WEBVTT - B SIMONE - Spaghetti Alla Impossible

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<v Speaker 1>Guess what, y'all welcome to another episode of Eating While

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<v Speaker 1>Broke And guess what. We are out of the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>studio and in Atlanta again, and guess who we have

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<v Speaker 1>here with us? The amazing, the amazing be Simone is

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<v Speaker 1>with me. Dang. I thought she's gonna give me more

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<v Speaker 1>like the amazing, the amazing comedian actions influencer Willing outcast

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<v Speaker 1>here eating problem. But I want to tell you guys something.

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<v Speaker 1>I was messing with her schedule all day and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, she's gonna be ferocious. She's gonna be ferocious

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<v Speaker 1>to me, and I'm terrified. Now, I was like, are

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<v Speaker 1>you crazy? I was terrified because I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't believe that I promised you. I was washing this

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<v Speaker 1>just like, oh, I don't know how to tell Dolly

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<v Speaker 1>this and writing and your ribs are great. She so

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<v Speaker 1>nice to me, and I was like, thank you Jesus.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes they could be hard and you don't know. But

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<v Speaker 1>I want people to know this because sometimes you see

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<v Speaker 1>someone on camera on your phone and you assume stuff

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<v Speaker 1>about them when you don't know, and it's just like,

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<v Speaker 1>I meet you and I have this amazing story to tell,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want people to know the other side, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to keep my energy and I'm actually really really tired,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know how that goes. I'm like making sure

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<v Speaker 1>my energy is up because I'm actually excited to do this.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never done anything like this. Yeah, cooking on camera. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like cooking and you know, and then you got to

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<v Speaker 1>cook your broke dish. Yeah. She can't even put on

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<v Speaker 1>a girl show for us. She got Yeah, but one day,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she invite us. You know, maybe we could

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<v Speaker 1>have her rich dish. Yeah, rich dishes like like Chipotle.

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<v Speaker 1>So I eat Chipotle every day all the time. I

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<v Speaker 1>had it today. I'm gonna have to find out at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the interview. What be Simona orders Chipotle? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I like, oh, I feel like you're gonna be healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>I order all the like. But see what you thought

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<v Speaker 1>always vegan. I'm not vegan. I just don't. I'm pesketarian,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I eat salmon sometime, but I don't eat meat.

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<v Speaker 1>But I eat dairy. I'm actually fasting from dairy right now.

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<v Speaker 1>But why because I'm doing a seven day fast with

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<v Speaker 1>my team so we can have clarity because we have

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<v Speaker 1>something coming up in eight days. Oh, I'm we're about

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to learn. What do you have us eating today? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So we are eating spaghetti, y'all. But today it's a

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<v Speaker 1>little different than my struggle male because when I used

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<v Speaker 1>to struggle, I was eating meat, so it was like

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<v Speaker 1>regular ground beef. But now I haven't had meat for

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<v Speaker 1>six years excluding seafood. Um, So we're using impossible meat

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<v Speaker 1>and now I've never you're not even going to know.

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<v Speaker 1>If you didn't know, you wouldn't know. Well, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>curious to see, Like, how do you know an impossible

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<v Speaker 1>meat is cooked? Because I would assume it's fake meat.

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<v Speaker 1>It's brown. Oh, well, you're gonna today, so we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have and then what are you gonna name this? So

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<v Speaker 1>when we're looking at the cookbook, what is be simone

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<v Speaker 1>spaghetti going to be called? Oh my god, can I

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<v Speaker 1>think about that is gonna be called? I was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be You got to the end. Why don't you start

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<v Speaker 1>cooking for okay? Okay, okay, let's go to the kitchen.

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<v Speaker 1>That's giddy. So first I wait, am I telling you

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<v Speaker 1>how I do it? Tell me? Yeah, you gotta walk

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<v Speaker 1>us through it. First of all, I don't cook, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't go to the grocery store. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a car, which I talked about all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm definitely not going to get no groceries. I

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<v Speaker 1>uber eat. I eat out. So when was the last

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<v Speaker 1>time you've in the kitchen? When he was wrote, Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>that's where I wanted to be out. Okay, guys, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be like the last time I wasn't again.

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<v Speaker 1>Now what's the last time I cooked? Oh? I did

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<v Speaker 1>get high? Can I say that on here? You can say, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is and I'm not gonna lie. I made some

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<v Speaker 1>cookies baked. Did you actually make them from scratch? For

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<v Speaker 1>the little bit scratch tall house? They like that. My

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<v Speaker 1>cousin came over and she bought them. But that was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the little squares you just put on the things I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I love my brother, I love them. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Just for the record, you should always keep that in

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<v Speaker 1>your house. So like if we go on your fridge,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no food, nothing is there water? Like what I

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<v Speaker 1>go into your house and like, smote, I'm gonna hit

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<v Speaker 1>that fridge. I open it. Did not do that. There's nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>There's alivera plant because the hookah fell in my lap

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<v Speaker 1>the coal and I had on shorts and I had

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<v Speaker 1>to heal that. So I rub alivera in between my

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<v Speaker 1>thighs daily. But other than that, there's nothing in my fridge.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know el overt could do that. It helps.

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<v Speaker 1>You got the actual quant. Okay, so we go in there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like we're gonna starve to death. There's not even

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<v Speaker 1>leftovers of what Oh my god? Okay, okay, but if

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<v Speaker 1>we have leftovers of this, can take it? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>go for it, all right. So what we're gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>She wants to take her. That's how you know someone's real.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. She boiled the noodles already for us. So

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<v Speaker 1>they're right there because he was not about to boil them.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they take a little long. Did you test

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<v Speaker 1>to see me? Was ready to throw it on the wall.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to start throwing out because and we have

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<v Speaker 1>the impossible meats? You guys oil with that? Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna take a little bit of oil here. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me oh, I know I got out of shot. Hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Guys. Have y'all ever had like you never had,

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<v Speaker 1>like a vegan burger? Yes, like sluty vegan or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, or like, let me tell you before I leave,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have slutty vegan. Girl. You don't even you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't even know. It's not so I love my guilty pleasure.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people don't know. This is like, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>if anyone's in town and they're like, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to eat? Thank you? You're so hilarious. He's a mother,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a wife. Oh shit, I haven't done this in

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. Oh god, I'm over here like crisco,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, but a little bit of that. So I

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<v Speaker 1>only assumed usually with ground beef, there's fat in it.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you're gonna need more than that. More crisco. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do too much grease. Oh really, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm learning. I mean, I don't know what impared. No, no, no, impossible.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna figure it out together, all right. So we

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<v Speaker 1>turned the oven on the stoves and we're just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>put it in there, y'all. And now impossible me isn't me?

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<v Speaker 1>It's not it's uh, there's one of these things. Oh yes, perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. And then what we're gonna do is we

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<v Speaker 1>have all this seasoning. I'm a pepper girl. I love pepper.

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<v Speaker 1>We got Tony's. Don't put too much because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want you to clesh fraw to be out the root.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna that. It was sizzling quick. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>want Do you feel like you're on one of those

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<v Speaker 1>contestant cooking shows. That's admit us to make this meal.

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<v Speaker 1>It's oars sizzling quick. Oh it is turning brown. See

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<v Speaker 1>for all y'all listeners, it's turning round. So I'm surprised

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<v Speaker 1>you don't do like spaghetti with meat balls. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they had been possible meat balls. Oh no, I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>for your broth this you used to do ground ground

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<v Speaker 1>beefs Yep? Was it because it was like cheaper and easier.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I grew up eating spaghetti all the time, spaghetti,

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<v Speaker 1>hot dogs, burgers, drunk. You know I didn't really, You're right,

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<v Speaker 1>I should have put more grease. This is too high.

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<v Speaker 1>It's burning. I think it's not burning, but it's not okay,

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<v Speaker 1>turning stick to the panda. So yeah, I didn't grow

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<v Speaker 1>up eating healthy. So what was going on at the

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<v Speaker 1>time when you were consuming hot dogs, spaghetti and all

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<v Speaker 1>of that. Let's go back to Pleasant Girl. I just

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<v Speaker 1>got back from Dallas, Texas. Um the house I grew

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<v Speaker 1>up in. Actually, my grandmother still stays there, literally, in

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<v Speaker 1>the hood of Dallas, Pleasant Grove. You know, she has

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<v Speaker 1>a nice hone. She fixed it up and stuff. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, older people, they ain't never gonna leave. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you know, you want to stay here, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to leave. Her daughter lives around the corner.

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<v Speaker 1>She's been there her whole life. You know, she owns

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<v Speaker 1>the house, so you know they're not gonna leave. But

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<v Speaker 1>Pleasant Girl was where I'm from, and I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the hood of Dallas. But you know what's crazy. When

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<v Speaker 1>I was growing up, I didn't It wasn't like I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I grew up in poverty. I never knew,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, until I was older, like an adult, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's just like the hood. Now do

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<v Speaker 1>you think that's because then the environment you were in

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<v Speaker 1>was all the same or like what made you realize

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<v Speaker 1>later I needed for nothing? It wasn't like I grew

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<v Speaker 1>up in, like, you know, a horrible living situation. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was it was good. You know, all the fresh gear,

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<v Speaker 1>did I I mean, yeah, I'm like, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you know, I got older. In high school, I

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<v Speaker 1>started doing hair and my grandmother's kitchen. So I was

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<v Speaker 1>making bank, y'all. In high school, I really thought I

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<v Speaker 1>was popping. I started traveling and stuff because I was

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<v Speaker 1>making so much money. I didn't have bills and I

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<v Speaker 1>was living with my grandmother. So I mean for entrepreneur,

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<v Speaker 1>very early early, And where'd you learn how to do

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<v Speaker 1>hair from? I taught myself. I just randomly started breaking

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<v Speaker 1>my doll's hair. That's one moms it. So I randomly

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<v Speaker 1>started doing hair, and then I was good at it.

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<v Speaker 1>If I see something, I can do it. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>know how badly I want to learn how to do

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<v Speaker 1>corn worl I'm gonna I'm gonna test out this theory

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<v Speaker 1>on dolls. I guarantee it's not gonna come out as

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<v Speaker 1>good as yours. Yeah. So I started making money. Your

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<v Speaker 1>young entrepreneur, I did a lot of stuff. I was

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<v Speaker 1>in network marketing. Like anything I put my mind to,

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<v Speaker 1>I could sell it. But I would only sell stuff

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<v Speaker 1>I'm believe in though, so it didn't have to be

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, so commercially and addie. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>if I like the product, I'm gonna sell it. Where

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<v Speaker 1>did you get your entrepreneurs from. I don't know, was

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<v Speaker 1>there there was no entrepreneurs in your family? Now up around,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like the first that I'm in. My dad's a pastor,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom was a pharmacist. Yeah, my grandmother's are tired.

