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Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Kristin Davis, and I want to know, are

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Speaker 1: you a Charlotte the first face you see in the

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Speaker 1: pilot of Sex and the City Sarah Winters. Here you guys,

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Speaker 1: it's so exciting.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited to be here. It's it's it's I'm thrilled.

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Speaker 1: I'm so so happy you were my first guest.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's very fitting. Yes, I was the first.

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Speaker 1: I know, and you're so adorable. I watched it last night.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you in the back of that cab

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Speaker 1: with your Louis.

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Speaker 3: And the hat and the gloves in a cab.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it was a very interesting group of things. You

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Speaker 1: look incredible and I really was so like pulled into

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Speaker 1: your storyline. And then I'm like, what happened to her?

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Speaker 1: Where did she go? And what happened? We should have

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Speaker 1: had you like continue line and make sure you were okay. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's not too late the check she'd run into you

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Speaker 1: on the street.

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Speaker 3: But she's doing so well.

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Speaker 2: Now tell you well, maybe she runs a company, maybe

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Speaker 2: she has a CEO. But yeah, it ended in such

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Speaker 2: a it was. This was the best meet cute I

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Speaker 2: think any show I've ever seen. I'm not saying that

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Speaker 2: just because I was the cutie. No you didn't, and

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Speaker 2: I was pretty darnk cute you really years.

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Speaker 1: Ago and you still are, come on, you still are.

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Speaker 3: But I thank you.

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Speaker 1: I left.

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Speaker 2: You know, she's a journalist and she's got ye Louis

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Speaker 2: m I was so impressed, and we shot I think

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Speaker 2: it was the Brooklyn Bridge and I remember Susan Seidelman

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Speaker 2: was in the taxi crouched on the floor while we're actually.

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Speaker 3: Moving, remember that.

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Speaker 2: And uh, it was my first job. It was like

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Speaker 2: my first I think it got me into the union. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I had no idea, No, how did you get the job?

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Speaker 2: So I auditioned and it's so funny. Remember this was like,

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Speaker 2: you know, the mid to late nineties, right ninety seven,

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Speaker 2: it was. I was very excited to audition for a show,

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Speaker 2: but it was people. And the dreams was to get

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Speaker 2: on a network show, right like HBO.

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Speaker 3: Was not when it became not by a long show.

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Speaker 2: Now Sarah Jessica Park had already mean Car, so I thought, well,

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Speaker 2: it can't be that bad, right, and maybe I'll get

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Speaker 2: a network show after this. Now I would kill to

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Speaker 2: be on an HBO show.

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Speaker 3: But yes, yes, but that yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Auditioned, and I was very excited to meet Susan Sidelman

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Speaker 2: because she had directed desperately and Susan so she had

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Speaker 2: done him a Donna movie and it was all very

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Speaker 2: razzle dazzle, and I remember in the audition she said, now,

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Speaker 2: how do you feel there might be a nude scene?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, like yeah, yeah, whatever.

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Speaker 3: She said, there's going to be like a bathtub.

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Speaker 2: You'll be covered, but you know, there might be a

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Speaker 2: little bathtub. I think we ran out of time. They

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Speaker 2: had were going to do a scene in a bathtub.

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Speaker 3: We ended up like just you know, having this like

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Speaker 3: very it was very tasteful. It was like in Cellowet.

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Speaker 3: It was really just my top half.

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Speaker 2: And again thirty years ago, I look pretty good, incredible, incredible,

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Speaker 2: but I remember it's so weird. I don't remember a

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Speaker 2: lot in my life. I don't remember what my last

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Speaker 2: job was, but I remember so much about this pilot.

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Speaker 2: Tell me the read through, the table read okay.

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Speaker 1: Yes, tell me, tell me, so we do it because

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Speaker 1: I don't remember the.

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Speaker 3: Read I remember the read through.

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Speaker 2: I remember seeing you and I didn't even know really

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Speaker 2: who had been cast, Like no one's keeping me up

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Speaker 2: to date, Like, so I knew Sarah Jessica Parker was

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Speaker 3: Because of Melury Hill. And when I saw you, I

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Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, that's Brook from Laura's place.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, she's so gorgeous.

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Speaker 3: Be cool, be cool, be cool, be cool, be cool,

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Speaker 1: Be cool. That is definitely how I was sitting, like like,

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Speaker 2: You stood up when he walked in the room, and you,

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Speaker 2: Brook and Sarah Jessica was And I remember we started

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Speaker 2: reading and Sarah was cross out anything that said Carrie

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Speaker 2: walks in with a sexy, gorgeous hot and it wasn't

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Speaker 3: I was surprised when I got on set.

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Speaker 2: They had cast Christopher Lawford, who was John Kennedy Junior's cousin. Yes,

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Speaker 2: he was at the read through, and I remember thinking, yes,

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Speaker 2: I remember thinking that's perfect to have like this Kennedy, Yes, Kennedy.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I understood Kennedy. What the heck? Yes? And he

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Speaker 3: had been an actor.

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 3: What happened?

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Speaker 2: I want to know, did he become unavailable?

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Speaker 1: Maybe he did?

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Speaker 3: Did something happen maybe yes? Because none of us knew.

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Speaker 2: He didn't know what this show was, I mean, and

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Speaker 2: I remember Kim at the end of the read through

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Speaker 2: went teen more and I was like, what is.

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Speaker 1: That even mean? Like what is thirteen?

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Speaker 2: And I realized contract TV and TV yeah, and that's

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Speaker 3: Like, yeah, thirteen more.

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Speaker 2: And even though I knew my character ended and I

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Speaker 2: wasn't gonna you know, but uh yeah, And I wound

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Speaker 2: up kind of being the first person to have sex

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Speaker 3: In the city, I know.

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Speaker 1: And this this is what I remember of that, right.

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Speaker 1: So when we so we we did this show. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: we were all very excited and I really really desperately

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Speaker 1: wanted my part, but we were nervous because do you

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Speaker 1: remember the show dream On that had been on HBO

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Speaker 1: like we were like, is this what we're supposed to do?

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Speaker 1: Like please know? Like even though we were scared, right,

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Speaker 1: we didn't really know. As I was telling everyone before too,

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Speaker 4: Like, we need cups of ice for Sarah Winter. Go,

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Speaker 4: oh my god, right, I for my nipples? Like I

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Speaker 4: who knew that that.

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Speaker 3: Was the thing.

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Speaker 1: I did not know either.

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Speaker 3: I was trying to be so cool you did, and collected.

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Speaker 1: I know, we were really impressed.

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Speaker 3: We were panicked. But also maybe that's why they look

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Speaker 1: But all of this said, and then they ran back

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like.

