1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Rod and Karen. 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 2: Or hump Hey, welcome to the Black Guy to his podcast. 4 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: I'm your host, Rod, joined us always by my co host, 5 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: and we're live on a Saturday, ready to do feedback. 6 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: That's what that means. Every Saturday, we do a feedback show. 7 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 1: It's all about the things that you had to say. 8 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,600 Speaker 1: This is your chance to be heard. Leave us voicemails, 9 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: leave us emails, vote in the polls, leave comments on 10 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: our website, YouTube comments. We're everywhere. We're reading it all 11 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: and we're making sure that your voice is heard because 12 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: you're part of this program too. 13 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 2: The official weapon of. 14 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: The show is an unofficial. 15 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:46,239 Speaker 3: I have my street going voted chair. It is the 16 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 3: folded chair. 17 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 4: Continue my routine. 18 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 3: I was rooting for you. 19 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 4: We're all rooting for you outdare are you? I'm sorry 20 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 4: to let you out down. 21 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 3: That's why I have to if our own pous and 22 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 3: thank y'all like auto padded, I am so sorry. Oh girl, 23 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 3: baby girl, Oh no, I get my own No, no, 24 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 3: that's hilarious. 25 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 1: But yeah. You can find us all the places you 26 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: find podcasts. Search the Blackout Tips programming note Premium shows 27 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: are out. 28 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 2: We've done two. 29 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: New movie reviews in the Sport Movie review feed for 30 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: your premium people. They're out Hot Frosty and we saw 31 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 1: a craving so you don't have to So you don't 32 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:39,759 Speaker 1: have to. We also did Balls Deep the pregame yesterday 33 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: with Justin That was fun. We also have live tickets 34 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: for sale the linkers in your show notes. You know, 35 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 1: ticket sales are starting to take up, you know a 36 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: lot of We made fifty tickets available for the VIP 37 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: which it includes like a meet and greet and a 38 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: poster with us. Well, those tickets are going fast. They're 39 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 1: going actually faster than regular tickets as this as of 40 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 1: right now. We also now have virtual tickets so if 41 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: you can't be there live but you still want to 42 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: see the show via social media through i mean social 43 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: media through Zoom. They have camera set up, multi camera 44 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: set up. We've worked them in the past. It's always 45 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: been a good time. There's a chat room, you know, 46 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: everybody is kind of being in community without being physically there. 47 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: That's available to people too. And also there are people 48 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: who are like literally buying tickets for other folks to 49 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: be like, hey, I want to buy these tickets, and 50 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: I would like to give them to someone If that 51 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: is something you would like to do, that's not a problem. 52 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: Just you buy the tickets, they're going to send you 53 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: a link to some pdf files about a week before 54 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: the show. You would afford that email to us. We 55 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: don't need to email that you bought your tickets or 56 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 1: any of that until they seen you that pdfil I 57 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: can't transfer to somebody who might need tickets. So yeah, 58 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 1: that's I think most of the programming notes for now. 59 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: So oh and then of course that's live show is 60 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: February twenty eighth. In addition to that, I'm going to 61 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: be at the Route rail Toe or right right ryal 62 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 1: Toe Realte Ry. 63 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 2: Hotel, I don't know. 64 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in Raleigh Durham area with Bomani Jones. 65 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: He's doing a thing called the Basketball Jones and he's 66 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: gonna have a lot of guests there and I'm gonna 67 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: be one of them, and you can get tickets to 68 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: that as well. I will look on his social media 69 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: feed for links to the tickets. But that's gonna be 70 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: like the end of January, right the day before the 71 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: Carolina plays Chapel Hill. So it's gonna be a fun 72 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:58,119 Speaker 1: time and just you know, getting y'all shot, shouting, y'all 73 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: out letting, y'all know where these opportunities this all right, 74 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: let's get into the show. 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The first is a must listen and 97 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: a great historical archive five stars archive. 98 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 4: What storying about? 99 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: This podcast is a corner copia of joy Okay, corner Copya. 100 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 1: I'll see yougiving to okay the corns of corner Copya. 101 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: I'll see what. 102 00:05:58,080 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 2: I'll pick up what you're putting down. 103 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 1: I want to coopia of joy content and black cultural history. 104 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 1: This podcast is a wonderful archive of black pop culture. 105 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: Do yourself a favor and listen. That is true. 106 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 2: I didn't think about it this way, but you're right, 107 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: absolutely right. 108 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 1: Over the last fourteen fifteen sixteen years how long we 109 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:20,160 Speaker 1: been doing this, you could at any point randomly pick 110 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: an episode or on purpose pick an episode, and whatever 111 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: black people and pop culture thing was going on, we 112 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 1: probably were talking about. 113 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 4: Yes, we were, no matter what it is. 114 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, like I'm sure just even if it was in 115 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 1: passing or whatever. For the most part, if something was 116 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 1: happening and black people gave a fuck, we was here. 117 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:41,040 Speaker 4: Yes, we were. 118 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 3: We've been on the scenes, like I went to news. 119 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I guess we kind of are historical archive, 120 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,559 Speaker 1: and the last five star reviewer is from Kappa Square seven, 121 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: who says best in the business five stars, Rod and 122 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 1: kron At an absolute goat of podcasts. Fight me exactly, 123 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 1: not fight me. Our fans and the dot for this 124 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: ship give they give a balance approach to life, politics 125 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,280 Speaker 1: and current events. If you are looking for a show 126 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: that gives you edutainment, welcome home, Thank you edutainment. 127 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 2: That's an old school word. 128 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: That's back when like rappers used to say that ship 129 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 1: because they couldn't make radio hits. It's like, that's because 130 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm making edutainment. It don't got to be number one, brother, 131 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: Like I don't know. It's still played on the same 132 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: radio as Two Live Crew and they're killing you. 133 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 4: Right now, yes they are. 134 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 1: But yeah, make sure you guys do all of that stuff. 135 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: Leave us five star reviews or Apple podcast. You can 136 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 1: do it from a computer now. You don't actually need 137 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: to have a logging. 138 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 3: Apple uses. You ain't got no excuse. I want my 139 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 3: five stars. 140 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 2: Even mister Spain has left for us five star reviews. 141 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:51,119 Speaker 1: And that's saying something, and that's that that means that brother, 142 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: fuck with us with us, Oh don't it Okay, I've 143 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: seen I've seen what he's had to say about Apple, 144 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 1: and he wouldn't touch them unless he had to, right, 145 00:07:59,480 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: thank you. 146 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 4: I was like, I don't have to, so we think it. 147 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 3: If mister Spens has a still of approval, child, you 148 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 3: ain't got no excuse. 149 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 2: All right, let's get to these episodes that we did 150 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 2: this year. This week. 151 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: Threeenty eighteen, the Republican Globe Trotter seven comments it was 152 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: a feedback show. 153 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 2: Of course. 154 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: Apia says, I did really accomplish my goal. I have 155 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: a black friend now thanks to black out tips. I 156 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 1: will I will stay. I will still stay here for 157 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: the good content. Maybe someday make even a second black friend. 158 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: Who knows whoa whoa buddy gonna get out of control? 159 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 6: Pushing those numbers kind of hard danger. You know what 160 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 6: they say rid of us, can't get rid of us 161 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 6: pretty soon, know what they say about friends. Once you 162 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 6: go black, you can't go back. 163 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: I hope more listeners will meet if I can make 164 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 1: it from another continent. I see great possibilities for your Americas. 165 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: It's really fun running. Raphael says that any of you 166 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: catch the family of the American freelance journalists held in 167 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:56,559 Speaker 1: Syria after their week meeting at the White House. They 168 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: were taking shots at Biden, which at first I was like, 169 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 1: I kind of get the frustrated. Then the mom says 170 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: Trump loved her son during his first term. Doesn't it 171 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: add anything about what or how if he bothered to 172 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:11,080 Speaker 1: bring her son home? If Joe Biden is Joe Biden 173 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 1: has been terrible, right, there is registered that the person 174 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: who got them proof of their son being alive equal trash, 175 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 1: but the one who said I love your son does 176 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: not an equal great. That's how I see folks complaining 177 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 1: about Hunter's party. Welcome to all the new premium members. 178 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:28,680 Speaker 1: I got a super discount just for you. Don't listen 179 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: to rods propaganda against middle named bears. Once your third 180 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: eye has been opened by my sister Karen, you'll see 181 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 1: past Rod's attempt to sell this sleek move. Open thy 182 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:42,679 Speaker 1: third eye from my comedic brethren. There's a trip to 183 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:46,679 Speaker 1: Africa on air TBGWT soon. Focused alert everyone play to 184 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: Welcome Music Rock for the record. Runner Raphael has no 185 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: affiliation with this podcast. 186 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 4: You do it at your own risk, y'all. 187 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: I would actually advise against any business feelings. I don't care, 188 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: let me barrow quarter for the pay don't exist anymore. 189 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 1: So he's lying to you right there. Don't do it. 190 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: So uh, there's no air of tbg WT. And please 191 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: don't believe that. Sean says Nixon was preemptively pardoned, and 192 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: here's the list. Also there are rumors that Biden is 193 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 1: considering preemptive pardons. Also, you write Tim K's reasonable pardons 194 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 1: on one day and Hunters in there. The news would 195 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: ignore everyone but Hunter. Yeah, and he actually went and 196 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: did some more pardons, the biggest single day pardoning of 197 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 1: people ever. 198 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 2: He did that just this week of it. 199 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: Not it was. 200 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 2: It's actually worse than that, in my opinion. 201 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: One, It's not like they went, oh okay, well that 202 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 1: makes the Hunter pardon okay. So everyone who floated that, 203 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: now you know you can suck my dick because I 204 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 1: told you that it wouldn't matter it just if we're 205 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 1: gonna I just I guess I'm at a point now 206 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 1: where I'm fed up with people's inability to just be 207 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 1: real because I feel like, if nothing else, what I 208 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: am taking out of twenty twenty four is oh okay, 209 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 1: so we could just be real and that's it. Like 210 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:17,319 Speaker 1: cause I don't really understand what's what him and Howard, 211 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 1: and given all this covering these people is helping, it 212 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: hasn't helped. It hasn't helped. To be very nice about 213 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:23,960 Speaker 1: it hasn't. And I'm not even saying you gotta be mean. 214 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, let's just be truthful with each other. 215 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 1: I don't really want the excuses in the fifty fifties. 216 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 1: But yeah, anyway, the uh, the Knicks in parton, I 217 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: think stands in a completely different category as he was 218 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 1: the president and it was it was unprecedented, and to 219 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: this day it is still extremely controversial. So thank you, Sean, 220 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 1: because that's a great technical point. But I just don't 221 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 1: I would not think I would not consider the Knicks 222 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: in parton as a like, oh yeah, that's that's what 223 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: people do, you know? And if and like I said, 224 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 1: I think pre emptively pardoning someone who isn't even an investigation, 225 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 1: like say Hillary Clinton, I don't even know if that 226 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: holds up or how that holds up or what that 227 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: holds up. I don't even know what an income and 228 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: Republican administration would charge people that they consider enemies with 229 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 1: I'm not even sure it's something you because it's not 230 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,679 Speaker 1: you say, I pardon them against any and all conceivable 231 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:22,200 Speaker 1: offenses that they do for the rest of their life. Right, 232 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 1: So I don't even know what you do with that. 233 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 1: But like I said, if any of this stuff, including 234 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: the people that like James Clyburn who are floating we 235 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:33,319 Speaker 1: should pardon Trump as well. All of this stuff to 236 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 1: me is just some sort of bargaining they're doing internally 237 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 1: and they're letting come out of their mouths. Nothing's gonna 238 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:42,679 Speaker 1: stop Donald Trump from doing what the fuck he want 239 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 1: to do. That's true, and he will never feel like 240 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 1: I need to do this to be fair. Well, hey, 241 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 1: you know what, I wasn't gonna do this, but then 242 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: Joe Biden did a thing, so now I'm gonna do it. 243 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: I think we just need to stop entertaining that line 244 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: of thinking. 245 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 3: I have one hundred percent agree, and I'm with you 246 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 3: about being truthful. Trump's gonna do whatever the fuck Donald 247 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 3: Trump is going to do. He has literally told you. 248 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 3: And the thing is, I believe that. 249 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 4: Man. It's a lot of motherfuckers still out here going, well, 250 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 4: it can't be that bad. 251 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 3: He really is, No, I believe him. So a lot 252 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:23,439 Speaker 3: of people are lying to themselves. They're being disingenuous with themselves, 253 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 3: and they're given excuse. They're giving him excuses, and then 254 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 3: when he comes in he does worse. They're gonna be 255 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 3: shocked in or surprised. And he probably can do things 256 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 3: and surprise people that go always gonna be bad, like like, 257 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 3: you just never know how low he can go. But 258 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 3: I believe he's going to do the shit he's going 259 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 3: to do. You're the one in Deniwal, and you're the 260 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 3: reason why we have to keep going back and forth 261 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 3: and make I don't want. 262 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 4: To do that anymore. You are wasting everyone's time. 263 00:13:54,520 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 1: Yep, all right, Michael says whenever the feedback show, here's 264 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 1: my feed I checked the time stamp. You two are 265 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 1: the goats of these two to three hour episodes. I 266 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 1: am one of the listeners who did hear Karen say 267 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 1: something that applied she was a member of the LGBTQ 268 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 1: plus community. I figure Karen just misspoke since I've been 269 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 1: listening to the show for years, but. 270 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 2: I know it's members of the queer community. 271 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: I always wanting to fan cast those we love from 272 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 1: media as members of the community. So the comment last 273 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: week didn't surprise me. That said, I really appreciate it 274 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 1: both of your responses. It doesn't matter if you're queer yourselves, 275 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 1: you're staying with the community. As a white, queer and transperson, 276 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 1: always nod alone when you talk about the struggle for 277 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: my rights being intertwined with the struggle for black rights 278 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 1: in this country. Thanks for all you do, Thank you, Michael. 279 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: And yeah, you know, I just I didn't. I must 280 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: have missed whatever it was or not picked up on it. 281 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think it's important that we are letting 282 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 1: people know, like, no, we're not we're we're not queer people. 283 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 1: Not that obviously that's a bad thing, but just to 284 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 1: be accurate, we're not necessarily queer people. But that should 285 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: not stop you from being educated on issues and advocate 286 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 1: for people. People are still part of the community, whether 287 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: they're queer or not. And I just feel like too 288 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 1: much of I mean, you listen, I listen to a 289 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: lot of podcasts, and I mean I don't want to 290 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to tell people to get out of 291 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 1: their lane. There's a lot of people that honestly don't 292 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 1: have the bandwidth or ability or care and concern to 293 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 1: be even talking about these issues, And I'm not even 294 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: saying that like because I'm always get it right. I'm 295 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 1: not perfect, And this conversation is always changing. The landscape 296 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 1: is changing, the words are changing, our iconography is changed. 