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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 2: It's a beautiful morning in Palm Springs.

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Speaker 3: People are waking up, We're looking outside, people are slowly

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Speaker 3: getting out of bed from an evening out.

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Speaker 2: Trista, Yes, mit night.

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Speaker 4: I So it's so funny you say that because I

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Speaker 4: was watching, you know, going through social a little bit

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Speaker 4: as I was getting ready for bed. And I don't

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Speaker 4: know if you yeah, you did, you were part of

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Speaker 4: this the social media like team had everyone answer like

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Speaker 4: who do you think is going to party?

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Speaker 5: The hardest.

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Speaker 4: I was like, everyone's going to say Ben, and just

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Speaker 4: because you you like to voogie on the.

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Speaker 2: Dance floor, I love a good way.

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Speaker 4: And I said me because I was like, hey, I'm out,

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Speaker 4: I'm having I love a dance floor and and this

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Speaker 4: is like kind of like my happy place getting together

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Speaker 4: with friends.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I was gonna say not Palm Springs, but these.

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Speaker 4: Events exactly like just seeing friends like Molly and I

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Speaker 4: have been friends, we were saying for fifteen years. I

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Speaker 4: love reunions if you will, and just being and I

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Speaker 4: had my family there too, so it was awesome.

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Speaker 3: I mean, does being at a wedding like last night

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Speaker 3: does it make like flash you back to your wedding or.

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Speaker 4: No a little bit because I don't know if you

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Speaker 4: know this, but Mindy Weiss was there?

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Speaker 5: Who and do you know who Mindy Weiss is?

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Speaker 2: Okay from Wells and Sarah because they get oh yes.

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Speaker 5: True story. So Mindy.

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Speaker 4: I did not know she did the wedding. I was

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Speaker 4: sitting at the wedding thinking this has Mindy all over it,

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Speaker 4: but I didn't know that for sure. And then we're

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Speaker 4: at the little reception, like quote unquote reception, the like

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Speaker 4: fake one for TV, you know, yeah, right, and.

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Speaker 5: Randomly just saw her.

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Speaker 4: She was looking around like looking for something, and I

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Speaker 4: ran up to her and gave her a big hug,

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Speaker 5: Was like, who do you think I was looking for?

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Speaker 4: She she was my wedding, like a big part of

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Speaker 4: our wedding, in helping us plan and everything. So little

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Speaker 4: moments like that, and just the flowers were stunning like

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Speaker 4: that kind of like the ambiance of it all took

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Speaker 4: me back a little bit.

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Speaker 5: Obviously.

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Speaker 4: The cameras, yeah, it was. It was amazing and a

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Speaker 4: wedding just of course when you're married, I feel like

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Speaker 4: it reminds you of your own nuptiles.

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Speaker 2: It was very it was very intimate.

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Speaker 3: I'm really glad they had both Teresa and Gary do

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Speaker 3: their own vowels. I agree, because sometimes you go to

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Speaker 3: an event like this and yes, it's really cool and

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Speaker 3: we always have a blast. It's the behind the scenes

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Speaker 3: of like getting together with people. Oftentimes we don't get those,

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Speaker 3: like the intimacy for whatever the event's supposed to be.

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Speaker 3: And Gary Trees, I think sharing their own vows last

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Speaker 3: night really felt for me, like it brought me into

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Speaker 5: More, for sure.

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Speaker 4: And also his family, how his family, you know, like

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Speaker 4: and I thought that was so sweet. And then her

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so inlaw.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean those little moments, I agree, they

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Speaker 2: And then was this the first wedding that both your

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Speaker 2: kids have been able to come to?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: What they think, oh Blakesley is you know she loves

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Speaker 4: to get glammed, like get dressed up. And she borrowed

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Speaker 4: a dress from me that she wore last night, and

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Speaker 4: about that. You know that vibe, the gurly vibe, Max

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Speaker 2: So is Max and his dad similar? Very very similar.

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Speaker 4: Human I've always said that. So when they were little,

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Speaker 4: Max used to look like me, like I looked like him.

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Speaker 4: He looks Everyone came up to him last night was like,

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Speaker 4: used to always say he looked like me, and he

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Speaker 4: personalities are definitely very similar. Okay, introverted like you saw.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure you saw. They were both sitting at the

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Speaker 5: Like she was on the dancellor with me, hanging out

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh that's great.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we have a couple of things to touch on. Yeah. One,

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Speaker 3: I want to clear something up. Okay, you actually about

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Speaker 3: right for me?

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Speaker 4: Yo.

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Speaker 2: Twitter is buzzing this morning about Ryan.

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Speaker 5: No they aren't, Oh I promise about Ryan Sutter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So the show did him a big diss service

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Speaker 2: last night.

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Speaker 3: And I'm gonna show you this clip and then I

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Speaker 3: want you to speak to it because I know exactly

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Speaker 3: what was going on, and I know it's not what

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Speaker 3: it looks like.

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Speaker 4: And uh shot up, Oh my gosh, I'm I'm dying.

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Speaker 2: What the hell, let me find it real quick.

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Speaker 5: I will.

