Speaker 1: Rooking jew Boles a second d date. A lot of
Speaker 1: times when you go out on a date, you're just
Speaker 1: hoping to get through it, like you want it to
Speaker 1: be good, but you also want to make it to
Speaker 1: the end with nothing bad happening or no awkward moments,
Speaker 1: so that maybe you can go on a second date. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: the guy on the phone for a second date update today.
Speaker 1: His name is Aiden. Aiden met a beautiful girl, asked
Speaker 1: her out. They went for dinner. Food was good, good conversation.
Speaker 1: He made it almost to the end, and that dessert
Speaker 1: his world came crashing down and his date unraveled. You'll
Speaker 1: hear a story right now and find out what happened
Speaker 1: in just a second. But first aidan, what's up man?
Speaker 1: How are you? Hey? Guys, how's it going today? Good?
Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit about the girl that
Speaker 1: you want us to call today. How did you meet her?
Speaker 1: It was one of those nights when you go out
Speaker 1: and you're not looking for anything, and sure enough, that's
Speaker 1: when your world just, you know changes. I was I
Speaker 1: was just at a bar with a couple of friends,
Speaker 1: just having a good time. You know. Meeting a woman
Speaker 1: was the last thing on my mind. And that this
Speaker 1: girl comes walking into the bar and everything just went
Speaker 1: slow motion to sent for her and who, yeah, are
Speaker 1: you like typically this romantic of a man, not at all.
Speaker 1: I'm usually the real jerk. This is something new. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this was like one of those things that all your
Speaker 1: friends who are in love tell you about and you're like,
Speaker 1: you guys are idiots. And then it just it just
Speaker 1: had never happened to me until that night. And I'm
Speaker 1: not an overly confident guy when it comes to the ladies,
Speaker 1: but I wish one of those things. She walked by
Speaker 1: me the first time, and I was just so taken aback,
Speaker 1: and it just popped into my head. I'm like, you
Speaker 1: know what, everything else be damned. I have to find
Speaker 1: a way to meet this woman. So what did you
Speaker 1: What did you say to her? How did you approach her? Then?
Speaker 1: If you're nervous, After the world stopped spinning and everything,
Speaker 1: I just kind of pulled myself together and I'm like,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna walk up
Speaker 1: while she's with eight women. So probably about five ten
Speaker 1: minutes go by, and she just takes a walk to
Speaker 1: the bathroom and just when she's on the way, that's
Speaker 1: the best way to do it. Yeah, I will say
Speaker 1: it does sound like you're going from like totally swoon
Speaker 1: worthy to a little bit clean. No, I've just I've
Speaker 1: never had luck one. It's like eight women and me
Speaker 1: and I walk up. So just when she came walking
Speaker 1: by the bar area that I was at, I just said,
Speaker 1: excuse me, m and I had all these great, smooth
Speaker 1: things I wanted to say in my head, and instead
Speaker 1: of came out sounding so cheesy, it was just, hey,
Speaker 1: how does it feel to be the most beautiful woman
Speaker 1: in the room? And she just kind of looked at me, laughed,
Speaker 1: pose for a minute, and then just walked right on
Speaker 1: my Yeah, that is so cheesy. Sounds like a fairy
Speaker 1: tale meeting to me. Yeah, I froze. I don't know why.
Speaker 1: I had so many other original things to say, and
Speaker 1: I went with that it sounds sweetheart, how does it
Speaker 1: feel to be the most beautiful woman in this room? Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: when you say it, it sounds creepy. Yeah, that's how
Speaker 1: I picture you're saying it. Also like holding out like
Speaker 1: a little gun with your hand, Like yeah, you go
Speaker 1: ahead and move along to the bathroom and think about
Speaker 1: what daddy just told you. How did you come back
Speaker 1: from that and convince her to go out with you?
Speaker 1: You know, I think after I went outside and smacked
Speaker 1: myself in the head a couple of times, it called
Speaker 1: myself stupid, stupid, stupid. I went back inside. I walked
Speaker 1: over to her. I'm like, look about what I said earlier.
Speaker 1: I know it came off as cheese in a line,
Speaker 1: but I meant it. And she just looked at me
Speaker 1: and she smiled and she's like, you're very sweet. I'm like, well, thanks,
Speaker 1: and I never do this, but if you allow me to,
Speaker 1: I would love to take you out to dinner. And
Speaker 1: we've exchanged numbers and that's all that happened that night.
Speaker 1: So tell us about dinner. Then, how was that I
Speaker 1: got there early and got the table, and when she
Speaker 1: came walking in, it was the same thing all over again. Man,
Speaker 1: she just took the attention of everybody in the room.
