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Speaker 1: I guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decision.

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Speaker 1: Happy pried everybody. Mandy wanted us to do this episode alone.

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Speaker 1: But I don't think we're gay enough. I think that

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Speaker 1: you are very much gay. Bro. She's like, let's find

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Speaker 1: guess if we haven't ate enough couci on here to

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Speaker 1: I think you understand what we mean by someone looks

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Speaker 1: gayer than us? Right, that's crazy on purpose, that is

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Speaker 1: what I felt like. Jade couldn't handle it. I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: have said that, but she has known you for three

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Speaker 1: to half minutes. If I knew Jade less night, I

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Speaker 1: am trying to pictures but her pride month, I said,

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Speaker 1: let's not funk up them again. Jade, Please, before we

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Speaker 1: even introduce you to your pronounces, is she gonna was

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Speaker 1: gone the first one? Deficode wasn't going to go out? Bro,

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Speaker 1: How wasn't gonna see? It's so difficult. It's just too

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Speaker 1: fucking different. No, no, no, it's not too difficult. Speak

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Speaker 1: by yourself. Please, don't speak for yourself, speak for your

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Speaker 1: god damn self doing that. I don't celebrate, and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna celebrate them. Let's say this is so problematic, that's

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Speaker 1: fine in language arts, I learned it as a plural word. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's a little difficult for me, that's all. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: give up. Goddam. You ain't even google words, bro. You

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Speaker 1: should be good at excitely, don't. Everybody who wanted to

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Speaker 1: see here, son, I wasn't good at this? What is it?

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Speaker 1: Fold little word? Anyways, Welcome to horrible decisions. We are

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Speaker 1: not trying to get canceled, but welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: or Pride episode. Suk all of that. That's not what jade.

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Speaker 1: Welcome so horrible decisions. It's gonna be here. We definitely

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Speaker 1: wanted to have a Pride episode, of course, in honor

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Speaker 1: of the month of June. We have a lot of

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Speaker 1: gay men on here, though we have a lot of

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Speaker 1: gay women. You'll be bringing them on because you'd be

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Speaker 1: sucking them. You mean, I mean no. Sometimes I feel

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Speaker 1: now you know what I'm saying, but by is not lesbians?

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Speaker 1: Can can I not look see looks to Jayang for women.

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Speaker 1: That's what I made that as a point. It's easy

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Speaker 1: I feel like everybody's by okay, so it is hard

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Speaker 1: I hope you are all right. Can I also ask

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Speaker 1: you um with your sexuality because I'll be looking for

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Speaker 1: women to look like you. I ain't even gonna hold you.

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Speaker 1: But when I know, seriously, I told you I have

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Speaker 1: this issue when I went to couple of Cabana, right,

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Speaker 1: stuff being right in midtown, and I'll be I told y'all,

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Speaker 1: and I've let y'all know, I want me a Bernie grinder, right.

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Speaker 1: The problem is look and see not why is that?

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Speaker 1: Literally one of my question is do you like your

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Speaker 1: fetishized It's it's not even that they'd be fine as fun.

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Speaker 1: The problem is the problem is no one that like.

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Speaker 1: When I say I mean like not them lesbians, I'm

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Speaker 1: looks like me. I'll be wanting, like somebody come handle

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Speaker 1: find out I I like also real dick, They're like,

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Speaker 1: I'm jade, as said, I'm a day trader. So I

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Speaker 1: I mean, listen, we're open you what she look like

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Speaker 1: But um, we've just been like open to three songs

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Speaker 1: Now is there there's so much term yourself and what

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Speaker 1: for your shorty? No? I am not that one the masculine. No.

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Speaker 1: your genitals? Okay, so I was saying, Um, first coming

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Speaker 1: I grew the hell up and I liked it. You know,

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Speaker 1: That's how I feel like when terrible. I've been on

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Speaker 1: I will say I I'm good like I like to

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Speaker 1: let them lay there and when they're done, we could

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Speaker 1: just cutle. Okay, but are you mostly fucking feminine women. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: I feel like feminine women. Most of the fems i've

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Speaker 1: be doing this exactly year around y'all don't care. So

421
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 1: why are we making it a big thing now? I

422
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 1: like this exactly you guys, I'll be trying to We

423
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 1: talked about eating couci every other episode. Yeah. No, it's

424
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 1: just it's just like, are you being genuine about it?

425
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: I don't think so. Um. And then you see a

426
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 1: lot of institutions or just companies that you know, you

427
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 1: go and you look at things going on hr you're

428
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 1: having discrimination against like things like this. But hey, out

429
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 1: into the world. You want to be loud and proud

430
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 1: and act like we accept everybody, when a lot of

431
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,639
Speaker 1: times you realize that that's not really what it's about.

432
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,640
Speaker 1: Can we get deep for a moment when we talked

433
00:24:56,640 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 1: about discrimination and like feeling scared for life because of

434
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 1: your sexual orientation. We always hear about it from men.

435
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,159
Speaker 1: Have you had a time in your life where you

436
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 1: were like scared to be gay? I don't know where

437
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: where are you from? Um, I'm from Jersey, South Jersey.

438
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: It's a lot more liberal up here. Yeah, I'm twenty nine,

439
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 1: twenty nine, So yeah, Like, have you had a moment

440
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: in your life, whether be church or family member where

441
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 1: you were like scared? Um, definitely, I wasn't actually crazy. Yeah.

442
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 1: When I first thought I was gay, was I want

443
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: to say, in third grade and I had like one

444
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 1: friend and we'd like playhouse. I was always a guy

445
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 1: like I didn't you know, I didn't know anything. Um,

446
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,960
Speaker 1: Like I had never really seen any like women on

447
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 1: women action on TV or anything. But I don't know.

448
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 1: I just kind of like related with that and we

449
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 1: would do like a little stupid ship thing and I

450
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 1: would be like every I like my gay. But I

451
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 1: grew up so religious, Like I went to Christian private

452
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 1: schools my whole life, except for like two years of

453
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: public school. You taught that gay was bad. Yes, well

454
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: I don't even feel like I was really taught it

455
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 1: so much because I don't think I really like paid attention.

456
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 1: I was always in kind of even like the Bible,

457
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 1: like the little kids church and stuff that they're not

458
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: talking about that. But I do remember thinking I was

459
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 1: gay and my friend coming to school one day and

460
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 1: being like, yeah, my pastor said, if you're gay, you

461
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:24,399
Speaker 1: go to Hell. And I was like, oh, ship, like

462
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 1: because I had grew going down, I wasn't going to

463
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:30,199
Speaker 1: private schools my whole life, you know, so like, um,

464
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: where where we are taught, you know, religious and stuff

465
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 1: like that. So I get reinforcement in the classroom. I

466
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 1: get reinforcement Sunday at church Wednesday when we go to

467
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 1: Bible study, and I get it reinforced all the time

468
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,160
Speaker 1: at home. Jesus, Like I can't even have a conversation

469
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,360
Speaker 1: with my mother and and not go to like well God,

470
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: the Bible. I'm like really, yeah, so frustrating. I'm like, girl,

471
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 1: I get it, but damn talking like a regular person.

472
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, but I remember after that being so scared

473
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:00,639
Speaker 1: like every day, like I'm like third grade, I'm like,

474
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:02,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to Hell, but hell, oh my god,

475
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 1: Like I remember you knew that early. I did, and

476
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:09,159
Speaker 1: then I literally like try to like unlearned. Like I

477
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,119
Speaker 1: was so scared of like going to Hell that I

478
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 1: like convinced myself like I wasn't gay. I was like, oh,

479
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: like maybe like I can't be gay, so like I

480
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 1: just kind of like ignored those things. And then it

481
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 1: wasn't until later in high school where I'm like, I'm like,

482
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 1: I'm like I really think yeah, you know, but um,

483
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. And then when I got into college,

484
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 1: I really got more, you know, Like I had a

485
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:41,879
Speaker 1: track coach. She was, you know, a stud like like

486
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 1: like it looks like a straight nigga, you know, like

487
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,959
Speaker 1: and I remember her saying to me, um and um.

