1 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: So Lauren Sanchez wrote a book, a children's book, and 2 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:20,119 Speaker 1: I didn't realize it's her second children's book and that 3 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: she's a New York Times bestseller and I got it 4 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: at my apartment in Miami, and I was like, she's 5 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 1: always been a worker, Okay, I remember her from when 6 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 1: she was an on air journalist, and she's always been 7 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: a worker. And I love that she wrote a children's 8 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: book and is like working and on the road promoting it. 9 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 2: I hate promoting anything. I hate going on the. 10 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: Road and doing all those shows, and like she's out 11 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: there and she certainly doesn't have to. So that's a 12 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:51,919 Speaker 1: shout out because she does for whatever reason. She's one 13 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: of these people that gets hate and she's living her 14 00:00:56,520 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: own life and I think people are just honestly triggered 15 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: and jealous because she married a successful man, and like 16 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:10,759 Speaker 1: she gets blamed for them. And it's almost like when 17 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 1: Alex Earl was spoted with Tom Brady and they were 18 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: getting criticized, like who's not going out with Tom Brady? 19 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: Like who's out flirting with Tom Brady? Yes, I know 20 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:21,119 Speaker 1: he's older than her. It's not the first time it's 21 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: ever happened in history. Okay, and also shout out to 22 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: Jeff Bezos. He's not going out with a thirty five 23 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 1: year old, He's going out with someone aged appropriate. 24 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 2: I don't know, am I crazy? 25 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: Like at some point people do have to be able 26 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: to live their lives and like make good choices and 27 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: date well. And you want me to date some schlub. 28 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: Guess what if I dated some phenomenal person or married them, 29 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: I'd get trashed on because I'm not good enough for them. 30 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: I mean, people just like to hate. 31 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: And the two of them are we're not only like 32 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 1: somehow like underwriting or financially contributing to the Metcala, but 33 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: co chairs and people got really mad at that because 34 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: people like to sort of rewrite history and act like 35 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: in the guilded Age or at any point in history 36 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: that these society things were not about the Benjamins. So 37 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: it used to be about family name or what is 38 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: it called? Like are you high born? So was that legitimate? 39 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: Like that's supposed to be important. Then it's like, oh, 40 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: the met Gala has changed so much. 41 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 2: Like from what from what? 42 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: From being a charity that was always about making money 43 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 1: for the charity and always about society. And then people 44 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: got mad when they were letting in reality stars. Why 45 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 1: they move commerce and views and clicks and Kim and Kanye, 46 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: like when they went to the Mechala, Yeah, like eyeballs 47 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: were watching. What do people think this is? Do people 48 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: think this stuff is not eyeballs watching? Same thing with 49 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: social media. You're just there for the cloud or for 50 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: the clicks. What are you there for? You're there for 51 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: the charity. You're on TikTok dancing to a Lizo song 52 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: for charity. Like, everyone, sit the fuck down if you 53 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: are on television, TikTok, Instagram, social media doing anything, even 54 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 1: if you're. 55 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 2: In a movie. I don't care if you don't believe 56 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 2: in social media. You're there for the craft. 57 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: You're gonna go up there and get your shiny award 58 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 1: and trophy if you win something. So you're there for 59 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: the clicks. You're there for the eyeballs. You're there for 60 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: the attention, You're there for the accolades. You're there not 61 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: because you just want to stand around all day for 62 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: eight takes to get one side of your cheekbone, then 63 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: have to turn around and do it all over again 64 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: as an actor or an actress. So sell your shit 65 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: somewhere else. If Jeff and Lauren are part of the 66 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: met Gala because they are successful and influential, it's no 67 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: different than anyone else. It's no different than any actor, politician, 68 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: any politician. 69 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 2: Not want attention, not want. 70 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: To hold a baby and stand up in front of 71 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: a podium and get votes. It's clicks, it's votes, it's dollars. 