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Speaker 1: All right, break it down.

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Speaker 2: If you ever have feelings that you just won't Amy

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Speaker 2: and Cat got your cob and locking no brother, ladies

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Speaker 2: and fels, you just follow an the spirit where it's

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Speaker 2: all the front over real stuff to the chill stuff

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Speaker 3: Sometimes the best thing you can do it just.

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Speaker 2: Stop you feel things. This is Feeling Things with Amy

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Speaker 2: and Kat.

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Speaker 1: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things.

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Speaker 3: I'm Amy and I'm Kat.

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Speaker 1: And our feeling of the day, well, I think we

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Speaker 1: both have them. This is like last time you want

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Speaker 1: to just say I'm on the count of three because

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Speaker 1: I have two, pick your main one and go on

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Speaker 1: the count of three. One, okay, two, three?

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Speaker 3: Worry okay? Cool? I thought you were gonna go with

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Speaker 3: the other feelings. Well that one is curious, okay, And

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Speaker 3: I said worried so same reason.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Happy because Chase is in town and he's running

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Speaker 1: our video today.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Jas, I wish I could flip the.

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Speaker 1: Can I know you can't. So this is fun. If

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Speaker 1: you've listened to this podcast feed for years and years,

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Speaker 1: it was four Things with Amy Brown and Chase before

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Speaker 1: Kat was the co host on the bonus episode for

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Speaker 1: that podcast called The Fifth Thing. Before you were the

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Speaker 1: co host, Chase would do The Fifth Thing with me

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Speaker 1: every week for several of them, a lot, a lot

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Speaker 1: like Yeah, I don't know that it was consistent every week,

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Speaker 1: part of the podcast family. And he happens to be

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Speaker 1: in town, so he's running our camera and I'm curious

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Speaker 1: because I want to know where Amy Bradley is. And

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Speaker 1: I think that maybe is why you're worried.

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Speaker 3: It's why I'm worried. Okay, you're worried about her, well, sure,

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Speaker 3: but more worried. It seems a little suck us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're feeling sus.

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Speaker 3: And you know what I'm not ever doing now?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, you can go on a cruise. I will

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Speaker 1: be on on next February, the Bobby Bone Show cruise.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that cruise sounds like it's gonna be very safe

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Speaker 3: and great. But can I share some I don't spoil anything.

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Speaker 3: You know, I ruined Sex in the City for everybody, Well,

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Speaker 3: you didn't, really.

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Speaker 1: And also that Amy Bradley's story has been around since

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Speaker 1: nineteen ninety eight and the doctor generies now gaining attention

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Speaker 1: because this particular documentary there are other things out there

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Speaker 1: who a couple of decades with the family and how

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Speaker 1: stuff has changed. And in the Netflix documentary we learned

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Speaker 1: that she is gay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and apparently her parents don't want people to know that.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's information now, but you would think you would

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Speaker 1: want the world to know that from the get go,

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Speaker 1: in case any information could be helpful. But apparently, allegedly

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Speaker 1: in previous interviews, interviews or documentaries or things, it wasn't

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Speaker 1: disclosed that she was gay. In fact, even at one

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well soon My parents were not into it in

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Speaker 1: But what's your deal?

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Speaker 3: Okay, if you haven't watched the documentary, I don't think

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Speaker 3: I'm ruined anything, but like, don't you think the crew

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Speaker 1: I think that he probably wasn't his mindset, his thought

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Speaker 1: this family is in denial. I don't know what they're

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Speaker 3: You don't think those pictures were.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I'm not telling you what I think. I'm

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Speaker 1: followed this case far longer than I. I'm I'm a

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Speaker 3: Or does that them again? Okay, I have a couple

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Speaker 1: Sadly she's not found. It's almost like this is the

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Speaker 3: I would hope that my family would never give up

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Speaker 1: And if there were eyewitnesses that claim to see you

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Speaker 3: This is what I'm worried about, though, Yellow's daughter. Don't

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Speaker 1: Well, some people that haven't seen it, they're like, who's yellow?

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Speaker 3: to Amy? If this guy is that powerful and he

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Speaker 1: People that haven't watched it, they're probably not as worried

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Speaker 1: call us. We need to call that a lie. Obviously.

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Speaker 1: That's what I meant to find their number and try

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Speaker 3: You know what I was happy to see though, because

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Speaker 3: in these types of documentaries they always interview everybody separately.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I love that too.

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Speaker 3: Well, I think that is very different. Your children didn't

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Speaker 3: one time thing. It's not like a week you could

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Speaker 1: And for me curtains in my house because I've lived

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Speaker 3: And have you ever hung a curtain rod yourself?

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Speaker 1: No? Okay, but I have very hard Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: This might also be you doing that thing where we

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Speaker 1: So is that like a thing you didn't know about me?

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Speaker 1: If I'd ever hung a curtain.

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Speaker 3: wonder if Amy's ever hung a curtain rod. That's something

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Speaker 1: No, I don't you play games? You you have you

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Speaker 3: I wonder what's gonna so I guess maybe we're getting

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Speaker 3: So can I share something again that's not going to

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Speaker 1: And we were liars.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, Okay, wasn't I close?

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Speaker 1: You were very close. You were very close. I was

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Speaker 3: You're right, So I just I just want that on

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Speaker 1: But now we have yeah, family of Life.

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Speaker 3: So this is going to sound weird. I'm proud of

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Speaker 3: And you can and I give trying back. Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: But I'm proud of you too, thank you, especially with

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Speaker 3: Money finds its way to circulate around me.

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Speaker 1: People want to buy your house. Your house is very desirable.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you need to run subliminals while people

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Speaker 3: You'd have music. You should do it because you're really

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Speaker 1: Well no, I mean you'd have to make them. But

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Speaker 3: Your stuff would look great in this house.

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Speaker 1: Can't you imagine yourself so many fun family memories around

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Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, Okay, that's a great idea.

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Speaker 1: Have you heard of playing I don't know, it's a

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Speaker 3: Mean it's great, like it can't hurt. It can hurt

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Speaker 1: Is this a new business we have? We could market

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Speaker 1: it to realtors, buy our subliminals.

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Speaker 3: You'll sell so many houses, so many We could sell

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Speaker 1: Science backed.

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Speaker 3: We didn't need to say that, therapist backed. We want

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Speaker 1: I was joking.

