1 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: Welcome back, guys to another episode of Couch Talks. My 2 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: name is Kat and I am the host. In today 3 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: is a nice special Couch Talks episode because I have 4 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: my friend, my colleague. What else are you to me? 5 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 1: Spirit animal? Are you my spirit animal? I was gonna say, 6 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: my spiritual guide. I don't know. You're just a human 7 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: and you're here and your name is Stacy. Hello, and 8 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: she is also a therapist and somebody who actually works 9 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 1: at Three Courts Therapy with me, which is the practice 10 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:39,239 Speaker 1: that I have in Nashville. So I brought her on 11 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: today because there are two questions specifically I wanted to 12 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: ask her because you hear me talk about my perspective 13 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 1: as a therapist all day long, and sometimes it's nice 14 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 1: to have somebody else. So if you're new and you 15 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: don't know what couch Talks is, it is a special 16 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: bonus episode of You Need Therapy where I answer questions 17 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: that you guys send into me. And we always like 18 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: to remind everybody that although I am a therapist, this 19 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 1: is not therapy or a substitute for therapy. It's just 20 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: a way to help you either get into the conversations 21 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 1: that you want to really get into in your life, 22 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: or maybe it will encourage you to go to therapy, 23 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: or maybe it would encourage you to talk about something 24 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 1: different in therapy. So this week we're doing it a 25 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: little bit different one because Stacy's here too. Because I 26 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: put a note out on social media asking for quick, 27 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 1: rapid fire ish questions for the podcast, and I'm going 28 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: to save some of them for a Monday episode, but 29 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: then I thought we could answer some of them today. 30 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: And usually we just do one answer and I take 31 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: a long time to answer it. Well, not a long time, 32 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: but we're gonna have like five questions if we can 33 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: get to all of them. So let's get to number one. 34 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 1: I'm ready for the rapid fire. Okay. So the first 35 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: question was what growth made you the most proud of 36 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: a client? And this one is hard to answer, and 37 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: I feel it's unfair to answer because I I believe 38 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: a lot of my clients have had really amazing growth 39 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: and I don't really like to rank it, but there 40 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: is just one really special memory that sticks out, and 41 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 1: I'm just pulling one. So if you're listening to this 42 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: and you're like, i've worked with cap before, it doesn't 43 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: mean that I wasn't proud of you, or didn't think 44 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 1: your growth was important or any of that. This was 45 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: just a really cool story. So I had a client 46 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 1: and I actually was her therapist in a treatment center. 47 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,800 Speaker 1: Then I started private practice and she found me in 48 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: my private practice. I worked with her for years and 49 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 1: she did a lot of really awesome work. She was incredible, 50 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 1: and then at some point she just like ghosted me. 51 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: And she had like owed me a couple of sessions 52 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 1: worth of like money, but it wasn't that big of 53 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: a deal. I really was more concerned with, like, why 54 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: isn't she answering she didn't show up from our session 55 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: and then didn't answer my emails or my calls, and 56 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 1: she was not like that. And eventually you just kind 57 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: of have to like let it go. If they choose 58 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: not to answer you, that's that. And I'm not going 59 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 1: to send collections after her. Like getting those two sessions 60 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 1: paid for it was not that important to me, So 61 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: I kind of just like let it go, and I 62 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 1: was sad and a little worried. And then two years 63 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: later I got a phone call and it was her, 64 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: and she was calling from a treatment center in another state, 65 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: and she called to say she was sorry it was 66 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: so cool. She called to say she was sorry, and 67 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: she was like, I ended up struggling and I relapsed 68 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: and I didn't want to tell you, and I knew 69 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: I owed you money and I couldn't pay for it, 70 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: and I just had so much shame that I just 71 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: like blocked you out of my life. And thankfully I 72 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: got some help. And I think she was struggling with 73 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,799 Speaker 1: something at that point and she needed my perspective as 74 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: her past therapist, and so I talked to her and 75 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: her therapist in the treatment center. But it was so 76 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: cool to get that phone call because I knew what 77 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: it took for her to reach back out after she 78 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: felt like so much shame and the fact that she 79 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: had relapsed and then ended up back in treatment to 80 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: get help again. Now I don't know where she is now. 81 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: I hope she's like on a good path. But that 82 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: was one of my favorite sports because I did not 83 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: expect that phone call. You imagine just getting