WEBVTT - Our Life Check-In Exercise (and the Random Laughs It Sparked) 0:00:03.160 --> 0:00:04.680 All right, break it down. 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:08.719 If you ever have feelings that you just won't Amy 0:00:08.840 --> 0:00:12.480 and Cat got your cob and locking no brother, ladies 0:00:12.480 --> 0:00:15.440 and fels, you just follow an the spirit where it's 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:18.880 all the front over real stuff to the chill stuff 0:00:19.200 --> 0:00:20.599 and the m but Swayne. 0:00:21.280 --> 0:00:23.760 Sometimes the best thing you can do it just. 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:28.920 Stop you feel things. This is Feeling Things with Amy 0:00:28.960 --> 0:00:29.360 and Kat. 0:00:29.440 --> 0:00:31.080 Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:32.240 I'm Amy and I'm Kat. 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:35.600 And our feeling of the day, well, I think we 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:38.279 both have them. This is like last time you want 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:39.880 to just say I'm on the count of three because 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:43.440 I have two, pick your main one and go on 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:46.840 the count of three. One, okay, two, three? 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:51.920 Worry okay? Cool? I thought you were gonna go with 0:00:52.000 --> 0:00:54.640 the other feelings. Well that one is curious, okay, And 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:57.000 I said worried so same reason. 0:00:57.160 --> 0:01:01.480 Yeah. Happy because Chase is in town and he's running 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:02.400 our video today. 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:04.920 Hey, Jas, I wish I could flip the. 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:07.319 Can I know you can't. So this is fun. If 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:11.200 you've listened to this podcast feed for years and years, 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:14.480 it was four Things with Amy Brown and Chase before 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:16.959 Kat was the co host on the bonus episode for 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:19.720 that podcast called The Fifth Thing. Before you were the 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:21.640 co host, Chase would do The Fifth Thing with me 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:24.920 every week for several of them, a lot, a lot 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:27.480 like Yeah, I don't know that it was consistent every week, 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:30.200 but it was a lot. So he has been a 0:01:30.200 --> 0:01:32.840 part of the podcast family. And he happens to be 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:37.880 in town, so he's running our camera and I'm curious 0:01:38.319 --> 0:01:40.840 because I want to know where Amy Bradley is. And 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:42.559 I think that maybe is why you're worried. 0:01:42.600 --> 0:01:47.200 It's why I'm worried. Okay, you're worried about her, well, sure, 0:01:47.600 --> 0:01:50.960 but more worried. It seems a little suck us. 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:54.480 Yeah, we're feeling sus. 0:01:54.160 --> 0:01:56.080 And you know what I'm not ever doing now? 0:01:56.680 --> 0:01:59.680 Oh no, you can go on a cruise. I will 0:01:59.680 --> 0:02:02.520 be on on next February, the Bobby Bone Show cruise. 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:05.280 Okay, that cruise sounds like it's gonna be very safe 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:09.600 and great. But can I share some I don't spoil anything. 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:12.520 You know, I ruined Sex in the City for everybody, Well, 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:13.360 you didn't, really. 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:17.160 And also that Amy Bradley's story has been around since 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:22.320 nineteen ninety eight and the doctor generies now gaining attention 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:25.600 because this particular documentary there are other things out there 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:28.680 you can watch. And the rabbit hole I ended up 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:33.680 down was the inconsistencies in interviews over the last with 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:35.880 who a couple of decades with the family and how 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:39.200 stuff has changed. And in the Netflix documentary we learned 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:40.960 that she is gay. 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:44.200 Yeah, and apparently her parents don't want people to know that. 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:47.239 Well, it's information now, but you would think you would 0:02:47.280 --> 0:02:48.840 want the world to know that from the get go, 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:53.040 in case any information could be helpful. But apparently, allegedly 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:58.760 in previous interviews, interviews or documentaries or things, it wasn't 0:02:58.960 --> 0:03:00.760 disclosed that she was gay. In fact, even at one 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:02.760 point they said she had a boyfriend right before the 0:03:02.800 --> 0:03:04.960 cruise or something like that, she had a girlfriend. She 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:05.600 had a girlfriend. 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:09.560 Yeah, well soon My parents were not into it in 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:12.040 the beginning at least, okay, and now they seem okay 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:12.280 with it. 0:03:12.320 --> 0:03:13.320 But what's your deal? 