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Speaker 2: No one's ever offered me I since and no one

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Speaker 2: you really see like you were fine.

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Speaker 3: You know I was.

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Speaker 2: I think Susan, you know, having a female director obviously

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Speaker 2: That was rare, certainly definitely, you know, in nineteen ninety seven,

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Speaker 2: I remember you came into the makeup trailer once and

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Speaker 2: well it's sporty.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was so like did she need to

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Speaker 2: It all worked out, I mean, but the pilot was

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Speaker 3: You didn't have Pat, right, but you had I had

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Speaker 2: Remember they put me in my first pair of Manolo blonde.

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Speaker 2: And another funny thing I remember is there's a brief

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Speaker 1: In the yeah, walking to Do you know who she was? Yes?

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Speaker 3: I do. She was married to Rudy Giuliani at the time.

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Speaker 3: It was bizarre, right, Yeah it was. And I knew

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Speaker 2: I lived in New York and she was actually co

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Speaker 1: Yeah that was like trippy, trippy, very trippy.

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Speaker 1: And so let me ask you, how, so you have good,

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Speaker 1: good memories of the pilot. Do you have memories of

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Speaker 2: I remembered like, oh, maybe it's not gonna happen. You know,

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Speaker 2: I had at that point done.

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Speaker 3: Like a movie. I had moved to Los Angeles.

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Speaker 2: And then I heard it, Actually, it's they've made it's

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Speaker 2: cutting a lot of scenes and even though it was short,

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Speaker 2: like we shop for a week, you know.

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Speaker 1: There were a lot of little pieces. Yeah, and that

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Speaker 1: He was like I know right. I felt so embarrassed,

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Speaker 3: You had every right to know. I want to see that.

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Speaker 3: That's like a movie, that's a show.

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Speaker 3: Well I think what let's add up? Like what with interest?

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Speaker 1: I ever, I just would love some acknowledgment arrivor, which

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Speaker 3: Store again, would let's.

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Speaker 1: No, I think he has numerous animals.

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Speaker 3: Well, I let's see, I don't think. I don't think

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Speaker 3: I can't picture you, and I didn't really date as

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Speaker 3: I like to think it's a bit more grown up.

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Speaker 2: I don't feel a connection, but I wish you all

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Speaker 2: you know. I mean, if someone says you know, I

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Speaker 3: Like with the three dots, right, like are they awful?

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Speaker 1: Totally? But now we do have social media so you

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Speaker 2: Is then it's a way of yours And I had

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Speaker 3: Am I doing this?

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Speaker 2: That and the grown ass women who are good good

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Speaker 1: You're writing now, I'm writing.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I'm developing a limited series with my writing partner,

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Speaker 2: to read an incredible chow for women that's basically a

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Speaker 3: Wow, hit me up. Yeah. So I'm excited about that.

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Speaker 2: And I wrote an article that got published Infanity Fair,

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Speaker 3: I do. I do miss acting, Yeah, I want to.

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Speaker 2: I miss telling stories from that perspective, you know, writing

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Speaker 3: There, you know, Yeah, I would love I'd love to

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Speaker 1: And I don't know if it was having kids, and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't really realize.

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Speaker 1: Wow, it was interesting. Interesting.

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Speaker 3: Then you had an outlet I did.

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, this right, why we love it?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because we you know, when you step away, you know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And also you've had Charlotte in your life for

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Speaker 3: You uh, you're.

445
00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:55,560
Speaker 2: You've given us hope, like Charlotte has always had hope.

446
00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:59,600
Speaker 3: The eternal optimist, so true. And I feel like.

447
00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:04,520
Speaker 2: She got knocked down, she got back up, and she

448
00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:06,920
Speaker 2: believed she would meet her husband, she believed she would

449
00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:07,600
Speaker 2: have her children.

450
00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:09,240
Speaker 3: It didn't look the way she thought.

451
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:12,639
Speaker 2: You know, I think you know, for people, for myself

452
00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:16,119
Speaker 2: that watch it, it's really that sense of hope that

453
00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:21,720
Speaker 2: was so beautiful and poignant to watch and to see

454
00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,879
Speaker 2: you have loss and pain and get back up and

455
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:26,120
Speaker 2: was really, yeah, I.

456
00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:28,600
Speaker 1: Think, ask you, yeah, are you a Charlotte?

457
00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:29,639
Speaker 3: Am I a Charlotte?

458
00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:36,240
Speaker 2: I'm going to say yes, But it has changed for me.

459
00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:41,760
Speaker 2: I think back in the day, you know, when we

460
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:45,440
Speaker 2: first met Charlotte, I felt like I was a Charlotte

461
00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:51,240
Speaker 2: because I kind of modeled myself along being a bit

462
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:54,879
Speaker 2: of a rule follower, having a protocol with dating and

463
00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,760
Speaker 2: men and being a lady and that was always very

464
00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:01,520
Speaker 2: important to me, and being buttoned up, having boundaries.

465
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 3: And I think now.

466
00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:10,440
Speaker 2: I'm as Charlotte in the way that you know, we've

467
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:12,399
Speaker 2: got to know Charlotte in what I just sort of

468
00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 2: referenced her eternal optimism and not losing hope. And also

469
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 2: something really important that you portrayed and your storyline, at

470
00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 2: least for me, was that happiness doesn't have to be

471
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:29,720
Speaker 2: what you think it's going to look like. You know,

472
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,399
Speaker 2: we imagine it's going to be a certain guy, you know,

473
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 2: or you're gonna have kids a certain way in that

474
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 2: and you check off all those and what was amazing,

475
00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 2: And I've had this in my own life and sometimes

476
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:43,920
Speaker 2: the guy is right in front of you.

477
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:45,359
Speaker 3: You know, you don't realize it's going.

478
00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 2: You know, someone you look at this abstract idea of

479
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,920
Speaker 2: like a Wall Street guy or you know, a tray,

480
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:54,119
Speaker 2: you know, having biological truth. You know, you got your Harry,

481
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:57,879
Speaker 2: you got your Baby's doesn't look the way, you know,

482
00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:02,399
Speaker 2: And I think that is a really nice thing to

483
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:06,080
Speaker 2: remember that sometimes they'll happen in a way that's unexpected.

484
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 2: To stay open hearted, you know, And I think that's

485
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,480
Speaker 2: what I want to maintain as the Charlotte in me,

486
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 2: like not losing hope.

487
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 3: I'm going to get that role. I'm going to make

488
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 3: that guy.

489
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 2: It's all gonna work out, and it does, you know

490
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,200
Speaker 2: it all you know in life, you know, of course

491
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,160
Speaker 2: ups and downs, and you know you can have many

492
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:29,680
Speaker 2: happy endings and happy you know episodes, you know, chapters

493
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 2: in your in your life.

