WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: A Picture Says A Thousand Icks + Appetizer Energy, Entrée Problems 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:02.320 We got your back to back classics, because there's no 0:00:02.440 --> 0:00:06.560 such thing as too much of a good thing, right Yeah, well, 0:00:08.400 --> 0:00:10.319 no one's going to get a tattoo of that quote. Yeah, 0:00:10.360 --> 0:00:13.200 no about it too much? It sounds good when you 0:00:13.200 --> 0:00:15.680 hear it first. Yeah, well, we're only doing too let's 0:00:15.720 --> 0:00:18.040 not get crazy. Two back to back classics right now. 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:21.080 And we always love to highlight our listeners because we 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:24.240 just are so appreciative that you're here, honestly. Yeah, Brooke, 0:00:24.320 --> 0:00:28.080 Ashley Miller wanted to know do you do marriage breakups? 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:30.240 Brook asking for a friend. We're going to go with 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:33.280 a hot no on that, you know, to make the 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:36.599 new segment the Brooke breaks The Brook breaks you up 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:40.360 is like funny if it's a and can be lighthearted 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:42.760 if it's a new relationship and I know you shouldn't 0:00:42.760 --> 0:00:43.320 be in it. 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:47.199 But that they're adopted, Yeah into that. 0:00:47.440 --> 0:00:48.360 How far can we take this? 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:52.160 It gives Brook breaks bad news? 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:54.680 Can you let our producer not be listening right now? 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:57.520 All right, let's move forward quickly with your back to 0:00:57.560 --> 0:00:58.680 back classics right now. 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:02.800 On this show, we tend to focus a lot on 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:06.800 what not to say during a first date. Oh yeah, Like, 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:11.640 for example, you shouldn't say you know, you remind me 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:15.720 of that super hot mannequin in j C. Pennies with 0:01:15.840 --> 0:01:23.119 the whitehead, and never say I don't like labels. That's 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:25.720 why I removed them off of all my meds today. 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:28.959 No, what I don't. 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:32.679 But you know what we don't hear enough of is 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:36.720 things that you should say during your first dates. That's 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:40.280 why I'm excited for today's listener because he claims his 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:43.360 date said one specific thing to their waiter that wasn't 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:47.280 just a green flag. It made him instantly realize she 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:52.440 was relationship material. Ladies, make sure you're taking notes when 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:55.800 you hear it in a second date update coming up next. 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:58.520 Brooking Jeffrey in the morning second date Update. 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:04.480 Sometimes you can tell right away if you're romantically compatible 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:08.919 with a person just by how they order at a restaurant. 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:12.960 So attractive Suddenly you're talking Jose's love language. 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:16.240 I know Jose is like, for example, if you're at 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:20.880 a fancy steakhouse and they say, yeah, I'll get a 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:24.680 side of onion petals, no sauce, and a wedge salad 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:27.600 as my mane, but with no bacon, no blue cheese. 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:32.240 Can I sub the croutons? For keen waff Lakes instead. 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:36.919 I'm like, uh, can we go ring shopping right now? 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:41.560 Because that's the high maintenance dream girl I've always needed 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:42.360 in my life. 0:02:42.680 --> 0:02:44.640 I mean, if you want super hot, that's what you 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:47.240 have to put up with. Yeah, well, they have to 0:02:47.280 --> 0:02:48.080 make sacrifice. 0:02:48.280 --> 0:02:50.119 They can have a couple bites exactly. 0:02:50.400 --> 0:02:53.880 That's how our listener Andy says he knew his date 0:02:54.160 --> 0:02:56.239 was just the right girl for him. 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:56.639 Oh. 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:59.960 Really, We'll learn more about it in a second. But first, Andy, 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:01.120 you welcome to the show Man. 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:03.680 How you doing, Hey, guys, thanks for having me. Man. 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:06.400 God, any time we open these Andy talking about food, 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:10.280 I'm immediately hungry. They absolutely want to know what was 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:13.880 ordered and what restaurant, well, every food related item. 