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Speaker 1: What are you working? Okay, you know what?

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Speaker 4: Call me Maury because I got a couple of paternity

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Speaker 4: cases to talk about.

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Speaker 5: Also, so we talked about something in the tangent.

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Speaker 4: You know, would something be an issue if it was

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Speaker 4: not exactly the size that you would want it to be, right,

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Speaker 4: We talked about that, Well, somebody is leaving their husband

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Speaker 4: or left their husband for the opposite problem.

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Speaker 1: Whoa Yeah, and I have thoughts about this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I knew you would.

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Speaker 1: I have thoughts about this, and I'll share them with.

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Speaker 3: You, okay, please, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this has been on my mind.

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Speaker 2: This guy's big wiener has been on my mind now

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Speaker 2: for at least twelve hours. So it's a weird thing

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Speaker 2: to say. So I have a couple of stories. But

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Speaker 2: the first one, you know, where, at which point did

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Speaker 2: we go wrong?

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Speaker 1: Here? At what point in the story are you would

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Speaker 1: you say hmmm?

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Speaker 6: Hm?

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Speaker 1: Things that make you go hmmm.

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Speaker 2: A woman has revealed how she met another man on

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Speaker 2: her This is from the Daily Mail. So they call

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Speaker 2: it a hen night, but a bachelord party. Oh, I

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Speaker 2: call it a hand knight, and invited him to her

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Speaker 2: wedding before eventually divorcing her husband and marrying him instead.

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Speaker 2: Now that's just one sentence, But like, at what point

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Speaker 2: do we say hmm? Like, for example, I would say

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Speaker 2: it's within the first ten words. A woman has revealed

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Speaker 2: how she met another man. Okay, all right, that's.

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Speaker 1: Now never meet any man, never, never again, never again.

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Speaker 2: You should you should never Okay, all right, on her

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Speaker 2: bachelorette party. So you met a man on your bachelorette party? Okay,

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Speaker 2: that's concerning to me. I have a lot of questions. Period,

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Speaker 2: but this and then this could be a second sentence.

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Speaker 2: And then she invited him to her wedding, period, bigger problem.

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Speaker 2: Why is this random man from your hen party, your

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Speaker 2: hen night attending your wedding? I could see a situation

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Speaker 2: where you eventually divorce your husband and marry the guy

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Speaker 2: who you met on your bachelorette party and invited to

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Speaker 2: your wedding. This woman's name is Charlie, which is the

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Speaker 2: name I've not heard of before. She's from Virginia. She

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Speaker 2: met her now husband at Julio while on her bachelorette

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Speaker 2: trip in September of twenty nineteen.

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Speaker 1: Who was Julio?

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Speaker 1: Who do you like? The dancer on the hen night?

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Speaker 1: Was he like the Hey? Was he doing what I

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Speaker 4: Were they there to espresso where she goes out and

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Speaker 3: What's his name?

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Speaker 1: Marcella Hernad?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's literally the whole song.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so his name is Julio and.

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Speaker 2: Apparently it invited him and his two friends to her

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Speaker 1: Why, which is I mean? This is random?

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Speaker 7: Like, you met these people and come to my weadd

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Speaker 2: And the twenty seven year old says that she and

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Speaker 2: Julio barely spoke and she was shocked when he actually

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Speaker 2: month later. So I would have a lot of questions

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Speaker 2: as as the guy, as the husband, I'd be like,

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Speaker 2: wait a minute, so you met these random people. I

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Speaker 2: have a lot of questions, why did you invite them

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Speaker 2: to our wedding? And then if you barely talk to them,

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Speaker 2: then why did they show up?

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Speaker 3: This is something I was friends.

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Speaker 2: It's not like we all met together, like we all

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Speaker 2: you know, I don't know Fyance and bride. We go

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Speaker 2: on a trip together and we meet these other this

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Speaker 2: other fun couple and we're like.

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Speaker 1: You guys are great, and hey, you know what we're

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Speaker 1: getting there? Are you guys should come?

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Speaker 1: We had whatever.

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Speaker 2: No, So they after already having informed the other wedding

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Speaker 2: guests about the funny story of how they met the trio,

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Speaker 2: when Julio entered the wedding reception, he was treated like

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Speaker 2: a celebrity. So Tarlie and Julio, who now shared two sons,

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Speaker 2: had a photo together and exchanged small talk, and the

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Speaker 2: thirty three year old was so popular at the wedding

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Speaker 2: that he even danced with her mother and grandmother the bride.

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Speaker 8: Wow, Domingo, it's Domingo.

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Speaker 2: So Then, six weeks after tying the nood in December

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Speaker 2: of twenty nineteen, Tarlie and her first husband decided to

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Speaker 2: call it quits, six weeks after their two year long

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Speaker 2: relationship just happened to fizzle out. But it had nothing

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Speaker 2: to do with this Julio man who came and danced

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Speaker 2: with the mother and the grandmother of the bride. A

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Speaker 2: week later, Julio then happened to show up in her

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Speaker 2: snapshat story and the pair hit it off over message.