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Speaker 3: Okay, inside joke. No, I think we should do it.

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Speaker 3: If it works, then we'll do it, because then we'll

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Speaker 3: have a testimony.

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Speaker 1: Perfect. Yeah, your house.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I played them in my house and it's sold

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Speaker 3: in seven days. Okay.

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00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:04,440
Speaker 1: One thing I'm grateful for is dot dot dot?

441
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,239
Speaker 3: Did I for tell you the one time I got

442
00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:18,840
Speaker 3: in a fight. Did I for tell you the one

443
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:20,679
Speaker 3: time I got in a fight with my ex boyfriend

444
00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,560
Speaker 3: because he asked me this question? He abandoned me at

445
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:27,840
Speaker 3: church and drove off. Wait what yeah, Oh, sometimes this

446
00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:29,399
Speaker 3: question triggers me a little bit.

447
00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:31,040
Speaker 1: Oh, I did not mean to do that, So no,

448
00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,399
Speaker 1: I can work through it a little backstory though. I

449
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:35,960
Speaker 1: don't know how much you say about this ex boyfriend's

450
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:39,119
Speaker 1: personality because obviously he's not diagnosed of anything. But he

451
00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:44,000
Speaker 1: was not He was not kind to you. Yeah, toxic traits.

452
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,879
Speaker 3: Toxic traits. So we were on our way to church

453
00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:49,840
Speaker 3: and he asked me, what are you grateful for? I

454
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:51,720
Speaker 3: think he was trying to do something cute or something.

455
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,720
Speaker 3: What are you grateful for today? I think? I said,

456
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:56,800
Speaker 3: that's such a weird question, and I was about to say,

457
00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:01,280
Speaker 3: because there's so many things I'm grateful for. He lost

458
00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:04,480
Speaker 3: it and was like, how dare you say that was

459
00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:08,640
Speaker 3: a weird question? So disrespectful, and then he started saying

460
00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:10,840
Speaker 3: loud of like mean things and like curse words, and

461
00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:13,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my gosh, I couldn't pick one thing.

462
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:16,040
Speaker 3: So he was like, I can't even be around you.

463
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 3: Drop me off at church, left, ain't drove off. I

464
00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:21,320
Speaker 3: don't know how I got home.

465
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 1: How much longer did you date him after that incident?

466
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:26,680
Speaker 3: If I don't know, couldn't have been more than a

467
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 3: couple months.

468
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 1: You don't know how you got back home. I mean,

469
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:30,960
Speaker 1: let's just say you got to ride from a friend

470
00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,560
Speaker 1: like that. Heart's not important. What was the I mean,

471
00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 1: obviously you getting home, it's important. I don't want to

472
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 1: a Netflix special of where is kat a Fauna? Because yeah,

473
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:43,119
Speaker 1: that would be terrible, But once you got home or

474
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 1: your next interaction with him. Sheldon lived together, but like

475
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:48,320
Speaker 1: what was that? Like, Like, hey, why did you leave

476
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:48,920
Speaker 1: me at church?

477
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 3: And oh no, I think I got myself and left.

478
00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 3: I must have like called him after church. Maybe I ubered.

479
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 3: This was so long ago, but I do know that

480
00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:02,239
Speaker 3: I got my stuff and left. My car was at

481
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 3: his apartment, so somehow I got back to my the apartment,

482
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 3: got my stuff, a hat, a key too apartment, got

483
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 3: myself and left and then he sent me an apology

484
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:12,920
Speaker 3: and it was probably like I'll buy you the world.

485
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:18,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're like, okay, does it include a house keeper?

486
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:22,959
Speaker 3: You probably did have a housekeeper anyway, I'm one. Am

487
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 3: I grateful for it that I'm not dating him and

488
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 3: I'm married to my current husband.

489
00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 1: Praise the Lord. That's a crazy story and that I

490
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 1: see now how that question could be triggering.

491
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 3: I'm sorry you could triggering. It's just I think every

492
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 3: time somebody asked me that, I'm like, oh remember that

493
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 3: one time.

494
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 1: I know. But I don't want you to have to

495
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:41,359
Speaker 1: think of him if you don't need to. So you

496
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:45,280
Speaker 1: can omit this from your monthly check ins, my affirmation

497
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 1: and how that you say that. I do recall you

498
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 1: telling me that story years ago, and I couldn't but

499
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have been able to regurgitate that. But that

500
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 1: is such a good story. Not good, but you know

501
00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 1: what I mean, cool story.

502
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,880
Speaker 3: No, it's crazy. Yeah, it's great, That's what I mean. Yeah,

503
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 3: but I have a lot of stories about him that

504
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 3: are crazy.

505
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: No, but it's like I would think I would never

506
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 1: forget that story because it's so you know, cuckoo.

507
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 3: What I think that relationship was very much. It developed

508
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 3: the plot of my own story, you know how, Like

509
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,119
Speaker 3: the kids will say, I do it for the plot.

510
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:17,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, I dated him for the plot, for sure.

511
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:22,439
Speaker 1: Do you know how many more yeah, it's cool. How

512
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 1: many more interesting things could I gather? Or cool not cool,

513
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 1: crazy stories can I get from this relationship?

514
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,719
Speaker 3: I mean, it's an embarrassing It was not a good relationship.

515
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 1: No, but it maybe it kept life interesting.

516
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I will say I'm a big believer in this,

517
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 3: not throwing the baby out with the bathwater. I have

518
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 3: a lot of good memories from that relationship too. Obviously

519
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:49,639
Speaker 3: there was something good about it, else I wouldn't have

520
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 3: been in it for as long as I was but

521
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 3: he took me to Disney World.

522
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 1: That's fun.

523
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was fun. That was fun. Yeah.

524
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 1: Was he a love bomber?

525
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh his first gift? Well, first of all,

526
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 3: our first date was the day before my birthday.

527
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 1: I love how I asked, was he a love bomber?

528
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 3: When like, obviously obviously he was. He brought a birthday

529
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,359
Speaker 3: card to our first date. So my birthdays in December,

530
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 3: so Christmas is right after that. The first gift he

531
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 3: gave me was like a very large sum of money

532
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 3: to able so I can pick out a purse because

533
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 3: I mentioned that I wanted a bag from there. Very large.

