1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer, 2 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:10,039 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Sherry and Tallula. Sherry writes, 3 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: my boyfriend called my ex husband to ask why we 4 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: broke up. My ex husband said, I should not be 5 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: upset because my boyfriend wants to marry me. I don't 6 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 1: care because he crossed the line. Am I supposed to 7 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 1: forgive my boyfriend? Or was he wrong? FeelA? I think 8 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: he was stupid very to call her ex husband. 9 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 2: How would you take advice from somebody who's failed at 10 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 2: the very. 11 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 3: Thing you're trying. 12 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 2: To accomplish, See, young brother, if you were unsure. 13 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:51,520 Speaker 3: About her, you should go to her. 14 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 2: Yeah that part now, obviously she's done something that you 15 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 2: don't like and you trying to find out is it 16 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 2: a trending past, a reoccurring pattern, that's what you're trying 17 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 2: to do. 18 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 3: But to go to her ex. 19 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 2: Husband for that, that don't make no sense at all. 20 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 3: Man, that's a that's a real weak move. 21 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: Broh Okay, all. 22 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 2: Right, you know thinking about man, oh man, but I 23 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 2: wanted to talk to you for a minute. 24 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: What what? Yes? 25 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 3: That's crazy? 26 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, all right? Moving on to Monte in Chicago, 27 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: Monte writes, I told my wife I was going to 28 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: a day party with my brother. She hates when I 29 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: hang with him because he cheated on his wife. She's 30 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: afraid of him being a bad influence on me. I 31 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: am tired of her judging my brother. How do I 32 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: stop her from doing that? 33 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 3: She ain't judge your brother. She found out what your 34 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 3: brother did. 35 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: She didn't your brother. 36 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 2: Your brother's wife may have said something to her. She 37 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 2: don't want your brother to win fluence you. She judge 38 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 2: your brother cheated. 39 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 3: On his wife. How your wife find out about it? 40 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: Mmmm mm hmm. 41 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 2: So, Broughton, all women are gonna do that because they 42 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 2: go because they're gonna sympathize with her. 43 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, the wife for sure. 44 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 2: So brou how do you get her to stop hating 45 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 2: on your brother? Judge and your brother? 46 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 3: So what? M hm? 47 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think that's the issue. Man, You're tripping 48 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 2: for no reason. She gonna feel what she want to feel. 49 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not gonna be able to stop her. 50 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 3: Oh no, I promise you that. 51 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right. Moving on colo to Arisha and Philly. 52 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: Arisha writes, my friend introduced me to a man that 53 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: she she had sex with three years ago. On our 54 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: first stop bull say that again. My friend introduced me 55 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: to a man that she had sex with three years ago. Okay, 56 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: on our first date, he said, he's relieved that I 57 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,920 Speaker 1: didn't care about him hooking up with my friend in 58 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: the past. I was so outdone that I ended the 59 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: friendship with her. Did I overreact? 60 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 3: Why did you end her friendship with her? 61 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: Because she had sex with the guy she introduced her 62 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: to and three years ago. And I guess she didn't 63 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: tell her at the time, Oh, you can't have sex, 64 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 1: but as she found out through the guy, he told 65 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 1: her and he said, I'm glad you're not tripping about it. 66 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 2: Well, that means that the ex hit her friend must 67 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 2: have told him that I told her about us. 68 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 3: See. 69 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 2: Well, for the guy to say I'm glad you're not 70 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 2: tripping about it means that the girlfriend must have told 71 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 2: He must be under the impression that the girlfriend who's saying, Hey, 72 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 2: I'm introducing you to this guy, but I want you 73 00:03:57,960 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: to know I slept with him three years ago. 74 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm assuming he figured she told him and that's 75 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: why she introduced him. She's and and the girl went 76 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: out with him thinking it was okay. That they had 77 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: sex three years ago. 78 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:15,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, but obviously the girl didn't tell. 79 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 3: The girl that. 80 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 1: No, she didn't. 81 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 2: Girl didn't tell her that, right, She like she found 82 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 2: out from the game from the guy. 83 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: Exactly she found out from the guy, and she. 84 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 3: I don't think that's the reason to break up the friendship. 85 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 2: I think you should have just said, girl, I think 86 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 2: you should have You didn't think you should have told 87 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 2: me this. 88 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 3: Why would you stop being friends with her? 89 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, you know. 90 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 2: And maybe the reason she didn't tell you that was 91 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 2: because she wanted you to give the guy a fair chance. 92 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 3: Man, but that ain't gonna fly with women. So that 93 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 3: didn't work. 94 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: Can't move on. Yeah. So to the question she says, 95 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: did she overreact in the answer is yes, you did react. 96 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: Don't react all right. Last one, Steve, This is from 97 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 1: Khalid and Baltimore. Khaled says, my child's mom wants to 98 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: have another child by me. I have a great relationship 99 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 1: with her, but I don't want to pay for another 100 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 1: child that doesn't live with me full time. I want 101 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: to start a family with someone I love, not her. 102 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 1: How do I explain it to her? 103 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 2: Wow, I'm not I don't want to have a baby 104 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 2: with you. I don't want to have a baby with you. 105 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 2: I ain't even in love with you like that. Yeah yeah, no, really, 106 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 2: I want to have a family with somebody I love. 107 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 2: I'm gonna spend no more money on some kid just 108 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,359 Speaker 2: over that. Just because you want a baby, go find 109 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 2: somebody and have a baby that wants you and the baby. Yeah, 110 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 2: because I don't want you or the baby like that. 111 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. Man, that's an easy conversation, right. It's because you 112 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: have a great relationship with her, doesn't mean that he 113 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 1: wants to father another child by you. You have a 114 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,479 Speaker 1: great relationship, y'all got a great relationship. 115 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 3: Y'all are in love, right, and he wants to have 116 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 3: a family. 117 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's for the child. 118 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 3: You're a great and the lady. 119 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 2: I got news for you. Wait, who said that? The 120 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 2: guy says they have a great relationship. 121 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, he says relationship with her. Yeah, 122 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:27,280 Speaker 1: well it. 123 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 3: Ain't that great. 124 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:32,160 Speaker 1: It won't be after you. You don't want a fan 125 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: bomb on her head. 126 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 3: Oh you got a great relationship, but I don't want 127 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 3: it though. 128 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: It ain't all that great. 129 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 3: No, yeah, I'll tell you that right now. 130 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: We had this baby, he said, Yeah, he doesn't want 131 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 1: to pay for another child that doesn't live with him 132 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: full time, like you say. He wants a family, yeah, 133 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 1: with someone he's in love with, and it's not her. Well, Steve, 134 00:06:56,080 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: just broad conversation one more time, team, So if we 135 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: could be clear, I. 136 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 2: Don't want to have no baby, especially with you. 137 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 138 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 1: The great relationship they have is not a love relationship. 139 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: It is not that. Yeah, all right, all right, that 140 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: was the last one. 141 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 3: Why you keep talking to me? I don't want listen, listen, listen. 142 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 3: It's bad enough. 143 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 2: Never got just one baby over here, and I'm paying 144 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 2: this money for I don't even live with full time. 145 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 3: Next baby I pay for, I will see him every day. 146 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, and he's gonna live with me. Yeah, or 147 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: she's gonna live with me. Yeah. 148 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 2: I don't like you like that, thank you. That's the 149 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 2: other thing I don't like you. I ain't feeling you 150 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 2: like that. 151 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, clo, thank you. I think 152 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 1: we got it now. Coming up at the top of 153 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 1: the hour, we got clarity on that's. 154 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 3: What I wanted to hand this baby. 155 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: Stay too far. You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.