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Speaker 1: Who's this? Hey? This Nick? Nick? What up? Man? Get

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Speaker 1: somebody would hold on to something from their past, especially

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Speaker 1: if they've been together for so long, Like imagine being

422
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Speaker 1: it was somebody for seventeen, ten years old and twelve

423
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 1: years old that they would ten somebody? Why so close?

424
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I'm just telling you. You're gonna point

425
00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:56,880
Speaker 1: point of finger, point of magic finger at me. I'm

426
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,199
Speaker 1: just somebody was writing letters to my wife when they

427
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 1: were ten years old. She kept it his memories, is all.

428
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 1: That's so cute, and I burned them. I don't like it.

429
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 1: Whatever is in the past, and you shouldn't, y'all. Been

430
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 1: married for forty years? How long you've been married? Seriously,

431
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:12,359
Speaker 1: y'all been together twenty four, twenty four. You don't read

432
00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 1: the verd to be keeping stuff. That's what I said,

433
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:15,600
Speaker 1: and that's why I burned them letters up. It's so

434
00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:17,359
Speaker 1: crazy because I do have it. Like I said, I

435
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,960
Speaker 1: have a huge box filled with like letters from my

436
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,879
Speaker 1: friends when they went away out of town from XS,

437
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,680
Speaker 1: like everything together in a box. I haven't even separated

438
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:29,040
Speaker 1: about recent ex you used to Still this is off

439
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 1: from like high school and college. Ain't nobody Rolex in

440
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:33,920
Speaker 1: high school? Yeah, I'm talking about a box of letters.

441
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 1: Oh but my whole thing is what I'm saying is

442
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 1: that it doesn't really I never thought of it like

443
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 1: it's something that would be offensive to anybody. I used

444
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,480
Speaker 1: to be nobody letters Now. I even found a watch

445
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,199
Speaker 1: that somebody gave my my wife when I think they

446
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 1: were like twelve thirteen. I definitely ran over that watch

447
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,640
Speaker 1: with my cart. She still got all these little trinkets,

448
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,680
Speaker 1: all those little twelve days of Christmas when you bind

449
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 1: her all this stuff, and she's still keeping watches from

450
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:56,680
Speaker 1: middle school and ten years old. So maybe they just

451
00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 1: little que Q two. I think that's cute. But they

452
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 1: all going going down and that watch I ran over times.

453
00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:10,360
Speaker 1: Little memories are so cute. Rebecca, Hey, good morning, Rebecca. Um. Okay, yeah,

454
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: so I have like an Xbox I like not like

455
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 1: the video games. Yeah, I was like, okay, me too. Yeah.

456
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 1: So I dated this guy from like eighth grade the

457
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 1: senior year of high school, and I kept literally everything.

458
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 1: But the weird thing that I kept was he gave

459
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 1: me a lemon. Lemon suhere to God. He gave me

460
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 1: a lemon, and I still have it in the box.

461
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: Its not like rotten or anything. No, it doesn't smell

462
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 1: or anything. It's like hollow and hard, and I don't

463
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 1: like him in his heart? Why are you keeping it?

464
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 1: That's disgusting. It was like the reason why we started

465
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Speaker 1: talking in the first place. Do you like convinced me

466
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 1: that it was like this really rare like lemon from

467
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 1: like Cuba or something like that. I like, I don't

468
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 1: even know. Sounds like a red flag to me. He

469
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,639
Speaker 1: lied to you immediately. That came from stop the Shop. Well,

470
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 1: if you fell in love with a man, they give

471
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 1: you a lemon, waiting till somebody gives you an apple

472
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:21,439
Speaker 1: or watermelon. You're gonna really be head over hereade out

473
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: of that. I'm not. Don't curse, all right, Okay, the

474
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 1: moral of the story is, man, let's say a prayer

475
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 1: and salute everybody out there who is keeping things from

476
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,400
Speaker 1: their exes that they can't give back like her pies.

477
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Speaker 1: Keep a lot. This to Breakfast Club. Breakfast Club Morning.

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Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee Charlomane the guy. We

479
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Speaker 1: all the Breakfast Club. We have a special guest on

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Speaker 1: the line, an icon, a legend, and a true queen,

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Speaker 1: Miss Felicia Rashad. Welcome, Thank you, good morning. I feel

482
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: like you're my mom. I've been watching you for so long.

483
00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 1: I just feel like I know everything about you. I

484
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 1: feel like your mom. Hey Mom, I just want to say,

485
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 1: good morning, Mom, Good morning sun. How you doing. He

486
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 1: too ready to be yours? He too ready to be

487
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:13,120
Speaker 1: your No, he's not, he's not. Now. I hate zoom interviews,

488
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,399
Speaker 1: and this is one time I really hate zoom interviews

489
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: because I would love to be in your presence. Absolutely,

490
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 1: that's very kind of Well, you know what, when we can,

491
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 1: we will. How have you been maintaining through this whole pandemic? Well,

492
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:29,360
Speaker 1: let's see. First of all, I've been very grateful. I've

493
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 1: been very grateful to be in my home and to

494
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 1: have a home to be in. I've been very grateful

495
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 1: that my family and friends are fine. I've been very

496
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 1: grateful to be able to assist people in the ways

497
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 1: that I've been able to do um and I've had

498
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 1: work to do. Of course, it's different because everything is

499
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: through the computer. I pray we will not live like

500
00:25:55,680 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 1: this forever same because it ain't natural and it ain't

501
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:06,920
Speaker 1: good for the eyes either. What what have you learned

502
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 1: about yourself mentally and spiritually? Anything? Now? Yeah, you know,

503
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 1: you ask that question, and I'm always a little hesitant

504
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 1: to say these things because well, anyway, I'll just say

505
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 1: it because you asked. It's so important to find that

506
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:27,680
Speaker 1: silent space inside the mind. It's so important to find

507
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:32,680
Speaker 1: that space, especially now because it's so much clatter and

508
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 1: so much chatter, and so much pull to the left

509
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,160
Speaker 1: and then pull to the right and just being pull

510
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 1: pull pulled if you allow it to be that way,

511
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 1: and then the mind, you know, it has its own

512
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 1: way of jumping around. Oh so it's so important to

513
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 1: fund the silence. You know, what if we stopped pining

514
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,840
Speaker 1: for the things that we think we don't have, and

515
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 1: look at what we do have and what we can do.

516
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:05,360
Speaker 1: It's a much better place to come from, I think, yea,

517
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:09,880
Speaker 1: and it allows us to create a better place. Right. So, yeah,

518
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: there are things that I that I do miss. I

519
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: miss live theater. Yeah. Just the other day I was

520
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: thinking how privileged we've been for so long without understanding

521
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 1: the fullness of our privilege to be able to go

522
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 1: to a movie, right, yes, yes, and be able to

523
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: sit in a theater or in a restaurant, or to

524
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,880
Speaker 1: hug people, or to or to be with people when

525
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 1: they're making their transition from this form to the next.

526
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: You know, it's we didn't understand our full privilege and

527
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 1: maybe you know when we if it changes, well I

528
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: should say when it changes. I just don't know what

529
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: it's going to change to. But we'll come into it.

530
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:54,399
Speaker 1: We should come into a better understanding of just what

531
00:27:55,840 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: the privilege of being with people is and maybe will

532
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 1: be kinder to one another. How are your kids been,

533
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: How are they are they been around or they been

534
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: staying away? How has that been? Well? My son lives

535
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: on the West Coast. My daughter at the beginning of

536
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 1: this pandemic. Had just returned from Italy. She had been

537
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 1: in Italy, and she had just returned, and I was

538
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 1: just returning from work on the Empire in Chicago. Then

539
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: everything shut down and my daughter wouldn't come and see me.

540
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: That's right, she did. But what she did do when

541
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: I was returning home, she come to the house before

542
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 1: I arrived, and she had stopped the refrigerator and the shelves,

543
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 1: and she said, Mommy, you don't go outside. You don't

544
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 1: go to the store. You stay here. And she would

545
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 1: call to make sure I was not outside, and I

546
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: had to laugh at that. I said, you're monitoring me,

547
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: like I'm you, but I'm not you. I'm me. And

548
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: when it's time, I'm going outside. They said the same thing.

549
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 1: They were like, no, no, no, no, no, I'm your parent.

550
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: I'm going out when I want. No. But don't think

551
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: for a moment that what you did and what you

552
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 1: said was not appreciated me. Ask your question, the Queen,

553
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 1: have you ever had to go off on any of

554
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 1: your real kids the way you went off on Vanessa

555
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 1: for going to see the Wretched And you're down in

556
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 1: Boaltimore having big fun, weren't you Vanessa, isn't that where

557
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 1: you were? Didn't you go down there to Baltimore and

558
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: have big fun? Vanessa? Tell me didn't you go for

559
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 1: big fun? Mom? Shut up? Don't you dare open your

560
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: mouth when I'm asking you a question. I only hope

561
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: that you can have the same experience, Vanessa. I hope

562
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 1: that one day you come to realize exactly how it

563
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: feels to think that your child's life is in danger.

564
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 1: You have taken us from levels of frenzy, panic, distress,

565
00:29:55,160 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 1: and now that we know you're okay, range I said,

566
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: I was sorry, this is not gonna happen. I know

567
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 1: you're lying right now. God man, are you kidding? Of course,

568
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: so within your motivation when you did that episode, understanding

569
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: what that energy is was helped. Yes, I understood that

570
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: energy very well. Yes, yea. I mean, you know, people say, oh, oh, dad,

571
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: you were just a perfect mother, and I look at

572
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: them and smile and say thank you. But you know,

573
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: it's easy when you're scripted and the children are scripted too,

574
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 1: But in real life there are new scripts. Yeah, you know,

575
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: you know the beauty of that wretched episode. I've lived

576
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: long enough to where I knew exactly what Vanessa's character

577
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: felt like. And then I've lived long enough to know

578
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 1: exactly what your character felt like. And that's something. Yeah, yeah,

579
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: because teenagers children was sneak. I mean, it's part of

580
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: being a team, right, Yeah, it's oh, come on, it's

581
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 1: so it's so much scarier it is. And it's not

582
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: young people's fault. We are very, very, very distracted, and

583
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: our children were being inundated with some of the worst

584
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:23,239
Speaker 1: kinds of diversions. And He'll look up and it's they

585
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: have a language that you don't even know what you know.

