1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: Wait that ass up in the morning. Breakfast Club Morning, 2 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:08,960 Speaker 1: everybody in cdj Envy and Ngula Yee, Charlomagne the guy. 3 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. He got some special guests 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: joining us, Alexandrea from The poor Man's Podcast. Welcome. Hi, 5 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: Thank y'all for having us difficulty, but we got it together. 6 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 1: Finding how y'a feeling this morning? We're feeling good, y'all 7 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 1: complaining about being cold. I ain't got no clothes on. 8 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: I'm to a Texas girl. You know York. Well it's 9 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 1: called year like damn. Yeah, but New York is different. 10 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:37,919 Speaker 1: We like New York. It's your first time in you now. 11 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: I used to come here all wow, he tried to 12 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 1: play you because y'all country, that is what were you 13 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: in New York doing? My best friend used to live here. 14 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: He actually went to Saint John's and Queen's. We used 15 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: to be outside. I used to be going to Griffid 16 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: and up and down. What kind of best friend? Sirrel? 17 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: Best friend? He's married now? He just got married over 18 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: here actually like a few months ago. Yeah, how did 19 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: that work out? How did she feel about, you know, 20 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: him having a best friend that's a female woman. I 21 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 1: really like her because honestly, I think most women don't 22 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: be like that when it comes to the man having 23 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: enough female bas screen. It was in the picture for 24 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 1: you know a long time. But she's been super super 25 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 1: cool and super supported, so you had to meet her 26 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,040 Speaker 1: and everything. Like when he first started dating, he's like, 27 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: I want you to meet my friend. Yeah, but she's 28 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 1: never had like any weird feelings towards me, and like 29 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: she's genuinely like a nice person and she supports our friendship. 30 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: Did you know she was the one for him? Yeah, 31 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: because she changed him in a lot of ways really Yeah, 32 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 1: Like he used to be wild and like she's calmed 33 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: him down, and I like, got you. He never was 34 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,960 Speaker 1: interested though, No, he always been my best He's not 35 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: my site, okay, And I think that's why she is 36 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: not worried about our relationship because she know, like we 37 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: don't even like each other like that. If he's got 38 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: your tee, what is your tepe? I don't necessarily have 39 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: a type. It's weird, but he just not my ain't 40 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: got no time. Let's I just would never date him. 41 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: That's my best friend. Well, let's talk to me my 42 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: best friend with Saint John's too but I don't really league. 43 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: He was an Envy's type though, but he told me 44 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: how to DJ me growing up. Was actually went to 45 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: Saint John's name is Mono, asshole. I was heirs with 46 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 1: all you said, that is true. It's not a power 47 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: top No, I'm definitely a poled I don't want to start. 48 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 1: I'm not a power I was. I would be a 49 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 1: power top club. No, okay, but let's let's start from 50 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: the beginning. How you get this podcast started? How did 51 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: y'all meet that whole minds? Oh Lord, like the cloud? 52 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: We was drinking and real it was called prime Time. 53 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:46,239 Speaker 1: It wasn't Houston, but it wasn't open a long No, No, 54 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: it was like it was DC, the guy that used 55 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: to own be Live. So they were trying to like 56 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: a starlet and like starlet. The script is a whack 57 00:02:55,960 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: with the y y'all. Y'all were there drinking, chilling and 58 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 1: what made y'all meeting and Lincoln connect because usually girls 59 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 1: when they meet, they don't really connec y'all connected over 60 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: y'all baby heads. He don't say something about it because 61 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 1: we was laying them down this morning. We don't like 62 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: we gonna light them edgy. No, But I think the 63 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: reason we connected was because, like she didn't know how 64 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: to make drinks at all, and it was my first 65 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: real barty I would but she was a good talker, 66 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: Like she was finessing the niggas. I was making the drinks, 67 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 1: and that's we was like making a lot of money 68 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: to have. I'm like, oh yeah, because we had a 69 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: little program working. It was like the first night that 70 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: we worked together, because we were actually working together for 71 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: a few months before we actually talked, so like I 72 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: used to see her at work, but we just never 73 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: had a conversation. And then one night this guy came 74 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: to the club and he was talking to me, and 75 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, he's talking about girl he went along island. 76 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: I don't know how to make that. I mean he 77 00:03:56,360 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: was asking for everything. He was like, man, yeah, how 78 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: to make this? He the see and cold and so 79 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: I think we made like four thousand dollars damn yeah, 80 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: and we split it for niggas. Like I'm trying to 81 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: figure out what well it was just because like I 82 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: think a lot of it is he was just so 83 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: impressed that she could actually make a drink, But it 84 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: was really me making the drinks. Like you know, so 85 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 1: we just kind of got I was like, Okay, this 86 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: is what we're gonna do. Yeah, you're gonna take all 87 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 1: these niggas. I would make the drinks is let me 88 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: know what you need, and it was like the service 89 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 1: was fast because we was working together. But they didn't 90 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: know that. So it was like, Okay, these niggas are 91 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 1: simple and pressed out. Yeah yeah, basketball player and shoot 92 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: basketball too. Oh yeah. He used to be a haul 93 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: crazy because rama going on between the strippers and the bartenders. 94 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: You know, they throw all the money, you know, back 95 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: behind the bar and stuff like that, so it's like, oh, 96 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 1: we all got to split it. And then like some 97 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,720 Speaker 1: of the bartenders didn't weren't working, and we was like 98 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: we about to split this. So we used to be 99 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 1: like stuff and the money like in our side, and 100 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: we would be like, all, I gotta go to the 101 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: locker real quick. And we shared lockers, so we would 102 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: just sew our money in there, and they was like 103 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 1: everybody would be complaining to me and dragging the back like, well, 104 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all talking about. I've never gotten 105 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: to working at the clubs and at that club and 106 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: he was but I used to come out here in 107 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: barteen City scales. I think I worked at Starlist before, 108 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: like I used to come be against bartender and I 109 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: got into it with a stripper out here before hands. No, 110 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: I didn't know, but we got into it. Though. It 111 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: was like pretty bad because she was like, bitch, that's 112 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,280 Speaker 1: my money, I'm weak. I was like, girl, no, it's nice. 113 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 1: But I didn't know how she worked out here, like 114 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:36,480 Speaker 1: she was ready to fight. Turned up. You wasn't scared. 