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Speaker 2: He is realizing that they had a lot in comment, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure, my god, So this guy shows up upstages

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Speaker 2: the groom at his own wedding. We've never even seen

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Speaker 2: this man before. Supposedly you didn't even talk to him.

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Speaker 2: Now he's dancing with your.

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Speaker 5: Mom, right, they've all chose on his side.

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Speaker 1: He's a commercial fisherman. He took tar. I can't over

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Speaker 1: her name. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I've never met a Charlie on their first date and

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Speaker 2: they've been a pair ever since. So the wedding was

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Speaker 2: in I'm trying to get the timeline here exactly.

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Speaker 1: I want to say what I say.

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Speaker 2: September they was a bachelorette party and by December they're together.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, something tells me he hit it at the tea

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Speaker 9: party or whatever you call it, the hen night.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just want to be a two year relationship

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Speaker 2: with a boyfriend. She goes on a bachelorette party in

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Speaker 2: September and by December she's married, divorced, six weeks married, divorced,

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Speaker 2: and now with this guy. Yeah, it's giving chaa, it's yeah.

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Speaker 2: The couple, who now have two children, got engaged in

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Speaker 2: December of twenty twenty married in April of twenty twenty one.

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Speaker 2: Charlie admits that she had cold feet about her first wedding,

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Speaker 2: but believes that if she called off the big day,

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Speaker 2: then she and Juley never would have spoken.

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Speaker 1: So thank god she got married the first time.

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Speaker 2: But because without that, without him being an attendee at

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Speaker 2: the wedding right then they never would have been able

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Speaker 2: to cheat. Oh sorry, is a Jezebel, This is crazy,

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Speaker 2: but hey, Charlie's saying that, you know, she didn't cheat.

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Speaker 2: She didn't even talk to the guy. It just so

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Speaker 2: happens that this guy, if she met in her bachelor

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Speaker 2: at party, who she invited to her wedding, she never

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Speaker 4: I want to see how all of her friends who

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Speaker 4: were on the hen night like reacted to him too,

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Speaker 4: Because if I'm the husband and all the girls are like, yo, Julia,

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Speaker 4: that was good or like whatever, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I'd be so pissed.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'd be like, wait, you guys were all together

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Speaker 4: on the hen night and I was there, and now

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Speaker 4: he's here with my mom.

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Speaker 3: They're making it out in the corner.

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Speaker 2: Right, I'm like, why is this guy so popular? Is

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Speaker 2: my wedding? Who is this guy?

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Speaker 8: I'd be so is out shining everybody.

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Speaker 2: Oh, Charlie says, we went on to North Carolina for

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Speaker 2: my bachelorette trip. Oh no, if I'm old boy, Julio,

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Speaker 2: there is no bachelorette. You're not going on a bacheloretterip.

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Speaker 2: No more hen nights for you. We've had enough hen nights.

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Speaker 4: She's from Virginia went to North Carolina. But she's having

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Speaker 4: a hen Night? Is she just born in the UK?

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Speaker 1: No, this is just covered by a UK. It has

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Speaker 1: nothing to do with you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I got it.

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Speaker 2: No, the Daily Mail wrote it, so it's written by

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Speaker 2: a British person, so it's they're using their vernacular.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: But I again, I think if I'm Julio, I'm thinking, no,

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Speaker 2: we're all set with the bachelorette party. We don't we

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Speaker 2: don't need to have one of those. Remember what happened

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Speaker 2: last time. Yeah. I don't even know what else to

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Speaker 2: say about this. What's meant for you will always find you.

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Speaker 1: Stop that. So you think it's got that right now?

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Speaker 8: In a way, I mean, as long as she didn't

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Speaker 8: sheat like this is kind of a story. This is

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Speaker 8: this is going in the books because I like, wait,

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Speaker 8: if Julio you know it was a great time. Let's

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Speaker 8: just say he was like the bartender at the at

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Speaker 8: the hen Nights party and he's you know, doing this.

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Speaker 3: Or that, and it's like a great time. Maybe he

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Speaker 3: was just I don't know what his role was in

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Speaker 3: hen Night, but if he was, he was a good time.

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Speaker 3: And I was like coming to my wedding to be funny.

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Speaker 8: And then he shows up and he's dancing with my

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Speaker 8: my Bapcha and my mom and my nana is like,

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Speaker 8: that's that's fun.

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Speaker 3: You're a fun time.

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Speaker 9: You're right, he might be the love of her life.

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Speaker 2: I just I don't I mean, I don't trust the

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Speaker 2: timing here. It just so happens that this guy shows

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Speaker 2: up to the wedding. Six weeks later, the marriage fails,

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Speaker 2: and he just happens to pop in to your snapchat

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Speaker 2: or something just right around that time. And but you'd

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Speaker 2: never really spoken before. Uh. It's giving like that, you know,

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Speaker 2: it's giving. It's giving that that everyone you got married.

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Speaker 3: Well, when did you get his snapchat?