586
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: I think that if if we as adults were cognizant

587
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 1: of the fact that every single thing we say and

588
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: do creates a memory for our young we might say

589
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 1: and do differently. Absolutely, because what do you really want

590
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 1: the young person to learn? And here's the question, what

591
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 1: is the most important thing for your young person to learn?

592
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: The most important thing that I wanted my children to

593
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: learn was who are you really? And that's an energy

594
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 1: journey and you don't get to go on the inner

595
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 1: journey pointing fingers outside of yourself. Another disturbing thing I

596
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: heard recently from two different sources who don't even know

597
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: each other. They both work in the field of pediatrics.

598
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: They're both pediatricians, and one they're friends of mine. And

599
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: one of them said that in her waiting room she

600
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 1: has these books for children. Right, a three year old

601
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: child picks up the book and doesn't know how to

602
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 1: turn the page. She tries to scan it. Lord have mercy,

603
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 1: Lord have mercy. Now that hurt. But this okay. And

604
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 1: then somebody on the other side of the country told

605
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: me the same thing, because young people are being given

606
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 1: these devices and they know and they know that this

607
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: becomes your source of information and your only source of information,

608
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 1: which means you're going to receive what somebody wants you

609
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: to receive. Right, I think we want out young people

610
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: to think deeper than that. All Right, we got more

611
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 1: with Felicia Rashard. When we come back, don't move. It's

612
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 1: to breakfast club. Good morning, I fashioned morning. Everybody's DJ

613
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: Envy Angela yee, Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast club.

614
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 1: We're still kicking in with Felicia RASHARDA. Now I'm gonna

615
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 1: say from Houston, what made you come all the way

616
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: to the East coast to go to college, to go

617
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 1: to HBCU And why was it important to go to

618
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 1: an HBCU. The second real HU book ahead. Yeah. Well,

619
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 1: I wanted to be an actor and I wanted to

620
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,959
Speaker 1: study drama, right, And I was applying to all these

621
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: schools and my father just looked at me and he

622
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: let me do all that, and he said, you're going

623
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 1: to Howard. And I said, oh, but Dad, what about

624
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 1: this one? At this he said, you're going to Howard.

625
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: I never thought about going to a school that wasn't

626
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: an HBCU, and that was because of my experience from

627
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: a child. Before I started elementary school, I was a

628
00:33:56,880 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 1: nursery school on the campus of Texas Southern Universe, trying

629
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 1: to play, you know, trying to play. I just wanted

630
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 1: you to see the Hampton alumni. I just wanted you

631
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:10,359
Speaker 1: to see that. So my grandmother went to Hampton. Oh yeah,

632
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 1: oh yeah, Vivian Elizabeth Graham, Yes she did. She made

633
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: a great decision. Oh yes, she did. I realized, in

634
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:23,240
Speaker 1: greater measure, how very fortunate I am to have attended

635
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 1: an HBCU, not only for the astute professors who were

636
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 1: teaching there, because they were of the highest caliber, but

637
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:35,399
Speaker 1: also for the other side of life, that's social life.

638
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 1: That's socialization that helps to develop you as a as

639
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: a as an adult. You know, did you ever did

640
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 1: you ever lose yourself playing such an iconic role as

641
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: Claire Huxtable, meaning that you know, did you ever forget

642
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 1: who you were? No? Okay, okay, now that that that

643
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 1: that wasn't possible because every every day I came home

644
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:03,720
Speaker 1: to my family here none of that Claire Hustable stuff.

645
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 1: When you walk in the hub, well, you know, it's

646
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 1: like no, it's it's like okay. So my best friend

647
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 1: from college came to see a taping and she said, Felicia,

648
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,919
Speaker 1: you be shaved yourself taking those people's money for being

649
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:22,880
Speaker 1: yourself and at home. I mean when I say this,

650
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:31,919
Speaker 1: people imagine. I always imagine what my life was like child.

651
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:34,479
Speaker 1: They had no idea. I would come home and cook

652
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 1: and prepare dinner from fresh produce, no canned anything, because

653
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 1: I want my family to eat healthily. Some things you

654
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: can get it again, but most things, vegetables and stuff

655
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 1: have to be fresh. And I would do that every day.

656
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 1: And in the early years of the show, let's say

657
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 1: a third year, I had my baby with me. I

658
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: was a nursing mother. I took gondola to the studio

659
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 1: with me every day. Wow. Yeah, And you know it's

660
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 1: and I came home with her at night and I

661
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 1: was with my family. I wasn't out club and I

662
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 1: wasn't you know, I wasn't doing stuff like that. I

663
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,319
Speaker 1: didn't have time for that. And then you know, there

664
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 1: was school, and then there was homeworker. Her brother's thirteen

665
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 1: years older than she wasn't he was in the eighth

666
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 1: grade when she was born. And I mean, you know

667
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:29,719
Speaker 1: there I was. I mean, it's like you gotta hit

668
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: it every day. So your daughter was born to be

669
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 1: an actress. She grew up in it. She was all

670
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 1: around it, she lived it. So she was she was

671
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: born to be an actress. She know she did. She

672
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: grew up around the work, and she saw what the

673
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 1: work was. Her work ethic is incredible, you know, speaking

674
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 1: of the work, I think you got black Box coming

675
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 1: out on the six right, Yeah, on the sixth. Yep month.

676
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 1: You've held the name of America's mother for so years.

677
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 1: Are you intentionally accepting roles in movies like A Fall

678
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,600
Speaker 1: from Grace and black Box to kind of shift that

679
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:10,839
Speaker 1: image you, I guess the villain. Wait, wait a minute,

680
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 1: let's explore that concept for just a moment. Evil evil. See.

681
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: One of the things we learn in acting is not

682
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 1: to judge our characters. You have to always understand what

683
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 1: a person is thinking and why the person's thinking it.

684
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: In my freshman year, one of my instructors said to me,

685
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 1: I was having a fit about something someone had done,

686
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 1: and he let me carry on and carry on, and

687
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 1: then when I calm down, he said, miss Allan, there's

688
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 1: something I want you to remember. Even when somebody's being

689
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:48,879
Speaker 1: and I'll say this and so ob they think they're right. Now,

690
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: think about the times you've seen somebody act a complete

691
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,839
Speaker 1: idiot and they think they're right. Yeah. I call that, um,

692
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 1: I got a curse. I call that dead momentum. Yeah,

693
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 1: but they think they're right. Yeah, yeah yeah. And it

694
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,800
Speaker 1: just keeps building and building and building and building. So

695
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 1: as an actor, that's my job is to get inside

696
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 1: what their thought is, you know. So I'm not I'm

697
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: not trying to depart from anything. There are all kinds,

698
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:17,320
Speaker 1: and it's interesting because they're all mothers, aren't they. Diana

699
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:23,839
Speaker 1: Dubois other right right, and Sarah in a Fall from

700
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 1: Grace was what a mother? I mean you know, there's

701
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 1: all kinds of women in this world, and all kinds

702
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:36,399
Speaker 1: of mothers too. You sound like you're about to play

703
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 1: the villain in the next Black panther. Right, do you

704
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 1: ever feel like certain roles of beneath you. I wouldn't

705
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: say beneath me. I would just say they don't resonate

706
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: with me. I don't like to be critical of other

707
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 1: people's work, because that's the easiest thing to be. I

708
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 1: just try to find what resonates with me. So what

709
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:05,240
Speaker 1: resonates with me. A good story that's told well resonates

710
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 1: with me. A window of opportunity to explore creativity in

711
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,800
Speaker 1: a new way that really resonates with me. You know,

712
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 1: black Box poses the question do we run our minds

713
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 1: or do our minds run us? Isn't that true? What

714
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: do you think? The answer to that question is, well, I, well,

715
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: what do you think do we run our minds or

716
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 1: do our minds run us? I think our minds run us,

717
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: but we have the ability to get ourselves back on

718
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 1: the proper cause, because I think we live in this

719
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:43,839
Speaker 1: world where it's so much noise that if you pay

720
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 1: too much attention to the noise, people can start telling

721
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:53,840
Speaker 1: you how you're supposed to be, but that's not necessarily you.

722
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:57,439
Speaker 1: So you can silence that noise and really tap into

723
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 1: your mind and figure out the path you're supposed to

724
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,879
Speaker 1: be on, not the path people want you to be on. Right,

725
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 1: That's why I you know, you asked me what I

726
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 1: had learned about my mind, and that's why I said

727
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: it was important to find the silence within my mind.

728
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: I agree with you. I think that most oftentimes we

729
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 1: people are run by our minds, and the mind often

730
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 1: runs amok, and here we are. Yeah, yeah, absolutely, And

731
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,359
Speaker 1: by the way, it's fine too, right, because healing looks

732
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 1: different for healing is healing and strange like that, Like

733
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: one moment you're fine, the next minute you're bugging out.

734
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 1: And I think that's okay. It's all a process, it is.

735
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: But but do we want to keep just going through

736
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: that like that? No, No, I don't think so. I

737
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,919
Speaker 1: don't think so. And you've just brought up something that's

738
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: really very interesting. You said, one minute you're fine and

739
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 1: the next minute you're bugging out. That's that brings to

740
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: my mind imagery of a pendulum. Yeah, yeah, we want

741
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: to bring that thing to center, right, because it will

742
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: wing as far to the left as it does to

743
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: the right and brought center. Yeah, all right, we have

744
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 1: more with Felicia Richard when we come back, don't move.

745
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:27,800
Speaker 1: It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning everybody, as DJ Envy

746
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 1: Angela yee. Charlemagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club.

747
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: We're still kicking him with Felicia RASHARDA. Now, you mentored

748
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 1: Chadwick Boseman when he was in Howard. How did the

749
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 1: loss of him impact you? And and for people that

750
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 1: don't know him personally, tell us something that we might

751
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:45,840
Speaker 1: not know about him. He's he's been up here a

752
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 1: couple of times, and he's donated money to the causes

753
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: that we were fighting for at the time. From South

754
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: Carolina like me, he's always been a good brother. So

755
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 1: tell us how that impact was. Well, you want to

756
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:59,839
Speaker 1: know something about him that you might not know. Chad

757
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: Wick was given to study. He loved to study. He

758
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 1: studied through the lens of theater. First as a writer,

759
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 1: he studied the meanings of words. I mean, he studied

760
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 1: and you can see this kind of thoughtfulness in his work.

