1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: This is Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous in Depth. 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:09,959 Speaker 1: Hey everyone, welcome to the Almost Famous podcast special episode 3 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: because Amanda Stanton is here giving us her first interview 4 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:21,119 Speaker 1: since announcing her pregnancy. Hello Amanda, Hello. Unfortunately Ben can't 5 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: be here today, he's traveling, so I thought we just 6 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: have some girl talk, of course about pregnancy and kids 7 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: and all that. So you, you and Michael, how long 8 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: has it been since you got married? I feel like 9 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: your anniversary must be coming up. 10 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 2: Our anniversary is in September, so almost a year. Yeah, 11 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 2: the first year goes by so fast. 12 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: So fast, but every single one afterwards goes by just 13 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 1: as fast, because we just did four years. Can you 14 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: believe my anniversary four years ago? No, that's crazy, insane time. 15 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 2: I swear once you time goes to kids, sir. 16 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 1: It is got to be the kids thing. So I 17 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: know that, I know that you wanted to. You haven't 18 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 1: an what the gender is? The sex? Yes, and I 19 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: won't tell you. I won't ask you now unless you're 20 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: wanting to give us an exclusive. Not yet. 21 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 2: It's funny. We found out a while ago, so we 22 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: already did like a little gender reveal just for like 23 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 2: the family. And I'll probably announce next week. I think, Okay, 24 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 2: I'm so excited. 25 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: You've kind of been not so subtle that you do 26 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: want a boy since you have the two girls, Kinsey 27 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: and Charlie, who I can't believe that they are eleven 28 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: and nine. Wow, and that crazy in sixth grade she. 29 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 2: Started middle school, which is so weird. I don't feel 30 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 2: like I am old enough to have a middle schooler. 31 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:40,479 Speaker 2: Like it's it's crazy. 32 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: It is you still. I feel like you are like 33 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: a young mom, but you're not like that. You're like 34 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: you're thirty three. 35 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 2: Thirty three. 36 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like not that weird. Yeah, yeah, you're young, 37 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: of course, it's not like weird. Right, all right, So 38 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: I know that you kind of want a boy, but 39 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: like I'll let you. I'm sure you'll be happy with either. 40 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 1: And that the girls do the girls do they have 41 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: a preference. 42 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 2: They honestly don't really care at first, char like Charlie 43 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 2: wanted a sister, yeah, and kids wanted a brother. I 44 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 2: just think like I wouldn't be disappointed, like if it 45 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 2: were a girl. But I think just already having two girls, 46 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 2: having a boy would be so much fun. And I 47 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 2: feel like I've seen like all my friends have had 48 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 2: boys so many and they're so cute, and I feel 49 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 2: like they're such mommies boys or mommy yeah, mom's boys. 50 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:33,639 Speaker 2: So that was kind of and I honestly, I don't 51 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,239 Speaker 2: want to say too much actually, like he's getting nervous 52 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 2: him and it gives something away because I feel like 53 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 2: everyone's already like a detective. 54 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: But that's awesome. 55 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 2: I won't be disappointed either way. 56 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: So tell us the whole thing. You were trying to 57 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: have a baby, yes, yes, and no. 58 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 2: So we originally were going to start trying like after 59 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 2: when You're anniversary in September, but I really really wanted 60 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 2: to be pregnant by the end of the year. So 61 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 2: and I know, like sometimes it can take a really 62 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 2: long time, and we just weren't sure. So we're like, okay, 63 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 2: well maybe we just like start not being careful a 64 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 2: little a little sooner. So we stopped. We started like 65 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,959 Speaker 2: not being careful, I want to say, in like April May, 66 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 2: and it happened pretty shortly after that. 67 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: So wow, yeah, congratulations, thank you. When I wasn't feeling 68 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: good during my pregnancy, I remember texting you. You were 69 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: one of my few mom friends at the time, and 70 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: now I feel like there's more mom more friends of 71 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: becoming moms. And you were like, I was quite awful 72 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: the first trimester, very sick. How has it been this 73 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: time around, and especially now that you've taken like a 74 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: nine year break. 75 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 2: Honestly, I was like I had nausea with the girls, 76 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 2: but I never really like got sick sick where it 77 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 2: was like growing up every day. And honestly, this time, 78 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 2: I want to say, like my pregnancy's been the exact 79 00:03:57,160 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 2: same as both kinds in char like, same symptoms, same cravings. 80 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 2: I like, kind of meet a version with kid like 81 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 2: I couldn't meet anything gross, same thing this time, like 82 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 2: I feel the exact same, which is so weird. 83 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: People say, oh, every pregnancy is different, but I have 84 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 1: not found that when talking to people, you know, everybody. 85 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,119 Speaker 2: Says people say, it's the same. 86 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, if I was really sick, like they're really sick 87 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 1: the second time, and then if you're okay, it's usually 88 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 1: just like you're an okay pregnant lady, So good for 89 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: good for everyone who's an okay pregnant lady. And I 90 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 1: guess are you past that now now that you I 91 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: am assuming like you're like four months. 92 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, close to that, close to four months ish, but yeah, 93 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 2: I know, I've been feeling really good. I feel like 94 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 2: second trimester is the best. I have so much energy. 