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Speaker 1: The Nicki Gliser Podcastser here's Nikki. Hello here, I am

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. It's Nicky Glazer Podcast. I'm here

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Speaker 1: in studio in Saint Louis with Chris Convey. He's here

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Speaker 1: again today.

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Speaker 2: What's up? How's going, glaze good?

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Speaker 3: First time we talked today?

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Speaker 2: Just kidding, yeah, right, just in the kitchen. We were

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Speaker 2: just chatting in the kitchen cleaning blueberry.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we should have done the podcast of

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Speaker 1: that's what people want to hear. The amount of blueberries

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Speaker 1: that are in that bowl right now? Was there a sale?

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Speaker 1: Was there a going out of business?

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Speaker 4: I was.

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Speaker 2: My smoothie was completely ready to go, except I was

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Speaker 2: out of blueberries today. So I'd go to the store

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Speaker 2: just for blueberries. And I thought to myself, I never

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Speaker 2: want this to happen again. So I got four big

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Speaker 2: things of blueberries.

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Speaker 3: Which we're gonna see in the trash in a week.

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Speaker 2: No, no, because he goes in the freezer these Oh okay,

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Speaker 2: there's carrots are my problem.

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Speaker 3: Carrots are your problem?

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Speaker 2: And you you end up cleaning that mess up?

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Speaker 1: Yeah I do.

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Speaker 2: I will. I don't care how older dirty the carrot is.

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Speaker 1: No, doesn't care if there's a little not on it,

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Speaker 1: a little cancerous tumor. I will eat right, I'll just

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Speaker 1: scrape it off. In fact, I will not. Brian's here,

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Speaker 1: Noah's here. What's up, guys? When you're chopping carrots eating carrots,

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Speaker 1: do you have to clean off the skin because I

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Speaker 1: don't give a fuck them on the skin.

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Speaker 5: I never chop a carrot. I always get baby carrots

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Speaker 5: in a bag and they're ready to eat.

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Speaker 2: They're gross. Baby carrots are gross.

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Speaker 1: They get sly.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I just think they taste worse than real carrots.

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Speaker 1: Chris, No, Yeah, Noah.

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Speaker 6: Our friend Halla, who we mentioned yesterday on the podcast,

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Speaker 6: she's a huge carrot eater.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and she eats like.

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Speaker 1: She does, big carrot eater. We don't say that anymore.

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Speaker 1: We say hippie, dirty hippy.

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Speaker 6: She's a dirty hippie who eats a lot of carrots.

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Speaker 6: And she told me ones that baby carrots are just

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Speaker 6: like the good parts of a bad carrot.

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Speaker 5: Oh, that makes sense, that's all they are. But I've

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Speaker 5: never actually thought of doing what you just described. I

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Speaker 5: always buy frozen fruit, but I never thought about buying

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Speaker 5: blueberries fresh, washing them and then putting them in the freezer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the way I do it. I like it.

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Speaker 2: I like it that way.

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Speaker 5: That's interesting. I've never I never thought of that.

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Speaker 3: Let's walk our way through a Chris Convey smoothie.

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Speaker 1: What's going in it?

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Speaker 2: We're doing? Uh, and Brian's got a smoothie too, so

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Speaker 2: maybe we can compare.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about smoothie.

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Speaker 2: But I've actually added an ingredient from Brian. Smoothie into

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Speaker 2: mind makes my taste.

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Speaker 3: Your body feel good?

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it does my body. That's exactly

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Speaker 2: what it is, Brian, what is it? I just take

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Speaker 2: Brian's word for this. Usually I'll do like five days

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Speaker 2: of research.

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Speaker 1: That's the fifth most popular girl name right now, right

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Speaker 1: after Emma.

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Speaker 2: That's one of the dragon's names. Dragons.

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Speaker 5: The algae names are kind of like girl names. There's Spirillina.

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Speaker 5: There's Clorella, which could also be a girl's name. Gorgeous name,

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Speaker 5: gorgeous Chlorella. That's all. That's the only two.

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Speaker 2: Colrea come here, Clorilla.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe that's her name.

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Speaker 2: Into it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so blueberries, strawberries, yeah, pineapple mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: Tons of spinach, weird amount of spinach.

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Speaker 1: Probably, Well, that's the thing about spinach you got when

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Speaker 1: you're cooking it, certainly you have to use way more,

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Speaker 1: way more. When I get a side of spinach at

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Speaker 1: I don't know, a dab of siracha. Like it's like

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Speaker 1: this person who's back there cooking doesn't eat spin it,

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Speaker 1: Like they don't.

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Speaker 2: They don't get it.

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Speaker 1: They don't get it.

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Speaker 5: They're like an entire bag of spinach, like a big

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Speaker 5: gallon bag. You put that in the frying pan. That's

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Speaker 5: like one fork full of spinach.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, the amount of spinach you get caught in

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Speaker 1: your teeth, that's a half a bag of spinach.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: It's like a magic trick.

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Speaker 1: It's really, he is insane. It's it is like a magic.

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Speaker 5: That's what David Copperfield uses and make things disappears spinach.

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Speaker 3: Chris Cony is back on the health train.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, I went when Nicky and I went

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Speaker 2: to Zurich, I fell off a big time.

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Speaker 1: And that Zurich meaning not the last time we had

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Speaker 1: a layover in Zurch like Zike parents.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a month ago.

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Speaker 1: Ish, right, I don't know why I'm saying everything, but

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Speaker 1: even Zurich with my parents, everything's getting into the karma. Okay.

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Speaker 3: When we went to Zurich with my parents, you fell

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Speaker 3: off hard.

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Speaker 1: You were like.

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Speaker 3: All the time, eating healthier.

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Speaker 2: I was doing great. I was on my way. I

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Speaker 2: was well on my way. But mcdonals, because you remember this,

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Speaker 2: Glenn Powell and I were working out at the same gym.

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Speaker 3: Well, this is now five years ago.

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Speaker 2: In twenty nineteen, twenty nineteen, we were working on the

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Speaker 2: same gym. We were chasing the same body at the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he got to it.

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Speaker 2: He got there first.

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Speaker 1: Not only did get there first, he kept it well

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Speaker 1: he is. He held onto it. It's not like a

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Speaker 1: trophy that gets to switch back and forth. It's like

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Speaker 1: it's a lay. He won it forever. Well, before where

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Speaker 1: were together. I was close.

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Speaker 2: We were Glenn Powell and I were neck and neck.

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Speaker 2: He he knows.

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Speaker 3: I'd love to be neck and neck.

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Speaker 1: Sounds better.

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Speaker 2: He and I were working out the same gym, This

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Speaker 2: great gym Ultimate Performance. If anybody wants to in LA,

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Speaker 2: I think we've got gyms all over the country, look

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Speaker 2: up Ultimate Performance. They are the real deal. They will

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Speaker 2: get you there, Glenn pal.

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Speaker 1: If you would have ruined your life and ruined your

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Speaker 1: social life and make your whole existence about counting macros

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Speaker 1: and reps.

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Speaker 2: And well, you know you want to change things.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. It's just I just don't think it's sustainable.

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Speaker 1: But I also I like I like this. It's about

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Speaker 1: a goal. It's not sustainable. But I didn't know what

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Speaker 3: I still don't know.

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Speaker 1: And especially when I go to Europe and they got

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Speaker 1: cake cows written on everything.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Cat.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it'll be like there's two thousand k cows in

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Speaker 1: this and I go, what the fuck is that? And

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Speaker 1: I know we shouldn't care about calories and we should

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Speaker 1: just listen to our bodies and feel like when we're

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Speaker 1: full and just eat the Intuitively. I can't do it, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I can't do it. I do pay attention to calories.

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Speaker 1: I can't erase it for my brain.

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Speaker 5: My high school chemistry teacher taught me a song to

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Speaker 5: remember what calories are, to the tune of I Forgot.

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Speaker 5: Actually I don't know what the original song is, but

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Speaker 5: I can.

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Speaker 1: Say calories are how much heat it takes to burn

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Speaker 1: one molecule of that isn't that it?

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Speaker 5: Oh calorie, Oh calorie, raise one gramma of water one degree.

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Speaker 5: I get a Christmas tree.

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Speaker 1: That's good. Really, So one calorie is what it takes

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Speaker 1: to raise one gramma of will water one degree.

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Speaker 5: That's right, And that you missus McCann.

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Speaker 1: It's too many degrees of water being raised one degree

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Speaker 1: makes you fat for some reason. Don't understand that it's energy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it's all about energy. Calorie is a

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Speaker 5: measurement of energy, and you get calories from eating, you know,

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Speaker 5: foods and nutrients. It's all about burning.

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Speaker 2: It's burning.

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Speaker 5: It's all about burning. Look, i'm those scientists. I just

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Speaker 2: But when when you go to McDonald's and they added

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Speaker 2: the calories, like in the nineties or whenever, I remember

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Speaker 2: being like, what is all what are all these numbers?

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Speaker 2: And I never learned.

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Speaker 5: I never caved.

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Speaker 3: I love my life.

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Speaker 1: Before I understood nutritional facts, before I would look at

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Speaker 3: It was like before I knew what cursive was.

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Speaker 1: I used to look at my mom's handwriting and be like,

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Speaker 1: there was there was this world that I wasn't a

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad I am not expected to know what

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Speaker 1: part of your soul that gets broken when you are

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Speaker 1: a woman or a man that suffers with eating disorders.