534
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 3: I don't want to say what it is because that

535
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 3: feels weird, but like it was like enough to buy

536
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 3: a person then something else like and to me back then,

537
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 3: and that was a lot of money. I mean, it

538
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 3: is a lot of money. Yeah, somebody been dating for

539
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 3: two weeks. It was weird. I was like, I wasn't

540
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 3: going to get you anything. And then he took me

541
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 3: on a trip to Asheville at the end of December.

542
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,440
Speaker 3: We were dating for like three weeks, so yeah, he was.

543
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 3: He was a gift bomber, and I did like that.

544
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,639
Speaker 1: We were like I didn't hate it, But that's how

545
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: they get in this person. They hook you and not

546
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: even that you're in this material at person where it's like,

547
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:04,880
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm a little data. Affirmation worked in there

548
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah, yeah, so you're grateful he's gone. Speaking

549
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:13,119
Speaker 1: of affirmation, that's the next check in my affirmation for

550
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: the next month.

551
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:16,879
Speaker 3: Is does mine have to be subliminal? Subliminal?

552
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: No?

553
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 3: Okay, I would like to tell myself one thing at

554
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,399
Speaker 3: a time, like, do one task at a time, like

555
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 3: you can do time, you can do well here, how

556
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 3: about this one task at a time is enough?

557
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 1: So what's up with that? No? I want to know

558
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 1: more behind it. I'm curious, No, this caut.

559
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 3: I'm feeling judged, So what's up with that?

560
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: Sorry, s Iv, I was not that.

561
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 3: If I get that, I'm messing with you.

562
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 1: If that came across sib, I didn't, okay, because a

563
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,160
Speaker 1: little bit, I quite literally was doing that thing where

564
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,200
Speaker 1: you said, if you get a question about let me

565
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 1: ask you.

566
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 3: Oh, you have to say questions that don't come up,

567
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 3: questions and don't come up. What's up with that?

568
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 1: Why are you wanting to do one thing at a

569
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: time or one thing at a time is enough? Like

570
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: I want more details.

571
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 3: Because I think this is twofold. It's in the large

572
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 3: scale and the small scale, because you know, I have

573
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:21,119
Speaker 3: a lot of huge life things happening. Yeah, so I'm

574
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,400
Speaker 3: getting lost sometimes in like, let's just say, with a move,

575
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 3: I'm like making Pinterest boards for my dining room, which

576
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 3: is gonna be like the last room that I redo

577
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 3: in this house, versus like focus on you need to

578
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,719
Speaker 3: have bedroom furniture that fits this house, or you need

579
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:39,959
Speaker 3: to hire a mover to even get there kind of thing.

580
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 3: So like one thing at a time, right, like is enough?

581
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 3: I want to do it all? And I think large

582
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 3: scale is like the move and then these other big

583
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 3: things in my life. I'm like feel like I have

584
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 3: to get everything sorted out at the same time. Right,

585
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:57,400
Speaker 3: Does that make sense? Yes, So getting one thing accomplished,

586
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 3: like calling a mover. I did message the movers and

587
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 3: they really like to call immediately, and I wasn't prepared

588
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 3: for that type of like eye eagerness. I thought they

589
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 3: were going to text me back or something. So I

590
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 3: messaged like four of them and then I got immediately

591
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:15,959
Speaker 3: like seven phone calls. So it was like one thing

592
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 3: at a time is enough I messaged them. I don't

593
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,159
Speaker 3: have to talk to them yet. So if I just

594
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 3: got a mover scheduled, that would be okay. Then I

595
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 3: can sit down. I don't have to like check everything

596
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 3: off the list. Okay. So yeah, that was that a

597
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 3: good answer?

598
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:34,120
Speaker 1: Yes, whatever answer you gave would be the good one, SIB.

599
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

600
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 1: To be clarified what that means in case someone's new

601
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: today not today, SIB is just a quick way that

602
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 1: Kat and I call each other out in case one

603
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: of us is acting or maybe we know we're acting bitchy. Yeah,

604
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 1: so it's just real quick SIB like sorry, I bit.

605
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:54,400
Speaker 1: So she can say it to me, I can say

606
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: it to her, and then it also brings some levity

607
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 1: to a situation that may feel it e.

608
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 3: Yeah. I think it's gonna make it easy if you're

609
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 3: being SIV for me to be like SIB versus.

610
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 1: Like oh you know, yeah, like hey, is everything okay? Yeah,

611
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: it's more like hey SIB. It's like SIB check in,

612
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 1: Like these are like check ins that you can do

613
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 1: every month, but you could do SIB check in daily, hourly. Yeah,

614
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: sometimes with anybody in your life.

615
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 3: SIB.

616
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, by minute, by the minute. I fluctuate sometimes just

617
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 1: depending on what's going on.

618
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 3: It can be that fast you say I'm in it

619
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 3: by the minute.

620
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: Oh, I mean like do a check in by the minute? Oh,

621
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 1: like you could be not SIB and then sixty seconds

622
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: later SIB sort of like just then I didn't feel SIB,

623
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 1: and then within sixty seconds, I guess I gave sib vibes.

624
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: Which I think there's a major difference in giving SIB

625
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 1: vibes and actually being SIB, because sometimes it could just

626
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: be misinterpreted.

627
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 3: And sometimes like I make a weird face. I don't

628
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 3: mean to make it, you know, and then.

629
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: I feel judged, yes, and you're like, no, that's just

630
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 1: the w F your face.

631
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 3: It's just not having botox anymore. Yeah, weird fase. Okay, Sorry,

632
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 3: you can say WF and I'm like, no, that actually

633
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 3: was sip. Okay.

634
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 1: One habit I cultivated this month was.

635
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 3: I don't know if I should say what I was

636
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 3: going to say.

637
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: Why do you don't think it could hurt you?

638
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 3: Okay?

639
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: I didn't know what it was until you just asked me.

640
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 1: So I looked down and read it because you typed it.

641
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 1: But I had tried to stay away from it. I'm

642
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 1: gonna save that one for later. I'm gonna save that

643
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 1: one until after what I hope is going to happen

644
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: and happens. Okay, so that'll be a good contract. I

645
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: will say it is very entertaining.

646
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm going to keep you guys in your toes.

647
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: This habit you cultivated, I wouldn't even call it a

648
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 1: habbit you cultivated. It's a hobby.