115 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 1: I wasn't scared, but it was just like damn girl 116 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 1: calmed down and spifty dollars. So y'all were friends? Wait 117 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: before the podcast? Two years? Years? Two or three years? First? Okay, 118 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: first I saw y'all was on eighty five South show 119 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 1: We Call Over. I don't think DC and Chico was 120 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: there that day. Yeah, we was cutting up, honestly, I 121 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 1: have Me and carl Us have been cool for a while, 122 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: like we just always have followed each other, and I 123 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 1: think he was just kind of like sitting in the 124 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 1: cut watching us. And because I think with a lot 125 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: of podcasters, it's like people were started and then it's 126 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 1: like three months later, it's like, damn, what happened to 127 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 1: your podcast? And I think he just saw us being 128 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: so consistent and he was like, man, let me see 129 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 1: what they can do. And literally after we went on 130 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 1: eighty five, it was like a bunch of clips that 131 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: went viral and we were like everywhere and all of 132 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: a sudden like people like, okay, who are these girls? 133 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 1: So yeah, but we had just been cool and he 134 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 1: had been following me for a while and you know, 135 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 1: started interacting and that's how it came about. That's what 136 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: made y'all start the podcast? How did y'all start? What 137 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: was that decision? You Like? People whenever where around people, 138 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: they always be like y'all so crazy and y'all so funny, 139 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: Like y'all need y'all own show. Y'all need to people 140 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 1: need to see this because we really are like these 141 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: off camera too. But I feel like too, like you 142 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 1: know how when people say that, everybody feel like, yeah, 143 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: they have a good conversation I podcast, Oh they've have 144 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 1: a good time, Like, oh my god, girl, we need 145 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: a reality. That's not what God got planning for. It's 146 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: a little different because I mean we wouldn't even be 147 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 1: doing shit. We would just be sitting on the couch 148 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: at somebody house. People like man like it was every time. 149 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: I mean no matter where we went and we're in 150 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: front of strangers, people who knew it, it was like, okay, well, 151 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 1: let's like start a YouTube channel. We never thought that 152 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 1: we were going to get into podcasts because her ex 153 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: gave her the idea of us to start the YouTube 154 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: because we used to do like a little show called 155 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: wind Out on Wednesday before we switched it over the 156 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: Poor Mine, and we got that idea from him. And 157 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 1: then one of her friends was already a podcaster and 158 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: she was like, y'all need to turn it into a 159 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: podcast because y'all can make away more money and monetize this. 160 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: When we switched the name to Poor Mine, who was 161 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: your friend Mandy? Okay yeah, she was like, yeah, y'all 162 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: need to make it a podcast. So that's what we did. 163 00:07:56,480 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: Who was your ex? Nobody that man is credited manible 164 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: sounding the podcast. It ain't no, it ain't no. Our 165 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: listeners are very very knowledgy, So as soon as I 166 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: name that can be like so somebody people know, um 167 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: yeah used to people definitely, No, people don't know DM 168 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: me homi. I'm gonna give you like what's up, what's up? 169 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:34,719 Speaker 1: Work let's work and work. Brothers, he said, brother, he 170 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: must be terrible to be terrible good. No, he's not 171 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,079 Speaker 1: a terrible person. I feel like, you know, a terrible rapper. 172 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:45,199 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, let me say this honestly. Okay, 173 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:48,079 Speaker 1: he is. He can write. He got some good lyrics. 174 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: I feel like the it's difference between making good music 175 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 1: and being like a lyricist like he has. He can 176 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: write all day. Raps are good songs, not so much. 177 00:08:56,200 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 1: But you know, you never know, bro, No, you're gonna 178 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: be like this is as what was you thinking? So 179 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: for people that doing know, we've never heard the podcast, 180 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 1: what do y'all talk about and discuss on the podcast? 181 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 1: We talk about everything. I think. I talk about dating, 182 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 1: we talk about six we talk about music. I mean, 183 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: we really just be navigating through life. I think that 184 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 1: that's one of the great things about our podcasts that 185 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: you can see the growth, like because we keep up 186 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: all of the old contents, so you could look back 187 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 1: from four years ago and really just see us grow. 188 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 1: You see the evolution of the conversations. At one point 189 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:39,320 Speaker 1: we just talk about niggas. Yeah, like men with money 190 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 1: and that I think a lot of times people have 191 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: the podcasts all wrong, you know, like because all of 192 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: the clips that happen to go viral be us talking 193 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: about men with money or you know, dating and trying 194 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 1: to figure out, you know, how to get this. But 195 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: I feel like our podcast is really about like celebrating 196 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 1: women and what we deserve and you know, having higher stands, 197 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: dirts and getting that confidence that you never had, and 198 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 1: you know how we can talk about music and just 199 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 1: showing us in a different light because of course when 200 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 1: people look at us saying, you know, we're sexy, we'd 201 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: like to be batties, but it's so much more than 202 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: that to us, right, So I feel like that's who 203 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 1: the podcast is for, because we like to say, you know, traditionally, 204 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: like batties don't listen to podcasts, you know, they just 205 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 1: be outside. So we feel like this is a lane 206 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 1: for the baddies, you know, to come in because the 207 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 1: live shows it'd be nothing. But it's different. Yeah, it's different. 208 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 1: Find a batty for those who may not know what 209 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 1: a baddies. I mean, I definitely feel like, you know, 210 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: you have to look the part, but that secondary I 211 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: feel like it's more of a mindset thing. No, you 212 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 1: can't be musty and bad. I'm saying, you know you can't. No. 213 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: I feel like to me, like a baddie is somebody 214 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 1: who like they're they're confident first of all, like they 215 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: walk in a room, it doesn't matter you know how 216 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: other people view them. They know how they view themselves. 217 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: And I feel like that's with us, Like we don't 218 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: care what clip goes viral or what's y'all thing. Y'all 219 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 1: can be like hot these birds get on breakfast club 220 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 1: because it's gonna be a lot of people saying that. 221 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 1: I don't care, you know what I'm saying. So I 222 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 1: feel like it's just like a confidence thing, you know, 223 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 1: And like I said, we cannot act like. It's not 224 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 1: the looks thing too, Like that's what you said. But 225 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: it feel like you gotta be a nice person, Like 226 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:30,680 Speaker 1: I feel like you can't be a baddy and be mean. Yeah, 227 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 1: Like I mean, we don't like mean girls. Girls just 228 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 1: be mean. It's helping out reasoning. What if you nice, 229 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 1: confident and musty, you're not a bad man. Musty people 230 00:11:40,559 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: be coming around like you're not so question so y'all say, 231 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 1: y'all dating all, y'all dating? Um, I'm control right, now. Yeah, 232 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:10,719 Speaker 1: talking about relationships, right, Um, I actually just got out 233 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:15,959 Speaker 1: of a situation. So situation that's all you want a 234 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 1: relationships because it's like it's been complicated. It's been a 235 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: very long time of a lot of back and forth. 