488
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:49,199
Speaker 1: When I was in high school, she was like, oh,

489
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 1: like are you gay? And I'm like no, like because

490
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 1: at that time I really didn't think I was. I

491
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 1: never like gave myself the opportunity to you know, explore that.

492
00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: So I was just like no, and she was like

493
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 1: to like go to college, you know, you're gonna be

494
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 1: all for your own. You gotta carpet on your face.

495
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 1: She's like, you gotta go off for your own and

496
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 1: she's like, you'll have your own experience and you'd be

497
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:12,679
Speaker 1: like whoever you want to be there, And I'm like, okay,

498
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 1: I didn't think nothing of it in college, never looked back.

499
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,879
Speaker 1: So so and so you went all the way back

500
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 1: to third grade. You knew there was an attraction to girls.

501
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: Then you get to high school, still that attraction, but

502
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: you never acted on it until college. So there was

503
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: no sex, no kissing. No, you really just tried to

504
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 1: steer away from me. The thing is, I really believed it.

505
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 1: Uh No, I've never had sex with a man. So

506
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 1: you are girls Latin section. What's to me means you

507
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: never like oh wait, sorry, that's the other side. If

508
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 1: you're a gay man, that's never that's a gold star gay.

509
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: If you came out of a stomach, you've even been

510
00:28:55,480 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: near vain that I realized that is insane, that's crazy.

511
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 1: You've never we've never, I've never heard of that. Yeah,

512
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: it's a thing like you are gay, got it? So

513
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 1: what you you go to college, you start having experiences

514
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: and I'm assuming getting more comfortable with your gayness? What

515
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: about women you were sleeping with? What did they want

516
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: to hide that they were sucking you? Or how did

517
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 1: like how did that happen? And when you meet women

518
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 1: that aren't out or things like that, how do you feel,

519
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 1: um have I girls are usually pretty fun being open.

520
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: I have only been in two situations where the women

521
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 1: aren't were so open. Both of them were like African

522
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 1: and very religious, and you know kind of like they're

523
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: usually like stricter households. Do you feel that the d

524
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: L can also be used that in terms with women

525
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 1: as well? Like we heard that we hear the term

526
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 1: down low a lot with men who are not comfortable

527
00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 1: coming out. Bro, you like Harry Clinton is not you

528
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 1: mean they've been saying she's been gay all time, but

529
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: but she hasn't come out and said she's married to

530
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 1: a man. That's d L. D's people that right now,

531
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 1: But we don't know. No, No, that means, is there

532
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: any proof that Hillary Clinton has a She ord have

533
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: been a couchie by another Actually I have to say no, no,

534
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you. She may don't be masculine presenting,

535
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 1: but that doesn't make her about it is that the suits.

536
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying that Casio all like sucking Comlo whatever.

537
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 1: But Hillary Clinton, they've been Sam's gay. They the internet

538
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: enquired National Fire. My mom was reading paper bro not

539
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 1: you playing final on Hillary Clinton. They've been saying Hillary

540
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 1: was gay. Google it. That would be interesting if man

541
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 1: imagine she came out. Ain't it crazy that Mirando looked gay?

542
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: And then she was all sex with city But that

543
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: the same haircut as Mandy. Oh no, she did not

544
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 1: baby marine, never have no thing away. She wasn't this fly.

545
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,479
Speaker 1: Let's go back a little bit. So family, let's talk

546
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: about coming out. Um you know, tell us you're coming

547
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: out story with your family and if you had any

548
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 1: family members that you could lean on, um, I guess

549
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: you could. I never secondly came out get out. My

550
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: mom apparently have been stalking my Twitter for a month.

551
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 1: I had no idea. I'm a broke college shoot always

552
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 1: asking for like, hey, I get like queen. I was

553
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: like whatever, right, So one day my mom was tired

554
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 1: of me getting tattoos. Didn't have many, but she was like,

555
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:47,479
Speaker 1: don't be wasting money that we sent you for school, lad, Right,

556
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: So one day, in one Twitter I'm talking to my friend,

557
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 1: one of my teammates at the time, and I was like,

558
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: she said, I'm abouna get a tattoo, and I'm like, okay, cool,

559
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get a tattoo with you. I was like,

560
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 1: I think I have enough money for it. So we're

561
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: talking about that. My mom text me, I swear to

562
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: God like five minutes later and goes, if you get

563
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: another tattoo, that's the last time you're gonna get from us.

564
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, ship, like you can only see that

565
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: on Twitter. Meanwhile, I had a girlfriend at the time

566
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 1: that was like kind of posting the bat you're about

567
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: it on Twitter. This is little like I was. Oh.

568
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going there, I know, and she's

569
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: probably seen everything. Avery, I'm deleting everything like fuck, she's

570
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 1: gonna know. Okay out. And then, honestly, like me and

571
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 1: my mom were always cool. She had me very young,

572
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 1: so you know that whole like single parent relationship. No,

573
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: you all you got. But then honestly, once she knew

574
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: I was gay, the relationship just changed drastically or not

575
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 1: as well. No, I had siblings very late, like withou

576
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: was so those are my babies. But yeah, So it

577
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: was pretty much like I felt like the only child

578
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 1: for a while because even when they come like so

579
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 1: young and I like went off to college, you know,

580
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: but our relationship changed drastically. There is none Yeah you know,

581
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a sad. I'm just kind of like listen,

582
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: like either like me or you don't get there, and

583
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 1: do you know what this room to grow for people

584
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 1: Like yeah, it took a while for me to get

585
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 1: to the point of being like, okay with the relationship

586
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 1: how it is, but I'm like I have so many

587
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 1: people that support loved me that like, Okay, she ever

588
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: flat out asked you? And have you ever flat out

589
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: said it? Or it's just um, well we did have

590
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 1: a conversation about it, um she's like I was like,

591
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to tell you. She's like, you know,

592
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: like why don't you want to tell me? And I'm like, oh,

593
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: you know, I don't really know. For a while, I

594
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: leaned on the like maybe it's a phase because I

595
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 1: was like new into exploring that, so I wasn't really sure.

596
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: I'm the type of person like whoever I am, I

597
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 1: can stand on it all day long, but I didn't

598
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: want to come out to my mom who's like so

599
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: like all my ass out it when I wasn't a

600
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: hundred percent sure. But once I knew, I remember her

601
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 1: saying like, do you have any convictions about it or whatever?

602
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 1: And I'm like no. And I think that was like

603
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 1: the moment she realized like, oh, this's been really gay

604
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: like and it's not going nowhere because she turns up

605
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: the Bible so much and you were in Bible study

606
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 1: and church and all that. What is your relationship to

607
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: the church then, if if any and and has your

608
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 1: sexuality pushed you away or brought you closer? Definitely pushed

609
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 1: me away. Um. It was just crazy because like growing

610
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 1: up so religious, like I always saw myself I pick

611
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 1: the church and raising my kid in the church and

612
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: all these things. Um, but I do believe in God. Um.

613
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 1: I just feel like, especially in the Black community, you

614
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: hear about homosexuality all the time, but I feel like

615
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 1: it's rooted in just toxic masculinity because you have all

616
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 1: these a lot of like you know, black creatures and

617
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,360
Speaker 1: these no Black churches and they that's kind of like

618
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 1: what you're growing up around. And the black community is

619
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 1: like a lot of like homophobic ship and I feel

620
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 1: like they get there, they start preaching, and they're like

621
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 1: also putting their views on things, because I'm like, why

622
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: are we talking on this every Sunday? All this every Sunday,

623
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 1: every Sunday. I'm like, just about how same sex is?