494
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 3: So it was a very long winded way of saying,

495
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 3: I'm a Charlotte. I love it, I'm Charlotte.

496
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:37,960
Speaker 1: That was a good, deep way because you're right, we

497
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 1: have known her a long time and it means different

498
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 1: things at different times, right, And that's what's great about

499
00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 1: playing a character for so long, obviously, but also like

500
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 1: in something where people can relate, and that's kind of

501
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: why I wanted to do this podcast, just to be

502
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:52,919
Speaker 1: able to, like, I love to hear the fans stories,

503
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:54,439
Speaker 1: you know, when I'm out in the world, and they

504
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,879
Speaker 1: always have something really interesting that they can pull from it.

505
00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 1: And you know, maybe you know, obviously every character has

506
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 1: something super important to pull from. It's not like Charlotte

507
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: is different or special or whatever. I just happen to

508
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:10,400
Speaker 1: play her, I mean, so, but like for me, I'm

509
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 1: Parlot Charlotte Park Carrie, you know, because I feel like

510
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 1: Carrie's always kind of searching and digging and you know,

511
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,160
Speaker 1: who am I How do I fit into this this

512
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 1: scenario or who do I want to be in this scenario?

513
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 1: And I'm more of that in certain ways in my

514
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 1: real life than I am of a Charlotte where she

515
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,399
Speaker 1: had so many goals. You know, she really did have

516
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:32,679
Speaker 1: these goals, and I think that also is why she

517
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 1: fell down a lot, because the goals were so specific, right,

518
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,879
Speaker 1: But then she was able to learn from them, you know,

519
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 1: to learn from the things that didn't go how she

520
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 1: expected to be more open to the other things that

521
00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 1: might have been there all along, which I think is

522
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 1: so important. I mean, I have to tell myself this too,

523
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 1: you know, ongoingly never ends, really it ends. But it's

524
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 1: so interesting to think about.

525
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 3: The purity though of you.

526
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 2: And that character was like we all we root for

527
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 2: all of you, you know, to get what you want.

528
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 2: But you had such a pure it's a pure heart,

529
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,439
Speaker 2: you know, and when you got hurt, we all felt

530
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 2: hurt for you. Thank you, And that's it made the

531
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 2: triumph so much more sweet good.

532
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:12,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

533
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,360
Speaker 1: When I watched that pilot last night, oh my god,

534
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 1: I was like, how crazy. I'm like a little child.

535
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 2: We're babyfaces, really babies.

536
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 1: And I said earlier, I'm like a puppy, like a

537
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 1: baby puppy, right right, Yeah, this is what I was thinking.

538
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: I was like, my god, I'm glad it worked out,

539
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 1: like oh yeah, yeah me for her.

540
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:37,119
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, because like I was like, wow, the nineties

541
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:38,880
Speaker 2: in New York was it was a different time.

542
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 1: It looks so different in the pilot, so different seventies.

543
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,120
Speaker 3: Yes, I will yeah, I was there.

544
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 1: I would go to visit. My parents would take me

545
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 1: to Like I saw Sarah and Annie when we.

546
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 3: Were Oh my god, what wonderful sous.

547
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 1: I didn't know her. I saw her, and I mean

548
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 1: I remember Times Square in the seventies was like you.

549
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 2: Would never got her, right no, And in the nineties

550
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,959
Speaker 2: you wouldn't have gone there sounds like land right yeah.

551
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,360
Speaker 1: And also like the village like at the end, I mean,

552
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 1: I don't know where we actually shot that final scene

553
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 1: with she and Bigue so great obviously, but like when

554
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 1: she gets out of the car, I'm like, where is she?

555
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,919
Speaker 1: Because that doesn't look anything like the village right now.

556
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: It's literally you would have to go I don't know,

557
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 1: thirty miles outside of New York to find that. Yeah, yeah, warehouse.

558
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: You looking thing going on in the dark. I don't

559
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 1: know what's happening. There's no light, there's no dark, there's

560
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:37,400
Speaker 1: no streakoreyahut door dying like it. It's just night and day.

561
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 1: But that is kind of what you love about the cities,

562
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:40,119
Speaker 1: that it's always evolved.

563
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:40,879
Speaker 3: It's evolving.

564
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 2: But I think it was like a time capsule, you know,

565
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:48,160
Speaker 2: the pilots, Oh, big time New York was like, and

566
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 2: how it looked and and what it was like to

567
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 2: be young, you know, And I know we weren't there.

568
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 3: Young and we you know what I mean that young?

569
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 2: What do you say?

570
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 1: No, we weren't no, I was.

571
00:25:58,840 --> 00:25:59,880
Speaker 3: I see what we were.

572
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 1: I was like thirty something.

573
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 3: I think I was in my twenties, like twenties.

574
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 1: Oh how adorable.

575
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 3: Oh I don't even know how old you are.

576
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 1: And we were older because I remember early exactly, and

577
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: we all were. And that was a big thing because remember,

578
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 1: I don't know if you went through this, but when

579
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 1: I was first auditioning whatever, the part said, oh, you

580
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 1: said you're that eight. Oh yeah, you did not say

581
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,160
Speaker 1: you you were your real eight. If I was older,

582
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 1: you said you're older. If it was younger, you were

583
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 1: twenty two, whatever it was, you were like, yes, I'm

584
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 1: twenty two, you know what I mean. And then the

585
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 1: freedom of playing a woman in her thirties, we were

586
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:37,400
Speaker 1: like what I heard of? But this is also when

587
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: you thought your career was over at forty. Yes, like

588
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 1: we really did not ever perceive that we would have

589
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: bigger success.

590
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, crazy longevity, a magic god.

591
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 2: Yes, right, And it's so nice for other for actors

592
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 2: to say that for you know, and actually it's different

593
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 2: now and the world is and our stories are interesting,

594
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 2: you know, Well that's why.

595
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 1: We wanted to do it, just like that, like, why

596
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: why would our stories be over?

597
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 3: Right?

598
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: They're not over richer, right.

599
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and just as interesting. And I can't wait for

600
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 3: the for the next season.

601
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 1: Oh, it's a it's it's a it's a good one.

602
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 3: It's a big one's look at the eyebrows, you know.

603
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: It's all we just finished. I'm still recovering intense. So

604
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: it's intense. It is intense, But we're just so lucky

605
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 1: to still be doing it.

606
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,199
Speaker 2: You are, and I'm sorry, and you can tell that

607
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 2: you really, it's genuine feel lucky because I heard.

608
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 1: Of it's really to have and you know, so lucky.

