WEBVTT - Ep 273: Strapping Gems (Ft. Jade) 0:00:02.320 --> 0:00:05.760 I guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decision. 0:00:08.200 --> 0:00:12.119 Happy pried everybody. Mandy wanted us to do this episode alone. 0:00:12.160 --> 0:00:14.160 But I don't think we're gay enough. I think that 0:00:14.320 --> 0:00:18.560 you are very much gay. Bro. She's like, let's find 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:21.280 someone gayer then, and I'm just like, I mean, I 0:00:21.320 --> 0:00:23.799 guess if we haven't ate enough couci on here to 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:29.440 be like we have enough? If everyone is watching on YouTube, 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:31.120 I think you understand what we mean by someone looks 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:36.199 gayer than us? Right, that's crazy on purpose, that is 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:39.680 what I felt like. Jade couldn't handle it. I wouldn't 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:42.840 have said that, but she has known you for three 0:00:42.960 --> 0:00:49.279 to half minutes. If I knew Jade less night, I 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:53.600 am trying to pictures but her pride month, I said, 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:57.320 let's not funk up them again. Jade, Please, before we 0:00:57.360 --> 0:01:04.160 even introduce you to your pronounces, is she gonna was 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:08.040 gone the first one? Deficode wasn't going to go out? Bro, 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:12.119 How wasn't gonna see? It's so difficult. It's just too 0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:15.160 fucking different. No, no, no, it's not too difficult. Speak 0:01:15.160 --> 0:01:18.040 by yourself. Please, don't speak for yourself, speak for your 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:21.880 god damn self doing that. I don't celebrate, and we're 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:27.800 gonna celebrate them. Let's say this is so problematic, that's 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:31.319 fine in language arts, I learned it as a plural word. Okay, 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:34.080 it's a little difficult for me, that's all. Okay, I 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:36.560 give up. Goddam. You ain't even google words, bro. You 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:39.040 should be good at excitely, don't. Everybody who wanted to 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:40.840 see here, son, I wasn't good at this? What is it? 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:43.720 Fold little word? Anyways, Welcome to horrible decisions. We are 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:46.280 not trying to get canceled, but welcome to another episode 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:53.760 or Pride episode. Suk all of that. That's not what jade. 0:01:53.840 --> 0:01:59.520 Welcome so horrible decisions. It's gonna be here. We definitely 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:02.840 wanted to have a Pride episode, of course, in honor 0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:05.520 of the month of June. We have a lot of 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:07.600 gay men on here, though we have a lot of 0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:09.240 gay women. You'll be bringing them on because you'd be 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:17.240 sucking them. You mean, I mean no. Sometimes I feel 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:20.760 like it is easier to come come across like gay 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:23.160 men than it is like lesbians, because everybody's like by 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:25.720 now you know what I'm saying, but by is not lesbians? 0:02:25.720 --> 0:02:29.120 Can can I not look see looks to Jayang for women. 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:31.600 That's what I made that as a point. It's easy 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:34.360 to find gay men, but finding gay women or lesbians, 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:37.480 I feel like everybody's by okay, so it is hard 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:39.800 for me to sometimes find lesbian to come on the show. 0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:42.919 I hope you are all right. Can I also ask 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:47.360 you um with your sexuality because I'll be looking for 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:49.560 women to look like you. I ain't even gonna hold you. 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:52.079 But when I know, seriously, I told you I have 0:02:52.240 --> 0:02:54.959 this issue when I went to couple of Cabana, right, 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:56.519 so you know that's where the whole little parties and 0:02:56.520 --> 0:03:00.000 stuff being right in midtown, and I'll be I told y'all, 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:02.800 and I've let y'all know, I want me a Bernie grinder, right. 