1 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: Hey, hey, Hey, we're back. We're black, We're brown, Ambison, Heymandra. 2 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 2: Hey, hello from the end of the world. It feels 3 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: like the end of the world. This weather is so 4 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 2: twenty twenty. 5 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: I know. I'm like, uh so we're having a hurricane. Okay, gotcha, gotcha? 6 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 2: Fair enough, totally fine. My house has we had this 7 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 2: really beautiful old tree in front of my house, and 8 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 2: of course me and my anxiety, I'm just like, is 9 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 2: that tree gonna come down on us? 10 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 3: Like? 11 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 2: What's going on? It felt pretty biblical. Hope you guys 12 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 2: are safe if you're on the East coast. What is 13 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 2: this even called tropical storm Desiree or Denise? 14 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: I forget, I don't know, but she has attitude and 15 00:00:58,360 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: I don't. 16 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 2: What else is going on. 17 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: So this weekend was Funsi Superman and his super twin 18 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: turned forty. 19 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a big one. It is b What did 20 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 2: they How do you celebrate your fortieth birthday as at 21 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 2: twe I imagine you don't like we're matching outfits. 22 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: Now, but you do have a party ticket? But okay, yeah, 23 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: but it was honestly, it was really First of all, 24 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: it started the weekend started off hilarious because why did 25 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: a few people hit me up and say take that 26 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: door off superdoor, Supergirl's door, and we did. Oh, so 27 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: many people hit me yes, yeah, so many people hit 28 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: me up with the girl girl. So many people were like, 29 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. You go in there, you 30 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 1: take that door off the hinges and I and I 31 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:41,759 Speaker 1: sold Superman. I said, I don't think we have a choice. 32 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: I think I think Brian and Bish and listeners have spoken. No, 33 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: we were going to do that anyway. So she came home. 34 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: He was going to do it before she got home, 35 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: but she came on a little earlier, so she stood 36 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: and watched like that was a little drama. Like effective 37 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: was she APOLOGI she was, I like, you know, I 38 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: guess she realized like, yikes, this is bigger because everyone 39 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: spoke to her. So my twin, my my husband's twin 40 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: is like her favorite uncle. Like she's like, that's like 41 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: the love of her life. So when he spoke to her, 42 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: was like, you know, that was really disrespectful. I could 43 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: tell she was like, wait, what my fave on fave 44 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, you know, yeah. 45 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 2: I've been thinking about I feel like at that age, 46 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 2: it's when they start to test and see how far 47 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 2: can I push and what can I get away with? 48 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 2: And I think it's like it's an even better opportunity 49 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 2: for you guys to set the tone now. 50 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: Exactly, so like honestly, like we had honestly, it was 51 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 1: a great weekend and we What I liked is that 52 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: we were able to do that but then also be 53 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: like fun time. You know, she came to the party, 54 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: had a good time. 55 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 2: So what y'all do do you have a big party? 56 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: No, not big. We just had like family. It was 57 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: probably around in total twenty people, but they you know, 58 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: it was in and out like so and people wore 59 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: their masks for the most part. Okay, my nerves were 60 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: like no, no, they wore their masks, and folks that 61 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: were especially like you know, like I had a friend 62 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: that just basically stayed inside. So we had like safe 63 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: zones for people who wanted to come and support but 64 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: really didn't want to because we had it in the backyard. 65 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: We transformed our little our backyard is not very big 66 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: at all, our little backyard into this really nice oasis. 67 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 1: And it almost looked like like you know how you 68 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: go to like a restaurant and they have like a 69 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 1: back like patio where it's like seating, and yeah, it was. Honestly, 70 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 1: it was really beautiful. And restaurants I remember those, yeah, 71 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: because that's how I was considering. I was like, maybe 72 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: we'll do an outdoor restaurant. But as we called some 73 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: of them just to see, you know, what it looked 74 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: like or how you would do it, most of them, 75 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: honestly weren't. They didn't know how. They were like, honestly, 76 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: we don't know how to navigate in these quarantine times. 77 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: So we were just like, you know, we were already 78 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: fixing up our backyard. So it was I had like 79 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: a week and a half and I just rushed ordered 80 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: all the things lighting and we had a gazebo already 81 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: but seating and you know, and then we had food catered. Honestly, 82 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: it just ended up being perfect. His family and their 83 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: family and myself, we all chipped in and got them 84 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: like really nice, like grown men watches. I think his 85 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 1: twin was especially surprised because I think he thought like, oh, 86 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: this is my brother's party. It's like, no, we're celebrating 87 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: both of you, and so there was some tears shed. 88 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 1: I'm telling on you. Super Twin. 89 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 2: Super Twin is he married, is he single? Does he 90 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 2: have family? 91 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 1: So he has a long term girlfriend since he was fourteen, 92 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 1: Like they've been together. They have a twenty nineteen or 93 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 1: twenty year old son. Oh wow mm hm, And so 94 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: so they were together. They've been together a very long time. 95 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: He is head over heels. And now you ask, how 96 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: come they not married? That's not his choice whatever. I'm 97 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: not telling his business. 98 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 2: But either way, listen, I wasn't gonna say, I wasn't 99 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 2: gonna ask anything. 100 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: No, that wasn't like if it was up to him, 101 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 1: they'd be married twenty thousand times. But yeah, no he 102 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: So it's funny because every year when I post their 103 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 1: picture to say, you know, happy birthday, twins, super twins, 104 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: the comments are filled with which one yours? So that's 105 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:03,359 Speaker 1: the other one. And it was because there were a 106 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: couple of BA listeners. One girl said like one woman said, girl, 107 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: you know now seeing Superman like every time you know 108 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 1: how We're like, really, you're walking in again every time 109 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 1: I record, And so they're like it just makes it 110 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: even funnier. 111 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 2: I know what to do. 112 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 1: Yes, And someone was like, wait, that's the twin that 113 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: the next neighbor rolled up on. Girl is he crazy 114 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: because when you see super Twin, yes, yes, and you 115 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: see him, you're just like, uh, he's. 116 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 2: Six' five and it's, like that's what you want for 117 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 2: meeting him at your. 118 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 1: Reception, yeah so they're not small. Guys you, know my 119 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: husband's so slightly taller at sixty six and the twin 120 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,600 Speaker 1: is six to, five a little bit. Stockier but, yeah, 121 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: honestly it just was just such a really great family fun. 122 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: Time everyone really enjoyed. Themselves AND i don't know if you, 123 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 1: remember But, saturday the weather was. Perfect it wasn't too 124 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: hot like the days we had, before it didn't, rain 125 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: it was just. Perfect so happy. Times they're happy to turn. 126 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:02,119 Speaker 1: Forty i'm, like you, know you've, Grown you've grown grown, 127 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:03,919 Speaker 1: Now so, yeah. 128 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 2: That's beautiful because it. Does, HONESTLY i think everyone just 129 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 2: wants something to. Celebrate. Yea so it's really nice that 130 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:12,919 Speaker 2: you found a way to have an event because you, 131 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:16,159 Speaker 2: know just giving people a reason to, gather as you, 132 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 2: know of, course like keeping safety in mind like you guys, 133 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:22,280 Speaker 2: did but just giving people a reason to celebrate is. 134 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 2: Wonderful AND i think people's expectations are so. Low, yes, 135 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:27,840 Speaker 2: anyway people. 136 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 1: Were so, excited, You, LIKE i haven't been out of 137 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 1: the house ince so. Long this is so. Nice now 138 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 1: that our backyard is all tricked, out we're going to 139 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,119 Speaker 1: like host like a little mini grill and. Chills whe's 140 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: just like us like a friend or two because we 141 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 1: have a neighbor friend that lives around the corner Of 142 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:41,720 Speaker 1: rihanna and her. Husband so we're, like we can host 143 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 1: grill and. Chills will you guys just come over and 144 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: we just grill and. Chill we're going to get a 145 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 1: PROJECTOR i already have a projector screen and have movie 146 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 1: nights with them around the, corner or buy my Friend, 147 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,359 Speaker 1: linda so we have a little so. 148 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 2: Cute have you gotten closer to your neighbors In, quarantine 149 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 2: BECAUSE i definitely. HAVE i love my. Neighbors, yes they're 150 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,559 Speaker 2: JUST i just feel LIKE i have such a nice 151 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 2: little support system here and it's been beautiful to build those. 152 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 2: Relationships and we've been having like one, couple you, know 153 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 2: because there's a few married, couples some, older some, younger 154 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 2: and we'll have them over once in a while just 155 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 2: TO i GUESS i didn't know what to call, it 156 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 2: BUT i guess we grilled Into. 157 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: Yeah i'm grilling, TOO i see. TRUE i feel like 158 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: people are getting closer to their friend, friends you, know 159 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: like so we'll have like one friend over or, too 160 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: and then just or like my, sister well my sister 161 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: and the kids always come, over but like even more so, 162 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: now like come. Eat so it's been nice to get 163 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: close to people who you normally would chill, with but 164 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 1: because you have ten thousand, options maybe you don't see 165 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: them as. Much so it was it's been it's been really. 166 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: Nice oh that's. 167 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 2: Lovely, yeah and this time of, year well you mentioned the. 168 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 2: Weather we were actually we took a little a, mini 169 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 2: a mini. Getaway we went to The, poconos which are 170 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 2: just a couple hours, away and we rented a little, 171 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 2: house like a little cabin and it was really. NICE 172 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: i mean it. Was it was nothing special at the. 173 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 2: TIME i THINK i booked this back In may When 174 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 2: airbnb was starting to take reservations, again AND i was, 175 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 2: LIKE i want somewhere isolated but, pretty where there's not 176 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 2: going to be a lot of activities because you, know 177 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 2: don't BELIEVE i figured nothing would be open. Anyway, yeah 178 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 2: and we rented this little cabin On airbnb and it 179 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,239 Speaker 2: was really, cute very stylish and had like a nice 180 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 2: deck and outdoor grill and it was close to a 181 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 2: lake and we just we literally just hung out as a. 182 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 2: Family AND i didn't realize HOW i didn't realize how 183 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 2: LITTLE i see my husband and my baby at the same, 184 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 2: time because we spent so much time like passing him 185 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 2: from one to the other and being, like, babe is your, Turn, No, 186 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 2: babe is your? Turn, NO i did this, MORNING i 187 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 2: got the breakfast, note BUT i have this. Meeting you 188 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 2: need to take him right, now and just passing him 189 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:45,199 Speaker 2: like a hot. Potato and then you, Know, husby whenever 190 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 2: he has a free, moment is constantly building something or 191 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 2: just there's power, tools or he's powerwashing, something or there's 192 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 2: just errands to be run and he's flying all over the. 193 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 2: Place SO i really like was kind of you, know 194 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 2: evil laughing and being, like got you right WHERE i want. 195 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 2: You nothing for you to, fix nothing for you to work. 196 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 2: On we're all just here trapped in this. Cabin and 197 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 2: we Took Mollie homeworld did not love the road. Trip 198 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 2: we had to drug her, heavily but, yeah she really 199 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 2: needed a. Vacation but it was really nice and we 200 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 2: talked about doing a trip in the fall, too trying 201 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 2: to go somewhere where we can see like the. Beautiful 202 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 2: we always talked about going to see going upstate when 203 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,680 Speaker 2: the leaves, change like in Late september up, here and 204 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 2: so we talked about maybe Like vermont or The berkshire's 205 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 2: or something like, that just trying to do, something you, 206 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 2: know to get. Out and it was it was nice 207 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 2: and it wasn't too it wasn't too stressful of a. 208 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 2: TRIP i think that people are just crazy to think 209 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 2: that a year AGO i was In portugal on a 210 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:46,320 Speaker 2: seventeen day baby moon. 211 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 1: FOR i, mean because it would have been went so far. 212 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 1: AWAY i feel like that's what we were going to. 213 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 1: PLAN i was, like, oh maybe they were going a, 214 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: trip but it was like, Obviously AND i feel like 215 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 1: to your, point like having these like, smaller like more 216 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 1: local lest. Trips people are really taking like road trips 217 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 1: now more than, ever and SO i just think, that, 218 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: yeah that's so that's my. Plan i'm trying to figure, 219 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: out Like i'll keep y'all for, Real and because where 220 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 1: can we? Go i'm, like, oh maybe we'll go To Rhode. 