609
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 2: Stay with these characters and evolve with them and keep

610
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 2: telling the stories. And it's so generous to the audience

611
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 2: and to the.

612
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: Us, like the support, you know. For not the audience,

613
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 1: we wouldn't be able to do it, you know what

614
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:51,360
Speaker 1: I mean. It's a it's a cycle, it's a circuit.

615
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 3: You know.

616
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: It's important. But it's also funny because I when I

617
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 1: watched yours, I was like, we don't even know what

618
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 1: happened to her.

619
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 3: Right to know what happened to her? Is we do?

620
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 2: I think there's a whole company episode that we could

621
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 2: go back. Stick with me, okay, and just see the trajectory.

622
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 2: There was Elizabeth maybe she won a Pulitzer or something.

623
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 3: I don't know. She was a journalist. I love it.

624
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 3: Maybe she does a cover story on Carrie Charlotte, Carrie,

625
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,119
Speaker 3: you know, the whole bit. Yeah, you know, like whatever

626
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 3: happened to her.

627
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 2: She's on the cover of Forbes something, you know. But

628
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,719
Speaker 2: it was just such a and you know, it's it's interesting.

629
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 2: I had friends that didn't even know I had done

630
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 2: Sex in the City. And then I think the pandemic

631
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 2: when when the series came back, people wanted to go

632
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 2: back to the beginning. So I had so many people

633
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 2: at one point saying, you're.

634
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: Sex and the City in the city.

635
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. A friend of mine just texted me from an airplane.

636
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, look, the lad in front of me is

637
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 2: watching you on Sex and the City.

638
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: Wow.

639
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love it.

640
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 2: So it kind of is. It's given me a boost,

641
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 2: you know, and I was only in you know a

642
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 2: little bit, but you're so good.

643
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: Oh well, who knew.

644
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 1: It's like not complete, but it's like a really like

645
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 1: you get the story, like you know what I'm saying,

646
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: Like we don't even really follow the rest of us

647
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: well that much.

648
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 2: But it's the premise of the show that it's really

649
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 2: set up, like what can happen when this wide eyed,

650
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 2: you know a person comes to me. I was that

651
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 2: wide eyed person coming from Australia. Oh that's another thing.

652
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 2: The accent was dodgy as hell because no one asked

653
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 2: me if I was really British, Like you said with

654
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 2: the auditions, if you're thirty.

655
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:34,959
Speaker 3: Three, thirty three, if you're twenty four twenty four, are

656
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 3: you British?

657
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, hell yeah, And no one at that point like

658
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 2: say anything about my you know.

659
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: It's okay. We were paying attention to so many other things,

660
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 1: but to go like there's one word where I'm like.

661
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 3: Wait what But that's okay?

662
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 2: But I mean yeah, like you know, British Australian, that's foreign. Yeah,

663
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 2: for a holiday Australians with your Louis d and my hair,

664
00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 2: your yellow.

665
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 1: Cat and in your hat and my check is just amazing,

666
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: so amazing.

667
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 3: What a what a beginning?

668
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: What a beginning? Yeah? Well, the thing that I think

669
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 1: is interesting is like there's two main points, right, So

670
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 1: one is the ghosting, which we don't call it obviously

671
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 1: the ghostings. We don't have that word yet. But the other,

672
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: which I remember more so personally as being The super

673
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 1: fascinating part is can women go around and casually have

674
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: sex like a man and not have emotions right? And

675
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: that's what we debate at the one scene we all

676
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 1: have together at Miranda's birthday and I'm Charlotte's like, what

677
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 1: about romance? You know? And they're all like, you know right,

678
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 1: and you know, Samantha is very powerful about it all.

679
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 1: And then Carrie goes and tries to do research with

680
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 1: the Bill Sage character. He's so beautiful. Oh my jesus,

681
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 1: go I know, I know, and I remember having a

682
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 1: little like Bill Sage crush run into him and I'd

683
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 1: be like, oh that Bill Stage is here. So I

684
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: don't know, not my type. I don't know. He didn't

685
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 1: seem to you know what I'm saying. He was like

686
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: quite fabulous, stunning, and she goes. Sarah goes up. You know,

687
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: she's got her eyes because she's got her brown hair,

688
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 1: and she's like, you know, how about you know your place?

689
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 1: And he's like three o'clock and she's like, I'm just

690
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: like whoa. She's like incredible, and then she goes and

691
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: they're in bed and it shows her enjoying it. And

692
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 1: then he comes up from the covers and there's some

693
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 1: stain on the sheet, which I'm just like, what ear Okay,

694
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 1: it's probably makeup. I don't know what's going on. Everything's

695
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: like kind of messy in the pilot, you know. And

696
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 1: then he's like, what about my turn? And she's like, no, sorry,

697
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: gotta go. I'm like, oh my god, it's incredible. You

698
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 1: don't see this on television now.

699
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 3: No, thirty years Dark. No, that was bold, right, it

700
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 3: was really bold.

701
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 1: And then she goes out on the sidewalk and runs

702
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: into big and drops the condos.

703
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 3: No, it's incredible.

704
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 2: It was, and it needed to be seen and it

705
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 2: needed to happen. And the fact that that was the

706
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 2: show that did it, yeah.

707
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 1: Remarkable, But also like, think about it now, I do

708
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: feel saying earlier, I do feel like in terms of women,

709
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: like we are, we do have this ability to be

710
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: casual and have hookups and you know, in an equal

711
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 1: manner to men then back then. But I still don't know,

712
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: you know, can women have sex without feeling?

713
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 3: And I don't know. I can't. I mean, I'm not.

714
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 2: I just my feelings are in everything, you know, So

715
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 2: I don't even know that I want to have sex

716
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 2: like a man, Like I'm quite happy happy having sex

717
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 2: like a woman, you.

718
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: Know, and sometimes I would like because I well, but.

719
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 2: If you're not feeling it, then you still want to

720
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 2: feel it, yes, right, if you're going to feel it,

721
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 2: you feel it in.

722
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 1: A way where when you're gone, you're up, I'm going.

723
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 3: To cry it's over. And I think just and also

724
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 3: being open.

725
00:32:57,960 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 2: I think just being a creative person, you have to

726
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 2: be been herded all the time, so it's it's valid

727
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 2: points feelings, you know, it's hard to sort of leave

728
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 2: feelings behind. But yeah, it's interesting. You know, they have

729
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 2: sex like a man, and I love that she did that.

730
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 2: I thought it was so empowering and so awesome.

731
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 3: I agree it was, it was great. But yeah, it's interesting.

732
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 2: It's so interesting that Yeah, like you said, not even now,

733
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,959
Speaker 2: are people really doing that or feeling bold enough to

734
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 2: to cavalier with men and sex?

