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Speaker 1: Subject he doesn't realize he married a black woman. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I've been married ten months and we might

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Speaker 1: not make it to a full year. We dated for

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Speaker 1: a year before we got married, and we didn't live

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Speaker 1: together until a week after our wedding. I switch up

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Speaker 1: my hairstyle often, but I never let my man see

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Speaker 1: me when my wigs were off, and he'd never seen

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Speaker 1: me without foundation on.

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Speaker 3: I kept a cute sexy for him.

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Speaker 1: I kept it cute and sexy for him until I

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Speaker 1: got the ring. I showed him my representative and I

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Speaker 1: was always well put together for him. We got a

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Speaker 1: home together, and I put my wigs in the dining

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Speaker 1: room temporarily. He had a fit about them being in there,

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Speaker 1: and one day I came home from work and he

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Speaker 1: had already put them in the guest room on the floor.

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Speaker 1: I had a good conversation with him about handling my

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Speaker 1: stuff without consulting me first. He has four sisters, and

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Speaker 1: I know their Caucasian, but they wear wigs and hair

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Speaker 1: pieces too. We all got our hair done together for

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Speaker 1: the wedding, so I saw it.

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Speaker 3: This weekend.

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Speaker 1: He walked in on me in the bathroom and he

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Speaker 1: saw me with all of my makeup completely off, and

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Speaker 1: I was plucking a hair from my chin.

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Speaker 3: He was totally turned off.

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Speaker 1: He didn't have to say it because it showed in

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Speaker 1: his face at that moment. I decided to give him

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Speaker 1: the full black girl experience. When he got home from

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Speaker 1: work the next day, I had the wig off with

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Speaker 1: my corn rows showing. I took off the lashes and

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Speaker 1: I was walking around without a bra. He tried to

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Speaker 1: play off his surprise looking, and he told me I

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Speaker 1: was beautiful anyway.

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Speaker 3: I chose to look.

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Speaker 1: Then he asked if the corn rows were my new hairstyle.

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Speaker 1: I reminded him that he's married to a real black woman.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it registered when we were dating. Should

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Speaker 1: I discuss this or should I let it slide? No,

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Speaker 1: you don't have to discuss it. I mean, it's pretty

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Speaker 1: clear that this letter is about you and your wigs.

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Speaker 1: That's basically what it is. And although it seems like

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Speaker 1: you went to Great Lanthes not to say it, you

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Speaker 1: are married to a white man. I mean we know

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Speaker 1: this because you said his sisters are Caucasian.

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Speaker 3: I don't Caucasian.

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Speaker 1: I don't see what the big deal is because I

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Speaker 1: know black men that would probably be just as confused

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Speaker 1: with you. The problem in your mind is that you're

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Speaker 1: a black woman and you wear wigs. But his white

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Speaker 1: sisters wear wigs too, So I don't think that's it.

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Speaker 1: You put your wigs in the dining room, that's the issue.

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Speaker 1: He came in there and saw these wigs in the

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Speaker 1: dining room probably, you know, freaked him out a little

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Speaker 1: bit startled him. But didn't he tell you you're beautiful in

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Speaker 1: any way you want to look?

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Speaker 3: Well, why didn't you believe him?

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Speaker 1: I just don't think even a brother would want to

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Speaker 1: walk into the dining room and see wigs all over

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Speaker 1: the place. I just don't I wouldn't, you know, I

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Speaker 1: just think they would think they were better suited for

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Speaker 1: the guest room as well.

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Speaker 3: So let's just be clear. You knew what you were

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Speaker 3: doing all along.

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Speaker 1: You didn't let him know you wore wigs until you

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Speaker 1: got married. You said you since you're representative. Early on

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Speaker 1: in the relationship, you said you kept it cute and

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Speaker 1: didn't let him see you without hair and makeup until

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Speaker 1: you got the ring. Now it's gotten harder to keep

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Speaker 1: it all together, and you're mad at him because he's white.

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Speaker 1: This just doesn't make sense to me. It's not that

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Speaker 1: you're a black woman. He knew that when he married

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Speaker 1: you and dated you. That was pretty clear, right. It's

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Speaker 1: just that you need to keep your wigs and stuff

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Speaker 1: in a designated area. I know plenty of people who

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Speaker 1: wear makeup and wigs and weaves and pieces and all that.

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Speaker 1: It's just a snaw way you went about all of this.