624
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 1: It's wrong? Is this? Is that? Like all these things,

625
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, at the end of the day,

626
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 1: they even really say no in the Bible from what

627
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 1: I like, listen, maybe maybe interpreted doesn't talking about sodomy

628
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 1: or something and that homosexual talk about a lot of

629
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: it you stories of Brianda, but I'm pretty sure they

630
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: have talked about like men and men. Know a lot

631
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 1: of you ain't men and men thought they have been

632
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,359
Speaker 1: translate a lot of things have been translated as men

633
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 1: and men was really before translation, like men to be

634
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: a board, so like pedophilia, pedophilia. But when you get

635
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: like the King James version and the translations, they're a

636
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 1: little off. Oh so King James said s that they

637
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: can eat that. He said, don't King James changed it

638
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 1: when they were really talking about boys, like you'll see

639
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: a lot of those, um but shrimp and we can't

640
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 1: bump coaches anyway, this one. But as I'm saying to God,

641
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 1: says love all the children, love that neighbor, do this

642
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:26,439
Speaker 1: and that, and then they pick and choose which ones

643
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 1: makes sense for them to feel like they living on earth.

644
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:34,320
Speaker 1: And you clearly know my money. If you you're probably

645
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 1: one of our tribe. And I feel like we have

646
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: to do our due diligence with having a lesbian on

647
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:42,359
Speaker 1: because the niggas needed you here. We need your best

648
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 1: sex tip. It can be. It doesn't even have to

649
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 1: be head. Just something about pleasing women that I that

650
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: you feel like is either your gift sent from God

651
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: and King James himself or you've learned along that really

652
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: improved your sex um. I just think the most importan

653
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:03,760
Speaker 1: a thing with sex is just learning someone's body, paying attention,

654
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: because it's just like how many times have we had

655
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 1: sex and someone's doing something and we clearly don't like

656
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: it and they just keep doing it. Also, like if

657
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 1: anyone's like moving their needs towards you during head and like,

658
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: it doesn't mean I'm gonna come, it means I'm uncomfortable.

659
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 1: You need to read. Definitely. I think he was with

660
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 1: eating I've got some head reason And when her is

661
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: she moving away from you. It's not good, Yo, it's

662
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 1: not good. The head guy was so soft, and I

663
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:35,399
Speaker 1: complimented him on that, like, wow, like you were really gentle.

664
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: I was like, even your fingers. When I felt his

665
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 1: fingers go inside of me, I kept thinking he was

666
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 1: gonna go deeper and he was like, oh, like I

667
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 1: just start that way and I wait for someone to

668
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 1: tell me more. Why don't we all think like that. Yes,

669
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: it's important, but I think even where with dealing with men,

670
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: that's the thing too, write there's still this ego where

671
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,239
Speaker 1: they don't want to feel like they need direction or

672
00:37:56,960 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 1: or anything like that is dirty talking my name. I

673
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: believe it. Do you do you appreciate direction from tell

674
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: me there right there? Oh left in? I love that. Literally,

675
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 1: I don't get that. I had one girl that I

676
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 1: dated and she was so aggressive and I'd be like

677
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 1: I would have to get up like and hold her

678
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 1: head like this does not feel good. We like to

679
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,760
Speaker 1: do it like that. I would be like this doesn't

680
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: feel good, and she's like, oh, just like just let

681
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: me do it. I'm like I was like, okay, I

682
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 1: was right, I'm gonna lay here this entire time. I'm

683
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 1: not gonna come I'm not gonna move, So what is

684
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 1: the purpose of this? Just so you eat? I mean,

685
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: people definitely eat, like give a head for them. Sometimes

686
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,479
Speaker 1: sometimes I do. I'll be forgetting when it gets too messy,

687
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 1: I will say, though, and maybe we're maybe maybe we

688
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 1: can speak to this. But to be fair, I do

689
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 1: think sucking dick is way easier than eating pussy. Yeah,

690
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 1: it is like like I don't know, but I feel

691
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 1: like it would be like it's like there's a there

692
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 1: when someone's sucking your strap, right, generally, it looks like

693
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: the same motion, even if there's more hands or more spit,

694
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 1: it looks like the same motion. With eating pussy, it

695
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 1: kind of looked different every time, every time your hands,

696
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 1: your mouth, turning, your face, like on the type of

697
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 1: person I wanted the whole face. Some people want like

698
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,720
Speaker 1: just to clip like it's some people want your pussy holes.

699
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 1: Some people don't. Like I don't know. I don't mean

700
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 1: I don't need it either. You Actually, I mean I

701
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:37,759
Speaker 1: love on the pussy my whole volva, but I don't

702
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 1: need you to just focus on the whole. For the

703
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: men listening right, they may be wondering, why do you

704
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 1: want your strap sucked. If you can't feel it, what

705
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 1: pleasure is there? And okay, what what pleasure do you

706
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 1: receive from getting your straps sucked? Because it's not attached

707
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,320
Speaker 1: to you know what I mean? It's it's we're so

708
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 1: about the visuals. It's just sexy. It is um and

709
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 1: it gives me what is fox? I think it's like

710
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: titty fucking like what's the point of that happen? But

711
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: also feel the titties? All right? Fine? Sorry? Now yeah,

712
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,799
Speaker 1: the visual like the noise, oh, all of it, me too,

713
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 1: all of it. I have a fence though, and I

714
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: just and I have be posting my shorties. I can

715
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 1: watch strap doing on see I got something I want

716
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 1: to see one Hr. You can't just be asking to

717
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 1: see but your fists? What you mean? I just want

718
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 1: to know. I just want to see it, the best

719
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: one I don't know. Please take your time pick it,

720
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,360
Speaker 1: please please, I want to see it, Mandy said. Hr. Meanwhile,

721
00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: we don't watch the nigga fuck his own asshole because

722
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 1: he what is that? You asked to see it? You

723
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: asked to see it, but I am your calls. This

724
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 1: is someone you met less than twenty four hours ago.

725
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Jade, when you walked in the door and

726
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,359
Speaker 1: saw the horrible and you look down the page, did

727
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,320
Speaker 1: you say that would be a moment where I didn't

728
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 1: need to see this strap? I mean, you want to share?

729
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 1: I thank you, But what does that mean? So it

730
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: means you're sharing it in the world, right with the

731
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: people that she wants to see it. I'm not so bad,

732
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 1: but let me see it. You just play the audio.

733
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,879
Speaker 1: Oh my god, her eyes fun. Oh this is hot.

734
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 1: I can't see right right across the brag okay, okay,

735
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 1: right across the train. I asked you why you should

736
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 1: cut a lot of horrible decisions, and it's mainly because,

737
00:41:53,760 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: like sometimes people are whacked and wow you okay, let's

738
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: talk about the finger sniff tests. Oh yeah, no, no,

739
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 1: Now this is this is giving masculinergy because there are

740
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:14,800
Speaker 1: men that do the fingers. I honestly normally, normally. I

741
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: it's not a thing for me. Okay, but I learned

742
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 1: after one situation. So it was just one girl. I'm

743
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: in college. She lived in the dormnext had a badass.

744
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:29,279
Speaker 1: I was like, oh yeah, taking down yes, yes, So

745
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,800
Speaker 1: she was like, oh, it's trying for me. So you know,

746
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 1: the moment came, her friend or roommate is in the

747
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: bed over there. Uh so I'm like, what's going on.

748
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: She's like, no, it's okay, it's okay. And I'm like,

749
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,399
Speaker 1: lights are on everything, she's going to sleep, and I'm

750
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 1: like fuck it. So you know, I'm finging her, but

751
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 1: like I'm not like, I'm like, you know, our heads

752
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 1: and stuff, our clothes, our faces are close, you know,

753
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 1: finger cool. She's enjoying it. So now I'm like, I

754
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 1: am about to give her some head. I went down there.

755
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: Before I even go all the way down, I smell like,

756
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: oh my god, what the fund is that? It smelled

757
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:16,280
Speaker 1: like sewage. Oh? I was like no, because I sniffed

758
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:20,760
Speaker 1: my fingers and almost passed the funk out. I was girl,

759
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 1: so like, so you put it back on her face.

