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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl Legs Peet and it's

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Speaker 1: your girl Dray in the call and you are tuned

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Speaker 1: in to another episode of Poor Mine.

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Speaker 2: Where a drunk Mine speaks so birth but.

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Speaker 1: We gotta guess today, We gotta guess surday.

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Speaker 2: Y'all know.

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Speaker 1: We are so excited, okay, because y'all have been blowing

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Speaker 1: our comments up at AUS tagging us all that stuff,

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Speaker 1: and we finally delivered. Okay, we made it happy for y'all.

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Speaker 1: We have the one, the only, the beautiful actress.

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Speaker 2: Mom Hueen.

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Speaker 1: That you ain't that youm yum. First of all, let

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Speaker 1: me ask this because I think I like to start

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Speaker 1: the episode off like this, especially when we have black

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Speaker 1: women on the show who are mother's bosses.

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Speaker 2: How are you doing? How are you doing? You know what?

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Speaker 2: I'm good? Yeah, I'm good. You know. I just got

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Speaker 2: to a point where, you know, I just accept things

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Speaker 2: that's just lately, that's just all I say. Here is

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Speaker 2: what it is. You know what I'm saying. I accept it,

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Speaker 2: and I try to change it because I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: You just accept things for what it is and you

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Speaker 2: find a way to live through that. You know, because

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Speaker 2: one thing about life, something's always want to be happening

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Speaker 2: every So once you realize how to live life with

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Speaker 2: because that shit ain't gonna stop, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: It's always it's always something. It's always throwing a carved volage. Okay.

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Speaker 2: It's like once you just get jiggy with the fact

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Speaker 2: that you know that's what makes life creative. It's like

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Speaker 2: you just got to look at it like, oh, that's creative.

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Speaker 2: You know it is what it is, and then just

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Speaker 2: keep a pushing. So I'm fine right now. I'm in

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Speaker 2: a very good space.

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Speaker 1: Good because you look good.

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Speaker 2: You look I'm over here, like y'all look good to

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Speaker 2: y'all are both of y'all are beautiful. I'm it's just

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Speaker 2: some things that I like. I'm from Detroit. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: love me some furs and some jewelry and some furss y'all.

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Speaker 2: That's my that's my thing.

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Speaker 1: We went to Detroit for the first time last year

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Speaker 1: I do know because my best friends. Yeah, she asked

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Speaker 2: because I've seen Rope came on payroll. Oh but I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm not gonna lie. I've never been to Detroit.

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Speaker 1: I was like, my expectations wasn't high. But it's like

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Speaker 2: When I'm gonna tell you the fact that y'all tickets

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Speaker 1: I think that's what it is. When you go where

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Speaker 2: We never had an argument. The only time we had

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Speaker 2: She never did nothing foul to me, and if we

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Speaker 1: The fact that y'all were young, and you know, when

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Speaker 2: It's just never been no bullshit. They never talked about

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Speaker 1: Her name Lynn, and she is Saga series too. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well it's like I'm a toy.

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Speaker 2: We always talk. We always or like if she ain't

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Speaker 2: I can't get my hair done. You and answer the phone.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to ask you what shirt? You know what

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Speaker 1: I remember when y'all went viral because I can't remember

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Speaker 1: whose birthday, it was what are y'all gifted the other?

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Speaker 1: One of barking? And I sent that to all my friends.

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Speaker 2: I bought Kendre a Burken before I got myself one.

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Speaker 2: That you that with that. I bought her a Burken

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Speaker 2: I want that I haven't gotten yet, or that's cost

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Speaker 2: I was like a Burken. And that year I gave

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Speaker 2: I'm like, no, which, that's mine. Here you go bring

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Speaker 2: spot said no you didn't. I said yes right now.

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Speaker 1: She was so happy and we had a good time.

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Speaker 1: But I'll always go viral for giving each other. Y'all

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Speaker 1: always give each other the best year, Like if your

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Speaker 1: it shows that women can coeag especially two beautiful, successful

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: People always love to believe that black women we can't

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, and and it always been like that, you know,

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Speaker 2: and it takes too, it takes two. I can't take

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Speaker 2: all the credit for that. She is a very great friend. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: she's a very great friend, even though sometimes I'd be like,

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Speaker 2: what's you doing, Like I've been texting your phone.

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Speaker 2: Life is happening. It's it's it's a it's a balance. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But see, I'm the one who gonna she she's gonna

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Speaker 2: start some stuff from me in person. Okay, you know

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Speaker 1: Well, I'll say this what I mean though, I feel

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Speaker 2: I think like when.

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Speaker 1: Like when we see you, it's always very much hairlaid this,

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Speaker 2: she'll send me a goddamn load of mink Brazilian shout

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Speaker 2: A quick?

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Speaker 1: Give me that video she did when you had just

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Speaker 2: It's also like knowing how to keep it up. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's it's the way that you keep your hair up.

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Speaker 2: You have to if you don't have silk pillowcases and

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Speaker 2: when you lay on it. When you lay on that silk,

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Speaker 1: But I think it's the same way Dre like y'all

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Speaker 2: Know what I have to deal with DC yesterday. Don't

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, look now I'm taking my tip because

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Speaker 2: I wait back when I get home, I take the

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Speaker 1: For me, But I do appreciate women like y'all because

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Speaker 1: So yeah, gets to the point where it's always it's

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Speaker 2: It's no in between with me. It's homeless.

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Speaker 1: I can't say for you because I haven't seen your

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Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, bitch, you looked at you like I'm depressed.

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Speaker 2: I was like, you ain't you ain't that up? My

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Speaker 1: If that, I wonder what you'll your homeless look like.

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Speaker 1: If you're homeless, y'all, they probably don't look look like.

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Speaker 2: My homeless look. Dan, my homeless homeless look like. She's like, well,

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Speaker 2: Only time it don't give homeless is if my real

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Speaker 1: Y'all know that scene in Cadillac Records when y'all say

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Speaker 1: It she having her braid too. But then I don't

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Speaker 2: Half bro. I don't care. I'm living.

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Speaker 3: I'm not mad at that Thio life.

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Speaker 1: Look, I got video truth. I gotta give y'all when

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Speaker 1: I can't give.

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Speaker 2: Y'all okay and just accept it.

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Speaker 1: I think what it is to I don't try to

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Speaker 2: But I know what y'all here for, y'all, here for

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Speaker 1: If y'all want some makeup tips, y'all, they be looking

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Speaker 2: They looking at cash doll. If y'all want some jokes,

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Speaker 2: I know what y'all know.

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Speaker 1: You know, I think everybody can take from everybody in.

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Speaker 2: Certain a certain areas. Just just know you're laying and

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Speaker 2: That's one thing about that damn Kendra that is a perfectionist. Really,

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Speaker 2: I mean you can tell back her daughter if you

429
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Speaker 2: tell something about your damn Kendre. I used to be like,

430
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Speaker 2: I'm outside, we're not going to prime. Come on, oh yeah,

431
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Speaker 2: now yes, now I'm leaving. And then as soon as

432
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Speaker 2: she come out side, I'm like I want to be

433
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Speaker 2: She'd be like, you want to see what I got?

434
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Speaker 2: I don't know. I want to be surprised. I start

435
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Speaker 2: doing this thing.

436
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Speaker 1: When we be like out of town and she be

437
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Speaker 1: getting dressed, I'll just walk out the hotel like I'm

438
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Speaker 1: standing in the hotel door, just like open the door.

439
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 1: Let her know, like come on, come walk out like

440
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Speaker 1: I can't find my phone and still be in the bear.

441
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Speaker 2: I'll be like, bro oh, like she long to get ready,

442
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 2: but it shows we'll get to a point where we're

443
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:11,199
Speaker 2: just telling each other how good we look. You you

444
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 2: killing that's a black queen, right. Okay, So of course

445
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Speaker 2: I did my research.

446
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 1: So you went to college, yeah, my father, So what

447
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,440
Speaker 1: was your pevotal point that made you be like, okay,

448
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 1: you know what I'm not doing these nowhere like I

449
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 1: want to be a performer. That's my dream. I'm gonna

450
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Speaker 1: chase my dream. And my goal wasn't it you know what?

451
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Speaker 1: I leave whatever don't serve me no more.

452
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Speaker 2: And when I'm there and I'm just I'm forcing myself,

453
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Speaker 2: Like what I tell people, I don't never force myself.

454
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Speaker 2: I might apply some pressure and I'm not forcing nothing.

455
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Speaker 2: If it's just not there, it's not there because I'm

456
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Speaker 2: not going to give it my own right. And once

457
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Speaker 2: that left and I was I was so into making

458
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Speaker 2: fast money. I was so into making money, that's all

459
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,400
Speaker 2: I knew, y'all. You know what I'm saying. I was like, Nah,

460
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Speaker 2: this ain't it. This ain't it. And I just, you know,

461
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 2: pay people that did do it right, because you know,

462
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 2: it's jobs for them and they're great at what they do. Yeah,

463
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Speaker 2: it wasn't for me. It's like you said, it's the

464
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Speaker 2: lame for everybody. I know it's for me, and I

465
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Speaker 2: wouldn't know it ain't What did you go to What

466
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 2: were you trying to go to school for? I did

467
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Speaker 2: business management? Okay, yeah, business management, yep, I did that.

468
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 2: I was in there for like two three years. Okay, yeah,

469
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Speaker 2: I want to fast forward a little bit.

470
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Speaker 1: But before we get into that tie, what're we drinking today?

471
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 1: Because you hardy and got me a little chatty. Now

472
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Speaker 1: I was trying to be.

473
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Speaker 2: Too, and I love this right?

474
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Speaker 1: How did her biggest one on this champagne?

475
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Speaker 2: Like? What utah?

476
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,680
Speaker 1: This is from our Midwest queen, Okay, And it's cash

477
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 1: all herself. This one is called the cash commandment. A

478
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 1: little smoke because who owns the smoke?

479
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 2: All right? All right?

480
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Speaker 1: So when you can have your spirit of choice, you

481
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 1: have a little lemon juice, a little grapefruit juice. I

482
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Speaker 1: used an ube syrup, which is made from sweet like

483
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Speaker 1: a purple yam. I would get like fig vanilla, a

484
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,199
Speaker 1: little flavoring to that. And then we had it just

485
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Speaker 1: a little pinch of butterfly pea droplets. So before we've

486
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 1: used the butterfly pea powder and now we've used some

487
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Speaker 1: droplets for it. And then I have some pomegranate seeds

488
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Speaker 1: floating at the bottom. And then we just lit a

489
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Speaker 1: smoked roastmary sprig just to kind of top it off,

490
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Speaker 1: and added a little bit of champagne to dreas and

491
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Speaker 1: this cash all.

492
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Speaker 2: This is so.

493
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Speaker 1: We got a little buttle something you different.

494
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Speaker 2: Let me get give me a but we talked about

495
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Speaker 2: the cubes.

496
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Speaker 1: Almost almost there, But I'm gonna ask you that we

497
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Speaker 1: got a butterfly pee in it seed just a little bit. Yeah, yes,

498
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Speaker 1: well no I knew it was because of the just

499
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Speaker 1: a little bit. The uba syrup is also purple, but

500
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Speaker 1: the butterfly p just gives it like more of that enhanced.

501
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 2: Y'all doing like cheesecakes and dessert. Yes, you can get

502
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 2: really jiggy like with some food too.

503
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so I have a couple other recipes we're

504
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 1: gonna try out with.

505
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Speaker 2: Okay, so much, this is delicious per usual? Can I

506
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 2: get another one? Yes? I want to thank you.

507
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: So y'all make sure y'all subscribe to our Patreon so

508
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:27,159
Speaker 1: y'all can get poor chronicles. Those episodes come out every Monday,

509
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Speaker 1: and y'all make sure y'all subscribe to the channel per usual.

510
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 2: So let me fast forward a little bits. Okay, what's

511
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Speaker 2: up y'all? As your girl x pee and it's Sugarl

512
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517
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521
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522
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527
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528
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Speaker 2: You because you have been going viral.

573
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Speaker 1: I don't know if you've seen it, like for the

574
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Speaker 1: past few weeks, because you did an appearance on Batties.

575
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah, and everybody was like cash Doll looked

576
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Speaker 1: like she don't want to be there.

577
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 2: That you. She was shook. She was like, oh my god,

578
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:44,959
Speaker 2: the ratchetess and this and that.

579
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: So I kind of want you to clear the air

580
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Speaker 1: on like your facial expression that you could be honest,

581
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Speaker 1: this is a safe snme. How did you feel seeing

582
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Speaker 1: that and see because I'm not gonna lie to you

583
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Speaker 1: like I'm thirty five, Like you know what I'm saying.

584
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Speaker 2: The batties that ain't for me.

585
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: Okay, it's a little I don't like to see the

586
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Speaker 1: girls doing things like that, but it's an audience for that.

587
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 2: Motherfuckers can fight.

588
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: I can't fight, Okay, But like I said, how did

589
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 1: you feel seen that and seen.

590
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 2: That in person?

591
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Speaker 1: Like was it kind of like, Okay, this is not

592
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: as bad as people think it is, or was it

593
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Speaker 1: like shocking?

594
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 2: To be honest, I didn't know what I was walking into.

595
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 2: I haven't watched the show. Yeah, I didn't know what

596
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,239
Speaker 2: I was walking into. I know the girls, like some

597
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 2: of the girls I like, like Natalie and Tsiki. You

598
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 2: know a few of them. I know a few of them,

599
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 2: so I've seen them on the internet. And my sister

600
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 2: actually watched the show, so she was like, Keisha, you

601
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Speaker 2: know that you know it go down? And I'm like,

602
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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure I've seen fights. I'm from Detroit,

603
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. And I used to fight.

604
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Speaker 2: I haven't thought I don't know how long when I

605
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 2: had to girl, Yeah, I did, I think my big

606
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 2: ass be fighting. I'll be the one running. But the

607
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 2: back of these big I ain't gonna tell y'all. I'm

608
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 2: gonna just give y'all a little. I went to jail

609
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 2: because of Kendrew before, so I'm just allna put my

610
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 2: girl up in and stuff there. But that one right there,

611
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,959
Speaker 2: I had to turn myself in because her. But we're

612
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 2: gonna leave that there, leave that there. So I wasn't

613
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Speaker 2: aware of, you know, like the reasoning, Like I know,

614
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Speaker 2: a fight, like when you got to you gonna do

615
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Speaker 2: what you gotta do is protect yourself. But it was

616
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Speaker 2: just so much. It was so much, you know what

617
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Speaker 2: I'm saying, And I just it was just us women

618
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Speaker 2: as black women on there just doing that for any

619
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Speaker 2: for no reason, for the girl that didn't do nothing

620
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Speaker 2: to you, you know what I'm saying. And that's just

621
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Speaker 2: the only part. Like I don't even want to speak

622
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Speaker 2: on it. You know, they gave, they did what they did.

623
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Speaker 2: Appreciate them. And I didn't know I was gonna get

624
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Speaker 2: captured like that.

625
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Speaker 1: When I was like yeah, you was like it was like.

626
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Speaker 2: You know, you couldn't hide. You don't have a poker face.

627
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 2: I don't because I was like, and that's what all

628
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Speaker 2: my friends were saying. You do not have a poker.

629
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Speaker 1: Face because you was like you like you were clutching

630
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Speaker 1: at first, like oh my god, what is going on.

631
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Speaker 2: It's just gonna show on your face eating when you

632
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 2: think you hide and eat, you can't fake it. And

633
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 2: it was just like, oh, what the hell.

634
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Speaker 1: You're sticking out like a sore thumb. I'm not gonna

635
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Speaker 1: lie to your friends when she don't belong the clip

636
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Speaker 1: of me.

637
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Speaker 2: All I was like, oh wow, yeah, I look like

638
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Speaker 2: one of those women that just.

639
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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, who said that clutching your eyes?

640
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Speaker 2: Clutching that ice.

641
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 1: Not the pearl.

642
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Speaker 2: And then you know, my girl went on there Jasmine Renee,

643
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Speaker 2: this is funny. Yeah, no, she's She's hilarious. That's one

644
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Speaker 2: of them. I always think about her. When she said

645
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Speaker 2: forty who that damn jazz man, I'll be like you,

646
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Speaker 2: like I always tell her stuff like you was just obedient.

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Speaker 2: This is the conversations we have and she's like what

648
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Speaker 2: I do, like I ain't doing? Kyle, Like, yes you did.

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Speaker 2: She'll call me for some advice, y'all. I still on

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Speaker 2: the phone with this girl for a hour, giving her advice,

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Speaker 2: great advice. She'll get off the phone with me and

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Speaker 2: go do the total opposite. And I'd be like, Jasmine,

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Speaker 2: why did you just don't call me for nothing else? Yeah,

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00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 2: And I said, don't call me for nothing else. She

655
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Speaker 2: called me next week about some shit. But she's on

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657
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Speaker 2: why I was like, Okay, I'm gonna go. You know. Yeah,

658
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 2: it was like to support to support my friends. Yeah,

659
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 2: it all worked out because she's on there and ship

660
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Speaker 2: and we had a good it was. It was cool.

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Speaker 2: It was cool. I like that. Okay, That's why I

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Speaker 2: People have been asking. They wanted me to respond to

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Speaker 2: that too, and I'm just like, I believe it where

665
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Speaker 2: it's at because I don't look down on nobody, right,

666
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Speaker 2: I do you know what I'm saying? Like we the

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Speaker 2: same way.

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Speaker 1: We had a clip, right, It was an episode we

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Speaker 1: We started off on my one of the one of

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Speaker 1: Yes, started from the bottom literally. So they was like, well,

681
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Speaker 1: it's the same stuff y'all used to be talking about

682
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Speaker 1: back in the day.

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684
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Speaker 2: a little too not they dream chases too, I mean,

685
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Speaker 2: but they are.

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Speaker 1: I guess for me, Like I said once, I've seen

687
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Speaker 1: like a clip on Twitter, because they always go viral

688
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Speaker 1: on Twitter. I've seen somebody too fell out?

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Speaker 2: Seen it? Yeah, I thought I've seen somebody to get

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Speaker 2: knocked out? Didnt somebody piece of break get pulled off

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Speaker 2: their scalp? Why at the audiention.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm telling you, it's very It's a difference between

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Speaker 2: It's hurting each other. Yes, it's very very violent. And

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696
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Speaker 2: or it's a reason behind it, you kind of look

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Speaker 1: a relationship topic of.

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00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 2: Crashing out over a man. Oh man, So.

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Speaker 1: I have recently, not recently, I've always seen like when

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Speaker 1: a girl get mad at a man, she runs online

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Speaker 1: posting stories, posting receipts, she arguing with the other girl.

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Speaker 1: They going back and forth on Instagram, they arguing on Twitter,

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Speaker 1: they posting everything. So I wanted to know y'all's thoughts

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Speaker 1: on like crashing out over man. Do you feel like

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Speaker 1: sometimes they deserve that and you need to let the

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Speaker 1: world know how he's treating you, or do y'all believe

771
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Speaker 1: in just moving on gracefully?

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Speaker 2: I believe in a mixture. Okay, you're a little bad,

773
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,800
Speaker 2: we're gonna get we're gonna get a little creative. Okay.

774
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 2: And this is why I say this. I wouldn't go

775
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,399
Speaker 2: to the internet telling all my business that's what thing,

776
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Speaker 2: But he gonna know how I feel. Yeah, you know,

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00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 2: because some people need to know how it how that

778
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Speaker 2: makes you feel. It need to impact. You need to

779
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Speaker 2: leave an impact some people for them to change, even

780
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Speaker 2: not even for me, for the next bitch, for the

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Speaker 2: next person you get that's of some type of value.

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Speaker 2: You need to know not to do that, you know

783
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Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Or for the next woman you know,

784
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Speaker 2: your your kids, or whoever. You need to learn from that.

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Speaker 2: Because I feel like moving on gracefully. People take advantage

786
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Speaker 2: of that. They're not a good person's Yeah you know,

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying, you moving on gracefully, they'll take advantage

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00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 2: like okay, yeah, cool, next victim. Right, But you know what.

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Speaker 1: I also feel too, I feel like even if you

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Speaker 1: don't move on gracefully, we will see a man dog

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Speaker 1: out a woman that we you know, like we can

792
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Speaker 1: see what's going on. Maybe he cheated on her, maybe

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Speaker 1: he trapped her, whatever the case the case. Maybe, but

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Speaker 1: there still be women that be like, oh, I don't care,

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Speaker 1: he's the fuck with cash? Do I'm finna get on?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, I feel like that don't have the

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Speaker 2: same I'm finna talk to him. I don't care what.

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Speaker 2: Mother the fucking luck come after me, good luck, good luck.

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Speaker 1: That's what's crazy, because it's like, that's why I feel

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Speaker 1: like sometimes I feel like I understand the crash out

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Speaker 1: and because it's like I'm a leo.

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Speaker 2: That up. I'm not against crash right, Let's be one

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Speaker 2: hundred percent clear, because when people do crash out, But

804
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Speaker 2: like that's how you felt own that ship. It is

805
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Speaker 2: what it is. You can't take it back. I'm moving forward.

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Speaker 2: How would you handle it? You know what I'm saying.

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00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:42,799
Speaker 2: You see how that made you feel like you crashed out,

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Speaker 2: you know, because even when I announced my break my breakup,

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Speaker 2: you know, some people's like, you don't even do that,

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Speaker 2: you don't come into the internet. And it was like

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Speaker 2: I felt like that at the time. I don't take

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Speaker 2: it back, and it is what it is.

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Speaker 1: And you know what, I'm too like, I wouldn't count

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Speaker 1: you like what you did as a crash out. I

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Speaker 1: feel like you were just letting the people know because

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Speaker 1: like wondering what was going on.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I didn't go on there

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Speaker 2: and say, yeah, my baby daddy this and he does

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Speaker 2: da da or this is what happened, And I didn't

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Speaker 2: do all that. It was just I'm just gonna get

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Speaker 2: away from like that's why they filling me up with

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Speaker 2: this champagne. Yeah, because I'm about to just kill it off,

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Speaker 2: you know. But no, no, no, what you was saying.

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Speaker 2: It was just me and my baby dad. We just

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Speaker 2: you know, I think we just grew apart. Yeah, it

826
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Speaker 2: don't happen, you know, and we really it's healthy, were graceful.

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Speaker 2: I just want him to be a great dad to

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Speaker 2: my kids. That's it at this point, you know, I

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Speaker 2: don't think we just mentally are in the same yeah.