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<v Speaker 1>So I used to always think that in order to

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<v Speaker 1>be an entrepreneur. Now you have just ended my theory

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<v Speaker 1>that you had to have grown up in a home

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<v Speaker 1>where you had came by one. I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's people that go to school for entrepreneurship, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always like, but I feel like our generation is like,

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<v Speaker 1>not first generation. Of course, there's been entrepreneurs for decades decades,

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<v Speaker 1>but our generation is a lot of first generation millionaires

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<v Speaker 1>and entrepreneurs. Like it's like, you know, you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>just have access to a lot of stuff, and when

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<v Speaker 1>you believe you can do something, you literally can. So

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<v Speaker 1>so I just knew. I was always in the arts.

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up like dancing, acting, theater, doing hair, anything creative.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not want to do anything outside of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to get a job was never in my cards.

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<v Speaker 1>It was never even thought about it. No one in

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<v Speaker 1>your household was like, get a job, Well, obviously you

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<v Speaker 1>started obviously like I had 's like I was a waitress,

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<v Speaker 1>I worked at um boutique I had, but I never

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<v Speaker 1>I knew it was all temporary. Yeah, I used that

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<v Speaker 1>to like save my money and at night I was

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<v Speaker 1>in the studio where I was hustling or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>doing doing hair. What was your childhood dreams? I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be a hair stylist and do music. I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to own hair salons and be I thought I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be on story or something that never happened. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>not each, not yet, not yet. So um, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're actively you say you want to do hair and

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<v Speaker 1>all this stuff, but you actually aren't doing it in

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<v Speaker 1>high school. So technically you're hitting these milestones. So what happens?

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<v Speaker 1>You end up moving the needle forward more every time

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<v Speaker 1>you accomplish something. Yeah, and just you know, the more

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<v Speaker 1>I did, the more I was never satisfied. So I

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<v Speaker 1>always wanted the next name. That's a good and a

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<v Speaker 1>bad thing, y'all. Like when she reached that goal, it's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's next, what's next? What's next? But you also have

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<v Speaker 1>to appreciate all the milestones that you did hit. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I still think I have a problem with

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<v Speaker 1>that to this day, Like I'm appreciating the milestones kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like Okay, I did that, was next? I did

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<v Speaker 1>that was next? Okay, great, Okay, what's next? Like I

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<v Speaker 1>did that already. I feel like one of the consistent

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<v Speaker 1>things I noticed been interviewing successful, successful, successful people is

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys hit the milestone and then you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's next? So if that was good, she's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a drug, like I don't know, like that manifestation ship

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<v Speaker 1>and like reaching your goals. It's just like proven to

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<v Speaker 1>yourself and it's not a game. But it's like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like anything I say out of my mouth, anything

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<v Speaker 1>I put my mind too, is going to happen. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry about the how, I don't worry about the wind.

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<v Speaker 1>I just know what's gonna happen. Where do you think

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<v Speaker 1>you get You got that from them? God? Seriously, God,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it was just in me from birth. I don't,

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<v Speaker 1>honestly don't know, Like I have no idea, just I

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<v Speaker 1>was born with it. I guess. So looking at you today,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a wall and out. You're a viral sensation influencer.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what they say. What's the definition of sensation? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm canceled, You're canceled. That's good. That's good though it

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<v Speaker 1>is honestly, it's really good because as long as people

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<v Speaker 1>are talking about you, obsessing over you and watching your

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<v Speaker 1>videos and having something to say, you're on everybody's mind,

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<v Speaker 1>which because you slave it over the stone. This takes

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<v Speaker 1>a while, it's I know, but it's just some still

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<v Speaker 1>a ran pieces. So was there ever point in your

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<v Speaker 1>career coming up that you doubted yourself where something happened

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<v Speaker 1>where you were like, Okay, maybe I'm doing a bit much.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say doubt it myself, but it's definitely been

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<v Speaker 1>mill stones, Like, I mean, you know, tough things to

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<v Speaker 1>fight through, but I always knew. I never in my

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<v Speaker 1>mind got to a point where I was like, this

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<v Speaker 1>isn't gonna happen. Never, But there was a point where

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<v Speaker 1>there was like a little bit of oh my god, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been out the house I was living in.

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<v Speaker 1>I was making a thousand dollars a week with no

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<v Speaker 1>bills at like twenty years old. That is a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun, like just doing hair and kicking it and traveling,

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<v Speaker 1>and I you know, then I was like, Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna save some money. I'm gonna get a car. I

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<v Speaker 1>spent like seven grand on a car or something. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I was working at a strip club, not stripping.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think nobody would come see me shrip and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be doing the chicken hands. Um. But I was

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<v Speaker 1>a waitress and I was like I had I hated it.

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<v Speaker 1>I saved my money, got my car, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna save up three thousand dollars. I'm gonna moved

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<v Speaker 1>to Atlanta. Why Atlanta? It was either Atlanta or l A.

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<v Speaker 1>In l A, I was like, in my mind, way

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<v Speaker 1>too expensive. And I came to visit Atlanta a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I love the culture. I love kicking it with my

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<v Speaker 1>people out here. I love the blackness. Yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 1>just saying that. Today I went out and it was

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<v Speaker 1>the first time I went out and everybody was black everywhere. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The only dun type was I was at Walmart and

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like all the shows were empty and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what we're trying to get. I was trying, yeah, exactly. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to pick up your groceries, right, trying

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<v Speaker 1>to pick up my struggle meal. But yeah. So I

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<v Speaker 1>just moved with three thousand dollars. That money was going

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<v Speaker 1>in a month. I was like, what, So then what

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<v Speaker 1>did you do? Girl? I got three jobs. I was waitressing.

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<v Speaker 1>I uh, you know, served food at the tavern at

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<v Speaker 1>fix Spots. I don't even know if that's there anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>M I worked at a boutique shout out to Tea.

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<v Speaker 1>He gave me my first little job out here or

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<v Speaker 1>um yeah, and I did hear on the side, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was bad and I didn't did you. Me and

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<v Speaker 1>my best friend from Dallas moved out here. She and

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<v Speaker 1>she was one of the people that told me. She

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<v Speaker 1>was like, if you do not move to Atlanta, then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna be your friend of her, Like you're

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<v Speaker 1>holding yourself back and you're meaning basically a great friend

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<v Speaker 1>out to Pharaoh. Yeah. Yeah, so we struggled for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time. I didn't have a bed for like six months. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that. I know. I let me tell you, like,

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<v Speaker 1>when I was going through that ship, I was not

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<v Speaker 1>like woe is me. I was just like, this is

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<v Speaker 1>my life right now, but as a temporary yes, And

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<v Speaker 1>you have to remember that if you truly believe it,

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<v Speaker 1>it will be temporary. I knew it was. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>had nights where I cried, Yes I had stressful moments,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was never like I'm sleeping on the floor.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, all right, we in grind mode, like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to make it. I just gotta keep putting

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<v Speaker 1>one for after. You can go back on my YouTube, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Like when I first moved to Atlanta, I have YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>of me like playing gospel music. It's still on YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>crying the video, like our our basement flooded. We were

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<v Speaker 1>living in like the hood. Man, it was some get

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<v Speaker 1>But this whole move to Atlanta was in person. What

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<v Speaker 1>um I wanted have spaghetti sauce to this? Or yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna mix it all together. Okay, I think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you probably need to go We're gonna mix it together.

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<v Speaker 1>You so you want to add the sauce to the meat.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that how you do? Yeah? I haven't cooked spaghetti

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<v Speaker 1>in a decade, so honestly, okay, But it just goes

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<v Speaker 1>all together, right, it does. But you want you can't

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<v Speaker 1>just put the noodles in here, right, Because we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>put all this in the pot. I'm gonna trust you

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<v Speaker 1>to do it. That's that's smart and a little dry.

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<v Speaker 1>You want it? Edit this out perfect? Add sauce. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's put the sauce on jingles because they dry sauce.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we're gonna endit me right, you're asking me.

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<v Speaker 1>We need our own cooking, so yep, and then we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna mix this all together. It is gonna be good.

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<v Speaker 1>Slide this sad and then you need to heat it

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<v Speaker 1>up again or no, let me see? Uh maybe not?

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<v Speaker 1>I think you will? You do? Okay? Should I turn

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<v Speaker 1>it all low for you? Yo? You need a cooking,

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<v Speaker 1>so you need a cooking. You would be you would

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<v Speaker 1>be great. So you're what was the mission for you

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<v Speaker 1>coming out, say, Atlanta? What was your end goal in

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<v Speaker 1>your mind? I'm gonna be a uh superstar. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do music. I'm gonna make it. I'm gonna do music.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I mean, of course acting and I was

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<v Speaker 1>always in theater. I never never thought about myself being

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<v Speaker 1>a comedian. Stand up comedian is ever ever. So you're

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<v Speaker 1>out here with jobs. How does a girl moving out

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<v Speaker 1>here with three jobs, struggling pursuing music end up becoming

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<v Speaker 1>be simone? As we all don't like what what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>What were those moves that happened? Really? I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>was in the studio every night, I was recording. I

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<v Speaker 1>put out a project. None of that stopped. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>put out a project, it's it's still got music on

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<v Speaker 1>iTunes and you can like look it up. Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>make like ten dollars a month off of it. Nobody

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<v Speaker 1>listens to that. Um. And you know I was in

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<v Speaker 1>the studio. It was literally like get a bed or

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<v Speaker 1>pay for studios. But once social media took off, like Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>I took advantage of that. If this is what's popping

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<v Speaker 1>right now, this is what I'm gonna use. And I

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<v Speaker 1>took advantage of Instagram eight years ago when you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't that many people on They're doing comedy, It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't oversaturated, it wasn't it was a brand new act.

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<v Speaker 1>So you got an Instagram before fun? Yes, yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have you didn't you know? I use Instagram, but

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<v Speaker 1>I came from my Space. You know, use my space.

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<v Speaker 1>I had my top eight, I had my music on

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<v Speaker 1>my Space. I was, you know, yeah popular on my Space.

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<v Speaker 1>And I took it to p Interest, and I took

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<v Speaker 1>it to Facebook. Then I took it to Instagram, so

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<v Speaker 1>my I think my you know tribe or whatever followed

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<v Speaker 1>me all over. But of course it was nothing like

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<v Speaker 1>how it is now. But um, social media made me

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<v Speaker 1>a comedian. I'm telling you all, people will tell you

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<v Speaker 1>what they want from you. Do not without compromising who

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<v Speaker 1>you are in your roles. Give the people what they want.

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<v Speaker 1>I would post my music, it would get four thousand likes.

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<v Speaker 1>I would post a comedy video, it would get four

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<v Speaker 1>hundred thousand. Well, I'm gonna give you all this, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and you can still do it in certain ways. Do

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<v Speaker 1>a comedy skit and play your music in the background,

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<v Speaker 1>or do a comedy skit and shout out to music later.

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<v Speaker 1>But they didn't want my music, you know, so I

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<v Speaker 1>gave them comedy. If you had to range yourself between entrepreneur, comedian,

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<v Speaker 1>music artists talent on screen like after actress, which one

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<v Speaker 1>would you say? Would you rate yourself as number one entrepreneur?

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say that. I didn't want to say

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<v Speaker 1>you like sneur because everything is under that umbrella, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's Jesus, I hate that click click What does that do?

