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Speaker 1: So let's talk about dating, one of my favorite new topics.

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Speaker 1: Not because I love doing it but it's okay, but

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Speaker 1: because I think that it's something so many people are

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Speaker 1: and I'm sharing my mistakes and I am kind of

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Speaker 1: going through the process. I have to reiterate something really

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Speaker 1: important that you'll never know what I'm talking about because

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Speaker 1: I protect people's privacy and if I like someone, I

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Speaker 1: certainly won't be talking about them. So when I do

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Speaker 1: my data boards or talk about cautionary tales, I'm extremely

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Speaker 1: intentional about it. I'm very careful. I know what I'm doing.

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Speaker 1: But all of the stories are true.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So here's what I think when.

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Speaker 1: You're dating overall or online, because I hesitate because I

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Speaker 1: was set up with someone from a human and that's

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Speaker 1: when this TikTok I did that when on Instagram went

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Speaker 1: agreement because I saw some pink flags and realized that

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Speaker 1: their ex wife is supporting them, and it was like whoa.

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Speaker 1: And people freaked out about that because of like what

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Speaker 1: I thought were pink flags, and I got calls from

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Speaker 1: warriors and business people being like your genius, you're such

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Speaker 1: an investigator, like that was so smart, and so that's interesting,

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Speaker 1: which tells me that you have to be smart about dating.

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Speaker 1: And if you've been screwed over as I have, and

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Speaker 1: if you have massive trust issues, as I do, then

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Speaker 1: you can be spatially disoriented, meaning you don't it's zero

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Speaker 1: dark thirty. You don't know where you are, and you

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Speaker 1: don't know if you're upside down, someone screws you over,

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Speaker 1: or you think that someone's something and there's something else.

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Speaker 1: You don't know what's going on. You don't know what

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Speaker 1: to trust. You feel like you're in a house of mirrors.

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Speaker 1: You don't know whether to go left right, if anything

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Speaker 1: you're seeing is what it is, And in many cases

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Speaker 1: it's I'm not saying with everybody you have to be

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Speaker 1: a crazy person detective, but if you smell anything weird

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Speaker 1: or somebody seems like a player, it's too good to

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Speaker 1: be true. Whether they're too nice to you or they're

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Speaker 1: pursuing you too hard, or something happens, you're gonna have

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Speaker 1: to like figure out a way to cover your ass.

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Speaker 1: And you just never know. People are crazy. Someone could

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Speaker 1: say you're a stalker or something.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: This is like the fucking wild West and the Internet.

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Speaker 1: If so many people get stolen from on the internet,

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Speaker 1: like people you see things on dateline where people give

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Speaker 1: away their entire inheritance, then you know, fucked up shit

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Speaker 1: can happen on the Internet. It's just so accessible and

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Speaker 1: so free and bots and AI and this is nuts.

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Speaker 2: I've heard crazy stories.

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Speaker 1: Okay, one person on their profile under their picture, the

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Speaker 1: first question says burper or farder.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe I just said that outlet. I want

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Speaker 2: to vomit.

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Speaker 1: Like what, that's how you're representing yourself, you fucking whack job.

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Speaker 1: So people are nuts, okay, but this is what you

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Speaker 1: have to do. You have to do a multi step

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Speaker 1: verification process. It's not a two step verification process. A

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Speaker 1: multi step verification process. What does that mean? Okay? Who

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Speaker 1: Then you find out the company that they work for.

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Speaker 1: Then you go look it up and like is that real?

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Speaker 1: Then you find out like where's their address? Do they

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Speaker 1: some like public records. Then you need somebody in common

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Speaker 1: to tell you this person's okay, sorry, like somebody needs

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Speaker 1: to tell you. I've called my friends, but I've been crazy. Like,

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Speaker 1: so the person telling me about the other person, they

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Speaker 1: that I was gonna call that other person in vet,

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Speaker 1: this original person. So I called the other person and

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Speaker 1: they said to me, this person is not it for

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Speaker 1: you energetically, financially like, it's just not it like and

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Speaker 1: I was like, thank you, because you know what, it

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Speaker 1: saved me access to me. Now that's a little different

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Speaker 1: because I'm a public person, but for anybody, don't give

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Speaker 1: but good looking enough, age appropriate, geographically desirable. The job

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Speaker 1: You need to protect yourself. Talking about x's on a

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Speaker 1: It's a difficult situation that lasted a decade. But I

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Speaker 1: It always turned me off because that will be you

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Speaker 1: thing to imagine, but a reality. Just like if you

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Speaker 1: You don't know these people. You go on a date

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Speaker 1: why would you go like trusting someone what they said?

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Speaker 1: Do you trust people in business what they say? Hi,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna deliver this diamond tomorrow, but just guess what.

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Speaker 1: It's definitely coming hand us your money. Why is that

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Speaker 1: different than like, Hi, I want to get into a

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Speaker 1: to treat you like gold. Six months later, you know

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Speaker 1: they're verbally abusing you. It sounds cynical, it's just realistic.

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Speaker 1: I'm hearing too many fucked up stories, and I'm experiencing

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Speaker 2: Here's another weird thing. Dating apps. Now.

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Speaker 1: I find many of them to be a goddamn disaster.