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Speaker 1: Because sometimes that happens, and I think a lot of

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Speaker 1: the world look at it like, oh, it's a bad thing.

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Speaker 1: But if you are a person who is spiritual and

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Speaker 1: emotionally intelligent, you're constantly growing. Yeah, and another person is

834
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Speaker 1: constantly grown. But y'all may be growing like yeah, different

835
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Speaker 1: ways instead of growing like this.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and that's okay, But I won't count what you

837
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Speaker 2: did as a crash out.

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, and I think too, it's important

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Speaker 1: for people to see because I feel like this. I

840
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 1: don't know you personally, this is the first time I've

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Speaker 1: ever met you, but being somebody who's like a fan

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00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 1: of yours and i've you know, watch your social media,

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00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: I feel like you handled it the right way and

844
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Speaker 1: women need to see that.

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Speaker 2: And I kept going, I didn't you didn't them? Yeah,

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00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:28,919
Speaker 2: and I'm not sure I'm not acting like I don't

847
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 2: give a fuck. I'm hurt. Yeah, I'm hurt. I had

848
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,879
Speaker 2: two kids with somebody. I thought that that was going

849
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 2: to be it. You know I'm saying, of course I

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00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 2: didn't want it to go that way. I wouldn't have

851
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 2: had the kids, right, you know what I'm saying. So

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00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 2: I'm not about to beat the bitch on there and

853
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 2: trying to act tough and no, my heart gate broken

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00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 2: to I'm human like you. Things happen time. It's time

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00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 2: to go on, you know. And it's no hard feelings.

856
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:58,319
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to do nothing to tarnish that man,

857
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 2: none of that. You know. It is what it is.

858
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 1: It's crazy because I was having a conversation with my

859
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: friend the other day and she's going through a breakup

860
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: or whatever, and she was telling me. She was like, yeah,

861
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 1: I'm going out tomorrow and going outside, but I went

862
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 1: out last night. It don't make me feel better, but

863
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:18,359
Speaker 1: I just want to be like, you know, showing that

864
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: I'm outside, I'm not bothered, I'm having fun. I did

865
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:22,879
Speaker 1: the problem because you shouldn't be going out to show

866
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:24,280
Speaker 1: him that if you're trying.

867
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 2: To, if you're trying to, yes, hell yes and cry

868
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 2: and get it out and let you and be honest,

869
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:36,800
Speaker 2: be vulnerable. It's okay. You know how many other people

870
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:41,360
Speaker 2: can relate to that. Everybody's not fake tough. It's okay.

871
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 2: You got your heart broken, you got to let down,

872
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 2: you got cheated on too, you got this. It is okay. Yeah,

873
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 2: it's okay. Life goes on. He'll face the problem. Face it,

874
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 2: don't drink it, don't get drunk. I'm gonna be in

875
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:55,800
Speaker 2: your section crying.

876
00:43:55,920 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: Don't invite me to the club when I'm saying why

877
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 1: as soon as that the end of the club close

878
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 1: and they playing Usher all that ship and the love

879
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 1: it and you know you are about to go home,

880
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: I'm crying.

881
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 2: I'm okay. No, when that song come on, turn up,

882
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,879
Speaker 2: I feel like that, I'm still crying. I ain't got

883
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:24,879
Speaker 2: on it. And then oh and my baby daddy bout

884
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 2: sexy bread. Listen my songs right there. But when they

885
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:31,919
Speaker 2: go when the slow songs come on, now, I'm looking

886
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:33,439
Speaker 2: at everybody, see I'm a real cry.

887
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,720
Speaker 1: But then he hit different too than in the club

888
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: than when you in the car. And then come on.

889
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 2: Your heart broken.

890
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:42,800
Speaker 1: And that's why I said, I think we as women

891
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:44,800
Speaker 1: like we feel like when we go through a breakup,

892
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: you gotta put on your sixty dress on your story.

893
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 2: The nigga never says you was ugly. He just he

894
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 2: just don't want to. It just didn't work. You bad.

895
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, nothing that you're not proving nothing because I used

896
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 1: to be that girl like oh, let me post, let

897
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 1: me post.

898
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

899
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:05,760
Speaker 1: Now the worse when you're posting for him and he don't.

900
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 2: And then you got like an hour left before the story. Man,

901
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 2: I gets so many now viewers. I wouldn't even I

902
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 2: don't even John, I'd be such in a place like

903
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 2: healing for me is really like and not even talking

904
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 2: about my situation with my child's father or like you

905
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:27,840
Speaker 2: know that that is what it is. I'm this way

906
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 2: right so, but it's like even for me when I'm

907
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 2: going through things, I kind of just get it out

908
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 2: my way. Yeah, out of sight, out of mind. I

909
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 2: take pictures down. I don't want to follow. I don't

910
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 2: want to see you. I don't want you to see me.

911
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 2: I'm not even looking to see I don't want it

912
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 2: because it's like, yeah, it's like that's when it's out

913
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 2: of sight, out of mind, and I'm focusing on healing

914
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 2: and and facing what. What What did God want to

915
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 2: teach me in this situation? What? Because everything is a

916
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 2: lesson everything that happens to you, you that touches you,

917
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 2: that hurts you, or they even make you happy. It's

918
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:07,799
Speaker 2: like it's lessons in every blessing, you know. And I

919
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 2: be learning. I be trying to focus on what what

920
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 2: is God trying to teach me? Why did I go

921
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 2: through that? Why am I why? You know what I'm saying,

922
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 2: and trying to focus on, Okay, moving forward? What could

923
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,360
Speaker 2: I do better? You know what I'm saying, Even it

924
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 2: ain't it's never us, you know what I'm saying, but

925
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 2: just you as a woman? What could I do better

926
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,359
Speaker 2: as a woman, as a mother, as a boss, as

927
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 2: a as an entrepreneur. It's like, what could I do better?

928
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 2: To just make myself feel better? And I get in

929
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 2: my bag of just better in myself. I don't go

930
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:41,280
Speaker 2: rush to another nigga. I'm not rushing to go be outside.

931
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 2: I see, my my job is being outside, but I

932
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 2: get paid to be outside. You know, I'm putting all

933
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:51,280
Speaker 2: that energy into my craft instead of putting that energy

934
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 2: into trying to show a motherfucker anything that they already know.

935
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 2: I mean, it's like I'm when I put everybody know

936
00:46:58,160 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 2: what's up? You know? And it's like I just put

937
00:46:59,920 --> 00:47:02,319
Speaker 2: my energy where it's going to benefit me in the

938
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:06,439
Speaker 2: long run, not them. This episode is sponsored by Better

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941
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Speaker 1: You're in the call, y'all know we are always going

942
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: to talk about it, but go to therapy. Well, something

943
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 1: that we want to do this month is showing gratitude

944
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 1: because that's very important for your mental health as well. Yes, absolutely,

945
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: so I definitely want to show some gratitude to my

946
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:26,760
Speaker 1: therapist Carrie. She's been my therapist for probably that last

947
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 1: eight to nine months, and she is amazing. We have

948
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 1: covered so much ground, we have had so many different

949
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 1: breakthroughs and.

950
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:35,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, so shout out to her.

951
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,759
Speaker 1: She's probably my second or third therapist that I've had

952
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 1: with better help. Yes, but they always make it super

953
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954
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Speaker 1: one thing I love about it.

955
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Speaker 2: It's super affordable.

956
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 1: Yes, And also I want to give a shout out

957
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:52,360
Speaker 1: to my therapist doctor all deary. We've been working together

958
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: for over a year now and we are locked in.

959
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: And also I want to give gratitude to myself because

960
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 1: one thing about therapy is you have to stick to it,

961
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 1: and I've seen so much growth, so much progress, So

962
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 1: shout out to myself. So, if you want to start

963
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,440
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Speaker 2: Are you dating? And I'm open? You open? I'm open

973
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 2: today and I mean I'm single. Yeah, you know I

974
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 2: can't have a little fun a little bit.

975
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 1: I do have a six three CEO of an oil company.

976
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 2: Like that's what you need? Do you want to go

977
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 2: to the East tomorrow? This is the female version of

978
00:48:55,800 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 2: the Yes, that's what. That's what I always you. I

979
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 2: came over here and not hear you go not here?

980
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 2: And you know who you remind me of? That was

981
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 2: just bits of my friend for since twenty fifteen. Be small.

982
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 2: You know what? That girl right there, Me and that

983
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 2: girl used to be in a car crying, laughing for

984
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:22,879
Speaker 2: no reason, like you are a fucking idiot. That's how Yeah,

985
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 2: I love he got that energy and she's from home

986
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 2: Texas to holler at you I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

987
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: Well, no, I was gonna ask you, so, are you

988
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 1: one of those people when you're done with a relationship

989
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: you've done like you absolutely not spending the block?

990
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 2: Or do you be spending the block? Okay? First off,

991
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 2: I'm five six, Okay, do I spend the block? I

992
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 2: haven't you have me? No? She said I heard that

993
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 2: yet under your breath. Do you think it's different now

994
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 2: than you got kids? Maybe? You know what? Because I

995
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 2: do like familiar Okay, I do like familiar. Well, I'm

996
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:00,400
Speaker 2: not gonna say I'm not gonna say block, about to

997
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:03,720
Speaker 2: say I spend a block because the block can get spunk.

998
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,799
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, little Curve.

999
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no no no,

1000
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about I wasn't talking about him.

1001
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 2: I'm just I'm staying in general, y'all. God damn it.

1002
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 2: Y'all know how this ship could be.

1003
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 1: No blame it on the cast man got ship to

1004
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 1: do it like that?

1005
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 2: Neither you know what it's in general? Okay, Okay, the

1006
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 2: block can get spunk from a certain level of where

1007
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 2: I was at in my life when I dated you,

1008
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 2: because it's certain quality. Yeah, and it's got to be

1009
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 2: a certain amount of growth, right, Yeah, that happened when

1010
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 2: we were apart, so I could give you the conversation.

1011
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 2: Is what you do with it? Okay, you know what

1012
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 2: I'm saying. But I am a free agent, all right.

1013
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:57,320
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about nobody is specific, nobody, No, I'm

1014
00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 2: just having a good time. Okay. On her, she focused

1015
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:05,720
Speaker 2: on healing. You know what I think, I'm well whatever,

1016
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 2: I don't know. Like you said, it kind of is

1017
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 2: what it is. It's a process and you have to

1018
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 2: take it day by day, you know.

1019
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 1: And I think that's what I'm learning too, because like

1020
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: I went through a horrible breakup before and it was

1021
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:17,800
Speaker 1: just like it was really.

1022
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 2: Life changing for me.

1023
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: Because even now in my new relationship, I just move

1024
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 1: different and I know there's certain things that I can accept.

1025
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 1: I know what I can and I cannot handle, and

1026
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 1: I know how to move accordingly. But I also know,

1027
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:30,719
Speaker 1: like my faith is so strong, what's meant for me?

1028
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:33,319
Speaker 2: It's not gonna miss me exactly. And I'll see how

1029
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,280
Speaker 2: I said, you always learned something, Yes, you learned something

1030
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 2: for every relationship. Yes, just learn how to move forward?

1031
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 2: You learn how Okay, you learn what you want now

1032
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:45,279
Speaker 2: you learn what you don't want, you to learn what

1033
00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 2: you can tolerate. You learn what because now you'd have

1034
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 2: been through it you and experience is the best teacher. Yeah,

1035
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 2: I don't feel like, you know, somebody's telling you things,

1036
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 2: somebody that you really look up to, Yeah, that could

1037
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:58,840
Speaker 2: teach you too, But when you actually feel that shit, Yeah,

1038
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:02,879
Speaker 2: it's a difference. Yeah. So I think that that's why

1039
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 2: I said what you said, Like, you know, you got

1040
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 2: to go through the process and that's when you figure

1041
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:10,799
Speaker 2: out that is a deal breaker, Yeah, that I can

1042
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 2: deal with at long ass or he has to be

1043
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 2: like this, and that's when you get to your husband.

1044
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 2: It's practice. It's like you get to your husband by

1045
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:22,920
Speaker 2: going through And it's sound crazy, but we're here. We're human,

1046
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:26,400
Speaker 2: We have feelings. Feelings are meant to be hurt. People

1047
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 2: are meant to be date, money is meant to be spent,

1048
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:31,320
Speaker 2: is meant to be had. You know what I'm saying.

1049
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 2: That's life right, But through that process you learn what

1050
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:40,239
Speaker 2: you want in that one that husband, You gonna be

1051
00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 2: a good wife? Yeah you think so? I really do.

1052
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 1: I feel like you're very like centered and I think

1053
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:48,399
Speaker 1: one thing, like I said, me being somebody who has

1054
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 1: followed your career for a while.

1055
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 2: You put your kids first, that's they show up. Oh

1056
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:54,360
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

1057
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:56,839
Speaker 1: And I can see that when in certain mothers because

1058
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: that's how my mom was. I didn't realize my mom

1059
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 1: was a huge until she passed away because it was

1060
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 1: always like.

1061
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 2: Put up this superwoman.

1062
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think it's important now as I get older,

1063
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 1: Like whenever I do have children, I do want to

1064
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 1: show them like, you know, mommy's a human, but I

1065
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 1: do want to be that superwoman for them. Yeah, because

1066
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:16,360
Speaker 1: especially in the younger years, I think that's important.

1067
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1068
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: And so even throughout this whole like breakup that you've

1069
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 1: been going through, it's like we still see you being

1070
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 1: a great mother and smiling, because that's not always smiling.

1071
00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 2: And that's the thing. Yeah, people make relationships their life. Yeah,

1072
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 2: that's not your life. That's another part of your life. Right.

1073
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 2: You have to prioritize everything in your life. And you

1074
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 2: know it's like everything you can't neglect these because if

1075
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 2: I neglected that, my kids would show it would show,

1076
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So it's like you have

1077
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:50,799
Speaker 2: to prioritize everything in your life, and that wasn't just

1078
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:52,359
Speaker 2: my life. It was a part of my life and

1079
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 2: I did give a lot to it. But you know,

1080
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 2: when it's gone, it's not a big void that you

1081
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 2: have to feel. When you prioritize everybody. My best friend, relationship,

1082
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 2: my mother, and my sisters, and my son and my business,

1083
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 2: all of it was so prioritized well to where when

1084
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 2: that void is gone, I'm not just lost. I'm not

1085
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:16,320
Speaker 2: lost because I don't have nothing else to do. Everything

1086
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 2: is important to me, not just this person because that's

1087
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,319
Speaker 2: who I'm fucking, because you prioritize all of it. I

1088
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 2: all love the relationships. Like I said earlier, you got

1089
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 2: to nurture are your relationships because it's important because when

1090
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:31,240
Speaker 2: this go, now what now you running back to everybody

1091
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:34,920
Speaker 2: that you know. You got to prioritize that. So now

1092
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:37,479
Speaker 2: it's not And I'm not acting like I don't care

1093
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,799
Speaker 2: about a relationship because I don't want to give him

1094
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:41,880
Speaker 2: so much, you know, because it is what it is

1095
00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 2: and it's where it's at. But when, like you know,

1096
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 2: you're going through these things, it's so important to just

1097
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 2: it is what it is and everything else, you know,

1098
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 2: go and stay.

1099
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 1: But I'm going to nurture that too, because we were

1100
00:54:57,680 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 1: talking about crashing out on me and a lot of

1101
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 1: times I see a lot of women are crashing out

1102
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:05,359
Speaker 1: over men because they're also their support system. So it's

1103
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:07,400
Speaker 1: also important we say this all the time because we

1104
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 1: used to talk about on the show getting a BDB,

1105
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 1: catching the BDB A be big baller, okay, believe you

1106
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 1: should have a man in your life, that.

1107
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:31,319
Speaker 2: You should have you a BD boy always. But it

1108
00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 2: as we grew and our careers grew, and.

1109
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 1: We started getting the situations where we were able to

1110
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 1: walk away because I got my own, I'm not crashing

1111
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: a lot of these women are crashing out because they

1112
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 1: need the retday.

1113
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 2: They want to still live that crashing out over that.

1114
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:48,760
Speaker 1: I always feel like if you get to a level

1115
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 1: of crash out, you really love it, Like.

1116
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:55,440
Speaker 2: No, So okay, so what is crashing out?

1117
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:59,320
Speaker 1: I crashed out one time on the internet one time,

1118
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 1: and I.

1119
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 2: Remember that I ever because I'm never do it again.

1120
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:09,760
Speaker 1: She disrespected you first, the girl okay, looked like somebody

1121
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:11,000
Speaker 1: to look like.

1122
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:13,640
Speaker 2: I know what she's gonna say. I want to see

1123
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 2: if she gonna say what everybody say. Give me, let's keep.

1124
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 1: Talking Okay, it's always two people, but most.

1125
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 2: But mostly one person because I think it's Jada. Yeah,

1126
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:31,280
Speaker 2: that's what everybody says. Everybody. It's like a beast someone

1127
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:35,279
Speaker 2: and the Jada. But y'all, beautiful person person. They'll get

1128
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:37,359
Speaker 2: me wrong. But I'm looking at you and as you're talking,

1129
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, who is she? Okay, she looks like somebody

1130
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 2: I know.

1131
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 1: It's so funny too, because we just went on Jada

1132
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:47,359
Speaker 1: and this podcast at normal a few weeks ago, and

1133
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 1: girl the comments because people already be under our comments

1134
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: scene there all the time. People already be under her

1135
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 1: comments scene and all the time. But when they finally

1136
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:58,280
Speaker 1: seen us both at the same time, that's all comments

1137
00:56:58,360 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 1: was saying.

1138
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:01,720
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, no, beautiful may I'm not going.

1139
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:07,959
Speaker 1: There up there really yeah, okay, fun time, okay, cool,

1140
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:09,879
Speaker 1: but yes, I was saying. I crashed out one time

1141
00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 1: on the internet over this dude that I was going with,

1142
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 1: but he lied to me about some stuff and then

1143
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 1: this girl that he was dating I found out she

1144
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 1: was like dirty macking on me, like she had.

1145
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:23,320
Speaker 2: Got cold and she had got coold with this girl

1146
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:23,919
Speaker 2: that I knew.

1147
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 1: Dirty was finding out stuff that I was telling the

1148
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 1: girl that I thought I was friends with about him

1149
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 1: was going back telling him then he was lying to

1150
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 1: me about his relationship with her and so girl. When

1151
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 1: we first started these podcasts, it was probably like twenty eighteen,

1152
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:42,479
Speaker 1: I did. We did an episode and I talked about

1153
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 1: the Nia and I said his name. Everything I said

1154
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:50,200
Speaker 1: the beach's name. I was going in. I was saying everybody.

1155
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:52,919
Speaker 1: I was saying everybody ain't shit mind you. Back then,

1156
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:54,520
Speaker 1: nobody was listening.

1157
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 2: To the show.

1158
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:57,920
Speaker 1: We probably had like a thousand listeners if that. So

1159
00:57:57,960 --> 00:57:58,920
Speaker 1: I obviously ended.

1160
00:57:58,840 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 2: Up going and deleted it.

1161
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:02,720
Speaker 1: But I've really crashed out over that nigga, and I

1162
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 1: regretted it afterwards because although I accomplished what I wanted

1163
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 1: to accomplish in the moment, because my feelings were hurt

1164
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 1: and I called everybody out and I made everybody look sloopy.

1165
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 1: That's not even my character though, Like I'm not even

1166
00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:16,920
Speaker 1: the type of person that move like that.

1167
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 2: I don't like people in my business. I'm super privy.

1168
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 1: So the fact that I let that situation take me

1169
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:25,520
Speaker 1: to that place, I regretted it. I was like, why

1170
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 1: the fuck did I do that? Because I gave you power.

1171
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 1: I showed you how much you eff extactly.

1172
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:32,959
Speaker 2: And that's why when she asked me that earlier, I said,

1173
00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 2: it's a mixture of crashing out and but it's like

1174
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:39,920
Speaker 2: crashing out where that nigga can feel. Fuck the Internet.

1175
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 2: They ain't gonna do nothing but spread your business and

1176
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:44,000
Speaker 2: laugh me talking.

1177
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 1: About it because I'll be missy feel me.

1178
00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. Not if anything I crashed on nigga, he takes

1179
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 2: it Internet, that's you. You did that. Yeah, yeah, you

1180
00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 2: gonna feel it though. But the reason and that's not

1181
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 2: how I was so. I was just so, but it

1182
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 2: was her And it was because you got played away, bitch,

1183
00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 2: telling your business that you thought was cool him her.

1184
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 2: You ain't knowing what's going on, you know, it's it's.

1185
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:10,960
Speaker 1: You're human and somebody have you ever dated somebody that

1186
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 1: like you was carving him for a little bit and

1187
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 1: then you finally give this motherfucker the time of like

1188
00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 1: like I feel like.

1189
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 2: They got a vendetta again, like they'd be out for blood.

1190
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 1: That happened to me, and that's why why is the

1191
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:26,920
Speaker 1: people so fucked up and intentions is so wrong?

1192
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 2: But why was my life if you knew that you

1193
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 2: were coming.

1194
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: To get me Okay, guys, like, why would you do

1195
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 1: that just because I didn't, just because I didn't like

1196
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 1: because I used to carve him at first, but it

1197
00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 1: wasn't like, oh no mean ship if it wasn't interested,

1198
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 1: I really didn't think I was interested. Then I finally

1199
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 1: was like okay, because he started applying a little pressure,

1200
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:49,800
Speaker 1: and I was like, okay.

1201
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:53,440
Speaker 2: You hadn never ignored the pressure. You. I love when

1202
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:57,480
Speaker 2: the pressure begin to please anybody that even think coming

1203
00:59:57,520 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 2: this way, please buy some pressure. Cause I don't.

1204
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 3: I don't see it.

1205
01:00:01,680 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, right, I'm telling you exactly because I

1206
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 1: was like, okay.

1207
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 2: Let me give him a little shot, and he played

1208
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:13,760
Speaker 2: It's school.

1209
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 1: I know he But in the long run how the

1210
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 1: story ended up, you got the last last but.

1211
01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:20,560
Speaker 2: Yep, like this is a while ago, it's like sixty

1212
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:22,200
Speaker 2: years ago. But yeah, But the.

1213
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 1: Reason I was going back to saying, like the crash outs,

1214
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:26,240
Speaker 1: Like on the other side of it, a lot of

1215
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:27,920
Speaker 1: women crash out because they still want to live that

1216
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 1: lifestyle that the man is buying.

