Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Juble Show. Katie is on the phone
Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been married to
Speaker 2: her husband for eight years. His name is Seth, but
Speaker 2: now she thinks that something might be going on, so
Speaker 2: we'll see if we can help her out.
Speaker 3: Katie, sorry, you're going through this, but why of yourselves?
Speaker 3: What's going on? Why do you think your husband is cheating.
Speaker 1: I don't know if he's cheating or not. It's just
Speaker 1: this weird. We have a very good marriage, and we
Speaker 1: have I mean, I guess we've had a handful of
Speaker 1: rough spots, but I mean over the course of eight Like, well,
Speaker 1: we were together for eleven years, so a couple of
Speaker 1: years before we got married, and so there's going to
Speaker 1: be some rough spots. But I mean, you know, we
Speaker 1: we still went out. You know, we were trying, we
Speaker 1: were having fun. We were going to concerts and like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, we like to bowl, and I don't know,
Speaker 1: I always looked at us and thought of us as
Speaker 1: being like a really strong couple, and I don't know,
Speaker 1: I guess in the last couple of years, we both
Speaker 1: just started to work more and more, you know, I
Speaker 1: got this promotion, and we're at work so much that
Speaker 1: I guess I kind of got complacent, you know, maybe
Speaker 1: he did too, you know, get home and just eat
Speaker 1: dinner and go to bed, and now he doesn't really
Speaker 1: want to go out as much anymore, which I'm all
Speaker 1: of this in my mind is kind of normal. Like,
Speaker 1: you know, we've been together for a really long time,
Speaker 1: and he's kind of a stereotypically kind of lazy dude,
Speaker 1: and I like that about him, you know, I like
Speaker 1: being comfy and cozy at home.
Speaker 3: But he does, you know, he goes to see.
Speaker 1: His friend Josh that he's like, that's been one of
Speaker 1: his best friends since high school. And I don't think
Speaker 1: he could be the cheer your types because he doesn't
Speaker 1: really want to.
Speaker 3: Go out and do anything.
Speaker 1: But like I said, things have been different this last month.
Speaker 1: So he's going over to Josh's place like twice as
Speaker 1: much as he usually does, and I don't know, I'm
Speaker 1: wondering what he's really doing at his house. I mean,
Speaker 1: I've heard he's complained in the past about how Josh was,
Speaker 1: like he can get annoying after a while. And I've
Speaker 1: hung out with Josh and Seth before and he's I
Speaker 1: can confirm that. Like, I don't know if we met
Speaker 1: him now in real life, like would we be would
Speaker 1: he be close friends with him? I don't know. It's
Speaker 1: not like he's been friends with him since high school
Speaker 1: and you know they've I respect that and I admire that,
Speaker 1: and I see, you know, there's a lot of love
Speaker 1: there for him, But like, I don't know.
Speaker 2: He's a boring dude and he's kind of annoying and
Speaker 2: I can't I can't figure out what.
Speaker 1: He's doing over there twice as much as usual. So
Speaker 1: that's one thing. And then the other thing that's been
Speaker 1: this kind of like huge change is that, all of
Speaker 1: a sudden seth is a workout guy. I probably wouldn't
Speaker 1: have called you guys if it wasn't for that. He's
Speaker 1: working out every single day for several hours at a time.
Speaker 1: But I don't think he's ever worked out since we
Speaker 1: first met. I'm just is he doing it to impress someone?
Speaker 1: Is it someone at work? Like he's there a long time.
Speaker 1: I don't know. This is not me, Like I'm not
Speaker 1: normally an insecure person. I know that it doesn't feel good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wouldn't call yourself insecure, even though it's like
Speaker 4: you're noticing things are changing and of course it's going
Speaker 4: to set off an alarm in you. So that's not
Speaker 4: even an insecurity.
Speaker 1: And his appetite is less too now, like he said,
Speaker 1: he's not really very hungry when we have dinner, like
Speaker 1: he had a big lunch or something like that, and that,
Speaker 1: like there's never been a time where Seth hasn't wanted
Speaker 1: like pizza or Friday, we usually get Mexican dinner, and
Speaker 1: I don't know, he's just not finishing his plate, which
Speaker 1: is again unusual. And I asked him about it, and
Speaker 1: he and he just said he wanted to get back
Speaker 1: out of shape, which again totally valid. I want to
Speaker 1: support him in that. I don't want to deter him
Speaker 1: in any way. I'm just nervous.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then if you're spending more time at the
Speaker 4: boring Josh's house, maybe I'm just curious is what triggered it.
Speaker 4: Maybe it's not necessarily cheating. Maybe it's just he was
Speaker 4: inspired by something.
Speaker 3: I don't know. Hopefully he's not all right.
