1 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: Rooking jew Boles a second d date. A lot of 2 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 1: times when you go out on a date, you're just 3 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: hoping to get through it, like you want it to 4 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: be good, but you also want to make it to 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 1: the end with nothing bad happening or no awkward moments, 6 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 1: so that maybe you can go on a second date. Okay, Well, 7 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: the guy on the phone for a second date update today. 8 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 1: His name is Aiden. Aiden met a beautiful girl, asked 9 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: her out. They went for dinner. Food was good, good conversation. 10 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 1: He made it almost to the end, and that dessert 11 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:36,200 Speaker 1: his world came crashing down and his date unraveled. You'll 12 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: hear a story right now and find out what happened 13 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 1: in just a second. But first aidan, what's up man? 14 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: How are you? Hey? Guys, how's it going today? Good? 15 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit about the girl that 16 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: you want us to call today. How did you meet her? 17 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 1: It was one of those nights when you go out 18 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: and you're not looking for anything, and sure enough, that's 19 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: when your world just, you know changes. I was I 20 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 1: was just at a bar with a couple of friends, 21 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: just having a good time. You know. Meeting a woman 22 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: was the last thing on my mind. And that this 23 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: girl comes walking into the bar and everything just went 24 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 1: slow motion to sent for her and who, yeah, are 25 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 1: you like typically this romantic of a man, not at all. 26 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: I'm usually the real jerk. This is something new. Yeah, 27 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 1: this was like one of those things that all your 28 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 1: friends who are in love tell you about and you're like, 29 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: you guys are idiots. And then it just it just 30 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 1: had never happened to me until that night. And I'm 31 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: not an overly confident guy when it comes to the ladies, 32 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: but I wish one of those things. She walked by 33 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: me the first time, and I was just so taken aback, 34 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: and it just popped into my head. I'm like, you 35 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 1: know what, everything else be damned. I have to find 36 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 1: a way to meet this woman. So what did you 37 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: What did you say to her? How did you approach her? Then? 38 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: If you're nervous, After the world stopped spinning and everything, 39 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: I just kind of pulled myself together and I'm like, 40 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: all right, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna walk up 41 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 1: while she's with eight women. So probably about five ten 42 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: minutes go by, and she just takes a walk to 43 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: the bathroom and just when she's on the way, that's 44 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 1: the best way to do it. Yeah, I will say 45 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:13,359 Speaker 1: it does sound like you're going from like totally swoon 46 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 1: worthy to a little bit clean. No, I've just I've 47 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: never had luck one. It's like eight women and me 48 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: and I walk up. So just when she came walking 49 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: by the bar area that I was at, I just said, 50 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: excuse me, m and I had all these great, smooth 51 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: things I wanted to say in my head, and instead 52 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 1: of came out sounding so cheesy, it was just, hey, 53 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: how does it feel to be the most beautiful woman 54 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 1: in the room? And she just kind of looked at me, laughed, 55 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: pose for a minute, and then just walked right on 56 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: my Yeah, that is so cheesy. Sounds like a fairy 57 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: tale meeting to me. Yeah, I froze. I don't know why. 58 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: I had so many other original things to say, and 59 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: I went with that it sounds sweetheart, how does it 60 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 1: feel to be the most beautiful woman in this room? Well, yeah, 61 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: when you say it, it sounds creepy. Yeah, that's how 62 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 1: I picture you're saying it. Also like holding out like 63 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: a little gun with your hand, Like yeah, you go 64 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 1: ahead and move along to the bathroom and think about 65 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: what daddy just told you. How did you come back 66 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: from that and convince her to go out with you? 67 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: You know, I think after I went outside and smacked 68 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: myself in the head a couple of times, it called 69 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:28,239 Speaker 1: myself stupid, stupid, stupid. I went back inside. I walked 70 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,920 Speaker 1: over to her. I'm like, look about what I said earlier. 71 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: I know it came off as cheese in a line, 72 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: but I meant it. And she just looked at me 73 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: and she smiled and she's like, you're very sweet. I'm like, well, thanks, 74 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: and I never do this, but if you allow me to, 75 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: I would love to take you out to dinner. And 76 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: we've exchanged numbers and that's all that happened that night. 77 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 1: So tell us about dinner. Then, how was that I 78 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: got there early and got the table, and when she 79 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 1: came walking in, it was the same thing all over again. Man, 80 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: she just took the attention of everybody in the room. 81 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: This girl, she doesn't have a bad side. She's amazing. 