1217
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 2: You think that's what it is. It's something you got

1218
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 2: fifty to fifty, right, But most of the time, in

1219
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:40,440
Speaker 2: most cases, when that show livelihood. Yeah, when you can't

1220
01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:43,600
Speaker 2: get them bags, everybody wearing them shows, everybody wearing keep

1221
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:45,640
Speaker 2: your hair and nails done. Like they're like, well, you

1222
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:47,840
Speaker 2: know a lot of people live for the internet. A

1223
01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 2: lot of people ain't out here getting out the mud

1224
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:51,960
Speaker 2: and living how they need to live on their own.

1225
01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:56,360
Speaker 2: You know, they're living for everybody else's approval, right, So

1226
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 2: when they don't have that no more, that validation, no more,

1227
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:01,680
Speaker 2: they like they have nothing or the nigga that got

1228
01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:05,959
Speaker 2: the bag. Don't let them be somebody. That's somebody they're

1229
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 2: crashing out. How are you bowing out gracefully?

1230
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 3: How that's I.

1231
01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:21,760
Speaker 2: Mean in whole relationships with married men.

1232
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 1: Exactly, get seen material, give a certain steady.

1233
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 2: I'm telling you they are crashing out at anesthetic. And

1234
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 2: that's why it's so important for women to have their

1235
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 2: own no matter what. Listen, I'm not saying, oh, date

1236
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:38,000
Speaker 2: a man that don't have nothing because you have your own. No,

1237
01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:41,920
Speaker 2: you know, whatever he do is like plus it's like

1238
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 2: the cake and the ice cream, the dessert. Don't let

1239
01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 2: that be your bread and butter, and don't let that

1240
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 2: be how you eat. Don't let that be the only thing.

1241
01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Only time that could be

1242
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:57,120
Speaker 2: the case is if that's your husband. Yeah, you know

1243
01:01:57,160 --> 01:02:00,160
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, if it's your husband and you you

1244
01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:02,040
Speaker 2: fell off for a minute, or whatever the case may

1245
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:04,600
Speaker 2: Because life happens, y'all. We are not always going to

1246
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 2: have it all, you know. We might, you know, but

1247
01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 2: don't let no man be the reason you're eating, because

1248
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:16,640
Speaker 2: he's going to be the reason you're starting. And that's

1249
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:21,320
Speaker 2: just float out. That's just flat out. And it's nothing

1250
01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:23,160
Speaker 2: wrong with a man taking care of a woman neither,

1251
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 2: because that's another conversation. I would love for men. I

1252
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 2: love for men to take care of me. That made

1253
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 2: me feel real and I love it there. I love

1254
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 2: it there, But you stop working. But I'm not about

1255
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 2: to stop doing me. And also when that man take

1256
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:40,280
Speaker 2: care of me like that, I want to have my

1257
01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:42,480
Speaker 2: own so when it's my time to show out for

1258
01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:46,240
Speaker 2: him for his special occasions, I can. You know what

1259
01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 2: I'm saying. You want to reciprocate energy these days, you know,

1260
01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:54,440
Speaker 2: And I think that's where women go wrong. They look

1261
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:56,440
Speaker 2: at they get a man with some money, they get comfortable.

1262
01:02:57,280 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 2: Now they don't want to work no more. Now they

1263
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 2: don't have the shit on no more whole time. The

1264
01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 2: reason he was attracted to you because you had your

1265
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:04,959
Speaker 2: ship together too, and he felt like he could build

1266
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:07,840
Speaker 2: with somebody. And sometimes he wants the reciprocated energy too.

1267
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:10,479
Speaker 2: Men might not say this, but they want to feel

1268
01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:13,880
Speaker 2: special cool. They want to feel good too. And me,

1269
01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:17,040
Speaker 2: I love a spoiling nigga. I ain't gonna lie. I

1270
01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:21,240
Speaker 2: like a little cuteuf, especially if you make my life easier.

1271
01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:23,200
Speaker 2: If you make it, you're making me feel good, You're

1272
01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:25,400
Speaker 2: making me feel all girl, and you make it, you're

1273
01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:27,520
Speaker 2: making me want to post these type of pictures and

1274
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 2: with this passion like of course, I want to impucate

1275
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 2: the energy. I want you to feel good, like my

1276
01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:40,800
Speaker 2: girl for my birthday, she just and I had to

1277
01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 2: give a dime, you know. But not all the time

1278
01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 2: because men to get it fucked up and now they

1279
01:03:45,240 --> 01:03:50,240
Speaker 2: think they're the woman. But you know what, motherfucking dust,

1280
01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 2: that's the problem. But it's like like those special occasions

1281
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 2: make it real masculine, you know what I'm saying, Where

1282
01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 2: they can live in a masculine energy and you live

1283
01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:01,439
Speaker 2: in your feminine Yes, get your bag, ladies, that's what.

1284
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 1: You gotta get your own money. You gotta be able

1285
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 1: to take care of yourself. But do you know what

1286
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:09,920
Speaker 1: I do think some men liked it though they like

1287
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 1: women who don't.

1288
01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:15,120
Speaker 2: Like they like them. Yeah, they like that to the

1289
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:22,480
Speaker 2: crash out. Yeah, they like to be like it.

1290
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 1: Don't be the manipulative type man like that. Yeah, but

1291
01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 1: you don't want them anyway. Yeah, but what do we

1292
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:29,640
Speaker 1: call that? Early we were talking about that type of abuse,

1293
01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:31,240
Speaker 1: reproductive abuse?

1294
01:04:31,520 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we were talking about how a lot of

1295
01:04:33,640 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 2: times men thing no no, no, no, I said, you did.

1296
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:41,520
Speaker 1: But we were talking about how men will literally like

1297
01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:44,920
Speaker 1: get a woman pregnant, not because you know he valued you,

1298
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 1: but he wants to trap you.

1299
01:04:48,280 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, you want to have access to you for the

1300
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 2: rest of his life.

1301
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:52,400
Speaker 1: And a lot of women be like, girl, you want

1302
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 1: to get me prayed, you love me, you love me,

1303
01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 1: And it's like y'all better pay attention to them signs

1304
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:58,720
Speaker 1: and listen to what these men be saying, because they're

1305
01:04:58,720 --> 01:05:02,280
Speaker 1: gonna show you in every any man that doesn't want

1306
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 1: a woman to work as far as because he wants

1307
01:05:04,240 --> 01:05:04,960
Speaker 1: to control you.

1308
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 2: Financial abuse is real.

1309
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:10,040
Speaker 1: That's somebody who is manipulating you because they want you

1310
01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 1: to depend on them, a real man is gonna be like, Okay,

1311
01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 1: I've been taking care of my wife or my girlfriend

1312
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,080
Speaker 1: with other situation. Mate, well babe, what do you want

1313
01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 1: to do? Is there anything that I can invest or

1314
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,440
Speaker 1: help you with? Like what are your dreams and aspirations?

1315
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:23,320
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, That's what a real man

1316
01:05:23,480 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 1: want to.

1317
01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:26,439
Speaker 2: Do because he know that. You know, when you get

1318
01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:29,080
Speaker 2: up and do things on your own outside of your

1319
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:31,520
Speaker 2: like and like we said what I was saying earlier,

1320
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:34,320
Speaker 2: having all these different relationship, nurturing all these different relationships

1321
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:36,360
Speaker 2: and not just that one. When you have your own

1322
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:39,240
Speaker 2: thing that you're putting your all into every day, it

1323
01:05:39,280 --> 01:05:41,320
Speaker 2: makes you feel good like this is mine, you know,

1324
01:05:41,440 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 2: let me go, this is my craft. This is what

1325
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:45,440
Speaker 2: I'm working on outside of my husbands. Because you know

1326
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:48,320
Speaker 2: us women, we're superwoman. We got to help everything. Yeah,

1327
01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 2: but it's like I have my own and a man

1328
01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:55,040
Speaker 2: that's of any type of value understand that you need

1329
01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:58,880
Speaker 2: that you need your own thing that you're putting your

1330
01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:03,000
Speaker 2: all into every day, that your you know, blood, sweat

1331
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:06,439
Speaker 2: and tears into and nursing every day to when it's

1332
01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 2: growing you like, damn, she's really doing her thing. You

1333
01:06:09,880 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. I think that real men of

1334
01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:17,720
Speaker 2: value though quality man understand that. And it's such a

1335
01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 2: big difference. A man that have money that don't make

1336
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 2: him valuable. We just don't make him valuable. A man

1337
01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:26,200
Speaker 2: that have status don't make them valuable. Yeah, I feel

1338
01:06:26,200 --> 01:06:28,720
Speaker 2: like the inside makes you a value that person, the

1339
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 2: way you look at other women, your morals, you know

1340
01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:35,040
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, you having dignity, integrity? Can he even

1341
01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:37,120
Speaker 2: tell you the truth? Right? You know what I'm saying?

1342
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:43,240
Speaker 2: Because do he pray? Do he pray? What? Now? That

1343
01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:45,600
Speaker 2: is a super turn on a man. Tell you I

1344
01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:48,960
Speaker 2: prayed for you, or y'all pray together? We pray together.

1345
01:06:50,480 --> 01:06:52,040
Speaker 2: That'd be like a y'all know, that's like a green

1346
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:52,600
Speaker 2: flag for me.

1347
01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 1: Like if we're on the first day and they bring

1348
01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:58,280
Speaker 1: out the food and like he prays, cause I'm gonna pray.

1349
01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 2: I always, you know, pray. So that's like a big

1350
01:07:01,760 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 2: green flag.

1351
01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:04,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like especially if it's the first day because you

1352
01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:06,560
Speaker 1: know you're not one hundred percent comfortable, it's.

1353
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 2: All the first time hanging out. That's like, yeah, like okay,

1354
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:10,960
Speaker 2: he prays, Yeah, he prays.

1355
01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:13,000
Speaker 1: Like that goes to show like you're serious, and because

1356
01:07:13,000 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 1: I know a lot of times people feel uncomfortable praying

1357
01:07:15,080 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 1: in front of other people or whatever the case may be,

1358
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:19,080
Speaker 1: so that'd be like a big green flag.

1359
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:21,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, yeah, and it's like even after they pray,

1360
01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:23,520
Speaker 2: it's like, Okay, I can loosen up a little bit,

1361
01:07:24,000 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, and make you feel like

1362
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:28,919
Speaker 2: that could be a little comfortable. Yeah, yeah, like green pray,

1363
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:30,880
Speaker 2: big green. Okay, big green.

1364
01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:34,120
Speaker 1: You want to bring in the next So now we're

1365
01:07:34,120 --> 01:07:36,480
Speaker 1: going to get into the second topic. We wanted to

1366
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 1: talk about women who want to have a kid but

1367
01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:43,920
Speaker 1: they fear being a single mom. Do you feel like

1368
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:47,000
Speaker 1: that's a logical fear or good fear.

1369
01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 2: No, you can't have no fear of having kids. I agree,

1370
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:52,720
Speaker 2: you don't have to have You don't supposed to have fear.

1371
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 2: Fearing kids is not the same thing. They don't supposed

1372
01:07:56,200 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 2: to be in the same sentence. Okay, that is a blessing. Yes,

1373
01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:00,400
Speaker 2: a kid is a blessing. Regardless if you gonna be

1374
01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 2: with a man or not. That is a blessing. Don't

1375
01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:07,240
Speaker 2: even intertwine them with the two, because whether that man

1376
01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:09,920
Speaker 2: is there or not, you're gonna always be You're gonna

1377
01:08:09,920 --> 01:08:16,000
Speaker 2: always be that kid's mom, right, no matter what. So

1378
01:08:16,240 --> 01:08:19,559
Speaker 2: I would never, ever I could even say fear in

1379
01:08:19,640 --> 01:08:23,040
Speaker 2: my kid's name in the same sentence. I was never scared.

1380
01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:25,920
Speaker 2: Of course, you know I thought about, oh, am I

1381
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:27,280
Speaker 2: gonna be with him? Am I just gonna be a

1382
01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:30,640
Speaker 2: baby mama? Of course, you know, because you want to

1383
01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:32,760
Speaker 2: get married, you want all of your kids and your

1384
01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:34,679
Speaker 2: man and you to have the same last name. Of course,

1385
01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:38,680
Speaker 2: y'all a one. You know that's a thought. Yeah. No,

1386
01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 2: I don't think you should ever go into a situation

1387
01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:44,719
Speaker 2: because whether you're a wife, you can get a divorce,

1388
01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:48,760
Speaker 2: whether you're just a baby mama, whether you're just a

1389
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 2: single mom, you're gonna be a mom.

1390
01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 1: Ye, regardless, Like take all those titles away.

1391
01:08:55,200 --> 01:08:56,400
Speaker 2: You're that kid's mom.

1392
01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:58,439
Speaker 1: I agree, That's what I was gonna say. I agree

1393
01:08:58,479 --> 01:09:00,280
Speaker 1: with you one hundred percent. Everything you see. It is

1394
01:09:00,320 --> 01:09:02,840
Speaker 1: literally how I feel about it. I feel like, as

1395
01:09:02,840 --> 01:09:05,639
Speaker 1: a woman, you should have a kid for no other

1396
01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:09,640
Speaker 1: reason than wanting to be a mother, because, regardless of

1397
01:09:09,680 --> 01:09:11,800
Speaker 1: what happens, if you really have the desire, and that's

1398
01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:13,880
Speaker 1: really a desire of your heart to be a mother.

1399
01:09:14,439 --> 01:09:17,080
Speaker 1: Regardless of what happens with that man, You're gonna be

1400
01:09:17,120 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 1: okay with your Decisionsion.

1401
01:09:19,120 --> 01:09:22,320
Speaker 2: Listen and I see clarity smile. First off, she's so

1402
01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 2: damn goofy, and she looks like she looks like her

1403
01:09:24,240 --> 01:09:29,479
Speaker 2: that yeah, and I still be like, this is my no,

1404
01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:32,280
Speaker 2: you know, it makes me feel No, she looks like her,

1405
01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:35,959
Speaker 2: you know, and it's like, no, those are my babies,

1406
01:09:36,000 --> 01:09:40,080
Speaker 2: Those my babies for what happened in this world whatever

1407
01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 2: behind me.

1408
01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 1: Not necessarily that I'm scared that the relationship won't work out,

1409
01:09:46,960 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 1: or like, oh he's not gonna be around. It's so

1410
01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:54,640
Speaker 1: of the fear of can I do it? Am I

1411
01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:55,680
Speaker 1: able to do it?

1412
01:09:55,760 --> 01:09:56,879
Speaker 2: Will I be strong?

1413
01:09:57,400 --> 01:10:00,000
Speaker 1: Because I know like things that I deal with person,

1414
01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 1: and sometimes I'll be having moments where I shut the

1415
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:03,479
Speaker 1: fuck down.

1416
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:06,479
Speaker 2: You know. It's so crazy with them kids booth. Yeah,

1417
01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:10,200
Speaker 2: they give you a whole nother level of goddamn superwoman.

1418
01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:13,880
Speaker 2: Like them you like, I can't I can't let them down.

1419
01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:17,400
Speaker 2: Like when you lay eyes on that first child of yours,

1420
01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 2: it's like you get a whole new set of eyes.

1421
01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:24,759
Speaker 2: It's like now you just like you become this woman

1422
01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:28,559
Speaker 2: that can do everything can do everything. I ain't cooked

1423
01:10:28,560 --> 01:10:33,280
Speaker 2: before I had cash, I went in the kitchen until

1424
01:10:33,280 --> 01:10:36,200
Speaker 2: I seen until I see my schnuog out one. I

1425
01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:40,240
Speaker 2: lay eyes on my snod kitchen like, okay, let me

1426
01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 2: bake him some food because he needs a little bit

1427
01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:48,479
Speaker 2: of New Street. Nothing ain't every day. Let me go

1428
01:10:48,560 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 2: get some stream means some mash. I got what my

1429
01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:59,240
Speaker 2: little snug out. Oh my god, that is hilarious. Never

1430
01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:02,599
Speaker 2: was in the kitchen until I had me to cash. Okay, yes,

1431
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:05,080
Speaker 2: I'm telling you like that when them you feel like

1432
01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:05,960
Speaker 2: you could do anything.

1433
01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:08,680
Speaker 1: And I and I hear you and I get that.

1434
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:11,040
Speaker 1: But like that's what I said. Like I'm like, like

1435
01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 1: how it clicked for you? Yeah, and but it's like

1436
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:15,320
Speaker 1: what if it doesn't click for it?

1437
01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 2: Is you know what I'm saying. You're a woman of God.

1438
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:20,640
Speaker 2: It is He got you. And you just in a

1439
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:21,360
Speaker 2: woman too.

1440
01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:24,200
Speaker 1: Like I just feel like as a woman, we're supposed

1441
01:11:24,280 --> 01:11:26,240
Speaker 1: to be, like we're meaning to be nurseous.

1442
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:28,160
Speaker 2: She's gonna be.

1443
01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:32,360
Speaker 1: It's crazy because every time, like I have two nephews

1444
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 1: and I pretty much like raised my smaller nephew until I.

1445
01:11:35,400 --> 01:11:37,240
Speaker 2: Had to move to Atlanta. And you're gonna have a boy.

1446
01:11:37,479 --> 01:11:40,559
Speaker 2: I know I feel like that too, but I want

1447
01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:43,240
Speaker 2: so don't put that on me.

1448
01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:46,400
Speaker 1: When I was younger, if people go back to all

1449
01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:48,400
Speaker 1: the episodes of the show, I used to always say

1450
01:11:48,479 --> 01:11:49,599
Speaker 1: all I wanted was boys.

1451
01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:51,439
Speaker 2: But now as I get older, I just want to

1452
01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:53,760
Speaker 2: have a healthy baby. Yeah that's what I said. When

1453
01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:55,960
Speaker 2: I first got pregnant. I was like, I want a

1454
01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:56,960
Speaker 2: healthy but You're got.

1455
01:11:56,800 --> 01:12:02,280
Speaker 1: It perfectly because I'm a boy girl.

1456
01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:04,840
Speaker 2: You know, I'm just a girl. I'm both.

1457
01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:09,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like a hood princess, and I.

1458
01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:10,120
Speaker 2: Guess this is what an istor like.

1459
01:12:10,160 --> 01:12:13,800
Speaker 1: I know I'm good with children, like children always love me,

1460
01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:16,240
Speaker 1: like it can be a complete stranger. Like I remember

1461
01:12:16,240 --> 01:12:18,720
Speaker 1: one time my best friend, one of her friends has

1462
01:12:18,760 --> 01:12:20,800
Speaker 1: a kid, and whenever we were going out to you,

1463
01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 1: she was like, y'all, chicken, they call her chickens cheating

1464
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:25,960
Speaker 1: the bad mood. Y'all please just don't she like she

1465
01:12:25,960 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 1: don't go to nobody. I know she's rude, so y'all

1466
01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:30,600
Speaker 1: please it. That girl came straight to me and she

1467
01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 1: was just like she was like her mom was like,

1468
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:36,120
Speaker 1: oh my god. Like so I always have a way

1469
01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 1: with children, and I always feel like Okay, I do

1470
01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:40,679
Speaker 1: want that, but it be like something in the back

1471
01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:42,400
Speaker 1: of my mind, Like, like I said, it's not about

1472
01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:44,160
Speaker 1: the man or if we're gonna be together, because it

1473
01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 1: happened like my dad passed away.

1474
01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:48,400
Speaker 2: And he wasn't able to be there. My mom has it.

1475
01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:50,720
Speaker 1: It's not even about if we Yeah, so it's not

1476
01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:53,920
Speaker 1: about if we break up. It's more so of if

1477
01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:56,559
Speaker 1: the worst of the worst happens and I have to

1478
01:12:56,640 --> 01:12:58,640
Speaker 1: stand on my own two by myself.

1479
01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:01,920
Speaker 2: Can I show up every day? You know you're going

1480
01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:05,200
Speaker 2: to less least later on once you have your babies,

1481
01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:07,880
Speaker 2: You're gonna be like, how did I even think I couldn't? Like, yeah, girl,

1482
01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:11,280
Speaker 2: it's gonna happen. Okay, yeah, all right. I'm trusting y'all because,

1483
01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 2: like I said, I'm gonna be what they call it

1484
01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:15,639
Speaker 2: a gatric pregnancy bitch. I'mna be about four to five.

1485
01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:19,720
Speaker 2: But my girls shout, oh well, I'm thirty five. So

1486
01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 2: by the time you got time, you I mean, I

1487
01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:24,679
Speaker 2: do it the next five years. That's the next thing.

1488
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:27,720
Speaker 1: By the time I get pregnant, hopefully, I'm like, if

1489
01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:29,080
Speaker 1: I do want to have a kid within like the

1490
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:32,240
Speaker 1: next two years, But you know, after what is it

1491
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Speaker 1: thirty it's after No, it's after thirty five, ye, after.

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01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:40,000
Speaker 2: A geatric pregnance geriatric, pediatric. Sorry what that means? It

1493
01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:41,080
Speaker 2: means old?

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01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:45,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, my my societal standards, by medical standards, Yeah, at

1495
01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:47,360
Speaker 1: thirty five, once you hit thirty.

1496
01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:51,400
Speaker 2: Five years old, like old, when you be pregnant, yeah, doctor,

1497
01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:55,400
Speaker 2: it's more risky, it's more risky. Yeah. Yeah, my doctor's like,

1498
01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:57,880
Speaker 2: what you're gonna do? Barbecue and mildew, girl, you better

1499
01:13:57,920 --> 01:14:01,599
Speaker 2: get out. I'm not knock both of my Yeah, I'm done.

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01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:03,360
Speaker 1: And that's what I was going to ask you, like,

1501
01:14:03,400 --> 01:14:06,000
Speaker 1: did you feel any pressure to have kids as you

1502
01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:08,280
Speaker 1: was getting older, because like, I'm thirty three and I

1503
01:14:08,400 --> 01:14:10,959
Speaker 1: be feeling that way what she said about being thirty.