735
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: And I mean, I feel like there might be because of

736
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: the apps and everything, like the dating.

737
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 2: Apps like hinge, you can be more anonymous as the one, right,

738
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 2: I don't know, right, never been on them.

739
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 3: I have been on and off them.

740
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 2: Really, I kind of go on them and then it's like,

741
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 2: oh my god, I can't do and starting for someone

742
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 2: to like meet me on my sofa at home, like

743
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 2: just walk in the door, and which is just not

744
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 2: gonna happen.

745
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: I was gonna say that that's bold.

746
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think it's going to happen. I just

747
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 3: I'm not good at dating. I'm just not want to.

748
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 3: I just but I don't go to bas I don't

749
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 3: go dad.

750
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think that's where people meet people,

751
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: because is it anyway?

752
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I'm on the train sometimes, but

753
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,280
Speaker 2: like I don't look up, you know, I'm just hoping

754
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 2: like one of my friends will just introduce me to

755
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 2: a great guy.

756
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 3: That's nice. I live with three great men as it is,

757
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 3: you know, and that you know, I feel like they're.

758
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 1: That's a lot that I'm not still looking for someone.

759
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:25,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

760
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:29,879
Speaker 3: Wow. But it's just like I feel very fulfilled, you.

761
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 1: Know, which is great, right. I think we should do

762
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:36,399
Speaker 1: some kind of a poll with everyone we have on

763
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 1: of all ages to find out and maybe in our

764
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 1: socials someone can tell us, like, are these younger women, yes,

765
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: who've come up with the age of like apps and

766
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 1: social media and whatnot? Are they able to go have

767
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 1: casual sex if they want to? What's it like if

768
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: they want to, and what's it like? We need to know.

769
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 3: I would love that because that's just not how I grew.

770
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 3: You just wouldn't know. It was a lady for us.

771
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 2: She wasn't you know, it wasn't uh feminine, you know,

772
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,399
Speaker 2: but why why do wea but why not? Yeah?

773
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:09,359
Speaker 3: No, it's so misogynistic. Don't even think that, right, And

774
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:09,959
Speaker 3: I'm the woman.

775
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 1: What we were grand?

776
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, and to.

777
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 2: Be you didn't want to be aggressive, you know. And

778
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:19,399
Speaker 2: it's like you just so you want to be asked out.

779
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 3: You want to You don't want to be the one

780
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 3: boo boo boo.

781
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 2: Like I like it's okay to ask someone out or

782
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 2: I like you definitely.

783
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 3: I remember the first time I told Hi man I

784
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 3: liked him before he said he liked me. Was he shocked? No,

785
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 3: He's like, I like you too, you know, And then

786
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:36,280
Speaker 3: we kissed. That was nice.

787
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 2: But I felt like this was just like the old

788
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:40,240
Speaker 2: Sarah would never have done that. I would have waited

789
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: for him to call and say.

790
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 1: I know the things we go through, my.

791
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 2: Godmure and you know you can still make Charlotte femininity guy,

792
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,280
Speaker 2: Oh my guy, and all the guys.

793
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm impressed. I'm way impressed. You're the perfect first guest.

794
00:35:55,719 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you're more Charlotte than me. I think, okay,

795
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 1: let's talk about the men, because you know the men

796
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 1: in the pilot, like she does say that great line

797
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: where they show all the people walking down the street

798
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:18,320
Speaker 1: and she says like, you know, these women pay taxes

799
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 1: and they wear strapping manolo's and yet they are alone.

800
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,399
Speaker 1: There's like a little beat before she goes alone. Yeah,

801
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,800
Speaker 1: and then you know every man who talks to the camera.

802
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,399
Speaker 1: First of all, they're horrific. Second of all, they say

803
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:33,840
Speaker 1: toxic bachelor.

804
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:39,959
Speaker 2: Toxically in yes print yes, and it's true fail up, like.

805
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,760
Speaker 3: Why are we struggling?

806
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,399
Speaker 2: And there's a lot of you know, chat about how

807
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 2: you know things have become more equal and things, you know,

808
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 2: a lot.

809
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 3: Of have they.

810
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. I really feel like.

811
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 2: You know, the cream of the crop of women are

812
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,720
Speaker 2: out there in a single and these men. I diated

813
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 2: a man, well, we went out to who ate baby food?

814
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:02,439
Speaker 1: Like what?

815
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 3: And I went out on a second and third date

816
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:06,720
Speaker 3: with him? He ate babyfood?

817
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 1: Why I don't know. Was he trying to diet.

818
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 3: I don't think so.

819
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 2: But he took me to really good restaurants and would

820
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 2: order boiled rice and he had like a container of

821
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 2: apple sauce and yeah, yeah.

822
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:21,360
Speaker 1: I.

823
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 3: Like boiled rice. Can I tell you what?

824
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,879
Speaker 1: This guy also an actor? He would he I would

825
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 1: order regular food, and he would order like vegetables or

826
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 1: whatever with like steamed vegetables, like like kind of like

827
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 1: you would think of actress, I know. And then I

828
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: would regular food. He'd be like, let me smell it,

829
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:39,360
Speaker 1: so we would like, oh god.

830
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 3: I'd be like, oh that's so weird.

831
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,279
Speaker 1: I know, and he'd be like, oh, I feel better now.

832
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: I'd be like, all right, what.

833
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 3: You do to stop dating actors?

834
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 1: I know, giving them money? I love us, but I know,

835
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 1: I know, I know. I yeah, I don't get me

836
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: started on my taste. But but I wait here, what happened?

837
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 1: Did you ask the man why he was eating baby food?

838
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,360
Speaker 3: He said he's not. He said he had simple tastes.

839
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 3: He had.

840
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 2: He said he has a simple like you know, he's

841
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 2: not into like really complicated food. I'm like, that is

842
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 2: not someone that eats like you could eat uncomplicated.

843
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 3: But still order off the menu. It was really really fast.

844
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:17,760
Speaker 1: It's weird.

845
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, mashed potatoes and the little thing at apple sauce

846
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 2: like and I thought, God, does he have like a

847
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 2: mummy fantasy?

848
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 3: Does he want me to like give him a bottle later?

849
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 3: Like before bed? It didn't get that far.

850
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: I'm glad, But what these are?

851
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 2: The guy I also met, I had another blind date.

852
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 2: We were set up by a mutual friend too. We

853
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 2: had a really nice dinner in New York City. But

854
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 2: I sat down with tall, handsome, gorgeous, good family I'd

855
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:48,439
Speaker 2: heard from. I googled him and he we said, hadn't

856
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 2: even ordered cocktails. And he was like, wait there, Like

857
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 2: I was gonna go anywhere. He goes back to the end,

858
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 2: back at the kitchen.