761
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 1: It's so subtle you don't notice it at first, but

762
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 1: you go back and you look at it again. He

763
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: was a consummate artist and without question, one of the

764
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 1: kindest and bravest people I've ever known. Definitely rested. I

765
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: wanted to ask you about the Drake video. When when

766
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 1: Drake called you to be in that video? Did you

767
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 1: even know who he was? Because I knew where you

768
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 1: think I live under a rock, I knew he was.

769
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 1: I hadn't been able to give answer to the to

770
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 1: the inquiry. When I talked to my daughter, she said, oh,

771
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:57,959
Speaker 1: you have to do it. I said, okay, okay, okay,

772
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 1: I had so much fun. That can't be the first

773
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: time you've been asked to be in a rap video though, right, Yes,

774
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: it was right? Yeah, Wow, that's insane. Wow, it's popularly.

775
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: If you've been for all these years, you know, things

776
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 1: come when they should and don't when they shouldn't. There go,

777
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,400
Speaker 1: How do you think Black Hollywood has evolved over the

778
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 1: years since since since you first came in it? Um,

779
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,840
Speaker 1: there was always there were black people in positions that

780
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 1: we weren't always conscious of, but not maybe so many,

781
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: and now you see black people on many different levels,

782
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: in many different areas and many different positions. It's one

783
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 1: thing for what you see on the screen, but you

784
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't see what's on that screen if it weren't for

785
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 1: the work of the people who are not on that screen.

786
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 1: And they are fundamental and essential to what it is

787
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 1: we see. So we need a total equity in this

788
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: nation of our arts that includes all people. In my career,

789
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 1: I have worked with only one Native American actor. That

790
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:11,720
Speaker 1: will makes sense to me. I have worked with only

791
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: one Asian American actor. That doesn't make sense to me.

792
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 1: There's more for us to do in the field of inclusion.

793
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 1: There's more for us to embrace, and I look forward

794
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 1: to us doing that because I think that as a people,

795
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:30,799
Speaker 1: we are more than ready for it. Now. I look

796
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 1: back on all of those shows that I grew up

797
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 1: on in the nineties, and man, it just seemed like

798
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,879
Speaker 1: they were so brilliantly black, and I learned so much

799
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: from them, whether it was cosby different world, living single,

800
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 1: I mean even Martin, Like all of those shows like that,

801
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:48,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, what did those sets look like? Because they

802
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: were they were so black that you would think that

803
00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 1: everybody on the set with black, all the writers, the directors,

804
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: the people behind the camera, was or not like that. Nope, No,

805
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 1: it was wow. Not there were black people behind the camera.

806
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:08,280
Speaker 1: There were black people in the writer's room, but everybody

807
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: was not black, No, but everybody was on board to

808
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 1: deliver an excellent program. And that's what matters, because all

809
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 1: black people don't think alike. And there were interns who

810
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: were being hired every year, and a number of them

811
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 1: were black, and some of them were not. Our stage

812
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: managers were black, and they were young people, and mister

813
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 1: Cosby wanted that, so we had that and they were good.

814
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 1: It was sharp. Young people are keep it fresh, keep

815
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: it new. Yeah, I mean, you know, there was a

816
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: way of including people of different ethnicities. You see it

817
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:48,280
Speaker 1: reflected in the Rudy's friends. You see her little friends.

818
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 1: You see how there you see that. Okay, there was

819
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: a way of including people of ethnicities and generations that

820
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: was just a marvel to be a part of. And

821
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 1: he was not going to have grandparents insulted and made

822
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 1: fun of the way some shows do make fun of

823
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 1: people for being older. He said no, he said, no,

824
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 1: we're not doing that. Our young people show respect and

825
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 1: it's not a forced thing, it's inherent. And he insisted

826
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 1: on that. He insisted on a lot of great things,

827
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 1: even when they introduced hip hop and they bought in

828
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 1: Erica Alexander, and it wasn't like she was just some ghetto,

829
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: old ratchet young lady. You know, she was just a

830
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,320
Speaker 1: person whose circumstances didn't deal with the best card, and

831
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: she wanted a better life. Yeah, and he understood that.

832
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: He understood that by virtue of the way he grew.

833
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: You still speak to the other cast members, because watching

834
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: it seems like you guys will be on the phone

835
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: with each other all day long. You don't think it's

836
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:48,919
Speaker 1: a job. Do you still speak to those other cast

837
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 1: members at all? Every now and then I will hear

838
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 1: from Malcolm and Keisha, and they have beautiful children and

839
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 1: they love him. And I told Malcolm he's a finished item.

840
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:03,800
Speaker 1: He is a daughter and he just can't he can't

841
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: give enough love. He's just he's finished. And you're done, brother,

842
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 1: You're done. It upset you that they don't people don't

843
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 1: want to air the episodes of the Cosby Show. Oh no,

844
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: it doesn't upset me. It uh, people still watch, People

845
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 1: will find ways to watch. You know, I won't be

846
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 1: upset by things because things change, right, I won't be

847
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 1: upset And I won't be upset by by things people do,

848
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 1: because people change. We see that. It's something to see

849
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 1: and to understand. Years ago, someone who loves me very

850
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 1: much told me. She said to me, an image can

851
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 1: be broken. Try to find out who you really are. Wow,

852
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 1: that's a that's tough to do in this business. It's not.

853
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 1: It's not. It's not tough to do, but it can

854
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: be a process, just because everybody's always trying to tell

855
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: us what our image should be. And when you open

856
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:00,360
Speaker 1: up a magazine or you read a blog, people have

857
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 1: a perception of you like, Oh, that's what they like.

858
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 1: Let me give them more of that. So you become

859
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:07,320
Speaker 1: a character of yourself and things become performative without you

860
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 1: even knowing it. That's a very interesting observation. It's what

861
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: happens in interviews that isn't happening in this one, and

862
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 1: I'm loving it. You know, when people interview you, they

863
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 1: come sometimes they come with their answers already in their

864
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 1: heads to the questions they've decided to ask you. Right,

865
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 1: so you want, what are we doing here? Why? Okay?

866
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 1: What what is this? What? What? What? Okay? Why have

867
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 1: a conversation with me? If you already think you know, yeah,

868
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 1: you know, okay, so that that's me. Know one thing,

869
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 1: if nothing else, you will leave this conversation thinking of

870
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,319
Speaker 1: the person that I'm speaking to. That person will leave

871
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: the conversation knowing only what they thought they knew before

872
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:53,920
Speaker 1: the conversation began. Well, we enjoy you, Queen Rashid, and

873
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 1: we could sit here and talk to you forever, and

874
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,800
Speaker 1: we appreciate you for checking and we're so grateful and thankful.

875
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,320
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, thank you, thank you. Booth and

876
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:03,799
Speaker 1: please when you are in New York, please stop by

877
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: the studio absolutely, okay, y'all will Yeah. We have the

878
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 1: rose petals on the ground for you to walk on

879
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,359
Speaker 1: and we have all that for you, t coffee, whatever

880
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:15,640
Speaker 1: it is you need. Thank you all right, thank you

881
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 1: so much, Thank you queen. Thank you so much. For

882
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:20,360
Speaker 1: Licia Rochard. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Thank you.

883
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 1: Don't you get you are? I'm gonna fatten all that

884
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:39,359
Speaker 1: around your man to dog and blowers man. They wait

885
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 1: for Charlomaye to talk to make a judgment. Who was

886
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: gonna be on the donkey of the day. They chose

887
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 1: you the breakfast Club, bitch. You who's Dunky of the

888
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 1: Day to Day. Dunkey of to Day goes to a

889
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: young eighteen year old rapper named why being Almighty Jay. Now,

890
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 1: why being Almighty JA is an anti social distance? And

891
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 1: you know what I say about antisocial distances. They are

892
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: the same type of folks who wouldn't have gotten on

893
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 1: the arc when Noah told him it was about the rain.

894
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:09,920
Speaker 1: And we've seen so many stories of antisocial distances getting

895
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 1: sick and in some cases like Bishop Gerald Glenn who

896
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: said God is larger than Corona, well he died. So

897
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 1: when we tell you that you need to practice antisocial distancing,

898
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,359
Speaker 1: we are telling you not just for your own good,

899
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:25,359
Speaker 1: but for the good of others. Because we all got

900
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 1: things to do. We all need to get back outside

901
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:30,319
Speaker 1: so we can get back to the real hustle of life.

902
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:32,840
Speaker 1: And we can't do that unless we social distance and

903
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:35,839
Speaker 1: flatten this curve. You see, social distancing is working all

904
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 1: around the country, so we need to continue to do

905
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 1: more of it so we can get back outside. Now,

906
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: why being Almighty J is upset with us because of

907
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,239
Speaker 1: this rumor report? Let's hear it. I Being Almighty J.

908
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: He was tucking at TMZ and he said that he's

909
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,839
Speaker 1: just not taking coronavirus seriously. Here's what he said, I've

910
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 1: been playing the game. I don't know I had been

911
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:56,840
Speaker 1: really taking it serious. I just really tried to go

912
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: to him, but I still didn't have a life for others.

913
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 1: Even though you're supposed to be social distancing, of course,

914
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,360
Speaker 1: we don't social business. Are you checking their temperature or

915
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:10,160
Speaker 1: anything when they come in? Like, are you taking any precautions? Man?

916
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:12,919
Speaker 1: So well, he's a young man who also has also

917
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 1: has unprotected sex with randoms, I'm sure. So if you

918
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:17,279
Speaker 1: have unprotected sex with randoms, you damn trying afraid with

919
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 1: no afraid of no coronavirus. Right, So even though he's

920
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: staying in the house, you can't just be meeting women

921
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 1: and inviting them over during this time. You could be

922
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: infecting them with coronavirus once they infect you and you're

923
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 1: spreading it around. It's really times and maybe just be

924
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 1: celibate for a second. But he's the young man who

925
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 1: I'm sure it takes chances with his penis and has

926
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 1: a lot of unprotected sex with randoms. So he responded

927
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 1: to that by posting that on his Instagram, and he

928
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:47,359
Speaker 1: put this caption some things in this world. I would

929
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 1: never understand. I get judged so much by lame ass

930
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:52,719
Speaker 1: mother fffs that don't know me in real life. And

931
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 1: mother f was that just try hate on young negroes.

