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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Steph

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Speaker 1: I've never told you production of iHeart Radio. Yes, and

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Speaker 1: welcome to another sub sub segment of the Happy Hour

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Speaker 1: episodes in which we watch sex in the City and

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Speaker 1: we act. I get to watch any react because she

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Speaker 1: is a newbie. Yes, it's my first time. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: in our very long running segment of watching sex in

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Speaker 1: the City. And yeah, it's been it's been a fun ride.

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Speaker 1: I hope that you're all enjoying. We are sipping on

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Speaker 1: some Moses keeping it sex in the city like, keeping

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Speaker 1: it sex in the city like as always, drink responsibly

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Speaker 1: if you choose to do so. Uh and jeers. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for being with us. Yes, thank you for joining us.

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Speaker 1: And we are on episode seven of season one. Slowly

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Speaker 1: getting there, slowly getting there. Any can you please give

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Speaker 1: us a recap? Okay? Yes, So we've been introduced to,

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Speaker 1: you know, the main players, the four main characters. We've

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Speaker 1: seen big pop up and now he and Carrie seemed

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Speaker 1: to be in a relationship. We've had discussions around single

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Speaker 1: hood and marriage and models and uh, sexuality, all kinds

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Speaker 1: of things. We've really covered some grow oh anal sex.

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Speaker 1: We talked about that as well. Yeah, secret sex, secret sex,

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Speaker 1: also sex with twenty year olds. Uh huh. So we've Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's only been seven episodes, but I feel like a

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Speaker 1: lot of ground has been covered. Yes, they definitely trucked

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Speaker 1: through and trying to explain and established characters. Indeed, and

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Speaker 1: we've definitely talked about a lot of the development of

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Speaker 1: the characters because of the show. And just like that,

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Speaker 1: I get to point out this is what they're referencing,

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Speaker 1: which I try to point out earlier. Yes, um, when

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Speaker 1: throwing back to the original series. Alright, any you ready

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Speaker 1: for this? So this title is called the monogamoust What

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Speaker 1: do you think this is about? So I saw this

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Speaker 1: was the next title after we watched the last one,

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Speaker 1: and I've been thinking about it and I'm still clueless.

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Speaker 1: I gotta remember this. This ties in as a series. Yes,

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Speaker 1: is it like a secret clue? Just saying I feel

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Speaker 1: I don't know, when you have your in that relationship

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Speaker 1: and you have that moment of like, are we exclusive,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think people are more open to other

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Speaker 1: experiences now, and that's not like judging on either way. Now,

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Speaker 1: today's today's conversation for me, which was different from me

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Speaker 1: now change that And that's now become a part of

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Speaker 1: you ever had that? So the dt R defining the relationship?

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Speaker 1: Now at this point in time, I have that conversation,

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Speaker 1: It's like, that's cool if you are, that's not my thing,

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Speaker 1: so I would rather not. But instead of just being like,

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Speaker 1: are you my boyfriend? Are we exclusive? Okay? So I

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Speaker 1: But I think it's something like that, like I'm talking

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Speaker 1: about that kind of thing zero person. I like it.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's begin, I'd forsaken my girlfriends from

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Speaker 1: my new boyfriend. I faced the tune of forsaking your

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Speaker 1: girlfriends or your boyfriend that that is a big no

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Speaker 1: no in my world. Yeah. I am a very loyal friend,

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Speaker 1: But now that I'm older, I'm like, no, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: chemy is on the way out again. So monogamy as

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Speaker 1: Would you bring I'm not saying this is what he's doing,

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Speaker 1: Well that's true, Miranda, you're his type. But you broke

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Speaker 1: How dare she? I hope you know? Hey Skipper, here

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Speaker 1: as hi Skipper. It's Miranda. Um, I just want to

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Speaker 1: that I have many like I do have. I've talked

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Speaker 1: instead of it being like I'm going to break up

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Speaker 1: and we'll shove your head down like that. Yeah. Yes,

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Speaker 1: So if any men who are into these relationships unless

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Speaker 1: moment of oh, miscommunication. I can't necessarily date more than

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Speaker 1: y'all both need to communicate damnage. All right, Anny, that's

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