221 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: Island i'd love like historic. Homes or maybe you know 222 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: places that you can drive to in a day or. 223 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: So so definitely planning more of. Those and if you've 224 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 1: got little ones or just inter animals, Yourself uh, well 225 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 1: we're In, jersey but look to see if you have 226 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 1: a we have what is that called a May it's 227 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: that place Called Great. Adventures we have A Great Adventure 228 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: safari where you could drive through with your car and 229 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 1: see all the. Animals there's, like you, know lions and 230 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: tigers and, bears little oh, wait. 231 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 2: Really it's like it's like you're in your car and 232 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 2: you drive through the park and you see. 233 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: Animals, yeah and some of the animals are, like you, 234 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,319 Speaker 1: know pretty. Close they used to let the monkeys get 235 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 1: on your car until the, monkeys you, know do what monkeys, 236 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 1: do which is destroy. Stuff so NOW i don't let 237 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 1: the monkeys. Do but it's really SO i can't. Wait 238 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 1: i'm gonna take a million roman to. SEE i was telling, them, 239 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 1: like you want to, see and so we were looking at. 240 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 1: PICTURES i always like the teacher and me always likes 241 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: to show kids ahead of time what we're goin to. 242 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 1: Sea so, yeah so that's something a friend of mine 243 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: did and she said her kids loved. It that was 244 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: really a lot of, fun, so you, know getting away and, 245 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: out but in the safe, space you, know so some 246 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: things that definitely feel like. 247 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 2: Wildlife sanctuaries if you have a LOCAL i feel like 248 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 2: every county has a wildlife sanctuary where they have like 249 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 2: goats or rabbits or, snakes like pet like kid friendly 250 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 2: animals that you can. See and Also i'm discovering like 251 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 2: random beaches along the because we're IN i don't know 252 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 2: where are We westchesterish and there's like little beaches In 253 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 2: connecticut and that aren't too far away or on The, 254 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 2: hudson like the river towns that we can go look. 255 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 2: AT i Think i'm Finally i'm In my head space is. 256 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 2: Right the places have always been, there but my head 257 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 2: space is, finally, like, okay one the baby is do 258 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 2: his hand LIKE i can handle him out and about 259 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 2: he's more. Predictable and ALSO i feel like mentally ready 260 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:56,680 Speaker 2: to be, out BUT i. AM i still feel like 261 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 2: there's parts of the country where they're like way out 262 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 2: there and live in there lives and everything is, normal 263 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 2: AND i just it just, yeah it's very surreal to 264 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 2: me to see how different it is depending on excuse, 265 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 2: me depending on where you. 266 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 1: Live, yeah, huh this is going to be a very 267 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 1: interesting rest of the, Year i'll tell you that. Much. 268 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, well we have a really special show for you guys. 269 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 2: Today we wanted to just shake things. Up shake things, 270 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 2: up y'all. Know when we have a guest, on it's 271 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 2: because they have a really compelling. Story we're very excited about, 272 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 2: them and we never disappoint. Y'ALL i like to think 273 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 2: we don't disappoint y'all when we have guests. On we 274 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:36,319 Speaker 2: are really excited about today's. Guest we mentioned on a 275 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 2: couple of shows. Ago their names Are christina And aman 276 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 2: and they are. Everything if you do not follow them, 277 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 2: yet you must check out their YouTube channel first and. 278 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:48,959 Speaker 2: Foremost it's Called Our Rich. Journey and while you're at, 279 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 2: it follow them On. Instagram they're also At Our Rich. 280 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 2: Journey So christina And, aman BECAUSE i have literally been 281 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 2: YouTube stocking them ever since they reached out AND i 282 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 2: discovered their YouTube, Channel i've watched dozens of their. Videos 283 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 2: how CAN i Describe christina And. Ammon they are from 284 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 2: The Bay. Area they are college. Sweethearts they managed to retire, 285 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 2: early quit their, jobs saved jillions of, DOLLARS i. Imagine 286 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 2: and they retired early and not did they just, Retire 287 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 2: they didn't just retire early in THE. Us they retired 288 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 2: early and moved their entire. Family they have two tween, 289 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 2: girls moved To, portugal of all, places and they had 290 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 2: been living there for about a, year and they they did. 291 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 2: It they are the fire couple of my. Dreams they're 292 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 2: the fire couple THAT i actually don't want to roll 293 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 2: my eyes at because it's they actually because you, know 294 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 2: tif we've talked about. Fire, yeah what is? Fired like 295 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 2: the and for those of you who don't, know fire 296 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 2: is the financial independence retire? Early can we call it 297 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 2: a movement? Track? 298 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:51,439 Speaker 4: Yes? 299 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:54,959 Speaker 2: Yeah what it IS i mean for Me and the 300 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 2: REASON i was a little Bit i've been a little 301 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,440 Speaker 2: bit cynical about fire is it's usually a lot of 302 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 2: white guys used to, eat or they have like really 303 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:06,559 Speaker 2: crazy extreme methods of saving so that they can retire, 304 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 2: early or they had, like you, know pretty cushy jobs 305 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 2: before and were able to quote unquote save because they 306 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:17,319 Speaker 2: had pretty high, incomes and you, know you really didn't 307 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 2: see very many people of. COLOR i think The New 308 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 2: York times even ron an article that was the last 309 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 2: time you AND i talked about, it there was an 310 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 2: article in The times about how there's just a dearth 311 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 2: of black, families black, uh black voices in The fire. 312 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 2: Movement so WHEN i when When christina reached out to, 313 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 2: US i was, like what are you just like this? 314 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 2: Unicorn what is? Happening? 315 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: Yes, Right and you, know it's so crazy goals because 316 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: there's so many people LIKE i, told like folks on 317 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: my team, like, oh they were like you should you 318 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: should talk to our Rich Journey AND i was, like, 319 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 1: wait they're gonna be on our podcast and my team was. 320 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: Geeked so just know that they're out here making wyte 321 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 1: because to your, point there's not much representation in that, 322 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: movement and people will, say, oh well if you were 323 00:14:58,320 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: only it's, like, oh that would be nice if there 324 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 1: was a wealth gap or a race, gap you, know 325 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 1: or like a you, know it's just it's easier when 326 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: we do the same job and you make twice as 327 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 1: much as. Me so how cute is that that you're 328 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 1: able to then save? More of course you. Are so 329 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: it's you, know it's just a movement that sometimes is 330 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: a little tone death that not everyone is. Able it's 331 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 1: not that everyone's buying uber eats or getting uber eats every, 332 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 1: week why you, Know And i'm not saying there's people 333 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 1: shouldn't you, know follow the fire, movement but just sometimes 334 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 1: there was there was a tone to the fire movement 335 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 1: that people found offensive that as if if you want 336 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: to do, it you, would it's it's you who doesn't 337 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: want to do it without acknowledging there are literally obstacles 338 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 1: in the way that make it ten times harder for certain. 339 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 1: People and so that's why there was a little bit 340 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: of like. Disgust there's like lean, fire though there's fat, 341 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 1: Fire so there's different types of like fire, movements but, 342 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 1: ULTIMATELY i, mean who doesn't not heard of? This so 343 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: there are people who are like they like to do fire. 344 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 1: Movement know they they'll eat, like you, know noodles their 345 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: whole for ten years only to go be able to 346 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: eat romen noodles for the next seventy, Years like don't 347 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 1: nobody want in that? Life and then there's fat fire 348 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: where it's, like, Oh i'm not going to be super 349 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 1: super lean AND i want to actually enjoy a little. 350 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: Life so we can certainly ask them with like what 351 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 1: do they consider themselves like, Fire Lean, Fire Fat fire 352 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 1: has the movement embraced, them So i'm excited to talk. 353 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: Too It's aman correct And, Christina christina And. 354 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 2: Aman, yeah and WHAT i love most about them and 355 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 2: you guys will come back in a minute and have 356 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 2: our interview With christina and a. Mom BUT i have to, 357 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 2: say for, me they're like the realistic fire. STORY i 358 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 2: don't know where that falls in between lean and, fat 359 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 2: but they they both had, decent you, know government. Jobs 360 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 2: christina went to law. School she had her law. Degree 361 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 2: they have two. GIRLS i think they're ten and, twelve 362 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 2: or maybe eleven and, THIRTEEN i, forget but they have. 363 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 2: KIDS i feel like they have proven that you can 364 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 2: retire early if you're willing. To not just WHAT i 365 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 2: love about, them they haven't just, sacrificed so they Haven't 366 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 2: they of course they. SAVED i think they saved seventy 367 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 2: percent of their, income but, well we'll ask them that 368 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 2: when we talk to them. Later but they also found 369 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,800 Speaker 2: ways to grow their. Money they didn't just focus on 370 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,120 Speaker 2: scrimping and. Saving and we do get this question from 371 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 2: OUR i feel like every once in a, While listener 372 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:13,880 Speaker 2: will reach out to us and be, like, Listen i'm 373 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 2: paycheck to, Paycheck how CAN i start an? Investing how 374 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 2: CAN i start? Saving and it's really difficult to answer 375 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:21,720 Speaker 2: that right to because often the response, is you need 376 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:24,439 Speaker 2: to focus on building. Wealth you, know how can you 377 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 2: invest in yourself so that you can, achieve you, know 378 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 2: whether it's you, know getting a higher paying job or 379 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 2: finding additional sources of. Income christina And mon were, Scrappy 380 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 2: Like christina used to sell tooth fairy dust On etsy 381 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 2: to make extra. Money aman they used to also go 382 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:45,679 Speaker 2: To ikea and get the reduced, price like kind of 383 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 2: slightly damaged furniture and they would fix it up and sell. 384 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 2: It they found all these wine crates in like a, 385 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:54,399 Speaker 2: warehouse just hundreds of wine crates that someone was just 386 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 2: going to get rid, of and they took it and 387 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 2: they turned it into furniture and they sold it On 388 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 2: craigslist for mad money Or facebook. MARKETPLACE i. Forget, like 389 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:05,399 Speaker 2: they are, scrappy and they were always looking for great 390 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:09,639 Speaker 2: ways to make additional income and feed their. Investments and 391 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 2: they also are so knowledgeable and they are they are 392 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 2: proof that you do not need to Be you do 393 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 2: not need to be a financial, Whiz you do not 394 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 2: need to be you know you don't need to come 395 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 2: from a family of hedge fund managers or investment. Advisors literally, 396 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 2: books teaching yourself, online, learning doing it like getting in the. 397 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:33,239 Speaker 2: Trenches that is how you know you can learn how 398 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:35,919 Speaker 2: to build. Wealth and they are they're, really really. Inspiring 399 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:38,879 Speaker 2: So i'm very excited to introduce. Y'all if you're not 400 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 2: familiar with them, yet maybe you are To christina and 401 00:18:42,119 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 2: im on from Our Rich. Journey, Wow, wow the crowds all, 402 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 2: right ba, fan we are back as. Promised we are 403 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 2: joined today by the fabulous Our Rich, journey the brains 404 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 2: behind Our Rich, Journey christina And Amman. Browning welcome to the. 405 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 3: Show, hey thanks for having. 406 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:37,720 Speaker 1: Us, yeah thank. 407 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:39,959 Speaker 4: You we have been looking forward to. This we were 408 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 4: so excited about this. Call so we are so glad 409 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 4: to be speaking with you. 410 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,159 Speaker 1: Guys now we're Geekd i'm, like, UGH i just know 411 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 1: our audience is going to love. You, Oh monty. 412 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 2: Too let me brag on y'all for a little bit 413 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 2: because your story is so inspirational AND i know that 414 00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 2: our audience will love. You but as we, mentioned The 415 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 2: brownings come from The San Francisco bay. Area you, guys 416 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 2: bo worked for the federal government until your late. Thirties you, 417 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 2: decided let's just quit our. Jobs let's just. Retire. Now 418 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 2: how about? That with what a ten and a twelve 419 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 2: year old at the. 420 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 4: Time, yes, yeah, right so they're eleven and thirteen, now so, 421 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 4: yeah they were about ten and twelve at the. 422 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:16,719 Speaker 3: Time what better not only quit your? 423 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 5: Job? 424 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,920 Speaker 2: Yeah very? Casually, well, NO i Mean i'm kind of 425 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 2: making it seem easier than it. Was you guys plan for. 426 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 2: This you joined The fire movement before you even knew 427 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 2: there was A fire? Movement is that? 428 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:28,360 Speaker 1: Right? 429 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 6: Oh that is totally. RIGHT i love how you said that. 430 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:33,439 Speaker 4: Too it's like we didn't even really know what we 431 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 4: were doing as we were doing it in terms of 432 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:39,159 Speaker 4: classifying it as a fire, movement because when we, started 433 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,640 Speaker 4: it wasn't like this huge. Thing it's not a huge thing, 434 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,680 Speaker 4: NOW i would, say but it's much bigger than when we. 435 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 4: Started so fire is really financial independence retiring. Early and 436 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 4: the concept is really that you save as much money 437 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 4: as you, can you make as much money as you, 438 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:58,400 Speaker 4: can and then you invest that, money and then that 439 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 4: money will grow enough a point where you have enough 440 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:05,159 Speaker 4: money that you can reach financial independence and retire and 441 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 4: never have to work. Again so that whole sort of 442 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 4: introduction to fire was we were sort of working on 443 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 4: it and doing all these things towards, fire but there 444 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 4: wasn't really we didn't know the name of it at 445 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 4: the time when we. 446 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:22,360 Speaker 2: Started we'll talk ABOUT i, mean so take us back 447 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:24,160 Speaker 2: to eight years. Ago was it eight or nine years 448 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 2: ago when y'all decided as a couple was? It was 449 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,639 Speaker 2: it one big conversation where y'all where you were both, like, 450 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 2: hey we should retire? Early how? Soon eight? Years how's eight? 451 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 2: Years and then you put it, like how did? That 452 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 2: how does it work as a? Couple how do you 453 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:40,160 Speaker 2: decide we are going to both strive for this? Goal 454 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,639 Speaker 2: get on the same page and talk about the steps 455 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,120 Speaker 2: that y'all took in your early thirties to be able 456 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:48,920 Speaker 2: to retire before Forty, well you, know it. 457 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,240 Speaker 3: Was a aha moment for me at. WORK i was 458 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:54,719 Speaker 3: at work working for the federal, government AND i WAS 459 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 3: i was going through the motions every day in the rat, 460 00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:59,239 Speaker 3: race AND i was at work one day AND i 461 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:01,679 Speaker 3: received an award for my length of service with the 462 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:05,240 Speaker 3: federal government for ten. Years and at this awards, assembly 463 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 3: there was another federal employee that had gotten an award 464 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 3: for thirty years of. Service AND i just remember at this, 465 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 3: assembly my ten years was just. Insignificant they hurried me 466 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 3: off the. Stage it was. Nothing and at that, MOMENT 467 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 3: i realized THAT i didn't want to be here thirty 468 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 3: years just to get another piece of. Paper and SO 469 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,199 Speaker 3: i went. HOME i had this conversation With, christina and you, 470 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 3: know there were so many things that we wanted to 471 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:35,680 Speaker 3: do besides just spend the rest of our lives in our. 472 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,680 Speaker 3: Cubicle and so we had this conversation and we didn't 473 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 3: really know how we were going to do. It you, 474 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 3: know we had it was just a. GOAL a goal 475 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,280 Speaker 3: was to be able to develop enough passive, income either 476 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 3: with real estate or with the stock, market to be 477 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,239 Speaker 3: able to quit our jobs and live off of. That 478 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,880 Speaker 3: and so WHEN i went home and me And christina 479 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,439 Speaker 3: had this, conversation What christina did is what she always. 