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:16.160 We'll get to all that stuff in just a second. First, 0:03:16.240 --> 0:03:18.440 let's start with the name of this person, this girl 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:19.840 you met. What's she all about? 0:03:20.160 --> 0:03:23.760 Well, her name is Carla, Okay, and she's awesome. But 0:03:24.120 --> 0:03:26.120 I've been recently even trying to kind of get out 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:28.320 on dating seeing a little bit more, okay, because i 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:29.800 was out of the market for a while and now 0:03:29.840 --> 0:03:31.840 I'm back in and trying to get the lay of 0:03:31.840 --> 0:03:35.040 the land. Okay, One thing that I've noticed is women 0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:39.320 these days, they're so particular on their meals. I'm a 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:41.760 laid back kind of guy, and it's like it's super 0:03:41.800 --> 0:03:43.760 annoying when they're like hold this and not that, like 0:03:43.920 --> 0:03:46.400 just get some fish. 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:49.520 Look, people do low car but it's like, hey, no, rise, 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:51.800 I need ve Jesus at adjustment. 0:03:51.920 --> 0:03:55.400 Like people are just more food conscious. 0:03:56.080 --> 0:03:58.920 It sounds like you're pretty tired of that. Did that 0:03:59.080 --> 0:04:01.000 happen on your date with Carla? 0:04:01.800 --> 0:04:03.680 That's the thing, not at all. 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:07.160 That's all she had to do. 0:04:07.680 --> 0:04:09.960 She's like, I'll take the blank and you were like, 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:11.480 I love you? 0:04:13.200 --> 0:04:13.920 Is that accurate? 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:17.320 Yeah? What did go? She was a breath of fresh air, 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:19.920 very easy going. We went to a Mexican restaurant and 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:23.760 all she did was she just ordered the sahidas, just 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:24.440 like the chicken. 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:26.600 Well, I mean, the fahitas are the ones that you 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:29.880 can put together yourself. You don't even have to ask 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:31.120 them for substitution. 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:33.040 You have to choose though, chicken or bee. 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:38.000 So I mean already, like as soon as she orders, 0:04:38.160 --> 0:04:40.120 does your whole mood change? 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:42.800 And I was like totally under her and I was like, oh, 0:04:43.000 --> 0:04:44.119 moving with me mouth. 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:50.279 That's awesome, dude, did you tell her about your experiences 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:52.960 and how refreshing it was to see her order like 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:54.160 that after? 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:57.080 Yes, I don't want to premptibly warn her so lest 0:04:57.120 --> 0:04:58.599 she gets all nervous when she's ordering her referr. 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:02.799 Yeah, all of that sounds great. You got the green 0:05:02.880 --> 0:05:05.640 flag with the food order. Tell us what about anything 0:05:05.640 --> 0:05:07.600 else that stood out on the date with Carla? 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:10.640 Oh? I mean she's cute, she has a great personality, 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:13.320 and when she spoke about things, she would literally light up. 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:15.560 Like one of the questions I asked her I was like, 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:17.760 do you think your cat actually likes you? Or just 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:18.479 putting up with you? 0:05:20.279 --> 0:05:22.400 I like that question on the date, what'd she say? 0:05:22.600 --> 0:05:25.279 She explained, like how they were like best friends. But 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:26.960 it wasn't like in a corny way. It was in 0:05:27.000 --> 0:05:29.760 a very great energy kind of way. Just a pause. 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:33.800 Asking someone about their pets is a good move always. 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:37.400 Okay, that personally lost me for dating Carla, but I'm 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:39.719 glad that you and her are on the same page. 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:42.520 Hold on you on high maintenance and pets. 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:45.159 Yes, very low negative energy. 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:48.360 If you're just typed, ye will get zero. 0:05:48.560 --> 0:05:50.479 I think that what's sweet is that she lit up 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:53.440 about her cat and you are literally lighting up talking 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:56.880 about her, like sounds so excited. 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:58.000 How'd you mess it up? 0:05:58.279 --> 0:05:58.400 Like? 0:05:58.440 --> 0:05:59.120 What did you do? 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:01.400 Out of the rest of the rest of them? 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:03.440 It was great. We hung out way longer than we 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:05.560 should have at the dinner table, and then we decided 0:06:05.600 --> 0:06:07.279 we didn't want the night to end, so we ended 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:09.800 up kind of going back to my place. We opened 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:11.640 up a bottle of wine and we talked some more. 