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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera judge.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome back another episode of Two Teas in

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Speaker 1: a Pod. Today, I have a get and the One

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Speaker 1: the Only. Jenna, Hi, how are you?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: Girl? You just feel it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just feel you know, you know? Tis the

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Speaker 2: season feeling just a bit spent, but it was. I'm

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Speaker 2: a room mom for the first and only time. I've

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Speaker 2: realized I'm not cussing. You're done, one and done. Wanted

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Speaker 2: to do it, okay and done, all right, but I

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Speaker 2: know like now that I can't. You know, like some

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Speaker 2: moms are just I see these moms and I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: You're just made for this.

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Speaker 1: It's not me. I can't do it. Well, Jenna. I

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Speaker 1: tried to be a Brownie leader one year. One year.

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Speaker 3: It was a very long time ago. Of course, my

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Speaker 3: kids are grown now. It was a one and done. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you I could see you being.

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Speaker 1: Like a Brownie girl, scout room mom. You just listen.

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Speaker 2: I'll say where I excelled was I was in charge

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Speaker 2: of doing the games. I'm a very competitive person, so

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Speaker 2: when we were playing the games, I'm like, all right,

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Speaker 2: get your toe back by the line, like, you know,

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Speaker 2: I was like a good I was a good wrath.

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Speaker 2: I kept the energy. I kept them having a lot

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Speaker 2: of fun. But the whole, the process of it all,

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Speaker 2: and that part, I'm just like, I I don't have

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Speaker 2: the capacity.

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Speaker 1: How old now in this time? How old were these kids? Ten? Oh? Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's when they're really opinionated. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And it's hard for me too, because you know, some

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Speaker 2: of the it's like I can only discipline my.

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Speaker 1: Child, you know what I mean, So I have to

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Speaker 1: be like, okay, back back.

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Speaker 2: Back, you know, like that's wonderful, you know, and stuff. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like I can't get excelled from being a room parent.

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Speaker 1: But oh that's gnat. So are you done Christmas shopping?

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Speaker 2: We? Yes, I'm done. I actually just put my last

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Speaker 2: little order in right now before we got on. So

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Speaker 2: I I'm a big Do you ever heard that Lelo fragrance?

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Speaker 2: I love giving that as a gift. It's one of

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Speaker 2: my favorite fragrances.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to check that out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah so good, Yeah, get some check really good. I

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Speaker 1: use the scent.

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Speaker 2: Another thirteen I didn't even know about till my husband,

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Speaker 2: like he knows all the good fragrances and stuff.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, good check and they've got good candles. It's good.

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Speaker 4: It's like Joe Malone. How they have the perfume.

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Speaker 1: Yes, better, this is better. Yeah, So I like to

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Speaker 1: give those as gifts to the peeps.

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Speaker 3: Now, are you one of those that goes like absolutely

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Speaker 3: crazy with Christmas, like hires somebody to decorate the entire

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Speaker 3: house in the tree and.

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Speaker 1: No, I have either. I just like to just put

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Speaker 1: it where I put it.

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Speaker 2: And I know I don't like to outsource like that,

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Speaker 2: that's not we're all outsource.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I like to do it like as a family. Although

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Speaker 3: my daughter's the only one that's up for it these days.

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Speaker 3: Well she's only one left at home and my husband's.

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Speaker 1: Like, you guys have fun at that? Yeah, fun.

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Speaker 3: But I like turning the Christmas music gone, decorating the tree, yeah,

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Speaker 3: having drinking hot chocolate coffee.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's I think it's fun. And I

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Speaker 2: do it really early. So I do it the first

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Speaker 2: week in November, just because it takes so much to

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Speaker 2: get everything down and out that I want to enjoy

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Speaker 2: it for a long time.

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Speaker 1: Right. I did that this year.

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Speaker 3: I went before a couple of days before Thanksgiving, so

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Speaker 3: it was up by Thanksgiving. I rarely do that, but

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Speaker 3: it's like only having it up a couple of weeks

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Speaker 3: and going through all that work.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not worth it.

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Speaker 2: No, But I'm also the person that will take it

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Speaker 1: Oh me too. Yeah, I'm done, Like we're done. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's done. Get this stuff out of here.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 3: Melissa Gorga from New Jersey sent me her sprinkle cookies

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Speaker 3: and her coffee cake.

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Speaker 1: Have you tried them? No? But I love her. I

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Speaker 2: She's so sweet. She's always been so kind and so

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Speaker 1: She's really not I love her.

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Speaker 3: She sends them to me all the time, and I

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Speaker 3: always try to post, you know, and promote any housewife

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Speaker 1: I will do that, but I can't stop eating it.

