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Speaker 1: First Date to follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at advocates dot com.

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Speaker 2: Thomas is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Nanny.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Thomas was U, Man,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you talked to Nannie?

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Speaker 3: I spent a couple of days, some texts, no reply.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you sound bummed.

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Speaker 3: I really thought I nailed this date.

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Speaker 4: I thought this was the best date I ever made.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, well, why don't you tell us about the date?

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Speaker 5: Then?

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Speaker 3: Well, we went to this night of market.

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Speaker 6: You know, it was just like just pop up mainstream thing,

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Speaker 6: lots of food vendors and like you know, street our performers.

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Speaker 4: That kind of stuff, and you know, it's actually a.

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Speaker 6: Lot more fun than I thought it was going to be.

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Speaker 6: The honest, She's taking pictures the whole time and like

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Speaker 6: seeing that you have a good time, Like this is

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Speaker 6: like a total like Instagram little date, you know what

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Speaker 6: I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So is she like an influencer or something.

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Speaker 6: No, she's an insurance but like she's business insurance. I'm

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Speaker 6: actually trying to stand my own business this year. So

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Speaker 6: I was, you know, hell interested in all her insurance knowledge.

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Speaker 1: You know, did you guys? I don't know, if we

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Speaker 1: get close and flirty, like how did that vibe feel

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Speaker 1: outside of the instagrammable moments?

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Speaker 3: I mean I thought so, I mean, she's crazy.

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Speaker 6: I you know, I was so into her, like Meg Mega,

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Speaker 6: like I could look at this girl for a decade.

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Speaker 3: I saw she was sheeling the same without me.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know, maybe shouldn't get my humor or something,

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Speaker 3: or the clothes weren't right. I don't really know what

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Speaker 3: it was.

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Speaker 1: So I was like the conversations during the date.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you know, I kept making jokes, and I

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Speaker 4: think she thought she was. She was like laughing on

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Speaker 4: the inside. You know, she's not a big laugher, but like.

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Speaker 2: Laughing on the inside.

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Speaker 3: I'm talking at her jobs.

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Speaker 4: He's like, I'm saying, I'm trying to start this business.

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Speaker 6: Next year, and like she's in business insurance. I had

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Speaker 6: a lot of questions, and I thought we were having

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Speaker 6: a good report.

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Speaker 1: Going, you know, Okay, did anything happen. That was kind

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Speaker 1: of awkward on the date other than talking about business

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Speaker 1: the whole.

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Speaker 3: Time, So maybe some of my jokes were over her head.

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Speaker 3: There was there was one thing. It was bad.

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Speaker 6: You know, I don't want I don't want to talk

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Speaker 6: about on the radio.

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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna hope it.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't that thing on.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to talk about what it was.

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Speaker 1: But it's a safe place Thomas. Well, I mean, let

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Speaker 1: us be the judge.

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Speaker 4: Don't think it just I just I don't want to

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Speaker 4: talk about it whatever that makes me feel like it's that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 6: Know, it's it's hard to I just don't want to

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Speaker 6: talk about it.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it was that. It could have been

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Speaker 3: that whatever.

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Speaker 1: I don't Okay, can you just do this for us, Thomas, Like,

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Speaker 1: was it perverted? Wasn't funny? Was it awkward?

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Speaker 4: No, it was just it was the thing that just happened.

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Speaker 6: It could happen anyway, don't let's move on.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to talk about.

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Speaker 2: It, Poka.

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Speaker 1: I know now my head's going to a lot of

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Speaker 1: the censor us that dad your pain.

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Speaker 4: I did not see my pants?

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Speaker 2: Okay, you have a pause on that made me think

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Speaker 2: you did. All right, Well, we'll try to figure it

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Speaker 2: out for you. Then we'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 2: and then call her and see if to tell us

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another data. Right,

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Speaker 2: let's do this, Okay, we'll play a song, come back,

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Speaker 2: and get your first day follow up next. Right in

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Speaker 2: the middle of your first day follow up, if you're

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Speaker 2: just joining us, Thomas is on the phone and he's

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Speaker 2: getting ghosted by Nanny. We're about to call her and

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Speaker 2: see if to tell us why she's ghosting him. But first, Thomas,

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Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your situation.

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Speaker 6: We had a good day at the night market, you know,

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Speaker 6: taking pictures, a little time, having.

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Speaker 4: A good time. That's all we were connect acting.

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Speaker 6: It's beautiful away and to Nanni and I don't know

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Speaker 6: why she goes to me.

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Speaker 4: Okay, there's one thing I think it.

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Speaker 3: Could be, and if it's that, then whatever, But I don't.

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Speaker 6: I'm hoping it's not that thing and something else and

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Speaker 6: maybe we can work through this.

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about it so it makes us

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Speaker 1: feel like it is that thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you said it was bad.

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Speaker 6: If you know, you'd understand it's it's a story, but

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Speaker 6: I'm forget you said it.

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Speaker 2: She'll tell us then we'll see. All right, you ready

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Speaker 2: for us to call her? Let's do it. Okay, here

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Speaker 2: we go. Hell, hi, miss Nanni.