760
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 1: So I was like, when you start putting her face,

761
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 1: what you supposed to do with now you bring it

762
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 1: up to them and make them lick your fingers? Yes,

763
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 1: what I mean obviously I'm assuming you saw. So I

764
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 1: was just like, oh my god. So now I'm like

765
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 1: this bitch, you gotta have the STD because this is wow,

766
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:48,280
Speaker 1: Like how you smell like dizzy something that he hadn't

767
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 1: have son because this ain't normal. So I was like,

768
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 1: oh ship, So I just like I rolled over and

769
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, hold on the right

770
00:43:58,040 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 1: fact I went to the bathroom wash my hands. I

771
00:43:59,960 --> 00:44:02,319
Speaker 1: was like, oh fuck no. So then I got back

772
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:04,279
Speaker 1: into bed with her because I'm trying to like I

773
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 1: don't be trying to embarrass people when we have sex,

774
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 1: like if it's bad, like I'm not gonna be here like,

775
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: oh my god, you're so terrible. You just sat here

776
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 1: and said you pulled the bitch up for me and

777
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,359
Speaker 1: your pussy and said you're doing an awful job. Yeah,

778
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: but I mean that was my girlfriend. Okay, so it's

779
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 1: like something hurts, so I can't stop you. Yeah, but

780
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be like smells. I'm not gonna be like,

781
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 1: damn it, you didn't tell it. I got out of there.

782
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 1: I laid there and I was like she's like, oh,

783
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: like why do you stop. I was like, oh, like

784
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna come back tomorrow. I'm gonna come back

785
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 1: tomorrow when you get so poked. And I was like no, no,

786
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 1: like let's go, let's go. I was like no, like

787
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: there's no way. She didn't smell herself. Like, as a woman,

788
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: we know when a smell is different, when this charge

789
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:51,800
Speaker 1: is different. When I talk like, you would assume that

790
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 1: most women do. Know. My mom said, if you can,

791
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: if you can smell it, everybody everyone period, Yeah they can.

792
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, man, I like, I wasn't even all the

793
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 1: way down there and I smelled it. Maybe he's normal

794
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:05,320
Speaker 1: for her at this point. I don't know. She was

795
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 1: kind of a little bit. I saw you mentioned squirting,

796
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 1: and I'm curious because I think a lot of people

797
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 1: are like trying to make someone squirt. I don't know

798
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: if they could do it in a car. So do

799
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 1: you have a squirting trick? And if so, tell us,

800
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:28,760
Speaker 1: And if you don't, just tell us your squirting stories. Okay,

801
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 1: So of course any girl would. I definitely want to,

802
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: you know a little. You want to show off, right,

803
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 1: so people leave hands are the easiest way to get

804
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 1: it off your first time. Okay. So I had one

805
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 1: girlfriend that she always wanted to so she would like

806
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 1: explore her body all the time, and then like somehow

807
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: we just like start doing it all the time. It

808
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:53,359
Speaker 1: was great. Cool. Now I'm like current girl, She's like, yeah,

809
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: you know, I've done it before. Whatever. So what I

810
00:45:56,640 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 1: realized with her works is if there's clip stimulation, so

811
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 1: like she might be like rubbing her ship and I

812
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 1: might either be finger her or fucking her. But I noticed,

813
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 1: like when I'm not that deep in and she's doing it, Wow,

814
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: you know, men are like convinced. I'm sorry, I really

815
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 1: believe this. The more they're jamming it their hands inside

816
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 1: of you, the more they're gonna reach this button. And

817
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:28,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I've definitely been like done that before, badly,

818
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: I mean, because you're watching it in a porn Yeah,

819
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 1: aggressiveness earlier. That's why I'm thinking. I'm like, yeah, when

820
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: I was when I was younger, I would watch porn.

821
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,239
Speaker 1: They're slamming the door. Yes, we weren't yet. We're not

822
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 1: being taught to be gentle. We're trying to do all

823
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 1: the crazy heart be taught. Not. My homeboy told me recently,

824
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 1: I mean he ain't ship. When we were eating the

825
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 1: other day and I told him about a sexual experience

826
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: I had where like I was like kissed and cuddled

827
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 1: after and he was like, weezy, I love you. I

828
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 1: need to tell you something. I said, Okay, he was

829
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 1: like I fuck every bitch like day about girl. He's like,

830
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: because nobody wants to be slut it out unless they

831
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 1: asked for it. Bro, He's like, you need somebody for

832
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 1: the first time, like treat them kindly and like let

833
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 1: them tell you how much harder they needed. He's like,

834
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: I'm a grown ass man and I'm sucking growing ass

835
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 1: women and they do not want to not be kissed

836
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 1: and slammed into the market headboard, like they're going to

837
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 1: tell you when they need it. And he's right for

838
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 1: the most part. I'm sure that's not the same, but

839
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 1: I actually agree with that because when I do want

840
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:29,280
Speaker 1: it harder, I'm gonna tell you. He's like, I kiss bitches,

841
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 1: I'll lick him everywhere, like I just sucking do whatever

842
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 1: I want. He was like an after sex. I like

843
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: lay them the balls too. I was like, damn, my girls,

844
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 1: be like why do you fuck me? Like he loved me.

845
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:43,879
Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, chill. That was like our like our

846
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 1: first couple of times. I'm like, girl, now I want

847
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 1: to get into kind of what dating is like because

848
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 1: are masculine presenting. Yeah, that birthberry butter for all You'll

849
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:04,720
Speaker 1: take spending By the way, y'all if you're not watching

850
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 1: on YouTube, her shirt said Jade's shirt says paper pussy piece,

851
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: give you peace. Amen, there you go. What is that conversation? Like?

852
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 1: Is there ever? Like? We both bitches, So let's go Dusch.

853
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: Do you not go dusch? Do you take the bill?

854
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 1: What's up? Okay? So to a certain my dominance, I

855
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 1: want to pay, Like I just feel like that's just

856
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 1: I don't know, that's just I'm one. I'm just like,

857
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 1: regardless of sexuality all those things, I am a very

858
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 1: generous person. Um. So like even like there's times I'll

859
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: go with my friends at all, like cover for my friends. Um,

860
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:46,759
Speaker 1: but when I'm taking a woman out, most likely i'm

861
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 1: asking her on a date. So I feel like if

862
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 1: I'm asking you on a day, I definitely should be

863
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: the one paying. I'm not going to ask you to

864
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:57,439
Speaker 1: come out and have you pay like, um but yeah

865
00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 1: there's somewhere kick there's a bit kicking her man right now. Yeah,

866
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 1: I don't really I agree. I don't relieve you asked.

867
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 1: You can go Dutch, okay, but I don't really I

868
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 1: don't want my girl going Dutch with me, So I'm

869
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 1: gonna pay unless the only time, like my girl ever

870
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 1: pays it and she's like, I want to take you out,

871
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: and I'm like, da, you splanted me today. Okay, but

872
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 1: look even last night we went to day and she paid. Um,

873
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:26,399
Speaker 1: but not ons and times I'm probably gonna pay. I've

874
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 1: always said I hate Dutch, but I'd rather like pay,

875
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 1: you pay, I pay whatever. Yeah, Like it just seems weird.

876
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: Just going it feels a real HOMEI once we started

877
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: splitting a check, yeah, and I get dry. Yeah. I

878
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:39,360
Speaker 1: was gonna say, I'll literally split a check with a

879
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:42,399
Speaker 1: guy I'm not interested in, just so he knows, doesn't see.

880
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 1: I don't say that when you used to be I'm

881
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 1: on a date when we were when when I was

882
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:50,960
Speaker 1: poor going out to eat. That's a different handy when

883
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 1: I was actually dating, So you didn't say that. I

884
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 1: used to say that. Used to be like I don't

885
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:57,359
Speaker 1: give an if I never want to see you again,

886
00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: that's why he gotta pay. I Okay, you did. They

887
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 1: can run to take back. Let him run it right, Okay, Broka,

888
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 1: how as bitch, what are you about to say? Old

889
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:21,359
Speaker 1: episodes like splitting though I do think it establishes friendship. Um,

890
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 1: but I just think I never knew that. And I

891
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:26,239
Speaker 1: think honestly, for like whole male we've had people writing

892
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 1: and say, like for women that are exploring their sati

893
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:30,880
Speaker 1: sexuality with other women, like what do I do on

894
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: the date? What would you reckon? Or what do you

895
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 1: think happens with two lips lesbians? I honestly feel like period?