480 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 3: Does she was like all in for she, said let's do. 481 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 3: It let's figure out a way to get it. 482 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,000 Speaker 2: Done, well it's your. HEART i, mean my husband AND 483 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:05,920 Speaker 2: i can't even ingred what to order on door. DASH 484 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:10,439 Speaker 2: i mean that's like a two hour. Conversation, well NOW 485 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 2: i think y'all's, RELATIONSHIP i, mean it has to be so, 486 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:16,199 Speaker 2: strong such a foundation of, trust AND i just and 487 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 2: it comes across for. Me in your YouTube channel and your, 488 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 2: videos you can really tell that y'all are all in 489 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 2: with each, other and that's that's beautiful to. SEE Tif 490 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:24,399 Speaker 2: what do you want to ask? 491 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,280 Speaker 1: NOW i just want to, know like what in YOUR i, 492 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:30,120 Speaker 1: know so you have that initial, excitement but what were 493 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,719 Speaker 1: there things that made you nervous about about this journey 494 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:35,479 Speaker 1: that you were, like how were we going to handle these? 495 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,199 Speaker 1: Things some Because i'm sure there are certain people who 496 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,120 Speaker 1: are listening and they're, Like i'd love to retire, early 497 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 1: But i'm nervous about dot dot, Dot and how did 498 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 1: you handle those? 499 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,399 Speaker 2: Things there was. 500 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,679 Speaker 3: A, LIST i. THINK i think the biggest thing on 501 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 3: our list was the amount of money that it would 502 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 3: take to retire to do. It you, know we have 503 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 3: this thing called a fire, number and it's a number 504 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 3: that you calculate and it's based off of the amount 505 00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:00,639 Speaker 3: of money that you would need in an investment portfolio 506 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 3: in order to call yourself financially. Independent and just calculating 507 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 3: that number and seeing that number on, paper that was very, 508 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 3: Intimidating so that was one thing for. 509 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 6: Sure, yeah AND i think you know it's for, us 510 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 6: it's really. 511 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 4: Like when we have maybe these, challenges are we, Thinking, 512 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 4: okay how much is it going to take in order to? 513 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:21,399 Speaker 4: Retire BECAUSE i think one of the things that man 514 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 4: forgot to say is when he came home and we 515 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 4: were talking about, it he, SAID i want to retire 516 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 4: Before i'm, Forty and so for, us it was, like, 517 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:33,439 Speaker 4: wow that's not a huge amount of. Time so what 518 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 4: are the things that we need to do in order 519 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:37,879 Speaker 4: to make that. Happen SO i think the challenge for 520 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 4: us too was at the, time LIKE i, said there 521 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 4: wasn't a lot of information out, there there wasn't a 522 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:47,640 Speaker 4: lot of information in general in terms of how to pursue. 523 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 4: Fire And aman AND i also both came from backgrounds 524 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 4: where we didn't learn about investing or even saving, money 525 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,919 Speaker 4: really making money extra? Money how do you go about doing? 526 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 4: That so we didn't have that type of background in 527 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,400 Speaker 4: terms of learning how to really deal with our. Finances 528 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,720 Speaker 4: so that was definitely a. STRUGGLE i, MEAN i think 529 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 4: part of it is really becoming comfortable in how do 530 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 4: you make these real estate? Transactions how do you make 531 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 4: these stock market investments and really becoming financially literate and 532 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 4: understanding how to try and grow our. Money SO i 533 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 4: think a lot of people when they're on The fire 534 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:30,119 Speaker 4: journey that can be a struggle because it can seem 535 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 4: sort of. Overwhelming you have to make all this, money 536 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 4: and then you have to figure out how do you 537 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 4: grow your money because you can't just allow it to 538 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 4: sit in a savings. Account it's not going to. Happen 539 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 4: you're not going to get that type of money to retire. 540 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 4: Early so those were some of the challenges THAT i 541 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 4: guess the biggest challenges that we had when we were Pursuing. 542 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 2: Fire and you had so you're in your early. Thirties 543 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 2: you have two girls at the. Time they're, young, right. 544 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 4: Yes so they WERE i think around three and, five Probably. 545 00:25:58,119 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 2: Christie how didn't you just completed law? 546 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 1: School? YEAH i. 547 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 6: WAS i actually started law. 548 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 4: SCHOOL i went to law school AT, ucla and the 549 00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:09,199 Speaker 4: girls were down In la with, me And aman was 550 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 4: actually working at the, time but he was working In San, 551 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:15,480 Speaker 4: francisco and so he was coming back and forth every. 552 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 4: WEEKEND i, MEAN i cannot even, imagine you, KNOW i 553 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,359 Speaker 4: was there with the girls at law, school but every 554 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,920 Speaker 4: single weekend a mon was driving down or flying down 555 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 4: From San francisco To la to be with us and support. 556 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 4: Us it's like he didn't even skip a. Beat and 557 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 4: so for, us, yeah that was part of the, journey 558 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,159 Speaker 4: was really trying to manage to get in like two separate, 559 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:41,679 Speaker 4: households managing little kids on this journey of, fire and 560 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 4: really trying to make everything work because at the same 561 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,919 Speaker 4: time we're supposed to be saving money and making. 562 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 6: Money so, yeah that was another. 563 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:52,119 Speaker 2: Challenge your thirties are like that, decade And i'm right 564 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:53,679 Speaker 2: where you guys were eight years. Ago SO i am 565 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 2: listening with these big old. Years tell me what to, 566 00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:58,240 Speaker 2: do because this is a time in your life for 567 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,920 Speaker 2: a year of responsibilities get. Bigger you have the, baby 568 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 2: you get the, house maybe you get a, dog you 569 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,720 Speaker 2: get a you, know you move to the burbs or, 570 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 2: whatnot and you start TO i feel the pressure of it, 571 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:12,360 Speaker 2: all you, know the pressure of providing for my, child creating. 572 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 2: Stability and WHAT i love about you guys is that you, said, 573 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 2: yeah we have. It i'm sure you guys had a decent, 574 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 2: LIFE i mean comfortable. Life you both had great. Careers 575 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 2: christina you went to law. School you also worked for 576 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 2: the federal, government but you chose to like even aim 577 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 2: higher at the time when you started to think about 578 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 2: retiring before, forty where were you at? Financially were you 579 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,479 Speaker 2: just basic four WHEN k? Investors had you guys already 580 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 2: bought your, Properties had you had experience in the real 581 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 2: estate or did y'all start From, okay let's start getting 582 00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 2: into real, estate BECAUSE i know that was a cornerstone 583 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,640 Speaker 2: of your investing, strategy, Right, Yeah so you. 584 00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:49,919 Speaker 3: Know we were doing what most, people WELL i don't want 585 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,399 Speaker 3: to see most. People we Were we had the fundamentals in, 586 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,719 Speaker 3: place so we had an emergency fund and we were 587 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,399 Speaker 3: putting away about ten to fifteen percent of our income 588 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 3: into our retirement. Accounts but a lot of the pressures 589 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:05,199 Speaker 3: that you talked, About if we were, TO i guess 590 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,120 Speaker 3: get deeper into some of those, pressures we would have, 591 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 3: failed victim to lifestyle. Creep and so what started to 592 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 3: happen to us in our thirties was that we had 593 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 3: to make a serious. Shift and it was good that 594 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,639 Speaker 3: we had this, shift AND i had this moment at 595 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 3: work WHEN i, did because we were at that point 596 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 3: where we were going to be starting to make more. 597 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 3: MONEY a lot of these pressures we're going to start 598 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,919 Speaker 3: to pop up with the kids and with our, friends 599 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,919 Speaker 3: and you can really fall victim to those, things like 600 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,919 Speaker 3: getting a bigger, house like driving a nicer. Car and 601 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:42,280 Speaker 3: so for us at that, moment breaking loose of this 602 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 3: consumer culture and deciding to live in a smaller, house 603 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:50,000 Speaker 3: to drive an older, car and then take whatever extra 604 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,960 Speaker 3: money that we started to make and instead prioritize that 605 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 3: money into our. Investments it was definitely a crossroads for 606 00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 3: us and we can definitely attribute our sixth to making that. 607 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,800 Speaker 4: Shift, yeah AND i love how you, Say, mandy that 608 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 4: you know you're sort of at the stage that we 609 00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 4: were eight years, ago, Right because if you're when you're 610 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 4: in your, thirties you start to notice that you're you're 611 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 4: maybe potentially making more, money. Right you may have more 612 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 4: responsibilities at your, job you may be starting a, family 613 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 4: you may be buying a. House all of these things 614 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 4: are sort of coming to. Fruition things that you may 615 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 4: have wanted in your, twenties you're starting to get more 616 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 4: and more of them in your. Thirties and so that 617 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 4: is one of the big THINGS i think for people 618 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:38,720 Speaker 4: pursuing fire is really not getting attached to or not 619 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 4: falling down that whole of lifestyle creep as you start 620 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 4: to get more. Money it's not this concept, that, oh 621 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 4: you have more money so that you can spend more. 622 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 6: Money it's this idea that when. 623 00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:52,040 Speaker 4: You're making this more, money you were able to live 624 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 4: off of less money. Before when you make more, money 625 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 4: it doesn't mean that you have to spend more. Money 626 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 4: the idea is that you can save that money and 627 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 4: then invest that, money and then that is starting to 628 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,959 Speaker 4: grow during your fire. Journey and you don't even have 629 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 4: to have the goal of retiring. Early it could just 630 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,680 Speaker 4: be that you want to be financially independent so that 631 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 4: when you get older money is not. 632 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 6: Going to be an issue for. 633 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 4: You you can do whatever type of job makes you, 634 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,080 Speaker 4: happy and you don't have to, THINK i can't have 635 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 4: this job Because i'm not going to make enough money 636 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 4: to you, know pay all the bills for my family 637 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,040 Speaker 4: and things like. That so if you have this idea 638 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 4: when you're in the thirties of not falling down that 639 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 4: path of lifestyle, creep then you're way ahead of the 640 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 4: game in terms of where other people. 641 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,000 Speaker 2: Are, YEAH i just got to get my husband on 642 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 2: board with. 643 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 1: That so there's An african proverb that my dad would 644 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 1: say that you cut your coat according to your. Size you, 645 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 1: know that's so many people they're, like, Oh i'm, bigger 646 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 1: NOW i need a bigger, coat or Like i'm or 647 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:48,960 Speaker 1: they you know WHAT i. Mean you keep increasing and 648 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 1: so it just you're keeping the pace of the, increase 649 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 1: not realizing like DO i really need to continue to? 650 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 1: INCREASE i, Mean i'm a, cheapo SO i was like 651 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 1: living my cheapest life WHEN i was. THIRTY i lost 652 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,840 Speaker 1: my job. Then but one THING i really want to, 653 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 1: know because this is something THAT i struggled with WHEN 654 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 1: i was in my early thirties AND i was starting my, 655 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 1: business is, like what do you do for? Insurance because, 656 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:16,400 Speaker 1: honestly back then my insurance was, yoga water and. Prayer 657 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 1: so what do you do for? Insurance what do you 658 00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 1: do for? Insurance was it in that? 659 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 6: Order Tiffany? FIRST i think you know that is one 660 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 6: of the big things. 661 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 4: Too you, know when you are accumulating more, things you 662 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,680 Speaker 4: have to understand that you need insurance in place to 663 00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:38,720 Speaker 4: protect those. Things you know that you do not want 664 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,840 Speaker 4: to be in a worst case scenario where something happens 665 00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 4: and you're not. Insurance it could be your, house it 666 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 4: could be health, insurance it could be car, insurance it 667 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 4: could be any of. These you, know for, You, tiffany 668 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 4: if you're starting a business having business insurance when when 669 00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:51,760 Speaker 4: you were in your. 670 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:55,920 Speaker 6: Thirties but the idea is that insurance is supposed. 671 00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 4: To prevent you from losing all of your, assets because 672 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 4: how terrible would it be while you're gaining more, money 673 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 4: you have more, assets and something happens and you're not properly. 674 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 6: Insured and then you can lose. 675 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 4: Everything like right before we fired a, mon we were 676 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:21,320 Speaker 4: in The states And amn got just this, horrible horrible food. 677 00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,200 Speaker 4: Poisoning And i'm not just saying like he was throwing, 678 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 4: up he didn't feel. Well he was hospitalized for a. 679 00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 4: Week it Was it was. Awful it was really. BAD i, 680 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 4: MEAN i don't even want to go to how bad it. 681 00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 4: Was but it was worst case. Scenario and thank god 682 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:40,400 Speaker 4: we were insured because the hospital bill was. Insane it 683 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 4: was an insane amount of, money and then we still 684 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,040 Speaker 4: had to pay our portion of. It but if we 685 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 4: had not been, insured and this was right before we 686 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 4: were firing, too if we would not have been, insured 687 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,719 Speaker 4: there would have been a huge impact on our. Wealth 688 00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 4: and SO i think you know a lot of people 689 00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:00,880 Speaker 4: when they're, younger they want to hope for the. Best 690 00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 4: they think they're. Healthy you, know they don't need to 691 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 4: be insured because nothing's going to. Happen but even, HERE 692 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 4: covid is a great example of things that can happen 693 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 4: that are, unpredictable and so you have to make sure 694 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 4: you're properly. 695 00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 2: Insured have we mentioned the fact that y'all live In portugal? 696 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:18,200 Speaker 2: Yet can we just reiterate that at y'all didn't just 697 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:21,160 Speaker 2: quit your jobs and you, know kick back in THE. 698 00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,160 Speaker 2: Us you were, like, no let's take on a whole new, Country. 699 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,920 Speaker 2: Portugal talk to me about especially when it comes to. 700 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,000 Speaker 2: Healthcare i've watched this video already on your YouTube. Channel 701 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 2: i've watched them, all So i'm just trying to pretend 702 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 2: LIKE i haven't been stocking y'all for the past three. 703 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:36,080 Speaker 2: Weeks but, anyway talk about the cost of health care 704 00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,800 Speaker 2: In portugal and do you think that you could like 705 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 2: Was portugal the key element of why you were able 706 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,400 Speaker 2: to retire early because of the lower cost of. LIVING 707 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 2: i don't even know if there is a lower cost of. 708 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 2: Living but do you think you would have been able 709 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,280 Speaker 2: to retire early in THE us or do you decide 710 00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:53,640 Speaker 2: to go out of the country for those financial? Reasons and, 711 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 2: yeah To tiffany's question about health care, costs how are 712 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,480 Speaker 2: you guys covering your health care while In? 713 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 3: Lisbon, yeah So i'll go back to kind of when 714 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 3: we were first calculating our financial independence, number we based 715 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:09,440 Speaker 3: it off of the location that we planned on retiring. 