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:16.920 Okay, if you haven't watched the documentary, I don't think 0:03:16.919 --> 0:03:20.120 I'm ruined anything, but like, don't you think the crew 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:24.800 of the cruise was a little rude, mainly the director 0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:27.560 of fun or whatever. The guy, the guy, the cruise director, 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:31.840 he was rude. 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:37.360 I think that he probably wasn't his mindset, his thought 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:40.320 that she jumped, she's overboard. Okay, so there's a lot 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:43.000 of people online that have pieced together They're like, look, 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:45.400 this family is in denial. I don't know what they're 0:03:45.400 --> 0:03:47.680 digging for. I don't think she was human trafficked. 0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:49.240 You don't think those pictures were. 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:51.360 I don't. I'm not telling you what I think. I'm 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:54.160 telling you what other people have pieced together that have 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:57.880 followed this case far longer than I. I'm I'm a 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:02.760 Netflix newbie, like I have only been concerned about Amy 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:05.440 Bradley for about two weeks now, well because I mean 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:07.120 I didn't know about her. I didn't know she was missing, 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:09.400 and now I need to know where is she? Is 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:14.520 she being human trafficked in the Caribbean, I don't know, 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:18.239 or did she go overboard? Or does something else happened 0:04:18.279 --> 0:04:18.520 to her? 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:20.560 Or does that them again? Okay, I have a couple 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:23.880 other thoughts. One I have to disclose this. I may 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:26.360 have fallen asleep at the end of the last episode, 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:28.680 so if she was found, I didn't know, but it 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:31.080 sounds like she won't. So I didn't miss anything that 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:32.400 I need to go back and watch, right. 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:35.120 Sadly she's not found. It's almost like this is the 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:38.240 family's last night. I don't know if it's their last, 0:04:38.279 --> 0:04:41.000 it's their next. Please they've done others. 0:04:41.640 --> 0:04:44.040 I would hope that my family would never give up 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:46.360 on searching for me, and I would think as a parent, 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:48.600 that would probably be how if there was not clear 0:04:48.640 --> 0:04:51.360 evidence that I died. I think that would I would 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:53.039 not be able to sleep at night if I wasn't 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:55.840 continuing to try to find why are you looking at 0:04:55.880 --> 0:04:56.160 like well? 0:04:56.160 --> 0:04:59.400 And if there were eyewitnesses that claim to see you 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:04.520 years later in a bathroom or walking down the beach 0:05:04.640 --> 0:05:05.760 or crazy. 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:10.000 This is what I'm worried about, though, Yellow's daughter. Don't 0:05:10.040 --> 0:05:12.200 you think she's gonna get herself into some trouble? 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:14.560 Well, some people that haven't seen it, they're like, who's yellow? 0:05:16.920 --> 0:05:20.200 Yellow was a bass player on the cruise in the 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:22.640 band that would play and apparently she was hanging out 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:24.600 with them. Oh, this is the other thing. So she's gay? 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:28.120 Right when you first watched the documentary, before they get 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:30.320 into the piece that she's gay, aren't you thinking she's not? 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:32.880 I mean some people are like, Look, I could tell 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:35.839 by the first I was reading threads of people. They're like, look, 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:38.200 I'm a lesbian, and I could tell right away when 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:40.000 are they going to talk about how she's a lesbian? 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:42.080 But they were just like she is the life of 0:05:42.080 --> 0:05:44.840 the party. She would walk into the room and everybody 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:47.520 give her attention. Everybody wanted her attention, Like guys would 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:49.120 talk to her, and everybody's come up to her. But 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:51.800 at no point and then it was like this twist 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:54.800 that she's gay. But I think that earlier in other 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:58.520 documentaries or interviews that were done, the narrative was just 0:05:58.560 --> 0:06:00.760 how lively she was, and you would think, Okay, well 0:06:00.760 --> 0:06:02.800 we need to be looking at men, because clearly she 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:05.359 was hanging out with men, and maybe she had a 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:07.159 little rendezvous with the man. I mean, that's what I 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:08.839 was thinking. I was like, well, who did she sneak 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:12.200 off with? If she was so magnetic, she still could 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:15.360 have done that, I know, but it seems like now 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:18.799 we know she wouldn't be interested in a man. 