297 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 1: So there's gonna be things that I'm gonna look back 298 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: and go, oh, we didn't have to know the best 299 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: words for it then, or whatever eye evolved on this, 300 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 1: or whatever the fuck that is. I just think too 301 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: many people are afraid to stand and say like, no, this, 302 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: this is my community too, and whether the rights of 303 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 1: someone should not be affected by how much like me 304 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 1: they are, Like it shouldn't be like, well, black people 305 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 1: understand they need freedom trans people, I don't get. I 306 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 1: don't understand that line of thinking. I think it's very 307 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are very limited. And 308 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: not to get too hippie dippy about it, but I 309 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 1: think the only way out of these the cycle that 310 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: we're in in America where it's like progressed in a 311 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 1: bunch of hard regression and resetting in a little bit 312 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: of progressing back and forth, it's gonna be radical empathy 313 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 1: in that people are going to have to accept that 314 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 1: there have some commonalities in struggles with people and stop 315 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 1: trying to make it a pissing contest and instead just 316 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 1: be like, what's being done to you isn't right, and 317 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: therefore I care. Like it's not necessarily about reciprocating. It's 318 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 1: not an alliance that is formed on you do for me, 319 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 1: I do for you. It's not even really about that. 320 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:55,119 Speaker 1: It's I would even say, it's not really even about community. 321 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 1: Sometimes right and wrong is just seeing that some shit 322 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: is wrong right, Like that should not be happening. What 323 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 1: what do I need to say or do or whatever 324 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 1: that's gonna help that not happen. It's very sad that 325 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 1: that people are so selfish, but I guess that's human too. 326 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, that is very human too. 327 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:17,160 Speaker 3: And it's also you know, one of the things where 328 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 3: there's a lot of things and the biggest reason why 329 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 3: I understand a lot of things, And it's not that 330 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:27,239 Speaker 3: I completely understand a one hundred percent understand, but I 331 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:28,679 Speaker 3: do understand oppression. 332 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 4: I like that part I get, and when. 333 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 3: You work in the humanity of that oppression and that 334 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 3: there are people on the other side of that oppression 335 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 3: that are being impacted in or affected, it ain't right. 336 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 3: It doesn't matter if they look like you like it 337 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 3: does not matter, but so many people like you say 338 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 3: it is a who is the most oppressed contest? And 339 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 3: I don't give it damn about who's the most oppressed. 340 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:57,919 Speaker 3: Its oppression happening to everyone. The purpose is to stop 341 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:01,640 Speaker 3: the oppression because the preser is not going to stop. 342 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:04,879 Speaker 3: So you know, it's like, hey, it's more of us 343 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 3: than them. But people don't want to look at that 344 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 3: because numbers matter, and people a like numbers don't matter. 345 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 3: Numbers matter, math maths. 346 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think about how it's so I made the 347 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 1: assumption it kind of just innately that people who live 348 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:30,679 Speaker 1: under oppression understand oppression. And I think what I've realized 349 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:33,720 Speaker 1: as I've gotten older is that many people live under 350 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:36,719 Speaker 1: oppression but do not understand it. They don't study it, 351 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:40,119 Speaker 1: and they don't think of it bigger than themselves and 352 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,359 Speaker 1: what it inhibits in their lives. And that's part of 353 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 1: the nature of oppression is to keep you fighting and 354 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 1: small and thinking about every hurdle you need to jump over, 355 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: and so you don't notice that everyone on the track 356 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:55,440 Speaker 1: is jumping over hurdles. You may even resent those who 357 00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:57,359 Speaker 1: have a few less hurdles in you rather than the 358 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 1: idea of who's putting these hurdles up. That's lowering all 359 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:03,879 Speaker 1: of our impeding all of our progress, right, And I 360 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 1: think that's something I really just came to see lately. 361 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:08,200 Speaker 2: Is like when I see a. 362 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 1: Black person who can't understand the struggle of an immigrant, 363 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,679 Speaker 1: When I see an immigrant who can't understand the struggle 364 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 1: of a black person in America, when I see someone 365 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 1: who's gay who's racist, someone who's racist. 366 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:23,160 Speaker 2: Someone who's black but homophobic. 367 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:27,400 Speaker 1: Those people all live under oppression of their own, but 368 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 1: that does not mean that they understand it. And I 369 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 1: think operating from there is a place where I have 370 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 1: lower expectations of people, but I'm able to understand people 371 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 1: a little bit better. Let's see, Oh Shoe Booty says, 372 00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 1: if my Spotify rap had Drake is number one in 373 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 1: this year of our lower twenty twenty four, I would 374 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 1: simply be quiet about it and say I don't use Spotify. 375 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 2: That's what I think happened. That's why I said, like. 376 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:56,479 Speaker 1: Online, I feel like people that had Drake all throughout 377 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 1: the rap was like just not sharing it. So it 378 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 1: seemed like everybody had Kendrick all over the place. Because 379 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: everybody's okay with sharing that this year, but don't nobody 380 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 1: want to be around certified love? A boy mature young 381 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 1: lady says. The older I've gotten, the less enjoyable holidays 382 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:14,679 Speaker 1: have been. It's the pressure that I put on myself 383 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 1: to make sure my loved ones have something nice. This 384 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 1: year has sucked and I haven't been able to go 385 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 1: all out like usual. I hear you on that, but 386 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Man, not to get all 387 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,200 Speaker 1: Christian spirit on you, but. 388 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 2: When I tell you, at the end of the day, you. 389 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:37,919 Speaker 1: Could get people nothing and they if they fuck with you, 390 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 1: it don't matter. All of us understand. All of us 391 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,879 Speaker 1: have gone through ups and downs. People lose jobs, people 392 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 1: have bills, all kinds of stuff happened. You know, some 393 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,520 Speaker 1: year you just ain't in that spirit or whatever. But 394 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,880 Speaker 1: I feel like this time of year, it's not about 395 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,119 Speaker 1: what you got in your hand when you come see me. 396 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: Maybe when you're a real little kid and you just 397 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 1: don't understand how things work in life, but you know, 398 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 1: the it's not about the present the gift necessarily. It 399 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 1: really is about that hippy shit of the gift of 400 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:13,919 Speaker 1: us being around each other and sharing love and community. 401 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 1: And I think you have to get out of that 402 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:21,479 Speaker 1: headspace because you know, I think it comes from something 403 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 1: else normally, like that level of almost like an insecurity 404 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 1: of like, oh it's Christmas, I need to be like 405 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 1: with gift in hand. Yeah, it's definitely that too. But 406 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 1: like even under capitalism, there's certain people that just kind 407 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 1: of you understand, but it's like, hey, let's co I 408 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,479 Speaker 1: ain't get no gifts, but we're gonna eat this chicken 409 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,439 Speaker 1: or whatever. I just think it comes from somewhere, and 410 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:46,639 Speaker 1: I just say, in your head, you start thinking like 411 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,200 Speaker 1: other people are clocking me and being like, oh you 412 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,640 Speaker 1: got so and so present, but now oh you spent 413 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 1: this much on them, but not that There might be 414 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: some people like that. There may be, but in general, 415 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 1: the vast majority of people are not like that. Kind 416 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 1: heart and good people are definitely not like that. And 417 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 1: I think if you show up with not a single 418 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 1: gift to give, I feel like people still gonna love 419 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,679 Speaker 1: seeing you and your energy and you being around. So 420 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 1: I just speak I speak to that as a person 421 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,679 Speaker 1: that has anxiety of my own and has done like 422 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 1: overperformative stuff in my past that it don't matter if 423 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 1: you stop doing it today and say I'm never doing 424 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 1: it for the rest of my life. People still gonna 425 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:28,119 Speaker 1: put a smile on their face when they get that 426 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 1: phone call or they see you come through the door, 427 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 1: because the holidays are just you know, it's more about 428 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 1: the time and the effort to be together, you know what. 429 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:42,320 Speaker 3: Yes, And as I've gotten older, all jokes aside. As 430 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 3: an adult, you go up and down. I speak for myself. 431 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:46,960 Speaker 3: I go up and down and all around over the 432 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:50,120 Speaker 3: years about Christmas. You know about the holidays and how 433 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,280 Speaker 3: I feel about them. And as you get older, you're 434 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 3: an adult, so you can redefine and define what your 435 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 3: definitions of these things are. And sometimes that means you 436 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,720 Speaker 3: don't have to follow whatever the tradition is. You can 437 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 3: create your own tradition. You literally can if you choose 438 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:11,440 Speaker 3: to and you opt to. You know, you can be like, hey, 439 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 3: I ain't got it this year, so I spend it. 440 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 3: If I don't, I don't, you know, and like it's 441 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 3: it's And sometimes it's very hard for people to do 442 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 3: because they feel pressure from family and friends and loved ones, 443 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,360 Speaker 3: people looking at them and capitalism, and you know, they 444 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:25,960 Speaker 3: feel I got to go in debt and all these 445 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 3: different things. But babe, if you ain't got it, you 446 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 3: just ain't got it. And that's okay. And older you get, 447 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 3: you'll realize what's more precious and what people remember more 448 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 3: is the time you spent with them why they were 449 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 3: here than the gift. 450 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:42,679 Speaker 4: They remember. 451 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 3: The laughing they remember like when people pass and people 452 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 3: talk about at their funerals and they repass and stuff. 453 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:50,800 Speaker 4: The memories they bring up most of. 454 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 3: The time is about situations and incidents and things like that. 455 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:58,479 Speaker 4: It is rarely about they gave me a gift. And 456 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 4: so I do one hundred percent agree with you Rogers. 457 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,160 Speaker 3: For me, as I've gotten older, I realized the thing 458 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:06,159 Speaker 3: is the time I just enjoy sitting and laughing and 459 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:10,160 Speaker 3: eating and joking and smiling and being around being loved 460 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 3: and being around people that I love. To me, that's 461 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,439 Speaker 3: very very important about the holidays for me, you know. 462 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 3: And like I say, you can navigate this how you 463 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 3: want to, but this is just kind of my perspective. 464 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 4: And once I started doing that, it took that pressure off. 465 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 3: I didn't feel that that internal pressure, that ticking top clock. 466 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:29,960 Speaker 4: That I gotta get this, I gotta get this, I 467 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 4: got it on the list. I gotta buy people. How 468 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 4: do you feel about the dollars? Oh, I'm just gonna 469 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:33,680 Speaker 4: as over. 470 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 3: And then you know, January February, you got your paying 471 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 3: your bills down. Your credit card bills is sky high, 472 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 3: where you actually should have been putting that money towards 473 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 3: other things, you know, if your money just wasn't there 474 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 3: at the time. And so you know, that's kind of 475 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,639 Speaker 3: how I navigated, and I realized that, you know, the 476 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,920 Speaker 3: time of the year is much more enjoyable and it's 477 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:52,399 Speaker 3: more for me. 478 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 4: It was more freeing. 479 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:57,960 Speaker 1: Eve, he says, I'm not ready for the holidays. It 480 00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 1: just it feels like it just turned twenty twenty five 481 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 1: for and here we are about to enter new year. 482 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 2: I feel like the older we get, the fashion. 483 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 1: Time singers to go. Well, that that would make sense. 484 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 1: The longer you've been alive, the smaller fraction of time 485 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:12,360 Speaker 1: each day is mathematically and your perception of it can 486 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 1: only perceive how much you've already experienced in life with 487 00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:16,119 Speaker 1: being alive. 488 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 4: So and as a kid, that drags, But. 489 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 1: That's because you've, once again, you've not experienced much time. 490 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,200 Speaker 2: So all time that is happening feels longer. 491 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:29,679 Speaker 4: That's true. 492 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 2: But anyway, not to get too deep on. 493 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:38,160 Speaker 1: Let's see the comments for YouTube. 494 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:43,120 Speaker 2: Let's see what we got here. Make sure I'm viewing 495 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,160 Speaker 2: them all. Okay, here we go. 496 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,120 Speaker 1: God Will and God goodwill blurting, says Hey Ryder mss 497 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: Karen Rod great sports analogy. The election has been an 498 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:53,480 Speaker 1: eye opening event, giving a window into the real content 499 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,199 Speaker 1: of people's character. As Carter says, love you guys, and 500 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 1: I love your show as you all see fit to 501 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 1: do it. I understand some of these people are just 502 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,719 Speaker 1: trying to show Karen appreciation, because yes, Karen, you are 503 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,320 Speaker 1: me in so many ways. But stop telling these people 504 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 1: three thousand plus shows into what they need to change. 505 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 1: Karen and Rod know what works for them. Sit back 506 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 1: and Georgia show. I think that's in response to the 507 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 1: person that wanted to read some articles, Shorty P. Says, 508 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 1: regarding Biden's partners, exactly name them, because I've read a 509 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:26,159 Speaker 1: lot of ridiculousness. Yes, Biden partners sixty five one hundred 510 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 1: low level drug offenders. Yeah, and we'll get to it 511 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,600 Speaker 1: later in the week. But he also just pardoned more people, 512 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:36,399 Speaker 1: and I look, I hope he does the preemptive parties 513 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 1: that people want like I'm not saying, uh, it is 514 00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 1: it is unusual, Like people will say, it's not unusual. 515 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 1: That's not true. We've only had that. It's Nixon. I forget, 516 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 1: there's like another more recent one that got a preemptive party. 517 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:56,960 Speaker 1: Then there's the Confederate Soldiers, which I disagree with being 518 00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 1: a they should not have preemptively pardon them. And then 519 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:04,480 Speaker 1: it's the draft Dodgers in the Vietnam. Jimmy Carter did that. 520 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 1: So it's not something like every president, of course preimptively parton. 521 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 1: But Trump is not a normal incoming president. And so 522 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 1: if you want to preemptively pardon, so give blanket pardons 523 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,680 Speaker 1: to some people that will probably be target about him. 524 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 1: I welcome it. I think it would be a great move. 525 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 1: All I was saying was to me is not necessarily 526 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:29,240 Speaker 1: the uh. It would not make people go, oh the 527 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 1: hunter pardon is okay. They will still act like that 528 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 1: was wrong of him to do, even knowing that he 529 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:38,800 Speaker 1: did the same for others. 530 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 3: Right. And the thing about Trump that like I said 531 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 3: that is that is that the now thing Trump has 532 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 3: consistently did unprecedented shit, and when people do that, you 533 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:55,240 Speaker 3: have to act unprecedented towards them, because hey, you're hitting 534 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 3: a new level, so we've got to hit a new level. 535 00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 1: And while telling you he's gonna do it. So like, 536 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 1: how much of the problem with Trump has been people 537 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:03,639 Speaker 1: just not believing he's gonna do what he tells him 538 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 1: they're gonna do he's gonna do because they're like, oh, no, 539 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 1: he wouldn't possibly, and. 540 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:08,959 Speaker 2: Then he turned out to be wrong. It's like, now 541 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 2: we all paying. 542 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 3: The price, right right, right, And it becomes very very 543 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:15,920 Speaker 3: h frustrating. 544 00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 4: Yes, ah shit jinks. 545 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 3: It becomes very frustrating, very irritating when you know he's 546 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 3: doing these things and people go, hey, you he's doing 547 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:32,440 Speaker 3: extraordinary thing, so we need to extraordinary towards him, and everybody. 548 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,160 Speaker 4: Going no, no, no no, And I'm. 549 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 3: Like, well, bitch, like you say, now we have to 550 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 3: the consequences of us not responding beforehand. 551 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 1: Right, all right, look back to this every time. Karen says, right, 552 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 1: I feel that in myself, says quiet Storm. Jay Hot says, 553 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 1: the glow trit analogy really really fits. Yeah, I should 554 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 1: have submitted I gotta submit that to our people's uh uh, sorry, 555 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:56,600 Speaker 1: I got a little lazy this week. Guys got behind. 556 00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 1: But yeah, thank you for the comments on YouTube. 557 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 2: The poe was are you ready for the holidays? 558 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 1: Yes? 559 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 3: No? 560 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:04,680 Speaker 2: Or I don't celebrate the holidays? 561 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,360 Speaker 1: Forty six percent say yes, forty two percent say no, 562 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 1: twelve percent say I don't celebrate the holidays. All right, 563 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 1: let's go into the next one. But I'm gonna play 564 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: a beat in case we need to decide to make 565 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 1: some money at some point. That's why I'm sitting here. 566 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: I just realized I never uploaded Chris Lamborth episode to YouTube. 