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:14.520 We we had more conversations, like one of them was 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:16.719 like about, if you want to delete one app forever, 0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:19.160 what would it be. My answer was TikTok and she 0:06:19.240 --> 0:06:20.960 was like, no, I want to believe venmo so I'd 0:06:21.000 --> 0:06:22.279 never have to pay for anything again. 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:25.920 Okay, and she's funny dude. 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:32.000 Okay, now I'm coming back around on yeah, okay, So 0:06:32.040 --> 0:06:33.800 how did you and Carla leave it that night? 0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:35.440 I mean, I didn't want the night to be over, 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:38.040 but it was getting late and being respectful first date 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:40.960 and everything, so I called her an uber and she 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:43.600 went home and I haven't heard from her since. The 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:46.799 weird thing though, is like I'll text her and she'll 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:52.239 like my text, but she's not responding, Like are you yeah? 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:54.760 Are you asking a question? Are you, just saying. 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:57.560 Hi, no, also asking a question like i'd love to 0:06:57.560 --> 0:06:59.080 see you again, went and I'll take you out again. 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:01.120 She's like putus on up, and it's like, okay, well 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:02.800 I guess it's up as good, but I need an 0:07:02.800 --> 0:07:03.280 answer here. 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:06.880 Unless it's not even her answering and her cat has 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:08.920 the password to her phone, it is just getting in there, 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:11.040 pawing around, liking your your text message. 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:12.160 It's like, emphasize emphasis. 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:18.840 You clearly had a strong connection the first time you 0:07:18.920 --> 0:07:20.840 hung out, so it's weird that nothing's happened. 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:28.000 Since she's given like some positive vibes. It's not like she's. 0:07:27.520 --> 0:07:29.680 That's what scares me when we call and talk to her. 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:32.000 We have to put up with those positive vibes and 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:34.520 hopefully get an answer out of her when we come 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:36.760 back and try and get you your second date update 0:07:37.000 --> 0:07:37.560 right after this. 0:07:37.680 --> 0:07:39.560 Okay, thanks, I appreciate you, all, all right? 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:43.360 Hold on man brooking Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:47.600 I only do this maybe a couple times a year 0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:51.560 that I'm highlighting this second date as one we have 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:52.320 to get. 0:07:56.040 --> 0:07:58.120 This guy is so head over heels from her. 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:01.560 Seriously, I'm actually compared to all the other calls that 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:04.560 we've done this year. I'm actually going to put effort 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:06.760 into this one for our listener. 0:08:06.800 --> 0:08:08.080 Andy, you're not putting an effort on. 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:11.400 The your body leg doesn't say that any arms cross 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:12.280 or sitting dock. 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:19.000 This is my effort most because Andy, he's on the 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:22.000 phone with us. Andy, you seem like a genuinely good guy. 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:25.600 And the way that you described your date Carla to us, 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:29.160 she seems like a really cool person too, because most 0:08:29.160 --> 0:08:31.240 guys that we have on here, they just describe how 0:08:31.280 --> 0:08:34.319 hot their dates bodies are and how they tricked them 0:08:34.360 --> 0:08:37.199 into spending the night. Recently, I mean, I told her. 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:38.960 How much I could bench press. I don't know what's 0:08:39.000 --> 0:08:39.480 going on. 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:42.000 And while we're all impressed by that stuff, for sure, 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:46.679 you actually focused on Carla's personality and her words. So 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:49.320 clearly this means a lot to you. 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:52.600 Yes, that definitely doesn't. I appreciate the kind words, and 0:08:52.640 --> 0:08:54.600 I also I appreciate the effort as well. 0:08:55.000 --> 0:09:00.240 Okay from Jeffrey, Yeah, rare people get it. So you 0:09:00.280 --> 0:09:03.120 should count yourself lucky. What do you think is going on? 0:09:03.160 --> 0:09:04.920 Why do you think it's been so hard with her? 