ghosted from 84 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: a client and te years later they call you and 85 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: they're like, I'm so sorry, but I'm okay. That's literally 86 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: like the best message. Yeah. So that's that answer. And 87 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: in the next question, is do any of your clients 88 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: listen to the podcast, and yes, the answer is yes. 89 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: I don't know who. I know some clients who listen 90 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: to it because they tell me, but I'm sure more 91 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: could listen to it. A lot of my clients listen 92 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: to your poet, and a lot of our clients find 93 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: our practice through the podcast, So that is a thing, 94 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: and I don't mind it. I mean, obviously I want 95 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: people to hear the information that's talked about on here, 96 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 1: and my clients here a lot of this information firsthand 97 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: from me. So some of them don't listen to it 98 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: because it's like, well, I don't really need to, or 99 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:33,479 Speaker 1: they might want that its boundary. And a lot of 100 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 1: times when my clients are bringing it up, it's because 101 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 1: they've heard something helpful that they bring intocitions. So I 102 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,039 Speaker 1: love that. So the answer is yes, how do you 103 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 1: feel about all of the online therapy options? Well, to 104 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: be honest, I don't know too much about them. I 105 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: know that they're there, and I know that they're less 106 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: expensive than therapy like normal therapy in person, and what 107 00:04:57,160 --> 00:05:00,479 Speaker 1: I believe is that's better than nothing. So if that's 108 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: what helps somebody get their foot in the door when 109 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: it comes to therapy. Who am I to say that 110 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:06,839 Speaker 1: it's bad or wrong. I don't have enough information about 111 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 1: it to say that it's bad or wrong. I think 112 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: it serves a really good purpose. It's accessible, and it's 113 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 1: less expensive, and it might not be the same kind 114 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 1: of therapy. You might not be able to do E. M, 115 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:21,600 Speaker 1: d R or experiential therapy or any of that, but 116 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 1: you can still have a helpful experience, I believe. Now 117 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:29,479 Speaker 1: this is where I bring Stacey in, and I have 118 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:32,599 Speaker 1: two questions. In the first one, I'm asking Stacy because 119 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: she is a marriage and family therapist, so I am 120 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:39,840 Speaker 1: a licensed professional counselor. So we have different degrees and 121 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: we have different licensing boards, but we're both mental health professionals. 122 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:47,119 Speaker 1: And I don't work with couples, and I wasn't trained 123 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: to work with couples. Stacy Canon does work with couples 124 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 1: and was trained to work with couples. So I have 125 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: my own perspective on this as a therapist. But I 126 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: wanted to ask Stacy because this is more of her wheelhouse. 127 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 1: So the question is should you to your therapist for 128 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 1: your couple's therapist or should you get a separate couple's therapist. Oho, 129 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: that's such a good question. Of course, I always lean 130 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 1: on supervision and consultation for each individual case like this, 131 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 1: But I will say that I typically lean toward separating 132 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 1: the two mainly because I guess if we pose it 133 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: as I'm seeing an individual and then they would like 134 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: to have a couple of therapy, I've already really established 135 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:33,840 Speaker 1: some rapport and relationship with that person, and I just 136 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 1: as a human being, I feel like, not that necessarily 137 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 1: that it's hard, but it's just fair. It's hard to 138 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 1: not have a biased and just to like acknowledge that 139 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: about myself and to keep it fair. Well, I like 140 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 1: what you said of I leaned towards supervision and consultation 141 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 1: for each individual case because I think there are definitely 142 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 1: places where that would be appropriate and there are definitely 143 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: places where that could actually be harmful, and so it's 144 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:03,919 Speaker 1: not just a one and done answer. I actually have 145 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: a case in which I started with a couple and 146 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: one of the two, because of work, would be out 147 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: of town, and I kind of brought that to supervision 148 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: and consultation because a part of the couple wanted to 149 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 1: remain as an individual client and that and you're doing that, 150 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: and I think that what they like preach to us 151 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: in school, and I think generally gets thrown around is 152 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: when you're a couple's therapist, the couple is your client, 153 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: and so it would be like a conflict of interest 154 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: if you then we're seeing one of them individually. However, 155 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: part of couple's work could be a couple of sessions 156 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: individually with each person. But if you're really wanting to 157 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: get into the woods of of your own stuff outside 158 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: of that couple's work, then it is definitely case by case, 159 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 1: I think, but the general rule of thumb was always no. 160 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: That's not to say there aren't spaces where that would 161 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: be appropriate. So there's that. And then my last question 162 00:07:57,880 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: for