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Speaker 2: That's okay, it's all right. I'm having a holiday party today.

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Speaker 2: I decided to the bus stop moms are all coming

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Speaker 2: to my house. Later, I thought it was a really

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Speaker 2: good idea. A month ago, Well you're hanging out with

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Speaker 2: the bus stop moms, I am, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: going to I'll just call myself out because they're like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I just don't like going out.

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Speaker 2: So I would rather everybody just come to the house

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Speaker 2: had a reservation tonight the twelve thirty club downtown, I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like over the weekend, I had things to do.

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Speaker 3: It's the holidays, and two three days in a row,

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Speaker 1: Now I'm so tired. I can't, I know, like socializing,

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Speaker 1: doing all those things.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, no, no, I was supposed to go to

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Speaker 3: a party last night for Glad and I did not.

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Speaker 4: I did donate, but I did not. I could not go.

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Speaker 1: I was just I'm so tired. So I know.

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Speaker 2: And now it's the struggle too, where it's I don't

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Speaker 2: probably bring some wine. I'll have one, and then I'm

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Speaker 1: Right. That's I'm like, do I even do it? Or

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Speaker 1: do I just say no this time? Wow? TBD.

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Speaker 3: I went to dinner with Vicki and Katie and I

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Speaker 1: I woke up in the middle of the night. I

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Speaker 1: And I'm just like, it's just not worth it anymore.

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Speaker 2: I know, you know, maybe what I'll do is I'll

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Speaker 3: But then I'm afraid if I say I'm not going

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Speaker 1: You know, Like, I don't think you have to say

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Speaker 2: It's not like you're saying I'm either. I think a

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Speaker 2: mean that I'm never going to drink again. And I

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Speaker 3: See, my husband doesn't drink Either's I wouldn't say he's sober, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: He had hard issues quite a few years ago and it's.

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Speaker 1: So it's very rare, rare, And if he does, he'll

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Speaker 1: have one drink. That's it, right. But just like the

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Speaker 2: Into exactly, and they don't drink at all, besides those.

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Speaker 1: Wigs or whatever they get that.

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Speaker 2: Which I'm like, those are pop is so bad for you,

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Speaker 2: I know, I like, it's actually, what's worse?

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Speaker 1: Have you heard probably that?

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Speaker 2: Have you heard before they've been mixed? No, not before

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Speaker 2: the show, but they're mixing it. I'm like, if you're

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Speaker 2: I think the alcohol's probably better than the twigs.

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Speaker 1: It probably is so Jianna.

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Speaker 3: And you know what I did twenty something years never

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Speaker 1: We call it pop from Michigan. Okay, well I now

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Speaker 1: started drinking diet coke. No, no, because of my assistant.

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Speaker 2: Go to Whole Foods and go get a za za.

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Speaker 2: We are going to blame you, Caden, because that is

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Speaker 2: so bad. And I get on Catherine, who does my

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Speaker 2: I'll give the bubbles. It'll still give you that coda

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Speaker 2: pop vibe. No, it's not the best.

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Speaker 3: So even my daughter, who would never I never allowed

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Speaker 1: Her skin started breaking out? Yeah, and because in inflammation.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm not doing it anymore.

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Speaker 2: Do you know?

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Speaker 1: My mom? My mom?

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Speaker 2: Finally, because she'd always get on me that I used

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Speaker 1: They're awful. So my mom over.

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Speaker 2: Holidays or you know, she was giving the kids. I go, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, Mom, they're so bad, please don't. So she

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Speaker 1: Cheese its? And I was like, shocker, really, mom, thank you.

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Speaker 1: She's like, now I see why you were so upset.

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Speaker 2: So she's like, I will not eat those ever again.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, yeah, that along with the dye cokes,

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Speaker 2: all the things.

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Speaker 1: It's inflammation.

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Speaker 2: And that's why she's like, I've lost so much weight,

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Speaker 2: I said, because it's all inflammation.

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Speaker 3: So I have a girlfriend that loves cheese its and

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Speaker 1: She's with athlete all her life, but she's just really.

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Speaker 3: That's when I turned on him, dous Dakota. Then I

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Speaker 2: He was like refusing to, you know, film, the cheating

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Speaker 3: good note and ultimately when they do meet. Getting ahead

441
00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:50,280
Speaker 3: of myself, but you know, she does say that she

442
00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:52,040
Speaker 3: wants to be back in this group and not just

443
00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:53,040
Speaker 3: for business reasons.

444
00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we all want that friendship. I think

445
00:19:55,760 --> 00:20:02,119
Speaker 2: some things can be difficult when you're not actual friends.

