like whatever you feel like the daddy thing. I

604
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:40,399
Speaker 1: did it in my twenties when I was really young,

605
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: and I feel like guys used to like it, but

606
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:46,839
Speaker 1: now they're like who you well, what you call them?

607
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:49,720
Speaker 1: I don't call the guy that I'm having sex with daddy.

608
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 1: I joke around. I might call him big daddy, like

609
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I'm like, hey, exactly so

610
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: he doesn't ask you to. But while we're having sex, No,

611
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: I don't do the daddy thing. I haven't done that

612
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: in year? Are you just making that's what we're saying.

613
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: That's another thing I feel like. When I was younger,

614
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:09,879
Speaker 1: I was I used to talk a lot of ship

615
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: while I was having sex. I was drunk, I was,

616
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:18,399
Speaker 1: you know. But now I feel like, um, what comes

617
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 1: out of my mouth is the motion that I'm feeling,

618
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's essensual and sexy,

619
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,919
Speaker 1: and I might be like, oh my god, something like yeah,

620
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 1: like my face. Yeah. That is an example. If a

621
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 1: guy asked me if we're having sex, and obviously this

622
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,840
Speaker 1: is having real sex, right, and it's like where you

623
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:45,280
Speaker 1: are going to come out? Yeah, I'd be like anywhere

624
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:52,479
Speaker 1: but inside with pussy outside because we have put every

625
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 1: blue moon, but never on my face or in my mouth?

626
00:35:55,920 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: What if he did it like you know ever ever

627
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:10,800
Speaker 1: have vocals? You have to swallow? Yes, y'all be swallowing? Yeah, swallow,

628
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 1: But my husband, I'm gonna I haven't. Why what is

629
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: the purpose for Christmas? Can you swallow? No? It's like clean?

630
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 1: What is explain to me? What is the purpose why?

631
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: Can't you just pull away because I haven't. I haven't

632
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: swallowed what you will for your husband. I'm gonna swallow

633
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:44,439
Speaker 1: my husband too. I'm gonna swallow him. Why I can't

634
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:46,360
Speaker 1: just let me ask you this. What if Chris was

635
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,760
Speaker 1: going down on you, you coming and then he just moves.

636
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not the same thing because it's not

637
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 1: as aggressive good one as a woman's come is like

638
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: sexy silk and it unless she's squirted. This is so

639
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 1: questions they can conject into your throat or the projection.

640
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,720
Speaker 1: Know what you do is you you like right? Because

641
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:19,399
Speaker 1: you know when different a blowjob when it is about

642
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: nor so right when that happens, just put it all

643
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: the way in the back of your throat. I dope

644
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: your breath, No, just breathe. It's on my hand everywhere.

645
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:41,319
Speaker 1: I would have to be dead drunk. I'm sad. I'm

646
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 1: saving that and I'm saving anal for when we're like

647
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 1: seventy five, because you're your vagina walls are doing this

648
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 1: like you're you're loose. You surgeries that they wall, well,

649
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 1: it's gonna be loosening it up. So there's also a

650
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 1: laser that does the same thing. I've done it. I

651
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 1: had vagina jun laser. Yeah, they're going inside with a

652
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 1: laser probe and it's it's called and it tightens it up.

653
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 1: It didn't mess up. It's amazing, it's great. I did.

654
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,320
Speaker 1: Wait so he never tried to do an You know

655
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 1: how guys would be like, no, he's no, yes, now

656
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: get read about that. It's too big. You cannot do

657
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:35,399
Speaker 1: And he's got girl. She's like, I'm going home at night.

658
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: It's very girth. No, I know it. I tried anal

659
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 1: one time with the with the little penis and I

660
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:51,320
Speaker 1: felt like my whole bottom half was gonna splits awful.

661
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 1: I want to do it so bad, but no. And

662
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 1: it's also like, no other things are you have to prepare?

663
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: Like I have a lot of gay friends. Super tell

664
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 1: me all the prep that right, you got all of

665
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 1: that flexible for the pus. Talk to me about my

666
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 1: ass in thirty years. Listen my last pregnancy, that was

667
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 1: my first time experiencing like you know what they said,

668
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:22,839
Speaker 1: when you're pregnant, it's very normal to get constant. Yeah,

669
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,320
Speaker 1: I've never did it before them, but once that happened

670
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: and I couldn't, I was like I could imagine a

671
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: going but my husband going to get it. He's all

672
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: of it. Everything. Listen everything, call me after know how

673
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 1: it goes. I will I probably write a book about it.