236 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 1: But you know, I'm single now, So what made you 237 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 1: finally break up? He went back this way? Not this one. 238 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: That's not just let me stop, no, no, no week. 239 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: But no, I just feel like I'm at a different 240 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 1: point in my life. You know, I've had a lot 241 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 1: of changes, a lot of things going on. I just 242 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 1: feel like we're in two different places. It ain't no 243 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 1: bad blood, like I still got love for him, you know, 244 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 1: it ain't. No. I'm not a girl that like, oh 245 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: I hate him and I'm gonna talk down on him. 246 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: I've never been a break up. What was the situation? 247 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: Finally say it was over? I mean a lot of 248 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:03,680 Speaker 1: stress and our relationship like hepo, No, not that. I 249 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 1: mean I'm busy. I travel a lot. You know, he 250 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: has a lot going on, not that life right now? 251 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: So you got what I gotta do? Do Men get 252 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: jealous because they see y'all, you know, starting to grow 253 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: in this space. I don't know, I haven't really witnessed 254 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 1: jealousy so much. But I think that it's weird because 255 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: a lot of guys that I used to talk to 256 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: be trying to like come back to me, and they 257 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 1: be trying to do like extravagant things to talk to 258 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: me now. And I think that's very strange because it's like, 259 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 1: what made you have such a slitting and change of heart. 260 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: I like the sudden change of heart. I don't like you. 261 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: I don't like it. I mean, he didn't do come 262 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 1: with y, but he's still like I'm gonna take against 263 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 1: but still needna leave me alone. Right, Facts we always 264 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 1: take together. The most expensive thing a guy has brought you, um, 265 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 1: the most expensive Honestly, I always say this. It was 266 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 1: a while back, but he put the down payment on 267 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:58,560 Speaker 1: my car, Like that helped me get a car off. No, No, 268 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:00,679 Speaker 1: this was like two thy twelve if I got a 269 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 1: Dodge Challenger, so you know. And then I got another 270 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 1: relationship paid off my student loans, and then I got 271 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: him to pay off my car. A man paid off 272 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 1: your student loans, yet I'm pocketed that money and did 273 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: something else. No, it's good you got your students to 274 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 1: be a responsible baddie in the streets, you know, like 275 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 1: you get money from a man, girls just buying bags 276 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: and shoes. I was the one like, let me pay 277 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 1: my bills. But now I'm happy about it that I 278 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 1: did that. But I was always the girl like getting 279 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 1: money and taking care of my business. About you. Most 280 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 1: expensive gift bought me a Range Rover last year. Nice 281 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 1: new it's paid off bills. I like your student loan payments. Yeah, 282 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: he paid off half on my student pay off all 283 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 1: of them. But he paid off half. But this was 284 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: a different Range Rover last year and it was paid off. 285 00:14:55,720 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 1: But I never liked hast six Yeah, nicet all the 286 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: student loans. He still wanted you to have to work 287 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 1: for something. I think, so okay, but he was. But 288 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 1: he used to pay all my bills like he was 289 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 1: taking here of me. Yeah that's fly. Yeah I paid 290 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 1: off my white student loan. You didn't. I still all 291 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 1: like twenty thousand I like, And he paid twenty five 292 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 1: range over like ninety thousand dollars. Bro, Yeah, I don't care. 293 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 1: I should have paid for the student loans ninety thousand. 294 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 1: You could sell its extra. You can't be my X 295 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: after I pay your student loans off. You can't just 296 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 1: walk away from me after that? Why you drought a 297 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: lot about student loan? Was like he could she could 298 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 1: progress in life. Now wait minute, how do you come 299 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 1: with him? Yeah, loan? How do you just walk away 300 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: from a man after that? Now that were two different guys. Okay, 301 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 1: well how do you listen for both of you? How 302 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: do you just walk away from a man who paid 303 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: your student loans? That's a differently. If he talks right, 304 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 1: he don't walk away. But honestly, I feel like that's 305 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: what we talk about on the show a lot. I 306 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 1: feel like a lot of young women they out here 307 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 1: like chasing these guys with money and then they have 308 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: no like end goal. And I'm not saying, you know, 309 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 1: use people, That's not what I'm saying, but I feel 310 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 1: like in certain situations, I mean in certain situations, so 311 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 1: like we know what it is, like, let's not be dumb. 312 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 1: These men want sex, you know, and women want money whatever. 313 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: So if you're young and doing that, at least be 314 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 1: smart about it. So that's what we try to tell people. 315 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: At least be smart, like don't be out here trying 316 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: to keep up with her and buying Rick Owens buying product, 317 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: going doing all this so for us, like when you're 318 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 1: dealing with the man and he own product than you. 319 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that, but like I just mean as 320 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 1: far as like when you're dealing with a guy who 321 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 1: buys you a bag, you'll leave. So why can't I 322 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 1: deal with a guy who pay off my student loans 323 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 1: and live before? But it was Michael, don't count Michael. Course, 324 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 1: I might have to take away your bad he calls. 325 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 1: Years ago. I ain't had no business minor that bad going. 326 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 1: It used to be popping. I remember I had a 327 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:08,639 Speaker 1: Michael Core's wife. That's when you was in New York. 328 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:11,199 Speaker 1: I got mad and through it and broke it. How 329 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: do you break up? How you break up with somebody 330 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 1: that bought your range over? How's it over together? Tell 331 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:20,399 Speaker 1: him the wammy? Though? What's the w you know? But 332 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 1: I didn't have sex with him? I said, absolutely, Just 333 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: he was a guy. You know, he was a guy. 334 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 1: This man bought you a range Rover and you never 335 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:36,160 Speaker 1: let him smell it? No yams to break this down? 336 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 1: So what happened? He just hate babe, I want to 337 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:40,439 Speaker 1: buy your rang So I met him through one of 338 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 1: my other friends, like she lives in Atlanta, and she 339 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 1: was cool with him because she used to talk to 340 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 1: his partner, and so I guess he wanted to talk 341 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:48,720 Speaker 1: to me. We had hung out a few times, and 342 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 1: all of a sudden he just started texting her and 343 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:52,440 Speaker 1: he was like, I want to buy Dray another car, 344 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 1: big trick energy yeah, and so she was like, of course, 345 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 1: she was like hell, yeah, I don't hear buy it. 346 00:17:57,680 --> 00:17:59,239 Speaker 1: So then she was texting me and she was like, oh, 347 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:00,880 Speaker 1: what kind of cars like? So I was like, okay, 348 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:02,439 Speaker 1: I either want a J L E Coop or I 349 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 1: want a rain Drover. So she's sent him the cards 350 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: and he was like, okay, I'm gonna get it, and 351 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,399 Speaker 1: then he started taxing legs saying the same thing. He 352 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I just really want to get Drag 353 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 1: another car because I still have my other car too 354 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 1: that I had before he bought me, the rain River, 355 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 