446
00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:05,280
Speaker 2: Like again, they were all friends doing that dancing stuff,

447
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:08,119
Speaker 2: but they weren't probably the strongest of friends friendship for

448
00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:11,760
Speaker 2: a long time. So I think when it becomes business

449
00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:14,600
Speaker 2: and then muddied friendships, but knowing at the end of

450
00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:16,760
Speaker 2: the day, they are all in this together, so a

451
00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:20,119
Speaker 2: friendship should be something that is helpful for each one

452
00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:20,680
Speaker 2: of them.

453
00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

454
00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I was happy that she did that, and

455
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,240
Speaker 3: I was happy all the way to the end until

456
00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:26,879
Speaker 3: I wasn't happy.

457
00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,920
Speaker 1: And we'll get to that. You mean with how boring

458
00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:30,920
Speaker 1: the reunion.

459
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:33,399
Speaker 3: Was, Oh my god, or what I really want to

460
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:38,040
Speaker 3: say is the fact that Taylor went on a date

461
00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:39,960
Speaker 3: maybe not a date with Chase.

462
00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:42,119
Speaker 1: Oh that was weird.

463
00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:45,680
Speaker 3: I'm like, the whole time, I'm thinking, oh, this is

464
00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:47,639
Speaker 3: such a great way to end the season.

465
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:51,200
Speaker 1: They're all getting along, and then that happened.

466
00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,000
Speaker 2: Why I just didn't like with Chase, Yeah, we're getting

467
00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:55,800
Speaker 2: our ahead of ourselves.

468
00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:57,840
Speaker 3: But yes, yeah, we'll get to it. But I'm just

469
00:20:57,880 --> 00:20:59,920
Speaker 3: like no. But in the meantime, we have Jordan and

470
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,119
Speaker 3: Jesse deciding they're going to try to make it work

471
00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:05,080
Speaker 3: and love and I love that they seem like they

472
00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:07,920
Speaker 3: truly love each other. I just couldn't take Jordan's sirius

473
00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:08,360
Speaker 3: with his.

474
00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:11,639
Speaker 1: Utah dad talk hat on.

475
00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,240
Speaker 3: Yeah is it a real thing? Like are they making

476
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 3: money off of this?

477
00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 1: I have no clue.

478
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:20,880
Speaker 4: Do they have their own Like oh my, like, oh

479
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:21,360
Speaker 4: my god.

480
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,520
Speaker 1: And I do hope they make it work though, Yeah,

481
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 1: I think they will.

482
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:27,480
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm according to social media they're still together.

483
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 3: And I didn't know that Jordan was a teen dad.

484
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,080
Speaker 1: I don't know that either. Yeah, he had talked about it.

485
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,359
Speaker 3: I feel like every one of these girls, even guys,

486
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,520
Speaker 3: have had some traumatic experience in their life.

487
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:42,400
Speaker 1: They're all going through therapy.

488
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:46,159
Speaker 3: Yep, they all talk about their triggers like there's a

489
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 3: lot of trauma within this group.

490
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:51,920
Speaker 2: There is, and it's nice that they're honestly it's again,

491
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 2: I think it'll be helping people talking about it. Yeah, yeah,

492
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:57,919
Speaker 2: they surface stuff.

493
00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,640
Speaker 1: Like I lost my diamond ear ring in the water,

494
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 1: you know. Kim Kardashian, No and no, no shade on

495
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 1: them either.

496
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:06,920
Speaker 2: I love the Kardashians, but you know what I'm saying,

497
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,920
Speaker 2: Like they're like really and now they're talking about deep stuff,

498
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 2: but back then it's like, this is nice to have

499
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 2: the show that started with.

500
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I liked that they did get They really

501
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,159
Speaker 3: put a lot of thought into meeting.

502
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 1: They even got a room that they're going to meet at.

503
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 3: And I don't know if it's a house or event venue,

504
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:26,840
Speaker 3: I don't know, but it had a kitchen, had a pool,

505
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 3: it had everything.

506
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 1: Will looked like a big old house. And then they

507
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:33,159
Speaker 1: had these glow sticks around their necks where they spoke

508
00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 1: their truth. Then they apologized, and then they broke it off.

509
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 3: And then they had what was at a barbie that

510
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 3: was yeah, had mom talk across her ass or something

511
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 3: like that and a cocktail in her hand, and you

512
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 3: know you can only talk when you have the barbie

513
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 3: in your hand.