72 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: Sit on your couch, close the shades, and be a hermit, 73 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 1: and then I'll believe that it's not for the clout 74 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: or the clickbait. Everyone is out in the public eye 75 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: for the cloud or the clicks in one way or another. 76 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 1: And if you're Sir Anthony Hopkins, if you went up 77 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: and took your damn trophy, you. 78 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 2: Wanted the praise and the accolades. 79 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: If you're Robert de Niro and you opened NOBU and 80 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: you like to talk about politics, and you went on 81 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:44,919 Speaker 1: Jay Leno, you wanted attention. It's just in a different way. 82 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: Princess Diana, the queen out in John Megan Markle, you 83 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: know the royals, also the royals. You did not marry 84 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: a royal thinking you weren't gonna be out paraded somewhere. 85 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: Way it goes wealth doesn't whisper. 86 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 2: None of this. 87 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: You know what whispers being asleep under your covers and 88 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 1: not seeing the light of day. 89 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 2: That's quiet. Anything else is a flex in one direction 90 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 2: or the other. 91 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: Oh, it's the effortless it used to be like, it's 92 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 1: the the no makeup, makeup, it's the glass skin. 93 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 2: Look, everything is a thing. 94 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: And also back on people criticizing Jeff Bezos, he's doing 95 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: to the planet, et cetera. You tell me if you 96 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 1: don't order your shit on Amazon. Okay, you need a 97 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: pair of fishnets by tomorrow. Are you lying into New 98 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 1: York City and going to Eighth Street? You're ordering it 99 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: on Amazon. Most of you have never been on The Housewives, 100 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: But do you know how Like on the Housewives, someone 101 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: will tell you to go fuck yourself, say the most 102 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: horrendous things to you, and in the next scene they apologize, 103 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 1: and it's supposed to be like nothing ever happened, and 104 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, the whole pendulum will swinging, 105 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: the whole show will be mad at you because you 106 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 1: didn't forget live and move on. You need to move on. Okay, 107 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: in real life, it's not like that. Like with your friends, 108 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: if your friend says you're a piece of shit. You're 109 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 1: probably not gonna speak to them the next day at lunch. 110 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: But on the Housewives, it's a different land. It's the 111 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: upside down. That's what teenagers are like. Teenagers could say 112 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 1: the most scathing, horrendous thing to you, like that guy 113 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 1: on the side of the road that like squeegees off 114 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 1: the water on your windshield. 115 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 2: It's supposed to be gone. 116 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: The next time you see your teenager, you are like 117 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: beaten down and battered, and you're still traumatized in the 118 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: er ward and they are like just prancing, going out 119 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 1: eating ice cream like nothing ever happened. 120 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 2: Wow, teens are like housewives. 121 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: And I heard it's not just teens, it's older too. 122 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:01,799 Speaker 1: So Lisa Rinna wrote a book book and I haven't 123 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: read it, but I've seen some talk of it on 124 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: social media. And she's in a whole era, a different 125 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: type of success, and she's fashion and it's catur honey, 126 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: and she's traveling and all that. Incidentally, Lisa were gonna 127 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 1: called me when she wanted to know if she should 128 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: did the show. And also incidentally, Andy Cohen didn't want 129 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 1: her or Tory spelling. He used to say they both 130 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: used to bug him and want to be on the show. 131 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 2: And this is what he used to say. 132 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: I'm not saying this is I know that Tori wanted 133 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 1: to be on, but I think that Lisa did too, 134 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: or she was intrigued by it. And I said to him, 135 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: she's not what you think she is, Like he wasn't 136 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 1: interested in it at all. I said, she's not what 137 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: you think she is, and he ended up taking my 138 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 1: word for it. And I think she was a tremendous 139 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 1: and excellent housewife. So Lisa Rinna wrote a book and 140 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: she's asked about her relationship with Denise. She's discussing Yolanda. 141 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 1: She's definitely Maya Kulpa. She's literally illustrating the problem with 142 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 1: reality TV and how it's not based in reality. I mean, 143 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: the things are actually happening, but in a very unique circumstance, 144 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: and the currency is drama. The currency is kill or 145 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: be killed, zero sum games. Someone's always winning, someone's always losing. 