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's just the light, the light lighting you're

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<v Speaker 1>so cute. Should we put the top on? Let it

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<v Speaker 1>get warm? You are absolutely adorable. Yeah, entrepreneur. Everything else

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<v Speaker 1>is under that umbrella. So entrepreneur is my comedy side, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, doing stand up, studying that, selling merge, making

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<v Speaker 1>people laugh, putting out a stand up special, having them watch,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like all of that is entrepreneurial. And then

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<v Speaker 1>um be Simon beauty, cosmetic line, entrepreneur this, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and and there's so much of touch on with you

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<v Speaker 1>because you're so multifacet I've watched you over the years,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've watched you. I want to say, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to say it, and I get it wrong and

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<v Speaker 1>then you but I want to say, I've watched you

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<v Speaker 1>make your first million on Instagram. I watched you experience

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you something, it was one of the best.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm one of those people that get really happy for

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<v Speaker 1>other people. You went a lot out. I'm like, I'm like, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>go for it. But that was one of the first

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<v Speaker 1>things I manifested publicly, like with my audience, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>to me, not gonna tear up for sure, trying not to.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like from a woman's standpoint, that was not

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<v Speaker 1>from a woman. Just from anyone's standpoint, it was monumental

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<v Speaker 1>that you you literally opened up the behind the scenes

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<v Speaker 1>and like what it felt like, and you documented it wild.

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<v Speaker 1>It was one of the most amazing things I had

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<v Speaker 1>ever seen. And I I was I was impactive and

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<v Speaker 1>it even from and you know how hard it took

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<v Speaker 1>to take the chance. And I think in your case,

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<v Speaker 1>you were buying the stuff up front. Yeah, so you

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<v Speaker 1>needed it to sell, so you're like, you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you were doing things. But even going into that, like

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<v Speaker 1>people don't understand. Like the biggest lesson that I even

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<v Speaker 1>got from it was the belief because I publicly said

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be a millionaire. I said it first,

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<v Speaker 1>but not just to myself, not to my friends. I

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<v Speaker 1>said it publicly, like on April five, I'm gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>a million dollars in my account. Once the cameras went off,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, all right, Like, now what do we do?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you, I believed it, though, like having that belief

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<v Speaker 1>publicly and putting it out there are like y'all have

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<v Speaker 1>to believe what you are saying and what you are

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<v Speaker 1>chasing and what you are fighting for, Like it's the

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<v Speaker 1>belief you're not. People are so worried about how it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna happen and when it's gonna happen that they don't

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<v Speaker 1>believe it's going to happen. Stop worrying about the how

0:24:14.920 --> 0:24:18.879
<v Speaker 1>and the when. God got that. You just believe it's coming. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>When you look at a project as an entrepreneur, do

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<v Speaker 1>you look at your passion and like the vision of

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<v Speaker 1>your your idea come into life, like your beauty line

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<v Speaker 1>and came to life. Or do you look at the

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<v Speaker 1>numbers gotta make sense? No, because it always don't make sense.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a thirty dollar be some own beauty fucking

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<v Speaker 1>truck that I had a whole vision for it, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's been sitting for a year at the warehouse. Like

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<v Speaker 1>that didn't makes sense, But I I knew what made

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<v Speaker 1>sense to me. Sometimes I lose money sometimes, like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not money driven, though I'm not scared to invest and

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<v Speaker 1>lose money and put out money in hopes of something

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<v Speaker 1>greater coming from it. I don't hold on into money

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Do you ever get scared about going by

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<v Speaker 1>to a spaghetti No? No, because you even die forbid.

0:25:06.320 --> 0:25:08.680
<v Speaker 1>If I did, I know how to get how to

0:25:08.720 --> 0:25:10.359
<v Speaker 1>get out of it. You know what I mean, Like

0:25:10.400 --> 0:25:12.760
<v Speaker 1>I did it once. Anything that you have done one time,

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<v Speaker 1>you can do again. It's really really in you, like

0:25:15.480 --> 0:25:18.680
<v Speaker 1>you can do it again. You know. But let's let's

0:25:18.720 --> 0:25:21.840
<v Speaker 1>sit down, because I feel like I am You're literally

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<v Speaker 1>at the soul for all y'all listeners. We've been talking

0:25:25.720 --> 0:25:29.439
<v Speaker 1>this whole time. We haven't even set a right think

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<v Speaker 1>about to make your plaints because I'm feeling like, yeah,

0:25:33.520 --> 0:25:40.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna love it because I'm starving. Thank you and impossibly,

0:25:40.480 --> 0:25:45.960
<v Speaker 1>she said, thank you, thank you so much. This is impossible.

0:25:46.160 --> 0:25:50.119
<v Speaker 1>Like that's more than enough. Trust me, I'll be asking

0:25:50.280 --> 0:25:53.560
<v Speaker 1>so many questions. We see I want to bager scoop.

0:25:53.760 --> 0:25:59.159
<v Speaker 1>See okay, okay, I gotta get the good scoop. But

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<v Speaker 1>out of stuff, get littlemo and flipped it like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I was kind of secretly hoping when

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<v Speaker 1>I was shopping she would have added cheese, but then

0:26:07.800 --> 0:26:10.840
<v Speaker 1>it was vegan, but you're not vegan. I'm not vegan.

0:26:10.880 --> 0:26:12.720
<v Speaker 1>I actually would have added cheese if I wasn't doing

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<v Speaker 1>you know fast. Okay, Let's let's try this. Okay, their guy,

0:26:17.840 --> 0:26:20.160
<v Speaker 1>thank you for this food. We're about to receive the nourishment.

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<v Speaker 1>Of our bodies. And I hope she liked it. Amen,

0:26:24.400 --> 0:26:28.600
<v Speaker 1>I will definitely like it. There's only three ingredients, y'all. Well, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean besides the season. So as far as affordability,

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<v Speaker 1>this this is extremely affordable. Wow, you can't even say

0:26:39.640 --> 0:26:42.120
<v Speaker 1>it's impossible meat. I had no idea, but it makes

0:26:42.160 --> 0:26:45.760
<v Speaker 1>me feel better knowing it's impossible meat does it? I

0:26:45.760 --> 0:26:47.480
<v Speaker 1>feel like people that eat meat it makes them feel

0:26:47.480 --> 0:26:51.160
<v Speaker 1>grossed out. Not grossed out, but like I won't want me. Oh.

0:26:51.240 --> 0:26:55.560
<v Speaker 1>My guilty pleasure is eating at vegan restaurants, Like I

0:26:55.640 --> 0:26:58.880
<v Speaker 1>just yeah, they have really good vegan. But then when

0:26:58.880 --> 0:27:00.400
<v Speaker 1>I go to a vegan person or to tell them

0:27:00.400 --> 0:27:02.400
<v Speaker 1>like the restaurant like, They're like, that's not real vegan.

0:27:02.480 --> 0:27:06.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh really, okay, well I still like it.

0:27:07.560 --> 0:27:10.240
<v Speaker 1>They're not real vegan. Maybe they like do raw they're

0:27:10.280 --> 0:27:14.680
<v Speaker 1>like the vegan. Yeah, I don't know what they expect,

0:27:14.720 --> 0:27:16.879
<v Speaker 1>but this is the vegan that I'm talking about. It

0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:21.879
<v Speaker 1>tastes like real food. Have you been to real food

0:27:22.000 --> 0:27:26.679
<v Speaker 1>l A and in l A? But yeah, but apparently,

0:27:27.240 --> 0:27:31.400
<v Speaker 1>how do you do interviews like this? Because that's so good? Yeah?

0:27:31.480 --> 0:27:35.840
<v Speaker 1>Going going Almo, take another bite? Listeners will go home

0:27:35.880 --> 0:27:38.399
<v Speaker 1>and make this. It's so good, y'all. The meat is

0:27:38.440 --> 0:27:42.040
<v Speaker 1>busting tomato sauce. Oh, I'm glad you did get the

0:27:42.320 --> 0:27:44.679
<v Speaker 1>sauce because I thought I was like, what if she

0:27:44.720 --> 0:27:48.120
<v Speaker 1>gets like the white sauce. Yeah. I like the white

0:27:48.119 --> 0:27:51.679
<v Speaker 1>sause though, but oh but I mean it's theory in it.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was that was bad looking out and no

0:27:56.320 --> 0:28:00.879
<v Speaker 1>bees on this challenge. Wish me please pray for me

0:28:01.840 --> 0:28:03.919
<v Speaker 1>because I eat a lot of dairy. Could you have

0:28:04.080 --> 0:28:07.960
<v Speaker 1>predicted your success? Did you predict it? Yes? But I

0:28:07.960 --> 0:28:09.520
<v Speaker 1>didn't know what it looked like. I knew I was

0:28:09.520 --> 0:28:12.480
<v Speaker 1>going to be successful, but I didn't know what it

0:28:12.560 --> 0:28:14.040
<v Speaker 1>looked like. That's all. When people asked, like, where do

0:28:14.040 --> 0:28:15.720
<v Speaker 1>you see yourself in five years? What do you see here?

0:28:15.960 --> 0:28:18.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I didn't see myself here five years ago,

0:28:18.640 --> 0:28:21.840
<v Speaker 1>Like every little detail wasn't mapped out. I just knew

0:28:21.880 --> 0:28:23.480
<v Speaker 1>I was going to be successful. I knew I was

0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:25.359
<v Speaker 1>going to be financially stable. I knew I was going

0:28:25.400 --> 0:28:28.080
<v Speaker 1>to be doing what I loved. Whatever that looks like.

0:28:28.119 --> 0:28:30.720
<v Speaker 1>And that changes as you get older, and the things

0:28:30.720 --> 0:28:32.280
<v Speaker 1>I cared about when I first started, I don't care

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<v Speaker 1>about now you're like what the dream car? Like I

0:28:36.200 --> 0:28:38.320
<v Speaker 1>don't haven't had a car for three years. Like those

0:28:38.360 --> 0:28:41.880
<v Speaker 1>are things that you you have on your list? This that, that,

0:28:41.880 --> 0:28:43.560
<v Speaker 1>that the house. Do you think that's like a system

0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:47.440
<v Speaker 1>of like coming from being broke, Because yeah, I do

0:28:47.520 --> 0:28:51.240
<v Speaker 1>want the lamber getting yours for all those and that's fine,

0:28:51.360 --> 0:28:54.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, you know, like it changed as you got older,

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<v Speaker 1>Like do I want this truly because I want this

0:28:57.320 --> 0:28:59.040
<v Speaker 1>and it goes with my lifestyle and I need it

0:28:59.040 --> 0:29:01.320
<v Speaker 1>and I truly desire in my heart? Or is this

0:29:01.320 --> 0:29:03.160
<v Speaker 1>what I see on Instagram? Is this what I see

0:29:03.160 --> 0:29:05.520
<v Speaker 1>all successful black people doing? Is this what I've been

0:29:05.560 --> 0:29:08.640
<v Speaker 1>conditioned to think I want? I don't want that. I

0:29:08.680 --> 0:29:11.680
<v Speaker 1>actually love being driven around. I actually love sleeping in

0:29:11.720 --> 0:29:14.040
<v Speaker 1>the back of black trucks without people talking to me.