514
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very legally blonde of them. It was right,

515
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 2: That's exactly what it was. Yeah, But did you feel

516
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 2: like Whitney was being the voice of reason? I always

517
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 2: think her well like, I think Taylor again has had

518
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 2: such a very strong, empowered voice this season, and I

519
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 2: do feel like Whitney has showed up in the end.

520
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, so Demi apologizes Taylor and sharing her struggles growing

521
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 3: up with a brother with Down syndrome. It's another thing

522
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 3: that we didn't know anything about. I don't know that

523
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:26,120
Speaker 3: we've ever even seen Demi's parents or siblings or anything.

524
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 4: You know, when she talked about she had a term

525
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 4: for it.

526
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,200
Speaker 3: I can't remember what it was, but you know, being

527
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 3: the other kid, when so much time is spent on

528
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,199
Speaker 3: one child and you're kind of don't know where you

529
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:39,600
Speaker 3: fit in.

530
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 1: And that really made me understand her a little bit more.

531
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 2: Yeah right, and that need for not attention, but for love, yeh,

532
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 2: attention too. I don't know that she was getting love,

533
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 2: but not in the way that her six year old

534
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,359
Speaker 2: self not probably didn't feel that.

535
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 1: And I honestly don't care what happened with Marciana anymore.

536
00:23:59,119 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 1: Like I'm so over.

537
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 2: It's besides the point because the other day it's the

538
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 2: only person that knows is the man up there, you

539
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 2: know what I mean?

540
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 4: Right, It's like, why are we giving this guy any

541
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 4: more attention?

542
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 1: Honestly.

543
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, they do end up throwing this.

544
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: Baptism. Was it a baptism or was it just a party?

545
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 3: I wasn't quite sure. In Taylor's death, you know, at

546
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 3: her parents' house and he prayed for everybody and it

547
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 3: was sweet, and Dakota wasn't there.

548
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,639
Speaker 1: It's like, come on, buddy, just show up. Yep.

549
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, And then we get to the end where Taylor

550
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 3: and Chase go to dinner and I'm like, why, why

551
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 3: is this happening?

552
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,120
Speaker 2: Do you think that he asked Taylor for a kiss

553
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 2: for old time sake? It's like, that is the last.

554
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 1: Thing a that either one of you guys should do.

555
00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 2: But she's in a better place, So I think that

556
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 2: one was probably a storyline that was created with the

557
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 2: help of the producers, is my Yeah. I think I

558
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,119
Speaker 2: ought ever have done that, or Taylor would have agreed

559
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:09,640
Speaker 2: to that, Which is why I also think even back

560
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 2: in the episodes prior with even Again, I here we go,

561
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 2: bring Hi up again, Marciana and Jesse, like him bringing

562
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 2: the flowers or him going there, that get I feel

563
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 2: like those things were producer manipulated.

564
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 3: I agree with that, but I was just like, no,

565
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 3: it isn't that kind of breaking girl code too?

566
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: Miranda was married to Chase, right.

567
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think. I mean, their girl code is

568
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:36,120
Speaker 2: very blurried.

569
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 3: It's like they're the only people that live in Utah.

570
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 1: They just all date each other. Yeah, I mean Benny

571
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 1: Hardy kissed, they've already kissed.

572
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 4: Well, were they talking about the shower too?

573
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 1: Well, they were part of the swinging couple, you know,

574
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,640
Speaker 1: so I can't. I can't with these That was.

575
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:00,119
Speaker 2: The whole and that was why it was hard for

576
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 2: Taylor and Miranda because of their the whole thing.

577
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 3: But oh god, well that's it. That's a season finale.

578
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 3: We'll just breeze through the reunion.

579
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 2: Were you disappointed because I truly I was so excited.

580
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 2: I even put like a cow like alert like reunion.

581
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 2: I was so excited, and I was so underwhelmed, and

582
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, when are they going to get to it?

583
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:23,199
Speaker 1: It's just so underwhelming.

584
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 2: But they also agreed though, I feel like everybody on

585
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 2: the cast said like, hey, we hear you. We also

586
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 2: were very disappointed with that thirteen hour at it.

587
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:31,679
Speaker 1: That was crap.

588
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 3: So first reunion they had, nick, second reunion they had stassy.

589
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: Did you think job. Oh yeah, o, yes, yeah, I'm

590
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 1: like Nick. I like Nick too, Yeah I did.

591
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 2: I watched the READI I didn't watch all the show

592
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 2: like I watched the reunion, but I think I think

593
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 2: Nick is good because he did drum up some of

594
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 2: the drama, yeah, as opposed to just keeping it girl friendly.