1: And so he just ended up. He tried to buy 356 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:31,440 Speaker 1: one and then he didn't go through something happy and 357 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 1: then something happened he couldn't get it. Then we got 358 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:35,920 Speaker 1: into it. A few weeks later. I blocked him and stuff, 359 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden he just popped up 360 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 1: with this white rain drover. He finally stole somebody credit 361 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 1: card that work. Yeah, yeah, probably happened. He didn't try it, 362 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 1: didn't try to have sex with you, smash nothing. Of 363 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 1: course he did. But I just wasn't interesting because he 364 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 1: was corny, because even I knew he was doing it 365 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:53,159 Speaker 1: because he wanted like recognition, because even when he told 366 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 1: me that he got the car, he was hitting her 367 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 1: up in my friend and he was like, oh yeah, 368 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 1: I want to take all of y'all to eat, and 369 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna hire a videoographer to talk about it on 370 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: the show. It was just weird. He was doing was 371 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:08,239 Speaker 1: real corner. That's that's what I said. The finesse came 372 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: in because I was definitely helping. I'm like, yeah, she 373 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: cares about you, bro get the call and then she 374 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:15,880 Speaker 1: needs the call, and then I ended up flying out. 375 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,359 Speaker 1: He was going around telling people in Atlanta that he 376 00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:20,199 Speaker 1: had sex with me, and he never had sex with me, 377 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 1: so I was like, I knew he was going but 378 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 1: if he's somebody behind it, So he was like, nobody 379 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:33,159 Speaker 1: saying that here, Roman Sly you supposed to let a 380 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 1: rum or slid when somebody said I had sex you 381 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: a call so I didn't know that. That's what I say. 382 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 1: She didn't ask for you said he in jail right now? Yeah, 383 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 1: p scam he enough for something. But that's what happened 384 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 1: when you're not a nice purse. Wow, man bought you 385 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 1: a call and he not a nice But you know 386 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 1: that's a good point because I always say, just because 387 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:53,880 Speaker 1: somebody does something good for you doesn't mean they're good 388 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 1: for you. And you don't mean hesterial motives, you know, 389 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 1: like that wasn't coming from his heart, so you got played. 390 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:02,200 Speaker 1: But you said earlier that men and women know what 391 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 1: it is. Women want money and men want sex. So 392 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 1: is that really an Ontario motive? I mean, but it 393 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 1: was more than that though. It wasn't just a sex 394 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:10,879 Speaker 1: for him Like I said, he wanted to recogn it 395 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:14,399 Speaker 1: like he wants to be He wanted to date her, 396 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 1: but not because it was like he really liked her, Like, 397 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:21,639 Speaker 1: oh he was ugly. He kind of looked like a lesbian. 398 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 1: Yeah he's one of them. He looked like, yeah, he's 399 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:27,679 Speaker 1: giving those kind of vibe like if you saw him, 400 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: you would be confused. He was very femininely, like if 401 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:36,119 Speaker 1: you saw drag with you be like, damn, I don't know. 402 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 1: He asked me vibes. He was definitely like because and 403 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 1: then he tried to be my bestie. So he with 404 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 1: me texting her. It was so he was like, yeah, 405 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 1: he was like, I gotta get He texts you one 406 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: time when he said, I got, I gotta get dry 407 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:55,360 Speaker 1: the car because she said she gonna. I couldn't remember 408 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: the Christie like I said, I was gonna give him 409 00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:01,280 Speaker 1: his head. Yeah, and she didn't, but I said that 410 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 1: she was. He said, you lied to the man's mouth. 411 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 1: Now we lie for each other all the time, Like 412 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 1: two months ago about what we'll just be lying for 413 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:21,359 Speaker 1: each other. I can't even remember it. Be like small 414 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:24,320 Speaker 1: small things we'll just give each other. They look and 415 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 1: I'll be like, oh, I gotta line. So no, lex, 416 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:28,719 Speaker 1: I heard you said that women cheat better than men. 417 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, absolutely, you believe that. I absolutely believe it 418 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 1: because black men don't cheat, so of course y'all would 419 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 1: be black black men. That is a lie. I'm a 420 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 1: black man. I got a mirror you one of billion 421 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 1: black boys. Black boys cheap. Black men don't cheat like 422 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 1: it goes. I feel like women cheat better. I'm not 423 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: cheating on Huh. He said, what how I got cheated 424 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 1: dating a black boy, even black. I don't even know 425 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,359 Speaker 1: if he was black, he was black. Okay, I'm weak, 426 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: But no, I feel like women cheat better just because 427 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,639 Speaker 1: I maybe putting up the ladies on blasts right now, 428 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 1: but I feel like we're just a little more smooth 429 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: and sneaky with it. We don't a smarter. Yes, women 430 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:10,160 Speaker 1: are smarter, like gods will be out with another girl 431 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 1: and letting her post and record and other people that 432 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,640 Speaker 1: have seen it, Like guys are just sloppy, Like they're 433 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: very sloppy. They don't cover their tracks very well, like 434 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 1: I'll see if I'm not saying that I've done this before. 435 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 1: But it's like if I'm with my man, I see 436 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 1: a guy like my little sidnig, what's up? Bro? I 437 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 1: see it? Yea, And that was my personality. So I 438 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 1: feel like, you know, she got a lot, you know 439 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 1: what that little what if? That what if? My boy 440 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 1: blow you up? Right? But he not because when you 441 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 1: when you call with people and it's it ain't that 442 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: they know how to act'll be cheating on before both 443 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 1: of y'all. Hell, yeah, you mean I ain't say that. 444 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 1: I did not say that. I did not say that anything, 445 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 1: I say nothing out. Um. I have good investigation skills. 446 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:02,360 Speaker 1: I've had people tell me things. I said this all 447 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 1: the time. I don't know why people like fly I had. 448 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:10,760 Speaker 1: I gotta taken look through them stories. If you follow 449 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:14,119 Speaker 1: somebody new, I'm going to look. It's very easy to 450 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,720 Speaker 1: put things together. You never got caught cheating lex ever, 451 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 1: I never. I only cheated one time though, really good girl. 452 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 1: It was like way back in college, cheating on your boyfriend. 453 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 1: Why because the sex was wagged. Okay, that's a reasonable reason. 454 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 1: And then we were in two different CDs. Okay, that's 455 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,879 Speaker 1: another way. And he was still in Houston. Him he 456 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 1: never knows about this, Like, wow, he probably broke that 457 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 1: boy hard. He never knew. No, never know now before No, 458 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 1: not him. It was somebody else. They cheated on me. 459 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 1: But I found out because I went through his phone. 460 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 1: And that was the last time I ever got through 461 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:52,879 Speaker 1: because I lost team. She really did. Yes, I was 462 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:56,120 Speaker 1: straight lost the ass and everything. He was just talking 463 00:23:56,160 --> 00:24:01,200 Speaker 1: to a whole bunch of girls on Instagram. Savage. Yeah, 464 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,479 Speaker 1: well I was a savage before that. I had left 465 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 1: my guard down that time. I'm bounce back, though, I 466 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,680 Speaker 1: think for me like when I cheat if you don't 467 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:14,360 Speaker 1: tell me you love me. And if I'm going to cheat, 468 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 1: you said, what if you don't say I love you, 469 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 1: don't tell me good morning, I'm going to cheat less 470 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 1: cheered out, She's like a certified I love you. I'm 471 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 1: going to cheat like a grand Riding queen, I love you. 472 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,120 Speaker 1: I'm going to cheat. If you say grand riding, I'm 473 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 1: going version of good morning, grand rising queen, grand riding queen. 