1 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your girl Cheeky's and you've reached the 2 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: voice mailbox for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you 3 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: advice on anything and everything you need help with. Maybe 4 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with 5 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: your family, or maybe you need help figuring out how 6 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: to balance your checkbook or how to start a business, 7 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: whatever the cases, I want to hear from you. Remember 8 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,599 Speaker 1: these are my thoughts and opinions, and if you're suffering 9 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: from an issue or hardship, you should seek help from 10 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 1: a qualified professional. All right, Now go ahead and leave 11 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:49,840 Speaker 1: your question at the sound of the beef, Hi, Cheeky's. 12 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 2: I'm a huge fan of you, your mom, your whole family, 13 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 2: and I know you guys have always been curvy and 14 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 2: you've always had a big booty. I was just wondering, 15 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:05,039 Speaker 2: how could I I'm kind of skinny, I've lost a 16 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 2: lot of weight, we had some family issues last year, 17 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 2: and I'm slowly trying to gain my weight back up 18 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 2: or my muscle, and I was just wondering if you 19 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 2: had any tips on getting a bigger butt, at least. 20 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: A little bit bigger. All right, anonymous listener, I love 21 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: this okay, So any tips to get a bigger butt. 22 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 1: Squats okay, if you want to do it naturally, do 23 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: a lot of squats, a lot of hip thrusts, like 24 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: the one that go like this with the kettlebell. Okay, that, 25 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: and I even I've done freaking squats in the shower. 26 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, today I have I have like I'm 27 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,559 Speaker 1: gonna do twenty in the shower, and I do twenty 28 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: and then the next day I do thirty. But there 29 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: are other ways, okay if you want. There's you know, 30 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: sculpture injections, and I have done those to help with 31 00:01:56,680 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: dimpling on my butt because my butt is I've always 32 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: had this butt, and I've had big diyes to go 33 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: with it, and I just have satellite, it's just part 34 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: of it. So I have gotten sculpture to kind of 35 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:10,119 Speaker 1: fill in those little dimples. They don't go away completely. 36 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: But you can also use sculpture to give you a 37 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: bigger booty, but it's very expensive. I think like each 38 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: syringe is like one thousand dollars and sometimes people need 39 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: like forty syringes. I'm not lying to give you a 40 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: big butt, or you can just go and get surgery 41 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 1: and get lightpo everywhere else and then just have them 42 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: put it in your butt. That's another thing. But you 43 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: can definitely grow a butt. I have seen people that 44 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: had no booty and grow a butt in the gym. 45 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 1: So look up videos. I sometimes go on Pinterest for 46 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 1: workout ideas or on YouTube booty stuff and a bunch 47 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: of stuff comes out. So you just have to be consistent. 48 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: Do it every single day, and I believe me you 49 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: get a nice, little cute, plump butt. So yeah, I 50 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: like your question. Thank you so much. I would have 51 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,519 Speaker 1: loved to know your name, by the way, but next time, 52 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 1: let us know how your butt jo He's going. I 53 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:07,679 Speaker 1: want to know, Okay, okay, So next question is from Fernanda. 54 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:11,519 Speaker 3: Hi, Cheeky's I'm eighteen years old. I live in I 55 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 3: want first and foremost. I just want to say I 56 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 3: love everything about you, your music, your podcast, especially your 57 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 3: relationship with your siblings. I just love you so much 58 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 3: and I look up to you a lot. But I 59 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 3: just wanted to hop on here and ask for some 60 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 3: advice because I know you have been very open about 61 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 3: the fact that you are not close to certain family 62 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 3: members and have cut off a lot of your extended 63 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 3: family and one hundred percent relate to that because last 64 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 3: year and this year, I have decided to do the 65 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 3: same thing and this is myself and cut off certain 66 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 3: family members because the same way that you can't stand 67 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 3: when certain family members talk bad about your siblings and 68 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 3: just bring negativity into your life, that is the same 69 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 3: way I feel about my family extended family and the 70 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 3: way that Mike and family talks about my mom and dad, 71 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 3: and both of my parents absolutely support me and that. 72 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 3: But with that being, when I decided to do that 73 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 3: and cut off those family members, I realized that a 74 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 3: lot of other family members had a lot to say 75 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 3: about that and were not very supportive and talked a 76 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 3: lot of shit, honestly, And I just want advice on 77 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 3: how on what I should do honestly? Should I respond back? 78 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: All right, Fernanda, thank you, Thank you for all the 79 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: love that you're sending me and for all those beautiful compliments. 