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Speaker 1: That's what it is to me. Steve.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, Shirley, glad you went first. Thank you for

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Speaker 2: your attempt to make this letter, Palatapo for the listening

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Speaker 2: all this, But I'm not here for that. That's just

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Speaker 2: going to cut down to it. Sain't got nothing to

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Speaker 2: do with them. Damn wig sitting in that dining room.

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Speaker 2: I'ma tell you that right now. It's about the fact

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Speaker 2: that the white boy then finally found out who he

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Speaker 2: was really married to, the rip and the representative that

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Speaker 2: you showed him did not tell the whole story. That's

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Speaker 2: what this damn that about. I don't give a damn

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Speaker 2: it if you put the wigs outside in the garage

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Speaker 2: with the lawn mow, that ain't in here. The whole

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Speaker 2: problem with this letter right here, home girl that married

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Speaker 2: the white dude, and the white dude didn't know all

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Speaker 2: that came with the black girl. That's what this whole

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Speaker 2: letter about. All women. A lot of women wear pieces.

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Speaker 2: They call it high hair. White girls got this stuff

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Speaker 2: called hot hair. It come on a strain and they

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Speaker 2: raised their regular hair up and they put it around

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Speaker 2: their head like a band, and then they dropped their

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Speaker 2: hair over it to cover the little strain and it

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Speaker 2: adds limp to they hair. Ain't nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 2: It looked full. Almost every last one of them on

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Speaker 2: ESPN got it on. Just watch it. Ain't nothing wrong

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Speaker 2: with that, some sisters where we ain't nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 2: Your representative didn't tell the white dude, the whole story

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Speaker 2: y'all dated for a year. You don't think if you

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Speaker 2: gonna make it. Where are you surprising him? Now? And

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Speaker 2: some of the stuff that you shocking. The wick is

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Speaker 2: a big mundy. Now. You switch up your hairstyle often,

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Speaker 2: but you never in a whole year. You ain't let

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Speaker 2: your man see you with your wigs off, and he

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Speaker 2: never seen you without foundation on. Now, let me tell

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Speaker 2: you something. See seeing you without makeup in one day.

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Speaker 2: But when you when he when you remove the foundation,

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Speaker 2: that's the best called that the that's the base coat.

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Speaker 2: For all you men out there that don't understand us.

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Speaker 2: If you fit the paint or white, if you find

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Speaker 2: the paint over a dark color with a lighter color,

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Speaker 2: you got the prime that wall first. You just can't

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Speaker 2: go on that painting on that new color on top

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Speaker 2: of that other color because it's gonna bleed through foundation.

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Speaker 2: Base coat you took that off.

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Speaker 3: Hang on, Steve, hang on, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Show you everything.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's eleven subject is

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Speaker 1: he doesn't realize he married a black woman.

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Speaker 3: We'll get back into it right after this you're listening

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Speaker 3: hard Morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject he doesn't realize married a black woman.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, surely made the statements about where you put

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Speaker 2: your wigs. This letter is clearly clearly this letter. Answer, well,

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Speaker 2: that's nothing to do with this hill nothing nothing them

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Speaker 2: set your wigs. I don't care if you set it

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Speaker 2: in a bowl of cereal while you're eating your eggs.

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Speaker 2: I don't care that ain't got nothing to do with this.

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Speaker 2: Just what this problem is is you never your representative,

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Speaker 2: did not allow him to meet the real person you

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Speaker 2: dated for a year. You say you switch up your

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Speaker 2: hairstyles often, but you ain't never let him see you

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Speaker 2: with your wigs off. And he'd never seen me without

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Speaker 2: foundation on. That's the base coat, fellas in case y'all

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Speaker 2: don't know, it's if you prime in the wall, you

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Speaker 2: got to put on the base coat or some primal.

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Speaker 2: The foundation is primal. Now, I showed him my representative,

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Speaker 2: and I was always well put together for him. We

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Speaker 2: got a home. Let me see where's lying? Exactly what

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Speaker 2: she said? You didn't let him see all that you

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Speaker 2: put it in the one day he came home from

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Speaker 2: work and I had uh. He had a fit about

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Speaker 2: them being now you put them in the dining room temporarily.

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Speaker 2: He had a fit about him being that. One day

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Speaker 2: I came home from work and he had already put

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Speaker 2: him in the guest room on the floor. I had

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Speaker 2: a good conversation with him about handling my stuff without

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Speaker 2: consulting me first, as you should. He has four sisters,

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Speaker 2: and I know their Caucasian, but they wear wigs and

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Speaker 2: hair pieces too, because we all got our hair gun

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Speaker 2: done together for the wedding. So I saw it this weekend.