474 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 1: Oh hell no, I already know you're about to be 475 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:45,160 Speaker 1: on some bullshit. I don't want to hear that ship. 476 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: Damn well you say dress. You got anybody that says 477 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: grand rising to me? Why are you having like good morning? 478 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 1: Because he might think you a biscuit? It's not no 479 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: yeast over here. Now? What do y'all think about Nick 480 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 1: Cannon having ten kids? You know, Vivica Fox said that 481 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 1: she feels like he can't be a strong father figure 482 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 1: with ten kids from all them different women. What y'all think? 483 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,119 Speaker 1: I do feel like, if you have a lot of 484 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 1: kids in multiple households, it's hard for you to be 485 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 1: there for all else children. How how can you spreade 486 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,879 Speaker 1: those time out there evenly to be able to be 487 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 1: there for everybody. Yeah, I think. I think it's a 488 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 1: little different. But I don't like to judge people either, 489 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 1: you know, while they make their decisions. So it's not 490 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,640 Speaker 1: something that I would want. Like I don't have any kids, 491 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 1: so I feel like it's kind of strange on both ends, 492 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 1: Like if you're a woman with no kids, like having 493 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,240 Speaker 1: a child for a man that has all these children, 494 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 1: that's a lot like trying to get your kids to 495 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: know their siblings. Because I'm really close with my sister, 496 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 1: so I'll be thinking like, dang, if you're like the 497 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 1: tenth kid and then the first one is like twenty six, 498 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,200 Speaker 1: I just turn one, Like how are we gonna be friend? Right? 499 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 1: You know? So I've been thinking about stuff like that, 500 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 1: but I don't judge people. Yeah, I agree. I agree 501 00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 1: on the time thing, like you know, it's hard to have, 502 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:01,159 Speaker 1: you know, that much time to speel with all these 503 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 1: different kids at different places. But I mean, Nigga's say 504 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 1: he's not a strong father figure. I disagree with that 505 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 1: because he's a strong Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, So y'all 506 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,360 Speaker 1: wouldn't be eleven and twelve is what you're saying. Gets 507 00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 1: wild to become anything after like anything. After three, you walling? Really? Yeah, 508 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 1: you give me the second baby Mama, like things happen whatever, 509 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 1: you know, I might be like a little like, okay, girl, 510 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 1: we're gonna see but after that. But it's like because 511 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 1: it's like if he didn't start with any of these people, 512 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 1: would make you think, what if? To me, it starts 513 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,040 Speaker 1: to become a pattern after it's like three or four. 514 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 1: What if it's Bill Gates? Okay, well that's different. I 515 00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:45,359 Speaker 1: an't we talking? Now? Come on, now you're bad. He 516 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 1: hitting you. Now you're using your I like the way 517 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:56,719 Speaker 1: you Why y'all so quick to be with the rich 518 00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 1: white man but not the rich black man. Well, I'll 519 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:05,399 Speaker 1: go ahead. The basketball and white level of money. Okay, okay, okay, 520 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:07,639 Speaker 1: we at the level of money. Eaton musk and he 521 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 1: cannon got money, but must really got men. Yeah, it's levels. Okay, 522 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 1: Which sign would y'all not date? What? What sign would 523 00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 1: y'all not ate? Old geminis? Um, I don't discriminate. I'll 524 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:29,000 Speaker 1: give everybody a chance. You don't want to sign you honestly, 525 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 1: my situation was a capricorn. Now situation say a relationship. 526 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 1: Now they just crazy. It's like it's like two different 527 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 1: people June May June nor cancer bro. Oh you emotional, 528 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 1: that's right. I like one to sign. Okay, I like 529 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: the emotion. I loved it. I feel like I don't 530 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: really have you remember crazy, but really I don't date. 531 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 1: And there what celebrities trying to highlight y'all? Oh my god, 532 00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 1: let me see the DM somebody opened their DMS. Let 533 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 1: me see something. Definitely, because you aren't about to talk 534 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:14,920 Speaker 1: about this tomorrow. You don't tell about what I see 535 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 1: any celebty that you holed back as said, I'm gonna 536 00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:19,160 Speaker 1: give this a try. You ain't got to say names 537 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 1: that you dated, went on the dating and they weren't 538 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,919 Speaker 1: what you expected. Yeah, yeah, you know, I think honestly, 539 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 1: getting into this space, you realize like and I hate 540 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:33,480 Speaker 1: to say, oh my god, it's like they just be 541 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 1: corny the stuff that they care about, and like the 542 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: conversation conversation they don't be having anything to talk about 543 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 1: a lot of the time. It's like saw many men 544 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 1: think money is a personality trade, but they think they 545 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,800 Speaker 1: have to lead with that. And I mean, like maybe 546 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:48,720 Speaker 1: we contributed to that how we used to talk on 547 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: the show. We probably did, but it's just like, Okay, 548 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 1: I don't care about your cars and stuff, like who 549 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,960 Speaker 1: are you as a person. But I think they're okay 550 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,920 Speaker 1: with leaning on that because a lot of the women 551 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 1: who look good, you know, even men, they big brow 552 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 1: you and you know, but just because of what you have, 553 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 1: so they feel like they have to lead with that. 554 00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 1: So I think that's like the biggest thing that's be 555 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 1: like a turn off with like dating these celebrity guys 556 00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 1: or guys with money, and they probably feel like they 557 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 1: don't really got to do much because of who they are, 558 00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: right exactly, Like I just like I can't date somebody 559 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 1: who has no personality, who can't make me laugh, and 560 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 1: we can't have conversations of substance. It's gonna be rougher 561 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 1: y'all in a minute, though, because I mean, the more 562 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 1: the podcast grows, like, you're not gonna know if dude 563 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 1: really like y'all. They just like the the fame or 564 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:34,240 Speaker 1: the look. Right Yeah, I already feel like that's happening 565 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 1: right now. It's weird because that's why I was saying 566 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:38,720 Speaker 1: about the guy they bought me the car, like it 567 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 1: was just a weird energy. It was like you really 568 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 1: like me? Or do you just want to date me 569 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 1: so you can like come on a podcast. Now, let's 570 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 1: talk about flute out the flute outcomes. Somebody flies you out? 571 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 1: Huh what are you giving them back? Are you expecting 572 00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 1: not a damn thing? You got a range rover in 573 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:59,600 Speaker 1: and giving that talking to them? The bay the ba 574 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:05,600 Speaker 1: No uncle Batty my new name from not one. I 575 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 1: want y'all to stamp it. Don't call me nothing else. Okay, 576 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,440 Speaker 1: But now, honestly, I used to be like that, Like 577 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: I used to like go on trips with people and 578 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 1: knew that I wasn't gonna have sex with them. Now 579 00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,640 Speaker 1: I tell them up front of you, no, I would 580 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:21,360 Speaker 1: just go and enjoy myself and be like, you have 581 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 1: a lot to my period? Yeah I have. I actually 582 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 1: put a sandpony on one. I tell you you gotta 583 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,200 Speaker 1: get you gonna tell a lie, You gotta play out 584 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 1: all the way through. What about what the man say? 585 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 1: I don't care a period, don't stop nothing but a sentence. 