716 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:13,319 Speaker 3: In and when we did that, calculation we had identified 717 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,560 Speaker 3: a couple of different numbers based off of different areas 718 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,799 Speaker 3: in the world that we were interested, in but we 719 00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,320 Speaker 3: had one big number that was based off of retiring 720 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 3: in The San Francisco bay area because that's our hometown 721 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:26,840 Speaker 3: and we know that our children may eventually want to 722 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,360 Speaker 3: go back to THE, us and so we wanted to 723 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,319 Speaker 3: base our number off of the highest, number and as 724 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,239 Speaker 3: a part of that number definitely included. Healthcare AND i 725 00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:38,600 Speaker 3: remember looking at healthcare, plans and that's one of the 726 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 3: things THAT i think holds people back from leaving their, 727 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:47,759 Speaker 3: jobs especially government, employees is the good. Healthcare and so for, 728 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:51,480 Speaker 3: us we had to break from those golden handcuffs by 729 00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 3: including the cost of healthcare in THE us and our fire, 730 00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:01,719 Speaker 3: number and so we did. That but while we were 731 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:04,520 Speaker 3: on our, journey we stayed the, course even though we 732 00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:06,319 Speaker 3: could have left a lot earlier and moved to a 733 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 3: lower cost of living. Area we met Our San Francisco 734 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 3: Bay area. Number but in the, end we, Chose we Chose. 735 00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:14,879 Speaker 3: Lisbon and it has been a pleasant surprise as far 736 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:18,640 Speaker 3: as the cost of healthcare because for our family of 737 00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 3: four hour health care is less than two thousand dollars a. 738 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 3: YEAR a, year, yes isn't that? Crazy In california it 739 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:30,040 Speaker 3: would have been a, month, right like. 740 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 1: A you know. 741 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,719 Speaker 6: Families, yeah, hey let me tell you this. Though it's 742 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 6: like we have been to the hospitals here already. 743 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 4: Too it's like we've gone for the girls have, asthma 744 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,120 Speaker 4: so they've had the minor asthma things that we have 745 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:46,440 Speaker 4: to go get treated at the. Hospital we've even had dental. 746 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 4: Work actually a mon was at the dentist. 747 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 6: Earlier. Today sanoah has, braces BUT i. 748 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:52,279 Speaker 3: Might get me some braces just. 749 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:59,480 Speaker 4: Because but you, know we have had such an incredible 750 00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,160 Speaker 4: experience with the healthcare. HERE i mean there's, nothing we 751 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,719 Speaker 4: don't have any language barriers when we go to speak 752 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,880 Speaker 4: to the, doctors to the, nurses to the. Staff everything 753 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 4: is so, smooth and we just show them our card 754 00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 4: and sometimes we have a very small copay and other times. 755 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 6: It's, like, oh we don't have anything at. All it's 756 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,000 Speaker 6: just you walk in and you walk. Out it is so. 757 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:24,760 Speaker 5: Simple, yes, Wow i'm not gonna, like my husband works 758 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 5: for The, Mandy your husband works for the, city, right 759 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 5: and so does, mine and that insurance. 760 00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 2: For the federal. Government. 761 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, so and my husband works for the. State, well 762 00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,400 Speaker 1: he works for the, city but his pension and everything 763 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,439 Speaker 1: is through his. State and that's been the thing that's 764 00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:44,239 Speaker 1: been like holding like a pensionssarily us because, yes well 765 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,480 Speaker 1: it's not the pension, honestly BECAUSE i could get, like you, 766 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,920 Speaker 1: know we make more than enough THAT i. Would i'm 767 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,560 Speaker 1: not worried about that the pension. Payout it's more so 768 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,439 Speaker 1: his insurance is so, amazing especially in The United, states 769 00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 1: especially in The East, coast BECAUSE i live In jersey 770 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,279 Speaker 1: and it's, like, eh he would love to leave any day, 771 00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:03,439 Speaker 1: now but he's got about five more. Years and it's 772 00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,759 Speaker 1: like the cost of health insurance The United, states it's 773 00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 1: so much so that it's like, bruh when need to 774 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:10,480 Speaker 1: take that with, us because you could take it with. 775 00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 1: You SO i totally get. It and, yeah but you, 776 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,400 Speaker 1: KNOW i DON'T i wouldn't mind moving To, portugal BUT 777 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:16,400 Speaker 1: i know he wouldn't want to do. 778 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,560 Speaker 4: That but, YEAH i know so many people have seen 779 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:23,479 Speaker 4: our channel and we have videos On portugal now and. 780 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,239 Speaker 6: Everyone's, LIKE i never even thought About. 781 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:27,680 Speaker 4: Portugal Now portugal is at the top of my list 782 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 4: and we're, like, Man portugal is. Amazing it's like this 783 00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,160 Speaker 4: hidden secret and it's not so hidden. ANYMORE i think 784 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,000 Speaker 4: more and more people are finding out about. 785 00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 6: It but JUST i, mean the healthcare alone is something 786 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:42,959 Speaker 6: to think about because. 787 00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 4: Just moving here and having the lifestyle or the pace 788 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:47,480 Speaker 4: that they have. 789 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 6: Here In, portugal it's just. 790 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,960 Speaker 2: Amazing, well talk to me about the key for me 791 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 2: IS i mean. Healthcare and it's fascinating to hear what 792 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,319 Speaker 2: you guys are spending on healthcare In portugal versus THE. 793 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,080 Speaker 2: Us but let's go back again into the early. Days 794 00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,960 Speaker 2: what were some of the and so when you described 795 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:05,759 Speaker 2: how y'all were saving back, THEN i think that really 796 00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,520 Speaker 2: resonates with me because that's WHAT i had been doing 797 00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:10,760 Speaker 2: since in my early, twenties saving that ten to fifteen 798 00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 2: percent and my four oh one k and feeling very 799 00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:15,520 Speaker 2: smart about. It but what was the first step y'all 800 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 2: took to ratchet up your? Investments how did you start? 801 00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:21,080 Speaker 2: Investing did you just max out your four one? Ks 802 00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:23,399 Speaker 2: when you max them? Out where did you go from? 803 00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:25,879 Speaker 2: There can you walk us through like laddering up your 804 00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 2: investments and build and really what it took to build 805 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 2: and grow your wealth in your? Thirties? 806 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:36,080 Speaker 3: Oh? Certainly, so you, know it started with having our 807 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 3: fire number in, place and then so with that, number 808 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 3: we were able to kind of figure out what we 809 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 3: needed to get to as far as a savings rate 810 00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:47,840 Speaker 3: in order to retire in ten years based off of 811 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:51,120 Speaker 3: the returns in the market or our returns in real. 812 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:55,200 Speaker 3: Estate so with that number in, mind we just tried 813 00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:59,000 Speaker 3: to get our savings rate, up And i'll say that 814 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:01,840 Speaker 3: our savings rate by the end was as high as seventy. 815 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:05,560 Speaker 3: Percent so we went from saving ten to fifteen all 816 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 3: the way up to seventy. Percent but we didn't do it. 817 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,839 Speaker 3: Overnight we just got one percent better as much as 818 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,520 Speaker 3: we could and as soon as we. Could, so you, 819 00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:18,040 Speaker 3: know if we just were able to lower our bills 820 00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:22,080 Speaker 3: and increase our, salary and then that gap grew our savings. 821 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:25,640 Speaker 3: Rate and so with that additional money that we were 822 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:30,000 Speaker 3: saving and, making we were prioritizing our. Investments and we 823 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 3: have something called a pay yourself first, budget but it's 824 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:38,319 Speaker 3: really heavy on paying yourself into your investment. Accounts and 825 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:42,279 Speaker 3: so we started with our tax advantage accounts first and 826 00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,920 Speaker 3: putting as much money into those accounts because those are 827 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:49,640 Speaker 3: the real accounts that you can really see wealth growth 828 00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 3: in because of all the tax incentives and tax. Advantages 829 00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,960 Speaker 3: and so that was a big, priority was maxing out 830 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:56,800 Speaker 3: our tax advantage. 831 00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,640 Speaker 2: Accounts you're talk saying about your four oh ONE. K 832 00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:03,760 Speaker 2: i know you guys use AN, hsa what a tax advantaged, 833 00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:05,880 Speaker 2: Accounts so we. 834 00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:09,880 Speaker 3: We talked about the basically the four accounts that we 835 00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:13,080 Speaker 3: called the four pillars of fire for us was the 836 00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:16,120 Speaker 3: four oh ONE, k THE, hsa and the ROTH. Ira 837 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:20,440 Speaker 3: so maxing those out at a minimum was was really 838 00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,400 Speaker 3: big for. Us and then after that we moved to 839 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:29,600 Speaker 3: basically a regular brokerage, account so just investing In vanguard 840 00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:34,160 Speaker 3: and investing in low cost ETFs and index. Funds at 841 00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:37,759 Speaker 3: the same time that we were also investing in the stock. 842 00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:40,719 Speaker 3: Market we had read all of these books on real 843 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:43,440 Speaker 3: estate investing and really type people to read something and 844 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 3: then to take action with. It so we had gotten 845 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 3: all the real estate concepts down as much as we 846 00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:49,799 Speaker 3: were going to get them, down and then we went to. 847 00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 3: Work so we took an fah a loan and we 848 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,520 Speaker 3: bought our first house in The San fransco b area 849 00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:57,680 Speaker 3: with three percent down and it was it was a 850 00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,560 Speaker 3: it was a fixer, upper and we did something called 851 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,279 Speaker 3: a live flip where we lived in the, house fixed it, 852 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:04,600 Speaker 3: up got equity in that, home and then use that 853 00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:08,439 Speaker 3: equity to buy other. Properties and with AN faha, loan 854 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:11,399 Speaker 3: that's the that's the best way for someone to get 855 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,960 Speaker 3: started in real estate is doing something like a live 856 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,200 Speaker 3: and flip because after you've lived in that home for three, 857 00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:19,880 Speaker 3: years you can sell that home and keep one hundred 858 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,960 Speaker 3: percent of your profits up to a certain amount depending 859 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,320 Speaker 3: on if you're married or. Single and so that was 860 00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:27,040 Speaker 3: that was a big game changer for us as. 861 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:30,000 Speaker 4: Well SO i, think, really you, know there's there's different 862 00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:33,600 Speaker 4: ways that you can reach financial independence or financial independence 863 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,839 Speaker 4: and retire. Early so you could do it through investing 864 00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,600 Speaker 4: in the stock. Market so in the stock, market you, 865 00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:43,680 Speaker 4: know if that is someone's, plan then they absolutely want 866 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:46,880 Speaker 4: to make sure that they're maxing out their tax advantage accounts, 867 00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:49,719 Speaker 4: first because then you're protecting more of your money from 868 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 4: it being taken away by, taxes and by protecting it 869 00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:53,359 Speaker 4: more then you can. 870 00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:54,000 Speaker 6: Allow it to grow. 871 00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,279 Speaker 4: More so the idea, though is that you have to 872 00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,440 Speaker 4: max out that, account but you have to go beyond. 873 00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,080 Speaker 4: That so once you max out your teach advantage, accounts 874 00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,400 Speaker 4: then the idea is that you open up a traditional 875 00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,399 Speaker 4: brokerage account and you start throwing money that there as. 876 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,640 Speaker 4: Well so there's one way to reach financial. Independence but 877 00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 4: then the other way is also through real. Estate if 878 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:15,920 Speaker 4: you want to start investing in real estate and putting 879 00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:21,840 Speaker 4: money into different real estate real estate properties and creating 880 00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:24,960 Speaker 4: rentals and creating rental, income that is another. Way or 881 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,080 Speaker 4: you can just invest in real estate and do like 882 00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,880 Speaker 4: what a mon sat, is basically flipping the properties and 883 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,960 Speaker 4: then eventually selling them and taking the profit from. That 884 00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,839 Speaker 4: or you can do a combination of real estate and 885 00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:39,239 Speaker 4: investing in the stock. Market but it all comes down 886 00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:43,120 Speaker 4: really to these fundamental. Pieces when you're pursuing, fire is 887 00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 4: that the idea is that somehow you. 888 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:47,879 Speaker 6: Have to find ways to try and make more. 889 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:52,040 Speaker 4: Money and it can be through getting a more money 890 00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,120 Speaker 4: through your, salary or it can be doing different side, 891 00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,399 Speaker 4: hustles but then it's saving more money and then it's 892 00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:59,480 Speaker 4: focusing on that investment piece as, well y'all side. 893 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 2: Hustles, LITERALLY i get so many giggles out of hearing 894 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:06,759 Speaker 2: about how you guys found creative ways to build. Wealth 895 00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 2: first of, All i'm, like where do you get the 896 00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:11,120 Speaker 2: energy with two? Bait like two little? Girls and y'all 897 00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:14,440 Speaker 2: are like what building furniture out of wine crates and 898 00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:20,680 Speaker 2: digging through ikeas reduced like returns bins and like selling 899 00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:24,000 Speaker 2: flipping furniture? Online talk about how y'all brought in extra, 900 00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:26,560 Speaker 2: money and like what was the most meaningful source of 901 00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:29,480 Speaker 2: extra income y'all? Created you, know we. 902 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,000 Speaker 3: Always talk about this because looking back on, it we 903 00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,040 Speaker 3: laugh about some of the things that we. Did but for, 904 00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:38,759 Speaker 3: us it's. Weird when you're on this, journey it's like 905 00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:43,719 Speaker 3: your mind like produces income out out of. Nowhere there's 906 00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:45,759 Speaker 3: literally money in the streets and you just have to 907 00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,400 Speaker 3: go pick it. Up, so, actually someone sent us a 908 00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 3: message today because one of our side hustles was we 909 00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:56,520 Speaker 3: Had christina was writing tooth fairy letters On. Etsy she 910 00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,880 Speaker 3: created An etsy store and it was my. Favorite it 911 00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:02,560 Speaker 3: was like it was it was so. Funny and when 912 00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,440 Speaker 3: she when she came up with this, IDEA i was, like, people, 913 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,440 Speaker 3: really people really buying letters like. That they're families that do. 914 00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:10,920 Speaker 4: That, Yeah but but someone actually reached out to reached 915 00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:13,799 Speaker 4: out to us, today which is so, funny asking us, 916 00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:15,040 Speaker 4: about you, know the details of. 917 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:15,959 Speaker 6: It how do you do, It. 918 00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:17,759 Speaker 4: How are you sending it? Out are you sending it 919 00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:19,960 Speaker 4: out already pre? Packaged do you send it out to 920 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:21,680 Speaker 4: the parent or to the? Child so it was so 921 00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,680 Speaker 4: interesting because you, know people are interested in finding these 922 00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:27,040 Speaker 4: new ways to make, money and SO i just, thought you, 923 00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,320 Speaker 4: know this is a creative. Thing but like you, said 924 00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:32,920 Speaker 4: we we, uh we're not too shy to go dumpster. 