595
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,239
Speaker 2: And I think Stuce is great, but I do like,

596
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 2: you want someone that kind of goes I don't know,

597
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 2: but did you to then get the other people and

598
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,399
Speaker 2: it's not like I'm it's not like we're looking for

599
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 2: cat fights, but we do want a little bit of drama.

600
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: We want a little bit of the right. Yeah, yeah, no,

601
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 1: I agree. It makes a good show.

602
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 3: I think that Nick did a better job, that's for sure. Sorry, Stussy,

603
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 3: I think that's a really hard shoes to fill. You know,

604
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 3: when it comes to reunions, it's started on Housewife. Andy

605
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:38,359
Speaker 3: Cohen is amazing at it, so good at it. So

606
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 3: anytime there any show has a reunion like this, it

607
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 3: just never compares. First of all, I don't think they

608
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 3: need a reunion because of the fact that they film

609
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 3: non stop and half the stuff they can't even really

610
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 3: talk about, and they're.

611
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:55,479
Speaker 2: Taught such about it because oh, we can't. And it's like, well,

612
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 2: then why are you here?

613
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: Why are we doing this? Yeah, I just don't think

614
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: that it's a smart thing to do. I don't know.

615
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,199
Speaker 2: And then they can give us a little bit more stuff,

616
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 2: that's the thing. Unless they can give more teak till

617
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 2: season three.

618
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, you.

619
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 3: Just yeah, she said that so many times, and it's

620
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,400
Speaker 3: many times. You can't like the Marciano of it all.

621
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 3: They couldn't really talk about it in the last reunion

622
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 3: because they were filming it for this next season coming.

623
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 1: It's just it's crazy.

624
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 2: It's almost like they should have their reunion when it

625
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 2: is completely done.

626
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,159
Speaker 1: Yeah. I just don't think they need a reunion. And

627
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm curious to see after the both reunions not doing

628
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: that well that or maybe they did.

629
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 4: I don't know.

630
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 3: The ratings, just I hear the backlash of people saying

631
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 3: they didn't like it.

632
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 1: And then plus it was a lot.

633
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 2: I'm a big I'm a big like Love is Blind

634
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 2: reunion people, I like those because you know that that's

635
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 2: it's done.

636
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: After that done, right, so they have to say all

637
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 1: the stuff.

638
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, And then it was very like promotional like the

639
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 3: dunkin donuts, Like here we are, I'm going to go

640
00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 3: over to the Dunkin.

641
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 1: Donut bar and I'm going to get myself a drink.

642
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: We get it.

643
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 2: Wait, can I just have like one piece of clarity?

644
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 2: Is Jen actually related to Ben? I've never understood that.

645
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: Well. I don't think we know.

646
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 3: It's right up there with the Marciano thing.

647
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 2: Okay, She's in the Duncan commercial with Ben, I know,

648
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 2: which is just funny.

649
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 3: That is funny that it was a un idea and

650
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 3: it's like, Jen, who's not an actress, has more lines

651
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 3: than Ben all he is in the in the drive

652
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 3: through lane and he's like rude, rude.

653
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: It's funny. And they don't even drink coffee apparently, and they.

654
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 3: Probably don't even They probably weren't there at the same time,

655
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 3: right filming that commercial probably filmed totally two different areas differently.

656
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, unless she flew to Los Angeles where he's at.

657
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: I didn't. I don't know. I didn't see any pictures

658
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 1: of them.

659
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 2: Okay, but but your your peep said no, so no,

660
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 2: I guess they're not. And of course who comes out

661
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 2: as the bar tender is Chase or the Duncan for emotion.

662
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: I know, Chase and then his brother, which again I

663
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 1: think they're cute. They are the brother, the brother. I'm Layla.

664
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, Layla and Mason like they're cute together. Mason is

665
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 2: like his long hair.

666
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think he's really cute, and I think they're

667
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 3: really cute together.

668
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 1: And I think they're still together. Layla and Mason like that.

669
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 1: I like that too.

670
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 2: I just hope that Mason isn't using her eye for

671
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 2: show's purposes.

672
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 1: Doesn't he seem really sweet though? He does? I know,

673
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: he seems really sweet.

674
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I didn't think what.

675
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: He wore was very sweet. His blad I don't remember.

676
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 1: Tank top, I don't know.

677
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 2: I don't think any man should wear a tank top.

678
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:47,959
Speaker 2: That's not like in the heat of the summer.

679
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, like the Haines tank top.

680
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 2: I mean, my husband calls them ves tank tops, but

681
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 2: really that's what we should call it.

682
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: That's a cute even.

683
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 2: Though where's your husband from Scotland?

684
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 1: Okay, oh yeah, she's Scottish. Scottish? She should he should

685
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: go on traders, sure, sure, go for it. Okay.

