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Speaker 1: Fred Show. This is what's Monday?

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Speaker 2: It is Monday, so it I mean, it could be

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Speaker 2: Wednesday in my brain. Who knows it's Monday. It's that

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Speaker 2: kind of thing anyway, Sorry if I confused anyone. No

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Speaker 2: one else said anything, So either no one else is listening,

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Speaker 2: including everybody in the building.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, or I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure, but Paulina, Yeah, it's your favorite week

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Speaker 2: of the year, your favorite what does that version of it?

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Speaker 2: I didn't want that. I didn't want this this. I

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Speaker 2: want your favorite week of the year.

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Speaker 1: What is it?

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Speaker 3: The DNA, The d n C is coming to Chicago.

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Speaker 1: You're right, it certainly is already.

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Speaker 4: I know they are.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what are you most looking forward to about the

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Speaker 1: d n C this week?

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Speaker 5: I like to hear Joe Jonas's political stance, to see

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Speaker 5: where he stands, who he's endorsing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, well, I'm assuming you'd be speaking at the

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Speaker 2: d n C.

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Speaker 6: Already.

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Speaker 5: You never know.

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Speaker 2: I think we're straight on that pretty sure, Jadie Vance.

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Speaker 2: But I mean, I don't know, it could be that

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Speaker 2: would be really shocking. Joe Biden, our president from our

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Speaker 2: first lady, Joe Biden and then former Secretary of State

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Speaker 2: Hillary Clinton and Chicago Mayor Brandon Johnson all speaking tonight

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Speaker 2: at the d n C.

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Speaker 1: Not Dog because he's at the d n C.

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Speaker 6: N C.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Jason's morning was like, no, baby, it's.

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Speaker 6: D n C.

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Speaker 2: So just just the d n C for a whole

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Speaker 2: week would be probably more entertaining. But but I'm not

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Speaker 2: sure the d n C. Is it all week or

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Speaker 2: is it just the first part of Thursday? Okay, and

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Speaker 2: if you live in Chicago, we were just talking off

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Speaker 2: theory about this, but like, I mean, they've basically put

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Speaker 2: a big cage over part most of the two parts

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Speaker 2: of the city, just a gigantic like bird cage over

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Speaker 2: the top of several buildings and don't even try and

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Speaker 2: get close, and like big concrete barricades and this serious business.

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 2: We got really important people in town this week, so

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Speaker 2: let's make it as inconvenient as possible for the people

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Speaker 2: who live down there.

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Speaker 1: That was not the week to do something crazy like

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Speaker 1: oh well, how about ever doing anything?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how about no crime at all?

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Speaker 1: I like that idea.

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Speaker 2: We have a company, yeah, right right now, it's not

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Speaker 2: the time, Okay, it's the d n C.

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Speaker 5: Guys.

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Speaker 2: This is just I just got weird stories this morning.

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Speaker 2: But in what's trending? Drinking and this is terrible news.

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Speaker 2: But for those of us, I have a gigantic cup

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Speaker 2: of coffee right here next to me, Duncan coffee. Drinking

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Speaker 2: four more cups of coffee a day can raise the

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Speaker 2: risk of a heart attack or stroke. So research has

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Speaker 2: found that consuming over four hundred milligrams of caffeine. Can

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Speaker 2: someone look up how many cups or like, I'm trying

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Speaker 2: to figure out four hundred milligrams? Like, how many is this?

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Speaker 2: Four hundred milligrams? This has gotta be. This has got

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Speaker 2: to be at least two cups of coffee.

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Speaker 5: What coups is four hundred millilter?

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Speaker 2: Oh MiGs, my bad milligrams as we were looking for

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Speaker 2: basically rude coffee. Oh okay, but I don't know, so

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Speaker 2: I'm probably drinking that. But four hundred milligrams of caffeine

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Speaker 2: on most days of the week could increase the susceptibility

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Speaker 2: of otherwise healthy people to cardiovascular disease. Chronic caffeine consumption, Hello,

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Speaker 2: most all of us up this early was shown to

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Speaker 2: significantly impact them nervous system, raising heart rate and blood

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Speaker 2: pressure over time.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, you have an extra large coffee. I do.

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Speaker 3: That's thirty and thirty milligrams. Goodbye caffeine. Yeah, that's nice tom.

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Speaker 3: Oh and this is just an appetizer. I'm just warming

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Speaker 3: up right here. Oh yeah, is warming up all day?

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Speaker 3: You don't drink coffee?

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Speaker 4: Yes? I always have my little ice coffee right here.

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Speaker 1: How many of those do you drink a day, Kiki?

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Speaker 4: One?

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Speaker 1: That's probably not four hundred millions, not for all lice.

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Speaker 1: Coffee is one hundred and ninety eight milligle chest.

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Speaker 4: That's close for me.

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Speaker 2: Well, Shelley's the one that eats like wheat, grass and uh,

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Speaker 2: you know, sticks and stuff. Any caffeine for you.

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Speaker 7: I'll sometimes have a cup of coffee on the weekend.

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Speaker 7: But I you know, I did morning radio for all

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Speaker 7: those years. I never drink coffee.

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Speaker 2: See that's what I was about to say, like heart attack,

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Speaker 2: stroke or walking around like a zombie your whole life?

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Speaker 1: Like, what would you prefer for me?

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Speaker 5: I picked the latter.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, really not, rather not. I don't. I can't.