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Speaker 4: Okay, right, Like she better not have exchanged at her wedding,

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Speaker 5: I figured this whole thing out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, guys, I'm glad it works out. You

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Speaker 1: Is it Cohen? I'd like to know the math on

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Speaker 2: If they know each other for three years and the

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Speaker 5: I mean, if they're in love, then I guess they

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Speaker 2: People make mistakes, and sometimes you know those mistakes.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure there's some sort of.

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Speaker 9: Let your husband stop you from meeting your love of

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Speaker 2: Right right, Fred's show is on Fred's Biggest Stories of

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Speaker 1: It's got him Julio on the man.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, Julio, I wait for you to come back

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Speaker 9: This is why I don't want Big Tim to have

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Speaker 9: But sometimes it is because you go out there and

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Speaker 3: You can't stop thinking.

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Speaker 9: I would love if there are any honest men that

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Speaker 2: Fine, well you don't even have to have I just

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Speaker 2: Or you're still like that. I don't like the male

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about the animal, but I'm just not going to, yeah,

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Speaker 2: guess the reason it happens is like it's your last hurrah.

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Speaker 2: Like if I got married, maybe there's maybe there's a trip,

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Speaker 2: He's like, dude, what are we going to do in

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Speaker 2: we didn't wind up doing it, but like we could have,

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Speaker 2: because it's not like it's any different than any other

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Speaker 9: Yeah, but the movies teach you that there's always one

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Speaker 2: Well, but you know what else I've I've lived a

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Speaker 2: folks and they all had matching shirts on, and they

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Speaker 2: were all like pretty and made up and long hair

438
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Speaker 2: and curry. You know, it was very everything was very

439
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Speaker 2: made up. And then over here, a way over here

440
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Speaker 2: on the left was a girl that drove a Subaru.

441
00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:56,960
Speaker 2: She had a short she had short like a male haircut. Great.

442
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Speaker 2: She was wearing like or something like birkenstocks or something.

443
00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:04,960
Speaker 2: She was wring cargo shorts. Look, she was lovely, but

444
00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,000
Speaker 2: she didn't fit with the rest of them. That was

445
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Speaker 2: very clearly the groom's sister or cousin or something. And

446
00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:13,199
Speaker 2: it was like, hey, you gotta go. You got to

447
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Speaker 2: invite Sally. Sally has to come. You got to make

448
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Speaker 2: sure Sally goes to the thing. And again, I'm not

449
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Speaker 2: making fun of this woman's style. What I'm saying is

450
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Speaker 2: there's absolutely no way that these two people were connected,

451
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Speaker 2: that these are this group of people that she didn't

452
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Speaker 2: hang out.

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Speaker 9: With them, right, That's like like Jason will be at

454
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Speaker 9: Big Tim's bescher.

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Speaker 3: Oh I will be yes, and.

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Speaker 1: We will be on FaceTime. I'm sure I love that.

457
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Speaker 3: How do you look scared?

458
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Speaker 1: I feel like that he would not let me there.

459
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Speaker 1: But what I also don't like.

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Speaker 2: We've talked about this over the years, but what I

461
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Speaker 2: don't like is the joint Well, we're gonna have a

462
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Speaker 2: joint party, because all you're saying is I'm gonna be

463
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Speaker 2: there so nothing will happen. Like It's like, Look, you're

464
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Speaker 2: marrying this person. You should be able to send them

465
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Speaker 2: off on a weekend and they won't meet Julio like

466
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Speaker 2: you or Tarlei.

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Speaker 1: You should be able to do that.

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Speaker 2: You're you're marrying them, You're committing to them spiritually for

469
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Speaker 2: the rest of your life. You don't need to be

470
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Speaker 2: there to because if they're gonna cheat on you, they're

471
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Speaker 2: gonna cheat on you the day after they get married

472
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Speaker 2: to you, clearly, so you being there doesn't prevent anything. Okay,

473
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Speaker 2: maybe on that trip it does, all right. Now, Alison's

474
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Speaker 2: got a story. Good, I like a story. Alison tell

475
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Speaker 2: us the story.

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Speaker 6: Hi, I have a friend who used to be a

477
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Speaker 6: stripper many years ago, and he told me.

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Speaker 3: He confessed that.

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Speaker 6: Some of the bachelorette parties would invite him back to

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Speaker 6: wherever they were partying and pay him to sleep with

481
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Speaker 6: the bride.

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Speaker 3: He said, he said it. You know, not all.

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Speaker 6: Brides opted to do it. Sometimes they just sat and

484
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Speaker 6: talked all night, but others did.

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Speaker 1: Huh, thank you. Okay, that's that's the brides.

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Speaker 3: Tell you what happens.

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, last night, okay, but this was women

488
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Speaker 2: doing this.

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Speaker 1: This was women egging this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my girl.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm not saying they don't.

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Speaker 2: But the logic is I got to go on the

493
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Speaker 2: bachelor party or he can't go on one because he

494
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Speaker 2: might cheat. And you're telling a story about how ladies

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Speaker 2: were the ones enabling it.

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Speaker 5: I think anybody can do it, is the point.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I hear you, Elise, and thank you. Have a

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Speaker 2: good day. What was what was the stripper's stripper name?

