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Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.

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Speaker 1: Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.

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Speaker 1: Today's tip is to use the tomorrow test to help

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Speaker 1: you make better decisions. If an option doesn't sound like

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Speaker 1: it would be appealing to you tomorrow, it is probably

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Speaker 1: not going to be appealing for you ever, no matter

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Speaker 1: how far in the future you look. Long time listeners

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Speaker 1: may have heard me recommend using the tomorrow test for

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Speaker 1: evaluating requests. When you are presented with a one off

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Speaker 1: social event or a work or volunteer commitment, consider whether

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Speaker 1: you would say yes if you would have to do

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Speaker 1: this thing tomorrow. If you would say yes, go for it.

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Speaker 1: If not, consider whether your future self is going to

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Speaker 1: be upset with you for saying yes on his or

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Speaker 1: her behalf. Now. Of course, you may be thinking that

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Speaker 1: you couldn't do it tomorrow because you are busy tomorrow,

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Speaker 1: But your future self is going to be busy too.

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Speaker 1: If you wouldn't rearrange your schedule to say yes tomorrow,

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Speaker 1: don't say yes for the more distant future either. You

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Speaker 1: can use the tomorrow test for longer term professional projects

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Speaker 1: or personal commitments as well. If you don't have time

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Speaker 1: in your schedule to start a new project within the

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Speaker 1: next week or so, When will you realistically have the

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Speaker 1: time for it. Unless you have a project with a

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Speaker 1: clear end date coming up, you probably don't want to

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Speaker 1: take on a new project unless you have the time

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Speaker 1: an inclination to get started on it right away. The

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Speaker 1: same goes for a new book club, or softball team

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Speaker 1: or wire. If you can't make it to the next

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Speaker 1: choir practice, do you really have the time and desire

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Speaker 1: to join the choir at all? Not only does the

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Speaker 1: tomorrow test keep us from making commitments we end up regretting,

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Speaker 1: it can save us from bad purchases too. When you

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Speaker 1: buy a new item of clothing that you love, you

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Speaker 1: usually want to wear it the next day, or at

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Speaker 1: least on the next appropriate occasion. You may even invent

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Speaker 1: an occasion to wear it. But if you don't wear

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Speaker 1: something on the next appropriate occasion, it is probably never

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Speaker 1: going to be a favorite. So if you are shopping

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Speaker 1: and contemplating buying a new pair of shoes, ask yourself,

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Speaker 1: will I wear these tomorrow? If the answer is not

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Speaker 1: a resounding yes, they are probably not for you. This

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Speaker 1: is equally true for interesting ingredients at the grocery store bacon,

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Speaker 1: onion jam or chilly crisp may seem fun to try,

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Speaker 1: but if you don't plan to try them tomorrow, save

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Speaker 1: your money in your pantry space for something else. Aspirational

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Speaker 1: ingredients don't make your meals special when they never get enjoyed.

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Speaker 1: If a new book catches your eye but you wouldn't

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Speaker 1: start reading it tomorrow, don't buy it. Put it on

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Speaker 1: your to be red list, and you can remind your

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Speaker 1: future self about the book and let her decide whether

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Speaker 1: she wants to read it. The good news is that

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Speaker 1: in this era of e books, you will be able

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Speaker 1: to purchase the book immediately as soon as you decide

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Speaker 1: you do want to read it, so you don't need

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Speaker 1: to add it to the night standpile now. The tomorrow

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Speaker 1: test knowledge is that we are still going to be

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Speaker 1: the same people in the future. I am not saying

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Speaker 1: people don't change at all, because they sometimes do, but

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Speaker 1: life is not going to be magically less complicated at

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Speaker 1: some later date. You won't magically have more energy. So

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Speaker 1: when you are making any sort of decision, evaluate how

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Speaker 1: enthusiastic you would be tomorrow. That is a much more

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Speaker 1: accurate representation of future you than anything else. If you

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Speaker 1: try the tomorrow test, you can let me know how

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Speaker 1: it goes at Laura at Laura Vanderkam dot com. In

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Speaker 1: the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening and here's

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