0:29:14.080 --> 0:29:16.680
<v Speaker 1>Actually love checking emails in the car and not worrying

0:29:16.680 --> 0:29:19.040
<v Speaker 1>about making a left or right. I actually love not

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:21.200
<v Speaker 1>going anywhere when I'm in Atlanta and staying at home.

0:29:21.640 --> 0:29:25.160
<v Speaker 1>Why do I need a car? I travel nine of

0:29:25.200 --> 0:29:27.960
<v Speaker 1>the year, you know what I mean? So when you

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<v Speaker 1>really think about what you personally need, that changes, and

0:29:32.640 --> 0:29:36.400
<v Speaker 1>don't let society or culture make you think you have

0:29:36.440 --> 0:29:38.040
<v Speaker 1>to go out and get these things. I didn't get

0:29:38.040 --> 0:29:40.600
<v Speaker 1>a car, but I did buy a diamond necklace and

0:29:40.640 --> 0:29:45.480
<v Speaker 1>it looks amazing. But but but I like jewelry, you know,

0:29:45.520 --> 0:29:48.520
<v Speaker 1>a little dainty. I love jewelry so cool. I got

0:29:48.520 --> 0:29:51.240
<v Speaker 1>the jewelry, but I don't need the car. Cool people

0:29:51.440 --> 0:29:53.720
<v Speaker 1>like buy property. Do I need a huge house right now? No,

0:29:53.840 --> 0:29:57.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm single with no kids. Get a condo, like you

0:29:57.160 --> 0:30:00.240
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. Just do what works for you.

0:30:00.400 --> 0:30:02.480
<v Speaker 1>Do what works for you, don't do what society makes

0:30:02.520 --> 0:30:04.240
<v Speaker 1>you think you need to do. Do you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you look at money differently from when you were broke.

0:30:07.680 --> 0:30:10.400
<v Speaker 1>I look at it the exact same way. My mindset

0:30:10.440 --> 0:30:12.600
<v Speaker 1>with money hasn't changed. I'm a little more like I

0:30:12.640 --> 0:30:15.200
<v Speaker 1>have an accountant now, I have a financial advisor. Like

0:30:15.480 --> 0:30:19.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm more um I would say educated with my money,

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<v Speaker 1>where to put it, how to invest it. But I've

0:30:21.160 --> 0:30:24.280
<v Speaker 1>never had an attachment to money. Money just flows to me.

0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:27.239
<v Speaker 1>To you, I feel like you'd use money as a

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<v Speaker 1>tool to make more money, absolutely absolutely, But I feel

0:30:30.920 --> 0:30:33.880
<v Speaker 1>like that was your relationship your entire life. I just

0:30:33.920 --> 0:30:36.239
<v Speaker 1>want to be financially stable. You don't want to live

0:30:36.240 --> 0:30:39.680
<v Speaker 1>paycheck to patrick. I want to be able to have

0:30:39.800 --> 0:30:41.920
<v Speaker 1>convenience and live the way I want to live. Anything

0:30:42.000 --> 0:30:44.320
<v Speaker 1>extra on top of that, it's just a bonus. So

0:30:44.400 --> 0:30:46.440
<v Speaker 1>would you be comfortable taking me back to when you

0:30:46.480 --> 0:30:49.840
<v Speaker 1>were working those three jobs? But it was like quitting day.

0:30:49.840 --> 0:30:53.720
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Like I want to know the quitting

0:30:53.760 --> 0:30:56.520
<v Speaker 1>day or the fire. Yeah. I don't think I ever

0:30:56.560 --> 0:31:00.280
<v Speaker 1>got fired, but I remember quitting. Here are out the

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<v Speaker 1>hair are us, man, I never had my boothrin And

0:31:02.560 --> 0:31:05.720
<v Speaker 1>them ladies was like, it's okay, we know we watched

0:31:05.720 --> 0:31:10.959
<v Speaker 1>the tapes. You didn't do no clients, man, those my girls,

0:31:10.960 --> 0:31:13.080
<v Speaker 1>Cat and Ashley they had they hired me. I was

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<v Speaker 1>a hair artist ambassador while working at their Salona here

0:31:15.240 --> 0:31:18.560
<v Speaker 1>in Atlanta, and um, I remember telling them like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>making more money on social media than I am here

0:31:22.360 --> 0:31:24.800
<v Speaker 1>and it just doesn't make sense for me to do

0:31:24.880 --> 0:31:28.680
<v Speaker 1>hair anymore. Like I was over working for not a

0:31:28.680 --> 0:31:30.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of money, you know what I mean. And I

0:31:31.240 --> 0:31:34.080
<v Speaker 1>even if you're still a hair stalace or you have

0:31:34.240 --> 0:31:37.240
<v Speaker 1>your own brand or whatever, you have got to find

0:31:37.240 --> 0:31:41.240
<v Speaker 1>a way to make money without labor. You have got

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:44.480
<v Speaker 1>to find a way to make money without physical labor.

0:31:44.560 --> 0:31:47.160
<v Speaker 1>So if I am a hair styalus while I'm sleep.

0:31:47.360 --> 0:31:49.640
<v Speaker 1>There should be something on my website that is selling.

0:31:49.680 --> 0:31:52.320
<v Speaker 1>I should have a product. I should not only be

0:31:52.400 --> 0:31:56.040
<v Speaker 1>able to make money if I am working. So you're

0:31:56.040 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 1>talking about like sleep money, sleep money. So if I'm

0:31:59.680 --> 0:32:01.920
<v Speaker 1>a hair stylist, okay, I'm doing hair, I need to

0:32:01.920 --> 0:32:05.560
<v Speaker 1>be selling products. So if I don't have ten clients

0:32:05.600 --> 0:32:10.320
<v Speaker 1>that week, maybe I got ten sales. Oh wow, oh

0:32:10.440 --> 0:32:13.360
<v Speaker 1>you hair stylus. You get what I'm saying. So if

0:32:13.400 --> 0:32:16.080
<v Speaker 1>I but but now, what do you tell a hairstylus

0:32:16.200 --> 0:32:20.200
<v Speaker 1>that is braiding hair independently she doesn't have a big

0:32:20.200 --> 0:32:22.880
<v Speaker 1>following or what have you. And you're like, well, you

0:32:22.920 --> 0:32:26.120
<v Speaker 1>can maybe try a different lane like products or what

0:32:26.240 --> 0:32:28.920
<v Speaker 1>have you what because you know what recently I went

0:32:29.000 --> 0:32:31.640
<v Speaker 1>to get a facial, for example, and you know, before

0:32:31.640 --> 0:32:33.760
<v Speaker 1>you leave the facial appointment, they're like, oh, you need

0:32:33.800 --> 0:32:38.480
<v Speaker 1>to products, and you walk out there a product you'll

0:32:38.480 --> 0:32:40.680
<v Speaker 1>probably never use. I worked at Altar. I did that

0:32:40.840 --> 0:32:44.440
<v Speaker 1>every day. You know, So sell something you believe in

0:32:44.560 --> 0:32:47.160
<v Speaker 1>because it's not hard to sell because you don't have

0:32:47.240 --> 0:32:50.080
<v Speaker 1>to be do a commercial and add and talk people

0:32:50.080 --> 0:32:53.280
<v Speaker 1>into sell something you truly use and you truly believe

0:32:53.320 --> 0:32:56.239
<v Speaker 1>in because you know it's like I believe in this.

0:32:56.240 --> 0:32:57.920
<v Speaker 1>That's how wasn't my bimal beauty. I was like, I

0:32:57.920 --> 0:33:00.160
<v Speaker 1>am not selling this until I love the formula up

0:33:00.160 --> 0:33:02.080
<v Speaker 1>because if I don't believe in it, I'm gonna have

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:04.080
<v Speaker 1>to sell it. But if I believe in I'm like, girl,

0:33:04.120 --> 0:33:06.360
<v Speaker 1>this is thick, this is creamy. It lasts all day.

0:33:06.360 --> 0:33:08.040
<v Speaker 1>You don't leave that white line like I love my

0:33:08.080 --> 0:33:10.280
<v Speaker 1>lip gloss. It's I'm just talking to you. I don't

0:33:10.280 --> 0:33:12.680
<v Speaker 1>have to sell it to you. So sell something you

0:33:12.720 --> 0:33:15.440
<v Speaker 1>believe in and you're just telling the truth about the product.

0:33:15.440 --> 0:33:19.440
<v Speaker 1>It's not a whole commercial. Yeah wow, Where did you

0:33:19.480 --> 0:33:23.120
<v Speaker 1>get all your sales skills from? I don't know. I

0:33:23.120 --> 0:33:26.840
<v Speaker 1>actually learned a lot um with different people I've worked with. UM.

0:33:26.880 --> 0:33:29.480
<v Speaker 1>I learned a lot of skills from somebody that was

0:33:29.520 --> 0:33:32.320
<v Speaker 1>on my team, UM that I no longer worked with.

0:33:32.440 --> 0:33:35.800
<v Speaker 1>But the entrepreneurial skills were always in me. I literally

0:33:35.840 --> 0:33:39.560
<v Speaker 1>was selling snacks in elementary school. So it's like I

0:33:39.600 --> 0:33:41.920
<v Speaker 1>would make I don't know if you did y'all do

0:33:41.960 --> 0:33:44.920
<v Speaker 1>this in New York, like the Starburst rappers and stuff

0:33:46.680 --> 0:33:49.400
<v Speaker 1>and bracelets, I would sell them like I would make

0:33:49.440 --> 0:33:50.719
<v Speaker 1>them and sell them. People like, well, I can make

0:33:50.720 --> 0:33:51.960
<v Speaker 1>that myself. I was like I would be like, okay,

0:33:51.960 --> 0:33:54.000
<v Speaker 1>go make it. Then they'd be like, nah, I'll just

0:33:54.040 --> 0:33:55.600
<v Speaker 1>buy it. Yeah, this is gonna take you hours, and

0:33:55.600 --> 0:33:58.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting here making it like I would just make stuff.

0:33:58.880 --> 0:34:02.520
<v Speaker 1>I think some people assume that entrepreneurship in sales, like

0:34:02.600 --> 0:34:04.120
<v Speaker 1>you don't have to know how to sell if you're

0:34:04.120 --> 0:34:07.840
<v Speaker 1>an entrepreneur. I always don't, really, I feel like it's essential.

0:34:08.000 --> 0:34:09.360
<v Speaker 1>I feel I don't feel like you have to know

0:34:09.400 --> 0:34:11.160
<v Speaker 1>how to seal. I feel like you have to sell

0:34:11.280 --> 0:34:13.680
<v Speaker 1>something you believe in because I'm not trying to talk

0:34:13.760 --> 0:34:17.120
<v Speaker 1>you into it. I'm just telling you about something that

0:34:17.160 --> 0:34:19.840
<v Speaker 1>I believe in, a product that I believe in, you know.