today, I feel like I get versions of the 163 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: a lot and I think we have addressed it before, 164 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 1: but we're going to address it again, and I want 165 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: to hear Stacy as well say her piece, and it's 166 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 1: how much should I be talking in a therapy session 167 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: versus my therapist? And I feel like this question comes 168 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: from people who generally are wanting more from their therapist 169 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 1: and we don't know how to ask or maybe but 170 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: this is hard to answer because it can It's like 171 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 1: there's not like it should be seventy, it should be 172 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: fifty fifty, it should be It definitely depends. And there 173 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 1: are some clients who like I barely talk, and there 174 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 1: are some clients who need a lot of direction and guidance. 175 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: And there are some sessions where I'm doing a lot 176 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 1: of education, and there's some sessions where the client just 177 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: needs to like process and just here have me be 178 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: a sounding board. So how would you answer that question, 179 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 1: how much should you be talking versus the client? I'd 180 00:08:55,559 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: start with independs, because we are they're assisting what the 181 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: client needs, what they are bringing in. I would respond 182 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 1: to that to your point of some days, clients, do 183 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 1: you just need processing time. I'm really careful about letting 184 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 1: that go on for multiple stations, because sometimes clients look 185 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 1: up and they're like, oh, she just lets me talk 186 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 1: all the time. That's not really helpful. But I think 187 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 1: it really is important to just stay attuned to what 188 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: do they need, what are they bringing. Sometimes I'll even 189 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 1: say what is important today? And like, what do you 190 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: need today? Because I noticed that you're talking a lot today? 191 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: What do you need today? You said, I don't exactly 192 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: how you said this earlier but it makes me think 193 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 1: about does the client or to the person who's asking 194 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: this question know how to appropriately ask for what they 195 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 1: need in session? Because I ask all my clients who 196 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 1: have been to therapy before in our intake and have 197 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: you had a therapist before? What did you like? What 198 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 1: did you not like? Number one thing I get is 199 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:58,199 Speaker 1: my therapists didn't really help me. She kind of just 200 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 1: like let me talk and then this session was over. 201 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:04,839 Speaker 1: And so the question I always have in the back 202 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 1: of my head is like, well, did you let them know, like, 203 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: did you tell them that you wanted more? Did you 204 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: ask for this? Was there a conversation around this or 205 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: did you just like sit there and hope that they 206 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 1: would do something. And a lot of therapy and a 207 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,559 Speaker 1: lot of how the therapists might work is they might 208 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: not give you something until you learn to actually ask 209 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 1: for it. And if we just like tell you what 210 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 1: you need, you're not learning how to figure that out. 211 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 1: And I also just don't think that's helpful. I don't 212 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: know what you need, do what you need? Yes, So 213 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 1: I think that is again a case by case, which 214 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 1: oftentimes that's how I leave you guys with these like 215 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:45,599 Speaker 1: open ended answers, but I would really encourage whoever is 216 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:47,959 Speaker 1: asking that or wondering that themselves, even if you didn't 217 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 1: ask that. Is, if I'm wondering this inside of my 218 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 1: body when I'm in a session, what is keeping me 219 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 1: from actually wondering it out loud to my therapist? Like 220 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 1: what's keeping you from saying, am I talking too much? 221 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: Or what keeping you from saying I really am looking 222 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: for more direction here or I'm not I don't feel 223 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 1: like I'm getting what I need? Like, what is keeping 224 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: you from saying that? And that might actually lead you 225 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: to what you need? I like it? So that really 226 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: does it for our rabid We did a good job. 227 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 1: I feel like I did that very rapidly. I probably 228 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,439 Speaker 1: was talking extra fasts, so just the idea of rapid 229 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: fire questions. I feel like I should be speaking faster, 230 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 1: and I already speak really fast. So sorry to all 231 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 1: you guys who you might want to, like, can't you 232 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 1: half time it? When you're listening to a podcast, You 233 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: can't speed it up, but you might want to. We've 234 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: already listened to it by now, so never mind. We 235 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: meet the assignment. Yeah, we did meet the assignment. Well, 236 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: thank you for being here for this quick little jaunt, 237 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: and we're about to go possibly go for a walk. 238 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: It's about so you might just go to a restaurant anyway, 239 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: we're going to think about it. Wish us luck. I 240 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: will talk to you guys on Monday for our normal episode, 241 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: and I hope you have the day you need to 242 00:11:58,040 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 1: have By