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Speaker 5: I can't watch around like a zombie for years.

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Speaker 2: I think a slam Well saying, but I don't know

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Speaker 2: what kind of zombie i'd be without the coffee, though,

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's gotta be something. So what do you

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Speaker 1: Anything?

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Speaker 7: Not really, no, I mean I'm trying to think, like

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Speaker 7: my thing is, you know, like if I like splurge,

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Speaker 5: Or something like that. Like that would be my little.

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Speaker 2: Spirit because I was always told that it was what

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Speaker 2: you put in the coffee that was going to hurt you,

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Speaker 2: not necessarily the coffee itself. And now you're saying that

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Speaker 2: the caffeine is you know, it could cause high blood pressure,

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Speaker 2: heart fail. Okay, it's all bad stuff. As I take

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Speaker 2: a sip in my coffee. Georgia Man is suing an

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Speaker 2: Atlanta hospital. This was everywhere last night, by the way,

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Speaker 2: were doing a procedure. They took part of his skull

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Speaker 2: sent him a bill for them. So, this dude's name

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Speaker 2: is Fernando. He checked into Emory Hospital in September for

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Speaker 2: a four point seven by six inch piece of his

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Speaker 2: Another health story. I don't know what's up with the

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Speaker 2: The patient started screaming in pain, but the doctor couldn't

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Speaker 2: He kept doing this despite the screams until somebody else

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Speaker 1: Now he's being fine. Oh my god, I mean, don't

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Speaker 4: You still see that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. And I thought it was kind

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Speaker 5: I'm not sure. I never had one to make an

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Speaker 2: In fact, I even think you had to be sedated

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Speaker 2: And I do have that nightmare that I would have

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Speaker 2: how many different things can I put in your head

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Speaker 2: this wishful thing. I wish it were Wednesday. A former

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Speaker 2: I don't know how messed up you got to be

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Speaker 2: want to know where the cities are with the rudest residence.

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Speaker 2: What would you think is number one? Yep, number one,

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Speaker 2: New York number one. I touch one thousand people about

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Speaker 1: New York is the rudest.

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Speaker 2: Washington and Chicago at three, which surprises me because there

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Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, you're right with that. That really that hits you.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I've lived in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 2: If are ruder, I would think of the three major

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Speaker 1: Can we get that Midwest hospitality.

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Speaker 5: Right with the nicest people on the planet.

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Speaker 2: We know about that, but I think so yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean I don't think. I don't think we're even

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Speaker 2: I mean not the nicest folks. I mean no, just

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Speaker 2: so it's sports alone, right and they're not even the

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Speaker 2: number ten.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't. This is a messed up list.

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Speaker 2: It's National Soft ice Cream Day, not soft serve soft

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Speaker 2: ice cream Day, okay, and National Aviation Day today as

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Speaker 2: well Showbiz in for Kail and the entertainment reports. Next,

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Speaker 2: what are you working on?

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Speaker 7: Uh so there's actually you know, the news cycle moves

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Speaker 7: very quickly. I have an update from a story to

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Speaker 7: terms of Dakota Johnson, we have an updates.

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Speaker 1: Room in the newsroom on the Plus. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Okay, nice job, Shelly. This is great. We're gonna be

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Speaker 2: okay all week. Two minutes away. I've ever been left

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Speaker 2: good morning, welcome to the program. How are you hey?

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Speaker 4: Thanks?

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Speaker 2: I'm good, all right, So a little perplexed, right right exactly.

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Speaker 2: We're trying to figure out that's honest. By the way,

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Speaker 2: over and over I keep saying it. People are like,

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Speaker 2: I'm so good. I'm like, how are you so good?

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Speaker 2: You got ghosted by somebody. Somebody on the earth is

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Speaker 2: least that's what we think. But Sadie, you're perplexed about

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Speaker 2: this guy Eric. We got to know everything. How did

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Speaker 8: I met Eric on Hinge and we.

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Speaker 3: Hit it off.

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Speaker 8: We were chatting for a good while before we finally

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Speaker 8: I felt like it was real, sparky and fun, and

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Speaker 8: I was really excited to see him again. Made plans

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Speaker 8: was a great time, and I was really excited to

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Speaker 8: And I don't quite understand what happened.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so this isn't even a this isn't a one

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Speaker 2: date ghost. This is a two date ghost situation, which

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Speaker 2: because the person obviously liked you enough to go on

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Speaker 1: So what happened? What happened to stop that momentum? Right?

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Speaker 8: And we were even talking about what we were going

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Speaker 8: don't know. I don't know what happened. I'd like to

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Speaker 2: Okay, so let's play a song. We'll come back in

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Speaker 2: like two minutes, and we're gonna call this guy Eric.

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Speaker 2: He'll be on the phone as always. We'll ask some

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Speaker 2: that we can straighten this out, set you guys up

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Speaker 2: on a third date in this case that we paid for.

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Speaker 1: So good eight, let's see what's going on.

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Speaker 2: Parts to you of waiting at the phone after David

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Speaker 2: winter Bucks with show vis Shelley in the showdown new player.

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Speaker 2: If you can beat her in five questions, you start

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Speaker 2: Monday with a big grip of cash. Hey, Sadie, Yes,

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Speaker 2: all right, welcome back. Let's call Eric. This is the

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Speaker 2: guy you went out with a couple of times. You

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Speaker 2: why this guy's not calling you after two days that

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Speaker 2: you thought were successful.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I want to see him again. You feel weird?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Well, let's see what's going on. Good luck, Sadie, Thank you? Hellhisus?