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Speaker 2: Do you remember?

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I can't was it?

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Speaker 1: Julio?

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Speaker 2: I have a good day. I don't know where in

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Speaker 2: Virginia these people live. I hope they're listening.

506
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Speaker 1: I hope.

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Speaker 2: I hope it's Norfolk. I hope you're listening this morning.

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Speaker 2: I'd love to talk, Julio, call up here. I love

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Speaker 2: tell us your side of the story. Yes, hey, it's

510
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Speaker 2: an open forum.

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Speaker 5: Okay about my husband the X husband to call?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: The Mega Million's jackpot has climbed to nearly eight hundred

514
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Speaker 2: and fifty million dollars. I can work with this, the

515
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Speaker 2: game's longest streak ever without a winner. Apparently, no one

516
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Speaker 2: matched all six numbers in Tuesday night's drawing, extending a

517
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Speaker 2: run that's now spanned more than thirty consecutive drawings. The

518
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Speaker 2: next chance comes Friday, with the cash option of three

519
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Speaker 2: hundred and ninety five million dollars before taxes. I don't

520
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Speaker 2: care what the odds are, it doesn't matter. I think

521
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Speaker 2: it might be mine. So it's time. It's time, guys.

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Speaker 2: This could be an And I'm not trying to be

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Speaker 2: an alarmist, and you know, I know there's a lot

524
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Speaker 2: of politics involved here, but truly, this could be a disaster.

525
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 2: But the FAA is cutting US air traffic by ten

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Speaker 2: percent nationwide as the historic government shut down drags into

527
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Speaker 2: its second month. The move effects forty major cities New York, Atlanta, Chicago,

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Speaker 2: and Los Angeles, where air traffic controllers are now working

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Speaker 2: without pay under emergency staffing rules. The fa said the

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Speaker 2: reductions are meant to maintain safety amid unprecedented strain. Delays

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Speaker 2: and cancelations are already piling up ripple effects expected through

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Speaker 2: the holidays. Airlines are re routing flights and trimming schedules,

533
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Speaker 2: while travelers have been warned to brace for longer lines

534
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Speaker 2: and fewer available routes. I saw a press conference where

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Speaker 2: they were saying that air traffic controllers who have been

536
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Speaker 2: going out without pay. Many of them said, look, we

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Speaker 2: were prepared to go one paycheck, we were not prepared

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Speaker 2: to go two paychecks. I think it's true with a

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Speaker 2: lot of people. I think a lot of people may

540
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Speaker 2: maybe could go a couple of weeks without getting paid,

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Speaker 2: but a lot of people couldn't go a month without

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Speaker 2: getting paid. And then what happens then is these folks

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Speaker 2: are not coming to work any because I guess the

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Speaker 2: logic is for a lot of air traffic controllers, I'll

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Speaker 2: come to work because I'll get back pay. What good

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Speaker 2: does it do me not to show up? Plus a

547
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Speaker 2: lot of these people have purpose. A lot of these

548
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Speaker 2: people have integrity, and they realize how important they are

549
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Speaker 2: to the infrastructure. So they're coming to work selflessly because

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Speaker 2: they know that we need them to keep us safe

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Speaker 2: and to get us around. But also I would imagine

552
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Speaker 2: the mentality is, well, I'll keep working because eventually I'll

553
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Speaker 2: get paid, because that'stily any good to sit at home.

554
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 2: But now we're talking about a situation where maybe you're

555
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Speaker 2: running out of money. So going to work doing this

556
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:43,879
Speaker 2: for no money is not helping you put food on

557
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Speaker 2: the table. So either you have to supplement with something else,

558
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Speaker 2: or you go get another job, or who knows what

559
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Speaker 2: you do. And if that's the case, then and we're

560
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Speaker 2: two weeks away, three weeks away from Thanksgiving, the busiest

561
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Speaker 2: travel time of the year. This could be catastrophic. So

562
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Speaker 2: they got to fix this that I don't really do.

563
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 2: It's a big problem. And speaking of flying, a woman

564
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 2: says her cross country flight from Florida to Los Angeles

565
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Speaker 2: turned into a nightmare after being seated next to a

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Speaker 2: guy who smeared feces on himself and the seat. The

567
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Speaker 2: passenger described the ordeal on Reddit, saying that the guy

568
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Speaker 2: began acting strangely soon have to take off before defecating

569
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Speaker 2: and then spreading it across his body and armrests. But

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Speaker 2: the stench filled the cabin and nearby travelers gagged while

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Speaker 2: flight attendants tried to contain the situation. She said the

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Speaker 2: airline offered wipes and apologies, but no compensation. It was

573
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Speaker 2: the longest five hours of my life. The airline leader

574
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 2: confirmed the incidents that the crew followed safety and sanitation protocols.