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Speaker 2: He walked in on me in the bathroom. Then here

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Speaker 2: we go. Here what the problem at? And he saw

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Speaker 2: me with all of my makeup completely off. That threw

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Speaker 2: him a little bit. That threw it. That just threw

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Speaker 2: him a little bit because you said you always kept

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Speaker 2: it cut and sexy for him until I got the ring.

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Speaker 2: See now y'all married, and now he's been seeing he

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Speaker 2: looking at this right here. He walked in there on

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Speaker 2: me in the bathroom. He saw me with all my

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Speaker 2: makeup completely off, and I was plucking a hair from

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Speaker 2: my chin. That's the one right there. See that all

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Speaker 2: this man stuff going on. Listen, you gotta bid see

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Speaker 2: that ain't what I got. Foundation, that's what that foundation for.

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Speaker 2: Half followicles, you know, h plump marks, that's what that's

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Speaker 2: what foundation do. Foundation hide cuts, scars, wounds, ed uh, stubble,

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Speaker 2: foundation hide stubble. Now, what messed him up with you

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Speaker 2: was in the picking hair out that bearded area on

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Speaker 2: you dash what missed him up really because nah, he

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Speaker 2: got to really go through you know how things go.

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Speaker 2: Now you don't never know. So you know now he

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Speaker 2: and that he and that picking pronouns Now he and

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Speaker 2: he looking in the mirror with pronoun anxiety going on.

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Speaker 2: Probably he probably ain't there trying to figure out, well.

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Speaker 3: That is not what this letter is about.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm just telling you, for a brief moment, for

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Speaker 2: a brief moment, he was looking upside your head trying

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Speaker 2: to figure out if he needed to pick a new

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Speaker 2: pronoun anyway. I know y'all want.

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Speaker 3: To because that's not what the letter is about. You know,

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Speaker 3: you don't know what.

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Speaker 2: Is about let Charley you talking about? It was about

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Speaker 2: where she putting.

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Speaker 3: Him with it said a lot of stuff, ain't it ain't.

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Speaker 2: Got nothing to do with this. He was totally turned off.

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Speaker 2: He didn't say it because it showed on his face

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Speaker 2: at that moment. I decided him to give a full

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Speaker 2: black girl experience when he got home from work the

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Speaker 2: next day. Oh, you're gonna double up and do it again.

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Speaker 2: See right here, So you're showing out now, so you

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Speaker 2: should switch back up. But no, no, you're gonna double

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Speaker 2: down on it. I decided to give him the full

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Speaker 2: black girl expiren when he got home next day. I

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Speaker 2: had to wig off my corn rolls, showing I took

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Speaker 2: off the lashes. I was walking around without a brawl.

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Speaker 2: He tried to play off his surprise looking. He told

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Speaker 2: Move That was too much for him though. Then he

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Speaker 2: asked if the corn rolls was my new hatstyle. Just

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Speaker 2: curious now cause you know we finished over mom's nim housing.

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Speaker 2: I reminded him that he's married to a real black woman.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it registered when we were dating. Well

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Speaker 2: you didn't want it to remember because you said you

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Speaker 2: kept it all together while we're dating until you got

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Speaker 2: the ring. Yeh see, So now should I discuss this

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Speaker 2: or let it ride? Now you have to discuss it

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Speaker 2: and stop. Look, don't be so brutal because you did

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Speaker 2: the job you wanted to do. You put your representative

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Speaker 2: out there and held up until you got a ring.

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Speaker 2: Now the representative didn't tell the entire story, so now

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Speaker 2: you want to tell the story to the man, So

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Speaker 2: now you got to be courteous to the man at

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Speaker 2: the same time too. See, you didn't show him the

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Speaker 2: real black woman, as you say. But all this stuff

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Speaker 2: you talking about happens to all women. So don't don't

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Speaker 2: don't dump this as a negative on black women, because

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Speaker 2: it's not. It's women. All women do this. All women

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Speaker 2: wear foundation. All women got some skin problems sometimes all

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Speaker 2: people do. All women wear foundation, Most people do, So

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Speaker 2: this ain't don't don't don't dump this on black women.

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Speaker 2: Now this your ass? You just happy to be? Ain't

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Speaker 2: nobody else on the show picking our hair? They think? Hell?

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