586 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 1: Then what to be like? Well, I want to do that. 587 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to smell like pennies in here it 588 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 1: smelling like, No, we don't have to have sex, we 589 00:30:55,480 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 1: have oral we I mean you not see this is 590 00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 1: what I'm talking now going on here that I'm selling. Now, 591 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 1: he's like, smell like it, don't smell like nothing. That's trying. 592 00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:15,720 Speaker 1: You're smelling a penny all together. Yeah, you gotta start 593 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,760 Speaker 1: the little Yeah ran some red lights. I ain't ever 594 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 1: smelling nothing together. Man together again, it's gonna have a 595 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: little spit. But now I feel like at this like age, 596 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 1: I'm not saying like I said, the young girls just 597 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,920 Speaker 1: have fun a good time. But for me, if I'm 598 00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 1: you're wild by dirty pennies, I don't know how you 599 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 1: need one. That's kind of been like the car a 600 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 1: few times. This is a two thousand nineteen, it's a 601 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 1: two thousand twenty one. You ain't eighty four pennies like pery. Lord. 602 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 1: Feel like now it's like, I'm not gonna lie to you. 603 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,520 Speaker 1: If I'm going on a vacation with a man like 604 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 1: I like you, it's gonna be some that's knocking going going. 605 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 1: Like to me, that's a part of the fun of 606 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 1: a vacation for me. Like, of course, when you're younger, 607 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,080 Speaker 1: you just do things. You're having fun. But honestly, I 608 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,680 Speaker 1: feel like, um, things are a little different now people 609 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:15,720 Speaker 1: are weird, so you just can't be flying out with people, 610 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 1: and then you know, you get yourself in some messed 611 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: up situations. So I feel like have good intentions, especially 612 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,920 Speaker 1: when you're spending um, three four or five days with 613 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 1: somebody overnight you're going out the country, like then you 614 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,760 Speaker 1: get a little different then. So I don't travel with 615 00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:32,920 Speaker 1: somebody that I don't feel safe with and that I 616 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: don't like and that don't I want to be intimate 617 00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 1: with like and me and will leave you. I've got 618 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 1: lived places before facts, I will nowhere out the country 619 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 1: right right right, But like I got left in Miami 620 00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:49,160 Speaker 1: one time. God flew you out. Yeah, he actually lived 621 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:52,240 Speaker 1: here period, and well I didn't tell him I was 622 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 1: on my period. I just striped up tallow him, like 623 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 1: I didn't want to have sex with him. But he 624 00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 1: was mad because he had bought me some shoes. What 625 00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 1: kind of shoes? And you walked right out of his life. 626 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 1: Damn the hotel. Yeah, he left me. He didn't book 627 00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 1: my retin flight. And this was what I was still 628 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,720 Speaker 1: living in Houston. I hadn't moved to LA. Did you 629 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,959 Speaker 1: have the money to get back? Yeah I did, I did, 630 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,200 Speaker 1: But like what if I didn't though he ain't here, 631 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 1: did you? Did you? He did? I remember that you 632 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:21,800 Speaker 1: called me? Was like lead. I was like, why the voicemail? 633 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 1: Now he blocked me to then he blocks me or 634 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 1: social media have fe so I couldn't even say nothing 635 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,960 Speaker 1: to him. But y'all got to know, playing that type 636 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 1: of game, something like that, couldn't for sure for sure? Yeah, 637 00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 1: I think that's why we went out the country. Like 638 00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 1: so did the lady downstairs called, ma'am, you check out 639 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:45,400 Speaker 1: his It was a while time. I just couldn't believe 640 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,400 Speaker 1: that happened. I called my mom, was like, girl, I 641 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,200 Speaker 1: have to book the seven hundred dollars flight back to 642 00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 1: Houston one way because he didn't book my return. Flash. 643 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 1: Your shouldn't have win. That's right, right, But I mean 644 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,320 Speaker 1: that's a blessing that you had it. You're right, I'm 645 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,600 Speaker 1: trying to figure out the ball out Before that, I'm 646 00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 1: just doing shopping. We was a auderation, right, but you 647 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,720 Speaker 1: know what that man wants. You know why he's doing 648 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 1: all that. You know he ain't doing that for no reasons. 649 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:09,440 Speaker 1: Why I don't. This is why I don't date outside 650 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 1: my race. Because he was a white, white and he 651 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,840 Speaker 1: was smoking cigarettes. You should have known he was trouble. 652 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,640 Speaker 1: I mean, my friend, the one I said you used 653 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:22,120 Speaker 1: to live out here. I ain't mad at you. You shouldn't. 654 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 1: I ain't mad at you. Shouldn't get that white man nothing. 655 00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,920 Speaker 1: I ain't mad at you. Now. Have y'all ever been 656 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 1: in a relationship withhe? Y'all was crazy over man? Like, 657 00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 1: what's blue face girlfriend name? Y'all ever been like that 658 00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 1: over man? Na? I'm not gonna lie. That's too down 659 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:46,480 Speaker 1: bad because I don't want to get smoke because she 660 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:50,080 Speaker 1: can fight. YEA, my bad. But no, I just feel 661 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 1: like there's too many people out here in the world 662 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,880 Speaker 1: to experience. If you're like going back and forth with 663 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 1: somebody that much, and you know, we don't know that relationship, 664 00:34:58,120 --> 00:34:59,879 Speaker 1: that could be just be doing it for for sh'all. 665 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 1: They posted on the blogs every day. I mean, we're 666 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:03,680 Speaker 1: talking about them right now, so I don't know what 667 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 1: their plan is. But I feel like when it's too 668 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 1: much like combativeness, I'll just move on. Yeah. I don't 669 00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,640 Speaker 1: like toxic love. That's not fun to me. I don't 670 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,200 Speaker 1: like how people have glorified that either. Like I like 671 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 1: to turn up and have a good time with my partner, 672 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 1: Like I feel like I want to travel, you know, 673 00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,879 Speaker 1: do things that we like, go eat, enjoy each other 674 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:24,840 Speaker 1: so that peace. Yeah. Do y'all worry about men not 675 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,799 Speaker 1: taking y'all serious because of what they hear y'all talk about. 676 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 1: I ain't worried about it, but I know that probably 677 00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,400 Speaker 1: feel you know that way. They probably wouldn't, But I mean, 678 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:36,040 Speaker 1: I feel like that's how you feel. You just not 679 00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 1: the goth of me, because at some point y'all gonna 680 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,040 Speaker 1: want to set it down right for sure? Of course, absolutely, 681 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:46,839 Speaker 1: I'm like, outside of contrary believe we're good women. Yeah, yeah, 682 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 1: but a problem great energy, Yeah, I think that the 683 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,959 Speaker 1: problem is too like when you're in the media, people 684 00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,359 Speaker 1: can't sit or right like your media person or from 685 00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 1: who you are are. Because don't get me wrong, but 686 00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,319 Speaker 1: you said this, how y'all are often we I mean, yeah, 687 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 1: But I feel like still at the same time, Drey 688 00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 1: and A Calling Lakes we are like personas to a 689 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 1: certain exting. Like it's a lot of things we say 690 00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 1: on the show. Sometimes we say so for Shockabel you true, 691 00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:12,879 Speaker 1: but in real life that might not be how I feel. 692 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,160 Speaker 1: I think Drey and a Call is a version of me, 693 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,279 Speaker 1: But I'm still Andrea any real life, you know. And 694 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 1: I think people would never know the side of me 695 00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,359 Speaker 1: unless you really get to know me as a person, right, 696 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,239 Speaker 1: I mean people watch us for like an hour once 697 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,960 Speaker 1: a week, once a week, like you can't know somebody 698 00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 1: like that. And I mean, I know how we make 699 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,799 Speaker 1: people feel, you know, so they think they know us. 700 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,239 Speaker 1: But like, I don't feel like anybody who judges me 701 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 1: from seeing a week on a YouTube show can That's 702 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,160 Speaker 1: not the person for me anyway, you know what I'm saying. 