1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com. 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 2: Ryan is on the phone today for our first Day 4 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Christine. So in 5 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 2: a few minutes we're gonna call her and see if 6 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get 7 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 2: him another date. But first, Ryan, how long has it 8 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 2: been since you heard from Christine. 9 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 3: It's been it's been a few minutes. I'm not gonna lie. 10 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 4: I'm getting a little I'm excited that we can reconnect, 11 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 4: but I'm a little bit concerned why she hasn't gotten 12 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 4: back to May. 13 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,279 Speaker 5: Okay, that's fair. But when you say, like it's been 14 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 5: a few minutes. 15 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 3: Like a week, like I would say within a week. 16 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, let's talk about the date and see if we 17 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 5: can figure out why. 18 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 3: Well, this is a confusing part. Okay. So, like we 19 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 3: went to this acalian through a defensive room. 20 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:50,559 Speaker 4: Okay, we're doing this park and it was like so 21 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 4: awesome to there was like boots everywhere, like Monzareilla first, 22 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 4: Mozilla everything writing. 23 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and we both geeked out early. 24 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 4: She's into food like I am, and we were just 25 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 4: I mean, we ended up in this little sort of 26 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 4: tiny family down sort of run like deli. Okay, and 27 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 4: it's so good, like insane Italian combo sandwich like life 28 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 4: singing sandwich. 29 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 6: Okay really, and so after stuff in our faces, made 30 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 6: up this little dive bar and it was just like 31 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 6: old jukebox sticky fors darts that never go straight. 32 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 4: And somehow she just destroyed me at dark totally just 33 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 4: wiped the floor to me. 34 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 3: Not even competitive, but. 35 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 4: It was fun, you know, yeah, and yeah, and then 36 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 4: she stayed over. 37 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 2: Oh okay, So that sounds like the date went well. 38 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 4: Oh phenomenal. I mean, laughing, talking, vibing and look, I'm 39 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 4: not gonna lie. Did we hook up? 40 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 3: Yes, and everything. Everything was just great. 41 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 2: So then what went wrong? 42 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 4: Well, you know, listen, okay, I I don't know exactly, 43 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 4: and I know, you know, dates can be fun, it's 44 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 4: still going to wear, but with her, it's just felt 45 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 4: so different. You know, she's really chill, nobia senergy and 46 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 4: look like I didn't feel like I was trying to 47 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 4: impress or anything like that. 48 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 3: We just you know, we just clicked. 49 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 2: You know that's great. Yeah, well uh huh yeah, yeah. 50 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 7: Well Well here's the thing okay, so I think I 51 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 7: think she stole my punch cards. Your punch card, Yeah, okay, So, 52 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 7: because we're both into food and stuff like that, I 53 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 7: showed her, like Dellie's. 54 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 3: Punch cards from these it's like a restaurant. 55 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 4: It's like twenty sandwiches, get you a free sandwich every 56 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 4: week for six months if you're finished an under three months. 57 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 4: And look, it's a stupid flex but she was impressed. 58 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 4: She was like checking it out the whole time, you know, 59 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 4: like I mean, she was hanging out. So it's funny, 60 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 4: like it was kind of like a ronic joke. But 61 00:02:57,240 --> 00:03:01,239 Speaker 4: then the next morning, the card's just gone, Okay, it 62 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 4: just vanished and she left before I woke up, and an, 63 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 4: I think she took it. 64 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 3: Like pocketed it. And I know she's ghosting me because 65 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 3: she doesn't want to face that. And like, who killed 66 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 3: a punch card. It's not even money, it's sandwiches. It's weird. 67 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 5: But you did use it to impress her though, So like, 68 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,239 Speaker 5: clearly you guys both appreciate the sandwich punch. 69 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, could you have just dropped it though? Are you 70 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 2: sure she stole it? 71 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 3: It was? 72 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 4: I am telling you, I know where it is if 73 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 4: she had it last it's it's gone. 74 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 3: I've checked everywhere, okay, and I worked hard for that. 75 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 4: You know. 76 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 2: So so do you want another day or you just 77 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 2: want your punch card back? 78 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 3: Both? I'll take her for it, I don't know. 79 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 2: Ryan is on the phone today for our first date 80 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Christine. So we're 81 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 2: about to call her and see if she'll tell us 82 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 2: why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. 83 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 2: But first, Ryan, why don't you recap your date again 84 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 2: real quick? 85 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? 86 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 4: So Christina and I went out and we hit like 87 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 4: this super cool food festival, ate a bunch of food, 88 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 4: had a great time, and then we ended up going 89 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 4: back to my place hooking up. But when she left 90 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 4: in the morning, I noticed that my punch card for 91 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 4: this great restaurant is like gone, and I think that 92 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 4: she took it. 93 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: Okay, so we're going to fight. Well, So our mission 94 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 2: here is to find out why you're getting ghosted, maybe 95 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,600 Speaker 2: get you a second date, and also get your punch 96 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 2: card back. Yes, okay, here, we are you ready? 97 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 3: Yeah? 98 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: Okay? Hello him, I speak to Christine. 99 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:49,239 Speaker 2: Please? 100 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 4: Is this she? 101 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 2: Hey Christine? How are you? This is a radio show. 102 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 2: It's called The Jewbil Show. 103 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 5: Hi Christine, I'm Nina. 104 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 2: Hi I'm Victoria and my name is Jebel. How are you. 105 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: I'm good, How are you great? Thanks for asking? Have 106 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 2: you ever listened to the show before? 