82 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: And the thing that caught me is the night I 83 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: saw her at the bar, she was just wearing like 84 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: jeans and a top, and this night she was wearing 85 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: a dress. And I don't know how let's explain it other. 86 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 1: Then there's some women that can wear a dress, and 87 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: then there's some women that just wear a dress. And 88 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 1: when she walked in wearing a dress, she was wearing 89 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 1: that dress, that dress all the way on her body. Nice. 90 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:30,919 Speaker 1: Godm I'm pretty positive some other guys in the restaurant 91 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 1: got in trouble with their wives and girlfriends that night 92 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: because there wasn't a head that did not turn when 93 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 1: she went by. Okay, so, but how was actually like 94 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: dinner with her? When you guys are sitting down talking 95 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 1: and everything that was it good? Did she seem interested 96 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: in you? It turned out we had a lot of similanches. 97 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: And what's really funny is you wouldn't know it to 98 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 1: look at her. She's so beautiful and mild, but she's 99 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 1: like a tomboy through and through. So just awesome. I mean, 100 00:04:56,680 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 1: beautiful girl into sports and not just like I like 101 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 1: watching sports because my boyfriend LEDs watching it, like we 102 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 1: were just going back and be like the whole time 103 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: in my head, I was going there was something that 104 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 1: night at the bar that told me to talk to her, 105 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: and this was it was like I was meant to 106 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: be hanging out at this moment. So the whole time 107 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 1: with her was awesome. Obviously you liked it a lot. 108 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: She seemed to be having a good time. Tell us 109 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 1: about what happened when dessert came. Well, one dessert came. 110 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: We got like the trimple, the layered chocolate cake killer 111 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 1: thing and it comes out and they play in the 112 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 1: siren table and we're just bolsting there, picked out with 113 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: our forks, and the check came. I went to pull 114 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,280 Speaker 1: my wallet out, and I guess I had been out 115 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: like the night before. I didn't put my credit card 116 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,039 Speaker 1: back in the normal place. So at first I was 117 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: freaking out because I'm like, oh, my got great, perfect 118 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 1: first date, and now I can't. But so I'm digging 119 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 1: through my wallet looking for it, and I found it. 120 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 1: But just as I found it, all the cards, all 121 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 1: the business cards come flying out, dumping down to the 122 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: table and then right into the what's remaining of our 123 00:05:54,360 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: chocolate cake condom goes flying into the cake. Yeah, now 124 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: that we had this dessert, you know what would go 125 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,919 Speaker 1: better with it? Some latex? What do you think, lady? 126 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:12,039 Speaker 1: Go back to my pad. I just saw my whole 127 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: world come crashing inward. It was her reaction when she 128 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 1: saw a condom in the dessert. She just stared at 129 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: for a second, looked at me and said, well then, 130 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 1: and kind of cocked her head. And then it was 131 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: just horrific frozen face, and then she just busted out laughing. Okay, 132 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:33,279 Speaker 1: so she seemed to take it pretty cool. Yeah, we 133 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: both started laughing. It was like that awkward and it 134 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: was that moment where I'm like, do I pull the condom? 135 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 1: I was the kid, because obviously I don't want to 136 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: be the guy it's got chocolate on now do I 137 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: put that back in my way? It became a thing. 138 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: I hope she didn't think I was carrying around for 139 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: a reason, Like I hope she wasn't thinking, oh, he 140 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: was expecting to get something, you know tonight. It was 141 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:55,239 Speaker 1: just in there and there for a long time. Be honest, 142 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 1: I totally forgot it wasn't there. If you feel like 143 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 1: everything went cool after the whole condom debacle, why did 144 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 1: you put in your email that you think that's the 145 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 1: reason she might not be calling you back. Well, that's 146 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: the only thing I can think that one wrong. Okay, 147 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: when it comes down to it, that is the only 148 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: thing that whole night that could have possibly caused the 149 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,679 Speaker 1: toll one eighty on, you know, returning calls and talking 150 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: with me. Okay, well we'll play a song, come back, 151 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. All right, 152 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: I'd appreciate it again, brooking jubil In the morning sep 153 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 1: Right in the middle of a second date update, Aiden 154 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 1: is on the phone today. He wants to call a 155 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: girl named Summer. He had something very, very very awkward 156 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 1: happened on his first date. At the end of the 157 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: date when he was trying to pay. He was looking 158 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: through his wallet because he couldn't find his debit card 