1504
01:14:10,720 --> 01:14:12,120
Speaker 2: Five, Like I'm like, well, I gotta have a baby

1505
01:14:12,120 --> 01:14:15,559
Speaker 2: before I hit thirty five. But no, well that's why

1506
01:14:15,560 --> 01:14:18,120
Speaker 2: I did, like because you know, once I met my

1507
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:21,200
Speaker 2: child's father, uh huh, and I got pregnant, I was like,

1508
01:14:21,240 --> 01:14:23,760
Speaker 2: I'm not I'm having my baby. Yeah. You know what

1509
01:14:23,760 --> 01:14:26,040
Speaker 2: I'm saying. I am getting of age, yeah, and I'm

1510
01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:31,599
Speaker 2: getting up through there. I ain't going back. Let me

1511
01:14:31,640 --> 01:14:33,760
Speaker 2: go ahead. I'm having I'm having this. Yeah, you know

1512
01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:35,680
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. And then it happened again and I

1513
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:38,280
Speaker 2: was like, okay, yeah, you know, here we go. Are

1514
01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:40,759
Speaker 2: you done having kids or you want more? I'm done. Okay,

1515
01:14:40,840 --> 01:14:42,439
Speaker 2: I'm done. I don't want anymore. I got a boy

1516
01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:44,040
Speaker 2: and a girl. I don't want anymore. I asked my

1517
01:14:44,080 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 2: mom after I have my girl, I said, why do

1518
01:14:46,240 --> 01:14:50,639
Speaker 2: you keep going? My mom had me first, I'm a girl.

1519
01:14:50,640 --> 01:14:54,080
Speaker 2: That my brother right after me, he's he's a boy. Yeah,

1520
01:14:54,360 --> 01:14:57,679
Speaker 2: and we're eleven months apart, like me and my brother out.

1521
01:14:57,920 --> 01:15:06,479
Speaker 2: She went went crazy and it was like, damn, why

1522
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:07,760
Speaker 2: did you keep going? You had a boy, you had

1523
01:15:07,800 --> 01:15:10,599
Speaker 2: a girl? Why? She was like, I just I enjoyed

1524
01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:12,479
Speaker 2: my kids and I wanted to continue. And I was

1525
01:15:12,560 --> 01:15:16,080
Speaker 2: just like, you're crazy because once I got my once

1526
01:15:16,120 --> 01:15:17,599
Speaker 2: I had my son, I was like, I want a girl.

1527
01:15:17,640 --> 01:15:20,200
Speaker 2: And when I found out Clarity was a girl, I

1528
01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 2: was ecstatic because I said, listen, I'm never pushing anoy

1529
01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:26,040
Speaker 2: and it's like that's perfect. You know you always want

1530
01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:30,000
Speaker 2: the boy to older. Yeah, yeah, you got it. I

1531
01:15:30,040 --> 01:15:34,559
Speaker 2: got a good God. Don't play about about me. I

1532
01:15:34,640 --> 01:15:40,639
Speaker 2: love God. You all love God. Was wrong? I think

1533
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:43,360
Speaker 2: it's God and my dad. My dad been with me

1534
01:15:43,400 --> 01:15:45,920
Speaker 2: through this whole journey. He's always been there. He he

1535
01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:47,920
Speaker 2: died on my first birthday, so I always feel like

1536
01:15:47,960 --> 01:15:51,839
Speaker 2: since then, he's always been one of my spiritual angels

1537
01:15:52,120 --> 01:15:54,360
Speaker 2: and he takes very good care of me. That's how

1538
01:15:54,400 --> 01:15:54,960
Speaker 2: I feel too.

1539
01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:57,599
Speaker 1: I feel about my dad too, like I always feel

1540
01:15:57,600 --> 01:15:59,240
Speaker 1: like I feel his praisings around me.

1541
01:16:00,040 --> 01:16:04,880
Speaker 2: Way up there doing my dad doing his bill. Okay,

1542
01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 2: I love him. Yes, it's like our guardian angel. I

1543
01:16:07,880 --> 01:16:10,439
Speaker 2: never feel like that, and that's crazy because it's like,

1544
01:16:10,479 --> 01:16:12,320
Speaker 2: you know, you can have your dad here. Of course

1545
01:16:12,320 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 2: I would love to be with my dad here. Yeah,

1546
01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:17,240
Speaker 2: but it's like my dad is spiritual and he protects

1547
01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:22,040
Speaker 2: me spiritually, and that's like a big guardian like your daddy.

1548
01:16:22,080 --> 01:16:25,479
Speaker 2: It's even more powerful than in the prison girl, Like

1549
01:16:25,600 --> 01:16:29,800
Speaker 2: you know, that's my dog right there, shout out to.

1550
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1585
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1589
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1590
01:18:26,200 --> 01:18:31,839
Speaker 2: Any business is welcome. So now it's time to get

1591
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1592
01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:46,559
Speaker 2: I'm feeling having a good time, a little good Yeah.

1593
01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:48,160
Speaker 3: I love time.

1594
01:18:49,640 --> 01:18:50,519
Speaker 2: We gotta love time.

1595
01:18:53,280 --> 01:18:55,400
Speaker 1: Of course, you know we're talking about pregnancy and all

1596
01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:56,679
Speaker 1: those beautiful things.

1597
01:18:56,680 --> 01:18:57,799
Speaker 2: So we wanted to talk.

1598
01:18:57,600 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 1: About having sex, was pregnancy and how that is because

1599
01:19:02,840 --> 01:19:05,000
Speaker 1: you know, everybody, you know, we know, they're supposed to say, like,

1600
01:19:05,040 --> 01:19:07,679
Speaker 1: you know, you gotta wait six weeks and you gotta

1601
01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:09,920
Speaker 1: heal and all this stuff. But we want to know

1602
01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:13,639
Speaker 1: the real sea, like how is sex after the baby?

1603
01:19:13,640 --> 01:19:16,879
Speaker 2: Do you really wait? Like you said, you feel different?

1604
01:19:16,960 --> 01:19:18,080
Speaker 2: Does feel different?

1605
01:19:18,080 --> 01:19:19,720
Speaker 1: Because I know a lot of times women be saying

1606
01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:22,040
Speaker 1: they don't even feel sexy afterwards, and they now they

1607
01:19:22,040 --> 01:19:23,160
Speaker 1: don't be in the mood.

1608
01:19:23,160 --> 01:19:25,599
Speaker 2: Like it's something about me that I feel like I'm

1609
01:19:25,600 --> 01:19:29,000
Speaker 2: that bitch at all times. I don't know where I

1610
01:19:29,040 --> 01:19:31,880
Speaker 2: get this from. I don't know. Even when I'm big

1611
01:19:31,920 --> 01:19:34,040
Speaker 2: and pregnant, y'all be feeling like I'm hurt, like I

1612
01:19:34,080 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 2: don't care, like is period, I be feeling like that.

1613
01:19:37,439 --> 01:19:43,120
Speaker 2: So it's like it's always great. It's like it's always good.

1614
01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:46,360
Speaker 2: Now did you wait the six weeks though? Because I

1615
01:19:46,360 --> 01:19:49,439
Speaker 2: didn't even man, y'all know what. I ain't even really

1616
01:19:49,439 --> 01:19:52,360
Speaker 2: did much like I meant my baby daddy once. I

1617
01:19:52,439 --> 01:19:55,639
Speaker 2: ain't know. I wasn't even that yeah this time around,

1618
01:19:55,640 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 2: and at okay, that's fair enough.

1619
01:19:58,120 --> 01:20:02,360
Speaker 1: That's fair enough, because I guess that's my fear too,

1620
01:20:02,560 --> 01:20:07,479
Speaker 1: like Quinn having a baby naturally, I don't know what

1621
01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:10,320
Speaker 1: you mean, like naturally through I might do a little

1622
01:20:10,320 --> 01:20:15,240
Speaker 1: c section body up thirteen times anyway, but I feel.

1623
01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:17,720
Speaker 2: Like bodies are meant for that, Like why are you

1624
01:20:18,560 --> 01:20:20,439
Speaker 2: gonna snap back? I'm just afraid?

1625
01:20:20,640 --> 01:20:24,040
Speaker 3: Why is this.

1626
01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:29,040
Speaker 2: Did the light of the baby he's been chucked did everything.

1627
01:20:31,080 --> 01:20:35,160
Speaker 2: Cut him out, cut him out, Hey, cut him out.

1628
01:20:35,240 --> 01:20:38,439
Speaker 2: Let's go ahead, I do surgery. Get it over with.

1629
01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:40,439
Speaker 2: You don't want to go through the pain.

1630
01:20:41,160 --> 01:20:43,320
Speaker 1: It's not even like the pain. I'm just like it

1631
01:20:43,439 --> 01:20:46,599
Speaker 1: just seems like a lie. And like my mom would

1632
01:20:46,680 --> 01:20:48,960
Speaker 1: always tell me the story about how I ripped her

1633
01:20:49,160 --> 01:20:52,040
Speaker 1: and she had to get stitches, and my head was big.

1634
01:20:53,040 --> 01:20:56,479
Speaker 2: I do not want to rip and go through days.

1635
01:20:56,680 --> 01:21:01,080
Speaker 2: But then I also heard that after you have the

1636
01:21:01,560 --> 01:21:07,040
Speaker 2: so silly what that they can sew you back up

1637
01:21:07,080 --> 01:21:09,240
Speaker 2: and that make it tighter. That's what I heard too.

1638
01:21:09,960 --> 01:21:11,479
Speaker 2: To be honest, I don't know, because I ain't gonna

1639
01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:13,439
Speaker 2: tell you all how I had my kids, right, I

1640
01:21:13,760 --> 01:21:17,040
Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know. I don't know, don't know,

1641
01:21:17,640 --> 01:21:19,320
Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe they could have.

1642
01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:27,920
Speaker 1: Tighten you up now that like or like me not that.

1643
01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:33,439
Speaker 2: Girl, but I'd be like, I want to little section.

1644
01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:36,200
Speaker 1: Even tuck that tell me why you were now Okay, okay,

1645
01:21:36,240 --> 01:21:37,600
Speaker 1: I don't think that they can do.

1646
01:21:40,680 --> 01:21:51,200
Speaker 2: You gotta go the same. It's the same decision. You

1647
01:21:51,439 --> 01:21:54,320
Speaker 2: can't tuk it. Yeah, you gotta heal man, all your all,

1648
01:21:54,400 --> 01:21:57,360
Speaker 2: your every inside has been moved by the Maybe you

1649
01:21:57,400 --> 01:21:59,080
Speaker 2: can't go get a tuck right after that. And I

1650
01:21:59,080 --> 01:22:01,240
Speaker 2: hate when people go around I'm playing like celebrities be

1651
01:22:01,240 --> 01:22:04,439
Speaker 2: doing because you've got you gotta heal man, the insize

1652
01:22:04,520 --> 01:22:07,439
Speaker 2: is pushed. Clarity was eight pounds or four ounces? That

1653
01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:12,639
Speaker 2: little girl pushed everything away? Yeah? Okay, well I feel.

1654
01:22:12,720 --> 01:22:15,080
Speaker 1: It's already pushing pushing the rest of that.

1655
01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:18,920
Speaker 2: No, no, no, you need your inside, you need you.

1656
01:22:17,439 --> 01:22:24,400
Speaker 1: Just take a little real Why are you this way?

1657
01:22:24,800 --> 01:22:26,720
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like, let's just.

1658
01:22:26,720 --> 01:22:29,839
Speaker 1: Do it all at one time, because I don't know anyway.

1659
01:22:29,920 --> 01:22:33,120
Speaker 2: I'm about to go get my body done. What you're

1660
01:22:33,160 --> 01:22:35,080
Speaker 2: doing next week, I probably don't delive. I'll get my

1661
01:22:35,120 --> 01:22:39,320
Speaker 2: body birds. Do you work out? Yes?

1662
01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:39,519
Speaker 1: I do?

1663
01:22:39,720 --> 01:22:42,600
Speaker 2: Okay, working out is the best, like shouting out to

1664
01:22:42,880 --> 01:22:46,240
Speaker 2: the King of Fitness. Yes, working out is the best

1665
01:22:46,280 --> 01:22:48,960
Speaker 2: thing to do, especially when you're going through postpartum. Yeah,

1666
01:22:49,360 --> 01:22:51,040
Speaker 2: not even just for the physical, for the mental.

1667
01:22:51,240 --> 01:22:54,280
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie has helped my mental so much.

1668
01:22:55,080 --> 01:22:57,720
Speaker 2: And they think they just always think of the physical, like,

1669
01:22:57,800 --> 01:23:00,080
Speaker 2: go work out and see how that really makes you

1670
01:23:00,080 --> 01:23:02,519
Speaker 2: you feel in the end, you know what I'm saying,

1671
01:23:02,600 --> 01:23:06,360
Speaker 2: Especially when you're dealing with postpartum, like it's not easy.

1672
01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:08,719
Speaker 2: It's not easy. And just to be able to cope

1673
01:23:08,720 --> 01:23:11,760
Speaker 2: with life, coping with your kids and having to be

1674
01:23:11,840 --> 01:23:14,559
Speaker 2: there twenty four hour all day, every day, and coping

1675
01:23:14,600 --> 01:23:18,760
Speaker 2: with shit, your career and everything things that come with

1676
01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:22,679
Speaker 2: men and whatever the case may be, being social media,

1677
01:23:23,040 --> 01:23:26,719
Speaker 2: your podcast. You have to get in that gym, eating

1678
01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:30,720
Speaker 2: right like that shit makes you feel better genuinely in

1679
01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:34,080
Speaker 2: an inside not just look better. See people go for

1680
01:23:34,120 --> 01:23:38,640
Speaker 2: the physical. Yeah, it's way deeper than it's ways very

1681
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:38,960
Speaker 2: But I.

1682
01:23:38,920 --> 01:23:40,479
Speaker 1: Do want to ask you that because you did say, like,

1683
01:23:40,479 --> 01:23:42,559
Speaker 1: you know, you always felt like you were that girl

1684
01:23:42,640 --> 01:23:45,800
Speaker 1: and things like that. So after because I feel like

1685
01:23:45,840 --> 01:23:48,519
Speaker 1: people always say the second baby is the hardest, she

1686
01:23:49,000 --> 01:23:52,040
Speaker 1: wan so, but how did you feel about yourself fit?

1687
01:23:52,120 --> 01:23:57,559
Speaker 1: Because like you're known for being super fine, body, tea everything. Yay,

1688
01:23:58,000 --> 01:24:00,840
Speaker 1: you have a fire body. But that's what I'm saying,

1689
01:24:00,880 --> 01:24:03,280
Speaker 1: So after the second baby, like after clarity, how did

1690
01:24:03,280 --> 01:24:04,920
Speaker 1: you feel about your body? Like, how did you feel

1691
01:24:04,920 --> 01:24:06,640
Speaker 1: when you looked at yourself in the mirror? Because I

1692
01:24:06,680 --> 01:24:09,040
Speaker 1: know a lot of women struggle after pregnancy looking at

1693
01:24:09,040 --> 01:24:09,880
Speaker 1: themselves a second.

1694
01:24:10,000 --> 01:24:12,519
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie Clarity, did me dirty? Yeah? I'm

1695
01:24:12,520 --> 01:24:17,960
Speaker 2: whooping her as but no clarity. She did me in,

1696
01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:21,600
Speaker 2: She did me in. But I don't know. It's a

1697
01:24:21,640 --> 01:24:23,200
Speaker 2: mental thing. I don't know if it's my dad. I

1698
01:24:23,240 --> 01:24:26,080
Speaker 2: don't know if it's God. I don't know what it is.

1699
01:24:26,120 --> 01:24:29,320
Speaker 2: But it's mentally me like, all right, then me give

1700
01:24:29,360 --> 01:24:31,519
Speaker 2: myself back to where I would like to be. It's motivation.

1701
01:24:31,880 --> 01:24:34,200
Speaker 2: It's motivation. As I'm sitting there looking at myself, you know,

1702
01:24:34,240 --> 01:24:36,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, I don't have stretch marks. Thank god,

1703
01:24:37,439 --> 01:24:41,000
Speaker 2: that's hereditary. Though, you know, they say, yeah, but my mom,

1704
01:24:41,120 --> 01:24:44,760
Speaker 2: I don't know your mom. Yeah she do. She's gonna

1705
01:24:44,920 --> 01:24:50,120
Speaker 2: why are you talking about business? A little nervous yep. I

1706
01:24:50,160 --> 01:24:53,760
Speaker 2: don't think it's all about how active you are. Yeah,

1707
01:24:53,880 --> 01:24:56,280
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. I stayed working. But I

1708
01:24:56,320 --> 01:24:59,400
Speaker 2: do say that, like I was just looking at myself.

1709
01:24:59,400 --> 01:25:02,000
Speaker 2: It was motivation. It was motivation. It was like, let

1710
01:25:02,040 --> 01:25:04,040
Speaker 2: me just get myself together, and it was just it's

1711
01:25:04,040 --> 01:25:08,759
Speaker 2: a mental thing. Some people mental it's just not as strong.

1712
01:25:09,080 --> 01:25:13,719
Speaker 2: It's like, you know, mental health is real, it's very real.

1713
01:25:13,840 --> 01:25:17,519
Speaker 2: You have to it. Gotta put it in there at first, Like,

1714
01:25:17,720 --> 01:25:20,960
Speaker 2: I don't know how to explain how blessed. I am

1715
01:25:21,240 --> 01:25:24,240
Speaker 2: as having a mental of knowing that, all right, I

1716
01:25:24,280 --> 01:25:26,640
Speaker 2: gotta get myself together. I'm not happy there, you know

1717
01:25:26,680 --> 01:25:28,599
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. And I just got in the gym,

1718
01:25:29,439 --> 01:25:31,479
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. And or even when I

1719
01:25:31,520 --> 01:25:33,840
Speaker 2: couldn't get in the gym, I put my body shapers on,

1720
01:25:34,120 --> 01:25:36,759
Speaker 2: put my five highs on, you know, like just preparing

1721
01:25:36,800 --> 01:25:39,320
Speaker 2: myself to be back her. You know what I'm saying.

1722
01:25:39,360 --> 01:25:41,760
Speaker 2: It's like you kind of gotta you kind of manifested.

1723
01:25:42,000 --> 01:25:44,800
Speaker 2: You have to manifest it. If your body not looking right,

1724
01:25:44,840 --> 01:25:47,080
Speaker 2: you have things to put make your body look right.

1725
01:25:47,479 --> 01:25:50,360
Speaker 1: And have not the house too, because like I think,

1726
01:25:50,439 --> 01:25:52,640
Speaker 1: so many women right after they have kids, they be

1727
01:25:53,120 --> 01:25:56,680
Speaker 1: so consumed with this new life and then they just

1728
01:25:56,760 --> 01:25:57,519
Speaker 1: be in a house.

1729
01:25:57,640 --> 01:26:01,120
Speaker 2: You need to give yourself. Except the six weeks is

1730
01:26:01,360 --> 01:26:04,000
Speaker 2: pushing it for me. I don't know about everybody else,

1731
01:26:04,000 --> 01:26:05,600
Speaker 2: because they was all like you're already off side. You

1732
01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:12,040
Speaker 2: just had for me. Them like them two three weeks,

1733
01:26:12,080 --> 01:26:14,160
Speaker 2: I said that I was in the crib. I was

1734
01:26:14,160 --> 01:26:16,120
Speaker 2: in the crib. I had my feet up, and I

1735
01:26:16,360 --> 01:26:19,040
Speaker 2: bonded with my child and bond it with my other

1736
01:26:19,080 --> 01:26:21,120
Speaker 2: child to get used to alright, this is us now

1737
01:26:21,840 --> 01:26:24,720
Speaker 2: you no more. That was important to me, and when

1738
01:26:24,760 --> 01:26:26,800
Speaker 2: I felt like it, it's like, okay, every now and then,

1739
01:26:26,800 --> 01:26:28,240
Speaker 2: I'll get out of go get me a little drink,

1740
01:26:29,120 --> 01:26:30,719
Speaker 2: you know, because I haven't had one of nine months.

1741
01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:33,040
Speaker 2: I'll get I'll go shop a little bit for things

1742
01:26:33,040 --> 01:26:34,960
Speaker 2: that I buy some ship I know I can't fit,

1743
01:26:35,560 --> 01:26:39,960
Speaker 2: like I'm getting movation. I outside my closet so I

1744
01:26:39,960 --> 01:26:43,080
Speaker 2: could see it every day. I'm gonna get it, you

1745
01:26:43,080 --> 01:26:46,479
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. I'm gonna get it. In the

1746
01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:48,160
Speaker 2: dress I bought this time, it was like thirty five

1747
01:26:48,240 --> 01:26:58,559
Speaker 2: hundred dollars. Yall, I'm like a fashion See that, ain't

1748
01:27:00,040 --> 01:27:01,240
Speaker 2: you don't want to make your money now?

1749
01:27:01,560 --> 01:27:07,559
Speaker 1: Look in the large No, no, no ordering, the ordering

1750
01:27:07,560 --> 01:27:08,120
Speaker 1: the medium.

1751
01:27:08,880 --> 01:27:11,800
Speaker 2: But I ordered the dress, and I'm aware that's a

1752
01:27:11,800 --> 01:27:13,639
Speaker 2: good motivation. But I ordered the dress and I spent

1753
01:27:13,720 --> 01:27:15,320
Speaker 2: that type of money on it because I'm like, I'm

1754
01:27:15,320 --> 01:27:17,760
Speaker 2: gonna get in there and guess what, Because guess what

1755
01:27:17,800 --> 01:27:19,280
Speaker 2: If I don't ever get in then I wasted my

1756
01:27:19,320 --> 01:27:22,479
Speaker 2: fucking right. Okay, okay, you see what I'm saying. So

1757
01:27:22,520 --> 01:27:24,080
Speaker 2: you gotta spend a little coin on it so you

1758
01:27:24,080 --> 01:27:30,280
Speaker 2: can feel better. I go to revolve how you do

1759
01:27:30,360 --> 01:27:32,400
Speaker 2: this every day? I don't even suck it.

1760
01:27:32,280 --> 01:27:41,439
Speaker 1: Out the house to see a little band.

1761
01:27:42,840 --> 01:27:44,559
Speaker 2: Like the h the one that costs though, you know,

1762
01:27:44,600 --> 01:27:50,439
Speaker 2: the one that got the studs and stuff said five hundred. Ovey,

1763
01:27:51,680 --> 01:27:53,439
Speaker 2: you know what I have to since house to c

1764
01:27:53,560 --> 01:27:56,720
Speaker 2: B is no purpose and that material will be good too.