Speaker 2: You already told us what grocery store you guys are
Speaker 2: rewards card members at. So we'll play a song come back,
Speaker 2: and then call him and pretend to be from the
Speaker 2: grocery store and say that every single month, we choose
Speaker 2: one rewards card member who gets free flowers delivered from
Speaker 2: our floral department. We'll see if he sends us to
Speaker 2: you or somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, We'll play
Speaker 2: a song come back, get your to Catch a Teeter next.
Speaker 2: Right in the middle of to Catch a Teeter, if
Speaker 2: you're just joining us, Katie is on the phone and
Speaker 2: she thinks that her husband's seth of eight years might
Speaker 2: be cheating. So in a second, we're gonna call him
Speaker 2: and pretend to be from the grocery store that he's
Speaker 2: a rewards member at, and say that every single month
Speaker 2: we choose one lucky Rewards card member who gets free
Speaker 2: flowers delivered from our floral department, and he's this month's
Speaker 2: big winner. We'll see if he sends those flowers to
Speaker 2: his wife, Katie or someone else. But first, Katie, why
Speaker 2: don't you refresh everybody's memory on what's going on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've just dressed a little. In the last couple
Speaker 1: of years, we both work a lot, and in the
Speaker 1: last couple of months he's totally changed Suddenly he's going
Speaker 1: over to his friend's house twice as much as usual
Speaker 1: as an old high school buddy who I think is
Speaker 1: pretty boring. He's told me he's boring. And the big
Speaker 1: thing that's worrying me is suddenly he's working out every day,
Speaker 1: which is great. He's looking great, but he's never been
Speaker 1: to work out. Guy, he's eating healthy. It's just such
Speaker 1: a sudden shift, and I'm just worried.
Speaker 3: Okay, you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2: Hell, Hi, this is corrible calling from I was looking
Speaker 2: for a rewards card member named Seth.
Speaker 3: Seth.
Speaker 2: Hi, Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing
Speaker 2: phone call. I'm calling to actually tell you congratulations. Here
Speaker 2: this month's big winner.
Speaker 5: Okay, what did I win?
Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one lucky rewards card member
Speaker 2: who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department, absolutely
Speaker 2: free on us to anybody that you want. You want
Speaker 2: thirty six long same red roses, a box of candy, chocolate,
Speaker 2: and a car to be delivered to anybody that you want.
Speaker 1: Hi, it's very cool, not bad.
Speaker 3: So here's how it works.
Speaker 2: I can take down the information in just a couple
Speaker 2: of minutes over the phone.
Speaker 5: That's fine, that's fine. I actually have a little bit
Speaker 5: of downtime. It's good.
Speaker 3: All I will need is the first and last name
Speaker 3: of the person you want to send them to.
Speaker 5: Okay, same last name as mine, und Katie.
Speaker 3: And anything you'd like to put on a card.
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, pretty roses for a pretty lady. Love you kid?
Speaker 3: Oh that is I like that?
Speaker 5: Thanks? Yeah?
Speaker 3: So you e ver you ever cheat on your wife
Speaker 3: at all? Ever?
Speaker 2: Set My name is Jubil and I lost the radio show.
Speaker 2: It's called the Jebels Show.
Speaker 4: Hi s poll shows Here.
Speaker 3: I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria. And your wife Katie
Speaker 3: is actually on the phone listening to this.
Speaker 1: Ah.
Speaker 5: So this is kind of like a set up and
Speaker 5: seed and cheating or something like that.
Speaker 3: Is that like a yes, that's exactly what it is.
Speaker 2: We do a segment called to Catch a Cheater, and
Speaker 2: Katie thought maybe there.
Speaker 3: Might be something going on.
Speaker 2: So we were saying, if we could catch you by
Speaker 2: who eats in flowers too?
Speaker 3: It's kind of flowers, babe, What would you do this?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I just didn't more what to do? You've
Speaker 1: been so different this last month. I mean, you're not
Speaker 1: the same guy. You just you're working out every single
Speaker 1: day for like multiple hours at a time, and I
Speaker 1: don't know, I just got in my head about stuff.
Speaker 1: I mean, I just I asked you why, and you
Speaker 1: didn't give me a reason. You just said you want
Speaker 1: to do me more healthy, which is valid, but like
Speaker 1: it's just so sudden, and I don't know. You're spending
Speaker 1: all this time over at Josh is like double sometimes
Speaker 1: triple as much as you used to, and like it's
Speaker 1: just a like, are you really there?
Speaker 5: I don't know, it's crazy you think that I actually
Speaker 5: cheat on you.
Speaker 3: It's pretty cute, but like not really.
Speaker 5: Giving that cheet on you with some like hot hot
Speaker 5: lady or something that's.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, he's definitely not.
Speaker 5: I love you. I wouldn't. I wouldn't, but also I
Speaker 5: guess I should. We should probably talk about it. Something
Speaker 5: kind of happened that it made me, uh kind of
Speaker 5: look at my.
Speaker 3: Life and where I am right now.
