WEBVTT - Flash Back to Phylicia Rashad interview and more

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<v Speaker 1>The copy he j Handy Hands of the Year and

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<v Speaker 1>slom a gay ha Yo, Carlo Man, whatout my ji?

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<v Speaker 1>What ray? What happened? Are we lying the world's most

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<v Speaker 1>dangerous morning show? Let me tell you something before before

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<v Speaker 1>people get interviews, they say, yo, you cannot you cannot

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<v Speaker 1>say this. We don't want to talk about want interview everything.

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<v Speaker 1>No one benefits from getting in here just talking records.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta be honest. I didn't think it was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>make it. Ten years man, ten years strong, Breakfast club man, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know what that means. Ten years they've been nuts.

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<v Speaker 1>They've been David David nuts. They just been nuts the

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast club. Wake up in the morning, wake up, wake

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<v Speaker 1>up ya. This is your time to get it off

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<v Speaker 1>your chat with your man or blame. We want to

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<v Speaker 1>hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello. Who's this? Hello?

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Melissa melissam Long Island. Hello. How are

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<v Speaker 1>you hey? Melissa morning? Get it off your chess? Melissa?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? So um, I was thinking that I would

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<v Speaker 1>much rather lick some more random as booty than takes

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<v Speaker 1>this vaccine. First of all, you got you're out of

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<v Speaker 1>context right now. You gotta explain to people what happened,

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<v Speaker 1>because they're gonna be like, what is wrong with Melissa

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<v Speaker 1>just calling up there early in the morning. Anything. Yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>we had a topic what we asked you, would you

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<v Speaker 1>rather take the vaccine a liquorandom scrange boom? Now, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it makes sense, um, due to the fact that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel people are really doing much research into the

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<v Speaker 1>vaccines and don't realize that it's actually like a genetic

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<v Speaker 1>DNA manipulation opposed to the traditional vaccine where you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they just put a little bit of the virus and

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<v Speaker 1>the body fights it off. Like you had said same here.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I took the you know, flu shot whatever

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<v Speaker 1>growing up. Now that you know, I can make my

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<v Speaker 1>own decisions and whatnot, people aren't realizing also, uh, this

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<v Speaker 1>actually produces antibodies against a protein that is essential to

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<v Speaker 1>reproducing to placenta. Oh no, what what you What you

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<v Speaker 1>said earlier is what I read yesterday that there's no

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<v Speaker 1>actual COVID nineteen in the vaccine. Like you know, in

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<v Speaker 1>flu they put a little bit of the fluid in

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<v Speaker 1>you so you get it to build a antibody. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't have that in the vaccine. From what I read

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<v Speaker 1>jested it. Yeah, no, this is actually like it's hygiene

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<v Speaker 1>hijacking cell genes then causing you to be prone or

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<v Speaker 1>I guess m immune from it supposedly, who knows. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying I think people need to be doing

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<v Speaker 1>their own research on this, and that includes, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>looking in the ingredients in the vaccine and then researching

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<v Speaker 1>the ingredients themselves. And don't nobody read ingredients on then

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<v Speaker 1>somebody eating some cereal right now, I don't know what'n't it?

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<v Speaker 1>But you know how many you know, how many people's

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<v Speaker 1>butts is just dirty? You just want to eat all

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<v Speaker 1>the type of issue. But huh, then take the vaccine. Yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll just do some research on them. But baby, before

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<v Speaker 1>you you don't want to poople snacking. Okay, well, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what. You're right, these people need to do well,

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<v Speaker 1>no doubt she thought about it. She's like, you know what, now,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right. I do need to research you. But have

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<v Speaker 1>a good one. Thank you, have a good jail you too. Hello?

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this? Hello? Listen? Jared? What's up? Jared? Hey? How

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<v Speaker 1>you doing? Man? What's going on? King? Not much? How

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<v Speaker 1>you doing? Salo? Man? How you doing envy. Good. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm having to jail from somewhere he went to jail, right, jail. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't don't play that game. I'm not I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>Jared from somewhere. I'm I'm like Jared the Jeweler. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>go with that, Okay, all right, get uf you ch Jared. Yeah, man, So,

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<v Speaker 1>m I brought up my work. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about my job because I'm not trying to lose it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do have something to take off my chest. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>My wife's a nurse. And you know, these hospitals are

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<v Speaker 1>starting to get fuller and fuller, and it seems like

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<v Speaker 1>people the more the worse it gets, the more they

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<v Speaker 1>just say, no mask, I'm not going to social distance.

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<v Speaker 1>I work with people who for nothing will put their

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<v Speaker 1>mass and they don't want to put a mask. And

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<v Speaker 1>they said, don't want a social distance. It's getting to

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<v Speaker 1>the point where I don't want to come to working then.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, um, no, I work card and it's important

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<v Speaker 1>for me to work card. But it's it's really it's

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<v Speaker 1>really getting a point where I don't even know how

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<v Speaker 1>to feel about these people than one. Um. You know why,

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<v Speaker 1>because they don't wear masks and stuff. Yeah, they're not

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<v Speaker 1>wearing masks. And I mean they you're dealing with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>They want to be up on you one feet the

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<v Speaker 1>way to feet the way, you know, talking in your face,

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<v Speaker 1>and you gotta be trying to tell them to separate

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. That's right, Well, what's wrong with boundaries that?

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<v Speaker 1>What's wrong with letting them know that? Like, look, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want you name and you ain't wearing no mask. Brother,

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<v Speaker 1>I do that all the time. If you ain't got

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<v Speaker 1>no mask, gonna back up, man. And that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we're telling them. But you know, at the workplace,

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<v Speaker 1>they got to have regulations, and everybody got to be

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<v Speaker 1>falling regulations. But certain people it's not expected at them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And I just think that's a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>If we can't even get the workplace to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>do things correctly, how we gonna get average people out

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<v Speaker 1>there in the street, you know, putting masks on it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know how we pict? Well, we can't. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem, and that's why we're in this situation that

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<v Speaker 1>we're in now. Americans are spoiled, bro Americans don't listen,

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<v Speaker 1>We don't follow a rule as well. Yeah, man, I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted today. I just want to shout out my

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<v Speaker 1>mom um, Lazette Williams, I love you to death. My

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<v Speaker 1>lover too. Yeah, my brother. I just want to say

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<v Speaker 1>one thing about my boy and Savon the qube out

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<v Speaker 1>of Miami is a really dope wrapper. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys ever heard of him, but check them

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<v Speaker 1>out Sylvan. Look cute that guy. I'm telling you. Give

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<v Speaker 1>the truth. Savone l get it off your chest eight

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<v Speaker 1>hundred five eight five one o five one. If you

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<v Speaker 1>need to vent hit us up now. It's the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, wake up, wake up. Wait, you're time to

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<v Speaker 1>get it off your chest. Your man or black, we

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear from you on the breakfast Club. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this? Hey? This Nick? Nick? What up? Man? Get

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<v Speaker 1>him in your chest? Nick on it? You like rain

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<v Speaker 1>there in here? Help on the shelf, solo, man, car

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Man? Okay, we part a acing. What's happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Aging much? Man, I'm standing up here in Columbia. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry I'm staying up here. And let's take the tucky

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Okay, Yeah, I was. I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get some advice man, because like I'm I've been standing

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<v Speaker 1>up here since I came home from prison. I was

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<v Speaker 1>locked up for selling drugs. But I wanted to change

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<v Speaker 1>my life around, but I stayed. I came up here

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<v Speaker 1>the person that I came up here with family, but

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<v Speaker 1>me and the person I'm talking no more. So It's

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<v Speaker 1>like I wanted to go back Hones, but acing South

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<v Speaker 1>Carolina ain't the place to be, like, especially trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get a good job, like anyway. But it's also hard

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<v Speaker 1>for me up here because I ain't got no financial

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<v Speaker 1>support or nobody to help me out of no common part. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds to me like you know you already know

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<v Speaker 1>you needed a change of environment. So if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you know you don't need to be an aching,

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<v Speaker 1>you can scratch that off the list. That's not that's

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<v Speaker 1>not a that's that's not a thing, right, yeah, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>So you just got to stay where you had and

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out, make it work. What is it? What

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<v Speaker 1>is it that you want to do? Like I've been,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been working since i've been up to I'm working

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<v Speaker 1>for the shimp Purvey's right now, but I could get

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be hard doing soon. But uh, it's hard

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<v Speaker 1>because like I had rot y'all back a little while

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<v Speaker 1>ago because all right, my windshield and got broke. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like other things that I've been having to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with doing during this pandemic that's going on. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, this hard, not having nobody there in

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<v Speaker 1>your corner for you. Well, listen, you're gonna be fine.

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<v Speaker 1>My brother just takes patience. All right, Yes, sir, pushing on, brother,

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<v Speaker 1>keep pushing all right. Thank y'all, y'all. Good day you too. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this? We'll help y'all. This is James from Minianapolis.

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<v Speaker 1>What up? James? Get it up your chests brothers. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, I want to congratulate y'all for teen years man,

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<v Speaker 1>a good content man, righteous and rats. Thank you kangy brothers.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want to share my favorite breast club moment.

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<v Speaker 1>What's that? Other than the Birdman situation? The Banie single

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<v Speaker 1>situation was funny too, man. Why y'all like to see

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<v Speaker 1>people trying to traumatize me? I thought that was pretty

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<v Speaker 1>hilarious myself. It was cool, man, It was cool. Charlomy

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<v Speaker 1>didn't buckley buckle. He didn't buckle that never buckle. He showed,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you write? He didn't he stood his ground? What

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<v Speaker 1>is buckling? And yeah, thanks guys, man, I appreciate y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>And my birthday this weekend too, Oh man, enjoy it? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you can't where you from? You can't go anywhere? Right? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>No man? Not in Indiana. Yeah, I wouldn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>date you. Your birthday too close to Christmas. And you

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<v Speaker 1>got a penis. But you know that's a whole day

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<v Speaker 1>because you're married and that too, Yeah that that too, married,

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<v Speaker 1>you got peis. You know my type. But until earlier

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<v Speaker 1>more than no? Whoa day? God? Why do people gotta

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<v Speaker 1>scress that? I don't know? Right? Hello? Who's that? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>Instituition from Texas? How y'all doing from Texas? We're part

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<v Speaker 1>of Texas, Dallas, Texas? So I have to listen on

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<v Speaker 1>the app and I don't mind that at all? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>what him? Bum as cowboys are from? Come on? I

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<v Speaker 1>love Dallas. You know I love my cowboys. Don't listen

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<v Speaker 1>to envy. Okay, So now, since congratulations on two years,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Now, since you are an executive of my heart,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta hear you say, Lord, have mercy. It's something

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<v Speaker 1>about the way you say that, darling that drives me

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<v Speaker 1>and saying I love it and I laugh every time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh boy, Lord, have mercy. I can't believe you'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to hear me say, Lord, looking with that man, that

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<v Speaker 1>man married Mama. No, no, no, oh no, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>lening with him. And I love it. When you say

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling HR, I'm calling HR guys drives me and

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<v Speaker 1>fat And since you guys won't be back until twenty

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<v Speaker 1>twenty one, I needed to hear I'm calling HR at Lord,

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<v Speaker 1>have mercy. Or the beauty of it is that we

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<v Speaker 1>run a lot of We run best of shows until

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<v Speaker 1>January the fifth, so you know it gives people an

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to catch up on breakfast club content they may

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<v Speaker 1>have missed. Yeah, and I love it. I'm still gonna listing.

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<v Speaker 1>Charlomagne had more time for me, Lord, have mercy. Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you stressing me out? Early this morning? Got me

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<v Speaker 1>repeating that over and over the yeah for good morning

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<v Speaker 1>about love you too, get it off your chest eight

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<v Speaker 1>hundred five eight five one oh five one. If you

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<v Speaker 1>need to vent hit us up now. It's the breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning, The Breakfast Club. DJ Envy Angela ye, Charlomagne,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy we are the Breakfast Club was still kicking

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<v Speaker 1>it with Kirk Franklin. Yee, Kirk. While you're at home

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<v Speaker 1>during this time, have you been inspired musically just by

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<v Speaker 1>everything that's going on around you? You knows. I can

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you. One of the reasons why I

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<v Speaker 1>wore this shirt today is because I started back going

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<v Speaker 1>to therapy during this pandemic. I can be honest now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's I've been going to therapy now, off and on

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<v Speaker 1>for about the last thirty years, you know, dealing with

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<v Speaker 1>my dealing with my bandomin issues, dealing with you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just a rejection I had as a kid, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the trauma that I've suffered as a young man,

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<v Speaker 1>and so therapy and my faith have been my They've

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<v Speaker 1>just been my life boat. And so the trauma of

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<v Speaker 1>first of all the pandemic, and then that what's happening

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<v Speaker 1>now is that I started going back to my therapist.

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<v Speaker 1>And I can be honest and tell you that the

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<v Speaker 1>motivation to do a lot of music, it's been often

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<v Speaker 1>own just because I've been just really struggling. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>really struggling trying to get people just to hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's almost like, where does the physician going he's sick?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm giving myself back together just because I

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<v Speaker 1>think that y'all needed Sunday, But I needed Sunday too.

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<v Speaker 1>Is I needed that versus moment too? Now, what have

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<v Speaker 1>you been going through? You said you were going through

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, and I'm sure people are going through the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing. What were you dealing with that you said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I gotta go see a therapist right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it anxiety? What was it that you say I

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<v Speaker 1>have to Yeah, yeah, well, you know, I've always struggled

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<v Speaker 1>with anxiety. And then you know, just as a creative,

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<v Speaker 1>I think almost every creative and of course you're all

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<v Speaker 1>three of y'all feel that's just because y'all are curators.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the attention that y'all give and and and

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<v Speaker 1>and just to grab your platform, you know, to whom

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<v Speaker 1>much has given, much is required and a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>times people don't know. And of course y'all can amand

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<v Speaker 1>this when you live in the public eye, your highs

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<v Speaker 1>and your loans are different, and so that type of

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<v Speaker 1>pressure that you live up under, it's not realistic. So um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just in the pressures of the world or

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<v Speaker 1>are people trusting that you always got to answer and

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<v Speaker 1>that you're always having to be ready to give an answer.

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<v Speaker 1>Um can be very discouraging, can be very heavy, and

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<v Speaker 1>and and I carried the weight of people's hurt very

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<v Speaker 1>real life bro, Like no cap, I'm telling you, I

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<v Speaker 1>would not be doing this music if I did not

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<v Speaker 1>believe in the dude that I rock with. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I got to have somebody to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>blow this. Tim. I can't go to white people with

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<v Speaker 1>that every day. You know. She made me to be

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<v Speaker 1>strong with it. So it's like I got to go

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<v Speaker 1>to somebody who I can go. Man, These Christians me off.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, man, somebody else got shot. Man, what do

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<v Speaker 1>I do? Man? It's like people ain't working right now,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And I got a whole crew that I

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<v Speaker 1>got to take care of. Man. You know what you

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<v Speaker 1>and show that type of pressure is I need somebody

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<v Speaker 1>to pour into me so that when I get on

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<v Speaker 1>these incredible platforms with y'all, I'll have something to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to say absolutely and Kirk, you know what's so

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<v Speaker 1>interesting man, Um. You know to prior to the quarantine,

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<v Speaker 1>my therapists had been trying to tell me for the longest,

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<v Speaker 1>let go of things that you can't control, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. And I could never grasp that concept

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<v Speaker 1>until the quarantine because we had never experienced anything like coronavirus.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know what I did, I flipped it right it.

