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Speaker 1: It's the Fresh show. Do you have what it takes

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Speaker 1: to battle show biz? Shelley in the show Biz Showdown.

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Speaker 2: Show?

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Speaker 3: Hi, Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 1: How was your weekend? It was good?

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Speaker 3: It was good.

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Speaker 2: We went to like, my neighbor had a pumpkin carving party. Nice,

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Speaker 2: so we carved some pumpkin.

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Speaker 1: Wow, this domestic stuff that you guys do. I don't

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Speaker 1: get invited into domestic stuff, man, Yeah, no, please, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I'll come to a pumpkin carving festivity. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess the.

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Speaker 3: Kids in the neighborhood when it was fun.

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Speaker 1: I found out last week that, like, my dentist is

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Speaker 1: my good friend's wife, so I guess that makes her

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Speaker 1: my good friend too. But she's telling me like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I saw so and so and so and so and

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Speaker 1: so because I was kind of adopted by their friend group.

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Speaker 1: And it's all at kid's birthday because I'll have kids

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Speaker 1: now and they're all married and it's all a kid's

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Speaker 1: birthday parties. I don't get invited to any of this stuff.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, wait, mine, you all hung out. You didn't

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Speaker 1: call me, And they're like, dude, you wouldn't go to that. Well,

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Speaker 1: if it's the only way I'm going to see my friends.

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Speaker 1: But this is the way it goes now is I

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Speaker 1: feel like everything circulates around like soccer and I don't know,

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Speaker 1: pumpkin carving contests and birthday parties and school activities or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and I don't, you know, have any of that, so

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Speaker 1: I don't get invited.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess that would be tough. I mean, and

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Speaker 2: you would go if you got invited, you.

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Speaker 1: Going, I mean, I guess it's the only way I'm

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Speaker 1: seeing these people, so, you know, but they live far away.

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Speaker 1: They live out in the suburbs, you know, so I'd

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Speaker 1: have to, like, you know, I get a hotel. I'd

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Speaker 1: have to get a helicopter. I don't know, I have

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Speaker 1: to do something. It's unbelievable going all the way out

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Speaker 1: there carving pumpkins. I'll be tired. You gotta get back

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Speaker 1: in the buggy and come back. And it's cold outside now,

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Speaker 1: like get dysentery driving to the suburbs. So far right,

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Speaker 1: Oh that's so far. Hey, Miranda, good morning, him, Miranda,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. How was your weekend? It was great? It

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Speaker 1: was good, Thank you, except for getting accosted on social media.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about that. Yeah, I got roasted that person.

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Speaker 1: I know that person whoever wrote that. I know that person.

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Speaker 3: Sister texted me, she was like, what's going on? Is

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Speaker 3: he good?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, that was that was I was heated.

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Speaker 1: I read that and I was like, Miranda, I read

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Speaker 1: I'll talk about it laterveniency. But I read that. I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, it was very pointed. It

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Speaker 1: really feels like someone I know. But of course it

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Speaker 1: was a fake profile that wrote it to me, you know,

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Speaker 1: hiding behind an egg. You know what I'm saying, like,

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Speaker 1: sign your name, your name, Come on, bro, I'm from

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Speaker 1: New York. Sign your name. Oh Yankees. God, I can't

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Speaker 1: believe it came out of my mouth. Let's play the game, guys.

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Speaker 1: It's five questions tiebreaker today. Six hundred bucks is the price?

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Speaker 1: Good luck?

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Speaker 3: Okay, good luck?

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Speaker 1: Thank you too? All right, Shelley, with all the respect,

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Speaker 1: Get the hell out, Miranda. Question number one, Bill Gay

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Speaker 1: celebrates his sixty ninth birth today. Man is he's a

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Speaker 1: he's a fine looking man in me? Oh, Bill Gates?

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Speaker 1: Does it get any better looking? Another? Sixty nine year

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Speaker 1: old Bill Gates getting better with age? Yeah? Which software

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Speaker 1: company is he best known for? Co? Founding Microsoft. Which

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Speaker 1: Game of Thrones actress and exit Joe Jonas posted a

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Speaker 1: birthday tribute to her new boyfriend on Instagram.

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Speaker 3: Sophie Turner.

