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<v Speaker 1>Hey, viewers.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to Sniffy's Cruising Confessions. I'm Gabeln Sadez and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>Each week we explore the sublime world of queer sex, cruising,

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<v Speaker 2>We talked to queer folks of all kinds. We'll ask

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<v Speaker 3>Hi Chris, Hi, We're back at the table. Oh, we

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<v Speaker 3>are back at the table. I'm really excited.

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<v Speaker 1>Me too.

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<v Speaker 3>We have a literal legend on our show today, Beary

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<v Speaker 3>for this absolute icon. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to ask you, Chris, do you remember the

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<v Speaker 2>first time you discovered porn star him Shabaz.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I was thinking about this when we were

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<v Speaker 4>preparing for this interview, and I'm sure you're thinking for

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<v Speaker 4>quite some time. It's been a long time that I've

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<v Speaker 4>been following the work.

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<v Speaker 2>No, absolutely, absolutely, I was like out of the porn

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<v Speaker 2>industry at that point.

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<v Speaker 3>I was a retiree after my many days as a cameraman.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think it was really exciting because Raheem was

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<v Speaker 2>one of the first porn stars I saw really make

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<v Speaker 2>a name for himself kind of on his own terms,

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<v Speaker 2>doing his own stuff. And I think, you know, post

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<v Speaker 2>the start of OnlyFans, you know, I want to say

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<v Speaker 2>maybe twenty seventeen, twenty eighteen, I think we really saw

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of performers modeling how to do things outside

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<v Speaker 2>the studio system. It's a double edged short, right, you're

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<v Speaker 2>doing stuff on your own, so you're responsible for more,

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<v Speaker 2>but you're also pressured less into doing things you don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to do by the studio, like the way I

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<v Speaker 2>love seeing porn stars be verse on their own channel.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe, and I know that the studios like you're only

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<v Speaker 3>a top. You'll only ever be a top, You'll never

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<v Speaker 3>be more than that. Yeah, I'm just like let people

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<v Speaker 3>get fucked. Every writes me crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>But no, I don't know if it was through word

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<v Speaker 2>of mouth or word of whole, but I heard about

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<v Speaker 2>Rahim and he has truly been a staple in the

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<v Speaker 2>industry for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>And then like every girl going to Brazil, it's always like,

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<v Speaker 4>am I gonna run in?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I gonna? Am I gonna see them?

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<v Speaker 2>He took come to Brazil to an entirely new level.

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<v Speaker 2>Truly say I'm coming on Brazil. How about that, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>coming on and in Brazil?

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<v Speaker 1>Love that.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like if he threw a concert, he could

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<v Speaker 3>get Lady Gaga numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know one hundred percent because I'm buying my ticket.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know, Like I'm buying my christ did

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<v Speaker 2>buy their ticket. It's a one way ticket, so she's

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<v Speaker 2>never coming back to the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Raheem Shabaz has been dominating the adult film world since

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<v Speaker 4>twenty nineteen with raw, unapologetic content.

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<v Speaker 1>As an award winning star and director.

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<v Speaker 2>He has earned awards like Performer of the Year at

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<v Speaker 2>the Gave Ends in twenty twenty four and twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 2>He's also currently one of the judges on out TV's

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<v Speaker 2>mail stripper competition series Darkroom Duel hosted by Willem, but.

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<v Speaker 4>His biggest accomplishment was to start his own studio, Voyeur,

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<v Speaker 4>a few years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>We have all watched.

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<v Speaker 2>In today's episode, we're gonna be talking to the performer

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<v Speaker 2>turned director turned mogul about how he got here, where

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<v Speaker 2>he's going, and what it's like to run an adult

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<v Speaker 2>studio in the age of OnlyFans.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll also pick up some tips and tricks for shooting

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<v Speaker 4>your own content. And here's some spicy cruising confessions.

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<v Speaker 2>So please welcome to Snivie's Cruising Confessions. Clap those cheeks

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<v Speaker 2>for Raheem.

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<v Speaker 3>Show boys. Welcome Raheem. Thank you for joining us today.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you much for the invitation, Thanks for flying in.

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<v Speaker 1>We haven't even started. Just wait, so Raheem.

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<v Speaker 2>For the rare listener or viewer who might not be

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<v Speaker 2>familiar with your porn. God God bless you innocent souls,

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<v Speaker 2>You're about to learn a lot. Can you describe what

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<v Speaker 2>Voyeur does and the type of content and scenes that

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<v Speaker 2>you specialize in Voyeur.

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<v Speaker 5>We work with a lot of content creators, so it

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<v Speaker 5>allows them a chance to work studio style. In terms

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<v Speaker 5>of what we do what we like to provide. We

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<v Speaker 5>we kind of like to provide that experience you have

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<v Speaker 5>in a dream that you wake up from and you

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<v Speaker 5>just you just want to have it again, like intimacy, passion.

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<v Speaker 5>We want to show connection between the performers as opposed

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<v Speaker 5>to just pounding and screaming as a.

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<v Speaker 1>Place has a place, a place, it's just not this place.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we have some of that, but yeah, at least.

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<v Speaker 2>You're changing up the rhythm every now and then, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean. You've been in the industry now

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<v Speaker 2>about six years. You started in twenty nineteen. What was

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<v Speaker 2>your start? Did you start with studio porn? Did you

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<v Speaker 2>start making your own stuff? What was sort of that

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<v Speaker 2>journey and decision like to start making porn?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, I was like having wrus. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like the sex plug.