0:03:03.320 --> 0:03:06.480 The problem is look and see not why is that? 0:03:06.560 --> 0:03:08.120 Literally one of my question is do you like your 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:12.480 fetishized It's it's not even that they'd be fine as fun. 0:03:12.600 --> 0:03:17.840 The problem is the problem is no one that like. 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:21.799 When I say I mean like not them lesbians, I'm 0:03:21.840 --> 0:03:25.040 talking about anyone but lipstick lesbians, which I funk everybody 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:28.079 looks like me. I'll be wanting, like somebody come handle 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:30.280 me a little bit. And the problem is when they 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:33.320 find out I I like also real dick, They're like, 0:03:33.680 --> 0:03:36.680 they're not interested. Interesting. So is that a thing in 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:40.320 the lesbian community where they have an issue with the 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:43.080 bisexuals like my ass who still really want dick. But 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:45.160 I'll take some fake dick too, but I also want 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:49.520 real dick. Yeah, let's that I know, do not like 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:53.640 they don't. It's the idea of like, I feel like 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:56.720 a lot of people feel like, oh you like men too, 0:03:57.360 --> 0:04:00.840 and people have passed me and left for eyes. I've 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:03.200 heard a lot of stories like that that has being 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:06.640 entry into the words tell us a little bit about 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:09.520 who you are, what you do, stuff like that. So 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:13.760 I'm jade, as said, I'm a day trader. So I 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:16.320 have a pretty easy schedule. You know. I trade in 0:04:16.320 --> 0:04:18.800 the morning and then I go to the gym and 0:04:18.960 --> 0:04:20.560 I spend the rest of my day, usually with my 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:24.960 shorty or on horrible definitely flip in there. Definitely came 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:29.440 in less than twenty four hours. Notice, yeah you have 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:34.240 a shorty. Yeah we don't care. You don't see your 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:36.120 fluk with it the all time. I'm just gonna do 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:40.240 I mean, listen, we're open you what she look like 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:44.839 she's thick and she's Latina. That's right, that's right, La, 0:04:45.680 --> 0:04:48.920 let's do it. Why can't you not about to edit 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:54.520 your mic out for that she you are thinking Latin? 0:04:54.880 --> 0:05:02.080 I might be dating him them, that's hilarious. Um, question, 0:05:02.160 --> 0:05:05.159 you're open and and what I don't know because I 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:06.960 feel like every lesbian we always make the joke that 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:09.600 you know you haul on the second date. I'm super 0:05:09.640 --> 0:05:12.360 email like, how does an open relationship work in your 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:16.240 lesbian relationship? Okay, so just to be clear, we are 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:19.799 exclusively dating. We have not thrown true titles on anything. 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:23.800 But um, we've just been like open to three songs 0:05:24.200 --> 0:05:26.880 and you know, things like that, you know, maybe if 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:29.560 we're open to it giving someone a pass um. I 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:32.880 feel like in my last relationship, I felt very confined sexually, 0:05:33.600 --> 0:05:37.560 and I've been very expressive sexually, like for like my 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:40.480 whole life, and then to be in something so confined, 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:43.120 I just kind of came out and I'm like viewing 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:46.039 relationships very differently. I was very I was a serious 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:50.359 serial like monogamous, like I'm not playing those games. But 0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:53.920 now I'm just like I just felt so like like 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:55.840 tied up and I'm like now I'm like, no, I'm 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:59.120 like loose and my partner is just like that, So 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:02.080 what were they doing. I'm gonna say, yes, what were 0:06:02.120 --> 0:06:05.320 the conversations for that? Because that has been my issue 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:10.680 with fully committing to women is they're just not only 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:14.760 way more clinky than men, they do become very jealous 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:18.200 very quickly. And so of course, I'm sure you have 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:21.680 a lot of homegirls. How do you do like divide 0:06:21.720 --> 0:06:24.320 those lines between No, this is just the home girl. 