95 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 2: I forget that I'm pregnant sometimes, but yeah, it's right. 96 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: That's amazing. I cannot relate. How are you guys preparing 97 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: for the baby? 98 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 2: Like? 99 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 1: Is Michael? It's Michael's first, So is he excited nervous? 100 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 1: Does he know what kind of life changes ahead? Did 101 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 1: the girls kind of the girl's given him training in parenting. 102 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 2: I feel like it's so interesting because he's never been 103 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 2: around like a baby baby before. He doesn't have any 104 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,719 Speaker 2: experience with that. But I think, just like having the girls, 105 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 2: even though they're older and then more self sufficient, like he's, 106 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,119 Speaker 2: it's not going to be like that huge life change 107 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 2: where like we're used to it just being us and 108 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 2: we can do whatever we want and all of a sudden, 109 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 2: you know, like we're used to having that responsibility. So 110 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 2: I think he's not nervous yet, But I also think 111 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: he doesn't know what to expect where like I do, 112 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 2: like I know how the newborn phase is, and he 113 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 2: has no idea. But he he's generally like a lot 114 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 2: calmer than I am, so I think he'll be good. 115 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: How do you imagine those few first months being Are 116 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 1: you gonna like split the time waking up? Is he 117 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 1: expecting to to switch off diaper duty and all that. 118 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's funny because he is very particular with things 119 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 2: in the house, like even like doing the dishes or cooking, 120 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 2: Like I don't really cook or clean or doing anything, 121 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 2: because even if I want to help and like do 122 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 2: the dishes, he doesn't like the way I do the dishes, 123 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 2: like he likes the way he does the dishes. I'm like, okay, 124 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 2: that's fine. And I feel like it's going to be 125 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 2: the same with the baby, like he's going to want 126 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 2: to have Like he's going to want to change the 127 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 2: diaper because you like the way that he does it, 128 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 2: which is fine by me. I'll probably get a lot 129 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 2: more sleep this time around. I'm sure we'll take the durance. 130 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: Are you guys playing a baby moon? Because I know 131 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: that you just spent a good amount of time in Hawaii, 132 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: and I know that I saw comments under you some 133 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: of your pictures that were like, just announce the baby already. 134 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: I didn't think that you were like showing or doing 135 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: anything specific to pregnancy, did you Okay? 136 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 2: No? And I thought it was so weird because so 137 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 2: many people like, you're pregnant, you're pregnant, and I'm like, 138 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 2: and I was, And I'm just like, how did they know? 139 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 2: Like I didn't feel like I looked pregnant that I 140 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 2: was posting anything like it. So I was just so confused, 141 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 2: and I was, I mean, people started noticing when I 142 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 2: was like so early on, and yeah, I mean I'm 143 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,359 Speaker 2: curious as to like what I was doing that was 144 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 2: like giving off this like pregnancy vibe. But as far 145 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: as the baby moon goes, I mean, I hope. So 146 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm doing such like a weird time. 147 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 2: I'm doing January, so it's like the holidays. Yeah, Like 148 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 2: it's hard to really like even a baby shower, and 149 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 2: like I did one in like September October. I don't 150 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 2: want to do it when I'm huge at the end 151 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 2: and then the holidays are so hectic. So we'll see. 152 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 2: If not, maybe we'll do a little trip after the 153 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 2: baby's born a few months later. 154 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 1: It's probably when you need it most, right, I think. So, well, okay, 155 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: so baby baby shower, what's the norm, Like, did you 156 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 1: have one? For Charlie. Like I know that most people 157 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: will have it for the first but then if you 158 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: have such a gap in between your kids, I think 159 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: it's totally fine to have another one. And if the 160 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 1: sex is different, totally you could have another one, right, 161 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: So I don't want to like assume anything, but like, 162 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 1: did you save this stuff from the girls? You have 163 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 1: bassinets and no. 164 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 2: And it's so funny too, because like everything I went 165 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 2: to the like there's a baby List showroom and Beverly. 166 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 1: Hills right now where they like everything. 167 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 2: It was so much fun. But I went there and 168 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, none of this stuff existed when I had 169 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 2: kids in char like all the new like technology, like 170 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 2: the little socks they can wear, the track the loved 171 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 2: that art. Yeah, it's like it's crazy. So I didn't 172 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 2: have any of that stuff. I mean I remember, do 173 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 2: you know like what the bob stroller is. It's like 174 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 2: a jogging stroller. 175 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I don't have that, but I have the Vista, 176 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: the you know, the the upper baby. 177 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 2: See that that Like that didn't exist when I when 178 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 2: I had them, like everyone had it was the Bob 179 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 2: and that's what like everyone had. It was like the 180 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 2: post stroller at the time, but I don't have it anymore. 