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<v Speaker 5>Like people come over and we'd have groups and we'd

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<v Speaker 5>have orgies, and there were times where we'd record them.

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<v Speaker 1>We wouldn't post.

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<v Speaker 5>Them or anything, but we would just have them just

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<v Speaker 5>to have them. And I started noticing something in the

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<v Speaker 5>faces of the people that we were having sex with.

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<v Speaker 5>It was almost like they were possessed, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>see that in porn. So yeah, because it's the way

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<v Speaker 5>I have sex.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've seen I'm not I'm not trying to like

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<v Speaker 1>hurt you.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not trying yeah. Yeah, I'm not trying to prove

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<v Speaker 5>a point, trying to touch your soul.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I tell people, if there's no connection then then yeah no.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that element is the thing that has

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<v Speaker 4>really made you so successful.

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<v Speaker 3>Well do you feel like it's so interesting? Because I

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<v Speaker 3>think so.

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<v Speaker 2>I used to work as a cameraman for a porn

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<v Speaker 2>company and in studio porn. It does feel like you're

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like paired up. It's like when two main

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<v Speaker 2>actors are cast in a rom com, right, like you,

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<v Speaker 2>you hope to have chemistry from the interview, you're not sure.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think what's been kind of exciting about the

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<v Speaker 2>era of only fans and self made creators starting their

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<v Speaker 2>own company like yourself, is that you get to set

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<v Speaker 2>the vibe, you decide who to work with. You you

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<v Speaker 2>can establish a relationship. But that idea of it just

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<v Speaker 2>being a quick exchange, right, just get on set, do

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<v Speaker 2>the makeup, fucking leave. You're right, there's something you feel

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<v Speaker 2>that it's missing.

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<v Speaker 5>This is gonna sound cheesy as fuck, but I Compare

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<v Speaker 5>it to theater and Hollywood filmmaking. Yeah, real actors love

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<v Speaker 5>doing plays where they can just go right through it

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<v Speaker 5>and that takes skill, and they hate the Hollywood process

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<v Speaker 5>where they have to stop and go and stop and go.

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<v Speaker 5>And I feel like what I do. Compared it to

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<v Speaker 5>the studio I've done studio like for me, like, once

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<v Speaker 5>I get going, you know, we can't make me sweat.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, take a lunch break.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I don't like to ever lose that connection because

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<v Speaker 5>sometimes you don't even get it back when you go down.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a sport. You want to keep going, going, going.

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<v Speaker 2>Comparing it to live theater does kind of sense, right,

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<v Speaker 2>there's something a little more like active when you're watching

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<v Speaker 2>the Warrior stuff that feels it feels like it's in

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<v Speaker 2>the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>We hope it comes out that way because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for us, the more we have to act, the more.

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<v Speaker 5>We hate it because we're not really into it, Like

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<v Speaker 5>we want our audience to feel what we're feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we call it.

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<v Speaker 3>And sometimes you do have a crowd. You got folks watching.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, do you like a crowd? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy it?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I do like a crowd, especially when I get

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<v Speaker 1>the show off.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then some people join and people watching.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm not having sex. I'll be like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why anyone's interested in me. But then while I'm

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<v Speaker 1>having sex.

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<v Speaker 2>Like.

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<v Speaker 5>This is what.

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<v Speaker 1>It's making sense. I want to talk about Brazil.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we're still come to Brazil.

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<v Speaker 4>You are Jersey boy end up going back and forth

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<v Speaker 4>to Brazil for a scouting for shooting, Like how did

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<v Speaker 4>that happen?

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<v Speaker 5>When I was twenty five, I had recently moved to

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<v Speaker 5>la and a friend was like, oh, you have to

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<v Speaker 5>come to Brazil, you know, And I'm like, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>want to go. I'm I'm from Jersey. I thought it

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<v Speaker 5>was just rainforest. So he was like, all right, get

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<v Speaker 5>your passport, We're going to Brazil. So me, him and

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<v Speaker 5>my boyfriend at the time went down to Brazil, and

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<v Speaker 5>I fell in love with the place because I hadn't

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<v Speaker 5>started working out yet. I was this insecure boy from

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<v Speaker 5>Jersey and when you get down there, you're not wearing

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<v Speaker 5>a swim trunks. They make sure you throw on a

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<v Speaker 5>speedout and I'm like, I look silly in this thing.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to go back home and work out, but

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<v Speaker 5>at the same time, they still make you feel sexy

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<v Speaker 5>just the way they treat you. It's almost like you

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<v Speaker 5>have an immediate friend outside of anything sexual. When I

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<v Speaker 5>got into OnlyFans, I had friends in Brazil because I've

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<v Speaker 5>been going to Brazil for over a decade, so all

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<v Speaker 5>the guys out there were my friends. So I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, there's this thing OnlyFans. Listen, I know how

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<v Speaker 5>y'all have sex. I can't if I have sex like that.

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<v Speaker 5>So we yeah, we all kind of got together and

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<v Speaker 5>worked out how we'd all work together to get our

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<v Speaker 5>names out there. Amazing, a lot of the guys down

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<v Speaker 5>there before everything jumped off, you know that a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of studios would come down there and take advantage of them,

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<v Speaker 5>paying them like pennies compared to what they pay other

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<v Speaker 5>guys in the other parts of the world. And in

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<v Speaker 5>my opinion, they did a thing better than the other guys.