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Speaker 1: I'm not kidding you. It's a bargain bin. You have

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Speaker 1: could depress you and it can make you feel gross,

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Speaker 1: so you could say I could find something in there, Well,

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Speaker 1: you could go find somebody at Giant Stadium. Also, if

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Speaker 1: be careful where you are. Another thing is they're motivated

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Speaker 1: by money. They're all motivated by money. This is something

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Speaker 1: zero people talk about. Okay, they're motivated by money. Dating

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Speaker 1: games with them too. And they are also like arimez

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Speaker 2: These are the very special guys.

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Speaker 1: They're giving you the like bargain basement shit every day,

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Speaker 1: but if you pay extra, you get the special guys.

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Speaker 1: Now that's your choice if you want to do that.

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Speaker 1: It is like the slots, but I have experience that

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Speaker 2: It's like fishing.

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Speaker 1: You got to sit out there all day and there

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Speaker 1: You have to know how to navigate these apps. So

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Speaker 1: I mean, I've found decent people at the level. But

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Speaker 1: maybe you're a rich person, maybe you're whatever they want.

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Speaker 1: But because I'm a known person, people come in and

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Speaker 2: The appropriate buyer.

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Speaker 1: So yesterday someone reached out to me to date me,

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Speaker 1: and like was asking you a loud do you really

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Speaker 1: what do you like and where do you like And

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Speaker 1: let's go on this kind of a date and go

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Speaker 1: this whole shit, and I had noticed that they had

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Speaker 1: said they wanted kids, and so then I said, do

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Speaker 2: And they're like yeah, And I'm like, get the fuck

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Speaker 1: I'm fifty three years old. What do you think I'm doing.

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Speaker 1: I'm fucking halle Berry. Get out of here. Don't fucking

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Speaker 1: waste my time. Now, I've like, I feel like I've

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Speaker 1: had sex with this person just because I've talked to them.

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Speaker 1: They make me sick because I've like given any part

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Speaker 1: get the fuck out of here. So like, do the vetting,

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Speaker 1: because what if I went out with the guy. The

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'll put him around some brats and then change

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Speaker 2: Whatever. Don't get in the wrong car, don't do it.

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Speaker 2: Do not do it. Also, hot take.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you'll find that someone's using you find out if

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Speaker 1: you want to use him back flip the script. I

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Speaker 1: know of someone that wanted to use me for media.

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Speaker 1: They wanted to use me for the cloud. Okay, what

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Speaker 1: if there's something that they have Once I realized that,

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Speaker 1: oh okay, I.

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Speaker 2: Know the game.

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Speaker 1: Now, I know our room we're in. We're in the

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Speaker 1: users game. So let me think about if there's something

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Speaker 1: you have that I want. Maybe for somebody at sex,

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Speaker 1: maybe for somebody else, it's presence. Maybe it's going out

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Speaker 1: and going on a date and not being like a

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Speaker 1: spinster home alone in your pajamas. Maybe it's whatever. Whatever

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Speaker 1: it is, you figured it out. And if you don't

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Speaker 1: have a reason and they're using you, ice out, just

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Speaker 1: blow them out. I've also had someone very interested in

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Speaker 1: me that I didn't let them know that I wasn't

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Speaker 1: interested in them. I don't need to let them know anything.

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Speaker 1: You don't know them anything. I just blocked them on

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Speaker 1: one of the like social media platforms, but they came

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Speaker 1: the dots. I didn't tell them like what they did.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of like we're watching people, We're observing people

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Speaker 1: in their habitat. Let's set this fucking guy's gonna do literally,

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Speaker 1: I believe that he was using me. I saw some

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Speaker 1: red flags about deleting texts, so I just blocked him

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Speaker 1: over there and I deleted the entire chat because it

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, you're gonna delete four texts, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: delete the whole chat. But he can access me other

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Speaker 1: other places and tried to and I just did a

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Speaker 1: smiley face. So he now probably is like wait. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: it's like, you want to you want to fuck with me?

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Speaker 1: I will jedi mind fuck you, bro. You know what

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Speaker 1: you want to go, we can do it. It's like

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Speaker 1: Kristin Cavalary said, it best match that person's energy.

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Speaker 2: You want to go, we'll go.

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Speaker 1: So don't think you've lost the ball just because it

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Speaker 1: feels like you've lost the ball and someone got one

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Speaker 1: over and you just shift shift it, work it out.

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Speaker 1: You are going to take back the power. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: be the one in charge now, not gonna be these

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Speaker 1: babies that are running around like men decide how we're

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Speaker 2: Like I see this all the time.

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Speaker 1: I was in Central Pey and I saw these girls,

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Speaker 1: these hot, beautiful girls with these sleazy, cheesy like hairy

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Speaker 1: chest like rope chain, gold, like flashy cashy watches, treating

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Speaker 1: them like shit, and the guys are not attractive, and

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Speaker 1: it's like the girls are just excited for someone to

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Speaker 1: buy them drinks. And it's like taking scraps. We don't

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Speaker 1: need scrubs, and we don't need scraps. Go home, read

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Speaker 1: a fucking book, get a drink, go make a meal,

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Speaker 1: do something, but respect yourself.

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Speaker 2: This is not gonna be the era of We're gonna

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Speaker 2: be treated like shit. No,