146 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 1: There have been so many arrests and scandals and terrible 147 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 1: things that have come out of such a small group 148 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: of women, Like the amount of scandal that has emerged 149 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 1: from that franchise has been remarkable. But Lisa is asked 150 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 1: about her friendship with Denise because she was friends with 151 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: Denise before, and I was friendly with Lisa before even 152 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: that sphere, and she correctly describes that you really shouldn't 153 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: be going onto a show like that, or entering into 154 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 1: an environment like that with a friend thinking that your 155 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 1: friendship will remain intact. Now, maybe they were just Hollywood friends, 156 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: and that's fine, you know each other. We're not best 157 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 1: friends because they're both going into a business opportunity. 158 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 2: They both needed either the money. 159 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 1: Or the boost or the boosts for their business, or 160 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: the relevance or the fame or whatever they wanted, or 161 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: the boredom, the versal of boredom, whatever they wanted. 162 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 2: But there is a price. 163 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:18,559 Speaker 1: Many things have a price, And on Jersey Housewives, you've 164 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 1: seen literal family members never speak to each other again. 165 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 2: You've seen friendships dissolve. 166 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: Friendships can develop on the show because there's a common 167 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: goal and it's sort of survival, like they're survival. But 168 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: it's very hard to sustain a relationship that you had 169 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: on the show, and it's even hard to sustain a 170 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 1: relationship after. It's very difficult to understand someone who would 171 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: go on to the Housewives unless they need the money, 172 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 1: need the relevance, need the fame. And it's almost impossible 173 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: to imagine someone staying on a long time once they 174 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: have some version of success or money. It's actually preposterous 175 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: to me to imagine anyone with real mis means doing 176 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 1: the show. Like you can think that someone has money 177 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 1: or has means. But we've seen enough brands fail, all 178 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: these bills and o people that people didn't know about, 179 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 1: and foreclosure and all this stuff because people are trying 180 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: to keep up with the Joneses. So if someone is 181 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:19,680 Speaker 1: going on The Housewives, their financial situation is likely not 182 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: what you think it is, or they there's something deeply 183 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 1: missing or boredom or needing. It's just I can't even imagine. 184 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 1: I mean, the only way to get me back on 185 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: a show like that would be such an extraordinary amount 186 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:37,079 Speaker 1: of money, and I still don't I can't actually imagine 187 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: doing it unless I had such a greater strategy and reason. 188 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:43,200 Speaker 1: For example, I have a TV meeting today and there 189 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 1: is a strategy. I don't know that I would even 190 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: do it, but there's an idea that I could possibly entertain, 191 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 1: and I just I don't want to disrupt my piece. 192 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: My piece is too valuable. I have a much more 193 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:59,199 Speaker 1: lucrative business than my biggest day in Skinny Girl and 194 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: how swives all my seasons put together. 195 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 2: So there would have to be some sort of a real, 196 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 2: big reason. 197 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: And I believe that in most cases, TV as we 198 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 1: know it now is the dinosaur era. There would have 199 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 1: to be some sort of a change, mind you. I 200 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: saw a clip. I don't watch the show. I saw 201 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: a clip of Erica Jane. It seemed like she was 202 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: like talking about like she's ready to like move on 203 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 1: with the chapter of her life that is defined by 204 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: her marriage and the scandal and the cases and all 205 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 1: that stuff, and like she's on TV. 206 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:33,720 Speaker 2: She's been pretty vulnerable. 207 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: I reckon that, Like she's had to be on TV 208 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: because she's had bills to pay and lawyers, and she's 209 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:40,679 Speaker 1: started her own life and she's very lucky to have 210 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 1: a career. But like, I feel like she's paid her dues. 211 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 1: It was at least primarily the actions of her husband. 