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Speaker 7: Please did you hear her?

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 2: How are you? My name is Jubel. I'm calling from

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Speaker 2: a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Nanny, my name is Mean. Also on the show

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Speaker 1: him Victoria.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 4: Hi? Hi?

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Speaker 7: I'm fine. What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I listened before.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever heard a first day follow up before?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 3: God?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I actually have as great.

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Speaker 2: Would you like to be on one?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, I guess I should have sawn this coming.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Sure.

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Speaker 2: You're ghosting somebody and they emailed us because they want

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Speaker 2: to know why you're ghosting them. Do you know who

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Speaker 2: it is? I mean it has to be Thomas, Yes

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Speaker 2: it is. You got it right? Do you mind telling

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Speaker 2: us about Thomas? Like why you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 7: Uh? Okay, here you okay? Some of his greatest hits.

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Speaker 7: The first thing he said to me, he said, oh damn,

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Speaker 7: you're hotter than the Internet, which is flattering, but like a.

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Speaker 1: Lot kind of funny. Okay, well, let's hear more.

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Speaker 7: That's okay. He commented on my shoes four times, even

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Speaker 7: to the point of asking me if I needed to

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Speaker 7: take them off, which reminded me of like, I don't know,

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Speaker 7: like a teacher, a parent, I don't know. It was like,

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Speaker 7: do weave my shoes alone? It was a lot. He

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Speaker 7: was like tall enough, like it should have mattered. I thought,

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Speaker 7: like maybe that who cares that he's so much attention

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Speaker 7: to my shoes? Like it was a lot.

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Speaker 1: Does he have like a foot fetish?

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, I didn't even think of that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're trying to get somebody's shoes off real quick.

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Speaker 1: That tells about nothing.

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Speaker 7: Oh no. So he also just carried on and on

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Speaker 7: and on about this new.

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Speaker 5: Business, like let's not get ourselves. This dude's not starting

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Speaker 5: a business, like okay, and then okay, about thirty four

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Speaker 5: and fifty seven times throughout the night he commented on.

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Speaker 7: The other women at the market. They they weren't nearly

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Speaker 7: get a little like embarrassed. It was embarrassing, so like

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Speaker 7: it was gross, honestly, So, no, dude's not it.

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Speaker 2: I mean that can definitely be a little awkward. I

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Speaker 2: feel like saying they're hotter than you.

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Speaker 3: Oh he wasn't because I farted on you at all?

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, a period?

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Speaker 3: I got cut that cut that. No, don't use that.

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Speaker 2: Thomas is actually on the phone listening and wants to

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Speaker 2: talk to you. We can't cut it now, Thomas, you

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Speaker 2: said it. I guess you cut it that night to

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Speaker 2: cut that put cut that.

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Speaker 4: I don't care.

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Speaker 7: I wasn't even going to bring that up, but like, yeah, he.

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Speaker 1: Did, like on you though, how did that happen?

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Speaker 7: It was like we were It wasn't about my shoes. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: he gets really excited about feet apparently.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is confusing. So you asked her to take

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Speaker 2: off your shoes and then.

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Speaker 7: You were nice shoes.

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Speaker 3: We all know nice.

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Speaker 4: She's uncomfortable.

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Speaker 3: I was trying to be courteous.

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Speaker 2: Okay, how did you fart on her?

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Speaker 4: I'm bent over. I just like, come on, we don't

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Speaker 4: kind of talk about that. Come on, it happened to me.

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Speaker 4: So that was the best one.

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Speaker 2: But that was the reason.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it.

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Speaker 5: Was That's one of the reasons.

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Speaker 7: One of the reasons.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean you were embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: You know it didn't help his cause.

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Speaker 4: Yes, no, I can't control them whatever, I guess whatever. Look,

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Speaker 4: I was complimenting you though.

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Speaker 3: I was just trying to make you feel, you know,

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Speaker 3: seen and secure.

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Speaker 4: And if it wasn't the art thing, I mean.

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Speaker 7: Come on you you you definitely made me feel seen.

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Speaker 7: It was. It was a lot like the other women,

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Speaker 7: Like I think they heard you saying that I was

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Speaker 7: hotter than them, and that's like embarrassing brows.

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Speaker 3: How is that embarrassing? You're hot, you guys. People don't

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Speaker 3: get embarrassed they're hot.

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Speaker 2: You're hot, Nanny. Would you like another date with Thomas?

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Speaker 2: Will pay for it?

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Speaker 7: Uh? No, I'm good, thinks, so no, pay for it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll pay for it. Thanks Thomas.

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Speaker 1: I'll probably tall you're hot again.

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Speaker 7: You guys, theft was bad, Like.

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, I really want to go out again. But

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Speaker 3: just you don't know this. I always think you're hot.

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Speaker 6: If you want to go on a date with someone

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Speaker 6: who thinks you're hot, on here because I think you're hot, Sak.

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Speaker 7: Thanks, I appreciate that. Thomas sinks.

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Speaker 1: You will.

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Speaker 7: First day follow up