932
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: This right here? Crazy Swipe left to see a different

933
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:02,959
Speaker 1: response to the same statement at Breakfast Club. Am old

934
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 1: miserable bitches? First of First of all, why Being Almighty

935
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: J compared to you? You're eighteen, I'm forty one. I'm old.

936
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: I get it. I may even be a bit depending

937
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 1: on the circumstances, and I'm fine with that, But miserable. Never.

938
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 1: My life is amazing. My self worth is more than

939
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 1: my net worth, but my network, my net worth isn't bad.

940
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: What'll say you? Envy is pretty good. I'm all right out.

941
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 1: Here's what say you? It's decent. Yeah, I'm happy, Okay, okay, okay.

942
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:35,760
Speaker 1: So nobody's miserable in the room. Yeah everybody got all right? Okay,

943
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:37,960
Speaker 1: all right now. Now, the reason why Being Almighty J

944
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 1: is getting dunkey today is because clearly he just wants attention.

945
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: He's sitting in the house quarantine and he's happy he

946
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 1: got mentioned on the Breakfast Club. And listen, if you

947
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:48,440
Speaker 1: didn't like what we said. Cool, Okay, you have every

948
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 1: right to respond, but let's state the facts. You're posted

949
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 1: a clip with a Breakfast Club talking to Bootsey, and

950
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:55,800
Speaker 1: you're edited the clip to make it seem like we

951
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 1: had nothing that we had something like we had something

952
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 1: to say about you being an antisocial distancer, but didn't

953
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,279
Speaker 1: reply to boosting you said. Swipe left to see a

954
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 1: different response to the same statement. Can we hear the

955
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,280
Speaker 1: clip that Y being Almighty J posted on his Instagram

956
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 1: and speaking of strangers, how long you've been with this woman?

957
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:13,600
Speaker 1: Because you got to be quarantining right now, so you

958
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 1: should be a social distancing so you must that social

959
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 1: disc and all that you know. We just seen a

960
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 1: couple of I guess a couple of weeks ago. It

961
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:31,399
Speaker 1: was not mad at possibly hollering that Rihanna. Now, last

962
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 1: time I checked this Booty interview we did on Breakfast Club,

963
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 1: it got like a million view So clearly you are

964
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 1: one of those people who watched the whole interview, or

965
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:41,360
Speaker 1: maybe you didn't watch the whole interview. I'm thinking you

966
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 1: didn't watch the whole interview, but no, I think you

967
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 1: did watch the whole interview, but you decided to edit

968
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:51,920
Speaker 1: it to make yourself look good, even though you know

969
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:55,839
Speaker 1: we pushed back on Bootsey being an antisocial distancer. Let's

970
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:57,800
Speaker 1: hear it speaking of strangers, how long you've been with

971
00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:00,200
Speaker 1: this woman? Because you gotta be quarantining right now out

972
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 1: so you should be social distancing. So you must notice

973
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: you're not quarantine anywhere. About all that social distance and

974
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 1: all that quarantine. We threw a part of ads everywhere.

975
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: We don't say it, just it you don't people really sick.

976
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say, you know, you don't believe in coronavirus, Boosey.

977
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:20,480
Speaker 1: I think I had it off, but I don't give

978
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:24,319
Speaker 1: about no coronavirus. Kind of basically live on faith. People

979
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 1: are dying, o Boosey. Yeah, but people are surviving too.

980
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:29,399
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. But you know they say

981
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 1: faith without works is then so if they tell you

982
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 1: that you can social distance and wear a mask to

983
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:36,720
Speaker 1: prevent from getting it, you can you can work towards

984
00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 1: not getting it, I guess. But I ain't trying to

985
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 1: let this stress me out as far as like like

986
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 1: getting throwing everybody else every day. I'm trying to I'm

987
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: trying to have fun, get money, and turn no busy.

988
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 1: Coronavirus is killing people. We got to flatten this curve. All.

989
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 1: He needed a little social distancing for a couple of weeks, right, Boosey.

990
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: Gotta stay healthy out there now though, Man, we're gonna

991
00:54:57,600 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 1: be all right. Man. All y'all gotta do is pray

992
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:02,280
Speaker 1: up out. But I ain't messed with the corona though, Boosey,

993
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:06,360
Speaker 1: I ain't messing with that. I'm scared. Yeah, and I

994
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:09,240
Speaker 1: worry about you, Boosey, because you got diabetes and corona

995
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 1: is really taking people out who have pre existing health conditions. Man,

996
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:15,759
Speaker 1: So you gotta be cautious, bro. Yeah, that's what they say.

997
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:18,319
Speaker 1: But I gotta live. If it's time for me to die,

998
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,919
Speaker 1: time me to die. Come on, almighty, j you heard

999
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 1: that as well. You knew that, young man, but you

1000
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 1: wanted to manipulate your followers. You really wanted to show

1001
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:28,000
Speaker 1: your followers that the Breakfast Club is talking about you,

1002
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 1: so you had to act fake mad and edit a

1003
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:33,440
Speaker 1: Boosey interview to create a story. You're you are acting

1004
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:35,840
Speaker 1: like the media. You claim to be mad at what

1005
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 1: you did. It's clickbait. This is Donald Trumps six nine

1006
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 1: level trolling. You are doing what a lot of people

1007
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,719
Speaker 1: in your generation do, and that's cloud Chase. Look, you

1008
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 1: got five hundred and fifty comments out of the deal.

1009
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 1: Congratulations sir. Matter of fact, let's see if we can

1010
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:51,200
Speaker 1: double that this morning. Let's have a petty party this morning.

1011
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:54,800
Speaker 1: Let's go to YBN Almighty J's ig page. That's what

1012
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 1: it is. It's y B N A L M I

1013
00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:01,320
Speaker 1: g h T y j A Y Why Being Almighty J.

1014
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:04,320
Speaker 1: Let's go to his page and leave the donkey emoji

1015
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: and some handclaps in his mentions because he got the

1016
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 1: attention he's looking for and we can celebrate that with

1017
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:12,480
Speaker 1: a round of applause. Okay, round of appolosophy, your editing skills,

1018
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: round of applosphy, attention you received from doing this. Because

1019
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:18,719
Speaker 1: I don't think we've talked about the young man on

1020
00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:20,759
Speaker 1: here before. I know why Being Cordey has been here,

1021
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:23,319
Speaker 1: Why Being Cordey is fantastic artist. I don't think you've

1022
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 1: ever talked about Jay. But Jay, in case you're upset

1023
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 1: with what I was saying by you still sleeping with

1024
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:30,920
Speaker 1: randoms during a global pandemic, you probably all used to

1025
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:33,399
Speaker 1: sleeping with women unprotected, so you're used to taking risk.

1026
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: But the moral of the story is King, don't take

1027
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:38,360
Speaker 1: risk with your health. Okay, you don't have to yolo

1028
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: your life away. You wouldn't play a game of Russian roulette,

1029
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:43,239
Speaker 1: would you? So why I play Russian Roulette with your

1030
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 1: health by having random women come over to sleep with them.

1031
00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it's your life. But in a case

1032
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:50,360
Speaker 1: like this, it's not just your life because you're putting

1033
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:53,560
Speaker 1: other people at risk too, because you get sick, don't

1034
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 1: show symptoms, run around wherever you live and possibly infect

1035
00:56:56,960 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 1: other people, and you, sir, are a rapper, enters a

1036
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 1: canceled and tell fall twenty twenty one. That means no

1037
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:06,839
Speaker 1: show money. You know why, because people like you don't

1038
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 1: want to follow the rules and social distance. Okay, we

1039
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 1: got to flatten the curve. So not only are you

1040
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:15,320
Speaker 1: going to be possibly sick, you might be potentially broke.

1041
00:57:15,440 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 1: That money gonna get low, okay, So excuse me for

1042
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 1: looking out for you, almighty j okay by telling you

1043
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 1: that you need the social distance for once again, antisocial

1044
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 1: distances are the same type of people who wouldn't have

1045
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 1: gotten on the ARC when Noah told him too. So look,

1046
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:34,920
Speaker 1: we can tell you all data social distance, but if

1047
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Speaker 1: you don't want to let him drown, please give the

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00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 1: young man Almighty J the biggest he hull, all right right,

1049
00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: and make sure make sure you go to YB and

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00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: Almighty J's Instagram page YB and A L M I

1051
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 1: G H T y J A Y. Let's have a

1052
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: little petty party, give him a round of applause and

1053
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 1: also put the donkey emoji in his comments. And maybe

1054
00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 1: tell a young man why he should, you know, be

1055
00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 1: social distancing. He's eighteen. He just needs to learn, that's all.

1056
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 1: God bless him. And you know how I know he

1057
00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 1: probably was a uh have an unprotected sex. I'm taking risk.

1058
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:15,919
Speaker 1: That's what I was doing that eighteen, all right. That's

1059
00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 1: that's how I know the donkey of the donkey of

1060
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 1: the day or not. Everybody, please just be safe, okay,

1061
00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:25,240
Speaker 1: you never know what's gonna happen. We've seen a lot

1062
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 1: of people who did not think they could potentially catch it,

1063
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 1: didn't take it seriously, end up getting sick or else.

1064
00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 1: Please take it seriously. That's all. We're saying that to

1065
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 1: anybody who's not following a thank you for that. Say

1066
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 1: it's anybody because you said it about one of your

1067
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 1: some of your cowboys players, including Jack Prescott, So that's right.

1068
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 1: I did give it the donkey day for that, that

1069
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 1: can see. Yeah, all right, well thank you for that

1070
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 1: donkey of the day, You old miserable bitch. You. I'm

1071
00:58:54,880 --> 00:59:00,040
Speaker 1: not miserable. Old may be maybe an old bitch, and

1072
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 1: I'm not miserable. All right. We got more coming up next.

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00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 1: We're a breakfast club. The breakfast club the relationship advice.