686
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 3: So then it got a little sad and a little

687
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 3: dark at the reunion Michaela opens up about her relationship

688
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 3: and says that she and Jay still haven't gotten over

689
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 3: their intimacy issues. And then through therapy, Jesse uncovered the

690
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 3: memory of getting raped at nineteen, which now she's having

691
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 3: intimacy issues with Jordan.

692
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 4: And it's just like, it's just so hard.

693
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 3: There's so much that these girls are talking about and

694
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 3: they've gone through and they're all crying and then what

695
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 3: then then the Marciano of it all, it's like, you know,

696
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 3: what was what was Hulu thinking?

697
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: Pretty much?

698
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 2: I sound around these girls exactly. I think the piece

699
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 2: that makes me sad is a lot of people that

700
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 2: I saw were saying like, how do you how do

701
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 2: you just randomly uncover the memory of getting raped? And

702
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 2: it's like, listen, how people manage and deal with trauma

703
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 2: and how they store it and deal with it. It

704
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 2: might be different from somebody else, you know, but to just.

705
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: Well, then people also block out memories that they don't

706
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 1: want to remember, me traumatic things.

707
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, so I mean I would never so brave

708
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 2: have heard question somebody like that.

709
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

710
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

711
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 3: So all the guys come out except for Brett, which

712
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 3: I didn't quite understand that Demi's husband.

713
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 2: Because he's not a part of dad talk, so he's

714
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 2: like he's basically the old dad, you know what I mean,

715
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 2: They're just like they need to.

716
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 1: With dad talk. They need to stop with that. I

717
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 1: don't need dad talk. I wanted to be about the moms,

718
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, do that, I would.

719
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 2: I hope they stay on the storyline of the mom

720
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 2: talk they're going to. I think they'll lose a lot

721
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 2: of women if they go too heavy in dad talk.

722
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, what which feels too forced? It's so forced.

723
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 3: What did you think about the unseen footage of Marciano

724
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 3: and Jesse talking?

725
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: Do you remember that? Like she asked him, She.

726
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 4: Asked him, did did do you think we had sex?

727
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 2: And he said yes, if you have to ask, then

728
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 2: there's reasonable doubt, right in a cordial all right, I

729
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 2: mean I don't know if there's not a I mean, listen,

730
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 2: in my twenties, I'm.

731
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: Like, did I have?

732
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 2: But that is like years twenty plus years ago, right, questioning?

733
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 1: Maybe something? Is it that they were drinking and they're

734
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 1: not supposed to drink. But I know she drinks, doesn't

735
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 1: she drink? I think she drinks? But he also said

736
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,959
Speaker 1: he took like a viya or that night too, Yeah,

737
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: in earlier episodes, So I'm confused.

738
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 3: I don't know, but her husband is right there, cialis

739
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 3: that's what it was.

740
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:12,879
Speaker 1: And then she's like was.

741
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 3: Telling him that she loved him, And I'm like, how

742
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 3: long did this emotional affair go on? Like when I

743
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,919
Speaker 3: thought about the Marciano of it all, I instantly thought

744
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 3: it was Marciano and Demi.

745
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,839
Speaker 1: Yes, and really what happened with them was really nothing. Yeah,

746
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: it really there's a lot to this Jesse and Marciano stuff.

747
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 2: I think Jesse was so unhappy in her marriage that

748
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 2: and I'll say this, when someone is so unhappy in

749
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 2: their marriage and they it's whether sober or not. People

750
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 2: can do stupid things and still not mean them. So

751
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 2: I think she probably I still think there's a little

752
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 2: bit more to maybe what happened, but there's no way

753
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 2: that maybe she can even wrap hermind her on it

754
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,919
Speaker 2: because she's just, you know again, kind of pushing it down.

755
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 2: But and maybe that's that's all there is. But I

756
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 2: do think people when they're so unhappy, it doesn't make

757
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 2: it right. And whether they did or they didn't, it

758
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 2: was inappropriate, bottom line, So does it At the end

759
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 2: of the day really matter physicality of what it was.

760
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 2: I don't think so when you step a line, you

761
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:15,959
Speaker 2: step a line.

762
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's just me.

763
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 2: Some people know it's it's only bad it they if

764
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 2: they actually had sex. I'm like, no, it's not words,

765
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 2: Like my ex could have had sex with so many people,

766
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 2: But if he said he loved someone, that was it for.

767
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 3: Me, right, I think an emotional affair is way worse.

