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Speaker 1: Get It All Advice, Hezello, Helloa, Llall, Hello, and Rob Shooter.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to a special edition of The Naughty but Nice Show.

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Speaker 1: So Monday to Friday. Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday,

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Speaker 1: we do a twenty minute podcast on all the celebrity

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Speaker 1: news or the celebrity gossip of the day. We love it. However,

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Speaker 1: as well as being one of the most dry gossip

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Speaker 1: columnists in the world, I'm also a best selling author

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Speaker 1: of self help author I'm recognized as one of the

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Speaker 1: leading experts on habits, on change, on self and so

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Speaker 1: On the weekends, we do these short podcasts only about

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Speaker 1: ten minutes to hopefully set us up to have an

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Speaker 1: amazing week, and amazing month, an amazing year, and amazing life.

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Speaker 1: Today's podcast is all about remembering that every smart person

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Speaker 1: sets a deadlon. How often do you put off doing

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Speaker 1: something that makes you feel uncomfortable? Saying I will do

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Speaker 1: it tomorrow is the easiest way to make sure it

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Speaker 1: will never happen. I know it's a lot easier to

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Speaker 1: say I'll do it tomorrow, but tomorrow never comes unless

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Speaker 1: you set a deadlon and you stick to it. No

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Speaker 1: one knows that better than I do. After almost a

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Speaker 1: decade of putting things off and pushing away my dreams,

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Speaker 1: all of that changed when I started being honest with

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Speaker 1: myself about the real reason I was doing it, The

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Speaker 1: real reason I was putting everything off until tomorrow, the

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Speaker 1: real reason I could never get anything done. The real

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Speaker 1: reason was because I was scared, frightened to go after

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Speaker 1: my dreams. It felt safer to convince myself that I

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Speaker 1: would get around to it one day, rather than letting

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Speaker 1: today be the one day of getting it done. Pablo

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Speaker 1: Picasso said the following, I love this quote. Only put

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Speaker 1: off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having

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Speaker 1: left undone. How truthful is that, when it comes to

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Speaker 1: getting stuff done, you really have two options, change or excuses.

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Speaker 1: It's that simple. Excuses are just our fears, desperately hoping

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Speaker 1: to convince you not to do something newer, keeping you

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Speaker 1: in your comfort zone, in a place that feels familiar.

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Speaker 1: You are never too busy, never too old, never to stooping,

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Speaker 1: never too fat, never to anything to make a change.

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Speaker 1: You're making excuses. What you're doing is making excuses because

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Speaker 1: you were frightened. Then next time you make an excuse,

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Speaker 1: admit it. Admit that you are scared, and then this

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Speaker 1: is really important, set a deadline. Julie Andrews, who I love.

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Speaker 1: I've met her a couple of times, said quote. There

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Speaker 1: will be many times in your life, at school or

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Speaker 1: when you are a grown up, when people will distract

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Speaker 1: or divert you from what needs to be done. You

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Speaker 1: may even welcome the distraction, but if you use it

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Speaker 1: as an excuse for not doing what you are really

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Speaker 1: supposed to do, you can blame no one but yourself.

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Speaker 1: If you truly wish to accomplish something, you should allow

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Speaker 1: nothing to stop you, and chances are you will succeed.

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Speaker 1: I would distract myself all the time. Now I understand

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Speaker 1: that what I was doing was actually looking for excuses

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Speaker 1: because I was scared. I didn't think I deserved a

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Speaker 1: good life. It's that sad, but it's true. Didn't think

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Speaker 1: I deserved it. I lived in fear that one day

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Speaker 1: I would be exposed as a total fraud. Now I

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Speaker 1: know I deserve a great life and won't let anyone,

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Speaker 1: including myself sabotaget. Don't be scared, be smart. When we

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Speaker 1: are honest with ourselves, our fears don't disappear, but our excuses.

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Speaker 1: Do you have to push forward even if your legs

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Speaker 1: are shaking, keep walking, even if your voice is trembling

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Speaker 1: with fear. Speak up and refuse to be silenced. Don't

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Speaker 1: forget you are smart and brave enough to go after

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Speaker 1: all your dreams. Mark Zuckerberg said quote, the biggest risk

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Speaker 1: is not taking any risk at all. The only strategy

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Speaker 1: that is guaranteed to fail is not taking risks. Smart

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Speaker 1: people are never too busy to make time to do

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Speaker 1: what is important. They don't cloak themselves with excuses to

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Speaker 1: stop themselves from doing anything new. Rather, they opt for

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Speaker 1: an extraordinary life rather than a safe one. You have

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Speaker 1: to take chances or you're never going to grow. And

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Speaker 1: if you never grow because you keep making excuses, you

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Speaker 1: will regret it. Cameronda said quote, Your regrets aren't what

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Speaker 1: you did, but what you didn't do. So I take

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Speaker 1: every opportunity me too, Cameron. Procrastination is not who you are,

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Speaker 1: it's what you do. Let me say that again. Procrastination,

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Speaker 1: it's not who you are, it's what you do. It's

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Speaker 1: a bad habit to procrastinate. It's not in your DNA,

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Speaker 1: it's not your natural state of being. And It's not

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Speaker 1: something that was God given to you. No one was

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Speaker 1: born a procrastinator. Rather, some have a bad habit of procrastinating.

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Speaker 1: I know I did to break it. Write down all

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Speaker 1: things that you don't want to do today. The phone

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Speaker 1: calls you want to ignore, the emails you don't want

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Speaker 1: to respond to, and the conversations you don't want to have,

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Speaker 1: and the tasks that you've been putting off forever. Now,

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Speaker 1: start with the one thing you want to do the least.

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Speaker 1: Get it out of the way, and get it out

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Speaker 1: of your mind. The very last person I want to

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Speaker 1: speak to is always the first person I call. The

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Speaker 1: thing that I avoid the most is the first thing

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Speaker 1: I get done in the morning. It does not matter

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Speaker 1: if you start scared, or late, or even start over.

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Speaker 1: You just need to start, and once you do, you

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Speaker 1: will discover that that is the best way to silence

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Speaker 1: your fears. John Lennon said quote, there are two basic

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Speaker 1: motivating forces in life, fear and love. When we are afraid,

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Speaker 1: we pull back from life. When we are in love,

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Speaker 1: we open to all that life has to offer. We

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Speaker 1: need to learn to love ourselves first. If we cannot

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Speaker 1: love ourselves, we cannot be fully open to our ability

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Speaker 1: to love others. Take a deep breath and have faith

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Speaker 1: in yourself every lesson, every challenge, and every hard moment.

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Speaker 1: Everything you are learning along the way will help you

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Speaker 1: to get where you need to go. And always set

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Speaker 1: a deadline. Ashton Kutcher send quote, The sexiest thing in

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Speaker 1: the world is being really smart and being thoughtful and

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Speaker 1: being generous. Everything else is crap. I promise you it's

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Speaker 1: just crap. People try to sell you to make you

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Speaker 1: feel like less, so don't buy it. Be smart, be generous,

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Speaker 1: be thoughtful, and always always set a deadline. Hey, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for listening to these weekend editions of

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Speaker 1: The Naughty but Nice Show. I know it's a little

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Speaker 1: strange having the in your ear Monday to Friday talking

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Speaker 1: reporting on celebrities, and then on the weekend doing this,

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Speaker 1: but I love it, and our numbers are just so phenomenal.

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Speaker 1: I think we're really hitting a nerve here. We all

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Speaker 1: need just ten minutes, ten minutes. It's every weekend to

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Speaker 1: think about ourselves. After all, you are the start. It's

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