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Speaker 1: Eric?

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Speaker 9: Oh yeah, this is Eric.

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Speaker 1: Hey Eric, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling for the Fred Show, a morning radio show,

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Speaker 2: permission to continue with the call. Can which after just

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 10: Sure?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much. I look at this guy.

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Speaker 2: He seems almost excited. Right, we'll see if you're excited

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Speaker 2: in about thirty seconds. But we're calling on behalf of

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Speaker 2: a woman who reached out. It was her name is Sadie.

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Speaker 2: You went out with her twice on dates. You remember Sadie?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I remember Sadie.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So what happened because she called us and told

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Speaker 2: us that, you know, she'd met you and liked you,

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Speaker 2: and he went out a couple of times, two dates

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Speaker 2: it was, and you were planning a third date and

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Speaker 2: then you go missing, and she feels like she's being

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Speaker 2: ghosted by you, and she wants to know why.

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Speaker 9: I mean, I guess it's fair that I wonder why

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Speaker 9: she why ghosted? I mean, so I mean I thought

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Speaker 9: it was going great. After the second date, right as

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Speaker 9: I was leaving, she gave me a present which I

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Speaker 9: didn't open until I got home. So I opened this

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Speaker 9: present and it's like a collection of harrow loss products.

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Speaker 1: Wait, this is on the second days they did this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a goodie bag of like rogaine and

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Speaker 2: whatever else you used to do.

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Speaker 9: Your own hair, exactly exactly.

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Speaker 2: Now is it like she works for these people or

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Speaker 2: something and she had the stuff us? Either way, what

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Speaker 9: I mean, yeah, I don't. I mean, she doesn't work

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say.

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Speaker 9: She just felt like an insult.

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Speaker 6: I mean.

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Speaker 1: That didn't a deal.

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Speaker 2: I mean, who worked for Sharpie and she brought me

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Speaker 2: one color of every Sharpie that was ever? Yeah, she did.

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Speaker 2: This is a long time ago, and I was very

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Speaker 2: if she worked for a dermatologist and she brought you skincare,

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Speaker 2: like that's a very nice thing. But this is very personal.

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Speaker 2: This is this is regardless of her, regardless of the background.

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Speaker 2: What she's saying to you, Eric is you're a bald

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Speaker 9: I mean, I mean, what if I just like gave

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Speaker 9: I don't know. I mean, that's just yeah, it was a.

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Speaker 1: Gift car for invisil line or something like.

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Speaker 9: Oh was a bad vibe.

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Speaker 2: Man, definitely in the date killer that would offend me

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Speaker 2: to let me bring Sadie in. Eric, I forgot to

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Speaker 2: mention that Sadie's here. I'm very very full. Yeah, my

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Speaker 1: Why.

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Speaker 2: I mean, obviously you're trying to send a message. I

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Speaker 2: that's a very personal thing for a lot of people,

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Speaker 2: and insecurity.

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Speaker 1: Is that all?

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Speaker 8: I am surprised. I thought that I broably started using

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Speaker 2: Maybe Eric's okay with the weird Maybe Eric doesn't think

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Speaker 2: brought me some blue shoe, you know, that stuff that's

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Speaker 2: Spanish what do I call that? Yeah, you bring me

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Speaker 2: I would probably make me insecure, Sadie.

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Speaker 1: You got to think I wasn't trying to insult him.

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Speaker 8: He's really self deprecating about that. Like after our first date,

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Speaker 8: well this is the thing that like he has an

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Speaker 1: Wasn't even got on you got it.

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Speaker 2: You have to turn the tables here when it comes

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Speaker 2: all of that. I mean said he what if he

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Speaker 2: I mean you you'd be modified.

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Speaker 9: Exactly, exactly exactly, like know, just as somebody admit after

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Speaker 9: kiss him. I mean, like what, okay, you know.

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Speaker 11: Wants to look their best and men are like really

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Speaker 9: I mean, I'm not saying I'm all about insecure. I

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Speaker 6: Excuse what I'm looking forward.

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Speaker 2: He was just offended, he was offended or he thought

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Speaker 2: I want to give you the benefit of the doubt,

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Speaker 2: I really do. I want to say that you were

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Speaker 2: being thoughtful, but you also have to know, like you've

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Speaker 2: he's willing to amit it or not, you hurt his feelings.

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Speaker 8: I mean I can see that now. And maybe that

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Speaker 1: A third day Kiki, that's a third day move.

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Speaker 4: You're never going to get a man like this.

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Speaker 2: You bring the toothless girl toothbrush on the third date.

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Speaker 2: You know you certainly don't do that on the never

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Speaker 9: I mean, I mean to me, to me, that's like,

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Speaker 9: that's like conversation down the line. I mean, slide in

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Speaker 9: me suggest I'm interested. I mean, you know, just a

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Speaker 9: what am I going to say?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean I hate, I hate to argue, to make

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but in this case, I think that's

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Speaker 2: what you got to do. He's turn the tables and say, Sadie,

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Speaker 2: how would you feel if he did that to you?

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Speaker 2: What if he brought you the exact same product? What

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Speaker 2: is he saying to you? He's saying you need more hair?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I mean.