896
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 1: Who not period? But I guess like in that situation,

897
00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:43,320
Speaker 1: whoever asked what on the day should be paying? Do

898
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 1: you believe that with two lips of lesbians one always takes?

899
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 1: Like do you think there's gender roles? Do you think

900
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 1: someone becomes quote unquote the man because it happened to

901
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 1: me in patriarchy? Like? Did that good? Of course? Like

902
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: you don't want to play into those, right, I feel like,

903
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:00,839
Speaker 1: but I do feel like I kind of play into

904
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 1: them a little bit myself. You open doors and ship. Yeah,

905
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: And my thing is like I want my woman like whenever,

906
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: like I'm like married or whatever. I don't want my

907
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 1: woman to have to work like I want to just

908
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: you see even the way you're talking, I've never and

909
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 1: this is I know your care I've never called my

910
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:21,320
Speaker 1: girl like and I don't know why. I like whenever

911
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 1: I'm no lie, that's some real like mask. But like

912
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: I'm that bitch type ship my woman? Did she say

913
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:31,400
Speaker 1: that was talking about you? I with her girl, I

914
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 1: say the same thing about me and my girl, Like

915
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 1: that's you. You already doing it, You alreadyven know. But

916
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:42,479
Speaker 1: I do think though, like I'm sure there's a world

917
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 1: where maybe something can be fluid. I don't know, but

918
00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:49,799
Speaker 1: I haven't really seen it all the way yet. Most

919
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 1: lesbian friends that I do have, there's a difference. I

920
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 1: feel like too, um those gender roles come out a

921
00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:02,840
Speaker 1: lot more with women that mostly date met so like

922
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:05,720
Speaker 1: I can say, like I've dated, I haven't really dated

923
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:10,319
Speaker 1: maybe any lesbians, not because I don't want to. It's

924
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: just like I don't really come across a lot of lesbians.

925
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 1: You're going to like lesbian clubs I have, but it's

926
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 1: just like every especially in the city, it's just like everybody.

927
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:25,320
Speaker 1: I'm sucked everybody, like everybody. It's everything. I go to

928
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:30,160
Speaker 1: lesbian clubs, they be fighting, don't don't. That's why I

929
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:32,840
Speaker 1: stopped going. Every time I went in the bitch I

930
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 1: went with fight fighting people, and I just went I

931
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 1: went with somebody was like the way people looked at me.

932
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:43,359
Speaker 1: I was like, baby fighting, it'd be, it'd be, it'd

933
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:46,440
Speaker 1: be a lot happening sometimes. And so I just I

934
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 1: got into like gay nightclub seeing a little late. I

935
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 1: guess you could say not even late, but I don't know.

936
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 1: I just wasn't And even the woman there. There's a

937
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:01,239
Speaker 1: lot of straight women that are there. Ye, yeah, a lot.

938
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:04,719
Speaker 1: I mean, do you have a problem with because I

939
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 1: know gay men have said how much they hate when

940
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 1: women come in and just want to hang out with

941
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 1: the game. Do you hate when straight women consume this

942
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: space because this is y'all space, and y'all don't have many.

943
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: I can't even say I'm mad abou because I don't

944
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 1: even know. You don't know, they just look like a feminini,

945
00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:25,400
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know until like we're having a

946
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 1: conversation if but I do remember one I'm being at

947
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 1: a club. One girl like wasn't trying to dance with me.

948
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:37,800
Speaker 1: She was like, I'm straight, what save right? Okay? But

949
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 1: you okay, you straight? You can't it. Sometimes I will say,

950
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 1: people get way to up their own ask thinking that

951
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 1: every lesbian wants to fuck you like never, I mean,

952
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 1: it's the same with. I mean that's the problem with

953
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 1: men too. Men think that gays are always just trying

954
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:58,319
Speaker 1: to turn them out. Is that a thing with you too,

955
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:01,080
Speaker 1: Like do you feel like even you just younger being

956
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: in a room, did they think you want to conquer

957
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 1: their straightness? I feel don't get wrong, I feel like

958
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:09,959
Speaker 1: the women be with it, but like, but I'd be like, girl,

959
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: I don't want you like I'm not. I've definitely had

960
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 1: girls where I like, like, I'm social, So if I

961
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 1: go I could go to a club, bar or whatever

962
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 1: by myself and I'm gonna have a blast. So like,

963
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 1: I'm open to talking to people and stuff. And sometimes

964
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: people like, oh, you know I have a girlfriend, maybe

965
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:27,479
Speaker 1: we are you not in my sype? What is that type?

966
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 1: I don't have them. Yeah, if you lined up all

967
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 1: my exes, you'd be like nobody. Another question. Mandy made

968
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 1: the Brittany Grinder comment, and it made me think about

969
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 1: So when I had a girlfriend maybe two years of

970
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 1: the show, and uh after that, I mean, even though

971
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 1: I had continually talked about women, once I had a girlfriend,

972
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 1: I had the most pussy thrown at me. Like my

973
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:57,879
Speaker 1: ex when we went to Miami. Oh, she was sick.

974
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 1: Of me bro because girls were you remember every home,

975
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: I was like, I want you to be my first girl.

976
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 1: I want to do this. You also admit openly that

977
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 1: you fans. I didn't say I wouldn't puk me because

978
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 1: either I think it's I'll be writing at for homet

979
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:12,320
Speaker 1: like that. You know what I'm saying, Like women just

980
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 1: the way they're like, I want eating my first Like

981
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: but yeah, like at the end of the day, I'm

982
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:20,480
Speaker 1: still fucking bitches that fuck pitches like to me the

983
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: first thing and like knocking me off the checklist was

984
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 1: so fucking annoying. And I'm curious because you are mass

985
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 1: presenting if a lot of girls are like, oh, I

986
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 1: could fuck you because you don't look like a girl

987
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:34,759
Speaker 1: to me, and how it makes you feel, like do

988
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:39,279
Speaker 1: you give a fun? No one has necessarily said that

989
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: to me, but I've definitely been like the first for

990
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 1: a lot of like straight women. But I don't know,

991
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:48,239
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't feel any type of way

992
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 1: about it. If I feel like you're like feticizing me

993
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:53,800
Speaker 1: or like being weird, then obviously like no, have you

994
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:55,839
Speaker 1: ever had a nigger want to suck you? I mean yes,

995
00:55:56,160 --> 00:56:02,439
Speaker 1: it's so annoying. Oh yeah, they don't be trying much,

996
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:05,799
Speaker 1: is it like maybe like on a home girl ship

997
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:09,840
Speaker 1: And then they'd be like like, I've definitely had friends

998
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:12,880
Speaker 1: at all. I've won. I grown up to like I

999
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 1: never really have guy friends. I don't know why. I

1000
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 1: feel like I know I always have. Because she was

1001
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:25,320
Speaker 1: trying to hide her gaines was trying to let's go

1002
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 1: hang out. No, I don't know, I just always I

1003
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:32,719
Speaker 1: feel like I just connect with women more. Um, but yeah,

1004
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:35,399
Speaker 1: I've definitely had friends that were like, oh, yeah, we're cool,

1005
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:36,960
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, like we're out and

1006
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 1: he's like, yeah, so you he would never fuck no,

1007
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:45,480
Speaker 1: like an if I did, it would not yo. I

1008
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 1: remember this one guy. He hits me up like oh

1009
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:51,879
Speaker 1: yeah we should hang I'm okay cool, Like we're both

1010
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:53,520
Speaker 1: kind of like in like the art scene like where

1011
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:55,719
Speaker 1: I'm at, and I'm like, okay cool. He's like a

1012
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 1: really dope photographer and he's like, yeah, yeah, I'll get you.