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:21.320 Maybe she was and she was just like, oh tonight, 0:06:21.320 --> 0:06:25.640 I'm gonna do this. Maybe she's fluid, yes, yeah, versus 0:06:26.400 --> 0:06:28.920 the other stories that she was looking for drugs, which 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:32.560 I also could be true. But back to Yellow, he 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:35.240 was the bass player that people think had something to 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:39.600 do with her being trafficked away, and in the documentary, 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:45.360 his daughter calls him live and asks him what happened 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:48.400 to Amy? If this guy is that powerful and he 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:50.640 does those kinds of things, don't you think the daughter's 0:06:50.680 --> 0:06:52.919 now putting herself in harms way? That was my first 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:56.240 thought of, like, if he's this powerful guy, like, don't 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:56.560 do that. 0:06:57.000 --> 0:06:58.839 That part was weird to me. I don't know. I 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:01.560 gave it nothing, nothing gave us nothing like I thought 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:03.719 when she called and left a voicemail for that family. 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:06.000 I'm like, we're about to get some real information. And 0:07:06.040 --> 0:07:08.480 the parents had to be thinking that, like we're about 0:07:08.520 --> 0:07:10.560 to really get something here. And then it's like, oh, 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:15.400 you just heard from your mom this story and whatever. 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:17.559 People that haven't watched it, they're probably not as worried 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:20.800 or concerned or curious as we are about this, But 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:24.800 just watch it and if anybody knows anything about Amy, 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:29.560 call us. We need to call that a lie. Obviously. 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:34.360 That's what I meant to find their number and try 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:37.760 not to one one before us. I just I am 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:41.920 heartbroken for her family. I just don't know what is what? 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:43.760 You know what I was happy to see though, because 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:47.000 in these types of documentaries they always interview everybody separately. 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:50.440 The parents stayed together, and I think a lot of 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:53.000 times when there's any kind of tragedy within a family, 0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:55.160 a lot of times the parents, because of their grieving 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:57.680 process to end up splitting up. But they're still together. 0:07:57.920 --> 0:07:59.400 Yeah. I love that too. 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:02.480 Not, but it just was nice to see. 0:08:02.840 --> 0:08:05.800 Yeah, yeah, that is nice. I'm like thinking, what do 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:06.760 you think about my divorce? 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:10.960 Well, I think that is very different. Your children didn't 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:14.360 go missing, Okay, I know are you protecting? 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:16.280 You're like, oh, I'm so glad they stayed together, And 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:19.520 I was like, I bet you are. Look at them, 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:21.480 they're so great. Yeah. 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:23.120 I think about it every night with you. I can't 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:23.760 believe you did that. 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:25.600 I'm just kidding. 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:26.040 Okay. 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:27.800 So I thought I have a little activity for us. 0:08:27.800 --> 0:08:29.760 It's like a check in, and I think listeners could 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:32.040 do this too if they want to write it down, 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:34.360 or we can put it in the show notes and 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:36.800 they can go copy and paste it and do a 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:41.200 check in with themselves or their roommates or their husband, wife, 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:44.880 whatever kids. So I'll share the check in so I 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:46.760 can go first, and then you can share yours. But 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:49.480 they're just questions you can ask yourself and then you 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:50.560 fill in the blank. 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:52.200 Do you do the same question or it's just a 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:53.760 one time thing. It's not like a week you could 0:08:53.760 --> 0:08:56.040 do you do a monthly check in. You could do this, 0:08:56.760 --> 0:09:01.200 rinse and repeat twelve times a year. Okay, okay, ready 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:03.800 this month. I'm proud of accomplishing. 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:09.040 And for me curtains in my house because I've lived 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:11.840 here over Yere and I finally got curtains up in 0:09:11.880 --> 0:09:12.720 all of the rooms. 