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<v Speaker 1>I started leaning more into my face side because I

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<v Speaker 1>already had gotten what I needed from going to therapy

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<v Speaker 1>all of those those those past these past couple of years,

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<v Speaker 1>I started leaning into my face side, so it was

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<v Speaker 1>more Bishop TD Jakes more, Stephen Fredick more pastor John

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<v Speaker 1>Gray more minutes of you know what I mean. That

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<v Speaker 1>is the job that I want to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>communicate to culture as well, is that at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day, you are spiritual beings. Is that if

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<v Speaker 1>you live your life dependent upon the natural world to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to feel something that the natural world does

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<v Speaker 1>not have the ingredients to do. That's why, that's why

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<v Speaker 1>it don't matter how good sex has been for a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of human beings. A lot of people don't stay

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<v Speaker 1>with that same one. You're always looking for something different,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter how much that drug made you feel at

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<v Speaker 1>that moment. You're looking for the next high, just because

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<v Speaker 1>the natural world can't speak to the depth of the

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<v Speaker 1>crime of your soul. Your soul was created for something

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<v Speaker 1>bigger that the human world is not able to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to fulfill it with. And so that's why I'm

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<v Speaker 1>always fond of That's why I'm always trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>a messenger to clean up what a lot of the

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<v Speaker 1>history of Christianity has messed up. Because Christianity and Jesus

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<v Speaker 1>are not always synonymous. Explain a little bit well, Christianity

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<v Speaker 1>is the form in which we've brought to communicate what

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<v Speaker 1>the teachings of Jesus is or what the chief of

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus was. But in the sinfulness of man, throughout the

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<v Speaker 1>narrative of that historical context, there has been a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of distraction. There's been a lot of abuse or power.

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<v Speaker 1>There's been a lot of misuse of the statements of

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus Christ. But that does not mean that the historic

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<v Speaker 1>individual of Jesus Christ and what he stood for, as

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<v Speaker 1>for what he preached, it's always reflective in the actions historically,

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<v Speaker 1>whether through the Crusades, whether through the conquest, whether through

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<v Speaker 1>Jim Crow, whether through colonialism. Christianity was always leading in

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<v Speaker 1>those narratives, and we've got to confess those sins. In

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<v Speaker 1>order to get it right, we've got to confess what's wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that's why I'm always an advocate for platforms

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<v Speaker 1>like Apologetics to be able to communicate the historical, accurate

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<v Speaker 1>narrative of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, as well as

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<v Speaker 1>pointing out the bull and the foolishness that Christianity historically

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<v Speaker 1>has done. Absolutely, I got one last question question for

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<v Speaker 1>Brother Kirk. I was watching UM Bishop TV Jake's Sunday

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<v Speaker 1>and this is a conversation that a lot of me

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<v Speaker 1>and my folks have been having. Do you believe, Kirk,

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<v Speaker 1>that we're in the end of times? You know? And

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<v Speaker 1>I think that a lot of people can be so

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<v Speaker 1>enamored with the conversation of what does this mean versus

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<v Speaker 1>what do we do? As I think that it's easier

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<v Speaker 1>to try to figure out what's happening out there instead

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<v Speaker 1>of looking at this moment to see what needs to

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<v Speaker 1>be fixed in here? Does that make sense what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>saying perfect sense? And so I would encourage people. I

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<v Speaker 1>encourage people to stop trying to be so worried about

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<v Speaker 1>where God is instead of trying to be more focused

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<v Speaker 1>on it's God with me. Who think you m thank

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<v Speaker 1>you appreciate this, thank you, thank you man. Yes, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, it's Kirk Franklin. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>it's topic time. The phone called eight hundred and five

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<v Speaker 1>eight five one oh five. Want to join it to

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<v Speaker 1>the discussion with the Breakfast Club, talk about it morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We

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<v Speaker 1>are the Breakfast Club. Good morning, good morning. What's happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Happy holidays? What we're talking about today? And if you

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<v Speaker 1>just join us, we're talking about mail B. Now she

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<v Speaker 1>does something I think it's pretty odd. You want to

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<v Speaker 1>explain what she does. She actually got a tattoo removed

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<v Speaker 1>of her ex. You know, she's getting divorced, and she

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<v Speaker 1>got instead of lazy removal for that tattoo, she got

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<v Speaker 1>it cut out of her body and she keeps the

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<v Speaker 1>skin in a jar. That's weird. That is called route.

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<v Speaker 1>That is voodoo, black magic. All right, you cut the

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<v Speaker 1>name off your skin, put it in the jaw, have

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<v Speaker 1>a little witch doctor or something, put a little whammy

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<v Speaker 1>on it. Don't nobody touched that job, because if you do,

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<v Speaker 1>the spell will be broken. And as long as that

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<v Speaker 1>name is in that jaw, Stephen Bellefonte will have erectile

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<v Speaker 1>this function for the rest of his life, or at

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<v Speaker 1>the least call up a frog or two. Everything from

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<v Speaker 1>the past goes in the garbage. Nothing from the past,

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<v Speaker 1>no letters, no pictures, nating, everything thrown away. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually have a lot of things from x'es. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>have all my letters and cards and knows that I

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<v Speaker 1>used to pass in class and all of that in

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<v Speaker 1>a huge box. Well, I mean, listen, how long you

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<v Speaker 1>been with your woman? Twenty four years married seventeen? I've

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<v Speaker 1>been my woman twenty years married four Okay, I'm forty.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no exes, all right, I don't even remember what

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<v Speaker 1>an X is. A X is really from high school

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<v Speaker 1>because nobody really wrote letters after that. What I'm saying, so,

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<v Speaker 1>if your woman is still saving letters from high school,

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<v Speaker 1>that letter really means a lot to her, and that

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<v Speaker 1>person makes a lot to her, and that a person

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<v Speaker 1>that wrote that letter, you know, could never be duplicated,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. Like I grew up as

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<v Speaker 1>a as a writer, like when I was young, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and I read a lot, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>keep all of those things even from like my friends

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<v Speaker 1>who are women but married. G imagine being married for

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<v Speaker 1>seventeen years, all right, and you've been with this guy

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<v Speaker 1>that you married too since y'all was kids. But you

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<v Speaker 1>keeping letter from the exes? That mean you keeping letters

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<v Speaker 1>from when you was like seventeen eighteen, like those first

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<v Speaker 1>feelings of love, those first feelings of love having been

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<v Speaker 1>duplicated at all? Like, no, what are you talking? No

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<v Speaker 1>man has ever made you feel the way that that

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<v Speaker 1>first person, So I don't I don't know. Why don't

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<v Speaker 1>we talking about magic fingers earlier? No? No, no magic fingers.

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<v Speaker 1>But I burnt those letters up and let what are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking about? Just joined us? I'm not talking about nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? And I ain't told nothing?

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<v Speaker 1>You sound insecure, Natasha, Hi, good morning, Natasha, Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You keep anything from your X? I definitely do not.

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<v Speaker 1>The only thing I kept for my exes our son. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm glad you kept that. I wouldn't let that go.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't show to you that I had to get

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<v Speaker 1>rid of the cell phone that I used to check

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<v Speaker 1>him from because I would search and I tripe em

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<v Speaker 1>day and then he pop up, even though he was deleted.

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<v Speaker 1>He too like, oh, I text with pop Up. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, we gotta get rid of this, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I tell you the manager. Thank you Mama. Now as y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>what's baby? What's up? Mama? Did she call you ladies?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what she called me? She said baby? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Now do you throw everything away from your past relationships?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm throwing everything away, like I'm not keeping nothing. What's

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<v Speaker 1>like the memories of an ex for Like, I'm throwing

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<v Speaker 1>everything away like I used to live being my wife

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<v Speaker 1>used to them together, and like you would come over

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<v Speaker 1>and still say, oh you got my shirt? You do.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to find ways to come back. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, baby, I threw every dake away. You

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<v Speaker 1>know you ain't got to come back for nothing else. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>what did she give you a Rolex? Oh that's differently

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<v Speaker 1>not that that's my brother. Oh, it is all about

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<v Speaker 1>the cost of the gift. You ain't giving back no Bentley.

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<v Speaker 1>You ain't giving back no type of car, and you

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<v Speaker 1>ain't getting back no jewelry. Now, y'all gonna be picky

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<v Speaker 1>and choosy about what you keep and what you give away. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>some things that x gives you ain't got no choice

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<v Speaker 1>but to keep like herpes. So to everybody out there,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody out there who X gave him her fees and

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<v Speaker 1>then he got no choice but delivered that and keep

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<v Speaker 1>that for the rest of their life. Hello. Who's this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Rocky from Louvall. Rock Y. Do you keep anything

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<v Speaker 1>from your ex? Bro? No need to. I've been four years,

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<v Speaker 1>my girl for seven, and there's no need to. Bro.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta hold on for something the paths, Bro, you

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<v Speaker 1>might as well try to hand back in that direction. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how I feel. I don't understand why, you know

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<v Speaker 1>somebody would hold on to something from their past, especially

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<v Speaker 1>if they've been together for so long, Like imagine being

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<v Speaker 1>it was somebody for seventeen, ten years old and twelve

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<v Speaker 1>years old that they would ten somebody? Why so close?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, I'm just telling you. You're gonna point

0:21:55.119 --> 0:21:56.880
<v Speaker 1>point of finger, point of magic finger at me. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just somebody was writing letters to my wife when they

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<v Speaker 1>were ten years old. She kept it his memories, is all.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so cute, and I burned them. I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever is in the past, and you shouldn't, y'all. Been

0:22:06.080 --> 0:22:09.000
<v Speaker 1>married for forty years? How long you've been married? Seriously,

0:22:10.160 --> 0:22:12.359
<v Speaker 1>y'all been together twenty four, twenty four. You don't read

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<v Speaker 1>the verd to be keeping stuff. That's what I said,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why I burned them letters up. It's so

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<v Speaker 1>crazy because I do have it. Like I said, I

0:22:17.440 --> 0:22:19.960
<v Speaker 1>have a huge box filled with like letters from my

0:22:20.080 --> 0:22:22.879
<v Speaker 1>friends when they went away out of town from XS,

0:22:23.000 --> 0:22:25.680
<v Speaker 1>like everything together in a box. I haven't even separated

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<v Speaker 1>about recent ex you used to Still this is off

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<v Speaker 1>from like high school and college. Ain't nobody Rolex in

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<v Speaker 1>high school? Yeah, I'm talking about a box of letters.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh but my whole thing is what I'm saying is

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<v Speaker 1>that it doesn't really I never thought of it like

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<v Speaker 1>it's something that would be offensive to anybody. I used

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<v Speaker 1>to be nobody letters Now. I even found a watch

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<v Speaker 1>that somebody gave my my wife when I think they

0:22:45.240 --> 0:22:47.600
<v Speaker 1>were like twelve thirteen. I definitely ran over that watch

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<v Speaker 1>with my cart. She still got all these little trinkets,

0:22:50.840 --> 0:22:52.680
<v Speaker 1>all those little twelve days of Christmas when you bind

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<v Speaker 1>her all this stuff, and she's still keeping watches from

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<v Speaker 1>middle school and ten years old. So maybe they just

0:22:56.720 --> 0:22:59.399
<v Speaker 1>little que Q two. I think that's cute. But they

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<v Speaker 1>all going going down and that watch I ran over times.

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<v Speaker 1>Little memories are so cute. Rebecca, Hey, good morning, Rebecca. Um. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I have like an Xbox I like not like

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<v Speaker 1>the video games. Yeah, I was like, okay, me too. Yeah.

0:23:17.920 --> 0:23:21.240
<v Speaker 1>So I dated this guy from like eighth grade the

0:23:21.359 --> 0:23:24.960
<v Speaker 1>senior year of high school, and I kept literally everything.

0:23:25.520 --> 0:23:28.240
<v Speaker 1>But the weird thing that I kept was he gave

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<v Speaker 1>me a lemon. Lemon suhere to God. He gave me

0:23:33.760 --> 0:23:37.040
<v Speaker 1>a lemon, and I still have it in the box.

0:23:37.119 --> 0:23:44.560
<v Speaker 1>Its not like rotten or anything. No, it doesn't smell

0:23:44.680 --> 0:23:48.080
<v Speaker 1>or anything. It's like hollow and hard, and I don't

0:23:48.400 --> 0:23:50.600
<v Speaker 1>like him in his heart? Why are you keeping it?

0:23:51.000 --> 0:23:55.520
<v Speaker 1>That's disgusting. It was like the reason why we started

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<v Speaker 1>talking in the first place. Do you like convinced me

0:24:01.520 --> 0:24:05.080
<v Speaker 1>that it was like this really rare like lemon from

0:24:05.160 --> 0:24:08.200
<v Speaker 1>like Cuba or something like that. I like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know. Sounds like a red flag to me. He

0:24:10.680 --> 0:24:13.639
<v Speaker 1>lied to you immediately. That came from stop the Shop. Well,

0:24:13.680 --> 0:24:15.040
<v Speaker 1>if you fell in love with a man, they give

0:24:15.080 --> 0:24:17.200
<v Speaker 1>you a lemon, waiting till somebody gives you an apple

0:24:17.640 --> 0:24:21.439
<v Speaker 1>or watermelon. You're gonna really be head over hereade out

0:24:21.480 --> 0:24:26.240
<v Speaker 1>of that. I'm not. Don't curse, all right, Okay, the

0:24:26.800 --> 0:24:28.879
<v Speaker 1>moral of the story is, man, let's say a prayer

0:24:29.280 --> 0:24:32.760
<v Speaker 1>and salute everybody out there who is keeping things from

0:24:32.800 --> 0:24:35.400
<v Speaker 1>their exes that they can't give back like her pies.

0:24:35.600 --> 0:24:40.080
<v Speaker 1>Keep a lot. This to Breakfast Club. Breakfast Club Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee Charlomane the guy. We

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<v Speaker 1>all the Breakfast Club. We have a special guest on

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<v Speaker 1>the line, an icon, a legend, and a true queen,

0:24:50.880 --> 0:24:55.160
<v Speaker 1>Miss Felicia Rashad. Welcome, Thank you, good morning. I feel

0:24:55.200 --> 0:24:57.200
<v Speaker 1>like you're my mom. I've been watching you for so long.