649
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 3: It's now a hobby. It's become a hobby. Yeah, it's

650
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 3: become very time consuming. It's a time consuming heaby. Yeah,

651
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 3: but you're not the only one that's ever done it. Yeah,

652
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 3: but I don't think people tell Oh and also I

653
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 3: think you're doing it in a very normal way. I

654
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 3: think other people have gone next level and they do

655
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 3: like other things.

656
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 1: Okay, if you guys want to guess what it is,

657
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 1: but also will clarify it's nothing illegal or dirty. Yeah,

658
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 1: because that sounded weird when I was, like, other people

659
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: do things. Okay, So do you have another habit, another.

660
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 3: Habit I've cultivated this month? I don't think I've cultivated it.

661
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 3: What was yours? Lay at?

662
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 1: I've been trying to stretch more mine was stretching more,

663
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: but then that ended up like I stretched for a

664
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Speaker 1: second and then I lay.

665
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 3: Okay, here's a habit, and this is all thanks to

666
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 3: like everything revolves around stelling my house. I am cleaning

667
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 3: my dishes and putting them immediately away right now instead

668
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 3: of like leaving them out to dry, I'm like drying

669
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 3: them and put them putting them away. And here's the

670
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 3: habit I've cultivated. I've done it twice, Shannon.

671
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: Can you look up what how many times do you

672
00:30:58,000 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 1: do something where it takes it?

673
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 3: And I'm cultivating this habit.

674
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: Okay, there you go.

675
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 3: I'm folding my laundry as soon as it's done, putting

676
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 3: it away and putting it away. Yeah. Yeah, I'll take

677
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 3: it a step farther. I'm putting it away.

678
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 1: Okay, that's what I need to do because I love

679
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: doing laundry, and then I don't put it away, so

680
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: then I form neat piles all over the place. I'm

681
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: not messy about it, but sometimes my closet can get

682
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 1: pretty messy. But like if you go up to my

683
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 1: room and now I've got a pile like sitting on

684
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: a chair, Well, you.

685
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 3: Don't like doing laundry. You like putting laundry in the

686
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 3: laundry machine?

687
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 1: Then what are you saying? I know what I like

688
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: and I like doing laundry. I like doing laundry. Why

689
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:41,360
Speaker 1: are you saying I don't like it?

690
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 3: I love what is laundry? Laundry machine too? Because he

691
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 3: feels like I'm doing something, but then I'm like, really

692
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 3: just taking this mess and putting it in this Do

693
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 3: you like sorting?

694
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 1: Do you like sorting the colors?

695
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 3: I don't think it takes a lot of time. I

696
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 3: just don't get because I don't not like it. I

697
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 3: don't get a high off of it.

698
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 1: I don't think you like laundry like I do. I

699
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 1: like laundry.

700
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 3: You what do you like about laundry?

701
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 1: Because I am I doing it.

702
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 3: I like it.

703
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: I just don't always put everything away right away. But

704
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 1: some people dread laundry, and there their laundry piles up

705
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: and then they have lots of it to do. I

706
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 1: try to stay ahead of it.

707
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 3: Okay, I like laundry. Believe you. I'm sorry.

708
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: Okay, Shannon said, there isn't a fixed number of times

709
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: you need to repeat in action for it to be

710
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 1: considered a habit, but research, Oh suggest it can take

711
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 1: anywhere from eighteen to two hundred and fifty four days

712
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 1: for something to become a habit.

713
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 3: I'm on days like seven, so I'm almost halfway there.

714
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: Like on my little bull balls that I put in

715
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 1: my dryer because I quit using dryer sheets.

716
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 3: Do they work?

717
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 1: Yeah?

718
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 3: Okay, well what do they do? I don't know? Sure

719
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 3: the stuff not staticky?

720
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: No, I still have static. Oh maybe maybe I need

721
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: to update my balls because.

722
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 3: That's under sounds like it.

723
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 1: But I think they wear down, so I might need

724
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: you to get fresh wool balls fresh balls. But what

725
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: I've been doing and it's so lovely is and maybe

726
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 1: Shannon even gave you this tip is I put so see,

727
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: I enjoyed my laundry experience. I saw it drops of

728
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 1: vanilla essential oil. That's all I could think of, was

729
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: vanilla ectually. Okay, vanilla essential oil. And it's a little

730
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,959
Speaker 1: dropper and I drop it onto the balls and then

731
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 1: I put them in there. And then your laundry smells

732
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 1: like whatever essential oil you want, which I opted for vanilla,

733
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 1: And I think that's a lovely scent because my laundry

734
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 1: is very boring now that my skin is sensitive so

735
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 1: to avoid the rash that I was getting, I have

736
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 1: unscented plain the detergent and no dryer sheets. So I

737
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 1: love that the little vanilla essential oil on the balls

738
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: helps my laundry. It's like more fun. Like every load

739
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:58,479
Speaker 1: I go in there and I give it a new

740
00:33:58,520 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: little drop.

741
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 3: Arm this book listening to this book called The Tenant.

742
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 3: I'm reading this book listening to this book called The

743
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:22,240
Speaker 3: Tenant by Freedom McFadden. And I'm bringing this up because

744
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 3: he is allergic to every like what's it called logiturgent,

745
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:32,360
Speaker 3: and somebody's sabotaging him by pouring out his detergent and

746
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 3: pouring in lemon scented detergent and it's giving him a

747
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 3: very large rash. Just this is fiction, yes, okay, yes,

748
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 3: but that's how they're like, if you ever want to

749
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 3: sabotage Amy, switch out her, No, because.

750
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: I would open it up and I would smell the limon. Okay.

751
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 3: That's why I was like, Okay, this is not like

752
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 3: he would smell that his clothes smell good. But you know,

753
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 3: Patrick likes to say suspend disbelief.

754
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 1: That reminds me of something my daughter wanted to do.

755
00:34:56,000 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 1: My son claims to be lactose intolerant and we mean claims, well,

756
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: we've never had it tested, but he self diagnosed him,

757
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 1: so I roll with it. You want the Lactaid or

758
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 1: the A two milk like which is lactose free or

759
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 1: easier to digest on your stomach, so we buy that,

760
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,879
Speaker 1: and then Sashia has her normal milk and they both

761
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 1: go through enough of the milk to where they can

762
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: each other own or whatever. So it's fine. But Sashiro's like,

763
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,359
Speaker 1: I have one of my containers and he has an

764
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 1: empty one. Can I pour my milk into his lactaid

765
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 1: milk and watch him drink it for a week and

766
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 1: see if he has a reaction, because if he doesn't

767
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,239
Speaker 1: react and it's mental like because he sees it in

768
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 1: the specific container, then we'll know, like if he's not like, oh, mom,

769
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: my stomach hurts or a mom, I have to go

770
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 1: to the bathroom or I'm itchy, you know. And I

771
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: was like, Sashira, I can't do that. I love your

772
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:58,479
Speaker 1: little plan here, but that seems cruel, and she's like smart,

773
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: she goes, I'm telling you, I'm not wrong. It's not

774
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: real and I don't know and I should probably take

775
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 1: the time to get it officially.