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:16.160 And have you ever hung a curtain rod yourself? 0:09:16.360 --> 0:09:16.600 Yes? 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:17.839 Yeah? Oh did you do these? 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:21.079 No? Okay, but I have very hard Yeah, I think 0:09:21.200 --> 0:09:25.320 like in college or something. Okay, yeah, why do you 0:09:25.360 --> 0:09:25.719 hang them? 0:09:25.840 --> 0:09:28.920 I just hung one once and I felt very accomplished. 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:32.120 This might also be you doing that thing where we 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:34.679 wanted to like ask things we don't know about each other. 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:36.600 So is that like a thing you didn't know about me? 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:38.040 If I'd ever hung a curtain. 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:39.720 Right driving down the road and I was like, I 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:43.360 wonder if Amy's ever hung a curtain rod. That's something 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:46.160 I think would be fun if we have space, which 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:48.880 I guess we do this anyway with space. In the podcast, 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:51.400 if we're like, oh, questions that never come up. I've 0:09:51.440 --> 0:09:53.840 been wondering have you ever done this? Or what would 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:57.080 you do in this situation? Questions that like, it would 0:09:57.080 --> 0:09:59.600 be weird if I just brought this up in conversation. Okay, 0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:02.120 you know, yeah, like, is there something about me you've 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:03.000 always wanted to know? 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:06.400 Let me think about it. I feel like if I 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:08.920 wanted to know, I would ask you. I mean, I'm 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:09.560 sure there. 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:12.360 Is that, but if it's not a natural place for it, 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:15.360 you know. So, Okay, that's a new thing. We're gonna 0:10:15.360 --> 0:10:17.560 do that. If you randomly have a question or a 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:20.720 thought and there's like nowhere for it to really fit, 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:22.440 you can just say, kind of like how we say 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:25.280 sib when we're being mean to each other, we can 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:27.480 just say questions that never come up? Have you ever 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:29.000 hung a curtain? Rod? Okay? 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.839 Okay, and let me just ask it? Okay, So that'll 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:36.040 encourage just more curiosity. Yeah, with your friends and family. 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:38.839 Yeah, if you think you can start that with your family, 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:39.840 not just on the podcast. 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:41.000 If you wonder it, ask it. 0:10:41.360 --> 0:10:43.000 Oh yeah, that's your T shirt. 0:10:43.720 --> 0:10:46.559 Okay, So I did my this month. I'm proud of accomplishing, 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:49.880 which was curtains in my house. One thing I'm grateful 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:55.600 for is people. What s grateful for people in my 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:59.120 life lately that have been able to either pour into 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:01.320 my kids or pour in to me. And just how 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:04.080 important community is. So I think more so than just 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:07.840 people is like your people, your community. My affirmation for 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:12.679 the next month is I'm a fun person. Why did 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:15.400 you say that? Because I listened to my affirmations as 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:18.960 subliminals and so yeah, I was just doing it. 0:11:19.040 --> 0:11:20.360 How would a fun person say it? 0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:23.920 No, my subliminal would be I don't know, because I 0:11:23.960 --> 0:11:26.760 am a fun mat I'm not fun yet that's my 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:30.120 manifestation for the next month. So so, so this. 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:32.040 Is not an affirmation, So this is more so like 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:34.760 this is a subliminal. Well, it can be either, because 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:36.920 affirmation isn't that Like you are beautiful? 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:39.600 Yeah, I am fun, I am fun. What I write down, 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:42.839 I'm a fun person. I am a fun person. Gosh 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:45.600 darn it, Like are you repeat it over and over 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:46.080 you look. 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:46.400 In the mirror. 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:49.280 I am a fun person, Okay, but I take in 0:11:49.320 --> 0:11:55.040 my subliminals. I am a money magnet. Fun finds me 0:11:55.720 --> 0:12:00.520 in fun ways. Circulating fun is fun. I'm fun I 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.320 think you're fun. We are fun. I want to be 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:04.679 more funky. I'm a fun I'm a fun mom, I'm 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:07.880 a fun parent, I'm a fun coworker. I'm fun. I'm 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:10.040 fun gosh, and people want to be around me because 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:13.520 i'd so fun. But we're not there yet. But I'm 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:16.640 work shopping it but fun okay, Like that's my affirmation. 