0:24:57.680 --> 0:24:59.399
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like I know everything about you. I

0:24:59.440 --> 0:25:00.960
<v Speaker 1>feel like your mom. Hey Mom, I just want to say,

0:25:00.960 --> 0:25:05.119
<v Speaker 1>good morning, Mom, Good morning sun. How you doing. He

0:25:05.280 --> 0:25:07.119
<v Speaker 1>too ready to be yours? He too ready to be

0:25:07.200 --> 0:25:13.120
<v Speaker 1>your No, he's not, he's not. Now. I hate zoom interviews,

0:25:13.160 --> 0:25:15.399
<v Speaker 1>and this is one time I really hate zoom interviews

0:25:15.400 --> 0:25:17.600
<v Speaker 1>because I would love to be in your presence. Absolutely,

0:25:17.800 --> 0:25:20.240
<v Speaker 1>that's very kind of Well, you know what, when we can,

0:25:21.000 --> 0:25:25.760
<v Speaker 1>we will. How have you been maintaining through this whole pandemic? Well,

0:25:25.880 --> 0:25:29.360
<v Speaker 1>let's see. First of all, I've been very grateful. I've

0:25:29.359 --> 0:25:32.240
<v Speaker 1>been very grateful to be in my home and to

0:25:32.359 --> 0:25:35.320
<v Speaker 1>have a home to be in. I've been very grateful

0:25:35.400 --> 0:25:39.399
<v Speaker 1>that my family and friends are fine. I've been very

0:25:39.480 --> 0:25:43.560
<v Speaker 1>grateful to be able to assist people in the ways

0:25:43.640 --> 0:25:47.040
<v Speaker 1>that I've been able to do um and I've had

0:25:47.240 --> 0:25:51.359
<v Speaker 1>work to do. Of course, it's different because everything is

0:25:52.240 --> 0:25:55.560
<v Speaker 1>through the computer. I pray we will not live like

0:25:55.680 --> 0:26:00.640
<v Speaker 1>this forever same because it ain't natural and it ain't

0:26:00.680 --> 0:26:06.920
<v Speaker 1>good for the eyes either. What what have you learned

0:26:06.960 --> 0:26:12.040
<v Speaker 1>about yourself mentally and spiritually? Anything? Now? Yeah, you know,

0:26:12.640 --> 0:26:15.240
<v Speaker 1>you ask that question, and I'm always a little hesitant

0:26:15.280 --> 0:26:18.720
<v Speaker 1>to say these things because well, anyway, I'll just say

0:26:18.760 --> 0:26:22.000
<v Speaker 1>it because you asked. It's so important to find that

0:26:22.359 --> 0:26:27.680
<v Speaker 1>silent space inside the mind. It's so important to find

0:26:27.760 --> 0:26:32.680
<v Speaker 1>that space, especially now because it's so much clatter and

0:26:32.800 --> 0:26:35.960
<v Speaker 1>so much chatter, and so much pull to the left

0:26:36.080 --> 0:26:38.160
<v Speaker 1>and then pull to the right and just being pull

0:26:38.280 --> 0:26:41.040
<v Speaker 1>pull pulled if you allow it to be that way,

0:26:41.960 --> 0:26:44.880
<v Speaker 1>and then the mind, you know, it has its own

0:26:44.960 --> 0:26:49.840
<v Speaker 1>way of jumping around. Oh so it's so important to

0:26:49.960 --> 0:26:54.720
<v Speaker 1>fund the silence. You know, what if we stopped pining

0:26:54.960 --> 0:26:57.840
<v Speaker 1>for the things that we think we don't have, and

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<v Speaker 1>look at what we do have and what we can do.

0:27:01.840 --> 0:27:05.360
<v Speaker 1>It's a much better place to come from, I think, yea,

0:27:05.640 --> 0:27:09.880
<v Speaker 1>and it allows us to create a better place. Right. So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there are things that I that I do miss. I

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<v Speaker 1>miss live theater. Yeah. Just the other day I was

0:27:17.800 --> 0:27:21.720
<v Speaker 1>thinking how privileged we've been for so long without understanding

0:27:22.280 --> 0:27:24.440
<v Speaker 1>the fullness of our privilege to be able to go

0:27:24.600 --> 0:27:27.240
<v Speaker 1>to a movie, right, yes, yes, and be able to

0:27:27.320 --> 0:27:29.600
<v Speaker 1>sit in a theater or in a restaurant, or to

0:27:29.720 --> 0:27:32.880
<v Speaker 1>hug people, or to or to be with people when

0:27:32.920 --> 0:27:37.240
<v Speaker 1>they're making their transition from this form to the next.

0:27:37.359 --> 0:27:41.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's we didn't understand our full privilege and

0:27:43.119 --> 0:27:46.480
<v Speaker 1>maybe you know when we if it changes, well I

0:27:46.480 --> 0:27:48.560
<v Speaker 1>should say when it changes. I just don't know what

0:27:48.600 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 1>it's going to change to. But we'll come into it.

0:27:51.200 --> 0:27:54.399
<v Speaker 1>We should come into a better understanding of just what

0:27:55.840 --> 0:28:00.520
<v Speaker 1>the privilege of being with people is and maybe will

0:28:00.600 --> 0:28:04.080
<v Speaker 1>be kinder to one another. How are your kids been,

0:28:04.280 --> 0:28:06.240
<v Speaker 1>How are they are they been around or they been

0:28:06.280 --> 0:28:11.320
<v Speaker 1>staying away? How has that been? Well? My son lives

0:28:11.359 --> 0:28:15.800
<v Speaker 1>on the West Coast. My daughter at the beginning of

0:28:16.000 --> 0:28:20.840
<v Speaker 1>this pandemic. Had just returned from Italy. She had been

0:28:20.920 --> 0:28:23.600
<v Speaker 1>in Italy, and she had just returned, and I was

0:28:23.680 --> 0:28:27.439
<v Speaker 1>just returning from work on the Empire in Chicago. Then

0:28:27.520 --> 0:28:31.760
<v Speaker 1>everything shut down and my daughter wouldn't come and see me.

0:28:32.680 --> 0:28:36.800
<v Speaker 1>That's right, she did. But what she did do when

0:28:36.880 --> 0:28:40.200
<v Speaker 1>I was returning home, she come to the house before

0:28:40.240 --> 0:28:43.960
<v Speaker 1>I arrived, and she had stopped the refrigerator and the shelves,

0:28:44.520 --> 0:28:46.640
<v Speaker 1>and she said, Mommy, you don't go outside. You don't

0:28:46.640 --> 0:28:49.640
<v Speaker 1>go to the store. You stay here. And she would

0:28:49.680 --> 0:28:52.600
<v Speaker 1>call to make sure I was not outside, and I

0:28:52.720 --> 0:28:55.240
<v Speaker 1>had to laugh at that. I said, you're monitoring me,

0:28:56.040 --> 0:28:59.200
<v Speaker 1>like I'm you, but I'm not you. I'm me. And

0:28:59.280 --> 0:29:06.040
<v Speaker 1>when it's time, I'm going outside. They said the same thing.

0:29:06.160 --> 0:29:08.640
<v Speaker 1>They were like, no, no, no, no, no, I'm your parent.

0:29:08.680 --> 0:29:11.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm going out when I want. No. But don't think

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:13.760
<v Speaker 1>for a moment that what you did and what you

0:29:13.880 --> 0:29:17.040
<v Speaker 1>said was not appreciated me. Ask your question, the Queen,

0:29:17.120 --> 0:29:19.560
<v Speaker 1>have you ever had to go off on any of

0:29:19.680 --> 0:29:22.560
<v Speaker 1>your real kids the way you went off on Vanessa

0:29:22.600 --> 0:29:24.360
<v Speaker 1>for going to see the Wretched And you're down in

0:29:24.520 --> 0:29:29.320
<v Speaker 1>Boaltimore having big fun, weren't you Vanessa, isn't that where

0:29:29.320 --> 0:29:31.200
<v Speaker 1>you were? Didn't you go down there to Baltimore and

0:29:31.360 --> 0:29:33.760
<v Speaker 1>have big fun? Vanessa? Tell me didn't you go for

0:29:33.960 --> 0:29:38.840
<v Speaker 1>big fun? Mom? Shut up? Don't you dare open your

0:29:38.880 --> 0:29:41.000
<v Speaker 1>mouth when I'm asking you a question. I only hope

0:29:41.040 --> 0:29:44.120
<v Speaker 1>that you can have the same experience, Vanessa. I hope

0:29:44.160 --> 0:29:46.480
<v Speaker 1>that one day you come to realize exactly how it

0:29:46.600 --> 0:29:49.920
<v Speaker 1>feels to think that your child's life is in danger.

0:29:50.400 --> 0:29:54.920
<v Speaker 1>You have taken us from levels of frenzy, panic, distress,

0:29:55.160 --> 0:30:00.720
<v Speaker 1>and now that we know you're okay, range I said,

0:30:00.800 --> 0:30:04.160
<v Speaker 1>I was sorry, this is not gonna happen. I know

0:30:04.280 --> 0:30:07.920
<v Speaker 1>you're lying right now. God man, are you kidding? Of course,

0:30:12.280 --> 0:30:17.080
<v Speaker 1>so within your motivation when you did that episode, understanding

0:30:17.200 --> 0:30:22.240
<v Speaker 1>what that energy is was helped. Yes, I understood that

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:29.760
<v Speaker 1>energy very well. Yes, yea. I mean, you know, people say, oh, oh, dad,

0:30:29.800 --> 0:30:31.600
<v Speaker 1>you were just a perfect mother, and I look at

0:30:31.640 --> 0:30:33.880
<v Speaker 1>them and smile and say thank you. But you know,

0:30:33.960 --> 0:30:37.440
<v Speaker 1>it's easy when you're scripted and the children are scripted too,

0:30:38.360 --> 0:30:41.400
<v Speaker 1>But in real life there are new scripts. Yeah, you know,

0:30:41.520 --> 0:30:43.640
<v Speaker 1>you know the beauty of that wretched episode. I've lived

0:30:43.680 --> 0:30:47.640
<v Speaker 1>long enough to where I knew exactly what Vanessa's character

0:30:47.760 --> 0:30:49.640
<v Speaker 1>felt like. And then I've lived long enough to know

0:30:49.720 --> 0:30:54.720
<v Speaker 1>exactly what your character felt like. And that's something. Yeah, yeah,

0:30:55.400 --> 0:30:59.200
<v Speaker 1>because teenagers children was sneak. I mean, it's part of

0:30:59.320 --> 0:31:06.680
<v Speaker 1>being a team, right, Yeah, it's oh, come on, it's

0:31:06.720 --> 0:31:10.320
<v Speaker 1>so it's so much scarier it is. And it's not

0:31:10.520 --> 0:31:14.640
<v Speaker 1>young people's fault. We are very, very, very distracted, and

0:31:14.720 --> 0:31:18.640
<v Speaker 1>our children were being inundated with some of the worst

0:31:19.000 --> 0:31:23.239
<v Speaker 1>kinds of diversions. And He'll look up and it's they

0:31:23.320 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 1>have a language that you don't even know what you know.

0:31:27.440 --> 0:31:31.640
<v Speaker 1>I think that if if we as adults were cognizant

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<v Speaker 1>of the fact that every single thing we say and

0:31:35.280 --> 0:31:39.760
<v Speaker 1>do creates a memory for our young we might say

0:31:39.840 --> 0:31:43.920
<v Speaker 1>and do differently. Absolutely, because what do you really want

0:31:44.480 --> 0:31:47.800
<v Speaker 1>the young person to learn? And here's the question, what

0:31:48.000 --> 0:31:51.400
<v Speaker 1>is the most important thing for your young person to learn?

0:31:51.880 --> 0:31:55.160
<v Speaker 1>The most important thing that I wanted my children to

0:31:55.240 --> 0:31:59.840
<v Speaker 1>learn was who are you really? And that's an energy

0:32:00.040 --> 0:32:02.600
<v Speaker 1>journey and you don't get to go on the inner

0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:07.600
<v Speaker 1>journey pointing fingers outside of yourself. Another disturbing thing I

0:32:07.720 --> 0:32:11.320
<v Speaker 1>heard recently from two different sources who don't even know

0:32:11.440 --> 0:32:15.520
<v Speaker 1>each other. They both work in the field of pediatrics.

0:32:15.680 --> 0:32:19.800
<v Speaker 1>They're both pediatricians, and one they're friends of mine. And

0:32:19.920 --> 0:32:22.080
<v Speaker 1>one of them said that in her waiting room she

0:32:22.160 --> 0:32:25.480
<v Speaker 1>has these books for children. Right, a three year old

0:32:25.560 --> 0:32:27.640
<v Speaker 1>child picks up the book and doesn't know how to

0:32:27.720 --> 0:32:32.000
<v Speaker 1>turn the page. She tries to scan it. Lord have mercy,

0:32:32.280 --> 0:32:37.000
<v Speaker 1>Lord have mercy. Now that hurt. But this okay. And

0:32:37.080 --> 0:32:39.280
<v Speaker 1>then somebody on the other side of the country told

0:32:39.280 --> 0:32:42.920
<v Speaker 1>me the same thing, because young people are being given

0:32:43.040 --> 0:32:46.240
<v Speaker 1>these devices and they know and they know that this

0:32:46.520 --> 0:32:51.400
<v Speaker 1>becomes your source of information and your only source of information,

0:32:52.080 --> 0:32:56.280
<v Speaker 1>which means you're going to receive what somebody wants you

0:32:56.400 --> 0:32:58.960
<v Speaker 1>to receive. Right, I think we want out young people

0:32:59.000 --> 0:33:01.080
<v Speaker 1>to think deeper than that. All Right, we got more

0:33:01.120 --> 0:33:03.320
<v Speaker 1>with Felicia Rashard. When we come back, don't move. It's

0:33:03.320 --> 0:33:12.360
<v Speaker 1>to breakfast club. Good morning, I fashioned morning. Everybody's DJ

0:33:12.960 --> 0:33:16.240
<v Speaker 1>Envy Angela yee, Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast club.

0:33:16.280 --> 0:33:18.840
<v Speaker 1>We're still kicking in with Felicia RASHARDA. Now I'm gonna

0:33:18.840 --> 0:33:20.440
<v Speaker 1>say from Houston, what made you come all the way

0:33:20.480 --> 0:33:21.880
<v Speaker 1>to the East coast to go to college, to go

0:33:21.960 --> 0:33:24.400
<v Speaker 1>to HBCU And why was it important to go to

0:33:24.520 --> 0:33:28.680
<v Speaker 1>an HBCU. The second real HU book ahead. Yeah. Well,

0:33:29.080 --> 0:33:32.800
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to be an actor and I wanted to

0:33:32.840 --> 0:33:35.959
<v Speaker 1>study drama, right, And I was applying to all these

0:33:36.000 --> 0:33:37.840
<v Speaker 1>schools and my father just looked at me and he

0:33:37.960 --> 0:33:39.840
<v Speaker 1>let me do all that, and he said, you're going

0:33:39.920 --> 0:33:42.320
<v Speaker 1>to Howard. And I said, oh, but Dad, what about

0:33:42.360 --> 0:33:44.120
<v Speaker 1>this one? At this he said, you're going to Howard.

0:33:44.360 --> 0:33:49.280
<v Speaker 1>I never thought about going to a school that wasn't

0:33:49.320 --> 0:33:52.640
<v Speaker 1>an HBCU, and that was because of my experience from

0:33:52.640 --> 0:33:56.720
<v Speaker 1>a child. Before I started elementary school, I was a

0:33:56.880 --> 0:34:00.640
<v Speaker 1>nursery school on the campus of Texas Southern Universe, trying

0:34:00.640 --> 0:34:03.280
<v Speaker 1>to play, you know, trying to play. I just wanted

0:34:03.320 --> 0:34:05.480
<v Speaker 1>you to see the Hampton alumni. I just wanted you

0:34:05.560 --> 0:34:10.359
<v Speaker 1>to see that. So my grandmother went to Hampton. Oh yeah,

0:34:10.760 --> 0:34:15.719
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, Vivian Elizabeth Graham, Yes she did. She made

0:34:15.760 --> 0:34:19.120
<v Speaker 1>a great decision. Oh yes, she did. I realized, in

0:34:19.280 --> 0:34:23.240
<v Speaker 1>greater measure, how very fortunate I am to have attended

0:34:23.760 --> 0:34:27.880
<v Speaker 1>an HBCU, not only for the astute professors who were

0:34:27.960 --> 0:34:31.440
<v Speaker 1>teaching there, because they were of the highest caliber, but

0:34:31.680 --> 0:34:35.399
<v Speaker 1>also for the other side of life, that's social life.