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:07.240 No clue to Ganci, which is why I reached out 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:09.480 to you. It's like it's we had a great conversation, 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:11.000 had a great time at dinner, with a great time 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:11.600 back in my house. 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:13.719 Yeah, it's a mystery to all of us, and we're 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:16.160 running out of time here, so we need to call her. 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:18.880 I'm going to dial her number right now. Good luck 0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:21.800 to me. Here we go, good luck to me, good 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:23.400 luck to it. 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:31.560 Hello. 0:09:32.440 --> 0:09:33.760 Hey, is Carla there? 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:35.960 Yeah? 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:36.679 This is she? 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:37.280 Who is this? 0:09:37.760 --> 0:09:38.920 Hey, Carla? 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:40.000 Hi, Carla. 0:09:40.840 --> 0:09:43.760 Love your name. By the way, my name is Gross. 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:45.920 It's jeff and I work on a radio show called 0:09:45.920 --> 0:09:47.080 Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:53.360 Okay, she sounds like a real sailor, but it comes in. 0:09:55.080 --> 0:09:58.200 It is. And we're not trying to shock you too much. 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:01.480 But we're calling as a favor to a really cool 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:04.640 new friend of ours. We spoke to him on the phone, 0:10:04.800 --> 0:10:06.720 and you've met him before. He's a guy named Andy. 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:09.880 Oh. 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:15.080 Oh whoa interesting that was a negative? Oh yeah, I 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:17.199 mean maybe it didn't come out right. You remember Andy? 0:10:17.320 --> 0:10:17.840 Right again? 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:21.880 What is this about? I'm just I don't know what 0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:22.760 this is all about. 0:10:22.920 --> 0:10:25.120 This is a segment we do called second Date Update. 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:29.080 It's about your date and Andy according to him, said 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:30.960 that when you guys hung out, it was a lot 0:10:31.040 --> 0:10:33.120 different than most of the other dates that he's gone 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:35.640 on this year in a really good way. So we're 0:10:35.640 --> 0:10:38.680 just trying to figure out if there's a reason why 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:41.079 there hasn't been a second meetup, because he's really hoping 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:41.440 for one. 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:46.920 Yeah, yeah, I don't know. I just I feel like 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:49.439 I probably didn't have gone to his apartment. 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:51.520 Gone to his apartment. 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:54.400 He said, you guys didn't fool around or anything. 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:55.960 What was weird about his apartment? 0:10:56.600 --> 0:11:00.719 Okay, Well I'll just say this. There were a lot 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:02.200 of framed photos. 0:11:02.720 --> 0:11:07.319 Okay, Okay, that's good. Usually usually bachelors can't figure out 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:08.400 frames and picture. 0:11:09.760 --> 0:11:11.319 Yeah, I bought with a frame. 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:16.400 Like, why were framed photos a red flag to you? 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:21.400 There there are framed photos of him of Andy. 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:24.200 Wait, well, I would hope that they would be him 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:25.280 in his own apartment. 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:29.880 No, bro, I'm talking about my art, like him or 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:31.880 him with people. Yeah, that's a good question. 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:36.400 Just him, just him when he's graduating, when he's like 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:41.120 heading a tiger. I think it was that's cool. 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:43.920 Well, what's a red flag about that? To you? 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:46.840 There were twenty of them him. 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:48.640 That's a lot, a lot. 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:51.679 But listen, he's a solo guy. He lives by himself, 0:11:51.840 --> 0:11:54.760 and obviously maybe he just has him up because he 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:57.440 wants to remind himself of all the cool places he's been. 0:11:57.600 --> 0:11:59.360 You know, maybe I should put up some stuff. 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:01.480 So Brookes, you you would see this and you would 0:12:01.520 --> 0:12:02.600 think this is normal. 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:04.319 Twenty plus pictures twenty's a lot. 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:06.760 I don't know about normal. But I'm just like, I 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:09.440 don't know that it's like nefarious or means that he's 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:10.319 a bad person. 