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Speaker 1: Despite being on her own tour, Taylor Swift brought out

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Speaker 1: Sabrina Carpenter in New Orleans over the weekend. What's the

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Speaker 1: name of Sabrina's tour? Oh? No, oh? No?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Kelly Rowland walked Beyonce on stage in a rally in

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Speaker 1: Houston over the weekend. What girl group brought them to fame?

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Speaker 3: That's aid?

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Speaker 1: And which Dune and Wonka actor crashed his own lookalike contest.

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Speaker 1: We just did the story, Jim. That's a four. That's

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Speaker 1: a good score. Miranda, we're bringing Shelly back? Might be

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Speaker 1: another time. I'm not sure. Four. Yeah, she's really good. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Chelse Bill Gates celebrates his sixty ninth

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Speaker 1: birthday today. Which software company is he best known for

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Speaker 1: co founding Microsoft? Yeah? Which? Game of Thrones actress and

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Speaker 1: ex to Joe Jonas posted a birthday tribute to her

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Speaker 1: new boyfriend on Instagram.

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Speaker 3: Sophie Turner.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Despite being on her own tour, Taylor Swift brought

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Speaker 1: the name of Sabrinas Tour?

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Speaker 3: Oh short and sweet?

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Speaker 1: That's right. Kelly Rowling walked Beyonce on stage at a

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Speaker 1: rally in Houston over the weekend. What girl group brought

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Speaker 1: them to fame? Yes? And which Dune and Wonka actor

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Speaker 1: crashed his own lookalike.

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Speaker 3: Contest Timothy Shellaman win.

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Speaker 1: Miranda, So close, so close, Miranda, But you're gonna have

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Speaker 1: to say, my name is Miranda. I got showed up

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Speaker 1: on a showdown. You know the rest.

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Speaker 3: My name is Marianda. I got showed up on the showdown.

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Speaker 1: And I can't hang with the gorilla. Okay, bye, Miranda.

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Speaker 1: You can't hang with like a reil. Fred wants to

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Speaker 1: drive out to the suburbs. No, I don't, Now, I know.

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Speaker 1: You need to provide transportation. It needs to be a

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Speaker 1: black car and send me a black girl. Come to

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Speaker 1: your kids' birthday party. Come on, Miranda, hang on. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for playing. Have a great day. You

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Speaker 1: stay right there. So six fifty tomorrow and that's whin

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Speaker 1: number nine sixty Showbiz eight straight.

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Speaker 3: Very nice job, Thank you so much, Thank you all right?

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Speaker 1: Good Oh y'all come to your kid's birthday party. You

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Speaker 1: invite me? Oh really, I'm a god. Bring nice gifts,

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Speaker 1: you know you do. I'll bring nice I don't have

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Speaker 1: a kid on my own, so it's cheap. I can

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Speaker 1: go get your kid a very nice present. I don't

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Speaker 1: have to pay for college, I don't have to pay

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Speaker 1: for braces, I don't have to pay for therapy, nothing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I got a great gig. It's an uncle.

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Speaker 3: It is a great gig existence without children. Oh, I

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Speaker 3: know in your drugs.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you Georgia. I know, I know. And

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Speaker 1: this whole thing started because on Friday, I posted a

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Speaker 1: picture of my niece, my beautiful niece, perfect little kid,

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Speaker 1: who I've been on the record as saying, I don't

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Speaker 1: know how I could possibly do better than that. I

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Speaker 1: really don't. And May maybe is going to be I

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Speaker 1: I think Polly's going to be like my sister super type,

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Speaker 3: Me the second kid man, which she's old.

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Speaker 1: Enough to get high, of course when it's legal and

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Speaker 1: old enough. Not certainly not.

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Speaker 3: No, no, well a name like that may Eve.

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Speaker 1: I could I don't know, I could just see I

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Speaker 1: could see it being like that. Do you do you

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Speaker 1: have an idea, Shelley, what you think the personnel of

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Speaker 1: your child will be? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's got so much personality right now, you.

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Speaker 1: Know what I mean? Do you think it'll be like you?

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Speaker 1: Do you think she'll be like you or like Mike

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Speaker 3: She has little bits of each of us?

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Speaker 2: So like she uh, we were laughing over the weekend

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Speaker 2: because I'm like a big snacker, like I like to

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Speaker 2: eat a lot. She my daughter, eats a ton. She

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Speaker 2: wants to eat all the time. But she's way more

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Speaker 2: She's super extroverted, like, loves people.