776
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, a better way is to actually test it. But

777
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 3: I mean she's been creative. Yes, it's sounds very sisterly.

778
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,360
Speaker 1: Yes, So I just that made me think about the

779
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 1: switching out without him, and I couldn't allow it.

780
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 3: But she does do that one day without your permission.

781
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 1: She may have, like I don't know, she already did it.

782
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: Who knows if she has. He's fine, Yeah, he's okay.

783
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 1: Dryer balls bull Dryer balls offer several benefits, including reducing

784
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: drying time, softening clothes, minimizing static cling, and helping reduce sprinkles.

785
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,399
Speaker 3: So I need to get those because I stopped using

786
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 3: dryer sheets. Yeah, but now my clothes are just really staticky.

787
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 1: Sometimes mine still are. But again, maybe I don't have

788
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: enough balls in there. But to refresh your balls, I

789
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:54,280
Speaker 1: need to google laundry load and number of balls because

790
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: then if I only have one or two, and maybe

791
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 1: it needed for because they come in like a six pack.

792
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,799
Speaker 1: So I have and they're sneaky little suckers because they

793
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: get caught in sleeves and they in sheet so then

794
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: they end up upstairs because if the kids put them

795
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 1: in their laundry basket and then they never so they

796
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: or Kara my dog starts playing with them. So it's

797
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 1: just gonna have extra on hand. Oh okay, Shannon says,

798
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: here for larger loads, you do need five or six balls.

799
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 1: How I do you have? I normally only do like

800
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 1: two or three miles. I mean I have more, but

801
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,920
Speaker 1: maybe that's why I've got the static. This is riveting.

802
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:29,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, we are post this episode two. Your friends.

803
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: Share this with at least one person in your life,

804
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 1: because it's gonna change everything. Clothing, it's gonna change everything.

805
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 1: Or maybe they have a rash because I lived with

806
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:45,439
Speaker 1: my rash for a long time thinking it was something else.

807
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 3: That's how life is.

808
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:49,959
Speaker 1: I now bathe an unscented soap, which Chase is staying

809
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,800
Speaker 1: in my house, and you're probably gonna be like in

810
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 1: the guests side guest bathroom, Well, it's all I had.

811
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: I just have these bars of soap, and I was

812
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 1: out of body washing air and I wanted to like

813
00:37:58,000 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 1: put a fresh towel in there for Chase and make

814
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: sure that shampoo conditioner like whatever. And then I was like, oh,

815
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 1: and here's a boring box of soap unscented playing to

816
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 1: be really disappointed. You get your own bar.

817
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:11,800
Speaker 3: He's like, I'm going to a hotel, this place, socks this,

818
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 3: what is this?

819
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 1: And unscented laundry my sheet? These sheets don't laundry mat Yeah,

820
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: I know so, but but someone else out there, they

821
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 1: may have a rash and they may be like what

822
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: do I do? And this is gonna potentially help them.

823
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 1: You need to just decent your life.

824
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,360
Speaker 3: It reminds me of when I like got glasses for

825
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 3: the first time. I thought that's how everybody saw and

826
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:39,800
Speaker 3: I remember putting glasses on and I could see it

827
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 3: an assembly and I was like, oh no, you can

828
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 3: see the people talking. They're doing a bunny race too,

829
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 3: and I was like, you can people can see the

830
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 3: bunnies up there.

831
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 1: So wait, how is this?

832
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 3: It makes sense to make out like you thought that

833
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 3: like life was just this way you had to live

834
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 3: with this rash and then you're like, no, people are

835
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 3: rap free, and then yeah, it's the same same. That's amazing.

836
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's definitely the same. Anyway, one thing, wait, are

837
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 1: we still on our put Okay? And here this is

838
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:18,720
Speaker 1: back to the dryer balls. This is the Feeling Things podcast.

839
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: And also what I think you'll notice in this if

840
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,840
Speaker 1: you do this activity with your friend or your partner

841
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 1: or your kids. Is it's like you learn things about

842
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 1: each other, but also conversations come up, feelings come up,

843
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 1: and this is just a way to add more of

844
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:36,800
Speaker 1: that into your life. A little activity there which you

845
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:39,879
Speaker 1: know that girl, Chelsea explains on I think I showed

846
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 1: her to you. You are the one that introduced me

847
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:43,279
Speaker 1: to her, Yes, you are.

848
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 3: I found her on b there in five.

849
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: Okay, well she popped up with some hack. She's all

850
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 1: about hacks, like everything's a hack, and she's like, and

851
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 1: this is like a fun hack. She's like, it's something

852
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 1: my friends and I used to do back in college

853
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:59,399
Speaker 1: when the nights were just mundane, like everything was starting

854
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 1: to feel the same and we wanted to spice things

855
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: up so they would be out. And they started playing

856
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 1: instead of Truth or Dare Dare or Dare Stop It,

857
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 1: Stop It?

858
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 3: Did she really do this? Yeah, if my friends are listening,

859
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 3: they're gonna freak out.

860
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: Why did y'all play there or Dare?

861
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:19,879
Speaker 3: Because my favorite game is truth or Truth? Oh but man,

862
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 3: my friends won't play it with me. I'm like, okay, guys,

863
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 3: it's got time for truth or truth and They're like,

864
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 3: we don't want to do the truth, and I'm like, okay,

865
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 3: well then pick a truth. They don't want to do

866
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 3: a truth, so I just play with myself, so.

867
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's another way to do it. So there's

868
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: truth or dare, and I guess there is an option

869
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 1: of truth or truth.

870
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 3: But nobody usually wants to do the dares.