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:18.840 You are fun though you're a seven. 0:12:19.240 --> 0:12:21.520 Okay, you're just as fun as I am. 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:23.000 No, no, you're. 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:27.480 No pie for no, but no, you were fun in 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:28.800 that meeting when you yelled at. 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:33.199 That was fun. Yeah, I can be fun. I want to, 0:12:33.240 --> 0:12:35.240 I guess, be more consistently fun. 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:39.960 Well, I want to be more low key, so like 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:42.520 low key there, like I want to be more like less. 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:48.000 You want to be more like me, which is low key, lame. 0:12:48.720 --> 0:12:52.360 It's not what I met what I met. It met 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:55.440 like I want to just like be home more. But 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:58.200 being home could be fun. Yeah, it's so fun now 0:12:58.200 --> 0:12:59.760 that I'm thinking about it. I am home all the time. 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:01.760 I think you have a skewed idea of my life. 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:05.960 No, I don't you play games? You you have you 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:09.040 know you blindfold your husband and taking around town. You're 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:11.240 always coming up with fun ideas that I take from 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:14.439 you and then I implement them in my life. Yeah, 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:16.480 you're fun bank cookie logs. 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:18.480 That's fun, but that's at home. 0:13:19.280 --> 0:13:23.760 One habit I cultivated this month was pretending to stretch 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:26.400 while I was actually just laying on the floor. I 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:28.319 really am trying to work on stretching more and I 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:30.240 think we'll get there. But I definitely lay it on 0:13:30.280 --> 0:13:32.880 the floor to stretch more than I ever have before, 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:35.680 and then ended up mostly just laying there. But still 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:38.600 in yoga, laying on your back flat is a move. 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:43.600 It's called savasana, which is a move. So if I 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:48.120 am laying in it is a yoga post. It's a pose, 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:52.600 it's a post. So I am laying in savasana, okay, 0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:55.880 so it's not like I'm just doing nothing. And then 0:13:55.920 --> 0:13:58.240 the final check in is one thing I want to 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:02.400 accomplish next month is by next month, I want to 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:06.559 finish Family of Liars, which is the book I ordered 0:14:06.559 --> 0:14:10.880 that's the prequel to We Were Liars, which I watched 0:14:10.920 --> 0:14:12.960 on Amazon. I didn't read the book, but after I 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:15.360 watched it and learned it was a book, I wished 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:18.319 I would have read it, So then I ordered us 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:21.760 the prequel, which is Family of Liars. 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:24.160 I wonder what's gonna so I guess maybe we're getting 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:25.560 the mom's perspective. 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:27.760 I don't know yet. I just got them mis Okay, 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:29.880 well you didn't read the that of the book, not yet. 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:35.320 I got stuck on the little drawing and they had 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:38.640 a little graphic like a map. They had a map 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:39.800 of Beechwood Island. 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:43.520 Okay, because I'm imagining, like, you can't be that much 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:44.280 that happens before. 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:47.000 I mean, I started a little bit just but not 0:14:47.240 --> 0:14:50.760 enough to where I know really what's happening. But I'm 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:53.680 pretty sure what I'm reading right now is from one 0:14:53.720 --> 0:14:54.680 of the sisters. 0:14:55.160 --> 0:14:55.840 Okay, that's three. 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:59.000 That's when you mean that mom, Yes, yes, which went 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:01.320 and got her? Because in the show, and this isn't 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:03.240 giving anything away, but do you remember which one got 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:07.600 like her chin or jaw redone like plastic surgery? Remember 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:09.400 when one of the sisters was like, well, yeah, let's 0:15:09.480 --> 0:15:12.560 be nice, Dad got you a new chin or whatever? 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:15.200 That Okay, because I need a google. I want to 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:17.800 see which one. Since I've already watched the show and 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:20.840 i'm reading the prequel, I'm visually I have the real 0:15:20.960 --> 0:15:24.760 visualization from the show and not my own imagination. So 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:27.080 I know what the three sisters look like, and I 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:29.960 need to know which sister I'm reading about. 