575
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Speaker 2: The many questions why the guy was allowed to remain

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Speaker 2: on board for the entire flight, Well, if they didn't land,

577
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Speaker 2: then I think there's only one option, and that city

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Speaker 2: stays on the flight. I suppose there could be something

579
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Speaker 2: in the ticket contract somewhere where if if you defecate

580
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Speaker 2: on someone, we throw you out of the of the plane.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't be on door. I would honestly be okay

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Speaker 2: with something like that in the contract, Whereas if you

583
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Speaker 2: do something like that, then we have a little escape

584
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Speaker 2: shoot for you and you just go bye bye. But

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Speaker 2: I guess I'm surprised they didn't land the plane honestly

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Speaker 2: and get the guy off the plane, because it was

587
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Speaker 2: just something going on there, you know, psychologically or whatever.

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00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 2: He wasn't Obviously things weren't okay there, So I would

589
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Speaker 2: imagine that it would have been maybe for everyone else's

590
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Speaker 2: safety and his to land the plane and get him off.

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Speaker 2: But they didn't do that. Amazon is offering a Thanksgiving

592
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Speaker 2: meal deal. Retailers like Walmart, Oldie, and Costco already rollout

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Speaker 2: discounts for Thanksgiving meals, and now Amazon is jumping into

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Speaker 2: the fray. The online retail giant is offering a five

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Speaker 2: person Thanksgiving meal for twenty five bucks. The shopping list

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Speaker 2: is available to order from Wednesday, November twelve through Thanksgiving Day,

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Speaker 2: an eight pound turkey from Butterball, Crescent Rolls, pre made

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Speaker 2: side stuffing, mashed potatoes, green bean, cast role, cranberry relish.

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Speaker 2: The shopping list also includes a choice of holiday pie.

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Speaker 2: Amazon is also offering a dis kind of price on

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Speaker 2: some produce one and baking ingredients. So on number twelve

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Speaker 2: is the first save that you can order that. And Caitlin,

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Speaker 2: this story is for you and only for you, and

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Speaker 2: it's our Wall Street minute on the French Show. I'm

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Speaker 2: constantly analyzing the market the same way that Jason does sports. Yes,

606
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Speaker 2: company earnings and forecasts were once again a big focus

607
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Speaker 2: for Wall Street, with results coming in from a broad

608
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Speaker 2: spectrum of industries. McDonald says that they rose two point

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Speaker 2: two percent after reporting that it's sales benefited from the

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Speaker 2: return of the snack wrap in the third quarter. And

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Speaker 2: Cailin has been saying this for years. Why the insiders

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Speaker 2: in Wall Street haven't been listening to this? And McDonald's

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Speaker 2: headquarters is right here.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm glad you brought this up because I am

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Speaker 5: now working as.

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Speaker 4: A consultant, Yes, yes, with all kinds of corporations to

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Speaker 4: tell them what they need to get rid of bring back.

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Speaker 5: I mean, if I was.

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Speaker 4: On the cracker barrel case, let me tell you, things

620
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Speaker 4: would have been different.

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Speaker 3: But I know how to do this.

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Speaker 2: We never would have modernized the cracker bail if I'd

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Speaker 2: been a consultant.

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Speaker 5: Guys, Uncle Hershel or whatever the hell has.

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Speaker 2: He says, I need to know where to get my

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Speaker 2: popcorn candle and my tree ordered me in June.

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Speaker 3: We're not doing modern farmhouse.

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Speaker 1: To No, we're not. We're not.

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Speaker 2: I need I need to Yes, he needs to look

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Speaker 2: the way it does. Sir h It's National Nachos. You

631
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 2: could have saved them so much money. It's National Nacho's

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Speaker 2: Day and National men make Dinner Day.

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Speaker 1: I know Julio makes dinner.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you that that guy cooks in the kitchen.

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Speaker 1: Man from what I understand. He cooks it in all

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Speaker 1: realms of his life.

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Speaker 3: Say it's down everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes he does. Who Leo does?

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Speaker 2: Awin's Entertainment report, He's on the Fresh Show.

640
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:32,120
Speaker 4: A judge has officially dismissed that long running paternity case

641
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 4: against Jay Z, ending a very, very years long legal

642
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 4: battle brought on by a man who claimed to be

643
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 4: his son. Ramir satur Weight, had been fighting to prove

644
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:46,120
Speaker 4: that the rapper was his biological father, alleging that jay

645
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 4: had obstructed DNA testing and more for over a decade.

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Speaker 5: The ruling. This ruling this week.

647
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 4: Officially clears jay Z stops Romir from going after him

648
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 4: legally again in the future. His legal team, jay Z's

649
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,919
Speaker 4: I should say, has constantly denied the claim, calling it

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Speaker 4: a publicity stunt, while Ramier said he only wanted the

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Speaker 4: truth and closure, but now he has exhausted his options.

652
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 4: In similar but opposite news, Stefan Diggs is the father

653
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Speaker 4: so the NFL wide receiver and partner to Cardi b

654
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 4: has been confirmed as the father of a baby girl

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Speaker 4: born in April with a model who goes by Lord.

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Speaker 5: Giselle on the GRAM.

657
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Speaker 4: The suit had began in December with her asking him

658
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Speaker 4: to pay for some pregnancy costs, birth costs, other things.

659
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Speaker 4: He responded saying I want a DNA test and if

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Speaker 4: it was confirmed, he then said I also want joint

661
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Speaker 4: custody shared expenses.