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Speaker 1: When you learn about nutritional facts and you start paying

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Speaker 1: know what that stuff means and doesn't care. I have

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Speaker 1: not had pasta in twenty years. I have not intentionally.

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Speaker 1: I've eaten pasta because I've been at a party and

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Speaker 1: I didn't enjoy it. I just wanted to eat it

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Speaker 1: and be done with it. I cannot get past why

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Speaker 1: because the carb craz carb craz.

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Speaker 3: It to me is like embedded in my brain.

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Speaker 1: I know carbs do not make you fat, like I

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Speaker 1: know that that's I know, it's been totally dispelled. And

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Speaker 1: like pasta is healthy for you, and like if you

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Speaker 1: eat in moderation, it's fine. I feel crazy if I

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Speaker 1: eat a piece of pasta.

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Speaker 2: What's your stance on bread?

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Speaker 1: Same way? I mean bread is a little bit easier

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Speaker 1: for me because it's fluffy or pasta is like condensed bread,

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Speaker 2: What is pasta but condensed bread?

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Speaker 1: And it's a sickening thing to have this. But I

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Speaker 1: was even talking about it with my pasta gross, you know,

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Speaker 1: and I hear it has a lot of chemicals in it.

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Speaker 2: Za gross.

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Speaker 1: It's also TikTok where it was like had the most

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Speaker 1: tuxic pasta like it was, Yeah, it's.

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Speaker 2: Same like bamboo sheets. People are like, oh, bamboo sheets,

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Speaker 2: this is all exciting the amount of chemicals they have

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Speaker 2: to do to break that down.

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Speaker 1: And then you got those pandas sneaking in your room

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Speaker 1: at night to snatch your sheets, and you wake up

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Speaker 4: You know it'll be okay. Right, that sort of stuff

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Speaker 1: Maybe if we know the monastic chance behind it, really, Ah,

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Speaker 1: why don't you just like modify this to make it

445
00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,920
Speaker 1: easier and opposed to giving up, and that really helped

446
00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,240
Speaker 1: me get through the whole thing as opposed to like

447
00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:46,040
Speaker 1: it has to be all or nothing. Yeah, just slow

448
00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:47,840
Speaker 1: down a little bit, like if you're on a treadmill,

449
00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:50,919
Speaker 1: just start walking and get through a couple songs and

450
00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:52,800
Speaker 1: go okay, and a couple songs. If I still don't

451
00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:55,840
Speaker 1: like this, then but just just take it, don't. You

452
00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:58,280
Speaker 1: don't have to meet yourself where you were yesterday all

453
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Speaker 1: the time sometimes like.

454
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Speaker 2: Emotionally, what do you mean? What do you mean by that?

455
00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:03,119
Speaker 1: Like if you were if I was on the treadmill

456
00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:04,600
Speaker 1: yesterday and I did this workout and it's like, oh,

457
00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:06,080
Speaker 1: I should be able to repeat that every day. That

458
00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:08,080
Speaker 1: was a hard core, like I might not have it

459
00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:10,000
Speaker 1: the next day because my hormones are in bounced. I

460
00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,440
Speaker 1: didn't get enough sleep. I'm just like emotionally not there.

461
00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:15,240
Speaker 1: Like I can do I don't have to repeat. Just

462
00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:17,399
Speaker 1: because I did that yesterday, I should be able to

463
00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:20,600
Speaker 1: do it today. Like, no, it's okay, today's different. I'm different.

464
00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:21,960
Speaker 2: Do you have a tendency to because I have a

465
00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:24,200
Speaker 2: tendency to negotiate with myself in those moments. So that's

466
00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:26,200
Speaker 2: why I think that one hits me, like I will

467
00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,760
Speaker 2: be like I'll do to tomorrow or I'll make it.

468
00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:30,960
Speaker 1: Oh, I do the I'll do to tomorrow all the

469
00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:35,000
Speaker 1: time tomorrow. Literally never ever doubled up the next day

470
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Speaker 1: on anything.

471
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Speaker 3: Yeah that I've ever promised myself.

472
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Speaker 1: We got to go to break, and I promise I'll

473
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Speaker 1: give way more on the next break or on the

474
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Speaker 1: next double. Yeah, I'm gonna double up and it's gonna

475
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Speaker 1: be even better because I was kind of slowing down

476
00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:52,399
Speaker 1: this first one. Okay, we'll be right back and then

477
00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:59,480
Speaker 1: we're back. So we almost bought a house. Oh we were.

478
00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:01,439
Speaker 1: We've been like looking for a house because we got

479
00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:03,679
Speaker 1: a dog and I've been talking about it. You know,

480
00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:06,239
Speaker 1: we want that yard and that's been the big and

481
00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:08,199
Speaker 1: we're just kind of like bursting at the seams with

482
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:14,719
Speaker 1: crap in every room and we are ready and I

483
00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:17,840
Speaker 1: am ready. And we were looking at a house and

484
00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:19,679
Speaker 1: it's bricks.

485
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Speaker 6: St.

486
00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:22,040
Speaker 5: Louis houses have bricks on the.

487
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was most beautiful, beautiful painted brick was kind

488
00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:31,119
Speaker 2: of known for was it was it brick?

489
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,560
Speaker 1: I don't you could ask me about this house, and

490
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:36,720
Speaker 1: I promise you, I don't know. We saw this house

491
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:37,720
Speaker 1: for ten minutes.

492
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:38,880
Speaker 2: What was the roof made?

493
00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:40,640
Speaker 3: Well, and now I know what the roof was. It's

494
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:46,240
Speaker 3: called give me the first letter. It's called.

495
00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:51,679
Speaker 1: Shake shake. Yeah. Yeah, it's a shake wooden roof that

496
00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:55,400
Speaker 1: has to be replaced every one hundred years, sixty sixty

497
00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:58,119
Speaker 1: to one hundred years. And so we was going to

498
00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:00,240
Speaker 1: use the house eighty three, so it was going to

499
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,240
Speaker 1: be needed to be replaced eighty one.

500
00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, around right right around in the eighties or.

501
00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:06,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's gonna be you have to be replaced

502
00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:11,080
Speaker 1: the next ten years or so probably, but that was yeah,

503
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:20,400
Speaker 1: so it could be president or not. And then we uh, yeah,

504
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 1: we we saw it for like ten minutes because we

505
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,119
Speaker 1: only we had to tour it right before we were

506
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Speaker 1: going to the airport to go to Europe. Little did

507
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:29,680
Speaker 1: we know we didn't need to rush to the airport.

508
00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:31,880
Speaker 1: We could have just I mean.

509
00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 2: Little little did you know?

510
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:36,360
Speaker 5: What do you mean?

511
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:37,639
Speaker 2: Well, I knew we had time.

512
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,680
Speaker 1: No, I mean like we had way more time because

513
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:42,440
Speaker 1: it took us like three days to get to Europe.

514
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, sorry.

515
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:48,240
Speaker 1: So we we rushed through the house, which actually I.

516
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 2: Liked every time we see a house, it should be

517
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:53,560
Speaker 2: right before NICKI has to get to these.

518
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,359
Speaker 3: I love having an out like we gotta go.

519
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,520
Speaker 1: We had not time to chat like I got and

520
00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 1: I really didn't need any more time. I didn't feel

521
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 1: like this is I wish I could see it again.

522
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:05,919
Speaker 1: Oh my god, whatever the dog's doing right now is

523
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,800
Speaker 1: really good. I didn't feel like I needed much more.

524
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, this is this is good. I

525
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:12,719
Speaker 1: get a sense of it. I'm someone who can make

526
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 1: a decision really quickly.

527
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, how big is the house? How many bedrooms?

528
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:18,919
Speaker 1: It was like four.

529
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,400
Speaker 2: Bedrooms, thirty eight hundred square feet.

530
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:22,080
Speaker 5: That's pretty big.

531
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but it's it's it felt like yeah big,

532
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,439
Speaker 2: but within the it felt like a smaller house, but

533
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:30,880
Speaker 2: it wasn't.

534
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,159
Speaker 1: It's hard because we're going to get a really nice house,

535
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:35,720
Speaker 1: but we don't have a family, and like Saint Louis,

536
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,440
Speaker 1: all their houses are like for people with family.

537
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,399
Speaker 2: Dining room, here's where the kids are. Here's that.

538
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 3: I'm never gonna throw a dinner party.

539
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:44,399
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna.

540
00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,159
Speaker 3: Use a stone like Chris.

541
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Speaker 1: We're gonna learn to cook.

542
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 5: Like you know, you have the girls.

543
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 3: Girls trip, we are gonna go to Serina's. What are

544
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:52,639
Speaker 3: we doing like this?

545
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 2: Like? No, this house would have been perfect for girls trips.

546
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 1: Actually yeah, but I don't want to be at my

547
00:22:58,040 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 1: house on a girl's trip.

548
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Speaker 3: No offense to my girls. I just I want to

549
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 3: go for my This.

550
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 2: Was your birthday party, like you know, three or four

551
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 2: months ago. This house would have been great for that.

552
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. That's true. Yeah, there's there's a pool.

553
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 1: There was a tennis court.

554
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 5: Are you kidding at this house?

555
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:15,240
Speaker 4: Yeah?