0:34:19.920 --> 0:34:21.239
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess you do have to know how

0:34:21.320 --> 0:34:23.319
<v Speaker 1>to sale. But I don't feel like I've ever been

0:34:23.360 --> 0:34:26.319
<v Speaker 1>a salesperson, No, I get it. I feel like I

0:34:26.360 --> 0:34:30.040
<v Speaker 1>always tell people sales is great customer service. You know,

0:34:30.320 --> 0:34:32.960
<v Speaker 1>it makes sense. You know, I don't sell a product

0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:35.000
<v Speaker 1>I definitely don't wouldn't sell it. You can't sell a

0:34:35.000 --> 0:34:37.440
<v Speaker 1>product you don't believe in. That would definitely not be

0:34:37.480 --> 0:34:42.239
<v Speaker 1>good customer service. But I always definitely play on what

0:34:42.360 --> 0:34:45.320
<v Speaker 1>the really it's marketing. Yeah, marketing, that really is it?

0:34:45.520 --> 0:34:51.480
<v Speaker 1>Like marketing makes your sales, marketing marketing, marketing, marketing makes

0:34:51.480 --> 0:34:54.040
<v Speaker 1>your sales. So did I fually get the answer out

0:34:54.080 --> 0:34:59.319
<v Speaker 1>of like what what you what you felt like when

0:34:59.320 --> 0:35:03.520
<v Speaker 1>you re leave these jobs? Oh? Yeah, like I said, um,

0:35:03.640 --> 0:35:06.000
<v Speaker 1>here are us? I basically just told them. I was like,

0:35:07.239 --> 0:35:10.120
<v Speaker 1>it's just not making sense to me, like I'm slaving

0:35:10.160 --> 0:35:13.720
<v Speaker 1>and working and doing hair and I got I couldn't

0:35:13.719 --> 0:35:15.680
<v Speaker 1>say no to a client, Like if a client, I'm like,

0:35:15.680 --> 0:35:18.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm booked today, I'll come at six am bit pull

0:35:18.680 --> 0:35:20.480
<v Speaker 1>up like I would not never could. I didn't want

0:35:20.480 --> 0:35:22.080
<v Speaker 1>to miss the sale. I didn't want to miss the

0:35:22.080 --> 0:35:25.439
<v Speaker 1>money and I needed it. So I would work very,

0:35:25.600 --> 0:35:28.560
<v Speaker 1>very hard and I made good money, but you know,

0:35:28.680 --> 0:35:30.719
<v Speaker 1>it just wasn't enough. And so how is that? How

0:35:30.800 --> 0:35:32.680
<v Speaker 1>much with social media giving you? If you don't mind

0:35:32.719 --> 0:35:35.880
<v Speaker 1>me asking, Well, that's the and when that's what I'm saying,

0:35:35.920 --> 0:35:37.719
<v Speaker 1>Like at that time, I would make like a hundred

0:35:37.760 --> 0:35:39.480
<v Speaker 1>dollars for a picture post, but if it's so in,

0:35:39.520 --> 0:35:42.880
<v Speaker 1>it's two hundred dollars and that takes two and a

0:35:42.920 --> 0:35:46.279
<v Speaker 1>half hours, and it takes me two minutes to post

0:35:46.320 --> 0:35:49.840
<v Speaker 1>the picture that that's not adding up to me? You

0:35:49.840 --> 0:35:52.160
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? So you're you're also looking at

0:35:52.239 --> 0:35:54.560
<v Speaker 1>time equals money. You're not just looking at money as

0:35:54.560 --> 0:35:56.879
<v Speaker 1>a tool. You're looking at time is money and money

0:35:57.000 --> 0:35:58.920
<v Speaker 1>is time. Yes, because if I post two pictures that

0:35:58.960 --> 0:36:00.719
<v Speaker 1>week and I only have one I in that week,

0:36:01.280 --> 0:36:03.680
<v Speaker 1>that's still equivalent to the you know what I mean?

0:36:03.800 --> 0:36:05.640
<v Speaker 1>So did you spend most of your free time trying

0:36:05.640 --> 0:36:08.160
<v Speaker 1>to figure out ways to increase that line of revenue?

0:36:08.840 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 1>Making skits of skits with me and Bessie ranting videos.

0:36:12.239 --> 0:36:16.720
<v Speaker 1>I was always posting, always looking for endorsements, brand deals. Um,

0:36:17.120 --> 0:36:19.759
<v Speaker 1>you were looking for them? Yeah, and how would you

0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:22.200
<v Speaker 1>approach me? You would say them and you would say,

0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:25.239
<v Speaker 1>this is my following, or Hey do y'all need brand ambassadors?

0:36:25.280 --> 0:36:27.359
<v Speaker 1>Hey do y'all need a new face that promote your line.

0:36:27.360 --> 0:36:29.360
<v Speaker 1>I believe in your product. I think your product is dope.

0:36:29.520 --> 0:36:31.520
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I would even buy the product and do it

0:36:31.560 --> 0:36:34.319
<v Speaker 1>and send them the picture. Wow, Like this is the

0:36:34.360 --> 0:36:36.719
<v Speaker 1>type of content I can provide you if you need

0:36:36.760 --> 0:36:40.920
<v Speaker 1>a brand ambassador. So you know, I'm I seen the

0:36:41.000 --> 0:36:44.279
<v Speaker 1>kids nowadays, like the kids, I'm thirty two, but I

0:36:44.440 --> 0:36:47.600
<v Speaker 1>really feel like the generation like after ninety three nine,

0:36:48.000 --> 0:36:51.360
<v Speaker 1>like the little ones under me, y'all some lazy motherfucker's

0:36:51.360 --> 0:36:55.080
<v Speaker 1>why you said that? God damn y'all think this ship

0:36:55.239 --> 0:36:57.399
<v Speaker 1>is so easy. You ain't got no followers. I ain't

0:36:57.440 --> 0:37:00.680
<v Speaker 1>gonna I've been on Instagram for a decade, baby, you know.

0:37:01.120 --> 0:37:03.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad you said that because I think people

0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:07.239
<v Speaker 1>grinding influencers day suit it was overnight. If you have

0:37:07.320 --> 0:37:10.000
<v Speaker 1>not d M a hundred people today and and show

0:37:10.080 --> 0:37:11.760
<v Speaker 1>them who you are, I don't want to hear ship.

0:37:12.480 --> 0:37:15.319
<v Speaker 1>The can DM Beyonce right now. I'm not saying she's

0:37:15.360 --> 0:37:17.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna see it. I'm not saying she's gonna answer, but

0:37:17.600 --> 0:37:20.920
<v Speaker 1>I can d M her do it? Like man, nobody

0:37:21.280 --> 0:37:23.520
<v Speaker 1>nobody giving me a chance. You're not even giving yourself

0:37:23.560 --> 0:37:25.680
<v Speaker 1>a chance. If you have not d M a hundred

0:37:25.680 --> 0:37:28.600
<v Speaker 1>people today and show them your talent, You're this, You're

0:37:28.680 --> 0:37:31.640
<v Speaker 1>that in a professional way. Because some of y'all be like, hey,

0:37:31.719 --> 0:37:34.640
<v Speaker 1>check out my all right you already or I see

0:37:34.680 --> 0:37:36.920
<v Speaker 1>them do that on the comments, so be like out.

0:37:37.200 --> 0:37:40.920
<v Speaker 1>It's like, like, what's doing that? You're spam at this point.

0:37:41.000 --> 0:37:44.200
<v Speaker 1>But I'm saying, like, don't grind for that ship like

0:37:44.280 --> 0:37:46.600
<v Speaker 1>y'all just wanted to be handed to you. How long

0:37:46.640 --> 0:37:49.560
<v Speaker 1>were you on Instagram before you made a dollar? A

0:37:49.600 --> 0:37:52.680
<v Speaker 1>couple of years, so at least four years. So you

0:37:52.760 --> 0:37:55.160
<v Speaker 1>hear that for four years? Four years just to make

0:37:55.200 --> 0:37:57.839
<v Speaker 1>a dollar at least, and now you're I would say,

0:37:58.080 --> 0:38:02.279
<v Speaker 1>at what point did you become a millionaire? Like my

0:38:02.320 --> 0:38:08.080
<v Speaker 1>birthday A five? Okay? Um wow? On your birthday? On

0:38:08.080 --> 0:38:10.720
<v Speaker 1>my birthday, it was actually seven days before my birthday,

0:38:10.760 --> 0:38:14.239
<v Speaker 1>but we celebrated on my birthday. So how long? How

0:38:14.280 --> 0:38:17.840
<v Speaker 1>many years? And were you at that point? Man? For

0:38:19.040 --> 0:38:24.960
<v Speaker 1>sixteen seventeen, nineteen twenty, so about eight well, I mean

0:38:25.080 --> 0:38:27.200
<v Speaker 1>on social media. But y'all gotta think like I was

0:38:27.239 --> 0:38:29.560
<v Speaker 1>in my first girl group when I was fifteen. Yeah,

0:38:29.600 --> 0:38:31.640
<v Speaker 1>I was traveling with them, I was performing with them.

0:38:31.680 --> 0:38:37.520
<v Speaker 1>Like so this has been years and years and people

0:38:37.600 --> 0:38:41.440
<v Speaker 1>always assume that it's just like prettiness, it's oh you

0:38:41.440 --> 0:38:43.120
<v Speaker 1>have And then you got to think, at some point

0:38:43.120 --> 0:38:45.880
<v Speaker 1>you had to perfect your comedy, right, So what was

0:38:45.920 --> 0:38:49.280
<v Speaker 1>that like? Yeah, because I mean Instagram is totally different

0:38:49.320 --> 0:38:53.560
<v Speaker 1>than you know, performing live and I never had a

0:38:53.600 --> 0:38:55.960
<v Speaker 1>desire to do that. But once again, it was back

0:38:55.960 --> 0:38:58.520
<v Speaker 1>when I was struggling, and they were like, all right,

0:38:58.600 --> 0:39:01.839
<v Speaker 1>so we'll give you. You've seen hundred for this comedy. Well,

0:39:01.880 --> 0:39:03.719
<v Speaker 1>first day called said, do you do stand up? I

0:39:03.719 --> 0:39:06.319
<v Speaker 1>said absolutely not. Fun, No, that's scary at fun. I'm

0:39:06.360 --> 0:39:09.680
<v Speaker 1>not a comedian like you got me sucked up? No, like, no,

0:39:09.800 --> 0:39:12.640
<v Speaker 1>absolutely not. They're like, I was like, well, what was

0:39:12.640 --> 0:39:14.120
<v Speaker 1>it for? I was like, this college wanted you to

0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:17.640
<v Speaker 1>come do you know ten minutes for dollars? I was like,

0:39:17.800 --> 0:39:24.719
<v Speaker 1>I do stand up? What day? Fuck it, I'm gonna

0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:27.160
<v Speaker 1>go out there. And and Dion Cole is one of

0:39:27.239 --> 0:39:29.920
<v Speaker 1>my favorite comedians, like he's so dope to me. He

0:39:29.960 --> 0:39:32.239
<v Speaker 1>write writes down his stuff and he takes it on

0:39:32.280 --> 0:39:34.080
<v Speaker 1>stage with him and he would like if it hits,

0:39:34.080 --> 0:39:35.880
<v Speaker 1>to like that word. If it doesn't hit, he like,

0:39:35.960 --> 0:39:37.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, I did the same thing. I like, copy

0:39:37.680 --> 0:39:40.360
<v Speaker 1>Dion Coole. I said that to the college. I was like,

0:39:40.400 --> 0:39:42.319
<v Speaker 1>y'all know who Dion Coole is. A all these young kids,

0:39:42.320 --> 0:39:44.640
<v Speaker 1>they're like, no, I was like, when you write down

0:39:44.680 --> 0:39:46.600
<v Speaker 1>his jokes, So I'm gonna write down these jokes and

0:39:46.640 --> 0:39:48.719
<v Speaker 1>the ones I say laugh if you like him. If

0:39:48.760 --> 0:39:52.839
<v Speaker 1>you don't like them, don't laugh. And yeah, so I

0:39:52.920 --> 0:39:54.480
<v Speaker 1>did it. I wasn't up there for ten minutes. I

0:39:54.520 --> 0:39:57.560
<v Speaker 1>got that fifteen hundred dollar check and baby never looked bad.