662
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Speaker 3: He took one.

663
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Speaker 4: He is the father and now the case will stay

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Speaker 4: open unless they settle it privately. Meanwhile, Cardi B announced

665
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Speaker 4: recently that she is expecting her first child with him,

666
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Speaker 4: a baby boy, so she joked about it on Instagram

667
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Speaker 4: as well, saying we're both his baby mama, I guess,

668
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Speaker 4: which was a fair funny way I love her. And lastly, Fred,

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Speaker 4: this is the story that kind of kept you up

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Speaker 4: last night. Speaking of Instagram models and I don't name,

671
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Speaker 4: Haley Khalil was discussing her split from a former NFL

672
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Speaker 4: lineman lineman.

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Speaker 2: Matt Khalil, right, and then look what happened.

674
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Speaker 4: So she was talking about her divorce, and she's sharing

675
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Speaker 4: a lot about her divorce. It's a very much oversharing

676
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Speaker 4: era and she not only felt emotionally disconnected in the marriage,

677
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Speaker 4: but his manhood may have also been a reason for

678
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Speaker 4: their separation. She said he was like two coke cans

679
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Speaker 4: on top of each other. Maybe even a third. So

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Speaker 4: I'm just you know, I'm just a messenger, yakiki, I

681
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 4: did say that, And.

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Speaker 5: People are really upsetting pants on.

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Speaker 4: They don't they're upset on her for just exposing too

684
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Speaker 4: many details about their marriage, Like I.

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Speaker 7: Don't, this is not this is not true. What happened here,

686
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Speaker 7: what happened, because what happened was they're getting divorced. He's rich,

687
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Speaker 7: they're they're negotiating this, and it's like, look, i'll tell

688
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Speaker 7: you what, I'll give you a little bit extra if

689
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Speaker 7: you'll just put this out there that I am just

690
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Speaker 7: swinging because I need a head start, you know, moving

691
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Speaker 7: forward here. So you know, you broke up with me,

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Speaker 7: you don't want to be married to me anymore of

693
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Speaker 7: whatever reason, Fine, but I need you to plant the

694
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Speaker 7: story that the reason that you the only reason that

695
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Speaker 7: you couldn't be with me is because I got three

696
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Speaker 7: coke cans.

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Speaker 1: That's what I think happened.

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Speaker 2: That's my logic right here, because how did you not

699
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Speaker 2: know that before you married him, you knew about the

700
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Speaker 2: coke can.

701
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Speaker 3: You did know about the cokene.

702
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Speaker 1: Now, well, sudden it's a problem for you.

703
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Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know.

704
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Speaker 4: I was just gonna say like it's making me run

705
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Speaker 4: the opposite direction. I don't even want to be in

706
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Speaker 4: the same room as him exactly. He need a permit.

707
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Speaker 2: Sounds like a deadly weapon, it does, But I don't

708
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Speaker 2: I don't buy that that that you didn't mean you

709
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 2: married the guy like I have a It's very different.

710
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe they save themselves from marriage or something.

711
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 2: But I think you'd see the three coke cans at

712
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 2: some point in some form and and and express concern

713
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Speaker 2: about the rest of your life and you're and you're

714
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 2: you know, you're your well being.

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Speaker 4: I have concern for her if that's what was going

716
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Speaker 4: on during their marriage.

717
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Speaker 3: But I don't know.

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Speaker 4: If you want to see our little faces today Fred

719
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Speaker 4: Show Radio on YouTube and then you can catch up

720
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Speaker 4: on anything you missed on the free I heard radio

721
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Speaker 4: to search the Fred Show on demand, right.

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Speaker 2: I don't know which which blog I want to hear

723
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Speaker 2: from from you, Paulina. I don't know if I want

724
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Speaker 2: to hear about your plan today for your event, because

725
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Speaker 2: I actually, I actually would love to know what women

726
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 2: think about that.

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Speaker 8: They would be very upset with me. I'm very unwoman

728
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Speaker 8: coded for this. Girls usually plan like things out right

729
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Speaker 8: weeks advance.

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Speaker 1: What let's let's just do it.

731
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Speaker 2: We'll do that, because then I also want to hear

732
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Speaker 2: about how you now are into viral items, because I

733
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Speaker 2: would love to know. It says here that you don't

734
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 2: get into viral stuff, but you want the very stuck

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Speaker 2: cup from Starbucks.

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Speaker 3: Have you guys seen this? It is so cute.

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Speaker 2: I I mean, you're a content queen today. I mean

738
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Speaker 2: you're giving me more options that I have time to

739
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Speaker 2: deal with right now. That said that, I would I

740
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Speaker 2: would love to know maybe later on what viral item

741
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Speaker 2: you know you you wrestled someone for, you know, in

742
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 2: target or whatever, because I know people get into these

743
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Speaker 2: things where they have to have, you know whatever, the

744
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 2: very she's cute. But I know there are people listening

745
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 2: who are like I had, you know whatever it is.