567 00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 1: Oh no, some of a bitch. 568 00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 4: I know. 569 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 5: I was. 570 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,520 Speaker 1: Something was bothering me all week and I couldn't. 571 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,239 Speaker 4: You couldn't put your finger on it. 572 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: I did everything else around the podcast, but that. 573 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 2: Sorry Chris, It'll be up. It'll be up soon. 574 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, god damn boy. 575 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:06,719 Speaker 4: Sorry you two people. 576 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 1: Anyway, porn Hub Jack was our next episode. We had 577 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 1: seven comments. Let's get to it. Apia says, I'm glad 578 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 1: you enjoyed the five K event and are now the 579 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 1: ones doing walkaganda. I think moving around on your feet 580 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,920 Speaker 1: always gives you a new perspective and I always feel 581 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 1: better afterwards in my body and my brain. And it's free. 582 00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 1: Just put on some comfortable clothes, and you're all set. 583 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 1: If an industry plant was really a thing, the industry 584 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 1: would try to play Artists who are easy to control, 585 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 1: have no demands or controversial views appear to the masses. 586 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,440 Speaker 2: I think that's how they get you out here. 587 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 1: At this point, when we're hundreds of years of industry 588 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 1: plants into the game, you don't insert somebody that everyone 589 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 1: like like just thinks like, oh, they only want good things. 590 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 2: Nah, people are too cynical. 591 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 1: You want to go with the person that's a bit 592 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:57,800 Speaker 1: of a hot ride to the point where we're like, 593 00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: how come? But if they're everywhere, they must be the best, right, 594 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 1: because how can Andrew Schultz be so controversial? But he's 595 00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: everywhere and everyone fucks with him. The second part of 596 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 1: this is the contra The views aren't actually controversial, they're 597 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 1: the views that. 598 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 2: The status quote would like to be. 599 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 1: Like. 600 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 2: So if you if you were telling me, Rod. 601 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,959 Speaker 1: What would an industry plant look like in the in 602 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 1: the industry and why would they be there? So obviously, 603 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 1: and I'm not saying I believe this, This is just 604 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 1: my for those who do believe it. Why is Andrew 605 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 1: Schultz not the person you think is an industry plant, 606 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 1: is all I'm saying, Because think about it, what would 607 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 1: you want what would you want your status quot views 608 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: to be? Probably conservative points of view. That's what Andrew 609 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:50,400 Speaker 1: Schultz espouses. That's what makes him quote unquote controversial having 610 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 1: Trump on this platform, uh, picking on black people and 611 00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 1: people different races and gay people lbgt Q community. 612 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 2: Those are not controversial views. 613 00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 1: Really, They're the status quo view being pushed from a 614 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:11,800 Speaker 1: person that seems to be a culture leader and also controversial. 615 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 1: You know, it's just it's just how do we think 616 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:16,960 Speaker 1: about controversy? Because I think in a world where Donald 617 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 1: Trump won the popular opinion a poll of America called voting, 618 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 1: I don't know that we get to say it's controversial anymore. 619 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 2: To have the views of these type of guys. 620 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: Even Room of the Rapper or Vacuum who also raps, 621 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 1: trademark enter Room of the Rapper, okay ye, After his concert, 622 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 1: he cleans up the mask that was mess that was created, 623 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:40,600 Speaker 1: goes to the loading station, chills out to the next gig. 624 00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:43,520 Speaker 1: No controversy here, ever, I do like Room of the Rapper. 625 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 1: That's smart. You should trademark that. Don't get into a 626 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 1: deal with Raphael about it. No, okay, do the deal 627 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 1: by yourself. Make sure you get some German paperwork on it. 628 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 1: So that's not that because you don't know what Ronan. 629 00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 1: Raphael gona try to get you to sign something that 630 00:32:58,560 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 1: he wrote down on a napkin. 631 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:00,200 Speaker 2: Don't do that. 632 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 4: This is a three hundred and sixty degree deal. Don't 633 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 4: sign right. 634 00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 1: He's gonna own your kids by the end of it 635 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,280 Speaker 1: and ship. Yes, but you need to do that. Room. 636 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,720 Speaker 1: But the rapper toys for boys, We're gonna we're gonna 637 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 1: sell it to him. Uh, follow him for killer tracks 638 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 1: like my life is trash circles, I run on electricity, Raphael? 639 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:18,920 Speaker 1: Can we do this? 640 00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 6: Oh? 641 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 4: You know he got you know damn it. 642 00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 1: Was sad she had I am for a little bit, 643 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:29,640 Speaker 1: but we're trying to stay. If you probably in jail now, 644 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 1: ain't shit out. He probably hacked her account. He pretended 645 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 1: to be her in the chat. 646 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 4: But this is yeah, this is him right now. 647 00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,960 Speaker 1: Eric says, ticket secure. Some folks won't get gifts this year, 648 00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 1: but fuck it, I'm gonna see Rody Carro just last. 649 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:43,920 Speaker 4: Just last. 650 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 1: In the last podcast, she was like, hey, uh, I 651 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,200 Speaker 1: don't give people gifts. I still feel terrible every Christmas. 652 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:54,040 Speaker 1: She's like, well, fuck them gifts, going to see my 653 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 1: food and this is about me. Listen, kids, I'm telling 654 00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:00,760 Speaker 1: you your presence is a present. Ain't no up and 655 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 1: just they need to be excited that you showed up. Yes, sir, Okay, 656 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:06,480 Speaker 1: Also fuck them kids. Okay, I don't know them. 657 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:08,399 Speaker 4: I know you, we know you. 658 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: They ain't never met us in no public before. Miss 659 00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,319 Speaker 1: Barr says, yep. If you see me whole strolling, just 660 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 1: know it's all in the name of tickets to Rod 661 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:22,000 Speaker 1: and Karen show. Oh my, not not on the stroll. 662 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:23,520 Speaker 1: You know what I see ya think I'm a mom 663 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:27,120 Speaker 1: my business. I'm not gonna I'm not gonna bother you. Ms. 664 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,959 Speaker 1: Barnes says, congratulations on your first five K riding, Karen, 665 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 1: thank you. Sean says congratulations on your five k in 666 00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 1: terms of walking and talking. The data does not suggest 667 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 1: any natural gender or sex based differences. 668 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,800 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, data from star Trek. 669 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 1: Sean Sean coming in with the voking Sean got to 670 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:47,560 Speaker 1: be part of voking. 671 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:52,320 Speaker 2: Yes, the data does not suggest natural gender. 672 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 4: I've crushed the numbers. 673 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 1: In fact, Aristotle used to give lectures while walking around 674 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,799 Speaker 1: campus with his students walking in the line behind them. 675 00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 1: It is mainly issue of breath control and getting accustomed 676 00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 1: to it. For example, when I first was when I 677 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:09,719 Speaker 1: was first leading Marshall Excite at martial arts style AB 678 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:13,479 Speaker 1: aerobics program, I had difficulty maintaining one hundred percent effort 679 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,400 Speaker 1: while speaking and remembering to mirror. But it got easier 680 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,040 Speaker 1: over time. If you want to be able to walk 681 00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 1: and talk at. 682 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:19,840 Speaker 2: The same time, just practice. 683 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:21,000 Speaker 5: Uh. 684 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,759 Speaker 1: That is the most literal response to a joke. 685 00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:30,960 Speaker 4: I'm trying to huff you out. Run all right, you 686 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 4: can walk and talk. 687 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,879 Speaker 1: I said, women have a you believe I thought women 688 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,160 Speaker 1: have an extra long I don't think women have an 689 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:45,439 Speaker 1: You never know. I know you know what you're doing. 690 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 2: I know you know what you're doing. The show is 691 00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:51,800 Speaker 2: already five hours every Saturday. 692 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 1: Got time for. 693 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,720 Speaker 2: Your troller, he says Andrew Schultz. 694 00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:00,560 Speaker 1: It's the ultimate dictum Uh, someone who plays a victim 695 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:02,200 Speaker 1: that was really a dick who calls the drama in 696 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,319 Speaker 1: the first place. Everything I've learned about this guy has 697 00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:06,879 Speaker 1: been against my will. But I've heard clips of him 698 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,879 Speaker 1: calling other people victims, and now look at him wide 699 00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 1: and over supposed death threats. Yep, he's like, yeah, it's 700 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 1: he's like I said, show me what's controversial about his views. 701 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,000 Speaker 1: He's giving you the status quo piece of shit, views 702 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:22,359 Speaker 1: that many people have, and somehow it's being platformed and 703 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 1: co signed by black people that other that call out 704 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,920 Speaker 1: other people. Someone wrote into our premium show and reminded me, 705 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:33,520 Speaker 1: I'm so glad they did. How Van Lathan took emanual 706 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:37,240 Speaker 1: Accho to task for his comments about like black women's 707 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 1: Chicari Richardson or whatever. And then his buddy Andrew Shows 708 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,400 Speaker 1: does some wild shit and now it's like he's never 709 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,200 Speaker 1: had to think about something like this before. I can't 710 00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:52,680 Speaker 1: believe it. It's you know, it's this This dude, Andrew 711 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:55,239 Speaker 1: Shows seems to be a dick, and that seems to 712 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,640 Speaker 1: be his brand. He don't get to be a dick 713 00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,919 Speaker 1: and be the person that's a victim while the crying 714 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:04,560 Speaker 1: everyone else being a victim. You know, like the idea 715 00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 1: of you being like I said, I was gonna rape 716 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:10,320 Speaker 1: somebody as a joke and people are saying they're threatening 717 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:14,360 Speaker 1: me online. Well maybe they're joking. You missed the controversy. Remember, 718 00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:16,880 Speaker 1: you think everything else got rules. You know what, if 719 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,120 Speaker 1: you scare for real foul of police, report against them, 720 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 1: people take them to court. Stop trying to be the 721 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:26,719 Speaker 1: win public opinion over with this. I mean nothing, but 722 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 1: also I mean everything at the same time. Bullshit. 723 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:29,720 Speaker 2: It's greedy. 724 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:32,719 Speaker 1: The second a troll gets the same energy back. They 725 00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,880 Speaker 1: always claiming they received death threats, and I don't beleive them. 726 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:36,920 Speaker 1: It's probably just people talking on the internet. He's a 727 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:39,399 Speaker 1: clown and Charlemagne is a coon. Along with the black 728 00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 1: woman who said that dramatic Oh my god, where Andrew 729 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,920 Speaker 1: was whining? I was like, Sis, aren't you embarrassed? Yeah? 730 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 1: I don't know her like that, But I have a 731 00:37:50,160 --> 00:38:00,560 Speaker 1: personal belief there's a certain type of podcast where a 732 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:06,120 Speaker 1: dude goes and gets a woman co hosts normally that 733 00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:08,640 Speaker 1: they are not like a bit. It's a business relationship, 734 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:11,799 Speaker 1: meaning these are not like friends who started a podcast. 735 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:15,520 Speaker 1: This is not a couple who started a podcast. It's 736 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,600 Speaker 1: more like a and you know, I've been in the 737 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:19,560 Speaker 1: podcast game for a while, so I know some of 738 00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:24,000 Speaker 1: this shit is like literally they do they do auditions, 739 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:27,040 Speaker 1: they have you work with the people, they bring people back, 740 00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:29,239 Speaker 1: that you're both getting paid like it's a job. It's 741 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:32,840 Speaker 1: a job, and I think there's a certain type of 742 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:37,479 Speaker 1: brother and it also goes white man too, But since 743 00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,759 Speaker 1: we're talking about this space, I think there's a certain 744 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,040 Speaker 1: type of brother that goes and gets him a sister 745 00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,320 Speaker 1: on the show that she's just there for. 746 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:46,799 Speaker 2: When I do say fucked. 747 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 1: Up shit, she don't get offended and she won't check 748 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,400 Speaker 1: me because we're not equals. We're not sharing this platform. 749 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:57,120 Speaker 1: I'm her better, I'm her boss. My name is on 750 00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,960 Speaker 1: the marque, I own the company. You're here as an employer. 751 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,799 Speaker 1: If you leave, the show goes on without you, I'll 752 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:03,960 Speaker 1: find it out, Blamp. 753 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:05,280 Speaker 4: I can replace you in a heartbeat. 754 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,400 Speaker 1: And I think there are certain brothers in the game 755 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,040 Speaker 1: who go get these black women. And it's not that 756 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:13,399 Speaker 1: these women aren't competent. It's not that they may I'm 757 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,279 Speaker 1: not even calling them coons, like this is not disparaging them. 758 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,279 Speaker 1: They're there's the employee, not really the boss in many 759 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:23,279 Speaker 1: of these cases, and they kind of have to play 760 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:27,880 Speaker 1: this game of you just said something fucked up, and 761 00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,080 Speaker 1: my job is not to call you out. And we're 762 00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,600 Speaker 1: not friends and we're not equal, and it always comes 763 00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,360 Speaker 1: to a head. We always see it, and most of 764 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,680 Speaker 1: the time the women en up quitting. We've seen it 765 00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:40,160 Speaker 1: many times with Joe Budden. We can't really keep women 766 00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:42,600 Speaker 1: co hosts in that chair very often because he always 767 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,400 Speaker 1: freaks out or crashes out at some point and it 768 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 1: just jumps out of him and you're like, oh, that 769 00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:52,440 Speaker 1: really is a woman. You kept taking arrows and slights 770 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,239 Speaker 1: and arrows until you so full of arrows now and 771 00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:56,680 Speaker 1: no one respects you. 772 00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:56,880 Speaker 2: You know. 773 00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,600 Speaker 1: I think it happens with Charlemagne a lot, you know, 774 00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:02,960 Speaker 1: where he's had the entire women podcast on this network, 775 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:07,400 Speaker 1: but they're not really there to complete like it's not 776 00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:10,440 Speaker 1: an equal relationship. It's not really like I'm considering your 777 00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:11,880 Speaker 1: opinion in that way. 778 00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:14,760 Speaker 2: When it comes to certain topics. 779 00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:16,839 Speaker 1: And so I think this happens all the time, and 780 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 1: that might explain some of the silence from people that 781 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:26,920 Speaker 1: are like black women in the room while we're talking 782 00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,439 Speaker 1: about black women being the ones who were targeted about 783 00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:33,719 Speaker 1: this dude, and Charlemagne's changing the topic to Drake and 784 00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,239 Speaker 1: the woman is going, oh my god. 785 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:37,440 Speaker 2: But never giving her opinion. 786 00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:39,319 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, don't matter. 787 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, the oh my God is why she's there. 788 00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:43,840 Speaker 1: So I don't. Like I said, I don't know what 789 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:45,960 Speaker 1: to make of people like that, because I'm not. We've 790 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:49,239 Speaker 1: seen some people who are pretty intelligent and principled, but 791 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:52,040 Speaker 1: they took them jobs, and those are jobs in the 792 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:54,880 Speaker 1: industry that people need. So I'm like, you know, I 793 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,640 Speaker 1: remember Howard Stern and Robin used to be like that 794 00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,600 Speaker 1: to me. Well, I was like, she's just there so 795 00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,000 Speaker 1: that when he said some racist, when he said some 796 00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:05,520 Speaker 1: sex is misogynistic, she's there to either like give a 797 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 1: little bit of a oh bad boy type vibe or 798 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:11,080 Speaker 1: to act like it's not a problem. And it's a 799 00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:13,160 Speaker 1: special type of woman that can even have that role, 800 00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:15,560 Speaker 1: right like most a lot of women, a lot of 801 00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:17,480 Speaker 1: people that have marginalized you can't even have a role 802 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,880 Speaker 1: because they're gonna go too far one day and you're 803 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,040 Speaker 1: gonna stand up for yourself or your people, and now 804 00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:23,839 Speaker 1: you ain't got no job because the job is not 805 00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:24,799 Speaker 1: you checking them. 806 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:26,919 Speaker 4: No oh no, no, no no. Yeah. 807 00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,319 Speaker 3: You have to put your ego and all that shit 808 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,040 Speaker 3: to decide in order to even get the job. 809 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:34,439 Speaker 1: Yeah. The comments, let's get to them on YouTube. Those 810 00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:37,160 Speaker 1: are all of them on our site. People who love 811 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:40,320 Speaker 1: the dish can really take it, says done a t o. 812 00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,960 Speaker 2: Miss Sule says, or Miss Suele. 813 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 1: Says, proud of you guys completing in your five K. 814 00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,760 Speaker 1: It was sixty degrees here last Sunday and hour actually 815 00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:51,480 Speaker 1: got the walk and at one point felt like running 816 00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 1: after three years and actually did. 817 00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:54,080 Speaker 2: Oh that's dope. 818 00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:58,080 Speaker 1: Jazzie Sunflower says that Eric Adam commentary was spot on. 819 00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:01,920 Speaker 1: Thank you, Shorty P one thousands says, don't why do 820 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:05,840 Speaker 1: you want a mediation regarding an alleged criminal act? That 821 00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:08,680 Speaker 1: said criminal court is a higher bar than civil There 822 00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:11,560 Speaker 1: are photos of j being at a whole other after party. 