1074
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 1: Need personal advice, just the real advice. Call up down

1075
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:20,720
Speaker 1: for ask ye morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

1076
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast club, A time

1077
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 1: for asking ye Hello? Who's this? Try? I don't want

1078
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 1: to stay anonymous? All right, anonymous, what's your question for you? Okay?

1079
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 1: So me and my husband have been married almost two

1080
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 1: years now. Before I started dating him, I was dating

1081
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:42,920
Speaker 1: a lot of women, so I'm not really like experienced

1082
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 1: with like the oral stuff for men. So I tried

1083
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 1: and he didn't like it. So we haven't had boil

1084
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 1: sex in a while. But I feel confident in my

1085
00:59:55,480 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: ability to perform where he can be pleased. But he

1086
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,680
Speaker 1: don't take me seriously because it's been so long since

1087
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 1: he's had it. Okay, so you know what you're doing now,

1088
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:10,880
Speaker 1: you feel confident? Well, I don't. I wouldn't. I don't

1089
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:13,240
Speaker 1: even know if I I feel confident, But I don't

1090
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 1: know if it's gonna be right until you know, I

1091
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:17,960
Speaker 1: actually try. But he won't let me try because he

1092
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:19,720
Speaker 1: doesn't want to be a guinea pig and end up

1093
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 1: with some abrasions on his penis. Yeah, so I'm trying

1094
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 1: to figure out how to set it up to where

1095
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 1: he can be comfortable enough to allow me to see, okay,

1096
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:34,200
Speaker 1: what progression I've made, and then go from there. Okay,

1097
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:36,280
Speaker 1: so look, this is what I think. Right before you

1098
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: guys get to it, when you're doing your four play,

1099
01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 1: you should ask him, can I just kiss it? I'm

1100
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:43,280
Speaker 1: not gonna do anything more than that, and then you

1101
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 1: should kiss it, and then you should ton kiss it,

1102
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 1: and then you should just do a little bit more,

1103
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:51,560
Speaker 1: a little bit more until you know he's feeling good

1104
01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:53,920
Speaker 1: about it, and then you know that's when you go

1105
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 1: a little bit more. But just make sure that you

1106
01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:59,160
Speaker 1: keep your mouth very lubricated, don't use your teeth, tuck

1107
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 1: them away. Okay, but I think you just want I

1108
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 1: just I think you're starting to feel less confident what

1109
01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 1: we're definitely not talking about that, but I just listen,

1110
01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:16,439
Speaker 1: just started off. So just say, look, I'm just gonna

1111
01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:18,360
Speaker 1: kiss it. I'm not gonna do anything else. And then

1112
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 1: when you kiss it, right, kissing could mean anything. It

1113
01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:23,200
Speaker 1: could be closed mouth, open mouth, and then you know,

1114
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 1: just play around with that area and then if he

1115
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 1: likes it, he'll be okay with you going a little further.

1116
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:34,080
Speaker 1: If he likes it, though, ask him because as a man,

1117
01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:37,960
Speaker 1: he may he may just accept it just because the

1118
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 1: love of me as his wife, but he may not

1119
01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:43,480
Speaker 1: want to actually tell me that he's enjoying what's happening.

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01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:46,200
Speaker 1: So I'm trying to like what signs I should look

1121
01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 1: for when well, first of all, there's nothing better than

1122
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 1: asking a direct question, and you can ask it like, okay,

1123
01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 1: do you like that? Well, tell me what you want

1124
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 1: me to do, and I'm gonna do it and be like,

1125
01:01:56,720 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 1: how would you like it better? What? You know, just

1126
01:01:58,400 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: ask those questions, but you could do it in a

1127
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 1: sexy way so that he's gonna direct you to the

1128
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 1: way to do it and just be like, leg, tell

1129
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 1: me what to do. Uh huh. Okay, well I will

1130
01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 1: try that and I'll let you know how to go.

1131
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Speaker 1: Thank you. I cannot wait to hear about it. All right,

1132
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:17,120
Speaker 1: you guys talk a good morning you too, And that

1133
01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 1: was another edition service all right, it really didn't sound

1134
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:26,960
Speaker 1: like you was talking about DJ Envy riding his bike

1135
01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 1: though I'm not gonna go why why, because that's what

1136
01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:33,600
Speaker 1: he's visualizing. I had to think about talking about I'm

1137
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:35,720
Speaker 1: gonna marry man. You got these fantasies about me and

1138
01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 1: I don't like it. I'm starting to feel uncomfortable. You're

1139
01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 1: a liar. What's with you? I'm gonna keep a real

1140
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:48,320
Speaker 1: get some real advice with Anthela. Yet's ask ye morning?

1141
01:02:48,360 --> 01:02:52,320
Speaker 1: Everybody is cj Envy and Ngela Yee, Charlomagne the god

1142
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:54,360
Speaker 1: be all the breakfast club. But in the middle of

1143
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:56,800
Speaker 1: ask ye what you want to go to ye yes?

1144
01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 1: Line for Hello? Who's this? Hey? This is poor show

1145
01:02:59,840 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 1: called from Chuston. What's your question for you? Okay? So

1146
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 1: I have a question. Um. Basically, I've been dealing with

1147
01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: some sexual harassment at my job with my supervisor m

1148
01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:15,600
Speaker 1: so I took the appropriate steps we to hr even

1149
01:03:15,880 --> 01:03:18,160
Speaker 1: talked to a lawyer about the situation, but it seems

1150
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:21,120
Speaker 1: like they're not trying to let this manager go. So

1151
01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:23,120
Speaker 1: it was like, what's the next step. What should I

1152
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:25,919
Speaker 1: do from this point on? Should I just find another job?

1153
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 1: Should I keep pushing the issue because I feel like

1154
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:33,080
Speaker 1: he's retaliaing. You feel like he's you feel like he's retaliating.

1155
01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 1: You said yes, like, give me some examples. Um, Basically,

1156
01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 1: like he tried to put me on third shift without

1157
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 1: telling me, which was one thing. Another thing, he nick

1158
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 1: picks at little things that he claimed I'm doing wrong

1159
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:51,600
Speaker 1: because I'm an industrial technician. So I worked through maintenance

1160
01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:54,040
Speaker 1: department seeing that I'm one of the girls with a

1161
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:57,280
Speaker 1: bunch of guys. Um, he just kind of nickpicks at

1162
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:00,200
Speaker 1: me for little things that I feel like, it's like

1163
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:03,320
Speaker 1: not even serious to nick pick over because he never

1164
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 1: did before until I went to HR about him. Okay,

1165
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 1: so here's a couple of things. First of all, you

1166
01:04:10,280 --> 01:04:12,640
Speaker 1: said that you've complained, right, yes, So I went to

1167
01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:17,320
Speaker 1: HR twice and so their response is what, we're gonna

1168
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:20,160
Speaker 1: work on it. We're gonna work on him. We're gonna

1169
01:04:20,200 --> 01:04:21,560
Speaker 1: try to figure out how we're going to make you

1170
01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:24,920
Speaker 1: comfortable wire being here because we know you're not, but

1171
01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:28,000
Speaker 1: that's pretty much it. And they're dragging their seat about

1172
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:31,120
Speaker 1: letting them go or you know, what are they going

1173
01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:33,880
Speaker 1: to do with the supervisor? I had proofs that he

1174
01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:36,640
Speaker 1: did that right, text message and everything. So you have

1175
01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 1: all of this in writing and you've emailed them and

1176
01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:43,320
Speaker 1: they've responded via email. I highly recommend you get yourself

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01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:46,440
Speaker 1: a lawyer. That's when they take things seriously, okay, And

1178
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 1: you should not ever have to work under those circumstances.

1179
01:04:49,120 --> 01:04:51,440
Speaker 1: You should feel safe and protected at work. If you

1180
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 1: go to HR with a complaint and evidence that somebody

1181
01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 1: is doing this see you and making you feel this

1182
01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:58,480
Speaker 1: way at work and you're uncomfortable and you're feeling belittled,

1183
01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 1: then you need to make sure that you take those

1184
01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:02,320
Speaker 1: matters into your own hand, because you have the power

1185
01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:05,440
Speaker 1: to do that. Okay, Well, I'll probably just go back

1186
01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:07,480
Speaker 1: to the attorney I was talking to. She told me

1187
01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 1: that the only way she can take my cases at

1188
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 1: the job was to fire me or there was no

1189
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 1: changes moving forward. So because there's no changes, I'm just

1190
01:05:16,520 --> 01:05:19,480
Speaker 1: going to go back to her. Yeah. Absolutely, And it

1191
01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 1: sounds like you have a legitimate case. You have these

1192
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:23,680
Speaker 1: text messages. Plus, I think you have to keep a

1193
01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 1: record of what's been happening at work since you've been

1194
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:29,280
Speaker 1: complaining to hr and all the things that he's been

1195
01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:31,600
Speaker 1: Every detail that you can get, and anything that you

1196
01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 1: can get in writing as evidence you should try to

1197
01:05:34,200 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 1: get and make sure you send those emails, make sure

1198
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,440
Speaker 1: you show what their responses are, present all of those

1199
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 1: to a lawyer. You definitely have a case. And I

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01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:43,440
Speaker 1: think this is great because you don't want this to

1201
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:46,440
Speaker 1: happen to somebody else. So it's great that you spoke up.

1202
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:48,600
Speaker 1: You've done what you're supposed to do on your part.

1203
01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:50,480
Speaker 1: They haven't done what they're supposed to do on their

1204
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 1: behalfs And now it's trying to move it to the

1205
01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 1: next level. Hey look, heah, you ain't got no You

1206
01:05:54,600 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 1: ain't got none of your cousins that can come box

1207
01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:59,360
Speaker 1: him any more. I mean, I do got cousins who

1208
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 1: want to come ball walk him out now, but less

1209
01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 1: it's like, I don't this is a white man, So

1210
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:05,960
Speaker 1: I don't want my people to getting lonk off for

1211
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:08,520
Speaker 1: that though, And I ain't carrying a white man now.