556
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, tennis court, yes, tennis.

557
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,200
Speaker 2: I do not play tennis.

558
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,159
Speaker 1: But I was going to because the only reason I

559
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 1: realized the only reason I don't play tennis is because

560
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,120
Speaker 1: ever since I was a child and my dad would

561
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 1: take me up to the tennis court, I am so

562
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 1: embarrassed about being bad at tennis, and when you're bad

563
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 1: at tennis, it's not just about other people at the

564
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 1: tennis court might see you being bad, that's one thing,

565
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 1: but when you're bad, it affects their game because your

566
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 1: balls flying over into their court. So like, I can't

567
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: stand being bad in front of people, and then I

568
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 1: also can't stand that my badness is going to impact

569
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 1: their goodness, and so I would never go. So this

570
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I can maybe learn to

571
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: be good at tennis enough.

572
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 3: This is like with pilates.

573
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 1: I had to go privately to get in shape good

574
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Speaker 1: enough to go take it in front of people in

575
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:00,719
Speaker 1: a clase.

576
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 5: So I took.

577
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: Privates and now I don't take privates anymore because I

578
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 1: know what I'm doing. So this would have been privates

579
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 1: for me. Even tennis lessons privates, well, even lessons which

580
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 1: I did take as a kid. You would be practicing,

581
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 1: you would have your tennis lesson and in front of

582
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 1: private tennis lesson at a court where other people were playing,

583
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: so people still were witnessing it.

584
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 3: It's too embarrassing.

585
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: I don't like it.

586
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 5: You can also actually have extra lines on there and

587
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 5: making it into a pickleball court, so you can play

588
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 5: what I'm talking about.

589
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 1: I definitely thought about that.

590
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:33,119
Speaker 2: It was a different kind of.

591
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 5: Material, ah, the wrong material.

592
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

593
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 2: But the house was great. It was perfect, and in

594
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 2: the end it didn't work out and it was like

595
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:44,119
Speaker 2: perfectly like down the priced all the things that that

596
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 2: ended up happening. We were like, we would be happy

597
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 2: if it happened and happy if it didn't happen.

598
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 3: I got a little bit into a war.

599
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 2: Well there was there's something going on, and I guess

600
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,959
Speaker 2: Ark bought it somebody else. You know, we went up

601
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 2: pretty high on yeah, like a really decent amount, like

602
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 2: twenty five percent. It's pretty good, and we thought.

603
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 5: We got a cash it's a mortgage or that's all.

604
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 2: No, well whatever it is. But we were we put

605
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 2: together a good offer and they end up going with

606
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 2: somebody else. But it was like I was, I was

607
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 2: like forty one. I was like fifty one forty nine

608
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 2: on the whole deal.

609
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 3: Me too, And I feel like that's.

610
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 2: But the house is perfect. That was perfect, perfect, it's closer.

611
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: You know. Really excited about though, is that we get

612
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:30,400
Speaker 1: to do this all over again because.

613
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 2: You were excited about that.

614
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do now, I really I don't.

615
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to spend a lot of time looking

616
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 1: at houses, and I don't. I've already talked about the podcast.

617
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:40,119
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk to realtors. I don't want

618
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:41,440
Speaker 1: to pretend I like a place. I don't want to

619
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 1: have to do the schmoozy shit. I hate that, and

620
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 1: I've been told that it really is exhausting, and I

621
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: and I and I don't. I'm not apologizing. I do

622
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: not like it, and it's the way it should be.

623
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,439
Speaker 1: We shouldn't have to be fake nice to people that

624
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 1: are selling something that's millions of dollars. I shouldn't have

625
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: to justify why I don't like it. I should be

626
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 1: able to just be like nope and then turn and leave,

627
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:02,879
Speaker 1: and no one should be like she's a bitch, Like

628
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,400
Speaker 1: it's not. It's okay that I don't like something that's

629
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 1: three million dollars.

630
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 2: But you're coming up with that idea that you have

631
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 2: to schmooze with the.

632
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 1: Real because everyone that comes with me does like when

633
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 1: we view a house, well, we're just you're being nice.

634
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 2: Well no, I mean you're just being a human being.

635
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:23,439
Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm not like like becoming some different person

636
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 2: than it's like I'm just being like, oh I like this,

637
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 2: I like that. Oh this isn't going to work for us?

638
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:31,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, I I get that. I that's the

639
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: part that I just I just when I want to leave,

640
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 1: I just want to leave and I don't want anything.

641
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 5: I have a hack hack because I did that this weekend.

642
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,959
Speaker 5: I I was walking my dog and I know there

643
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 5: was an open house around the corner from me, and

644
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 5: I always go to the open houses to see how

645
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 5: much you know they cost.

646
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, and just to like snoop around see how they.

647
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 5: Before I walked into the open house, I called my

648
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 5: dad and I was on the phone with my dad

649
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,919
Speaker 5: when I walked in, So when the realtor stood up,

650
00:26:57,920 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 5: I was like, Hi, I'm on the phone. I just

651
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,159
Speaker 5: want to see look around and see you have a

652
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 5: sheet and that They couldn't say anything to me.

653
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 1: They can't you I'm on the phone, like I'm.

654
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 5: On the phone my dad. But I wanted to see

655
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 5: the place. And I was in and out in like

656
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 5: five minutes.

657
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: That's so good.

658
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 5: It worked great, and outside my dog with me. But

659
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 5: three point four million dollars this house was how mnuch

660
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 5: your feet hold? I will go get talk amongst yourselves.

661
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 5: I'll get that sheet because this is this is, let me.

662
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 1: Say, believable talking on the phone thing I can't do

663
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: because I'm usually touring it with my Raildor and Chris

664
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: and like one of our moms, So that wi't work.

665
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you don't enjoy it.

666
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: The car is good.

667
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 2: You don't enjoy this process as much as the rest

668
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 2: of us too. Like my mom is a house guy.

669
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 2: Your mom is a real estate person. Total house guy. Yeah,

670
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 2: me house guy. We love houses. I would go. I

671
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 2: would go look at new houses every day of the

672
00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,160
Speaker 2: week if I had the time.

673
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 1: That and what I like Zillow. I'm a Zillow house girl.

674
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: I like looking at quick pictures. I like looking at

675
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: aerial shots. I like sending links and looking at links,

676
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 1: going and touring the house. If we're alone with our

677
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: us four, even if you guys are house people, I

678
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: could stay all day. But like being watched by someone

679
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: who either lives there or someone who's showing the place.

680
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel nervous.

681
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 2: Who's so you think they've got expectations of you and

682
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 2: you that you have to meet. But we're just looking

683
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 2: at a house.

684
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, But but Noah, what were you just saying?

685
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: Who is home?

686
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 6: I think that's so awkward if anyone is home, Like

687
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 6: when you.

688
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 1: Try to babysit and the parents would be home while

689
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: you babysit. It's like me, I'm not gonna do anything weird.

690
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 1: Just trust speed.

691
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 2: It's the real estate agent and that's that's. Oh god,

692
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 2: It's totally typical.

693
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 3: And they're always nice.

694
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: They're always just like, I'm gonna leave you guys alone,

695
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: and they kind of just go sit in a room

696
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: and like scroll on their phones, which is like, so

697
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:00,479
Speaker 1: the way this it's fine.

698
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 3: It's all my own shit.

699
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: This is not something that anyone who's listening in the

700
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 1: Saint Louis area who's like, well, I'm going to show

701
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: a house to Nikki and she's gonna hate that I'm there.

702
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 1: It's not that this is my own stuff that I'm

703
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: putting on it. That is not your problem.

704
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 2: I don't think any of these people they do this

705
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 2: hundreds of times a year. I don't think they're taking

706
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 2: anything personally about a house that isn't theirs that they're

707
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 2: trying to sell. That's a good point, Like they're not

708
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 2: like they're they're like, wait, you don't think the breakfast

709
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 2: nook is big enough.

710
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: Here's my problem is sometimes I walk into a house

711
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 1: and I know right away I hate it and I

712
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: will never want to be in it, and then I

713
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 1: have to walk through the rest of it, and that

714
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: is the problem.

715
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:41,959
Speaker 2: Well, do you want to in those situations? Would you

716
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 2: just want to leave and let me and your mom

717
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 2: go through it?

718
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: Yes? But no, because then you guys will be like

719
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 1: I predict you guys will be like, she's such a

720
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: stick in the mud and she's doing this like obstinate

721
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: teenager thing of like like why can't she just tough

722
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: it out? And so I'll just tough it out. But

723
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 1: I will say that I some times like I just

724
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: don't like doing anything. I'm like Kim Ktrol, I don't

725
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 1: want to do anything for even a second that I

726
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: don't want to do right, But which is a bratty

727
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 1: thing to say.

728
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 2: But I think you're also not realizing that it's a

729
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 2: learning experience to go through houses to see what you

730
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 2: do and don't like about it. So if you go

731
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 2: into the first room and say I'm never going to

732
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 2: get this house, you're missing out on an opportunity to

733
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 2: learn about other things that you might like about it.

734
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 3: That's a good point. That's a good point.

735
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 1: I guess I would like to say I hate it,

736
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 1: and I want everyone to know that we're just now

737
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: going through this to learn things, and we're not we're

738
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 1: not entertaining getting this, and I'm not going to pretend

739
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: that I want to ina getting it.