823 00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:13,279 Speaker 2: We'll see how it shakes out. 824 00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:17,560 Speaker 1: Tony buzby strategy is to make vague allegations to later 825 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 1: add whomever he. 826 00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:20,120 Speaker 2: Thinks fits to build. 827 00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, look, I have all the same questions 828 00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:27,319 Speaker 1: as you, but at the same time, those questions will 829 00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,879 Speaker 1: be answered as more stuff comes forward. And I never 830 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:34,480 Speaker 1: really like to harp on guilt or innocence of something 831 00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 1: like that and the immediacy of it, unless the allegations 832 00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,640 Speaker 1: are so preposterous that it's like, oh, this person is 833 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:44,839 Speaker 1: just crazy. So I can't even get into But what 834 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:49,799 Speaker 1: I will say is this. I think a lot of 835 00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:53,319 Speaker 1: times even when people are when people are telling the 836 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 1: truth and maybe they don't have all the evidence to 837 00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,840 Speaker 1: back them, a lot of the times, the reason you 838 00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:02,040 Speaker 1: make these lawsuits allegations is that if it is a 839 00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:05,680 Speaker 1: pattern of behavior, other people who may also have the same, 840 00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:07,920 Speaker 1: Like I don't know if I can prove my case 841 00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:12,239 Speaker 1: come forward. And if we were at Saturday today and 842 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 1: jay Z had been accused of seven more by seven 843 00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:18,640 Speaker 1: more people, I feel like we'd all be like, Oh, 844 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:22,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, I think. So that's the reason I'm 845 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:24,600 Speaker 1: not you know, I'm not going to just assume the 846 00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:27,520 Speaker 1: worst of just the allegation, because I just I don't 847 00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,880 Speaker 1: know these people and what they're capable of. But I 848 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:31,880 Speaker 1: have common sense, and it's to court a public opinion. 849 00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,680 Speaker 1: My opinion isn't really law. It's not going to change anything. 850 00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,000 Speaker 1: If I was on a jury and they started showing 851 00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,960 Speaker 1: me other evidence that I wasn't privy to, I'd be 852 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,400 Speaker 1: willing to change my mind. But all that being said 853 00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:47,120 Speaker 1: is it's been a few days and more information has 854 00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:50,320 Speaker 1: come out about this accuser, and it is not looking 855 00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:54,400 Speaker 1: like it's starting to look like there's some holes in 856 00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,359 Speaker 1: the story, and we're going to see if this even 857 00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:00,759 Speaker 1: goes to try out or case because and like I said, 858 00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,760 Speaker 1: I don't I go into the drift with no allegiance, 859 00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:07,360 Speaker 1: no lawalty, just hey this, we'll see what the facts 860 00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:07,920 Speaker 1: bear out. 861 00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:09,719 Speaker 4: We will see so. 862 00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:14,839 Speaker 2: We'll find out. Uh, all right. 863 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:18,960 Speaker 1: The next one is Calibra cali br Mike says, my 864 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:21,880 Speaker 1: porn hub Jack description would be triple Crown three some 865 00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:33,319 Speaker 1: thruggle compilation thumper your average watch time six. Yeah, that's hilarious. 866 00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 1: Oh man, that poor hub Jack would be telling some stories, man, 867 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:40,120 Speaker 1: just saying, and those would be results. I think people 868 00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:41,920 Speaker 1: would want to share because I always feel like people 869 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:46,880 Speaker 1: share the not the PG version, but the acceptable version 870 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 1: of what they can share about porn. Like like, so 871 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,880 Speaker 1: if you say milf or whatever, that maybe you are 872 00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:01,520 Speaker 1: in the mill form whatever whatever. There's something else belief 873 00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:02,879 Speaker 1: milf that you ain't talking about. 874 00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, the subsection of the subsection of the subsection. People go, 875 00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:07,600 Speaker 4: how did you get all the way down now? 876 00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:09,879 Speaker 1: And poor hud be telling the truth on us as 877 00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:14,040 Speaker 1: a as a group, but do it be but individually, 878 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:16,759 Speaker 1: I don't know if we're already for our individual truth. 879 00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 4: Ace it would be too, it would be a lot. 880 00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 1: AC says the one percent talking taking out the one 881 00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:27,120 Speaker 1: percent sound like an ad for Mickey D's Starbucks. 882 00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:27,200 Speaker 2: And City Bike. 883 00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:30,080 Speaker 1: Chill Guy says, thank you for calling out the whole 884 00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:32,600 Speaker 1: short situation. He's been trying to get that rogan artist 885 00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:36,239 Speaker 1: and thinks he's edgy, slashed provocative, but he's neither. Uh 886 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:40,399 Speaker 1: spiv major just left for three stars and three heart 887 00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:41,759 Speaker 1: emojis and the thumbs up. 888 00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:42,040 Speaker 2: Thank you. 889 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:43,040 Speaker 4: We'll take that. 890 00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:46,680 Speaker 1: The poll for this episode is have you ever done 891 00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:50,560 Speaker 1: an official five K or longer? Fifty three percent said yes, 892 00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:53,960 Speaker 1: Forty six percent have not. Uh, which you know that's 893 00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:54,440 Speaker 1: pretty close. 894 00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:56,520 Speaker 4: That's physically active people out there. 895 00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:58,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys were getting it in. 896 00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:04,239 Speaker 1: Thirty twenty Hot Frosty we got five comments on this. 897 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:08,840 Speaker 1: Let's see and says the Church's Chicken in my neighborhood 898 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:11,160 Speaker 1: closed down and was replaced by Popeye's Chicken in the 899 00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:14,080 Speaker 1: same location, So good things do happen when you least 900 00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:14,759 Speaker 1: expect him to. 901 00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:17,480 Speaker 2: MS barn that's an upgrade. 902 00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:20,400 Speaker 1: MS Barne says, the only time that I was stuck 903 00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:22,719 Speaker 1: watching a holiday rom com was the time that me 904 00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,360 Speaker 1: and my sister spent Thanksgiving in Savannah, Georgia. A couple 905 00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:27,879 Speaker 1: of years ago, my sister hijacked the TV. I had 906 00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,439 Speaker 1: no choice but to watch every god forsaken holiday rom 907 00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,440 Speaker 1: com on the Hallmark Channel because she loves them. In 908 00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:36,879 Speaker 1: true holiday rom com fashion, we did not stay in 909 00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:37,480 Speaker 1: a hotel. 910 00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:39,200 Speaker 2: We stayed in the Bed and Breakfast. 911 00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 1: We walked the city and had Thanksgiving dinner in a nice, 912 00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:45,520 Speaker 1: quiet and quaint restaurant. The adult kid in me wanted 913 00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:48,480 Speaker 1: to blast my Wou tang with anime or snapped playing 914 00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:52,200 Speaker 1: in the background. The only upside was that we discovered 915 00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,880 Speaker 1: a bar behind our Bed and Breakfast where our bartender 916 00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,880 Speaker 1: had me falling off the bar stool flat blasted flat, 917 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:01,719 Speaker 1: flat blasted drunk, and the BnB where the bar was 918 00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:04,120 Speaker 1: may or may not have been haunted. All I have 919 00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:08,080 Speaker 1: to say that holiday rom coms are okay. Oh sounds 920 00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:10,680 Speaker 1: like quite the adventure. Mary says. First of all, I 921 00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:12,799 Speaker 1: did also listen to your Spoiled Movie review on this 922 00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:14,920 Speaker 1: and it's the first time I've listened to that particular 923 00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:15,640 Speaker 1: premium show. 924 00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:16,800 Speaker 2: And wow, I've. 925 00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:20,080 Speaker 1: Been missing out the opening rival the balls deep open Loop. 926 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,520 Speaker 2: That's your daddy. They kill O Yeller. 927 00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,319 Speaker 1: Anyway, I enjoyed this episode and found it interesting to 928 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:29,319 Speaker 1: hear Russell's insight into how the rom comm genre is 929 00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:32,880 Speaker 1: expanded and allowing for different stories. Romance in general is 930 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 1: a huge business and books have all sorts of subgenres likemance, 931 00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:40,279 Speaker 1: romanticy and reverse hairm exactly what you think it is. 932 00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:43,759 Speaker 1: These type of films can get looked down on by 933 00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,520 Speaker 1: film snobs, but it's good on this hard good honest 934 00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,920 Speaker 1: work as far as I'm concerned. It's nice people in 935 00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,760 Speaker 1: a nice storyline that serves a distraction at hard times. Also, 936 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:54,200 Speaker 1: as someone who lives in La not everyone who is 937 00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:57,080 Speaker 1: in the entertainment business during Tom Cruise films or making 938 00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:59,200 Speaker 1: that kind of money. Lots of everyday people in the business. 939 00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:01,240 Speaker 1: He will make a decent living at the types of films. 940 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,360 Speaker 1: So I'm all for keeping people employed. 941 00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,000 Speaker 2: Espread and joy me too. 942 00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:05,520 Speaker 4: Me too. 943 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,439 Speaker 3: And for a lot of people, they this is their 944 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:11,440 Speaker 3: checkout out of reality, like it's life. A lot of 945 00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:14,080 Speaker 3: them is their happy place, you know, and that's okay. 946 00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:16,719 Speaker 3: And the thing is I feel like that about these 947 00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:18,960 Speaker 3: I feel like that about Tyler Perry movies, Like there 948 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,360 Speaker 3: are certain things where people go. This is where I 949 00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:23,560 Speaker 3: go for my joy, you're my fun or whatever, my 950 00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:27,680 Speaker 3: scary movies, whatever your thing is. It's a former entertainment 951 00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:31,000 Speaker 3: and it's a form of escapism from like the world. 952 00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:34,959 Speaker 3: And so the thing is they don't have to be good. 953 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:35,279 Speaker 1: You know. 954 00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:39,080 Speaker 3: Everybody think everything has to be Shakespearean or or else 955 00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:41,360 Speaker 3: just fucking it shouldn't be made, and that's not true. 956 00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:44,719 Speaker 4: Sometimes you know, you go, this is enjoyable. 957 00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,920 Speaker 3: It just a scratch, and I'm satisfied with it no 958 00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,680 Speaker 3: matter how many of these come out, and it's okay. 959 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,919 Speaker 3: You don't have to watch it if it's not your jam, 960 00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,440 Speaker 3: but if it is, yes, and I do agree with 961 00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:56,920 Speaker 3: the with the writer. 962 00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, everybody, I said, everybody ain't making billions out of 963 00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:02,360 Speaker 4: the movie. He's like, so somebody has to make these movies. 964 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:03,000 Speaker 2: Yep. 965 00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,240 Speaker 1: Eve says I had no desire to see Hot Frosty 966 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:09,479 Speaker 1: before this episode, but I'll definitely check it out now. 967 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,640 Speaker 1: I do like cheesy Christmas movies. The ones on Netflix 968 00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:16,960 Speaker 1: are pretty decent. Rona Raphael says Hot Frosty reminds me 969 00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:20,800 Speaker 1: of naughty thoughts, but we're all God's children, so I'll 970 00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:23,839 Speaker 1: return back to Earth. But every time I say it 971 00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:27,560 Speaker 1: I've just start smiling in a sexy, perfect way. I 972 00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:30,600 Speaker 1: wonder why anyway, I'm watching this movie this weekend. Love 973 00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:32,879 Speaker 1: the conversation about writing the movies in general. I see 974 00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,920 Speaker 1: a Blade coming, but what about Blade killing vampires and 975 00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:39,520 Speaker 1: a cold, icy Land. Now, I'll drink some glue en 976 00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:43,799 Speaker 1: to that hot frosty. I could also set up a 977 00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:48,960 Speaker 1: trip to Greenland too. Really enjoyed Russell. But oh, let 978 00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,440 Speaker 1: me check the comments on YouTube, which these will be 979 00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:53,600 Speaker 1: the last one since I forgot to upload that shit. 980 00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:57,560 Speaker 1: Jason says, a podcast featuring a white dude and a 981 00:49:57,640 --> 00:50:00,360 Speaker 1: duke blue devil's cap, and I loved every minute of it. Clearly, 982 00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,720 Speaker 1: I'm on the path to selling out. That's how it happens. 983 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:08,120 Speaker 1: That's why I can't take Rush seriously when he's against 984 00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:13,080 Speaker 1: the Marvel movie industry but wearing the most evil corporation 985 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:17,759 Speaker 1: hat on the screen at the same time. I used 986 00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:21,200 Speaker 1: just says this was delightful and Rod looked so festive. 987 00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:23,640 Speaker 1: Thank you. No one ever really comments I'm the only 988 00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:25,279 Speaker 1: one to go out the way to give y'all looks. 989 00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:27,920 Speaker 1: On this podcast, Karen just wraps up in her blanket 990 00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 1: and covers everything up and only give you like the 991 00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:34,000 Speaker 1: shoulders and up. I'm willing to give y'all like cool shirts, 992 00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:37,240 Speaker 1: but very rarely do I get comments on my cool 993 00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:40,560 Speaker 1: shirts or stuff. So I appreciate it the. 994 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:42,319 Speaker 4: Way. 995 00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:48,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, that sounds like a judgment, but whatever. I just 996 00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:49,920 Speaker 1: like to put on the show for the people. And 997 00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:53,880 Speaker 1: so I had my Christmas hat on and is chrislin 998 00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,719 Speaker 1: Christmas sweater? And so I did that for y'all so 999 00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:59,120 Speaker 1: that we can all have a fun time together. And 1000 00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:01,960 Speaker 1: I'm glad that lead. One person was like, I appreciate that, 1001 00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:07,840 Speaker 1: Rod did that the pole. Do you watch Christmas rom coms? 1002 00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,600 Speaker 1: Yes or no? Fifty one percent, yes, forty eight percent No. 1003 00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:14,960 Speaker 1: I actually think this is very hot. I do not 1004 00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,680 Speaker 1: watch them. This is like my first time really watching one, 1005 00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:21,560 Speaker 1: and it's because my friend wrote it. And I don't 1006 00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,799 Speaker 1: think I would be able to just get into this 1007 00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:27,799 Speaker 1: genre period like all the time. But wow, that is 1008 00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:30,840 Speaker 1: a lot more people than I thought watch this, which 1009 00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:34,040 Speaker 1: explains why they make so many and have so many 1010 00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:34,840 Speaker 1: every year. 1011 00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:38,799 Speaker 3: Which explains the Hallmark Channel. People do not understand. It's 1012 00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:42,200 Speaker 3: a whole fucking channel that's got them dedicated to this shit. 1013 00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:45,319 Speaker 3: Three hundred and sixty five days a year. They all 1014 00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:48,319 Speaker 3: ain't Christmas in but the premise is the same. We're 1015 00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:51,160 Speaker 3: doing this summer, winter, spring, and fall, like they don't 1016 00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,759 Speaker 3: have a whole lass channel because nobody's watching the shit. 1017 00:51:54,080 --> 00:52:00,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're all. It's funny because we're all like we 1018 00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:05,000 Speaker 1: all are being served and we dismiss each other's thing. Right, 1019 00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:09,319 Speaker 1: So like men watch unlimited amounts of NFL football. It 1020 00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,480 Speaker 1: doesn't matter how bad or as it is, what day 1021 00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:15,600 Speaker 1: they move it to, just watch it, right, And yet 1022 00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:17,520 Speaker 1: if someone were to be like you spend on time 1023 00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,480 Speaker 1: watching it's like, shut your ass up, you hater. But 1024 00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:23,520 Speaker 1: we'll shit on people openly that watch those holiday movies, 1025 00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:26,120 Speaker 1: like these are bad movies and you're just wasting times. 1026 00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:28,680 Speaker 1: Like if it's your shit, is your shit. I've watched 1027 00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,560 Speaker 1: a lot of bad football because of the jersey attached 1028 00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,040 Speaker 1: to the team, and like I just got to watch it. 1029 00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,200 Speaker 1: Maybe people like I'm gonna watch this this Christmas movie, 1030 00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:39,320 Speaker 1: maybe to be good, maybe to be bad, but whatever, 1031 00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:41,200 Speaker 1: I spent my time watching it the same way you 1032 00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:44,520 Speaker 1: spend your time watching the Panthers or whoever. 1033 00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:47,719 Speaker 3: And I feel like that about a lot of shit. 1034 00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:49,680 Speaker 3: My thing is, if you like it. I love it, 1035 00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:52,600 Speaker 3: I really need it. And I think instead of just judging, going, 1036 00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:55,359 Speaker 3: oh you like that, you love that, as long as 1037 00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:57,640 Speaker 3: it makes you happy, You're not hurting no nobody. I'm good. 1038 00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:00,520 Speaker 3: And the same thing with people playing video game going 1039 00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:03,880 Speaker 3: to the movies, like, whatever your thing is, that you 1040 00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:07,240 Speaker 3: spend time doing it because you only got a limited 1041 00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:08,880 Speaker 3: amount of time here, so you might as well do 1042 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:10,480 Speaker 3: the things that you enjoyed while you're. 1043 00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:12,279 Speaker 2: Here, all right. 1044 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:15,040 Speaker 1: The last episode of the week is Jesus James, where 1045 00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:19,040 Speaker 1: we had Chris Lamberthon episode thirty twenty one, Ernest dot 1046 00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:22,359 Speaker 1: com says esteemed public intellectuals just wanted to say thank 1047 00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:24,600 Speaker 1: you for making me think about Jalil White and how 1048 00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:27,080 Speaker 1: every black boy with glasses of a certain age, self 1049 00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:30,480 Speaker 1: included got called erkele. Honestly, I want to thank him 1050 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,880 Speaker 1: because I know it was his popularity that got me 1051 00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:36,040 Speaker 1: cast in the factler role in a theme park police 1052 00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:39,759 Speaker 1: academy stunt show my senior summer of my senior year 1053 00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:41,680 Speaker 1: in high school. That was way more money than I 1054 00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:45,040 Speaker 1: was making that as a show technician. So so as 1055 00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:47,560 Speaker 1: sick as I wasn't hearing at school, I was about it. 1056 00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,919 Speaker 1: On Payday. I ain't that the truth didn't last long 1057 00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:52,920 Speaker 1: in that show, but I'm not trying to hijack your 1058 00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:56,520 Speaker 1: podcast stories of fell teenage stunt man. I just wanted 1059 00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,759 Speaker 1: to say good looking out to Jalil ever, even if 1060 00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:02,080 Speaker 1: he ever sees this, though I hope he does because 1061 00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:04,080 Speaker 1: he deserves to have a good black ass time with 1062 00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:06,279 Speaker 1: the rest of us. Love y'all, thanks for the show. 1063 00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,640 Speaker 1: Shout out to chat room shout out. Tommy D says 1064 00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:13,040 Speaker 1: that raising Cane saut story got my memories coming back. 1065 00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:16,000 Speaker 1: In the beginning of the pandemic, I went to the 1066 00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:19,279 Speaker 1: Panda Express drive through for chicken karaokee. I get back 1067 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:21,120 Speaker 1: home and there was no sauce on it like there 1068 00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:23,640 Speaker 1: was supposed to be. I put my pants back on, 1069 00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,560 Speaker 1: went back and showed there was no sauce. The window 1070 00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:29,279 Speaker 1: person explained that because of the new store regulations, they 1071 00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:31,640 Speaker 1: don't pour it on, but it comes in package. They 1072 00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:34,600 Speaker 1: told me I had to pay for the sauce as 1073 00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:37,160 Speaker 1: if it was extra. She tried to make excuses and 1074 00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:40,680 Speaker 1: that sometimes people don't want the sauce. I told her, Madam, 1075 00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:45,000 Speaker 1: if I ordered chicken karaokee, I expected to have karaokee sauce. 