181 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 2: And I had a baby shower for kids, I didn't 182 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 2: have one for char this time. I feel like, I mean, 183 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 2: so much time is gone by and everything's so new, 184 00:08:56,280 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 2: so I think we might. Yeah, and especially just because 185 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 2: like it's Michael's first. His mom's like so excited she 186 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:05,839 Speaker 2: wants to do the whole baby shower things, so you 187 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 2: probably will. 188 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And now like not to sound you know, 189 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: you know you're you're Amanda from The Bachelor. You know, 190 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 1: it's just like we have to see your aesthetic baby shower. 191 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 2: Oh my god. Wait, speaking of it's kind of crazy, 192 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 2: like how did you tell Jared that you were pregnant? 193 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: Okay? Oh I love this story. Okay, so like weird, 194 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 1: weird details, but like my cycle was a little weird 195 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: that month, so we I imagined that I had skipped my 196 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: fertile window because it came earlier than expected, and we 197 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: had like one day where it would have worked, okay, 198 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: and it happened to have been the one day, and 199 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: I was like, just out of curiosity. When we were trying, 200 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 1: I'd always take a pregnancy test and then this one 201 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: time there was like the faintest line, and I was like, 202 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 1: that's I was like, Jared, this is so crazy, but 203 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 1: like there's a fake, there's a faint second line. And 204 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: he was like, you're not pregnant. And you know this 205 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 1: after like seven months of trying, and then we had 206 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: like one day, right. 207 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 2: And then. 208 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: One day in the fertile window out of like the 209 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: four fertile windows, guys, four fertile days, and then he 210 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:24,680 Speaker 1: was like, we'll try again tomorrow. And then the next 211 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: day it was we were waiting for it and waiting 212 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: for it, and then there was like a blank test, 213 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 1: like the screen after the whole like minute swirly, it 214 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: was blank and we were like, okay, well, I guess 215 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: we'll go back to CBS tomorrow. And then we got 216 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 1: one in that one day and we just watched it 217 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: together and we were like recording and he was like, 218 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna look at the camera. I'm gonna 219 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 1: keep playing with video game because you're still not pregnant. 220 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: And then I was like, Jared, look at this. Yeah, 221 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 1: So we found out together. How did you How did 222 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: you tell Michael? 223 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 2: Well, it's funny because I was gonna say, like I 224 00:10:56,800 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 2: feel like now with like every single step, like we'll 225 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 2: just go all out. And it's so funny because I 226 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 2: just I guess I don't have the energy. But like 227 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:07,959 Speaker 2: when I found out, people always ask me like, how 228 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:10,599 Speaker 2: did you tell Michael, And I'm like, well, he was 229 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 2: at work and my friend actually it was like six 230 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:15,439 Speaker 2: o'clock in the morning, she was like, I had a 231 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 2: dream you were pregnant. Yeah, and I was like kind 232 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 2: of the same as you. It was like, that's so funny, 233 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:19,559 Speaker 2: like you know. 234 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: It's weird, but it's weird and dark because you know, 235 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: Jade lost the baby. But I texted Jade about like 236 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 1: two and a half months ago and I said, I 237 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: had a dream you're pregnant. You're pregnant, aren't you? And 238 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: she didn't respond to that, so I like kind of 239 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: thin now she told. 240 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 2: Me, yeah, yeah, it's so crazy though, like how I 241 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:46,559 Speaker 2: think some some women just like no. But my friend 242 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 2: was like, oh, I had a dream and I was 243 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 2: like no, like I'm not, and she was like are 244 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:54,719 Speaker 2: you sure. I was like yeah, like almost, like you know, 245 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 2: it was like early in the morning. I was probably 246 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 2: a little grumpy and I was just like, no, I'm 247 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 2: not pregnant. Stop anyways, But. 248 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 1: Why would you be so sure, Amanda, you were like 249 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: being not careful. 250 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 2: I had taken a test before that, Like I was 251 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 2: kind of off too, where like I took a test 252 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 2: a few days before, yeah, and it was negative. So 253 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 2: I and I okay, yeah, and she's like, she's like, 254 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 2: just take a test and be sure, because like I 255 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 2: have this really weird feeling and like I've been right 256 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:25,599 Speaker 2: about these things before, just like take a test. So 257 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 2: I went and I took a test. It was like 258 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 2: probably eight o'clock in the morning at this point, and 259 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 2: like you, I saw like the tiniest faint line, and 260 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 2: so I just took a picture of it and I 261 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 2: sent it to Michael at work and I was like, 262 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 2: is that a line that looks like a line? And 263 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 2: he's like, I think so. So then I ended up 264 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 2: like taking three more tests and it was so weird. 265 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 2: I found out so early. So some of them did 266 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 2: not have a line, and some of them did. But 267 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:51,559 Speaker 2: that's like, I mean how I told him, Like there 268 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 2: wasn't any like cute way or anything special. I just 269 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 2: sent him a picture of the test at work. 270 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 3: I don't know how people could keep this secret, maybe 271 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 3: especially because it was his first child, Like maybe if 272 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 3: you've had like three kids, like say the third, okay, 273 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:07,959 Speaker 3: maybe you can surprise on the third. 274 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 1: But I don't know. I had to have him in 275 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:12,559 Speaker 1: on like the curiosity. 276 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 2: Same and like ever since then too. It's like I 277 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 2: tell him everything that's going on, like every little detail. 