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<v Speaker 5>And they do it without attitude, and they do it

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<v Speaker 5>in a way in which they don't look at each

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<v Speaker 5>other as competition. They're looking at each other as helping

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<v Speaker 5>each other because for them, it's about survival, because they're

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<v Speaker 5>supporting their families, their loved ones. So it's nice to

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<v Speaker 5>see them like have an out or a way to

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<v Speaker 5>make a significant income without being taken advantage of.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I've seen it as well.

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<v Speaker 2>There's some studios that would bring people in for interviews

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<v Speaker 2>and as soon as the person said yes, they'd pop

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<v Speaker 2>them right in front of the camera without any training

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<v Speaker 2>any like.

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<v Speaker 1>And they would never have any right to that video. Again.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there was one performer who had a company make

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<v Speaker 2>a dildo inspired by his dick without ever asking him

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<v Speaker 2>or telling him. Even so, they like not only stole

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<v Speaker 2>his image for the box, but claimed that the doldo

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<v Speaker 2>was shaped like his penis. People think they can get

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<v Speaker 2>away with some real sneaky ship in the porn industry,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think part of that is because people feel

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<v Speaker 2>like it's still underground right there. There's not a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of like openness in terms of talking about the industry.

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<v Speaker 3>There aren't a lot of usis yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>You got to rely on someone who've been through it

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<v Speaker 2>and been you know, through those mistakes or been through

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<v Speaker 2>the trauma to be like, hey, look out for this

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<v Speaker 2>or do this, which it sounds like you're doing right,

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<v Speaker 2>Like it sounds like there needs to be more people

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<v Speaker 2>like you're working at porn, who have that perspective of

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<v Speaker 2>being an actor and know what feels right and what

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<v Speaker 2>seems fair.

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<v Speaker 3>At the end of the day.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk to me about making that switch from actor to director.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like the Brazilians directed me based off of

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<v Speaker 5>the experiences that I've had there. When you're directing someone,

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<v Speaker 5>you just you just teach them to be as natural, well,

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<v Speaker 5>in my style, natural as possible. Establish a brand for

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<v Speaker 5>yourself what people are going to know you for, just

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<v Speaker 5>like a wweast, you know, get that special move. You

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<v Speaker 5>gotta get those moves in that people know you buy it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking about my special moves.

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<v Speaker 5>Going to be my main word to people before we

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<v Speaker 5>start is show off because you're on a stage and

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<v Speaker 5>you want when people see you, you want them to

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<v Speaker 5>want to see more of you.

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<v Speaker 1>So show off. I say that to my bottoms too,

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<v Speaker 1>even show off. I don't bottom much.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Chris is like a You're a very adventurous spirit,

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<v Speaker 3>but it takes a while.

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<v Speaker 1>To yeah, get around to it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, I don't have a lot of tops in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I was going to ask you.

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<v Speaker 5>Number one, you're built the way you're built and you're

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<v Speaker 5>a black man, so people are always so do you

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<v Speaker 5>think you don't bottom much because you can't find.

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<v Speaker 4>The top that you that is wanting or willing. Really,

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<v Speaker 4>I just like I'm a bottom magnet. They see me

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<v Speaker 4>and they like reach out and like the tops don't

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<v Speaker 4>really I know.

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<v Speaker 2>So many that would have asked about you, even all right,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to fix off, can we We're going to

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<v Speaker 2>send them my way back to Brooklyn right over?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi? H No.

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<v Speaker 5>But I mean that's also the fun. Fun part of

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<v Speaker 5>it is seeing someone with your energy, your character and

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<v Speaker 5>then like in that moment they just turned into something

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<v Speaker 5>totally different.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, when my bottom switches on, Yeah, people are

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<v Speaker 4>always a surprised just turns.

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<v Speaker 1>Into something totally different, just like me. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I have such a delightful.

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<v Speaker 5>Conservative energy, but as soon as the sex turns on

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<v Speaker 5>and like it's I could be whispering in someone's ear.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, because I think when we talked to you,

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<v Speaker 2>I think the only impression I had of you was

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<v Speaker 2>from your porn scenes, and there's something very like not

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<v Speaker 2>not like authoritative, but there's something really kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>I got it right, You're you're kind of like the

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<v Speaker 2>guiding hand in the scene.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, What does it take for you to get

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<v Speaker 3>into that mindset when you're on set?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, how do you go from the right heam, we're

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<v Speaker 2>talking to now to the right hem. That's like balls

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<v Speaker 2>d been whispering crazy shit and someone's here.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yo yo, it's funny, asked.

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<v Speaker 5>I listened to the same song really with two songs,

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<v Speaker 5>La La La La La by Ari Lennox, okay, and

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<v Speaker 5>I listened to open Up by Danielle Caesar, but it's

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<v Speaker 5>called open and then it's the kiss. On that first kiss,

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<v Speaker 5>it's over. It's just like it's like match and I

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<v Speaker 5>look at it like a sport.

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<v Speaker 3>Like this time the balls will be going back and forth.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm curious were there any experiences you had as a

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<v Speaker 2>performer before you started directing where you had like pet

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<v Speaker 2>peeves and you were like, I never want to do

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<v Speaker 2>that as a director.