1076 00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:49,319 Speaker 3: Thee before it did, she thought for a split second 1077 00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:50,480 Speaker 3: and said, you right. 1078 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:52,640 Speaker 1: I got three packags instead of the standard two, and 1079 00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,680 Speaker 1: I didn't even have to yell logic one today for once. 1080 00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:58,319 Speaker 2: Good for y'all. Good could have ended badly. 1081 00:54:58,320 --> 00:54:59,959 Speaker 4: Right, It's like it's chicken Terarry. 1082 00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:02,200 Speaker 3: And my thing is if you don't want to tell 1083 00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,879 Speaker 3: them on the side, like the fuck serve it together. 1084 00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:06,640 Speaker 2: At list it wasn't chicken tetrazini. 1085 00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:11,040 Speaker 3: Oh I'm glad of when't that? 1086 00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,680 Speaker 1: That's only for that jokes for like one person, if 1087 00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:15,600 Speaker 1: they still listen to the show, if they still listen, 1088 00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:18,040 Speaker 1: as Michelle. 1089 00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:20,120 Speaker 2: If you're out there, that was for you. Apia says 1090 00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:22,160 Speaker 2: interesting to hear this. 1091 00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:24,759 Speaker 1: His perspective on dating, as I always expect men to 1092 00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:27,000 Speaker 1: have an easy experience. Hope I will never have to 1093 00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:29,160 Speaker 1: date again, even if it can be fun. I'm happily 1094 00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:32,200 Speaker 1: married to the introverted mister Apia. Well, I mean that, 1095 00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:36,240 Speaker 1: you know, if that's not something you want, then that's 1096 00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:37,200 Speaker 1: that's good that you have. 1097 00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:40,200 Speaker 2: You know that you're happy, you know, I'll. 1098 00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:42,680 Speaker 3: And just hearing people, it don't matter who you are. 1099 00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:44,600 Speaker 3: It is hard out there for a lot of people. 1100 00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:47,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure. I mean dating has always been a 1101 00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:51,280 Speaker 1: thing as hard, but I feel like in this age 1102 00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:58,120 Speaker 1: of intimate connections with no intimacy, when it comes to 1103 00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:01,600 Speaker 1: the way we connect online for so much, I can 1104 00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:07,160 Speaker 1: imagine it's a very treacherous situation for folks. Ms Bard says, 1105 00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:08,760 Speaker 1: if you are on the dating apps, you were entitled 1106 00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:11,840 Speaker 1: to compensation. God bless anyone that is still on the 1107 00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:13,879 Speaker 1: dating apps. I'm happy that Chris is having a good 1108 00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:16,960 Speaker 1: experience on the apps, even he says, I don't think 1109 00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:19,399 Speaker 1: what Jolie White said was that agreedous, But I think 1110 00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:22,160 Speaker 1: people are ried up over his past comments. There's this 1111 00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:25,160 Speaker 1: revisionist history, as if we weren't watching Family Matters every 1112 00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:28,280 Speaker 1: Friday night, because most black people I know are still 1113 00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,600 Speaker 1: asked what happened to Judy? Asking what happened to Judy 1114 00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:32,360 Speaker 1: when she went up those stairs and we all remember 1115 00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:37,040 Speaker 1: Stepan or Keroll, Stevens Alter ego. Yeah, that's what I said. 1116 00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:37,680 Speaker 2: When i I'm not. 1117 00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:42,799 Speaker 1: I don't remember his past comments, but the response to 1118 00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:44,880 Speaker 1: what he was saying made me and I think I 1119 00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:47,240 Speaker 1: added that caveat when we talked about it, and fucking 1120 00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:51,320 Speaker 1: with black people was this feels like maybe he said 1121 00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:54,880 Speaker 1: some other shit and then people are like, eh, and 1122 00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,640 Speaker 1: also we don't like you. You ain't shit anyway, so 1123 00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:02,080 Speaker 1: that we gonna hold this against you two. I've never 1124 00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:04,680 Speaker 1: been to Raising Knes either, but they're opening one down 1125 00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:07,319 Speaker 1: the road for me this January, so I'll find out 1126 00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:09,440 Speaker 1: for myself if it's good or not. But I can 1127 00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,640 Speaker 1: understand about not getting the sauce. I was at Taco 1128 00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:14,719 Speaker 1: Bell this week and asked for hot sauce. The lady 1129 00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:17,880 Speaker 1: gave me one packet, as if they were rationing that 1130 00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:20,760 Speaker 1: shit out. I was so pissed. But then I went 1131 00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:22,880 Speaker 1: into my condiment drawer at home and I had some 1132 00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,120 Speaker 1: extra Taco Bell sauce in there. I think that's a 1133 00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:28,800 Speaker 1: universal Black experience right there. Yep, I got some. Always. 1134 00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, we always hold on to it. And you know that. 1135 00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:35,120 Speaker 3: The thing is what's so crazy about that is like 1136 00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:38,040 Speaker 3: they buy them in fucking palette, you know what I'm saying. 1137 00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:42,520 Speaker 3: So it's like, hey, dog, like it don't it don't matter, 1138 00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,120 Speaker 3: you know. But I'm pretty sure if somebody tells the 1139 00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:47,360 Speaker 3: person that ain't gonna get yelled out, tells the person 1140 00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:49,440 Speaker 3: who's gonna get yelled at that they have to charge 1141 00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:51,280 Speaker 3: fifty five cents. A lot of times they just scared 1142 00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:53,800 Speaker 3: to say something. They you know, they were like, well, 1143 00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:55,880 Speaker 3: it's gonna be like like I can literally see them 1144 00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:58,200 Speaker 3: frightening in their eyes. But I'll pay for it, like 1145 00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:01,280 Speaker 3: i'm because if I ask you and I understand, I 1146 00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:03,120 Speaker 3: don't want to make it get difficult for either party. 1147 00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:05,240 Speaker 3: So sure I paid a fifty cent, I paid a 1148 00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:09,760 Speaker 3: dollar for the extra sauce. And their relief is like, really, yes, bitch, really, 1149 00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:10,880 Speaker 3: I didn't ask you for no reason. 1150 00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,160 Speaker 4: Now go get the fucking sauce. I'm paying for it now. 1151 00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:15,720 Speaker 3: So now so now if you get an add to me, 1152 00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:17,880 Speaker 3: because now you've got to go do your job, I'm 1153 00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:19,920 Speaker 3: gonna get mad dig because I'm like, well, I'm paying 1154 00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:21,840 Speaker 3: for the shit you tell me, you're gonna charge me 1155 00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:22,320 Speaker 3: for it. 1156 00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:22,880 Speaker 4: Go get it. 1157 00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:24,080 Speaker 2: I think. 1158 00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:24,360 Speaker 6: Uh. 1159 00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:30,160 Speaker 1: The advanced level is also you have to I now 1160 00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:33,480 Speaker 1: have other sauces too, so like if I can get 1161 00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:36,520 Speaker 1: my hands on like an extra Chick fil A Polynesian sauce, 1162 00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:39,080 Speaker 1: keeping it, you know what I'm saying, And if you 1163 00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:42,840 Speaker 1: really want to be greedy like I am, they're in 1164 00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:47,680 Speaker 1: certain areas they're selling in the stores sauces. Chick fil 1165 00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:52,080 Speaker 1: A has store sauces in the store. Bojangles now has sausage. 1166 00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:54,800 Speaker 2: In the store. Do and I love that Bojangles. Them 1167 00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:56,280 Speaker 2: sauces be hitting. I don't know what. 1168 00:58:56,480 --> 00:59:00,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what kind of whole MSG mercury transfer 1169 00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:05,200 Speaker 1: they got in there. They got the recipe just right, yeah, 1170 00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:08,240 Speaker 1: Ronan Raphael. Oh, and then full disclosure. I have to 1171 00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:12,280 Speaker 1: Justin's pulling up. I have to give him the some 1172 00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:13,160 Speaker 1: DVDs for. 1173 00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:14,600 Speaker 2: Screening so we can review movies. 1174 00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:17,960 Speaker 1: Okay, so when he gets to the door, I may 1175 00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:21,200 Speaker 1: have to leave for a second. But you just want 1176 00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,560 Speaker 1: to give everybody heads up. Well, we'll have Careen tell 1177 00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:26,360 Speaker 1: y'all a story from her childhood or some shit. Ronan 1178 00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:29,480 Speaker 1: Raphael says, I used to be on them dating apps. 1179 00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:33,160 Speaker 1: Crazy thing was that they never met the Ronan Raphael. 1180 00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:35,200 Speaker 2: Just as Raphael said. 1181 00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:38,640 Speaker 1: In Spanish, Raphael, I got a lot of terrible advice 1182 00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:42,040 Speaker 1: for my early days in America, and I applied going 1183 00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:45,840 Speaker 1: in from cousins, shipmates and folks that I'll never once 1184 00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:47,960 Speaker 1: myself asked myself, do I like. 1185 00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:49,640 Speaker 2: Where they are in their relationships? 1186 00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,280 Speaker 1: So of course it was the women's fault, and I 1187 00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:55,280 Speaker 1: began to doubt myself. I always swallowed the red pills, 1188 00:59:55,680 --> 00:59:57,760 Speaker 1: but I almost swallowed the red pills. But as the 1189 00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:00,320 Speaker 1: last second, my future self showed up and said, you're 1190 01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:03,040 Speaker 1: going to defend the middle name, snap out of it. 1191 01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:04,920 Speaker 2: So I humbly ask two. 1192 01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:07,760 Speaker 1: Of my favorite lesbian friends to look at my profile 1193 01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:09,920 Speaker 1: on one of the apps. After shaking their heads and 1194 01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:12,640 Speaker 1: laughing for what felt like eternity, they cleaned my profile 1195 01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:15,240 Speaker 1: up and pick photos that made me look sexier and 1196 01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:16,480 Speaker 1: no longer like candey man. 1197 01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:18,160 Speaker 2: Y'all don't know why men take that. 1198 01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:20,640 Speaker 1: One photo that looks like what it would look like 1199 01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:23,720 Speaker 1: if a man was strangling you, especially. 1200 01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:25,840 Speaker 4: Black men, your wholest. 1201 01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:28,480 Speaker 1: Especially black men who do not smile. Karen, go ahead 1202 01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:31,760 Speaker 1: and take it from here. I'll be right back, no problem. 1203 01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:35,360 Speaker 1: And those and it's men of a certain age. It's 1204 01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:38,200 Speaker 1: like they take the camera up undneath they nose, so 1205 01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:40,680 Speaker 1: all I'm seeing is your flaired ass nostrils. 1206 01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:42,920 Speaker 4: It don't make no sense. 1207 01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:47,000 Speaker 3: It's like, damn, go to a photo shoot or something, 1208 01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:49,400 Speaker 3: or get some woman in your life. What you know, 1209 01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:51,280 Speaker 3: because one of them things where you know, if I'm 1210 01:00:51,360 --> 01:00:53,600 Speaker 3: on an app I'm like, damn, nigga, smile. 1211 01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:56,440 Speaker 4: Unless your teeth missing us some shit, smile. 1212 01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:59,760 Speaker 3: Don't nobody want no picture some grumpy ass man looking 1213 01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:00,280 Speaker 3: at them. 1214 01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:03,040 Speaker 4: You know that's the almost that's very creepy. 1215 01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:03,840 Speaker 1: You know. 1216 01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:06,360 Speaker 3: I understand you trying to be cool, but guess what. 1217 01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:10,959 Speaker 3: I'm not your boy, I'm not your dog. You're trying 1218 01:01:10,960 --> 01:01:13,680 Speaker 3: to have sex with me, So I mean, at least 1219 01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:18,560 Speaker 3: appear friendly. Damn, you're scaring the holes in your photos 1220 01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:22,560 Speaker 3: and then be like, ain't nothing. Ain't nobody swiping on me? No, nigga, 1221 01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:25,640 Speaker 3: that's whining about swiping on you on me. It looked 1222 01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:27,760 Speaker 3: like you're standing over the top of me trying to 1223 01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:31,720 Speaker 3: choke me. Their end is going to be a problem. 1224 01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:35,240 Speaker 3: So shout out to you fan for having somebody be like, hey, 1225 01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:36,920 Speaker 3: you got to get better photos. 1226 01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:37,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1227 01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:40,560 Speaker 2: I'm always telling brothers smiling they picks anyway. I don't 1228 01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:42,640 Speaker 2: know why. I'm sure some. 1229 01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:45,960 Speaker 1: Type of racialized trauma or slavery. I don't know why 1230 01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:48,320 Speaker 1: black men don't smiling their photos. So a lot of 1231 01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:52,120 Speaker 1: times the photos men think they look good and are 1232 01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:55,960 Speaker 1: these like either these like like they look hard, like 1233 01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:58,520 Speaker 1: I just got out of jail, and I'm like, you know, 1234 01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:01,080 Speaker 1: damn sure that's some women. You know, I'm not saying 1235 01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:06,200 Speaker 1: it's nobody's, but unless you like, you know, a supermodel 1236 01:02:06,240 --> 01:02:08,000 Speaker 1: ass nigga or something. I don't know why you're not 1237 01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:10,920 Speaker 1: smiling to look inviting and pleasant, like maybe you're laughing 1238 01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:13,200 Speaker 1: at a joke, like it might be a good time 1239 01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:15,680 Speaker 1: to be around, right, instead of that one angle of 1240 01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:17,960 Speaker 1: the picture that men always take that look like like 1241 01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:22,480 Speaker 1: this shit right here. Yet they love that photo like 1242 01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:24,840 Speaker 1: that shit just look like you punched me and I'm 1243 01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:28,480 Speaker 1: trying to get back conscious and you're looking down like 1244 01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:31,440 Speaker 1: like the like one of the people that do reenactments 1245 01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:34,760 Speaker 1: in a murder uh murder show or something. 1246 01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:37,120 Speaker 3: They love that photo and don't be knowing how to 1247 01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:38,680 Speaker 3: crop shit out the background. 1248 01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:40,720 Speaker 4: You'd be like, what is we doing here, nigga? I 1249 01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:41,560 Speaker 4: could see the. 1250 01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:45,040 Speaker 3: Top of the refrigerating with the cereal box. At least 1251 01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:47,760 Speaker 3: take it. Take your picture against the wall that's white 1252 01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:50,520 Speaker 3: or something. It's like, come ont. They'd be like, y'all 1253 01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:53,280 Speaker 3: do too much. That's because we're trying to be inviting. 1254 01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:56,000 Speaker 3: You know, you want women to be sexy, but you 1255 01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:57,800 Speaker 3: don't want to be sexy for us. Come about not 1256 01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:01,720 Speaker 3: like that don't make no sense. Come on, you be 1257 01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:03,080 Speaker 3: too busy trying to do shit for. 1258 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:06,720 Speaker 1: Your boys, like what happened to I think that's one 1259 01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:08,720 Speaker 1: of the reasons that the people that do the ship 1260 01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:12,880 Speaker 1: where they do the like holding a fish or you 1261 01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:15,320 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like that pick like at least 1262 01:03:15,320 --> 01:03:17,720 Speaker 1: you're doing something, and not only if you're holding a fish, 1263 01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:19,600 Speaker 1: you are smiling, like look at this fish I caught. 1264 01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:20,480 Speaker 4: It's accomplishment. 1265 01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like that's that's dope compared to you know, these 1266 01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:27,560 Speaker 1: these profiles where it's just like, uh, here is a 1267 01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:31,160 Speaker 1: person angry. Yeah, here's a person that just got away 1268 01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:34,080 Speaker 1: with this is like what OJ looked like immediately after. 1269 01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:38,240 Speaker 3: So just angry, like you're about to cuss me out, 1270 01:03:38,360 --> 01:03:42,439 Speaker 3: No thank you, I was swipe whatever left then no thing. 1271 01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:46,720 Speaker 1: But yeah, having some especially like people that have an 1272 01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:50,600 Speaker 1: eye for like what women would see and trying to 1273 01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:53,400 Speaker 1: pull a woman. That's that's like that's the hookup shot 1274 01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:54,480 Speaker 1: to having lesbian friends. 1275 01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:57,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's also not ting funny And maybe it's 1276 01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:00,520 Speaker 3: just me as a woman. Men standards are like super low, 1277 01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:02,520 Speaker 3: Like it's like I can come in here, look in 1278 01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:04,920 Speaker 3: any old fucking way. I gotta dig, bitch, so take it. 1279 01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:07,760 Speaker 3: And women are like, at least have some standards. They're like, 1280 01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:09,760 Speaker 3: why I got the right to your pussy? And that's 1281 01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:11,320 Speaker 3: what the problem is, in my opinion for a lot 1282 01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:12,840 Speaker 3: of shit because they don't feel like a lot of 1283 01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:14,920 Speaker 3: men don't feel like they need to put in the effort. 1284 01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:19,040 Speaker 2: Let's see, uh I have to shay. Yeah, game changer. 1285 01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:20,800 Speaker 1: I was going on dates messing up, but on my 1286 01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:23,400 Speaker 1: own terms, men get you a woman friend or a 1287 01:04:23,440 --> 01:04:26,440 Speaker 1: gay friend to fix your profile. See a run in 1288 01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:30,200 Speaker 1: this cheerful giver and still want gives back to this community. 1289 01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:35,600 Speaker 1: Play black capitalists right. No, The poem was are you 1290 01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:39,400 Speaker 1: on dating apps? Yes? Or no? Eighty nine percent of 1291 01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:41,640 Speaker 1: our artists is not eleven percent is. 1292 01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:44,000 Speaker 2: Man? 1293 01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:47,040 Speaker 1: Which I don't know if now I need to know, 1294 01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:50,360 Speaker 1: like is the percentage people being like man, fuck this shit? 1295 01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:52,720 Speaker 1: Or is a percentage just like man, I'm happy or whatever, 1296 01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:54,919 Speaker 1: like I'm not looking in general or what? 1297 01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:56,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's gonna be interested. 1298 01:04:56,560 --> 01:04:59,680 Speaker 3: I would love to see over the past maybe five 1299 01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:02,320 Speaker 3: de seven years that trend, because at one period of time, 1300 01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:05,840 Speaker 3: I think these numbers will hire. But as people begin 1301 01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:08,440 Speaker 3: to get on these apps. And as these apps begin 1302 01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:12,240 Speaker 3: to do things to make them where you consistently pay 1303 01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:14,640 Speaker 3: a monthly fees to have access and shit like that, 1304 01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:16,919 Speaker 3: a lot of people are like, I'm paying for it, 1305 01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:21,280 Speaker 3: but I'm still having a hard time, So why am 1306 01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:23,520 Speaker 3: I paying you, you know, for the service? So I 1307 01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:26,360 Speaker 3: could I could see the trend going down and and 1308 01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:28,800 Speaker 3: not and maybe just me, I could see, particularly people 1309 01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:31,360 Speaker 3: of a certain age, going, I've tried it because that's 1310 01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:33,200 Speaker 3: what everybody said you're supposed to do, and but some 1311 01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:35,320 Speaker 3: people it just don't fit them. They go, these apps 1312 01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:37,480 Speaker 3: don't fit whatever I'm desiring. 