278 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 2: I'm like always texting him and he's at work, I'm like, 279 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 2: this is what's happening today. So yeah, there's really no 280 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 2: surprises with us. 281 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: So let's talk about like your your nausea and like 282 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:39,319 Speaker 1: your aversions because everybody loved This is what people asked 283 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 1: me when I was pregnant. They're like, what are you craving? 284 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 1: And I'm like, listen to me. I don't have cravings, guys. 285 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: I have things that I can eat, things that I 286 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:51,319 Speaker 1: feel like I'm okay eating. So do you have cravings? 287 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 2: No, I don't have any cravings. It was I mean 288 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 2: same with the girls. The first trimester. I wanted like 289 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 2: so much fruit. I threw all the time. 290 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: Good for you because all I could have was cheese 291 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 1: and plain prota Like it was just all the plain 292 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 1: carbs and cheese. 293 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 2: Well fruit and plane carbs for me because I would 294 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 2: make like sour doaugh toast with butter and jam every day. Okay, 295 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 2: it's like my favorite. Like I would literally eat that 296 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 2: for dinner because that's all I could eat. I couldn't 297 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 2: do anything with me and honestly, I couldn't eat any vegetables. 298 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 2: I don't think I ate a single vegetable for like 299 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 2: the first three months, but a lot of fruit, and 300 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 2: then now I'm finally it's like the opposite. Now I 301 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 2: just want like all the vegetables and like salads. I'm 302 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 2: thankful that that's what I want. 303 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 1: Good for you, that's amazing. 304 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 2: I no weird cravings yet though. 305 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: So nice. Oh, how did you tell the girls? 306 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 2: So for the girls, we made them like a little 307 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 2: cake that said big Sisters. I posted a little video 308 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 2: on my stories I haven't posted on my actual page, 309 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 2: which I probably should have because it was so cute. 310 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 2: But we made them a cake that said big sisters, 311 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 2: and we gave it to them and they had no idea. 312 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 2: I mean, they knew we had talked about trying, and 313 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 2: they knew they were going to get a baby brother 314 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 2: sister soon, but they didn't obviously know when we started 315 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 2: trying and all that, so they were super surprised and honestly, 316 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 2: like so confused. At first, they're like big sisters, what 317 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 2: does that mean? And then obviously they figured it out 318 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 2: and they're so excited. 319 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 1: Oh so adorable. Do you have like a birth plan 320 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 1: right now? Because I like, how was the delivery? Like 321 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: what was your plan? Like how did it go with 322 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 1: kinson Jar? And do you hope it goes the same or. 323 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean I was very lucky with them. I 324 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 2: feel like it went it was easy. I mean I 325 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 2: got the epidural. I was in labor for a really 326 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 2: long time with both of them, but I had like 327 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 2: fairly easy berths with both of them. So I'm kind 328 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 2: of just hoping for the same same thing again. 329 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah I did. I did a whole I Don't 330 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 1: Get It podcast episode last night with my dad about 331 00:15:56,320 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: epidurals because I had just heard so many women just 332 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 1: did not wanting them, and I was I was like, 333 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 1: why is this like a thing? Not that like I'm 334 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 1: not I'm supportive if either way you want it just 335 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: is a little it's so not me that like it 336 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 1: makes me curious as to other people's mindsets and all. 337 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 1: And when I asked my Instagram audience, I was like, 338 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: do you have epidural questions, like I can ask my 339 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: dad because he's an antasyciologist, and like I had people 340 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 1: like asking a lot of the same stuff, but like 341 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: so many people are worried about them, and it's just 342 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 1: like the complications of them are so so infrequent. Yea, 343 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 1: And yeah, I had a great pregnancy. I had a 344 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 1: great birth experience after an awful pregnancy. I was like, 345 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: the delivery was a nice relief to just barely you know, 346 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 1: just feel just a little bit of pressure. 347 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 2: Right. Well, I mean I'm still in the easy part 348 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 2: of pregnancy, but I always say, like towards the end, 349 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 2: like it gets kind of brutal, like you're ready, And 350 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 2: I always say, I'm like the birth, I mean for 351 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 2: me and I've been very lucky, but I'm like, i 352 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 2: think birth is like the easy, the fun part. I 353 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 2: feel like being pregnant, especially like the last couple of 354 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 2: months that is much harder, was harder for me than 355 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 2: like the actual labor experience. So yeah, I'm hoping for 356 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 2: that again. 357 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:21,119 Speaker 1: But we were definitely both lucky that everything went stunningly. 358 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:24,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, but with the epidural yeah, I mean, I also 359 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 2: think there's like, and this is just from people that 360 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 2: I know who don't want it. There's like a level 361 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:33,439 Speaker 2: of like curiosity from like a mom being like I 362 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 2: want to actually like experience what it feels like to 363 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 2: give birth. I don't have that curiosity, and like I 364 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 2: don't want to. 365 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:43,400 Speaker 1: Do I've had enough, like the hour and a half 366 00:17:43,440 --> 00:17:45,360 Speaker 1: that I could feel the contractions. I was like, that 367 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 1: was plenty, and if it was supposed to get worse 368 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 1: than that, like apps of freaking lutely not and then 369 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 1: another thing that I am just mind boggled by, but 370 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:57,720 Speaker 1: like I don't. I try not to. I don't mean 371 00:17:57,760 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 1: it in like a negative way, but like once you've 372 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:04,240 Speaker 1: had one birth that's unmedicated, I'm like, okay, well you 373 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 1: experienced it, and then the second one, don't you just 374 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: not want to feel it? 375 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 2: That's actually like a good question though that I would 376 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 2: want to ask people, Like for people who had a 377 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 2: natural birth the first time, did you end up getting 378 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 2: an epideral the second time? Or did you, like, did 379 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 2: you do it again? 