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<v Speaker 5>And I never liked titles being attached to me. So

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<v Speaker 5>they wanted me to be at the top because you don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't want to be labeled as I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to be called daddy. I don't want none of that. Ye,

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<v Speaker 5>I just want to be myself. Yeah, That's why Only

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<v Speaker 5>Fans is so great, is because we can be ourselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I think there is a it's certainly changing

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<v Speaker 2>a bit, but there's a trend in studio where it's

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<v Speaker 2>like a right, you're the top of your top, your bottom,

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<v Speaker 2>your bottom. It's nice to hear that you found some liberation,

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<v Speaker 2>right to be yourself and not like an archetype. And

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<v Speaker 2>you did that by starting your own company.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't wonder why that is, right, Like, why

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<v Speaker 4>are studios so beholden to these rigid.

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<v Speaker 1>Because they work.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it's just like yeah TV, if there's a

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<v Speaker 5>trend that's popping, they're going to run into the ground.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>When we do Only Fans, we kind of get to

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<v Speaker 5>experiment and see what works for us. When it's the studio,

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<v Speaker 5>they're putting money into the project, so they're gonna want

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<v Speaker 5>to make sure they get the return.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like a movie.

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<v Speaker 5>They're gonna they're gonna hire the stars that are gonna

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<v Speaker 5>get them the audience that they want.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you contracted with those big studio or you are? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>There used to be exclusive contracts from some common right, even.

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<v Speaker 5>With the guys that I worked with Voyeur you know

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of people say, oh, you should sign them

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<v Speaker 5>to exclusive contracts, and I'm like, no, they're they're their

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<v Speaker 5>own businessmen, and I want them to act that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we just working together. Yeah, I want them to

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<v Speaker 1>come back if they want exactly. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I would imagine that's the kind of thing you've learned

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<v Speaker 3>being a being am.

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<v Speaker 5>Because in all honesty, if I if I followed the

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<v Speaker 5>rules of an exclusive, I wouldn't have grown.

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<v Speaker 2>Talking about studio porn, I feel like the nineties into

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<v Speaker 2>the two thousand's was sort of that last era where

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<v Speaker 2>we started seeing big budget porn right, like, so that's costumes, storylines.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that's kind of fallen out of the mainstream.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you had all the money in the world

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<v Speaker 2>and you could shoot like an old school porn scene,

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<v Speaker 2>what would that porn sceine look like?

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<v Speaker 1>I would love like something out of the Matrix.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, I love that, like the full because people don't realize, like,

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<v Speaker 5>when I'm filming povs, I'm basically playing neo because I'm like.

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<v Speaker 1>Wit one hand holding my phone. Okay, so Matrix were

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<v Speaker 1>we casting.

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<v Speaker 5>I would love to cast Sean Zehyrin, who kind of

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<v Speaker 5>got me started Hazel Hoffman phrase melanin and then just like.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of the new performers. Are you liking the

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<v Speaker 1>new performers, that's the next generation of stars. I do okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I do? You know? And you know what, let me

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<v Speaker 1>say this. I had to train myself early on.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't ever become one of these performers who say, oh dang,

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<v Speaker 5>as good as we used to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to realize, you know, things evolved. It's also

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<v Speaker 1>the ages that they.

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<v Speaker 5>Feel comfortable during that stuff, because I don't feel like

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<v Speaker 5>I became even comfortable showing my face on an.

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<v Speaker 1>App until I was in my thirties. You know how

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<v Speaker 1>we used to always just show the body. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I always put my face out there.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you've got a really beautiful one. The face

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<v Speaker 3>card never declined.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, now, you appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 3>You knew that, and stop.

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<v Speaker 5>It's so nice to hear. Are you guys together? Oh no,

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<v Speaker 5>we just sound like we are, Mike a good couple.

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<v Speaker 1>I can see it through the room.

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<v Speaker 2>Surprise, surprise, top we can we start the scene and

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<v Speaker 2>everybody thinks they no, because you're gonna be the We're.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I love that.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, No, you're you're you're my sister.

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<v Speaker 2>No for sure, Yeah, yeah truly, but like my really

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<v Speaker 2>hots Okay, that's actually a little in senstuous.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe not my sister. You're a mesty all right, we're

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<v Speaker 3>not gonna do that. We're not gonna do that. We're

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<v Speaker 3>not family in that way that.

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<v Speaker 1>It really does. When I learn what what is selling,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, yeah, well it's like.

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<v Speaker 2>The straight people love stepmoms hooking up with the sun,

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<v Speaker 2>and then the gays love twins getting fucked together.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's really wild.

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<v Speaker 1>Am I allowed to ask you guys questions? What kind

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<v Speaker 1>of porn do you watch? I don't watch porn? You don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Since getting sober, I have stopped watching a lot of porn.

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<v Speaker 4>And now I have a lot of friends who are creators,

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<v Speaker 4>and every time I would open an app, it would

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<v Speaker 4>be them, and I was like, I know that this

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<v Speaker 4>is going to be very sexy, but I do not

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<v Speaker 4>want to see you having sex.