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Speaker 9: Maybe it's so far.

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry, I hope it doesn't ruin any chance.

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Speaker 2: What if he brought you and so you think he

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Speaker 2: needs hair? What if he brought you razors in their

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Speaker 2: because he thinks you need less hair. That probably wouldn't

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Speaker 2: go over well, would it.

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Speaker 8: I could see that, I could see that I could be

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Speaker 2: Okay, Eric, So she meant well, but in this case,

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Speaker 2: she didn't read the room. I mean, can we give

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Speaker 9: You know what, there's a lot of fish in the sea,

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Speaker 9: and that's just a I don't know, it's not a

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Speaker 9: little trust that judgment, you know what I mean. I'm

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Speaker 9: looking for something serious and I don't know that that's

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Speaker 9: a disqualifier. Sorry about that, but that's just how.

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Speaker 1: It is, all right, Sadie.

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Speaker 2: Look, I honestly believe that you probably had good intentions,

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Speaker 2: but let's just not let's not we're not with the

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Speaker 2: uh sort of bodily related products early on in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: I just think there's more room for that to go

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Speaker 2: poorly than there is for it to you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean, Yes, Rufio, are.

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Speaker 1: You going to use the product?

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Speaker 6: Bro?

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Speaker 5: You don't need it.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, what do you need?

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Speaker 2: Hair?

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Speaker 1: What hair growth product? He's going to use it?

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Speaker 9: I'm not going I mean, I'm just gonna go shave

445
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Speaker 9: heads at some point soon, but I mean whatever, Yeah,

446
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Speaker 9: I'm not worried about that.

447
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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to put he's not going to combat it.

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Speaker 2: You know, he's our it's it's strange for Okay, it's

449
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Speaker 2: not going to work out, Sadie. I'm sorry, Eric, thank

450
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Speaker 2: you for answering and all the best both of you.

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Speaker 9: You I do say the best. I mean, ultimately we're

452
00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:07,080
Speaker 9: on the same the same pool here, and you know,

453
00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:08,359
Speaker 9: sure she'll find somebody.

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Speaker 2: Okay, the positivity there, you know you're There's Eric saying, Sadie,

455
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Speaker 2: I hope you find a hairy guy soon.

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Speaker 12: It's a nice ball hitting man, almost boll hitting many.

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Speaker 2: Oh lord, good luck, guys, thank you, thank you the

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Speaker 2: entertainment of for And she'll be Shelly with seven hundred's

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Speaker 2: actually Shelley with both.

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Speaker 1: Next Fred Show.

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Speaker 2: A fresh show. It's Kiky's Court night, Key Key taking

462
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Speaker 2: away the honorable kik Aleik. Everyone all right, okay, suit

463
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Speaker 2: you ask this down, go ahead.

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Speaker 12: Sit down, let's get in this court room at that

465
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Speaker 12: gabble now it says, hey, ke Key, my name is Eric.

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Speaker 12: I'm a longtime Fred Show listener, and I know how

467
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Speaker 12: much you guys love to discuss tipping all.

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Speaker 2: Right, guilty, Eric, No, he loves the Fred will. Eric's right,

469
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Speaker 2: and so Eric's perfect. And let's see what's next. Well,

470
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Speaker 2: let's play well, Eric says.

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Speaker 12: On Friday, I took my wife, kids, and my in

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Speaker 12: laws out to dinner downtown. We were seated after about

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Speaker 12: a twenty minute way, and from the moment that our

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Speaker 12: waitress approached the table, I knew we were in for

475
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Speaker 12: a ride. Her attitude was not friendly at all, and

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Speaker 12: she kept disappearing for long periods of time, and when

477
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Speaker 12: I asked for refiels for my kids, she seemed annoyed

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Speaker 12: and brought out a picture of lemonade for us to

479
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Speaker 12: pour ourselves. Then the worst part was that she forgot

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Speaker 12: to bring out my wife's food all together. When I

481
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Speaker 12: finally got up to look for her, she was sitting

482
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Speaker 12: at the bar laughing with her coworkers. So you can

483
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Speaker 12: imagine my frustration. When we finished our dinner and when

484
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Speaker 12: the bill came, I announced, out of frustration to my

485
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Speaker 12: family that she would not receive a tip. They already

486
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Speaker 12: include the service charge, and after the way we were treated,

487
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Speaker 12: I feel like that was more than enough. Well, when

488
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Speaker 12: we got up to leave, my father in law took

489
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Speaker 12: out cash from his wallet and left it on the table.

490
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Speaker 12: I was already annoyed, so I just walked out to

491
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Speaker 12: get in the car. But what really pissed me off

492
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Speaker 12: is that my father in law sent my wife a

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Speaker 12: nasty text message saying how disappointed he was that I

494
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Speaker 12: did not tip.

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Speaker 4: I really want to confront him. Am I wrong?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: Hold on, I have a question before you give your verdict.

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Speaker 1: Yes, how many people at the table?

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Speaker 12: So it was him, his two kids, and it's in laws,

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Speaker 12: so six.

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Speaker 2: So then the service charge would have been the tip.

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Speaker 2: Because what happens is with a lot of places, if

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Speaker 2: it's a party of six or more, then the gratuity

504
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Speaker 2: is just put onto the bill. They just put a

505
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Speaker 2: twenty percent gratuity on the bill.