1765
01:27:57,400 --> 01:27:59,439
Speaker 2: It's a little cheaper. That's a good material. I like

1766
01:27:59,479 --> 01:28:01,640
Speaker 2: a little house c B. Yeah, so get one of

1767
01:28:01,680 --> 01:28:04,040
Speaker 2: the talks like so you can feel like he's one

1768
01:28:04,040 --> 01:28:06,719
Speaker 2: of the Yeah, y'all got to hurry up a gohand

1769
01:28:06,760 --> 01:28:11,559
Speaker 2: and popping babies. No, girl, I think it's tom. Let

1770
01:28:11,560 --> 01:28:13,240
Speaker 2: me get y'all business. Y'll be asking me on my

1771
01:28:13,360 --> 01:28:15,840
Speaker 2: business with y'all. In relationships, what's going on with y'all?

1772
01:28:15,840 --> 01:28:21,680
Speaker 2: Who getting pregnant? What what's up? Yeah? I mean I've

1773
01:28:21,680 --> 01:28:23,720
Speaker 2: been a relationship for a year now.

1774
01:28:23,960 --> 01:28:26,479
Speaker 1: It makes a here this this next month, it makes

1775
01:28:26,680 --> 01:28:27,320
Speaker 1: it makes a year.

1776
01:28:27,400 --> 01:28:32,280
Speaker 2: So but like I said, a year, that's not enough

1777
01:28:32,400 --> 01:28:34,639
Speaker 2: time to know if like I want to be, don't

1778
01:28:34,680 --> 01:28:39,040
Speaker 2: worry about that. Ever that don't worry about that because

1779
01:28:39,080 --> 01:28:41,920
Speaker 2: guess what, if you get pregnant, you better just have

1780
01:28:42,000 --> 01:28:42,519
Speaker 2: that baby.

1781
01:28:43,320 --> 01:28:45,519
Speaker 1: But I will say this now, I will say this

1782
01:28:45,560 --> 01:28:49,360
Speaker 1: about him that it gives me peace. He has a

1783
01:28:49,479 --> 01:28:52,320
Speaker 1: child already and when I tell you, he is an

1784
01:28:52,400 --> 01:28:53,400
Speaker 1: amazing father.

1785
01:28:54,160 --> 01:28:58,040
Speaker 2: So I know that low kid, little Junior.

1786
01:28:57,800 --> 01:29:00,599
Speaker 1: Gonna get taken care of because you finna be with

1787
01:29:00,600 --> 01:29:01,280
Speaker 1: her daddy.

1788
01:29:01,960 --> 01:29:04,000
Speaker 2: I got tell me to got to heal baby, Go

1789
01:29:04,000 --> 01:29:04,559
Speaker 2: get your dad.

1790
01:29:04,840 --> 01:29:07,960
Speaker 1: When you look at your like when when the same

1791
01:29:08,920 --> 01:29:14,280
Speaker 1: what I tell you the same day, you don't tell

1792
01:29:14,320 --> 01:29:15,200
Speaker 1: you you can't?

1793
01:29:16,040 --> 01:29:22,120
Speaker 2: What is wrong with you? That's a good one me.

1794
01:29:24,880 --> 01:29:27,800
Speaker 1: Because I told her, I said what I tell you.

1795
01:29:28,680 --> 01:29:29,600
Speaker 1: Just want to tell me what I know.

1796
01:29:31,200 --> 01:29:33,200
Speaker 2: You. It's not about to get no tummy tuk no

1797
01:29:33,439 --> 01:29:37,040
Speaker 2: hey okay, but I'll say no, you're not. You can't.

1798
01:29:37,120 --> 01:29:43,200
Speaker 2: Like maybe if you go to Columbia. No, you're that friend.

1799
01:29:45,200 --> 01:29:51,040
Speaker 2: They know me in Columbia, Citizing, they know me in Columbia. Okay.

1800
01:29:51,200 --> 01:29:55,760
Speaker 2: So y'all, I was.

1801
01:29:55,720 --> 01:29:57,600
Speaker 1: In a relationship for the past two years and we

1802
01:29:57,840 --> 01:29:58,880
Speaker 1: just broke up.

1803
01:29:59,080 --> 01:30:04,280
Speaker 2: Like in may Or j it's broke. It's kind of.

1804
01:30:06,360 --> 01:30:10,320
Speaker 1: Girl be for real, like what bright like they need

1805
01:30:10,320 --> 01:30:11,519
Speaker 1: together damn man.

1806
01:30:11,400 --> 01:30:14,720
Speaker 2: Every day, but we are not together no more.

1807
01:30:16,880 --> 01:30:23,080
Speaker 1: See him bro last night. Today I'm ago. I'm just

1808
01:30:23,200 --> 01:30:27,639
Speaker 1: saying no, but we're not in a relationship. And let

1809
01:30:27,680 --> 01:30:30,000
Speaker 1: me say this. We broke up in May and then

1810
01:30:30,000 --> 01:30:32,200
Speaker 1: we did like a little sabbatical. We didn't have six

1811
01:30:32,280 --> 01:30:33,639
Speaker 1: for like two three months.

1812
01:30:34,280 --> 01:30:37,560
Speaker 2: Okay, we just a cleanse. Yeah, you've been throwing it.

1813
01:30:38,280 --> 01:30:41,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought I told you that, not like like redating,

1814
01:30:42,000 --> 01:30:44,599
Speaker 1: but I think so. I think we're trying to figure

1815
01:30:44,600 --> 01:30:46,640
Speaker 1: out if we want to get back in a relationship

1816
01:30:48,040 --> 01:30:52,479
Speaker 1: like you only they like, but we're.

1817
01:30:52,400 --> 01:30:54,400
Speaker 2: Not in a relationship. I'm gonna lett you have it.

1818
01:30:55,040 --> 01:30:59,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let her have it. Long story short, though,

1819
01:31:00,160 --> 01:31:03,000
Speaker 1: if I get pregny in the next year, you gonna

1820
01:31:04,200 --> 01:31:07,479
Speaker 1: be okay, Okay, I'm sure, I'm sure. But y'all is

1821
01:31:07,520 --> 01:31:11,080
Speaker 1: not perfect. Perfect he would be.

1822
01:31:11,160 --> 01:31:13,200
Speaker 2: I've never heard somebody say that about that person he

1823
01:31:13,320 --> 01:31:17,320
Speaker 2: had perfect. She said he's perfect. I think he's a

1824
01:31:17,360 --> 01:31:18,920
Speaker 2: great he's a perfect.

1825
01:31:18,880 --> 01:31:23,760
Speaker 1: For her, and that's when I would be a perfect dad.

1826
01:31:23,800 --> 01:31:27,599
Speaker 1: I think he didn't say right because he ain't perfect. No,

1827
01:31:27,640 --> 01:31:30,160
Speaker 1: but he's probably perfect for you. He probably that's probably

1828
01:31:30,160 --> 01:31:32,759
Speaker 1: your guy.

1829
01:31:32,960 --> 01:31:33,400
Speaker 2: We'll see.

1830
01:31:33,920 --> 01:31:36,760
Speaker 1: We're gonna play it my ear. Okay, we gonna see

1831
01:31:36,760 --> 01:31:39,280
Speaker 1: what happens. But one thing that I do know is

1832
01:31:39,520 --> 01:31:41,840
Speaker 1: if I did have a child with him, because he's

1833
01:31:41,880 --> 01:31:45,439
Speaker 1: already an amazing dad. He already has one son. He

1834
01:31:45,479 --> 01:31:47,840
Speaker 1: would be a great dad. And I know even if

1835
01:31:47,880 --> 01:31:51,000
Speaker 1: things don't work out between us, he would still do

1836
01:31:51,160 --> 01:31:53,360
Speaker 1: what he needs to do and take care of our kid.

1837
01:31:53,439 --> 01:31:56,120
Speaker 1: And it wouldn't you know, weird energy, and we will

1838
01:31:56,160 --> 01:31:57,479
Speaker 1: be able to healthily call.

1839
01:31:57,439 --> 01:32:00,519
Speaker 2: Paring our child. Think I did not want people where

1840
01:32:00,560 --> 01:32:02,240
Speaker 2: you feel like you just have to beef with and

1841
01:32:02,280 --> 01:32:04,200
Speaker 2: be mad. And I know, and it wouldn't be no

1842
01:32:04,280 --> 01:32:06,200
Speaker 2: drama like That's would do what we need to do.

1843
01:32:06,280 --> 01:32:08,400
Speaker 2: That's take care of our child, and that's what matters.

1844
01:32:09,160 --> 01:32:12,040
Speaker 1: It's important to have a good father, I think, or

1845
01:32:12,040 --> 01:32:14,240
Speaker 1: somebody that displays that or shows you that, because I'm

1846
01:32:14,240 --> 01:32:15,280
Speaker 1: gonna be a dead be mom.

1847
01:32:15,720 --> 01:32:17,519
Speaker 2: Okay, so I'm gonna just I'm gonna just go back

1848
01:32:17,560 --> 01:32:19,840
Speaker 2: over here. I'm not even looking over there. I'm fucking

1849
01:32:19,920 --> 01:32:20,360
Speaker 2: done to you.

1850
01:32:20,560 --> 01:32:21,000
Speaker 1: Be done.

1851
01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:24,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm done. You don't have to say absolutely nothing

1852
01:32:24,439 --> 01:32:24,720
Speaker 2: to me.

1853
01:32:25,479 --> 01:32:40,720
Speaker 1: You know what, Cash, if you have a baby and

1854
01:32:40,760 --> 01:32:42,720
Speaker 1: it don't work out with her, man, she's leaving the

1855
01:32:42,760 --> 01:32:43,680
Speaker 1: baby whim she.

1856
01:32:43,760 --> 01:32:48,719
Speaker 2: Not child support? I will you agree baby? Every other weekend?

1857
01:32:49,240 --> 01:32:50,360
Speaker 3: Why would men do it.

1858
01:32:50,360 --> 01:32:53,280
Speaker 2: It's like always understandable. I will pay my child support

1859
01:32:54,080 --> 01:32:56,640
Speaker 2: on time. I might give you a little extra. You

1860
01:32:56,640 --> 01:33:01,519
Speaker 2: come give me some of that dick lay ye'll about

1861
01:33:01,560 --> 01:33:03,000
Speaker 2: to go.

1862
01:33:03,560 --> 01:33:10,200
Speaker 1: I don't just when she said your problem, she's crazy.

1863
01:33:10,320 --> 01:33:16,080
Speaker 1: Why would you say, get a little discount and then

1864
01:33:16,080 --> 01:33:16,760
Speaker 1: you're gonna egg it on.

1865
01:33:16,800 --> 01:33:19,320
Speaker 2: He's gonna get a this sound he crazy? She gonna

1866
01:33:19,320 --> 01:33:24,599
Speaker 2: get a No, you do a problem too. Whim always

1867
01:33:24,640 --> 01:33:27,400
Speaker 2: said in a comment like just be egging.

1868
01:33:31,000 --> 01:33:33,439
Speaker 1: I will pay my child support and I get my

1869
01:33:33,560 --> 01:33:34,679
Speaker 1: child every other weekend.

1870
01:33:34,680 --> 01:33:39,040
Speaker 2: What's the problem? Why are you your careal? I don't

1871
01:33:39,080 --> 01:33:42,439
Speaker 2: know wht she see this baby? Y'all listen, no way,

1872
01:33:42,520 --> 01:33:45,559
Speaker 2: you don't want Once you see that baby, all better off.

1873
01:33:45,640 --> 01:33:47,559
Speaker 2: I just feel like you like this baby coming. Can

1874
01:33:47,600 --> 01:33:51,599
Speaker 2: wish you give my mother a baby? No, I am

1875
01:33:51,640 --> 01:33:53,720
Speaker 2: just kidding. I feel like I carry a baby for

1876
01:33:53,800 --> 01:33:56,680
Speaker 2: nine months, you staying with me when you ain't going

1877
01:33:56,760 --> 01:33:59,519
Speaker 2: with him. See, I'm having this conversation with y'all and

1878
01:33:59,560 --> 01:34:01,799
Speaker 2: y'all don't have kids. That's the only reason that's conversation.

1879
01:34:02,360 --> 01:34:04,000
Speaker 2: Once y'all had them kids, and y'all gonna be in

1880
01:34:04,000 --> 01:34:05,719
Speaker 2: here like cash. You was telling the truth.

1881
01:34:06,360 --> 01:34:10,599
Speaker 1: I love this baby, you too, You're gonna be y'all

1882
01:34:10,640 --> 01:34:13,280
Speaker 1: gonna be here like you know what. I changed my mind,

1883
01:34:14,479 --> 01:34:16,800
Speaker 1: all right, and me and my man break up. I'm

1884
01:34:16,800 --> 01:34:17,600
Speaker 1: com knocking on your do.

1885
01:34:19,320 --> 01:34:22,639
Speaker 2: The damn baby, the baby you know where to stay

1886
01:34:22,680 --> 01:34:27,320
Speaker 2: because you was not about to let a man be everything. Okay,

1887
01:34:27,400 --> 01:34:30,280
Speaker 2: we talked about this, we did, didn't we talk about this?

1888
01:34:32,360 --> 01:34:36,639
Speaker 1: Okay, So now it's time to get into the bop

1889
01:34:36,800 --> 01:34:39,920
Speaker 1: a ow bow.

1890
01:34:42,120 --> 01:34:43,840
Speaker 2: So now we're gonna talk about the music that we've

1891
01:34:43,840 --> 01:34:46,960
Speaker 2: been jamming this week, what you've been listening to. I'm

1892
01:34:46,960 --> 01:34:54,200
Speaker 2: not gonna ye all the time we need y'all are

1893
01:34:54,600 --> 01:34:57,120
Speaker 2: like a lot alike, ya really are.

1894
01:34:57,240 --> 01:35:04,200
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna My song right now is Day's

1895
01:35:04,280 --> 01:35:09,320
Speaker 1: Low featuring Cash All. Okay, ladies, leave your man at home.

1896
01:35:09,479 --> 01:35:11,920
Speaker 2: I love it. Y'all need to listen to that. And

1897
01:35:13,360 --> 01:35:17,720
Speaker 2: the next song is Tink featuring Cash Doll. I love

1898
01:35:17,760 --> 01:35:22,759
Speaker 2: me some team comfortable because never get too comfortable. You can't,

1899
01:35:22,880 --> 01:35:26,840
Speaker 2: Okay now with a girl like me that, I ain't

1900
01:35:26,880 --> 01:35:28,479
Speaker 2: gonna say nothing, but I'm gonna let you have it.

1901
01:35:29,439 --> 01:35:33,000
Speaker 1: I'll leave the babies at home, not leave the man

1902
01:35:33,040 --> 01:35:33,280
Speaker 1: at home.

1903
01:35:33,320 --> 01:35:40,360
Speaker 2: Lead the babies at home. Yeah, it's how much longer

1904
01:35:40,400 --> 01:35:43,519
Speaker 2: I have? I want to get your opinion.

1905
01:35:43,960 --> 01:35:46,400
Speaker 1: How I always ask the rap girls when they come

1906
01:35:46,439 --> 01:35:50,000
Speaker 1: on this show, how do you feel about a female.

1907
01:35:49,600 --> 01:35:52,360
Speaker 2: Rap right now? And everything that's going on? We rush it? Yeah,

1908
01:35:52,439 --> 01:35:54,000
Speaker 2: this is what it is. I love where it's at.

1909
01:35:54,040 --> 01:35:55,920
Speaker 2: I'm glad to be a part of it. Okay, I'm

1910
01:35:55,920 --> 01:35:57,760
Speaker 2: happy to be here. Yes, I love it.

1911
01:35:58,400 --> 01:36:00,479
Speaker 1: I think the girls are taking over at the boys

1912
01:36:00,560 --> 01:36:03,360
Speaker 1: been mad about it, but cahall be coming out with

1913
01:36:03,400 --> 01:36:08,040
Speaker 1: them box style, you know, the women empower me anthems, cash,

1914
01:36:08,960 --> 01:36:12,240
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, giving.

1915
01:36:11,960 --> 01:36:14,920
Speaker 2: The girls games. Yeah, that's just where I'm met in life,

1916
01:36:14,960 --> 01:36:17,880
Speaker 2: you know. And that's where I'm at in life. That

1917
01:36:18,120 --> 01:36:20,040
Speaker 2: even where I'm how old I am, like that, just

1918
01:36:20,080 --> 01:36:22,360
Speaker 2: that's where I'm at. It's like my music gotta speak

1919
01:36:22,360 --> 01:36:24,120
Speaker 2: to me too. Yep, you know what I'm saying. I

1920
01:36:24,120 --> 01:36:26,519
Speaker 2: ain't just always outside. I want some ship that's gonna

1921
01:36:26,520 --> 01:36:29,040
Speaker 2: teach me, some ship or something to make me feel

1922
01:36:29,200 --> 01:36:31,479
Speaker 2: empowered and something to motivate me in the morning, something

1923
01:36:31,479 --> 01:36:33,760
Speaker 2: to keep get me, keep me going right. And you know,

1924
01:36:33,920 --> 01:36:36,280
Speaker 2: so that's just I make music for me and women

1925
01:36:36,400 --> 01:36:38,880
Speaker 2: like mem Hm. You know they don't like me, that's fine,

1926
01:36:38,880 --> 01:36:42,200
Speaker 2: and you just we just don't he asked you this.

1927
01:36:42,280 --> 01:36:44,400
Speaker 2: You know, you know I'm a little missy. Now get

1928
01:36:44,479 --> 01:36:47,280
Speaker 2: messy girl. Go ahead. So did you an Asian doll?

1929
01:36:47,560 --> 01:36:51,760
Speaker 1: Ever talk and work that whole situation out that was

1930
01:36:51,800 --> 01:36:54,880
Speaker 1: going on between, like about the song that y'all did

1931
01:36:54,920 --> 01:36:58,040
Speaker 1: the same song and she was upset and stuff first

1932
01:36:58,080 --> 01:36:58,880
Speaker 1: anything like that.

1933
01:36:59,160 --> 01:37:01,320
Speaker 2: No, we never even talked about it. I was just like,

1934
01:37:01,479 --> 01:37:04,759
Speaker 2: I was kind of disappointed because we we was cool. Yeah, okay,

1935
01:37:05,080 --> 01:37:06,800
Speaker 2: but then I seen her at the battiest thing. She

1936
01:37:06,880 --> 01:37:08,759
Speaker 2: wasn't on that, and I was like, all right, whatever,

1937
01:37:08,760 --> 01:37:10,600
Speaker 2: I'm just grown, y'all. I don't have it time for

1938
01:37:10,640 --> 01:37:12,639
Speaker 2: all that. I don't like that caddy stuff. I don't

1939
01:37:12,640 --> 01:37:14,400
Speaker 2: want to go back and forth on the internet. But

1940
01:37:14,439 --> 01:37:18,200
Speaker 2: I just feel like, men, you cool. We we really

1941
01:37:18,320 --> 01:37:20,759
Speaker 2: got cordial at one point, you know what I'm saying,

1942
01:37:20,760 --> 01:37:23,920
Speaker 2: even before all the other stuff. So it didn't happened

1943
01:37:23,920 --> 01:37:25,880
Speaker 2: on my son's birthday. I'm at my son party. I'm

1944
01:37:25,960 --> 01:37:28,240
Speaker 2: viral because you're saying I'm stealing your song. You know,

1945
01:37:28,280 --> 01:37:30,960
Speaker 2: I ain't eve no net Like, let's be if we

1946
01:37:31,120 --> 01:37:35,280
Speaker 2: gonna be any motherfucking thing. Let's pay for real, like

1947
01:37:35,680 --> 01:37:43,439
Speaker 2: for real, you know what I'm saying anything, And it's like,

1948
01:37:43,520 --> 01:37:45,439
Speaker 2: you know, but when I seen her at the Battiest Thing,

1949
01:37:45,479 --> 01:37:47,479
Speaker 2: it wasn't no smoke or nothing. It was like, you know,

1950
01:37:47,560 --> 01:37:49,960
Speaker 2: the vibes was there, So I don't know, she probably

1951
01:37:50,000 --> 01:37:52,120
Speaker 2: just was like I was probably tripping or it was

1952
01:37:52,160 --> 01:37:54,639
Speaker 2: just never nothing. Yeah, you know, so I just leave

1953
01:37:54,680 --> 01:37:57,320
Speaker 2: it where it's at. It's nothing. It's no beef. It's

1954
01:37:57,360 --> 01:38:01,240
Speaker 2: no it's no beef, it's no friendship, is no nothing.

1955
01:38:01,240 --> 01:38:04,240
Speaker 2: It's like we're just cool, y'all. Just we're just resisting.

1956
01:38:04,320 --> 01:38:06,080
Speaker 2: And when I see her, it ain't no disrespect because

1957
01:38:06,080 --> 01:38:09,320
Speaker 2: it ain't no disrespect, right right, But it's like, okay,

1958
01:38:09,439 --> 01:38:11,240
Speaker 2: that's fair. You know. I had to ask because I'd

1959
01:38:11,280 --> 01:38:14,120
Speaker 2: be real, I don't mind asking some stuff. If I

1960
01:38:14,120 --> 01:38:15,600
Speaker 2: want to clear it up, I clear it up. But

1961
01:38:15,640 --> 01:38:17,320
Speaker 2: if I don't, I be like I answer that.

1962
01:38:17,840 --> 01:38:21,240
Speaker 1: When I like, if I'm not the person y'all will

1963
01:38:21,320 --> 01:38:24,960
Speaker 1: never catch me like y'all, I'm not a person that

1964
01:38:25,000 --> 01:38:27,240
Speaker 1: be in the shade room comments of the neighborhood. Every

1965
01:38:27,280 --> 01:38:29,599
Speaker 1: now and then I might leave a joke, say something funny. Yeah,

1966
01:38:29,680 --> 01:38:31,479
Speaker 1: but I ain't gonna lie. I was a common warrior

1967
01:38:31,520 --> 01:38:31,880
Speaker 1: that day.

1968
01:38:32,920 --> 01:38:35,080
Speaker 2: I would what you say. I did. I'm not gonna

1969
01:38:35,120 --> 01:38:36,160
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna stay on the show.

1970
01:38:36,200 --> 01:38:39,000
Speaker 1: But I was just like, well, because I feel like

1971
01:38:39,080 --> 01:38:41,840
Speaker 1: one thing about you, you you don't bother.

1972
01:38:41,960 --> 01:38:44,880
Speaker 2: No, you don't bother nobody in your own world. You

1973
01:38:45,040 --> 01:38:49,559
Speaker 2: really do. Don't feel nobody like that. That's the part

1974
01:38:49,680 --> 01:38:51,439
Speaker 2: like I don't really gotta do that. I don't have

1975
01:38:51,520 --> 01:38:53,400
Speaker 2: to do that be for real.