Speaker 1: This girl, she doesn't have a bad side. She's amazing.
Speaker 1: And the thing that caught me is the night I
Speaker 1: saw her at the bar, she was just wearing like
Speaker 1: jeans and a top, and this night she was wearing
Speaker 1: a dress. And I don't know how let's explain it other.
Speaker 1: Then there's some women that can wear a dress, and
Speaker 1: then there's some women that just wear a dress. And
Speaker 1: when she walked in wearing a dress, she was wearing
Speaker 1: that dress, that dress all the way on her body. Nice.
Speaker 1: Godm I'm pretty positive some other guys in the restaurant
Speaker 1: got in trouble with their wives and girlfriends that night
Speaker 1: because there wasn't a head that did not turn when
Speaker 1: she went by. Okay, so, but how was actually like
Speaker 1: dinner with her? When you guys are sitting down talking
Speaker 1: and everything that was it good? Did she seem interested
Speaker 1: in you? It turned out we had a lot of similanches.
Speaker 1: And what's really funny is you wouldn't know it to
Speaker 1: look at her. She's so beautiful and mild, but she's
Speaker 1: like a tomboy through and through. So just awesome. I mean,
Speaker 1: beautiful girl into sports and not just like I like
Speaker 1: watching sports because my boyfriend LEDs watching it, like we
Speaker 1: were just going back and be like the whole time
Speaker 1: in my head, I was going there was something that
Speaker 1: night at the bar that told me to talk to her,
Speaker 1: and this was it was like I was meant to
Speaker 1: be hanging out at this moment. So the whole time
Speaker 1: with her was awesome. Obviously you liked it a lot.
Speaker 1: She seemed to be having a good time. Tell us
Speaker 1: about what happened when dessert came. Well, one dessert came.
Speaker 1: We got like the trimple, the layered chocolate cake killer
Speaker 1: thing and it comes out and they play in the
Speaker 1: siren table and we're just bolsting there, picked out with
Speaker 1: our forks, and the check came. I went to pull
Speaker 1: my wallet out, and I guess I had been out
Speaker 1: like the night before. I didn't put my credit card
Speaker 1: back in the normal place. So at first I was
Speaker 1: freaking out because I'm like, oh, my got great, perfect
Speaker 1: first date, and now I can't. But so I'm digging
Speaker 1: through my wallet looking for it, and I found it.
Speaker 1: But just as I found it, all the cards, all
Speaker 1: the business cards come flying out, dumping down to the
Speaker 1: table and then right into the what's remaining of our
Speaker 1: chocolate cake condom goes flying into the cake. Yeah, now
Speaker 1: that we had this dessert, you know what would go
Speaker 1: better with it? Some latex? What do you think, lady?
Speaker 1: Go back to my pad. I just saw my whole
Speaker 1: world come crashing inward. It was her reaction when she
Speaker 1: saw a condom in the dessert. She just stared at
Speaker 1: for a second, looked at me and said, well then,
Speaker 1: and kind of cocked her head. And then it was
Speaker 1: just horrific frozen face, and then she just busted out laughing. Okay,
Speaker 1: so she seemed to take it pretty cool. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: both started laughing. It was like that awkward and it
Speaker 1: was that moment where I'm like, do I pull the condom?
Speaker 1: I was the kid, because obviously I don't want to
Speaker 1: be the guy it's got chocolate on now do I
Speaker 1: put that back in my way? It became a thing.