871
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: Well. She explained it like with when you're out with

872
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 1: your friends, dare or dare is fun because there are

873
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: rules around it, like you can't do something so ridiculous

874
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 1: or something that is hurtful to anybody. It's supposed to

875
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 1: be lighthearted and fun. Like a dare might be I

876
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 1: dare you to walk up to that person and just

877
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 1: give them a compliment, to be genuine, like oh, I

878
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 1: really love your and that might be uncomfortable for someone

879
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 1: to be like I love your shoes, or the next

880
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 1: guy or girl that walks by you have to say, hey,

881
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 1: love your outfit, or hey, so good to see you.

882
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's innocent but still spices things up and

883
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 1: then sort of has a snowball effect like you never

884
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: know where it's gonna lead, sort of like this activity,

885
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,839
Speaker 1: this check in, we don't know where it's gonna lead.

886
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 3: I'll see if my friends will pay dare or dare.

887
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,360
Speaker 3: If you were to be playing truth or dare, what

888
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 3: are you picking?

889
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:33,240
Speaker 1: What depends?

890
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 3: I mean, sorry, if you're if you're playing truth ordare?

891
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 3: Did I say dare?

892
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: You don't say truth or dare? And I said it

893
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 1: depends because I would with it. Maybe probably who I'm with,

894
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 1: how comfortable I feel telling a truth to them, depending

895
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 1: on what the question is going to be. And then

896
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 1: I guess if the dare is safe, like it's just

897
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 1: supposed to be a fun dare, I probably choose the

898
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: dare because that might lead to more laughter and fun.

899
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: And you know me, I'm a fun person.

900
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 3: I'm on, we should have a dare dare Knight.

901
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: Oh so this makes me think of something that could

902
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: have been a dare.

903
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 3: Oh so you know what I'm saying.

904
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: Okay, the guy that came up to me, Okay, so

905
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 1: I was out with my kids. We went to church and.

906
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 3: Then we went to date.

907
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 1: It could have been a dare or dare. Okay, because

908
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: the way this happened, it was so bizarre.

909
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 3: Because I'm with my kids.

910
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 1: I could see him being around the corner with his buddy,

911
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: I dare you to go up to her wall. She's

912
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 1: with her kids, Like, how awkward that would that be?

913
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 1: And he comes up and in front of the kids,

914
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 1: gives me his card and says he doesn't know my situation.

915
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 1: Obviously I don't have a wedding ring on. But he's like,

916
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,320
Speaker 1: I hope you call, and I just like took the

917
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,799
Speaker 1: cards off those I didn't know. I mean, he said

918
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 1: something else, but I think I'm too embarrassed to say it.

919
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:47,439
Speaker 3: And he said it in front of you. No stop

920
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 3: staring at you? Yes?

921
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 2: Yes?

922
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 1: Why is that a lie?

923
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 3: Is that a lie?

924
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 1: Did your toxic boyfriend say that to you? No? Oh,

925
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 1: but I'm with my son and daughter, which maybe he

926
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: doesn't he didn't know they were my kids, but in

927
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 1: front of my kids, hand me a card and say

928
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: I couldn't stop looking at you inside.

929
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 3: There, like wait, looking at you or staring at you?

930
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:08,320
Speaker 1: They feel looking Maybe we need to pull one of

931
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 1: the kids in and ask I couldn't stop looking at him,

932
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 1: you said staring because staring would sound creepy. He was like,

933
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,759
Speaker 1: I couldn't stop looking at you in there, like in

934
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 1: the restaurant, And then so do you.

935
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 3: Think he knew who you were, No, because he didn't

936
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:21,279
Speaker 3: know my name? What were you wearing?

937
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 1: My church clothes? Very like like I'm going to describe

938
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 1: it and you're be like, wow, what is your religion?

939
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: It is a very long skirt with a white shirt

940
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 1: and a cardigan over it, and my hair back in

941
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: a bun like so and sandals. So yeah, my toes

942
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: were showing. Yeah, but he didn't say like, he didn't say.

943
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:58,280
Speaker 1: He didn't say I couldn't stop looking at your feet.

944
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 3: Well, that would be weird, I can.

945
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 1: Anyway, he gave me a card.

946
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 3: What did you feel like?

947
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: Shocked that someone would do that in front of my kids?

948
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 3: I don't think that's so he was shooting a shot.

949
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:11,360
Speaker 3: I don't know.

950
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 1: I don't think you shoot your shot in front of

951
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: the kids.

952
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 3: Okay, I do not know your situation.

953
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 1: What if Stevensan's like, oh what if I was married?

954
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:20,919
Speaker 1: And she was like, ah, she's with my dad.

955
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 3: Okay, that's okay, that's weird too. But when my friends

956
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 3: just told me about a story where her brother saw

957
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 3: somebody at like a deli of sorts and she he

958
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:32,360
Speaker 3: was with his kids, and she was with her kids

959
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 3: and her family, and he wrote his number down and

960
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 3: gave it to her and she called, Okay, well, he

961
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 3: that's bold. I think it's it could be weird, but

962
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:43,840
Speaker 3: luckily well.

963
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 1: Speaking of my kids' dads, I can't share this story exactly.

964
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 1: This is not mine to tell. But my ex husband

965
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 1: is dating somewhere around and they got together in a

966
00:44:50,680 --> 00:45:04,479
Speaker 1: very interesting way. My ex husband is dating somewhere around

967
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 1: and they got together in a very interesting way.

968
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 3: Oh, like very I have to get this story, but

969
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:12,839
Speaker 3: it's so crazy. I guess I kind of did that too.

970
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: You did, so hey, it's more of a coming come back.

971
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 3: Okay, wait with us. So you felt shocked? Were you flattered? Yeah?

972
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 1: I mean I think anybody would be flattered by that.

973
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: Unless now I'm thinking it was a dare or dare.

974
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 3: What time of day was it was after church?

975
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 1: Yes, so probably one o'clock. You know he's there, dare,

976
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 1: dare with a friendly way, brave, But that could be

977
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: a dare or dare to do do you see, like,

978
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 1: if you're out with your friends and your single whatever,

979
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,279
Speaker 1: it's harmless, or if nobody's gonna get hurt, you'd be like,

980
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 1: you have to go up to this guy and give

981
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 1: him your business card and be like, but then they

982
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: have your information, so that's dangerous.

983
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 3: Fake one. Oh yeah, find somebody else's business card.

984
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then that's then they call that person.

985
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 3: It's like, you give me your number, and they're like

986
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 3: when I didn't, Oh yeah, that's good. Yeah. Wait, that'sn't mean.