1976
01:38:53,560 --> 01:38:56,000
Speaker 1: I like people who marches to be of their own drum.

1977
01:38:56,040 --> 01:38:58,640
Speaker 1: And I really feel like I talk about this all

1978
01:38:58,680 --> 01:39:00,519
Speaker 1: the time because I feel like we're in a age

1979
01:39:00,520 --> 01:39:03,360
Speaker 1: where people are super like materialistic or they want to

1980
01:39:03,360 --> 01:39:05,360
Speaker 1: be known for the wrong things. But you can tell

1981
01:39:05,360 --> 01:39:07,479
Speaker 1: when somebody is genuinely like it. Like you said, you've

1982
01:39:07,520 --> 01:39:10,880
Speaker 1: been working at your shoe store, Like you being like

1983
01:39:10,960 --> 01:39:12,920
Speaker 1: this and liking the nice things is because we can

1984
01:39:12,920 --> 01:39:15,000
Speaker 1: tell that's things that you really like.

1985
01:39:15,360 --> 01:39:18,120
Speaker 2: I'm to do it to make nobody all all type

1986
01:39:18,120 --> 01:39:20,760
Speaker 2: of way, or to show off or to stunt on nobody.

1987
01:39:20,960 --> 01:39:23,240
Speaker 2: I genuinely like these things, y'all. I go to the

1988
01:39:23,320 --> 01:39:26,920
Speaker 2: mall with my jogging suit on, with a with a

1989
01:39:26,960 --> 01:39:30,400
Speaker 2: scarf on, no makeup a hoodie on to buy these

1990
01:39:30,520 --> 01:39:34,200
Speaker 2: luxury things in a wig braids and my wig brads.

1991
01:39:34,240 --> 01:39:36,920
Speaker 2: I swear to God, my salespeople, if they're looking at this,

1992
01:39:36,920 --> 01:39:38,720
Speaker 2: they'll say, she's not lying. I come in there and

1993
01:39:38,760 --> 01:39:41,160
Speaker 2: I sit there, and I'll have on like the shoes

1994
01:39:41,200 --> 01:39:43,200
Speaker 2: I even have on that I put on before. These

1995
01:39:43,240 --> 01:39:45,800
Speaker 2: are like some shoes I bought on Amazon. And I

1996
01:39:45,800 --> 01:39:49,559
Speaker 2: will go in there and I buy these luxury things,

1997
01:39:49,640 --> 01:39:52,960
Speaker 2: these things that cost ten thousand, fifteen thousand. I just

1998
01:39:53,040 --> 01:39:55,880
Speaker 2: bought a person costs twenty five thousand. Oh and I

1999
01:39:56,040 --> 01:39:59,559
Speaker 2: get these things because it's what I like. It's not like, oh,

2000
01:39:59,600 --> 01:40:01,320
Speaker 2: I'm got to to get all the way done up

2001
01:40:01,320 --> 01:40:03,639
Speaker 2: so I can get content of me buying this really good,

2002
01:40:03,720 --> 01:40:05,439
Speaker 2: right man. I go on that ship and put in

2003
01:40:05,439 --> 01:40:07,920
Speaker 2: our cars and a wait for her to come unboxing. Yeah.

2004
01:40:08,080 --> 01:40:10,320
Speaker 2: I don't even unbox my own stuff. I don't even care.

2005
01:40:10,360 --> 01:40:12,519
Speaker 2: I just I know I got it. As long as

2006
01:40:12,520 --> 01:40:14,360
Speaker 2: I know I got it, i'd be like, all right, whatever, Okay,

2007
01:40:14,439 --> 01:40:16,200
Speaker 2: I got my piece I wanted. You know what I'm saying,

2008
01:40:16,240 --> 01:40:18,479
Speaker 2: it's genuinely what I like. I don't do it for them.

2009
01:40:18,760 --> 01:40:21,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just projecting you know people be projecting. I

2010
01:40:21,479 --> 01:40:23,879
Speaker 1: know people just wanted to have a problem with anything.

2011
01:40:24,280 --> 01:40:27,320
Speaker 1: When I seen on the internet people was being nasty

2012
01:40:27,360 --> 01:40:29,479
Speaker 1: towards you about your baby shower, and Louis was son

2013
01:40:31,080 --> 01:40:36,360
Speaker 1: and that, honestly is this like come on? And it

2014
01:40:36,400 --> 01:40:39,000
Speaker 1: wasn't ghetto because first of all, they wanted you to

2015
01:40:39,120 --> 01:40:41,760
Speaker 1: have the baby, asked me, because I was just in

2016
01:40:41,800 --> 01:40:44,800
Speaker 1: there behind shit casually look meaning so much money. But

2017
01:40:44,840 --> 01:40:48,360
Speaker 1: that's what they don't know because they don't.

2018
01:40:46,360 --> 01:40:51,719
Speaker 2: Know my profile paid for that. My sales associated said

2019
01:40:52,040 --> 01:40:54,400
Speaker 2: we should have you a baby shower here. And it

2020
01:40:54,479 --> 01:40:56,320
Speaker 2: was so crazy because I spent so much money on

2021
01:40:56,360 --> 01:41:00,640
Speaker 2: Cash's baby shower that I threw at the Detroit Pistons facility.

2022
01:40:59,560 --> 01:41:03,639
Speaker 2: I said next year, well, when I got pregnant with Clarity,

2023
01:41:03,640 --> 01:41:05,400
Speaker 2: I said, I'm not paying for no more baby shower.

2024
01:41:05,680 --> 01:41:08,160
Speaker 2: To the point where my best friend in Jasmine, my

2025
01:41:08,200 --> 01:41:11,919
Speaker 2: friend Jazzmin, they threw me a tea party for Clarity.

2026
01:41:13,160 --> 01:41:17,040
Speaker 2: Clarity grand her god grandparents. They threw me one at

2027
01:41:17,040 --> 01:41:19,680
Speaker 2: their house. They have this beautiful home. And then I

2028
01:41:19,760 --> 01:41:21,320
Speaker 2: was like, okay, well that's it. I'm not having one

2029
01:41:21,320 --> 01:41:23,240
Speaker 2: in Atlanta. And then I went to go buy her

2030
01:41:23,320 --> 01:41:26,679
Speaker 2: some blankets, little outfits. I'm just in there shopping normal.

2031
01:41:26,760 --> 01:41:29,040
Speaker 2: This is that's what I do, y'all. You know I'm

2032
01:41:29,040 --> 01:41:32,160
Speaker 2: not son, it's just your lie. This is my life.

2033
01:41:32,800 --> 01:41:35,320
Speaker 2: And I'm buying a blanket and all this. And they

2034
01:41:35,400 --> 01:41:38,160
Speaker 2: was like, you know what, we should throw you a

2035
01:41:38,240 --> 01:41:40,840
Speaker 2: baby shower. I said, Okay, where it's gonna be at.

2036
01:41:40,960 --> 01:41:42,600
Speaker 2: She's like over there in that little room that we

2037
01:41:42,680 --> 01:41:44,559
Speaker 2: have you change in and I was like, oh here

2038
01:41:44,560 --> 01:41:47,320
Speaker 2: at the store. I was like I like that. I

2039
01:41:47,320 --> 01:41:48,680
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, I do it. I was like, do

2040
01:41:48,720 --> 01:41:50,400
Speaker 2: it because I might have her any day because I

2041
01:41:50,439 --> 01:41:53,360
Speaker 2: was huge. And they put it together in a week

2042
01:41:54,040 --> 01:41:56,160
Speaker 2: and they just told me to come in and I

2043
01:41:56,200 --> 01:41:58,679
Speaker 2: invited all the people that I love and they came

2044
01:41:58,840 --> 01:42:03,800
Speaker 2: and it was a rate time and nothing about it

2045
01:42:03,840 --> 01:42:04,680
Speaker 2: was getting get out.

2046
01:42:05,439 --> 01:42:09,639
Speaker 1: The crazy part is next year five, all of a sudden,

2047
01:42:09,640 --> 01:42:12,599
Speaker 1: people gonna be having baby showers. Louis was on because

2048
01:42:12,600 --> 01:42:14,800
Speaker 1: the cashier at Rainbow asked me to have mine there

2049
01:42:14,800 --> 01:42:16,240
Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, this is my time.

2050
01:42:17,360 --> 01:42:21,559
Speaker 2: I'm done with you. You're done. You're absolutely and if

2051
01:42:21,600 --> 01:42:27,080
Speaker 2: you one more, if you say one more thing, you,

2052
01:42:26,640 --> 01:42:30,320
Speaker 2: if you say what, I'm getting up and I'm leaving.

2053
01:42:30,800 --> 01:42:35,120
Speaker 2: I don't believe in this house. No, no, no, did

2054
01:42:35,240 --> 01:42:39,120
Speaker 2: you hear I say I don't because people talking about

2055
01:42:39,200 --> 01:42:43,920
Speaker 2: my things targeting? I thought we was bobbing. No, no,

2056
01:42:44,160 --> 01:42:49,400
Speaker 2: you're done, you're absolutely fune diabol I'm just saying no,

2057
01:42:49,680 --> 01:42:54,479
Speaker 2: I'll be dropping the bag and because the no, because

2058
01:42:54,520 --> 01:42:56,639
Speaker 2: now people gonna be inside these stores, like do y'all

2059
01:42:56,680 --> 01:43:03,280
Speaker 2: throw baby showers? How much have I gonna think? She real? Oh? Okay, Dre,

2060
01:43:03,439 --> 01:43:05,479
Speaker 2: what's your pop of the week? Man? Okay? So I

2061
01:43:05,520 --> 01:43:08,720
Speaker 2: didn't listen to Glo reala album? Okay, Glorious?

2062
01:43:09,280 --> 01:43:13,200
Speaker 1: Okay, Glory it's so her favorite song on there. I

2063
01:43:13,320 --> 01:43:16,160
Speaker 1: like the rain down on Me song with her crankly.

2064
01:43:16,720 --> 01:43:19,840
Speaker 1: I love a good gospel re refusion.

2065
01:43:20,520 --> 01:43:22,720
Speaker 2: No, you don't like that. I told you I like

2066
01:43:22,840 --> 01:43:28,680
Speaker 2: my gospel straight I do. But you're not into.

2067
01:43:28,360 --> 01:43:35,320
Speaker 1: That relicious right, they have a whole genre over Christian.

2068
01:43:34,960 --> 01:43:37,800
Speaker 2: Rad I'm done with her. You wouldn't. You don't listen

2069
01:43:37,800 --> 01:43:41,880
Speaker 2: to Christian I don't I like you know how? I

2070
01:43:41,960 --> 01:43:46,200
Speaker 2: like my church. That's what I listened to in the car.

2071
01:43:46,400 --> 01:43:49,040
Speaker 2: Something you don't even listen to that? Why are you not?

2072
01:43:49,439 --> 01:43:58,120
Speaker 2: I like listens to that liked. Y'all done. Y'all don't

2073
01:43:58,200 --> 01:44:00,000
Speaker 2: think it's a problem with the Glow Reller song.

2074
01:44:00,240 --> 01:44:02,360
Speaker 1: I love that for her because obviously she's a pretty

2075
01:44:02,400 --> 01:44:05,080
Speaker 1: nice song she's a Christian woman. I'm just saying for me,

2076
01:44:06,000 --> 01:44:10,439
Speaker 1: I personally like mine separate because when that song go off,

2077
01:44:10,520 --> 01:44:11,920
Speaker 1: guess what song coming on after that?

2078
01:44:12,800 --> 01:44:15,720
Speaker 2: Pop your coachie in the club. I don't know, but

2079
01:44:15,800 --> 01:44:22,599
Speaker 2: you know who you made. I told you had one

2080
01:44:22,600 --> 01:44:26,400
Speaker 2: more time. I need my album separating time. I did

2081
01:44:26,479 --> 01:44:31,840
Speaker 2: because I can't help it. It's toxic to the cash. Come.

2082
01:44:33,520 --> 01:44:34,719
Speaker 2: I just like it separated.

2083
01:44:34,720 --> 01:44:37,360
Speaker 1: But you're right though, because I also like procedure with

2084
01:44:37,479 --> 01:44:40,880
Speaker 1: a lot of exactly okay, and I'm balanced.

2085
01:44:41,000 --> 01:44:41,320
Speaker 2: Balance.

2086
01:44:41,400 --> 01:44:44,560
Speaker 1: It's a balance. It's love Glow realer. Let me just

2087
01:44:44,600 --> 01:44:46,439
Speaker 1: say that. First of all, I think the album is amazing.

2088
01:44:46,439 --> 01:44:48,160
Speaker 1: I'm glad she took her time because I feel like

2089
01:44:48,200 --> 01:44:50,120
Speaker 1: it was a point in time where they were rushing

2090
01:44:50,280 --> 01:44:53,920
Speaker 1: artists that had a good single to drop an album,

2091
01:44:54,040 --> 01:44:56,880
Speaker 1: and these girls were dropping these albums and guys too.

2092
01:44:58,080 --> 01:45:00,280
Speaker 1: I'd be seeing a lot of artists drop out and

2093
01:45:00,280 --> 01:45:02,880
Speaker 1: they're not they're not selling us. Also, we're in a

2094
01:45:03,040 --> 01:45:07,320
Speaker 1: streaming era as well, so glow drops her album and

2095
01:45:07,439 --> 01:45:10,759
Speaker 1: she's projected to have like the second highest selling album

2096
01:45:10,760 --> 01:45:12,400
Speaker 1: of the year, like her and Meg her Neck and Neck.

2097
01:45:12,600 --> 01:45:14,559
Speaker 1: So that means that she's gonna be right under Nikki

2098
01:45:14,560 --> 01:45:16,800
Speaker 1: with the top selling album this year. That's a big

2099
01:45:16,840 --> 01:45:19,240
Speaker 1: deal because they had kind of go out. Yeah, So

2100
01:45:19,439 --> 01:45:21,599
Speaker 1: I think the fact that she took her time with

2101
01:45:21,680 --> 01:45:24,439
Speaker 1: this album and you can tell it was really a

2102
01:45:24,520 --> 01:45:25,519
Speaker 1: labor of love.

2103
01:45:25,360 --> 01:45:27,439
Speaker 2: And that's what I can appreciate from an artist. Yeah,

2104
01:45:27,760 --> 01:45:30,360
Speaker 2: I am. I mean the album itself, like this solid

2105
01:45:30,360 --> 01:45:33,080
Speaker 2: album is good. I like, I have heard a couple

2106
01:45:33,120 --> 01:45:34,680
Speaker 2: of songs, but I haven't had the chance to just

2107
01:45:34,760 --> 01:45:36,559
Speaker 2: ride to the whole thing just yet.

2108
01:45:36,560 --> 01:45:39,280
Speaker 1: But I am yeah, am I love go. Yeah, I'm

2109
01:45:39,320 --> 01:45:41,240
Speaker 1: happy to see her. I like even though she.

2110
01:45:41,120 --> 01:45:44,040
Speaker 2: Always want to argue, I'd be like, oh, I didn't

2111
01:45:44,040 --> 01:45:45,720
Speaker 2: do nothing to you, what are you talking about this?

2112
01:45:46,840 --> 01:45:49,920
Speaker 2: She all down here, no cast like when we all

2113
01:45:49,960 --> 01:45:53,559
Speaker 2: you don't want to drink with me? And I'm looking

2114
01:45:53,600 --> 01:45:55,519
Speaker 2: down at her, like, girl, why you would to argue

2115
01:45:55,520 --> 01:45:55,760
Speaker 2: with me?

2116
01:45:56,360 --> 01:46:01,840
Speaker 1: But yeah, And I saw her in concert over the

2117
01:46:01,840 --> 01:46:03,920
Speaker 1: summer when she was opening up for Meg, and she

2118
01:46:04,120 --> 01:46:04,559
Speaker 1: ate down.

2119
01:46:04,880 --> 01:46:09,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. I love that. Yet I haven't seen her in

2120
01:46:09,840 --> 01:46:11,040
Speaker 2: concert yet she's good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I haven't seen her in concert, but we saw

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Speaker 1: her perform at the Awards and she was really good.

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01:46:16,080 --> 01:46:18,200
Speaker 1: I think that stage presence is what a lot of

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01:46:18,200 --> 01:46:20,080
Speaker 1: people are missing. And I'm not saying you gotta do

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01:46:20,120 --> 01:46:22,000
Speaker 1: a full eight counting this and x y Z. I

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01:46:22,040 --> 01:46:25,639
Speaker 1: just think it's how you yes, and she can really

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01:46:25,720 --> 01:46:29,240
Speaker 1: rock a cry Meghan stage, I don't know fire what.

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01:46:29,400 --> 01:46:33,200
Speaker 2: Like an eight count? You like? You're from Houston and

2129
01:46:33,479 --> 01:46:36,479
Speaker 2: Beyonce is the eight count queen. She is.

2130
01:46:36,920 --> 01:46:40,320
Speaker 1: Megan is a dancer too, mean gonna do an eight count?

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01:46:40,360 --> 01:46:42,800
Speaker 2: Bro? Oh? Yeah? I like, but I like a little

2132
01:46:42,800 --> 01:46:46,080
Speaker 2: bit of both. But I told y'all me, yes, she

2133
01:46:46,160 --> 01:46:49,320
Speaker 2: doesn't dance with her cousin was dancing.

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01:46:50,000 --> 01:46:51,960
Speaker 1: She's one of them dances like y'all remember how mc

2135
01:46:52,080 --> 01:46:54,400
Speaker 1: henry his dancers used to say they would pass out

2136
01:46:54,680 --> 01:46:55,479
Speaker 1: because they was dancing.

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01:46:55,960 --> 01:46:58,880
Speaker 2: That's what it gives me, like dancing for meg Ambionce

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01:46:59,040 --> 01:47:02,880
Speaker 2: and Beyonce playing baby. But I told you you mean.

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01:47:04,439 --> 01:47:07,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I do feel like glow like she does

2140
01:47:07,960 --> 01:47:09,559
Speaker 1: a little a count and it's cute, but she's she

2141
01:47:09,640 --> 01:47:13,559
Speaker 1: works the crowd well, So okay, shout out to glow. Yeah, okay,

2142
01:47:13,640 --> 01:47:15,240
Speaker 1: y'all know, y'all know how to mix it up from

2143
01:47:15,240 --> 01:47:17,160
Speaker 1: my bop of the week. Y'all know, I love me

2144
01:47:17,320 --> 01:47:22,400
Speaker 1: some Tanner Adele. She is a black country music artist

2145
01:47:22,479 --> 01:47:24,760
Speaker 1: right now that's killing it. And she dropped a new

2146
01:47:24,800 --> 01:47:27,439
Speaker 1: song called Silverado, and I just love the fact that

2147
01:47:27,479 --> 01:47:29,519
Speaker 1: her voice is so country but you can still hear

2148
01:47:29,560 --> 01:47:33,160
Speaker 1: that soul. I love a country artist where like, you know,

2149
01:47:33,360 --> 01:47:35,880
Speaker 1: you can hear it when it's a black woman singing okay.

2150
01:47:35,920 --> 01:47:37,800
Speaker 1: So it's like you can tell, like, and she has

2151
01:47:37,840 --> 01:47:39,880
Speaker 1: a distinctive voice. I love when I hear a voice

2152
01:47:39,920 --> 01:47:41,960
Speaker 1: on the radio, like when you hear Beyonce, you know

2153
01:47:42,040 --> 01:47:42,599
Speaker 1: it's her.

2154
01:47:42,720 --> 01:47:44,120
Speaker 2: When you hear Adele, you know it's her.

2155
01:47:44,160 --> 01:47:46,479
Speaker 1: I feel like Tanner Adele has that voice where it's like, okay,

2156
01:47:46,520 --> 01:47:48,080
Speaker 1: this is Tanner Adale singing okay.

2157
01:47:48,120 --> 01:47:50,120
Speaker 2: So I'm also sense of both of them. Yeah, yeah,

2158
01:47:52,000 --> 01:47:52,360
Speaker 2: is good.

2159
01:47:52,479 --> 01:47:56,120
Speaker 1: She's fired, She's fired. So yeah, shout out to Tannerdale Silverado.

2160
01:47:56,360 --> 01:47:57,799
Speaker 1: That's my BAP of the week.

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01:47:58,240 --> 01:48:01,120
Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? Iss your girl? Xp andy Sgirls ran

2162
01:48:01,200 --> 01:48:01,800
Speaker 2: a call and.

2163
01:48:01,800 --> 01:48:04,760
Speaker 1: Y'all do not forget to call our shot line. I

2164
01:48:04,800 --> 01:48:06,400
Speaker 1: know you heard of a hotline, but this is the

2165
01:48:06,439 --> 01:48:08,200
Speaker 1: poor mind's shot line.

2166
01:48:08,360 --> 01:48:09,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, we love to hear from y'all.

2167
01:48:09,840 --> 01:48:12,120
Speaker 1: Y'all need to call in y'all, And this is not

2168
01:48:12,240 --> 01:48:13,519
Speaker 1: necessarily for questions.

2169
01:48:13,560 --> 01:48:14,639
Speaker 2: You know, we just want to hear from.

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01:48:14,600 --> 01:48:16,639
Speaker 1: Y'all if we want to know y'all, feedback, y'all, thoughts

2171
01:48:16,720 --> 01:48:18,960
Speaker 1: on the show, or just what's going on in your life.

2172
01:48:19,000 --> 01:48:21,760
Speaker 1: So you can always call six seven eight eight two

2173
01:48:21,880 --> 01:48:23,800
Speaker 1: seven one eight two seed.

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01:48:24,120 --> 01:48:26,400
Speaker 2: Yes, and y'all know, keep it short and cute.

2175
01:48:26,439 --> 01:48:29,040
Speaker 1: Don't be calling and letting us know about your baby daddy,

2176
01:48:29,040 --> 01:48:30,400
Speaker 1: says a brother, cousin, boyfriend.

2177
01:48:30,439 --> 01:48:31,920
Speaker 2: Okay, well I want to hear about that.

2178
01:48:32,160 --> 01:48:34,000
Speaker 1: Actually, well you know they can let a little some

2179
01:48:34,120 --> 01:48:36,320
Speaker 1: but you know, we want to keep it cute and short.