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Speaker 4: No, I haven't seen it, but my so, my my

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Speaker 4: parents and Ryan's parents that we were all on a

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Speaker 4: text chain last night. Yeah, and they all so someone

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Speaker 4: texted and said, I am dying to know what Ryan

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Speaker 4: just said to Trista. Okay, so just from just from

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Speaker 4: my family watching. Okay, so they were like, I'm dying

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Speaker 4: to say what Ryan just said to Trista. It's like

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Speaker 4: got to be something classic Ryan, Like he's great, great

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Speaker 4: sense of humor or whatever, and we're always you know,

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Speaker 4: like personal inside jokes whatever. And I think it was,

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Speaker 4: if I'm correct, he said something like I want to

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Speaker 4: make you you'll be the happiest woman on the planet.

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Speaker 4: And he actually said the second happiest.

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Speaker 3: Uh see, that's perfect.

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Speaker 2: That's really cute.

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Speaker 4: I like, you know, so it was like a personal

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Speaker 5: And now they're like trashing him for it.

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Speaker 2: Not trashing. It's actually really fun.

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Speaker 3: I don't think anybody if you read the comments underneath

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Speaker 3: the video that was posted originally, it's all like King Ryan,

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Speaker 3: funny because the person that posted didn't know who Ryan was,

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Speaker 3: Like some guy at the Golden Wedding just said that's

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Speaker 2: Come on now, okay.

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Speaker 3: Also, we have a big day of recording great episodes

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Speaker 3: with some all the most of the people that are

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Speaker 3: here at the wedding. Like you said, it was a

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Speaker 3: great reunion. It was really fun to be with everybody.

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Speaker 3: I had a blast all day. We play golf yesterday morning,

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Speaker 3: let all the way up into an evening that at

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Speaker 3: nine o'clock it felt like it was four in the morning.

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Speaker 2: To me, it was exhausted, exhausted.

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Speaker 5: I was like, how is it only eighth there?

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's just so tired. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Brayden and Christina, Yeah engaged last night.

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Speaker 5: Sure did.

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Speaker 2: White had a fairly strong reaction.

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Speaker 3: She said that and I don't know necessarily knew this

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Speaker 2: She says, you don't get engaged at somebody else's wedding.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it could very well be a role, you know.

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Speaker 4: I don't know that you want to take away from

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Speaker 2: So yes, it's also you know, wear white probably right.

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Speaker 5: Exactly exactly.

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Speaker 4: You don't want to you don't want to compete or

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Speaker 5: And I'm like, oh, sure, whatever, not knowing what it was.

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Speaker 4: And then she said that they were that he was

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Speaker 4: Like I just love love.

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Speaker 4: And I didn't think about that, like because at this

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Speaker 5: If that's really a good thing, if that feels.

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Speaker 4: Right, and I was like, whoa, that's so true, Like

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Speaker 4: I really didn't think about it that way, but you

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Speaker 4: Not that I'm not happy for them, but I don't

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Speaker 2: I'm with you.

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Speaker 3: So when Jess called me this morning, I was talking

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Speaker 3: to my to my wife about last night's show. She

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Speaker 5: Idea Ryan saying that, you know Ryan Laning and.

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Speaker 2: Be like yeah, he's this is doomed to fail.

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Speaker 3: And she's running me through and she's like she's like,

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Speaker 3: same you know, Preducer had told us like something really

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Speaker 3: You're like, it's cool they got engaged, and I think

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Speaker 3: didn't really feel like we were at a wedding yet, right,

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Speaker 3: And yes, we knew we're at a wedding, but it

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Speaker 3: opening like injury way a party there, kind of stationed

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Speaker 3: getting ready. There was a nacho bar that was pretty fantastic,

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Speaker 2: The wedding portion of the evening.

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Speaker 3: Still, you know, I guess timing wise, they probably could

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if Braden or if.

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Speaker 3: The show was like I want you guys to get

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I would have done it that way.

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Speaker 3: But I also saw like how happy those two people are.

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Speaker 5: They are so really happy, so freaking happy, And.

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Speaker 3: I usually like would say, I don't know if they'll

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Speaker 4: I so Blakesley had so much fun with girls that

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Speaker 4: like that, Yeah, it seems, but she was on a high,

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Speaker 4: Who cares, it's not like really, it's like their story

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Speaker 4: and whatever it happened. I don't know how Gary and

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Speaker 3: I think on television it probably felt like it took

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Speaker 4: I don't think Teresa and Gary were even out there,

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Speaker 5: Were they yet?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's funny you say that, because after the wedding

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Speaker 5: Where the where the.

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Speaker 4: Wedding ceremony took place to that like makeshift reception area

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Speaker 4: it was all our wedding guests and and so it

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Speaker 4: me and you and all of Bachelor Nation and what

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you just kind of like or laugh about it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: As Ryan reminded me last night, they wanted us to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, people are I think, but I also think, like

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Speaker 3: last night, the commercial breaks were again probably more distracting

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Speaker 3: when I was looking through Twitter, they're like, oh, Gary,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, well that's that.

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Speaker 5: There was never no, that didn't happen.

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Speaker 3: My buddies were texting when the Damn Band was on,

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Speaker 3: being like, is that the Damn Band? And they're still

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Speaker 3: playing on live in front of us? And it was

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Speaker 3: on TV, so like it was close. Anyways, Hey, Trista,

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Speaker 3: we got a big day in front of us. Do

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Speaker 3: We got to get outside and say hello to our guests,

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Speaker 3: but then they're gonna come in here record with this,

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Speaker 3: tell them, tell us about their evenings, break down all

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Speaker 3: the goodness that happened last night.

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Speaker 2: Maybe not in front of our eyes. Big day it is.

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Speaker 5: It's gonna be so much fun.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be great.

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Speaker 3: So until next time, I've been Ben, I've been Trista.

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