1313 01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:40,600 Speaker 1: I think also like we now know the pitfalls and 1314 01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:43,280 Speaker 1: things like when things are new that pinched just like 1315 01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:47,760 Speaker 1: the perfect thing, especially technology, and oh bitcoin is gonna 1316 01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:51,560 Speaker 1: solve this, and NFTs are gonna do that, and dating 1317 01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:53,480 Speaker 1: apps are gonna do this, and Uber's gonna get rid 1318 01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:55,160 Speaker 1: of it, like help you get rid of the racism 1319 01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:57,480 Speaker 1: and taxi And then you do that long enough, you 1320 01:05:57,520 --> 01:05:59,400 Speaker 1: realize people are people and they're still gonna find a 1321 01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:02,160 Speaker 1: way that for suck. And I wonder if, like through 1322 01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:06,320 Speaker 1: the souring on social media generations growing up with Instagram 1323 01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:09,640 Speaker 1: and oversharing, are like, I don't want to make my 1324 01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:13,840 Speaker 1: dating electronic as well on the same Internet that people 1325 01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:17,040 Speaker 1: make me feel inadequate already when they post a slim 1326 01:06:17,120 --> 01:06:19,920 Speaker 1: tummy tee or whatever fuck pictures. 1327 01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:24,680 Speaker 3: And also over the years that these apps are kind 1328 01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:27,160 Speaker 3: of marketed towards us differently, because when the apps first 1329 01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:29,600 Speaker 3: came out, they was literally everywhere. When it was the 1330 01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:31,840 Speaker 3: last time that I can't even remember the last time 1331 01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:34,720 Speaker 3: I've actually seen a dating app on like red Lass TV, 1332 01:06:34,840 --> 01:06:36,920 Speaker 3: Like you might see them every now and then, but 1333 01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:38,720 Speaker 3: nothing how it used to be. It used to be 1334 01:06:38,760 --> 01:06:43,040 Speaker 3: like everywhere mingle meet people you know, used to consistently 1335 01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,720 Speaker 3: see the apps. But over time they they spend the 1336 01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,440 Speaker 3: advertising money, but I don't think they spend they spending 1337 01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:51,520 Speaker 3: a different places. So you're talking about commercials, yes, yeah, 1338 01:06:51,560 --> 01:06:53,680 Speaker 3: I agree, yeah, because before that's why that's not. 1339 01:06:53,680 --> 01:06:56,280 Speaker 2: As many of those commercials. 1340 01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:58,880 Speaker 4: Right, And that's why I think that with that decrease in. 1341 01:06:58,800 --> 01:07:02,360 Speaker 3: That boom boom boom, they're going to other places where 1342 01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:04,520 Speaker 3: the people are. And so I could see them saying 1343 01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:08,440 Speaker 3: if everything is online while we're targeting people in the 1344 01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:12,800 Speaker 3: demographic as TV, when these people are are online. 1345 01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:18,560 Speaker 1: Right, all right, let's get into voicemails for the show. 1346 01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:22,800 Speaker 1: We got one person, Nikki, who left two voicemails. 1347 01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:30,360 Speaker 5: Hey Roddick, Karen, it's Nicole or Niki whatever. So just 1348 01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:34,120 Speaker 5: gotten done listening to the episode with Chris Lambert and 1349 01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:38,840 Speaker 5: the whole entire You're a Little White thing. I did 1350 01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:40,880 Speaker 5: listen to the audiobook. I just finished it a couple 1351 01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:43,000 Speaker 5: of days ago, and I'm not gonna lie. The reason 1352 01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:45,800 Speaker 5: why I went to go listen to it is because 1353 01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:48,240 Speaker 5: it's because of the things I was seeing about him 1354 01:07:48,240 --> 01:07:51,160 Speaker 5: on TikTok, like saying that, because you know how the 1355 01:07:51,200 --> 01:07:55,240 Speaker 5: whole entire rumor thing is, he is a diva and 1356 01:07:55,520 --> 01:07:59,000 Speaker 5: he's difficult to work with and he's like this and 1357 01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:01,840 Speaker 5: blah blah blah. In that they're like, oh, yeah, the book, 1358 01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:04,800 Speaker 5: he's just he's being a diva in the book, and 1359 01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:06,520 Speaker 5: you know, and like, you know, kind of like you 1360 01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:09,480 Speaker 5: know some things of like kind of being like anti black, 1361 01:08:09,520 --> 01:08:11,200 Speaker 5: you know what I mean. And so me, you know, 1362 01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:14,640 Speaker 5: I do my own investigations in plus Spotify because he's 1363 01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:17,519 Speaker 5: fifteen hours of free audiobooks a month with opreim description. 1364 01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:21,519 Speaker 5: So listening to the book and hearing I didn't watch 1365 01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:26,040 Speaker 5: the whole entire you know, talk he did. But from 1366 01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:29,840 Speaker 5: the context of the book and what he said, that's 1367 01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:32,080 Speaker 5: how I know people didn't read the book or that's 1368 01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:34,479 Speaker 5: how I like, you know, cause it's like he wasn't 1369 01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:36,800 Speaker 5: talking about black people. If you actually, if you go 1370 01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:39,479 Speaker 5: back and listen to his book, he is very like, 1371 01:08:39,560 --> 01:08:42,599 Speaker 5: he's very black. He talks about like everyone he talks 1372 01:08:42,640 --> 01:08:45,400 Speaker 5: about hanging out with, we're mainly black. And I want 1373 01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:48,000 Speaker 5: to go look it up on Wikipedia. Most of the 1374 01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:52,439 Speaker 5: girlfriends that is mentioned on Wikipedia, they're all white women. 1375 01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:55,360 Speaker 5: But well, who cares, you know what I mean. So 1376 01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:58,679 Speaker 5: he's not anti black, he's not putting down black people. 1377 01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:01,760 Speaker 5: He talks about that talks about going to UCLA and 1378 01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:04,920 Speaker 5: making sure to go to every you know, black student 1379 01:09:05,040 --> 01:09:10,439 Speaker 5: union concert. So it's very interesting seeing what people are 1380 01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:14,439 Speaker 5: saying and their reaction when in context. Are you know 1381 01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:16,400 Speaker 5: you didn't read the book, did you? You just going 1382 01:09:16,479 --> 01:09:19,760 Speaker 5: off of excerpt? But the internet will Internet. So yeah, 1383 01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:24,799 Speaker 5: that's why I have to say hi, by Oh, I'm 1384 01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:27,080 Speaker 5: this is Niki againn I'm sorry for leaving another message. 1385 01:09:27,080 --> 01:09:29,960 Speaker 5: If I just wanted to say something real quick, you know, like, 1386 01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:32,920 Speaker 5: you know, black design and monoliths. I'm a suburban black girl. 1387 01:09:33,240 --> 01:09:35,960 Speaker 5: I didn't have where I lived, there were no black people. 1388 01:09:36,040 --> 01:09:38,599 Speaker 5: We were literally the fully black people. When I tell 1389 01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:41,800 Speaker 5: white people what city, I what town I grew up in, 1390 01:09:42,080 --> 01:09:45,120 Speaker 5: or yeah, there's a city or whatever, the KKK was 1391 01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:48,439 Speaker 5: living there till the KKK had rallies until like nineteen 1392 01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:51,040 Speaker 5: eighty one. And I grew up in southern California, and 1393 01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:52,760 Speaker 5: that the city I grew up in, and it's also 1394 01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:55,160 Speaker 5: known for the Health Angels, and they did build terminator 1395 01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:57,559 Speaker 5: in the city I grew up in. But you know, 1396 01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:00,479 Speaker 5: growing up as a suburban black girl, and probably didn't 1397 01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:03,280 Speaker 5: help that I married a white German guy. But like, yeah, 1398 01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:06,040 Speaker 5: I you know, sometimes there are black people out there 1399 01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:08,960 Speaker 5: who judge not all black people. There's a small, i'll 1400 01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:11,519 Speaker 5: say a small percentage of black people who judge my 1401 01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:13,920 Speaker 5: blackness on that I didn't grow up in poverty. Like 1402 01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:16,240 Speaker 5: basically they're like, oh, you don't know what it's like 1403 01:10:16,280 --> 01:10:18,000 Speaker 5: to be black because you ain't never been without food, 1404 01:10:18,240 --> 01:10:20,639 Speaker 5: you ain't never been on food stamps. I'm like, uh, 1405 01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:23,519 Speaker 5: majority of black people I know are not in poverty, 1406 01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:26,200 Speaker 5: So why is that? Why is that the marker for 1407 01:10:26,280 --> 01:10:29,759 Speaker 5: blackness because sometimes people do that. But for the most part, 1408 01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:33,080 Speaker 5: I'll be honesty. By the time I got to high 1409 01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:35,719 Speaker 5: school's more there's more black people, and I felt seen. 1410 01:10:35,800 --> 01:10:39,479 Speaker 5: It was a very great experience. But most of the time, 1411 01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:41,559 Speaker 5: even now, most of my friends are black. What they 1412 01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:43,960 Speaker 5: normally say about me is this, They're like, you come 1413 01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:46,679 Speaker 5: off like you know that you probably like Hillary Banks, 1414 01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:49,800 Speaker 5: that you're very you know, like maybe Siditi just like 1415 01:10:49,880 --> 01:10:52,240 Speaker 5: looking at you. But they're like, you are ghetto as hell. 1416 01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:54,479 Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, yeah, I just do know how to 1417 01:10:54,479 --> 01:10:57,519 Speaker 5: code switch very well. So so. But yeah, so I 1418 01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:01,240 Speaker 5: get like when you know, uh Jillo what he's saying. 1419 01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:04,559 Speaker 5: But there are some black people Candye Sowans who grew 1420 01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:07,720 Speaker 5: up in the all white suburbs, and I don't know 1421 01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:10,160 Speaker 5: what happened to them. They lost souls. I do know, 1422 01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:12,760 Speaker 5: you know with the high school some girls like that. 1423 01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:15,400 Speaker 5: That wasn't me. My family was black as fuck and 1424 01:11:16,280 --> 01:11:19,080 Speaker 5: my parents is black, and I just have to fun 1425 01:11:19,160 --> 01:11:20,200 Speaker 5: over the white German guy. 1426 01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:25,880 Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, I think as a rule of thumb, 1427 01:11:26,080 --> 01:11:29,280 Speaker 1: I just try to go by if you're not disparaging 1428 01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:34,040 Speaker 1: black people, I'm not. I am leaving the dating stuff 1429 01:11:34,040 --> 01:11:37,120 Speaker 1: off limits. I know other people don't do that. I 1430 01:11:37,200 --> 01:11:41,880 Speaker 1: know there's a lot of weird to me, weird conflation 1431 01:11:41,960 --> 01:11:47,679 Speaker 1: of macro and micro with someone marries a white person 1432 01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:49,760 Speaker 1: and then people want to like throw them out of 1433 01:11:49,760 --> 01:11:54,519 Speaker 1: blackness or question their commitment to blackness, right, And we 1434 01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:57,640 Speaker 1: recently saw and it doesn't like extend to just athletes 1435 01:11:57,720 --> 01:12:00,920 Speaker 1: or celebrities. I saw people saying this about Nikki Giovanni, 1436 01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:06,680 Speaker 1: who passed this week. My favorite poet, you know, or 1437 01:12:07,200 --> 01:12:12,920 Speaker 1: she's up there, probably my favorite poet. She, her work, 1438 01:12:13,400 --> 01:12:20,120 Speaker 1: her thoughts, her integrity was dedicated to blackness in so 1439 01:12:20,280 --> 01:12:23,680 Speaker 1: many respects. We were always on her mind as a 1440 01:12:23,720 --> 01:12:29,479 Speaker 1: people and as part of herself. And to say, when 1441 01:12:29,520 --> 01:12:32,000 Speaker 1: she passes, here's a picture of her and her wife 1442 01:12:32,120 --> 01:12:35,840 Speaker 1: and it's a white woman, and have people actually question 1443 01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:37,160 Speaker 1: her commitment to blackness. 1444 01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:39,800 Speaker 2: Racism has us all so fucked up? 1445 01:12:39,920 --> 01:12:40,400 Speaker 4: It does? 1446 01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:45,360 Speaker 1: It has also fucked up someone can and like I said, 1447 01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:48,160 Speaker 1: it doesn't. All I'm saying is the Venn diagram is 1448 01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:51,519 Speaker 1: in a complete circle. There are people who are like 1449 01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:55,479 Speaker 1: I refuse to day a black person, and to me, 1450 01:12:56,080 --> 01:12:59,400 Speaker 1: that does feel racist. I don't know how you justify 1451 01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:03,599 Speaker 1: that without saying it's some level of racism. But there 1452 01:13:03,600 --> 01:13:06,800 Speaker 1: are also people who, as you said, the people in 1453 01:13:06,840 --> 01:13:09,080 Speaker 1: their dating pool were the people they were around, and 1454 01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:14,639 Speaker 1: they just happen to be white. There's also this sort 1455 01:13:14,640 --> 01:13:20,040 Speaker 1: of this sort of like child of no One thing 1456 01:13:20,120 --> 01:13:22,880 Speaker 1: that happens to black people in America because of racism, 1457 01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:26,439 Speaker 1: and it's not their fault. And what I mean is 1458 01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:31,040 Speaker 1: it is really highlighted. Well. Howard Bryant in one of 1459 01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:33,280 Speaker 1: his books, really highlighted it. I think it's called The 1460 01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:38,000 Speaker 1: Lost Generation is the chapter and it's from Full Dissident, 1461 01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:41,280 Speaker 1: which is a great book, but he kind of highlighted 1462 01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:46,840 Speaker 1: how black parents seeking to be good black parents a 1463 01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:51,120 Speaker 1: lot of times have to move away from blackness because 1464 01:13:51,280 --> 01:13:55,080 Speaker 1: resources in cities are scattered to whiteness. So all of 1465 01:13:55,120 --> 01:13:58,240 Speaker 1: a sudden, you're the black family moving into that suburb. 1466 01:13:58,479 --> 01:14:00,800 Speaker 1: You're you're the one of the one like you're not. 1467 01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:04,639 Speaker 1: You want to give your kid the best education. Education 1468 01:14:04,760 --> 01:14:06,800 Speaker 1: is racialized in America, Yes it is. They go to 1469 01:14:06,800 --> 01:14:08,479 Speaker 1: a private school, they're not gonna be around a lot 1470 01:14:08,520 --> 01:14:10,640 Speaker 1: of black kids, they live in that neighborhood, They're not 1471 01:14:10,680 --> 01:14:11,760 Speaker 1: gonna be around. 1472 01:14:13,120 --> 01:14:17,200 Speaker 3: So many of us ag and ap and like them. Higher, 1473 01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:20,680 Speaker 3: higher point stuff a lot of times, and a lot 1474 01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:22,759 Speaker 3: of schools theyn't depend on the school in the school 1475 01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:24,880 Speaker 3: system don't even offer some of those classes, and. 1476 01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:27,599 Speaker 4: You like, hey, like I won't. 1477 01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:32,360 Speaker 3: And the thing is every generation wants the best for 1478 01:14:32,520 --> 01:14:37,120 Speaker 3: the next generation, and so some parents had to make 1479 01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:39,559 Speaker 3: a decision. I want the best for my child, and 1480 01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:41,280 Speaker 3: if the best for my child is over there and 1481 01:14:41,360 --> 01:14:43,720 Speaker 3: I can afford it, that's what I'm going to do. Well. 1482 01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:47,400 Speaker 1: What's fucked up is that in America, even picking the 1483 01:14:47,439 --> 01:14:54,479 Speaker 1: best for black people is picking a consequence. So the 1484 01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:59,240 Speaker 1: best in many cases is racialized in America. There are 1485 01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:02,240 Speaker 1: some cities you are privileged enough that the best is 1486 01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:06,920 Speaker 1: also black and culturally attuned to you, but many cases 1487 01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:10,599 Speaker 1: it's not. And so these kids putting these situations over 1488 01:15:10,680 --> 01:15:14,280 Speaker 1: and over again. And we see many times black people 1489 01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:15,960 Speaker 1: find black people. 1490 01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:17,519 Speaker 2: Period, meaning I don't. 1491 01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:19,720 Speaker 1: This is why we don't quit about the pu p 1492 01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:23,880 Speaker 1: WI versus HBCU thing on our podcast because last time 1493 01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:26,800 Speaker 1: I checked p w IY having black student unions, maybe 1494 01:15:26,840 --> 01:15:30,759 Speaker 1: having black fraternity sororities. Do black people find black people 1495 01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:33,160 Speaker 1: they hang out? So I'm not gonna question you as 1496 01:15:33,160 --> 01:15:37,519 Speaker 1: an outsider. I'm not gonna trust just cynically suspect you 1497 01:15:38,120 --> 01:15:41,599 Speaker 1: just because you're you, you have a white person as 1498 01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:46,080 Speaker 1: your partner, or because you grew up around white folks, 1499 01:15:46,360 --> 01:15:48,720 Speaker 1: And a lot of times we also make a penalty 1500 01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:51,960 Speaker 1: out of that. It's a joke to those people, to 1501 01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:54,880 Speaker 1: us when we take like Hillary Banks is played as 1502 01:15:54,920 --> 01:15:58,160 Speaker 1: a joke character even though she's part of black and 1503 01:15:58,760 --> 01:16:01,240 Speaker 1: representation matters. And I think it's actually kind of dope 1504 01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:06,280 Speaker 1: that there's a wide swath of classism and different racial 1505 01:16:06,320 --> 01:16:09,599 Speaker 1: experiences within a show like Fresh Prince. It's a good 1506 01:16:09,680 --> 01:16:14,400 Speaker 1: subtext to it. But also in those formative years, there 1507 01:16:14,400 --> 01:16:17,559 Speaker 1: are people who hold this stuff forever, and so someone 1508 01:16:18,360 --> 01:16:20,400 Speaker 1: some people went down a different path. You asked about 1509 01:16:20,400 --> 01:16:21,960 Speaker 1: canvas owners, And I'm not saying this is what happened 1510 01:16:21,960 --> 01:16:23,680 Speaker 1: to Candas Owns. I'm not excusing the way she is, 1511 01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:26,240 Speaker 1: but I'm saying some people go down a different path 1512 01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:28,360 Speaker 1: where your cousins may have picked on you, like you 1513 01:16:28,439 --> 01:16:31,680 Speaker 1: think you the white girl with your booji ass, but 1514 01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:33,559 Speaker 1: they still love you, and they your cousins, and you 1515 01:16:33,600 --> 01:16:35,920 Speaker 1: were able to with a good sense of humor, taking 1516 01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:38,080 Speaker 1: in stride and be like this is part of blackness. 1517 01:16:38,080 --> 01:16:39,519 Speaker 2: Too, they're picking on me. 1518 01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:41,720 Speaker 1: That's part of blackness, the same thing we see with 1519 01:16:41,840 --> 01:16:44,519 Speaker 1: light skinned people. Right with light skinned people, some of 1520 01:16:44,560 --> 01:16:47,520 Speaker 1: them go down the path of anti blackness and colorism 1521 01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:50,439 Speaker 1: because they go back to when I was twelve someone 1522 01:16:50,520 --> 01:16:53,479 Speaker 1: said something and I couldn't I'll never get over it. 1523 01:16:54,560 --> 01:16:57,040 Speaker 1: Or there are many that have that sense of humor, 1524 01:16:57,080 --> 01:16:59,800 Speaker 1: community or whatever, and they're like, Okay, you picked on me, 1525 01:17:00,280 --> 01:17:02,760 Speaker 1: you got me. I do have this privilege, or I 1526 01:17:02,800 --> 01:17:05,960 Speaker 1: do look different or whatever. You call me white, But 1527 01:17:06,120 --> 01:17:08,720 Speaker 1: I know it's from a place of us loving each 1528 01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:11,479 Speaker 1: other in this community, and it's not from a place 1529 01:17:11,520 --> 01:17:13,919 Speaker 1: of us trying to harm each other in this community. 1530 01:17:14,560 --> 01:17:17,320 Speaker 1: And that only works if you understand like privilege and 1531 01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:19,960 Speaker 1: those dynamics and you truly have trust, and not everyone 1532 01:17:20,040 --> 01:17:22,880 Speaker 1: has that right. So, and now that the Internet has 1533 01:17:22,880 --> 01:17:25,599 Speaker 1: made us more connected and disconnected, at the same time, 1534 01:17:26,080 --> 01:17:29,479 Speaker 1: you got people commenting on folks whole lives off a 1535 01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:32,400 Speaker 1: picture of them with a white person they married. And 1536 01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:36,720 Speaker 1: it's crazy because, like like I said, Nikki, I when 1537 01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:40,400 Speaker 1: I think of blackness, I think of Nikki Giovanni period. 1538 01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:45,960 Speaker 1: To have people go white wife just how they do 1539 01:17:46,600 --> 01:17:50,639 Speaker 1: like Okay, so yeah, and in that What the chapter 1540 01:17:50,640 --> 01:17:53,720 Speaker 1: I was talking about is the Lost Tribe of Integration, 1541 01:17:54,360 --> 01:17:58,880 Speaker 1: which is a chapter from Full Dissident, which is a 1542 01:17:58,920 --> 01:18:01,360 Speaker 1: book by Howard b a great book by the way. 1543 01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:04,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, and maybe it's just me and the way I 1544 01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:10,000 Speaker 3: grew up when it comes to blackness, particularly here in America. 1545 01:18:10,040 --> 01:18:12,479 Speaker 3: I can't speak for the places when it comes to blackness. 1546 01:18:12,479 --> 01:18:16,960 Speaker 3: Here in America, I am like, as long as you 1547 01:18:17,040 --> 01:18:20,320 Speaker 3: are not anti black, I don't care. I don't care 1548 01:18:20,360 --> 01:18:22,080 Speaker 3: who you're dating, who you're fucking, who you're marry, who 1549 01:18:22,080 --> 01:18:25,360 Speaker 3: your tree line is, like, I don't care. And no 1550 01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:30,240 Speaker 3: matter what your economic background is, your experience is a 1551 01:18:30,280 --> 01:18:33,320 Speaker 3: Black experience and can't nobody take. 1552 01:18:33,160 --> 01:18:33,920 Speaker 4: That away from you. 1553 01:18:34,680 --> 01:18:37,559 Speaker 3: And the thing about interneting and being online, they want 1554 01:18:37,560 --> 01:18:39,800 Speaker 3: to quote unquote put people in blackness, kick people out 1555 01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:42,240 Speaker 3: of blackness, and for some people that has always been 1556 01:18:42,240 --> 01:18:44,519 Speaker 3: a fear of theirs. I've never really had that fear, 1557 01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:47,720 Speaker 3: so at first it was hard for me to understand that. 1558 01:18:47,800 --> 01:18:50,080 Speaker 4: But as I got older, I was like, oh, okay, I. 1559 01:18:50,080 --> 01:18:53,280 Speaker 3: Began to have more empathy and compassion for people that 1560 01:18:53,400 --> 01:18:56,080 Speaker 3: are black that have had other experiences, because in my mind, 1561 01:18:56,120 --> 01:18:56,519 Speaker 3: I was like, well. 1562 01:18:56,479 --> 01:18:58,160 Speaker 4: Nigga, you a nigga the fuck were talking about? 