1013
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 1: This is like probably like for Uber and Left or

1014
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 1: right before, and he was like, yeah, yeah, I'll get

1015
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:05,279
Speaker 1: you like a taxi, I'll call you. Taxes in my

1016
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:07,280
Speaker 1: career were kicking. I'm like, all right, cool, I'm thinking,

1017
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:11,120
Speaker 1: Matt is I'm clearly gay and he's like, yeah, you

1018
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:14,360
Speaker 1: know I dikes before I'm like, oh my god, he

1019
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 1: said this, what does that happened with me? Like he

1020
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:24,959
Speaker 1: was trying to yo. I was like goodbye, Like I'm good.

1021
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 1: Have you had gay men wanting to drop them up? Yes?

1022
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 1: And I would definitely do it. I know that's right. Interesting, Yes,

1023
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:37,960
Speaker 1: let's unpack this. It was anything not bad because like

1024
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:43,040
Speaker 1: as a lesbian, clearly you're attracted to chet's pussy, right

1025
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 1: like like I feel like that's it is strapping up

1026
00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 1: a gay man part of the fluidity for you. You

1027
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 1: think you could try and or is it just because

1028
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 1: you know you get to funk a man and they

1029
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't be sucking you. M yeah, well my thing is too.

1030
00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 1: I think that feminine men are attractive. Um See, they

1031
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:05,480
Speaker 1: get the bitches, they get the straight bitches. That's the

1032
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 1: ones that I'm you're not sucking me, but i'd be

1033
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 1: down to just like trying. Yeah, but I always as

1034
00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:19,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, them dicking balls come out, they keep

1035
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 1: it in. Now, I don't know the time came I

1036
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: was someone that's probably going to give it head, you like,

1037
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: I gotta sucking dick. I'm not sucking dick. That's as

1038
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 1: far as I see, as far I can eat fussy

1039
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 1: like maybe I mean like I think I was. I

1040
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 1: got one more question before home O two about your pronounsa.

1041
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 1: So why do you think it is that you're able

1042
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 1: to be comfortable to you? I don't know a lot

1043
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 1: of my friends, and I would call them studs and women.

1044
00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 1: I've hung out with it her studs like get annoyed

1045
00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 1: sometimes when people reckon, is there a woman? But I'm

1046
00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 1: gonna be real with you, Like I find it sexier

1047
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 1: when someone has like, I think you're pretty, but I

1048
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 1: also think you're fine, and I like I like that

1049
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 1: you're Like there's a handsome thing and I don't know

1050
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 1: what's it doing right? But yeah, Like, have you ever

1051
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:16,919
Speaker 1: felt like there was a point where you maybe wanted

1052
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 1: to be more manly and or more mask or like

1053
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 1: and when I say manly, I mean actually appear to

1054
00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 1: be a man? Like do you feel insulted when someone

1055
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 1: says ma'am? And what's made you chose she instead of them? Okay, y'all,

1056
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 1: y'all don't know me obviously, Like, so y'all tell me

1057
00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:38,200
Speaker 1: y'all opinion. I get called sir all the time, Like

1058
00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 1: if you saw me, what you think I was going? No,

1059
00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:44,200
Speaker 1: I don't think so either, But I get called sir.

1060
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:45,920
Speaker 1: I mean, or you could just look like a real

1061
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 1: pretty feminine man maybe, but those like the pronouns on

1062
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 1: the street for me are like he him like, generally

1063
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:55,680
Speaker 1: try to call you with how your quote unquote dressed

1064
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 1: like a dressed someone? How they on the phone too.

1065
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, I ain't called you. I get sir

1066
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 1: on the phone. Girl, I like, my name is Jade, bitch.

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01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 1: Drive through? Would I'd be going down to and it'd

1068
01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:12,320
Speaker 1: be like pull pull through, sir, it's ma'am, it's you.

1069
01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 1: I'm taking it's ma'am. It's ma'am. It's ma'm to you. Yeah.

1070
01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 1: How does that make you feel? Do you when you

1071
01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 1: were younger at least, did you feel that? Okay? So

1072
01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:23,440
Speaker 1: like no, no, like I've never And that's the thing

1073
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:25,840
Speaker 1: that people always feel, like, oh, when you dress more

1074
01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 1: masculine or you wear a strap, well now like I'm

1075
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:31,480
Speaker 1: just wearing it throughout the day. But you know something,

1076
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:34,680
Speaker 1: but I don't um. Some people feel like you want

1077
01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:36,480
Speaker 1: to be a man like. That's like such a narrative,

1078
01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I've never in my life wanted to

1079
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 1: be a man like. So no, there's never been a

1080
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 1: time where I wanted to come off like. I like

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01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 1: my appearance to be more masculine because that's what I

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01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 1: feel comfortable with. But as what I identified with is

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01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 1: a woman, I feel like a woman. I'm happy to

1084
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:53,640
Speaker 1: be a woman. I don't want any other way. So,

1085
01:00:54,280 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 1: but when I would get called sir, he him all

1086
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:01,800
Speaker 1: those things, I'm not like, man, have that like a

1087
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:06,560
Speaker 1: shade to throw it like mask girls a lot, like

1088
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:10,560
Speaker 1: you're mad because we're sucking your bitches and blue period.

1089
01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 1: Let's get into home mail. It's a really really short one,

1090
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:15,680
Speaker 1: and I felt like it was good for all of

1091
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 1: us to answer, do you guys? And they were talking

1092
01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 1: to Mandy and I, but I want you to jump

1093
01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:22,120
Speaker 1: into get slut shained by men or women more? And

1094
01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 1: how do you handle it? If so, what do you think? Um?

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01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:31,600
Speaker 1: I think Over the years, it was girls, and then

1096
01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 1: once I had a podcast, it was men because niggas

1097
01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:36,680
Speaker 1: are more likely to make a fake page and call

1098
01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:39,720
Speaker 1: me a horror God, damn, it's so much fucking effort. Bro.

1099
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: Why that's why the YouTube comments be so so so

1100
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 1: much because they could go in there and notmous um.

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01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 1: I don't really know. And I saw that question, I

1102
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 1: was trying to think. I would say it was even

1103
01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 1: across the years. I don't think yeah, I mean, honestly,

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01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 1: I think it was even. No, I would say men.

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01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 1: I don't think I was really ever slest shamed by

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01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:10,160
Speaker 1: women because all of my friends rose I was friends

1107
01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 1: with escorts, porn stars literally like we all got all

1108
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:21,280
Speaker 1: of my friends were hos. So actually I never was

1109
01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 1: really sleight shamed. As as much as I was fat

1110
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 1: shamed by women. I was body shamed way more by

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01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:30,040
Speaker 1: women than men believe it. So that's the shaming that

1112
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 1: I got from women was definitely um physical never never

1113
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:37,800
Speaker 1: bodies because I was always working the niggas they wanted anyway,

1114
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,120
Speaker 1: How how did most women make you feel like that? Like?

1115
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 1: What what were they saying? And how about what you said?

1116
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:46,760
Speaker 1: They were body shaming here? Oh yeah, I mean it

1117
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:49,920
Speaker 1: was always about my weight. It was always about um

1118
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:53,200
Speaker 1: why I was getting like they didn't believe I was

1119
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:56,120
Speaker 1: sucking the niggas that I was really fucking your face

1120
01:02:56,320 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 1: is online. I even I've even had a girl say so,

1121
01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:03,480
Speaker 1: me and her were both sucking his nigga on the colts,

1122
01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: and he actually got you ain't gonna bleep it out.

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01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:12,240
Speaker 1: That's fine, he ain't there no more. But uh yeah,

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01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: maybe they'd be gone every year. Um not NFL, not

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01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 1: for long. Um. Anyways, so he was sucking this bitch

1126
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: in Miami and she found out that he was also

1127
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 1: sucking me, and he found it so like it turned

1128
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: him on more. How much him sucking me bothered her

1129
01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:32,480
Speaker 1: because she felt like my body wasn't like done enough.

1130
01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:34,920
Speaker 1: I didn't have a small enough ways. I was a

1131
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,520
Speaker 1: big bitch. How dare he sucked me and fuck her?

1132
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 1: We weren't in the same league, or so she thought.