107 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 6: No? 108 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 2: Oh cool? Okay, so a little bit about us. We 109 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 2: do a segment called it's called the First Aid follow Up. 110 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with 111 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 2: somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person 112 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 2: can email us to get you on the phone and 113 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 2: ask about why you're ghosting them. Do you have a 114 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 2: few minutes to talk to us because we got an 115 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 2: email about you from somebody? 116 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 8: Oh god, I guess, so. 117 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 5: Are you ghosting somebody? 118 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 9: I guess there's somebody that comes to mind, but I 119 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 9: haven't responded. 120 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 5: Okay, so this is like an intentional ghosting or you 121 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 5: just like I'll get back to him later. 122 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 8: I don't know. 123 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 9: I just I guess I just didn't know what to say, 124 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 9: and then, you know, like time got away from me 125 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 9: kind of. 126 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 10: Yeah. 127 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 5: Okay, well, who are you talking about. Let's make sure 128 00:05:57,720 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 5: it's the same person. 129 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 2: His name is Ryan, Yes, Christine, that's who emailed us. 130 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 2: Ryan emailed us. He told us about your date. He 131 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 2: said it was awesome and he really liked you, but 132 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 2: he's wondering why you're not getting back to him. Can 133 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 2: you tell us. 134 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 9: A little sort of embarrassing And I don't usually kiss 135 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 9: and tell, but. 136 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 3: I guess I was just in bed. 137 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 9: He was kind of like, I don't even know how 138 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 9: to say this nicely. 139 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 11: He was mid, are you kidding me, Christine? 140 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 2: That's Ryan. He's on the phone and wants to talk 141 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 2: to you. 142 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 3: I wasn't excting that. 143 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:49,040 Speaker 8: Yeah, awkward, but yeah, I mean. 144 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 9: I would say mid, and you're not. You're really okay. 145 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 9: I'm sorry, You're not awful. It's just like there was 146 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 9: a lot of talking and you were like giving me 147 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 9: play by place like it was like or something, and 148 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 9: at one point you it was just a lot of 149 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,479 Speaker 9: verbal At one point you whispered time to stack the 150 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 9: layers like that right. 151 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 8: In my ear, Listen, I was being placeful. 152 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 12: I was being playful and original. I was being playful. 153 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 12: Christine's back. The layers is like romantic. It's a metaphor 154 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 12: for depth and flavor. Me. 155 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 4: Come on, I mean, okay, I thought you had potential. 156 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 3: It was like you're sweet. 157 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 9: The day was really fun and I was open, you know, 158 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 9: I was open at that point, just seeing where things 159 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 9: could go. But I just I don't know if it's 160 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 9: gonna work out, to be honest. 161 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 3: Yeah right, I know what this is. I know what 162 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 3: it is. Christine. 163 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 4: You know it didn't work out because you're a liar 164 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 4: and you sold my punch card. Okay, and I'm not 165 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 4: gonna let you ruin my bedroom rerapid talk about this 166 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 4: potential bull Listen. He was the last one to see 167 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 4: my punch card and now it's gone. 168 00:07:58,280 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 3: That just own it. 169 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 11: Oh my god, I did not take your stupid punch part. 170 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 9: Like, why would I risk my integrity for a sandwich 171 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 9: punch part? 172 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 4: It's not the holy Grail. 173 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 6: It's just. 174 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 12: Because you admired it. And why were you handling it 175 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 12: all night? You asked questions about it, you held it, 176 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 12: then it was gone. Where else would it go? 177 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 9: Yeah? I admired it like a museum piece, not like 178 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 9: I was planning a heis I mean, have you looked 179 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 9: between your couch chushions? 180 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? I looked at it. 181 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 8: I find your self awareness in there too, because it 182 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:36,320 Speaker 8: seems to be missing as well. 183 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 3: Oh that's really really good. That's really good, as good 184 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 3: as the sandwich. 185 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:43,199 Speaker 4: You're probably gonna steal once you take that punch card and. 186 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 3: Cash it in. I already know the deal, man. 187 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 8: I don't know your punch part. It's probably in your 188 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 8: house somewhere. 189 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 9: Your house was kind of a mess. 190 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 8: You have one towel. 191 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 4: God, yeah, your morals are a mess. If you're stealing 192 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 4: on a date and you think that's okay to not okay. 193 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:00,040 Speaker 4: And I'm telling you, if I had I wish, I 194 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 4: wish I had a camera, I would I should have 195 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:02,199 Speaker 4: set up a camera. 196 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 3: You would be so red handed right now. 197 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 10: You can know what second Layers was. If you had 198 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 10: a camera, Christine, I might know the answer to this. 199 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 10: I'm gonna ask, though, would you like a second date 200 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 10: with Ryan? We will pay for it? 201 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:29,719 Speaker 8: No bad, Yeah, say whatever you want. 202 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 3: Sef. 203 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 4: We both know you like my sandwich card, and you know, 204 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 4: and you're gonna just you know what, I hope that's. 205 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 8: Like under your. 206 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 9: Stack of nail and you're gonna be so embarrassed. 207 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm really embarrassed. Trust me. I looked everywhere. 208 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 3: I know my sandwich card. 209 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 9: Okay, good bye Sandwich King.