925 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,480 Speaker 4: Diving we did that at one, point And i'll tell 926 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:39,160 Speaker 4: you the specific specifics of. That we were driving around In, 927 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:42,279 Speaker 4: oakland which is in The San Francisco bay, area and 928 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:46,480 Speaker 4: we drove past this huge dumpster and it had all of, 929 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,560 Speaker 4: THESE i don't, guess not brand new wine, crates but 930 00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:52,000 Speaker 4: it had all of these wine crates in them and 931 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 4: they were so. 932 00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:53,840 Speaker 6: Beautiful it's like these wine. 933 00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,879 Speaker 4: Boxes, Yes and there was a liquor store that had 934 00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:01,160 Speaker 4: dumped them all out into this garbage to this, dumpster 935 00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:03,560 Speaker 4: getting rid of. Them and we went into the to 936 00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,680 Speaker 4: the liquor store and we, said are you dumping? These 937 00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:06,719 Speaker 4: are you you don't want? 938 00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,200 Speaker 6: These can we have? Them and so they said. Yes 939 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,280 Speaker 6: so we filled up. 940 00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:14,520 Speaker 4: Our car with so many wine boxes and then we 941 00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,200 Speaker 4: took them home and our garage was just piled full 942 00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:19,640 Speaker 4: of wine. Boxes and we ended up selling. Those we 943 00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,359 Speaker 4: got them for, free and we ended up selling them 944 00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:25,719 Speaker 4: on Like facebook And, craigslist and people were just it 945 00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,640 Speaker 4: was so easy to sell because people thought they were 946 00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,280 Speaker 4: really beautiful wine boxes and they couldn't find them, anywhere 947 00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:32,839 Speaker 4: and people were willing to pay us for. 948 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:35,879 Speaker 2: That. YEAH i was like a bougie broke hipster ten years, 949 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,600 Speaker 2: ago living In queens with my boyfriend at the, time my. Husband, 950 00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,320 Speaker 2: now we were the dumb. Dumbs not the dumb. Dumbs 951 00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:43,760 Speaker 2: we were the ones buying, wine trying to find wine 952 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:47,080 Speaker 2: crates On craigslist and begging liquor stores to give them to. 953 00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:50,319 Speaker 2: Us y'all stumbled upon a little jackpot right THERE i was, like, 954 00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,279 Speaker 2: OH i would love. That, yeah we did. 955 00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:54,480 Speaker 6: THAT i mean we, also Like aman, said we had 956 00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,040 Speaker 6: flipped our. Properties so one of. 957 00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:59,439 Speaker 4: The things we found At, ikea which, IS i feel 958 00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:02,200 Speaker 4: Like ikea, EVERYWHERE i mean there's even An. Ikea there's 959 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,520 Speaker 4: like Five ikeas In portugal, here but In ikea they 960 00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,399 Speaker 4: have this as is. Section so that is another one 961 00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,320 Speaker 4: of our side. Hustles we discovered. This i'm not saying 962 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,319 Speaker 4: like we're the only ones who've discovered, it but we 963 00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:17,760 Speaker 4: discovered that you can buy these items in the as 964 00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,919 Speaker 4: is section and they're. ANYWHERE i, mean you can get 965 00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 4: things for ninety percent, off, yes up to ninety percent, 966 00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:26,560 Speaker 4: off or if they're you, know if they're no longer 967 00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:31,040 Speaker 4: having a certain, product like an entire fridge or entire kitchen, 968 00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,879 Speaker 4: display you can get for up to ninety percent. Off 969 00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:37,840 Speaker 4: so we started buying these really nice items In ikea 970 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:38,719 Speaker 4: and reselling. 971 00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:40,759 Speaker 3: Those, also y's what we had a. Niche how our 972 00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:45,040 Speaker 3: niche was. Kitchen it was basically like kitchen construction, material 973 00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:49,920 Speaker 3: so the, cabinets the, countertops, refrigerators, hoods all of these different. 974 00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:53,400 Speaker 3: Things When ikea changes out its kitchens in the, showroom 975 00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:56,759 Speaker 3: they would put their entire kitchen down into the as 976 00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:59,400 Speaker 3: this section and we'd be waiting for. It we just 977 00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,279 Speaker 3: picked it right. Up it was ninety percent off and 978 00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:05,640 Speaker 3: you can resell this stuff and make a lot of. 979 00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:08,440 Speaker 3: Money we Were my kids Hate ikea now BECAUSE i 980 00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:11,520 Speaker 3: was taking them in there all the. Time and this 981 00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:14,560 Speaker 3: is a side, thing but Every wednesday kids eat free At, 982 00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:16,319 Speaker 3: ikea so we were there Every. 983 00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:20,920 Speaker 2: Wednesday they're probably think of those, meatballs BUT i KNOW 984 00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:21,879 Speaker 2: i lived up that trod. 985 00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,480 Speaker 1: Furnished my whole first apartment was The ikea AS a. 986 00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: SECTION i was, like oh, no we will have cute, 987 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 1: things but cute things on a. Budget SO i feel 988 00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:29,919 Speaker 1: YOU i never thought about. 989 00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:33,279 Speaker 2: This i'm a victim of lifestyle. Creep i'll fess up to. 990 00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:36,279 Speaker 2: It we bought our house and it Was West elm 991 00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:41,000 Speaker 2: all the way, y'all AND i feel, foolish but it's. 992 00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:43,480 Speaker 2: True we Did West, elm and Like Creighton, barrel you 993 00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:47,120 Speaker 2: want to have nice, stuff AND i always considered myself 994 00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:49,920 Speaker 2: to be you, KNOW i, Mean i've been doing personal 995 00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:51,759 Speaker 2: finance for over a decade and you KNOW i know. 996 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:55,680 Speaker 2: Better but the allure of just being comfortable and having nice, 997 00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:59,280 Speaker 2: things especially for people who you, know for me, personally 998 00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:01,719 Speaker 2: coming from, family we weren't like super, poor but we 999 00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,279 Speaker 2: didn't have like really nice. Stuff and you, know you 1000 00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:07,279 Speaker 2: want to you want to like enjoy the fruits of 1001 00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:10,800 Speaker 2: your your hard, work and that felt like a way 1002 00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:14,520 Speaker 2: of acknowledging the hard work and about you, know investing 1003 00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:18,359 Speaker 2: in our own. Comfort But i'm a little, surprised you, 1004 00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:21,360 Speaker 2: know two years out from that renovation Where i'm, thinking you, 1005 00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:24,279 Speaker 2: know was that the best way to celebrate our you, 1006 00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:28,759 Speaker 2: know our, success like giving another company all this? Money you, 1007 00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:32,160 Speaker 2: know like there's probably other. Ways So I'm i'm thinking 1008 00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:34,000 Speaker 2: so much about some of the Choices i've made and 1009 00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:37,680 Speaker 2: how emotions play into, that you, know especially as you're 1010 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:41,040 Speaker 2: starting to build and build a family and earn more 1011 00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:42,520 Speaker 2: in your. Thirties like y'all, said. 1012 00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 4: YEAH i, KNOW i think definitely there's this idea that 1013 00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,040 Speaker 4: And aman AND i talk about it a. Lot, actually 1014 00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:53,680 Speaker 4: it's like you can make short term sacrifices for long term. 1015 00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:55,839 Speaker 6: Gains and that's really how we thought about. 1016 00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:58,319 Speaker 4: It when we're thinking about or even if you're thinking 1017 00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:00,759 Speaker 4: about how much it costs to DO, X y OR, 1018 00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:04,440 Speaker 4: z converting that into hours of, work, right it's like 1019 00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,600 Speaker 4: would you put that many hours of work so that 1020 00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:08,279 Speaker 4: you could have this or so that you could do 1021 00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,960 Speaker 4: something or do. That and so that's an interesting way 1022 00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:13,160 Speaker 4: to start to think about. 1023 00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:14,520 Speaker 6: It but also. 1024 00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 4: Realizing you know what is in your, future what do 1025 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,239 Speaker 4: you look, for what do you look forward to the 1026 00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:23,080 Speaker 4: most in the, future and really thinking about it at that, 1027 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,880 Speaker 4: way thinking that you, know IF i IF i maybe 1028 00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,319 Speaker 4: don't spend my money in this area or IF i 1029 00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,560 Speaker 4: cut back in this. Area it may be a little hard, 1030 00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:35,360 Speaker 4: initially but if you're looking at the long term, results 1031 00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:38,240 Speaker 4: what you can get in return for maybe not buying 1032 00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:41,160 Speaker 4: the BIG tv or the new car or something like, 1033 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:45,719 Speaker 4: that then you can start really pursuing fire in a 1034 00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:49,440 Speaker 4: meaningful way where you're really focused on cutting out, expenses 1035 00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:51,799 Speaker 4: not buying big, expenses and really trying to make more 1036 00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:52,920 Speaker 4: in funnel towards your. 1037 00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:57,320 Speaker 2: Investments y'all didn't just focus on cutting cutting cutting. Expenses 1038 00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:00,920 Speaker 2: y'all still took time and you invested in experiences that 1039 00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:03,120 Speaker 2: meant a lot to. Y'all can you talk about how 1040 00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:06,440 Speaker 2: you balanced experiences and things that you would continue to 1041 00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:09,520 Speaker 2: splurge on and then balance that with your mission to 1042 00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:10,600 Speaker 2: save as much as you could. 1043 00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:15,680 Speaker 4: YEAH i would say one of our biggest expenses in 1044 00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:17,799 Speaker 4: terms of what we cut that we really wanted to 1045 00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 4: do that we're able to figure it, out was. Traveling 1046 00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:24,960 Speaker 4: like we lived In, spain we lived In, japan we 1047 00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:25,680 Speaker 4: now live In. 1048 00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:27,920 Speaker 6: Portugal we traveled To hawaii a. 1049 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:31,520 Speaker 4: Lot among's brother lives In, hawaii so we were definitely 1050 00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,560 Speaker 4: a huge travel family and that was very important to, 1051 00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:36,480 Speaker 4: us and we really didn't want to give that. Up 1052 00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:39,160 Speaker 4: but it can be expensive for a family of four 1053 00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:43,120 Speaker 4: traveling abroad all the time Or hawaii and making these, 1054 00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:46,960 Speaker 4: trips and so we figured out travel hacking where we 1055 00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:51,000 Speaker 4: would take out credit cards and we would use the 1056 00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:53,919 Speaker 4: bonus points for the credit cards by taking them, out 1057 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:57,359 Speaker 4: and we would use them for hotel stays and for, 1058 00:50:57,560 --> 00:51:00,880 Speaker 4: airfare and we were able to start travel for. Free 1059 00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:04,240 Speaker 4: NOW i would say though that this this travel hacking 1060 00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:07,719 Speaker 4: concept is absolutely not for. EVERYONE i, mean you have to 1061 00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,319 Speaker 4: understand how credit. Works you have to start off with 1062 00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:12,759 Speaker 4: good credit and maintain good, credit and don't go in 1063 00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:15,400 Speaker 4: this rabbit hole where you're just trying to spend money 1064 00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:17,440 Speaker 4: on your credit card so that you can get the. 1065 00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:20,040 Speaker 4: Points it doesn't work like. That there's a it's a 1066 00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:23,160 Speaker 4: bit more nuanced than. That so it's not for, everyone 1067 00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:26,000 Speaker 4: but for. Us For aman AND, i we had excellent. 1068 00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:29,200 Speaker 4: Credit we never had any debt on our credit. Cards 1069 00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:32,520 Speaker 4: we always paid our credit card off in full every single, 1070 00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:35,799 Speaker 4: month and so by figuring out travel, hacking we were 1071 00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:39,560 Speaker 4: able to continue to travel the world and still enjoy 1072 00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:41,719 Speaker 4: all of the different things we could by, traveling but 1073 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:42,480 Speaker 4: we got to do it for. 1074 00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:44,960 Speaker 2: Free oh, yeah tip AND i love to talk about 1075 00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:48,480 Speaker 2: what how to not you, know fall into, that to 1076 00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:51,560 Speaker 2: that black hole of credit card spending just to get some. Points. 1077 00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Absolutely SO i do have a question, though because 1078 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,960 Speaker 1: the struggle THAT i have is not it's not the 1079 00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:02,439 Speaker 1: living frugally got that you. Know and, so but did 1080 00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:05,920 Speaker 1: you ever feel like are we over? Sacrificing because that 1081 00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:09,920 Speaker 1: is something THAT i struggle with THAT i sometimes struggle 1082 00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:13,640 Speaker 1: with the enjoying on the other. Side and so do 1083 00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:16,319 Speaker 1: you ever feel, like you, know you were over Sacrificing 1084 00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:19,600 Speaker 1: and if, so how did you manage that or if, 1085 00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:20,880 Speaker 1: not how did you avoid? That? 1086 00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:24,000 Speaker 4: YEAH i think that for, us we didn't feel like 1087 00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:27,520 Speaker 4: we were over sacrificing because we built in things on 1088 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:29,640 Speaker 4: our journey so that we could enjoy Things, so LIKE i, 1089 00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:32,120 Speaker 4: said we did. Traveling we traveled quite a, lot and 1090 00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:34,560 Speaker 4: we also this is something that we didn't save any money, 1091 00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,399 Speaker 4: on but we still did. It we're from The we're From, 1092 00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:40,239 Speaker 4: oakland LIKE i, Said and we went to a lot 1093 00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:43,120 Speaker 4: of warrior games and we didn't get the nosebleed. Seats 1094 00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:45,160 Speaker 4: we were sitting you, KNOW i wouldn't say on the, 1095 00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 4: floor but maybe five rows back off of the. Floor 1096 00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:50,480 Speaker 4: so that was one of the expenses that. 1097 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:51,759 Speaker 6: We splurged on when we were In. 1098 00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:55,200 Speaker 4: Oakland BUT i like to tell people a lot that 1099 00:52:55,800 --> 00:53:00,160 Speaker 4: you should you should enjoy the. Journey you should enjoy 1100 00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:04,680 Speaker 4: your journey towards, fire because sometimes it's not all just 1101 00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,480 Speaker 4: about that destination of being able to. Retire Right if 1102 00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:11,160 Speaker 4: you're miserable on your, journey you're not spending a single 1103 00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:16,239 Speaker 4: dime doing anything you are are you, know not going 1104 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:18,640 Speaker 4: out with your, friends or you're not doing anything with 1105 00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:21,960 Speaker 4: anyone your family. Members it's a miserable journey and it's not. 1106 00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:25,760 Speaker 4: Sustainable so you have to you have to figure out 1107 00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:28,120 Speaker 4: what the right balance is for. You so we're NOT 1108 00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:32,160 Speaker 4: i wouldn't encourage everyone to just you, know count every 1109 00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:36,719 Speaker 4: single penny and live in a way where they're just 1110 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:38,120 Speaker 4: not able to enjoy. 1111 00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:40,040 Speaker 6: Anything, yeah AND i think. 1112 00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,759 Speaker 3: This is a this is a misconception about The Fire, 1113 00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:45,360 Speaker 3: movement is that the people that are on this journey 1114 00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:49,160 Speaker 3: are eating beans and sacrifice and they don't have cable Or, 1115 00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:53,319 Speaker 3: netflix you, know they don't go. Anywhere that's that's absolutely not. 1116 00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,960 Speaker 3: True to do, this you have to just find creative 1117 00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:01,359 Speaker 3: ways to enjoy yourself and you have to figure out 1118 00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:03,879 Speaker 3: a way to make more. Money that's the other side 1119 00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:05,279 Speaker 3: of the. Equation preach on. 1120 00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:07,840 Speaker 2: It say it again THAT i wish. 1121 00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:09,799 Speaker 3: The Fire movement talk more about is you have to 1122 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,280 Speaker 3: get out there and if you're in your, thirties, twenties 1123 00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:14,640 Speaker 3: if you're, forties, fifties you have to get on the. 1124 00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:18,600 Speaker 3: Grind like would people would say to, us how do 1125 00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:21,040 Speaker 3: you how are you able to do this with? Kids 1126 00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,600 Speaker 3: you're in law. School it's, like we don't know anything 1127 00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:26,319 Speaker 3: else but. This so we didn't set a low. Bar 1128 00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:29,880 Speaker 3: we set a high bar and that's all we. Knew 1129 00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:35,080 Speaker 3: so for, us we don't, define you, know our journey 1130 00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,719 Speaker 3: in any particular. Way it's just it is what it. 1131 00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:40,759 Speaker 3: Is that's why we called our YouTube channel Our Rich 1132 00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:44,640 Speaker 3: journey because this is this is how we live our. 1133 00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:47,600 Speaker 3: Life when people find out what our budget is here In, 1134 00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:52,080 Speaker 3: portugal we live pretty. Luxuriously you. Know we spend four 1135 00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:56,279 Speaker 3: thousand dollars a month here In. Portugal and you, know 1136 00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:58,200 Speaker 3: for some people they, say oh my, god that's too, 1137 00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 3: much or some people, say oh that it's not. Enough 1138 00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:03,920 Speaker 3: but it's. Relative AND i think anyone that's on this 1139 00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:06,319 Speaker 3: journey they have to figure out a way to do 1140 00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:11,479 Speaker 3: it relatively well so that they enjoy. Themselves someone reached 1141 00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:13,920 Speaker 3: out to me today and they, said you, know we're 1142 00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:16,480 Speaker 3: on this journey and we're wondering whether or not we 1143 00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:20,560 Speaker 3: should start to cut some of the activities for our. 1144 00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:25,080 Speaker 3: Children AND i immediately, thought, no why would. You, no 1145 00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:29,120 Speaker 3: don't do. That don't sacrifice your child's. Childhood you, know 1146 00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:32,759 Speaker 3: for this, journey figure out different ways to approach the, 1147 00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:36,759 Speaker 3: problem you. Know so that's what we did on our. 1148 00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:41,520 Speaker 3: Journey we would encounter a problem like, childcare like, travel 1149 00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:44,319 Speaker 3: like owning a, home and we would just figure out 1150 00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:47,720 Speaker 3: a way to get through the challenge or over or around. 