703 00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:42,560 Speaker 1: So I don't really worry about those type of people. 704 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,600 Speaker 1: I like people who like me and want need to 705 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,479 Speaker 1: know me, So I don't worry about the people who don't. 706 00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 1: When y'all think y'all would want to settle down or 707 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: that even something y'all thinking about right now, I will 708 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:54,200 Speaker 1: get married tomorrow. Really, Yes, I told you I'm emotion 709 00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:59,520 Speaker 1: every time. Every my man, my man, my man. I 710 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:05,600 Speaker 1: love is a lover two weeks later. People to grow 711 00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:07,239 Speaker 1: in love, not fault. Think about all the times you 712 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:12,360 Speaker 1: felt you've hurting yourself. Well I'll fall again. Yeah, you 713 00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:14,000 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But no, I just feel like 714 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:15,920 Speaker 1: I'm just a lover and I love love. You know, 715 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,440 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that. I can honestly say I've been 716 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,400 Speaker 1: in love like twice in my life. Like I know 717 00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:24,120 Speaker 1: the difference between when I'm really in love and when 718 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:25,839 Speaker 1: I'm just kind of like doing something. And I think 719 00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:27,719 Speaker 1: Drea knows that about me too, like she knows when 720 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:31,480 Speaker 1: I'm just doing something versus um like really being in love. 721 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:32,960 Speaker 1: But I think for me, like I said, us being 722 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,560 Speaker 1: in this space of course, like I love like, you know, 723 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,520 Speaker 1: being on tour, Like we're on tour with the show 724 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,640 Speaker 1: right now, and it has really shocked me, like how 725 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,239 Speaker 1: much the show has grown and things like that. So 726 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,759 Speaker 1: of course I want to experience that and share that 727 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,840 Speaker 1: with somebody. You know. I feel like, now we're making money, 728 00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,320 Speaker 1: I want to like build a business with somebody. Like 729 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,040 Speaker 1: there's so much stuff that I want to do on 730 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,000 Speaker 1: my own, but you know, I want to have a 731 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,040 Speaker 1: partner there as well. So yeah, I think we both 732 00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 1: want that for sure. Yeah, I would say, like I 733 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,439 Speaker 1: don't know, the next few years, like next two years, 734 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,600 Speaker 1: I like to be in a relationship and have a kid. Okay, 735 00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:07,320 Speaker 1: but they're on tour right now. You can see that Arlington, 736 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 1: Virginia on the eighteenth of September, Richmond A twenty first, Tampa, 737 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:16,320 Speaker 1: October fourth, October fifth, Miami, and October six or Landing. 738 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 1: Y'all just did New York. I was a New York show. 739 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 1: It was energy, was really really good. Yeah in New York. 740 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:23,200 Speaker 1: I feel like New York is kind of a different 741 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 1: market's kind of hard. Yeah, because we country obviously, y'all 742 00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:29,640 Speaker 1: can tell when we come, like to New York, people 743 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:33,560 Speaker 1: be like where these country bumpkins, but all their family 744 00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:37,080 Speaker 1: from down south. Yeah, us love you know. I feel 745 00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,560 Speaker 1: like we came out here, We've colladed with a lot 746 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,799 Speaker 1: of people. You know, We've met with a lot of people. 747 00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:45,359 Speaker 1: So New York really like they like us. Yeah for real, 748 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:47,719 Speaker 1: y'all don't y'all don't have no other jobs. This is it. 749 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,960 Speaker 1: This is it. I finally was able to quit my job. 750 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 1: Like we want to ate last year. Yeah it was 751 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,759 Speaker 1: last year. Wasn't year. Yeah, So for me, it was 752 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,719 Speaker 1: like I moved to Atlanta literally with nothing, you know, 753 00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,440 Speaker 1: I was trying to figure things out out and it 754 00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 1: was really it was like a really really hard time 755 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,400 Speaker 1: for me. Like and I think the thing that I 756 00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:08,279 Speaker 1: love about poor minds, And that's why we keep the 757 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,239 Speaker 1: old videos up. Like we joke about it, like how 758 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 1: my hair used to look our makeup because like I mean, 759 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:14,120 Speaker 1: I didn't have any money. It was what I could 760 00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:16,520 Speaker 1: do at the time. But we keep those old videos 761 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:18,880 Speaker 1: up so people can see the growth, you know, and 762 00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:21,840 Speaker 1: they can see what consistency and when you really believe 763 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 1: in yourself can get you. Because I feel like we've 764 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:25,759 Speaker 1: only just scratched the surface of what we're gonna do, 765 00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,880 Speaker 1: you know. So, yeah, I hadn't had a job in 766 00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:33,799 Speaker 1: like four years. Really was the last job I used 767 00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,320 Speaker 1: the bar team, Okay, but that was like, but I 768 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 1: haven't did this since like twenty eighteen. I was like 769 00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,120 Speaker 1: I had a job for a company called Regions. I 770 00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:43,680 Speaker 1: had like a nine to five. So it was really 771 00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:45,319 Speaker 1: hard because I was having to like sneak and leave 772 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 1: work because we worked that radio at the time. We 773 00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:50,920 Speaker 1: were doing stuff with DJ Screaming Atlanta used to report 774 00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:52,640 Speaker 1: to his studio. Yeah, we used to work for him 775 00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:54,640 Speaker 1: a lot. So it was just like hard for me. 776 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,360 Speaker 1: So when stuff kind of started rolling, it's like I 777 00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:59,239 Speaker 1: wasn't even ready to quit my job. They kind of 778 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:00,879 Speaker 1: like gave me a ultimate. I was like, Okay, either 779 00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 1: you're gonna be here or be there, and I was like, 780 00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,640 Speaker 1: you know what. I was like, girl gone hand and quick, 781 00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:07,759 Speaker 1: we gonna figure it out. So I was like, I 782 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,239 Speaker 1: just quit and we figured it out. Well. I find 783 00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:13,399 Speaker 1: y'all very entertaining, and I think I think those lady 784 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:17,120 Speaker 1: that just need to be on TV and I can't. Oh. 785 00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,359 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask yall about the Division video. Y'all 786 00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:23,919 Speaker 1: was in the Division video? Why Division video? That was fun? 787 00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:25,800 Speaker 1: It was really fun. I think that's really how we 788 00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,239 Speaker 1: be in real life, like and I d calling me 789 00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:30,200 Speaker 1: me giving her bad a like me and a bad one. 790 00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,360 Speaker 1: The video was cool. The video was fun really because 791 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,239 Speaker 1: I didn't even hear the song until they came out 792 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,080 Speaker 1: really right, so you didn't know what they didn't have 793 00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,440 Speaker 1: the song play where yall doing the video now? And 794 00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:45,360 Speaker 1: I just it was kind of strange a little bit 795 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,880 Speaker 1: because they was having me like acting and so she 796 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:51,120 Speaker 1: got her ball roll and stuff and it was just whiet. 797 00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 1: I was the only one screaming. I just feel so crazy. 