674
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 1: We gotta give you homework. I'm listen, think about it

675
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: like I would throw up. Have you ever asked him though,

676
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 1: like would you want me to swallow? Like? Does he

677
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,919
Speaker 1: tell you what he likes and you guys about it? Yeah,

678
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 1: he's not really. He's also like me. He's not like

679
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: a super sexual person. He like, we enjoy having sex,

680
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: but we're not like I want you to come on

681
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 1: my facing, but we're not doing right. I just can't. Like.

682
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm a texture person and I and see

683
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 1: like it's it's too much texture and stuff. That's why

684
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 1: you put it in the back of your throw And

685
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: it's what is that? Why if I'm not tasting it?

686
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 1: Why even tasted? You just make it this. It's not

687
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 1: gonna be too much check texture, I promise. But do

688
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 1: you guys feel it's like water? You've never known that?

689
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 1: Would you do that? I think that there are too

690
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 1: many instances of ship getting out leaks. I don't have sound. Really,

691
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 1: somebody hacken in my damn phone I mean I we

692
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 1: would do that like that I would do but I'm

693
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 1: just that's here to get the fashioned cam quarter ran.

694
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:06,919
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, I didn't watch it. Do you watch

695
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:11,359
Speaker 1: it together? Yeah? Okay, you watch your own form? Yeah yeah,

696
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: like mabe you see that part right there when you

697
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 1: don't do it like this that now that I would

698
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 1: do kind of person too. No, no, no, doggy style,

699
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 1: okay that's my Yes. I actually don't like being on

700
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:29,919
Speaker 1: top because it feels like I'm alone, like I'm doing

701
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 1: all the work. I have to perform and I'm like

702
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,320
Speaker 1: too vulnerable during sex to feel like I have to

703
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 1: be performing. So he looked that's his favorite position. But

704
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, I have to be ready. I have

705
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 1: to be in the mood for this. So you never

706
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 1: made him come up while you want him and you

707
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 1: hold him. We have done that, but it's just that's

708
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 1: my favorite way to be on No. Yeah, but you

709
00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: can feel the do you hold hand? But do you want? Yeah?

710
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 1: Like he takes my hands one and then he's like

711
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 1: doing it with this one. He's but like it's it's distracting,

712
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 1: like I need I want him because this is so graphic.

713
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 1: He's back there his balls. Why you that helps you?

714
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 1: Just balls like hitting? He got long balls. No, they're

715
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 1: actually like tight and it's nice. It makes that slapping noise. Yes,

716
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 1: keep that rhythm, but listen, I just want to say,

717
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 1: he's going to thank us after this. He's going to

718
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 1: die because I don't talk about like with my best friend.

719
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 1: We talked, but like this is this is a first.

720
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 1: You all have popped a cherry in my life. After

721
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 1: you swallow girls all about it tomorrow, I have to.

722
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 1: I gotta give me three Chris, or you know, like, okay,

723
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 1: we'll start you off some You can keep a cup

724
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: out of bed and you could let him come in

725
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 1: you to spit it out. But that's even worse than Yeah,

726
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: they don't coming for I still want to understand the point.

727
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,280
Speaker 1: I don't get the point because imagine that it's thriving

728
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 1: in your mouth while he's coming and you're still it's weird.

729
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 1: You know. What I think is a mental of you know,

730
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 1: you're satisfying him, and I like the feeling of him

731
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 1: like it's already he already can't come inside you, so

732
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 1: at least he could come inside you somehow, you know,

733
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:51,800
Speaker 1: and now you want that come come on you because

734
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:56,399
Speaker 1: I would do that. First, Let's have a baby, okay, Okay,

735
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 1: said I'm gonna get you a baby before swallow the

736
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 1: babies didn't put it in a a seium and I

737
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:09,479
Speaker 1: was put on, that's all I need, just a little

738
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 1: I'm actually is good. Well, they said, I cannot wait

739
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 1: to hear what happened. This is a man, Oh my god,

740
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 1: think no, this is I will never forget. I'm so

741
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 1: you're signing back on for the next season. I don't know.

742
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: They can't imagine you wouldn't be Listen, anything is possible.