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:28.400 This isn't someone intimate when you're dating another woman. It's 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:31.600 a little tricky because I've definitely fucked several of the 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:36.200 home girls, so you know, but I don't know. It 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:40.080 goes different every way. Um, every time I had one 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:42.720 person I did, I told like all my friends that 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:45.800 I had sucked, and then every time I hung out 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:47.760 with them it was an issue. Yeah, I've had other 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:50.520 people that were perfectly fine, but the person I'm doing 0:06:50.560 --> 0:06:53.000 with now, we just were so open. The communication is 0:06:53.080 --> 0:06:56.400 just like, so I feel like it would be hard 0:06:56.560 --> 0:06:59.039 for like, have you had any straight friends? And then 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:05.480 he's like you can't hang Oh what wait for real? Yes, Jade, 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:07.480 right now, for audib For those of you who are 0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:12.640 not watching us on the YouTube. She has her hair 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:15.440 up in these dreadlocks in a bun and it is 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:21.480 just so fucking big the hair is and you like 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:23.840 to hide you and you know, for like a lesbian 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:25.680 you kind of be like, damn, it's gonna be a 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:29.520 short beat. Women do like No, that was the first 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:32.280 thing I noticed when you walked in No shady. Yeah, 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:34.840 that was my first stud that I was attracted to, 0:07:35.200 --> 0:07:37.320 and she was on sex Cells last season. I was like, oh, 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:39.000 I'm a little tall in her, Like, well, you just 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:41.600 use the term and I'm curious and what I want 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:44.720 to ask, Like she just said she was she interviewed 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:46.840 young and maid. She referred to her as a stud. 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:51.720 Now is there there's so much term yourself and what 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:56.239 is offensive as well? Look see I oh, I pretty 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:59.760 much try to be the safest and just say masculine presenting. 0:08:01.320 --> 0:08:03.560 So you kind of hear that a little bit more now. 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:07.360 I feel like that's like real easy, real, Like no 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:10.120 one's gonna really have issues with that, So that will 0:08:10.160 --> 0:08:14.600 have issues with the others, Like Dike, Definitely, I've heard 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:17.520 that that word is like Okay, it's it's hard because 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:20.920 like if someone is just calling you a dyke, Like 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:23.520 what then is wrong with you? You know? But um, 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:26.000 I know some people that, like some of my friends, 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:28.440 might refer to themselves as like that's what I've heard 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:30.240 that girl, the girl we had on christinaer Net, she'd 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:32.400 be talking about she calls herself a dyke. But I 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:35.480 think it's different, like it's it's the same way, like bro, 0:08:36.000 --> 0:08:38.920 we call each other niggas. But no, not that that's 0:08:38.960 --> 0:08:43.200 the point. You know. I didn't like the word. Okay, 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:45.400 but have you ever called yourself any of those? Do 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:47.880 you ever called yourself a stud? Stud? Yeah, definitely called 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:50.240 myself a stud. I guess if I was to say one, 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:53.920 I would say stuff okay, But again I'm more say 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:57.079 masculine as someone who is so mask presenting. What do 0:08:57.160 --> 0:09:00.960 you think is the girliest ship you do? I'm so girly, 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:04.960 that's the funny thing. Like where I mean, like, if 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:09.360 you don't make up well not like physically, tell us 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:11.679 so what are Yeah, what are the feminine traits than 0:09:11.720 --> 0:09:13.360 that you believe you have, which I loved it. You'll 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:18.640 be crying. Well, that's not feminine. Girls man can cry too, 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:21.480 I said they could. It's not feminized crying Okay, we 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:26.920 want men to have emotions too, bitch, shut up. That's crazy. 