987
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:04,360
Speaker 3: That's mean, don't do that.

988
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 1: I don't have the card. Because then later I went

989
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:09,360
Speaker 1: and met up with my boyfriend and his family and

990
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:11,919
Speaker 1: my kids. We went celebrate and I was getting something

991
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: out of my bag and I'd put the business card

992
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: in my bag and I pulled it out. I mean,

993
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 1: it was only a few hours later. I wasn't keeping it.

994
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 3: Wait, you didn't say like, oh I'm seeing somebody. I did.

995
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 3: I froze.

996
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 1: I froze. I really didn't say anything. I just said oh.

997
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 1: I kept looking at Stevens and Sashira and I looked

998
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 1: at him and it happened so fast, and I was

999
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: like okay, and I just put it in my bag

1000
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,800
Speaker 1: and then we walked away. And then and when I

1001
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 1: walked away, I felt bad. I was like, oh my gosh, Like,

1002
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:41,760
Speaker 1: why didn't I say I have a boyfriend.

1003
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 3: Yelled back at him, I have a boyfriend.

1004
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: I thought about that. I thought about that because we

1005
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:49,839
Speaker 1: were walking away, and I was like, I feel bad,

1006
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:50,879
Speaker 1: like I should.

1007
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 3: Have said that.

1008
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,799
Speaker 1: And now when I tell Alex the story, he's like, well,

1009
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 1: what'd you say? And I would be like, I said nothing,

1010
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 1: And then he's going to be like, why wouldn't you

1011
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 1: say I have a boyfriend? And I was like, I

1012
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,240
Speaker 1: don't know. I literally just froze.

1013
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:04,839
Speaker 3: What'd your kids say?

1014
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 1: They were just like looking at me and they're like

1015
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: that was weird, Like they didn't they did not understand.

1016
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 1: They were like what So either his was dare or dare.

1017
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 1: But the cute part of this is so my husband

1018
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 1: shoot my boyfriend.

1019
00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 3: We came to tally of how many times. That's only

1020
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 3: the second time, I know, But we haven't been doing

1021
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 3: this very long.

1022
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,359
Speaker 1: Apparently if I do it, anywhere between eighteen and two

1023
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,919
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty days to have it. But I that's

1024
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: only the second time that's ever happened. And we've been

1025
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: talking about my ex husband and my boyfriend.

1026
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 3: It happens, and it's a mistake. And my admirer at lunch,

1027
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 3: So your boyfriend.

1028
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 1: My boyfriend has kids and connecting with them, especially his

1029
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: daughter has been very important to me. Their mom passed away.

1030
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 1: She was the whole and very well, that was very close.

1031
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:04,319
Speaker 1: They were all close to their mom, don't get me wrong,

1032
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 1: but she was older and closest and that was her mom.

1033
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 1: So also her being now much older and almost seventeen, like,

1034
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:14,879
Speaker 1: it's not like she's ever going to have a step mom.

1035
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 3: Well she could, but I mean wouldn't be this.

1036
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: It's not the same type of relationship. I think as

1037
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 1: like the twelve year old who I never had, Like

1038
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 1: she's like to her her mom.

1039
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 3: She has a mom.

1040
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we've had talks. I'm not trying to be

1041
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 1: that role, but I mean I want to be a

1042
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 1: bonus mom. Sure, however you want to look at it all.

1043
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:37,320
Speaker 1: That's just part of the details in case we have

1044
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:41,360
Speaker 1: any new listeners that know that that relationship is very

1045
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 1: important to me. But I've been careful with it and

1046
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 1: well I've even heard from other listeners that have been

1047
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 1: in my situation where it's like coming in as the

1048
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: next mom is a It's an interesting thing that you

1049
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 1: don't get until you are actually trying to do it,

1050
00:48:56,760 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 1: and we're not even engage so you're married. So I'm

1051
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 1: just clarifying that I'm around the kids enough. And I

1052
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 1: pulled out the business card at dinner and she was like, wait,

1053
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: what's this and I was like, oh, this guy gave

1054
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: it to me.

1055
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:12,319
Speaker 3: It was so weird.

1056
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 1: So I told Alex the story because I wanted him

1057
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 1: to know, like, I'm not going to do anything.

1058
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 3: With it, but here it is.

1059
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 1: And she grabbed it and she ripped it up and

1060
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 1: she was like, you're not going to be needing that.

1061
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 3: And I just thought that that was so.

1062
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: Cute and it warmed yes of like, I like you

1063
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 1: for my dad and for our family, So I'm going

1064
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: to rip this up and so thank you for random guy.

1065
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:37,720
Speaker 3: Well, if she was like you should call him, could.

1066
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 1: You imagine that would be a sign. That would be

1067
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 1: a sign of like, oh, you'll probably hold on to that.

1068
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 1: You could see a teenager that was really if they

1069
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 1: were really struggling and like didn't like you, they might

1070
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 1: be like, I wouldn't lose that, did you? Really?

1071
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, keep it in a safe place.

1072
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:52,840
Speaker 1: Give him a call. You're not for my dad, you know.

1073
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: But instead she ripped it up and she said you

1074
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:59,239
Speaker 1: don't need this, and it made me very while the

1075
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 1: houner made me feel weird. Especially because I made it

1076
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:05,640
Speaker 1: more weird walking away without saying I have a boyfriend.

1077
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,240
Speaker 1: It was all worth it because I had that moment

1078
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 1: with her, which probably to her it was just like

1079
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:12,840
Speaker 1: a silly you know, but it meant a lot to me,

1080
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 1: and maybe one day I'll get to share that with her.

1081
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:16,800
Speaker 1: I don't think she's a listener.

1082
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 3: You never know. I don't. I don't think we have

1083
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 3: a lot of least teenagers say thank you to What

1084
00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:23,279
Speaker 3: did you say thank you to the guy?

1085
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:25,839
Speaker 1: Honestly, we'd have to ask the kids, Like I think.

1086
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:28,439
Speaker 3: I was just like, okay, talk to you later.

1087
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 1: I think what he said I could stop looking at.

1088
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:31,240
Speaker 1: I was just like, oh.

1089
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 3: Really, I don't know. It was just weird.

1090
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 1: Okay, are we still on your check in?

1091
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1092
00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:42,279
Speaker 1: Okay, see you never know. Okay, come up and check ins.