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Speaker 12: But see, some people say there's a difference between gratuity

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Speaker 12: and a service charge.

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Speaker 5: The service charge goes to the restaurant, and right.

509
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Speaker 10: The service charges because the restaurant doesn't want to pay

510
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Speaker 10: their employement dishwasher.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought, maybe maybe I'm using the wrong terms,

512
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Speaker 2: because I thought that it's a lot of menus will

513
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Speaker 2: say and maybe they use the word gratuity and that

514
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Speaker 2: service shape a lot of menus will say a twenty

515
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Speaker 2: percent cre tuity will be included on all parties of

516
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Speaker 2: six or more. I guess just to solve any sort

517
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Speaker 2: of you know whatever, like this is going to be

518
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Speaker 2: a lot of work, so the tip's paid for. So

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Speaker 2: I guess the way that I'm interpreting this is that

520
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,920
Speaker 2: the tip was already paid. It's just put on the bill.

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Speaker 2: And so if there's already twenty percent on the bill,

522
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Speaker 2: then you, in my opinion, you're going to have to

523
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Speaker 2: do something really wild for me to go over the

524
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Speaker 2: top of that. That's already a good tip. Now, if

525
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Speaker 2: you were really great, then I might tip more. But

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Speaker 2: if a twenty percent tip is included, and I was

527
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Speaker 2: going to tip twenty percent anyway, why am I tipping more? Well,

528
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Speaker 2: she's saying it was bad service, so on top of that,

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Speaker 2: she got a twenty percent tip for not great service anyway, supposedly, I.

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Speaker 5: Don't think that was a tip. We just I got

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Speaker 5: a text from our residence server, Bella, and she said

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Speaker 5: the service charge is for the restaurant.

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Speaker 2: But I might be okay, wow, wait a minute, so

534
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Speaker 2: then why okay? Well that I'm wondering if maybe they

535
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Speaker 2: got I don't know because.

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Speaker 1: Because every patron gets the service charge.

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Speaker 10: You know, like, no matter what it is, it's a

538
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Speaker 10: service charge that goes to the restaurant because whatever to

539
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Speaker 10: pay this and that it's not the gratuity part that

540
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Speaker 10: goes to the employee pay for everything else.

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Speaker 12: Right, they say that the service charge goes to you know,

542
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Speaker 12: the waiter gets a portion, the dishwasher gets a portion.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So.

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Speaker 12: He Eric did not tip at all on top of

545
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Speaker 12: that because he felt like he did not get good service,

546
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Speaker 12: and his father in law decided to leave a tip anyway,

547
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Speaker 12: And then not only that, he sent a text to

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Speaker 12: his wife and was like, upset that your husband didn't

549
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Speaker 12: leave a tip. Okay, And I know you know we

550
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Speaker 12: all tip, we all try to go above and beyond,

551
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Speaker 12: but in this case, I'm not giving her a tip either.

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Speaker 12: We cannot keep a rewarding bad behavior. I'm sorry you

553
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 12: were a horrible waitious today.

554
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Speaker 4: You did not do your best job.

555
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Speaker 12: So why would I on top of a service charge

556
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Speaker 12: which maybe a little portion may go to you, But

557
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Speaker 12: why would I tip above that when you have given

558
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Speaker 12: me horrible service? I understand the father in law may

559
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 12: have felt differently, and he's entitled to do whatever he wants.

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Speaker 12: So I would not have been upset if my father

561
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Speaker 12: in law took out money out here.

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Speaker 4: That's on you.

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Speaker 12: If that's what you want to do, do your thing.

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00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 12: I'm not leaving a penny. But then to text my wife,

565
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Speaker 12: you know, to text my wife that you're so disappointed. Boy,

566
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Speaker 12: I mean, God, have some have some cahunas.

567
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Speaker 9: Like that to me?

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Speaker 12: We were just together at the dinner table. If you

569
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Speaker 12: felt disappointed to tell me, don't text my wife sorry

570
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Speaker 12: because he brought the wife into it. Yeah, I'm with you, Eric,

571
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Speaker 12: I don't think he's wrong.

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Speaker 10: I would be upset from the start after I announced

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Speaker 10: the table, like I ain't tipping nothing.

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Speaker 1: This was horrible. We didn't have a good time. It

575
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Speaker 1: was bad. I would be upset when the father.

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Speaker 10: In law was like, I'm gonna leave something behind Anyone'm

577
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Speaker 10: like I told you we ain't tipping, Like we gotta

578
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Speaker 10: be on the same pain.

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Speaker 1: Forget the text message from the start. If you take

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Speaker 1: out money when I already said we ain't tipping, we

581
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Speaker 1: got a problem.

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Speaker 2: What issould we have here is that the Texas seems

583
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Speaker 2: to be like some people believe that in a party

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Speaker 2: in a certain sized party that a service charge represents

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Speaker 2: that policy, the policy that if it's sicks more than

586
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 2: the tip is included. Other people say that it's not.

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Speaker 2: So my first thing would have been, Okay, hey, what

588
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Speaker 2: is this for? You know, I would have asked the question,

589
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 2: like is this a tip? Because if there's a twenty

590
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Speaker 2: percent tip built in and the service sucked, then you're

591
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Speaker 2: lucky you got your twenty percent. I'm not giving you

592
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 2: anything more, right, But what I would say about bad

593
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 2: service is I would probably steal tip, but then I

594
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Speaker 2: just wouldn't go back. Oh you know what I mean,

595
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Speaker 2: Because it's like, by not tipping, you're also screwing the

596
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Speaker 2: bar backs and the bartenders and the cook I don't

597
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 2: know if the cooks get tipped out, but you know,

598
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Speaker 2: the bus boys and girls or whatever else.