Speaker 5: As this is, uh, this is weird. So uh the
Speaker 5: reason I haven't spend a lot of time with Josh
Speaker 5: and he doesn't really want anybody to know, but you're
Speaker 5: kind of forcing my hand in this he's he's been
Speaker 5: diagnosed with uh cancer.
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry.
Speaker 5: I've been going with him to doctor visits and stuff,
Speaker 5: you know, because he's not he doesn't live near his family,
Speaker 5: and we just, you know, we him in best friends
Speaker 5: for a long time. And doctors are saying that it's
Speaker 5: totally tradable and success rates are pretty pretty good, pretty
Speaker 5: pretty responsive with how how early they caught it.
Speaker 3: But I mean that's.
Speaker 5: Kind of what's going on with him, and you know,
Speaker 5: he's he's Josh is really kind of secretive in his life,
Speaker 5: and he's like, you know, don't tell anybody. It's very
Speaker 5: embarrassing and everything. And I just didn't know what to do.
Speaker 5: So I've just really been kind of there for him
Speaker 5: as he's going through this so he doesn't have to
Speaker 5: do it alone.
Speaker 1: I had no idea. I had no idea. I'm so
Speaker 1: I mean, wow, but what does that what does that
Speaker 1: have to do with you? Like the working out and
Speaker 1: the eating, I mean, it's all that.
Speaker 5: Honestly. It was when I saw the look in his
Speaker 5: eyes when he first told me, you know, he couldn't
Speaker 5: stop crying, and I it kind of freaked me out.
Speaker 5: It kind of like made me think about my mortality
Speaker 5: and everything. And I just as soon as I saw
Speaker 5: that look in his eyes, I just decided. I was like,
Speaker 5: you have to make sure that you're around for the people.
Speaker 3: Who you care about.
Speaker 5: You know, it wouldn't be good if you know he's
Speaker 5: going through this, and you know, I haven't been healthy.
Speaker 5: I haven't been there. I'm black blax and eating pizza.
Speaker 5: You know, we always go out for Chinese, go out
Speaker 5: for Mexican food and everything, and I'm just like, let
Speaker 5: me just make sure that I'm here. Let me just
Speaker 5: make sure that I'm around. So I really just wanted
Speaker 5: to be healthier and just be here for him, be
Speaker 5: here for you, be here for everybody that I care about.
Speaker 5: And uh, you know, it just it sucked too, because
Speaker 5: I mean I haven't worked out like this in years.
Speaker 5: But now that I'm doing it and really focusing on.
Speaker 3: The reasons for doing it, it makes.
Speaker 5: Me start to enjoy it. Like I kind of tricked
Speaker 5: my brain and thinking like you want to do this,
Speaker 5: and next thing, you know, it's like I do want
Speaker 5: to do this, and then eating right kind of followed.
Speaker 5: I mean, I know, I say I don't have an
Speaker 5: apathet a lot of times but I don't. I'm just
Speaker 5: trying to eat, eat a little bit better.
Speaker 1: You know, Well, now it's terrible. Why didn't you just
Speaker 1: tell me? Why didn't you tell me any of this?
Speaker 1: I would have understood completely.
Speaker 5: I'm I'm a little to be honest, I'm a little
Speaker 5: embarrassed about it too. I haven't you know, I haven't
Speaker 5: done anything physical since way way before the pandemic, and
Speaker 5: I just got used to that lax live now, you know,
Speaker 5: let me just hang out, and we always just kind
Speaker 5: of stay home and hang out, and we've just been
Speaker 5: in that mode. And you know, when I Josh is
Speaker 5: health scared, made me kind of realize that, you know,
Speaker 5: that's not a way to live. It's just kind of
Speaker 5: a way to just be. And I want to I
Speaker 5: just want to do more. I just want to be
Speaker 5: here and just have a better, healthier life and you know,
Speaker 5: not make a noise every single time I've been over.
Speaker 5: And honestly, I think that maybe I didn't tell you
Speaker 5: because as Josh is going through this house trying to
Speaker 5: respect his privacy, and then you know, the embarrassment from
Speaker 5: him kind of lead over under me and I was like,
Speaker 5: let me just you know, it's like sometimes here improving yourself,
Speaker 5: you kind of want to hide from the world and
Speaker 5: reappear as a better version of yourself. I should have
Speaker 5: definitely told you, because you clearly thought I was. You
Speaker 5: can't around for somebody.
Speaker 3: I'm really god, I'm really sorry. Sorry about your friend man.
Speaker 3: But Katie, you know now he's not cheating.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I'm glad they caught it early. Now everybody's
Speaker 4: got this awakened need for wellness, and I think that's
Speaker 4: a great thing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I keep looking for a side piece though,
Speaker 5: well that happens.
Speaker 3: You know, you can hear from us again.
Speaker 1: There the Jewel Shows to catch a cheater.