743
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: Everybody's replaceable. I don't. I don't take it for granted.

744
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't take it for granted, like

745
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 1: anything can happen. I mean, I would imagine, yes, But

746
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: Andy was like, everybody wants me to fire you, but

747
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 1: that's good at the reunion and I was like, why

748
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,399
Speaker 1: would you say that that's a good thing? Though? Why

749
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: is that good? Because that means that you got their attentions. Okay,

750
00:44:55,760 --> 00:45:02,359
Speaker 1: the feathers ever being friends who or like, at least

751
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 1: you know what she do to you. I don't know her,

752
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: don't at a little bit. I did know at the reunion,

753
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: I they gave her a better edit than what actually happens,

754
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 1: like in the moment, like Nikki tore her up. I

755
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: felt like the whole time she was like lost and

756
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: I and I don't like her, but I felt I

757
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 1: felt like, damn, like you really are kind of like

758
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: swimming in the ocean without no help. Like it was

759
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:36,359
Speaker 1: really hard to watch Niki to her over the whole

760
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: strip club thing, and but it was worse for her stripper, right,

761
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 1: So yeah, but well no, I'm not there anywhere. I'm

762
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:51,280
Speaker 1: way retired. But anyway, there are strip clubs and she didn't.

763
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 1: I don't know how the edit was again, but from

764
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 1: what what show, there are strip clubs when the women

765
00:45:56,880 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 1: wear gowns and restaurant and Nicky was like that does happen, right,

766
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 1: And Nicky was like, gave it some weird name or

767
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: whatever she said, as if it doesn't exist. It's a

768
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: gentleman's club. That's the difference between a strip club and

769
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 1: a gentleman's club. The gentleman's club is when it's it's

770
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: nice and it's ground, you know, I believe that is

771
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 1: the thing. Yeah, but she definitely was shaking a tail feather.

772
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 1: She well, it was a slow. She started out like

773
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: we were wearing long gowns and I never stripped. Then

774
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 1: it became down to my boy okay, and then I

775
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: was in a score like it just just tell the truth, girl.

776
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: Like if she had come in like Nini was like,

777
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: I was a stripper, I was doing my thing. I busted,

778
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 1: but then I got them, I would have been like respect.

779
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: But it was the fact that she was around it

780
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,840
Speaker 1: to try to act as if, yes, she was what

781
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: she was doing. You're on a reality show, but we're

782
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:55,800
Speaker 1: judging you. Everybody else's judged. I do like that some

783
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:57,880
Speaker 1: of your interviews they kind of try to ask you, like,

784
00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: was Nikki going too hard at you? And you? Actually,

785
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:04,360
Speaker 1: I think she was going hard at everybody. You. My

786
00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 1: my friends and a lot of my supporters are like

787
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 1: still really mad at the way that she My segment

788
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 1: went with her, and I'm just like she she did

789
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 1: us all a favor there. It was huge and it

790
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: was and I'm still yes, and she well, she knew

791
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: our show the season one, like she knew little nuances

792
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:33,800
Speaker 1: that nobody knows. I'm not met like I mean, she

793
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 1: read me for phil. She was shady, but she was

794
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:38,839
Speaker 1: shady to everybody, everybody, and it was I mean, who

795
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,880
Speaker 1: do you think she the most shady too? It doesn't

796
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 1: show but Mia from Jael too, but it looks like

797
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 1: but Mia in the moment was like this is this

798
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 1: is this is hard. Do you would you prefer her

799
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:59,040
Speaker 1: to come back than Andy or you I am trying

800
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: your fired. No, I think I honestly, honestly, I think

801
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 1: that that should be it, Like I don't want it

802
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:13,399
Speaker 1: to That was the little thing in history and then

803
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 1: and it should stay that way. And like the network

804
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 1: was very they wanted to be clear that she's not

805
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 1: a co host, she's a special special host, and I

806
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 1: think that it should stay that way. I don't want

807
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:29,879
Speaker 1: Atlanta guest hosts and people are like, don't we don't

808
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:33,880
Speaker 1: need to do all that. It was because it was

809
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 1: very organic, and I think that's why it worked and

810
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 1: we should let it just stay in history. At this

811
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 1: moment where the Barbs got involved. Speaking of organic, let's

812
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 1: talk about Wendy and her new body this season and

813
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: the way it was received from the girls. Because I'm

814
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 1: a team of I'm a team surgery, team surgery, right,

815
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 1: and they were making it seem as if the surgery

816
00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: changed her personality and then she came back a whole

817
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 1: new person and it was a de value to her. Yes,

818
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 1: and what's your thoughts on that. I think that it

819
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 1: was sucked up the way that they came at her.