1212
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:10,120
Speaker 1: That man ain't got no business trying to feel on

1213
01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:13,800
Speaker 1: your bunkie at work now. Yeah, you be trying to

1214
01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:15,480
Speaker 1: talk what you want touch to the tattoo and all

1215
01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:19,880
Speaker 1: kind of stuff you want to touch the tattoo like

1216
01:06:20,040 --> 01:06:22,120
Speaker 1: you damn man, you are not getting none of your

1217
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:24,320
Speaker 1: families locked up over there. Well, I need your cousin

1218
01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:28,680
Speaker 1: to walker of course, relaxed, stay out of get you

1219
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:32,600
Speaker 1: full conversation, give me a face. I want to full

1220
01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:35,520
Speaker 1: conversation now, stay out of the joke. Out of her

1221
01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 1: sexual harassment. No joke. I'm talking to her in our

1222
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 1: native language. Just get you Charleston golor eight four three

1223
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:44,600
Speaker 1: all day. Yeah, but I'm at your girl. I know

1224
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 1: it has to be tough for you to go to

1225
01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:48,000
Speaker 1: work every day under those circumstances and not feel like

1226
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:51,440
Speaker 1: anybody cares. I'm so uncomfortable every day, and it's like

1227
01:06:51,520 --> 01:06:53,680
Speaker 1: I left work today just to get away. It took

1228
01:06:53,680 --> 01:06:55,880
Speaker 1: a sick day just to be there with them. Yeah,

1229
01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:59,080
Speaker 1: that's a terrible feeling. So you have to nip this

1230
01:06:59,200 --> 01:07:01,200
Speaker 1: in the butt and let them know you ain't gonna

1231
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 1: keep this going. I have the power over you, and

1232
01:07:03,560 --> 01:07:06,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make y'all look crazy exactly. Thank you, Charlomagne.

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01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 1: I love you, though, I love you, Mom. I'm city

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01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 1: is doing you got your cousins? I need to shut

1235
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:15,680
Speaker 1: up by punching them off. Thank you so much. I

1236
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:21,320
Speaker 1: was thinking about it. If you sneaking, sneak asking ye,

1237
01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:23,600
Speaker 1: eight hundred and five five one oh five one. If

1238
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 1: you need relationship advice, yeah, help you out. Now keep

1239
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,920
Speaker 1: a lock. It's the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast Club.

1240
01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:37,040
Speaker 1: It's that time ask Charlomagne a dj envy anything up?

1241
01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 1: Pick it up, it up? It's time to ask morning.

1242
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:46,600
Speaker 1: Everybody is dj envy Angela. Ye, Charlomagne the guy. We

1243
01:07:46,680 --> 01:07:49,680
Speaker 1: are the breakfast Club. Now it's time for as C

1244
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:52,320
Speaker 1: and e. Angeli is out, so Charlomagne and I will

1245
01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 1: be holding it down. So let's go to the callers. Hello,

1246
01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:58,040
Speaker 1: who's this? Then? What's up? Bro? What's your question for?

1247
01:07:58,080 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 1: C an E? Order me something? Man? All mean something? Man?

1248
01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 1: Give me something? Ain't Charlomagne? Yeah, listen, I got a

1249
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:08,080
Speaker 1: question for your real quick like Look I got I'll

1250
01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:11,400
Speaker 1: be married for like so too. Ment me right. I'm

1251
01:08:11,440 --> 01:08:13,840
Speaker 1: just saying with menitary, I got one hundred percent disabilities.

1252
01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:18,400
Speaker 1: I originally called who say something about my wife? But

1253
01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:20,880
Speaker 1: if this anyway, look I need your help. I needed

1254
01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:24,040
Speaker 1: your help like a year ago because one of my

1255
01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 1: disabilities is that is and all the stuff, and I

1256
01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:30,000
Speaker 1: almost cute my fla. I got two kids, right, and

1257
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:33,679
Speaker 1: so reasually, why I'm calling me is because you always

1258
01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:38,479
Speaker 1: speak a mental health right, and I'm Domnicans, I'm Dominican, right,

1259
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:41,760
Speaker 1: so we don't believe in that stuff, just like black people.

1260
01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:43,360
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I can see myself like,

1261
01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:46,800
Speaker 1: not that I consider myself black, That's not what I'm saying,

1262
01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:50,120
Speaker 1: but we are. You know what I'm saying. Okay, that's

1263
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 1: what I'm Okay, cool, I want you to take my

1264
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:55,000
Speaker 1: number because I'm gonna need you. You know what I'm saying.

1265
01:08:55,439 --> 01:08:59,040
Speaker 1: Because I'm getting help right now with my mental health.

1266
01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:01,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, And I'm getting better. But

1267
01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is I try to call these organizations

1268
01:09:04,160 --> 01:09:07,120
Speaker 1: before because I feel like, you know how sometime guy

1269
01:09:07,720 --> 01:09:10,840
Speaker 1: tells you to like do something, and you you either

1270
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:12,800
Speaker 1: listen to it or you don't. You know what I'm saying.

1271
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:14,880
Speaker 1: So I was calling you back then when I was

1272
01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:17,559
Speaker 1: in my darkest place because I feel that you had

1273
01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:19,840
Speaker 1: the answer to help me out. Well, I'll tell you what.

1274
01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:22,280
Speaker 1: I don't have all the answers, you know what I'm saying.

1275
01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:24,240
Speaker 1: I'm still going on my journey, just like you going

1276
01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:26,640
Speaker 1: on your journey. But I do have a lot of

1277
01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:28,800
Speaker 1: resources and a lot of people that you can talk to,

1278
01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:31,519
Speaker 1: people that you know have have helped me get through.

1279
01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 1: And I have no problem sharing those resources with you,

1280
01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:37,679
Speaker 1: my my Dominican brother. Okay, hold on, hold one second.

1281
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:40,240
Speaker 1: We're gonna get your information. But I got a real

1282
01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:43,560
Speaker 1: question for the brother though. Ok ahead, go ahead, ask

1283
01:09:43,640 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 1: me a question. You're a Dominican, right, yes, sir? How

1284
01:09:47,240 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 1: many pair of white jeans do you own? Or have

1285
01:09:49,280 --> 01:09:53,080
Speaker 1: you owned? I knew it throughout your life? Seriously? Old on,

1286
01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:56,760
Speaker 1: like seriously, probably like once or twice because there was

1287
01:09:56,800 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 1: a white party and I needed everything white. Okay, okay,

1288
01:10:01,080 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 1: so all the many kids don't have white jeans? Show

1289
01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:05,600
Speaker 1: me hold on, man, yes to that man about his

1290
01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:07,599
Speaker 1: white jeans. Man, I'm about to get your I'm gonna

1291
01:10:07,600 --> 01:10:09,400
Speaker 1: get your number. Leave your number with the producer. I'm

1292
01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:10,880
Speaker 1: gonna hit you up. I'm hit you in the show

1293
01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:14,000
Speaker 1: over in like an hour. All right, goodness, gracious, hello,

1294
01:10:14,120 --> 01:10:18,720
Speaker 1: who's this yo? This magic? Magic? Questions to me? Yo, man,

1295
01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:21,720
Speaker 1: I got I got some questions, man, A little relationship

1296
01:10:21,800 --> 01:10:24,000
Speaker 1: problem I got going on right now, go on my

1297
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:27,680
Speaker 1: girl for a year. She got three kids and uh,

1298
01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:31,360
Speaker 1: she's pregnant now with the fourth one by me. This

1299
01:10:31,439 --> 01:10:34,360
Speaker 1: is my first one, but like it ain't even she

1300
01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:38,559
Speaker 1: got three from another man. She got three different baby daddies.

1301
01:10:39,400 --> 01:10:42,320
Speaker 1: Well she has four now four baby daddy now, well ahead, okay, yeah,

1302
01:10:42,760 --> 01:10:44,640
Speaker 1: and then it's been rough to me. Man, It's like

1303
01:10:45,240 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 1: I go through hell. I do everything she hasked me

1304
01:10:47,840 --> 01:10:49,479
Speaker 1: to do. Basically, I've been a dude boy for her

1305
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 1: since she's been pregnant. And she called me selfish just

1306
01:10:53,360 --> 01:10:57,160
Speaker 1: because like I complain or something like that for getting

1307
01:10:57,240 --> 01:10:58,960
Speaker 1: up in the middle of the night doing something for her.

1308
01:10:59,120 --> 01:11:02,360
Speaker 1: Like I'm wanted to sold to shut up. But she

1309
01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:05,360
Speaker 1: don't respect you, bron. It's kind of hard to respect

1310
01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:07,880
Speaker 1: the fourth baby daddy. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,

1311
01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:09,840
Speaker 1: I'm scared for my life though for real, man, I

1312
01:11:10,000 --> 01:11:14,559
Speaker 1: ain't say she put hands on you. Yeah she has

1313
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 1: she has, Yeah, yeah, I ain't. You know what I'm saying.

1314
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:21,120
Speaker 1: This is this one time incident, but that's what she

1315
01:11:21,320 --> 01:11:24,800
Speaker 1: used to know that in her path and I'm toxic woman.

1316
01:11:25,800 --> 01:11:28,200
Speaker 1: I'm not that guy you know from you. I'm not

1317
01:11:28,280 --> 01:11:30,280
Speaker 1: your eggs baby daddy or nothing like that. Want to

1318
01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:32,560
Speaker 1: come home, get drunk and put you know, put my

1319
01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 1: hands on your stuff like that. You know, I communicate,

1320
01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:38,080
Speaker 1: you know, just talk to me with whatever the problem is,

1321
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:40,720
Speaker 1: we'll try to solve instead of this argument back and forth.

1322
01:11:40,840 --> 01:11:42,760
Speaker 1: But like I said, she ain't got the here hood

1323
01:11:43,400 --> 01:11:47,080
Speaker 1: and not so pregnant now and Nazi time. I set

1324
01:11:47,080 --> 01:11:48,840
Speaker 1: want to be with me, no mode, And that's not

1325
01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 1: what I wanted my wife, my first job. I wanted

1326
01:11:50,960 --> 01:11:54,080
Speaker 1: to be old family, not just I feel bad for you,

1327
01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 1: BROI with somebody that's toxic. Oh man, are you taking

1328
01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:02,760
Speaker 1: other three kids too? I'm thirty one having my first child,

1329
01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 1: and it ain't how I wanted to be a crazy

1330
01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:10,800
Speaker 1: boy If you don't listen to me, are you taking

1331
01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:15,120
Speaker 1: care of others? Three kids? Barely? Are you taking care

1332
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:16,960
Speaker 1: of them? So you are? You know what I'm saying,

1333
01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 1: Like I'll do what she asked me to do for

1334
01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:23,280
Speaker 1: them or whatnot? Boy, listen if the roles were reversed

1335
01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:26,519
Speaker 1: and you was dating a toxic man with four different

1336
01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:29,439
Speaker 1: baby mamas who put hands on you what would your

1337
01:12:29,479 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 1: girls be telling you to do? Leave? People sen telling

1338
01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:34,800
Speaker 1: me to leave, But I just didn't listen. I don't

1339
01:12:34,840 --> 01:12:38,679
Speaker 1: know why I really listen to goddamn girlfriends. Your girlfriend

1340
01:12:39,720 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 1: right now, you said you fair for your life. She

1341
01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:44,280
Speaker 1: puts hands on you, She makes you do everything. You

1342
01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 1: sound like you do everything, and you're about to lose it.