1151 00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:49,480 Speaker 3: It but we never we never let it stop. 1152 00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:52,200 Speaker 2: Us, YEAH i mean your girls were in. Basketball you, 1153 00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:55,640 Speaker 2: said they do swimming like you you've always encouraged those. 1154 00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,120 Speaker 2: HOBBIES i, mean now they're YouTube, stars so it's not 1155 00:55:58,160 --> 00:56:01,399 Speaker 2: going to be their new. Hobby but before we let y'all, 1156 00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:03,359 Speaker 2: go we HAVE i really want to talk to y'all 1157 00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:06,919 Speaker 2: about your investing philosopy and how you are weathering because 1158 00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,760 Speaker 2: your investments are mostly still in THE, us right, yes 1159 00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:12,239 Speaker 2: so talk to us about BECAUSE i know people listening right. 1160 00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:15,360 Speaker 2: NOW i, mean let's not let's let's not mince words 1161 00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:18,120 Speaker 2: here like we. Are we're THE us is being crippled 1162 00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,680 Speaker 2: by this current pandemic and economic. CRISIS i, mean we 1163 00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:24,000 Speaker 2: have what tens of millions Of americans out of. Work 1164 00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:27,400 Speaker 2: my own father was has is still laid. Off congress 1165 00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:30,680 Speaker 2: can't get their act together with these stimulus checks and 1166 00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:34,440 Speaker 2: federal uh you, know unemployment benefits are in limbo right. 1167 00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:36,600 Speaker 2: Now so there's people out there who are, truly truly, 1168 00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:40,040 Speaker 2: hurting and even infant people who have been doing it 1169 00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,239 Speaker 2: quote unquote the right way and investing in their four 1170 00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,600 Speaker 2: one k have seen their four one ks you, know 1171 00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:49,040 Speaker 2: take dips this. Year so y'all y'all have. Retired what 1172 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,319 Speaker 2: what do you say to people who are feeling, like oh, 1173 00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:53,160 Speaker 2: shit like is this the right time to be putting 1174 00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:55,680 Speaker 2: money in the, market and how, like how can we 1175 00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:59,319 Speaker 2: trust that things will work? Out talk to us about 1176 00:56:59,320 --> 00:57:02,279 Speaker 2: your approach to investing right now in this, moment you, 1177 00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:04,640 Speaker 2: know how you're weathering what's happening in THE, us even 1178 00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:07,040 Speaker 2: though you're In portugal. Now and what do you say 1179 00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:11,200 Speaker 2: to people who are feeling a little gunshy about getting 1180 00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:11,719 Speaker 2: into the market? 1181 00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:14,799 Speaker 3: Now, yeah, well you, know that's a great. Question AND 1182 00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:19,360 Speaker 3: i always tell people. This don't invest money that you 1183 00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:22,840 Speaker 3: need to live off of every. Day so before you 1184 00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:27,040 Speaker 3: even buy your first, investment you should have the fundamentals in. 1185 00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:30,240 Speaker 3: Place you should have your credit paid down and emergency 1186 00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,160 Speaker 3: fund in, place and then you can start investing in 1187 00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:36,520 Speaker 3: the stock. Market because when you invest in the stock, 1188 00:57:36,560 --> 00:57:39,720 Speaker 3: market you shouldn't need that money in the next five 1189 00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:43,080 Speaker 3: to ten. Years this is long term. Money you shouldn't 1190 00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:47,480 Speaker 3: want this money for. Decades so what's happening right? Now it. 1191 00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:51,400 Speaker 3: Is it is completely, awful you, know but if you 1192 00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:55,000 Speaker 3: have a plan in, place this should not distract. You 1193 00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:57,720 Speaker 3: if it's not taking away from your, Income if you 1194 00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:00,080 Speaker 3: still have your income and you still have the ability to, 1195 00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:03,280 Speaker 3: invest you should be investing that. Money don't get don't 1196 00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:05,959 Speaker 3: get consumed by what's going on in the. World, yes 1197 00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:11,320 Speaker 3: you should should you should definitely be involved in it 1198 00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:15,040 Speaker 3: socially and. Politically but if you have your investments on cruise, 1199 00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:18,200 Speaker 3: control then money should be the least of your worries right. 1200 00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:20,840 Speaker 3: Now you should just let that money. Ride SO i 1201 00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:23,280 Speaker 3: always say, that you, know once you have those fundamental 1202 00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:25,520 Speaker 3: things in, place and you have your investments on cruise, 1203 00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:28,520 Speaker 3: control then you can focus on everyday. 1204 00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:32,000 Speaker 4: Life, Yeah AND i would also, say you, know when 1205 00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:35,160 Speaker 4: when you think about the stock, market it seems so 1206 00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:39,560 Speaker 4: backwards because when the stock market, plummets a lot of 1207 00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:44,160 Speaker 4: people are pulling their investments out because they're afraid that 1208 00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:46,680 Speaker 4: they're going to lose all of their. Money so it's, 1209 00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:48,960 Speaker 4: like let me get let me get my investments. Out 1210 00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:51,040 Speaker 4: i'm going to take the, loss but it's better than 1211 00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:55,240 Speaker 4: not having any money at, all and then then the 1212 00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:57,880 Speaker 4: stock market ultimately goes back, up and then if they 1213 00:58:57,880 --> 00:58:59,880 Speaker 4: would have just left their money, in they would have 1214 00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:02,800 Speaker 4: been better off in the long. Run it's almost like 1215 00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:05,880 Speaker 4: you sort of have to go against the herd mentality 1216 00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:09,360 Speaker 4: when it comes to the stock, market because once you 1217 00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:14,200 Speaker 4: learn more about the stock market and understand the history 1218 00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:16,240 Speaker 4: of the stock. Market and this is not to stay 1219 00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:18,720 Speaker 4: that the history of the stock market will predict the 1220 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:23,080 Speaker 4: future of the stock. Market but, historically since, forever the 1221 00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:26,720 Speaker 4: stock market has always ultimately gone. Up and so when 1222 00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:29,240 Speaker 4: people are, THINKING i don't know IF i should invest 1223 00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:32,320 Speaker 4: right now because the stock market just dropped something like, 1224 00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:34,160 Speaker 4: that or MAYBE i should pull my money out Because 1225 00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:35,920 Speaker 4: i'm losing money AND i don't want to lose, it, 1226 00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:39,680 Speaker 4: all the idea should really, be if the stock market 1227 00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:45,320 Speaker 4: has historically always gone, up then when the stock market 1228 00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:49,280 Speaker 4: goes down is an excellent time to. Invest is an 1229 00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:52,240 Speaker 4: excellent time if you have any, money to throw your 1230 00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:55,440 Speaker 4: money into the stock market when it's, down because when 1231 00:59:55,480 --> 01:00:00,400 Speaker 4: it ultimately goes, up then you Are then you're making 1232 01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:01,680 Speaker 4: money and you're getting a return on. 1233 01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:02,400 Speaker 6: That and the same. 1234 01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:04,000 Speaker 4: Thing if your money is in there and you keep 1235 01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:06,680 Speaker 4: it in there rather than sell it and it ultimately goes, 1236 01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:09,080 Speaker 4: up then stock, market your portfolio is worth. 1237 01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:12,400 Speaker 3: More BUT i, Think, mandy you want to know what 1238 01:00:12,520 --> 01:00:14,680 Speaker 3: we're doing. Right you want to know how we're weathering 1239 01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:19,480 Speaker 3: this this, storm AND i THINK i think a lot 1240 01:00:19,480 --> 01:00:25,160 Speaker 3: of people have that. Question but when we first started our, 1241 01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:30,200 Speaker 3: plan we devised a plan that involved front loading our 1242 01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:36,600 Speaker 3: investments into very aggressive index, funds so technology and total 1243 01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:39,400 Speaker 3: stock market index. Funds and then as we got towards 1244 01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:42,320 Speaker 3: the latter half of our, journey we started to build 1245 01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:45,560 Speaker 3: up what's called the stock market emergency fund for dips like. 1246 01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:50,320 Speaker 3: This that was over two years worth of living expenses 1247 01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:52,640 Speaker 3: in case the stock market were to drop and we 1248 01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:55,160 Speaker 3: would have to make that switch from not pulling from 1249 01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:57,280 Speaker 3: the stock market because you don't want to pull from 1250 01:00:57,320 --> 01:00:59,960 Speaker 3: the stock market when it, drops and instead pull from 1251 01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:04,000 Speaker 3: our stock market emergency. Fund and so When march hit 1252 01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:08,760 Speaker 3: and the stock market, crashed we, thought, okay are we 1253 01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:12,160 Speaker 3: going to have to make that? Switch but two three months, 1254 01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:16,440 Speaker 3: later the stock market has fully. Recovered so this is 1255 01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:21,080 Speaker 3: this is the THE i, mean this is the thing about. 1256 01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:23,600 Speaker 3: Investing when you have a plan in, place you already 1257 01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:27,960 Speaker 3: know what to do before it. Happens but what we've 1258 01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:31,160 Speaker 3: found is that we haven't had to even rely on 1259 01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:35,880 Speaker 3: some of those contingencies because the stock market has always. 1260 01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:40,600 Speaker 3: Recovered AND i always say this on our YouTube. Channel you, 1261 01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:42,800 Speaker 3: know the stock market's going to go up and, down 1262 01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:46,040 Speaker 3: but in the, end it's going to go. Up it always, has. 1263 01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 4: AND i will say, also you, know just to piggyback 1264 01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:50,800 Speaker 4: off of What aman. Said with that crash In march 1265 01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:54,240 Speaker 4: Twenty march twenty, twenty there were a lot of people 1266 01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:57,479 Speaker 4: at that time they were selling out their portfolios because 1267 01:01:57,480 --> 01:01:59,680 Speaker 4: they didn't want to take any more of a. Loss 1268 01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:03,680 Speaker 4: and on our, channel we actually created a new, portfolio 1269 01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:07,040 Speaker 4: just sort of a very many portfolio to show, people, 1270 01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:11,400 Speaker 4: listen if you invest, now it's a good it's a good. 1271 01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:14,440 Speaker 4: Thing you can start growing your money by investing. Now 1272 01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:17,120 Speaker 4: it doesn't matter that there was a huge. Crash you 1273 01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:20,560 Speaker 4: can start investing. Now and so many people were, like 1274 01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:22,600 Speaker 4: why would you invest, now it's a, crash it's the 1275 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:24,560 Speaker 4: worst time to invest. In we're, like, no that's the 1276 01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:26,920 Speaker 4: very opposite of how you should be. Thinking you, know 1277 01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:30,560 Speaker 4: you should continuously be investing whether it's a good whether 1278 01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:32,920 Speaker 4: the market's doing well or whether it's doing. Bad you 1279 01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:35,520 Speaker 4: should just be dollar cost averaging into the. Market but 1280 01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:38,520 Speaker 4: when the market is doing, bad it is an excellent 1281 01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:41,600 Speaker 4: opportunity to grow your. Wealth and so that's what we're 1282 01:02:41,640 --> 01:02:44,880 Speaker 4: really demonstrating with this portfolio to our followers is, like, 1283 01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:48,200 Speaker 4: listen when people are running and trying to cash out 1284 01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:51,480 Speaker 4: their portfolios when there's a big, crash don't. 1285 01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:54,520 Speaker 6: Do, that do the. Opposite do the opposite and start 1286 01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:55,040 Speaker 6: building your. 1287 01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:58,440 Speaker 2: WEALTH i think y'all really illustrate beautifully the power of 1288 01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:01,560 Speaker 2: the mindset when it comes to building, Wealth like you've 1289 01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:04,400 Speaker 2: got to really you've got to look at your, emotions 1290 01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:07,200 Speaker 2: as my lovely therapist always, says look at the thought 1291 01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:09,960 Speaker 2: or the feeling and just acknowledge that it exists and 1292 01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:13,920 Speaker 2: then just attack it with reason and. Logic AND i love, that. 1293 01:03:14,040 --> 01:03:16,440 Speaker 2: Y'all i've been following that series at y'all where you 1294 01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:18,640 Speaker 2: share your portfolio and how you invest at the bomb 1295 01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:20,520 Speaker 2: of the, market or at least you, know you never 1296 01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:22,440 Speaker 2: know when it's the, bottom but how you guys invested 1297 01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:24,680 Speaker 2: in the spring AND i AND i love that. LESSON 1298 01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:26,280 Speaker 2: i just think people have to be ready for it 1299 01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:28,720 Speaker 2: and really want. TO i want to home in on 1300 01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:30,800 Speaker 2: the point that y'all made too about that emergency. Fund 1301 01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:32,160 Speaker 2: and just to be, clear when you say it's a 1302 01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:35,200 Speaker 2: stock market emergency, fund you don't have the money in 1303 01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:37,840 Speaker 2: the stock. Market it's your emergency, fund so that you 1304 01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:41,320 Speaker 2: don't touch your, money, yes just cash right REGULAR. O, 1305 01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:44,520 Speaker 2: Yeah so that's key because you know people think that, 1306 01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:47,120 Speaker 2: like if you're if you're worried about losing everything when 1307 01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:49,800 Speaker 2: a market goes, down that you're probably not investing money 1308 01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:52,520 Speaker 2: that you're willing to put away for the long, term 1309 01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:54,600 Speaker 2: like your money that you want to hold with your 1310 01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:56,720 Speaker 2: money that you want to be able to access if 1311 01:03:56,720 --> 01:03:59,280 Speaker 2: an emergency. Happens that should be, really it should be, 1312 01:03:59,360 --> 01:04:02,240 Speaker 2: Liquid it be available to. You it should be enough 1313 01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:05,240 Speaker 2: for the you, know for whatever a period of time 1314 01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:07,920 Speaker 2: you feel comfortable with you, guys two years seems reasonable 1315 01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:12,880 Speaker 2: because y'all are you, know you're you're entirely without you, know, 1316 01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:15,800 Speaker 2: well you have your passive, income but you've left your 1317 01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:18,840 Speaker 2: you've left your, jobs and you're living your fire. Lifestyle 1318 01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:20,840 Speaker 2: but for other people maybe at six months or year's 1319 01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:23,160 Speaker 2: worth of. Expenses AND i love that y'all have that 1320 01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:27,000 Speaker 2: cushion because it helps you kind of like stamp down 1321 01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:29,920 Speaker 2: those emotional fears around when the market, dips, like oh, 1322 01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:32,320 Speaker 2: No i've got to take my money out BECAUSE i 1323 01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:34,280 Speaker 2: don't want to lose it because we need to have 1324 01:04:34,320 --> 01:04:37,640 Speaker 2: food on the table with that emergency. Fund, y'all you 1325 01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:40,520 Speaker 2: provide a cushion for, yourself and you provide the security 1326 01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:44,080 Speaker 2: that you can continue with your investing, strategy continue building your, 1327 01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:46,720 Speaker 2: wealth and you don't need to sacrifice that when your 1328 01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:49,600 Speaker 2: emotions start to take. OVER i think that's a really 1329 01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:51,680 Speaker 2: important point for, people and that's why we're always, like 1330 01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:54,800 Speaker 2: before y'all start asking that, Investing i'm talking to my 1331 01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:57,280 Speaker 2: dad and my Uncle. Mark you will call me all the. 1332 01:04:57,280 --> 01:05:00,360 Speaker 2: Time what About? Hurts should we invest in? Hurting you, know? 1333 01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:02,520 Speaker 1: Bankrupt oh, yeah, sure? 1334 01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:04,760 Speaker 2: Jumping oh my. God i'm, like, listen if my Uncle 1335 01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:07,680 Speaker 2: mark is talking about, it do not just don't go To. 1336 01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:11,280 Speaker 2: Hurts but my, dad he still saves money in his coat. 1337 01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:13,600 Speaker 2: Closet i'm, like you're trying to talk about investing in. 1338 01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:15,320 Speaker 2: Hurts CAN i get you to like put some money 1339 01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:18,120 Speaker 2: in the bank, first like this so, backwards go. 1340 01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:21,160 Speaker 1: Ahead, no and no shade to the people who. Listen 1341 01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:23,760 Speaker 1: but if you're willing to do the blessing, loom that's 1342 01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:27,520 Speaker 1: not a. BLESSING i think you can try. This that's 1343 01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:29,560 Speaker 1: a little shady because so many of my dream catchers are, like, 1344 01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:31,040 Speaker 1: GIRL i want to do a blessing. Loom it's not 1345 01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:33,960 Speaker 1: a blessing. Loom, No i've never heard enough. 