0:34:35.560 --> 0:34:39.440
<v Speaker 1>That's socialization that helps to develop you as a as

0:34:39.480 --> 0:34:42.120
<v Speaker 1>a as an adult. You know, did you ever did

0:34:42.200 --> 0:34:46.440
<v Speaker 1>you ever lose yourself playing such an iconic role as

0:34:46.520 --> 0:34:49.880
<v Speaker 1>Claire Huxtable, meaning that you know, did you ever forget

0:34:50.120 --> 0:34:55.160
<v Speaker 1>who you were? No? Okay, okay, now that that that

0:34:55.520 --> 0:34:58.279
<v Speaker 1>that wasn't possible because every every day I came home

0:34:58.320 --> 0:35:03.720
<v Speaker 1>to my family here none of that Claire Hustable stuff.

0:35:03.719 --> 0:35:05.799
<v Speaker 1>When you walk in the hub, well, you know, it's

0:35:05.840 --> 0:35:08.960
<v Speaker 1>like no, it's it's like okay. So my best friend

0:35:09.040 --> 0:35:11.440
<v Speaker 1>from college came to see a taping and she said, Felicia,

0:35:11.760 --> 0:35:14.919
<v Speaker 1>you be shaved yourself taking those people's money for being

0:35:15.040 --> 0:35:22.880
<v Speaker 1>yourself and at home. I mean when I say this,

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:31.919
<v Speaker 1>people imagine. I always imagine what my life was like child.

0:35:31.920 --> 0:35:34.479
<v Speaker 1>They had no idea. I would come home and cook

0:35:34.640 --> 0:35:41.160
<v Speaker 1>and prepare dinner from fresh produce, no canned anything, because

0:35:41.160 --> 0:35:43.680
<v Speaker 1>I want my family to eat healthily. Some things you

0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:46.000
<v Speaker 1>can get it again, but most things, vegetables and stuff

0:35:46.480 --> 0:35:49.600
<v Speaker 1>have to be fresh. And I would do that every day.

0:35:50.000 --> 0:35:54.160
<v Speaker 1>And in the early years of the show, let's say

0:35:54.680 --> 0:35:59.520
<v Speaker 1>a third year, I had my baby with me. I

0:35:59.680 --> 0:36:02.960
<v Speaker 1>was a nursing mother. I took gondola to the studio

0:36:03.080 --> 0:36:07.399
<v Speaker 1>with me every day. Wow. Yeah, And you know it's

0:36:08.560 --> 0:36:10.719
<v Speaker 1>and I came home with her at night and I

0:36:10.840 --> 0:36:13.840
<v Speaker 1>was with my family. I wasn't out club and I

0:36:14.040 --> 0:36:16.840
<v Speaker 1>wasn't you know, I wasn't doing stuff like that. I

0:36:16.880 --> 0:36:19.319
<v Speaker 1>didn't have time for that. And then you know, there

0:36:19.400 --> 0:36:22.520
<v Speaker 1>was school, and then there was homeworker. Her brother's thirteen

0:36:22.600 --> 0:36:24.759
<v Speaker 1>years older than she wasn't he was in the eighth

0:36:24.800 --> 0:36:26.840
<v Speaker 1>grade when she was born. And I mean, you know

0:36:27.080 --> 0:36:29.719
<v Speaker 1>there I was. I mean, it's like you gotta hit

0:36:29.760 --> 0:36:32.680
<v Speaker 1>it every day. So your daughter was born to be

0:36:32.719 --> 0:36:34.279
<v Speaker 1>an actress. She grew up in it. She was all

0:36:34.320 --> 0:36:36.560
<v Speaker 1>around it, she lived it. So she was she was

0:36:36.680 --> 0:36:38.680
<v Speaker 1>born to be an actress. She know she did. She

0:36:38.719 --> 0:36:41.040
<v Speaker 1>grew up around the work, and she saw what the

0:36:41.120 --> 0:36:45.160
<v Speaker 1>work was. Her work ethic is incredible, you know, speaking

0:36:45.200 --> 0:36:47.080
<v Speaker 1>of the work, I think you got black Box coming

0:36:47.080 --> 0:36:50.120
<v Speaker 1>out on the six right, Yeah, on the sixth. Yep month.

0:36:50.560 --> 0:36:53.759
<v Speaker 1>You've held the name of America's mother for so years.

0:36:53.800 --> 0:36:56.960
<v Speaker 1>Are you intentionally accepting roles in movies like A Fall

0:36:57.080 --> 0:36:59.600
<v Speaker 1>from Grace and black Box to kind of shift that

0:37:00.160 --> 0:37:10.839
<v Speaker 1>image you, I guess the villain. Wait, wait a minute,

0:37:11.000 --> 0:37:21.839
<v Speaker 1>let's explore that concept for just a moment. Evil evil. See.

0:37:21.960 --> 0:37:23.600
<v Speaker 1>One of the things we learn in acting is not

0:37:23.719 --> 0:37:27.080
<v Speaker 1>to judge our characters. You have to always understand what

0:37:27.200 --> 0:37:29.520
<v Speaker 1>a person is thinking and why the person's thinking it.

0:37:29.840 --> 0:37:33.040
<v Speaker 1>In my freshman year, one of my instructors said to me,

0:37:33.160 --> 0:37:35.600
<v Speaker 1>I was having a fit about something someone had done,

0:37:35.920 --> 0:37:37.759
<v Speaker 1>and he let me carry on and carry on, and

0:37:37.840 --> 0:37:40.160
<v Speaker 1>then when I calm down, he said, miss Allan, there's

0:37:40.200 --> 0:37:43.319
<v Speaker 1>something I want you to remember. Even when somebody's being

0:37:43.560 --> 0:37:48.879
<v Speaker 1>and I'll say this and so ob they think they're right. Now,

0:37:48.960 --> 0:37:51.719
<v Speaker 1>think about the times you've seen somebody act a complete

0:37:51.800 --> 0:37:54.839
<v Speaker 1>idiot and they think they're right. Yeah. I call that, um,

0:37:55.440 --> 0:37:57.719
<v Speaker 1>I got a curse. I call that dead momentum. Yeah,

0:37:57.800 --> 0:38:00.160
<v Speaker 1>but they think they're right. Yeah, yeah yeah. And it

0:38:00.239 --> 0:38:03.800
<v Speaker 1>just keeps building and building and building and building. So

0:38:03.960 --> 0:38:07.200
<v Speaker 1>as an actor, that's my job is to get inside

0:38:07.280 --> 0:38:10.560
<v Speaker 1>what their thought is, you know. So I'm not I'm

0:38:10.640 --> 0:38:14.600
<v Speaker 1>not trying to depart from anything. There are all kinds,

0:38:14.719 --> 0:38:17.320
<v Speaker 1>and it's interesting because they're all mothers, aren't they. Diana

0:38:17.400 --> 0:38:23.839
<v Speaker 1>Dubois other right right, and Sarah in a Fall from

0:38:23.920 --> 0:38:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Grace was what a mother? I mean you know, there's

0:38:27.000 --> 0:38:30.120
<v Speaker 1>all kinds of women in this world, and all kinds

0:38:30.160 --> 0:38:36.399
<v Speaker 1>of mothers too. You sound like you're about to play

0:38:36.680 --> 0:38:45.680
<v Speaker 1>the villain in the next Black panther. Right, do you

0:38:45.719 --> 0:38:47.960
<v Speaker 1>ever feel like certain roles of beneath you. I wouldn't

0:38:48.000 --> 0:38:51.360
<v Speaker 1>say beneath me. I would just say they don't resonate

0:38:51.440 --> 0:38:54.560
<v Speaker 1>with me. I don't like to be critical of other

0:38:54.640 --> 0:38:57.400
<v Speaker 1>people's work, because that's the easiest thing to be. I

0:38:57.560 --> 0:38:59.719
<v Speaker 1>just try to find what resonates with me. So what

0:39:00.000 --> 0:39:05.240
<v Speaker 1>resonates with me. A good story that's told well resonates

0:39:05.280 --> 0:39:09.759
<v Speaker 1>with me. A window of opportunity to explore creativity in

0:39:09.800 --> 0:39:12.800
<v Speaker 1>a new way that really resonates with me. You know,

0:39:13.160 --> 0:39:16.440
<v Speaker 1>black Box poses the question do we run our minds

0:39:16.520 --> 0:39:20.040
<v Speaker 1>or do our minds run us? Isn't that true? What

0:39:20.120 --> 0:39:27.560
<v Speaker 1>do you think? The answer to that question is, well, I, well,

0:39:27.600 --> 0:39:31.160
<v Speaker 1>what do you think do we run our minds or

0:39:31.200 --> 0:39:35.880
<v Speaker 1>do our minds run us? I think our minds run us,

0:39:36.040 --> 0:39:39.480
<v Speaker 1>but we have the ability to get ourselves back on

0:39:39.600 --> 0:39:41.160
<v Speaker 1>the proper cause, because I think we live in this

0:39:41.239 --> 0:39:43.839
<v Speaker 1>world where it's so much noise that if you pay

0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:48.000
<v Speaker 1>too much attention to the noise, people can start telling

0:39:48.120 --> 0:39:53.840
<v Speaker 1>you how you're supposed to be, but that's not necessarily you.

0:39:54.239 --> 0:39:57.439
<v Speaker 1>So you can silence that noise and really tap into

0:39:57.600 --> 0:40:00.120
<v Speaker 1>your mind and figure out the path you're supposed to

0:40:00.160 --> 0:40:02.879
<v Speaker 1>be on, not the path people want you to be on. Right,

0:40:03.640 --> 0:40:05.960
<v Speaker 1>That's why I you know, you asked me what I

0:40:06.040 --> 0:40:09.680
<v Speaker 1>had learned about my mind, and that's why I said

0:40:09.719 --> 0:40:13.560
<v Speaker 1>it was important to find the silence within my mind.

0:40:14.280 --> 0:40:19.120
<v Speaker 1>I agree with you. I think that most oftentimes we

0:40:20.239 --> 0:40:25.640
<v Speaker 1>people are run by our minds, and the mind often

0:40:25.800 --> 0:40:32.880
<v Speaker 1>runs amok, and here we are. Yeah, yeah, absolutely, And

0:40:33.280 --> 0:40:35.359
<v Speaker 1>by the way, it's fine too, right, because healing looks

0:40:35.400 --> 0:40:38.279
<v Speaker 1>different for healing is healing and strange like that, Like

0:40:38.680 --> 0:40:41.560
<v Speaker 1>one moment you're fine, the next minute you're bugging out.

0:40:42.200 --> 0:40:44.920
<v Speaker 1>And I think that's okay. It's all a process, it is.

0:40:45.040 --> 0:40:47.120
<v Speaker 1>But but do we want to keep just going through

0:40:47.200 --> 0:40:51.520
<v Speaker 1>that like that? No, No, I don't think so. I

0:40:51.600 --> 0:40:53.919
<v Speaker 1>don't think so. And you've just brought up something that's

0:40:54.000 --> 0:40:57.520
<v Speaker 1>really very interesting. You said, one minute you're fine and

0:40:57.600 --> 0:41:00.480
<v Speaker 1>the next minute you're bugging out. That's that brings to

0:41:00.640 --> 0:41:05.920
<v Speaker 1>my mind imagery of a pendulum. Yeah, yeah, we want

0:41:05.960 --> 0:41:08.120
<v Speaker 1>to bring that thing to center, right, because it will

0:41:08.280 --> 0:41:10.120
<v Speaker 1>wing as far to the left as it does to

0:41:10.200 --> 0:41:14.680
<v Speaker 1>the right and brought center. Yeah, all right, we have

0:41:14.760 --> 0:41:16.920
<v Speaker 1>more with Felicia Richard when we come back, don't move.

0:41:16.960 --> 0:41:27.800
<v Speaker 1>It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning everybody, as DJ Envy

0:41:28.000 --> 0:41:30.799
<v Speaker 1>Angela yee. Charlemagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club.

0:41:30.840 --> 0:41:34.000
<v Speaker 1>We're still kicking him with Felicia RASHARDA. Now, you mentored

0:41:34.520 --> 0:41:38.120
<v Speaker 1>Chadwick Boseman when he was in Howard. How did the

0:41:38.200 --> 0:41:41.120
<v Speaker 1>loss of him impact you? And and for people that

0:41:41.239 --> 0:41:43.799
<v Speaker 1>don't know him personally, tell us something that we might

0:41:43.920 --> 0:41:45.840
<v Speaker 1>not know about him. He's he's been up here a

0:41:45.920 --> 0:41:48.920
<v Speaker 1>couple of times, and he's donated money to the causes

0:41:48.960 --> 0:41:51.279
<v Speaker 1>that we were fighting for at the time. From South

0:41:51.360 --> 0:41:53.600
<v Speaker 1>Carolina like me, he's always been a good brother. So

0:41:54.239 --> 0:41:56.600
<v Speaker 1>tell us how that impact was. Well, you want to

0:41:56.680 --> 0:41:59.839
<v Speaker 1>know something about him that you might not know. Chad

0:42:00.040 --> 0:42:05.160
<v Speaker 1>Wick was given to study. He loved to study. He

0:42:05.320 --> 0:42:08.880
<v Speaker 1>studied through the lens of theater. First as a writer,

0:42:09.400 --> 0:42:13.000
<v Speaker 1>he studied the meanings of words. I mean, he studied

0:42:13.520 --> 0:42:18.319
<v Speaker 1>and you can see this kind of thoughtfulness in his work.

0:42:18.600 --> 0:42:21.239
<v Speaker 1>It's so subtle you don't notice it at first, but

0:42:21.400 --> 0:42:23.400
<v Speaker 1>you go back and you look at it again. He

0:42:23.560 --> 0:42:27.080
<v Speaker 1>was a consummate artist and without question, one of the

0:42:27.400 --> 0:42:33.279
<v Speaker 1>kindest and bravest people I've ever known. Definitely rested. I

0:42:33.360 --> 0:42:37.200
<v Speaker 1>wanted to ask you about the Drake video. When when

0:42:37.280 --> 0:42:39.160
<v Speaker 1>Drake called you to be in that video? Did you

0:42:39.239 --> 0:42:41.759
<v Speaker 1>even know who he was? Because I knew where you

0:42:41.840 --> 0:42:48.960
<v Speaker 1>think I live under a rock, I knew he was.

0:42:49.600 --> 0:42:52.759
<v Speaker 1>I hadn't been able to give answer to the to

0:42:52.920 --> 0:42:55.719
<v Speaker 1>the inquiry. When I talked to my daughter, she said, oh,

0:42:55.800 --> 0:42:57.959
<v Speaker 1>you have to do it. I said, okay, okay, okay,

0:42:58.400 --> 0:43:00.680
<v Speaker 1>I had so much fun. That can't be the first

0:43:00.680 --> 0:43:03.279
<v Speaker 1>time you've been asked to be in a rap video though, right, Yes,

0:43:03.320 --> 0:43:09.440
<v Speaker 1>it was right? Yeah, Wow, that's insane. Wow, it's popularly.