740
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 2: It's so unnecessary, it's like completely unnecessary. But why do

741
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,719
Speaker 2: you want Why do you have the urge to be like,

742
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 2: just so everybody here knows I'm not getting this house

743
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 2: when that doesn't matter to anybody in that moment. Okay,

744
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 2: it's the same thing the matter to zero people. And

745
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 2: then at the end of you be like, I'm not

746
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 2: interested in It's like okay, cool.

747
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 1: It's the same thing as first dates, Like I wanted,

748
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 1: I need this person to know I will never be

749
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 1: with them, like I I but tough like sticking on.

750
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 1: That's why I didn't go on dates, because I think

751
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 1: this person I will know immediately and if I have

752
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: to stay after I know, it's no it feels and

753
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to compare it to this like a little

754
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: bit of a rape, no much micro micro' doing something

755
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: against your will, sexual harassment.

756
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 3: Well, that's what That's what micro rape as well.

757
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 1: Like I'm saying it is, you are enduring something that

758
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 1: you don't want and that you actively just doing it

759
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: for niceties.

760
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 3: What you're doing it to be nice.

761
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 5: There are.

762
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 3: They're not as funny and give me a break.

763
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: God, you guys are gonna get me canceled by your reactions.

764
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 3: I obviously don't think that walking.

765
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 1: Through a house I don't want is akin to rape.

766
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that it's I'm making a joke, but

767
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 1: I do think that it is a micro It's a

768
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: feeling that is on the spectrum where the rape is

769
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 1: like miles and miles thousands of miles on the one side.

770
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: And then walking through a house you don't like and

771
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 1: having to endure something you don't want to do and

772
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: you already know you don't want to do and you're

773
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 1: only doing it because you're scared or because you're being nice,

774
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 1: is on the spectrum.

775
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 5: Final answer, Yes, No, there's a lot of things like

776
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 5: the comedian and sometimes.

777
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: I make comparisons that are bonkers. Yeah, like the other day,

778
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: fat person.

779
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 5: I mean sometimes I feel like, you know, I'm walking

780
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,719
Speaker 5: around my shoes ontied. I got to bend over and

781
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 5: tie it, and I'm like, this is like a rape.

782
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: No, it's not the same way. They're not tying your

783
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: shoe because you're scared. I mean maybe you are. You're

784
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: scared of tripping. You're not tying your shoe because you're

785
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 1: trying to appease someone else. Maybe yeah, if you're walking

786
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: to a restaurant and they're like sure, Like that's the

787
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 1: reason I got mad at a golf course when they're like,

788
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: you can't come in and play because you don't have

789
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 1: a collared shirt.

790
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 3: I was like, if I went out and bought a collared.

791
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 1: Shirt, It's like it fade in with these people, Like

792
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: that is an indignity. I don't want to suffer, and

793
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 1: I feel it makes me hate myself that I'm giving

794
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 1: into this thing I don't even like because I'm trying

795
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: to fit in and be nice and not get it.

796
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 5: Is funny. There's a size like a character who has

797
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 5: dealt a minor inconvenience. Then they respond by going, you're

798
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 5: ripping me.

799
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 1: Well, okay, I will say that. Into the woods there

800
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: is a the Witch's wrap. She goes he was rooting

801
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 1: through my rude bag, goes rating my Arugala ripping up

802
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: the RAPI and my champion, my favorite and in.

803
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:31,479
Speaker 3: It she goes, he was me raping me, she says it.

804
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: And so that is why I feel like it is

805
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:37,719
Speaker 1: a term that I can just Obviously, if I had

806
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: been raped, I probably wouldn't make these jokes. I haven't been.

807
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 1: I know that I could be. I know that I'm

808
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: lucky that I haven't. I'm not minimizing rape. I am

809
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: if you have been, Please don't take offense that I'm

810
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 1: saying this. I am obviously making a joke. But yes,

811
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 1: I think that if you looked up the definition of rape,

812
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 1: this would fit in it.

813
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 6: Well, actually I just looked up the definition of rape

814
00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 6: and it's the second definition is an outrageous violationation.

815
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 3: Okay, so I said it's a micro rape.

816
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: So it is a micro outageous violation.

817
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 6: Or it's a micro act or instance of robbing or

818
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 6: despoiling or carrying away a person by force.

819
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 3: Okay, I feel force.

820
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:23,279
Speaker 2: And yes, I prefer the word in dignity.

821
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 1: I know I'm a.

822
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 2: Big these there's constantly weird face with these just small

823
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 2: little yes, I have to use it instead of little

824
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: you have to say whittle wittle.

825
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 5: Rapes every single day we're dealing with.

826
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 1: No, I'm offended.

827
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 5: Speaking of rapes. I do have this the sheet from

828
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 5: this house.

829
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 1: Yell how many square feet? What are we dealing with?

830
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:51,479
Speaker 5: So zero point sixteen acres for the lot. The entire

831
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 5: lot is points of fine which small. That's small.

832
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: I do not know what an acre was is like

833
00:34:57,640 --> 00:34:59,839
Speaker 1: songs about Okay, okay.

834
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 5: The proximen square feet of the house is twenty six hundred.

835
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:09,280
Speaker 5: It's four bedrooms, five bathrooms, single family duplex. No pool,

836
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 5: hardly a backyard.

837
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 1: Does it say no pool?

838
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 5: It does? It literally says I'll show it, says pool. No,

839
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:17,720
Speaker 5: I don't want to Actually, I don't want.

840
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: To show the honey.

841
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, it says pool.

842
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:19,839
Speaker 6: No.

843
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 5: Three point four million dollars. This is better saying real

844
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 5: That's unacceptable in America for houses to cost that much.

845
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 1: Oh, I mean, like that's some good real estate though,

846
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 1: like is in Culver City, like so nice and so

847
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 1: safe and.

848
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 5: It is, But three point four million dollars, that's like

849
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 5: that's a that should be a mansion. You can go

850
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 5: to you know, uh uh Ventura and get a mansion

851
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 5: for three point four million dollars. Why are we why

852
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:54,280
Speaker 5: is this house this duplex single floor, one floor duplex

853
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 5: that's only slightly bigger than my apartment four million dollars?

854
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:00,760
Speaker 3: Understand millions of dollars?

855
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 1: Like it doesn't make sense to me when it's when

856
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 1: we were like going up on price for this house,

857
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, let's just go blank, point blank,

858
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 1: and I was just adding points to it.

859
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, not even like and I just loved the point.

860
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 1: I won't get. I didn't get a T shirt because

861
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,720
Speaker 1: it's like forty I think it's ten dollars too much.

862
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 1: Yet I was just throwing points on to this house

863
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 1: that I've seen for ten minutes.

864
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 2: Nicky's concept of money is like completely hilarious, Like she, yeah,

865
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 2: she won't buy a T shirt that feels overpriced, but

866
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 2: then we'll have no problem adding points to a million

867
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 2: when it comes to the house.

868
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: Problem does even does it even bat an eye equal

869
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 1: money to me? Like it just is like it's it's.

870
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 5: So also like a future expense. It's like it's not

871
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 5: really concrete.

872
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 1: And I do know that now. It's like if I

873
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: know that, obviously I could resell this house. Like it's

874
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 1: just me put my bank is now this house. I

875
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 1: finally understand this concept of like I'm not actually money,

876
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 1: it's just like a concept of the money. And it's

877
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:04,359
Speaker 1: just if my money was in the stock market, which

878
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:06,839
Speaker 1: it is, it's just as risky, if not more than

879
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:07,800
Speaker 1: putting it in this house.

880
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 2: It's all risk. It's all risk management. That's the entire

881
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 2: thing about investing.

882
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, well, but like sa are the safest investment. Oh

883
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 6: real estate? Yeah, real estate.

884
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean everyone knows that.

885
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: I just was scared of getting a house because of

886
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: like maintenance and stuff and like having to call a

887
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: tree trimmorments and commitments. But this one I could, I

888
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 1: knew I could. You could just sell it, like you

889
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 1: can get out of it. And also it didn't have

890
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,240
Speaker 1: a basement. And I feel like most of my friends

891
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,760
Speaker 1: who have house issues it emanates in the basement.

892
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:41,320
Speaker 2: They're always talking about the basement.

893
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 1: It's flooding, it's too dry, there's mold, there's mice. By

894
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:49,320
Speaker 1: the way, can I just say, if you are someone

895
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: who's dealing with mice or any kind of rodent situation

896
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: in your house, if you get a sticky trap, you're

897
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 1: the worst person, a serial killer, You're a horrible Do

898
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 1: not get I know that glue traps are readily available.

899
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 1: You're a masochist, you're a bad person. Just get an

900
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: instant kill thing if you want to kill them. I

901
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:15,840
Speaker 1: just bought Taylor a bunch of humane mouse traps.

902
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:17,919
Speaker 2: Have you seen the ones where they just go into

903
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 2: a bucket and they like, they just climb up a

904
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 2: ramp to a bucket and then they just go.

905
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 3: Poop like warrior?

906
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, stunt.

907
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:27,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

908
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 5: I have one that they like a piece of cheese

909
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 5: and then like a marble goes down a shoot and

910
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 5: then spins around a thing and then it goes that's

911
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 5: fun and then eventually a cage drops on them.