0:12:10.520 --> 0:12:13.319 She doesn't say nefarious. She just said it's odd or 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:13.800 it's weird. 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:15.600 She used it as a red flag, and it's the 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:17.840 reason that she's not calling him back. And I don't 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:20.160 know that that's fair. That's all I'm saying. He's like 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:21.080 cocky too, but I. 0:12:21.040 --> 0:12:21.760 Don't know that it is. 0:12:21.800 --> 0:12:24.280 Oh yeah, were there any cocky pictures of him and 0:12:24.440 --> 0:12:26.360 made you think, Wow, this guy is a real chirt? 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:27.760 Wrong? 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:29.040 Jeff Well, I think. 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:29.120 It's a. 0:12:31.280 --> 0:12:31.439 Word. 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:33.800 Yeah, he had a photo of himself flexing. 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:35.520 Did he have muscles? 0:12:36.160 --> 0:12:37.439 Did he have muscles? 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:37.640 Like? 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:38.280 Was it good? 0:12:40.000 --> 0:12:41.800 It was okay? At best? 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:45.240 I mean okay, I mean we could go into detail 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:48.280 and talk about what was inside of all of his photos. 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:52.320 But I'm still trying to understand what the underlying problem is. 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:54.400 You don't see it as a red flag. 0:12:54.559 --> 0:13:00.000 What is it. He's confident in himself and like, okay, 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:01.240 self absorbed. 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:02.800 Or you're worried that he doesn't have friends. 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:05.640 I did feel like it was clear to me after 0:13:05.679 --> 0:13:08.320 being there for half an hour it would be difficult 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:11.320 to date someone who's already in a committed relationship with himself. 0:13:11.520 --> 0:13:17.760 Oh okay. Maybe it's that motivational thing people do where 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:19.600 you put a photo yourself as a kid in the mirror. 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:23.000 He just has twenty of them. Well, he's talking to 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:25.720 the graduate, just came across as such a good guy. 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:27.680 I just's I felt. 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:29.839 But I don't know. Maybe we got a totally wrong 0:13:29.920 --> 0:13:33.800 read on him, and he's absolutely obsessed with himself because 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:36.280 he is on the other line right now listening in 0:13:36.320 --> 0:13:38.040 on this conversation, which I guess. 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:41.160 In a way is about oh, oh my god. 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:44.040 And he does want to talk to you, Andy. 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:48.120 Hi, Carla, how are you hi? 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:54.200 And this is like embarrassing for you. I don't want 0:13:54.240 --> 0:13:57.880 to put you on blacks on the radio because I 0:13:57.880 --> 0:13:58.559 thought we had a. 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:01.840 Great time and weren't necessarily responding back to me. And 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:04.680 I didn't know you were gonna be kind of hanging 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:07.000 on all the photos of like big moments in my 0:14:07.080 --> 0:14:10.920 life and stuff like that, and and you saw there everywhere. 0:14:11.120 --> 0:14:13.439 There's one in the bathroom, Like, whoa. 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:13.960 It's weird. 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:17.880 Look Okay, I'm sorry, I'm I don't have very good 0:14:18.080 --> 0:14:23.280 interior decoration skills. I guess you can say you mention 0:14:23.280 --> 0:14:25.000 it seem like I have a big crush on myself. 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:27.880 That's okay, you could crush on yourself. 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:30.000 Can we ask, bro, like when you were putting up 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.800 all those pictures, why like why did you put those up? 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:34.640 I don't know. If there're just big moments in my 0:14:34.680 --> 0:14:36.640 life that it's nice of when I'm walking around being 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:39.320 reminded of them, Like you mentioned the tigers, Like that's 0:14:39.320 --> 0:14:41.000 a trip I took with my parents when I went 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:44.880 to Africa, Or I do I do have a shirtless 0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:47.040 Jim selfie on my one? 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:54.840 Is that the bathroom one? Because I would understand, Yeah, like. 0:14:56.920 --> 0:14:59.040 I mentioned before, I've been off the market for a while, 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:01.080 I might have gained a lot of weight and so 0:15:01.280 --> 0:15:03.080 like this is a picture of like after I hit 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:06.400 my goal rate type of thing. 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:07.680 Carl, are you hearing him? 