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<v Speaker 5>My best friend said that, he was like every time, like, well,

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<v Speaker 5>the fucking porn hub, it's you and I got cheap strolling.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then it's you again.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's funny you say that though, because I felt

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<v Speaker 2>very much the same way. I loved watching porn in

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<v Speaker 2>college because I just come out and I was like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>here are all the things I never knew about or

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<v Speaker 2>I never saw. And then I started editing porn and

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't watch it for like the whole time I

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<v Speaker 2>worked there in a year after, because you see it

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<v Speaker 2>and it's like you start seeing the scenes, right, you

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<v Speaker 2>see where the edits are.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you can notice everything, every single thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So I would find myself watching porn and being like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't believe that cut, or like, oh his hand

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<v Speaker 2>is on the different side of his dick. They clearly

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<v Speaker 2>like cut and then reset. So's it started ruining the

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<v Speaker 2>fantasy for me. But it felt like being a filmmaker

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<v Speaker 2>and watching a movie.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I find it so disappointing when people just set up

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<v Speaker 2>a tripod and it's very far away and that's all

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<v Speaker 2>you get.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like a still camera.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I'm watching the paranormal activity, you know

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<v Speaker 2>what I mean. It's like it feels like a home

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<v Speaker 2>security camera.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why my camera guy he's always flying around us.

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<v Speaker 3>That feels so dynamic, right when you when you go

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<v Speaker 3>from that wide shot and then you go in on

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<v Speaker 3>someone's face.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels like you're being drawn in. Is that a

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<v Speaker 2>decision you made intentionally too early on? When you were

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about the vibe of voyeur, you were like, we

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<v Speaker 2>have to have a dynamic visual approach.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>The way my camera moves it lets you know that

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<v Speaker 5>this isn't being chopped and pieced together.

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<v Speaker 1>This is going all the way through. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>full experience. I mean, you can fast forward or rewind

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<v Speaker 1>it all you want, but yeah, this is this is

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<v Speaker 1>the real thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. A lot of the shoots that you do with

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<v Speaker 3>Woyor are very like white tile, white sheets.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I like the I like the setting to be

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<v Speaker 5>as blank as possible so that the focus is on

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<v Speaker 5>there to perform. Absolutely, I think it makes the skins pop.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I was in Miami recently, and you know, I had

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<v Speaker 5>a scene that day, so of course I ran the

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<v Speaker 5>Marshalls and got my white bed linen and I got

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<v Speaker 5>back in the hotel and I was in the elevator

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<v Speaker 5>with a group of people and this one guy was like, oh, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>I love your movies.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I know what's happening. We saw the white linen

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<v Speaker 1>in the bag, and yeah, a.

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<v Speaker 2>Lot of friends I have that are porn performers often

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<v Speaker 2>get recognized in public, and they deal with it in

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<v Speaker 2>different ways.

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<v Speaker 3>So when you get the look when you're on public

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<v Speaker 3>and someone's like, how do you respond.

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<v Speaker 5>I say, my secret weapon is probably never to go

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<v Speaker 5>out in public. I mean I have the same places

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<v Speaker 5>that I generally go to every day, the park, hike, supermarket, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'll just chill by my friend's so I don't

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<v Speaker 5>usually get to have to deal with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe on a hike, yeah you know, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna save all the locations you listed. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like gays in La loved going for hiding.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where it happens.

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<v Speaker 5>It's always cute when it's like a group of them

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<v Speaker 5>coming down the hill and then one of them is

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<v Speaker 5>like the one that's bold enough to step aside and

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<v Speaker 5>feel like I love you. But you just smile, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>say thank you and keep a push. And I have dogs,

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<v Speaker 5>I have to keep a push.

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<v Speaker 3>You've always got to exit strategy with the dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>In the bedroom. Oh my god, I gotta take my

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<v Speaker 1>dogs for a walk.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, we are going to take a quick break,

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<v Speaker 2>but when we come back, we will be pumping rightheem

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<v Speaker 2>for some helpful.

0:21:02.880 --> 0:21:05.360
<v Speaker 3>Tips for shooting your own homemade content and more.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, stay tuned, welcome back.

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<v Speaker 2>We are here with the porn icon and dog Daddy himself,

0:21:17.480 --> 0:21:20.160
<v Speaker 2>Rhim Shabaz. I mean that literally does not a pup

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<v Speaker 2>play thing. He does have dogs and they're really cute.

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<v Speaker 2>So in this act, we are hoping Rahiem can share

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<v Speaker 2>just a few tips and tricks for how to maybe

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<v Speaker 2>follow in his footsteps. So I'm curious you mentioned you

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<v Speaker 2>started off.

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<v Speaker 3>Doing a bit of studio porn.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how you met some of the folks who kind

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<v Speaker 2>of helped you get your own footing and start on

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<v Speaker 2>your own. Now that you are running not just your

0:21:39.320 --> 0:21:41.399
<v Speaker 2>own only fans, but your own company, what are some

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<v Speaker 2>of the challenges to running your own studio and what

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<v Speaker 2>are some of the benefits?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I know what it feels like as a

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<v Speaker 5>performer to feel used by your studio, so I never

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<v Speaker 5>want anyone working with us to feel as though they're

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<v Speaker 5>just being used and tossed aside, So I try as

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<v Speaker 5>much to treat them with as much respect as possible.

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<v Speaker 5>For me, it's about all of us winning. The scary

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<v Speaker 5>thing is once someone attains that kind of success, or income,

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<v Speaker 5>like to lose it, you go through something very dangerous,

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<v Speaker 5>like you either have to move on past it or

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<v Speaker 5>you become desperate and you start doing more extremes too. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>I think that's something that the world hasn't grappled with.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a lot of these.