912
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: Okay, go video. Yeah, just don't get glue traps. But yes,

913
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: I think most of the problems, well this is just

914
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 1: just no basement. And I liked that because no basement,

915
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: there's no kids coming over being like can we come playing?

916
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: Like a basement's just like you're a house for kids.

917
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 2: Yeah right, yeah, it kind of it was like it

918
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,799
Speaker 2: would prevent us from having kids.

919
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 3: Or getting murdered down there, Like.

920
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:03,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'd never get murdered.

921
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 5: Every horror movie, you know, you dye someone's dying in

922
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 5: the basement.

923
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 1: I mean absolutely there's there's' they're murky, they're mysterious.

924
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 5: When I was in college, I had a house that

925
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 5: I lived in with four other guys, and there was

926
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 5: this vent that I guess this doesn't really have a

927
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 5: lot to do with basements, but this would remind me

928
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 5: of There was this vent in the kitchen on the

929
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 5: kitchen floor, which I guess had something to do with

930
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,719
Speaker 5: the air system, and whenever we would have house parties,

931
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 5: somebody would pee into the vent inevitably and that would

932
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 5: go down to the basement. Oh, this is what your

933
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 5: this is what you pay your kids to go to

934
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 5: college to do.

935
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: It's college houses are disgusting, the stories and things that happened.

936
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 5: No, I mean, I can't believe I slept in that

937
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 5: house when there were like every couple of weekends someone

938
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 5: would be pissing in.

939
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: The air vent and that was just a given.

940
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, And how many people have peed in the air

941
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 5: vents over the decades this house has been there. It

942
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 5: was considered the party house because the address it was

943
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 5: right across the street from campus and the address three

944
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 5: two It was three two one, and everyone called it

945
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 5: the three two to one house. And when we first

946
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:09,239
Speaker 5: moved into the house. Random dudes would show up to

947
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 5: our house with beer and be like what's going on

948
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 5: and be like, what are you talking about? It like

949
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 5: party time, because it was like established this house was

950
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 5: the party house, and we had to re establish the

951
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 5: culture of the house and say only parties when we

952
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:23,360
Speaker 5: throw the parties.

953
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 3: So you would go in that basement to clean up

954
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 3: the piss.

955
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 1: We would do nothing.

956
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 5: People would just piss in the event and be like, well,

957
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 5: there's nothing we can do in the kitchen. It would

958
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 5: go into the event and then into the basement.

959
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:41,360
Speaker 1: What's your policy on peeing in public? Like, you would

960
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 1: never do that. I can't imagine you would do it

961
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 1: in a way that anyone would ever see you do it.

962
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 1: Because we were at the fish show and in the

963
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 1: parking garage at five pm at night, six pm at

964
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: night was a guy was pissing. And I saw at

965
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 1: SLEW which is Saint Louis University on campus. I saw

966
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 1: a grown man pissing and I saw the tip of

967
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:04,800
Speaker 1: his penis. I saw his penis as he was holding it.

968
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 1: It was so and I just gave him a disgusted look.

969
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: I think he was already drunk, So I guess drunkenness

970
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 1: plays a part in this. But it is cool that

971
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 1: you guys can do that anywhere and just let it go,

972
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 1: like empty your bladders wherever. But totally disgusting. I couldn't

973
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 1: believe I had to see that was vile, vile. Yeah,

974
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: but it is nice that you can do it.

975
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 2: It's one of the greatest things about being a guy.

976
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:31,320
Speaker 1: I would say, I would think so, but we didn't

977
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,279
Speaker 1: get the house. And I'm I am happy. I know

978
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 1: you're like, what, No, you're not. I am happy to

979
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 1: look at Zillow yeah, links and to like, now it

980
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: opens up a world because now I know what our

981
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 1: limit is. Yes, now, and we went a little bit

982
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 1: above what I thought was safe to go, and now

983
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, let's look in this range.

984
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:51,839
Speaker 6: Yeah.

985
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:53,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it kind of changed the range. I mean, we

986
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 2: did learn that to get something that we love is

987
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 2: going to take a little bit more than what we

988
00:41:58,760 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 2: wanted to do.

989
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:03,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's always the case. You always got to

990
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 5: pay a little bit more.

991
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 1: You know what I'm looking for in a house, Like

992
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: what my number one requirement is? I want a balcony.

993
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, balconies are amazing.

994
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,879
Speaker 1: I love just being in my room and being able

995
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 1: to step out of the balcony balcony and have like

996
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 1: an alone moment or even with you, like but like

997
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,439
Speaker 1: having a little it's like a room of one's own

998
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 1: because we're going to share a bedroom, but like a balcony,

999
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 1: I feel like would be like like just a place

1000
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 1: where I can go and just get it.

1001
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:30,759
Speaker 3: I don't know, I just why do I want a

1002
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:31,839
Speaker 3: balcony so you can.

1003
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 5: Be outside without putting shoes on and just kind of

1004
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 5: outside for a little bit. Doesn't have to be a

1005
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 5: whole thing.

1006
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 2: Well, that actually leads into totally. That leads into something

1007
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:43,880
Speaker 2: we were just talking about. Oh yeah, being outside like

1008
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 2: without the effort of any outdoorsiness at all.

1009
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 3: Yes, getting some fresh air without.

1010
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: Having to leave the house or own anything from ARII yeah, yes,

1011
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 1: we will get to that in a second. Because on

1012
00:42:56,840 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: girls Chut today there was inspired by my therapy. I

1013
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:04,799
Speaker 1: was I'm really focusing on why. Well, we'll talk about

1014
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: what we get back. I don't need to get into

1015
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 1: it now, we'll be right back.

1016
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:09,280
Speaker 4: Okay.

1017
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: So I was in therapy yesterday and I was talking

1018
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 1: about a thing that I've talked about this podcast a ton,

1019
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 1: which is like being down on myself because I'm not

1020
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 1: like other people and I just wish I liked things

1021
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: that I don't like, which is always boggled Chris Conby's.

1022
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:27,879
Speaker 2: It makes no sense to me why.

1023
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 1: It's like I don't like things you don't like.

1024
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 2: Unique to a certain type of person. And then maybe

1025
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 2: just girls Chat, I don't know if everybody on girls.

1026
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 1: Chat, No, no one does.

1027
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 2: Nobody, no, everyone is a little bit like that.

1028
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 1: She yes, it's me and Sara Lena. I mean, yeah,

1029
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 1: I just I don't know, girl, this I just heard.

1030
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 1: I just heard our friend got cancer, and should I

1031
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 1: get cancer? I don't know, girl, it just sounds maybe

1032
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 1: I should do Like we make jokes that like, she

1033
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: just anything anyone does. She's like, maybe I should, I

1034
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: should do that.

1035
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 2: But nobody else is like that.

1036
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,399
Speaker 1: So it's me and Sara Lena. Okay, it's that those

1037
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 1: are the ones that really suffer this. Everyone else in

1038
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 1: gross chat definitely acknowledges that they don't like things, but

1039
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 1: they don't seem to want.

1040
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:08,839
Speaker 3: They don't care that they don't like.

1041
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 2: It, So explain what it is. Basically, it's like you

1042
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 2: are obsessed with one figuring out why you don't like things.

1043
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 2: That other people like it.

1044
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 1: I would. I would, because Anya was saying, like, what

1045
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 1: what is it about this? Like if you had if

1046
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:24,400
Speaker 1: you did like the outdoors and you did like fresh

1047
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 1: linens and organizing closets and having your jewelry organized or

1048
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 1: whatever it is that you want hard like drangesh, Yeah,

1049
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: if you liked harvesting high ranges, which is something on

1050
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: you was doing the other day that I could not

1051
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 1: have felt more detached from it, and like how that

1052
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 1: would ever be something anyone would want to do or

1053
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 1: feel pride in, Like I can't connect to it at all,

1054
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 1: and it makes me feel sad.

1055
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:48,839
Speaker 3: And why is that?

1056
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 1: And I think because a girl who harvests hydranges as

1057
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:54,800
Speaker 1: someone who like is like taking their time to smell

1058
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,880
Speaker 1: things and like likes beautiful things. Thus they are beautiful,

1059
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:01,919
Speaker 1: Thus they are desirable. Yet thus they get attention from

1060
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:05,280
Speaker 1: people as being like feminine and desirable. And I feel

1061
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:07,799
Speaker 1: like that is what I want. At the bottom of

1062
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 1: it all is I want to be desirable. And why

1063
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 1: do I want to be desirable? Because being desirable gets

1064
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,919
Speaker 1: you status. Why do I want status? Because I want

1065
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,320
Speaker 1: to survive. It's just a survival thing.

1066
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 2: That seems like when you're someone.

1067
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,880
Speaker 1: Who isn't fun and feminine and everyone doesn't want to

1068
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 1: like have sex with or like, you know, being feminine

1069
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 1: is like men want to have sex with you, which

1070
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:29,759
Speaker 1: is a valuable thing. You will keep a place in

1071
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: the tribe if you are someone who's like, I don't

1072
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 1: like that stuff, like you're no fun and people go

1073
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: get out of here, old woman, and they cast you

1074
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 1: aside and you have to fend for yourself. And we

1075
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 1: know as a society, and if you are someone who

1076
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: is cast astray, you will not survive.