0:09:28.800 --> 0:09:32.360 What we're more emotional? Like, we ain't just get through 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:34.520 Mental Health Awareness month. I want to let maybe I 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:37.520 am not shaming men for crying. Women are more emotionally 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:40.439 and made crying a feminine trait. She just got to 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:44.319 say something. Not really, honestly, it takes a lot for 0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:47.080 me to cry, okay, but I don't know, like people 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:49.440 just say, like my mannerisms, will you kill a bug 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:57.439 for your shorty? No? I am not that one the masculine. No. 0:09:57.760 --> 0:10:00.880 It's funny because you're just in her pool the other 0:10:01.000 --> 0:10:03.000 day and there was like a dead frog in there 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:04.880 and we actually caught it on the video of me like, 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:08.760 oh my god, like freaking out, like running away. I'm like, nah, 0:10:08.880 --> 0:10:11.920 I'm not that one. Can I ask you something? And 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:13.920 this is not meant to be offensive. This is truly 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:16.880 like a turn I heard once, and it was when 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:20.000 we interviewed a trans man who talked about how before 0:10:20.320 --> 0:10:24.040 they were a no touch lesbian and when I was 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:27.400 looking at women that were more mass presenting, touch me not, 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:31.319 touch me not, and I was looking at girls that 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:33.920 were mass presenting, so to speak, and one of my 0:10:33.960 --> 0:10:35.800 home girl like you like to eat pussy weight too 0:10:35.880 --> 0:10:37.599 much to funk with a bit like that, and I 0:10:37.720 --> 0:10:41.320 was like, okay, could you tell us have you ever 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:43.719 felt like that, felt like you didn't want to be 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:46.120 touched or anything like that, or ever felt ashamed of 0:10:46.160 --> 0:10:50.600 your genitals? Okay, so I was saying, Um, first coming 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:54.480 into my sexuality, I was a little uncomfortable. Um, but 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:58.959 I grew the hell up and I liked it. You know, 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:01.920 I tried it. But there are probably partners that I 0:11:02.080 --> 0:11:05.880 have had that would probably be like, she doesn't like 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:07.880 it too much, But it's like, no, they were just bad. 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:11.679 That's how I feel like when terrible. I've been on 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:13.599 here a lot being like I don't like head. It 0:11:13.760 --> 0:11:16.720 wasn't like I craze it because I hadn't really gotten 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:19.920 it really good until my last partner. But with women, 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:23.599 I will say I I'm good like I like to 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:27.520 please women, So even though like I'm them presenting, I 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:29.960 guess when when I'm with strictly women, I don't want 0:11:30.000 --> 0:11:31.280 them to touch me. I want to do all the work, 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:33.120 let them lay there and when they're done, we could 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:38.440 just cutle. Okay, but are you mostly fucking feminine women. Yes, okay, 0:11:38.480 --> 0:11:40.319 so I was just talk about this on Instagram today. 0:11:41.480 --> 0:11:44.760 I feel like feminine women. Most of the fems i've 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:47.480 been with just give terrible heads. Yeah it's I don't 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:51.079 know what it's about you. That's I don't know what's 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:53.640 bad head. Yeah, that's why I was gonna at it 0:11:54.080 --> 0:12:01.120 like it hurts shout out and why does it feel 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:06.640 like it's just ramming your tongue, Like oh my god, 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:11.480 she was beautiful, and it was just like I had 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:13.480 to be like ok and I just went back like 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:16.880 I haven't had much good head from women, to be 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:19.360 very honest, and I and I believe it. And the 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:22.240 thing is like I've never had head from a mash 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:26.840 one person. I mean like lesbian, but I know feams 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:28.760 that enjoy the sex that they're having and a lot 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:32.280 of times the masculine partner isn't enjoying the receiving part 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:35.120 as much, and I'm just like, what is going on? 