380 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:20,359 Speaker 1: I think a lot do it again. I think maybe 381 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 1: there's just some high they get and like a power, 382 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:26,159 Speaker 1: you know that they feel they can conquer anything, and 383 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 1: they're going to do it all over again. 384 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:31,639 Speaker 2: Right, yeah, I mean probably. 385 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:37,440 Speaker 1: To them, right, they are stronger living than I was 386 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 1: like pushing the button the whole time. 387 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:39,880 Speaker 2: I was like, give me more. 388 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:42,199 Speaker 1: They didn't give me the button. I was talking this 389 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 1: about Dad other day. I was like, Dad, why don't 390 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 1: you guys have the button at Firefax And He's like, 391 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:48,880 Speaker 1: it's just not in our practice. But like whatever you'd 392 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 1: ask for more, they give you more. 393 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 2: Right. Oh so funny? 394 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, So let's move on a little bit 395 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 1: from the pregnancy and talk about your fam you went 396 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 1: to with Taylor Swift. You went to like so many 397 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:05,880 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift concerts. I'm you know, Gray, that's also good 398 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 1: for you, Like which one did you do? Is there 399 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 1: a certain night that was the best for me? Watching 400 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:13,240 Speaker 1: you take the girls to the one in Tampa was 401 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 1: really fun to watch on Instagram? 402 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,159 Speaker 2: That was that was my favorite one. That was my 403 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 2: favorite night. And it's so funny. I was lucky I 404 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 2: got to go with a couple of brands when I 405 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 2: was in LA but I had Charlie is like the 406 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:28,119 Speaker 2: biggest Taylor Swift fan in the entire world, like obsessed, 407 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 2: Like her and her friends at school like they just 408 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:33,479 Speaker 2: are obsessed with Taylor, so I had to take her 409 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 2: in LA, but then I ended up going with a 410 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 2: couple of brands, so I ended up going three times 411 00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 2: in La. 412 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 1: No way. 413 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I think Tampa was probably my favorite 414 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:44,439 Speaker 2: night because they had both the girls and we just 415 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 2: had so much fun. And then I went, yeah three 416 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 2: times in La, which was fun, but it like was 417 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 2: kind of a lot. 418 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was Did it feel like any different every night? 419 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 2: I mean yes and no, because I was with different people. 420 00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 2: I went with like friends, one night, I went with 421 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 2: my sister one, which was like so fun because me 422 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 2: and my sister are like have loved Taylor forever. And 423 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 2: then I went with Charlie the third time, so it's 424 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 2: it's different every time. 425 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:12,400 Speaker 1: So cute. And you you let her say at the Patriarchy, 426 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 1: which you document on Instagram, but you say that like 427 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:19,440 Speaker 1: you allow her to kind of quote it in the song, 428 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: but like you would never let her say it in conversation, right, Yeah. 429 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 2: Like I also let her say like one, two, three, 430 00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:27,400 Speaker 2: let's go bitch, which everyone says with the Taylor concerts, 431 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 2: but you like, and I've said this before in like 432 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 2: A Q and A, and I'm like, if my kids 433 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 2: like grow up and they curse. They don't really care 434 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 2: that much, like I curse, Like I know, it's fine, right, 435 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 2: I mean, as long as they like aren't cursing at people, 436 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 2: and obviously now like they're so young, like there's no 437 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 2: reason for them they don't, they don't curse. But it's 438 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 2: not the worst thing in the world to Honestly. 439 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 1: I think that you said something on your Instagram story 440 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 1: that I've always felt, Like my sister says it all 441 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 1: the time. She's like, like, it's just a word. It's 442 00:20:57,800 --> 00:20:59,359 Speaker 1: just a word, and as long as it's not like 443 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: directed at somebody in a really negative, awful, yacky connotation, 444 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,640 Speaker 1: like if you stub your toe and say shit, it's 445 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 1: not Yeah, it's not a big deal in my house 446 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 1: and in my personal opinion, but like I also totally 447 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 1: respect other families that don't want it set at. 448 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 2: All totally, and that's just like how I am with it. 449 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 2: And like if I teach them that like cursing so 450 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 2: bad and they get older and see that like everyone 451 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 2: does it, like I'd rather teach them like the things 452 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 2: that I believe are bad or bad, and cursing's not 453 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 2: that bad. 454 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Okay, So what are you and Michael doing 455 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 1: like how do you show us about your life? You know, 456 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:38,160 Speaker 1: like the girls are with you? Is it fifty percent 457 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:39,879 Speaker 1: of the time or is it on weekends they go 458 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 1: to their dad's Like just like paint a week in 459 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 1: Amanda Stan's life for us. 460 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:48,439 Speaker 2: So, uh, we have the kids like pretty much all 461 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 2: the time these days, which is great. But yeah, I 462 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 2: mean it's now that the girls are back in school. 