1133
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 1: And so a lot of a lot of the issues

1134
01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:46,520
Speaker 1: were like where women would be like, ill, bit you

1135
01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:49,000
Speaker 1: not even all that. That's crazy. That and not to

1136
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:51,840
Speaker 1: me is an insecurity. I've never felt that with body type.

1137
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:53,800
Speaker 1: I've only felt that with like the type of bit

1138
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 1: you fucking like, I'm gonna get insulted if you fucking

1139
01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:58,439
Speaker 1: at least cheating on me with a bitch, that's whack.

1140
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: But with a white bitch, and I only ask you,

1141
01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:05,000
Speaker 1: because we see that with looks and they're what's it

1142
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 1: called the the fuck the the pivot They Fred not

1143
01:04:10,280 --> 01:04:13,360
Speaker 1: fred Um the other Ni goddamn Channing got in trouble

1144
01:04:13,400 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 1: for calling Russell Wilson whack or corny. So to you,

1145
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:21,760
Speaker 1: clearly we know what isn't ugly? Okay, so that it

1146
01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:24,080
Speaker 1: was looks. No, you just said it wasn't lot I

1147
01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:27,000
Speaker 1: met body type. I'm sorry, okay, Like I've never thought

1148
01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:31,479
Speaker 1: that body type attributed to like attractivity, like uly, bitch.

1149
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna be real with you. I didn't

1150
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:36,919
Speaker 1: say white women were ugly, but the men that I date,

1151
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:40,520
Speaker 1: I like, I don't find it. I don't think it's

1152
01:04:40,560 --> 01:04:42,440
Speaker 1: cool for niggas to just a bunch of white bitches,

1153
01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:44,960
Speaker 1: and like think it's a look for you, especially lit

1154
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:47,560
Speaker 1: black men or black women, Like I think we should

1155
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 1: be finding our counterpart I BELI even black families. I

1156
01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 1: understand I'm mixed. So y'all might feel like I can't

1157
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:54,200
Speaker 1: do that gun host it, but I am and get

1158
01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 1: over it. But also, you used to date white men,

1159
01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 1: Yeah I did, and I stopped, bro, Like I realized

1160
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:02,880
Speaker 1: it just really wasn't it really didn't make sense at

1161
01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:04,400
Speaker 1: the end of the day. Like, don't get me wrong,

1162
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:05,959
Speaker 1: I'd probably a white boy. When I go to yourpe

1163
01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:11,280
Speaker 1: I'm probably getting white You're engaged a white women, tell

1164
01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:16,680
Speaker 1: us get out. It's more like this. It's just it's

1165
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 1: it's more so when you realize like one of I

1166
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 1: can't say it because y'all know who it is, but

1167
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:27,960
Speaker 1: being so proud in your blackness and wanting to pursue

1168
01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:31,120
Speaker 1: black shit in surrounding yourself, like even my studio, right,

1169
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:32,560
Speaker 1: Like I make it a point to hire black and

1170
01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:35,680
Speaker 1: brown people. What I look like marrying and starting his

1171
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:38,440
Speaker 1: family and getting all this money together with the white dude.

1172
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 1: It's just not no for real, and like so for

1173
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 1: me when I and also like there's an abundance of

1174
01:05:47,360 --> 01:05:52,640
Speaker 1: attractive black people in the world, attractive Latino's, attractive brown people, Indians, Asians, whatever, bro,

1175
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:55,840
Speaker 1: So when I know that someone's on a streak of

1176
01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:58,400
Speaker 1: fucking white people, to me, you're looking for it, because

1177
01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:00,320
Speaker 1: it ain't hard for me to find a find ball sucking.

1178
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:02,880
Speaker 1: It's just not that's to me where it is weird

1179
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:07,240
Speaker 1: where it's like you're searching for this like white woman

1180
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 1: or a white bird like, but the trend for you

1181
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:13,280
Speaker 1: to be on the trend where you just keep at it,

1182
01:06:14,000 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 1: that to me is when like you must like it

1183
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: or a whole bunch of snow bunnies and that son like,

1184
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:24,600
Speaker 1: why woman as have been disturbed? I was so confused,

1185
01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:28,920
Speaker 1: Mandy like, And it's funny because I remember like the

1186
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:32,240
Speaker 1: closure talk that we had and he was just like,

1187
01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:34,880
Speaker 1: He's like, I know what you're saying, but you know

1188
01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:36,920
Speaker 1: every girlfriend I have was black. I'm like, but you

1189
01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:38,680
Speaker 1: know when wh white girls ain't to look for you either,

1190
01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:41,360
Speaker 1: And I've said all his girlfriends were lit. I really

1191
01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:43,440
Speaker 1: can't find a girlfriend he had that wasn't ape. A

1192
01:06:43,440 --> 01:06:44,880
Speaker 1: matter of fact, one of them lives between New York

1193
01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 1: and l A. I want to be her friends so bad.

1194
01:06:46,480 --> 01:06:48,640
Speaker 1: She just lit as styles and she pretty. I'm like, damn,

1195
01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:51,400
Speaker 1: why you had to fuck that bitch? But anyway, uh,

1196
01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:53,919
Speaker 1: I say that to say, he was like, in my head,

1197
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:56,960
Speaker 1: I wouldn't date them, so I'm just smashing and dashing

1198
01:06:57,040 --> 01:06:59,240
Speaker 1: and I could do it with white girls easy. And

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01:06:59,400 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 1: I just don't believe that. To me, if you're like

1200
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:04,920
Speaker 1: that obsessive about sucking hose, like you're gonna fuchs you

1201
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:07,600
Speaker 1: want to fuck. You're not sucking people that you won't

1202
01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:10,760
Speaker 1: end up with, like, shut up. And I do think

1203
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:13,200
Speaker 1: it's just weird when someone gets to that point. So

1204
01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:16,440
Speaker 1: for me again, I do get insulted when I'll see

1205
01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:17,880
Speaker 1: you niggas a bunch of white girls not be like,

1206
01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 1: what then do you want me for? And or girls

1207
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 1: that are ugly? Okay? And I know people say ugly subjective.

1208
01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:28,040
Speaker 1: It's ugly. It's subjective, not really, it sure is. It

1209
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:30,040
Speaker 1: is because I'll be calling some of the some of

1210
01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 1: the niggas my friends be fucking is ugly, and they'd

1211
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 1: be like, they're not, and I'd be like, the ugly

1212
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:37,920
Speaker 1: niggas and I knew they were ugly. You had that

1213
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:42,080
Speaker 1: one ugly, Oh my god, Jamaican, the DJ. I know, y'all.

1214
01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:44,880
Speaker 1: He was the ugliest motherfuck's out. I've never seen a

1215
01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:51,280
Speaker 1: mother was ugly. Oh, I know you can find him

1216
01:07:52,960 --> 01:07:55,880
Speaker 1: was ugly, all right. And when I tell you, and

1217
01:07:56,040 --> 01:07:58,800
Speaker 1: she got cheated on that nick nigga cheating on her?

1218
01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 1: How you don't know one because I used to put

1219
01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 1: back there. I liked ugly niggas. They're funny. No, she

1220
01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:13,840
Speaker 1: was like nineteen, she don't know what about Dick is

1221
01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:17,320
Speaker 1: a nineteen Yeah, I'll take it back. I'm not unfun

1222
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 1: like if that even walked by me in the street

1223
01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:21,719
Speaker 1: and told people to be like please and my excuse

1224
01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:24,960
Speaker 1: now is like it was before I had chitties BT before.

1225
01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 1: All right, all right, well Jay, thank you so much?

1226
01:08:29,400 --> 01:08:32,280
Speaker 1: Do you do you want to? Also want to say,

1227
01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:34,600
Speaker 1: do you want to shut out on not defense not

1228
01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:38,639
Speaker 1: don't you gotta accept she's gonna get flooded with thousands

1229
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:41,799
Speaker 1: of nerves? What messages do you want? Because I'm serious,

1230
01:08:41,840 --> 01:08:44,520
Speaker 1: like people are gonna throw but she has a girlfriend.