2180
01:48:36,360 --> 01:48:38,760
Speaker 1: Like she said, this is not questions, This is not

2181
01:48:38,840 --> 01:48:40,960
Speaker 1: pour your heart out. So just call give us a

2182
01:48:40,960 --> 01:48:43,080
Speaker 1: little feedback, what you want to see on the show,

2183
01:48:43,360 --> 01:48:45,479
Speaker 1: any suggestions, what you think about the show, if you

2184
01:48:45,520 --> 01:48:47,720
Speaker 1: just want to simply give us our flowers, you know,

2185
01:48:47,880 --> 01:48:50,200
Speaker 1: or any It could be anything. What's bothering you this week,

2186
01:48:50,240 --> 01:48:52,000
Speaker 1: what got on your nerves this week? If you just

2187
01:48:52,000 --> 01:48:53,960
Speaker 1: want to vent and get some things off your chest,

2188
01:48:54,600 --> 01:48:57,320
Speaker 1: pull the shot line again. The number is six seven

2189
01:48:57,439 --> 01:49:02,800
Speaker 1: eight eight two seven one eighth too sick. Yes, So

2190
01:49:02,920 --> 01:49:05,320
Speaker 1: now it's time to get into our favorite segment of

2191
01:49:05,360 --> 01:49:08,320
Speaker 1: the show. You know, if you have any questions, any testimonials,

2192
01:49:08,320 --> 01:49:10,800
Speaker 1: you can always send them to ask Poor Minds at

2193
01:49:10,840 --> 01:49:13,400
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. That's a s k p Oh you

2194
01:49:13,520 --> 01:49:17,000
Speaker 1: are in my n d s at gmail dot com. Sen,

2195
01:49:17,080 --> 01:49:20,720
Speaker 1: that's your questions. Send us your testimonials, because you know,

2196
01:49:20,960 --> 01:49:24,320
Speaker 1: sometimes we be fucking shut up to buck y'all, life

2197
01:49:24,400 --> 01:49:24,960
Speaker 1: up a little bit.

2198
01:49:25,479 --> 01:49:28,360
Speaker 2: You give good I think you do. I don't know.

2199
01:49:28,840 --> 01:49:30,360
Speaker 2: I like you. I take some good.

2200
01:49:30,240 --> 01:49:32,280
Speaker 1: Advice today I know now, like I'm not giving my

2201
01:49:32,360 --> 01:49:33,519
Speaker 1: child up twice a month.

2202
01:49:33,880 --> 01:49:37,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's the what's the advice? Okay, what's the question?

2203
01:49:37,320 --> 01:49:46,080
Speaker 2: Number one? I'm done with her. I'm done. It's around,

2204
01:49:46,360 --> 01:49:51,240
Speaker 2: it's over, it's around. You know what. I ain't gonna lie.

2205
01:49:51,280 --> 01:49:56,160
Speaker 2: You're right, I'm done. Pushed it myself. You took it there,

2206
01:49:56,160 --> 01:49:56,960
Speaker 2: all right? Yep?

2207
01:49:57,320 --> 01:50:02,439
Speaker 1: Okay, hey, early to start off, I love the show.

2208
01:50:02,520 --> 01:50:04,400
Speaker 1: I started watching you guys at the time when I

2209
01:50:04,439 --> 01:50:06,639
Speaker 1: was at my lowest, and I've been tuned in since.

2210
01:50:06,920 --> 01:50:09,360
Speaker 1: I'm in a situation where i've met this dude back

2211
01:50:09,360 --> 01:50:12,320
Speaker 1: in March around spring break in Miami. Turns out we

2212
01:50:12,360 --> 01:50:14,400
Speaker 1: are from the same state, just two hours away from

2213
01:50:14,439 --> 01:50:17,519
Speaker 1: each other. After Miami, we kept in contact and met

2214
01:50:17,640 --> 01:50:20,559
Speaker 1: up on several occasions. After the third link up, we

2215
01:50:20,600 --> 01:50:24,120
Speaker 1: became real acquainted. If you know, you know, and it

2216
01:50:24,240 --> 01:50:27,280
Speaker 1: was going good. So I thought, if you know, you

2217
01:50:27,360 --> 01:50:28,360
Speaker 1: know what.

2218
01:50:29,120 --> 01:50:33,800
Speaker 2: I don't know? I don't know.

2219
01:50:35,640 --> 01:50:37,719
Speaker 1: She said, And it was going good, so I thought.

2220
01:50:38,200 --> 01:50:40,439
Speaker 1: On the fourth time I came over to his house,

2221
01:50:40,479 --> 01:50:43,559
Speaker 1: I found some lashes in the bathroom. I brought this

2222
01:50:43,640 --> 01:50:46,439
Speaker 1: to his attention, but he claims it's old. I'm usually

2223
01:50:46,439 --> 01:50:49,640
Speaker 1: the type to keep it hard on a go on.

2224
01:50:50,600 --> 01:50:53,479
Speaker 2: Hard on a go thank god, hard on the whole.

2225
01:50:54,080 --> 01:50:56,200
Speaker 2: She probably did, or maybe that's what they stayed. Where

2226
01:50:56,240 --> 01:51:01,320
Speaker 2: she from? Okay, where's she from?

2227
01:51:01,320 --> 01:51:05,080
Speaker 1: Hard on the gost But I was really like him,

2228
01:51:05,320 --> 01:51:06,960
Speaker 1: so I just ignored it.

2229
01:51:07,360 --> 01:51:09,559
Speaker 2: The next week after that, we went to his.

2230
01:51:09,640 --> 01:51:11,800
Speaker 1: Crib and I walked up to his dog showing up

2231
01:51:11,800 --> 01:51:16,240
Speaker 1: a pretty little thing tag not mine, obviously, Hey, what's wrong.

2232
01:51:16,040 --> 01:51:17,080
Speaker 2: With pretty little things?

2233
01:51:17,160 --> 01:51:20,479
Speaker 1: It wasn't hers, so it was another girl that was Yeah.

2234
01:51:20,479 --> 01:51:23,040
Speaker 1: I don't think she was saying, Okay, have a baby,

2235
01:51:23,040 --> 01:51:36,120
Speaker 1: showered her too. You don't say nothing no more, and.

2236
01:51:36,120 --> 01:51:37,799
Speaker 2: That was my last link whim.

2237
01:51:38,280 --> 01:51:41,120
Speaker 1: Months later, I still think about him because we was

2238
01:51:41,160 --> 01:51:44,200
Speaker 1: really hitting it off until that happened. I haven't found

2239
01:51:44,200 --> 01:51:47,080
Speaker 1: a vibe since then. I know I should stand on business,

2240
01:51:47,080 --> 01:51:50,320
Speaker 1: but weirdly he comes across my mind too often. Mind you,

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01:51:50,680 --> 01:51:53,120
Speaker 1: I don't really do the situationships. I'm more of a

2242
01:51:53,160 --> 01:51:58,200
Speaker 1: long term relationship girally. I actually told talk to you

2243
01:51:58,240 --> 01:52:00,559
Speaker 1: about this yesterday. We were on the phone and I

2244
01:52:00,680 --> 01:52:02,800
Speaker 1: was like, one thing that I learned is stop trying

2245
01:52:02,840 --> 01:52:04,439
Speaker 1: to be the cool girl and not telling a man

2246
01:52:04,479 --> 01:52:06,160
Speaker 1: what you want because you want to be like, Oh,

2247
01:52:06,160 --> 01:52:07,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to say I want a relationship, but yeah,

2248
01:52:08,000 --> 01:52:10,240
Speaker 1: I think that you should tell your intentions. I'm not

2249
01:52:10,360 --> 01:52:13,960
Speaker 1: dating for a situationship. I'm not dating for friends with benefits.

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01:52:14,000 --> 01:52:16,240
Speaker 1: I am a woman who is looking for a relationship.

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01:52:16,400 --> 01:52:19,840
Speaker 1: I usually do more serious, committed things. So you could

2252
01:52:19,840 --> 01:52:23,879
Speaker 1: have saved yourself the heartbreak by having that conversation before.

2253
01:52:23,720 --> 01:52:25,280
Speaker 2: Y'all got jiggy witty.

2254
01:52:25,720 --> 01:52:27,360
Speaker 1: So I think a lot of times we waste our

2255
01:52:27,400 --> 01:52:29,519
Speaker 1: time by trying to be like chill when you know

2256
01:52:29,600 --> 01:52:32,160
Speaker 1: you don't want to just chill and hang out, because

2257
01:52:32,240 --> 01:52:33,960
Speaker 1: that could have been clarified. He could have told you, hey,

2258
01:52:34,000 --> 01:52:36,400
Speaker 1: I'm not looking to settle down. I got other people

2259
01:52:36,439 --> 01:52:38,320
Speaker 1: i'm dating and I'm just trying to figure it out

2260
01:52:38,400 --> 01:52:40,559
Speaker 1: right now, you wouldn't have got your feelings hurt. So

2261
01:52:40,680 --> 01:52:44,360
Speaker 1: I think to prevent that, have conversations at the beginning.

2262
01:52:44,400 --> 01:52:46,680
Speaker 1: But you are obviously already gotten past that point. So

2263
01:52:46,760 --> 01:52:50,080
Speaker 1: I think it's okay sometimes to get clarity. I think

2264
01:52:50,080 --> 01:52:51,680
Speaker 1: a lot of times people have pride. If you want

2265
01:52:51,680 --> 01:52:53,519
Speaker 1: to communicate with him and say, hey, you know what

2266
01:52:53,600 --> 01:52:54,879
Speaker 1: I've been thinking about you, I'd.

2267
01:52:54,720 --> 01:52:55,720
Speaker 2: Like to have a conversation.

2268
01:52:56,600 --> 01:52:59,080
Speaker 1: And if he dismisses that, you know what it is,

2269
01:52:59,120 --> 01:53:01,160
Speaker 1: so you can really properly move on. But if he's

2270
01:53:01,200 --> 01:53:04,600
Speaker 1: open to have a conversation, have the conversation. I'm just

2271
01:53:04,640 --> 01:53:06,720
Speaker 1: not a powerful person anymore when it comes to oh

2272
01:53:06,760 --> 01:53:07,679
Speaker 1: I take him last.

2273
01:53:07,680 --> 01:53:08,000
Speaker 2: I called.

2274
01:53:08,080 --> 01:53:09,880
Speaker 1: If I want to talk about something and get something

2275
01:53:09,920 --> 01:53:11,720
Speaker 1: off my chest, that's what I'm gonna do.

2276
01:53:11,920 --> 01:53:12,720
Speaker 2: I'm mature about it.

2277
01:53:12,760 --> 01:53:14,439
Speaker 1: If you want to feel some type of way, whatever,

2278
01:53:14,680 --> 01:53:15,760
Speaker 1: you're not the person for me.

2279
01:53:16,720 --> 01:53:21,120
Speaker 2: So that's how I feel about it. Yeah, I don't know,

2280
01:53:21,160 --> 01:53:23,479
Speaker 2: that's right. I see I was being good. Girl was

2281
01:53:24,160 --> 01:53:26,960
Speaker 2: coming something.

2282
01:53:27,040 --> 01:53:29,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, all right.

2283
01:53:29,240 --> 01:53:32,160
Speaker 1: Okay, hello Drea and Lex. I adore you guys, and

2284
01:53:32,200 --> 01:53:34,640
Speaker 1: your podcast is my go to source of comfort. But

2285
01:53:34,680 --> 01:53:36,599
Speaker 1: I've been dating this guy for six months, and I've

2286
01:53:36,680 --> 01:53:39,200
Speaker 1: lately told him that he's not romantic enough and that

2287
01:53:39,280 --> 01:53:41,760
Speaker 1: he doesn't do enough. I've also told him that he

2288
01:53:41,800 --> 01:53:44,400
Speaker 1: doesn't express his feelings to me, which makes me feel

2289
01:53:44,439 --> 01:53:46,759
Speaker 1: like he can't trust me or talk to me about anything.

2290
01:53:47,160 --> 01:53:49,040
Speaker 1: I open up and I am eager to do more

2291
01:53:49,160 --> 01:53:52,200
Speaker 1: romantic things, but only if he puts in the same effort.

2292
01:53:52,439 --> 01:53:55,200
Speaker 1: We recently broke up and he advised me to find

2293
01:53:55,320 --> 01:53:58,519
Speaker 1: someone better who could provide me more than he does.

2294
01:53:58,880 --> 01:54:01,519
Speaker 1: But I don't want anyone else, just him. But a

2295
01:54:01,560 --> 01:54:03,439
Speaker 1: part of me wanting to give him another chance, and

2296
01:54:03,479 --> 01:54:04,719
Speaker 1: a part of me doesn't.

2297
01:54:05,000 --> 01:54:07,360
Speaker 2: What should I do? I'm twenty, by the way, Oh

2298
01:54:07,479 --> 01:54:10,000
Speaker 2: drop that nigga's like a mixtape. Yeah.

2299
01:54:10,160 --> 01:54:12,800
Speaker 1: If a man tells you go find somebody else, listen

2300
01:54:12,840 --> 01:54:13,080
Speaker 1: to him.

2301
01:54:13,479 --> 01:54:16,080
Speaker 2: He's telling you because he told kill him nothing else

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01:54:16,120 --> 01:54:19,519
Speaker 2: to provide. You're twenty. If that man don't want to

2303
01:54:19,600 --> 01:54:23,639
Speaker 2: change change the man, hey, come on that word change?

2304
01:54:24,400 --> 01:54:29,800
Speaker 2: I did you change them? I agree. I feel like

2305
01:54:29,840 --> 01:54:33,560
Speaker 2: if the word he's a problem a big one.

2306
01:54:34,520 --> 01:54:37,920
Speaker 1: I feel like when you ask a man something or

2307
01:54:37,960 --> 01:54:38,480
Speaker 1: a thing.

2308
01:54:38,600 --> 01:54:40,920
Speaker 2: A band, usually if he really fucks with you, he

2309
01:54:41,040 --> 01:54:44,320
Speaker 2: gonna lie. Right. Maybe I'm troll, baby, I love your baby.

2310
01:54:44,160 --> 01:54:45,920
Speaker 1: But if a man straight up tell you nah, I

2311
01:54:45,920 --> 01:54:49,400
Speaker 1: ain't finna do that shit, go you can move on. Please,

2312
01:54:50,200 --> 01:54:52,880
Speaker 1: you're not like you and I know be hard for

2313
01:54:52,960 --> 01:54:57,080
Speaker 1: you to hear in harsh words. I guarantee you, six

2314
01:54:57,120 --> 01:54:59,120
Speaker 1: months from now you're not even gonna be thinking about him.

2315
01:54:59,120 --> 01:55:02,840
Speaker 2: You're twenty years old. That's first of all. That's yeah.

2316
01:55:02,960 --> 01:55:05,800
Speaker 2: First one foremo, if you don't even stop writing us

2317
01:55:05,800 --> 01:55:07,520
Speaker 2: about that, you got other stuff to be working talking

2318
01:55:07,560 --> 01:55:12,280
Speaker 2: about boy about something that, don't write us about nothing

2319
01:55:12,320 --> 01:55:14,960
Speaker 2: about No man, I don't want to hear nothing at Rainbow.

2320
01:55:15,840 --> 01:55:19,400
Speaker 2: Did you what that was it? I had a great time.

2321
01:55:20,040 --> 01:55:22,920
Speaker 2: I had a great time. No ever, we're gonna do it.

2322
01:55:22,960 --> 01:55:24,600
Speaker 2: And you took it there. Okay, you're right, but you

2323
01:55:24,640 --> 01:55:26,520
Speaker 2: wheeled me back in when you gave that great advice

2324
01:55:26,920 --> 01:55:28,800
Speaker 2: and not here you go. I tricked you? What did

2325
01:55:28,800 --> 01:55:29,320
Speaker 2: you trick me?

2326
01:55:29,600 --> 01:55:31,840
Speaker 1: What did she say about she was only twenty? That

2327
01:55:31,920 --> 01:55:33,560
Speaker 1: was probably my cashier at Rainbow.

2328
01:55:35,520 --> 01:55:39,240
Speaker 2: You see, you have to say that you you did

2329
01:55:39,280 --> 01:55:42,280
Speaker 2: that on your own, cash doll, Where can we find you?

2330
01:55:43,600 --> 01:55:47,880
Speaker 2: She said, she probably I'm gonna I'm leaving after this

2331
01:55:49,280 --> 01:55:58,120
Speaker 2: because she followed me. Where can they find you? You know,

2332
01:55:58,240 --> 01:56:11,480
Speaker 2: I'm sorry that you are. We little all gone, Okay,

2333
01:56:11,520 --> 01:56:13,880
Speaker 2: we expect from cash dog. Where we gonna find you?

2334
01:56:13,960 --> 01:56:17,240
Speaker 2: At all that good stuff? Can I say? I was

2335
01:56:17,240 --> 01:56:20,720
Speaker 2: so sad when they killed you off being y'all know

2336
01:56:20,760 --> 01:56:25,080
Speaker 2: the lady I played really died. I know how she No,

2337
01:56:25,160 --> 01:56:28,080
Speaker 2: that's not how she passed. Okay, but she really passed.

2338
01:56:28,160 --> 01:56:33,000
Speaker 1: That is crazy? Like job, next time you do a

2339
01:56:33,080 --> 01:56:34,280
Speaker 1: Detroit movie telling me, you know.

2340
01:56:34,280 --> 01:56:36,560
Speaker 2: I don't want to hear nothing. You have to say that.

2341
01:56:37,040 --> 01:56:38,800
Speaker 2: I don't even want you to take out for real.

2342
01:56:39,560 --> 01:56:44,200
Speaker 2: You need to get hired. You know everybody producing. We're

2343
01:56:44,240 --> 01:56:46,280
Speaker 2: best friends. We gotta travel cross country so I can

2344
01:56:46,320 --> 01:56:47,200
Speaker 2: pick up my kids.

2345
01:56:47,440 --> 01:56:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, left Detroit be having all the good to be

2346
01:56:52,200 --> 01:56:53,040
Speaker 1: movies though.

2347
01:56:56,080 --> 01:56:58,360
Speaker 2: Job, and we're gonna pick right up on the way

2348
01:56:59,440 --> 01:57:06,520
Speaker 2: girls Detroit version. I got my accent downpacked. What up? Though?

2349
01:57:07,360 --> 01:57:12,000
Speaker 2: That is not what she said her ascent because she

2350
01:57:12,080 --> 01:57:17,760
Speaker 2: said what up, doll? I mean my lingo, what okay?

2351
01:57:18,160 --> 01:57:19,800
Speaker 2: What up? All right? What up? Though? Then be like

2352
01:57:20,040 --> 01:57:22,960
Speaker 2: you got dog ship? One? You got dogs? Could I'll

2353
01:57:22,960 --> 01:57:27,200
Speaker 2: be saying dogs is dog ship? Dogs? Dogs ship? Yeah?

2354
01:57:27,240 --> 01:57:30,440
Speaker 2: I mean I feel sound like I'm country. And then

2355
01:57:30,440 --> 01:57:32,120
Speaker 2: when they say you got that dog ship, that means

2356
01:57:32,120 --> 01:57:36,960
Speaker 2: you got that. Yeah, you know, I might have.

2357
01:57:37,000 --> 01:57:42,520
Speaker 1: Like a a cat farttting on like that cat litter

2358
01:57:43,200 --> 01:57:44,280
Speaker 1: like a little cat poot.

2359
01:57:44,640 --> 01:57:48,560
Speaker 2: Okay, y'all can follow me at cash all k A

2360
01:57:48,960 --> 01:57:52,680
Speaker 2: S H D O L L album coming over in

2361
01:57:52,800 --> 01:57:56,520
Speaker 2: the fifteen. Don't get that. I got a single out

2362
01:57:56,600 --> 01:57:59,200
Speaker 2: right now with Tink. It's called Coffee. And don't ever

2363
01:57:59,480 --> 01:58:04,920
Speaker 2: ever get to comfortable. Lex is fucking crazy and the

2364
01:58:05,000 --> 01:58:08,120
Speaker 2: video with her, you don't ever have to worry about

2365
01:58:08,120 --> 01:58:12,160
Speaker 2: me again. Couples of that video, Shoot, you're not you

2366
01:58:16,760 --> 01:58:19,080
Speaker 2: and you asked she asked the ship on, y'all, I'm not.

2367
01:58:19,240 --> 01:58:20,200
Speaker 2: You're not getting the past.

2368
01:58:20,360 --> 01:58:23,600
Speaker 1: You add this ship on and be sitting here laughing like,

2369
01:58:23,640 --> 01:58:24,480
Speaker 1: what's she crazy?

2370
01:58:24,560 --> 01:58:30,800
Speaker 2: No, but this was an amazing episode. I had a

2371
01:58:30,800 --> 01:58:31,920
Speaker 2: good time. But I got all.

2372
01:58:33,120 --> 01:58:36,080
Speaker 1: I've been waiting on you and we had so much

2373
01:58:36,080 --> 01:58:36,600
Speaker 1: fun today.

2374
01:58:36,960 --> 01:58:39,360
Speaker 2: Time I let you all in my business A little bit.

2375
01:58:39,960 --> 01:58:42,400
Speaker 2: What I'm saying, I told my b a little bit,

2376
01:58:42,520 --> 01:58:44,240
Speaker 2: you know, a little bit. Ain't nothing wrong with that.

2377
01:58:44,440 --> 01:58:47,720
Speaker 2: You know, I'm humans, you know, Yeah, we like to

2378
01:58:47,760 --> 01:58:51,000
Speaker 2: see the human side, we do. I've been trying lately.

2379
01:58:51,040 --> 01:58:53,840
Speaker 2: I've been doing vlogs and I've been you know, expressing

2380
01:58:53,880 --> 01:58:56,280
Speaker 2: myself a little more and just like I'm not going

2381
01:58:56,320 --> 01:58:59,720
Speaker 2: to that ship. Yeah, and you know what, it's helping me,

2382
01:58:59,800 --> 01:59:02,520
Speaker 2: so you know, we love it. It's relatable to so

2383
01:59:02,600 --> 01:59:05,520
Speaker 2: many women though, especially now too that you're a mom,

2384
01:59:05,720 --> 01:59:07,400
Speaker 2: you know, Like I know, women love to see that

2385
01:59:07,480 --> 01:59:10,960
Speaker 2: because you're so multifaceted, like you do so many different things.

2386
01:59:10,960 --> 01:59:14,040
Speaker 1: You're a business woman, you're a boss, and you a mother,

2387
01:59:14,320 --> 01:59:16,960
Speaker 1: and you always will put together, Like I feel like

2388
01:59:17,000 --> 01:59:19,040
Speaker 1: that's something that women really struggling.