859
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 1: Basically, Okay, it's the bar.

860
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 2: Are all the diners into the kit comes back a

861
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 2: few minutes later with a guitar, sits down and start singing.

862
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 2: The whole restaurant stops and looks, and people have their

863
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 2: phones and their feeling because I guess they figure he's

864
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 2: about to propose or something. I don't why he started

865
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 2: singing Kiss the Girl from a Little Mermaid in the

866
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 2: Jamaican accent and I remember my face was so frozen

867
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 2: in a smile that it started to hurt. And I

868
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 2: remember thinking he kept singing, and he kept singing, and

869
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:34,360
Speaker 2: I wanted to die.

870
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 3: I wanted someone. I think he was trying to impress me.

871
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 2: I wanted someone to have a heart attack so we

872
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 2: could like talk about that instead. I wanted to know

873
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 2: that'd be a crash on Madison Avenue, like a car crash,

874
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,400
Speaker 2: so we could go, oh my god, there's a car crash.

875
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:48,919
Speaker 3: And he would put his guitar down.

876
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: That is really embarrassing.

877
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 3: And you know what else is embarrassing? I went out

878
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 3: on a second date with him. You did because I

879
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 3: think you want to know is there something wrong with me?

880
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 3: My friends? I was like, is there something wrong with me?

881
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 1: That?

882
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 3: Doesn't every woman want to be serenaded?

883
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 1: Right?

884
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 2: I'm sure that's that was like, no, no, because you

885
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 2: didn't put that out there.

886
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 3: Did you tell him your dream is to be serenaded?

887
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: Like you might not know.

888
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 3: I didn't know, Sam, I wanted to die.

889
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 1: Sorry if you're listening.

890
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 2: And it takes a lot to embarrass me, like you know,

891
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 2: as an actor, I was dying in all not the

892
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 2: good ways, and he was so pleased with this.

893
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 3: He said, can you believe I did that? And it's like, no,

894
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 3: I really can't.

895
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 1: This is my theory Sarah on this, Okay, because this

896
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 1: is a very unusual story. I think he had seen

897
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 1: you on twenty four and or Sex and City and

898
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:41,720
Speaker 1: he was like, I'm going out with this glamorous, beautiful actress.

899
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 1: What's a musical exactly, I'm going to knock her socks off.

900
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: I'm going to surprise her. I'm going to go big,

901
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 1: like a big gesture, you know what I mean. I mean,

902
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 1: which you should wait maybe later in the relationship for.

903
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 3: It figure out what I mean.

904
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 1: You like, it came from a good place, so deep,

905
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:57,360
Speaker 1: but it's so strange that he would pick like a

906
00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: kid's song.

907
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:02,279
Speaker 3: Yeah. Also, the entire is.

908
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: A broad swing. Okay, it was really big thing.

909
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:08,319
Speaker 2: But I think I agree with you. I think that like,

910
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:12,399
Speaker 2: he came from all the right places. It just it

911
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 2: was it was a lot, and and that's why I

912
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 2: went out.

913
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 3: That's why I went out with him, and he ultimately,

914
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 3: you know.

915
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:19,320
Speaker 1: Did you find someone?

916
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 3: We went for each other. I think he I think

917
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 3: he might have found some hope. So yeah, and she

918
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 3: likes to Yah.

919
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 1: They can go to Disneyland, they can go on the Rock,

920
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, the Little Mermaid. My kids

921
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 1: love it.

922
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 3: Yes, Frozen and all of them. Totally.

923
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good one. Wow. So in general, this

924
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 1: is my question when I was watching the pilot, do

925
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:44,720
Speaker 1: we feel like it's different than it was in the pilot?

926
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: Because here she is saying, they are all these incredible

927
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: successful women in Manhattan, but also in the world, and

928
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:53,840
Speaker 1: where are all the great guys? Like, do we feel

929
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: like that's different?

930
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 3: God, I'd love to say it's different.

931
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 2: I think there are so many I mean, I'm a woman,

932
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 2: so obviously I can only speak to the you know,

933
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 2: female perspective on things. And I'm middle aged, like, I'm

934
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 2: not a young person dating in the city.

935
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 3: I have no idea what that is like totally, but

936
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 3: I think.

937
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 2: The playing field has evened out a little and that

938
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 2: we don't put up with that kind of good good call,

939
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 2: and we pick We're smarter, you know, we can pick toxicity.

940
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 3: You know, we know what ghosting is, we know what

941
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 3: being rear windowed? What is it?

942
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: I don't know.

943
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 3: No white light, black lights?

944
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:45,320
Speaker 1: What ges light? Window?

945
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 3: You don't want to be real windows?

946
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 1: No? I don't know.

947
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 3: I don't think I do.

948
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 1: I don't think it was totally. I know you're saying

949
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 1: there's more, there's more we can yes.

950
00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 2: And and we look out for each other. And social media,

951
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:02,280
Speaker 2: you know, you can bring things back to the golfriend.

952
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 2: Oh I saw him, I saw him out at that

953
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 2: other place. Wait, you know on snap and there's the

954
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 2: snap map. And I'm learning this from my kids. You

955
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 2: can you can see someone's location on the snap. Yeah,

956
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,959
Speaker 2: what the heck? Yeah in real time? Yeah, in real time.

957
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 2: So it's like, oh, she's not at the movies with

958
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 2: her friends, she's like them all with someone else.

959
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 1: Uh, yeah, well I didn't know this.

960
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:24,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I do think so, I think we're there's tools.

961
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 2: But I do think with that comes like a sense

962
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:34,720
Speaker 2: of like we're harder, you know, like harder, like I think,

963
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 2: you know, when you're expecting someone to to to mess

964
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 2: up or not be truthful, or to gaslight you, or

965
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 2: to not be honest, right, you're kind of guarded, and

966
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 2: you should be guarded. But I think it's also important

967
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 2: to keep that part that's soft, that we'll find love

968
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 2: that will be open and not everyone's perfect and not and.

969
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 3: Everyone's going to break up, and everyone's gonna.

970
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 2: Like, maybe tell a white lie, maybe maybe you know,

971
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 2: or try and protect themselves in the beginning, and we

972
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 2: all want to put our best face forward. I think

973
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:06,840
Speaker 2: that's what I used to do. I used to sort of,

974
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 2: you know, want people to think I was perfect and

975
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 2: this is me. Now I just put it out there

976
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 2: right away. So to Charlotte, now, I'm just like, look,

977
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 2: I have three kids. My life is messy. You know

978
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 2: that's great.

979
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: Yes, be who you are, Yeah, totally.