1231
01:08:44,640 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 1: I know That's what I'm saying. What kind of messages

1232
01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:47,240
Speaker 1: do you want? Would you want it to be like

1233
01:08:47,400 --> 01:08:49,600
Speaker 1: three some type ship? If any We're down for a

1234
01:08:49,720 --> 01:08:56,320
Speaker 1: third okay for she no just sex sex? Did you

1235
01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:57,559
Speaker 1: tell your girl you were coming on here? And how

1236
01:08:57,560 --> 01:08:59,960
Speaker 1: did you feel about it? I was saying, so Yesay

1237
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:02,360
Speaker 1: was like it's so funny because I'm like, I feel

1238
01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:05,200
Speaker 1: the most myself with her. If anyone I dated and

1239
01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:06,960
Speaker 1: I was like, there's other people would date it, and

1240
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:08,400
Speaker 1: I probably would have been like, yeah, I'm not doing that.

1241
01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:11,840
Speaker 1: But he thought it was like dope. She's like I'm

1242
01:09:11,880 --> 01:09:15,679
Speaker 1: so excited for you. That's cool. Let's be cool now. Wait,

1243
01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:19,800
Speaker 1: do what your handle? It's Jade of all Trades? What

1244
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:22,840
Speaker 1: a Z? I love that name. By the way, that's

1245
01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:31,320
Speaker 1: a really good name. What does z Z? Well? I'm

1246
01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:36,280
Speaker 1: telling you they're coming. Prepare yourself, Prepare for sure, love

1247
01:09:36,360 --> 01:09:43,519
Speaker 1: me too. Want to tell everyone Happy Pride, Happy Pride.

1248
01:09:43,600 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 1: And again, if you guys want some bonus content, please

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Speaker 1: dot com backslash Horrible Decisions Jade, thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for joining us today. And this has been yet another

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Speaker 1: episode of horrible decisions ladies and left everything you do.

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Speaker 1: I just found something out. I'm freaking out. I have

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Speaker 1: no clue what to do. I was just informed by

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend that his ex has herpes and did while

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Speaker 1: they were together. She wasn't having an outbreak then they

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Speaker 1: never fully had sex. I don't know what the funk

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Speaker 1: that means, but I know your episode with Ella. That's

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Speaker 1: still possible to even get it then, and it's extremely common,

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Speaker 1: so I'm not upset over the possibility that have her

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Speaker 1: have herpes. I'm piste off that I was just informed

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Speaker 1: of this almost a year into our relationship, he's never

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Speaker 1: been tested for it or an STD in general. It

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Speaker 1: was dumb and not like me to still have sex

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Speaker 1: with him after that. But I immediately got tested on

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Speaker 1: my own. But as discussed on Ella's episode, they don't

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Speaker 1: test for her pies. Not caring about your own sexual

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Speaker 1: health is one thing, but I feel like not caring

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Speaker 1: about your partner's sexual health is another. I don't care

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Speaker 1: if I have it, like I said, but I just

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Speaker 1: feel very betrayed and disrespected. I'm not sure what to do.

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Speaker 1: He knows I'm mad at him, but with dumping him

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Speaker 1: be over dramatic. I feel like hiding something is kind

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Speaker 1: of a deal breaker. Please help me. I'm a patron.

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Speaker 1: You can read this on there too. Um So, she

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Speaker 1: mentioned that she got tested, but really realize that they

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Speaker 1: don't test for her bees. That's only because you have

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Speaker 1: to just ask. So they do test you for her

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Speaker 1: bees if you go in for an STD screening, however,

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Speaker 1: you have to ask for them to include her pies.

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Speaker 1: So she's just saying like she got tested after but

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Speaker 1: but like, like, you know, it's something you've got to

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Speaker 1: request or it, so just go back and requested. I

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Speaker 1: think the interesting thing is is dumping him over dramatic

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Speaker 1: because she said it's not about the herpes, it's about

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Speaker 1: um the deal breaker from hiding something. I'll be honest

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Speaker 1: with you, and I surprised I'm even saying this, But

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Speaker 1: I don't even know if he realized he was hiding something.

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Speaker 1: And here's why. If a year later he told you,

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Speaker 1: I yes, Like, I think here's the the interesting thing.

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Speaker 1: You can be mad that he didn't care enough about

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Speaker 1: your health because that is something that's super important that

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Speaker 1: people don't give a funk about. Right, People care about

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Speaker 1: them selves, and people are worried about their own ship.

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Speaker 1: Not everyone is as conci conscientious about others around them.

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Speaker 1: That's why people voted for Trump. Right, That's like just

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Speaker 1: a more larger issue. People are not selfless like they

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Speaker 1: need to be. That is an issue for you. Let

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Speaker 1: that be the issue for you. But if he eventually

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Speaker 1: told you, he probably never realized that he was quote

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Speaker 1: unquote lying, right, So I don't know if dumping him

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Speaker 1: for that would be over dramatic. I think dumping him

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Speaker 1: should be because you feel like he doesn't care about

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Speaker 1: that as much more than he hid it. Because I

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Speaker 1: don't know if they hid it. I think that this

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Speaker 1: would be a time for you both to talk about

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Speaker 1: your sexual health and being that he never went and

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Speaker 1: got tested. To me, there's nothing technically wrong with him

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Speaker 1: not disclosing the health of someone else. I think that

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Speaker 1: this is something to where you could both to take

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Speaker 1: as a learning lesson. But the fact that he didn't

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Speaker 1: disclose something that could be very private to someone else uh.

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Speaker 1: To me, it's more so the fact that he never

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Speaker 1: thought the need to go and get tested, which means

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Speaker 1: he may not see herpes as a big deal, which

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Speaker 1: means the two of you may need to open up

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Speaker 1: about your views on sexual health as it pertains to

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Speaker 1: as TVs And this could be the time to where

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Speaker 1: you both go and get tested together, or you find

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Speaker 1: or you find out from him why herpes isn't a

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Speaker 1: big deal to him. Maybe he feels like it's not

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Speaker 1: that big of a deal as long as you don't

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Speaker 1: get outbreaks, or maybe he feels like how or maybe

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Speaker 1: he feels like so many people in the world. I mean,

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Speaker 1: we talked about it even on the episode. Eighty percent

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Speaker 1: of people have have some form of herpie simplex. Of course,

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Speaker 1: there's the one on your mouth and the one on

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Speaker 1: your genitals, but also herpes can can end up in

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Speaker 1: any moist area on your body. You can get herpes

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Speaker 1: and your goddamn arn't pit. So I think that it's

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Speaker 1: important for you, guys to discuss your views on sexually

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Speaker 1: transmitted disease and your sexual health and not use this

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Speaker 1: as a time to to to badger him or or

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Speaker 1: punish him by breaking up with him. But this is

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Speaker 1: a chance for you to educate him and maybe see

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Speaker 1: where his views are on this. Yeah. I think that's

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Speaker 1: a really important thing, is that he may not just

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Speaker 1: understand and um, everything is a learning moment and a

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Speaker 1: teaching moment. Excuse me, And when it happens like this,

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Speaker 1: especially if we told you a year later, it doesn't

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Speaker 1: sound like a lie. Um. Also, bitch, what is never

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Speaker 1: fully had sex? Because you look white? Zilly? And I

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Speaker 1: wonder if this is some white people, because when white

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Speaker 1: people say we hooked up, I'm like, what that means?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what hooked up means? Do you know

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Speaker 1: what it means? Man? Do because I don't hooked up

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Speaker 1: without sex. Maybe just make people be like, yeah, we

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Speaker 1: hooked up once, and you're like what I'm saying hooking

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Speaker 1: hooking up the sex. That's what I thought, so what

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Speaker 1: I'm up. But hooking up is the same way we

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Speaker 1: talked about dating, meaning something depending on the person or

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Speaker 1: I mean. But we also say oral sex is sex.

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Speaker 1: So my nigga's still set. Okay, well, maybe that's what

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Speaker 1: she means they never fully had sex. When she said

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Speaker 1: they never fully had sex, that made me think to myself, Wundy,

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Speaker 1: they drive or played and right