1346 01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:36,640 Speaker 2: Before you never heard of the Blessing loom quits quick, 1347 01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:37,680 Speaker 2: sidebar what has Done. 1348 01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:40,640 Speaker 1: No we talked about it on the. Podcast REMEMBER i, 1349 01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:44,240 Speaker 1: said it's basically the pyramid, scheme but they keep renaming 1350 01:05:44,280 --> 01:05:46,760 Speaker 1: It Blessing loom pyramid scheme when you bring more people 1351 01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:48,680 Speaker 1: in and they bring, money and then you move to 1352 01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:51,480 Speaker 1: the center or to the top and they see, yeah 1353 01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:53,520 Speaker 1: but they just keep calling in new. Things BUT i 1354 01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:55,360 Speaker 1: did want to, ask like what BECAUSE i want to 1355 01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:57,960 Speaker 1: get just a little nitty, gritty like what percentage are 1356 01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:00,800 Speaker 1: you living off? Of are you doing it where you're 1357 01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:03,320 Speaker 1: anticipating like on average is seven to eight percent return 1358 01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:06,720 Speaker 1: and you're living off four percent of your of what 1359 01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:10,200 Speaker 1: your investments yield or is it more so you're living 1360 01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:14,080 Speaker 1: off you if you have rental properties or is? It 1361 01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:17,760 Speaker 1: and then two like what was your fire? Number BECAUSE i, 1362 01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:21,160 Speaker 1: know like my financial, advisor my financial, planner you, KNOW i, 1363 01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:24,160 Speaker 1: MEAN i guess TECHNICALLY i don't have to work, NOW i. 1364 01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:26,520 Speaker 1: GUESS i, MEAN i just LIKE i like doing Budget, 1365 01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:29,800 Speaker 1: nista BUT i my husband AND i help out a 1366 01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:33,640 Speaker 1: lot of. People so what we spend a month is 1367 01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:36,680 Speaker 1: like half of what we spend actually goes to us 1368 01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:38,800 Speaker 1: and just the rest goes to helping family and. Friends 1369 01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:41,640 Speaker 1: but so, like what's? That what was that number for? You, 1370 01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:44,080 Speaker 1: like if we set aside this amount plus with the 1371 01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:46,840 Speaker 1: real estate coming, in we should be. Good i'm curious about. 1372 01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:49,680 Speaker 6: That, yeah so we don't have the real estate. 1373 01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:52,000 Speaker 4: Anymore, okay we sold our real estate and then we 1374 01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:55,520 Speaker 4: put that in the stock. Market but our fire number 1375 01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:58,240 Speaker 4: was based off of living in The San Francisco bay, 1376 01:06:58,240 --> 01:07:01,680 Speaker 4: Area So i'll caveat with that that that our number 1377 01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:04,120 Speaker 4: was over two, million close to two and a half. 1378 01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:07,720 Speaker 4: Million but again this is because we live in the Sand. 1379 01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:11,280 Speaker 4: Or our fire number was based off of living in 1380 01:07:11,320 --> 01:07:14,160 Speaker 4: The San Francisco bay. Area so some people will probably 1381 01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:16,720 Speaker 4: think that that can be very, high or some people 1382 01:07:16,880 --> 01:07:20,120 Speaker 4: actually think, like maybe that's. Low so it's really relative 1383 01:07:20,160 --> 01:07:23,240 Speaker 4: to where you plan on, retiring where you, live what 1384 01:07:23,280 --> 01:07:26,440 Speaker 4: your family size, is and what type of stuff you 1385 01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:28,720 Speaker 4: plan on doing in, retirement and. 1386 01:07:28,680 --> 01:07:29,880 Speaker 6: How much is that stuff going to. 1387 01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:32,560 Speaker 4: Cost so ours was close to two and a half million, 1388 01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:36,640 Speaker 4: dollars BUT i will say because we moved To portugal 1389 01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:41,120 Speaker 4: we are living off of obviously not close to. That 1390 01:07:41,280 --> 01:07:44,560 Speaker 4: because when you calculate your fire, number your the ideas 1391 01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:46,760 Speaker 4: that you can live off of four percent of your 1392 01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:51,240 Speaker 4: portfolio in order to cover your monthly expenses and then 1393 01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:54,200 Speaker 4: in turn your annual. Expenses so the idea is that 1394 01:07:54,240 --> 01:07:57,320 Speaker 4: you can pull four percent from your portfolio and then 1395 01:07:57,400 --> 01:08:01,040 Speaker 4: your portfolio could continue to. Grow, oh so that you're 1396 01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:04,240 Speaker 4: only pulling from the gains in your. Portfolio you're not 1397 01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:07,600 Speaker 4: actually pulling from the principal, balance so it continues to 1398 01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:10,280 Speaker 4: grow and you're able to continuously pull out four. Percent 1399 01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:13,360 Speaker 4: and that's based off of there's a study called The 1400 01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:17,320 Speaker 4: Trinity study that really explains this concept of the four percent, 1401 01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:20,520 Speaker 4: rule how you can live off of your portfolio and 1402 01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:23,840 Speaker 4: the portfolio allocation that you, have whether it's stocks and 1403 01:08:24,000 --> 01:08:26,599 Speaker 4: bonds or one hundred percent stocks one hundred percent. Bonds 1404 01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:29,559 Speaker 4: but the concept, is once you get your fire, number 1405 01:08:29,760 --> 01:08:31,760 Speaker 4: you're supposed to be able to live off of four 1406 01:08:31,800 --> 01:08:35,120 Speaker 4: percent of that and pull money from your, portfolio and 1407 01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:37,840 Speaker 4: that pays for all of your. Expenses but we are 1408 01:08:37,880 --> 01:08:40,720 Speaker 4: here In portugal and our expenses are much much. Lower 1409 01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:42,360 Speaker 4: like we, SAID i, mean we gave you the example 1410 01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:46,439 Speaker 4: of the healthcare how much cheaper it, is or i'd 1411 01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:49,679 Speaker 4: say how much more affordable it is here In. Portugal 1412 01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:52,080 Speaker 4: so for, us we don't have to pull a full four. 1413 01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:55,559 Speaker 4: Percent we pull under four. Percent and if you ever 1414 01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:57,880 Speaker 4: are in a situation where you're pulling less than four, 1415 01:08:57,920 --> 01:09:02,160 Speaker 4: percent then it's even better because then your portfolio. 1416 01:09:01,439 --> 01:09:03,639 Speaker 6: Can continue to grow even. 1417 01:09:03,760 --> 01:09:05,639 Speaker 4: More so the idea is if you're able to pull 1418 01:09:05,760 --> 01:09:07,920 Speaker 4: less than four, percent it can grow even. 1419 01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:09,240 Speaker 6: More and so that's a perfect. 1420 01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:13,639 Speaker 4: Situation BUT i would say for people that have different 1421 01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:17,240 Speaker 4: locations in, mind like for, example like we, said we 1422 01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:19,559 Speaker 4: were thinking about The San Francisco Bay area and we 1423 01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:20,200 Speaker 4: were thinking About. 1424 01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:23,680 Speaker 6: Portugal for, us it was really important to not. 1425 01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:27,200 Speaker 4: Retire until we hit the mark for the higher cost of, 1426 01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:29,519 Speaker 4: living which is The San Francisco Bay. Area and again 1427 01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:33,280 Speaker 4: that's because if we come here To portugal and we, 1428 01:09:33,439 --> 01:09:35,880 Speaker 4: decide you, know four or five years down the, road 1429 01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:38,960 Speaker 4: we want to return to The Bay, area or you, 1430 01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:41,040 Speaker 4: know our girls will be going away to school, soon 1431 01:09:41,360 --> 01:09:44,559 Speaker 4: not soon soon to, me but you know in another 1432 01:09:44,640 --> 01:09:47,160 Speaker 4: four and six years if they returned to The, states 1433 01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:49,720 Speaker 4: maybe at that time we'll, think, oh we should return with, 1434 01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:51,120 Speaker 4: them or maybe we want to live back in The. 1435 01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:54,600 Speaker 4: States if we would have picked a fire number associated 1436 01:09:54,640 --> 01:09:57,840 Speaker 4: with living In, portugal then we would be. Stuck we 1437 01:09:57,840 --> 01:09:59,880 Speaker 4: would be limited in terms of where we can go after. 1438 01:10:00,160 --> 01:10:03,719 Speaker 4: That so for people that have multiple areas in, MIND 1439 01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:06,880 Speaker 4: i WOULD i would recommend picking the higher cost of 1440 01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:09,600 Speaker 4: living area and then when you go live in a 1441 01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:12,200 Speaker 4: lower cost of, area you're pulling less than that four 1442 01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:14,519 Speaker 4: percent and your portfolio is able to grow even more 1443 01:10:14,560 --> 01:10:14,960 Speaker 4: because of. 1444 01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:17,920 Speaker 2: It and when you're in. Retire did that answer your? QUESTION? 1445 01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:20,280 Speaker 1: Tif, no it. DID i just said that was awesome, Here, 1446 01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:22,639 Speaker 1: Okay SO. 1447 01:10:22,640 --> 01:10:25,040 Speaker 2: I just have so many questions. NOW i wanted to 1448 01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:27,080 Speaker 2: know because you guys have your YouTube. CHANNEL i know 1449 01:10:27,120 --> 01:10:29,559 Speaker 2: you have a course now in stock. Investing when y'all were, 1450 01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:33,600 Speaker 2: planning you, know sources of income or planning your portfolio 1451 01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:37,120 Speaker 2: and hitting your fire, number did y'all, think, okay we'll 1452 01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:39,840 Speaker 2: also bring in income from our YouTube and maybe we 1453 01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:41,720 Speaker 2: can teach people and have a. Course was that part 1454 01:10:41,760 --> 01:10:45,560 Speaker 2: of your plan or was this just like a, Happenstance 1455 01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:47,360 Speaker 2: because it doesn't strike me that you guys set out 1456 01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:49,519 Speaker 2: because that's honestly one of the things that kind of 1457 01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:51,759 Speaker 2: annoys me about some. Fire i'll just be totally, frank 1458 01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:54,920 Speaker 2: As christina KNOWS i can, be but, like, YEAH i 1459 01:10:54,920 --> 01:10:56,840 Speaker 2: MEAN i kind of roll my eyes sometimes because people 1460 01:10:56,880 --> 01:10:58,439 Speaker 2: are Like, oh, Yeah i'm going to retire. Early Then 1461 01:10:58,439 --> 01:10:59,760 Speaker 2: i'm going to teach people how to do. It and 1462 01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:01,800 Speaker 2: that's How i'm going to retire early by making money 1463 01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:04,559 Speaker 2: off of the. Courses but y'all strike me as totally, 1464 01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:06,960 Speaker 2: different whereas it's kind of a you, know you did 1465 01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:09,000 Speaker 2: your fire thing and then people were asking you to 1466 01:11:09,040 --> 01:11:10,560 Speaker 2: start a, channel and you did, it and now you 1467 01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:11,960 Speaker 2: just happened to be YouTube. 1468 01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:13,760 Speaker 6: Stars, YEAH i. 1469 01:11:13,720 --> 01:11:16,400 Speaker 4: Love that you asked, that because you, know right now 1470 01:11:16,439 --> 01:11:20,479 Speaker 4: we have we have almost three hundred thousand subscribers on our, 1471 01:11:20,560 --> 01:11:24,519 Speaker 4: channel but when we, started we started a little over 1472 01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:25,320 Speaker 4: two years. 1473 01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:28,160 Speaker 6: Ago and it was the lowest start. 1474 01:11:28,240 --> 01:11:32,000 Speaker 4: Ever and when we actually, RETIRED i don't think we 1475 01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:36,640 Speaker 4: had even hit fifty thousand subscribers at that. Point and 1476 01:11:36,720 --> 01:11:39,360 Speaker 4: so for, us when we started the, channel it was 1477 01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:41,599 Speaker 4: more like a friend had mentioned it to us because 1478 01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:44,759 Speaker 4: we were. Talking we were always talking to family members 1479 01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:45,840 Speaker 4: and friends about. 1480 01:11:45,640 --> 01:11:47,880 Speaker 6: Listen you guys should be doing, this you should save this. 1481 01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:49,840 Speaker 4: MONEY i, mean we were sort of getting a little 1482 01:11:49,880 --> 01:11:52,640 Speaker 4: extra into people's, business, saying, hey why don't you invest in? 1483 01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:53,320 Speaker 6: This you should save? 1484 01:11:53,360 --> 01:11:53,680 Speaker 1: This are you? 1485 01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:57,719 Speaker 4: Doing but it just became something that we talked about 1486 01:11:57,760 --> 01:11:59,280 Speaker 4: so much that one of our friends, said, hey you 1487 01:11:59,280 --> 01:12:01,519 Speaker 4: should start this, channel and we, thought, well that is 1488 01:12:01,560 --> 01:12:04,160 Speaker 4: pretty cool because then we could tell people about, fire 1489 01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:07,040 Speaker 4: like like when we didn't know what fire was when we. 1490 01:12:07,080 --> 01:12:09,120 Speaker 4: Started if someone was sort of guiding us and telling 1491 01:12:09,240 --> 01:12:11,880 Speaker 4: us about all these, concepts that would be really. Cool 1492 01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:16,200 Speaker 4: so we started the, channel and we we absolutely did 1493 01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:18,760 Speaker 4: not think that our channel would grow like it. Was 1494 01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:21,200 Speaker 4: so it was definitely not something where we're, like oh, 1495 01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:25,680 Speaker 4: yeah we can we can rely on YouTube and just 1496 01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:28,439 Speaker 4: retire early and live off of YouTube or something like. 1497 01:12:28,479 --> 01:12:30,479 Speaker 4: That that was definitely not the. 1498 01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:33,960 Speaker 3: Case oh, yeah and it became it became kind of 1499 01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:37,320 Speaker 3: like a gift that we couldn't give. Up and WHEN 1500 01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:39,960 Speaker 3: i say a gift is we have this ability to 1501 01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:44,400 Speaker 3: be able to really share and inspire people with our YouTube. 1502 01:12:44,439 --> 01:12:47,200 Speaker 3: Channel so when we start our YouTube, channel we were 1503 01:12:47,200 --> 01:12:48,960 Speaker 3: doing it like two or three times a, week but 1504 01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:52,160 Speaker 3: since we, retired really do it once a. Week but 1505 01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:54,360 Speaker 3: it's something that we want to keep doing because so 1506 01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:57,720 Speaker 3: many people are getting getting value out of. It but 1507 01:12:58,120 --> 01:13:01,800 Speaker 3: what happened was because we made so many, videos people 1508 01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:05,519 Speaker 3: were asking us like questions that were there were very 1509 01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:07,600 Speaker 3: linear questions like how to get to a TO z 1510 01:13:08,439 --> 01:13:09,960 Speaker 3: and we would, say, oh you got to go back 1511 01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:14,080 Speaker 3: to video one hundred or video fifty. Five and so 1512 01:13:14,120 --> 01:13:16,479 Speaker 3: we were, like, okay we need to do like a 1513 01:13:16,560 --> 01:13:19,640 Speaker 3: course they walk someone FROM a TO. Z and so 1514 01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:21,360 Speaker 3: that's when we came up with the idea for the. 1515 01:13:21,400 --> 01:13:24,720 Speaker 3: Course but it, was you, know all of this was 1516 01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:28,040 Speaker 3: just it just it just kind of started to happen 1517 01:13:28,520 --> 01:13:30,599 Speaker 3: because we were being asked to do these. 1518 01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:33,000 Speaker 4: Things, yeah BUT i will also say, that you, know 1519 01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:34,960 Speaker 4: people have been asking us for a while to do 1520 01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:37,080 Speaker 4: the course and we're, like, yeah you, know maybe maybe 1521 01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:39,800 Speaker 4: we'll get around to. It but what really prompted us 1522 01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:42,960 Speaker 4: to do the course WAS. Covid, yes because we were 1523 01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:46,800 Speaker 4: stuck in the house for over over and over a. 1524 01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:49,120 Speaker 3: Month oh, yes if you see that, course my hair 1525 01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:50,960 Speaker 3: was looking raggedy the whole. 1526 01:13:51,040 --> 01:13:56,120 Speaker 4: COURSE i know it's not as bad compared to people 1527 01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:58,360 Speaker 4: some people in The, states, right but, yeah we were 1528 01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:01,080 Speaker 4: just getting, fidgety, like oh my, gosh we cannot just 1529 01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:03,559 Speaker 4: sit in this house and do. Nothing and we were 1530 01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:05,960 Speaker 4: we were telling, people you, know go out and, exercise 1531 01:14:06,240 --> 01:14:08,679 Speaker 4: go out and read or exercise in your, home, read, 1532 01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:11,880 Speaker 4: write do what you can to stay. Productive don't try 1533 01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:14,519 Speaker 4: and be, busy because busy is just sort of taking up. 1534 01:14:14,560 --> 01:14:16,880 Speaker 4: Time what can you do to be? Productive and then we, 1535 01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:19,000 Speaker 4: thought you know, what why don't we just sit down 1536 01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:20,680 Speaker 4: and really focus on creating this? 1537 01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:22,559 Speaker 6: Course AND i, think you, know. 1538 01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:26,479 Speaker 4: Because we had that extra, time it was it was 1539 01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:28,519 Speaker 4: really a fun project to be able to. 1540 01:14:28,560 --> 01:14:33,120 Speaker 2: DO i, mean y'all are so, young you're clearly incredibly. 1541 01:14:33,160 --> 01:14:39,120 Speaker 2: Intelligent you guys have so, much so much. Energy, like, 1542 01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:41,280 Speaker 2: so what does retirement look like for? Y'all can you 1543 01:14:41,320 --> 01:14:43,719 Speaker 2: kind of paint the? Picture you, know do you see 1544 01:14:43,760 --> 01:14:47,519 Speaker 2: yourselves kicking back on? Beaches, like what does your retirement look? 1545 01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:52,759 Speaker 2: Like do you think you'll be, satisfied you know with kicking, 1546 01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:55,200 Speaker 2: obviously you you, know sitting back in the house is 1547 01:14:55,520 --> 01:14:58,080 Speaker 2: not what you're excited. ABOUT i think those of us 1548 01:14:58,080 --> 01:14:59,920 Speaker 2: in quarantine are all just, like get us out of. 1549 01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:02,840 Speaker 2: Here but talk about how do y'all plan on spending 1550 01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:05,640 Speaker 2: your retirement with the next fifty years ahead of. 1551 01:15:05,640 --> 01:15:08,080 Speaker 3: You, oh we spend a lot of time at the, 1552 01:15:08,080 --> 01:15:12,360 Speaker 3: beach don't don't don't knock. That that's really. Nice so, 1553 01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:15,000 Speaker 3: uh and that's one of the nice things about living 1554 01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:17,080 Speaker 3: here In portugal is that we're near the. Water the 1555 01:15:17,160 --> 01:15:21,000 Speaker 3: outdoors are really, amazing so we do spend a lot 1556 01:15:21,040 --> 01:15:24,800 Speaker 3: of time in the. Outdoors we wanted to retire. EARLY 1557 01:15:24,840 --> 01:15:27,120 Speaker 3: a big reason was so that we could spend more 1558 01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:30,680 Speaker 3: time with our. Girls you, know after your children leave your, 1559 01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:34,720 Speaker 3: house you have already spent ninety percent of the time 1560 01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:36,479 Speaker 3: you're going to spend with them while they're in your. 1561 01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:39,280 Speaker 3: House after, that they're gone and they're you, know they're 1562 01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:41,800 Speaker 3: going to live their. Lives so that's a gift that 1563 01:15:41,840 --> 01:15:43,400 Speaker 3: we also, have is that we get to spend more 1564 01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:45,840 Speaker 3: time with our. Kids we get to coach our daughters in. 1565 01:15:45,920 --> 01:15:49,839 Speaker 3: Sports christina swims With, MALIA i play basketball With. Sona 1566 01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:55,400 Speaker 3: we volunteer a. Lot, recently we've been doing calls with 1567 01:15:55,880 --> 01:16:00,280 Speaker 3: underserved kids talking about financial, independence talking about talking about 1568 01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:04,240 Speaker 3: money and financial, literacy and so what's really great is 1569 01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:06,160 Speaker 3: that we get to do whatever we want to do 1570 01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:09,720 Speaker 3: whenever we want. To On sunday. Nights we don't have 1571 01:16:09,760 --> 01:16:13,200 Speaker 3: that anxiety That monday morning is rolling. Around so it's 1572 01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:16,640 Speaker 3: just it's really an unexplainable feeling to be able to 1573 01:16:16,720 --> 01:16:18,960 Speaker 3: have this. Freedom and it goes back to what we 1574 01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:22,680 Speaker 3: talked about, earlier making that short term sacrifice for the 1575 01:16:22,720 --> 01:16:26,040 Speaker 3: long term. Gain and, yes we're we're young and we 1576 01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:28,240 Speaker 3: have you, know we have a lot of things that 1577 01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:30,960 Speaker 3: we're that we're working, on but they're all things that 1578 01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:33,240 Speaker 3: we're passionate. About and that's what we didn't have the 1579 01:16:33,280 --> 01:16:36,320 Speaker 3: ability to do before when we were working forty hours a. 1580 01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:38,680 Speaker 3: Week you, know now we have those forty hours back 1581 01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:41,400 Speaker 3: to do whatever we want to do with. Them AND i. 1582 01:16:41,320 --> 01:16:43,759 Speaker 4: Really love that you asked that question, Too, mandy BECAUSE 1583 01:16:43,800 --> 01:16:48,960 Speaker 4: i think when people are thinking about financial independence and retiring, 1584 01:16:49,000 --> 01:16:50,559 Speaker 4: early you, know there's this. Split you could just do 1585 01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:53,720 Speaker 4: financial independence and you continue to do the job that you, 1586 01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:57,120 Speaker 4: love or you can actually retire. Early and SO i 1587 01:16:57,120 --> 01:17:00,720 Speaker 4: think when people are on that retire, early if they 1588 01:17:00,800 --> 01:17:04,520 Speaker 4: ultimately want to retire, early they really need to envision 1589 01:17:05,200 --> 01:17:07,320 Speaker 4: what they think their life is going to be like 1590 01:17:07,439 --> 01:17:07,840 Speaker 4: when they. 1591 01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:11,880 Speaker 6: Retire Because i'll tell, you if you're just sort of. 1592 01:17:11,880 --> 01:17:14,800 Speaker 4: Running from, something if you're running from your job because 1593 01:17:14,840 --> 01:17:17,439 Speaker 4: you don't like your, job and so that's the reason 1594 01:17:17,479 --> 01:17:21,320 Speaker 4: you want to, retire your retirement may not feel very 1595 01:17:21,360 --> 01:17:23,840 Speaker 4: fulfilling because then you're in retirement and it's sort of, like, 1596 01:17:23,880 --> 01:17:26,080 Speaker 4: well what DO i do? Now but if you really 1597 01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:28,120 Speaker 4: envision what your life. 1598 01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:28,800 Speaker 6: Can be like in. 1599 01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:31,439 Speaker 4: Retirement if you love to, travel if you love to, 1600 01:17:31,520 --> 01:17:33,840 Speaker 4: cook if you love to spend time with your kids 1601 01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:36,360 Speaker 4: and your, family if you love to work, out if 1602 01:17:36,400 --> 01:17:39,120 Speaker 4: you like to build. Things those are all things that 1603 01:17:39,160 --> 01:17:42,920 Speaker 4: people can run towards versus running away from, Something so 1604 01:17:42,960 --> 01:17:45,160 Speaker 4: they really have to think about if they want to pursue, 1605 01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:46,960 Speaker 4: fire what's the purpose behind. 