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Speaker 1: She's taking her shirt off in public. Yeah, yeah, actually

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Speaker 1: can teach her not to do that.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, so she loves people. You know me, I'm

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Speaker 2: more of an introvert. So she takes after him in

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Speaker 2: that way. But yeah, it's fun to watch.

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Speaker 3: It's fun.

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Speaker 1: I mean, last time I saw her, she came in here,

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Speaker 1: sat in my seat started pushing buttons. I had a

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Speaker 1: lot to say, no trouble at all, like no issue whatsoever.

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Speaker 1: So she definitely has a little bit of military mic

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Speaker 1: in her and then a little bit of her mom too,

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Speaker 1: because you know, when the lights lights, camera action, you know,

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Speaker 2: She's yeahlett, she got a little performer or for sure, yeah,

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Speaker 2: she likes music.

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Speaker 3: She likes to dance a lot, so that's.

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Speaker 1: Got to be kind of cool though to watch them anyway.

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Speaker 1: But the whole thing started was because I posted this

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Speaker 1: of I'm sure being I don't even remember what I said.

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Speaker 1: It was something about like she's cute or whatever, but

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Speaker 1: I'll go back to my door dash and gummies on

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Speaker 1: Friday night, which was a joke, but it wasn't no

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Speaker 1: because I like, it's because I have this perfect human

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Speaker 1: how I'm like a loser basically, and how I'm pushing

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Speaker 1: as old as hell. And you know what, like they

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Speaker 1: they don't want you to tell me, dude, I've been

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Speaker 1: here for fourteen years, Like it's I'm sorry, but it

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're all getting older. That's my favorite part of

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Speaker 4: that insult. It's like, so are you like we're all aging,

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Speaker 4: Like we just got older a second ago. Literally, yeah,

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Speaker 4: so why I'm like, sign your name, like who are you?

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Speaker 1: Say? Who you are?

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Speaker 3: Call us? Actually call us and.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I'll hear your points, but.

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Speaker 3: There's no points in that. I was in your inbox, heated.

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Speaker 5: I was so mad.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people that knew me were a lot

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Speaker 1: of people call me going, dude, do you know who

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Speaker 1: that was? Like that's like, who is it? I'm like

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'll read it to you guys later though,

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Speaker 1: And people then other people are getting on me, like

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Speaker 1: why would you give this person any credence? I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: it's free content as far as I'm concerned. That's the

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Speaker 1: way I looked at it was, I don't I don't

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Speaker 1: give it any credence actually, but but how could I?

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Speaker 1: How could I pass up on that? Posted it? And

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Speaker 1: I got all these dms, all these people, all their

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Speaker 1: takes on it. And the other thing is you got

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Speaker 1: to be really careful. You got to be really careful

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Speaker 1: when you're talking to people about kids and not having them. Oh,

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Speaker 1: because you're assuming when you take the stance that this

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Speaker 1: person did that if you don't have kids and you're

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Speaker 1: do you know I'm not impotent? How do you know?

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Speaker 1: I I've tried to have kids and can't You don't

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Speaker 3: You literally do not know.

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Speaker 5: That's why I can't stand that question, especially towards women too.

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Speaker 5: Women we get it worse. I'm not like saying experience

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Speaker 1: No. I think, I think that that stigma is now

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Speaker 1: It's amazing to people that I might choose this life.

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Speaker 1: No way, now, it's rightly it might also be true

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Speaker 1: it's selfish. It's also selfless because I know myself well

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of projection. It felt to me like

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Speaker 1: I think that's funny, because it just felt it was

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Speaker 1: You gotta listen for another hour, damn it. But that's

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Speaker 1: not part of Morality Monday, which we will be doing next, Shelley.

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Speaker 1: Hang around for Morality Monday. Yeah, or or it's actually

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Speaker 1: time for your bathroom break never mind, go do that

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Speaker 1: So that's got you. We got you that sports sportscaster

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Speaker 1: or headset for this reason, Brady Spearstown. Yeah. You can

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Speaker 1: I have a good days, Shelley. Okay, bye, all right,

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Speaker 1: Kiki's out today, back tomorrow. Some Morality Monday. We'll do

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Speaker 1: it more. Fredshell next.