463 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 2: Michael goes to work. It's crazy because he moved down 464 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 2: to Orange County a little before we get married, and 465 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:06,160 Speaker 2: he still works in La so he commutes like a week, 466 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 2: yeah far, and he travels a lot. But yeah, I 467 00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 2: mean we have the kids and majority of the time 468 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:16,680 Speaker 2: they are in so many like activities and stuff. Now 469 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 2: it's so different because I feel like the newborn phase 470 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 2: is so hard and it gets easier in certain ways. 471 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 2: But when they get older, just be prepared to be 472 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:28,399 Speaker 2: like a human taxiicab because that's how I spend a 473 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,879 Speaker 2: majority of my days, driving them to tennis and golf 474 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:34,200 Speaker 2: and dance and all these different things. So that's pretty 475 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 2: much my life these days, honestly, just driving the kids around, 476 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:39,879 Speaker 2: which I don't mind. I love it. 477 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:42,960 Speaker 1: No, that's that sounds pretty good to me. Well kind 478 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 1: of music do they like? Like, what do you listen 479 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:45,199 Speaker 1: to in the car with them? 480 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:51,120 Speaker 2: Besides Taylor, Charlie is like strictly Taylor Swift. Ken's Ken's likes. 481 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 2: She likes everything. She likes country, she likes. Who is 482 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 2: the guy that she likes? It's like so funny to me, 483 00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 2: machine Gun Kelly. Yeah, she likes loves him. We listen 484 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 2: to a little bit of everything, all the popular TikTok 485 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 2: songs they're in too. 486 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:21,640 Speaker 1: Also, yeah, yeah, how's the new Bernese Mountain dog. 487 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 2: He's good. He's so sweet. He's going through like his 488 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:28,439 Speaker 2: little teenager phase right now. He just turned one. But 489 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:31,640 Speaker 2: he's like the sweetest cuddliest thing ever. He like his 490 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 2: thing is like he always leans on us. So like 491 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 2: if we're standing around in the kitchen or something, he 492 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:39,119 Speaker 2: comes up and he just leans on us. That's the 493 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 2: sweetest thing ever. But we love him. He's good. 494 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 1: Name Moose Moose. Yeah, those those dogs are just like 495 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 1: so amazing. Why is their lifespan so short? 496 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 2: It's so sad, I mean, and that's something I think, 497 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,640 Speaker 2: like everyone knows before you get them. But there, I mean, 498 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 2: they have to have one of the shortest lives of 499 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 2: like any dog breed, but they're so cute, like they're. 500 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 1: Eight years and there, you wouldn't think so, you know, 501 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: they have like the body of a Golden Retriever, maybe 502 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 1: a little bit bigger than that. 503 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 2: Usually a little bigger. Most is like on the smaller side. 504 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,399 Speaker 2: I want to say, he's like, he's kind of built 505 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 2: like a Golden Retriever. So I'm hoping a lot of 506 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,000 Speaker 2: the health problems that a lot of them have are 507 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:21,919 Speaker 2: because they're so big. I think, like their hearts are 508 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 2: too small for their bodies. So hoping that like, because 509 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 2: he's smaller, maybe I'll live longer. I don't know. It 510 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 2: makes me so sad to think about. 511 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to, Like, I know it's not it's 512 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 1: a source subject because you just talked about on Instagram 513 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,359 Speaker 1: the other day, because people are asking you about George 514 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 1: the Golden Retriever all the time, saying that he lives 515 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 1: with with Michael's family. 516 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:46,720 Speaker 2: Yes, so George was actually I'll talk about it again, 517 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 2: but George was actually Michael's mom's dog. His his aunt 518 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 2: got his mom George is a birthday gift, and they 519 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,120 Speaker 2: used to live in New York and they moved to California. 520 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 2: So anyways, somewhere along in that time, Michael took George 521 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,119 Speaker 2: while they were moving and all that, and just like 522 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 2: kind of never gave him back and kind of just 523 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 2: kept him long story short, and I I'll explain too 524 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 2: after this, but they another one of their dogs passed 525 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,679 Speaker 2: and Marie wanted Michael's mom wanted George back, so we 526 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:26,360 Speaker 2: gave George back, and people just like looked out over it. 527 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,639 Speaker 2: And for a while, I didn't feel comfortable because you 528 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 2: know how it is, like it's fine if I want 529 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 2: to tell people what's going on with me, but when 530 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,160 Speaker 2: it involves like Michael and his mom, I just didn't 531 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:36,920 Speaker 2: want to have one Instagram for all my followers and 532 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 2: be like, this is what's going on. And it was 533 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 2: really tough. We were like, we still are very sad 534 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:43,879 Speaker 2: and miss having George here, but we still get to 535 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,399 Speaker 2: see him. But it took me a while to kind 536 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,240 Speaker 2: of address it on social media, and I feel like 537 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 2: just no one believed me. I don't know why, Like 538 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,639 Speaker 2: people keep saying it's not true, and I'm like, it 539 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:56,360 Speaker 2: is true, Like. 540 00:25:56,359 --> 00:26:00,159 Speaker 1: It's probably because you didn't say it earlier, do you 541 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:01,399 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, I think if you were 542 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 1: to warm people, then people wouldn't come and be like 543 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,359 Speaker 1: so nosy about it. If you're just like, oh, by 544 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 1: the way, I don't know. 545 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 2: It's so strange though, but like there's been a good 546 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,000 Speaker 2: amount of people that are like always scrolled back on 547 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 2: Michael's Instagram and we saw that, like you're telling the 548 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,399 Speaker 2: truth and like it was Michael's mom's dog, because I 549 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 2: think if you scroll back on my business room you 550 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:26,879 Speaker 2: can see when his mom got George. Oh and anyways, 551 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:31,120 Speaker 2: obviously it's the truth and that's what happened. But yeah, 552 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 2: it probably have to like this whole thing. 