1606 01:17:46,960 --> 01:17:52,000 Speaker 2: THAT i love that you guys have inspired me to 1607 01:17:53,040 --> 01:17:57,519 Speaker 2: expand my own possibilities for what the next decade and 1608 01:17:57,560 --> 01:17:59,920 Speaker 2: beyond can look. Like AND i love that you guys 1609 01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:04,439 Speaker 2: have you've proven TO i think so many people like 1610 01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:06,439 Speaker 2: don't even know how to imagine a world where they 1611 01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:09,840 Speaker 2: don't work for someone, else you, know like or and 1612 01:18:09,880 --> 01:18:11,800 Speaker 2: if they don't work for someone then it's like owning 1613 01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:14,960 Speaker 2: their own business or. Whatever but what about a world 1614 01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:19,639 Speaker 2: where you're just free, to you, know work on what 1615 01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:24,240 Speaker 2: you find, fulfilling be with your, family like it's really 1616 01:18:24,280 --> 01:18:26,320 Speaker 2: it's it's a little sad to me that this is 1617 01:18:26,400 --> 01:18:30,439 Speaker 2: such like an extraordinary mindset to, Have but you guys 1618 01:18:30,479 --> 01:18:34,120 Speaker 2: truly are extraordinary because you have you've seen, it and 1619 01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:36,519 Speaker 2: you said this should be the, Normal like this should 1620 01:18:36,520 --> 01:18:38,680 Speaker 2: be the, Norm this will be our. Normal we are 1621 01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:40,360 Speaker 2: going to create the life that we. Want AND i 1622 01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:44,799 Speaker 2: it really resonates with, me if you can't, tell BECAUSE 1623 01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:48,160 Speaker 2: i feel LIKE i am on this path toward this 1624 01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:53,840 Speaker 2: a good, life but a good life according to the you, 1625 01:18:53,880 --> 01:18:57,559 Speaker 2: know what's what's considered the norm In america and what's 1626 01:18:57,600 --> 01:19:00,600 Speaker 2: considered a good life according TO i don't know what 1627 01:19:00,680 --> 01:19:04,799 Speaker 2: the mainstream idea of a good life. Is And i'm 1628 01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:08,400 Speaker 2: starting to even challenge my own expectations and challenge some 1629 01:19:08,479 --> 01:19:10,639 Speaker 2: of the own some of my own ways of thinking 1630 01:19:10,720 --> 01:19:13,600 Speaker 2: about the next couple of decades in my. Life AND i, 1631 01:19:13,640 --> 01:19:15,799 Speaker 2: mean even just being stuck in quarantine with my. Baby 1632 01:19:15,920 --> 01:19:17,400 Speaker 2: you can probably hear me in the. Background he's a 1633 01:19:17,479 --> 01:19:19,439 Speaker 2: very vocal. Eater he gets really. 1634 01:19:19,200 --> 01:19:20,519 Speaker 1: Mad very. 1635 01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:25,200 Speaker 2: Angry he's my. Child but even just being in, Quarantine i'm, like, 1636 01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:27,360 Speaker 2: oh SO i could just work at home and be 1637 01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:29,320 Speaker 2: with the baby all the. Time this isn't that bad. 1638 01:19:30,320 --> 01:19:33,600 Speaker 2: ANYWAY i just want to thank y'all Because i'm so 1639 01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:38,599 Speaker 2: glad that you are sharing your story AND i know 1640 01:19:38,640 --> 01:19:41,760 Speaker 2: that forget about you, know we can forget about race 1641 01:19:41,840 --> 01:19:44,080 Speaker 2: for a. SECOND i, mean the show is Called Brown, 1642 01:19:44,120 --> 01:19:47,120 Speaker 2: ambition so it's always. There we acknowledge we are two 1643 01:19:47,160 --> 01:19:50,120 Speaker 2: black women speaking to an, audience and first and foremost 1644 01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:52,360 Speaker 2: we want to talk to other black women and how 1645 01:19:52,400 --> 01:19:54,800 Speaker 2: to build wealth because we understand, that you, know there's 1646 01:19:54,800 --> 01:19:56,479 Speaker 2: not a lot of people like us talking to. Them 1647 01:19:56,520 --> 01:20:00,240 Speaker 2: AND i am you guys are like, unicorns you know 1648 01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:03,639 Speaker 2: in The fire, movement a black couple with two daughters 1649 01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:06,479 Speaker 2: and your girls seeing. Them AND i even said this 1650 01:20:06,520 --> 01:20:08,760 Speaker 2: To christina in the. EMAIL i really meant. It if 1651 01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:11,960 Speaker 2: ONLY i had seen your two girls talking about financial 1652 01:20:13,080 --> 01:20:16,880 Speaker 2: Financial uh what AM i? Thinking? Like what are we 1653 01:20:16,920 --> 01:20:19,800 Speaker 2: talking about, investing investing in all building at a young 1654 01:20:19,840 --> 01:20:22,599 Speaker 2: age WHEN i, was you, know twelve or. Thirteen y'all 1655 01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:26,000 Speaker 2: are so important and your stories are so. Important AND 1656 01:20:26,040 --> 01:20:29,680 Speaker 2: i and thank y'all for using your time when you 1657 01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:33,840 Speaker 2: could be doing anything else to educate and pour back 1658 01:20:33,840 --> 01:20:36,640 Speaker 2: into communities who may not be getting this kind of. 1659 01:20:36,680 --> 01:20:39,760 Speaker 2: KNOWLEDGE i it just It's i'll shut up, now but 1660 01:20:39,800 --> 01:20:41,120 Speaker 2: it's just y'all are the. 1661 01:20:41,240 --> 01:20:43,720 Speaker 1: Best thank you so. Much it's so. 1662 01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:47,040 Speaker 6: Nice it's it's so. Nice so you, know we wanted 1663 01:20:47,040 --> 01:20:49,120 Speaker 6: to talk to you guys. Anyway so it was just, like. 1664 01:20:49,160 --> 01:20:52,000 Speaker 3: Oh it's your, baby this is it? 1665 01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:52,720 Speaker 2: Right like. 1666 01:20:54,840 --> 01:20:57,000 Speaker 1: E pitome of brown, ambition AND i think that it's 1667 01:20:57,040 --> 01:20:59,559 Speaker 1: just good for people to see that life can be lived, 1668 01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:00,760 Speaker 1: different you, know. 1669 01:21:03,120 --> 01:21:05,960 Speaker 2: Say and one hundred million less words than WHAT i. 1670 01:21:06,000 --> 01:21:11,920 Speaker 1: Used now just for, me just Because amandy AND i 1671 01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:14,880 Speaker 1: are the way we live is so, different so they 1672 01:21:14,880 --> 01:21:18,800 Speaker 1: get to see different sides of like from both of 1673 01:21:18,880 --> 01:21:21,240 Speaker 1: us being bosses in our own, right but via the 1674 01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:23,280 Speaker 1: corporate side or owning your own. Business so this is 1675 01:21:23,320 --> 01:21:26,880 Speaker 1: just a nice we're pre. From this is another way to, 1676 01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:29,760 Speaker 1: live and people can find themselves in your. Journey so 1677 01:21:29,800 --> 01:21:32,280 Speaker 1: we do really thank, you thank, you thank you. 1678 01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:34,880 Speaker 6: Guys, Yeah i'm so glad we able to talk to. 1679 01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:35,120 Speaker 4: You. 1680 01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:39,080 Speaker 2: Well thank, y'all and and go live your fabulous lives 1681 01:21:42,160 --> 01:21:44,720 Speaker 2: on folks where they can find. You your your Our 1682 01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:49,559 Speaker 2: Rich journey on, YouTube On, instagram anything else y'all want 1683 01:21:49,600 --> 01:21:50,600 Speaker 2: to anything you'll want to. 1684 01:21:50,640 --> 01:21:54,040 Speaker 4: Promote oh, no you know you mentioned our daughters. Too 1685 01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:56,519 Speaker 4: they have their channel out so it's Called Our Rich Journey. 1686 01:21:56,600 --> 01:22:00,439 Speaker 4: Junior So i'll show the kids some. Love, yeah check 1687 01:22:00,479 --> 01:22:01,120 Speaker 4: the girls out. 1688 01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:03,760 Speaker 3: Also, yeah but that's really where you can find us 1689 01:22:03,840 --> 01:22:08,240 Speaker 3: is on YouTube Or instagram At Rich journey and send 1690 01:22:08,320 --> 01:22:11,800 Speaker 3: us a. Message we eventually get to all of the. 1691 01:22:11,880 --> 01:22:14,040 Speaker 3: QUESTIONS i, mean we are, retired we have nothing else to. 1692 01:22:14,080 --> 01:22:18,599 Speaker 1: DO i love. 1693 01:22:18,640 --> 01:22:22,200 Speaker 2: It join the. Journey that's how you always end your YouTube. 1694 01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:26,960 Speaker 2: Videos go join the. Journey thank y'all for sharing your 1695 01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:28,880 Speaker 2: story with. US i would love to have y'all on 1696 01:22:28,880 --> 01:22:33,080 Speaker 2: the show again sometime in the. Future but be, well stay. Healthy, 1697 01:22:33,479 --> 01:22:35,720 Speaker 2: YES i, mean, honestly y'all should be wishing us. LUCK 1698 01:22:35,720 --> 01:22:37,880 Speaker 2: i feel like we're the ONE i feel like y'all 1699 01:22:37,880 --> 01:22:40,160 Speaker 2: are on the right track In. Portugal but, yeah be, 1700 01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:42,560 Speaker 2: well stay, healthy and thank y'all again for coming on the. 1701 01:22:42,600 --> 01:22:43,840 Speaker 1: Show, yes thanks so. 1702 01:22:43,960 --> 01:22:44,160 Speaker 3: Much. 1703 01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:48,720 Speaker 2: Guys Whoa, Okay so DID i embarrass? Myself was that 1704 01:22:48,760 --> 01:22:49,559 Speaker 2: too much of a fan? 1705 01:22:49,640 --> 01:22:49,840 Speaker 1: Girl? 1706 01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:51,640 Speaker 2: No they were For christina And. 1707 01:22:51,760 --> 01:22:55,840 Speaker 1: Ma, honestly they were, amazing and THEY i, mean as 1708 01:22:55,960 --> 01:22:58,120 Speaker 1: much AS i think that we're pretty, FRUGAL i, mean, 1709 01:22:58,160 --> 01:22:59,559 Speaker 1: YES i, know you, know we, splorers but you know 1710 01:22:59,600 --> 01:23:01,640 Speaker 1: you AND i are pretty like so go with our 1711 01:23:01,680 --> 01:23:04,680 Speaker 1: finances and savvy with our. Finances it just made me 1712 01:23:04,840 --> 01:23:08,240 Speaker 1: look at some of the choices that i'm you, know 1713 01:23:08,280 --> 01:23:10,400 Speaker 1: That i'm choosing for myself and my family a little bit. 1714 01:23:10,400 --> 01:23:14,000 Speaker 1: Differently so it was so. Amazing i'm totally gonna stock 1715 01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:15,639 Speaker 1: them on, YouTube so just so they know. 1716 01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:18,840 Speaker 2: Their channel is. GOOD i know, that and it's worth 1717 01:23:18,840 --> 01:23:20,760 Speaker 2: a time. TOO i THINK i just turned on their 1718 01:23:20,840 --> 01:23:22,559 Speaker 2: channel AND i just had it on for an entire. 1719 01:23:22,600 --> 01:23:26,479 Speaker 2: Weekend they're they're they're, truly really knowledgeable and if you 1720 01:23:26,520 --> 01:23:29,320 Speaker 2: hear things banging in the, background it's just the babies. 1721 01:23:29,320 --> 01:23:30,240 Speaker 2: Here hey, See hey. 1722 01:23:30,280 --> 01:23:31,040 Speaker 1: Everybody. 1723 01:23:32,280 --> 01:23:35,040 Speaker 2: YEAH i think it's great to hear different. Perspectives and 1724 01:23:35,479 --> 01:23:37,759 Speaker 2: they call it our rich. Journey because it's their journey 1725 01:23:37,800 --> 01:23:39,800 Speaker 2: doesn't mean that it's the right journey or the one 1726 01:23:39,840 --> 01:23:42,640 Speaker 2: that you need to. Take BUT i think in so 1727 01:23:42,720 --> 01:23:45,920 Speaker 2: many ways you need to see someone else living life 1728 01:23:45,960 --> 01:23:48,160 Speaker 2: by example so that you start to think about what's 1729 01:23:48,200 --> 01:23:52,160 Speaker 2: possible for. Yourself AND i think for you, Know i've 1730 01:23:52,160 --> 01:23:55,639 Speaker 2: been pretty cynical about the whole fire, movement and they 1731 01:23:55,680 --> 01:23:58,160 Speaker 2: have totally changed the WAY i think about. It and 1732 01:23:58,200 --> 01:24:00,880 Speaker 2: they have shown me that there's like IF i was 1733 01:24:00,920 --> 01:24:02,559 Speaker 2: going to do, fire this is the way to do. 1734 01:24:02,680 --> 01:24:07,280 Speaker 2: Yes and it's about. Freedom it's about. Freedom it's the 1735 01:24:07,320 --> 01:24:10,200 Speaker 2: freedom that people have who are lucky enough to come 1736 01:24:10,240 --> 01:24:14,080 Speaker 2: from wealthy family or you, know to have inheritances or you, 1737 01:24:14,080 --> 01:24:16,519 Speaker 2: know things like. That it's creating a space for yourself 1738 01:24:16,560 --> 01:24:18,400 Speaker 2: where you can do whatever the f you want and 1739 01:24:18,439 --> 01:24:21,320 Speaker 2: you're not trapped in this cycle of you, know someone 1740 01:24:21,320 --> 01:24:23,559 Speaker 2: else's version of success just so you can get. 1741 01:24:23,560 --> 01:24:25,439 Speaker 1: By. NO i love. THAT i just, yeah LIKE i, 1742 01:24:25,439 --> 01:24:28,280 Speaker 1: Said i'm going to totally stalk their, page rethink some 1743 01:24:28,320 --> 01:24:29,559 Speaker 1: of the things choices that we're. 1744 01:24:29,600 --> 01:24:34,559 Speaker 2: Making and do you Think supergirl will check out their 1745 01:24:34,600 --> 01:24:35,839 Speaker 2: junior the junior? 1746 01:24:35,960 --> 01:24:40,439 Speaker 1: Edition maybe She certainly she's working now and she's making some, 1747 01:24:40,520 --> 01:24:44,439 Speaker 1: money and so entrepreneurship is something that she has been 1748 01:24:44,520 --> 01:24:47,760 Speaker 1: really interested in and she's been doing. That like you, 1749 01:24:47,800 --> 01:24:49,439 Speaker 1: know she has her own lip gloss line that's On, 1750 01:24:49,520 --> 01:24:53,439 Speaker 1: etsy and WHAT i, know she don't. Know SO i 1751 01:24:53,439 --> 01:24:55,200 Speaker 1: don't know if remember that she, was you, know LIKE 1752 01:24:55,240 --> 01:24:56,760 Speaker 1: i told, you like a little while, ago she was 1753 01:24:56,760 --> 01:24:58,800 Speaker 1: hawking these rubber band bracelets that she made from a 1754 01:24:58,880 --> 01:25:01,840 Speaker 1: kid someone gave her for career because she REMEMBER i told, 1755 01:25:01,880 --> 01:25:04,880 Speaker 1: you she wanted My superman AND i to invest in her. 1756 01:25:04,880 --> 01:25:06,559 Speaker 1: Business and she's like for the low rate of four 1757 01:25:06,640 --> 01:25:08,880 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty. DOLLARS i was, like, oh you tried, 1758 01:25:08,920 --> 01:25:10,280 Speaker 1: It so we wait a. 1759 01:25:10,280 --> 01:25:12,639 Speaker 2: Second we have not talked about so. 1760 01:25:12,520 --> 01:25:15,600 Speaker 1: That's what she wanted because she wanted to start the lipgloss. 1761 01:25:15,640 --> 01:25:19,280 Speaker 1: Business so she did this whole presentation where she was, 1762 01:25:19,320 --> 01:25:20,880 Speaker 1: like this is how much it's going to cost me 1763 01:25:21,200 --> 01:25:23,840 Speaker 1: to get all the materials and THINGS i Need and 1764 01:25:23,880 --> 01:25:26,640 Speaker 1: we were, like, yeah, no the most you're getting is. 1765 01:25:26,640 --> 01:25:29,000 Speaker 1: Fifty and even if you get, fifty that's because you 1766 01:25:29,000 --> 01:25:31,120 Speaker 1: have to earn. Fifty that's the most you're squeezing out of. 1767 01:25:31,160 --> 01:25:34,880 Speaker 1: Us so need let's just say she wasn't. Happy but 1768 01:25:35,080 --> 01:25:38,280 Speaker 1: what she did do is somebody gave her this rubber 1769 01:25:38,280 --> 01:25:40,400 Speaker 1: band kit where you can make braceleton rings out of 1770 01:25:40,439 --> 01:25:43,400 Speaker 1: these like, cool like brightly colored rubber. Bands so she 1771 01:25:43,400 --> 01:25:45,559 Speaker 1: started making them and she started selling, them and she 1772 01:25:45,600 --> 01:25:48,200 Speaker 1: made a few hundred bucks on her. Own she didn't 1773 01:25:48,200 --> 01:25:51,000 Speaker 1: even need our, fifty thank you very. Much and then 1774 01:25:51,479 --> 01:25:54,160 Speaker 1: graduation money kicked in and she was able to fund 1775 01:25:54,200 --> 01:25:57,320 Speaker 1: her own business with graduation money and her rubber band. 1776 01:25:57,640 --> 01:26:00,120 Speaker 1: Business it was like the business to fund the. Business so, 1777 01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:02,679 Speaker 1: NOW i, mean she literally spends hours a day making 1778 01:26:02,680 --> 01:26:05,800 Speaker 1: her lip gloss kits and like putting them. Together And 1779 01:26:05,840 --> 01:26:07,840 Speaker 1: i'm honestly really proud of her Because i'm, like look a, 1780 01:26:07,960 --> 01:26:10,040 Speaker 1: supergirl you know who she's trying to be, like right 1781 01:26:10,080 --> 01:26:11,639 Speaker 1: as much as she tries to act like she don't 1782 01:26:11,640 --> 01:26:18,599 Speaker 1: want to be like, me but. 1783 01:26:15,920 --> 01:26:18,400 Speaker 2: That's how it goes, Though like she can't let you 1784 01:26:18,479 --> 01:26:20,360 Speaker 2: know that you inspire her and that she loves you 1785 01:26:20,400 --> 01:26:21,840 Speaker 2: and wants to be just like you when she grows. 1786 01:26:21,920 --> 01:26:23,120 Speaker 2: Up but she's WATCHING i. 1787 01:26:23,200 --> 01:26:25,599 Speaker 1: Know so like, no but honestly it's really dope to 1788 01:26:25,600 --> 01:26:29,160 Speaker 1: like watch her. Navigate, yeah, no AND i will say like. 1789 01:26:29,560 --> 01:26:32,280 Speaker 1: Will this is like a little. Aside SO i signed 1790 01:26:32,280 --> 01:26:35,320 Speaker 1: her up For Black Girls, lead like The summer The 1791 01:26:35,360 --> 01:26:37,759 Speaker 1: digital kind of Like Summer, CAMP i guess for girls 1792 01:26:38,120 --> 01:26:41,360 Speaker 1: that's hosted By Black Girls rock And Michelle obama did 1793 01:26:41,400 --> 01:26:44,880 Speaker 1: the opening speech and then Came Missy copeland and then somebody. 1794 01:26:44,880 --> 01:26:46,679 Speaker 1: Else SO i THINK i was, fourth like right After 1795 01:26:46,680 --> 01:26:49,400 Speaker 1: Michelle obama geeked and the next day she was, Like, 1796 01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:53,040 Speaker 1: tiffy do you know that your session was top rated for. 1797 01:26:53,160 --> 01:26:55,200 Speaker 1: Yesterday i'm, like what do you? Mean she was, like 1798 01:26:55,240 --> 01:26:57,040 Speaker 1: we had to vote who our favorite, was and you 1799 01:26:57,080 --> 01:26:59,479 Speaker 1: got twenty eight percent of the. VOTES i was, like not, 1800 01:26:59,560 --> 01:27:02,640 Speaker 1: over Miss. Michelle, YES i was like these. 1801 01:27:02,720 --> 01:27:04,640 Speaker 2: KIDS i mean not That i'm, surprised of, COURSE i 1802 01:27:04,760 --> 01:27:06,880 Speaker 2: know that you're, fabulous BUT i was. 1803 01:27:06,920 --> 01:27:08,600 Speaker 1: Like But, Honestly i'm, like these kids don't know no 1804 01:27:08,640 --> 01:27:10,920 Speaker 1: better because don't nobody Beat. Michelle BUT i take. It 1805 01:27:11,960 --> 01:27:14,280 Speaker 1: she was like Super, yeah she was super excited because 1806 01:27:14,280 --> 01:27:16,360 Speaker 1: she was like because in IT i had pre recorded. 1807 01:27:16,360 --> 01:27:18,559 Speaker 1: MINE i talked about her and used her as an 1808 01:27:18,560 --> 01:27:20,240 Speaker 1: example of how you can make money on your. Own 1809 01:27:20,640 --> 01:27:22,679 Speaker 1: so for the girls to listen and, WATCH i could 1810 01:27:22,680 --> 01:27:25,400 Speaker 1: tell she felt really, Special like it's, me she's talking about, 1811 01:27:25,439 --> 01:27:26,800 Speaker 1: Me so we're friends again for? 1812 01:27:26,960 --> 01:27:31,719 Speaker 2: Now right? Now amen to that. Listen oh that's. AMAZING 1813 01:27:31,800 --> 01:27:34,760 Speaker 2: i can't wait to see How rio grows. Up I'm 1814 01:27:35,160 --> 01:27:37,240 Speaker 2: i'm kind of obsessed with thinking about what he'll, be 1815 01:27:37,360 --> 01:27:41,519 Speaker 2: And i'm JUST i, think as a, Parent i'm afraid 1816 01:27:41,960 --> 01:27:43,600 Speaker 2: because you know how like your kids will do the 1817 01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:46,599 Speaker 2: opposite of what you want, sometimes LIKE i don't want, 1818 01:27:46,600 --> 01:27:48,519 Speaker 2: TO i don't like how much is too? Much and 1819 01:27:48,920 --> 01:27:51,439 Speaker 2: SHOULD i go like all in on teaching him? STUFF 1820 01:27:51,520 --> 01:27:53,080 Speaker 2: i let him find it on his. OWN i don't. 1821 01:27:53,080 --> 01:27:55,160 Speaker 2: Know that's Why i'm so fascinated By christina And i'm 1822 01:27:55,240 --> 01:27:57,360 Speaker 2: on because their girls seem to have such a healthy 1823 01:27:57,880 --> 01:28:01,280 Speaker 2: not just not only do they understand the different financial 1824 01:28:01,280 --> 01:28:03,760 Speaker 2: topics that their parents talk, about but they're all so 1825 01:28:03,960 --> 01:28:06,559 Speaker 2: curious and excited to do it, Themselves like how. 1826 01:28:06,439 --> 01:28:07,000 Speaker 4: Did they do? 1827 01:28:07,040 --> 01:28:09,559 Speaker 2: THAT i Know i'm going to be studying them FOR i, 1828 01:28:09,680 --> 01:28:14,280 Speaker 2: know in a really creepy, way just Sending i'm just 1829 01:28:14,320 --> 01:28:17,240 Speaker 2: going to slide into their dms all the. Time, WELL 1830 01:28:17,280 --> 01:28:19,880 Speaker 2: i loved having them on the. Show and if y'all, 1831 01:28:19,960 --> 01:28:21,840 Speaker 2: like who else are we? Missing who else are y'all, 1832 01:28:21,840 --> 01:28:24,240 Speaker 2: like who's on? YouTube who's out there that who have 1833 01:28:24,479 --> 01:28:26,519 Speaker 2: fabulous stories that are inspiring y'all that y'all want to 1834 01:28:26,520 --> 01:28:28,720 Speaker 2: hear more. From we'd love to get in touch with 1835 01:28:28,760 --> 01:28:29,880 Speaker 2: them and have more folks on the. 1836 01:28:29,920 --> 01:28:32,599 Speaker 1: Show we certainly, Would we certainly. 1837 01:28:32,680 --> 01:28:37,240 Speaker 2: Would All, Right, well thank y'all for another beautiful week 1838 01:28:37,240 --> 01:28:38,880 Speaker 2: Of Brown. Ambition we'll see y'all next. 1839 01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:45,320 Speaker 1: Week next. Week