0:43:09.480 --> 0:43:12.160
<v Speaker 1>If you've been for all these years, you know, things

0:43:12.280 --> 0:43:15.400
<v Speaker 1>come when they should and don't when they shouldn't. There go,

0:43:16.000 --> 0:43:18.400
<v Speaker 1>How do you think Black Hollywood has evolved over the

0:43:18.520 --> 0:43:21.200
<v Speaker 1>years since since since you first came in it? Um,

0:43:21.880 --> 0:43:24.840
<v Speaker 1>there was always there were black people in positions that

0:43:24.920 --> 0:43:30.920
<v Speaker 1>we weren't always conscious of, but not maybe so many,

0:43:31.400 --> 0:43:36.440
<v Speaker 1>and now you see black people on many different levels,

0:43:36.520 --> 0:43:40.880
<v Speaker 1>in many different areas and many different positions. It's one

0:43:40.960 --> 0:43:43.719
<v Speaker 1>thing for what you see on the screen, but you

0:43:43.880 --> 0:43:46.640
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't see what's on that screen if it weren't for

0:43:46.719 --> 0:43:49.360
<v Speaker 1>the work of the people who are not on that screen.

0:43:49.719 --> 0:43:54.440
<v Speaker 1>And they are fundamental and essential to what it is

0:43:54.560 --> 0:43:58.480
<v Speaker 1>we see. So we need a total equity in this

0:43:59.160 --> 0:44:05.000
<v Speaker 1>nation of our arts that includes all people. In my career,

0:44:05.120 --> 0:44:08.719
<v Speaker 1>I have worked with only one Native American actor. That

0:44:08.760 --> 0:44:11.720
<v Speaker 1>will makes sense to me. I have worked with only

0:44:12.880 --> 0:44:16.560
<v Speaker 1>one Asian American actor. That doesn't make sense to me.

0:44:16.920 --> 0:44:20.600
<v Speaker 1>There's more for us to do in the field of inclusion.

0:44:21.520 --> 0:44:24.440
<v Speaker 1>There's more for us to embrace, and I look forward

0:44:24.480 --> 0:44:28.240
<v Speaker 1>to us doing that because I think that as a people,

0:44:28.640 --> 0:44:30.799
<v Speaker 1>we are more than ready for it. Now. I look

0:44:30.840 --> 0:44:32.880
<v Speaker 1>back on all of those shows that I grew up

0:44:32.960 --> 0:44:36.239
<v Speaker 1>on in the nineties, and man, it just seemed like

0:44:36.280 --> 0:44:39.879
<v Speaker 1>they were so brilliantly black, and I learned so much

0:44:39.960 --> 0:44:43.600
<v Speaker 1>from them, whether it was cosby different world, living single,

0:44:43.680 --> 0:44:45.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean even Martin, Like all of those shows like that,

0:44:45.719 --> 0:44:48.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what did those sets look like? Because they

0:44:48.320 --> 0:44:50.920
<v Speaker 1>were they were so black that you would think that

0:44:51.120 --> 0:44:54.160
<v Speaker 1>everybody on the set with black, all the writers, the directors,

0:44:54.320 --> 0:44:59.480
<v Speaker 1>the people behind the camera, was or not like that. Nope, No,

0:44:59.600 --> 0:45:04.080
<v Speaker 1>it was wow. Not there were black people behind the camera.

0:45:04.760 --> 0:45:08.280
<v Speaker 1>There were black people in the writer's room, but everybody

0:45:08.880 --> 0:45:12.560
<v Speaker 1>was not black, No, but everybody was on board to

0:45:12.800 --> 0:45:18.239
<v Speaker 1>deliver an excellent program. And that's what matters, because all

0:45:18.280 --> 0:45:22.000
<v Speaker 1>black people don't think alike. And there were interns who

0:45:22.040 --> 0:45:24.520
<v Speaker 1>were being hired every year, and a number of them

0:45:24.600 --> 0:45:27.520
<v Speaker 1>were black, and some of them were not. Our stage

0:45:27.600 --> 0:45:31.680
<v Speaker 1>managers were black, and they were young people, and mister

0:45:31.760 --> 0:45:35.279
<v Speaker 1>Cosby wanted that, so we had that and they were good.

0:45:35.600 --> 0:45:38.319
<v Speaker 1>It was sharp. Young people are keep it fresh, keep

0:45:38.360 --> 0:45:40.640
<v Speaker 1>it new. Yeah, I mean, you know, there was a

0:45:40.719 --> 0:45:44.120
<v Speaker 1>way of including people of different ethnicities. You see it

0:45:44.239 --> 0:45:48.280
<v Speaker 1>reflected in the Rudy's friends. You see her little friends.

0:45:48.360 --> 0:45:51.560
<v Speaker 1>You see how there you see that. Okay, there was

0:45:51.600 --> 0:45:57.440
<v Speaker 1>a way of including people of ethnicities and generations that

0:45:57.719 --> 0:46:01.080
<v Speaker 1>was just a marvel to be a part of. And

0:46:01.280 --> 0:46:04.759
<v Speaker 1>he was not going to have grandparents insulted and made

0:46:04.840 --> 0:46:08.120
<v Speaker 1>fun of the way some shows do make fun of

0:46:08.200 --> 0:46:11.160
<v Speaker 1>people for being older. He said no, he said, no,

0:46:11.280 --> 0:46:16.080
<v Speaker 1>we're not doing that. Our young people show respect and

0:46:16.239 --> 0:46:20.040
<v Speaker 1>it's not a forced thing, it's inherent. And he insisted

0:46:20.120 --> 0:46:22.520
<v Speaker 1>on that. He insisted on a lot of great things,

0:46:23.000 --> 0:46:24.960
<v Speaker 1>even when they introduced hip hop and they bought in

0:46:25.120 --> 0:46:28.640
<v Speaker 1>Erica Alexander, and it wasn't like she was just some ghetto,

0:46:28.640 --> 0:46:33.040
<v Speaker 1>old ratchet young lady. You know, she was just a

0:46:33.160 --> 0:46:35.320
<v Speaker 1>person whose circumstances didn't deal with the best card, and

0:46:35.400 --> 0:46:38.000
<v Speaker 1>she wanted a better life. Yeah, and he understood that.

0:46:38.320 --> 0:46:41.000
<v Speaker 1>He understood that by virtue of the way he grew.

0:46:41.239 --> 0:46:43.480
<v Speaker 1>You still speak to the other cast members, because watching

0:46:43.480 --> 0:46:44.960
<v Speaker 1>it seems like you guys will be on the phone

0:46:44.960 --> 0:46:47.239
<v Speaker 1>with each other all day long. You don't think it's

0:46:47.239 --> 0:46:48.919
<v Speaker 1>a job. Do you still speak to those other cast

0:46:48.960 --> 0:46:51.719
<v Speaker 1>members at all? Every now and then I will hear

0:46:51.880 --> 0:46:56.520
<v Speaker 1>from Malcolm and Keisha, and they have beautiful children and

0:46:56.719 --> 0:46:59.919
<v Speaker 1>they love him. And I told Malcolm he's a finished item.

0:47:00.360 --> 0:47:03.800
<v Speaker 1>He is a daughter and he just can't he can't

0:47:03.880 --> 0:47:10.480
<v Speaker 1>give enough love. He's just he's finished. And you're done, brother,

0:47:10.560 --> 0:47:14.120
<v Speaker 1>You're done. It upset you that they don't people don't

0:47:14.120 --> 0:47:16.759
<v Speaker 1>want to air the episodes of the Cosby Show. Oh no,

0:47:16.960 --> 0:47:21.000
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't upset me. It uh, people still watch, People

0:47:21.040 --> 0:47:23.920
<v Speaker 1>will find ways to watch. You know, I won't be

0:47:24.040 --> 0:47:28.120
<v Speaker 1>upset by things because things change, right, I won't be

0:47:28.280 --> 0:47:32.040
<v Speaker 1>upset And I won't be upset by by things people do,

0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:36.480
<v Speaker 1>because people change. We see that. It's something to see

0:47:36.880 --> 0:47:41.120
<v Speaker 1>and to understand. Years ago, someone who loves me very

0:47:41.200 --> 0:47:44.040
<v Speaker 1>much told me. She said to me, an image can

0:47:44.120 --> 0:47:47.200
<v Speaker 1>be broken. Try to find out who you really are. Wow,

0:47:47.360 --> 0:47:49.640
<v Speaker 1>that's a that's tough to do in this business. It's not.

0:47:49.719 --> 0:47:51.880
<v Speaker 1>It's not. It's not tough to do, but it can

0:47:51.960 --> 0:47:55.480
<v Speaker 1>be a process, just because everybody's always trying to tell

0:47:55.560 --> 0:47:58.200
<v Speaker 1>us what our image should be. And when you open

0:47:58.320 --> 0:48:00.360
<v Speaker 1>up a magazine or you read a blog, people have

0:48:00.440 --> 0:48:02.200
<v Speaker 1>a perception of you like, Oh, that's what they like.

0:48:02.320 --> 0:48:04.000
<v Speaker 1>Let me give them more of that. So you become

0:48:04.040 --> 0:48:07.320
<v Speaker 1>a character of yourself and things become performative without you

0:48:07.400 --> 0:48:10.880
<v Speaker 1>even knowing it. That's a very interesting observation. It's what

0:48:11.040 --> 0:48:13.600
<v Speaker 1>happens in interviews that isn't happening in this one, and

0:48:13.719 --> 0:48:16.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm loving it. You know, when people interview you, they

0:48:17.080 --> 0:48:21.200
<v Speaker 1>come sometimes they come with their answers already in their

0:48:21.239 --> 0:48:24.440
<v Speaker 1>heads to the questions they've decided to ask you. Right,

0:48:25.000 --> 0:48:27.840
<v Speaker 1>so you want, what are we doing here? Why? Okay?

0:48:29.120 --> 0:48:34.440
<v Speaker 1>What what is this? What? What? What? Okay? Why have

0:48:34.560 --> 0:48:37.239
<v Speaker 1>a conversation with me? If you already think you know, yeah,

0:48:37.520 --> 0:48:40.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, okay, so that that's me. Know one thing,

0:48:40.200 --> 0:48:43.000
<v Speaker 1>if nothing else, you will leave this conversation thinking of

0:48:43.080 --> 0:48:45.319
<v Speaker 1>the person that I'm speaking to. That person will leave

0:48:45.320 --> 0:48:50.560
<v Speaker 1>the conversation knowing only what they thought they knew before

0:48:50.600 --> 0:48:53.920
<v Speaker 1>the conversation began. Well, we enjoy you, Queen Rashid, and

0:48:54.160 --> 0:48:56.000
<v Speaker 1>we could sit here and talk to you forever, and

0:48:56.120 --> 0:48:58.800
<v Speaker 1>we appreciate you for checking and we're so grateful and thankful.

0:48:58.840 --> 0:49:01.320
<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much, thank you, thank you. Booth and

0:49:01.480 --> 0:49:03.799
<v Speaker 1>please when you are in New York, please stop by

0:49:03.880 --> 0:49:07.160
<v Speaker 1>the studio absolutely, okay, y'all will Yeah. We have the

0:49:07.280 --> 0:49:09.040
<v Speaker 1>rose petals on the ground for you to walk on

0:49:09.760 --> 0:49:12.359
<v Speaker 1>and we have all that for you, t coffee, whatever

0:49:12.400 --> 0:49:15.640
<v Speaker 1>it is you need. Thank you all right, thank you

0:49:15.719 --> 0:49:17.719
<v Speaker 1>so much, Thank you queen. Thank you so much. For

0:49:17.800 --> 0:49:20.360
<v Speaker 1>Licia Rochard. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Thank you.

0:49:21.719 --> 0:49:35.719
<v Speaker 1>Don't you get you are? I'm gonna fatten all that

0:49:36.040 --> 0:49:39.359
<v Speaker 1>around your man to dog and blowers man. They wait

0:49:39.440 --> 0:49:43.120
<v Speaker 1>for Charlomaye to talk to make a judgment. Who was

0:49:43.120 --> 0:49:45.319
<v Speaker 1>gonna be on the donkey of the day. They chose

0:49:45.360 --> 0:49:48.480
<v Speaker 1>you the breakfast Club, bitch. You who's Dunky of the

0:49:48.560 --> 0:49:51.160
<v Speaker 1>Day to Day. Dunkey of to Day goes to a

0:49:51.239 --> 0:49:54.200
<v Speaker 1>young eighteen year old rapper named why being Almighty Jay. Now,

0:49:54.239 --> 0:49:57.680
<v Speaker 1>why being Almighty JA is an anti social distance? And

0:49:57.719 --> 0:50:00.839
<v Speaker 1>you know what I say about antisocial distances. They are

0:50:00.880 --> 0:50:03.080
<v Speaker 1>the same type of folks who wouldn't have gotten on

0:50:03.160 --> 0:50:05.920
<v Speaker 1>the arc when Noah told him it was about the rain.

0:50:06.000 --> 0:50:09.920
<v Speaker 1>And we've seen so many stories of antisocial distances getting

0:50:10.000 --> 0:50:12.799
<v Speaker 1>sick and in some cases like Bishop Gerald Glenn who

0:50:12.880 --> 0:50:18.239
<v Speaker 1>said God is larger than Corona, well he died. So

0:50:18.440 --> 0:50:21.160
<v Speaker 1>when we tell you that you need to practice antisocial distancing,

0:50:21.239 --> 0:50:23.359
<v Speaker 1>we are telling you not just for your own good,

0:50:23.400 --> 0:50:25.359
<v Speaker 1>but for the good of others. Because we all got

0:50:25.440 --> 0:50:27.600
<v Speaker 1>things to do. We all need to get back outside

0:50:27.680 --> 0:50:30.319
<v Speaker 1>so we can get back to the real hustle of life.

0:50:30.360 --> 0:50:32.840
<v Speaker 1>And we can't do that unless we social distance and

0:50:32.960 --> 0:50:35.839
<v Speaker 1>flatten this curve. You see, social distancing is working all

0:50:35.880 --> 0:50:37.480
<v Speaker 1>around the country, so we need to continue to do

0:50:37.600 --> 0:50:39.880
<v Speaker 1>more of it so we can get back outside. Now,

0:50:39.960 --> 0:50:42.239
<v Speaker 1>why being Almighty J is upset with us because of

0:50:42.360 --> 0:50:45.239
<v Speaker 1>this rumor report? Let's hear it. I Being Almighty J.

0:50:45.520 --> 0:50:48.000
<v Speaker 1>He was tucking at TMZ and he said that he's

0:50:48.040 --> 0:50:50.839
<v Speaker 1>just not taking coronavirus seriously. Here's what he said, I've

0:50:50.880 --> 0:50:54.960
<v Speaker 1>been playing the game. I don't know I had been

0:50:55.040 --> 0:50:56.840
<v Speaker 1>really taking it serious. I just really tried to go

0:50:56.920 --> 0:50:59.880
<v Speaker 1>to him, but I still didn't have a life for others.

0:51:00.640 --> 0:51:03.480
<v Speaker 1>Even though you're supposed to be social distancing, of course,

0:51:03.600 --> 0:51:06.360
<v Speaker 1>we don't social business. Are you checking their temperature or

0:51:06.400 --> 0:51:10.160
<v Speaker 1>anything when they come in? Like, are you taking any precautions? Man?