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<v Speaker 5>Influencers, it's fleeting, and then you have to deal with

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<v Speaker 5>the people after they crash out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So I'm curious how the rise of fans heights

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<v Speaker 4>and all this access to free porn has impacted you

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<v Speaker 4>and your business.

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<v Speaker 5>You are constantly full of anxiety trying to think of

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<v Speaker 5>what can take you to the next level, what can

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<v Speaker 5>make this evolve into something more lucrative or grander. You

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<v Speaker 5>want to bring something new to the game. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 5>people are starting to become numb to porn. Yeah, people

0:22:47.920 --> 0:22:49.040
<v Speaker 5>are becoming numb to sex.

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<v Speaker 4>And that was my thing, is I was starting to

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<v Speaker 4>become numb to porn and numb to sex, and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, I actually don't want that. I want to

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<v Speaker 4>be able to like put them having sex, to be

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<v Speaker 4>able to connect. And yeah, I feel like I've done this.

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<v Speaker 4>I've seen this a thousand times, you know. I mean

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<v Speaker 4>there are times when I do pop in. Sure, you

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<v Speaker 4>gotta see what the girls are up to, right, You

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<v Speaker 4>got to be up to date on your It's like.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's been a couple of weeks. I should probably take.

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<v Speaker 2>Care of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, damn, it be like that in New York City.

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<v Speaker 1>I work five jobs. Listen, do you want to work?

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<v Speaker 5>You want to have a smile on your face, not

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<v Speaker 5>that if you get it good enough. You want to

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<v Speaker 5>make the time. You want to knock the hands off

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<v Speaker 5>that clock so fast?

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<v Speaker 3>I do you want to ask?

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<v Speaker 2>You started doing porn after PREP had sort of come

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<v Speaker 2>out and was available to folks. But like, as somebody

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<v Speaker 2>who has been both of youer and a participant, how

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<v Speaker 2>do you think PREP has changed the porn industry or

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<v Speaker 2>how porn performers sort of operate within the industry.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's why you see kind of the eraser

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<v Speaker 5>of condoms in the industry. I think HIV a's has

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<v Speaker 5>always been the greatest fear amongst a lot of young

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<v Speaker 5>gay men, especially in the black community.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if you didn't do anything, or you did.

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<v Speaker 5>The simplest thing, you were work because you were kind

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<v Speaker 5>of felt like being a gay man, you're bound to

0:24:10.119 --> 0:24:12.159
<v Speaker 5>be cursed with So I think it took away the

0:24:12.240 --> 0:24:16.080
<v Speaker 5>stigma of being intimate with someone who has the virus.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it takes away the fear and I think

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<v Speaker 5>that's great. And it also gives us options to be safe.

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<v Speaker 5>And at ninety nine percent, that's that's feeling pretty safe. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was shocked when I read those numbers, because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you were around when it first came out, Like everybody

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, we don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>That was me. Yeah, and then I said, oh wait,

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<v Speaker 5>no a rich people taking this, let me go. But

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<v Speaker 5>then I said the price, Okay, let me see what

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<v Speaker 5>study I think. So, yeah, you find it right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you really do.

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<v Speaker 4>So for our listeners, what advice would you give to

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<v Speaker 4>them if they wanted to get started and important?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, there are a bunch of things i'd say.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean the number one thing I'd say is are

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<v Speaker 5>you sure? I mean the money, The exposure may look nice,

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<v Speaker 5>but once it goes out there, you can't take it back.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, are you sure this is what you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do? Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Then establish a brand, no matter how hot you are,

0:25:12.840 --> 0:25:14.760
<v Speaker 5>no matter how big your dick is, no matter how

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<v Speaker 5>big your ass is. If you don't have something that

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<v Speaker 5>people know you by like longevity is not going to

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<v Speaker 5>be within reach for you. Okay, maintain your mental health.

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<v Speaker 5>Social media alone is a lot to deal with. Then,

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<v Speaker 5>when you are putting yourself out there in a way

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<v Speaker 5>that's so intimate and exposed, you're going to have to

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<v Speaker 5>deal with some shit. Make sure you have a space

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<v Speaker 5>where you can deal with it properly.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you deal with that? Because people have opinions,

0:25:39.640 --> 0:25:41.600
<v Speaker 1>you know you. I think also it.

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<v Speaker 5>Helps for me that I got into this when I

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<v Speaker 5>was older, because I know how to separate from it.

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<v Speaker 5>It surprises me when I go out and someone recognizes

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<v Speaker 5>me because I'm doing what I do and I'm going

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<v Speaker 5>back to my life with my dogs and.

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<v Speaker 1>The friends that I do have. You have to have

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<v Speaker 1>a separation. Do you have a team that handles your socials? No,

0:26:00.640 --> 0:26:03.640
<v Speaker 1>I handle my social Listen, you be getting some good

0:26:03.760 --> 0:26:09.120
<v Speaker 1>messages in your socials. Time you got to see yourself.

0:26:10.320 --> 0:26:12.320
<v Speaker 1>You ain't see that as bad enough. He has access

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<v Speaker 1>to my emails.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'd love to hear about. What are some tips

0:26:21.040 --> 0:26:23.080
<v Speaker 4>or tricks that you can use for like creating your

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<v Speaker 4>own content at home?

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<v Speaker 5>Lots of lube, have a camera man, just to make

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<v Speaker 5>sure you get good angles, and not just for yourself

0:26:30.920 --> 0:26:33.600
<v Speaker 5>but for the person watching, like they want to see

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<v Speaker 5>this stuff. Make sure you present yourself and your sex

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<v Speaker 5>and the best light it can be presented.