1077
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:47,320
Speaker 2: But that's like, that's I think that's been cynical about

1078
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 2: why people are motivated to do things Like Anya's not

1079
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 2: hasting hydranges because she is trying to cultivate a personality

1080
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 2: of somebody that likes doing it. I know, like she's

1081
00:45:58,640 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 2: doing that on her own.

1082
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 1: But well, I would say it's the same thing as

1083
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: like I'm jealous of a girl that has a tiny

1084
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 1: waist and huge tits and a perfectly proportionate hipter waist ratio.

1085
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:09,919
Speaker 2: Wait, who are you talking about?

1086
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:14,720
Speaker 1: Exactly right, it's I'm jealous of that? Why is it?

1087
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: It's not okay, But it's more socially understandable to envy

1088
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 1: a woman's eye color or hair texture than it is

1089
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: to envy her natural disposition to like a flower.

1090
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 2: Range thing totally like that. All of that makes perfect

1091
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 2: sense to me. That's why this is so perplexing is

1092
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:36,440
Speaker 2: I've never known somebody who wants to like, like, I

1093
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 2: want to play piano more, but I don't want to

1094
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:45,359
Speaker 2: want like I don't like It's so strange that you

1095
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:49,359
Speaker 2: are jealous of these desires that they have, not that

1096
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:50,479
Speaker 2: you want to do those.

1097
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: Oh interesting, I yeah, I guess there is a distinction. Well,

1098
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:57,720
Speaker 1: I think that if I know that, if I wanted

1099
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:00,399
Speaker 1: to do them, I could do them. But the thing

1100
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: that's getting me in the way of doing them is

1101
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: wanting to do them. So I want the thing that's

1102
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: going to get me to do it.

1103
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 2: But why do you even want something that you don't want.

1104
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 2: That's the thing that I don't understand.

1105
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: Because it would make me more desirable and more socially acceptable.

1106
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's it's also like you feel like,

1107
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 2: what's wrong with me that I don't want that? I

1108
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 2: think that's a bigger, a big part of it.

1109
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 3: I wrote it down in my notebook yesterday. What's wrong

1110
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 3: with me?

1111
00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, that's the next title of

1112
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: my special of my life, of my next song I'm

1113
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:32,799
Speaker 1: going to write is What's wrong with Me? Because that

1114
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: is like an underlying issue in my life of like

1115
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 1: why why, Like honestly, my parents used to ask me

1116
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: what's wrong with you all the time. It's there's something

1117
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 1: it's ingrained in me in the way that eating carbs

1118
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 1: will make me fat, even though I know it's not true,

1119
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: like there's something wrong with me that I don't like adventure,

1120
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:55,320
Speaker 1: which is something my family does value very much. In fact,

1121
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 1: my sister made a list of did I say this

1122
00:47:58,640 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 1: on the podcast yesterday?

1123
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:02,319
Speaker 2: Seven things about your dad? Yeah, seventy for seventy.

1124
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:04,320
Speaker 1: Did I say this that you did? No. My sister

1125
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 1: made a list of seventy things that you know for

1126
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 1: my dad's seventieth birthday, seventy things that we love about E. J. Glaser,

1127
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: And one of them was like, you've cultivated a love

1128
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 1: of the outdoors in your entire family, And then in

1129
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 1: parentheses it says, except well except maybe Nikki and I

1130
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 1: just felt like othered, you're weird, You're different, like it

1131
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 1: just you just put it in.

1132
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 2: I think it all stems from that stuff, because because like.

1133
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:33,399
Speaker 3: What, like no one else feels this way about me.

1134
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 2: Like to have a deficiency, to feel deficient because you

1135
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 2: don't like decorating houses like one of your friends. Every

1136
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 2: time one of your friends does something that feels interesting

1137
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 2: or even like feminine to you, you're like, why am

1138
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 2: I not like that?

1139
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:48,799
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I go right to that.

1140
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 2: It's never like oh cool Sara Lene is into like

1141
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 2: you know, old records or like you know, French music

1142
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 2: from the nineteen seventies.

1143
00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 3: No, I am like, why can't I be into that?

1144
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 6: Right?

1145
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 1: Because it seems like the thing that is most desirable

1146
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 1: about a woman is someone who's like fun. Like you

1147
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 1: even asked a question the other day of like I

1148
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 1: forget what it was. It was about like who of

1149
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:14,879
Speaker 1: your friends would you recommend for this thing? And we

1150
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: all Kirsten met me, and you all unequivalently were like,

1151
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:20,239
Speaker 1: oh Kirsten because she's the most fun. And I was

1152
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 1: just like, god, like why I would like to be

1153
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 1: the answer to that, but I'm not because I'm not fun,

1154
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 1: Like why can't I be fun? And like then I

1155
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: forced myself to be fun, and I go, you know what,

1156
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: I will go get on that roller coaster, you know,

1157
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 1: like when the other night we were at this the music,

1158
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:39,879
Speaker 1: this amazing thing called Prater in Vienna, which is an

1159
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: open air theme park like six Flags that you don't

1160
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 1: even buy a ticket, you'll buy a.

1161
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 2: Ticket to get it, and you just buy a ticket

1162
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 2: for an individual.

1163
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:48,880
Speaker 1: Run and it feels it felt so Austrian. There was

1164
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: hardly any tourist there. It was like mostly local Austrians

1165
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 1: just going out having a great time. And you go

1166
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 1: to this like cool old school carnival kind of with

1167
00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 1: all these like updated cool rides, and Chris and Matt

1168
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:04,240
Speaker 1: were going on the bungee thing and that like insane

1169
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 1: insane rides man, Like I can't even describe what they were.

1170
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 1: One was like it pulls you down like a slingshot

1171
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 1: and then it slings you into the air probably two

1172
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 1: hundred feet one hundred and fifty feet, I.

1173
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:16,960
Speaker 2: Don't really know, something like that.

1174
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:17,839
Speaker 3: And then another.

1175
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 1: One was like it's a long poll and on each

1176
00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 1: end there's like a twirling thing with eight Yeah.

1177
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:24,879
Speaker 5: I saw the videos you posted on Instagram of these rides.

1178
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 5: They looked I would now I wouldn't even look at

1179
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 5: those rides there. They would make me vomit if I.

1180
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:29,959
Speaker 1: Saw the same life.

1181
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 2: Thank you say, what are you disgusted with yourself because

1182
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 2: you don't want to be a part of those rides?

1183
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 5: Brian, No, no, I am. I'm just generally disgusted overall

1184
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 5: by the concept. I don't understand I guess I can.

1185
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:48,719
Speaker 5: I don't understand why anyone want to put themselves through that.

1186
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 1: I don't understand you don't feel disconnected to people who

1187
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 1: do and like feel like, man, I wish I was

1188
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 1: more adventurous, Like it seems like a cool thing to

1189
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 1: want to go on those rides, Like that would be

1190
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 1: a cool person that does someone who doesn't do it.

1191
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 2: But I think you're putting all You're like labeling everything

1192
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 2: is like good or bad. You do a lot of this,

1193
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 2: like it's either good or bad, it's cool or uncool

1194
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:12,120
Speaker 2: or this or that. Like somebody's just like, oh, I

1195
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:14,479
Speaker 2: just like going fast or I like going upside down,

1196
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 2: and you not going upside down doesn't make you uncool,

1197
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 2: it just.

1198
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:22,760
Speaker 3: Makes if not like any people.

1199
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:27,240
Speaker 1: We all agree the X Games are cool, Like that's cool,

1200
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 1: Tony Hawk is cool.

1201
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:30,479
Speaker 3: Someone who's like.

1202
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 1: I am scared to go fast is literally a door

1203
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:35,320
Speaker 1: that is like a door.

1204
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,840
Speaker 2: Wasn't It's not scared, you don't want to you're not

1205
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 2: interested in it.

1206
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:41,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly they get scared.

1207
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 6: I think, like if you're putting up Tony Hawk or whatever,

1208
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 6: that's more his personality. But people to me who go

1209
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 6: on these crazy rides and skydiving and all that, like

1210
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 6: I don't think very highly of them.

1211
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 3: That's so interesting.

1212
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 1: I felt so alone because we were at this restaurant

1213
00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 1: and we were overlooking this theme park and Chris and

1214
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 1: Matt are talking about which ones they wanted to go on,

1215
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 1: and I was just like, what's wrong with me that

1216
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to go on these? Like I wish

1217
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:07,839
Speaker 1: I was a cool girl that wanted to do it.

1218
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 1: No one was making me feel that way. I was

1219
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 1: choosing on my own. And then I decided to go

1220
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 1: on Instagram and post a poll of like who would

1221
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,399
Speaker 1: go on this ride and who wouldn't and who would

1222
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 1: say maybe to this? And I made it very clear

1223
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:23,319
Speaker 1: like that's why I put it maybe because I thought

1224
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 1: some people might be on the fence and I don't

1225
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 1: want them to say yes if they really wouldn't, and like,

1226
00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:31,320
Speaker 1: you know, smart, And I got back that not only

1227
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 1: am I in the majority, I am in the vast majority.

1228
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 1: I thought it would be the other way around. I

1229
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: thought I was going to be in the fifteen percent

1230
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 1: of people who wouldn't do this. I was in the

1231
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 1: seventy four to seventy six percent of people who would

1232
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 1: never do be dose.

1233
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:47,680
Speaker 5: That's not exactly an accurate poll because the focus group

1234
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 5: was your fans that well that I don't know.