980
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 2: But I didn't even know if I want to live

981
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 2: with someone anymore. But if you want to, like, you know,

982
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 2: have two different places, that would be good. I have

983
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 2: two different says.

984
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:31,280
Speaker 1: Do you remember the part of the Pilot where someone

985
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:34,800
Speaker 1: I think it must be Carrie says, wait, maybe I

986
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: don't know who it is, but someone says that we're

987
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 1: self selecting down to a smaller and smaller group.

988
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 3: Yes, that's clever. Yeah, yeah we are me.

989
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:51,799
Speaker 1: No, well cool, it's something like that. That is so true. Yeah,

990
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 1: there's just so many things that are still so true. Yeah,

991
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: and I can't believe it.

992
00:44:55,760 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 3: You know, it's okay to have like, you know, your people, okay.

993
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: But it's also like you're saying, if you're not open

994
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 1: to being surprised, then you're probably not going to be

995
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 1: surprised because you're not open to it.

996
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 3: Right.

997
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: So there's that yes, right.

998
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,240
Speaker 3: So you have to find a balance.

999
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 1: I guess, right, But I think the question and I

1000
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: don't know the answer. Definitely. The question is are there

1001
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 1: great guys out there? And I mean there must be,

1002
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,320
Speaker 1: but like my feeling is they're all in relationship.

1003
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:27,840
Speaker 2: They're all in relationships. There are plenty of great guys

1004
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 2: out there, they're just not single right right, And you know,

1005
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 2: it's timing is everything, and you know, oftentimes I'll meet

1006
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 2: someone and then I'd.

1007
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 3: Like, do I really want to be in a relationship?

1008
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 2: It's very time consuming, you know, sharing a life with somebody,

1009
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:46,800
Speaker 2: and I kind of want like a sometime roommate sometimes.

1010
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 2: But then I guess that makes me sound casual and

1011
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 2: I'm not right, Well that can you have sex like

1012
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:55,839
Speaker 2: a man like I want? I guess I just want

1013
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 2: the cuddle. I kind of like, you know, the cuddle,

1014
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 2: the you know, someone to put there. I was flew

1015
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 2: out here from New York and I was, you know,

1016
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,360
Speaker 2: waiting to get on my plane and I saw this couple,

1017
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 2: and he was taller than her, and she literally just

1018
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 2: just kind of rested.

1019
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 3: Her head on his shoulder and like held onto.

1020
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 2: His arm, and I kind of it kind of took

1021
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 2: my breath away because I was like, that's what I miss. Yeah,

1022
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 2: that's what I like, you know, not the not the fireworks,

1023
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 2: you know, fancy you know stuff, the movie stuff.

1024
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 3: It's that like.

1025
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,800
Speaker 2: Being able to lean on someone while you're in line

1026
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 2: to do something really you know, basic and yeah, you

1027
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 2: know boring.

1028
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I know, that's very profound. It's very profound.

1029
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:47,880
Speaker 2: I mean that's intimacy at a really beautiful level.

1030
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: Yes, I agree, I agree. Yes, I mean, so well,

1031
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,840
Speaker 1: let's just end that there's there there's hope.

1032
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:55,800
Speaker 3: There is hope.

1033
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, there is hope.

1034
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:02,319
Speaker 2: Yes, they're absolutely just got goosebumps and uh and Charlotte

1035
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 2: and your portrayal of her.

1036
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 3: So pure and so thank you, thank you.

1037
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 2: I'm lucky to play her so wonderful for Babe, for

1038
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 2: us all to watch.

1039
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1040
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: I'm just like, I still get to do it.

1041
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we get to watch it, you know, I know.

1042
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 1: It's super super mind blowing to think of the pilot

1043
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:28,279
Speaker 1: being all that time ago. Oh, I can't even really

1044
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 1: say the number out low because I don't really know.

1045
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 1: I you know what I mean, it's more than twenty

1046
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:34,800
Speaker 1: five years, That's what I know, because we had like

1047
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: a celebration that it was twenty five years and that

1048
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: was like two years ago, So I guess it's like

1049
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: twenty seven years ago.

1050
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 3: That's like what century?

1051
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 1: Like how could that be true?

1052
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 2: Like so much as to the carriage and also you know,

1053
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 2: in the world, in the world and the cast like marriage, lived, life,

1054
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:55,240
Speaker 2: you know, death.

1055
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:59,800
Speaker 3: I don't can't, okay, I yes.

1056
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 1: Yes, life is and life is intense. It's intense, I know.

1057
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:08,319
Speaker 1: But we've been on the wildest, wildest ride, you know,

1058
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 1: We've been all over the world. Oh, I don't think

1059
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: we want to get off if they'll let us continue,

1060
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 1: which I don't know, but you know, I mean, we

1061
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 1: love what we do so much, so much, and we're

1062
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: so lucky, and it's so I'm so grateful, you know,

1063
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:28,439
Speaker 1: for all of it, for every phase and everyone who

1064
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 1: has allowed us to find ourselves. You know, because if

1065
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 1: you think about how the show has changed and then

1066
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 1: beginning to do the movies and then getting to do

1067
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:38,320
Speaker 1: the new show, like we have had this every single time,

1068
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: we have to prove ourselves again, Like it seems from

1069
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: the outside like it must be easy. No, no, we

1070
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 1: had to go pitch and just like that's harder.

1071
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 3: I'm sure each time.

1072
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:51,400
Speaker 1: There's the previous thing that that they want to live

1073
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:53,359
Speaker 1: up to, right, But then you also have to let

1074
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: go of that in a certain way because life changes

1075
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:58,440
Speaker 1: and people change and the stories evolve, and you know,

1076
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,280
Speaker 1: it's it's all very fascinating. I'm just very very grateful.

1077
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 3: It's incredible. It's magic. He guys, magic capture magic.

1078
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:08,960
Speaker 1: Well, thank you for your partner. Well you started remember

1079
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: of course, how can I forget? Like I said, I

1080
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,359
Speaker 1: want to know what happens to her Elizabeth?

1081
00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 3: Well maybe in the next uh, I know, does she still?

1082
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: Does she still?

1083
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 3: You know what she could have of the vintage?

1084
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 1: She could with that money?

1085
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:29,760
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, maybe that's that's.

1086
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 3: That's full circle. I was like, there you go had

1087
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 3: the hat box?

1088
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:33,799
Speaker 1: Oh of it?

1089
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:34,319
Speaker 3: I know?

1090
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 1: And is that, sir Jessica's because like, how could we

1091
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 1: have afforded that?

1092
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:37,839
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1093
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,879
Speaker 2: I don't know what That's a good that's a good

1094
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 2: trivia question. Yeah, she has it, she has it, of

1095
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 2: course she does.