820
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:12,800
Speaker 1: But I think that Wendy fumbled the moment. And I

821
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 1: told her this because she allowed them to use her

822
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:22,919
Speaker 1: to make that storyline. She needed to clock it and say, yes, bitch,

823
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 1: I got my titties done, I got my ass done.

824
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: I fed villages with these breasts, and I deserved to

825
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:33,800
Speaker 1: get my ship done. And she looked good. And what

826
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 1: I love is like you look, they don't understand anything

827
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 1: about surgeries, and everybody's soldier judgmental about it. At the

828
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 1: end of the day is about what it due to you,

829
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 1: and it's for you, for you. You have anything done me? Yeah,

830
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:52,840
Speaker 1: I've had botox and fillers. I've I've not had like no, no,

831
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:56,360
Speaker 1: But I'm saying when it's time, I'm gonna get this

832
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:58,879
Speaker 1: pull back, I'm gonna get these done. I'm gonna get

833
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:04,480
Speaker 1: whatever needs to be done. I'm I'm team surgery. Yes, yeah, No,

834
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 1: I think that Wendy, just if she had played it differently,

835
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:12,280
Speaker 1: they would have had to go back into the dumpster

836
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: to find something else, because it's like comparing her to

837
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 1: season one. She did come like, oh, I'm professor dry

838
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 1: like you. And then and then the next thing, you know,

839
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:25,320
Speaker 1: our body done. And I mean when he be on

840
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:28,840
Speaker 1: TV with people, right, But it's two things. It's two folds.

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Speaker 1: Number one, this was her, that was her first season.

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Speaker 1: If you watch that all of us season one, everybody

843
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 1: and everybody's personality. And at the point I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: make it what I'm trying to get to me being

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00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 1: a viewer and being tuned in with the show and everything.

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Speaker 1: I feel like when she came with the whole Professor

847
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Speaker 1: Wendy thing, she felt like that's what she needed to do.

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Speaker 1: And it's the opposite of what they're saying. They're saying

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Speaker 1: that the body changed her and made her this person,

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Speaker 1: and she wasn't. I think the body would out the

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Speaker 1: true her. I think that's I think we should have

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00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 1: met and the one. And I think that she just

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00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 1: tightened up our blazer. Yes, yes, because she didn't know

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Speaker 1: what she was walking into, which is fair. We all

855
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: have been that. Me Season one of me now is

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Speaker 1: not the same. I mean, I'm the same but I'm

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Speaker 1: not the same. There was the point where you were like,

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00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 1: I'm at the drama fence, right, and it's not for long.

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Speaker 1: I can't know if I try, it's like, what are

860
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: you doing? Like I can't not be in the drama.

861
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 1: They want me to cut somebody out. Well, people are

862
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 1: going to enjoy this side of you too. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: a different I think. Yeah. I think you need like

864
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Speaker 1: an alter ego, like a like a stripper, and it

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Speaker 1: can be Candy because that's too close, I know, and

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Speaker 1: Candy is already doing her candy. There is a kid. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I have no idea what it was.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. To give it to me, all right,

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Speaker 1: be going to think about it as a matter of fact, y'all.

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Speaker 1: At her should be something like regal, like hot, like

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Speaker 1: like empress or heiress, like you know what I'm saying. Okay,

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00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:19,839
Speaker 1: that makes me tingles. Yeah I could do. That's something

873
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 1: in that room. Yeah, that's what I see. Your stupid

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Speaker 1: navy were at her. Thank you so much for joining us.

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Speaker 1: You really were a pleasure to have. I love this

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Speaker 1: on this show. Are you going to do a tour

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00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 1: for the album, Yes, sometime next spring. Summer. Not working

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00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 1: out details now that needs to be on the show. Yes,

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00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:46,320
Speaker 1: we'll see hopefully they We don't. I don't determine what

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00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 1: happens on the show, but yes, that would be amazing.

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00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 1: That will be to cover the tour of it all. Yes,

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Speaker 1: all right, well that was fun. Lips every Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much, Candice, Thanks y'all.