159 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: and he accidentally spilled some stuff on the table and 160 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: a condom fell out of his wallet and into the desserts. Normally, 161 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: I would say that this is like the most awkward 162 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 1: thing I've ever heard on a date, But We've been 163 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 1: doing these second date updates for so long now that 164 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, manh not really that bad actually compared to 165 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 1: some of the other stuff we've heard. So at least 166 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: there's that Aiden. So he thinks that he might not 167 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 1: be getting a call back because she saw the con 168 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: was like, oh, he's expecting to be getting some or 169 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: oh he was trying to give me a little hint 170 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: by dropping it in my dessert, like, hey, that was sweet, 171 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: This is gonna be sweet, or something like that. Any 172 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: last words before we make the phone call. Talking with 173 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 1: you guys just made me feel really optimistic about because 174 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 1: after I ran it all through, I'm like, yeah, no, 175 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: why wouldn't she call me back? We had a great time, 176 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: all right, Cool, I'm gonna doubt the phone of her 177 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 1: right now and get her on the phone and find 178 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 1: out why she's not calling you back. Here we go. Hello, 179 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:49,680 Speaker 1: Hi is Summer there? Yeah? This is her? Who is us? Hey, Summer? 180 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil 181 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: in the Morning. Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. 182 00:08:56,280 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: It's a morning radio show. Okay, Cool, I'm calling you 183 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 1: today because one of our listeners emailed us about you 184 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 1: and asked if I could get you on the phone 185 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: to ask you a few questions. Who emailed you. His 186 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 1: name is Aiden, and you went out on a date 187 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 1: with Aiden not too long ago. He asked if we 188 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: could get you on the phone somehow and find out 189 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: why you're not calling him back. This is kind of weird. 190 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:25,559 Speaker 1: I know, I know. It's a segment we do on 191 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 1: our show called the Second Date Update. Do you mind 192 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: telling us why you don't want to call Aiden back? 193 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 1: I don't think that. I don't think that's a good idea. 194 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: Aiden's a really, really sweet guy. Okay, there's got to 195 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 1: be some issue if you don't want if he's a 196 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 1: really sweet guy and you don't want to see him again. 197 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I just I don't want to hurt his feeling, 198 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 1: you know. I just don't. I don't know. I don't 199 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: feel right about it. I think you're hurting his feelings 200 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 1: right now by not calling him back with no reason. 201 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 1: Can you give me some sort of information so I 202 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: can at least tell him I think he should understand. 203 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: Why was it the condom in your dessert? Just saying 204 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: that awesome? That? Yeah, he did well? He told us 205 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 1: because he feels like that's why you're not calling him back. 206 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: He said it was an accident, but he thinks you 207 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: might have assumed that he thought the evening was going 208 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 1: to end up with him using the chocolate covered condom. 209 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:20,439 Speaker 1: That was just one of the one of the things 210 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:23,559 Speaker 1: that he did. Okay, well, what else did he do? Then? 211 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 1: Like he knows that he messed up. But yeah, I 212 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 1: mean he's a super romantic guy and he's so sweet 213 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 1: and he's so kind, but it's almost like he doesn't 214 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 1: understand the line between romantic and creepy. Oh I could 215 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 1: see that totally. Like even just him explaining your date, 216 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 1: he was he's a lot. It's flattering to a point, 217 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 1: but he went like with you know, he'd give me 218 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 1: a compliment, but he just went way over that, like 219 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 1: he just kept complimenting you too much. Yeah, Like at dinner, 220 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 1: he couldn't stop talking about how my dress was clinging 221 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 1: to my body. Maybe he was trying to compliment the 222 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 1: dress and it just came out the wrong way. I've 223 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: done that before. Yeah, But then he started talking about 224 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: how my walk is so graceful. Where did I learn 225 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 1: such a such a graceful walk and how to sway 226 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: like that? Okay, so he was just pouring it on thick. Yeah, 227 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: but I mean you could chalk that up to him 228 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 1: being nervous, and yeah, I understand him, but it made 229 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 1: me uncomfortable, Like I was really uncomfortable during the whole day. 230 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 1: Was it that bad? Really? When we sat down at 231 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: the table, he leaned in and said the instant he 232 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:52,439 Speaker 1: saw me, he became a round what was around? He said? Wow? Again, 233 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 1: Like I said, maybe he just chose the wrong way 234 00:11:56,360 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 1: to describe it. I mean he was just way eat 235 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: you forward, and then when the condom fallen, the dessert 236 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 1: it was like the cherry on top of the weird 237 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: date cake. Yeah, did you guys talk about anything else 238 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: besides how beautiful and arousing you are? I mean a 239 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 1: little bit, you know, I try to hear the conversation 240 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: towards forts. I thought maybe that would stappen, and you know, 241 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 1: I'll get him to start thinking about something else and 242 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 1: you just be like, hey, what time is it? And 243 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 1: you're like, I don't know, it's high new on my 244 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: son down because thinking you are a hot lady. That's 245 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 1: just pretty much how it was. Everything came back to 246 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 1: everything came back to him just curving out over you. Huh. 247 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:48,320 Speaker 1: That's pretty much how it went, just like that. That's understandable. 