0:39:57.719 --> 0:40:01.040
<v Speaker 1>And then from there you don't obviously still do that checklist,

0:40:01.120 --> 0:40:04.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, no, no, no no, But that's amazing. Yeah,

0:40:04.280 --> 0:40:07.160
<v Speaker 1>that was cool, definitely, you know lied. I was like,

0:40:07.200 --> 0:40:08.759
<v Speaker 1>tell him I could stand up, I will come, I

0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:11.439
<v Speaker 1>will turn these kids up. Whatever. But at that time,

0:40:12.440 --> 0:40:15.839
<v Speaker 1>in one sitting, that's a lot of money when you're broke. Now,

0:40:16.080 --> 0:40:20.200
<v Speaker 1>how did you go from that to wilding out? Yeah?

0:40:20.520 --> 0:40:24.000
<v Speaker 1>I actually went to a While and out casting call

0:40:24.160 --> 0:40:28.799
<v Speaker 1>for the models. I was trying to be a model girl. Ok,

0:40:29.400 --> 0:40:33.399
<v Speaker 1>well you you could easily feel you are studying and

0:40:33.880 --> 0:40:36.480
<v Speaker 1>you are beautiful. You're beautiful online too, but it's always

0:40:36.480 --> 0:40:38.080
<v Speaker 1>great when you see the first year, like, oh you're

0:40:38.239 --> 0:40:42.200
<v Speaker 1>naturally just beautiful. You so much. Um. I went to

0:40:42.239 --> 0:40:43.960
<v Speaker 1>the While and outcast and call and I got to

0:40:44.000 --> 0:40:45.680
<v Speaker 1>the front. They called my number. I was like, I'm

0:40:45.680 --> 0:40:50.560
<v Speaker 1>a comedian, I'm not a model. So what they were like,

0:40:50.600 --> 0:40:52.600
<v Speaker 1>let's say something funny and I don't remember what I said,

0:40:52.719 --> 0:40:55.640
<v Speaker 1>but they laugh and they were not at this point,

0:40:55.640 --> 0:40:57.640
<v Speaker 1>did you have a following? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I had

0:40:57.640 --> 0:41:00.399
<v Speaker 1>a following. I had a following, so I was going viral. Um,

0:41:00.400 --> 0:41:02.840
<v Speaker 1>Like two thousand and sixteen was my biggest viral moment.

0:41:02.960 --> 0:41:06.960
<v Speaker 1>That was when viral was like viral. Like now everything

0:41:07.160 --> 0:41:10.200
<v Speaker 1>is viral. Technically it hits a million views, is viral

0:41:10.480 --> 0:41:13.280
<v Speaker 1>every like videos are just viral all the time. But viral,

0:41:13.320 --> 0:41:16.680
<v Speaker 1>like back in two thousand and sixteen was like Rihanna

0:41:16.760 --> 0:41:19.719
<v Speaker 1>reposted my ship Chris Brown. Kind like back then it

0:41:19.800 --> 0:41:24.360
<v Speaker 1>was like Rihanna know I DM her? She never answered

0:41:24.440 --> 0:41:30.560
<v Speaker 1>that like reading, but um, yeah, So I went viral

0:41:30.640 --> 0:41:33.239
<v Speaker 1>and then it was just from there, like they knew

0:41:33.280 --> 0:41:35.440
<v Speaker 1>who I was a little bit, but they were like,

0:41:35.560 --> 0:41:38.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, she's the Instagram comedian, Like we're not about

0:41:38.080 --> 0:41:39.719
<v Speaker 1>to put her on the show. That was kind of

0:41:39.760 --> 0:41:43.160
<v Speaker 1>before they started doing that. Yeah, so you do that,

0:41:43.200 --> 0:41:45.480
<v Speaker 1>you tell the joke, they think it's funny. Then what happened.

0:41:45.480 --> 0:41:47.560
<v Speaker 1>They told me to sit to the side, and I waited,

0:41:47.640 --> 0:41:50.120
<v Speaker 1>like the whole rest of the casting hall were you

0:41:50.160 --> 0:41:52.080
<v Speaker 1>calling your friends like, oh my god, what does this mean? No?

0:41:52.360 --> 0:41:54.200
<v Speaker 1>I just sat there. I was like, Okay, I don't

0:41:54.239 --> 0:41:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I guess we're gonna talk whatever. And then um, we

0:41:56.719 --> 0:41:58.040
<v Speaker 1>end up going out to eat and I didn't hear

0:41:58.120 --> 0:42:02.240
<v Speaker 1>nothing from them for two years, literally like almost two years.

0:42:02.520 --> 0:42:06.080
<v Speaker 1>I was like, they really not working with me, and then, um,

0:42:06.160 --> 0:42:08.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't remember how it happened how it went from that,

0:42:08.200 --> 0:42:13.799
<v Speaker 1>but uh, I think actually Dolly probably Dolly comes over,

0:42:13.920 --> 0:42:16.239
<v Speaker 1>you know why, because Nick didn't believe in me at first.

0:42:16.600 --> 0:42:18.399
<v Speaker 1>He was like, I don't see it, like all this year,

0:42:18.440 --> 0:42:20.880
<v Speaker 1>my boy man, baby, Yeah, like I don't get it.

0:42:20.880 --> 0:42:23.839
<v Speaker 1>I don't see it. Dolly was like I'm telling you her,

0:42:24.520 --> 0:42:26.760
<v Speaker 1>Nile and a couple of other people were like fighting

0:42:26.800 --> 0:42:28.440
<v Speaker 1>for me, and it was like all right, like I

0:42:28.480 --> 0:42:31.239
<v Speaker 1>guess we'll see. And then you know, one year we

0:42:31.360 --> 0:42:34.160
<v Speaker 1>shot in Atlanta and as soon as I came out,

0:42:34.760 --> 0:42:39.680
<v Speaker 1>the whole crowd was like face like saying all the

0:42:39.680 --> 0:42:43.879
<v Speaker 1>beast tone and Nick was like, you know, and then

0:42:44.000 --> 0:42:46.799
<v Speaker 1>after like he started being like, all right, you got it,

0:42:46.920 --> 0:42:50.560
<v Speaker 1>Like you're a star, You're from your heart to your talent.

0:42:50.719 --> 0:42:52.520
<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't see it at first. That was my bad.

0:42:52.520 --> 0:42:54.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna take that on the chin, But you really

0:42:54.320 --> 0:42:56.359
<v Speaker 1>are a star. Did you know that when you were

0:42:56.640 --> 0:43:01.080
<v Speaker 1>doing that at the time, And I'm glad while yeah, yeah,

0:43:01.120 --> 0:43:03.480
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say that. I didn't wanna. I think

0:43:03.480 --> 0:43:04.520
<v Speaker 1>I would have been in my head like let me

0:43:04.560 --> 0:43:08.359
<v Speaker 1>prove myself, or the opposite, like you don't even really

0:43:08.400 --> 0:43:10.200
<v Speaker 1>want me here? Why am I here? But I didn't.

0:43:10.200 --> 0:43:11.960
<v Speaker 1>I didn't. I was just like they love me, Nick

0:43:12.040 --> 0:43:16.600
<v Speaker 1>loves me. Now do you feel pressured nowadays? Like because

0:43:16.680 --> 0:43:20.040
<v Speaker 1>you have you're an entrepreneur, you're a comedian, you're you're

0:43:20.080 --> 0:43:25.120
<v Speaker 1>in the podcast space, you're you're a multitasking entreprenour visionary.

0:43:25.320 --> 0:43:29.360
<v Speaker 1>Do you feel pressured to stay on top? It depends

0:43:29.360 --> 0:43:31.839
<v Speaker 1>on what your definition of on topic is really, Like

0:43:31.880 --> 0:43:33.960
<v Speaker 1>you have a there's one thing to go viral, there's

0:43:33.960 --> 0:43:35.680
<v Speaker 1>another thing to have a following. Like I feel like

0:43:35.680 --> 0:43:38.480
<v Speaker 1>if you put a product out for all your brands

0:43:38.520 --> 0:43:41.120
<v Speaker 1>out there be some all drops of product. It's going

0:43:41.160 --> 0:43:43.200
<v Speaker 1>to sell, it's going to more people are going to

0:43:43.280 --> 0:43:46.760
<v Speaker 1>go to where you're at. So um, not always, not always.

0:43:46.800 --> 0:43:49.000
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it's you know, you gotta you can't be lazy

0:43:49.040 --> 0:43:50.480
<v Speaker 1>with it. Just because I post something, don't mean we're

0:43:50.480 --> 0:43:52.439
<v Speaker 1>selling we you know, we don't have so many sales

0:43:52.520 --> 0:43:53.920
<v Speaker 1>or be someone weady. We're trying to get that up

0:43:53.920 --> 0:43:57.600
<v Speaker 1>out of that warehouse. Were like sixties nine percent off

0:43:57.640 --> 0:44:02.279
<v Speaker 1>please somebody. You gotta be honest. Month you have a

0:44:03.480 --> 0:44:05.319
<v Speaker 1>dollar month, and the next month you can have a

0:44:05.560 --> 0:44:07.799
<v Speaker 1>five thousand dollar months. It depends on the marketing, It

0:44:07.800 --> 0:44:10.600
<v Speaker 1>depends on people's pockets. It depends on if I'm canceled,

0:44:10.760 --> 0:44:13.000
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, like people, I'm not supporting

0:44:13.000 --> 0:44:16.000
<v Speaker 1>her now or whatever. But I think it depends on

0:44:16.040 --> 0:44:18.520
<v Speaker 1>what your definition of success is, because really I'm trying

0:44:18.520 --> 0:44:20.000
<v Speaker 1>to figure out ways to never have to be on

0:44:20.040 --> 0:44:22.840
<v Speaker 1>Instagram again. I want to get off. You're all about

0:44:22.840 --> 0:44:27.320
<v Speaker 1>sleep money. I want to get off of social media.