553 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 1: Probably it's timing too, because like George was always around 554 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 1: when you guys were dating, and he probably had him, 555 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,320 Speaker 1: you know, you'd just gotten him probably when you guys 556 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 1: first started dating and then you get married and then 557 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: there's a new dog and all that. 558 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:53,640 Speaker 2: So totally yeah, but yeah, that's what happened. And yeah, 559 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,880 Speaker 2: I mean I told this story I think, I want 560 00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 2: to say, like six months ago. But it's just like 561 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,800 Speaker 2: co need to be a thing and I get so 562 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 2: annoyed sometimes, but it's okay, I understand. Like most people, 563 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 2: I think are just curious. 564 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 1: So I know they're both such cuties. Do they get along? 565 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:14,640 Speaker 2: I'm so cute? Yeah, they do. And his parents live 566 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 2: in La so we still get to see George all 567 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 2: the time, which is nice. 568 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 1: Well that's good. And if you know the other dog died, 569 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 1: then that's sad that she needed another dog. 570 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 2: Back, you know. Yeah, and George is like her favorite. 571 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 2: She's obsessed with him, So it all worked out. George 572 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:28,959 Speaker 2: is really happy. 573 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 1: Oh good. Yeah, what is your favorite thing to watch 574 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 1: Michael do with the girls, and like what do you 575 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 1: look forward to seeing him do with your future child? 576 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 2: It's really cute because and I think this is like 577 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,480 Speaker 2: one of my favorite parts of being a mom is 578 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,239 Speaker 2: like showing your kids like all the stuff that you 579 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 2: like to do when you were a kid. 580 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,200 Speaker 1: Yes, I've been doing that lately. It's awesome. 581 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 2: It's so fun. So he like grew up skiing and 582 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,239 Speaker 2: loves to ski and he loves to golf, and so 583 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,560 Speaker 2: he's like gotten the kids in on like his hobbies. 584 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 2: Like we went to ask them last winter and he 585 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,360 Speaker 2: taught them how to ski. And he's just like so cute. 586 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 2: You could just tell it like makes him so happy 587 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 2: to like teach the kids how to ski. So I'm excited, 588 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:15,720 Speaker 2: Like the new baby, I'm sure it's going to be 589 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 2: on skis when it's like one, but skiing and golfing 590 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:21,959 Speaker 2: and just like all that kind of stuff. He's like 591 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 2: so good with the girls. I'm excited. 592 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:26,119 Speaker 1: So cute. Now I think I know the answer to 593 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 1: this question. Your favorite thing to do with Michael is 594 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 1: stay home and snuggle and watch TV. 595 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 2: Yes, we're the biggest home bodies ever. We don't leave 596 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 2: the house unless we have to. We like stay home, 597 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,000 Speaker 2: We cook, we watch TV, we like play Mario Kart. 598 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:41,480 Speaker 2: We're the biggest nerds ever. 599 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 1: So and when you do go out, what do you do? 600 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 1: What's your favorite thing to do with them? 601 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 2: We usually just we're so boring. Oh my god, it's 602 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,440 Speaker 2: so sad. Yeah, we just like go to dinner. 603 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 1: Yeah too, same. 604 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:55,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 605 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 1: The girls, like, how do you see them taking care 606 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 1: of the new baby? You're gonna allow them to babysit 607 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 1: like with you out of the house. 608 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 2: Not yet. I am like, I'm like, I'm so crazy. 609 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 2: I don't even let the girls like kids is eleven 610 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 2: almost twelve? 611 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, so maybe thirteen, maybe. 612 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 2: Like thirteen fourteen, Yeah, but I know, like already they're 613 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 2: so excited. Like I went in Kin's room the other 614 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:24,000 Speaker 2: day and like she already has like the baby carrier, 615 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 2: Like she keeps sneaking in your room. I think she's 616 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 2: like trying it on. So I bet you I'm not 617 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 2: even going to be able to hold the baby. They're 618 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 2: gonna want it all the time. But yeah, they're so excited. 619 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 1: You're gonna get a lot of help, which is so 620 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 1: so nice. That's the that's definitely one of the assets 621 00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:40,920 Speaker 1: of having that age difference. 622 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, they've already told me. They're like, we're gonna hold 623 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 2: the baby. We're gonna I keep almost saying like him 624 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 2: or her, So I have to be so careful when. 625 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 1: I say, well, what kind of announcement do you have 626 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 1: next week? Is they're this big Instagram creative No. 627 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 2: Do you want to know? I literally have no idea, OK. 628 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 1: So just fill it here on the as. 629 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 2: I need to come up with something. But they're like, well, 630 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,920 Speaker 2: walk the baby, we'll hold it. But like when we're 631 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 2: not changing a diaper, and I'm like, yeah, you are, 632 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 2: We're going to teach you how to change a diaper. 