768
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 2: Than just one hundred People do not get that. Like

769
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 2: my husband, I would never he like, he's like, what

770
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:40,240
Speaker 2: do you mean? But I was like, it doesn't matter

771
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 2: if he said he loved her, done, done. The emotional

772
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 2: is so much more impactful to me.

773
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 4: Yeah.

774
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well Dakota shows up to the reunion. Now do

775
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 3: you think Wait back to the Marciano thing. I had

776
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 3: a question.

777
00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: Stossy said that the guys were in Italy.

778
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, but again, we don't know until season three so

779
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 2: it actually happened.

780
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 3: So it's the next season, the next season, So why

781
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 3: would they send the guys right back into the situation

782
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 3: and send Jesse's husband Jordan to be around Marciano?

783
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 1: You know why? I mean, God, why do you want

784
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,360
Speaker 1: good TV? Because I want to watch it, and you

785
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:22,399
Speaker 1: know why they did that.

786
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine any guy that went through that'll be like, yes,

787
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 3: that sounds like a great idea.

788
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,399
Speaker 1: I'm going to go and hang out with a guy

789
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:34,399
Speaker 1: that my wife was camera. No on camera, give us

790
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: the drama.

791
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 3: I mean as a viewer, yeah, I want to see it,

792
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 3: but I'm like, that is no crazy crazy. Do you

793
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 3: think Dakota coming to the reunion and all all the

794
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 3: girls had to leave? Do you think that that was

795
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 3: a Taylor's idea, like she didn't want to be sitting

796
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,320
Speaker 3: in the same room as him, or his idea.

797
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 2: I think it could be a little bit of both,

798
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 2: but I bet you it was more him. I think

799
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 2: it was probably him not wanting to face all of that, yeah,

800
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 2: than her, because I think she's she's a strong girl

801
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 2: like she I think she's she's very forgiving, she's very

802
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 2: she's smart and she's forgiving, and I think she's really

803
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 2: strong and she can go like all right, yeah whatever,

804
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 2: it didn't didn't work. Yeah, but I don't think she's

805
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 2: I don't see her as the type to be like,

806
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 2: I can't be in the same room as you.

807
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 3: I just don't Well, actually, it says He said that

808
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 3: he's only attendant of the girls are backstage, but it

809
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 3: didn't really work out because Taylor couldn't take much of it.

810
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 3: Sitting backstage listened to his bullshit, and She's like, I'm

811
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 3: going out there. I'm going out there. And then one

812
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 3: of the girls followed her. Right, yeah, I went right

813
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 3: out there and sat with her. And then the first

814
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 3: thing he says to her is you look pretty.

815
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: It's like, what we should just don't talk to her.

816
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 1: Don't such a mister big comment. I know, you're so

817
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: shut up.

818
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, So they go round and round, and then Taylor's

819
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 3: parents came out.

820
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 1: They had jeans and black T shirts on. Everybody's dressed

821
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:13,240
Speaker 1: up guys.

822
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 2: But if they walked out in a full on gown,

823
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 2: I feel like people would say, oh, they're not the stars.

824
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 2: It's like, I don't think they could have won in

825
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 2: any any way.

826
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,920
Speaker 1: Maybe a blouse. I don't just write, I know, slack

827
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:31,879
Speaker 1: slat of something. They were like, they were dressed the same.

828
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, But again, I do think if people would

829
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 2: have come at them if they were.

830
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 1: All bound up. Maybe I don't know, but you know,

831
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 1: he tried.

832
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 3: He attempted to apologize to them, after he was so

833
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 3: heated and he felt like it wasn't fair because he

834
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 3: was emotional, and then Leanne gets emotional, and then Jeremy

835
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 3: says he can't accept anything that comes out of Coda's mouth. Yeah,

836
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 3: and we just kind of leave it like that, And

837
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm curious to see if Dakota will be

838
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 3: back next season.

839
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:07,720
Speaker 1: Again.

840
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 2: I think he deserves a paycheck if he's not getting one,

841
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 2: and I would like to see him back because I

842
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 2: do want to root for people, especially people like a Dakota,

843
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:22,399
Speaker 2: the underdog stories of it. I would love to see

844
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 2: growth and change with him, and I would love to

845
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:28,879
Speaker 2: see him happy and in a relationship and healing and

846
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:29,720
Speaker 2: doing the work.

847
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: And I can do it. I really think I can

848
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 1: do it.

849
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 2: And I think anybody can if they want to, and

850
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 2: if they can own up to their mistakes and stop

851
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 2: blaming other people. I think that's the easy route with

852
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 2: a lot of I you know, for what women and men.