0:44:27.360 --> 0:44:30.040
<v Speaker 1>It takes up too much of my time. It's it's

0:44:30.080 --> 0:44:33.719
<v Speaker 1>time consuming, it's I just want to get picked up.

0:44:43.480 --> 0:44:47.040
<v Speaker 1>When you're like social media people for you, it's also

0:44:47.120 --> 0:44:49.840
<v Speaker 1>money consumers. So when the regular persons on it, they scroll,

0:44:49.880 --> 0:44:52.680
<v Speaker 1>they're like, oh these and they're scrolling and they're clicking

0:44:52.680 --> 0:44:55.239
<v Speaker 1>them pretty people and fancy life because that's what we

0:44:55.239 --> 0:44:58.799
<v Speaker 1>all do. I do that too. I was gonna ask

0:44:58.840 --> 0:45:00.799
<v Speaker 1>do you do that too? Or you're looking at it

0:45:00.880 --> 0:45:04.640
<v Speaker 1>like what's my metrics today? It's both. It's oh, I

0:45:04.680 --> 0:45:06.799
<v Speaker 1>have to be on Instagram because I'm a business woman.

0:45:06.800 --> 0:45:08.399
<v Speaker 1>And then you get on Instagram and don't do ship

0:45:08.440 --> 0:45:10.239
<v Speaker 1>they got to do with business. You sit there and

0:45:10.280 --> 0:45:11.719
<v Speaker 1>be like, I'm gonna be on for twenty minutes and

0:45:11.760 --> 0:45:15.160
<v Speaker 1>then you're on there for two hours. It's it's literally

0:45:15.280 --> 0:45:18.880
<v Speaker 1>a millennial addiction. Yes, well, they said that the social

0:45:18.880 --> 0:45:22.879
<v Speaker 1>media was created to waste time, and it's funny because

0:45:23.080 --> 0:45:28.279
<v Speaker 1>that's exactly what it's doing. So I'm trying to figure

0:45:28.280 --> 0:45:30.800
<v Speaker 1>out ways to not have to rely on social media

0:45:30.840 --> 0:45:33.680
<v Speaker 1>for my income, which you know, for you don't yeah,

0:45:33.880 --> 0:45:36.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, thank god, But the internet is definitely an

0:45:36.760 --> 0:45:39.319
<v Speaker 1>outlet for me to make I'll make a lot of

0:45:39.360 --> 0:45:44.440
<v Speaker 1>money on internet. Good to know. He's just like, I'm

0:45:44.480 --> 0:45:46.120
<v Speaker 1>just trying to get off of it. I'm like, I'm

0:45:46.120 --> 0:45:48.279
<v Speaker 1>about to put this money into real estate and be

0:45:48.400 --> 0:45:52.359
<v Speaker 1>on an island somewhere and post randomly like I don't

0:45:52.360 --> 0:45:55.560
<v Speaker 1>want where people find you if they want to find

0:45:55.600 --> 0:45:58.080
<v Speaker 1>you or support you, Like, how can they do that?

0:45:58.600 --> 0:46:04.879
<v Speaker 1>Instagram say back to the amazing Literally social media like

0:46:05.320 --> 0:46:07.040
<v Speaker 1>my social media and my Instagram is one of my

0:46:07.040 --> 0:46:11.720
<v Speaker 1>biggest platforms. Um I promote my um My tour dates

0:46:11.719 --> 0:46:16.279
<v Speaker 1>on their past podcast for sure you can't see it

0:46:16.600 --> 0:46:18.719
<v Speaker 1>pity on but no, for sure podcasts on my God,

0:46:18.719 --> 0:46:23.000
<v Speaker 1>we're episode ten in ten episodes, like we've launched. We

0:46:23.080 --> 0:46:24.920
<v Speaker 1>launched two months ago and we have been in the

0:46:24.960 --> 0:46:27.759
<v Speaker 1>top two hundred since we launched in the world like

0:46:27.840 --> 0:46:30.360
<v Speaker 1>we haven't. It's just mind blowing. We knew we we

0:46:30.400 --> 0:46:32.200
<v Speaker 1>know we're gonna be number one, but we didn't know

0:46:32.200 --> 0:46:35.719
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be this you describe your podcast. Our podcast

0:46:35.840 --> 0:46:43.080
<v Speaker 1>is literally about truth and purpose, self evolution, elevation, healing, growing,

0:46:43.200 --> 0:46:45.800
<v Speaker 1>and we're doing that me and my co host Megan.

0:46:45.880 --> 0:46:48.480
<v Speaker 1>We're doing it together with our audience. So we're not

0:46:48.520 --> 0:46:50.719
<v Speaker 1>saying we have all the answers. We're not saying we're right,

0:46:50.760 --> 0:46:53.520
<v Speaker 1>we're not saying we're wrong. We're just having the conversations.

0:46:53.760 --> 0:46:56.160
<v Speaker 1>We're talking about therapy, we're talking about what we go through.

0:46:56.200 --> 0:47:00.200
<v Speaker 1>We cry every damn episode. Um, I love that. Yeah,

0:47:00.400 --> 0:47:03.040
<v Speaker 1>it's just real ship. Yeah. Do you feel like a

0:47:03.040 --> 0:47:05.480
<v Speaker 1>lot of your success has been keeping it real? That's

0:47:05.480 --> 0:47:08.640
<v Speaker 1>how I got to this point solely being myself, not

0:47:08.719 --> 0:47:10.840
<v Speaker 1>hiding anything. And of course the Internet doesn't have to

0:47:10.880 --> 0:47:14.080
<v Speaker 1>know everything about me, but there's not really much I've

0:47:14.160 --> 0:47:17.520
<v Speaker 1>hid from the Internet, honestly, Like I walk in my truth.

0:47:17.640 --> 0:47:21.960
<v Speaker 1>Anything I say, um, it's my reality. So yeah, there's

0:47:22.000 --> 0:47:24.120
<v Speaker 1>never been like a Crunsworthy. While I shouldn't maybe I

0:47:24.120 --> 0:47:28.080
<v Speaker 1>shouldn't post it. I went through that after I was

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<v Speaker 1>canceled for saying certain things or given my opinion. But

0:47:31.160 --> 0:47:34.920
<v Speaker 1>the world was just in a really weird time, like

0:47:34.960 --> 0:47:38.200
<v Speaker 1>it was the Black Lives Matter, then it was um COVID.

0:47:38.680 --> 0:47:41.600
<v Speaker 1>The world was very dark during that time, and it

0:47:41.640 --> 0:47:43.560
<v Speaker 1>was a lot of pain and a lot of suffering,

0:47:43.680 --> 0:47:46.000
<v Speaker 1>and you had to tread very lightly. That's when it

0:47:46.040 --> 0:47:48.560
<v Speaker 1>took a shift from like, Okay, I can say whatever

0:47:48.600 --> 0:47:51.360
<v Speaker 1>I want to say, I'm Dave Chappelle, I'm Richard prior

0:47:51.400 --> 0:47:54.799
<v Speaker 1>to okay, now I can't so that I feel like

0:47:55.320 --> 0:48:01.160
<v Speaker 1>two thousand. That was that shift of like inscitivity. Everybody

0:48:01.239 --> 0:48:03.640
<v Speaker 1>is so fucking sensitive. I'm like I can be like,

0:48:04.200 --> 0:48:09.000
<v Speaker 1>oh I love water. Wow, you don't like juice? Wow?

0:48:09.120 --> 0:48:12.840
<v Speaker 1>So you hate juice? You love water? Oh my god?

0:48:13.200 --> 0:48:16.280
<v Speaker 1>Be somemone hate juice. Welches I saw well chese juice

0:48:16.440 --> 0:48:19.359
<v Speaker 1>comment on her last post. Make sure that welches nose

0:48:19.440 --> 0:48:21.600
<v Speaker 1>be someone hates juice and they should never support her again.

0:48:21.960 --> 0:48:24.680
<v Speaker 1>I didn't say I hated juice. I said I like water.

0:48:26.360 --> 0:48:29.040
<v Speaker 1>Be scarier. I feel like we're in an age where

0:48:29.239 --> 0:48:31.400
<v Speaker 1>it's in the lose age. And that's why I canceled.

0:48:31.440 --> 0:48:34.080
<v Speaker 1>Culture exists like nobody wants to be the I hate

0:48:34.120 --> 0:48:35.719
<v Speaker 1>to say the word loser, but nobody wants to be

0:48:35.840 --> 0:48:38.960
<v Speaker 1>last place loser. Everybody wants to be equal, and I'm

0:48:38.960 --> 0:48:43.080
<v Speaker 1>not saying there we all are equal. Luckily, I'm not

0:48:43.120 --> 0:48:46.400
<v Speaker 1>big enough to be canceled yet, but I feel like

0:48:47.560 --> 0:48:52.279
<v Speaker 1>we create an environment where we're so sensitive that we're

0:48:52.320 --> 0:48:55.839
<v Speaker 1>no longer keeping real. Like I don't want to get

0:48:55.880 --> 0:48:58.120
<v Speaker 1>into the gender thing, but even with genders and all

0:48:58.120 --> 0:49:01.759
<v Speaker 1>this stuff, it's just like no idy worlds. Just call

0:49:01.840 --> 0:49:05.880
<v Speaker 1>blue blue. Yeah, we're all afraid to call it. People

0:49:05.960 --> 0:49:09.319
<v Speaker 1>just going off based off emotion. Because the same people

0:49:09.360 --> 0:49:10.880
<v Speaker 1>that canceled me will walk up to me and be like,

0:49:10.880 --> 0:49:12.759
<v Speaker 1>can you sign my book? I'd like I thought I

0:49:12.760 --> 0:49:14.799
<v Speaker 1>was a platress, Like you know what I'm saying, Like

0:49:15.360 --> 0:49:18.920
<v Speaker 1>I love your book, Okay, cool, Like I was. You know,

0:49:19.080 --> 0:49:22.240
<v Speaker 1>It's it's never like y'all are going off of emotion.

0:49:22.280 --> 0:49:24.640
<v Speaker 1>You're mad in the moment, and then in two months later,

0:49:24.680 --> 0:49:27.680
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna be buying my lip loss like you because

0:49:28.239 --> 0:49:31.719
<v Speaker 1>it's just people are episodic? Are you? I've never even

0:49:31.760 --> 0:49:35.240
<v Speaker 1>heard that word, But are you afraid of cancel culture?

0:49:35.320 --> 0:49:38.799
<v Speaker 1>Not anymore. I've been canceled so many times. It's a joke.

0:49:39.000 --> 0:49:41.480
<v Speaker 1>And literally my last post on Instagram, my last solo

0:49:41.560 --> 0:49:43.400
<v Speaker 1>picture or the last one. I have a shirt that

0:49:43.440 --> 0:49:46.680
<v Speaker 1>says canceled and the caption is Jesus is My Savior.