798 00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:54,600 Speaker 1: I want to ask this question for the white men 799 00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:57,400 Speaker 1: and the Asian men and the black girl. It's cheating 800 00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:04,720 Speaker 1: because black men don't cheat. Mask for them, it's cheating 801 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:11,120 Speaker 1: a deal breaker. You know, it's not for me. You 802 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:14,120 Speaker 1: know it's crazy. I'm not gonna lie. I've always said 803 00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:16,719 Speaker 1: cheating is not a deal breaker for me. But I 804 00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:22,160 Speaker 1: honestly feel like I've had situations like transpire and things 805 00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,000 Speaker 1: go on, and I feel like, in the space I'm in, 806 00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,080 Speaker 1: I think it would be, yeah, the space of a Cheatah. 807 00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:30,640 Speaker 1: You a cheatah, So you can't be judgmental and not 808 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,360 Speaker 1: like that. But I feel like it's a lot. No, 809 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,719 Speaker 1: I'll just feel like versus and I am a regular person, 810 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,360 Speaker 1: so let me not say that. But I feel like, 811 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:41,800 Speaker 1: you know, we have to live out our lives online 812 00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,840 Speaker 1: a lot of times, you know, like something things have 813 00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:45,960 Speaker 1: happened to me where I'm out eating with somebody and 814 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:49,320 Speaker 1: somebody doesn't tag me and posted it and things like that. 815 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,360 Speaker 1: So I feel like when we go through things in 816 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,799 Speaker 1: our relationship, it automatically gets magnified because people are watching us, 817 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:56,400 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I feel like something 818 00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,279 Speaker 1: like that, cheating is something hard to go through. So 819 00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,480 Speaker 1: having to go through that under a magnifying glass in 820 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,560 Speaker 1: front of everybody, I don't think I would be ready 821 00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:07,440 Speaker 1: for that. You know, so you can cheat, but you 822 00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:13,040 Speaker 1: can't let somebody Absolutely, Wow, it's rules. It's not a 823 00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,000 Speaker 1: deal breaker because the way I look at it, it's like, Okay, 824 00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:19,560 Speaker 1: is this a I missed up one time? Thing? Is this? 825 00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,880 Speaker 1: Like this is what you do? Like you're doing this 826 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:24,840 Speaker 1: consistently if it's somebody that's doing it consistently, No, Like 827 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:26,680 Speaker 1: it's absolutely a deal breaker for me. But if you 828 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,799 Speaker 1: missed up, I could forgive you hint on the circumstance. 829 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,960 Speaker 1: But it's like, that's the difference. Though, you're cheating one night, 830 00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:41,160 Speaker 1: but you paid her rent money? Oh you you like 831 00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:44,759 Speaker 1: the girl? Like you paying her rent? You got her money, 832 00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:46,680 Speaker 1: You've given her money just because I buy a woman 833 00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:49,360 Speaker 1: of burking, I mean I like him. Excuse me, you 834 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 1: received a rangeer over you didn't like that? Man, go 835 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:56,320 Speaker 1: ahead it I didn't buy it. Same difference, it's the 836 00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,959 Speaker 1: same difference. So yeah, I think honestly, but like she said, 837 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:01,960 Speaker 1: I kind of agree, you know, if it's levels of 838 00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:06,000 Speaker 1: cheating honestly, like the emotional cheating is way worse. Just 839 00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,600 Speaker 1: people who cheat should just get in a relationship with 840 00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:12,560 Speaker 1: somebody who you know, WI mony watch your town. Yeah, 841 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:16,719 Speaker 1: being a poly relationship. That's true because I feel like 842 00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,160 Speaker 1: it's a lot of people out there who believe in polygamy. 843 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:22,160 Speaker 1: So I like polygamy. You wouldn't be in a poly 844 00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:26,320 Speaker 1: relationship like hell no, my man to look at me 845 00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:33,160 Speaker 1: like an angel untouched with that catalog po podcast his 846 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,680 Speaker 1: untouched queen. Okay, okay, So what if you sleep with 847 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:38,320 Speaker 1: a man right and the condom gets stuck in you? 848 00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,040 Speaker 1: Then you go sleep with the guy you really like 849 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,480 Speaker 1: and they find the condom? Would you want him to 850 00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 1: forgive you if you got create what you need? You 851 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,160 Speaker 1: said that same paper down now, because why is it 852 00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:55,080 Speaker 1: grabbing anything like that? Are you talking about? No? It is, 853 00:43:55,400 --> 00:44:01,360 Speaker 1: but we have had a situation with snatched story that 854 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:06,319 Speaker 1: grip man. If y'all ain't got that grip man at 855 00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:09,880 Speaker 1: y'all edge something right now? You need the group I'm weak, No, 856 00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,799 Speaker 1: but situations like that, it ain't like that. Like I said, 857 00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 1: I'm not I'd be being funny, of course, But like 858 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:17,080 Speaker 1: I said, I've had situations where I messed up. I 859 00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:19,239 Speaker 1: slipped up. It's not like something I do all the time. 860 00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:21,680 Speaker 1: And I'm just you know how many times have you 861 00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:28,240 Speaker 1: slipped up? Every time? No? I don't honestly, but okay, 862 00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:34,759 Speaker 1: i'll say this incentage wise, Um, honestly, I'm telling you 863 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,600 Speaker 1: that right now. But I'm being honest. But I feel 864 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:38,879 Speaker 1: like women don't be honest. I keep rying my ship. 865 00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:40,879 Speaker 1: A lot of women be like, oh no, like y'all 866 00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:42,960 Speaker 1: out here. I know y'all are, because y'all be in 867 00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:46,520 Speaker 1: the emails talking to me about ya. I'm not gonna lie. 868 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:54,160 Speaker 1: Community nice, no, but I'm not gonna lie. I feel 869 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,399 Speaker 1: like this last situation I got out of, no, I wasn't. 870 00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,320 Speaker 1: I was very faithful because, like I said, I wanted 871 00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:00,840 Speaker 1: a certain um out come, you know. So I was like, 872 00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:02,399 Speaker 1: you know what, let me give one hundred percent of myself, 873 00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,520 Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna lie. When I first moved to Atlanta, 874 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 1: I got in a relationship. This was what twenty seventeen, 875 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,719 Speaker 1: and I was with somebody who, you know, who was 876 00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,320 Speaker 1: kind of known, and it was just like I just 877 00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:16,000 Speaker 1: kind of had checked out. But that was my comfort zone. 878 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:18,080 Speaker 1: So it was just kind of like I was just 879 00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 1: in a weird space, you know. And like I said, 880 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:21,759 Speaker 1: I was young. I'm thirty three. Now I'm like, I'm out, 881 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,560 Speaker 1: I'm out the game. I'm retired. I'NTI is tired. I 882 00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,359 Speaker 1: really don't want two three like men like I don't 883 00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,320 Speaker 1: want to do that. But in that space, I was 884 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:31,319 Speaker 1: just like I was outside. I was in a new city. 885 00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:34,120 Speaker 1: I jumped into a relationship and it wasn't really what 886 00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:36,560 Speaker 1: I wanted. But instead of me vocalizing that, you know, 887 00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:40,360 Speaker 1: I stepped out. So you know, I'm not proud of 888 00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:44,719 Speaker 1: my past. But I'm growing every day. But now it's 889 00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:58,399 Speaker 1: a whole day and I'm an untouched cool Thank y'all 890 00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,880 Speaker 1: for having and go to pool Mind dot com to 891 00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:02,960 Speaker 1: check out the tour dates and all that other good stuff. 892 00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,560 Speaker 1: Many I just dropped a new beauty line, so we 893 00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:09,960 Speaker 1: just won't live. It's called Muse Beauty. So it's Muse 894 00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:13,759 Speaker 1: Beauty Collection dot com. I gotta love anything. Let me see. 895 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:19,120 Speaker 1: It's fire choose. I don't even know what it is. 896 00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:23,479 Speaker 1: It's little look at you giving Rihanna run for her money? 897 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:28,880 Speaker 1: Right a little bit. Let's say, look ahead, Batty, what 898 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:32,000 Speaker 1: it feel like? What I gonna give a review? Don't 899 00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:34,719 Speaker 1: like this, but it feel like you'd be taking it now, 900 00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:40,000 Speaker 1: taking it too far? I know how you put it. 901 00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:47,280 Speaker 1: I dapped a little let's gonna give a little shottle gloss. 902 00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:49,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say that, little girls, it's a little bloss. 903 00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:58,200 Speaker 1: Say let me batty. But that shiny bottom lips hit 904 00:46:58,239 --> 00:46:59,960 Speaker 1: the blogs. Man, it's the breakfast club. Good morning,