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:39.320 It is also because so I like switch, I'm gonna 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.400 be knowing what's going on. So I've only ever been 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:44.760 pegged by a woman, but I've never pegged a woman. 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:49.280 I've only pegged O. Wait when you know, legit pegging 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:53.920 like in the this is yet getting off of it 0:12:54.080 --> 0:13:01.000 is pegging is like it's not. I mean, like I 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:03.920 believe I'm only strapped, but see I say it's my 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:09.400 strap when I'm Pagan Megan's in the ass, but it's 0:13:09.440 --> 0:13:15.560 my strap but only been strapped. Okay, boy, but it's bussy. Okay, 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:20.360 shout out to Pride. Mun We call Saucy Santana. I 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:24.000 wish you got his number, bitch, he would have been here. 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:26.000 I don't know, girls be on his dick. I don't 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:28.840 he be tired of ship? What do you mean? There's 0:13:28.920 --> 0:13:30.960 like no way that you're telling me he be walking 0:13:30.960 --> 0:13:33.640 down the street and they'll be on his fuck No, 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:37.800 Like I want to be his friend, yeah badly. Women 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:40.120 want to be friends with gay men so bad. Yeah, 0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:43.199 Saucy the most gay nigger in the world right now, 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:46.600 like some on Yeah, you're fucked. No, we gotta compete 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:48.720 because that acid a little bit higher, a little bit 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:51.559 bigger than the other day. He said, should I have 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:54.079 another bbut before I do this music video? Like you 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:59.559 love it so bad? Head looking too hard? Agreed, I 0:13:59.600 --> 0:14:01.160 would all don't want to ask you, which I feel 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:03.920 like men always want to know this. When I was 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:07.520 dating a woman and was monogamous until we got a nigger. Um, 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:11.000 I will say like, I got so frustrated when I 0:14:11.000 --> 0:14:12.520 would just say, like I sucked my girl and dudes 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:14.439 we like, I'll ain't suck. And I'm sure you've heard this. 0:14:15.160 --> 0:14:20.320 What is lesbian sex? Having sex with another woman? To me? Her? 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:24.280 Is that your hand, your mouth, you're pussy whatever. I'm 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:27.000 a favorite way to have sex with women. I love 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:30.280 giving a head, but I love strapping a woman. Okay, yeah, 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:35.480 I love strapping too. Hey do you says there? Um, yes, yeah, 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:41.000 I do like that. That's the one position I'm to 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:43.800 take some work to get there. You gotta find it's 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:46.440 the good clip to clip. You can anybody, right, That's 0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:48.840 what I'm saying. Like you can't just scissor with anybody. 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:52.800 I feel like it's you you can, but like some 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:55.680 people like the energy just ain't Well what did you 0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:57.200 mean by that when you asked that question? I wasn't 0:14:57.200 --> 0:14:59.680 like it, probably like it's probably just uncomfortable or maybe 0:14:59.760 --> 0:15:02.680 like with a certain person, they know the actual rhythm. Right. 0:15:03.200 --> 0:15:04.680 My own girl told me that she thinks she's too 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:07.960 fat to the scissor. No, no, that she's like, I 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:09.680 feel like I'm too much of a big girl to scissor, 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:12.920 Like it's too much work to get. Maybe I don't understand. 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:15.040 Don't you just lay to the side and cris cross that. 