746
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 2: They even at the very stick cup, but it was

747
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 2: something else like I had to have it, and they searched,

748
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: you know, high and low trying to find the thing,

749
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Speaker 2: and they work.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they cited.

751
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Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the frets I'm writing

752
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Speaker 2: in our diaries, except we said I'm aloud.

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Speaker 1: We call them blogs. Paulina, go yes, thank you, so.

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Speaker 3: Much, dear blog.

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Speaker 8: So today a lot of ladies here at the Old

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Speaker 8: I Hurt Chicago, we are going to a event for

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Speaker 8: the y w C A located here in Chicago. They're

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Speaker 8: a great organization. To look them up. They have a

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Speaker 8: leader luncheon happening every year, and we were all very

760
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Speaker 8: inspired to attend there. You know, it's a great bonding

761
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Speaker 8: experience which also like to you know, support a really

762
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Speaker 8: great cause. So one thing about me is if I forget,

763
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Speaker 8: which is very often that something is happening at a

764
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Speaker 8: certain time, I will then make sure that I figure

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Speaker 8: it out because I always figure it out.

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Speaker 3: But I figured it out in the most Paulina way ever,

767
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Speaker 3: and that is that I don't have an outfit. Okay.

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Speaker 8: So Kaylin texted me this morning and she was like, hey,

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Speaker 8: don't forget, but we have our luncheon today.

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Speaker 3: And I responded and I wrote, oh no, and I

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Speaker 3: wrote I completely forgot.

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Speaker 8: And that's not great either, because like now I have

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Speaker 8: to figure out child's care and it's during her naptime.

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Speaker 3: It's the whole thing.

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Speaker 8: I could probably figure it out because I always do,

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Speaker 8: but it's one of those moments. And then I was like, well,

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Speaker 8: I'm already in sweatpants and like a Don Julio shirt,

778
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Speaker 8: like I'm not going in this right and running shoes.

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Speaker 8: I'm like, I'm not going to a luncheon in this.

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Speaker 8: So I told Kaylin. I was like, what I could

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Speaker 8: do is, and I've done this before, is I can

782
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Speaker 8: order my outfit from Target, which Chuck has got great clothes.

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Speaker 1: I don't even have, like DoorDash here or something or Target.

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Speaker 1: You know Circle ones.

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Speaker 8: Art Circle by dollars a year and they Target delivers.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know that you have your member of their

787
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 2: cool thing. I think you pay for it too, but

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Speaker 2: I do pay for it. I did this recently. Was

789
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Speaker 2: something I had to have, but yeah, oh I joined Circle.

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Speaker 2: I need to cancel it now because I don't don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't need to pay ten bucks a month for

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Speaker 2: something else I'm gonna forget about.

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Speaker 8: I feel like mine was free when the second year

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Speaker 8: or something, because they do you want to renew this

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Speaker 8: for free?

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Speaker 3: And I said absolutely.

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Speaker 2: What I was more curious about, honest genuinely, is you

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Speaker 2: were saying that you didn't have a babysitter for Gigi

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Speaker 2: because your daughter, because you didn't remember this event and

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Speaker 2: you were saying, can I just bring the daughter? And

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Speaker 2: I wonder I realized it's an all female event, and

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Speaker 2: I realized that, you know, there are a lot of

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Speaker 2: mothers in there, and but like, can you just can

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Speaker 2: you just bring your kids to anything and not be judged?

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00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 2: That's a question, And even like, does do you have

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Speaker 2: a right to judge someone for bringing their kid to

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Speaker 2: just anything? Because you got to figure there are other

808
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Speaker 2: mothers in there too that had to figure it out

809
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Speaker 2: and aren't bringing their kids. Well, I genuinely wonder like, yeah, no,

810
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Speaker 2: same here. Can you just bring your kids anything? And

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Speaker 2: then jin should just say well, sorry, I didn't have

812
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Speaker 2: childcare and and and if people were to look at

813
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Speaker 2: you a certain kind of way, would they be justified?

814
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Speaker 2: Because are there times where the kids are appropriate? And

815
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Speaker 2: are there times where kids you're not. I'm not a mom,

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Speaker 2: I don't have kids, so I don't really think it's

817
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Speaker 2: appropriate for me to weigh in on this, but I

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Speaker 2: do wonder, like, can you just bring your kid to

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Speaker 2: anything because you forgot to get a babysitter or didn't

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Speaker 2: have anyone to watch her.

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Speaker 8: I think about that often because I am a mom

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Speaker 8: of a eighteen month old so we're in a stage

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Speaker 8: where like she won't just stay put in the stroller,

824
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Speaker 8: but she's also like I don't know, she's not three,

825
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Speaker 8: four or five where she's let's just say, you know,

826
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Speaker 8: running around trying to grab everything. She still kind of

827
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Speaker 8: stays near me, and I can control her in that way,

828
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Speaker 8: but like, I feel like this is an empowering event.

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Speaker 8: So you know what's more empowering than a working mother. However,

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Speaker 8: I think it's about reading the room. So like, if

831
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Speaker 8: this is something that like, Okay, we're looking around the room,

832
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Speaker 8: it's it's I'm not feeling this out. You know, there's

833
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:55,280
Speaker 8: too much going on, babies overstimulating, I mean, she's crying whatever.