0:51:10.560 --> 0:51:12.919
<v Speaker 1>So well, he's a young man who also has also

0:51:13.000 --> 0:51:15.120
<v Speaker 1>has unprotected sex with randoms, I'm sure. So if you

0:51:15.200 --> 0:51:17.279
<v Speaker 1>have unprotected sex with randoms, you damn trying afraid with

0:51:17.360 --> 0:51:19.759
<v Speaker 1>no afraid of no coronavirus. Right, So even though he's

0:51:19.760 --> 0:51:22.160
<v Speaker 1>staying in the house, you can't just be meeting women

0:51:22.239 --> 0:51:25.000
<v Speaker 1>and inviting them over during this time. You could be

0:51:25.120 --> 0:51:29.040
<v Speaker 1>infecting them with coronavirus once they infect you and you're

0:51:29.080 --> 0:51:32.279
<v Speaker 1>spreading it around. It's really times and maybe just be

0:51:32.520 --> 0:51:36.880
<v Speaker 1>celibate for a second. But he's the young man who

0:51:36.920 --> 0:51:38.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure it takes chances with his penis and has

0:51:38.680 --> 0:51:41.440
<v Speaker 1>a lot of unprotected sex with randoms. So he responded

0:51:41.480 --> 0:51:44.360
<v Speaker 1>to that by posting that on his Instagram, and he

0:51:44.480 --> 0:51:47.359
<v Speaker 1>put this caption some things in this world. I would

0:51:47.400 --> 0:51:50.279
<v Speaker 1>never understand. I get judged so much by lame ass

0:51:50.400 --> 0:51:52.719
<v Speaker 1>mother fffs that don't know me in real life. And

0:51:52.880 --> 0:51:56.040
<v Speaker 1>mother f was that just try hate on young negroes.

0:51:56.320 --> 0:51:59.200
<v Speaker 1>This right here? Crazy Swipe left to see a different

0:51:59.239 --> 0:52:02.959
<v Speaker 1>response to the same statement at Breakfast Club. Am old

0:52:03.160 --> 0:52:08.440
<v Speaker 1>miserable bitches? First of First of all, why Being Almighty

0:52:08.520 --> 0:52:11.200
<v Speaker 1>J compared to you? You're eighteen, I'm forty one. I'm old.

0:52:11.320 --> 0:52:14.160
<v Speaker 1>I get it. I may even be a bit depending

0:52:14.200 --> 0:52:17.680
<v Speaker 1>on the circumstances, and I'm fine with that, But miserable. Never.

0:52:18.120 --> 0:52:20.640
<v Speaker 1>My life is amazing. My self worth is more than

0:52:20.719 --> 0:52:23.160
<v Speaker 1>my net worth, but my network, my net worth isn't bad.

0:52:23.239 --> 0:52:26.160
<v Speaker 1>What'll say you? Envy is pretty good. I'm all right out.

0:52:26.200 --> 0:52:31.480
<v Speaker 1>Here's what say you? It's decent. Yeah, I'm happy, Okay, okay, okay.

0:52:31.560 --> 0:52:35.760
<v Speaker 1>So nobody's miserable in the room. Yeah everybody got all right? Okay,

0:52:36.000 --> 0:52:37.960
<v Speaker 1>all right now. Now, the reason why Being Almighty J

0:52:38.160 --> 0:52:41.160
<v Speaker 1>is getting dunkey today is because clearly he just wants attention.

0:52:41.200 --> 0:52:43.600
<v Speaker 1>He's sitting in the house quarantine and he's happy he

0:52:43.680 --> 0:52:46.160
<v Speaker 1>got mentioned on the Breakfast Club. And listen, if you

0:52:46.239 --> 0:52:48.440
<v Speaker 1>didn't like what we said. Cool, Okay, you have every

0:52:48.520 --> 0:52:51.080
<v Speaker 1>right to respond, but let's state the facts. You're posted

0:52:51.120 --> 0:52:53.400
<v Speaker 1>a clip with a Breakfast Club talking to Bootsey, and

0:52:53.520 --> 0:52:55.800
<v Speaker 1>you're edited the clip to make it seem like we

0:52:55.920 --> 0:52:59.279
<v Speaker 1>had nothing that we had something like we had something

0:52:59.320 --> 0:53:02.120
<v Speaker 1>to say about you being an antisocial distancer, but didn't

0:53:02.160 --> 0:53:04.279
<v Speaker 1>reply to boosting you said. Swipe left to see a

0:53:04.320 --> 0:53:06.680
<v Speaker 1>different response to the same statement. Can we hear the

0:53:06.719 --> 0:53:09.280
<v Speaker 1>clip that Y being Almighty J posted on his Instagram

0:53:09.480 --> 0:53:11.480
<v Speaker 1>and speaking of strangers, how long you've been with this woman?

0:53:11.480 --> 0:53:13.600
<v Speaker 1>Because you got to be quarantining right now, so you

0:53:13.640 --> 0:53:18.920
<v Speaker 1>should be a social distancing so you must that social

0:53:19.000 --> 0:53:24.880
<v Speaker 1>disc and all that you know. We just seen a

0:53:24.920 --> 0:53:26.960
<v Speaker 1>couple of I guess a couple of weeks ago. It

0:53:27.120 --> 0:53:31.399
<v Speaker 1>was not mad at possibly hollering that Rihanna. Now, last

0:53:31.440 --> 0:53:33.680
<v Speaker 1>time I checked this Booty interview we did on Breakfast Club,

0:53:33.719 --> 0:53:36.640
<v Speaker 1>it got like a million view So clearly you are

0:53:36.719 --> 0:53:39.000
<v Speaker 1>one of those people who watched the whole interview, or

0:53:39.040 --> 0:53:41.360
<v Speaker 1>maybe you didn't watch the whole interview. I'm thinking you

0:53:41.400 --> 0:53:43.560
<v Speaker 1>didn't watch the whole interview, but no, I think you

0:53:43.640 --> 0:53:47.520
<v Speaker 1>did watch the whole interview, but you decided to edit

0:53:47.600 --> 0:53:51.920
<v Speaker 1>it to make yourself look good, even though you know

0:53:52.120 --> 0:53:55.839
<v Speaker 1>we pushed back on Bootsey being an antisocial distancer. Let's

0:53:55.880 --> 0:53:57.800
<v Speaker 1>hear it speaking of strangers, how long you've been with

0:53:57.880 --> 0:54:00.200
<v Speaker 1>this woman? Because you gotta be quarantining right now out

0:54:00.239 --> 0:54:02.520
<v Speaker 1>so you should be social distancing. So you must notice

0:54:03.640 --> 0:54:06.080
<v Speaker 1>you're not quarantine anywhere. About all that social distance and

0:54:06.160 --> 0:54:09.920
<v Speaker 1>all that quarantine. We threw a part of ads everywhere.

0:54:10.120 --> 0:54:14.000
<v Speaker 1>We don't say it, just it you don't people really sick.

0:54:14.320 --> 0:54:17.600
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say, you know, you don't believe in coronavirus, Boosey.

0:54:18.600 --> 0:54:20.480
<v Speaker 1>I think I had it off, but I don't give

0:54:20.640 --> 0:54:24.319
<v Speaker 1>about no coronavirus. Kind of basically live on faith. People

0:54:24.320 --> 0:54:27.680
<v Speaker 1>are dying, o Boosey. Yeah, but people are surviving too.

0:54:28.040 --> 0:54:29.399
<v Speaker 1>I get what you're saying. But you know they say

0:54:29.440 --> 0:54:31.520
<v Speaker 1>faith without works is then so if they tell you

0:54:31.680 --> 0:54:34.160
<v Speaker 1>that you can social distance and wear a mask to

0:54:34.320 --> 0:54:36.720
<v Speaker 1>prevent from getting it, you can you can work towards

0:54:36.800 --> 0:54:40.239
<v Speaker 1>not getting it, I guess. But I ain't trying to

0:54:40.320 --> 0:54:42.640
<v Speaker 1>let this stress me out as far as like like

0:54:42.719 --> 0:54:45.200
<v Speaker 1>getting throwing everybody else every day. I'm trying to I'm

0:54:45.280 --> 0:54:48.600
<v Speaker 1>trying to have fun, get money, and turn no busy.

0:54:48.800 --> 0:54:52.359
<v Speaker 1>Coronavirus is killing people. We got to flatten this curve. All.

0:54:52.400 --> 0:54:55.440
<v Speaker 1>He needed a little social distancing for a couple of weeks, right, Boosey.

0:54:55.480 --> 0:54:57.600
<v Speaker 1>Gotta stay healthy out there now though, Man, we're gonna

0:54:57.600 --> 0:54:59.560
<v Speaker 1>be all right. Man. All y'all gotta do is pray

0:54:59.680 --> 0:55:02.280
<v Speaker 1>up out. But I ain't messed with the corona though, Boosey,

0:55:02.280 --> 0:55:06.360
<v Speaker 1>I ain't messing with that. I'm scared. Yeah, and I

0:55:06.480 --> 0:55:09.240
<v Speaker 1>worry about you, Boosey, because you got diabetes and corona

0:55:09.440 --> 0:55:12.920
<v Speaker 1>is really taking people out who have pre existing health conditions. Man,

0:55:13.040 --> 0:55:15.759
<v Speaker 1>So you gotta be cautious, bro. Yeah, that's what they say.

0:55:16.160 --> 0:55:18.319
<v Speaker 1>But I gotta live. If it's time for me to die,

0:55:18.480 --> 0:55:20.919
<v Speaker 1>time me to die. Come on, almighty, j you heard

0:55:20.960 --> 0:55:22.920
<v Speaker 1>that as well. You knew that, young man, but you

0:55:23.000 --> 0:55:25.960
<v Speaker 1>wanted to manipulate your followers. You really wanted to show

0:55:26.000 --> 0:55:28.000
<v Speaker 1>your followers that the Breakfast Club is talking about you,

0:55:28.120 --> 0:55:30.000
<v Speaker 1>so you had to act fake mad and edit a

0:55:30.000 --> 0:55:33.440
<v Speaker 1>Boosey interview to create a story. You're you are acting

0:55:33.520 --> 0:55:35.840
<v Speaker 1>like the media. You claim to be mad at what

0:55:35.960 --> 0:55:39.080
<v Speaker 1>you did. It's clickbait. This is Donald Trumps six nine

0:55:39.160 --> 0:55:41.120
<v Speaker 1>level trolling. You are doing what a lot of people

0:55:41.160 --> 0:55:43.719
<v Speaker 1>in your generation do, and that's cloud Chase. Look, you

0:55:43.840 --> 0:55:46.000
<v Speaker 1>got five hundred and fifty comments out of the deal.

0:55:46.280 --> 0:55:48.680
<v Speaker 1>Congratulations sir. Matter of fact, let's see if we can

0:55:48.760 --> 0:55:51.200
<v Speaker 1>double that this morning. Let's have a petty party this morning.

0:55:51.280 --> 0:55:54.800
<v Speaker 1>Let's go to YBN Almighty J's ig page. That's what

0:55:54.960 --> 0:55:57.960
<v Speaker 1>it is. It's y B N A L M I

0:55:58.080 --> 0:56:01.320
<v Speaker 1>g h T y j A Y Why Being Almighty J.

0:56:01.640 --> 0:56:04.320
<v Speaker 1>Let's go to his page and leave the donkey emoji

0:56:04.560 --> 0:56:07.040
<v Speaker 1>and some handclaps in his mentions because he got the

0:56:07.120 --> 0:56:09.520
<v Speaker 1>attention he's looking for and we can celebrate that with

0:56:09.600 --> 0:56:12.480
<v Speaker 1>a round of applause. Okay, round of appolosophy, your editing skills,

0:56:12.760 --> 0:56:15.600
<v Speaker 1>round of applosphy, attention you received from doing this. Because

0:56:15.840 --> 0:56:18.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't think we've talked about the young man on

0:56:18.880 --> 0:56:20.759
<v Speaker 1>here before. I know why Being Cordey has been here,

0:56:20.800 --> 0:56:23.319
<v Speaker 1>Why Being Cordey is fantastic artist. I don't think you've

0:56:23.320 --> 0:56:25.759
<v Speaker 1>ever talked about Jay. But Jay, in case you're upset

0:56:25.840 --> 0:56:27.960
<v Speaker 1>with what I was saying by you still sleeping with

0:56:28.080 --> 0:56:30.920
<v Speaker 1>randoms during a global pandemic, you probably all used to

0:56:30.920 --> 0:56:33.399
<v Speaker 1>sleeping with women unprotected, so you're used to taking risk.

0:56:33.440 --> 0:56:35.680
<v Speaker 1>But the moral of the story is King, don't take

0:56:35.840 --> 0:56:38.360
<v Speaker 1>risk with your health. Okay, you don't have to yolo

0:56:38.520 --> 0:56:41.040
<v Speaker 1>your life away. You wouldn't play a game of Russian roulette,

0:56:41.080 --> 0:56:43.239
<v Speaker 1>would you? So why I play Russian Roulette with your

0:56:43.280 --> 0:56:46.120
<v Speaker 1>health by having random women come over to sleep with them.

0:56:46.480 --> 0:56:48.200
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say it's your life. But in a case

0:56:48.320 --> 0:56:50.360
<v Speaker 1>like this, it's not just your life because you're putting

0:56:50.400 --> 0:56:53.560
<v Speaker 1>other people at risk too, because you get sick, don't

0:56:53.560 --> 0:56:56.920
<v Speaker 1>show symptoms, run around wherever you live and possibly infect

0:56:56.960 --> 0:57:00.440
<v Speaker 1>other people, and you, sir, are a rapper, enters a

0:57:00.520 --> 0:57:02.920
<v Speaker 1>canceled and tell fall twenty twenty one. That means no

0:57:03.120 --> 0:57:06.839
<v Speaker 1>show money. You know why, because people like you don't

0:57:06.880 --> 0:57:09.400
<v Speaker 1>want to follow the rules and social distance. Okay, we

0:57:09.440 --> 0:57:11.680
<v Speaker 1>got to flatten the curve. So not only are you

0:57:11.760 --> 0:57:15.320
<v Speaker 1>going to be possibly sick, you might be potentially broke.

0:57:15.440 --> 0:57:18.400
<v Speaker 1>That money gonna get low, okay, So excuse me for

0:57:18.520 --> 0:57:22.120
<v Speaker 1>looking out for you, almighty j okay by telling you

0:57:22.200 --> 0:57:25.720
<v Speaker 1>that you need the social distance for once again, antisocial

0:57:25.800 --> 0:57:28.360
<v Speaker 1>distances are the same type of people who wouldn't have

0:57:28.440 --> 0:57:31.280
<v Speaker 1>gotten on the ARC when Noah told him too. So look,

0:57:31.600 --> 0:57:34.920
<v Speaker 1>we can tell you all data social distance, but if

0:57:35.040 --> 0:57:38.720
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to let him drown, please give the

0:57:38.800 --> 0:57:45.480
<v Speaker 1>young man Almighty J the biggest he hull, all right right,

0:57:45.520 --> 0:57:47.240
<v Speaker 1>and make sure make sure you go to YB and

0:57:47.360 --> 0:57:51.000
<v Speaker 1>Almighty J's Instagram page YB and A L M I

0:57:51.080 --> 0:57:53.080
<v Speaker 1>G H T y J A Y. Let's have a

0:57:53.120 --> 0:57:56.000
<v Speaker 1>little petty party, give him a round of applause and

0:57:56.200 --> 0:57:59.160
<v Speaker 1>also put the donkey emoji in his comments. And maybe

0:57:59.200 --> 0:58:01.120
<v Speaker 1>tell a young man why he should, you know, be

0:58:01.280 --> 0:58:05.000
<v Speaker 1>social distancing. He's eighteen. He just needs to learn, that's all.