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:34.480 So can I share something again that's not going to 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:37.920 be a spoiler. But remember last week I said that 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:39.640 I wanted to guess what was going to happen. 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:40.840 And we were liars. 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:43.480 Yes, yeah, Okay, wasn't I close? 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:45.880 You were very close. You were very close. I was 0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:47.200 not that close, but you were. 0:15:47.320 --> 0:15:49.000 You're right, So I just I just want that on 0:15:49.040 --> 0:15:50.800 the record for everybody to know I was close. 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:51.920 Yeah. Probably. 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:52.720 I can't tell you what it is. 0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:55.400 Yeah, No, if you have not watched that, watch it. 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:58.000 If you would rather read it, read it first. 0:15:58.040 --> 0:15:59.520 I'm sad. If I would have known that was a book, 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:01.240 I would have read first. That probably was such a 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:01.680 good book. 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:04.600 But now we have yeah, family of Life. 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:05.640 Pretty cool. 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:10.880 They're welcome, So your turn to do oh check in? Okay, okay, 0:16:10.920 --> 0:16:12.520 you went the first Yeah, and you asked them, And 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:14.560 I'll tell you this month, I'm proud of accomplishing. 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:18.480 So this is going to sound weird. I'm proud of 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:22.680 accomplishing hiring somebody else to come clean my house because 0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:26.560 this is something that I've wanted to do for over 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:28.680 a year. I kept asking one of my friends for 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:30.600 her cleaners, and she finally said, I'm not giving you 0:16:30.640 --> 0:16:32.720 the number anymore because we're never going to play. Because 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:35.320 I asked her like ten times, can I have your 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:37.600 cleaner's number? And then she would give it to me, 0:16:37.640 --> 0:16:39.480 and then I would ask her the next month, which 0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:40.920 I don't know why I didn't just go look for it. 0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:42.600 I guess I was lazy. But then she was like, 0:16:42.800 --> 0:16:45.240 you're you're not going to call them? And I said, yes, 0:16:45.280 --> 0:16:48.840 I am, but then you texted yours for me, so 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:51.440 I didn't have to do the work, but I rescheduled her. 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:53.520 Yeah and okay. 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:56.320 So and she's so awesome and she's so grateful and 0:16:56.640 --> 0:16:58.800 she's really excited about clean your house and she's so sweet, 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:02.120 and she sent me a text. Gosh, I've been working 0:17:02.160 --> 0:17:06.439 with her for years years now, like four maybe at 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:09.679 least or going on five, and I feel like that's 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:13.320 a good consistent relationship and I adore her. And she 0:17:13.480 --> 0:17:16.159 was really sweet and she was like, I'm so excited 0:17:16.240 --> 0:17:18.520 to be cleaning your friend's house. Like next time I come, 0:17:18.600 --> 0:17:21.840 I want to give you like a little discount, and 0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:24.320 I thought, Okay, you don't have to do that, but 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:26.760 I just thought that it's also a good business practice 0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:29.000 for her because she knows like word of mouth is 0:17:29.200 --> 0:17:30.800 the best. Is that how the fast you can do 0:17:31.920 --> 0:17:34.480 no no business part in the mailbox? 0:17:34.600 --> 0:17:37.879 Yes, okay, Well I will say that has been so 0:17:37.960 --> 0:17:39.600 helpful because that's one of those things that I'm like, 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:43.679 I can do it myself. There's something about having somebody else. Well, 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:44.880 you're my house looks. 0:17:44.760 --> 0:17:48.560 New now, working full time, your husband works full time 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:52.879 on mensayah, And like I think for y'all it makes sense. 0:17:53.000 --> 0:17:56.480 I think anytime you can outsource stuff, that is going 0:17:56.600 --> 0:17:58.640 to take stuff off of your plate. 0:17:58.720 --> 0:18:01.240 And you can and I give trying back. Yeah, because 0:18:01.320 --> 0:18:03.960 for her, cleaning my shower probably takes her, what fifteen minutes, 0:18:03.960 --> 0:18:06.840 It would take me four hours, you know, because she 0:18:06.960 --> 0:18:10.119 probably has better skills. And I'm like using Patrick's like, 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:12.400 do you clean everything with Windex? And I'm like kind 0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:13.159 of yes. 0:18:13.280 --> 0:18:18.600 It's like everything my big fat Greek weddings cleaning my house. 0:18:18.640 --> 0:18:20.720 We're furniture with windex. He's like, what are you doing. 0:18:20.800 --> 0:18:23.200 I'm like, it's just it's wet and it's getting the 0:18:23.240 --> 0:18:24.240 dirt off, like. 0:18:24.440 --> 0:18:26.159 Oh, well, I'm glad she's gonna be able to help you, 0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:28.320