1343
01:12:47,200 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 1: So you better leave her alone before she hit you

1344
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:55,400
Speaker 1: with an envy front pen greet your girlfriends. Envya's Joan Clayton.

1345
01:12:55,840 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 1: We're telling you to leave Maya. Okay, Actually you would

1346
01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:01,320
Speaker 1: be leaving this situation like this something Lynne would get

1347
01:13:01,320 --> 01:13:04,559
Speaker 1: herself into. All right, you got she got three kids

1348
01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:06,640
Speaker 1: already from three different baby daddies. He got one on

1349
01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:08,840
Speaker 1: the way from you. Be a father to your child.

1350
01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:11,800
Speaker 1: But this sounds like a very toxic human that you're

1351
01:13:11,840 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 1: dealing with. And she needs to get some healing. And

1352
01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:16,200
Speaker 1: when she gets some healing, it becomes the woman that

1353
01:13:16,320 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 1: you need her to be. Then you can be with her.

1354
01:13:18,439 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 1: I told her, I told her time about getting married

1355
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:22,880
Speaker 1: and stuff before the baby get here. I told her,

1356
01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:24,240
Speaker 1: you want to do that, we gotta to go to

1357
01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:27,080
Speaker 1: counsel and she told us he don't need that really,

1358
01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:30,400
Speaker 1: it's a stressful, man, it's really putting a tote only

1359
01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 1: for real. You know what toxic people do. They never

1360
01:13:33,479 --> 01:13:36,840
Speaker 1: let things go. They can't move forward. They bully, they intimidate,

1361
01:13:36,880 --> 01:13:39,200
Speaker 1: they lie, they create drama, they play the victim, and

1362
01:13:39,280 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 1: they act out of fear and insecurity. That's all that

1363
01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:44,600
Speaker 1: person is doing to you right now. You gotta go, bro,

1364
01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:47,320
Speaker 1: be a father to your child. That's a very toxic woman.

1365
01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:50,040
Speaker 1: She sounds like the future of females. Repeat after me.

1366
01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:54,760
Speaker 1: I am strong. I am strong. I will not let

1367
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:57,800
Speaker 1: her hit me anymore. I will not let her hit

1368
01:13:57,880 --> 01:14:04,040
Speaker 1: me anymore. What do anymore? That's right? I am strong,

1369
01:14:04,240 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 1: I am a good man, and I am a good father.

1370
01:14:07,280 --> 01:14:09,120
Speaker 1: I am strong. I am a good man, and I

1371
01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:11,760
Speaker 1: will be a good father. You go where you got

1372
01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:14,400
Speaker 1: that written down? That envy? And why are you that's

1373
01:14:14,400 --> 01:14:16,400
Speaker 1: your daily affirmation. I'm trying to give him the self

1374
01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:18,599
Speaker 1: esteem to make him feel good this morning. Man, brother,

1375
01:14:18,680 --> 01:14:20,040
Speaker 1: you go out there, you have a great day, and

1376
01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:22,799
Speaker 1: you take care of business. I brother, eliminate all toxic

1377
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:24,960
Speaker 1: people from your life. Man, Why we always give people

1378
01:14:25,000 --> 01:14:28,080
Speaker 1: more chances than they deserve? Why do we do that? Man?

1379
01:14:28,120 --> 01:14:30,200
Speaker 1: A little self esteem all right, we got more coming

1380
01:14:30,280 --> 01:14:41,880
Speaker 1: up next. We're a breakfast club. Call me and your

1381
01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:46,040
Speaker 1: opinions to the Breakfast Club top on eight five five

1382
01:14:46,120 --> 01:14:50,960
Speaker 1: one five, one morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

1383
01:14:51,080 --> 01:14:53,840
Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club. Good morning,

1384
01:14:54,040 --> 01:14:56,719
Speaker 1: Good morning, what's happening? Happy holidays? What we're talking about today?

1385
01:14:56,760 --> 01:14:58,920
Speaker 1: Now if you just join us, we're talking about mail b.

1386
01:14:59,160 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 1: Now she does something. I think it's prettydd. You want

1387
01:15:00,960 --> 01:15:03,639
Speaker 1: to plame what she does? She actually got a tattoo

1388
01:15:03,720 --> 01:15:06,479
Speaker 1: removes off her ex. You know, she's getting divorced, and

1389
01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:09,519
Speaker 1: she got instead of laser removal for that tattoo, she

1390
01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:11,280
Speaker 1: got it cut out of her body and she keeps

1391
01:15:11,320 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 1: the skin in a jar. That's weird. That is called root.

1392
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:17,160
Speaker 1: That is voodoo, black magic. All right, you cut the

1393
01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:19,840
Speaker 1: name off your skin, put it in the jaw, have

1394
01:15:20,360 --> 01:15:22,519
Speaker 1: a little witch doctor or something, put a little whammy

1395
01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:24,800
Speaker 1: on it. Don't nobody touch that job because if you do,

1396
01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:26,800
Speaker 1: the spell will be broken. And as long as that

1397
01:15:27,080 --> 01:15:30,560
Speaker 1: name is in that jaw, Stephen Bellefonte will have a

1398
01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 1: rectile this function for the rest of his life, or

1399
01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:34,080
Speaker 1: at the least caught up a frog or two. Everything

1400
01:15:34,200 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 1: from the past, goals in the garbage, nothing from the past,

1401
01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:41,880
Speaker 1: no letters, no pictures, nating, everything thrown away. Yeah, I

1402
01:15:41,880 --> 01:15:44,400
Speaker 1: actually have a lot of things from x'es. I actually

1403
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:47,160
Speaker 1: have all my letters and cards and knows that I

1404
01:15:47,280 --> 01:15:48,600
Speaker 1: used to pass in class and all of that in

1405
01:15:48,640 --> 01:15:50,840
Speaker 1: a huge box. Well, I mean, listen, how long you

1406
01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:53,479
Speaker 1: been with your woman? Twenty four years married seventeen? I've

1407
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:57,360
Speaker 1: been with my woman twenty years married four Okay, I'm forty.

1408
01:15:57,760 --> 01:16:00,880
Speaker 1: There's no exes, all right, I don't even remember what

1409
01:16:00,960 --> 01:16:04,479
Speaker 1: an X is. A X is really from high school

1410
01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:06,960
Speaker 1: because nobody really wrote letters after that. What I'm saying, so,

1411
01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:10,320
Speaker 1: if your woman is still saving letters from high school,

1412
01:16:10,960 --> 01:16:13,080
Speaker 1: that letter really means a lot to her, and that

1413
01:16:13,280 --> 01:16:15,599
Speaker 1: person that makes a lot to her, and that person

1414
01:16:15,840 --> 01:16:18,720
Speaker 1: that wrote that letter, you know, could never be duplicated,

1415
01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:20,360
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like, I also grew up

1416
01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:22,320
Speaker 1: as a as a writer, like when I was young,

1417
01:16:22,439 --> 01:16:24,519
Speaker 1: and you know, and I read a lot, and so

1418
01:16:24,640 --> 01:16:26,600
Speaker 1: I keep all of those things even from like my

1419
01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:32,599
Speaker 1: friends who are women married. Imagine being married for seventeen years,

1420
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:35,080
Speaker 1: all right, and you've been with this guy that you

1421
01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:37,840
Speaker 1: married too since y'all was kids. But you keeping letter

1422
01:16:37,920 --> 01:16:40,200
Speaker 1: from the exes? That mean you keeping letters from when

1423
01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:44,280
Speaker 1: you was like seventeen eighteen, like those first feelings of love,

1424
01:16:45,200 --> 01:16:50,320
Speaker 1: those first feelings of love having been duplicated at all. No,

1425
01:16:50,439 --> 01:16:52,160
Speaker 1: what are you talking? No man has ever made you

1426
01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:56,320
Speaker 1: feel the way that that first person. I don't know.

1427
01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:00,880
Speaker 1: Why don't we talking about magic fingers earlier? No? No,

1428
01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:03,760
Speaker 1: no magic fingers. But I burt those letters up and

1429
01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:06,080
Speaker 1: then she let what are you talking about us? I'm

1430
01:17:06,080 --> 01:17:07,479
Speaker 1: not talking about nothing. What are you talking about? And

1431
01:17:07,479 --> 01:17:11,879
Speaker 1: I ain't told nothing? He's sounding insecure. Natasha, Hi, good morning, Natasha,

1432
01:17:12,200 --> 01:17:15,280
Speaker 1: good morning. You keep anything from your ex? I definitely

1433
01:17:15,360 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 1: do not. The only thing I kept from my ex

1434
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:21,640
Speaker 1: as our son, and I'm glad you kept that. I

1435
01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:23,080
Speaker 1: would let that go. We're doing so deep that I

1436
01:17:23,160 --> 01:17:24,479
Speaker 1: had to get rid of the cell phone that I

1437
01:17:24,560 --> 01:17:26,400
Speaker 1: used to chext him from because I would search and

1438
01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:28,720
Speaker 1: I type in day and then he pop up even

1439
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:30,519
Speaker 1: though he was deleted. He threw like, oh I text

1440
01:17:30,600 --> 01:17:32,400
Speaker 1: U pop up. I was like, we gotta get rid

1441
01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:35,040
Speaker 1: of this, all right, I tell you the manager, Thank you, mama.