Speaker 1: I hope she didn't think I was carrying around for
Speaker 1: a reason, Like I hope she wasn't thinking, oh, he
Speaker 1: was expecting to get something, you know tonight. It was
Speaker 1: just in there and there for a long time. Be honest,
Speaker 1: I totally forgot it wasn't there. If you feel like
Speaker 1: everything went cool after the whole condom debacle, why did
Speaker 1: you put in your email that you think that's the
Speaker 1: reason she might not be calling you back. Well, that's
Speaker 1: the only thing I can think that one wrong. Okay,
Speaker 1: when it comes down to it, that is the only
Speaker 1: thing that whole night that could have possibly caused the
Speaker 1: toll one eighty on, you know, returning calls and talking
Speaker 1: with me. Okay, well we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. All right,
Speaker 1: I'd appreciate it again, brooking jubil In the morning sep
Speaker 1: Right in the middle of a second date update, Aiden
Speaker 1: is on the phone today. He wants to call a
Speaker 1: girl named Summer. He had something very, very very awkward
Speaker 1: happened on his first date. At the end of the
Speaker 1: date when he was trying to pay. He was looking
Speaker 1: through his wallet because he couldn't find his debit card
Speaker 1: and he accidentally spilled some stuff on the table and
Speaker 1: a condom fell out of his wallet and into the desserts. Normally,
Speaker 1: I would say that this is like the most awkward
Speaker 1: thing I've ever heard on a date, But We've been
Speaker 1: doing these second date updates for so long now that
Speaker 1: I'm like, manh not really that bad actually compared to
Speaker 1: some of the other stuff we've heard. So at least
Speaker 1: there's that Aiden. So he thinks that he might not
Speaker 1: be getting a call back because she saw the con
Speaker 1: was like, oh, he's expecting to be getting some or
Speaker 1: oh he was trying to give me a little hint
Speaker 1: by dropping it in my dessert, like, hey, that was sweet,
Speaker 1: This is gonna be sweet, or something like that. Any
Speaker 1: last words before we make the phone call. Talking with
Speaker 1: you guys just made me feel really optimistic about because
Speaker 1: after I ran it all through, I'm like, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: why wouldn't she call me back? We had a great time,
Speaker 1: all right, Cool, I'm gonna doubt the phone of her
Speaker 1: right now and get her on the phone and find
Speaker 1: out why she's not calling you back. Here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: Hi is Summer there? Yeah? This is her? Who is us? Hey, Summer?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: It's a morning radio show. Okay, Cool, I'm calling you
Speaker 1: today because one of our listeners emailed us about you
Speaker 1: and asked if I could get you on the phone
Speaker 1: to ask you a few questions. Who emailed you. His
Speaker 1: name is Aiden, and you went out on a date
Speaker 1: with Aiden not too long ago. He asked if we
Speaker 1: could get you on the phone somehow and find out
Speaker 1: why you're not calling him back. This is kind of weird.
Speaker 1: I know, I know. It's a segment we do on
Speaker 1: our show called the Second Date Update. Do you mind
Speaker 1: telling us why you don't want to call Aiden back?
Speaker 1: I don't think that. I don't think that's a good idea.
Speaker 1: Aiden's a really, really sweet guy. Okay, there's got to
Speaker 1: be some issue if you don't want if he's a
Speaker 1: really sweet guy and you don't want to see him again.
Speaker 1: I mean, I just I don't want to hurt his feeling,
Speaker 1: you know. I just don't. I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: feel right about it. I think you're hurting his feelings
Speaker 1: right now by not calling him back with no reason.
Speaker 1: Can you give me some sort of information so I
Speaker 1: can at least tell him I think he should understand.
Speaker 1: Why was it the condom in your dessert? Just saying
Speaker 1: that awesome? That? Yeah, he did well? He told us
Speaker 1: because he feels like that's why you're not calling him back.
Speaker 1: He said it was an accident, but he thinks you
Speaker 1: might have assumed that he thought the evening was going
Speaker 1: to end up with him using the chocolate covered condom.
Speaker 1: That was just one of the one of the things
Speaker 1: that he did. Okay, well, what else did he do? Then?
Speaker 1: Like he knows that he messed up. But yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean he's a super romantic guy and he's so sweet
Speaker 1: and he's so kind, but it's almost like he doesn't
Speaker 1: understand the line between romantic and creepy. Oh I could
Speaker 1: see that totally. Like even just him explaining your date,
Speaker 1: he was he's a lot. It's flattering to a point,
Speaker 1: but he went like with you know, he'd give me
Speaker 1: a compliment, but he just went way over that, like
Speaker 1: he just kept complimenting you too much. Yeah, Like at dinner,
Speaker 1: he couldn't stop talking about how my dress was clinging
Speaker 1: to my body. Maybe he was trying to compliment the
Speaker 1: dress and it just came out the wrong way. I've
Speaker 1: done that before. Yeah, But then he started talking about
Speaker 1: how my walk is so graceful. Where did I learn
Speaker 1: such a such a graceful walk and how to sway
Speaker 1: like that? Okay, so he was just pouring it on thick. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I mean you could chalk that up to him
Speaker 1: being nervous, and yeah, I understand him, but it made
Speaker 1: me uncomfortable, Like I was really uncomfortable during the whole day.
Speaker 1: Was it that bad? Really? When we sat down at
Speaker 1: the table, he leaned in and said the instant he
Speaker 1: saw me, he became a round what was around? He said? Wow? Again,
Speaker 1: Like I said, maybe he just chose the wrong way
Speaker 1: to describe it. I mean he was just way eat
Speaker 1: you forward, and then when the condom fallen, the dessert
Speaker 1: it was like the cherry on top of the weird
Speaker 1: date cake. Yeah, did you guys talk about anything else
Speaker 1: besides how beautiful and arousing you are? I mean a
Speaker 1: little bit, you know, I try to hear the conversation
Speaker 1: towards forts. I thought maybe that would stappen, and you know,
Speaker 1: I'll get him to start thinking about something else and
Speaker 1: you just be like, hey, what time is it? And
Speaker 1: you're like, I don't know, it's high new on my
Speaker 1: son down because thinking you are a hot lady. That's
Speaker 1: just pretty much how it was. Everything came back to
Speaker 1: everything came back to him just curving out over you. Huh.