212 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:49,439 Speaker 1: I mean, whether she knew or not, it's still she 213 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 1: herself was not defrauding anyone. She wasn't working in his 214 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 1: law firm. Was she spending. Was she showing yes? Was 215 00:11:57,000 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: Teresa's spending? Was she showing yes? You get on you 216 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 1: want to show off everything you have. I guess you 217 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 1: want people to know how rich you really are, and 218 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: you know it's I guess it's just it must be 219 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: human nature, because it's been human nature on The Housewives. 220 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 1: People who are going bankrupt are showing how rich they are. 221 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 1: People who have nothing are showing their labels. Erica was 222 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 1: spending I think fifty sixty thousand a month on her 223 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 1: glam and she was talking about it. Teresa was buying furniture. 224 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 1: But okay, you know, I think they took a beat down. 225 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: I think Erica took a beat down. 226 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 2: And I don't know. 227 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: I think I just appreciate her being vulnerable on the 228 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 1: show about it. She seems like she's taken a beating 229 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: and she usually is just teflon and doesn't want to share, 230 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 1: and I think she's just sharing. I literally saw a 231 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 1: thirty second clip, but it was just a different Erica 232 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: than I had seen, So you may know a different 233 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,839 Speaker 1: context because I don't. I oddly don't watch these shows, 234 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: but I honestly, genuinely, from the bottom of my heart, 235 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: wish her the very very best, because she certainly seems 236 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 1: like she's paid her bills and her dues and listen, 237 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 1: it could drive someone crazy. Sonya had a twelve million 238 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 1: dollar judgment against her. She had to pay, She had 239 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 1: to work for years to pay something, and like, it'll 240 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:03,719 Speaker 1: fucking beat you down. 241 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 2: Life will beat you down. But it was interesting. 242 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 1: Whoever the life coach that was talking to Erica and 243 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: this clip was basically saying like, there's no there there, 244 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 1: There's no here here, Like she was like, I just 245 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 1: want to get there. And the woman was like, yeah, 246 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 1: there's gonna be another thing then, like life is messy 247 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 1: and things are always going to be happening. And I 248 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 1: thought that was interesting. Speaking of which, when I flipped 249 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 1: through social media and I see Teddy Mellencamp with short hair, 250 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 1: looking so healthy and stunning, and I don't know the 251 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: situation of her health right now, I haven't followed it, 252 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: but like, I'm just so happy she's sitting in a 253 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: chair working like I. For some reason, I just thinking 254 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:39,079 Speaker 1: of her children and just thinking of I have the 255 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: chills thinking of her going through something so horrendous. It 256 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 1: gave me the chills. I my heart went out to her, 257 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 1: like I can't imagine the thoughts she's had, the fears 258 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 1: she's had about her kids. About what to say, I 259 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: don't even want to say anything. I just mean, like, 260 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: I'm glad that she's healthy and at least healthy enough 261 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:02,680 Speaker 1: to be on her podcasts. Like people need purpose and 262 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 1: people need to have something to focus on. And I 263 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: don't know, I just I was very moved when she 264 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 1: was going through something and it was very horrible to 265 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: see Carol on Real Housewives of New York. People have 266 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 1: been asking me about this. I think, listen, at a 267 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 1: stage in life for everyone, like you want to have 268 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: some purpose and some work. I mean, she people are 269 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 1: you know, talking about that. She for years criticized that 270 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: medium that you know, Andy the show, et cetera. But 271 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 1: hell hath frozen over and many many housewives after Andy 272 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: making up with them to get them back on TV 273 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: and to make amends and to sort of shift the 274 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 1: Bravo narrative. And you know, everyone has to eat crow 275 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: once in a while. So Andy's had to eat crow 276 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: and kind of go back to people that he hasn't 277 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 1: liked that they haven't liked him, and it's you know, 278 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: it's not show fre it's show business. So I guess 279 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 1: show business means having to go back and show friends. 280 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 1: So for her, I imagine it's a job decision. It's 281 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 1: something to focus on, something to do. It's good to 282 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 1: have work at the stage of life. And I mean, 283 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 1: I genuinely, genuinely wish are the best, and it's good 284 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: to not have bad blood and and anger. 285 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 2: You know. 286 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 1: I guess time heals all wounds.