0:49:47.480 --> 0:49:52.080
<v Speaker 1>He calls the shots. Did you make that shirt? I

0:49:52.080 --> 0:49:54.120
<v Speaker 1>got it from my homeboy, his clothing line, But that

0:49:54.239 --> 0:49:56.239
<v Speaker 1>is the caption. Like somebody was like, how are you

0:49:56.280 --> 0:49:59.040
<v Speaker 1>talking about Jesus? And the picture is saying fuck you.

0:49:59.120 --> 0:50:00.920
<v Speaker 1>It's literally a ger that says fuck you and it

0:50:00.960 --> 0:50:03.600
<v Speaker 1>says canceled, and it goes hand in hand. You cannot

0:50:03.680 --> 0:50:06.440
<v Speaker 1>cancel me. This was predestined before I was in my

0:50:06.440 --> 0:50:08.440
<v Speaker 1>mother's womb. There is nothing that a man on this

0:50:08.480 --> 0:50:10.200
<v Speaker 1>earth can do that it's going to keep me away

0:50:10.200 --> 0:50:15.040
<v Speaker 1>from my purpose. So Jesus is my savior. He calls

0:50:15.160 --> 0:50:17.279
<v Speaker 1>the shots. And it's as simple as that. I'm not

0:50:17.360 --> 0:50:19.319
<v Speaker 1>scared of humans anymore. When I went through that ship,

0:50:19.400 --> 0:50:21.920
<v Speaker 1>it sucked me up though. The first cancel what I

0:50:22.000 --> 0:50:24.040
<v Speaker 1>was in my room crying, like why am I crying

0:50:24.040 --> 0:50:30.359
<v Speaker 1>over in Twitter, I was sad, man, what advice would

0:50:30.360 --> 0:50:33.720
<v Speaker 1>you give to somebody that's trying to be in your shoes,

0:50:33.760 --> 0:50:36.120
<v Speaker 1>because it sounds like you have to have you do

0:50:36.160 --> 0:50:37.719
<v Speaker 1>you do, and you have to know who you are

0:50:37.760 --> 0:50:39.600
<v Speaker 1>and you have to have a good team. And the

0:50:39.640 --> 0:50:41.359
<v Speaker 1>thing that sticks with me the most is my best

0:50:41.360 --> 0:50:43.840
<v Speaker 1>friend Megan, my business partner that's on my podcast. She

0:50:43.960 --> 0:50:46.759
<v Speaker 1>just kept telling me, what is the truth? What is

0:50:46.800 --> 0:50:49.040
<v Speaker 1>the truth? What is the truth? Do these people know

0:50:49.120 --> 0:50:54.040
<v Speaker 1>you know? Are your plagress? No? Uh? Should? We just

0:50:54.040 --> 0:50:56.560
<v Speaker 1>started listing all of these truths. We just made a

0:50:56.600 --> 0:50:58.759
<v Speaker 1>list of truths and she was like, at the end

0:50:58.800 --> 0:51:01.320
<v Speaker 1>of the day, she shown me the this is the truth,

0:51:01.400 --> 0:51:04.840
<v Speaker 1>no matter who believes it. You focus on this. It

0:51:04.880 --> 0:51:06.920
<v Speaker 1>don't matter who believes it. The truth is the truth.

0:51:07.160 --> 0:51:08.800
<v Speaker 1>And you don't have to believe that. This is white.

0:51:08.880 --> 0:51:11.560
<v Speaker 1>At the end of the day, that's the truth. If

0:51:11.600 --> 0:51:14.960
<v Speaker 1>you don't believe it, that's on you. That's white. So

0:51:15.200 --> 0:51:17.520
<v Speaker 1>remember that the truth is the truth. And if the

0:51:17.560 --> 0:51:20.680
<v Speaker 1>truth these are a fucked up person, fix it, change

0:51:20.800 --> 0:51:23.279
<v Speaker 1>become up better person. But if the truth is these

0:51:23.280 --> 0:51:24.880
<v Speaker 1>people don't know you, You're a great person. You have

0:51:25.000 --> 0:51:30.040
<v Speaker 1>pure intentions, whatever focus on the truth. That's great advice. Thanks,

0:51:30.560 --> 0:51:32.879
<v Speaker 1>that's really great, Megan. She helped me through that. You're

0:51:33.080 --> 0:51:35.480
<v Speaker 1>really good. You have a really good group of girlfriends

0:51:36.400 --> 0:51:39.160
<v Speaker 1>and they all live here. Most of them. Yeah, if

0:51:39.200 --> 0:51:41.920
<v Speaker 1>you have them lived out the town. But yeah, well

0:51:41.960 --> 0:51:44.919
<v Speaker 1>I am going to so this this was really didn't

0:51:44.960 --> 0:51:51.320
<v Speaker 1>like this. This was really good. But beasts smone is

0:51:51.440 --> 0:51:55.800
<v Speaker 1>very captivated. So when you're doing an interview, so listeners,

0:51:56.000 --> 0:52:00.959
<v Speaker 1>I'm not lying because really, if you see the video,

0:52:01.000 --> 0:52:04.400
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna see me damning face full of food follow

0:52:04.440 --> 0:52:08.560
<v Speaker 1>my husband down there to eat someone. So, Um, I

0:52:08.600 --> 0:52:10.680
<v Speaker 1>just wanted to say thank you so much for coming

0:52:11.520 --> 0:52:15.400
<v Speaker 1>and being a breath of fresh air. Like honestly I was.

0:52:15.800 --> 0:52:24.840
<v Speaker 1>I was literally like and this. You know, I haven't

0:52:24.920 --> 0:52:28.719
<v Speaker 1>been to Atlanta often, but this trip, like there were

0:52:28.760 --> 0:52:30.120
<v Speaker 1>so many things that were coming at me that I

0:52:30.160 --> 0:52:32.239
<v Speaker 1>was like, maybe God doesn't want this trip. It's the

0:52:32.280 --> 0:52:36.319
<v Speaker 1>devil messing with me. Um, I'm so glad I came

0:52:36.320 --> 0:52:37.880
<v Speaker 1>out here. So you look how the enemy work. That

0:52:37.960 --> 0:52:41.400
<v Speaker 1>was the enemy trying to trick your mouth. Tricky trip.

0:52:41.440 --> 0:52:44.200
<v Speaker 1>You've been thinking like maybe God, no, the devil. You

0:52:44.280 --> 0:52:46.160
<v Speaker 1>got to know God's voice. Let me tell you how

0:52:46.239 --> 0:52:48.520
<v Speaker 1>much I believe that God didn't want this trip. I

0:52:48.560 --> 0:52:50.319
<v Speaker 1>called up one of my friends who was like God faring,

0:52:50.360 --> 0:52:52.000
<v Speaker 1>and I said, how do you know when God talks

0:52:52.040 --> 0:52:54.439
<v Speaker 1>to you? I'm like, you know how people say God

0:52:54.520 --> 0:52:56.319
<v Speaker 1>talks to them and says something to them. How do

0:52:56.320 --> 0:52:59.600
<v Speaker 1>you know? My friend was like, what do you? What

0:52:59.680 --> 0:53:01.919
<v Speaker 1>are you how to find out? You know? Though, Yeah,

0:53:01.960 --> 0:53:03.840
<v Speaker 1>here's boys and God is never gonna tell you something

0:53:03.880 --> 0:53:07.279
<v Speaker 1>that's gonna I mean the depth when it's the devil,

0:53:07.320 --> 0:53:10.560
<v Speaker 1>it's always negative, it's always second guessing, it's always fear.

0:53:11.160 --> 0:53:16.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, That's how I look at it, that God

0:53:16.280 --> 0:53:18.279
<v Speaker 1>is never gonna put fear in you and make you

0:53:18.400 --> 0:53:23.239
<v Speaker 1>second guess. Wow. Well, I've been in Atlanta for one

0:53:23.320 --> 0:53:27.480
<v Speaker 1>day and meeting you, meeting some of the other people

0:53:27.520 --> 0:53:30.120
<v Speaker 1>that I've met here, I can honestly say it was

0:53:30.160 --> 0:53:34.080
<v Speaker 1>like the best gift I could have ever gifted myself.

0:53:34.719 --> 0:53:40.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad like what you contribute, um, But anyways,

0:53:41.440 --> 0:53:45.839
<v Speaker 1>for coming by and eating while broke with me, appreciate

0:53:46.560 --> 0:53:51.440
<v Speaker 1>And I'm going to this great concept. It's so funny.

0:53:51.480 --> 0:53:53.319
<v Speaker 1>And I was just telling people all camera people have

0:53:53.320 --> 0:53:55.839
<v Speaker 1>said to me, oh, this show, it's it's not TV

0:53:55.920 --> 0:53:59.560
<v Speaker 1>where they I'm like, why is it They're like, no, no, no,

0:53:59.600 --> 0:54:02.760
<v Speaker 1>this is by like YouTube level, but not not TV worthy.

0:54:03.280 --> 0:54:06.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it's it's the truth. People need to know

0:54:06.440 --> 0:54:11.640
<v Speaker 1>that where you know, and it wasn't overnight special the

0:54:11.640 --> 0:54:14.800
<v Speaker 1>new generation. Oh, you just gotta get on it. Just viral,

0:54:15.280 --> 0:54:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Just go viral. Have you already tried even getting ten?

0:54:18.040 --> 0:54:22.839
<v Speaker 1>Fol Let me just tell yourself that, okay, and that's

0:54:22.840 --> 0:54:25.600
<v Speaker 1>the problem. Stop trying to go viral. Just put out

0:54:25.719 --> 0:54:29.040
<v Speaker 1>content that you believe in. Just put out the content

0:54:29.520 --> 0:54:32.080
<v Speaker 1>that you believe that you believe in. If I believe

0:54:32.080 --> 0:54:33.880
<v Speaker 1>in something, I'm gonna put it out and the right

0:54:33.920 --> 0:54:35.920
<v Speaker 1>people will find me. I'm not putting it out with

0:54:35.960 --> 0:54:39.160
<v Speaker 1>the intent to go viral. You can't plan on going viral.

0:54:39.239 --> 0:54:41.000
<v Speaker 1>Just put it out. So in the meantime, do you

0:54:41.000 --> 0:54:44.239
<v Speaker 1>advise a couple of day jobs, because I got like

0:54:44.440 --> 0:54:48.279
<v Speaker 1>two day jobs. I advise whatever you gotta do to

0:54:48.360 --> 0:54:51.160
<v Speaker 1>get it, and whatever is filling your cup, you know,

0:54:51.239 --> 0:54:54.759
<v Speaker 1>whatever it takes for you to feel like you're successful. Yeah,

0:54:54.840 --> 0:54:58.000
<v Speaker 1>you're amazing. You are too, You're calm, you have a

0:54:58.040 --> 0:55:06.000
<v Speaker 1>real cone spirit. Thank you so much. Great, All right, well,

0:55:06.120 --> 0:55:10.600
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