1096
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 3: She'd have the hat box.

1097
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 1: Made me carry a hat box all over Morocco.

1098
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 3: Isn't that funny?

1099
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:55,720
Speaker 1: Yes, it was awkward. It was always like these things

1100
00:49:55,719 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: are not And I had a massive hat Michael Patrick

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00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 1: Haye is so beautiful. I'm sorry that, oh we put

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00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,839
Speaker 1: a lot of sunscreen onto but yes, uh you know, yes,

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00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:11,360
Speaker 1: I guess this the has helped. That has help. But yeah,

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00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 1: hat boxes are kind of a special thing. I very

1105
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 1: call back, go back old Hollywood. Yeah, I do love

1106
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 1: them too, but I mean I.

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00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:26,319
Speaker 2: Remember wanting to have one in high school and I

1108
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 2: think I ended up getting like a codboard.

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00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 3: One thing that that was how it was going to travel.

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00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 3: I didn't have any hats.

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00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,799
Speaker 1: Listen, I've got the Vyton makeup case, and I did

1112
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 1: you one time when it's sitting on the top of

1113
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 1: your pile in the back of the cabin, I was like, oh,

1114
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 1: I got one time. I was working in South Africa

1115
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 1: and I wanted my character to have it, but I

1116
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 1: had to bring it because they definitely could afford it.

1117
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 1: And I was I had adopted my son, who's who's

1118
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 1: my youngest child, and he was six months old and

1119
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 1: I was taking him to South Africa with me to

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00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 1: do this movie with a baby nurse and in the

1121
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 1: Louis Vutant, I packed his formula bottles because a picture

1122
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,799
Speaker 1: of that, but I did not because you don't think

1123
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:06,840
Speaker 1: you're just so stressed. Yeah, oh my god, what do

1124
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:08,920
Speaker 1: I have to take it for this more than travel six?

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00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 1: He did so great. I had bought like this, we're

1126
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:14,840
Speaker 1: so off topic, but I bought Starbucks card for everybody

1127
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:16,839
Speaker 1: because we were in the first class lounge, the first

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00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 1: class cabin of Everts. I was like, these people are

1129
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 1: going to be so upset with me because I have

1130
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 1: this tiny baby. You thought I was going to be mad, Well,

1131
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: my baby nurse did. Yeah, so we bought Starbucks card

1132
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: for everyone. He did not make up, but I handed

1133
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 1: them out anyway.

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00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I.

1135
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 1: Mean he was like a little angel, a little angel

1136
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: the planes.

1137
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 2: Actually, I took my son to go further off topic

1138
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:41,799
Speaker 2: when he was three months old to Australia and.

1139
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 3: That was a long and I remember everyone.

1140
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 2: Looked at me in I was in business class and

1141
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 2: he had a little crib and the.

1142
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 3: Woman sitting next to me, I just sat down.

1143
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 2: I'm like, sorry, I'm a nurse.

1144
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:58,959
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1145
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:00,839
Speaker 2: I was like nursing and stuff because I was saying,

1146
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 2: what if I sit next to it? And that's a

1147
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 2: long time to you know, he slept the entire, the

1148
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 2: entire It's amazing. I was like, I'll hold him whatever

1149
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 2: you need.

1150
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:10,799
Speaker 1: This is when that's when you need watching this or

1151
00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 1: listening or whatever. Who has a baby fly with them

1152
00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:15,320
Speaker 1: when they're kind three to six months you think you shouldn't.

1153
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 3: But when they're not so bad, no, no, then you need.

1154
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 2: Then you need more than a stuff you need give

1155
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 2: card tifinator.

1156
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:30,879
Speaker 1: Everybody, totally totally anyway, we have definitely gone off. Yeah,

1157
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:32,879
Speaker 1: but it was really fun. You're so fun to talk

1158
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 1: to you.

1159
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:34,480
Speaker 3: Oh I love you. You're amazing.

1160
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 2: It's just like I love this. It's just are you

1161
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 2: watching going on? Is that how you're gonna like you'll

1162
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 2: cover the.

1163
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:44,319
Speaker 1: Well, that's how we can over the themes, right, And

1164
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 1: I mean we're recapping, but not in the way like

1165
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:49,840
Speaker 1: some people recap and talk about like lines, scenes, whatever.

1166
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh my god, I don't even know

1167
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 1: if I can do that. But like, just to watch

1168
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 1: the pilot because I haven't watched it in at least

1169
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 1: twenty years, I mean a very long time. Right, you know,

1170
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: you're reminded of so much. So it's like, I want

1171
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:01,959
Speaker 1: to tell you about what it was like to be there,

1172
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:05,280
Speaker 1: what I remember, you know, different things stick out obviously,

1173
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 1: and then some things you're like, I don't even remember that,

1174
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, it's just behind the scenes.

1175
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:12,760
Speaker 1: But also the thing that I love the most about

1176
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 1: it is that the themes that we talked about then

1177
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 1: are still so relevant, you know, it's still so interesting.

1178
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:21,799
Speaker 1: And that's why I like to hold them up now

1179
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:23,240
Speaker 1: and say like, is this still true?

1180
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:24,480
Speaker 3: Is this not still true?

1181
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 1: It's super interesting, you know, and I'm sure each guest

1182
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: will have their own.

1183
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 3: It's fascinating and it's and we still don't know.

1184
00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 2: We're still asking the questions, which keeps us curious, which

1185
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:33,800
Speaker 2: keeps things interesting.

1186
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 3: Which is great.

1187
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 1: That's a great and that's what I think carrying bodies right,

1188
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:39,640
Speaker 1: She's always like what if? Or what's your things? I

1189
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:41,839
Speaker 1: wonder if? Or you know, like that these are good

1190
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:42,560
Speaker 1: questions to be as.

1191
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 2: Curiosity is something so lacking. People are really good at

1192
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:47,799
Speaker 2: talking and they're not good at listening. And I think

1193
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 2: when you're curious, you inherently want to listen, and not

1194
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:52,719
Speaker 2: everyone can host a podcast, so you.

1195
00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 3: Obviously you're a really good.

1196
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 2: Listener, My first guest, we'll find out, that's my of

1197
00:53:58,680 --> 00:53:59,800
Speaker 2: all the podcasts.

1198
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,680
Speaker 3: I've been on. No, You're You're You're great.

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Speaker 1: You darling, thank you for being here for my first

1200
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:08,879
Speaker 1: guest for Charlotte, my first sure and she was in

1201
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:13,280
Speaker 1: fact to Charlotte more than me, which is quite amazing.

1202
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 3: You know, I was inspired.

1203
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 1: Ah, so we hope you guys will be back next week. Yeah,