853
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 3: I just think he's a guy that can't be alone,

854
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 3: and I think he really wants to be a tailor

855
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:48,919
Speaker 3: and he wants his family back together. But then when

856
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 3: some girl slides in and he's down and out and

857
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 3: he's like here, you know, we got to know.

858
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 1: We talked about this a little bit earlier, but he

859
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: was sending her pictures as well.

860
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was sending her pictures and shocked that this

861
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 3: girl's face has.

862
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 1: Not come out. You know, there's some shady friend or something.

863
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: It's like, here she is. This is where all we

864
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: know is.

865
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 3: She goes to the gym, because what was it? Chase

866
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:17,319
Speaker 3: saw her at the gym. She's friends with Leanne and

867
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:20,280
Speaker 3: that's all we really know. But you know, he stormed

868
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 3: out of there. He took his clothes off so fast,

869
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 3: he took that mic off, and he's like, I'm out.

870
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 1: I'm done. I'm not doing this anymore.

871
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh yeah, I think everybody has said

872
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 2: that on the show.

873
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: Oh I have I did it. How many times have

874
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 1: you said you're done? Oh?

875
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 3: Well, BALI was probably my first time. I just I

876
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 3: was going through a horrible time, is going through a divorce.

877
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 3: My husband was trying to do, you know, take custody

878
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 3: away with no merit whatsoever, Like it was just and

879
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 3: I just couldn't take it, and I'm like, I'm done.

880
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 3: And then this season was super hard for me to

881
00:40:54,239 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 3: film because two weeks after starting, Teddy got diagnosed, and

882
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:04,359
Speaker 3: it's just like, none of this really makes sense when

883
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,919
Speaker 3: you have a friend that's going through a really hard time.

884
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 3: It's like, I'd rather be there with my friend than

885
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 3: scream and yell and fight with girls on National teav

886
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 3: It just didn't well.

887
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 2: Puts things into perspective exactly. That's what a lot of

888
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 2: this is. And what we forget is that. And again,

889
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 2: I am not in the reality world as you like you,

890
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 2: but I watch it as a TV show, and what

891
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people forget is that this

892
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:32,840
Speaker 2: is your actual life. You're not playing a script from

893
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 2: the pages like this. This is your life. And so

894
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 2: I think that is where the difference for us viewers,

895
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 2: because we come at you like you're our favorite character

896
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 2: or our most hated character. But yet these people are

897
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 2: going through things and what is you know, what's it

898
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 2: worth at the end of the day.

899
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, you can go through things and have

900
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 3: supportive friends that are there for you and get through it.

901
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 3: But if you're going through these things and then you

902
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 3: have people coming at you, you're like, I don't want it.

903
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 4: I don't emotionally have the energy to deal with this.

904
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:05,240
Speaker 1: Crap.

905
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I'm not moving to Beverly Hills and

906
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 2: being on the real heard.

907
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: I actually heard that Teddy's the one that gave your name.

908
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: She gave my name years ago. Oh really, like years.

909
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 2: And years and years ago to be like a friend

910
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 2: of hers on the show. But now they've called again,

911
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:26,799
Speaker 2: and that's what I'm like, I don't live there.

912
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 3: What Oh wow, Wow, I think they should do one

913
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 3: where you're at now.

914
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 4: I think that they've talked about it off and on,

915
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 4: but I think.

916
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 1: That they should do it so many times they have.

917
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 1: But would you do it?

918
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 3: Then?

919
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,360
Speaker 1: Yes, I don't. Again, No, I don't have box. I

920
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,760
Speaker 1: can't do it. I caldn't do it. Would your husband

921
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 1: do it? He actually talked to the OC back in

922
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: the way day, like what do you mean.

923
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 2: He was friends with his ex wife was friends with

924
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 2: someone and they had I think briefly talked to someone

925
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 2: about maybe doing.

926
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 1: It way back in the day. Is this X in

927
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 1: Orange County not anymore? Yeah?

928
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:09,319
Speaker 4: Would I have known her known her?

929
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't think so. But one of

930
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 1: the one of the wives do huh? Interesting? Yeah, but

931
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 1: that is interesting. Fun fact.

932
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 4: Fun fact that which wouldn't have been just another divorce

933
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 4: on reality TV.

934
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, but anyways, thank you so much. It was so

935
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 3: fun getting to know you a little bit. And I

936
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 3: hope you have the Squaliday.

937
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 1: Hope you yeah.

938
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, So thanks guys for tuning in. And that's it

939
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 3: for the season. I don't know when the next season

940
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 3: comes out, but I'm sure it's soon. They're They're like

941
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,240
Speaker 3: a well oiled machine over there that at Hulu.

942
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 1: So bye, guys,