1093
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:45,240
Speaker 1: One thing I want to accomplish next month.

1094
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 3: Is can I do too? Do I permission to do too?

1095
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 1: You don't need permission.

1096
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 3: This is your game? Yeah, okay?

1097
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:53,880
Speaker 1: Truth or truth? Dare or dare you do you?

1098
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 3: I am surprised I'm saying this because I like, this

1099
00:50:58,280 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 3: is your thing, and I've never really struggled with it.

1100
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 3: But I've been struggling drinking water, So I want to

1101
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:02,839
Speaker 3: drink more water.

1102
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 1: It's my thing to struggle with water.

1103
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 3: It is your thing.

1104
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's my identity. I struggle with water.

1105
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 3: Okay, so that's one. But then more seriously, well, I

1106
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 3: guess that's serious. It's my health. You need water.

1107
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 1: I think you can live longer without food than you

1108
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: can without water. I'm just letting you know it is serious. Okay,

1109
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 1: water is serious, Like I think with water you need

1110
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 1: with how many days can you like three to five

1111
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 1: days without water? But you can go two weeks without food.

1112
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 3: Can you imagine not drinking anything for three I'm so

1113
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 3: thirsty right now talking about water.

1114
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: Okay, thirty days without food you can go, but only

1115
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:43,359
Speaker 1: three to five days no water.

1116
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 3: Questions that don't come up.

1117
00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, it's just a thought.

1118
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:51,400
Speaker 3: This is just a recommendation I want to throw out

1119
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:53,720
Speaker 3: there before I forget. It has nothing to do with anything.

1120
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 3: Everybody should read The Winter Garden, speaking of food and water.

1121
00:51:57,719 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 3: It's a great book. It's by Chris and Hannah, so

1122
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 3: it's historical fiction. You'll learn a little bit and you'll

1123
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 3: cry a little bit. It takes a little bit to

1124
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:08,040
Speaker 3: get into the book. My favorite book to this what

1125
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 3: I've ever read?

1126
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 1: Era of history? Or you said it's historical?

1127
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 3: What are we going to learn about a certain war?

1128
00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 3: Which war it's in the book? Oh, you can't say.

1129
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 1: That's okay? I started Family of Liars and I was like,

1130
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: I can't tell you whose perspective it's from.

1131
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:32,399
Speaker 3: That's a little different. I'm just like I learned so much.

1132
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,800
Speaker 1: The Sister that got the Chin job, well, like probably

1133
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 1: World War two? No, no, World War one?

1134
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:43,800
Speaker 3: No civil what is it? Christ and Hannah The Winter Garden.

1135
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:46,800
Speaker 3: I will say. Second really good book by Kris Hannah

1136
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 3: is The Women, and that's about the Vietnam War. That

1137
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:52,920
Speaker 3: is also really good. Okay, it's not a war, but

1138
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 3: it's like there's something going on historically.

1139
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 1: So the other yes, The Women, that is a very

1140
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,279
Speaker 1: good book, and it isn't about Vietnam War.

1141
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 3: But this it's about a famine.

1142
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 1: Is good?

1143
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 3: Where were we? Sorry? As I.

1144
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 1: Okay, you're gonna drink more water.

1145
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 3: And oh I want to answer people more timely.

1146
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 1: Oh okay, like I respond.

1147
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 3: Yes, because I will get an email or a text

1148
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,479
Speaker 3: and I'll like, I'll answer this later and then it'll

1149
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:35,959
Speaker 3: be a week later, and I'm like, oh my gosh,

1150
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 3: I meant to answer that, but then it feels too

1151
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,400
Speaker 3: late to then answer them, because then it's like, oh,

1152
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 3: what do I say now? And so then I don't

1153
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 3: answer them, and then if I need to text them,

1154
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:46,840
Speaker 3: then the last text is them asking me a question, and.

1155
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 1: Then you know, yeah, you know, I hit it. I know,

1156
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:51,280
Speaker 1: I'm I want.

1157
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:53,000
Speaker 3: To be better at getting the text and being like

1158
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 3: you can answer this now, you got it, and then

1159
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 3: doing it. Maybe that should be my affirmation. You can

1160
00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:00,360
Speaker 3: answer people right away you want to.

1161
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,719
Speaker 1: You are capable when you want to.

1162
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 3: That's my problem. Okay, anyway, that's okay, we finished, Yeah, yay,

1163
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:07,840
Speaker 3: we did the check in.

1164
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: So see, this is a simple activity, so good. I mean,

1165
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:17,840
Speaker 1: it'll be an hour long meal around the table, especially

1166
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 1: you can only do with two people. If you do

1167
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 1: it with more people, just carve out the time. But

1168
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: also you could make it rapid fire. But some of

1169
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 1: these people need to think about.

1170
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 3: I think if you are in a family and you

1171
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 3: want to implement this in your family, one person gets

1172
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 3: to go at night.

1173
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 1: Okay, that's good, and we'll never.

1174
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:35,839
Speaker 3: Do it again.

1175
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: On you go on Tuesday, and then Timmy, you go on.

1176
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, got it?

1177
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 1: Cool, Chase, do you want to do the check in?

1178
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 1: I mean not right now, but like not right now,

1179
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 1: but like do would you see yourself doing the check in?

1180
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:52,440
Speaker 1: It's like a fun activity.

1181
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 3: He can't say no, well, yes he could, yeah, yeah

1182
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:01,239
Speaker 3: he can. Used are another? Is there another question you

1183
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:06,439
Speaker 3: would add to the check in? Or swap or maybe

1184
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 3: swap out like you can swap out some questions?

1185
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:10,359
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it's pretty good.

1186
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 3: I like it. I like it.

1187
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 1: It's fun.

1188
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 3: So there you go.

1189
00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:18,359
Speaker 1: Check in dare are dare truth or truth wind? Where

1190
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 1: is Amy Bradley again? If you know anything called called

1191
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 1: yes called the FBI? Do you know back in the day? Well,

1192
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 1: I guess you saw this in the documentary Her family

1193
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: was on Doctor Phil. Yes, that's interesting.

1194
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:36,880
Speaker 3: Do you like Doctor Phil? I used to? That makes sense? Tracks?

1195
00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: That tracks? Okay, all right, Well, we hope you're having

1196
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:43,800
Speaker 1: the day the day you need to have.