80 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: I appreciate you. I totally understand. I get it. I 81 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 1: get it because been there doing it right now, staying 82 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: away from certain people. There are times when it's a 83 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 1: little harder where I'm like, damn, I kind of miss them, 84 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: But I'm like oh no, wait a second. I know 85 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 1: I don't really like them too much, you know, and 86 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: that's okay. I'm always telling you guys here on the 87 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: Pot podcast that it's it's good and healthy to have boundaries. Now, 88 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: I would not suggest for you to respond back or 89 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: sit there and engage with your other family members that 90 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 1: don't agree with your decision. I agree with your decision, 91 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: especially if they sit there and talk crap about your parents. 92 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: Those are your parents, and and I wouldn't I wouldn't 93 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: deal with it. So I think there's absolutely nothing wrong 94 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: for you taking a stand not only for yourself but 95 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: for your parents and saying I don't want to be 96 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: involved with you guys. You aren't good for my soul. 97 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 1: You are not cool with my parents. I can't be 98 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: cool with you. And if other people don't agree with that, 99 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: then you just have to be okay with them not 100 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: being okay with it and let them talk their shit. 101 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 1: Don't engage for what, honestly for what? Like then you 102 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,919 Speaker 1: don't really need that in your life. Uh So I 103 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: would not sit there and respond and argue it's like 104 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: you're gonna You're gonna talk to like a wall at 105 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 1: that point, because if they don't agree. They just don't agree, 106 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: and it doesn't matter what you say, They're not gonna 107 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: agree unless they come to you and say, hey, can 108 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 1: I talk to you and ask you why you decided this? 109 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 1: That's completely different. But if they're just they're talking trash 110 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: and not even taking the time to ask you, ignore them, babe, 111 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: Ignore them. Peace be with them, and that's it, Like, 112 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 1: why waste energy on that? Stay away from them too, honestly, 113 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: I mean, you got to take care of your own 114 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:30,320 Speaker 1: take care of your peace of mind and your parents. 115 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: So that's my honest advice. And yeah, then all right, 116 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: ooh another anonymous listener. You guys, Okay, let's see what 117 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: this person has to ask me. Let's go hi. 118 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 3: So I need your help. 119 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: I don't know what to do, all right. My boyfriend 120 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 2: slept with someone else and he states she was different, 121 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 2: But he doesn't want to tell me good different or 122 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 2: bad different. He said different. So the reason he slept 123 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 2: with someone else is because supposedly, well, he was not 124 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 2: at me because I overreacted for not matching with him, 125 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 2: because whenever we go out, I love to match with 126 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 2: him at least coordinate so people can know, Hey, we're together, 127 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 2: but that didn't happen when everyone out, and so he 128 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 2: got up set because I was overreacting. And later on 129 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 2: the night he was gonna drop me off somewhere and 130 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 2: I told you know what, never mind, you take me 131 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 2: back home. So he told me, you just wasted my time, 132 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 2: and to the point that he fucked someone else. And 133 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, I love him like everything, but 134 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 2: to the point for him to fuck someone else and 135 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 2: not care about my feelings. You know, I don't understand 136 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 2: what to do. I don't want to let go for 137 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 2: the same time I have to. I just need to 138 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 2: understand what those different mean. 139 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: Mama, Sita, I'm worried. I'm worried for you. Oh my god. Okay, 140 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 1: now I understand why you to leave me your name, 141 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: and that's fine. I respect that. How can I say this? 142 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 1: I can't believe you're still with him. First of all, 143 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: why let me tell