1563 01:18:58,200 --> 01:19:02,400 Speaker 3: But I was like, Oh, it's different for people from 1564 01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:04,880 Speaker 3: different backgrounds and things like that, and being the only 1565 01:19:04,920 --> 01:19:07,160 Speaker 3: one and I've never had to live that experience, so 1566 01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:10,080 Speaker 3: I wouldn't understand. But as far as I'm concerned, you 1567 01:19:10,160 --> 01:19:11,400 Speaker 3: are still black to me. 1568 01:19:12,320 --> 01:19:15,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't like I said, Yeah, everything you 1569 01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:19,479 Speaker 1: said I agree with. All right, last segment, we gotta 1570 01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:24,320 Speaker 1: get to these we gotta get to these emails that 1571 01:19:24,439 --> 01:19:56,760 Speaker 1: y'all said. All right, emails, our girl said, what's up? 1572 01:19:56,800 --> 01:19:57,040 Speaker 4: Girl? 1573 01:19:57,160 --> 01:20:00,760 Speaker 1: She writes in episode thirty twenty one, Number one, use 1574 01:20:00,800 --> 01:20:02,879 Speaker 1: the hip hop convos for your ig clips. 1575 01:20:02,920 --> 01:20:04,679 Speaker 2: Love love love the music takes. 1576 01:20:04,880 --> 01:20:07,720 Speaker 1: Okay, you know what. That's a good idea. I was 1577 01:20:07,720 --> 01:20:11,519 Speaker 1: seeing that in two TDE is hosting a red wedding 1578 01:20:11,560 --> 01:20:16,479 Speaker 1: for the rap industry Kendrick Tyler, Doshi and Solona Sissa. 1579 01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:19,920 Speaker 1: I really didn't see the conscious artists causing more conversation 1580 01:20:20,120 --> 01:20:22,559 Speaker 1: than the trap, drill, pussy rap. Right. 1581 01:20:22,720 --> 01:20:23,719 Speaker 2: I didn't see that either. 1582 01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:25,640 Speaker 1: I would Yeah, if you would have asked me how 1583 01:20:25,680 --> 01:20:27,320 Speaker 1: twenty twenty four was going, I would have been like 1584 01:20:27,439 --> 01:20:31,759 Speaker 1: another year of pussy rap being on top, Like they've 1585 01:20:31,760 --> 01:20:33,439 Speaker 1: been killing it. The women are all the ones. It 1586 01:20:33,479 --> 01:20:36,479 Speaker 1: seemed like they really trying, but man, they kind of 1587 01:20:36,520 --> 01:20:40,120 Speaker 1: came through. And I love this if it's true. I 1588 01:20:40,200 --> 01:20:46,320 Speaker 1: love if Kendrick and Sissa and Doche are together because 1589 01:20:46,400 --> 01:20:48,800 Speaker 1: there's something about that that is so dope with it 1590 01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:53,360 Speaker 1: being Kendrick going on tour with two women. 1591 01:20:53,600 --> 01:20:55,720 Speaker 4: Like that's that speaks vigns. 1592 01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:57,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I think he don't do all the like, 1593 01:20:58,080 --> 01:21:00,400 Speaker 1: I'm not going back and forth with y'all. I'm doing 1594 01:21:00,439 --> 01:21:03,200 Speaker 1: no performing on the internet of trying to like prove 1595 01:21:03,280 --> 01:21:06,519 Speaker 1: my bona fides. You know, you want to write an 1596 01:21:06,600 --> 01:21:10,640 Speaker 1: article and be like Kendrick Lamar and the real misogyny 1597 01:21:10,680 --> 01:21:14,479 Speaker 1: of this beef with Drake. Fine, fine, when me and 1598 01:21:14,560 --> 01:21:22,400 Speaker 1: my homies, my friend Labelmate and Deshi, who I basically 1599 01:21:22,439 --> 01:21:25,559 Speaker 1: said is one of them ones and got next, when 1600 01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:29,160 Speaker 1: they're on tour in these stadiums with me, then you 1601 01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:31,519 Speaker 1: can just see what the work I'm doing is. It's 1602 01:21:31,560 --> 01:21:34,240 Speaker 1: like how you didn't respond when Drake said you don't 1603 01:21:34,240 --> 01:21:35,280 Speaker 1: even put money in the hood. 1604 01:21:36,760 --> 01:21:39,679 Speaker 2: Hey, guys, the pop out is free to everybody. 1605 01:21:39,680 --> 01:21:41,760 Speaker 1: See you guys at the pop out. By the way, 1606 01:21:41,840 --> 01:21:45,559 Speaker 1: we just did a Christmas concert for Compton. Yeah, like 1607 01:21:45,600 --> 01:21:46,240 Speaker 1: for the kids. 1608 01:21:46,400 --> 01:21:46,760 Speaker 4: I don't. 1609 01:21:46,880 --> 01:21:49,240 Speaker 1: Why would I be on here trying to prove anything? 1610 01:21:49,520 --> 01:21:51,800 Speaker 1: Just you can if you pay attention to see how 1611 01:21:51,800 --> 01:21:55,280 Speaker 1: I'm so anyway. I like that, But you know that 1612 01:21:55,360 --> 01:21:58,599 Speaker 1: being said, Pussy Rad's still doing good. Okay, it's long, Okay, 1613 01:21:58,640 --> 01:21:59,840 Speaker 1: the girls are still out here. 1614 01:22:00,360 --> 01:22:01,040 Speaker 4: Ain't nothing on with a. 1615 01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:04,559 Speaker 1: Little bit of puss rap Hey, Jane Luthor whacked out, 1616 01:22:04,640 --> 01:22:08,200 Speaker 1: murals balloon, Nissan Ultimate Day on everybody's head. Yes, they 1617 01:22:08,280 --> 01:22:12,400 Speaker 1: are three? Have you heard l me el me in? 1618 01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:13,680 Speaker 2: No, I have not. 1619 01:22:13,800 --> 01:22:16,559 Speaker 1: I'm a rap girly. But my boy put R and 1620 01:22:16,600 --> 01:22:18,719 Speaker 1: B on his back and he running with it. Okay, 1621 01:22:18,840 --> 01:22:20,479 Speaker 1: see it, Okay, I gotta check that out. 1622 01:22:21,160 --> 01:22:23,479 Speaker 2: I had that to Spotify right now. 1623 01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:27,120 Speaker 1: I like some good R and B because I will 1624 01:22:27,160 --> 01:22:31,960 Speaker 1: forget Okay, all right, I'm adding this artist I'm following, 1625 01:22:32,080 --> 01:22:34,920 Speaker 1: all right, We'll get on it. Uh See. It also says, 1626 01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:38,120 Speaker 1: oh my god, Umar has been making sense lately. I 1627 01:22:38,160 --> 01:22:42,320 Speaker 1: thought it was just me three crying emojis gotta be vigiling. 1628 01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:45,280 Speaker 3: Right because eventually he gonna he gonna go left. Y'all, 1629 01:22:45,360 --> 01:22:47,720 Speaker 3: don't don't file for the trap though. That's how he 1630 01:22:47,800 --> 01:22:50,000 Speaker 3: get people, and then all of a sudden he he 1631 01:22:50,120 --> 01:22:51,720 Speaker 3: go a little bit off and y'all be like, but 1632 01:22:51,800 --> 01:22:53,840 Speaker 3: he was right seventy five percent of the time. 1633 01:22:53,960 --> 01:22:58,200 Speaker 1: No, I'll be looking at them clips like, okay, it's 1634 01:22:58,240 --> 01:23:00,519 Speaker 1: ten minutes long. Let's see all along I or last 1635 01:23:01,000 --> 01:23:03,400 Speaker 1: I got the minute ten was like about the clap, 1636 01:23:03,439 --> 01:23:06,120 Speaker 1: I said, oh god, unfollowed block. 1637 01:23:06,479 --> 01:23:07,880 Speaker 4: Let me get out of the room. 1638 01:23:07,880 --> 01:23:10,479 Speaker 1: Because hey, you know, I'm just one visitor, a one 1639 01:23:10,560 --> 01:23:14,240 Speaker 1: video way for him being like, you know, and that's 1640 01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:16,760 Speaker 1: and that's why gay people didn't exist in Africa. And 1641 01:23:16,760 --> 01:23:19,160 Speaker 1: having been oh, that is right, that is right. He's crazy. 1642 01:23:20,640 --> 01:23:21,799 Speaker 4: Here's a link in my school. 1643 01:23:22,400 --> 01:23:24,240 Speaker 1: Well, he always addressed to school with he go viral 1644 01:23:24,320 --> 01:23:26,920 Speaker 1: and he keeps saying, y'all done gave money to other 1645 01:23:26,920 --> 01:23:30,240 Speaker 1: people for years. Y'all not even gonna give me money 1646 01:23:30,240 --> 01:23:33,040 Speaker 1: for years to create a school. I'm like, nigga, you're 1647 01:23:33,040 --> 01:23:34,800 Speaker 1: doing tot us. It was gonna be open by now. 1648 01:23:34,960 --> 01:23:39,799 Speaker 1: That's not my fault. John Wright saying lives versus change, 1649 01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:43,720 Speaker 1: good morning and riding care Uh. The thing that is 1650 01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:46,400 Speaker 1: even more ridiculous about the pearl clutching about Biden changing 1651 01:23:46,439 --> 01:23:48,800 Speaker 1: his stands on the quote unquote lying about partner the 1652 01:23:48,880 --> 01:23:51,160 Speaker 1: hunter is that I see so much of that sentiment 1653 01:23:51,200 --> 01:23:55,000 Speaker 1: coming from activist types whose whole world revolves around getting 1654 01:23:55,040 --> 01:23:57,519 Speaker 1: politicians to change their stances, regardless of what they promised 1655 01:23:57,560 --> 01:23:59,760 Speaker 1: do in the past. Right, if Biden changed stances in 1656 01:23:59,760 --> 01:24:02,120 Speaker 1: a way they approved of, they would celebrate it or 1657 01:24:02,160 --> 01:24:05,719 Speaker 1: more likely ignored criticize him for doing it wrong. Let's 1658 01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:08,439 Speaker 1: be real. Yep, it's such bullshit and not any different 1659 01:24:08,479 --> 01:24:11,519 Speaker 1: than when Republicans like McConnell pretended to be principled. But 1660 01:24:11,640 --> 01:24:14,040 Speaker 1: we all know, damn well, it's really about whether or 1661 01:24:14,080 --> 01:24:15,479 Speaker 1: not they agree or like the result. 1662 01:24:15,800 --> 01:24:16,679 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah. 1663 01:24:16,720 --> 01:24:20,000 Speaker 1: I think it's all a lot of disingenuous conversation around it, 1664 01:24:20,040 --> 01:24:21,400 Speaker 1: and I'm not entertaining it. 1665 01:24:21,400 --> 01:24:23,240 Speaker 2: I think it's a pretty simple truth. 1666 01:24:23,360 --> 01:24:27,320 Speaker 1: And based on if you like him, believe him, trust 1667 01:24:27,360 --> 01:24:29,360 Speaker 1: them thing he's a man of his word, or you 1668 01:24:29,479 --> 01:24:31,760 Speaker 1: just wanted to get the clout that bases that will 1669 01:24:31,760 --> 01:24:34,439 Speaker 1: base how you go if he lied or if he 1670 01:24:34,520 --> 01:24:37,640 Speaker 1: changed his mind. Either way, it ultimately doesn't matter to me. 1671 01:24:37,720 --> 01:24:40,559 Speaker 1: It's a footnote in history and good for him and 1672 01:24:40,600 --> 01:24:41,200 Speaker 1: good for her son. 1673 01:24:41,920 --> 01:24:42,120 Speaker 4: Rod. 1674 01:24:42,160 --> 01:24:44,400 Speaker 1: I'm with you on being over all the election result 1675 01:24:44,439 --> 01:24:46,720 Speaker 1: theories and explanations, but for a different reason. I think 1676 01:24:46,720 --> 01:24:49,280 Speaker 1: there's a real possibility that we are all trying to 1677 01:24:49,280 --> 01:24:50,880 Speaker 1: find a way to make sense of something that just 1678 01:24:50,960 --> 01:24:54,760 Speaker 1: may not make sense. Voters are so damn fickle, uninformed, impulsive, 1679 01:24:55,080 --> 01:24:59,479 Speaker 1: lacking any real coherent worldview coherent worldview, that any attempt 1680 01:24:59,520 --> 01:25:02,320 Speaker 1: to fit the behavior and the logic could be fatally flogged. 1681 01:25:02,479 --> 01:25:04,560 Speaker 1: Chris Hayes used to canvas and do focus groups with 1682 01:25:04,640 --> 01:25:07,240 Speaker 1: undecided voters before he became a journalist, and he talked 1683 01:25:07,280 --> 01:25:09,880 Speaker 1: about how when he asked undecided independent voters what issue 1684 01:25:09,960 --> 01:25:12,120 Speaker 1: might make you change who you vote for, the most 1685 01:25:12,120 --> 01:25:15,400 Speaker 1: common response was basically was an issue and a blank stare. 1686 01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:18,920 Speaker 1: They didn't even understand the concept of what an issue was. Likewise, 1687 01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:23,080 Speaker 1: we've seen that when asked about specific policy mini voters 1688 01:25:23,080 --> 01:25:26,439 Speaker 1: will flip from currently supporting it to completely opposing it 1689 01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:29,719 Speaker 1: with only a talent time meaningless change in the wording, 1690 01:25:30,320 --> 01:25:32,360 Speaker 1: all while being completely unaware of the contradiction. 1691 01:25:32,479 --> 01:25:34,360 Speaker 2: Time and time again, American voters. 1692 01:25:34,040 --> 01:25:36,120 Speaker 1: Choose to let the other party have a chance to lead, 1693 01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:40,479 Speaker 1: and anytime they aren't happy, no matter how bad that 1694 01:25:40,560 --> 01:25:43,599 Speaker 1: party is. Who caused the mess is performative contraying bullshit, 1695 01:25:43,880 --> 01:25:46,240 Speaker 1: and I think there are several million of these dumbass 1696 01:25:46,280 --> 01:25:49,360 Speaker 1: voters in every presidential election, more than enough to account 1697 01:25:49,360 --> 01:25:52,080 Speaker 1: for the win margins who pulled the lever based on 1698 01:25:52,360 --> 01:25:55,599 Speaker 1: basically nothing but vibes and whether political squirrel captured their 1699 01:25:55,680 --> 01:25:59,240 Speaker 1: attention just before election day. That's not the downplay the 1700 01:25:59,240 --> 01:26:02,360 Speaker 1: effects a racist misogyny, which are obviously huge. But I 1701 01:26:02,400 --> 01:26:04,800 Speaker 1: feel like we overlook how criminally irrational many of our 1702 01:26:04,840 --> 01:26:07,479 Speaker 1: voters are. We look. We love to think that this 1703 01:26:07,600 --> 01:26:11,559 Speaker 1: policy or that worldview will explain election results, but there 1704 01:26:11,600 --> 01:26:13,559 Speaker 1: have been studies that show that things like whether it 1705 01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:15,880 Speaker 1: rains or not or whose name is first on the 1706 01:26:15,920 --> 01:26:19,679 Speaker 1: ballot had the butterfly effect power to swing type margin 1707 01:26:19,760 --> 01:26:22,080 Speaker 1: elections one way or another. It sucks, and it's utterly 1708 01:26:22,160 --> 01:26:25,160 Speaker 1: terrified that this is why we all are more meaningful. 1709 01:26:25,840 --> 01:26:28,160 Speaker 1: We all want more meaningful theories on what the terms 1710 01:26:28,200 --> 01:26:31,320 Speaker 1: our fate. Thanks for attending my ted top care. Go ahead, 1711 01:26:31,360 --> 01:26:31,759 Speaker 1: you get. 1712 01:26:31,640 --> 01:26:32,879 Speaker 4: This one first, okay. 1713 01:26:32,960 --> 01:26:37,080 Speaker 3: And the thing is, even with what you said, all 1714 01:26:37,160 --> 01:26:39,479 Speaker 3: this is based in reality. Even though all these fickle 1715 01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:41,360 Speaker 3: people out there, they live in a real world and 1716 01:26:41,400 --> 01:26:45,559 Speaker 3: they are impacted by different things even though they say things, 1717 01:26:45,600 --> 01:26:48,160 Speaker 3: it's not about what they say, It's about what they do. 1718 01:26:48,439 --> 01:26:50,560 Speaker 3: And that's what I'm concerned about. Good, fuck about what 1719 01:26:50,600 --> 01:26:53,600 Speaker 3: they say. Fuck about if they quote unquote claim they do. 1720 01:26:53,720 --> 01:26:59,920 Speaker 3: I don't care. We all are being impacted by racism, homophobia, sexist, 1721 01:27:00,200 --> 01:27:04,599 Speaker 3: all these ISM's. We're being consistently impacted by them. 1722 01:27:04,680 --> 01:27:06,960 Speaker 4: Knowingly and unknowingly. 1723 01:27:07,000 --> 01:27:11,840 Speaker 3: We're all being impacted by them. So, yes, it might 1724 01:27:11,920 --> 01:27:16,120 Speaker 3: sound irrational and illogical, yes, but they're all rooted into 1725 01:27:16,240 --> 01:27:19,680 Speaker 3: something because when these people vote, they go in there 1726 01:27:20,479 --> 01:27:23,120 Speaker 3: and you might have a tiny, tiny percentage that it 1727 01:27:23,400 --> 01:27:25,479 Speaker 3: might flip a call up and say, fuck it, I'm 1728 01:27:25,520 --> 01:27:28,800 Speaker 3: just gonna press something. But the reality is it's too 1729 01:27:28,840 --> 01:27:33,680 Speaker 3: many Americans that don't want to be truthful with themselves. 1730 01:27:34,200 --> 01:27:36,120 Speaker 4: They don't want to admit. 1731 01:27:36,720 --> 01:27:39,639 Speaker 3: That they voted for this shit because they wanted this shit, 1732 01:27:39,720 --> 01:27:41,920 Speaker 3: because it couldn't be a woman, it couldn't be black, 1733 01:27:42,040 --> 01:27:44,519 Speaker 3: or whatever the things is. I don't give fuck about 1734 01:27:44,560 --> 01:27:48,000 Speaker 3: these fucking polls. I'm looking at the end result of 1735 01:27:48,080 --> 01:27:51,200 Speaker 3: who won. That that matters to me more than what 1736 01:27:51,240 --> 01:27:53,200 Speaker 3: they say on a pole and what they sound on 1737 01:27:53,200 --> 01:27:57,679 Speaker 3: the interview and this and the undecided voter does not exist. 1738 01:27:57,760 --> 01:27:58,320 Speaker 4: Don't give fuck. 1739 01:27:58,560 --> 01:28:01,320 Speaker 3: I do not I do not care about those people. 1740 01:28:01,479 --> 01:28:04,040 Speaker 3: They don't exist. They pop up every four years. They 1741 01:28:04,080 --> 01:28:06,960 Speaker 3: got damn Jill stying. Nobody gives a fuck about them. 1742 01:28:07,080 --> 01:28:10,080 Speaker 3: Nobody nobody's asking in your local election. When y'all have 1743 01:28:10,160 --> 01:28:13,000 Speaker 3: local elections, nobody pulls the people up going what do 1744 01:28:13,120 --> 01:28:16,720 Speaker 3: you decided about the mayor? Are you undecided? What do 1745 01:28:16,720 --> 01:28:18,320 Speaker 3: you think about this judge? And you want to know 1746 01:28:18,439 --> 01:28:19,879 Speaker 3: people know what the fuck they're. 1747 01:28:19,640 --> 01:28:22,320 Speaker 4: Going to do. They don't want to be judged. They 1748 01:28:22,320 --> 01:28:23,880 Speaker 4: don't want people to look at them. They don't want 1749 01:28:23,880 --> 01:28:25,679 Speaker 4: to be called racist, they don't want to be called sections. 1750 01:28:25,800 --> 01:28:28,280 Speaker 4: They don't want to be called misogyns. They don't want that. 1751 01:28:28,520 --> 01:28:31,519 Speaker 3: So they will pretend and they will do these things 1752 01:28:31,640 --> 01:28:34,400 Speaker 3: to make people think they're irrational and the logical they're 1753 01:28:34,479 --> 01:28:37,559 Speaker 3: Rather you have that, rather you think that that is 1754 01:28:37,600 --> 01:28:40,040 Speaker 3: a true statement, then what the reality is? 1755 01:28:40,120 --> 01:28:41,920 Speaker 4: What it is? I look at the result? When the 1756 01:28:42,000 --> 01:28:42,639 Speaker 4: fuck about. 1757 01:28:42,439 --> 01:28:45,160 Speaker 3: These polls or these got them numbers? You voted for 1758 01:28:45,200 --> 01:28:47,920 Speaker 3: this shit because you want this shit. How people vote 1759 01:28:48,000 --> 01:28:50,840 Speaker 3: is based in some reality. It's not just tossed that 1760 01:28:50,960 --> 01:28:52,439 Speaker 3: in the air. Like I said, you might have a 1761 01:28:52,520 --> 01:28:56,360 Speaker 3: tiny percent, but most people are voting from somewhere. 1762 01:28:56,520 --> 01:28:58,040 Speaker 4: They don't vote just because. 1763 01:28:59,080 --> 01:29:03,120 Speaker 1: So reading all of that, I wrote down some thoughts 1764 01:29:03,200 --> 01:29:06,400 Speaker 1: and here's the thing I will say. It's the racism 1765 01:29:06,439 --> 01:29:10,320 Speaker 1: and the sexism, and that's not a conspiracy. It's rooted 1766 01:29:10,360 --> 01:29:13,960 Speaker 1: in the undependings of this country and it can't be dismissed. 1767 01:29:14,400 --> 01:29:19,680 Speaker 1: Even like what you'll notice is in your thesis you 1768 01:29:20,280 --> 01:29:25,320 Speaker 1: actually winnowed everything down to the swing voters and the undecided. 1769 01:29:26,400 --> 01:29:30,880 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about them for real. There's only three 1770 01:29:30,960 --> 01:29:34,680 Speaker 1: types of voters in this last election. There's people that 1771 01:29:34,840 --> 01:29:39,400 Speaker 1: voted for some level of either progress or preservation of life. Right, 1772 01:29:39,439 --> 01:29:44,640 Speaker 1: people that vote Kama Harris forty something percent. Right of 1773 01:29:44,720 --> 01:29:48,120 Speaker 1: the people who did vote, there's a slight majority of 1774 01:29:48,200 --> 01:29:52,200 Speaker 1: people that voted for Donald Trump, which obviously, you know, 1775 01:29:52,479 --> 01:29:56,240 Speaker 1: terrible people that are okay with terrible things or want 1776 01:29:56,320 --> 01:29:59,759 Speaker 1: terrible things to happen. And then the only other option 1777 01:29:59,880 --> 01:30:03,759 Speaker 1: is people who are just kind of bystanders who don't 1778 01:30:03,840 --> 01:30:08,200 Speaker 1: mind watching this and not getting involved. It's the people 1779 01:30:08,240 --> 01:30:11,479 Speaker 1: watching someone get beating the street and going both about 1780 01:30:11,479 --> 01:30:14,160 Speaker 1: to say to me or I can't be bothered whatever. 1781 01:30:14,880 --> 01:30:20,479 Speaker 1: So when you're talking about broad sweeping theories or like 1782 01:30:20,840 --> 01:30:22,760 Speaker 1: coming out of this, what was it that changed this 1783 01:30:22,920 --> 01:30:25,800 Speaker 1: and the other? I think if you want to talk 1784 01:30:25,840 --> 01:30:29,599 Speaker 1: about that handful of people that really were motivated, which 1785 01:30:29,640 --> 01:30:32,840 Speaker 1: seems to be young white males this time, that's fine, 1786 01:30:33,040 --> 01:30:33,680 Speaker 1: you know, like that. 1787 01:30:33,760 --> 01:30:35,400 Speaker 2: I think that was a big part of it. 1788 01:30:35,439 --> 01:30:37,519 Speaker 1: A lot of backlash and stuff, as I've spoken about 1789 01:30:37,560 --> 01:30:42,600 Speaker 1: on the show, but I think the biggest part is 1790 01:30:42,640 --> 01:30:46,280 Speaker 1: that there's just people who are racist and sexist, and 1791 01:30:46,760 --> 01:30:48,680 Speaker 1: I'm not I don't think we're guessing at it. I 1792 01:30:48,680 --> 01:30:50,760 Speaker 1: think a country that started with women not being able 1793 01:30:50,760 --> 01:30:53,920 Speaker 1: to vote, in black people in chains, that's that's a 1794 01:30:54,000 --> 01:30:57,160 Speaker 1: confirmed fact. If anything, I need you to disprove that 1795 01:30:57,800 --> 01:31:00,920 Speaker 1: they were motivated by something as simple as who who 1796 01:31:01,080 --> 01:31:03,320 Speaker 1: the economy, or who was in office, or they just 1797 01:31:03,320 --> 01:31:04,080 Speaker 1: didn't understand. 1798 01:31:04,320 --> 01:31:06,320 Speaker 2: I think even their ignorance. 1799 01:31:06,200 --> 01:31:09,880 Speaker 1: Is part of the grift and part of the cover 1800 01:31:09,960 --> 01:31:13,040 Speaker 1: that's giving. And then the final thing, I'll say, you 1801 01:31:13,080 --> 01:31:17,240 Speaker 1: know to the people that you know are the bedrock 1802 01:31:17,280 --> 01:31:20,360 Speaker 1: foundation of this country in a lot of ways when 1803 01:31:20,360 --> 01:31:26,080 Speaker 1: it comes to the ignorance, sendy racism white people. What 1804 01:31:26,120 --> 01:31:30,160 Speaker 1: your response essentially was was a response that only focused 1805 01:31:30,200 --> 01:31:36,400 Speaker 1: on white people, by which I mean every other demographic 1806 01:31:36,560 --> 01:31:40,680 Speaker 1: just about right. Once you get to race, they know 1807 01:31:40,720 --> 01:31:44,920 Speaker 1: who they side with, and they're consistent in that only 1808 01:31:45,000 --> 01:31:49,599 Speaker 1: white people have done this swing from like, hey man, 1809 01:31:49,960 --> 01:31:52,519 Speaker 1: once they tried to get these black people rights, I'm 1810 01:31:52,680 --> 01:31:56,760 Speaker 1: conservative now like white people get the option. And that's 1811 01:31:56,760 --> 01:31:59,320 Speaker 1: why I said, I haven't really wanted to make this 1812 01:31:59,439 --> 01:32:02,240 Speaker 1: podcast like the let's only talk about the results of 1813 01:32:02,280 --> 01:32:04,600 Speaker 1: the election thing, because to me, it's like, oh, this 1814 01:32:04,680 --> 01:32:08,439 Speaker 1: is white people's business. This white people did this, and 1815 01:32:08,920 --> 01:32:10,600 Speaker 1: they're the only ones that get the benefit of the 1816 01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:14,080 Speaker 1: doubt or the conversation that starts with, well, maybe it's 1817 01:32:14,120 --> 01:32:16,760 Speaker 1: just they weren't paying attention, or you know, hey, maybe 1818 01:32:16,800 --> 01:32:19,559 Speaker 1: it was just going off with vibes, or hey, maybe 1819 01:32:20,600 --> 01:32:25,360 Speaker 1: the vibes are racism. The attention is racism, the sexism 1820 01:32:26,160 --> 01:32:29,240 Speaker 1: that comes part of white That is them, and it 1821 01:32:29,320 --> 01:32:31,439 Speaker 1: is who it is. And they said what they said, 1822 01:32:31,479 --> 01:32:35,519 Speaker 1: and I believe them, and so I don't I think 1823 01:32:35,840 --> 01:32:40,840 Speaker 1: the theorizing for me feels tired because I think what 1824 01:32:41,040 --> 01:32:45,240 Speaker 1: I am saying is the immutable truth and there's not 1825 01:32:45,320 --> 01:32:47,639 Speaker 1: going to be a survey that can back that up, 1826 01:32:47,720 --> 01:32:52,519 Speaker 1: because even the assumption that they are answering your pole questions. 1827 01:32:52,160 --> 01:32:53,160 Speaker 2: Correctly and honest. 1828 01:32:53,280 --> 01:32:56,559 Speaker 1: That they are being honest is a privilege given to 1829 01:32:56,640 --> 01:33:00,920 Speaker 1: white people, right, And you know that the rocism and 1830 01:33:00,960 --> 01:33:04,400 Speaker 1: the sexism is the point is because every other demographic 1831 01:33:04,560 --> 01:33:08,240 Speaker 1: that even shifts a percentage point to Republicans, how is 1832 01:33:08,240 --> 01:33:10,640 Speaker 1: it covered in the news. It's not covered in some 1833 01:33:10,840 --> 01:33:13,320 Speaker 1: like they're just open minded and who knows that they 1834 01:33:13,360 --> 01:33:15,280 Speaker 1: even know what they're voting for. It's what the fuck 1835 01:33:15,280 --> 01:33:17,880 Speaker 1: are black men doing voting for Trump? What the fuck 1836 01:33:17,880 --> 01:33:19,680 Speaker 1: are Latino men doing voting for Trump? That's how it's 1837 01:33:19,680 --> 01:33:22,240 Speaker 1: always covered. Why are these women voting for Trump? That's 1838 01:33:22,280 --> 01:33:25,160 Speaker 1: how it's covered because the assumption is a vote for 1839 01:33:25,200 --> 01:33:28,760 Speaker 1: them is a vote for white supremacy. And if we 1840 01:33:28,840 --> 01:33:31,280 Speaker 1: can say that as a society, if we can keep 1841 01:33:31,640 --> 01:33:35,320 Speaker 1: endlessly covering the one to four percent shift in every 1842 01:33:35,360 --> 01:33:38,280 Speaker 1: other demographic towards Trump as if that is alarming news, 1843 01:33:39,120 --> 01:33:42,679 Speaker 1: then why aren't we alarmed that seventy percent of white 1844 01:33:42,720 --> 01:33:46,680 Speaker 1: people are motivated by that, that they are siding with 1845 01:33:46,680 --> 01:33:50,080 Speaker 1: white supremacy. It's a conversation. That's not a real conversation. 1846 01:33:50,200 --> 01:33:53,639 Speaker 1: It's not actually happening. And you know, as well meaning 1847 01:33:53,680 --> 01:33:58,040 Speaker 1: as people like Chris Hayes are, even he not ready 1848 01:33:58,040 --> 01:34:01,760 Speaker 1: for this real conversation, This real conversation I can't be 1849 01:34:01,840 --> 01:34:03,160 Speaker 1: really had on their airways. 1850 01:34:04,000 --> 01:34:05,960 Speaker 4: Agreed, one hundred percent agreed. 1851 01:34:06,400 --> 01:34:08,680 Speaker 3: And this is one reason why when it comes to 1852 01:34:08,720 --> 01:34:10,920 Speaker 3: me and Roderick, and like you say, for a lot 1853 01:34:10,960 --> 01:34:13,599 Speaker 3: of people, you just really can't have the conversation because 1854 01:34:13,640 --> 01:34:16,240 Speaker 3: in my mind, if we don't start at racism and 1855 01:34:16,280 --> 01:34:20,000 Speaker 3: sexism and homophobia and audseisms, there's nothing for us to 1856 01:34:20,120 --> 01:34:22,840 Speaker 3: talk about, because everything else is an excuse. Them not 1857 01:34:22,960 --> 01:34:25,559 Speaker 3: knowing is an excuse. Them playing stupid is an excuse. 1858 01:34:25,600 --> 01:34:30,360 Speaker 3: These polls is an excuse. Everything is an excuse for 1859 01:34:30,439 --> 01:34:35,400 Speaker 3: the reality that I see, that I know that I 1860 01:34:35,439 --> 01:34:37,679 Speaker 3: feel that I have to look at every day waking 1861 01:34:37,760 --> 01:34:41,080 Speaker 3: up in this country. You can't gas light me and 1862 01:34:41,240 --> 01:34:44,360 Speaker 3: make me think I'm fucking crazy when I know what 1863 01:34:44,479 --> 01:34:46,720 Speaker 3: I know, and I saw what I saw, and the 1864 01:34:46,800 --> 01:34:51,160 Speaker 3: results confirmed in me what I felt. 1865 01:34:51,680 --> 01:34:53,679 Speaker 1: On a completely unrelated note, I have a question about 1866 01:34:53,680 --> 01:34:54,200 Speaker 1: the podcast. 1867 01:34:54,200 --> 01:34:55,080 Speaker 2: I've been meaning to ask. 1868 01:34:55,160 --> 01:34:57,880 Speaker 1: Why is the bullet Bar only granted unofficial status because 1869 01:34:57,880 --> 01:35:01,200 Speaker 1: I don't want to get sued whatever become official. No, 1870 01:35:02,479 --> 01:35:05,639 Speaker 1: I feel like that first of all, I was friends 1871 01:35:05,680 --> 01:35:10,280 Speaker 1: with him on Facebook. I think I might still be 1872 01:35:10,320 --> 01:35:13,640 Speaker 1: friends or I'm not. Maybe one day he finally unfriended me. 1873 01:35:13,800 --> 01:35:17,360 Speaker 1: Maybe we said some offensive about bullet Ball, but that dude, 1874 01:35:17,479 --> 01:35:19,960 Speaker 1: that's a real business, that's trademark. So I don't want 1875 01:35:20,000 --> 01:35:22,519 Speaker 1: to say the official podcast of bulletbarll because then the 1876 01:35:22,520 --> 01:35:24,360 Speaker 1: motherfucker sue us. I'm not giving him half of what 1877 01:35:24,479 --> 01:35:27,120 Speaker 1: I got. He might need it too, bullet Ball. You know, 1878 01:35:27,280 --> 01:35:30,120 Speaker 1: I don't know how much money is making them. Is 1879 01:35:30,200 --> 01:35:32,200 Speaker 1: it like NATO membership where it needs to be voted 1880 01:35:32,240 --> 01:35:35,400 Speaker 1: on every soften love seeing Rafael connect. 