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Speaker 1: So like you're not only.

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Speaker 2: Screwing the principle that you know, just the person who

601
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 2: waited on you, but everybody else too, who maybe didn't

602
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:43,639
Speaker 2: have anything to do with it.

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Speaker 1: So I guess, but I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'm not of the mindset that we you know, like

605
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Speaker 2: we've talked about on tipping before, like oh, everyone should

606
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Speaker 2: tip thirty percent because people don't make enough. It's like, well,

607
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,479
Speaker 2: that's I'm not disagreeing that people don't make enough. They

608
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 2: make way more than they did back when we were

609
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 2: waiting tables though, or you know, or era. But if

610
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Speaker 2: you do a bad job, why do I still have

611
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Speaker 2: to tip you like you did a good job. That's

612
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 2: the part I don't understand because a tip. I understand

613
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Speaker 2: some people believe that a tip is to compensate for

614
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,879
Speaker 2: a poor wage. But my understanding about a tip is

615
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 2: that it was always the extra. It was were you

616
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 2: exceptional at your job? And if you were, you're going

617
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:22,439
Speaker 2: to make a lot more money than if you weren't.

618
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 2: That I thought that was the point, because if every

619
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Speaker 2: server knows they're going to get twenty percent, even if

620
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Speaker 2: they're not not in a mood, well, then why would

621
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Speaker 2: you bother to apply yourself right exactly?

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Speaker 12: And that's how I feel tipping works. And you know,

623
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Speaker 12: sometimes I've gotten less than great service, and I'll still

624
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Speaker 12: do maybe a twenty percent tip, whether than the twenty

625
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:45,919
Speaker 12: five percent or whatever.

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Speaker 4: You would give.

627
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 12: But in this case, you didn't even bring my wife's

628
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 12: food to the table. I had to get up and

629
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 12: come find you. You weren't pleasant from the start, there's

630
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 12: no reason that I would tip above and so as

631
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Speaker 12: the father in law, like as Rufio said one in

632
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 12: one sound, I said, we're not sicking. I'm paying for

633
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 12: this meal. Don't leave, except even if you decide. So

634
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 12: you took it a step further and text my wife

635
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,439
Speaker 12: about me when we were just together.

636
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Speaker 4: You could have text me.

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Speaker 12: I just think Eric is right, and I just I

638
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 12: feel like the father in law is so wrong.

639
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Speaker 1: My brother in law was in the service industry. He overtips.

640
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Speaker 2: He's a big he's like a fifty percent tit like

641
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 2: he thinks it's because he was in the industry, that

642
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 2: it's karma or whatever, but like it's it's a it's

643
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 2: a significant like thirty five forty percent.

644
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: Minimum, like he tips a lot and whatever.

645
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 2: And I've he's already gotten the wrath of this story,

646
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 2: like ten years ago or however long ago it was,

647
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 2: so it's not a big deal now. But I can

648
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 2: tell the story. But I think I paid for something.

649
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 2: I paid for a lunch and I tipped twenty four

650
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 2: percent and he looked at it on the way out.

651
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 2: I barely knew the guy at this point. And then

652
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: put forty dollars on top of that yo, and we

653
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 2: left it has rue and my mom was like looked

654
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 2: at me and looked at him, and then later was like,

655
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 2: that was super rude, dude, Like you gave an appropriate tip,

656
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 2: Like it made it look like you weren't generous enough

657
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 2: because he wants to tip right fifty sixty percent, which

658
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 2: is his business, right, Like that's for him to do.

659
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Speaker 2: But at the time, I was like kind of bent

660
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 2: about it because I'm like, hey, what are you saying

661
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 2: about me? Like I I tipped, well, it was a

662
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 2: good tip, you know what I mean, Like it wasn't

663
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 2: but I didn't tip double the price, you know what

664
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 2: I mean? So I think, you know, I think when

665
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 2: it comes to like, you make it. If you're paying

666
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 2: the bill and you make the decision, then everybody at

667
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 2: the table kind of has to go with it.

668
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 6: Right.

669
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 12: Well, in one sense you want to say that, but

670
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 12: as the waitress, if I did a great job and

671
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 12: you feel compelled to bless me with a little extra,

672
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 12: I think it's okay.

673
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 4: But in Colin's standpoint, he should have said that.

674
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 12: To you, like, hey, bro, I see you got left

675
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 12: a great tip, but I just want to help them

676
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 12: a little bit more because I used to be a

677
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 12: server and then you explained it. But to not say

678
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,239
Speaker 12: anything to you and just put extra money down as

679
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 12: if you're a broke boy.

680
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 4: That's very rude.

681
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it does.

682
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 2: To my point, it does kind of make it seem

683
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 2: like you are like you've made a decision, this was

684
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 2: a bad experience, and here's and I'm paying the bills,

685
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 2: so I get to make the choice about the tip.

686
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: Right.