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Speaker 3: Maybe maybe then we go home.

835
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Speaker 8: We're like I can still show up with her, I

836
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 8: think to show support of being like I still came

837
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Speaker 8: even though I didn't have child's care, I still came

838
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Speaker 8: brought my baby.

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Speaker 3: But we're not going to be disruptive.

840
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Speaker 8: If Gij's having a meltdown or Gig's doing this or whatever,

841
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 8: we will leave. But if she falls asleep in the stroller,

842
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,439
Speaker 8: which she will because it'll be about it'll be nap time,

843
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 8: then maybe it won't even be no one will even

844
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Speaker 8: bet an eye because she won't You won't even hear

845
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 8: her or see her. However, I don't want to be

846
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 8: the odd girl out with the stroller. And everyone else

847
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 8: is there in their cocktail dresses, you know or whatever.

848
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:24,799
Speaker 8: You know what I mean, They're like, you know, they're

849
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 8: cute outfits, and everyone's being really serious and this is

850
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:29,399
Speaker 8: like an event, you know, for women to really help

851
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 8: them get into better places in their lives. And then

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00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,399
Speaker 8: you know, we have like a crying eighteen month old

853
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 8: next week. I just don't want to be that person.

854
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 8: But I feel like as a mother, like, would you

855
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 8: really judge another mom who still came out even though

856
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 8: she didn't have childcares, she didn't have anybody to watch

857
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 8: her kids.

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Speaker 4: It's probably the best place that you could do that

859
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,399
Speaker 4: because it's a room full of women, and I feel

860
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,879
Speaker 4: like the majority will be not all women, but will

861
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 4: get it. Yeah, I don't want them generalize, but I'm

862
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 4: not the one to ask because I think people's dogs

863
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 4: and babies should be brought everywhere and put on my lap.

864
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Speaker 4: I love you for that, so that I can sniff

865
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,720
Speaker 4: them and hold them. Yeah, and I'm talking about sniffing

866
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Speaker 4: the baby and holding the dog.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm curious some other like moms were ever in

868
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 8: the situation or what they would do. Yes, I feel

869
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 8: like it's not uncommon, But I also don't want to

870
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 8: be like judged or be that person that like, oh,

871
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 8: she bought her baby, Like I got a sitter, I

872
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 8: didn't you know, I didn't bring my kid.

873
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 3: I planned ahead.

874
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, because that's kind of what I wonder is like,

875
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 2: would there be I mean, if it were like a

876
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 2: I've heard stories about a job interview or something where

877
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 2: the sitter canceled the last minute and they show up.

878
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, I need this job, and so the

879
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 2: baby's here, and then you hear cute stories about how

880
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:33,839
Speaker 2: other people at the business will like, you know, take

881
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: care of the baby for the interview. But like if

882
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 2: you forgot, if you just weren't organized, can you just

883
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,760
Speaker 2: bring your kid anywhere? And then if you were judged,

884
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 2: would that be unfair for other people to say like, well,

885
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 2: this isn't the venue for that, and like everybody else

886
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 2: here had to figure it out.

887
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 1: I don't know.

888
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 2: I don't know the answer, but like here, if somebody

889
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 2: were to judge you for that, would they be justified.

890
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 8: Yeah, because if if I'm the planner behind this event, right,

891
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 8: and I'm the one putting in the work, the effort,

892
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:00,879
Speaker 8: the funds and everything to make this happen and bring

893
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,359
Speaker 8: all these people together, and then there's one girl then

894
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 8: listen and how to bring her crying baby? Like I

895
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 8: as a mother too, I don't know how I would

896
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 8: feel about that. I put so much into this event.

897
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:10,800
Speaker 8: It's once a year, It's an hour and a half,

898
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 8: you know, Like, plan accordingly is what I would think

899
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 8: to tell people, But it's also mean I don't plan accordingly,

900
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 8: you like, I don't know.

901
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 2: If I'm having a wedding and it's for example, and

902
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 2: this is you're right, this is a different event. It's

903
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 2: a female empowerment event. But if I have a wedding

904
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 2: and and you just forgot to get a baby's heater

905
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 2: so you show up with Gigi, I'd be annoyed. I

906
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 2: would be and I love you, but I'd be like,

907
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,959
Speaker 2: but I mean, can you just do that any time?

908
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 2: I wonder, can you just be off?

909
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 1: Whoops?

910
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 2: And then you show up with your kid? Like I

911
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 2: think the answer is probably know, But I you know,

912
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 2: what do I know?

913
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 9: Pee?

914
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 2: You got to everything here has got a calendar invite. Pee,

915
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 2: you got to read them. Sure, there's a calendar invite

916
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 2: for like can, I was about to go to the bathroom.

917
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:55,839
Speaker 2: There's a calendar invite. I was invided, I declined, but

918
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:59,240
Speaker 2: it's there, it's there. You know, you gotta read the calendar.

919
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 2: I know, any mothery phone is more Fredshell next right here,