1442
01:17:35,240 --> 01:17:38,559
Speaker 1: Now as y'all's baby, what's up? Mamma. Did she call

1443
01:17:38,600 --> 01:17:42,000
Speaker 1: you lady? I don't know what she called me. She said, baby, Oh,

1444
01:17:43,520 --> 01:17:45,720
Speaker 1: now do you throw everything away from your past relationships?

1445
01:17:46,400 --> 01:17:49,599
Speaker 1: I'm throwing everything away, like I'm not keeping nothing. What's

1446
01:17:49,680 --> 01:17:53,400
Speaker 1: likely memories of an egg for like I saw everything

1447
01:17:53,479 --> 01:17:55,400
Speaker 1: away like I used to live, Me and my wife

1448
01:17:55,520 --> 01:17:58,120
Speaker 1: used to this together, and like it would come over

1449
01:17:58,200 --> 01:18:00,559
Speaker 1: and still say, oh you got my show you. I'm

1450
01:18:00,600 --> 01:18:02,760
Speaker 1: just trying to find ways to come back. And I'm

1451
01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:04,519
Speaker 1: just like, maybe I have to ever take away you

1452
01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:06,120
Speaker 1: know you ain't got to come back for nothing those

1453
01:18:06,320 --> 01:18:08,720
Speaker 1: Now what does she give you a rolex? Oh, that's

1454
01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:13,000
Speaker 1: definitely not that. That's okay. It is all about the

1455
01:18:13,040 --> 01:18:15,040
Speaker 1: cast of the gift. You ain't giving back no Bentley.

1456
01:18:15,280 --> 01:18:17,240
Speaker 1: You ain't getting back no type of car. And you

1457
01:18:17,280 --> 01:18:22,719
Speaker 1: ain't getting back no jewelry, no Nonday. How y'all gonna

1458
01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:24,720
Speaker 1: be picky and choosy about what you keep and what

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01:18:24,840 --> 01:18:26,920
Speaker 1: you give away. Well, some things that X gives you

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01:18:27,000 --> 01:18:28,800
Speaker 1: ain't got no choice but to keep, like her fees.

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01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:33,000
Speaker 1: So to everybody out there, everybody out there who X

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01:18:33,080 --> 01:18:35,479
Speaker 1: gave him her fees and then ain't got no choice

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01:18:35,520 --> 01:18:36,960
Speaker 1: but delivered that and keep that for the rest of

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01:18:37,000 --> 01:18:40,840
Speaker 1: their life. Hello, who's this from? Rocky? Do you keep

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01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:44,320
Speaker 1: anything from your ex? Bro? No need to. I've been

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01:18:44,800 --> 01:18:47,880
Speaker 1: marriage four years, my girl for seven, and they don't

1467
01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:50,200
Speaker 1: need to. Bro. You gotta hold off from the past. Bro.

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01:18:50,280 --> 01:18:52,880
Speaker 1: You might as gonna trying to hand back in that direction. Yeah, yeah,

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01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:55,000
Speaker 1: that's how I feel. I don't understand why, you know,

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01:18:55,240 --> 01:18:58,120
Speaker 1: somebody would hold on to something from their past, especially

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01:18:58,160 --> 01:19:00,640
Speaker 1: if they've been together for so long, like imagine, mean,

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01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:03,400
Speaker 1: was somebody for seventeen, ten years old and twelve years

1473
01:19:03,439 --> 01:19:07,040
Speaker 1: old that they would ten somebody? Why this isn't so close?

1474
01:19:07,080 --> 01:19:08,760
Speaker 1: I'm telling you. I'm just telling you. You're gonna point

1475
01:19:09,080 --> 01:19:10,519
Speaker 1: point of finger, point of the magic finger at me.

1476
01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:13,040
Speaker 1: I'm just somebody was writing letters to my wife when

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01:19:13,080 --> 01:19:15,200
Speaker 1: they were ten years old. She kept at his memories,

1478
01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:17,280
Speaker 1: is all. That's so cute, and I burned them. I

1479
01:19:17,360 --> 01:19:19,120
Speaker 1: don't like it. Whatever is in the past. Say you

1480
01:19:19,160 --> 01:19:22,240
Speaker 1: shouldn't y'all been married for forty years? How long you've

1481
01:19:22,240 --> 01:19:25,840
Speaker 1: been married? Seriously, y'all been together twenty four, twenty four.

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01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 1: Don't read the bird to be cheaping stuff. And that's

1483
01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:29,200
Speaker 1: what I said, And that's why I burned them letters up.

1484
01:19:29,320 --> 01:19:31,240
Speaker 1: It's so crazy because I do have it. Like I said,

1485
01:19:31,280 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 1: I have a huge box fill but like letters from

1486
01:19:33,880 --> 01:19:36,840
Speaker 1: my friends when they went away out of town from xes,

1487
01:19:36,920 --> 01:19:39,720
Speaker 1: like everything together in a box. I haven't even separated it.

1488
01:19:39,800 --> 01:19:43,000
Speaker 1: But recent exg you used to Still this is off

1489
01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:46,040
Speaker 1: from like high school in college. Ain't nobody Rolex in

1490
01:19:46,120 --> 01:19:47,880
Speaker 1: high school? Now I'm talking about a box of letters.

1491
01:19:47,960 --> 01:19:49,920
Speaker 1: Oh but my whole thing is what I'm saying is

1492
01:19:50,520 --> 01:19:52,720
Speaker 1: that it doesn't really I never thought of it, like

1493
01:19:52,800 --> 01:19:55,240
Speaker 1: it's something that would be offensive to anybody. I used

1494
01:19:55,240 --> 01:19:57,200
Speaker 1: to be nobody ring letters. Now. I even found a

1495
01:19:57,240 --> 01:19:59,040
Speaker 1: watch that somebody gave my my wife when I think

1496
01:19:59,040 --> 01:20:01,280
Speaker 1: they were like twelve thirteen. I've definitely ran over that

1497
01:20:01,360 --> 01:20:04,559
Speaker 1: watch with my car. She still got all these little trinkets,

1498
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:06,720
Speaker 1: all those little twelve days of Christmas. Will you mind her?

1499
01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:09,000
Speaker 1: All this stuff? And she's still keeping watches from middle

1500
01:20:09,040 --> 01:20:11,320
Speaker 1: school in ten years old. So maybe they just little queq.

1501
01:20:12,600 --> 01:20:15,800
Speaker 1: That's cute, but they all going now to grow up.

1502
01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:18,439
Speaker 1: They are going down and that watch I ran over

1503
01:20:18,640 --> 01:20:22,000
Speaker 1: that ten times. Little memories are so cute. Rebecca, Hey,

1504
01:20:22,240 --> 01:20:25,439
Speaker 1: good morning, Rebecca. Um okay, yeah, so I have like

1505
01:20:25,600 --> 01:20:29,320
Speaker 1: an Xbox I like, not like the video games. Yeah,

1506
01:20:29,360 --> 01:20:33,240
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, me too. Yeah. So I dated

1507
01:20:33,400 --> 01:20:35,920
Speaker 1: this guy from like eighth grade the senior year of

1508
01:20:36,000 --> 01:20:40,080
Speaker 1: high school, and I kept literally everything. But the weird

1509
01:20:40,200 --> 01:20:42,800
Speaker 1: thing that I kept was he gave me a lemon.

1510
01:20:43,680 --> 01:20:48,120
Speaker 1: Lemon is great. Sure to God, he gave me a lemon,

1511
01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:51,479
Speaker 1: and I still have it in the box. Not like

1512
01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:59,439
Speaker 1: rotten or anything. No, it doesn't smell or anything. It's

1513
01:20:59,479 --> 01:21:02,880
Speaker 1: like hello and hard and I don't like him and

1514
01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:07,600
Speaker 1: his heart. Why are you keeping that? That's disgusting. It

1515
01:21:07,800 --> 01:21:10,160
Speaker 1: was like the reason why we started talking in the

1516
01:21:10,280 --> 01:21:16,799
Speaker 1: first place. Convinced me that it was like this really

1517
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:21,120
Speaker 1: rare like lemon from like Cuba or something like that.

1518
01:21:21,439 --> 01:21:23,800
Speaker 1: I like, I don't even know. Sounds like a red

1519
01:21:23,840 --> 01:21:25,800
Speaker 1: flag to me. He lied to you immediately. That came

1520
01:21:25,880 --> 01:21:28,080
Speaker 1: from stop the shop, Mama. Well, if you fell in

1521
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:29,800
Speaker 1: love with a man, they give you a lemon, wait

1522
01:21:29,880 --> 01:21:33,519
Speaker 1: until somebody gives you an apple. Oh, watermelon, you're gonna

1523
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:36,080
Speaker 1: really be head over here lemonade out of that. I'm

1524
01:21:36,120 --> 01:21:40,479
Speaker 1: not gonna do that. Don't curse, all right, Okay, the story,

1525
01:21:40,600 --> 01:21:42,400
Speaker 1: the moral of the story is, man, let's say a

1526
01:21:42,520 --> 01:21:46,240
Speaker 1: prayer and salute everybody out there who is keeping things

1527
01:21:46,560 --> 01:21:49,360
Speaker 1: from their exes that they can't get back like her pies.

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01:21:49,520 --> 01:21:52,880
Speaker 1: Keep a lock. This to breakfast Club. Go Morning. You're

1529
01:21:52,960 --> 01:21:56,200
Speaker 1: checking out the world's most dangerous morning show. Morning. Everybody

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01:21:56,320 --> 01:22:01,320
Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Yee Schlamine, the guy the breakfast Club.

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01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:05,880
Speaker 1: Good morning now, Charlemagne, Yes, sir, you got a positive note. Yes, man.

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01:22:05,920 --> 01:22:08,360
Speaker 1: I want to tell everybody out there you can't live

1533
01:22:08,400 --> 01:22:10,519
Speaker 1: a positive life with a negative mind. I want you

1534
01:22:10,600 --> 01:22:13,559
Speaker 1: to sit back and think about this. Think about making

1535
01:22:13,640 --> 01:22:16,960
Speaker 1: your life a masterpiece. Okay, imagine no limitations on what

1536
01:22:17,080 --> 01:22:21,639
Speaker 1: you can be, have, or do. Breakfast clubs you'll finish

1537
01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:22,280
Speaker 1: or y'all dumb.