687
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,080
Speaker 2: If you want to make the choice about the tip,

688
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 2: then you pick up the whole tap yes, and then

689
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 2: you can tip whatever you want and we don't have

690
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 2: a problem. Hey Kim, good morning, Hi, good morning, Hey Kim,

691
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 2: Welcome to Kiki's court. So bad service and Dode didn't tip,

692
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: and then father in law decides, no, I'm going to

693
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 2: go over the top and tip more, and now there's

694
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 2: an inter family fight.

695
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 1: What do you do?

696
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, I would I would not tip.

697
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 6: That's the whole purpose of and I've been in the

698
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 6: industry many, many years. The whole purpose we are working

699
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 6: for is for the tips. If we're not doing our job,

700
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 6: I mean, what are we being paid for. I mean,

701
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 6: I don't understand why the father in law felt that

702
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 6: he had to tip for a really bad service, especially

703
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 6: when his own daughter didn't even get her food.

704
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, Kim, people get so mad at us

705
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 2: when we talk about tipping on here because and I realize,

706
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 2: we're talking about what people deserve and don't deserve, and

707
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 2: that's a strange conversation to have. But what I it

708
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 2: blows me away is that when people get upset about

709
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 2: us saying that tips are merit based, I think we

710
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 2: all agree on that in this room. I think what

711
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 2: is confusing to me is that if you're a great server,

712
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 2: then you're going to be incentivized by that philosophy. Just

713
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,239
Speaker 2: do a great job, right And by the way, there

714
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 2: are always going to be people who are a holes

715
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 2: and you're going to do a great job and they're

716
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 2: not going to acknowledge it. That happens in every industry

717
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 2: all the time. That's nothing new. But in general, I

718
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 2: would think if you're somebody who takes pride in what

719
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 2: you're doing, that you would agree with the fact that

720
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 2: tips should be merit based, because if you do a

721
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 2: really great job, then I'm going to pay you more.

722
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 2: If you don't do a very good job, I'm going

723
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 2: to give you less but not below the standard. I

724
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 2: just think it's like, how could anybody argue against that, really,

725
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 2: because I guess there's enough people out there who have

726
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 2: been burnt by the person who didn't tip for good service, right,

727
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 2: I guess.

728
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 6: But anyway, Kim, then, also on those checks, you know,

729
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 6: when there's a service charge for a large party, the

730
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 6: service charge is most likely for the backstaff because a

731
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 6: lot of times there will be a tip share for

732
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 6: the backstaff. And that's because of the big parties. There's

733
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 6: a lot to do and to coordinate it all, so

734
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 6: everything comes out at once. The gratuity is when it's

735
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:28,719
Speaker 6: added on automatically. That is the server's tip, and you

736
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 6: can always add more if they went above and beyond

737
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 6: the twenty percent or eighteen percent that the restaurant automatically added.

738
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Speaker 1: There you go. Thank you, Kim, thanks for listening. Have

739
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: a great day.

740
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 9: I have a great day.

741
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 6: Guys.

742
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 1: Love the show.

743
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you so much. I love your show too.

744
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 2: I think I would. I would probably I would ask.

745
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 2: First of all, I would be asking questions, right, I

746
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 2: would say, look at the bill and say, okay, what

747
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 2: I've done this before, Like you know, a room service,

748
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 2: some hotels, you get room service and clude the gratuity.

749
00:32:58,040 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 2: Some don't, but there'll still be a tip line there.

750
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 2: So I'll be like, hey, dude, are you getting this number?

751
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Like it says service charge?

752
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 2: Is that for you? And if he's like, I get

753
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 2: all that okay, well then that's I'm basically what I'm

754
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 2: doing off of that. If he says no, the hotel

755
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 2: gets that, then I then I'm gonna tip him. But

756
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask these questions ahead of time. But the real,

757
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 2: the real conversation here is not really about that. It's

758
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:24,479
Speaker 2: about whether the father in law should be usurping his

759
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 2: son in law's decision based on bad service. And I

760
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,959
Speaker 2: come back to the payer of the bill gets to

761
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 2: decide on the tip. That's right, right otherwise like you're

762
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 2: you're free loading, like you're not even paying, So what

763
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 2: do you care?

764
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:38,479
Speaker 1: Right? You did?

765
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 4: You thought you did your big one? Would you twenty

766
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 4: dollar tip?

767
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 1: But I paid?

768
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 9: You know?

769
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: But I paid one hundred summi dollars for the.

770
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 12: Thing, right, and I didn't even get my lemonade? Rightmonade,

771
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 12: no food.

772
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 1: I'll just go home make my own limited When a picture.

773
00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 12: Would it's you got a table full of kid it's

774
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 12: like self check out. You want me to go and

775
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 12: ring up the toilet paper. You want me to put

776
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 12: it in the bag, take a receipt. I work for

777
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 12: you at this point, right.

778
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 10: I've also seen that two when I'm not calling out,

779
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 10: like there are some servers when they know there's a

780
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,919
Speaker 10: party of six or more, they know they're getting something

781
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 10: guaranteed already, so they they become less whatever lazier because

782
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,399
Speaker 10: they know they're getting a tip no matter what they do.

783
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 7: Mm hmm.

784
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 2: See that's what I don't love that because again, but

785
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 2: the problem is there's two problems. One you've got the

786
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,239
Speaker 2: people who take advantage, like Rufio's talking about, like, well

787
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get I'm gonna get a tip no matter

788
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:36,800
Speaker 2: what I do, so I don't have to try that hard.