0:58:05.280 --> 0:58:06.960
<v Speaker 1>God bless him. And you know how I know he

0:58:07.080 --> 0:58:11.400
<v Speaker 1>probably was a uh have an unprotected sex. I'm taking risk.

0:58:12.200 --> 0:58:15.919
<v Speaker 1>That's what I was doing that eighteen, all right. That's

0:58:16.400 --> 0:58:19.960
<v Speaker 1>that's how I know the donkey of the donkey of

0:58:20.000 --> 0:58:22.880
<v Speaker 1>the day or not. Everybody, please just be safe, okay,

0:58:23.360 --> 0:58:25.240
<v Speaker 1>you never know what's gonna happen. We've seen a lot

0:58:25.280 --> 0:58:28.320
<v Speaker 1>of people who did not think they could potentially catch it,

0:58:28.400 --> 0:58:33.080
<v Speaker 1>didn't take it seriously, end up getting sick or else.

0:58:33.400 --> 0:58:35.800
<v Speaker 1>Please take it seriously. That's all. We're saying that to

0:58:35.960 --> 0:58:41.040
<v Speaker 1>anybody who's not following a thank you for that. Say

0:58:41.080 --> 0:58:43.360
<v Speaker 1>it's anybody because you said it about one of your

0:58:43.600 --> 0:58:47.080
<v Speaker 1>some of your cowboys players, including Jack Prescott, So that's right.

0:58:47.120 --> 0:58:49.040
<v Speaker 1>I did give it the donkey day for that, that

0:58:49.120 --> 0:58:51.360
<v Speaker 1>can see. Yeah, all right, well thank you for that

0:58:51.480 --> 0:58:54.840
<v Speaker 1>donkey of the day, You old miserable bitch. You. I'm

0:58:54.880 --> 0:59:00.040
<v Speaker 1>not miserable. Old may be maybe an old bitch, and

0:59:00.080 --> 0:59:03.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not miserable. All right. We got more coming up next.

0:59:03.160 --> 0:59:11.120
<v Speaker 1>We're a breakfast club. The breakfast club the relationship advice.

0:59:11.680 --> 0:59:15.160
<v Speaker 1>Need personal advice, just the real advice. Call up down

0:59:15.240 --> 0:59:20.720
<v Speaker 1>for ask ye morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

0:59:20.840 --> 0:59:23.080
<v Speaker 1>Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast club, A time

0:59:23.120 --> 0:59:26.800
<v Speaker 1>for asking ye Hello? Who's this? Try? I don't want

0:59:26.800 --> 0:59:30.600
<v Speaker 1>to stay anonymous? All right, anonymous, what's your question for you? Okay?

0:59:30.760 --> 0:59:34.720
<v Speaker 1>So me and my husband have been married almost two

0:59:34.800 --> 0:59:39.240
<v Speaker 1>years now. Before I started dating him, I was dating

0:59:39.240 --> 0:59:42.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot of women, so I'm not really like experienced

0:59:43.080 --> 0:59:47.600
<v Speaker 1>with like the oral stuff for men. So I tried

0:59:47.960 --> 0:59:51.760
<v Speaker 1>and he didn't like it. So we haven't had boil

0:59:51.840 --> 0:59:55.360
<v Speaker 1>sex in a while. But I feel confident in my

0:59:55.480 --> 0:59:59.640
<v Speaker 1>ability to perform where he can be pleased. But he

1:00:00.000 --> 1:00:03.680
<v Speaker 1>don't take me seriously because it's been so long since

1:00:03.760 --> 1:00:07.440
<v Speaker 1>he's had it. Okay, so you know what you're doing now,

1:00:07.480 --> 1:00:10.880
<v Speaker 1>you feel confident? Well, I don't. I wouldn't. I don't

1:00:10.880 --> 1:00:13.240
<v Speaker 1>even know if I I feel confident, But I don't

1:00:13.280 --> 1:00:15.280
<v Speaker 1>know if it's gonna be right until you know, I

1:00:15.320 --> 1:00:17.960
<v Speaker 1>actually try. But he won't let me try because he

1:00:18.040 --> 1:00:19.720
<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to be a guinea pig and end up

1:00:19.720 --> 1:00:22.880
<v Speaker 1>with some abrasions on his penis. Yeah, so I'm trying

1:00:22.920 --> 1:00:25.360
<v Speaker 1>to figure out how to set it up to where

1:00:25.880 --> 1:00:30.000
<v Speaker 1>he can be comfortable enough to allow me to see, okay,

1:00:30.160 --> 1:00:34.200
<v Speaker 1>what progression I've made, and then go from there. Okay,

1:00:34.240 --> 1:00:36.280
<v Speaker 1>so look, this is what I think. Right before you

1:00:36.360 --> 1:00:38.520
<v Speaker 1>guys get to it, when you're doing your four play,

1:00:39.000 --> 1:00:41.080
<v Speaker 1>you should ask him, can I just kiss it? I'm

1:00:41.080 --> 1:00:43.280
<v Speaker 1>not gonna do anything more than that, and then you

1:00:43.320 --> 1:00:46.200
<v Speaker 1>should kiss it, and then you should ton kiss it,

1:00:46.600 --> 1:00:48.320
<v Speaker 1>and then you should just do a little bit more,

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more until you know he's feeling good

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and then you know that's when you go

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more. But just make sure that you

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<v Speaker 1>keep your mouth very lubricated, don't use your teeth, tuck

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<v Speaker 1>them away. Okay, but I think you just want I

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<v Speaker 1>just I think you're starting to feel less confident what

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<v Speaker 1>we're definitely not talking about that, but I just listen,

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<v Speaker 1>just started off. So just say, look, I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>kiss it. I'm not gonna do anything else. And then

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<v Speaker 1>when you kiss it, right, kissing could mean anything. It

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<v Speaker 1>could be closed mouth, open mouth, and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just play around with that area and then if he

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<v Speaker 1>likes it, he'll be okay with you going a little further.

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<v Speaker 1>If he likes it, though, ask him because as a man,

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<v Speaker 1>he may he may just accept it just because the

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<v Speaker 1>love of me as his wife, but he may not

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<v Speaker 1>want to actually tell me that he's enjoying what's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm trying to like what signs I should look

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<v Speaker 1>for when well, first of all, there's nothing better than

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<v Speaker 1>asking a direct question, and you can ask it like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do you like that? Well, tell me what you want

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<v Speaker 1>me to do, and I'm gonna do it and be like,

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<v Speaker 1>how would you like it better? What? You know, just

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<v Speaker 1>ask those questions, but you could do it in a

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<v Speaker 1>sexy way so that he's gonna direct you to the

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<v Speaker 1>way to do it and just be like, leg, tell

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<v Speaker 1>me what to do. Uh huh. Okay, well I will

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<v Speaker 1>try that and I'll let you know how to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I cannot wait to hear about it. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys talk a good morning you too, And that

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<v Speaker 1>was another edition service all right, it really didn't sound

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<v Speaker 1>like you was talking about DJ Envy riding his bike

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<v Speaker 1>though I'm not gonna go why why, because that's what

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<v Speaker 1>he's visualizing. I had to think about talking about I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna marry man. You got these fantasies about me and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like it. I'm starting to feel uncomfortable. You're

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<v Speaker 1>a liar. What's with you? I'm gonna keep a real

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<v Speaker 1>get some real advice with Anthela. Yet's ask ye morning?

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is cj Envy and Ngela Yee, Charlomagne the god

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<v Speaker 1>be all the breakfast club. But in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>ask ye what you want to go to ye yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Line for Hello? Who's this? Hey? This is poor show

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<v Speaker 1>called from Chuston. What's your question for you? Okay? So

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<v Speaker 1>I have a question. Um. Basically, I've been dealing with

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<v Speaker 1>some sexual harassment at my job with my supervisor m

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<v Speaker 1>so I took the appropriate steps we to hr even

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<v Speaker 1>talked to a lawyer about the situation, but it seems

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<v Speaker 1>like they're not trying to let this manager go. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, what's the next step. What should I

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<v Speaker 1>do from this point on? Should I just find another job?

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<v Speaker 1>Should I keep pushing the issue because I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>he's retaliaing. You feel like he's you feel like he's retaliating.

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<v Speaker 1>You said yes, like, give me some examples. Um, Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>like he tried to put me on third shift without

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<v Speaker 1>telling me, which was one thing. Another thing, he nick

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<v Speaker 1>picks at little things that he claimed I'm doing wrong

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm an industrial technician. So I worked through maintenance

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<v Speaker 1>department seeing that I'm one of the girls with a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of guys. Um, he just kind of nickpicks at

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<v Speaker 1>me for little things that I feel like, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>not even serious to nick pick over because he never

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<v Speaker 1>did before until I went to HR about him. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so here's a couple of things. First of all, you

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<v Speaker 1>said that you've complained, right, yes, So I went to

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<v Speaker 1>HR twice and so their response is what, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>work on it. We're gonna work on him. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>try to figure out how we're going to make you

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable wire being here because we know you're not, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's pretty much it. And they're dragging their seat about

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<v Speaker 1>letting them go or you know, what are they going

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<v Speaker 1>to do with the supervisor? I had proofs that he

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<v Speaker 1>did that right, text message and everything. So you have

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<v Speaker 1>all of this in writing and you've emailed them and

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<v Speaker 1>they've responded via email. I highly recommend you get yourself

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<v Speaker 1>a lawyer. That's when they take things seriously, okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>you should not ever have to work under those circumstances.

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<v Speaker 1>You should feel safe and protected at work. If you

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<v Speaker 1>go to HR with a complaint and evidence that somebody

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<v Speaker 1>is doing this see you and making you feel this

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<v Speaker 1>way at work and you're uncomfortable and you're feeling belittled,

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<v Speaker 1>then you need to make sure that you take those

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<v Speaker 1>matters into your own hand, because you have the power

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. Okay, Well, I'll probably just go back

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<v Speaker 1>to the attorney I was talking to. She told me

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<v Speaker 1>that the only way she can take my cases at

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<v Speaker 1>the job was to fire me or there was no

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<v Speaker 1>changes moving forward. So because there's no changes, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>going to go back to her. Yeah. Absolutely, And it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you have a legitimate case. You have these

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<v Speaker 1>text messages. Plus, I think you have to keep a

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<v Speaker 1>record of what's been happening at work since you've been

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<v Speaker 1>complaining to hr and all the things that he's been

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<v Speaker 1>Every detail that you can get, and anything that you

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<v Speaker 1>can get in writing as evidence you should try to

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<v Speaker 1>get and make sure you send those emails, make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you show what their responses are, present all of those

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<v Speaker 1>to a lawyer. You definitely have a case. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think this is great because you don't want this to

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<v Speaker 1>happen to somebody else. So it's great that you spoke up.

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<v Speaker 1>You've done what you're supposed to do on your part.

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<v Speaker 1>They haven't done what they're supposed to do on their

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<v Speaker 1>behalfs And now it's trying to move it to the

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<v Speaker 1>next level. Hey look, heah, you ain't got no You

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<v Speaker 1>ain't got none of your cousins that can come box

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<v Speaker 1>him any more. I mean, I do got cousins who

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<v Speaker 1>want to come ball walk him out now, but less

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, I don't this is a white man, So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want my people to getting lonk off for

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<v Speaker 1>that though, And I ain't carrying a white man now.

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<v Speaker 1>That man ain't got no business trying to feel on

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<v Speaker 1>your bunkie at work now. Yeah, you be trying to

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<v Speaker 1>talk what you want touch to the tattoo and all

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<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff you want to touch the tattoo like

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<v Speaker 1>you damn man, you are not getting none of your

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<v Speaker 1>families locked up over there. Well, I need your cousin

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<v Speaker 1>to walker of course, relaxed, stay out of get you

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<v Speaker 1>full conversation, give me a face. I want to full

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<v Speaker 1>conversation now, stay out of the joke. Out of her

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<v Speaker 1>sexual harassment. No joke. I'm talking to her in our

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<v Speaker 1>native language. Just get you Charleston golor eight four three

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<v Speaker 1>all day. Yeah, but I'm at your girl. I know

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<v Speaker 1>it has to be tough for you to go to

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<v Speaker 1>work every day under those circumstances and not feel like

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<v Speaker 1>anybody cares. I'm so uncomfortable every day, and it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I left work today just to get away. It took

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<v Speaker 1>a sick day just to be there with them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a terrible feeling. So you have to nip this

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<v Speaker 1>in the butt and let them know you ain't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>keep this going. I have the power over you, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna make y'all look crazy exactly. Thank you, Charlomagne.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, though, I love you, Mom. I'm city

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<v Speaker 1>is doing you got your cousins? I need to shut

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<v Speaker 1>up by punching them off. Thank you so much. I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking about it. If you sneaking, sneak asking ye,

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<v Speaker 1>eight hundred and five five one oh five one. If

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<v Speaker 1>you need relationship advice, yeah, help you out. Now keep

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<v Speaker 1>a lock. It's the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that time ask Charlomagne a dj envy anything up?

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<v Speaker 1>Pick it up, it up? It's time to ask morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is dj envy Angela. Ye, Charlomagne the guy. We

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<v Speaker 1>are the breakfast Club. Now it's time for as C

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<v Speaker 1>and e. Angeli is out, so Charlomagne and I will

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<v Speaker 1>be holding it down. So let's go to the callers. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this? Then? What's up? Bro? What's your question for?

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<v Speaker 1>C an E? Order me something? Man? All mean something? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Give me something? Ain't Charlomagne? Yeah, listen, I got a

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<v Speaker 1>question for your real quick like Look I got I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be married for like so too. Ment me right. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying with menitary, I got one hundred percent disabilities.

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<v Speaker 1>I originally called who say something about my wife? But

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<v Speaker 1>if this anyway, look I need your help. I needed

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<v Speaker 1>your help like a year ago because one of my

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<v Speaker 1>disabilities is that is and all the stuff, and I

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<v Speaker 1>almost cute my fla. I got two kids, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>so reasually, why I'm calling me is because you always

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<v Speaker 1>speak a mental health right, and I'm Domnicans, I'm Dominican, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so we don't believe in that stuff, just like black people.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean. I can see myself like,

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<v Speaker 1>not that I consider myself black, That's not what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>but we are. You know what I'm saying. Okay, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm Okay, cool, I want you to take my

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<v Speaker 1>number because I'm gonna need you. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm getting help right now with my mental health.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, And I'm getting better. But

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying is I try to call these organizations

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<v Speaker 1>before because I feel like, you know how sometime guy

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<v Speaker 1>tells you to like do something, and you you either

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<v Speaker 1>listen to it or you don't. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was calling you back then when I was

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<v Speaker 1>in my darkest place because I feel that you had

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<v Speaker 1>the answer to help me out. Well, I'll tell you what.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have all the answers, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still going on my journey, just like you going

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<v Speaker 1>on your journey. But I do have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>resources and a lot of people that you can talk to,

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<v Speaker 1>people that you know have have helped me get through.