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<v Speaker 1>So go to Marshalls. Go to Marshall's. Marshalls.

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<v Speaker 3>You heard of the best sex sheets are at Marshalls. Now, raheem.

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<v Speaker 2>You have great connection with your partners on on one

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<v Speaker 2>and in smaller groups, but sometimes you have a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of people in one room, like a lot of people,

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<v Speaker 2>and I am curious logistically, how do you choreograph that?

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<v Speaker 3>Like how do you start hurting cats when they're all horny?

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<v Speaker 5>First and foremost, you have to know who it is

0:27:07.240 --> 0:27:09.520
<v Speaker 5>you're inviting, because you have to know that they're gonna

0:27:09.560 --> 0:27:11.320
<v Speaker 5>vibe with everyone else in the room and see it's

0:27:11.400 --> 0:27:13.280
<v Speaker 5>like it's an egg whites. You can't get a yoke

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<v Speaker 5>in there and mess everything up.

0:27:15.080 --> 0:27:17.160
<v Speaker 1>Then you you lead.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, it may start off with just walking around

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<v Speaker 5>the room and kissing a person just to make everyone

0:27:24.760 --> 0:27:26.800
<v Speaker 5>like realize, all right, it's time I can do this.

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<v Speaker 5>Because everyone has their eyes it's almost like ready for

0:27:29.480 --> 0:27:31.480
<v Speaker 5>the race to go. They got their eyes on somebody.

0:27:32.080 --> 0:27:35.439
<v Speaker 5>And once you hit that start, then everyone starts dancing,

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<v Speaker 5>and it's literally not a performance. Everyone is like literally

0:27:40.400 --> 0:27:43.840
<v Speaker 5>just like genuinely enjoying each other. Yeah, and we just

0:27:43.920 --> 0:27:45.520
<v Speaker 5>have a camera guy that that follows it all.

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<v Speaker 2>Your seems to do a really good job of feeling

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<v Speaker 2>balanced when there are a lot of people in the room,

0:27:49.520 --> 0:27:51.480
<v Speaker 2>and typically they're like all on the couch or they're

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<v Speaker 2>all in the bed, but sometimes like an orgy.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm watching it as a critical eye, you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean? Be leading reviews absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>How can I ask you, guys a question? Would you

0:28:04.560 --> 0:28:07.440
<v Speaker 1>have sex with the porn star I have? I also have?

0:28:07.680 --> 0:28:11.240
<v Speaker 1>How comfortable are you talking about your sexual experiences? How

0:28:11.359 --> 0:28:13.920
<v Speaker 1>is it with? Then? It was great? I talk about

0:28:13.920 --> 0:28:14.800
<v Speaker 1>my sex life a lot.

0:28:15.960 --> 0:28:17.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we both do on this podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. If I had sex with you, would you come

0:28:20.240 --> 0:28:21.720
<v Speaker 1>back and talk about it on the podcast?

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<v Speaker 4>It depends if we said it was okay to talk

0:28:24.720 --> 0:28:27.359
<v Speaker 4>about I tell you it's okay, okay, great, I would

0:28:27.359 --> 0:28:28.280
<v Speaker 4>absolutely talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Tune in for later.

0:28:33.680 --> 0:28:38.040
<v Speaker 4>Because like I obviously would be bracking. Girl, you won't believe,

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<v Speaker 4>But I need this week never mind forgod, I asked,

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<v Speaker 4>oh Lord, what all? Oh we should make that out

0:28:48.320 --> 0:28:52.960
<v Speaker 4>one we will, Okay, please have you seen this?

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<v Speaker 2>Man?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh God, Now I'm saying, now that I know that

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<v Speaker 4>you run your socials, I'll send you something.

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<v Speaker 1>Now.

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<v Speaker 4>Your skills as a top are iconic. I'm curious what

0:29:06.840 --> 0:29:09.440
<v Speaker 4>do you look for in bottoms someone who's confident?

0:29:10.000 --> 0:29:12.680
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I like confidence, but I guess it doesn't really

0:29:12.720 --> 0:29:14.840
<v Speaker 5>matter because sometimes you can just draw it out of them.

0:29:15.080 --> 0:29:18.160
<v Speaker 1>They just turn to a different piece. Sure what I

0:29:18.200 --> 0:29:18.680
<v Speaker 1>was going to say.

0:29:18.720 --> 0:29:20.840
<v Speaker 2>You're pretty verse in some of your scenes as well,

0:29:21.040 --> 0:29:23.760
<v Speaker 2>So like when you're bottoming, what are some things that

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<v Speaker 2>you do to prepare feel comfortable.

0:29:25.880 --> 0:29:28.760
<v Speaker 5>It's interesting because in my private life I'm basically a top.

0:29:29.320 --> 0:29:32.600
<v Speaker 5>But the game of who's a top who's a bottom

0:29:32.680 --> 0:29:35.920
<v Speaker 5>in the gay community is such a stupid thing.

0:29:36.400 --> 0:29:39.680
<v Speaker 1>It's the first we like each other.

0:29:40.880 --> 0:29:43.440
<v Speaker 5>Why does one have to be more masculated than the other.