1235
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 1: I feel like I have a wide birth of fans

1236
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:55,399
Speaker 1: that like different. I feel like, actually my fans are

1237
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 1: like a wide arrange. I'm like, I don't know if.

1238
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 5: You did the same poll to the followers of I

1239
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:05,200
Speaker 5: don't know, like I.

1240
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: Can feel good about myself.

1241
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 5: I'm trying to put you back down, Nicky about the

1242
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 5: point down.

1243
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to go up and down.

1244
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,840
Speaker 5: I want to stay on them spinning in a circle.

1245
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:16,840
Speaker 5: What about spinning a big circle?

1246
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,239
Speaker 1: You know, we were debating at dinner whether to go

1247
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:21,239
Speaker 1: this theme park or whether to go I was maybe

1248
00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 1: thinking of going back to the Tailor Swift sing along

1249
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 1: and actually dressing in my Tailor Swift outfit for it

1250
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: and making some videos, and Chris later on was like, oh,

1251
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:30,919
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. We went to the theme park. We should

1252
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:32,400
Speaker 1: have gone back and done your tailor swift thing. And

1253
00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:34,920
Speaker 1: I was like, I will say I wanted to. I

1254
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: like watching people go on these things and doing them,

1255
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 1: and I want to hear about it. It's like the

1256
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,359
Speaker 1: same way that I bought Matt a muffin the other

1257
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:44,839
Speaker 1: day that I really wanted, but I just couldn't bring

1258
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: myself to eat it. And I was like, can I just.

1259
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 2: Why that was a pasta muffin?

1260
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 1: Even pasta? Like, I just want to watch people eat

1261
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 1: things that I wish.

1262
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:55,279
Speaker 5: I know, it's fun to watch, it's fun to like

1263
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:58,320
Speaker 5: did I never ride any rides? If I go to

1264
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 5: Disney World, I don't ride any It's all I do

1265
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 5: is I get that turkey leg and I and I

1266
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 5: eat the turkey leg. And that's my experience at disney World.

1267
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 5: And everybody else likes to go up like Ali loves rides,

1268
00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 5: she loves all that shit, and I don't like any

1269
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 5: of it. But right, I don't know. I mean, it's uh.

1270
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:20,359
Speaker 6: Yeah, ivies, I don't Yeah, maybe that's how it is.

1271
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 5: And every time I try to do something like that,

1272
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 5: I get sick.

1273
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:28,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, okay, well I don't get sick, but

1274
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 1: I did, so I tried to be cool, and I

1275
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:32,879
Speaker 1: was like, you know, not even try to be cool.

1276
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, you actually are in

1277
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:36,799
Speaker 1: such a bad mood. Maybe a little bit of G

1278
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 1: forces would lift you out of this and just like

1279
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 1: kind of shake you up.

1280
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 2: G Force should be the name of your next special.

1281
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 5: Wow.

1282
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:46,840
Speaker 1: And so we got on this roller coaster that was

1283
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 1: honestly one that I could handle like it was Loop

1284
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:49,720
Speaker 1: D Loop.

1285
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 3: I felt like so fine about it. I wish I

1286
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 3: would have done.

1287
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 1: It, because afterwards I did get in it, I sat

1288
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 1: down and then I go nope, because I saw the

1289
00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:59,919
Speaker 1: Carnie running it and smoking a cigarette and just seem

1290
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 1: to like blackadaisical, and I just go, nope, I'm going

1291
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 1: to lose my entire family and all my loved ones.

1292
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 2: On this ride.

1293
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: Then I think it's going to kill them. But I'm

1294
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:10,359
Speaker 1: not gonna die on this. So I got off the thing.

1295
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:13,359
Speaker 1: Later on, Chris and Lauren and Matt all said that

1296
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:16,319
Speaker 1: was horrifying, like that was really tough, And now I

1297
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 1: wish I would have done it, so I could have

1298
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 1: been because I do think I could have handled it.

1299
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 4: HM.

1300
00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:26,360
Speaker 5: Lauren was shook, was shook after why why having done it?

1301
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 5: What is it really that much fun that it's worth

1302
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:29,720
Speaker 5: risking your life?

1303
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:32,720
Speaker 3: I don't it's not risking your life.

1304
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I know what the chances are of dying

1305
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:36,959
Speaker 1: on a roller coaster, and it's slim to fucking none.

1306
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 1: It's risking your life walking up to the roller coaster

1307
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 1: and maybe twisting your ankle in a way that would

1308
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: land you in the hospital, and then you get sepsis

1309
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:44,880
Speaker 1: because you're in the hospital.

1310
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 3: That's for rest final thought.

1311
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:51,080
Speaker 1: So I made a list of all the things that

1312
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 1: I because Annya was like, I really want to know,

1313
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 1: like what you wish you liked, and I just want

1314
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 1: to read my list. And then Taylor and Curson also

1315
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 1: made lists of things that they don't like. Theirs are

1316
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 1: different because they don't care that they're like this, They

1317
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Speaker 1: just don't like them. And it made me feel less alone.

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00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:06,759
Speaker 1: I thought maybe some of the listeners who felt the

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00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:09,120
Speaker 1: way I feel might feel less alone if they find

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00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:12,240
Speaker 1: out that other people also don't like these things, Because

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00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:14,359
Speaker 1: I will say one of the only people that makes

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00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:18,319
Speaker 1: me feel so good about myself is Larry David because

1323
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 1: he's made a career on not liking people or things

1324
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 1: or activities, and it's like one of the most lovable,

1325
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 1: amazing things about him.

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00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 2: But the thing that makes him lovable is he's like

1327
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:30,680
Speaker 2: completely accepted it, in owning it. The problem is you

1328
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 2: feel great shame, yes, about all of it, and I

1329
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 2: blame you, great shame my dad.

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00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:39,000
Speaker 1: But I love my dad and it's one of the

1331
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 1: seventy reasons I do love him is because he is

1332
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: I love. He loves what he loves and if you

1333
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 1: don't love it, he's completely perplexed by it and will

1334
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:51,840
Speaker 1: make you feel a little bit about it. No, he's amazing.

1335
00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:53,719
Speaker 1: My Dad's like the fucking best. I love him so much.

1336
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 1: He's going to the Emmy's with us, and he's texting

1337
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 1: me about it right now. Okay, So things I wish

1338
00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 1: I liked harvesting high dranges, clothes and good soft linens,

1339
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 1: organizing things, cooking, hiking, seeing sites, long showers, decaded body treatments, smells,

1340
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:09,360
Speaker 1: sense decor, baking, tracking my cycles, knowing when foods disagree

1341
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 1: with me, getting excited by cute dogs, talking to strangers,

1342
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: having good aesthetic taste, having a simple skincare grooming routine,

1343
00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: being scared and aware of toxins and things. Knowing when

1344
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:20,680
Speaker 1: things are too rich or too sweet. Can I just

1345
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 1: say any girl that's like I can't eat that's too

1346
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 1: rich or like too sweet? Like fuck you girl? Like

1347
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 1: how do you know your body so well? How are

1348
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:30,960
Speaker 1: you so in tune? Being someone who eats and then

1349
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:33,439
Speaker 1: says I'm full, I can't eat anymore? Oohing and aweing

1350
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 1: about wallpaper or a baby, keeping a refrigerator, clean flowers, gardening,

1351
00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 1: doing things, adventures, going to the beach, sitting by a pool,

1352
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 1: swimming in a pool, talking to people on planes, the Olympics, tennis, golf, yoga,

1353
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,959
Speaker 1: playing with kids, Sipping a small coffee When I see

1354
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 1: someone sipping a small coffee when you could afford to

1355
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 1: get a bigger one, I don't understand you. I don't

1356
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 1: get you. And whenever I, whenever the off chance comes

1357
00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 1: that I do get a small coffee because I'm around

1358
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 1: people who are also getting coffees, and I don't want

1359
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:03,560
Speaker 1: to seem like a crazy binge eater with my big

1360
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:06,920
Speaker 1: trough of VENTI latte, I will get like a small coffee.

1361
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 1: I feel like Kate Middleton when I get one, I

1362
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 1: am like I am a princess. I feel so elevated,

1363
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 1: like I don't know why I don't do it more

1364
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 1: because it makes me feel amazing, But it's also I

1365
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 1: feel depressed because I want more good taste and fine jewelry.

1366
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 1: I literally can't tell the difference between a Forever twenty

1367
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 1: one necklace or a Cardier one. Matching socks, camping, washing

1368
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 1: my feet, pedicures and manicures. Okay, and then this is

1369
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 1: tailor's Tailor is so funny and such a good writer,

1370
00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:33,840
Speaker 1: and you will see it in just a second. Okay.

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00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 1: She was like things I hate. Long relaxing showers, unwinding

1372
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 1: in a hot tub, dainty doilies, perfect bamboo cutlery, cooling

1373
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 1: sweet linens, creating a joyful bouquet well deserved, splurging on

1374
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:49,840
Speaker 1: a simply perfect pair of heels, baking a fill the

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00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 1: room and fill your heart crusty warm pie, snuggling up

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00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:55,920
Speaker 1: with your rider die and chatting on the couch with

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00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 1: some tea gay tea when the gaber reesers do a

1378
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 1: little swirly on the top of your gay coffee. Jesus Christ.