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:17.000 I don't know. But the thing is like you're really 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:22.160 trying to get, you know, y'all trying to really get. 0:15:22.280 --> 0:15:25.040 I'm telling you in there, you had to like cross 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:27.880 this way, like it's both the other. Do y'all believe 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:31.520 that there is a size requirement for that position, like 0:15:31.600 --> 0:15:36.280 a limit my only girl life. I've had text with 0:15:36.320 --> 0:15:38.000 the girl that was maybe a little bigg than you, 0:15:38.000 --> 0:15:39.880 and it wasn't hard. But I don't know. My own 0:15:39.880 --> 0:15:42.080 girl is big, but I still can't see what I 0:15:42.640 --> 0:15:44.240 think for her in her head. She's just like, oh 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:49.080 my stomach, my titty, Oh that No, I don't think 0:15:49.120 --> 0:15:54.360 I'm rubbing my like everywhere Titti's mouth neck, I'm nasty 0:15:56.840 --> 0:15:59.440 to dude, was talking about feet, but you said to 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:06.720 be your I love I love well. I want to 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:10.160 get into our vanilla ship because the last time we 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:13.960 had a lesbian guest on the show, we got into 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:20.000 how the lack of conversation happens regarding as TDS A 0:16:20.080 --> 0:16:23.240 S t I S testing. UM. But before we get 0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:27.400 into that, UM, the vanilla ship for this week UM. 0:16:27.480 --> 0:16:30.440 I actually found this from the Helfington Post and the 0:16:30.680 --> 0:16:33.200 f d A hopes to lick S T I S 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:38.920 by authorizing oral sex undis. Okay, So a brand of 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:43.680 thin and stretchy single use late text panties called Laurels 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:46.600 is catering to people who want to fill both pleasure 0:16:47.080 --> 0:16:52.720 and protection during ConA lingus it says that the FDA 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:56.120 has given clearance to a lineup underwear that can prevent 0:16:56.720 --> 0:17:01.520 sexually transmitted infections from oral sex and analingus. UM. It 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:04.200 says that the clearance means that the manufacturer has shown 0:17:04.600 --> 0:17:08.119 that its products is substantially equivalent to a similar product 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:11.840 that already has FDA clearance, such as condoms, the product 0:17:11.880 --> 0:17:17.880 of the brand of the thin stretching latex. And one 0:17:17.960 --> 0:17:21.120 moment it says that it's proved that the oral sex 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:25.199 undies were at least equivalent to the protection provided by 0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:29.000 dental dams. UM and of course you're familiar with dental dance. 0:17:29.000 --> 0:17:31.240 Will get into if where do you even find those 0:17:31.320 --> 0:17:35.840 things anymore? UM? If you use the sense and whatnot um, 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:38.399 and then she just also says that she thinks that 0:17:38.480 --> 0:17:43.800 the pennies could also reduce anxiety and increased pleasure around 0:17:43.840 --> 0:17:47.320 that particular behavior. So I do know that that's a thing, 0:17:47.480 --> 0:17:52.880 because using protection during oral sex has somewhat been shamed upon, 0:17:53.280 --> 0:17:58.000 Like even in heterosexual sex with condoms, it's like only 0:17:58.160 --> 0:18:01.800 prostitutes put condoms on dicks to give oral sex. Like 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:04.399 there's been a shame around sucking dick with a condom 0:18:04.440 --> 0:18:06.120 as well. I'm not gonna front think about it. If 0:18:06.119 --> 0:18:07.639 I put a condom on the next day before I 0:18:07.640 --> 0:18:09.520 sucked it, they'd be like, what do you think? It's like, 0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:11.760 you know, like that's what's in our head. I would 0:18:11.760 --> 0:18:13.720 probably feel the same way. But dude wrapped his turn 0:18:13.800 --> 0:18:16.600 up or a woman, I'd be like, wow, you really, like, 0:18:16.760 --> 0:18:18.280 don't funk with me. I know I have a show 0:18:18.320 --> 0:18:23.280 called Horrible Decisions God like lower saves. I think, have 0:18:23.440 --> 0:18:33.040 you ever used it? No? I mean she's like, you know, saying, 0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:35.080 we don't believe in save sex. We just know we 0:18:35.160 --> 0:18:37.120 don't like we don't want to save head. I want 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:41.840 to talk about face sex with same sexes, Like what 0:18:42.240 --> 0:18:44.520 has there ever even been a conversation for it. Has 0:18:44.560 --> 0:18:47.960 a woman requested it? What does that conversation look like 0:18:48.119 --> 0:18:52.760 for you? If any regarding s t I s STDs 0:18:54.480 --> 0:18:59.359 so embarrassing, non existent, there is no conversation. I haven't know, 0:18:59.560 --> 0:19:02.159 We're all. I've had some women that I've dealt with 0:19:02.400 --> 