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<v Speaker 1>And I have no problem sharing those resources with you,

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<v Speaker 1>my my Dominican brother. Okay, hold on, hold one second.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna get your information. But I got a real

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<v Speaker 1>question for the brother though. Ok ahead, go ahead, ask

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<v Speaker 1>me a question. You're a Dominican, right, yes, sir? How

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<v Speaker 1>many pair of white jeans do you own? Or have

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<v Speaker 1>you owned? I knew it throughout your life? Seriously? Old on,

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<v Speaker 1>like seriously, probably like once or twice because there was

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<v Speaker 1>a white party and I needed everything white. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so all the many kids don't have white jeans? Show

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<v Speaker 1>me hold on, man, yes to that man about his

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<v Speaker 1>white jeans. Man, I'm about to get your I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get your number. Leave your number with the producer. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna hit you up. I'm hit you in the show

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<v Speaker 1>over in like an hour. All right, goodness, gracious, hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this yo? This magic? Magic? Questions to me? Yo, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I got I got some questions, man, A little relationship

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<v Speaker 1>problem I got going on right now, go on my

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<v Speaker 1>girl for a year. She got three kids and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>she's pregnant now with the fourth one by me. This

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<v Speaker 1>is my first one, but like it ain't even she

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<v Speaker 1>got three from another man. She got three different baby daddies.

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<v Speaker 1>Well she has four now four baby daddy now, well ahead, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it's been rough to me. Man, It's like

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<v Speaker 1>I go through hell. I do everything she hasked me

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<v Speaker 1>to do. Basically, I've been a dude boy for her

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<v Speaker 1>since she's been pregnant. And she called me selfish just

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<v Speaker 1>because like I complain or something like that for getting

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<v Speaker 1>up in the middle of the night doing something for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm wanted to sold to shut up. But she

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<v Speaker 1>don't respect you, bron. It's kind of hard to respect

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<v Speaker 1>the fourth baby daddy. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm scared for my life though for real, man, I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't say she put hands on you. Yeah she has

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<v Speaker 1>she has, Yeah, yeah, I ain't. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>This is this one time incident, but that's what she

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<v Speaker 1>used to know that in her path and I'm toxic woman.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not that guy you know from you. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>your eggs baby daddy or nothing like that. Want to

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<v Speaker 1>come home, get drunk and put you know, put my

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<v Speaker 1>hands on your stuff like that. You know, I communicate,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just talk to me with whatever the problem is,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll try to solve instead of this argument back and forth.

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<v Speaker 1>But like I said, she ain't got the here hood

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<v Speaker 1>and not so pregnant now and Nazi time. I set

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<v Speaker 1>want to be with me, no mode, And that's not

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<v Speaker 1>what I wanted my wife, my first job. I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be old family, not just I feel bad for you,

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<v Speaker 1>BROI with somebody that's toxic. Oh man, are you taking

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<v Speaker 1>other three kids too? I'm thirty one having my first child,

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<v Speaker 1>and it ain't how I wanted to be a crazy

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<v Speaker 1>boy If you don't listen to me, are you taking

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<v Speaker 1>care of others? Three kids? Barely? Are you taking care

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<v Speaker 1>of them? So you are? You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'll do what she asked me to do for

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<v Speaker 1>them or whatnot? Boy, listen if the roles were reversed

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<v Speaker 1>and you was dating a toxic man with four different

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<v Speaker 1>baby mamas who put hands on you what would your

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<v Speaker 1>girls be telling you to do? Leave? People sen telling

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<v Speaker 1>me to leave, But I just didn't listen. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why I really listen to goddamn girlfriends. Your girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>right now, you said you fair for your life. She

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<v Speaker 1>puts hands on you, She makes you do everything. You

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<v Speaker 1>sound like you do everything, and you're about to lose it.

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<v Speaker 1>So you better leave her alone before she hit you

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<v Speaker 1>with an envy front pen greet your girlfriends. Envya's Joan Clayton.

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<v Speaker 1>We're telling you to leave Maya. Okay, Actually you would

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<v Speaker 1>be leaving this situation like this something Lynne would get

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<v Speaker 1>herself into. All right, you got she got three kids

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<v Speaker 1>already from three different baby daddies. He got one on

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<v Speaker 1>the way from you. Be a father to your child.

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<v Speaker 1>But this sounds like a very toxic human that you're

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<v Speaker 1>dealing with. And she needs to get some healing. And

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<v Speaker 1>when she gets some healing, it becomes the woman that

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<v Speaker 1>you need her to be. Then you can be with her.

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<v Speaker 1>I told her, I told her time about getting married

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff before the baby get here. I told her,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do that, we gotta to go to

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<v Speaker 1>counsel and she told us he don't need that really,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a stressful, man, it's really putting a tote only

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<v Speaker 1>for real. You know what toxic people do. They never

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<v Speaker 1>let things go. They can't move forward. They bully, they intimidate,

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<v Speaker 1>they lie, they create drama, they play the victim, and

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<v Speaker 1>they act out of fear and insecurity. That's all that

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<v Speaker 1>person is doing to you right now. You gotta go, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>be a father to your child. That's a very toxic woman.

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<v Speaker 1>She sounds like the future of females. Repeat after me.

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<v Speaker 1>I am strong. I am strong. I will not let

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<v Speaker 1>her hit me anymore. I will not let her hit

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<v Speaker 1>me anymore. What do anymore? That's right? I am strong,

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<v Speaker 1>I am a good man, and I am a good father.

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<v Speaker 1>I am strong. I am a good man, and I

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<v Speaker 1>will be a good father. You go where you got

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<v Speaker 1>that written down? That envy? And why are you that's

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<v Speaker 1>your daily affirmation. I'm trying to give him the self

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<v Speaker 1>esteem to make him feel good this morning. Man, brother,

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<v Speaker 1>you go out there, you have a great day, and

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<v Speaker 1>you take care of business. I brother, eliminate all toxic

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<v Speaker 1>people from your life. Man, Why we always give people

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<v Speaker 1>more chances than they deserve? Why do we do that? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>A little self esteem all right, we got more coming

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<v Speaker 1>up next. We're a breakfast club. Call me and your

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<v Speaker 1>opinions to the Breakfast Club top on eight five five

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<v Speaker 1>one five, one morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

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<v Speaker 1>Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club. Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, what's happening? Happy holidays? What we're talking about today?

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<v Speaker 1>Now if you just join us, we're talking about mail b.

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<v Speaker 1>Now she does something. I think it's prettydd. You want

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<v Speaker 1>to plame what she does? She actually got a tattoo

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<v Speaker 1>removes off her ex. You know, she's getting divorced, and

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<v Speaker 1>she got instead of laser removal for that tattoo, she

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<v Speaker 1>got it cut out of her body and she keeps

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<v Speaker 1>the skin in a jar. That's weird. That is called root.

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<v Speaker 1>That is voodoo, black magic. All right, you cut the

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<v Speaker 1>name off your skin, put it in the jaw, have

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<v Speaker 1>a little witch doctor or something, put a little whammy

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<v Speaker 1>on it. Don't nobody touch that job because if you do,

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<v Speaker 1>the spell will be broken. And as long as that

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<v Speaker 1>name is in that jaw, Stephen Bellefonte will have a

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<v Speaker 1>rectile this function for the rest of his life, or

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<v Speaker 1>at the least caught up a frog or two. Everything

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<v Speaker 1>from the past, goals in the garbage, nothing from the past,

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<v Speaker 1>no letters, no pictures, nating, everything thrown away. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually have a lot of things from x'es. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>have all my letters and cards and knows that I

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<v Speaker 1>used to pass in class and all of that in

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<v Speaker 1>a huge box. Well, I mean, listen, how long you

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<v Speaker 1>been with your woman? Twenty four years married seventeen? I've

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<v Speaker 1>been with my woman twenty years married four Okay, I'm forty.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no exes, all right, I don't even remember what

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<v Speaker 1>an X is. A X is really from high school

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<v Speaker 1>because nobody really wrote letters after that. What I'm saying, so,

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<v Speaker 1>if your woman is still saving letters from high school,

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<v Speaker 1>that letter really means a lot to her, and that

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<v Speaker 1>person that makes a lot to her, and that person

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<v Speaker 1>that wrote that letter, you know, could never be duplicated,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. Like, I also grew up

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<v Speaker 1>as a as a writer, like when I was young,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, and I read a lot, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I keep all of those things even from like my

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<v Speaker 1>friends who are women married. Imagine being married for seventeen years,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, and you've been with this guy that you

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<v Speaker 1>married too since y'all was kids. But you keeping letter

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<v Speaker 1>from the exes? That mean you keeping letters from when

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<v Speaker 1>you was like seventeen eighteen, like those first feelings of love,

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<v Speaker 1>those first feelings of love having been duplicated at all. No,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you talking? No man has ever made you

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<v Speaker 1>feel the way that that first person. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't we talking about magic fingers earlier? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>no magic fingers. But I burt those letters up and

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<v Speaker 1>then she let what are you talking about us? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not talking about nothing. What are you talking about? And

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't told nothing? He's sounding insecure. Natasha, Hi, good morning, Natasha,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning. You keep anything from your ex? I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>do not. The only thing I kept from my ex

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<v Speaker 1>as our son, and I'm glad you kept that. I

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<v Speaker 1>would let that go. We're doing so deep that I

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<v Speaker 1>had to get rid of the cell phone that I

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<v Speaker 1>used to chext him from because I would search and

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<v Speaker 1>I type in day and then he pop up even

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<v Speaker 1>though he was deleted. He threw like, oh I text

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<v Speaker 1>U pop up. I was like, we gotta get rid

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<v Speaker 1>of this, all right, I tell you the manager, Thank you, mama.

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<v Speaker 1>Now as y'all's baby, what's up? Mamma. Did she call

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<v Speaker 1>you lady? I don't know what she called me. She said, baby, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>now do you throw everything away from your past relationships?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm throwing everything away, like I'm not keeping nothing. What's

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<v Speaker 1>likely memories of an egg for like I saw everything

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<v Speaker 1>away like I used to live, Me and my wife

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<v Speaker 1>used to this together, and like it would come over

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<v Speaker 1>and still say, oh you got my show you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to find ways to come back. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, maybe I have to ever take away you

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<v Speaker 1>know you ain't got to come back for nothing those

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<v Speaker 1>Now what does she give you a rolex? Oh, that's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely not that. That's okay. It is all about the

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<v Speaker 1>cast of the gift. You ain't giving back no Bentley.

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<v Speaker 1>You ain't getting back no type of car. And you

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<v Speaker 1>ain't getting back no jewelry, no Nonday. How y'all gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be picky and choosy about what you keep and what

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<v Speaker 1>you give away. Well, some things that X gives you

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<v Speaker 1>ain't got no choice but to keep, like her fees.

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<v Speaker 1>So to everybody out there, everybody out there who X

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<v Speaker 1>gave him her fees and then ain't got no choice

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<v Speaker 1>but delivered that and keep that for the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>their life. Hello, who's this from? Rocky? Do you keep

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<v Speaker 1>anything from your ex? Bro? No need to. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>marriage four years, my girl for seven, and they don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to. Bro. You gotta hold off from the past. Bro.

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<v Speaker 1>You might as gonna trying to hand back in that direction. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how I feel. I don't understand why, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody would hold on to something from their past, especially

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<v Speaker 1>if they've been together for so long, like imagine, mean,

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<v Speaker 1>was somebody for seventeen, ten years old and twelve years

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<v Speaker 1>old that they would ten somebody? Why this isn't so close?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you. I'm just telling you. You're gonna point

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<v Speaker 1>point of finger, point of the magic finger at me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just somebody was writing letters to my wife when

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<v Speaker 1>they were ten years old. She kept at his memories,

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<v Speaker 1>is all. That's so cute, and I burned them. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like it. Whatever is in the past. Say you

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't y'all been married for forty years? How long you've

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<v Speaker 1>been married? Seriously, y'all been together twenty four, twenty four.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't read the bird to be cheaping stuff. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I said, And that's why I burned them letters up.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so crazy because I do have it. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a huge box fill but like letters from

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<v Speaker 1>my friends when they went away out of town from xes,

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<v Speaker 1>like everything together in a box. I haven't even separated it.

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<v Speaker 1>But recent exg you used to Still this is off

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<v Speaker 1>from like high school in college. Ain't nobody Rolex in

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<v Speaker 1>high school? Now I'm talking about a box of letters.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh but my whole thing is what I'm saying is

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<v Speaker 1>that it doesn't really I never thought of it, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's something that would be offensive to anybody. I used

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<v Speaker 1>to be nobody ring letters. Now. I even found a

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<v Speaker 1>watch that somebody gave my my wife when I think

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<v Speaker 1>they were like twelve thirteen. I've definitely ran over that

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<v Speaker 1>watch with my car. She still got all these little trinkets,

1:20:04.800 --> 1:20:06.720
<v Speaker 1>all those little twelve days of Christmas. Will you mind her?

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<v Speaker 1>All this stuff? And she's still keeping watches from middle

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<v Speaker 1>school in ten years old. So maybe they just little queq.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cute, but they all going now to grow up.

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<v Speaker 1>They are going down and that watch I ran over

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<v Speaker 1>that ten times. Little memories are so cute. Rebecca, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning, Rebecca. Um okay, yeah, so I have like

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<v Speaker 1>an Xbox I like, not like the video games. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, me too. Yeah. So I dated

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<v Speaker 1>this guy from like eighth grade the senior year of

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<v Speaker 1>high school, and I kept literally everything. But the weird

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<v Speaker 1>thing that I kept was he gave me a lemon.

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<v Speaker 1>Lemon is great. Sure to God, he gave me a lemon,

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<v Speaker 1>and I still have it in the box. Not like

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<v Speaker 1>rotten or anything. No, it doesn't smell or anything. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like hello and hard and I don't like him and

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<v Speaker 1>his heart. Why are you keeping that? That's disgusting. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like the reason why we started talking in the

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<v Speaker 1>first place. Convinced me that it was like this really

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<v Speaker 1>rare like lemon from like Cuba or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I don't even know. Sounds like a red

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<v Speaker 1>flag to me. He lied to you immediately. That came

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<v Speaker 1>from stop the shop, Mama. Well, if you fell in

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<v Speaker 1>love with a man, they give you a lemon, wait

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<v Speaker 1>until somebody gives you an apple. Oh, watermelon, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>really be head over here lemonade out of that. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna do that. Don't curse, all right, Okay, the story,

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<v Speaker 1>the moral of the story is, man, let's say a

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<v Speaker 1>prayer and salute everybody out there who is keeping things

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<v Speaker 1>from their exes that they can't get back like her pies.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep a lock. This to breakfast Club. Go Morning. You're

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<v Speaker 1>checking out the world's most dangerous morning show. Morning. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>is DJ Envy, Angela Yee Schlamine, the guy the breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning now, Charlemagne, Yes, sir, you got a positive note. Yes, man.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to tell everybody out there you can't live

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<v Speaker 1>a positive life with a negative mind. I want you

1:22:10.600 --> 1:22:13.559
<v Speaker 1>to sit back and think about this. Think about making

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<v Speaker 1>your life a masterpiece. Okay, imagine no limitations on what

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<v Speaker 1>you can be, have, or do. Breakfast clubs you'll finish

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<v Speaker 1>or y'all dumb.