789
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 2: And then you've got the people that don't reward the

790
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 2: service that's exceptional. So the problem is you meet in

791
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 2: the middle with everyone's kind of disgruntle. Yes, you know

792
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 2: what I mean, Because it's like, again, if if I

793
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 2: come in here and I do a better job, if

794
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:54,280
Speaker 2: I tried my hardest every single day, and the company

795
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 2: is like great, here's a little extra because you did

796
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 2: such a good job today. Well, then I'm then that

797
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 2: incentivizes me, you know, I mean, like it's hard to

798
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 2: it's hard to sort of compare the two things. But

799
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 2: I don't know why anybody would would disagree with that,

800
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like, I work harder, I

801
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 2: make more money. That's great, but everyone has to agree

802
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 2: to follow that, And I think, you know, a lot

803
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 2: of people are cheap and rude. Hey Natalie, Hey, Hi,

804
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 2: what did you want to say on Kikey's cord?

805
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 9: Oh?

806
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 4: Well, I agree with Eric.

807
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:24,360
Speaker 13: I agree with Kei Ki. Everything opposite of what the

808
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 13: father in law did. And there's a lot to unpack here.

809
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 13: So I'm gona try to just wrap it up real quick, Ruefield,

810
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 13: you said everything I was just getting.

811
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 5: Ready to say.

812
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 13: So, like when the bertility is added onto the bill,

813
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 13: then it doesn't and it doesn't inspire the waitress the

814
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 13: waiter to do their job that much more because they're

815
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 13: guaranteed that money.

816
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,320
Speaker 6: So why should I work hard for it?

817
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 13: I'm gonna get it.

818
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:45,479
Speaker 6: That's one number two.

819
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 13: As far as the father in law me personally, I'm petty.

820
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:52,759
Speaker 13: I would have went back to the table snatched kip

821
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 13: off the table because there's no reason until you will

822
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 13: leave that money on that table. That's not your responsibility.

823
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 13: And I get the old school our you know, the

824
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 13: culture back then is different. You know they want to

825
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:03,439
Speaker 13: do those things.

826
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 5: That's what they were trying to do.

827
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 13: But I got to look at the service. If I

828
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 13: didn't get a meal, or if I have to do

829
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 13: my own whatever at the table and I'm doing.

830
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 6: Your job, you don't get that money.

831
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 13: As a matter of fact, I should bill you and

832
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:18,240
Speaker 13: take some money off of my my food bill because

833
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 13: I feel like I'm doing all of the work. It's

834
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 13: not even just doing the work, but the attitude makes

835
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 13: a difference to now you could be.

836
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 6: Doing all of the work. You could have brought all.

837
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 4: The meals down and everything.

838
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 13: But if your attitude makes me uncomfortable in a place

839
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 13: where I should be comfortable, that automatically cancels everything.

840
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:39,839
Speaker 2: And I'm complaining it is take that.

841
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 1: Thank you have a good because I'm asking for more biscuits.

842
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Well at limited, if I

843
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: asked for more, please bring me some more. Julisa is it?

844
00:36:58,280 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: Lisa High?

845
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 6: Hi?

846
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:00,879
Speaker 4: How you doing?

847
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: Hey, good morning, Kiki's court. What say you?

848
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 12: I say, was the father in law even sitting at

849
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 12: the table with them, because if my daughter didn't get

850
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 12: a meal, we would have some problems.

851
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 4: Like she should reply back to.

852
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 8: Herself saying, excuse me, were you not there when I

853
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 8: didn't get my food while you were eating your salad

854
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 8: and your steak and I'm taking the baby's fries because

855
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 8: I'm still.

856
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:26,439
Speaker 13: Not would have got a tip?

857
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 9: And I just heard Natalie talk about how she should

858
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 9: have tooken something I got.

859
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,400
Speaker 4: How I feel about those self checkouts?

860
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 13: You guys got all these self checkouts.

861
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 9: I'm gonna get me a discount.

862
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 1: I'm a discount of something.

863
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:41,879
Speaker 13: I'm bagging my own bag.

864
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I got to check my own self out.

865
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,879
Speaker 2: I should get an employee discount. That is brilliant. I've

866
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:49,799
Speaker 2: never heard that said that way.

867
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:50,839
Speaker 1: I like it.

868
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 9: I mean, that's my biggest concern here.

869
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:54,479
Speaker 6: Rather dad gave a tip.

870
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 9: But whose side are you on?

871
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 4: The waitresses?

872
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:57,280
Speaker 6: Are your daughters?

873
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 4: It doesn't sound like she was even with the rest

874
00:37:59,040 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 4: of the table.

875
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 2: I kind of wonder how much this father in law

876
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 2: respects the son in law at all, because that's kind

877
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 2: of an emasculating move too.

878
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 1: You know.

879
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 8: It's kind of like, oh, really, take his money and

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Speaker 8: let him pay for dinner.

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00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, but oh I don't like your tip. It's like, okay,

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00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 2: well here's the bill, then you handle it. Oh no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: you didn't offer to do that. You didn't offer to

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Speaker 2: do that. Thank you, Alisa, have a good day too.

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Speaker 2: She wants an employee discount.

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Speaker 4: I like the way she thinks.

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Speaker 1: I here for that discount. It is Shelley the Entertainment

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Speaker 1: Report in two minutes,