0:19:06.159 that I knew regularly got tested. Okay, I guess I 0:19:06.240 --> 0:19:12.840 kind of like leaned on the faith of that, just 0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:15.320 like the niggas that'd be trying to tell me you're good, 0:19:15.359 --> 0:19:20.720 I'm good. Whild Yeah. I remember one time I'm like 0:19:20.840 --> 0:19:23.000 going to the I went to the doctors to get 0:19:23.040 --> 0:19:24.200 like blood work, and they're like, hey, you went to 0:19:24.240 --> 0:19:27.320 an STD test, and I was like, probably shouldn't get 0:19:27.359 --> 0:19:32.359 one of those. I mean, it is harder to contract it. 0:19:32.760 --> 0:19:36.320 And that's probably why herpes for sure, because skin to skin, right, 0:19:36.520 --> 0:19:39.280 But it is harder to contract if you even if 0:19:39.320 --> 0:19:42.440 you sucking dick, like if you're dealing with like what 0:19:42.440 --> 0:19:45.800 I'm saying, you don't want harder for cont but you 0:19:45.960 --> 0:19:49.360 can get so many things in your mouth, but it's 0:19:49.640 --> 0:19:52.720 it's so much. It's like, bro, I don't have it 0:19:53.040 --> 0:19:54.840 in my phone, but I remember when we had Christen 0:19:55.200 --> 0:19:59.800 the Mass difference and like men and women, particularly because 0:20:00.320 --> 0:20:03.560 with us we have to quote unquote and maybe the 0:20:03.640 --> 0:20:06.399 wrong word like interior organs, I guess you could say, right, 0:20:06.480 --> 0:20:09.960 like whereas with men, like their secretion is different, it 0:20:10.000 --> 0:20:12.520 goes directly inside like ours is a little bit different. 0:20:12.560 --> 0:20:14.480 The sex we have is different, right unless you have 0:20:14.520 --> 0:20:17.320 a cut in your mouth during head It's like, how 0:20:17.400 --> 0:20:22.600 else are we gonna contract this herpes? Herpes with skinned 0:20:22.600 --> 0:20:25.879 to skin is so well, then my other question would be, 0:20:26.400 --> 0:20:30.240 because there are things that still go inside, what protection 0:20:30.320 --> 0:20:33.720 measures do you take for sex toys? Because if you're 0:20:34.040 --> 0:20:37.200 having threesomes, are bringing other women in and sex toys 0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:40.080 are being shared. That is also like I know when 0:20:40.080 --> 0:20:42.080 I go to the sex club, if we bring a 0:20:42.240 --> 0:20:45.000 dial do or even if anyone just comes and plays 0:20:45.080 --> 0:20:47.320 with me in my room, if we're using my toys, 0:20:47.600 --> 0:20:51.600 condoms are going on everything, So like what measures do 0:20:51.680 --> 0:20:53.719 you take? Like do you use them condoms when you're 0:20:53.800 --> 0:20:59.600 using toys with other people? What does that look like? Um? Honestly, like, Um, 0:20:59.800 --> 0:21:02.879 if I'm just like sucking someone, I'm just gonna I'm 0:21:02.920 --> 0:21:04.600 probably not gonna use anything, but I'm gonna just I'm 0:21:04.600 --> 0:21:08.160 gonna definitely sterilize it. I don't boil it. Yeah, exactly, 0:21:08.359 --> 0:21:12.800 I'll boil it. We're good next go um. If it 0:21:12.920 --> 0:21:15.520 was a situation where we're bringing multiple partners, and I 0:21:15.520 --> 0:21:19.000 would probably just like she was a different strap for 0:21:19.119 --> 0:21:23.200 every partner. Absolutely not really one strap. You say, this 0:21:23.320 --> 0:21:25.560 is me, but this is the thing. If you're pissing 0:21:25.640 --> 0:21:27.399 me off because you get a new girl, she's like, 0:21:27.720 --> 0:21:29.879 you need to get a new strap. No niggers on 0:21:30.040 --> 0:21:36.239 getting new dicks. That's actually really good point, like right now, 0:21:38.600 --> 0:21:41.320 But I ain't told you that was Lei her name 0:21:41.400 --> 0:21:42.960 on my trap. I don't give a funk. If I 0:21:43.080 --> 0:21:45.480 was a lesbian, lesbian for real, for real, and I 0:21:45.600 --> 0:21:48.800 got to pick the dick I wanted. Oh baby, you're 0:21:48.840 --> 0:21:50.280 not just giving me what you got. We're gonna go 0:21:50.320 --> 0:21:52.520 buy what I want. How big is your strap? The 0:21:52.920 --> 0:21:56.359 my newest one is not and a half. That's kind 0:21:56.400 --> 0:22:00.280 of big. Yeah, normally I stick with the eight eight 0:22:00.359 --> 0:22:04.239 and a half. And then sure he was like, well, 0:22:04.280 --> 0:22:08.760 actually no, we went to get something a little thicker. Okay, 0:22:09.440 --> 0:22:12.000 ficker maybe yeah, you know I like to feel stretched 0:22:12.000 --> 0:22:15.120 out right, so I emploways do that though, And it's 0:22:15.240 --> 0:22:19.000 it's a different type. It's clearly way more poorous than 0:22:19.359 --> 0:22:22.440 actual skin and dick. So I see, like I have 0:22:22.520 --> 0:22:24.880 to use so much lube when I have a really 0:22:25.080 --> 0:22:27.280 like bitch. I'm still getting fun by King Noir's dial though, 0:22:27.720 --> 0:22:30.960 and that ship, maybe I'll be like on it, put 0:22:31.040 --> 0:22:35.680 lube on it. What it's the ship is huge? So 0:22:36.160 --> 0:22:38.719 I just had my girls like for like, we use 0:22:38.800 --> 0:22:43.080 lube definitely, or I like getting my strip sucked, so 0:22:43.480 --> 0:22:48.639 oh my god, why not? I just always want to 0:22:48.680 --> 0:22:51.159 see somebody's second But I used sucking a goddamn plastic 0:22:52.080 --> 0:22:55.600 but you know what that was like for that like 0:22:55.720 --> 0:22:58.800 that it's more of like a submissive thing to just yeah, 0:22:59.200 --> 0:23:02.680 it's just said, see it's fun such twizards and said, 0:23:07.600 --> 0:23:10.440