you that shit is gonna get 144 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: even harder. Okay, that's if he's upset with you and 145 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 1: using that as an excuse, because that's what it is, 146 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 1: an excuse that he was upset because you guys weren't matching, 147 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: and that's why he went and slept with someone else. 148 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 1: Things are gonna get worse. There's so many other things 149 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 1: that can happen and will happen, and you guys are 150 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 1: gonna have disagreements, and he's just gonna want to just 151 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: bone someone else and then tell you that she was 152 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 1: different and not tell you if it was better or worse. Girl, No, 153 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: I don't know how old you are. You could be 154 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,679 Speaker 1: young or older. I don't care. But you need to 155 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: get yourself out of this situation. This is not good. 156 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: He sounds very selfish, sounds like a narcissist, first of all, 157 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: trying to use that as an excuse. That's bullshit. Absolutely, 158 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 1: there's no reason why he needs to go and sleep 159 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: with someone else and then come back and I don't 160 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: know how you found out and then just tell you 161 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: that it was just different. Like, if you don't get 162 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 1: out of the situation, he's going to tear you down 163 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: to where there's no longer any you if you keep 164 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: allowing him. Because you're allowing him to do this, you 165 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: know you need to let go. You need to let go. 166 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, you need to let go 167 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 1: of this person. You need to change your number, you 168 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 1: need to block him. Imagine if you get pregnant with 169 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:48,679 Speaker 1: this guy and then like and then what, of course 170 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:49,959 Speaker 1: the baby will be a blessing. I'm not saying it 171 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: wouldn't be a blessing. But he's gonna hurt your heart, babe, 172 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 1: He's gonna break you. Like No, there's no reason why 173 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: he needs to sleep with someone else. Absolutely, there's no excuse. 174 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: There's no reason. There's no good reason, especially overmatching, because 175 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 1: you decided not to like. No. No, he knows you 176 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: love him, and he's taken advantage of that, and you 177 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:15,079 Speaker 1: need to run fast, run the opposite way and never 178 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: look back. I'm telling you this person, this guy is 179 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: not good news. He has a lot of maturing to 180 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 1: do and a lot of growing to do, and you 181 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: should not be in his crossfire because that's what it is. 182 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 1: He's going to use you as a punching bag. He's 183 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:34,079 Speaker 1: going to deplete you. Please let me know what happens. 184 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: You don't have to tell me your name, but just 185 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 1: leave me another voice note, let me know what happens. 186 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: Please choose yourself, Please, you guys, choose yourself. Please please. 187 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:44,719 Speaker 1: If not, you're going to keep attracting this, you need 188 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 1: to just let go. I'm telling you I've been there. 189 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: I'm like this little fucker, whoever this guy is, I'm 190 00:10:55,440 --> 00:11:00,440 Speaker 1: very upset. Anyways, you guys, let's breathe, let's all brethe together. 191 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 1: We're gonna let go of negativity. We're gonna let go 192 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: of anything and anyone that no longer serves us, that 193 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 1: doesn't serve us highest good because we love ourselves, because 194 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: God has something better for us, and we're gonna trust that. Okay, guys, 195 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: thank you so much for listening. I'm so sorry that 196 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: I got a little upset, but I'm very passionate. I'm 197 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: a very passionate person and I really care about all 198 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 1: of my listeners, and because I know what that feels 199 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 1: like for someone to take advantage of you or whatever 200 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 1: the case may be. A lot of these things that 201 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 1: you guys ask me are things that I have lived, 202 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:34,439 Speaker 1: that I have gone through. And I think this is 203 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:36,599 Speaker 1: why God gave me this podcast, because I'm able to 204 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: help you guys, because I've been through a lot of 205 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:41,719 Speaker 1: things and I want to keep you guys from experiencing 206 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 1: certain things if I can, and keep you guys from 207 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: feeling just pain in your heart. And I really feel that, 208 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: So thank you so much for listening, and I hope 209 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 1: that even if it was in your question that I answered, 210 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 1: that you were able to learn something and to grow 211 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: from this podcast. More than anything, that is my goal. Again, 212 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening, thank you for being here. 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