633 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 2: So hopefully I'll have some help with that. Too. 634 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 1: Definitely, you're definitely it's gonna be so nice. Oh yeah, 635 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,760 Speaker 1: last question, names, Know that you were going through it 636 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 1: on Instagram the other day. You had a list that 637 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 1: even Michael had kind of come up with throughout the year, 638 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,400 Speaker 1: but those that you revealed were all scratched off the list. 639 00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,200 Speaker 1: They're ones you like, but they're not ones that you're 640 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 1: married to. So yeah, how long is the married to list? 641 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 1: Have we set the name? 642 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 2: We do have a name. Uh, it's a name even 643 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 2: before I was pregnant, we like both really liked this 644 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 2: name and we ended up going with it and it 645 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,440 Speaker 2: just kind of stuck. So we do have a name. 646 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,719 Speaker 2: And then I feel like it's hard though, like you know, 647 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 2: you pick a name from the beginning and you start 648 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 2: calling the baby by the name, like during your pregnancy. 649 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 2: So even if we like found another name because we 650 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,040 Speaker 2: we didn't want to like solidify the decision, but it's 651 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,200 Speaker 2: kind of just happened. So, yes, we have a name. 652 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 1: I have to say that while I did refer to 653 00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 1: Dawson as Dawson while he was in utero, it's after 654 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 1: that still it wasn't going to but it still like 655 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 1: made me feel weird to refer to something in my 656 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:24,640 Speaker 1: body by name. Is that weird? Like I was like, 657 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:28,120 Speaker 1: I like I said him, you know and all that, 658 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,239 Speaker 1: and I would say Dawson sometimes, but it was just 659 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 1: like until you meet them, it's like it is. It 660 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 1: is like, I. 661 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 2: Don't know, it's so weird. Wait, and I have a 662 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 2: question too, when do you like when did it start 663 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 2: feeling like, oh, there's actually a baby in there? Because 664 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 2: I can't really feel the baby like moving yet. Sometimes 665 00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 2: I think I feel it, but. 666 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 1: It was twenty weeks. Maybe I felt a flutter. I'm 667 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 1: close to the teen weeks, and I was like, was 668 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:58,880 Speaker 1: that just like my stomach gurgling or was that you know, 669 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 1: like a little bit kick. And I think that really 670 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 1: was a kick, because within that week I started to 671 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,600 Speaker 1: feel a little bit more. But yeah, it's they say 672 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 1: between eighteen and twenty weeks. But you know, I knew 673 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 1: there was a baby, and they're torturing me from. 674 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 2: Them right from the beginning. 675 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 1: Six So funny. Now I look at Dawson and I'm 676 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,720 Speaker 1: just like, well, your face, like I know why you 677 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 1: made me so sick, just like you just so sucked 678 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 1: everything out of me. And it's okay, Like it's all 679 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,959 Speaker 1: worth it. It really is all worth it, even though when 680 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 1: they're telling you that it's all worth it when you're suffering, 681 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 1: it doesn't make you feel better now. And they're going 682 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 1: to say that then to me, I'm sure again at 683 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 1: some point, hopefully soon, and I'll be like, yeah, I know, 684 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,240 Speaker 1: but those words still don't comfort me. 685 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:47,760 Speaker 2: Dawson is so cute. You said you're going to start 686 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:48,560 Speaker 2: trying again soon. 687 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:50,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, very soon. 688 00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 2: Do you want to a boy? Another boy? Girl? 689 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 1: It's weird? I mean, I was so I had such 690 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,680 Speaker 1: gender disappointment with Dawson. I had a feeling it was 691 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,640 Speaker 1: going to be a boy. But I think there was 692 00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 1: just like that to me that like loss of one. 693 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 1: I don't think that I'd ever really consider three, especially 694 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 1: when I was feeling I was already feeling so sick 695 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: when we found out I was a boy, so I 696 00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,000 Speaker 1: was like, I'm not doing this three times. We're we're 697 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: going to do it twice. So I think for me 698 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 1: it was like, oh, I'm not going to have like 699 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 1: the sister sister bond that you have with your sister 700 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 1: and that ken Zin Chara, so like that was really 701 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,080 Speaker 1: sad for me. It didn't last very long, and then 702 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:26,560 Speaker 1: I'm just thinking like, oh, like if I don't have 703 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 1: a girl after this, then like who am I going 704 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,920 Speaker 1: to go and bring to Taylor Swift concerts and bring 705 00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 1: to boy band concerts and like go to the American 706 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: girl to ball store with? And now that I have 707 00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 1: a boy, I really I know it sounds like, oh, 708 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:41,800 Speaker 1: she's just saying that, Like I really don't care as much. 709 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 1: I'd be happy if we had a boy too, because 710 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:46,840 Speaker 1: then I'd want them to have that hopefully brother bond. 711 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. Having two of like the same sex is 712 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 2: so much fun. Yeah, little besties. 713 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: Totally, especially girls. I feel like girls become more besties 714 00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:00,680 Speaker 1: than boys become besties. But I don't really know a lot. 715 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 1: So girls fight a lot? 716 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like every day, close everything, it's constant fighting. 717 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,759 Speaker 2: But they love each other all right. 718 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:13,839 Speaker 1: Linda, thanks so much for joining us. The next time 719 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,240 Speaker 1: we talk to you will probably be a post baby, 720 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,920 Speaker 1: so I hope it goes as smoothly as it did 721 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,160 Speaker 1: last time, and that the rest of your pregnancy is 722 00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:22,719 Speaker 1: also as awesome as it is right now. 723 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:24,800 Speaker 2: Perfect. Thank you so much. 724 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:26,760 Speaker 1: Thank you. Bye. 725 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 2: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on iHeartRadio, 726 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,719 Speaker 2: or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.