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:08.880 I'm hearing this. 0:15:09.080 --> 0:15:12.600 I just feel like maybe he could have asked one 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:14.760 of his friends and like, is this too many photos? 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:15.479 Yeah? 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:19.040 Yeah, it sounds like it didn't register with him at all. 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:23.080 Like have you ever had anyone else comment about the 0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:26.840 excessive amount of photos? Yeah? 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:29.360 I don't really. I don't have a lot of people 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:31.440 come over to be honest with you, and then you 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:34.600 think about decorating with sock target photos of like red 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:35.960 succulent plants or whatever. 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:39.600 Okay, well, let's not hate on people that like to 0:15:39.640 --> 0:15:41.840 decorate from target because they have some good stuff. 0:15:42.480 --> 0:15:45.240 You should use a woman's touch. Maybe you two can 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:48.040 help each other. I'm just an adjusted a little bit. 0:15:48.120 --> 0:15:51.400 Maybe you have a reasonable amount that he should have, Carla, 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:54.280 is there a number and head that's okay? Of course? 0:15:54.560 --> 0:15:55.840 Like three macs? 0:15:56.760 --> 0:16:00.920 How the world? I choose just three for my moment. 0:16:01.040 --> 0:16:03.080 Actually, Andy, I have a good suggestion for you. They 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:06.680 have these digital photo frames. Now we're all rotate through 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:09.840 like five hundred and you don't have to limit it down. 0:16:10.000 --> 0:16:12.400 Look, I'm definitely open to some options here, but I 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:16.480 mean some of them need to stay up here. 0:16:16.760 --> 0:16:19.560 He's taking this instride. Some people could have gotten really 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:20.440 defensive about it. 0:16:21.840 --> 0:16:23.840 He went through all of this effort just to get 0:16:23.840 --> 0:16:24.400 in touch. 0:16:24.240 --> 0:16:26.080 With you, and look at what he could look like. 0:16:26.160 --> 0:16:29.280 I mean that gym picture she did say it was okay. 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:32.520 Well, no, it's room for improvement, is what I'm hearing. 0:16:32.640 --> 0:16:34.320 So, I mean, if you give me a second date 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:36.360 that leads to the third, fourth, one hundred dates, then 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:42.360 we can start hanging up pictures of us together, twenty. 0:16:41.840 --> 0:16:42.600 Pictures of you. 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:47.000 Now that you know everything, Carlo, you've heard what he 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:50.320 has to say, would you consider going out with him again? 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:51.960 We would pay for it. 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:54.360 I mean, I feel like he was kind of in 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:56.280 the dark about it. It's not like he's in love 0:16:56.280 --> 0:17:00.240 with himself, which I was really worried about. Yeah, would 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:03.000 be interested. But he has to take down some of 0:17:03.040 --> 0:17:04.640 those photos if I'm going. 0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:06.919 Back, or at least turn them around so not all 0:17:06.960 --> 0:17:08.760 of him is looking at you at the same time. 0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:12.080 Okay, you guys can actually do that on your next date. 0:17:12.800 --> 0:17:14.000 Yeah, pick your top one. 0:17:14.200 --> 0:17:16.240 Yeah, I'm totally down. We'll go out to dinner, then 0:17:16.280 --> 0:17:20.439 afterwards you can go back and have a redecoration party. 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:25.160 Congratulations, Andy, you got another meet up with Carla. 0:17:25.440 --> 0:17:27.320 Thank you guys so much. I really appreciate your how. 0:17:28.480 --> 0:17:30.520 We set a goal to get them together and we 0:17:30.600 --> 0:17:33.080 did it, guys without even one picture of us. 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:34.360 Hey, yeah, in front of us. 0:17:34.480 --> 0:17:38.480 That is our effort for the entire year. We can 0:17:38.600 --> 0:17:40.920 go back to not caring any can bail. 0:17:40.720 --> 0:17:41.159 It in. 0:17:43.440 --> 0:17:44.800 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:48.040 You know, today's second date was a good lesson for me. 0:17:48.480 --> 0:17:50.080 Yeah, to put effort into things. 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:53.080 No, because I have lots of frame photos of myself 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:56.960 up in my place. I believe my thing isn't in 0:17:57.040 --> 0:18:00.000 any of them capture other stuff. 0:18:00.240 --> 0:18:03.439 But I almost asked what was and that was No, you. 0:18:03.440 --> 0:18:05.120 Can't come over and check it out if you want. 0:18:05.280 --> 0:18:05.720 I'm good. 0:18:05.800 --> 0:18:07.760 I might get printed it like a public place. 0:18:07.920 --> 0:18:08.120 Yeah. 0:18:08.880 --> 0:18:10.400 Well, now I know I need to limit them down 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:13.639 to just three. So that's good to know. But I 0:18:13.640 --> 0:18:16.120 do think Brooke actually said it best during the segment 0:18:16.359 --> 0:18:20.040 because he seems genuinely surprised that too many photos of 0:18:20.119 --> 0:18:23.080