248 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: Then I can see how I can see how that 249 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: would be kind of weird if somebody just wouldn't I mean, 250 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 1: if I sit down at somebody to tell you they're 251 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: aroused right away? Yeah, that's strange. Did you like anything 252 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 1: about the date at all? He is really nice. I 253 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 1: can tell like to steep down. He's a really good person, 254 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 1: and I don't think he needs to be creepy. But 255 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 1: somebody just needs to sit him down and tell him, 256 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:15,319 Speaker 1: like where the line is between romantic and creepy? Why 257 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 1: don't Why don't you do it? Because he's actually on 258 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 1: the line listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, hi, Summer, 259 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:28,840 Speaker 1: I was I was trying to compliment you. I mean creepy, 260 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was. I was just trying to 261 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: give you a compliments. You know, you could just tell 262 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 1: a girl that she looked nice and leave it at that, 263 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: look nice. I told you you looked nice. I told 264 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:43,319 Speaker 1: you you were gorgeous, and you told me you were 265 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 1: a rouse. Yeah I was aroused. But I mean I 266 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: didn't mean it physically. I mean, god, no, I meant 267 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 1: it like, you know, my senses felt hypened around you. Yeah, 268 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 1: it's a bad choice of words. Still feels like one sense. 269 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:04,079 Speaker 1: You have a different way to phrase that. I mean, 270 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 1: it just creeps a girl out, Summer. You are the 271 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 1: most beautiful woman I've ever met. You literally make me tingle, 272 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: Like my whole body just trembles. That's something you don't 273 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: need to tell a girl. That's not what you say 274 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 1: on a first date. Hate it. You just met her, 275 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: You don't know that much about her. How can you 276 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 1: say she's all of these things. I just wanted her 277 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: to know how good she was making me feel. I mean, 278 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 1: it was like being on a drug when I was 279 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 1: around her, and I felt like you had the right 280 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: to know that. Well, it's all very flattering. It's a 281 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: lot for somebody to take in, you know. It's like 282 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 1: you're more worshiping me than actually being on the date. 283 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 1: It just gets a little bit creepy. I'm sorry if 284 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: you felt like I was saying too much, but I'm 285 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: not going to say I'm sorry for telling you you're beautiful. 286 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: You're beautiful and you deserve to be told that. That's sweet. 287 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 1: Once is enough, though, and there's better ways of saying 288 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 1: it than telling me you're aroused. Right when I said 289 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 1: all right, all right, I agree, maybe I chose poorly. Um, 290 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: if I promised to tone it down, as you say, 291 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: would you be willing to give me another chance summer? 292 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: Would you like to go out with aid and again 293 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 1: we'll pay for it. I don't I don't think that 294 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 1: he is going to tone it down. I think you 295 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 1: should give him a second chance. I mean, I see 296 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 1: the creepiness, but he's well, yeah, I promise. I was 297 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 1: just I was just really excited to be spending time 298 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: with you. He doesn't seem like a bad guy. He 299 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: just needs to learn new words from being excited and excited. 300 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 1: It's not the right word you used to. Don't use 301 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 1: that one either, but I think that's it. Summer. Would 302 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 1: you go out with him again? You promise me you 303 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 1: won't talk about my body and how my dress look 304 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: and my beautiful eyes. You won't say any of those things. 305 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:07,760 Speaker 1: I promise. I'll try my best, but it's hard. It's hard, Summer. 306 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 1: Will you do it? Just one more chance? What's the 307 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: worst that could happen? You sit with the dude who 308 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 1: tells you how awesome you are? Yeah, I mean, he 309 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 1: is really sweet. I would give him one more chance. Okay, Yes, awesome. Congratulations, Aid, 310 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 1: and you got your second date. Thank you, thank you, 311 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, and Summer enjoy yourself. Thank you 312 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 1: for your time. We appreciate it. Thank you. All right, 313 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 1: this whole thing was very arousing. Well, thank you for 314 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: that broken jupil in the morning,