Speaker 1: That's pretty much how it went, just like that. That's understandable.
Speaker 1: Then I can see how I can see how that
Speaker 1: would be kind of weird if somebody just wouldn't I mean,
Speaker 1: if I sit down at somebody to tell you they're
Speaker 1: aroused right away? Yeah, that's strange. Did you like anything
Speaker 1: about the date at all? He is really nice. I
Speaker 1: can tell like to steep down. He's a really good person,
Speaker 1: and I don't think he needs to be creepy. But
Speaker 1: somebody just needs to sit him down and tell him,
Speaker 1: like where the line is between romantic and creepy? Why
Speaker 1: don't Why don't you do it? Because he's actually on
Speaker 1: the line listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, hi, Summer,
Speaker 1: I was I was trying to compliment you. I mean creepy,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was. I was just trying to
Speaker 1: give you a compliments. You know, you could just tell
Speaker 1: a girl that she looked nice and leave it at that,
Speaker 1: look nice. I told you you looked nice. I told
Speaker 1: you you were gorgeous, and you told me you were
Speaker 1: a rouse. Yeah I was aroused. But I mean I
Speaker 1: didn't mean it physically. I mean, god, no, I meant
Speaker 1: it like, you know, my senses felt hypened around you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a bad choice of words. Still feels like one sense.
Speaker 1: You have a different way to phrase that. I mean,
Speaker 1: it just creeps a girl out, Summer. You are the
Speaker 1: most beautiful woman I've ever met. You literally make me tingle,
Speaker 1: Like my whole body just trembles. That's something you don't
Speaker 1: need to tell a girl. That's not what you say
Speaker 1: on a first date. Hate it. You just met her,
Speaker 1: You don't know that much about her. How can you
Speaker 1: say she's all of these things. I just wanted her
Speaker 1: to know how good she was making me feel. I mean,
Speaker 1: it was like being on a drug when I was
Speaker 1: around her, and I felt like you had the right
Speaker 1: to know that. Well, it's all very flattering. It's a
Speaker 1: lot for somebody to take in, you know. It's like
Speaker 1: you're more worshiping me than actually being on the date.
Speaker 1: It just gets a little bit creepy. I'm sorry if
Speaker 1: you felt like I was saying too much, but I'm
Speaker 1: not going to say I'm sorry for telling you you're beautiful.
Speaker 1: You're beautiful and you deserve to be told that. That's sweet.
Speaker 1: Once is enough, though, and there's better ways of saying
Speaker 1: it than telling me you're aroused. Right when I said
Speaker 1: all right, all right, I agree, maybe I chose poorly. Um,
Speaker 1: if I promised to tone it down, as you say,
Speaker 1: would you be willing to give me another chance summer?
Speaker 1: Would you like to go out with aid and again
Speaker 1: we'll pay for it. I don't I don't think that
Speaker 1: he is going to tone it down. I think you
Speaker 1: should give him a second chance. I mean, I see
Speaker 1: the creepiness, but he's well, yeah, I promise. I was
Speaker 1: just I was just really excited to be spending time
Speaker 1: with you. He doesn't seem like a bad guy. He
Speaker 1: just needs to learn new words from being excited and excited.
Speaker 1: It's not the right word you used to. Don't use
Speaker 1: that one either, but I think that's it. Summer. Would
Speaker 1: you go out with him again? You promise me you
Speaker 1: won't talk about my body and how my dress look
Speaker 1: and my beautiful eyes. You won't say any of those things.
Speaker 1: I promise. I'll try my best, but it's hard. It's hard, Summer.
Speaker 1: Will you do it? Just one more chance? What's the
Speaker 1: worst that could happen? You sit with the dude who
Speaker 1: tells you how awesome you are? Yeah, I mean, he
Speaker 1: is really sweet. I would give him one more chance. Okay, Yes, awesome. Congratulations, Aid,
Speaker 1: and you got your second date. Thank you, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, and Summer enjoy yourself. Thank you
Speaker 1: for your time. We appreciate it. Thank you. All right,
Speaker 1: this whole thing was very arousing. Well, thank you for
Speaker 1: that broken jupil in the morning,