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00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 1: People who gently wish you affirm their gender even though

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00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 1: you don't even know them. People who talk to you

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00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 1: ever small talk on the straws. By the way, Taylor

1382
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 1: dated someone non binary and is so respectful of their

1383
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 1: pronouns and more than anyone I've ever met in my life,

1384
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 1: So don't come at her. People who talk to you

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00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 1: ever small talk on pampering put a pamper on it,

1386
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: shitty ass. I don't know what that means. A beautiful,

1387
00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 1: embossed diary full of life's little treasured secrets, whispered secrets,

1388
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:40,600
Speaker 1: a child's laughter, a child's anything, handmade soap and delicious smells, perfume,

1389
00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 1: or anything that smells like anything being feminine.

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Speaker 3: Cozy fall walks.

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00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 1: This is just exercise. You can't trick me a vigorous

1392
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:53,920
Speaker 1: and blood pumping hike through some hellscape. No thanks, savoring

1393
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 1: a pumpkin spice latte, pumpkin spice fuck. And then Kirsten

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01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: made a list of her things, well, Taylor's.

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Speaker 5: Taylor's got a theme there. She kind of hates like

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01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 5: mommy bloggers, she influenced women influencers. Those are those are

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01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 5: like titles of blogs from the like Autumn Harvest cooking.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And there's a distinction between hating stuff and why

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01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 2: am I not like other people?

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Speaker 1: Like that she does not want to be those things.

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01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 1: I want to be almost all of those.

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01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:26,560
Speaker 5: This is the first ten minutes of one of George

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01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 5: Carlin's specials People. I could do without that when he

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01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:32,400
Speaker 5: talked to the list for like twenty minutes.

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01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:34,800
Speaker 1: And then I liked Kirsten's list, And because Kirsten is

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01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 1: I think, the most balanced, fun, adventurous person I know,

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01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 1: and she has a list of things she doesn't even

1408
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 1: like things that she things I hate that people like

1409
01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: card games, bowling acts, throwing or escape rooms, brewery tours,

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01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 1: tie dice shirts, swing, growing and harvesting vegetables, races or

1411
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:59,320
Speaker 1: five K most museums, vision boards, most crafts, antique shopping,

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01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 1: Thriftspping these lists made me feel so good.

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01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 2: I think people I want to be too many You

1414
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:08,280
Speaker 2: just want to be too many things.

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01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 3: What I just need is just.

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01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:12,440
Speaker 1: More your disposure to things that other people I just

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01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:14,760
Speaker 1: want to feel like other people. I'm not alone. That

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01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 1: poll I did made me feel so good. I needed

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01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 1: to know I'm not alone.

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01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 2: I can't imagine a world, living in a world where

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01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 2: anything was available to me to love and wanting to do,

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01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 2: wanting to want to do all of those things I

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01:01:28,560 --> 01:01:30,240
Speaker 2: know you, well, it's too much.

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Speaker 5: You've got to join us, Nikki, You've got to join

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01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 5: us and enjoying.

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01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:36,440
Speaker 1: Okay, hating things okay, okay.

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01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:38,720
Speaker 5: Can't you join the team on that one?

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01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:42,280
Speaker 1: I will say my Imposter Syndrome book is really hitting

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01:01:42,280 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 1: at the root of all of this, which is like

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01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 1: you feel alone.

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01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 3: Like if I feel alone, that's when I feel shame.

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01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 1: Is like, because I was the only one in my

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01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 1: family who didn't like these things, I wasn't exposed to

1434
01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 1: other people who didn't like these things. And now that

1435
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 1: I'm getting more exposure to, like, oh, I Larry David

1436
01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 1: is very popular and he's a comergion curmudgeon about all

1437
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:02,040
Speaker 1: this stuff, it makes me feel like maybe it's okay

1438
01:02:02,040 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 1: for me to be that. Like you need to know

1439
01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:06,479
Speaker 1: that you're not alone. And this book that I'm reading

1440
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 1: about imposter syndrome, they're like, the first thing we want

1441
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:11,840
Speaker 1: to let you know is everyone has this.

1442
01:02:12,120 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 3: You are not special.

1443
01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 1: Everyone seventy percent of people suffer with imposter syndrome. And

1444
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:19,919
Speaker 1: then it's so funny because I posted about the book

1445
01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:23,120
Speaker 1: on my Instagram, and my one of my pilates private

1446
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 1: teachers who got me to the place where I can

1447
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:26,160
Speaker 1: go to private classes.

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01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:26,400
Speaker 5: Now.

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01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:29,360
Speaker 3: She wrote to me and said, currently reading this and I'm.

1450
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 1: Like you, you who I look at as like the Queen

1451
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:38,720
Speaker 1: of Pilates knows everything about body mechanics, perfect looking, like

1452
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 1: perfect style, Like you have to read this book. Okay,

1453
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: maybe it's okay, Maybe I have acceptance around. Maybe accepting

1454
01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 1: the fact that I have this thing that other people

1455
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:52,200
Speaker 1: suffer with is gonna make me release it a little

1456
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:54,440
Speaker 1: bit more. And I think that's really the key, is

1457
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 1: like I just need to know I'm not alone. And

1458
01:02:58,200 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 1: I think that's when I start to feel like girls.

1459
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:01,959
Speaker 1: That is like everyone wants a baby and I don't.

1460
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 1: I go what's wrong with me? Like I just I

1461
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:06,280
Speaker 1: need to have a more plexic group of people. I

1462
01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: need to expose myself to more. I actually need to

1463
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:09,760
Speaker 1: talk to more stranger.

1464
01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:13,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's exactly what you need. Your first instinct is

1465
01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:16,440
Speaker 2: always what's wrong with me? If I'm not like that?

1466
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:18,160
Speaker 3: Which is the title of my new.

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01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 1: Song and Special and Special and book, the motto of

1468
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 1: my y en book, like I literally wrote it down yesterday.

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01:03:25,640 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 2: Podcast coming to Patreon.

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01:03:27,040 --> 01:03:27,840
Speaker 1: Ye did you see a.

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01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:30,480
Speaker 3: Clip of What's Wrong?

1472
01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:33,440
Speaker 1: What's wrong with Thing? Do you see the the post

1473
01:03:33,480 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 1: of Kamala where she realizes what her, Yes, what her?

1474
01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:41,320
Speaker 3: What's the catchphrase.

1475
01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:42,640
Speaker 2: Is gonna be They're weird or whatever.

1476
01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:45,600
Speaker 3: We will not go back.

1477
01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 5: It's wonderful.

1478
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, she like they they

1479
01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:50,840
Speaker 1: the crowd like really lights up and she kind of

1480
01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:53,960
Speaker 1: looks around and then she's like, we will not go back,

1481
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 1: and she kind of like says it again and then

1482
01:03:55,360 --> 01:03:57,439
Speaker 1: they start chanting it, and it's like it's not even

1483
01:03:57,520 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 1: like a cringe moment. It's like a beautiful moment where

1484
01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:02,320
Speaker 1: she's like she finds it's like a scene from Veep.

1485
01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:03,440
Speaker 1: It's amazing.

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01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 2: It's like like a lightning bolt struck her, like from

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01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 2: a cartoon. Yeah.

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01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 1: People were actually comparing it to that You're so smart. Yeah,

1489
01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:11,880
Speaker 1: like people like found a clip and viep that is

1490
01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 1: like identify, wish you.

1491
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:15,960
Speaker 2: Were smart too. Why can't you be smart?

1492
01:04:15,960 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 1: But that's what I did in therapy yesterday where she

1493
01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:20,320
Speaker 1: was like where I go, Honestly, my whole thing is

1494
01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 1: like what's wrong with me? And she was like this

1495
01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:25,280
Speaker 1: this constant question of what's wrong with me? And I

1496
01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 1: was like, I wrote it down. I'm like, that's a

1497
01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:31,240
Speaker 1: really good special. That's a good that's a good direction

1498
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 1: to go in. Yeah for the next spash, so get excited.

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01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:39,360
Speaker 1: I will not go back. We will not go to

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01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:42,960
Speaker 1: that pilates class teacher because it was hard. All right, guys,

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01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 1: thank you for listening to the show this week. I

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01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 1: am on tour this weekend Springfield, Cape Girardo. That's Missouri

1503
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:50,960
Speaker 1: for you, folks. Come out to those shows. They are

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01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:53,080
Speaker 1: going to be so much fun. I'm driving to them

1505
01:04:53,560 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 1: in my new car that doesn't keep a charge, but

1506
01:04:55,640 --> 01:04:58,360
Speaker 1: it's going. It's going to pretty soon. Chris Conny, thank

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01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:01,840
Speaker 1: you for being here for shows this week. Brian No,

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01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:14,000
Speaker 1: I love you. And it sounds like, yeah, no, what

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01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 1: the Emmys are next next week two weeks from now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll talk about those.

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01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:20,960
Speaker 1: They're coming up Creative Arts Emmies where I'm nominated and

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01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: I am presenting. Spoiler alert. It will be so fun

1513
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 1: and uh we'll talk to you next week about all

1514
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:27,960
Speaker 1: of that. So much more to come.

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01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:30,520
Speaker 3: Thank you for listening. Don't be cut bye.

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Speaker 1: The Nicki Glazer Podcast is a production by Will Ferrell's

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