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<v Speaker 5>And I also think it's kind of the responsibility of

0:29:46.480 --> 0:29:51.280
<v Speaker 5>the top to understand how that feels doing it, because

0:29:51.400 --> 0:29:54.320
<v Speaker 5>you have to have some kind of empathy when doing

0:29:54.400 --> 0:29:54.760
<v Speaker 5>that to a.

0:29:54.800 --> 0:29:58.080
<v Speaker 1>Person, especially if you have a certain size. Get a tip.

0:29:58.520 --> 0:30:01.840
<v Speaker 5>I would say, get massages because if you learn to

0:30:01.960 --> 0:30:05.200
<v Speaker 5>take a massage, it's similar. The more you relax, the

0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:08.040
<v Speaker 5>more you can just enjoy it. The more you can enjoy,

0:30:08.120 --> 0:30:11.120
<v Speaker 5>the just relax. Most people are so tense and they're

0:30:11.160 --> 0:30:12.440
<v Speaker 5>worried about the pain that's coming.

0:30:12.760 --> 0:30:14.800
<v Speaker 4>For me, it's less about the pain and more about

0:30:14.800 --> 0:30:17.520
<v Speaker 4>the performance anxiety, Like I want to get my top

0:30:17.600 --> 0:30:18.800
<v Speaker 4>an enjoyable experience.

0:30:19.240 --> 0:30:20.000
<v Speaker 1>It's weird that you.

0:30:20.040 --> 0:30:23.280
<v Speaker 5>Say that, because for me, it's the opposite, Like I

0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:26.840
<v Speaker 5>feel like I'm supposed to give this person an experience.

0:30:27.040 --> 0:30:28.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like I'm.

0:30:27.960 --> 0:30:30.360
<v Speaker 5>Supposed to pull them into my world. Okay, you know,

0:30:30.360 --> 0:30:32.680
<v Speaker 5>all you have to do is later and when you

0:30:32.760 --> 0:30:34.040
<v Speaker 5>feel it, when you feel.

0:30:33.800 --> 0:30:39.920
<v Speaker 3>The spirit, just lie there is crazy, you would pointing, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>come on it kicks.

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<v Speaker 1>How do we get on this topic, Well, welcome to.

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<v Speaker 2>So we have a few rapid fire questions for you,

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<v Speaker 2>if we may ask, so, could you describe your Sniffy's

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<v Speaker 2>profile picture for us if you have one.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a picture that I took in Barcelona. I'm just

0:31:00.600 --> 0:31:03.320
<v Speaker 5>standing and my dick is straight out. I literally look

0:31:03.400 --> 0:31:06.200
<v Speaker 5>like an action hero. So I would say your profile

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<v Speaker 5>picture should be the perfect representation of you.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, what was the last message you received on

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<v Speaker 4>Sniffy's and can you read it out loud?

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<v Speaker 1>What you want me to go get my phone and

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<v Speaker 1>you read it. You know. My messages are usually like

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<v Speaker 1>is this really you? Rahem lives in La Can I

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<v Speaker 1>travel right? All right? When you're hooking up? Is it

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<v Speaker 1>your place, their place or a third place? My place?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I know how I like everything to be.

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<v Speaker 5>And there have been times where I would go to

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<v Speaker 5>another person's place, but then I'd be like, this is

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<v Speaker 5>why I do it in my place.

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<v Speaker 1>I get that.

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<v Speaker 3>What is the corniest opening line that's ever worked on you?

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<v Speaker 1>On me?

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<v Speaker 5>I think in today's world, no one really feels the

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<v Speaker 5>need to be corny. People are pretty bold now. They

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<v Speaker 5>come up and they'd be like, I want that dick.

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<v Speaker 1>How do I get that dick? Yeah, people, I'm absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>giving you the corny line to me, how do I

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<v Speaker 1>get that?

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<v Speaker 5>It's not even just that, but there will be like

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<v Speaker 5>I want you to slut me out, okay, And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 5>I do not just like.

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<v Speaker 1>Gather guys for like, I do not take orders. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not all right, where's the last place you hooked up

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<v Speaker 1>with someone? My bedroom? Just before my flight? Amazing? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt that I missed my flight, but I'm here.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>When you were like, oops, I missed my flight to China.

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<v Speaker 1>You got found out. You got found out.

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<v Speaker 2>There is one thing you should know, which is that

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<v Speaker 2>good sex is always an excuse to be good.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm here. You've got a good story.

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<v Speaker 3>Was good, No, it wasn't good.

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<v Speaker 1>It was amazing. It was amazing. It was amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the way you said that shook shook me to

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<v Speaker 3>my core a couple of times. Just whispered into my whole.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't a whisper.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe we're almost to.

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<v Speaker 1>The end of the episode.

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<v Speaker 3>Just hold on, hold on, all right, you got it.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna be good. My god, I could feel your

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<v Speaker 3>hands clenching and your whole loosening. But we will make

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<v Speaker 3>it to the end, I promise you.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody, nobody, all right, what an amazing show, Raheem. It

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<v Speaker 2>has been such a pleasure having you in studio talking

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<v Speaker 2>about your amazing work and getting some really helpful advice

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<v Speaker 2>from you.

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<v Speaker 3>We just really appreciate it. You've been such a Thank

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<v Speaker 3>you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>This is really cool. We did a cool thing today.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you guys are happy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty sure folks know where to find you. But

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<v Speaker 2>where can folks learn more about boy or see your

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<v Speaker 2>work or find you online.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh God, in person, just type in the name r

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