2389
01:59:19,720 --> 01:59:21,600
Speaker 2: A long time ago.

2390
01:59:21,680 --> 01:59:23,240
Speaker 1: This is when I had three dollars in my bank

2391
01:59:23,240 --> 01:59:26,920
Speaker 1: account and you was doing a flag That's another story.

2392
01:59:27,520 --> 01:59:30,080
Speaker 2: This is why I'm leaving her. The way you did

2393
01:59:30,200 --> 01:59:32,160
Speaker 2: a tour, a house tour. This is when you're still

2394
01:59:32,200 --> 01:59:34,000
Speaker 2: live in Detroit. You know what video I'm talking about?

2395
01:59:34,080 --> 01:59:35,880
Speaker 2: Are you talking about? When I said off the water?

2396
01:59:36,160 --> 01:59:41,240
Speaker 2: I don't, Yes, And it was beauty. Thank you it

2397
01:59:41,280 --> 01:59:44,920
Speaker 2: was such a delight the light. Then I flipped my

2398
01:59:45,040 --> 01:59:51,160
Speaker 2: three dollars into but I think good to see because.

2399
01:59:50,920 --> 01:59:53,360
Speaker 1: It's an inspiration. Yeah you know what I'm saying.

2400
01:59:53,480 --> 01:59:56,280
Speaker 2: So I've been getting back into that, you know, like

2401
01:59:56,360 --> 02:00:00,360
Speaker 2: even Jazz, she's my social media manager, and that's why, y'all.

2402
02:00:00,520 --> 02:00:02,880
Speaker 2: She will tell y'all she's here. I used to buy

2403
02:00:02,920 --> 02:00:04,280
Speaker 2: stuff and just put it up and she would come

2404
02:00:04,280 --> 02:00:06,600
Speaker 2: to my calls and she'll see it, like you didn't

2405
02:00:06,600 --> 02:00:08,600
Speaker 2: do it on boxing and I'd be like no, She's like,

2406
02:00:08,600 --> 02:00:09,920
Speaker 2: you got to start putting that stuff.

2407
02:00:10,000 --> 02:00:12,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, And it's motivational, and

2408
02:00:12,560 --> 02:00:12,960
Speaker 1: she like.

2409
02:00:12,920 --> 02:00:15,160
Speaker 2: You know, it's motivational. Like I got to a point

2410
02:00:15,160 --> 02:00:16,280
Speaker 2: where I was like, I don't want to put it

2411
02:00:16,280 --> 02:00:18,520
Speaker 2: in people's face no more. Yeah, you know, I started

2412
02:00:18,520 --> 02:00:20,880
Speaker 2: felying bad. Like my birthday post, she made it me.

2413
02:00:20,920 --> 02:00:22,520
Speaker 2: I spent a whole bunch of money on like a

2414
02:00:22,520 --> 02:00:24,280
Speaker 2: whole bunch of stuff, and she like, she made her

2415
02:00:24,360 --> 02:00:26,400
Speaker 2: little post and she said what she said on there,

2416
02:00:26,440 --> 02:00:28,200
Speaker 2: and I was like, I took it off my profile,

2417
02:00:28,520 --> 02:00:30,280
Speaker 2: oh no, cause I was like I don't like it's

2418
02:00:30,360 --> 02:00:31,680
Speaker 2: just making people feel bad.

2419
02:00:31,960 --> 02:00:33,880
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie, but that's the hate like you,

2420
02:00:34,120 --> 02:00:37,240
Speaker 1: it's the haters that's feeling mad. The people who need

2421
02:00:37,240 --> 02:00:41,160
Speaker 1: to be motivated, and the people who like you appreciate

2422
02:00:41,280 --> 02:00:41,960
Speaker 1: appreciate it.

2423
02:00:42,080 --> 02:00:43,840
Speaker 2: And I learned that even she was teaching me that

2424
02:00:43,880 --> 02:00:46,280
Speaker 2: because she she fly herself. You know, she was teaching

2425
02:00:46,320 --> 02:00:47,960
Speaker 2: me that, like, no, we want to see that shit. Yeah,

2426
02:00:48,760 --> 02:00:52,200
Speaker 2: a little crazy. Yeah, you had picture a long time ago.

2427
02:00:52,320 --> 02:00:54,320
Speaker 1: I can't remember exactly the outfit you had on, but

2428
02:00:54,400 --> 02:00:57,600
Speaker 1: I know you had Louis Vatan on from head to toe.

2429
02:00:57,720 --> 02:00:58,120
Speaker 2: Everything.

2430
02:00:58,160 --> 02:01:00,880
Speaker 1: I think you had, like the bell, the head man,

2431
02:01:00,920 --> 02:01:02,600
Speaker 1: it was like the bag, the shoes, it was like

2432
02:01:02,800 --> 02:01:03,600
Speaker 1: everything was.

2433
02:01:04,360 --> 02:01:06,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god. And I remember that picture distinct.

2434
02:01:06,720 --> 02:01:08,920
Speaker 1: I was like, man, she really be like And they

2435
02:01:08,960 --> 02:01:10,280
Speaker 1: got to a point to work because I like to

2436
02:01:10,320 --> 02:01:12,920
Speaker 1: shop too, and my nickname they call me to Louis

2437
02:01:12,960 --> 02:01:15,360
Speaker 1: Vaton Don. I don't like don because I will I

2438
02:01:15,480 --> 02:01:18,280
Speaker 1: love Louis Vatan. I do like I love Louis Vatan

2439
02:01:18,520 --> 02:01:20,440
Speaker 1: always they see me in the airport, they'd be like, okay,

2440
02:01:20,520 --> 02:01:24,520
Speaker 1: the dawn Okay. But I say that because I think

2441
02:01:24,600 --> 02:01:26,880
Speaker 1: that's important to see sometimes because it's not about bragging,

2442
02:01:26,920 --> 02:01:29,800
Speaker 1: it's about inspiring people. Because that little picture that you posted.

2443
02:01:29,840 --> 02:01:32,240
Speaker 1: I didn't take it as oh, she's bragging. It inspired me.

2444
02:01:32,280 --> 02:01:34,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, we can really go out here and

2445
02:01:34,320 --> 02:01:35,560
Speaker 1: get this get on our own.

2446
02:01:36,040 --> 02:01:38,400
Speaker 2: Okay. So y'all motivated me some more too, So I'm

2447
02:01:38,400 --> 02:01:41,640
Speaker 2: gonna start showing a little bit more. I appreciate that.

2448
02:01:41,680 --> 02:01:43,240
Speaker 1: I said, I need to see some more money in

2449
02:01:43,280 --> 02:01:45,080
Speaker 1: Louisa's son because I need to have a baby shower

2450
02:01:45,160 --> 02:01:45,520
Speaker 1: there too.

2451
02:01:45,920 --> 02:01:48,640
Speaker 2: Exactly. I got to a point because I used to

2452
02:01:48,720 --> 02:01:50,640
Speaker 2: do it so much, and you know, Detroit, we are

2453
02:01:50,800 --> 02:01:53,480
Speaker 2: like stunners. Yeah, like the son. We like to show

2454
02:01:53,520 --> 02:01:55,360
Speaker 2: off and all that stuff. And then the other part

2455
02:01:55,400 --> 02:01:57,720
Speaker 2: of the world was not really familiar with that, and

2456
02:01:57,800 --> 02:02:00,560
Speaker 2: the thought that it was more bragging and posting and

2457
02:02:00,600 --> 02:02:02,240
Speaker 2: stuff like that. And I never want to try to

2458
02:02:02,280 --> 02:02:05,120
Speaker 2: make people feel small. I'm really a sweetheart in the inside.

2459
02:02:05,680 --> 02:02:08,320
Speaker 2: So I bagged off of it. My regular life was

2460
02:02:08,400 --> 02:02:10,520
Speaker 2: just my regular life. I was never just posting it,

2461
02:02:10,680 --> 02:02:14,640
Speaker 2: like how people they're shopping, they're showing. I stopped and

2462
02:02:14,800 --> 02:02:18,040
Speaker 2: then once I you know, she's twenty five, so she like, no,

2463
02:02:18,760 --> 02:02:20,920
Speaker 2: you're gonna post this. I'm posting it. I don't care.

2464
02:02:21,160 --> 02:02:24,240
Speaker 2: She'll say, I'm pushing posts I'm sitting in now, and

2465
02:02:24,280 --> 02:02:26,720
Speaker 2: I'll just like go ahead whatever. Yeah, and then once

2466
02:02:26,800 --> 02:02:28,800
Speaker 2: I see it it made me cringch I'll take it

2467
02:02:28,840 --> 02:02:31,360
Speaker 2: off my profile like it'd be like, no, it'll be

2468
02:02:31,400 --> 02:02:32,240
Speaker 2: on my real side.

2469
02:02:32,560 --> 02:02:35,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. Though it's not like you're getting it from somebody

2470
02:02:35,160 --> 02:02:37,080
Speaker 1: else or and it's my I always say this, and

2471
02:02:37,160 --> 02:02:38,040
Speaker 1: this is no shade.

2472
02:02:38,120 --> 02:02:38,880
Speaker 2: This is no shade.

2473
02:02:38,880 --> 02:02:41,200
Speaker 1: I always say if you go to a woman's profile

2474
02:02:41,320 --> 02:02:44,160
Speaker 1: and she has a lot of things and she doesn't

2475
02:02:44,240 --> 02:02:46,360
Speaker 1: brag about like what she does for a living, or

2476
02:02:46,400 --> 02:02:48,200
Speaker 1: you don't know what she does for a living, it's

2477
02:02:48,200 --> 02:02:50,800
Speaker 1: probably not necessarily the person that you want to look at.

2478
02:02:51,240 --> 02:02:53,080
Speaker 1: Because I feel like, if you are a person who

2479
02:02:53,280 --> 02:02:55,600
Speaker 1: is passionate about being a boss, you can look at

2480
02:02:55,640 --> 02:02:57,200
Speaker 1: your page and we can see what you do.

2481
02:02:57,720 --> 02:02:59,240
Speaker 2: I mean outside of people who are like, you.

2482
02:02:59,240 --> 02:03:01,000
Speaker 1: Know, in the medical so they don't want to you know,

2483
02:03:01,120 --> 02:03:02,360
Speaker 1: they don't want you to know where they work or

2484
02:03:02,400 --> 02:03:02,720
Speaker 1: things like that.

2485
02:03:03,360 --> 02:03:06,600
Speaker 2: I'm I'm a doctor, doctors and stuff. But people but

2486
02:03:06,680 --> 02:03:11,280
Speaker 2: you know, they always I say that. I say that

2487
02:03:11,360 --> 02:03:14,400
Speaker 2: when you go to girls page and you you see

2488
02:03:14,440 --> 02:03:16,840
Speaker 2: all these this luxury things and you don't know what

2489
02:03:16,920 --> 02:03:19,240
Speaker 2: they do they doing something. You don't need to know

2490
02:03:19,320 --> 02:03:20,880
Speaker 2: what they do. You don't need you don't need to

2491
02:03:20,960 --> 02:03:24,400
Speaker 2: know they don't what they do. This they bread and butter.

2492
02:03:25,920 --> 02:03:28,280
Speaker 2: I'm not shading that, but I'm saying for you, either

2493
02:03:28,320 --> 02:03:33,240
Speaker 2: they're a prostitute. You a scammer maid. You're a scammer cammer. Yes,

2494
02:03:34,160 --> 02:03:37,960
Speaker 2: you're a rich nigga baby mama, you wanted them. You

2495
02:03:38,040 --> 02:03:40,440
Speaker 2: ain't wanted somebody to have their own theme. That's going

2496
02:03:40,840 --> 02:03:45,240
Speaker 2: that they're actually, you know, nurturing and and it's feeding

2497
02:03:45,280 --> 02:03:46,840
Speaker 2: them in their family. That's not knowing.

2498
02:03:47,000 --> 02:03:49,520
Speaker 1: And I think that's important for especially Black women to

2499
02:03:49,600 --> 02:03:51,960
Speaker 1: see losses and people like, we know what you do.

2500
02:03:52,160 --> 02:03:55,400
Speaker 2: We need you working because it ain't that much private.

2501
02:03:55,720 --> 02:03:58,360
Speaker 1: Not because when you're a woman and you're proud because

2502
02:03:58,400 --> 02:03:59,879
Speaker 1: first of all, when you really.

2503
02:03:59,720 --> 02:04:04,760
Speaker 2: Built some sheep. But look, listen, that's what I was

2504
02:04:04,800 --> 02:04:08,120
Speaker 2: happy about my plaque. Yeah, I'm like, I got me

2505
02:04:08,240 --> 02:04:11,240
Speaker 2: some I'm doing my things. You know what I'm saying.

2506
02:04:11,360 --> 02:04:13,720
Speaker 2: Not easy to get. Yeah, And y'all every time I

2507
02:04:13,840 --> 02:04:17,120
Speaker 2: go someth be out still double platinum in my home. Okay, No,

2508
02:04:17,840 --> 02:04:19,800
Speaker 2: for real, I'm serious And for everybody I know, for

2509
02:04:19,920 --> 02:04:22,960
Speaker 2: everybody got to be platinum in a lot of cars. Well, yeah,

2510
02:04:23,640 --> 02:04:25,280
Speaker 2: you gotta play for your nigga when you've got to

2511
02:04:25,320 --> 02:04:31,560
Speaker 2: tell him what he's time for him. So good, I

2512
02:04:31,720 --> 02:04:34,880
Speaker 2: love it. But yes, thank you for joining us. Y'all.

2513
02:04:34,920 --> 02:04:37,440
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all follow Cash y'all album gots win again

2514
02:04:37,800 --> 02:04:38,640
Speaker 2: November fifteenth.

2515
02:04:38,800 --> 02:04:42,000
Speaker 1: November fifteenth, y'all running up and we'll se y'all next week.

2516
02:04:42,200 --> 02:04:44,080
Speaker 2: A y'all, y'all, make sure.

2517
02:04:44,000 --> 02:04:48,800
Speaker 1: Y'all share the content like subscribe, follow all that good stuff.

2518
02:04:48,800 --> 02:04:51,040
Speaker 1: And let me say this before we close out, y'all.

2519
02:04:51,520 --> 02:04:55,040
Speaker 1: There is one Twitter account that is connected to four Minds.

2520
02:04:55,120 --> 02:04:59,280
Speaker 1: It's p O. You are underscore in my n ds.

2521
02:04:59,480 --> 02:05:02,800
Speaker 1: Y'all are the wrong poor Minds page. If you see

2522
02:05:02,880 --> 02:05:05,600
Speaker 1: at poor Minds with no underscore, that is at fake page,

2523
02:05:05,680 --> 02:05:09,080
Speaker 1: do not follow that page. Okay, they blocked me Andrea

2524
02:05:09,640 --> 02:05:12,120
Speaker 1: and the poor Minds page on both so we only

2525
02:05:12,240 --> 02:05:17,080
Speaker 1: have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok.

2526
02:05:17,440 --> 02:05:20,640
Speaker 2: It's p O, you are underscore in my nds, all right,

2527
02:05:21,160 --> 02:05:24,520
Speaker 2: and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page. The Facebook

2528
02:05:24,600 --> 02:05:25,960
Speaker 2: pages it's our face.

2529
02:05:26,160 --> 02:05:28,920
Speaker 1: The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

2530
02:05:29,040 --> 02:05:31,240
Speaker 1: least amount of file. So if you're on face the

2531
02:05:31,320 --> 02:05:34,080
Speaker 1: one that's ours got the least amount of file, but

2532
02:05:34,160 --> 02:05:36,680
Speaker 1: one that's not us got like two hundred and fifty.

2533
02:05:37,800 --> 02:05:40,200
Speaker 1: Make if you actually look at the content, because the caption.

2534
02:05:40,160 --> 02:05:42,840
Speaker 2: Is like whoever it is, don't speak English? Because their

2535
02:05:42,880 --> 02:05:46,400
Speaker 2: captures are like bumba claude? Should men? Should men pay bill?

2536
02:05:47,600 --> 02:05:52,040
Speaker 2: Should men pay bill? Yes? No? Check answer below block

2537
02:05:52,120 --> 02:05:56,879
Speaker 2: block pull pull pull off like that's literally with the captions.

2538
02:05:57,080 --> 02:06:02,040
Speaker 2: I'm like you what that DG's bumba claude shell? Can

2539
02:06:02,120 --> 02:06:06,160
Speaker 2: you handle this? Beyonce? Can you handle this? I don't

2540
02:06:06,200 --> 02:06:09,920
Speaker 2: think they can handle this? Whoa barely move weave.

2541
02:06:09,800 --> 02:06:15,240
Speaker 1: Arrival looking sexy, look and fly bad as hit chick inside.

2542
02:06:15,280 --> 02:06:19,400
Speaker 4: DJ jail the night spight to me, tend the thing

2543
02:06:19,880 --> 02:06:20,520
Speaker 4: there you are?

2544
02:06:20,960 --> 02:06:24,520
Speaker 2: Come on, baby, don't you wanna dance with me? Can

2545
02:06:24,680 --> 02:06:26,960
Speaker 2: you handle you? Know what I mean? You gotta do

2546
02:06:27,200 --> 02:06:30,960
Speaker 2: much better if you're gonna dance whip me tonight. You

2547
02:06:31,080 --> 02:06:34,560
Speaker 2: gotta work your chentley if you're gonna dance whip me tonight.

2548
02:06:34,880 --> 02:06:36,720
Speaker 3: So's my hip blessedly if you.

2549
02:06:36,920 --> 02:06:39,640
Speaker 2: Like what you'll say, do your groo had with me?

2550
02:06:39,920 --> 02:06:41,800
Speaker 3: My your looks I got you shook up A scared

2551
02:06:41,840 --> 02:06:44,880
Speaker 3: of me, baby, I.

2552
02:06:44,880 --> 02:06:47,600
Speaker 2: Don't think you're headed fo this jelly. I don't think

2553
02:06:47,600 --> 02:06:50,600
Speaker 2: your headed for this jelly. Out of your head for.

2554
02:06:50,840 --> 02:06:54,240
Speaker 3: This, because my body too borner this shits for your bad.

2555
02:06:54,760 --> 02:06:58,720
Speaker 2: Head and fro this jelly head, fo this jelly. I

2556
02:06:58,920 --> 02:07:02,520
Speaker 2: on your head, folk, that's my body too, but delicious

2557
02:07:02,640 --> 02:07:06,840
Speaker 2: for your bag. Can you handle this? Baby? Can you

2558
02:07:06,960 --> 02:07:11,000
Speaker 2: handle this? Baby? Can you handle this? I don't think

2559
02:07:11,080 --> 02:07:14,800
Speaker 2: you can handle this? Whoa? I'm about to break off?

2560
02:07:15,200 --> 02:07:16,160
Speaker 2: Hey shall.

2561
02:07:17,520 --> 02:07:22,040
Speaker 3: Leave my lips, slap, swing my hall, swam my eyes.

2562
02:07:22,120 --> 02:07:27,560
Speaker 2: Looking smelling good, growing like I'm from over your shoulder

2563
02:07:27,800 --> 02:07:31,680
Speaker 2: your kids. Can't you handle head? I don't think you're

2564
02:07:31,720 --> 02:07:35,320
Speaker 2: ready for this, Shelley. I don't think you're ready for this, Shelley.

2565
02:07:35,640 --> 02:07:36,480
Speaker 2: I don't think you're.

2566
02:07:36,320 --> 02:07:38,640
Speaker 3: Ready for me, because my body too.

2567
02:07:38,600 --> 02:07:47,240
Speaker 2: By cigarette for this day. Out a cigarette for this daigarette.

2568
02:07:45,880 --> 02:07:49,360
Speaker 4: For because my body too booty. It just for your

2569
02:07:49,760 --> 02:07:54,200
Speaker 4: your body up and down, make your body crow. I

2570
02:07:54,320 --> 02:07:58,520
Speaker 4: can't help my What the way soviv olicious.

2571
02:07:58,040 --> 02:08:01,880
Speaker 2: For your back? Shake my jelly with with my hips?

2572
02:08:03,120 --> 02:08:05,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, just put the wall and Johney that I got,

2573
02:08:05,800 --> 02:08:07,960
Speaker 3: try a little while. If sket just can't whoa?

2574
02:08:08,400 --> 02:08:09,240
Speaker 1: What fun.

2575
02:08:15,480 --> 02:08:23,800
Speaker 2: Bowl pal pow pal, I don't think red. Yeah, because

2576
02:08:23,880 --> 02:08:29,320
Speaker 2: my body too bore.

2577
02:08:27,480 --> 02:08:27,560
Speaker 1: So.

2578
02:08:30,040 --> 02:08:32,600
Speaker 2: Distant out the figurehead f thing.

2579
02:08:32,680 --> 02:08:35,600
Speaker 3: Because my body too bootash is for your back.

2580
02:08:35,680 --> 02:08:41,280
Speaker 1: Out the figurehead soire, figure head.

2581
02:08:41,280 --> 02:08:45,680
Speaker 3: So thing, because my body too botash. I don't r head,

2582
02:08:45,760 --> 02:08:49,640
Speaker 3: it's so dishing out of the bigre head. Out of

2583
02:08:49,680 --> 02:08:53,880
Speaker 3: there head thing because my body too boon. Shots for

2584
02:08:54,080 --> 02:09:02,040
Speaker 3: your baby, ye can figure right, your body too bodher.

2585
02:09:02,160 --> 02:09:07,480
Speaker 2: This is fine man, I'm okay, figurehead fout this head

2586
02:09:07,920 --> 02:09:12,160
Speaker 2: out of figurehead, fout this My body too boorderless shots

2587
02:09:12,480 --> 02:09:13,480
Speaker 2: fine your baby?

2588
02:09:13,760 --> 02:09:14,640
Speaker 1: Hey, y.

2589
02:09:16,960 --> 02:09:20,880
Speaker 3: You that now that was the best karaokey.

2590
02:09:22,320 --> 02:09:23,320
Speaker 2: We ain't bad now.

2591
02:09:23,760 --> 02:09:25,480
Speaker 3: Shout out to these kids.

2592
02:09:26,960 --> 02:09:28,839
Speaker 2: We ain't the children and were kids.

2593
02:09:29,120 --> 02:09:32,400
Speaker 3: We have to kiss just kids