1881 01:35:35,120 --> 01:35:36,679 Speaker 2: With a lovely picture and a double child. 1882 01:35:37,000 --> 01:35:39,080 Speaker 1: Someone should put that on the NFT to sell as 1883 01:35:39,080 --> 01:35:43,080 Speaker 1: a blackoutis merch. Rochelle says, hi Rod and Karen, thank you. 1884 01:35:43,200 --> 01:35:44,679 Speaker 1: I wanted to say thank you for what you do. 1885 01:35:44,960 --> 01:35:47,280 Speaker 1: My sister turned me onto your show last year, but 1886 01:35:47,360 --> 01:35:49,280 Speaker 1: I didn't really get into it till this year. I'm 1887 01:35:49,320 --> 01:35:51,519 Speaker 1: going through a divorce and you've helped me through some 1888 01:35:51,560 --> 01:35:54,120 Speaker 1: tough days. During the summer, I was caught up with 1889 01:35:54,240 --> 01:35:56,799 Speaker 1: my other podcasts, are starting to listen to yours more consistently. 1890 01:35:56,840 --> 01:35:59,080 Speaker 1: You made me laugh, think and go through all their emotions. 1891 01:35:59,240 --> 01:36:01,479 Speaker 1: I love that you are just being yourselves and enjoying 1892 01:36:01,520 --> 01:36:03,880 Speaker 1: the work you do. Like Chris said this week, I 1893 01:36:03,920 --> 01:36:06,400 Speaker 1: too would like a relationship like you and Karen after 1894 01:36:06,400 --> 01:36:08,320 Speaker 1: twenty years of marriage. I hope one day I find 1895 01:36:08,320 --> 01:36:11,080 Speaker 1: the person that matches my energy. I signed up for 1896 01:36:11,120 --> 01:36:13,000 Speaker 1: the Black Friday, especially on the last day. I have 1897 01:36:13,080 --> 01:36:15,320 Speaker 1: yet to listen anything about the paywhile, but it's there 1898 01:36:15,360 --> 01:36:16,120 Speaker 1: for when I needed. 1899 01:36:16,240 --> 01:36:19,120 Speaker 2: Thank you again, Shelley, Oh, thank you, Shelley. 1900 01:36:19,160 --> 01:36:20,400 Speaker 4: There's plenty of stuff back there. 1901 01:36:20,439 --> 01:36:23,280 Speaker 3: You've never heard it for full and like the person 1902 01:36:23,280 --> 01:36:25,360 Speaker 3: that wrote it, they go, I've been the premiumum for years, 1903 01:36:25,400 --> 01:36:27,679 Speaker 3: but i haven't pressed play on stuff. 1904 01:36:27,720 --> 01:36:28,160 Speaker 4: Like I say. 1905 01:36:28,200 --> 01:36:31,200 Speaker 3: For people that are premium, you have access to everything, 1906 01:36:31,439 --> 01:36:32,320 Speaker 3: so listen to it. 1907 01:36:32,360 --> 01:36:33,160 Speaker 4: You're paying for it. 1908 01:36:33,240 --> 01:36:35,400 Speaker 1: Sorry you had a tough time, but I'm glad that 1909 01:36:35,479 --> 01:36:39,360 Speaker 1: we were able to give some respite within Dame. Chris says, 1910 01:36:39,400 --> 01:36:41,720 Speaker 1: catch up feedback. He Yo, what's good? Pass a rod 1911 01:36:41,760 --> 01:36:44,519 Speaker 1: and first Lady Karen. It's Chris, captain of the crew. 1912 01:36:44,720 --> 01:36:48,479 Speaker 1: Catch up crew, the cousin that's always late and Lee's early. 1913 01:36:48,600 --> 01:36:51,280 Speaker 1: There are many times when I listen and I have 1914 01:36:51,360 --> 01:36:53,680 Speaker 1: a thought about the things y'all are talking about. But 1915 01:36:53,760 --> 01:36:56,559 Speaker 1: then I wait, like five minutes without fail, y'all cover 1916 01:36:56,640 --> 01:36:57,800 Speaker 1: exactly what I have in mind. 1917 01:36:58,200 --> 01:37:00,759 Speaker 2: You know what? I call that being a one accord? 1918 01:37:01,200 --> 01:37:02,200 Speaker 2: Can I get an amen? 1919 01:37:02,640 --> 01:37:03,080 Speaker 1: Amen? 1920 01:37:03,840 --> 01:37:05,760 Speaker 2: I had the exact same thought about Drake. 1921 01:37:05,880 --> 01:37:08,240 Speaker 1: One way I see him getting out of this mess 1922 01:37:08,400 --> 01:37:11,240 Speaker 1: is becoming a Maga drizzy, not because of Trump, but 1923 01:37:11,280 --> 01:37:13,360 Speaker 1: because I believe he and Eli had the same I'm 1924 01:37:13,360 --> 01:37:15,400 Speaker 1: the coolest guy in the room. Please like me energy. 1925 01:37:15,520 --> 01:37:17,760 Speaker 2: Oh no, I think he could get out of it 1926 01:37:17,800 --> 01:37:18,120 Speaker 2: that way. 1927 01:37:18,160 --> 01:37:18,600 Speaker 1: I hope he. 1928 01:37:19,040 --> 01:37:21,320 Speaker 2: I really wish he don't. 1929 01:37:21,360 --> 01:37:23,600 Speaker 1: But I think a lot of his fans are already 1930 01:37:23,680 --> 01:37:29,200 Speaker 1: those type of Andrew Schultz you know ish guys that 1931 01:37:29,320 --> 01:37:33,680 Speaker 1: you know, his music's very red pilled music with the 1932 01:37:33,720 --> 01:37:36,800 Speaker 1: you know the why how come? Because I tat on you? 1933 01:37:36,800 --> 01:37:39,000 Speaker 1: You be going out at night? You know that kind 1934 01:37:39,040 --> 01:37:42,080 Speaker 1: of shit? And I think he's you know, he's been 1935 01:37:42,080 --> 01:37:45,000 Speaker 1: making some signals with who he's been streaming with and 1936 01:37:45,520 --> 01:37:47,920 Speaker 1: paling around with that he could one hundred percent go 1937 01:37:48,000 --> 01:37:48,400 Speaker 1: that way. 1938 01:37:48,439 --> 01:37:49,240 Speaker 2: But I'll be dumb. 1939 01:37:49,880 --> 01:37:51,160 Speaker 1: So I was thinking, you do a whole lot of 1940 01:37:51,160 --> 01:37:53,280 Speaker 1: reading doing the feedback show, and I appreciate because it 1941 01:37:53,320 --> 01:37:55,640 Speaker 1: makes it feel more personal. But I think I know 1942 01:37:55,680 --> 01:37:58,280 Speaker 1: you get tired from Renaudi's comments and emails. So I 1943 01:37:58,320 --> 01:38:00,559 Speaker 1: had a thought, what if you use a from time 1944 01:38:00,600 --> 01:38:02,400 Speaker 1: to time to read some of the comments. You could 1945 01:38:02,439 --> 01:38:05,400 Speaker 1: even use the condescended negro whose name I'm sure something 1946 01:38:05,439 --> 01:38:06,840 Speaker 1: like Reggie or Leon or something. 1947 01:38:07,000 --> 01:38:09,400 Speaker 2: Voice it's Adam by the way. 1948 01:38:10,560 --> 01:38:13,240 Speaker 1: Think about it. Wouldn't Raphael scam sound all the more 1949 01:38:13,320 --> 01:38:17,080 Speaker 1: scammier and Reggie's voice. Wouldn't Apple's lovely white woman music 1950 01:38:17,200 --> 01:38:19,280 Speaker 1: be more music coming from a man who you know 1951 01:38:19,520 --> 01:38:22,479 Speaker 1: exclusively dates white women because he believes white black women 1952 01:38:22,520 --> 01:38:27,880 Speaker 1: are of real racist anyway, just some thoughts, loving piece, Chris, 1953 01:38:27,920 --> 01:38:31,680 Speaker 1: Thanks Chris, that's very funny. I don't think on a 1954 01:38:31,760 --> 01:38:35,519 Speaker 1: principal level, I don't think I will go with the 1955 01:38:35,560 --> 01:38:37,920 Speaker 1: AI thing. Maybe comedically if there was a reason, But 1956 01:38:38,479 --> 01:38:41,679 Speaker 1: as a writer, I'm just kind of anti AI period. 1957 01:38:41,800 --> 01:38:42,920 Speaker 2: I don't like I don't like. 1958 01:38:42,920 --> 01:38:47,240 Speaker 3: That shitam okay, shit trying to take my job right. 1959 01:38:47,479 --> 01:38:51,160 Speaker 1: The second part of it is I'm one of them one, 1960 01:38:52,479 --> 01:38:55,800 Speaker 1: okay do I? Yeah, I get tired after reading three 1961 01:38:55,840 --> 01:38:58,559 Speaker 1: hours of feedback, but I was built for this. 1962 01:38:58,920 --> 01:38:59,960 Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, we were doing this. 1963 01:39:00,400 --> 01:39:02,880 Speaker 1: These other motherfuckers no, no, not no, we not no 1964 01:39:03,000 --> 01:39:07,519 Speaker 1: we this not this, not this, not a bullshit. 1965 01:39:07,880 --> 01:39:08,880 Speaker 4: I can't take credit. 1966 01:39:09,000 --> 01:39:11,440 Speaker 2: I'm singing a solo. 1967 01:39:13,720 --> 01:39:18,320 Speaker 1: Y'all got ears, y'all hear out, I'll read three four 1968 01:39:18,360 --> 01:39:20,160 Speaker 1: hours of what the fuck y'all have to say. He 1969 01:39:20,280 --> 01:39:25,800 Speaker 1: will comment on it as well and comprehend it and 1970 01:39:25,920 --> 01:39:28,280 Speaker 1: try to do y'all some favors sometimes and fix these 1971 01:39:28,320 --> 01:39:31,800 Speaker 1: spelling mistakes or make it funnier or say it in 1972 01:39:31,840 --> 01:39:35,560 Speaker 1: a certain voice or whatever. And the reason why is 1973 01:39:35,600 --> 01:39:38,320 Speaker 1: because I'm one of one. I'm an alien, I'm rare. 1974 01:39:38,439 --> 01:39:42,679 Speaker 1: I'm like that. So know there won't be no AI 1975 01:39:42,800 --> 01:39:46,920 Speaker 1: doing that bullshit on my watch. Ais for these lesser 1976 01:39:46,960 --> 01:39:49,680 Speaker 1: podcasters who ain't got the stamina to sit in the 1977 01:39:49,800 --> 01:39:54,560 Speaker 1: ring with fucking twenty seven page emails that you motherfucking 1978 01:39:54,600 --> 01:39:58,640 Speaker 1: professors keep sending it again corrected by Sean O. Some 1979 01:39:58,760 --> 01:40:00,920 Speaker 1: jokes that I wrote that word even supposed to be 1980 01:40:01,040 --> 01:40:04,599 Speaker 1: fact check or get find out Apia's quest on Black 1981 01:40:04,680 --> 01:40:08,559 Speaker 1: Friends or controlled by Raphael for the ninety seventh time 1982 01:40:08,600 --> 01:40:14,080 Speaker 1: about these third name, Jason, I got you. I can't 1983 01:40:14,080 --> 01:40:19,519 Speaker 1: do that. Come out built for this, you built for this. 1984 01:40:20,560 --> 01:40:24,120 Speaker 1: These other podcasters got to take a break. They gotta 1985 01:40:24,120 --> 01:40:27,439 Speaker 1: go get some water. They gotta take a week off, 1986 01:40:28,720 --> 01:40:32,439 Speaker 1: not me. Okay, you look around the league. You don't 1987 01:40:32,520 --> 01:40:35,559 Speaker 1: ask how was Rod able to dominate for twenty two 1988 01:40:35,640 --> 01:40:39,320 Speaker 1: years straight? Like Lebron James. You look at Kevin Durant 1989 01:40:39,320 --> 01:40:39,719 Speaker 1: and say. 1990 01:40:39,560 --> 01:40:43,080 Speaker 4: What's wrong with you? What's wrong with you? Kawhi Leonard? 1991 01:40:43,680 --> 01:40:47,679 Speaker 1: Get your conditioning up? All right? We also got something. 1992 01:40:49,320 --> 01:40:52,639 Speaker 1: We also got some things. Now, we got some things 1993 01:40:52,680 --> 01:40:53,599 Speaker 1: in the mail as well. 1994 01:40:53,680 --> 01:40:57,080 Speaker 2: We did, so let's check it out. We got a card. 1995 01:40:57,880 --> 01:41:01,520 Speaker 1: The first one says for two special. 1996 01:41:01,160 --> 01:41:04,760 Speaker 2: People, and it appears to be like a snowy. 1997 01:41:06,000 --> 01:41:08,920 Speaker 1: Horse maybe when of the bud wise or horses dragging 1998 01:41:08,960 --> 01:41:12,599 Speaker 1: some people. And it says wishing you both the wonderful 1999 01:41:12,600 --> 01:41:15,320 Speaker 1: holiday season, filled with many happy moments and memories to 2000 01:41:15,400 --> 01:41:17,240 Speaker 1: last lifetime, married, Christmas. 2001 01:41:16,920 --> 01:41:17,599 Speaker 2: Happy New Year. 2002 01:41:18,320 --> 01:41:21,400 Speaker 1: And then it says wishing you a merry Christmas, a 2003 01:41:21,400 --> 01:41:21,960 Speaker 1: happy New Year. 2004 01:41:21,960 --> 01:41:22,599 Speaker 2: It's best. 2005 01:41:22,840 --> 01:41:24,960 Speaker 1: I think this is Tammy or Jam. Let me make 2006 01:41:24,960 --> 01:41:28,720 Speaker 1: sure that's right. Make sure Tammy. Okay, say Tammy, Thank 2007 01:41:28,760 --> 01:41:31,719 Speaker 1: you Tammy. So this and this one of some good stock. 2008 01:41:32,080 --> 01:41:34,439 Speaker 1: This is some good paper. Okay, you spent the money. 2009 01:41:34,560 --> 01:41:36,120 Speaker 3: Chah, Yeah, I gotta figure out what I'm gonna do 2010 01:41:36,160 --> 01:41:37,559 Speaker 3: with these cars. I think I might make a big 2011 01:41:37,560 --> 01:41:39,559 Speaker 3: old collage out of them. 2012 01:41:39,840 --> 01:41:42,519 Speaker 2: All right, we got two more cards that we got 2013 01:41:42,520 --> 01:41:44,599 Speaker 2: in the mail. Well, thank you. 2014 01:41:46,120 --> 01:41:49,200 Speaker 1: This one says no for the holidays. And now you 2015 01:41:49,200 --> 01:41:53,080 Speaker 1: know I love a good pun. Okay, they known, so 2016 01:41:53,120 --> 01:41:54,240 Speaker 1: they're known for the holiday. 2017 01:41:55,479 --> 01:41:56,040 Speaker 2: Okay. 2018 01:41:56,479 --> 01:41:59,280 Speaker 1: Uh, Dear Rod and Karen, wishing you a very merry 2019 01:41:59,320 --> 01:42:03,080 Speaker 1: Christmas and for New Year. Your longtime listeners might be 2020 01:42:03,280 --> 01:42:03,799 Speaker 1: in debit. 2021 01:42:03,840 --> 01:42:08,000 Speaker 2: Oh think you Mike be in debit? Oh, we appreciate y'all. 2022 01:42:08,120 --> 01:42:11,599 Speaker 4: Okay, I love a good card, y'all. I do. Got 2023 01:42:11,600 --> 01:42:12,599 Speaker 4: forty five hundred men. 2024 01:42:12,720 --> 01:42:16,559 Speaker 1: Here one last card, and on the front it's a 2025 01:42:16,600 --> 01:42:23,160 Speaker 1: reathing that just says joy okay, and it says Rod 2026 01:42:23,240 --> 01:42:25,840 Speaker 1: and Careen. Here's a to a Merry Christmas, A happy 2027 01:42:25,840 --> 01:42:28,439 Speaker 1: New Beginnings, Mary, Christmas, Happy New Year. I love to 2028 01:42:28,479 --> 01:42:31,160 Speaker 1: show you guys are the best kim A. And then 2029 01:42:31,280 --> 01:42:36,280 Speaker 1: she has her username in here and a check oh 2030 01:42:36,360 --> 01:42:41,080 Speaker 1: for guys. So when I was saying, when I told y'all, 2031 01:42:41,320 --> 01:42:43,840 Speaker 1: if you email me, I will work with you, right, 2032 01:42:43,920 --> 01:42:47,080 Speaker 1: I did tell y'all that zel Venmo cash out. Whatever 2033 01:42:47,120 --> 01:42:50,599 Speaker 1: I'm trying to help everybody get premium if you PayPal 2034 01:42:50,720 --> 01:42:53,040 Speaker 1: not not doing right for you. I'll work it out, 2035 01:42:53,439 --> 01:42:55,640 Speaker 1: but I got a cold people that literally was like, 2036 01:42:55,760 --> 01:42:56,720 Speaker 1: can I write a check? 2037 01:42:56,800 --> 01:43:01,120 Speaker 2: And I'm like, why not? 2038 01:43:01,439 --> 01:43:02,200 Speaker 4: Like cash? 2039 01:43:02,760 --> 01:43:06,320 Speaker 1: We do it checks now. So, uh, this is a 2040 01:43:06,439 --> 01:43:08,960 Speaker 1: check for the Black Friday deal. And I said, now, 2041 01:43:09,080 --> 01:43:12,280 Speaker 1: if you do this, understand like it's gonna get here 2042 01:43:12,320 --> 01:43:16,000 Speaker 1: after Black Friday. So because of the program, I have 2043 01:43:16,040 --> 01:43:19,479 Speaker 1: to make sure the access still runs out around the 2044 01:43:19,520 --> 01:43:22,519 Speaker 1: same time as everyone else. And people's like, fuck it, 2045 01:43:22,560 --> 01:43:24,600 Speaker 1: I'll mail a check. And I feel like this the 2046 01:43:24,600 --> 01:43:27,080 Speaker 1: blackest thing I ever did, because I absolutely am taking 2047 01:43:27,080 --> 01:43:31,000 Speaker 1: a check that will be coming into the account. 2048 01:43:31,160 --> 01:43:32,439 Speaker 4: So we take it. 2049 01:43:32,640 --> 01:43:37,080 Speaker 3: We take the ones that fold jingle electronic and checks. 2050 01:43:37,720 --> 01:43:39,280 Speaker 2: We are truly at black business. 2051 01:43:40,200 --> 01:43:42,120 Speaker 4: If the bank take it, we take it. Shit. 2052 01:43:42,280 --> 01:43:45,439 Speaker 1: That might be the black business moment of the week. Okay, 2053 01:43:45,680 --> 01:43:49,200 Speaker 1: Like I there's nothing black of an alternative means of payment. 2054 01:43:49,360 --> 01:43:50,760 Speaker 4: Come on through work with you. 2055 01:43:51,080 --> 01:43:53,080 Speaker 1: It's like, nephew, what if I give you a What 2056 01:43:53,120 --> 01:43:56,719 Speaker 1: if I give you a pot of ribs? Like what, 2057 01:43:57,400 --> 01:44:01,320 Speaker 1: I'll give you a six pack of we got we 2058 01:44:01,360 --> 01:44:04,959 Speaker 1: got some stuff from my Amazon wish list here? Yay, Okay, 2059 01:44:05,240 --> 01:44:08,439 Speaker 1: now let's see this is Oh hold on, now, this 2060 01:44:08,479 --> 01:44:12,439 Speaker 1: says black amber on the front, and it says cravat. 2061 01:44:12,600 --> 01:44:13,479 Speaker 2: I don't know what cravett? 2062 01:44:13,560 --> 01:44:17,120 Speaker 4: What's crevette cravat? 2063 01:44:17,479 --> 01:44:21,439 Speaker 1: We we yeah, all right, open this thing up, don't 2064 01:44:21,439 --> 01:44:24,160 Speaker 1: want to come out, okay, pulling it out? All right? 2065 01:44:24,840 --> 01:44:25,600 Speaker 1: Oh is this? 2066 01:44:25,920 --> 01:44:26,000 Speaker 5: Is? 2067 01:44:26,040 --> 01:44:26,120 Speaker 6: This? 2068 01:44:26,160 --> 01:44:30,439 Speaker 1: What I think it is? It's a candle, black amber 2069 01:44:30,800 --> 01:44:34,040 Speaker 1: black all. Now, that's definitely something I put on the list. Yes, 2070 01:44:34,160 --> 01:44:36,120 Speaker 1: because I love me a candle. 2071 01:44:36,120 --> 01:44:36,559 Speaker 2: I keep it. 2072 01:44:36,880 --> 01:44:38,560 Speaker 1: I'm a candle burning bitch. 2073 01:44:39,360 --> 01:44:42,720 Speaker 3: Yes, candle burning bitch, and I'm fever blowing them bitches out. 2074 01:44:42,880 --> 01:44:44,120 Speaker 4: You ain't gonna burn the house out. 2075 01:44:44,920 --> 01:44:48,040 Speaker 1: It'll be a good way to doe. Smelling like punkin spice. Okay, 2076 01:44:49,680 --> 01:44:52,400 Speaker 1: And I definitely put this on the list. Someone was 2077 01:44:52,439 --> 01:44:56,479 Speaker 1: listening last week My hero Academica calendar. 2078 01:44:56,800 --> 01:44:59,799 Speaker 3: Y that's one of my favorite animated y'all. We watched 2079 01:44:59,800 --> 01:45:01,200 Speaker 3: that ship every season. 2080 01:45:01,400 --> 01:45:03,720 Speaker 1: One of the three calendars, we will we keep a 2081 01:45:03,760 --> 01:45:04,800 Speaker 1: calendar on the while. 2082 01:45:04,880 --> 01:45:08,360 Speaker 3: We got one got four calendars, Yeah, we got we 2083 01:45:08,479 --> 01:45:10,640 Speaker 3: got one in the bathroom, one in the kitchen, and 2084 01:45:11,040 --> 01:45:11,599 Speaker 3: twin hill. 2085 01:45:11,920 --> 01:45:15,280 Speaker 1: So the calendars went up went on there this Now, 2086 01:45:15,360 --> 01:45:17,479 Speaker 1: something in here is gift wrap and I think it 2087 01:45:17,520 --> 01:45:21,160 Speaker 1: came with a note ship from saying it says Ryan 2088 01:45:21,200 --> 01:45:23,360 Speaker 1: and Caermery Christens, thank you for all you do. You 2089 01:45:23,439 --> 01:45:26,439 Speaker 1: are legit my besties in my head. Thank you for 2090 01:45:26,720 --> 01:45:32,639 Speaker 1: bringing being the saying this crazy world. Don thank you Don. 2091 01:45:32,840 --> 01:45:33,960 Speaker 4: She reached out back. 2092 01:45:34,320 --> 01:45:39,640 Speaker 1: I believe she reached out on on Instagram, on Facebook. 2093 01:45:39,680 --> 01:45:43,400 Speaker 1: I believe to let me know like, hey, uh, the 2094 01:45:43,520 --> 01:45:47,479 Speaker 1: address for y'all's wish list isn't showing right, and you 2095 01:45:47,520 --> 01:45:49,800 Speaker 1: know I'm gonna go ahead and take you like is 2096 01:45:49,840 --> 01:45:52,080 Speaker 1: this where how I'm sending and stuff? And she helped 2097 01:45:52,080 --> 01:45:53,000 Speaker 1: me fix them with list. 2098 01:45:53,160 --> 01:45:55,719 Speaker 4: Thank you, yeah, baby, thank you. Yeah, it's it's fixing. 2099 01:45:56,000 --> 01:45:58,080 Speaker 3: I went on there and kind of updated some stuff too, 2100 01:45:58,160 --> 01:45:59,680 Speaker 3: because you know you're going to be like not. 2101 01:46:00,240 --> 01:46:01,800 Speaker 4: I was like, well, bit make it available. 2102 01:46:02,280 --> 01:46:04,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I went on there and took a lot 2103 01:46:04,800 --> 01:46:06,599 Speaker 1: of carr and stuff off because I'm tired of just 2104 01:46:06,640 --> 01:46:09,120 Speaker 1: only getting car and stuff. You can put it on 2105 01:46:09,120 --> 01:46:11,600 Speaker 1: that too. I'm just care because I don't take my 2106 01:46:11,640 --> 01:46:14,760 Speaker 1: ship off. I was like, who wants more work for me? 2107 01:46:14,800 --> 01:46:20,080 Speaker 1: It's always mops and yes, sir, okay, it's not stuff. 2108 01:46:20,160 --> 01:46:20,960 Speaker 1: She she's not. 2109 01:46:20,960 --> 01:46:23,960 Speaker 4: Interested in doing this, I'm trying to help you. 2110 01:46:24,320 --> 01:46:26,160 Speaker 1: I don't even know how they got this in this bag. 2111 01:46:26,160 --> 01:46:29,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to cut the bag. Oh it's that tight. 2112 01:46:30,640 --> 01:46:34,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's just a plastic bag. I'd be all right, Okay, 2113 01:46:34,200 --> 01:46:37,960 Speaker 1: it's not the end of the world. I don't even 2114 01:46:38,000 --> 01:46:40,439 Speaker 1: know how they got this ship like they must have. Really, 2115 01:46:40,520 --> 01:46:43,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to break it trying to force it out, 2116 01:46:44,040 --> 01:46:47,200 Speaker 1: which is why I'm not doing it that way. But yeah, okay, 2117 01:46:47,240 --> 01:46:47,599 Speaker 1: all right. 2118 01:46:48,400 --> 01:46:50,320 Speaker 4: Here, okay, can you get into it now? 2119 01:46:50,880 --> 01:46:58,320 Speaker 1: Okay, it's got a car. Oh another calendar, y'all come 2120 01:46:58,360 --> 01:46:59,160 Speaker 1: on through with that. 2121 01:46:59,240 --> 01:47:00,599 Speaker 4: We're gonna be me, gonna. 2122 01:47:00,360 --> 01:47:01,960 Speaker 1: Be flying twenty twenty five. 2123 01:47:02,920 --> 01:47:05,799 Speaker 3: That right there, Box Mockner is a great anime. 2124 01:47:06,400 --> 01:47:08,519 Speaker 4: I love that anime. Don thank you. 2125 01:47:08,479 --> 01:47:11,080 Speaker 1: For all of this. This really is like it really 2126 01:47:11,800 --> 01:47:12,559 Speaker 1: this this is like. 2127 01:47:12,520 --> 01:47:15,200 Speaker 2: A personal care package for me. Okay, it is. 2128 01:47:15,760 --> 01:47:18,680 Speaker 1: I think I put the calendars on there, and I 2129 01:47:18,720 --> 01:47:20,000 Speaker 1: think I put the candle on there. 2130 01:47:20,080 --> 01:47:20,439 Speaker 5: You did. 2131 01:47:20,880 --> 01:47:23,200 Speaker 1: Whenever I'm burning the candle in the bathroom, the calendar 2132 01:47:23,200 --> 01:47:25,360 Speaker 1: fall into it and burn up the whole apartment. 2133 01:47:25,920 --> 01:47:27,280 Speaker 4: Because I forgot to blow it out. 2134 01:47:27,479 --> 01:47:31,720 Speaker 1: Karen, will have you think appreciate you, and I'm not 2135 01:47:31,720 --> 01:47:34,280 Speaker 1: worried about these gifts receipts because then none of this 2136 01:47:34,320 --> 01:47:36,919 Speaker 1: is going back. Thank you everybody. 2137 01:47:37,080 --> 01:47:37,800 Speaker 4: What about Karen? 2138 01:47:37,920 --> 01:47:38,439 Speaker 1: What about it? 2139 01:47:38,479 --> 01:47:42,439 Speaker 3: What about the other one that got sent with the 2140 01:47:42,439 --> 01:47:43,400 Speaker 3: the butters? 2141 01:47:43,439 --> 01:47:43,759 Speaker 4: Oh? 2142 01:47:44,240 --> 01:47:46,479 Speaker 1: I did mention this on a Karen Hunter show, and 2143 01:47:46,600 --> 01:47:49,280 Speaker 1: this person would heard me on a Karen Hunter show 2144 01:47:49,400 --> 01:47:52,960 Speaker 1: called in and his name is Chef Quas and he 2145 01:47:53,040 --> 01:47:54,800 Speaker 1: said he was gonna send me a package. 2146 01:47:55,240 --> 01:47:57,280 Speaker 2: And he did send me a package. 2147 01:47:58,439 --> 01:48:01,240 Speaker 1: And it's like, fact, I'm gonna go get it, karens 2148 01:48:01,760 --> 01:48:04,479 Speaker 1: since you made me talk about this stall for a minute, 2149 01:48:05,720 --> 01:48:07,320 Speaker 1: I got you. 2150 01:48:07,800 --> 01:48:10,320 Speaker 4: The Roger is the cook. He the heat a chef 2151 01:48:10,439 --> 01:48:11,280 Speaker 4: I can cook. 2152 01:48:12,360 --> 01:48:15,200 Speaker 3: But over the years, what I've been realizing is like 2153 01:48:15,320 --> 01:48:17,760 Speaker 3: Roger is lily a hell of a cook. He has 2154 01:48:17,960 --> 01:48:21,800 Speaker 3: really honed his kids. Like I'm not even gonna lie, y'all. 2155 01:48:21,800 --> 01:48:25,120 Speaker 3: I am jealous of his rights because I'm too impatient 2156 01:48:25,160 --> 01:48:27,120 Speaker 3: for rights. Who you got to sit there and glaze 2157 01:48:27,120 --> 01:48:29,080 Speaker 3: at it and stare at it and shower. I got 2158 01:48:29,160 --> 01:48:33,360 Speaker 3: up things that I can be doing, putting this right 2159 01:48:33,479 --> 01:48:37,080 Speaker 3: so long and let them more minutes. 2160 01:48:37,840 --> 01:48:40,920 Speaker 1: So he is the cook of the house, all right, 2161 01:48:41,120 --> 01:48:45,599 Speaker 1: I'm back, so he's sitting like a care package. Chef 2162 01:48:45,680 --> 01:48:49,280 Speaker 1: Qua's is his name, and one of it is pesto 2163 01:48:49,400 --> 01:48:54,800 Speaker 1: burder quas can cook is his business and it's with 2164 01:48:54,920 --> 01:48:59,960 Speaker 1: a K K W A z k A N cook. 2165 01:49:00,000 --> 01:49:03,000 Speaker 2: Look see oh okay, so quads can't cook. 2166 01:49:03,080 --> 01:49:06,720 Speaker 1: It gave me pesto butter great on vegetables, pasta and 2167 01:49:06,800 --> 01:49:11,080 Speaker 1: much more. And he also gave me Caribbean jerk butter 2168 01:49:11,520 --> 01:49:15,320 Speaker 1: great on fish, vegetable, steak, seafood and more. Now I 2169 01:49:15,439 --> 01:49:19,000 Speaker 1: just got put onto this like butter situation because I 2170 01:49:19,040 --> 01:49:21,519 Speaker 1: went to Harris Teeter and I was getting something from 2171 01:49:21,520 --> 01:49:24,679 Speaker 1: the meat department and I saw steak butter on sale 2172 01:49:24,680 --> 01:49:26,640 Speaker 1: for two dollars. I was like, with steak butter and 2173 01:49:26,680 --> 01:49:29,639 Speaker 1: he was like, so, I said, do you like? Well, 2174 01:49:29,680 --> 01:49:31,559 Speaker 1: you just cooked with it? He said, what is it? 2175 01:49:31,840 --> 01:49:35,960 Speaker 1: You basically make the steak, then you take the butter 2176 01:49:36,360 --> 01:49:38,240 Speaker 1: put it on top of the steak for the last 2177 01:49:38,520 --> 01:49:41,560 Speaker 1: little bit, so the butter melts down into the meat. 2178 01:49:41,840 --> 01:49:44,000 Speaker 3: And oh was that that They take the spoon they 2179 01:49:44,040 --> 01:49:45,280 Speaker 3: kind of pulled back over the. 2180 01:49:45,240 --> 01:49:47,439 Speaker 1: Meat sometimes, but this you can put just like a 2181 01:49:47,520 --> 01:49:50,240 Speaker 1: lump on it of it on the meat. And what 2182 01:49:50,280 --> 01:49:52,120 Speaker 1: I did was. I took our pork chops the other 2183 01:49:52,240 --> 01:49:53,960 Speaker 1: day and put them in the oven with the steak 2184 01:49:54,000 --> 01:49:55,760 Speaker 1: butter on top, just to see how it turned out. 2185 01:49:56,200 --> 01:49:56,920 Speaker 2: And it was great. 2186 01:49:57,000 --> 01:49:57,280 Speaker 1: It was. 2187 01:49:57,920 --> 01:50:00,360 Speaker 4: It was, oh, that's what you ain't doing in pork chops, yes. 2188 01:50:00,240 --> 01:50:03,880 Speaker 1: Sir so. And that was my test run with that 2189 01:50:03,920 --> 01:50:06,880 Speaker 1: butter because I had this butter. So i'most I'm gonna 2190 01:50:07,080 --> 01:50:09,240 Speaker 1: mess with some other foods around here and see what 2191 01:50:09,280 --> 01:50:14,000 Speaker 1: I can experiment with with this jerk butter and pesto butter. 2192 01:50:14,760 --> 01:50:18,960 Speaker 1: So thank you. And he also gave us quads can 2193 01:50:19,000 --> 01:50:20,520 Speaker 1: cook all purpose seasoning. 2194 01:50:20,920 --> 01:50:22,160 Speaker 2: Okay, that's good. 2195 01:50:22,200 --> 01:50:24,360 Speaker 3: I put them some of the because I put them 2196 01:50:24,360 --> 01:50:26,200 Speaker 3: in my eggs, and they was absolutely delicious. 2197 01:50:26,240 --> 01:50:29,000 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you right now. It smells amazing. 2198 01:50:29,600 --> 01:50:32,120 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna run out because I already use it 2199 01:50:32,160 --> 01:50:36,000 Speaker 1: on some wings. No MSG is gluten free. I already 2200 01:50:36,040 --> 01:50:39,559 Speaker 1: don't use it on some wings. I used it like 2201 01:50:39,960 --> 01:50:42,360 Speaker 1: Karen use it on her eggs. It was this mo 2202 01:50:42,479 --> 01:50:44,800 Speaker 1: waker right here. Ain't gonna last long because I'm gonna 2203 01:50:44,840 --> 01:50:46,439 Speaker 1: use it. I'm just gonna let you know the quads 2204 01:50:46,479 --> 01:50:48,880 Speaker 1: if you're out there listening. Thank you very much, all right, y'all. 2205 01:50:48,880 --> 01:50:51,760 Speaker 1: That's it, we'll be back. Tomorrow's guests will actually be 2206 01:50:51,800 --> 01:50:55,400 Speaker 1: Morgan Pete Campbell. Come on, I'm a friend of the show. 2207 01:50:55,400 --> 01:50:58,120 Speaker 3: I'm so excited. He got a book and I listened 2208 01:50:58,120 --> 01:51:00,160 Speaker 3: to it to audio. I cannot wait to talk to him. 2209 01:51:00,240 --> 01:51:00,479 Speaker 1: Yep. 2210 01:51:00,560 --> 01:51:03,320 Speaker 2: So we'll talk to you guys then until next time. 2211 01:51:03,360 --> 01:51:04,320 Speaker 4: I love you, I love you too,